Summary. 1. Conquer your past 2. Construct a high value skill 3. Learn consistently 4. Compassionate 5. Calmly respond 6. Certainty 7. Competent preparation
Just forgive yourself for flaws if any...and start loving yourself...and very important smile..may seem simple..but it's powerful...my tip to confidence 😀
Start to feel comfortable and love yourself for who you are , where you are , what you have and what you don't have. Everything starts with you. You can use all the tips but until you feel comfortable for who you are nothing is going to work. Start the internal work now guys..
“In order to conquer the past, we need to first understand it”. ‼️‼️ You might not be too proud of your past but your present self has so much potential and there are so many possibilities to what your future will look like. Keep working on you ❤️
I am falling so deeply in Love with your energy....... can feel it and embracing it........ that's the true definition of confidence is, this alignment with yourself, this contentment with yourself, this acceptance towards yourself.
Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think and more talented than you know, and capable of more than you can imagine. *Keep putting in the work...*
I have low self esteem. As a college student , sometimes I cannot bring myself to be like others. Sometimes I'm wondering how could they do such things with so much confidence? , I used to write poems a lot but one day I woke up not feeling the same feelings I used to have whenever I'm holding a pen. That's why I decided to stop for now despite of hearing from others that I'm good and that they believe in my skills. It's funny on how other people believe in me but as an owner of my mind and body all I ever did was to doubt my capabilities. Thank you for this wonderful video Mr. Jay Shetty. I don't know what lies ahead of me but I'm looking forward to meet the better version of myself and maybe soon I'll find my way back into poems. ❤✨✨
It was hard for me to start journaling after I decided years ago that I’m not everyone’s golden writer child anymore. I’m taking my power back now and journaling daily (even if it’s just a few bullet points) to start taking an active role in changing my perception of myself. You can do it! After I learned how things that happened during my adolescent developmental period and other factors changed my response to the pressures of daily life in a negative way, I began with practicing mindfulness and a willingness to begin living in tune with and conscious of my behaviors and habits necessary to facilitate change. I’ve regressed back into old negative coping mechanisms many times but the more I educate myself, the more clarity I have and with clarity comes a greater ability to make good decisions for myself so that I can live a happy healthy life free from feeling inadequate or awkward or like a failure. I never was those things. I just didn’t have the tools I needed in my tool box to build myself into the confident, professional, loving, fun and helpful person I always wanted to be. I’m on that path now. I really hope you find your happiness and get your life back soon. You are worth it. 💙
You must first love yourself and used the God giver gift inside of you. Most importantly, use it for the honor and glory to God Almighty. Also having the fruit of the spirit ( Galatians 5 V 22- 23), Love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance. This is my definition of having confident and always that word LOVE.
“If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.” - Bruce Lee 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RUclipsr
Knowledge and keeping on upgrading ourselves is one of the key factor of being confident. THANKS Jay for pointing out that high value skill accelerates and your suggestion to try learn new skill is a very good idea.
1.) 0:23 - Conquer their past: Confident people don't let their past dictate them, they try to understand & navigate through it. 2.) 1:45 - Construct a high value skill: When we have a high value skill, we tend to value ourselves & we don't let other people dictate our value. In the pursuit of mastery, you will have to overcome challenges, developing resilience - and now your confidence is not based on arrogance/cockiness, your confidence is based on your ability to deal with challenging situations. 3.) 3:45 - Constantly Learn: Learning gives you a sense of achievement/drive, and a feeling like you are moving forward toward something. Consistently learning can truly transform the way you feel about yourself, and you start to trust yourself. When you are able to connect the dots & apply what you are learning to your surroundings, this gives you a sense of confidence. 4.) 5:10 - Compassion: Have compassion for yourself, you don't need to be perfect all the time. Confidence shows that you are okay with not being perfect, and not having all of the answers. 5.) 6:42 - Calmly Respond: Confidence comes not from reacting fast, but from responding slowly. Confident people listen, process and then respond - and then when they speak, people listen. Less is more. Respond from the act/rhythm of love, not hate. Go at your own pace. 6.) 7:31 - Certainty: Confident people feel certainty around their likes and dislikes, and what works and does not work. Asking yourself what your true beliefs are and then you can act on that internal certainty, rather than external factors. 7.) 8:45 - Competent Preparation: Confident people practice, prepare and work. They plan, visualize and prepare their energy & mindset. This is why the practice of daily habits is so important. **& My own advice I've stumbled upon....trust yourself. xx
Get over the past disappointing experience including toxic parents. That's the only element you need to be confident. Also, realise everyone is lacking confidence. Those who seem to be confident are Dutch courage, faking it.
