Some folks forget that marriage is the STARTING line, not the finish line! Always improving ones self is critical to keeping the other person interested
Yes! So important to remember. It’s important to be comfortable around your spouse but not too comfortable that you no longer try to seduce them/get them to desire you. This really helps to keep a marriage fresh & exciting
I was on vacation with him and I went down to the pool to get some work done and chill and I couldn't get this wodden folding chair to open cause I wasn't strong enough and I needed it to sit at the table to work comfortably. So I text him "I need help" expecting him to reply asking what I needed help with. I kid you not, I put the phone down, turned around and in less than 5 seconds he was standing right behind me after having sprinted downstairs when he read my text😂. Besides being startled by his sudden appearance I immediately realised how much a man enjoys coming to the rescue when he's genuinely invested in you. I really think I've found my future husband 🥰
I can 100% agree on the "giving peace" part. When I met my husband, he always told me how his work would drain him out, both physically and mentally, and how I was the only person who gave him peace and a sense of calm.
@@LA-cm9uoNobody can give anyone peace it’s about coming together and being peaceful together, so can I be peaceful with you in my company or am I better off avoiding you ? Hope this helps
10 ways to keep your man interest * Give him problem to solve * He is attracted to your heart not accolades and accomplishment. * Don't try to compete with him * Be gentle yet firm with your boundaries * Don't appear feminine to beg a man * Be wholesome * Feminine mystery * Identify your unique feminine quirks * Don't make him think that you are more interested in him than you actually are.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
On the point of letting men be chivalrous, this reminds me of a quote from Uncle Iroh from ATLA where he says, "there is nothing wrong with letting people who love you help you," and I think this very much applies to us women in this context.
You are so so wise. My mother’s a feminist and I wasn’t raised in a Christian home (I became a Christian two years ago) so I am expected to be constantly chasing academic/career-related success, when in reality, I just want to be laid-back and bask in my femininity, serving my future husband and raising children. You are like the wise big sister I never had
Go for your academic success serving a husband is never a good option... listen to your mother, then study and embrace all the things that you do with this energy a femine one... femenine energy is not related at being uneducated...
You are a God sent. Me and my partner are clashing so much because of me still removing some of these modern women traits. Your videos are helping me everyday and staying consistent and checking myself everyday is really helping.
I am seeking to become a much more masculine man, and I’ve gain a new perspective on your side, and this truly feels so important for me to learn this. So I appreciate this Jasmyne
Thank u Jasmyne for educating women on such crucial topics. Our true power is in our femininity as women, sadly most women try to be like men and think men are attracted to what us women are attracted to. If u ask a woman what qualities she has that can keep a man she will name things that are not at all what masculine men want. I love being a traditional woman, being a nurturing and feminine inspiration to my masculine husband makes him give me everything above and beyond what i need cause thats what true femininity does to masculine man.
This has to be the best video I've found on this topic. I'm a pretty independent and confident girl, I know my values, I stay busy and productive, and I know I don't need a man. But as I'm starting to date someone I really like for my first time, I'm learning I need to fall back and let him be a man and embrace my femininity and the nature and beauty of the two working together in the way they were designed to. Thank you for the value you shared!
i need to heal my heart and my hormones - i’m very attracted to feminine men right now. which, would be fine, except being in my masculine is exhausting and hardening. i want to return to the femininity little me so easily expressed. 💗
Beautiful. I think many of us are ok this journey. I was stuck in my masculine and got burn out autoimmune hashimotos endometriosis etc. I know it’s related
Recently, my bike broke down (the chain fell off) and my husband was very unhappy and condescending of me when I asked for his help. He said I should be able to do such things by myself, because what if it happens when noone is around. And very often my husband behaves in a disrespectful way towards me when I don't know how to do some "manly stuff" :( I wish I could be feminine in that way, but all I get is contempt :((
Thanx Kenji💓🐺😏😂 a jawline that slice bread? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That's a thing? Have I been living under a rock. 1. Give masculine, problems to solve/ask for his help- express gratitude in his efforts and dedication. 2. He is attracted to your heart, not accolades/Build with him- I want to have fun with my masculine, I'm too goofy and playful to be serious all the time.🥰 3. Don't try to compete with him/ he has his friends and job for that- nurturing and peaceful oasis, for his day in the competitive world 4. Be gentle yet firm, with your boundaries- respect yourself, and do not allow something that bothers you by staying silent. Address your standards calmly, with patience, and maturely. Release the anger. 5. Do not appear feminine, to manipulate a man- true colors always come out eventually. 6. Be wholesome - Not the same as nativity, but pure serene kindness while remaining humble in my wisdom w/o being such a know it all. Free spirit innocence, hee hee😸 Don't allow world to dirty me up 7. Feminine mystery- Dressing modestly, and carrying myself like a slow opening gift. 8. Identify my unique, feminine quirks- embrace and express my lightheartedness and prankster quirk 9. Don't make him think, you are more impressed with him than you actually are- authentically express myself when it comes to my individual personality, my likes/dislikes (this I definitely know how to do) 10. Allow him to be chivalrous - let him walk on the outside of you, hold doors open for me, give up their seat for me (my father and mother taught me, the importance of this) as an act of protection and provision. 11. Do not mother him- offering solicited advice instead of interfering Dumplin' did all of these things for me💙🦁 all the time.
