If You Lack CONFIDENCE & Want To Raise Your SELF-ESTEEM - WATCH THIS | Jay Shetty

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  • Опубликовано: 1 дек 2024

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  • @listentohillsong7600
    @listentohillsong7600 2 года назад +146

    I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter and a new identity... A child of God.. Hallelujah

    • @artube3290
      @artube3290 2 года назад +4

      He was a Prophet sent by God

    • @fk8495
      @fk8495 Год назад +2

      If you want the real belief, follow Islam

    • @yourdailydoseofme7945
      @yourdailydoseofme7945 Год назад +3

      @@fk8495 what “real belief”? Don’t stop them from believing the one true God in heaven

    • @justinawhyte373
      @justinawhyte373 Год назад

      Praise God!!!❤

    • @mamooshka9503
      @mamooshka9503 Год назад

      Thats so Great to hear! ❤

  • @CreativeCashflow1
    @CreativeCashflow1 2 года назад +41

    Don’t let anybody, especially yourself, make you feel like you don’t deserve to be in the room you’ve earned a right to be in. You have something unique to contribute - your ideas, your experience, your wisdom, and your point of view.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 года назад +147

    "You don't know what you need in your life until you figure out who you are" - Jay Shetty ✨

  • @DariusTan
    @DariusTan 2 года назад +132

    In summary on how you want to raise your SELF-STEEM,
    Three signs that you're struggling:
    1.) You feel pressured to know what you want to do with your life.
    2.) You've lost interest in your own life and get disconnected.
    3.) You don't know what your skills are or you feel you lack them.
    Three tips to raise your SELF-STEEM:
    1.) Don't let what's happening around you affect you.
    2.) Think what you can help to other people.
    3.) Generating positive result from negative situation.

  • @brainstormd
    @brainstormd 2 года назад +36

    Sometimes, you just can’t get what you want, but it doesn’t mean that you can never have it. Everything takes place at the right time

  • @deekshabehl
    @deekshabehl 2 года назад +21

    the words-"fear is a good push, and love is a beautiful pull". 😇😇

  • @shirleyabanga3164
    @shirleyabanga3164 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for this priceless wisdom shared (Ed Mylett and Jay shetty 👌👏)
    My take away from this:
    - We need a huge reason to push us towards our Dreams/Goals ( how big is your WHY)
    - Raise your Proximity - Surrend yourself with people who can increase your thermostat
    - Always think about how you can serve, contribute and add value into people lives
    - Fear is a good push and love is a good pull

  • @therealturph
    @therealturph 2 года назад +13

    It's videos like these that can literally be life changing for people watching this!! Thank you Jay for all your uploads and thank you to all of your guests for their genuine vulnerability 💯❤️

    • @AnnTsungMD
      @AnnTsungMD 2 года назад +1

      Life changing and inspirational.

  • @nathanleung5592
    @nathanleung5592 2 года назад +5

    I can listen to Jay Shetty for hours, days, weeks, months & years! My focus is completely going the right way! Genuinely l lacked my self esteem especially with parents around! After listening to Jay Shetty l feel more motivated than ever!

  • @HouseOfLabelle
    @HouseOfLabelle 2 года назад +4

    That is the best analogy I have ever heard in my life. This will stick with me forever

  • @ck6471
    @ck6471 2 года назад +10

    Jay Shetty can listen for hours, completely focussed on the opposite person and try to understand his perspective and struggles. What a gem !

    • @kevinberkau7932
      @kevinberkau7932 2 года назад

      You have 2 ears 👂🏼 1 mouth, use them proportionally

  • @golopeters1152
    @golopeters1152 2 года назад +3

    When I heard his reason I was so touched I almost started to cry.

  • @mep8083
    @mep8083 2 года назад +3

    I never comment but this is the absolute truth. What a great way of putting it. This needs to be taught in schools! I wish I’d known this properly decades ago. Thank you.

  • @preeti1545
    @preeti1545 2 года назад +1

    • We make decisions emotionally but we justify and rationalize them logically.
    • It's not the external conditions but your internal thermostat, which governs your life.
    • You can't change the people, but you can change the proximity.
    • Fear is a good push but love is a great pull.