Hi, Jay! I’ve been listening to your Daily Jay at Calm and it is so impactful.. i guess because of the speed of how you deliver your wisdom. I just do feel like certain breaks or slower pace would sink more into the soul than fast paced like this. Thanks! Your videos and sharings are great and has impacted my life greatly! Thanks!
These principles remind me of the teachings from our retreat in the Philippines with my life coach, Lisa Haisha. She emphasizes self-awareness, skill development, and a compassionate approach to personal growth. Lisa's work complements Jay Shetty's advice on building confidence, offering a holistic perspective on self-improvement and transformation. I'm grateful to her for helping me become a better version of myself.
I’m feeling very low on self confidence, everytime I see someone more attractive or beautiful I feel like there’s something lacking within me. Jealousy is a horrible emotion !
This video gave me a new perspective on male enhancement-it's not just about physical changes but also mental and emotional well-being. The holistic approach is key, and I appreciate the depth of the discussion.
Thanku ..... I really need this ......❤️ I think confidence is something which actually helps you to pull out from your tough times ........ Truly appreciated Jay sir ..... For making such kind of videos and content for us ......❤️ To be honest it was really required for me.......... Thanku
Wow.....What n excellent topic n fantastic message you hv given.....will definitely share this to others n also try to bring out these qualities into our lifes..... Eagerly waiting to hear more n more videos like this.... From Muscat Sangeetha Masroor
May this new year be full of happiness and surprise.may all the 12 months of this year is filled with beautiful memories!... HÂPPY NEW YEAR 2022 To All !!!🥳🍫🍩🎂🍰🎊
🌳존경하는 제이셔티 좋은영상 감사합니다.Dear J.Shirt. thank you for the good video. i will practice the seven habits that increase my self confidence.💚have a good time today💚💚💚💚
Have you ever told someone that they are beautiful or handsome and said . Ya I know! ? That's the type of confidence I've wanted but i don't and can never have it. Life is unfair bro/sis. Accept that there are things that can be changed and things that can't be changed. I feel sorry for you 💔
In philosophy, rationality is the epistemological view that "reason as the main source and test of knowledge" or "any view of reason as the source of knowledge or justification."
*10 things to quit for all Men:* 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Following Kardashians 3. Not prioritizing your health 4. Wasting your precious time 5. Chasing meaningless relationships 6. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 7. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) 8. Drinking 9. Smoking 10. Dirty websites Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Love this! My only suggestion is make sure the person that edits your videos uses clips that align with your values. The clip that shows a young man measuring to cut an animal skin (leather) is conflicting as it doesn't align with vegan ethics. Thank you for all that you do.💕💕💕🌱
I loved your book that is awesome i recently started reading and it helped me a lot in understanding life and how to deal with problem's thanks bro.❤️❤️❤️
I m not so confidence person, from my school days till today I m 24 years old. I am having lack of confidence because of tha am getting rejected in all the interviews. Feeling depressed 😭😫 so I came here to see your video, yes I had some bad past experience and still I feel depressed when I think about them.. But I believe I can overcome it. Some time it feels miserable when I am not able to get what I want due to lack of confidence. People who interview me they quickly say you are looking tensed and scared. . I get nervous and again I get rejected.. Now I came to your video and I will start practicing all the points to become confident. Thank you.... And one request please make more videos on confidence.... From India🇮🇳
I always like to watch your excellent motivation videos . My english knowledge is not so good . But I can clearly understand your english .thank you so much .I listen your so meny videos . All the videos are more important for understand our life and develope our personality . Thank you so much dear sir. 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
Whatever happened just believe yourself and move on then you can achieve your goal.....JAY you're always like a energy booster when I watch your videoes I felt like that... keep rocking 😎
Summary.
1. Conquer your past
2. Construct a high value skill
3. Learn consistently
4. Compassionate
5. Calmly respond
6. Certainty
7. Competent preparation
Just forgive yourself for flaws if any...and start loving yourself...and very important smile..may seem simple..but it's powerful...my tip to confidence 😀
Start to feel comfortable and love yourself for who you are , where you are , what you have and what you don't have. Everything starts with you. You can use all the tips but until you feel comfortable for who you are nothing is going to work. Start the internal work now guys..