Dear Jasmyne: When the stand for biblical feminity reaches it's peaks in unpopularity and personal discomfort, please know that the practical wisdom and timeless truths you're expressing not only glow like a fabulous gem that shimmers light into a darkened room, but that it's brilliant rays of life shine hope on to a dying world, whose embrace would reverse it's downward spiral. O, would that my estranged wife and I had operated more fully in these principles with ourselves and each other! It would have made a positive difference for our marriage and family. So please continue to give us more of this great content... Yours truly..
Personally I’ve attracted healthy men when I’m not even thinking about how to attract them… I do, however, always have a vibrational match of what I want and that goes with everything For example I realized I get gifts so much because I’m always getting gifts like flowers for myself and other people see it
This video speaks louder especially after your testimony. I pray God continues to shift our beliefs and pains as loving and caring beliefs to be able to attract masculine men and live balanced relationships.
Thank you for the video Jasmyne. As a man that has seen some of the toxicity of current dating it is nice to hear a mature view for the rest of us that truly want a healthy relationship. One point I want to re-emphasize it. "Peace" is extremely important for some of us. Especially if we're trying to take our life to the next level for us and our family. We will work harder, endure bullshit from the outside and grind through long term plans as long as we have peace waiting for us at home 🙂. Typical story of the miner or soldier looking at a picture of his wife before heading back to the field. The reverse to that is the man that stops by a bar after work to have his moment of peace because he knows he's gonna get into something when he gets home
Thank you for talking about toxic femininity. I tend to lean that way, agreeable to a fault. I've never heard anyone talk about it and I'm glad I have something to work on in myself to better my marriage
Some people cannot just be their selves because they are terrible people. It’s insane. I am soooooo happy to have married my best friend in life and very thankful to the creator the almighty for bribing us together.
Can you talk about where you met your husband and how you had the conversation about saving yourself for marriage? I also am saving myself and it’s not easy to find a man with those values so I’d love to hear where you met.
We were both already Orthodox Christian when we began dating so chastity was already a value for us 💕 If you find a Christian man, there’s no having to worry about that conversation thankfully
I love your channel. I appreciate how polished and professional your videos are. You can tell you really consider what you are going to say down to the word.
Jasmyne, can you talk more about how you balance being a feminine Christian wife while also running your own business (being a businesswoman)? I’m struggling with finding balance between wanting to be a “homemaker” while also wanting to have some sort of job outside the home.
@dayliz it makes sense but just for more context, do you guys live together? If that’s the case then the years before having children should be more focused on you and your self and being as feminine as possible. Maybe you can balance working and being feminine, after all of the working do things that ignite that energy, take a nice bath with flowers and candles, do something as feminine to almost remind you of who you are as a woman.
I’m praying for clarity on this very thing. I currently work, but I am really feeling a strong desire to tend to my home more. Everything seems all over the place.
You can be a homely wife while running a business like when its just you and him be that homely wife ( if you have the energy to.) or in your home be that (although I do reccomend sharing household duties). But out of that be a boss woman i guess
it's impossible to be an extremely established businesswoman and a good homemaker at the same time, but it's definitely possible to find balance with a small business, especially if it's related to femininity/motherhood like a baby clothing business for example
i feel like crying. my mom was very emotionally unstable for a long time and treated my dad and my brother and i really badly growing up. she was angry and loud so often, and though i naturally do not have that in my nature, i did not grow up knowing how to be feminine. a family friend of our's mom was so similar to how i want to be growing up, and still today. i love my mom and she's a different person today but it doesn't help me now in navigating my marriage.
There's a downside to wholesomeness though, if you don't partake in the activities that most do (getting drunk, high, have random relations or dress a certain way) you're often left out. Maybe it's because I'm still a university student idk but I feel invisible because of the way I am. Have no one to talk to about it either.
I was the same way and always called myself an "old soul". Be okay with being left out of that. Nothing good comes of it and even if you partake in it you won'tbe happy with yourself. Find friends in other ways like a book club, church, or doing other activities you enjoy.
Being “left out” is much more preferable to “being included”, if “being included” means you have to downgrade yourself to acting like a wild animal lol. Like DearGeneva suggested, find some worthwhile activities and friends that will impact you positively. ❤
Hey I know this comment is old but you’re not missing out on anything. The reason I clicked on this video is actually because I HAVE had random relations, been doing drugs/getting drunk and I recently found a man who is very masculine wanting to provide for me. The main issue he has with me: I was too accessible and reckless. Be wholesome, stay wholesome. It’s worth it. Don’t end up in the same pit I did ❤
Dear Jasmyne, Thank you so much for these videos. Due to my home I have been forced to grow up quickly and while I’m still in high school the end goal for me is a strong Christian husband. In my past relationship I was on the same level of masculine energy as him which I do believe strongly ended our relationship. Now I have been forced to realize how much I was in my masculine and not okay. Your videos have helped so much and I deeply appreciate them
Thank you for giving us this treasure! Currently going through a breakup and reflecting and seeing how I've been a bit out of touch with my femininity and your videos have definitely helped. Can't wait for your upcoming videos ☺
Thank you so much Jasmyne for this video. I like how you addressed that being feminine doesn't mean not speaking up and setting boundaries. I think it's easy to not do that because of the fear of people thinking your confrontational but respect is key in any relationship that we have. (Im learning and praticing this as well). Great advice.