  • @radhekrishna.88
    @radhekrishna.88 2 года назад +3

    Ed mylett I never knew anything about him but from this day I never gonna forget him the reason for his gym the bella'swedding day oh god he is such a loving father and his personality the way he reflect on things ok I m noting down I don't know to what extreme but I will try my best
    Jay seriously u never disappoint us

  • @lechae8924
    @lechae8924 2 года назад +4

    You can’t change the people but you can change the proximity

  • @smrithiglamup8251
    @smrithiglamup8251 2 года назад +3

    🙏huge reasons makes the difference... Well said thank u both.. u guys raised our proximity

  • @AchieversWorkshop
    @AchieversWorkshop Год назад +1

    You can't change people, but you can change the proximity into how they affect you; coupled with the fact that someone pulling you upward can't be too far ahead of you, otherwise you'll just feel insecure instead of inspired. I really resonated with those points, thanks guys :)

  • @johnmcfadden9620
    @johnmcfadden9620 Год назад

    I enjoy your shorter videos like this one. Thanks for what you do.

  • @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841
    @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841 2 года назад

    4:30 Friends, not just friends, tv, sitcoms, cartoons, movies. The first 13 years, no tv, no toys, no friends, no stories told to me. All I was around was optimistic people, who did not live in the past. I woke up each morning to a state of joy.

  • @craiganderlcreative
    @craiganderlcreative 4 месяца назад

    I'm really enjoying your audio book "Think like a Monk". I think you are doing great work. You are inspiring me to live more by my values and my dharna. Even though I have been exposed to a lot of spiritual concepts in my life, its the application of the wisdom that matters, and you help teach how to do that in very accessible ways. Keep up the amazing and inspiring work!

  • @marcusparasuramen442
    @marcusparasuramen442 2 года назад

    This is so true. The conversations we have with people around differs with the type of friends... an eye opener...thank you🙏🙏🙏

  • @MindscapingNYC
    @MindscapingNYC 2 года назад

    Mental health is constant upkeep. I’ve lived in a few different cities around the world, in NYC, I have to make the most environmental accommodations because hustle bustle ness of the city means I have to schedule more nature and self care. The busyness and hectic-ness of the lifestyle means more planning to connect with loved ones, etc. but I know I have to prioritize these things, because otherwise, anything else I’m building or working on, fails. I know this because I used to fight this idea and I made my life so difficult for so long because of it lol

  • @mariannebloom3266
    @mariannebloom3266 2 года назад +2

    Wow. I got chills at differents times. You are so inspirational you both. I am so glad to have listen to this video! Thank you so much for what you are doing

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc3344 2 года назад +2

    Immense gratitude thanks to y'all so much dearest all 🌹
    Y'all such an inspiration 🥰
    Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖
    Stay Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈

  • @ayala7282
    @ayala7282 2 года назад +3

    How can I get into a great circle in growth?
    Listen to podcasts- digital influence.
    Where do these people congregate? I have to go where they are.
    Ask someone and see how I can help them.
    Work out- move my body to move my energy.
    I find someone who is a bit better than me and keep pushing up my standards.

  • @vallareedeshmukhofficial
    @vallareedeshmukhofficial 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing, such a meaningful conversation! 👏🏻
    Key takeaways:
    • We make decisions emotionally but we justify and rationalize them logically.
    • It's not the external conditions but your internal thermostat, which governs your life.
    • You can't change the people, but you can change the proximity.
    • Fear is a good push but love is a great pull.

  • @joe3055
    @joe3055 2 года назад +2

    Wow this man has a wise perspective on this.

  • @Yaavi-jx8jw
    @Yaavi-jx8jw Год назад

    Wow this is exactly what I wanted to watch, what I was looking for. I've always let others affect me, but now I have to regulate my norms and values, have to stop other people affecting me. I really hope that I do that. Thanks for sharing such a good information

  • @SneezingEagle
    @SneezingEagle Год назад

    This.. This just explained things I've been trying to figure out for the past 20 years... Thermostat love it

  • @laustephanie9290
    @laustephanie9290 2 года назад +1

    Almost all your reason is either for other people or big dreams, simple yet wise.

  • @thechangeyouneed2145
    @thechangeyouneed2145 2 года назад +3

    Jay Shetty and Ed Mylett. What an interview! Such raw emotion from Ed alongside the completely calm and effortless charisma of Jay
    Love these guys!