“In order to conquer the past, we need to first understand it”. ‼️‼️
You might not be too proud of your past but your present self has so much potential and there are so many possibilities to what your future will look like.
Keep working on you ❤️
Confidence is the best attire we will ever put on, and is a lovely quality to possess 👏👏
Jay Shetty is a daily gift from God, a day can't without listening to his podcast ❤they heal my soul and rewaken my spirit
"As long as you are taking steps every day, there will always be something to look forward to."
I am falling so deeply in Love with your energy....... can feel it and embracing it........ that's the true definition of confidence is, this alignment with yourself, this contentment with yourself, this acceptance towards yourself.
Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think and more talented than you know, and capable of more than you can imagine. *Keep putting in the work...*
"Self confidence" is always great 🥰.
Yes🙌🏻
I love that the real factors are demonstrated. I have been gone through these all circumstances.
confidence is something you are not born with but you get to grow as you adventure into knowing different things....that includes knowing yourself
Yes! Gaining confidence may be a battle but it's worth it✨
I have low self esteem. As a college student , sometimes I cannot bring myself to be like others. Sometimes I'm wondering how could they do such things with so much confidence? , I used to write poems a lot but one day I woke up not feeling the same feelings I used to have whenever I'm holding a pen. That's why I decided to stop for now despite of hearing from others that I'm good and that they believe in my skills. It's funny on how other people believe in me but as an owner of my mind and body all I ever did was to doubt my capabilities. Thank you for this wonderful video Mr. Jay Shetty.
I don't know what lies ahead of me but I'm looking forward to meet the better version of myself and maybe soon I'll find my way back into poems. ❤✨✨
This is so like my situation right now
Hmm really that's true
It was hard for me to start journaling after I decided years ago that I’m not everyone’s golden writer child anymore. I’m taking my power back now and journaling daily (even if it’s just a few bullet points) to start taking an active role in changing my perception of myself. You can do it! After I learned how things that happened during my adolescent developmental period and other factors changed my response to the pressures of daily life in a negative way, I began with practicing mindfulness and a willingness to begin living in tune with and conscious of my behaviors and habits necessary to facilitate change. I’ve regressed back into old negative coping mechanisms many times but the more I educate myself, the more clarity I have and with clarity comes a greater ability to make good decisions for myself so that I can live a happy healthy life free from feeling inadequate or awkward or like a failure. I never was those things. I just didn’t have the tools I needed in my tool box to build myself into the confident, professional, loving, fun and helpful person I always wanted to be. I’m on that path now. I really hope you find your happiness and get your life back soon. You are worth it. 💙
You must first love yourself and used
the God giver gift inside of you.
Most importantly, use it for the honor
and glory to God Almighty. Also
having the fruit of the spirit
( Galatians 5 V 22- 23),
Love, joy, peace, long-suffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith,
meekness and temperance.
This is my definition of
having confident and always
that word LOVE.
Jay, stay blessed and keep empowering others. Came across your podcasts just now and I can't drive anywhere without them❤
Please make a video on depression and its effects on relationships
“If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.” - Bruce Lee
💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RUclipsr
Knowledge and keeping on upgrading ourselves is one of the key factor of being confident. THANKS Jay for pointing out that high value skill accelerates and your suggestion to try learn new skill is a very good idea.
Only thing is believe yourself and respect your feelings existence and feel superior from inside in every field
Even i don't hear much clear as m suffering from fever, his speech gives me calmness
From the deepest of my heart, Thank you Jay ❤️
I’ll write all these things down and start working on it! Thank you jay for helping! :)
1.) 0:23 - Conquer their past: Confident people don't let their past dictate them, they try to understand & navigate through it.
2.) 1:45 - Construct a high value skill: When we have a high value skill, we tend to value ourselves & we don't let other people dictate our value. In the pursuit of mastery, you will have to overcome challenges, developing resilience - and now your confidence is not based on arrogance/cockiness, your confidence is based on your ability to deal with challenging situations.
3.) 3:45 - Constantly Learn: Learning gives you a sense of achievement/drive, and a feeling like you are moving forward toward something. Consistently learning can truly transform the way you feel about yourself, and you start to trust yourself. When you are able to connect the dots & apply what you are learning to your surroundings, this gives you a sense of confidence.
