7 Common Habits that Hurt Your Femininity *game changer*
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2024
- Hello everyone! Today, we're discussing common self-defeating habits amongst women that diminish your feminine essence. I hope you enjoy the video and please comment your thoughts down below along with perhaps any other habits that hurt femininity!
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Chapters:
Intro - 0:00-0:21
I. Not being comfortable saying "no" - 0:22-3:41
II. Hating your cycle & cyclical nature - 3:42-6:32
III. "Soft life" - 6:33-11:52
IV. Centering your femininity around men - 11:53-13:01
V. Passive aggression - 13:02-16:27
VI. Sarcasm - 16:28-16:53
VII. Arrogance - 16:54-18:03
Outro - 18:04-18:38
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Top from Reformation
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Hello everyone, welcome to my channel! I'm Jasmyne Theodora, I'm an Orthodox Christian and I make content about the art of femininity (from a virtuous, Godly perspective), lost female education, and traditionalism. Please do subscribe if you enjoy my content and thank you so much for watching.
FAQ:
Height - 5'9"
Race - Biracial (black & white)
Religion - Orthodox Christian
Background - Bachelor's degree in psychology
Relationship status - Married
Location - Pacific Northwest
Favorite book about femininity - "Eve in Exile"
Some favorite Bible verses - Proverbs 31, 1 Peter 3:3-4, 1 Timothy 3:11
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Yes we want a balance hormone video please! Even expand on how hormones effect our body when out of whack. You would be surprised how many young girls out here have NO clue what goes on inside their bodies!
I would appreciate this!
Yes!! Agreed!!
YES PLEASE
Yes please!!!!
Yes please!
1. Not being comfortable saying no
2.Embrace your menstrual cycle
3.Prioritizing a soft life
4.Catering your femininity around men
5.Passive aggressive
6. Sarcasm
7. Arrogance
Thank you. I was looking for this comment!
Your welcome.
I was hoping someone made this list. I knew it low chance because it is masculine act -> not caring to hear a story but rather caring for functional part of what she has to say...
Contempt for a natural cycle is so on point! When I got my first period I was eager for it, looking forward to it, I just would stay awake at night praying for it to come that day, I was so excited to get my first period!! Even now I see a period as a time of release and a hiatus. I don't feel like myself until I get a period, especially when I am in the postpartum stage. In the Bible God tells women to take it easy, take a week off, and to relax. But with commercials from places like Tampax and Always society is shoving the idea that a period is something that only holds you back rather than being a time of taking care of yourself, or on the flip side you should not take it easy at all when you do have a period and that you should be going the speed of a freight train. I'm so glad you brought that up!
Very well said!
Mines is so painfully unbearable, I have to take ibuprofen at the strongest level. It’s definitely not a joy for all. I think I have endometriosis. I can’t work at all the first day and have to consistently call out of work which isn’t good when I work for someone else.
People begin to redraw from you and want you behaving the way they want is what I’m facing at my work place .
No one talks to me just cause they not used to you saying no.
And I’ve gotten to realize that’s a form of manipulation and you need to stay strong .
You’re enough for yourself.
Yes, don't budge on your boundaries one iota!
I literally have all of these problems. God help me 💀 🙏
It's a struggle but so worth it!
I'm so glad you're making these "how to be feminine" videos, they are very helpful especially in today's era where women are encouraged to be more masculine.
Women are encouraged to be masculine? Are you forgetting that those women were little girls at some point and the adults in their lives robbed them from the beauty of femininity and instead of embracing it, they started to resent it? When all they hear is "having a boy is easier"?
So true I'm tired of being the "boss babe". Like I'm done. It's over.
I loved the section on living a "soft life," and couldn't agree more with your insights. The soft life content never sat well with my spirit, even though it was often from professing Christians. I was literally lying in bed thinking through this last night and love that this was the first video I saw today. God is so cool🥰
Hello 👋 How are you doing today??
Great commentary. I was beginning to drift towards the “soft life” philosophy. I’m glad you helped me see it through the lenses of Christ. Also I’m one who suffered with painful period. I am definitely going to embrace it because you changed my perspective on that as well.
Thank you 🌸
I completely agree that prioritizing a soft life can make you weak in all aspects. Similar to how bacteria strengthen our immune systems. We have to go through challenges and obstacles to refine those characteristics such as grace and kindness because we can relate or understand the struggles and experience. You are on it!
Whew! As a wife and mom I definitely feel this. The guilt of putting myself first is something I’m really working on. I appreciate you, Jasmyne!
I started using the app Natural cycles because although I'm not sexually active currently, I want to embrace and get to know the thing I've hated for so long
Hi Jasmine!