I absolutely admire how you & your husband had a friendship before marriage. Thus, could you please make a video on platonic relationships between men & women? We live in a world where "friends with benefits" is the talk of the day & people of opposite genders don't know how to truly be friends for the predominant thinking that one party wants something from the other. Also, could you please make a video on maturity? Everyone talks about it but what are the true qualities a mature woman possesses?💜
I agree! That would be a good topic because I see soo many people say men and women can’t be friends, someone always catches feelings. This has led me to be uncomfortable with having male friendships. Most of the male friendships I’ve had, the friend ends up liking me, even one friend that was married and I had to set him straight and cut him off.
I can't lie, this was the boost I needed.. you spoke of some things that really touched my like leading with my heart and grace.. God bless you sista 🥺😭😘❤️
I am the girl who when asked if anything's wrong, always answers "nothing". Even if I'm not fine. I have trouble opening up and showing my vulnerability sometimes. I hope someday it becomes easier.
I think all of these are nice tips, but I truly believe that if he genuinely likes you he‘ll be interested for a long time. just be yourself, it‘s really that simple.
This is my first video I came across with you and I subscribed immediately. So many others just reiterate what everyone else is saying but you have a fresh perspective and new information. Thank you. Be blessed.
I hope all women (and men) will watch your channel because our society needs that to happen; you are expressive and level-headed and speak the truth. I am very happy you found your way to the Orthodox Church which is your true home. (Being born into the Orthodox faith is just one of the undeserved blessings which have always surrounded me and given me strength... I grieve for all those who have not been so fortunate- I cannot understand how such a life can be endured.)
If you were not married I would openly compliment, besides I'm conserved, I don't go around complimenting women. I just feel compelled. You look natural, and this makes you look amazing. Your husband is lucky. He chose well. I'm sorry to deviate from your topic but I love your content. Thumbs up. I'll share your content with others, I believe we need it.
Jasmyne I love your hair and makeup! I always struggle trying to get my type 4 hair to look the way I want when it’s down. Also, your makeup is so light and natural but still so pretty. Can we get a hair and makeup tutorial?
Than you Jasmine! I'm trying to detox myself of the toxic femeninity world we are in and you give de advices I wish my mother ever gave to me. You are a help and a figure I can look up to ♥️
I've just started my journey towards connecting with my femininity. My husband is not as masculine as I would like, so I'm hoping that as I embrace my femininity that he will become the masculine man that I crave.
I am a male but I just wanted to watch to see if ladies really know what we want, and they do! I’m happy there are women like you teaching the younger generation of ladies how to be good in a relationship :)
My ex used to get extremely aggressive when I let myself grimace, I'm so disappointed i chose to argue instead of respecting my boundaries and moving on.
thank you for this!! could you maybe talk about HOW to gently set boundaries? what are some things to say if something makes you uncomfortable? i'm an insane people pleaser and can be a pushover if i don't want to say no and hurt someone's feelings
Thank you very much for awakening the features of true femininity in us, which the new standards of our time has almost eliminated.You also have a very calm and convincing style of dialogue, I love you very much and support everything you offer
I love your channel so much. You're like the place to go for modern wives 👏 you put everything into perspective so gracefully. Can't wait for the next video!
You can already see the trait of men being attracted to sweetness & wholesomeness at a very young age. My oldest boy always gravitated towards the sweet & demure types as young as 3. One day, he told me a certain Andy was cute. I thought Andy was a boy. Then his preschool teachers told me that he and Andy actually have a thing. He would always save her a seat & are always playing together. I realized my boy already has a “crush”. Couple years later, similar type of girl. He has a different smile (his dimples would come out) when I mention that girl’s name. He likes petite frame, quiet and innocent-looking ones. There are more outspoken girls in his class and one particular girl would approach him. This girl liked giving hugs and my son would stand there frozen. I asked him one time what he thought of that girl and he just nonchalantly answered, “she’s okay”. I didn’t see his dimples.
in a time where modernity became destructive instead of helpful, I really appreciate your effort in reminding people the basics; our natural essence and healthy traditional practices.
Some men are out here wasting women’s child bearing years then leaving them once the woman turns 30. Some give you a promise ring, get a place together and split the bills until he’s financially stable on his own and leaves. This didn’t happen to me but I’ve noticed this behavior quite a lot with couples.
Same as you and I am muslim .. I really love the concept of your channel. I feel that I lost my feminity with all the stress I go through life. It s time to heal 🌸
This is my first time watching your videos. I was immediately impressed by your calm, soft manner of speaking and the wisdom you were sharing. Then you mentioned a Jordan Peterson quote and I subscribed immediately. I love that your video is scientific and moral, as well as heartwarming. Wonderful advice, thank you ♥️ Edit: and now you’ve just quoted the Proverbs 31 woman ♥️🫅
Your video was just in time for me, for my period right now. I'm so thankful you're making content for all of us while being pregnant, I'm sure it's not that easy, thank you so so much!❤❤❤
Im so glad to hear that! Thank you for watching! The pregnancy has actually gotten easier in some ways, it fluctuates a lot but I feel really focused for some reason these days. Trying to take advantage of it! 💕
I'm so glad I found you! These reminders and tips are always super helpful because you're right, no one ever teaches us these things. Thank you a million times over!
its really interesting thinking about some of the opposites here. for example i dated a guy in my early 20s who i realized was attracted to my money. not that i am super rich but i was making around 65000 a year and he was making around 35000. i doordashed food for him more than i would like to admit and paid dinner bills way more than him. there are plenty of men who ARE interested in your money, and that is not a good thing haha.