4.) 5:10 - Compassion: Have compassion for yourself, you don't need to be perfect all the time. Confidence shows that you are okay with not being perfect, and not having all of the answers.
5.) 6:42 - Calmly Respond: Confidence comes not from reacting fast, but from responding slowly. Confident people listen, process and then respond - and then when they speak, people listen. Less is more. Respond from the act/rhythm of love, not hate. Go at your own pace.
6.) 7:31 - Certainty: Confident people feel certainty around their likes and dislikes, and what works and does not work. Asking yourself what your true beliefs are and then you can act on that internal certainty, rather than external factors.
7.) 8:45 - Competent Preparation: Confident people practice, prepare and work. They plan, visualize and prepare their energy & mindset. This is why the practice of daily habits is so important.
**& My own advice I've stumbled upon....trust yourself. xx
Thankyou 😍
Thank you
Thank you so much ❤️
Blink summary of this video - many thanks for your time and effort, well done 👍🏻
Thank you
You hit the nail on the head here. Especially in point 1, 4 & 5 for me. You’re helping others in such a relevant and impactful way. ❤ Thank you, sir!
I call it calm control when I need to respond to situations
This man spreading a lot of good vibes to whole world😍
Get over the past disappointing experience including toxic parents. That's the only element you need to be confident. Also, realise everyone is lacking confidence. Those who seem to be confident are Dutch courage, faking it.
This is absolute truth❤
Hi, Jay! I’ve been listening to your Daily Jay at Calm and it is so impactful.. i guess because of the speed of how you deliver your wisdom. I just do feel like certain breaks or slower pace would sink more into the soul than fast paced like this. Thanks! Your videos and sharings are great and has impacted my life greatly! Thanks!
Thank you so much Jay, this means a lot right now❤❤❤
simply, TOO AWESOME!!!!
before watching this and after watching this I find a real difference!
These principles remind me of the teachings from our retreat in the Philippines with my life coach, Lisa Haisha. She emphasizes self-awareness, skill development, and a compassionate approach to personal growth. Lisa's work complements Jay Shetty's advice on building confidence, offering a holistic perspective on self-improvement and transformation. I'm grateful to her for helping me become a better version of myself.
I’m feeling very low on self confidence, everytime I see someone more attractive or beautiful I feel like there’s something lacking within me. Jealousy is a horrible emotion !
This video gave me a new perspective on male enhancement-it's not just about physical changes but also mental and emotional well-being. The holistic approach is key, and I appreciate the depth of the discussion.
Not everyone had parents...
Jay Shetty, listening and learning from you is one great thing for my. Thank you for you knowledge!
Keep believing noone is perfect... everyone makes mistakes... accepting one's mistakes someone confident
I feel so energetic and exited whenever i hear you jay brother. Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩
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I Like the calmly respond one take time to make decisions
Thanku ..... I really need this ......❤️
I think confidence is something which actually helps you to pull out from your tough times ........ Truly appreciated Jay sir ..... For making such kind of videos and content for us ......❤️ To be honest it was really required for me.......... Thanku
Happy New Year! All the best to everyone & be your best!
Always love listening to you Jay. Thank you for your great content / visdom 💚
Wow.....What n excellent topic n fantastic message you hv given.....will definitely share this to others n also try to bring out these qualities into our lifes.....
Eagerly waiting to hear more n more videos like this....
From Muscat
Sangeetha Masroor
We have to build confidence among ourselves , be with the good friends background........
Wow rocking likes and comments without completion of seeing a full video lots of kudos Jay 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
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Merci beaucoup monsieur Shetty... absolutely right and helpful👍👍👍❤
Thank you for this
I really wanted to hear this
Jay this is profound.
May this new year be full of happiness and surprise.may all the 12 months of this year is filled with beautiful memories!...
HÂPPY NEW YEAR 2022 To All !!!🥳🍫🍩🎂🍰🎊
Wow, you still have beautiful eyes, for you have kind eyes. Thank you for your wonderful Wisdom.
#3.Constantly learning!! 🔥🔥Works for me like mad!
🌳존경하는 제이셔티 좋은영상 감사합니다.Dear J.Shirt. thank you for the good video. i will practice the seven habits that increase my self confidence.💚have a good time today💚💚💚💚
Thank you! I needed this!
You have to understand that you can’t have success without first experiencing failure.