I just want you to know that your content influenced me so much. I used to be actively against your content, but now after actually listening to you, I’ve changed for the better! I always oppressed my femininity for stupid reasons, but now I feel so free. I hope you understand, my maternal language is French so ❤
Wow!! That’s amazing. Thank you so much for letting me know 🥹❤️ your English is perfect by the way
I really needed to hear that last point! 'Femininity thrives in cooperation - seek out collaborative moments - just because you don't need help doesn't mean you shouldn't accept help.' Thanks so much for this! 🙏❤️
These videos are wonderful. So full of wisdom and intelligence. As a younger woman learning to define femininity and who I want to become, your channel has been so invaluable. It's even reminded me to place God in the forefront of my life, something that I was forgetting. Thank you for this wonderful content!
Yes please make a video about how to balance hormones, I’d love to know!
Your take on “soft life” was quite profound and needed🙏🏾 thank you ❤
Currently a newbie on my feminine embrace journey. Thank you for this video as you addressed a lot of things I didn’t realize or acknowledge were hurting my femininity. Passive aggression being the biggest one so thank you!
Jasmyne, I LOVE your channel, your videos are so full of truth and insight, it's so needed these days! And yes, I would love for you to do a video on balancing hormones naturally! Congratulations on your pregnancy! Prayers and blessings 🌺
Hi Jasmyne, I would like to truly thank you. I am a young teenager and for a while I felt the need to act masculine to fit in with others I set aside all my morals and beliefs just to fit in especially because of social media and bullying, I once despised my period because I got it when I was 9 I thought I was disgusting since that's what everyone around me said I was so scared of being a woman. Then I came across you. You brought me back to what my parents guided me too when I was a kid. The safety and softness I felt when I was a genuine feminine kid I can now feel again. Thank you for being such a safe space and thank you for truly saving me even if you never knew it. Keep glowing. Sorry for the long read 💓
You are truly a great human! How you word yourself, how you carry yourself plus detailed info regardless the topic - creators like you are rare. Thank you for being my light in these learning times!
I’m really glad I found your channel. What you said about the “softness” movement makes a lot of sense to me. I have envied people in the past who seemed to have a super relaxed lifestyle when I myself couldn’t seem to get the hang of it. But I started to realize it’s like living in a bubble which isn’t realistic and likely not the way we are to serve in this life. The way you explained it is great, it makes so much sense to me.
Once I started understanding my menses were a preparation and cleansing, I developed a deeper appreciation for it. I mean it still hurts and is inconvenient but I don't resent it or my weakness to it anymore. And that's a step up for mental health.
Thank you for saying the soft life part because I wouldn’t have thought of that
Love the video. So needed. I keep falling asleep with your voice, it’s so calming haha!
I needed this video so much. Releasing the hatred of my menstral cycle at the beginning of my spiritual journey really helped me embrace myself as a woman. But I wasn't aware all these changes would help as well. These days you don't get how to's on femininity. You get "empowerment" and "bossbabe" dogma. I'm so tired of not being allowed to be feminine. Of not allowing myself to be soft and giving by nature. I want to let go of being a "control freak" so badly, it's caused consent anxiety in my life having to do everything and never being allowed to have help. Never allowing myself to accept it, receive.
This video is a godsend. Thank you.
We NEED that video on balancing hormones!🥺 I’m trying to learn about this and have trouble fully understanding since there’s so much mixed and incomplete information online!
I love cherry picking your advice - very little of it works for me personally, but I value gaining insight from people I disagree with. It helps me stay aligned with my value of seeing the humanity in all people. I already use "you and me versus the problem" in my relationship, but seeing it applied here in a different way has allowed me to understand another perspective I hadn't considered before. I also really value your points about stress being good for us, and for striving for teachable moments, embracing challenge. I think a good word here is striving for grace. Giving it. Accepting it. Expecting it.
Beautiful video as always! Thanks Jasmine ❤
your cycle video changed so much for me, I'd never heard of the different phases before and now I find myself looking forward to menstruating because I know it means my body is working as it should
I'm still very confused about that lol. The video was great, I just wish I understood my body better.
Yours is the most nuanced take I've seen on the soft life trend. I think it's an overcompensation for those who want the softness of femininity but not the vulnerability, and it's as fragile as porcelain. Can't wait for your hormone video! I'm getting ready to get off the hormonal IUD I've used to manage horrible periods and would love to be better prepared to help myself heal.
I love the things you said about “ soft life “ . It’s unrealistic & therefore creates a view that life is easy. Nooones life should be really hard but it’s not easy. Thank you for your authenticity.
Your videos are just the healing I am needing chile... God bless you 🌺
The passive aggressive part hit home. Thank you for the prompts, it helped me put your advice into practical use.