I’ve read a lot of books, but women’s magic truths on borlest is on another level. It doesn’t just talk about vague concepts-it reveals secret techniques that can actually help you attract almost anything you want in life. This isn’t some watered-down law of attraction; it’s the real deal. You won’t believe what you’re missing out on until you read it.
Damn it’s so great to see a woman say these things. You understand men very well. I had to tell my girl number 2 one day. She was embarrassed if she didn’t get approved for a loan so she didn’t want me to drive her and support her. I told her that her finances weren’t important to me. I said that I’d fall in love with a woman who lives in a shelter, as long as her heart and mind are positive and genuine.
This is sweet to hear. I have gone through some career changes recently and have been feeling embarrassed about it. It was actually a reason I didn't want to date anyone at one point. But it's interesting to learn that a woman's career/finances is not really important to a man when he is interested in her. I've always heard, "You need to have it together" before being with someone, from both men and women. So this is eye-opening for me.
Thank you! Could you make a video about feminine date ideas? I don't feel comfortable with dates at home. I want the man to lead in planning dates, but maybe we can also suggest some things in between? Or how can we approach this best.
this was so beautiful, your elegance and poise resonated so much! I especially enjoyed your discussion on feminine mystery. That alone is a game changer piece of advice. :) thank you for a lovely video!
Your demeanour, voice and grace are inspiring. Much love from a new subbie in the UK. God bless you and thank you for sharing your gifts and insights. 🥰
I am watching this video because I want to improve my listening skills in english. So I get a good video, I am improving my listening skills and at the same time I am learning about the men. Thank you so much.
Some folks forget that marriage is the STARTING line, not the finish line! Always improving ones self is critical to keeping the other person interested
Yes! So important to remember. It’s important to be comfortable around your spouse but not too comfortable that you no longer try to seduce them/get them to desire you. This really helps to keep a marriage fresh & exciting
Wowwwwww as a newlywed this is a whole word!!!
@@JasmyneTheodora I'm lesbian
@@PrincessMavenKittyDarkholme dear sister pls turn to ur heart, it is unnatural
@@danielgeremew1465 is that wrong
"The best way to influence your man is by praying for him" Agreed!!
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I’ve seen God really work in my husband’s life in how he is both stronger and softer in the last few years
Love that
Absolutely
"What it takes to get a man to bed is not the same as what it takes to get a man to the alter" . Edges snatched 😫
Hehehe 💅🏽
I was on vacation with him and I went down to the pool to get some work done and chill and I couldn't get this wodden folding chair to open cause I wasn't strong enough and I needed it to sit at the table to work comfortably.
So I text him "I need help" expecting him to reply asking what I needed help with.
I kid you not, I put the phone down, turned around and in less than 5 seconds he was standing right behind me after having sprinted downstairs when he read my text😂.
Besides being startled by his sudden appearance I immediately realised how much a man enjoys coming to the rescue when he's genuinely invested in you. I really think I've found my future husband 🥰
I can 100% agree on the "giving peace" part. When I met my husband, he always told me how his work would drain him out, both physically and mentally, and how I was the only person who gave him peace and a sense of calm.
How did you do it?
@@LA-cm9uoNobody can give anyone peace it’s about coming together and being peaceful together, so can I be peaceful with you in my company or am I better off avoiding you ? Hope this helps
@@Woody2Times thanks. i've been working on being more peaceful myself & by myself
10 ways to keep your man interest
* Give him problem to solve
* He is attracted to your heart not accolades and accomplishment.
* Don't try to compete with him
* Be gentle yet firm with your boundaries
* Don't appear feminine to beg a man
* Be wholesome
* Feminine mystery
* Identify your unique feminine quirks
* Don't make him think that you are more interested in him than you actually are.
Let him be chivelrous
Thank you!
That last one
@@Bessatra what about it, I don't get.
I disagree with the first point - if you are intentionally creating problems that's a manipulative woman and a red flag
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
On the point of letting men be chivalrous, this reminds me of a quote from Uncle Iroh from ATLA where he says, "there is nothing wrong with letting people who love you help you," and I think this very much applies to us women in this context.
Atla back at it again with wise life lessons
I love ATLA and it’s wisdom!
I love my man so much. We hold our masculine & feminine polarities so sweetly. We’re so in love & to be submissive to him is an honor.
Sammeee with me and my man 😍 it’s such an honor
You are so so wise. My mother’s a feminist and I wasn’t raised in a Christian home (I became a Christian two years ago) so I am expected to be constantly chasing academic/career-related success, when in reality, I just want to be laid-back and bask in my femininity, serving my future husband and raising children. You are like the wise big sister I never had
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I really agree & resonate with your perspective! Coincidentally, I also don’t have an older sister lol
and then you get divorced and you don't have a career
@@kiwiverde8592 exactly lmao these damn pick mes
Go for your academic success serving a husband is never a good option... listen to your mother, then study and embrace all the things that you do with this energy a femine one... femenine energy is not related at being uneducated...
You are a God sent. Me and my partner are clashing so much because of me still removing some of these modern women traits. Your videos are helping me everyday and staying consistent and checking myself everyday is really helping.