  • @girishva3823
    @girishva3823 Год назад

    Very nicely said and true for almost of us, we keep ourselves open so that external conditions drive how we feel..to have thermostat is very good example to remain at a certain level come what may...Thanks 👍👍👍

  • @KiddoVibe
    @KiddoVibe 2 года назад

    Watching this gives me great motivation to go to work tonight even my body and my emotion and brain is very exhausted from
    all negative things happening around me

  • @lauradeletant6243
    @lauradeletant6243 2 года назад

    Wow that’s huge!!! Daughter’s wedding day! I love it ❤️
    Yes I will use this! Thank you Ed Mylett and Jay Shetty. 🙏

  • @tornedsky
    @tornedsky Год назад

    thank you so much for the wonderful advice. you guys are really one of a kind

  • @suvarnapeta2219
    @suvarnapeta2219 2 года назад +3

    Jay is just extraordinary 🙏🏻💞

  • @atasiarukhsa8882
    @atasiarukhsa8882 2 года назад +1

    Fear is a good push
    Love is a great pull😴

  • @DrPatrickKingsep
    @DrPatrickKingsep 2 года назад +5

    Great video Jay - interesting to watch and absorb! "Your self-worth regulates your life...." I like this quote. And the "power of other human beings" - again great quote!!

  • @nokuthulankoyana7450
    @nokuthulankoyana7450 2 года назад +1

    I think this has been my favourite episode. I keep watching it over and over again.

  • @optimisticc7040
    @optimisticc7040 2 года назад +1

    I love these guys! They motivate me to be better!

  • @smrithiglamup8251
    @smrithiglamup8251 2 года назад +3

    Fear is a good push, love is beautiful pull,🙏♥️

  • @AnnTsungMD
    @AnnTsungMD 2 года назад

    Wow! Ed and Jay on the same stage! Thank you both for this amazing interview.

  • @AnnaLauraMigliorati
    @AnnaLauraMigliorati 2 года назад +1

    One of the best video I have seen! Thanks 🙏 profoundly touched! ❤️

  • @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841
    @dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841 2 года назад +6

    Confidence, one's assurance of their abilities. As you look back through your life at all the downward spiraling failures. Was it the failures or was it the story you kept repeating to yourself?
    If, a baby was aware of itself. And it's starting to learn how to stand. And it fails to stand and it tries again and the parents laugh and the child is aware of their laughter. Would the child learn to walk? Would it give up on wanting to walk?
    A child at this age lives without a mind. It does everything in silence. But what if it had a mind like you. It would say to itself. I can't do this and they're laughing at me. And the child crawls to the room and closes the door. Never learning to walk.

  • @annanims7876
    @annanims7876 2 года назад +2

    Great interview, if someone has more ideas on places to connect with higher frequency, positive people, please share.😊

  • @VivekYadav-hg4tv
    @VivekYadav-hg4tv 2 года назад +4

    2uh Legends together.. 🔥

  • @samchowdhury_29
    @samchowdhury_29 2 года назад

    This video is a feast for the eyes and ears.💫

  • @emyf9197
    @emyf9197 2 года назад

    I woke up wrong side of bed today.. Fully depressed, lost & confused and now a bit anxious... I hope to God I don't go back to experiencing depression again bcuz tht was literal hell n waste of my life. But I do see symptoms again, lost of appetite and feeling really low today.

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 года назад

    Precious words like diamonds which makes our lives shining.Awesome conversation admirable topic.

  • @dearsariya06
    @dearsariya06 Год назад

    Thank you very much for this ! I really learnt a lot from this clip. It's so relatable and true. I 'm feeling great after hearing this!👍😊❤

  • @laxmigurung6007
    @laxmigurung6007 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for uploading this video

  • @kevwhartman
    @kevwhartman Год назад

    I love the thermostat analogy

  • @browngirl2096
    @browngirl2096 2 года назад

    I love jay . Great person

  • @JackdawLifts
    @JackdawLifts 2 года назад

    I’m going to a job interview at a gym in south london on Tuesday. It’s a popular UK “hardcore” bodybuilding gym. About 3,5 hours away from me. (Across the country).
    A part of me is like am I swimming upstream. Or am I following my inspiration.
    That’s why Abraham hicks teaching sometimes annoys me.
    It’s like. Don’t try make it happen. Don’t force it. It’s not about action. Etc etc.
    Like. “Wherever you go, there you are”
    But yes. I believe I am committing to it !
    And I’m arranging for a room viewing on the same day, 0.6miles from it, so I can walk to work.
    I’ve had a calling to move city ever since coming back home from one and well.
    I tried manifesting it.
    But I’m gonna action it I think.

  • @tierra314
    @tierra314 Месяц назад

    yeeeeees to the gym!!!! i agree!!!