I just love your voice and wisdom! Thank you for this example & mirror🌸🤗
This was great and had some phenomenal points that many femininity influencers do not often discuss or think about!😊
I love your take on "soft life" ❤
Thank you so much for this video. Your content is pure and informative. I 100% agree with the period part. I started my cycle at 11 years and they always felt like an inconvenience. However, a few years ago I didn't see my periods for close to six months and I was so worried, Dr's found cysts on my ovaries and said I had PCOS at 22 and that broke me. I read about it & prayed, reduced carbs, sugar, exercised, etc and after one round of medication, my cycle resumed. I asked God for forgiveness for hating my periods and I also apologised to my body. I now appreciate them even with the discomfort. I haven't missed my periods since.
Also I'm highly passive aggressive because whenever I aired my concerns they were met with retaliation. Although I'm learning to be assertive, no shouting to get my points across.
Wow this is all that I’ve been learning this year. Confirmation and helpful as well,
God bless you, Jasmyne. Your words are very wise and well said, thank you so much.
I would love a video on balancing hormones! I have really terrible period cramps and pms and want to learn how to balance my hormones.
What you said about soft life as Christians is so profound. Thank you.
I embraced my menstruation as the ultimate manifestation of my femininity.
Yes!! 🙌
loved this 🥹 your videos are a blessing for my life !!
I NEEDED THIS!! going to watch after my Bible meeting is over 💕
Happy Sunday! I hope you enjoy!
you are glowing, loved the video!
Everything you say is always so GENUINE😊, Thank you.
Oh im so glad to hear that 🥹🥹 thank you for watching
I loved your video! Thanks for sharing these tips
This is a brilliant video! So much value. God bless you x
Your channel has helped me a lot in my relationship!! Thank you so much..
This was really helpful, balanced, and convicting. Thank you so much for sharing this. Praying for your pregnancy and marriage. God bless you!
Loving your content!
Yes to the video about hormone levels
Thanks so much for making amazing and informative content❤
Love your content!! 💕
I thank God for you. Thank you for lending us your time and doing this for us. The effort, the everything. I appreciate your honesty and love. Thank you. God bless you mama
Thank you so much for these videos!!!
I'm so glad you enjoy them
Such insightful content as always. A video on how to balance hormones sounds really interesting and educational.
So glad u found your channel !!! Thank u for the feminine content 🥰❤️ subbed !!
Thank you. I totally needed this!
Of course! Im glad you found it valuable!
Heyy sis🥰🥺 excited to watch I already know I'm gonna learn so much.....also I like before I watch ☺️😌❤️
Ohhh I hope you enjoy it! Thank you so much for your support!
I found your channel after praying for God to help me figure out what was making me so sick. Your birth control video was the first I saw. I am so grateful for the information you put out there.
After being through so many years of abuse. I lost my feminity. And now I really would like to be that.
Soooo good!! 💕
Hello, Jasmyne! Lovely video as always! :) I enjoyed when you talked about conflicts because I feel like I can always use help or tips in that area as someone who is young and still somewhat unaware of how to deal with it. I hope all is well with the pregnancy and baby! God bless you!
Thank you for your celebration of femininity! Growing up in a feminist culture that derides femininity has definitely confused me. As a new mother, I want to exemplify what you describe for my daughter.
Thank you Jasmyne ❤
Thanks for sharing this, it really helps💝
Thank you for watching!
Seeing this video on my feed was more triggering than I thought it would be…
The word “femininity” is such a loaded word these days.
Great content ;)
I hope you’re enjoying your family!!! Have a blessed and happy year!🙏🏾🥰🙇🏾♀️
Balancing our hormones PLEASE 😁 I’m 19 and want to learn about that so much and from you!
Learning to “love” (maybe appreciate is a better word?) my period has changed my life for the better, I used to just feel so much dread when it would come around that I would neglect caring for my self and end up feeling worse. Now when I know it’s coming around I eat good foods, clean my room, clean my bedding and make it all comfortable, choose clean comfortable clothes to wear, take a shower right before, put a heating pad, water bottle and ibuprofen next to my bed, and I feel SO much better.
Pleas pray for my cousin Max he just passed away! Ask God to have mercy. God bless you all and thank you Jasmyne🤍
Yes, please! A video on balancing hormones naturally would be great! Thank you.
Thank you for making these videos. I’m not in a good place right now home wise, work wise or socially. All these videos help my perspective and keep me moving toward the healthy life I really would like to have ❤
Keep pushing forward Wiley. You will get there with perseverance. I’m in the same boat but a little farther into the journey and I can say it gets better and easier the more stick with it
@@Vbe796 ❤️will do! Thank you 😊🌼
Wiley Godspeed to you. Don’t give up! I had a terrible year so far I believe you will get through it all with trust in God. ❤
@@SerpicoVendemion 🦋💕🙏
I see your point where you come from, but two other RUclipsrs (Habits of a Homemaker & Bindi Marc) they do not describe Soft Life in that negative way. They don't teach it in a way of avoiding all work, struggle and stress, they talk more about how to change things and get a routine to help avoid unnecessary stress, so that you can slow down and enjoy the moment and be content in homemaking etc. However, I am glad to see you approaching this topic since there are some out there maybe showing it in the way you are describing
Please do make a video regarding our hormonal healtth, it would be amazing to talk about your experience with solving your hormonal problems❤
Good points👍 Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for watching!!