So glad you find these videos valuable. Another coming soon this weekend 💞
It takes a strong woman to be admit that. Good luck ! (:
I am seeking to become a much more masculine man, and I’ve gain a new perspective on your side, and this truly feels so important for me to learn this. So I appreciate this Jasmyne
Thank u Jasmyne for educating women on such crucial topics. Our true power is in our femininity as women, sadly most women try to be like men and think men are attracted to what us women are attracted to. If u ask a woman what qualities she has that can keep a man she will name things that are not at all what masculine men want. I love being a traditional woman, being a nurturing and feminine inspiration to my masculine husband makes him give me everything above and beyond what i need cause thats what true femininity does to masculine man.
Thank you so much for watching and yes, I completely agree! 💖
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@@SassyYazzy1212 ??!
Blessings
Boom 💥
agree, having sex early does blind you. i’ve done this and it turned out to be one of my most toxic relationships. promise myself i’ll wait next time
This has to be the best video I've found on this topic. I'm a pretty independent and confident girl, I know my values, I stay busy and productive, and I know I don't need a man. But as I'm starting to date someone I really like for my first time, I'm learning I need to fall back and let him be a man and embrace my femininity and the nature and beauty of the two working together in the way they were designed to. Thank you for the value you shared!
i need to heal my heart and my hormones - i’m very attracted to feminine men right now. which, would be fine, except being in my masculine is exhausting and hardening. i want to return to the femininity little me so easily expressed. 💗
Beautiful. I think many of us are ok this journey. I was stuck in my masculine and got burn out autoimmune hashimotos endometriosis etc. I know it’s related
The adrenaline, cortisol and testosterone breaks us down and definitely causes problems.
I'll be praying for you ❤️
@@redacted461 thank you 💗
I’ve seen the way men reacted when I curse, shocked … almost disgusted lol
I’ve stopped doing that since then 😅
Thank you for the tips💛
Thank you for watching!!
@cake yah exactly not all men will immediately love you if you do whats in the video its vastly different for everyone
Recently, my bike broke down (the chain fell off) and my husband was very unhappy and condescending of me when I asked for his help. He said I should be able to do such things by myself, because what if it happens when noone is around. And very often my husband behaves in a disrespectful way towards me when I don't know how to do some "manly stuff" :( I wish I could be feminine in that way, but all I get is contempt :((
If he is behaving that way, what does the rest of your marriage look like? He doesn't seem like a caring person.
He might grew up with masculine mother or caregiver, so he thinks women should be able to do things for themselves.
Thanx Kenji💓🐺😏😂 a jawline that slice bread? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That's a thing? Have I been living under a rock.
1. Give masculine, problems to solve/ask for his help- express gratitude in his efforts and dedication.
2. He is attracted to your heart, not accolades/Build with him- I want to have fun with my masculine, I'm too goofy and playful to be serious all the time.🥰
3. Don't try to compete with him/ he has his friends and job for that- nurturing and peaceful oasis, for his day in the competitive world
4. Be gentle yet firm, with your boundaries- respect yourself, and do not allow something that bothers you by staying silent. Address your standards calmly, with patience, and maturely. Release the anger.
5. Do not appear feminine, to manipulate a man- true colors always come out eventually.
6. Be wholesome - Not the same as nativity, but pure serene kindness while remaining humble in my wisdom w/o being such a know it all. Free spirit innocence, hee hee😸 Don't allow world to dirty me up
7. Feminine mystery- Dressing modestly, and carrying myself like a slow opening gift.
8. Identify my unique, feminine quirks- embrace and express my lightheartedness and prankster quirk
9. Don't make him think, you are more impressed with him than you actually are- authentically express myself when it comes to my individual personality, my likes/dislikes (this I definitely know how to do)
10. Allow him to be chivalrous - let him walk on the outside of you, hold doors open for me, give up their seat for me (my father and mother taught me, the importance of this) as an act of protection and provision.
11. Do not mother him- offering solicited advice instead of interfering
Dumplin' did all of these things for me💙🦁 all the time.
As a young Christian man I’ll say this is great content for the young women out there !!!
Thank you!!
Dear Jasmyne:
When the stand for biblical feminity reaches it's peaks in unpopularity and personal discomfort, please know that the practical wisdom and timeless truths you're expressing not only glow like a fabulous gem that shimmers light into a darkened room, but that it's brilliant rays of life shine hope on to a dying world, whose embrace would reverse it's downward spiral. O, would that my estranged wife and I had operated more fully in these principles with ourselves and each other! It would have made a positive difference for our marriage and family. So please continue to give us more of this great content...
Yours truly..
Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a kind message. 🥹
Personally I’ve attracted healthy men when I’m not even thinking about how to attract them…
I do, however, always have a vibrational match of what I want and that goes with everything
For example I realized I get gifts so much because I’m always getting gifts like flowers for myself and other people see it
everything in her is just beautiful, her skin is caramel and glowing .. her voice is like a disney character I love her
You're really right. A masculine man would always tell you he likes you
Thank you so much for educating us young women on the importance and power of the feminine energy. It’s something that has been lost 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for watching, I really appreciate it 🥹
Omg AR self. I love your videos!!!!
Seriously, are you getting educated by RUclips through videos of random people? the are a lot of crazy people that do videos
Thank you for this. I love being feminine and I feel this opened my eyes a lot. It’s exhausting how society pushes you to be so masculine.