Your video is great sir
Have you ever told someone that they are beautiful or handsome and said . Ya I know! ? That's the type of confidence I've wanted but i don't and can never have it. Life is unfair bro/sis. Accept that there are things that can be changed and things that can't be changed. I feel sorry for you 💔
Jay...I need to express this...your talks and books are excellent...but I don't know how to apply these many good things in practicality
In philosophy, rationality is the epistemological view that "reason as the main source and test of knowledge" or "any view of reason as the source of knowledge or justification."
You're the inspiration man ❤️🥺
Am I the only one who love watching comments, it's really helpful .
Thank you Jay for all the good work you do Merry Christmas to yo and your family.
HELLO FRIEND WHY DON'T YOU SEND A MESSAGE TO THIS GREAT MAN WHO HELPED ME ATTRACT MY PARTNER AFTER MANY YEARS OF SEPARATION VLL❤❤📥📥📥
IN JUST TWENTY-FOUR HOURS YOU WILL SEE YOUR RESULT AND BE WITH YOUR PARTNER AGAIN, LIVING HAPPY TOGETHER ALWAYS❤❤❤
➕𝟮𝟯𝟰8167987281 (☉｡☉)! ❤❤
*10 things to quit for all Men:*
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Following Kardashians
3. Not prioritizing your health
4. Wasting your precious time
5. Chasing meaningless relationships
6. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat
7. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
8. Drinking
9. Smoking
10. Dirty websites
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Thanks A Million. Great Video made. I got Great Knowledge and it will help me.
I'm your big fan....Thanks a lot sir....
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Try this one...
My favourite speaker Jay genius
Love this! My only suggestion is make sure the person that edits your videos uses clips that align with your values. The clip that shows a young man measuring to cut an animal skin (leather) is conflicting as it doesn't align with vegan ethics. Thank you for all that you do.💕💕💕🌱
I love his speech very much my favourite speaker Jay genius
Love your work ❤️
I know this is off topic but I love your eyes. Thanks for the tips ❤️❤️❤️
I can't get to know, why just I feel lack of confidence, distrust , and have the fear to move ahead.
You have a beautiful personality I value what you ARE... perfect ❤️😍
This is an extremely helpful video. I’m grateful for it ❤
Thank you🙏
I loved your book that is awesome i recently started reading and it helped me a lot in understanding life and how to deal with problem's thanks bro.❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful!!!
I m not so confidence person, from my school days till today I m 24 years old. I am having lack of confidence because of tha am getting rejected in all the interviews. Feeling depressed 😭😫 so I came here to see your video, yes I had some bad past experience and still I feel depressed when I think about them.. But I believe I can overcome it. Some time it feels miserable when I am not able to get what I want due to lack of confidence. People who interview me they quickly say you are looking tensed and scared. . I get nervous and again I get rejected.. Now I came to your video and I will start practicing all the points to become confident. Thank you.... And one request please make more videos on confidence....
From India🇮🇳
"Beleive in yourself" it's a magical spell that can do miracle
I always like to watch your excellent motivation videos . My english knowledge is not so good . But I can clearly understand your english .thank you so much .I listen your so meny videos . All the videos are more important for understand our life and develope our personality . Thank you so much dear sir. 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
Giving no fuck on what other people think is also a super power. 💪🤗
Thankyou so much sir 💞
My best professor
Thanks, Jay, this video just popped up at the right time :)
Thank You 🌸
Thank you for the tips and encouragement. We are just getting started with our RUclips channel and this has been very helpful. - Marian
My parents didn’t do anything for my confidence at all. They were very toxic and negative.
GOD DAMM🤯 JUST LOOK AT HIM BRO!!! MY MAN JAY 💪YOU SHOULD START MODELLING 🤘🤘
From the heart capital of America Panama Rep, of Panama🌎☺✋
Your videos are awesome.
Whatever happened just believe yourself and move on then you can achieve your goal.....JAY you're always like a energy booster when I watch your videoes I felt like that... keep rocking 😎
Definitely
I would never be confident! 😇✊🏽
This video build everyone confident
Dude thanks alot
I should try this
Thank you
Great tips as always Jay.
Best motivational speaker man jay shetty💯🙏
“Congrats to Everyone who is early and found this comment”!
It seems like everyone is trying very hard to not reply to anything you say in comment section
Thank you
Thanks Jay, I found answer to my question
life begins, where fear ends.
sir i am from India and I read your book and really felt in love with it