  • @elizabethmoran6745
    @elizabethmoran6745 2 года назад

    That is amazing.. the knowledge I got from here is wise…

  • @youcando5246
    @youcando5246 2 года назад

    my the best author Jay

  • @rajinderkaur334
    @rajinderkaur334 2 года назад +1

    Amazing!!! Thank You🙏😊

  • @bulbulsnest8338
    @bulbulsnest8338 Год назад

    Fear is good push love is strong pull

  • @claireroche8920
    @claireroche8920 2 года назад

    I’m cracking up y’all are amazing ❤️ hahaha MORE OF THIS ENERGYYYYYY

  • @AmmarMirza-p9w
    @AmmarMirza-p9w 15 часов назад +1

    Mmmm,I loved but at some point I disagree with the point he talked about things or ,whoever you are surrounded by regulates your degree ,you know what I mean,it might affect your personality or lifestyle ,thoughts whatever it may be ,it is not for all the time right ,I would say ,it is up to you how much you can regulate yourself and protect from external thing by living amongst who has low-key attitude o high key . for example ,if you are in school and in your class ,some are smart or some dummies ,so are you gonna choose to sit with smartest ones so as ro be smart too and thinking that influence your ability sth like so on,. come on. I always tried to be who is weaker than me and being with them even helped me to flourish and work harder more . it is all about your mindset and how you control and work with it . thank you ,I enjoyed this episode . .

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 года назад

    My favourite speaker Jay genius

  • @Active10711
    @Active10711 2 года назад +3

    Amazing thoughts

  • @vineetsingh8484
    @vineetsingh8484 2 года назад

    This guy really has some good stuff 👁️👁️

  • @panda-crux.165
    @panda-crux.165 2 года назад +19

    I have very low self esteem because i have Speech Problem I have a bifid uvula that's the reason why I'm getting Always bullied and Getting harsh word especially in school and public places that's why I'm always silent and Sad😢😭.

    • @ChuChuAndAhBa
      @ChuChuAndAhBa 2 года назад +6

      Do you have a hobby/passion you love like a sport, drawing, or singing? Getting good with a hobby/ passion you really love might help you gain confident, and probably find friends who share the same passion like you. Maybe you can give this a try. Or you can try doing volunteer work helping the more unfortunate, being compassion and be of service to others might also bring your happiness and even confident.
      A person that has confident and compassion will never look down, bullied and make fun of others. Those people who are bullying you are just people who have low self-esteem and lack of confident themselves. Just ignore them, you don't need them in your life to show your confidence. Look for those who truly appreciate you and you will find them someday. Just be confident with it and believe in yourself.

    • @jithinkk3349
      @jithinkk3349 2 года назад +1

      Go to gym and level up u r fitness
      It would be definitely change you
      Believe me

    • @panda-crux.165
      @panda-crux.165 2 года назад

      @@ChuChuAndAhBa Thank you Sir I will do my best🙏😊

    • @panda-crux.165
      @panda-crux.165 2 года назад

      @@jithinkk3349 Thank you sir I will do my best🙏😊

    • @alfila2013
      @alfila2013 4 месяца назад

      I hope one day you get the revelation that there are many people, like myself who will love you. You will note even worry about the people who don’t get you❤

  • @madadaalochannel8265
    @madadaalochannel8265 2 года назад +1

    Ilove from somalia🇸🇴🇸🇴

  • @aidayohannes1423
    @aidayohannes1423 2 года назад

    So inspirational both of them 💕💕

  • @joshthomas_1696
    @joshthomas_1696 2 года назад +1

    Very eye opening and informative video, Jay! You do an amazing job at inspiring many! Thanks for all that you do. 💙🙏🏽

  • @preeti_108
    @preeti_108 Год назад

    Krishna ❤ helped me in every phase of life... Hari bol!

  • @radhekrishna.88
    @radhekrishna.88 2 года назад +1

    This was much needed

  • @HappyLifewithMaria
    @HappyLifewithMaria 2 года назад +2

    This is incredible 🙏👏🙏👏🙏

  • @marymichelle6426
    @marymichelle6426 2 года назад

    Love your videos. Thanks a lot 🙏❤️👍

  • @vikasyadav8777
    @vikasyadav8777 2 года назад +1

    Those things learn from your book and Thank you thank you so much. ❤❤❤

  • @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933
    @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933 2 года назад

    I love self esteem

  • @fredrikabodemar5434
    @fredrikabodemar5434 2 года назад +1

    Love it! You dont need to add music to it, it distracts since it’s a ”feel piece” and he is explaining things, the two crash and his message is being cluttered.
    But love what he says and all your videos!!