I wish they would take down negative social medias and keep the positive ones
I cannot relay clearly enough how impressed I am with the wisdom and grace that you so clearly have! I will be sharing your videos!
I am so impressed with the way you carry yourself and the way you speak so softly and humbly. I will definitely be tuning in, more.
This video speaks louder especially after your testimony. I pray God continues to shift our beliefs and pains as loving and caring beliefs to be able to attract masculine men and live balanced relationships.
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Pray for those masculine men to be caring as well
Thank you for the video Jasmyne. As a man that has seen some of the toxicity of current dating it is nice to hear a mature view for the rest of us that truly want a healthy relationship. One point I want to re-emphasize it. "Peace" is extremely important for some of us. Especially if we're trying to take our life to the next level for us and our family. We will work harder, endure bullshit from the outside and grind through long term plans as long as we have peace waiting for us at home 🙂. Typical story of the miner or soldier looking at a picture of his wife before heading back to the field. The reverse to that is the man that stops by a bar after work to have his moment of peace because he knows he's gonna get into something when he gets home
Thank you for talking about toxic femininity. I tend to lean that way, agreeable to a fault. I've never heard anyone talk about it and I'm glad I have something to work on in myself to better my marriage
Some people cannot just be their selves because they are terrible people. It’s insane. I am soooooo happy to have married my best friend in life and very thankful to the creator the almighty for bribing us together.
Can you talk about where you met your husband and how you had the conversation about saving yourself for marriage? I also am saving myself and it’s not easy to find a man with those values so I’d love to hear where you met.
We were both already Orthodox Christian when we began dating so chastity was already a value for us 💕 If you find a Christian man, there’s no having to worry about that conversation thankfully
I can confirm all of these. I practiced them before I met my husband/when I met him and value them even more to keep up my part in our marriage ❤
I love your channel. I appreciate how polished and professional your videos are. You can tell you really consider what you are going to say down to the word.
Thank you so much. I do try to plan my videos out thoroughly, I really don’t want to lead anyone astray 💕
So so good! ESP the toxic femininity and letting things slide with our boundaries! Thank you
Thank you! And thank you for watching!
she is so well spoken, Miss Jasmyne can you make a video about how to speak like a lady but still be firm in situations when you need to.. thank you
yes please this!!! i need help with this so bad. as a teen in today’s society i follow a lot of what other people do. :(
Yes!
Please keep these videos coming!! Just got engaged and wanna be the most biblical and feminine wife I can be!! ❤️
Congratulations✨
@@Ryderschae thank you!! ☺️
Congratulations! Wishing you a very happy wedding and marriage!
Congratulations! God bless you and yours
Congrats !!!
Jasmyne, can you talk more about how you balance being a feminine Christian wife while also running your own business (being a businesswoman)? I’m struggling with finding balance between wanting to be a “homemaker” while also wanting to have some sort of job outside the home.
@dayliz it makes sense but just for more context, do you guys live together? If that’s the case then the years before having children should be more focused on you and your self and being as feminine as possible.
Maybe you can balance working and being feminine, after all of the working do things that ignite that energy, take a nice bath with flowers and candles, do something as feminine to almost remind you of who you are as a woman.
I’m praying for clarity on this very thing. I currently work, but I am really feeling a strong desire to tend to my home more. Everything seems all over the place.
You can be a homely wife while running a business like when its just you and him be that homely wife ( if you have the energy to.) or in your home be that (although I do reccomend sharing household duties). But out of that be a boss woman i guess
it's impossible to be an extremely established businesswoman and a good homemaker at the same time, but it's definitely possible to find balance with a small business, especially if it's related to femininity/motherhood like a baby clothing business for example
i feel like crying. my mom was very emotionally unstable for a long time and treated my dad and my brother and i really badly growing up. she was angry and loud so often, and though i naturally do not have that in my nature, i did not grow up knowing how to be feminine. a family friend of our's mom was so similar to how i want to be growing up, and still today. i love my mom and she's a different person today but it doesn't help me now in navigating my marriage.
There's a downside to wholesomeness though, if you don't partake in the activities that most do (getting drunk, high, have random relations or dress a certain way) you're often left out. Maybe it's because I'm still a university student idk but I feel invisible because of the way I am. Have no one to talk to about it either.
I was the same way and always called myself an "old soul". Be okay with being left out of that. Nothing good comes of it and even if you partake in it you won'tbe happy with yourself. Find friends in other ways like a book club, church, or doing other activities you enjoy.
Being “left out” is much more preferable to “being included”, if “being included” means you have to downgrade yourself to acting like a wild animal lol. Like DearGeneva suggested, find some worthwhile activities and friends that will impact you positively. ❤
Hey I know this comment is old but you’re not missing out on anything. The reason I clicked on this video is actually because I HAVE had random relations, been doing drugs/getting drunk and I recently found a man who is very masculine wanting to provide for me. The main issue he has with me: I was too accessible and reckless. Be wholesome, stay wholesome. It’s worth it. Don’t end up in the same pit I did ❤
Thanks for this. I’m 19 and single but it’s nice to hear advice for when the time comes. New subscriber 💗
Dear Jasmyne,
Thank you so much for these videos. Due to my home I have been forced to grow up quickly and while I’m still in high school the end goal for me is a strong Christian husband. In my past relationship I was on the same level of masculine energy as him which I do believe strongly ended our relationship. Now I have been forced to realize how much I was in my masculine and not okay. Your videos have helped so much and I deeply appreciate them
Thank you for giving us this treasure! Currently going through a breakup and reflecting and seeing how I've been a bit out of touch with my femininity and your videos have definitely helped. Can't wait for your upcoming videos ☺
Thank you so much Jasmyne for this video. I like how you addressed that being feminine doesn't mean not speaking up and setting boundaries. I think it's easy to not do that because of the fear of people thinking your confrontational but respect is key in any relationship that we have. (Im learning and praticing this as well). Great advice.