Didn't realise this until watching your video, but I think I may be arrogant... Good thing to learn so I can work on it!
hallo jasmyne, i trink you‘re a good kind of a woman and you inspirier me to be more feminine. After watching one video Iimmediately subcribsed to your channel. I really believe in your voice and words. I grew up with a single mother who always wanted me to be to become some sort of a career woman, to be independent, strong blabla. So, Now i am going to be married and I have found the one. what i was going to aim at is that being feminine doesn’t mean you are weak. It means embracing your natural self, how i was born and how god wanted me to be. Due to my I upbringing I struggle to put that into reality… I wanted to personally say thank you, you help me realising my aspirations. I listen to you, your voice is soothing and more meaningfully your words have depth. I think more people/ young women should hear what you say. Since feminism/ i rather call it „aggressive feminism“ so many young women believe that masculinity and femininity can be lived out in the same way or can be put on the same level. But that’s not right! Those two entities are far from being the same, they cannot be equal, they do not have the same character… You’re astoundingly pointing that out. I just want to say thank you and god bless and may the holy ghost lead all women on earth to recognising and embracing our true self, our femininity.
Yay u posted🥰🥰🥰
Thank you dear and yes for the video 👍
beautifully explained
Wonderful video! 🙏
Would you consider making a video on Liturgy/Mass outfits that look nice paired with veils?
Thank you for your videos. My parents are really woke and I felt something was wrong. I became a Christian years ago and I learned to cherish my. I didn’t realise how many subtle attacks there were on my gender until recently. Being feminine (not trans) these days is an act of rebellion.
Hello, I really like your videos, and I'd appreciate it if you could make a video about how to coop with anxiety. I think that's something that a lot of women go through especially when in public.
Hi Jasmyne, thank you for your videos, love them! I also like the background instrumentals as well. Do you want to share the source? Many thanks☺️
It be awesome to see you and Bindi Marc get together and chat!
Yes please for the vid on how to balance your hormones naturally!!
Yes! 🙌
Matthew 18:15 Talks about exactly what you mentioned when it comes to passive against it behavior.
i would love a video on how to balance our hormones :)))
Thank you sweetie 🤍🦋
Thank you sooo much 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Would love if you made a post about how to control your hormones naturally
I would like to offer a video idea, if you want to do this kind of video ofc! Can you make a video on how a woman in this modern world can be self preservant without seeming "boring" or stuck up/off putting to men? For example, if you don't want to have sex before you two are in a relationship? But your boyfriend/ a guy you are seeing, is sort of pressuring you into it, saying that if you don't want to "give him sex" that means you don't like him, you should chill out a bit etc. Are these relationships worth it or is it a sign that he's not mature yet and/or doesn't want a relationship with you? How to find a man that values you, how can you know he's the one? Those are just some of the questions going on in my head when thinking about modern relationships.
Thank you for your advices, your videos are meaningful 💕
I actually love getting my period now and hate being on birth control or having mirena IUD bc it makes me feel like I don’t know what’s going on. Plus when I’m on my period I have a reason to slow down and this is a good reminder. I see it as such now and it really makes me love my woman self.
Love your Videos. I hope you and your Baby is fine🙏🏾🙏🏾🐣 I would love to see a hair routine, they look always so good.
The video is so good but I NEED your hair routine
I love your content!❤️
What camera do you use for recording?
i’d love a video on how to balance hormones 😊💞
Okay but why doesn't anyone talk about how freaking pretty she is 😍
For the first time in 13 years I stopped taking the birth control pill completely after seeing your video about it. I had been thinking about it for almost a year already. I'm on my last "fake period" at the moment. I'm pretty nervous about it since I have severe chronic depression and anxiety, and almost weekly migraines (that I feel might be hormone related) that last multiple days. I don't want it to get worse because I'm at my worst right now. But I really want to see how I do without it. I'd absolutely love a video about balancing hormones because I feel like mine are all out of whack because of the amount of stress I feel daily. I hope stopping the pill will allow me to exercise more since I'm barely able to do that with the amount of migraines I have.
Hi! How's it been with you?
I hope things have stabilized as your natural cycle reestablished. I had hormonal migraines in the second half of my cycle which turned out to be triggered by an inability it properly utilise progesterone so it ended up throwing all sorts of other hormones off (it was one of many symptoms of PMDD for me). It is worth tracking where in your cycle migraines occur as they can be hormonal triggered, the benefit if they are is that they tend to reduce or disappear after menoupose.
Please make a video on balancing hormones and specifics on PCOS if you can.