  • @kasulealex9036
    @kasulealex9036 2 года назад

    This is phenomenal ...wow 🥰🥰🥰

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome 2 года назад +11

    "Be of good cheer, for a great Message is being sent into the world from the Creator of all life in the universe. Have greater confidence, for the power and presence of Knowledge is within you. As you learn to take the Steps to Knowledge, you will find its power, grace and guidance for yourself and for others. And you will see that you truly were created by God and sent into the world for a greater purpose, and that you have a greater destiny beyond this world, and a greater future within and beyond the boundaries of time."
    The New Message from God » The One God book » Chapter 2: The New God Revelation.
    As revealed to Marshall Vian Summers.

  • @theotherside6436
    @theotherside6436 Год назад

    Great people

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks 2 года назад +4

    One of the biggest secrets I discovered in life is to figure out how to love life more than you love to sleep!
    ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction RUclipsr💜

  • @ireshasamarasekara4761
    @ireshasamarasekara4761 2 года назад

    Great one👍

  • @makefinanceeasy3682
    @makefinanceeasy3682 2 года назад

    One of the best💫💫💫💫

  • @EliUnityGoldsmith
    @EliUnityGoldsmith 2 года назад +2

    Yes 🙌🏻

  • @masthanrahman6632
    @masthanrahman6632 2 года назад

    great motivation

  • @Jayjamie
    @Jayjamie 2 года назад

    Great video 👏

  • @LoyceFitness
    @LoyceFitness 2 года назад

    Love from 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

  • @khnsanoman8934
    @khnsanoman8934 2 года назад +5

    I don't what to do with my life, i don't know what my skills are, i don't know my purpose or passion is, i don't have goal or vision. I watched all of the vid abt passion and purpose but i still don't really understand how to apply it in my life

    • @kevinberkau7932
      @kevinberkau7932 2 года назад

      Delete all social media and things that distract and steal your time, time where you can find your purpose, find your purpose by using the time you have left over now you have A lot of free time to try new things and see what you love to do and do that that is your purpose if you choose to something that brings you up in the morning that you can be excited about and obsessed about that you think about all the time and feel good when you think about it and you get what you think about most of the time

    • @Iloveuniverse222
      @Iloveuniverse222 2 года назад

      Can your purpose be just living life joyfully ? When your cup is overflowing with joy, you will be a joy to millions 🌞🌹❤️🙏🏻

    • @BRIDTA
      @BRIDTA 6 месяцев назад

      Hi. I help people find their purpose and strengths. Let me know if you want a free consultation

  • @AshleyGarland5959
    @AshleyGarland5959 2 года назад +1

    Try and do everything 50% slower than you usual do, try it for one day and see how much better you feel. As a bonus you will actually achieve more! Monks do not run!

  • @vsejejasno7836
    @vsejejasno7836 2 года назад

    loveeeeee this ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @obakengmhatlhe118
    @obakengmhatlhe118 6 месяцев назад

    Wow motivated klaar❤

  • @preiaa
    @preiaa 2 года назад

    You can’t change people you can change the proximity

  • @zox5370
    @zox5370 Год назад +1

    10:45 that is hard

  • @bulbulsnest8338
    @bulbulsnest8338 Год назад

    Weather controls ur temperature
    People if can't delete then control proximity

  • @vikasyadav8777
    @vikasyadav8777 2 года назад

    Love from India

  • @mrelixirgalactic
    @mrelixirgalactic 2 года назад

    Yes indeed 🔥💪🏽💯🙏🏽

  • @tedtalk548
    @tedtalk548 2 года назад

    Adam Grants "Otherish Givers" concept 😊

  • @farhanmobin518
    @farhanmobin518 2 года назад

    Wow! that conversation is fascinating! ( who's that Guy? Jay interviewing...He look's like Waqar Yunus. Pakistani X cricketer's twin bro :) )

  • @ProdBySKCBEATS
    @ProdBySKCBEATS 2 года назад

    “Fear is a good push, but Love is a beautiful pull”

  • @bctinkerbell93
    @bctinkerbell93 Год назад

    Wealthy no happy yess

  • @imunique603
    @imunique603 2 года назад +2

    Don't have self-confidence since the day I was born.