I absolutely admire how you & your husband had a friendship before marriage.
Thus, could you please make a video on platonic relationships between men & women?
We live in a world where "friends with benefits" is the talk of the day & people of opposite genders don't know how to truly be friends for the predominant thinking that one party wants something from the other.
Also, could you please make a video on maturity? Everyone talks about it but what are the true qualities a mature woman possesses?💜
I agree! That would be a good topic because I see soo many people say men and women can’t be friends, someone always catches feelings. This has led me to be uncomfortable with having male friendships. Most of the male friendships I’ve had, the friend ends up liking me, even one friend that was married and I had to set him straight and cut him off.
Hello, I would recommend Pastor R C Blakes Jr. youtube channel for those things.
And the late Dr. Myles Munroe
@legendaryclarity6273 Hello!
Thank you very much for your recommendations! I will definitely make research accordingly.
I can't lie, this was the boost I needed.. you spoke of some things that really touched my like leading with my heart and grace.. God bless you sista 🥺😭😘❤️
I am the girl who when asked if anything's wrong, always answers "nothing". Even if I'm not fine. I have trouble opening up and showing my vulnerability sometimes. I hope someday it becomes easier.
Been binging your videos! Absolutely love this channel and your overall message that I aim to embody ❤
Ohhh thank you so much. I’ll be uploading more often up until mid December when bebe arrives so please stay tuned!
I think all of these are nice tips, but I truly believe that if he genuinely likes you he‘ll be interested for a long time. just be yourself, it‘s really that simple.
That’s a feminist idea it’s not biological especially if you’re not feminine
This is my first video I came across with you and I subscribed immediately. So many others just reiterate what everyone else is saying but you have a fresh perspective and new information. Thank you. Be blessed.
Yay a new video! Thank you Jasmyne. Yesterday my crush asked me out and this video will really help.
I hope you enjoy it ❤️❤️
I hope all women (and men) will watch your channel because our society needs that to happen; you are expressive and level-headed and speak the truth. I am very happy you found your way to the Orthodox Church which is your true home. (Being born into the Orthodox faith is just one of the undeserved blessings which have always surrounded me and given me strength... I grieve for all those who have not been so fortunate- I cannot understand how such a life can be endured.)
If you were not married I would openly compliment, besides I'm conserved, I don't go around complimenting women. I just feel compelled. You look natural, and this makes you look amazing. Your husband is lucky. He chose well. I'm sorry to deviate from your topic but I love your content. Thumbs up. I'll share your content with others, I believe we need it.
Thank you Jasmyne for sharing this.
This will help a lot of persons both married and single.
Thanks for saying this and for watching 🙏💖
I am adding “a jawline that cuts bread” to my list 😂😂
Theodora - (God's gift) is exactly what you are! Thank you and God bless you and yours!
Jasmyne I love your hair and makeup! I always struggle trying to get my type 4 hair to look the way I want when it’s down. Also, your makeup is so light and natural but still so pretty. Can we get a hair and makeup tutorial?
Thissss!!! Please we really need this
Than you Jasmine! I'm trying to detox myself of the toxic femeninity world we are in and you give de advices I wish my mother ever gave to me. You are a help and a figure I can look up to ♥️
It’s always so peaceful and safe everytime I watch your videos 🥹💚 thank you!
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I've just started my journey towards connecting with my femininity. My husband is not as masculine as I would like, so I'm hoping that as I embrace my femininity that he will become the masculine man that I crave.
Jasmyne, this video is a masterpiece. Brava! This is so educational, down to earth and factual. I am inspired by this beautiful video.
How thoughtful 🥹🥹 thank you endlessly for saying this
I am a male but I just wanted to watch to see if ladies really know what we want, and they do! I’m happy there are women like you teaching the younger generation of ladies how to be good in a relationship :)
you are more than adorable and a breath of for fresh air, ty for your standards, religious beliefs & convictions...I agree 100%!
My ex used to get extremely aggressive when I let myself grimace, I'm so disappointed i chose to argue instead of respecting my boundaries and moving on.
thank you for this!! could you maybe talk about HOW to gently set boundaries? what are some things to say if something makes you uncomfortable? i'm an insane people pleaser and can be a pushover if i don't want to say no and hurt someone's feelings
Thank you very much for awakening the features of true femininity in us, which the new standards of our time has almost eliminated.You also have a very calm and convincing style of dialogue, I love you very much and support everything you offer
I love your channel so much. You're like the place to go for modern wives 👏 you put everything into perspective so gracefully. Can't wait for the next video!
It's my first time listening to your content and I love it
It's refreshing not hearing the toxic feminity being preached around
You can already see the trait of men being attracted to sweetness & wholesomeness at a very young age. My oldest boy always gravitated towards the sweet & demure types as young as 3. One day, he told me a certain Andy was cute. I thought Andy was a boy. Then his preschool teachers told me that he and Andy actually have a thing. He would always save her a seat & are always playing together. I realized my boy already has a “crush”. Couple years later, similar type of girl. He has a different smile (his dimples would come out) when I mention that girl’s name. He likes petite frame, quiet and innocent-looking ones. There are more outspoken girls in his class and one particular girl would approach him. This girl liked giving hugs and my son would stand there frozen. I asked him one time what he thought of that girl and he just nonchalantly answered, “she’s okay”. I didn’t see his dimples.
in a time where modernity became destructive instead of helpful, I really appreciate your effort in reminding people the basics; our natural essence and healthy traditional practices.
i love this video so much ! thank you so much for your videos 🥹
Some men are out here wasting women’s child bearing years then leaving them once the woman turns 30. Some give you a promise ring, get a place together and split the bills until he’s financially stable on his own and leaves. This didn’t happen to me but I’ve noticed this behavior quite a lot with couples.
I get so excited when I get upload notifications from you !!!!!!! Thanks so much for the education and words of wisdom.
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Such great advice. I hope RUclips doesn't cancel it.
Same as you and I am muslim .. I really love the concept of your channel. I feel that I lost my feminity with all the stress I go through life. It s time to heal 🌸
I am in the middle of learning this even though I’ve been married for 8 years. Thank you for this!
This is my first time watching your videos. I was immediately impressed by your calm, soft manner of speaking and the wisdom you were sharing.
Then you mentioned a Jordan Peterson quote and I subscribed immediately.
I love that your video is scientific and moral, as well as heartwarming.
Wonderful advice, thank you ♥️
Edit: and now you’ve just quoted the Proverbs 31 woman ♥️🫅
😔omo.... I know understand at all
Your channel is a gem for single women- your subscribers are so lucky!
Your video was just in time for me, for my period right now. I'm so thankful you're making content for all of us while being pregnant, I'm sure it's not that easy, thank you so so much!❤❤❤
Im so glad to hear that! Thank you for watching! The pregnancy has actually gotten easier in some ways, it fluctuates a lot but I feel really focused for some reason these days. Trying to take advantage of it! 💕
I'm new to Christianity so happy 😊 to subscribe to this channel 💗
I'm so glad I found you! These reminders and tips are always super helpful because you're right, no one ever teaches us these things. Thank you a million times over!
Also never ask a man out that stuff can turn a friend who’s secretly crushing on you into an uninterested stranger.
What a breath of fresh air.... thank you.
its really interesting thinking about some of the opposites here. for example i dated a guy in my early 20s who i realized was attracted to my money. not that i am super rich but i was making around 65000 a year and he was making around 35000. i doordashed food for him more than i would like to admit and paid dinner bills way more than him. there are plenty of men who ARE interested in your money, and that is not a good thing haha.
You’re back again ,your videos have thought me a lot so I’m always waiting for you 🎉❤️
That’s so kind of you to say, thank you! I’ll be uploading more often up until bebe arrives in December so please do stay tuned for more! 💖
@@JasmyneTheodora Most welcome and God bless you abundantly ❤️
You're so well worded! Thank you for the advice
Thank you so much and thank you so much for listening
Thank you so much Jasmyne 💕 I love how you explain it so well. Will surely implement them👌
Thank you for watching!! 💖💖
“A jawline that can slice bread”
So happy I came across your videos ❤
I’ve read a lot of books, but women’s magic truths on borlest is on another level. It doesn’t just talk about vague concepts-it reveals secret techniques that can actually help you attract almost anything you want in life. This isn’t some watered-down law of attraction; it’s the real deal. You won’t believe what you’re missing out on until you read it.
Damn it’s so great to see a woman say these things. You understand men very well.
I had to tell my girl number 2 one day. She was embarrassed if she didn’t get approved for a loan so she didn’t want me to drive her and support her. I told her that her finances weren’t important to me. I said that I’d fall in love with a woman who lives in a shelter, as long as her heart and mind are positive and genuine.
This is sweet to hear. I have gone through some career changes recently and have been feeling embarrassed about it. It was actually a reason I didn't want to date anyone at one point. But it's interesting to learn that a woman's career/finances is not really important to a man when he is interested in her. I've always heard, "You need to have it together" before being with someone, from both men and women. So this is eye-opening for me.
Thank you! Could you make a video about feminine date ideas? I don't feel comfortable with dates at home. I want the man to lead in planning dates, but maybe we can also suggest some things in between? Or how can we approach this best.
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this was so beautiful, your elegance and poise resonated so much! I especially enjoyed your discussion on feminine mystery. That alone is a game changer piece of advice. :) thank you for a lovely video!
So glad!
She's like a breath of fresh air 😇
Your demeanour, voice and grace are inspiring. Much love from a new subbie in the UK. God bless you and thank you for sharing your gifts and insights. 🥰
That was so true and so sweetly put. I love your videos teaching the art of feminity 😊
I am watching this video because I want to improve my listening skills in english. So I get a good video, I am improving my listening skills and at the same time I am learning about the men. Thank you so much.
I have heard multiple times....Men appreciate Peaceful Oasis @ Home
I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy
Thank you so much! Approaching the finish line!
I love that you back these tips up with Bible verses. Thank you for your content!
She is not Christian