How to Keep Him Interested Forever | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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- Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
- Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and how to keep your man interested forever.
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
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Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
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My partner actually said to me "You are gravity! You are continually pulling me to you!" And that caused my heart to melt even more!!!!!
Being positive and happy all the time is what keep my suitors coming back.
No drama and if I have issues going on I never tell them since I am not in a relationship with them.
Also I never act needy. If they don't text or forget I just relax and let them do them.
I learned that giving them freedom to choose is the best way to know if they are really interested.
When a man really wants to be with you.
He'll make it happen even when you are not sleeping with him.
I date without sex at all.
I date the old fashion way.
Now I have 3 men who stays in the zone trying to win my heart.
Why, because women should learn to love themselves enough that no man is needed to make them happy.
Be fulfilled with your own life and he will want to be a part of your world.
Great advice!
Yes!❤❤ im in this
Amazing!!❤
So true!❤ I am like that naturally!
"The universe doesn't see your intention. It sees your attention." That hit home to me!
Where your focus goes energy flows!
Step number 1: Find a man like Mat.
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Lol 😂
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Just be yourself. The right one will find you intresting for eternal ❤️
Being myself means accepting the fact that I’ll be alone for life 😫💔 and I can’t have that
I want kids and a family too someday
@@rbuk001 being single is not that bad. I'm loving it more now that I am in my forties.
The only problem is that most have horrible personalities.
Being oneself means being a B*tch.
Get away from this channel
You can’t fake love. Just be who you are and he will find you.
Mathew Boggs
How to keep him interesting forever
1. Give him your attention
2. Hive him micro challenges ;goal, gap, time line
3. Give him random wet kisses
4. Encourage his space
5. Give your self rejuvenation time
6. Give the relationship variety
Have wonderful weekend💐
Accepted Challenge no 6 ! 🤗
What i found relationship always interesting is that we r always in the same vibe, evaluate our relationship and both crave challenges-variety♥️
Thanks! 💚
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Was looking for this summary! I gave him challenge to build his arm muscles and be ready that u carry me in your arms on my next birthday . He listened and seemed interested initially but I don’t see him motivated at all ☹️. Never touched those dumbbells after 😜
you just saved 13minutes of my life
Every guy needs their space, so do woman 100%
Yes, I agree both persons in a relationship need their space. It's absolutely healthy! If I don't get my time, I feel smothered! Someone who MUST be with their partner every moment is NEEDY!
Everything the video said applies to both genders.
As a young man I remember the emptiness and the feeling of having no direction in life. From evolutional perspective men have one single task; to take care of the family. That's why young men are often reckless and all over the place. As soon they find someone they typically lose interest in goofing around.
The next feeling of emptiness comes when you have kids. Wifes attention goes to the children, as it should, but the man often feels like he is just someone that pays the bills. Remember ladys, that your guy is not made from stone, he needs to feel that you appreciate the things he does for you and the family and here's where Matt's advices comes handy. You need own time as well as a couple. 👍🏻
Kyosti5000 try to organize the nice dates for your wife and hire a nanny one evening a week. Like, one day a week you aren’t parents . You don’t come back home until the kids are in bed. If you can’t afford the weekly nanny try to get friends to keep the kids for you and you do it for them as well once a week :)
After work go for a walk with your wife if possible or take a bath with her. If not possible buy her her favorite pastry once a week or flowers
Update me on this
A question: do you feel like having a family and a wife made you want to work harder and make more money ?
@@legdaytacos62 Thank you for your kind pieces of advice. I love taking care of my family. I often buy something nice to my wife and I really love to se her smile.
To answer to your question. I've always been a hard worker. It's just now that I have small kids and a house I need more money to pay for the expenses.
As a woman, I appreciate your comment and advice :) I hope to someday do this when I am married.
My husband and I have been married for two years now, and we definitely give each other space. My husband is a hobbiest and likes to enjoy his hobbies with his buddies, so they get time together; I get quiet me-time and time to catch-up with girlfriends. It definitely refreshes us and makes appreciate and love each other more when we come back together.
Challenges don’t work for narcissists. They always expect something in return, they don’t thrive off of hugs and love
So don't be with a narcissist
No one does kid.
@@AnantyaV pretty sure it was just some it advice man
Unfortunately, nothing works on a narcissist lol
I have a friend serving in Iraq. I sent a voice reading of a wonderful book called The Velveteen Rabbit. While listed as a children's book, it is about love. In the past I read this book cuddled up with a boyfriend who loved it!
Thought I would see how a voice reading would do. He loved it! This way when ever he has had a hard day( he is a surgeon), he has my voice to uplift him.
Wow!
Great idea.
And giving instead of demanding.
Unique approach.
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Damn I love how he is all about his wife! 🌸 #Luckyher🥰
I have so much respect for men who are crazy in love with their wives (1man:1woman).
Trishamol Thomas I love that about Matt too.
Me too! I question dating coaches that are single. lol
The way it should be
of course, he has to be an example of his own sayings
I agree with him that this
80% HIM/INTERVIEW approach is important on a FIRST DATE
in particular.
Let him tell you about himself FIRST. One of the mistakes that women make is they reveal too much about themselves and about their expectations right out of the gate without allowing space for a man to make an effort, first to REVEAL HIMSELF AUTHENTICALLY and then to get to know you over time so that you know that the person in front of you is the real him.
If you give a man a laundry list of everything you want/expect he will attempt to be those things in order to sleep with you. It's almost irresistible for most men if you hand him a blueprint to yourself on the first date. He has to earn learning about your life by revealing himself so you know whether you are actually interested in him first!
Apologies mam! I am a man and we don't like mind games from women. For us, women are meant to be gentle, soft like flowers with some innocence. If she tries to play this game or some mind game intentionally make us do something then I think we can't trust that woman for a lifetime relationship. Unfortunately! And sometimes, it's a huge turn off.
Not a realistic approach.
A long list of demands will not inspire him.
Men's list include the woman being a teenage beauty. Can that be fulfilled?
It makes the woman appear like someone looking for a slave.
Not all man are wired the same !! Or not all women want the same things . Just a thought
@@krishnatejadubbaka2542 but her comment isn't about playing mind games. Just don't sit on the first date talking about yourself the whole time and the laundry list of things you want. Allow the relationship to unfold naturally and he can learn about the woman over time. There is no "mind game" in that.
When I would ask my man to do little things for me, I felt a better connection to him and thought he was happier I never actually understood what all this meant, now I do! Micro-challenges!
While this will help... it will still depend on what kind of a man you picked.
Yes! Thank God i picked the right BF!
1. Give him your attention. Let him talk 80percent
2. Mini challenges.
3. Random wet kisses hug him.
4. Encourage him to go fishing. Lol. guy time when hes restless.
5. Give yourself rejuvenation time. Your happy = hes happy. Gift.
6. Variety. Brand new thing every month. Hike.activity. play a game. Movie. Try something different
Thank you!
I like this
Matt I don't kiss on the first date.Im trying to.get to know him
Hugs and kisses
Let him talk 80% of the time? Because THAT sounds like a healthy, egalitarian relationship 😅
FYI-this is not only how men feel, women like and require the same sort of treatment...
Truth!
Yes you are very right.
and that i find very interesting because i have found that with EVERY relationship ive had as soon as i start asking is when the problems start. its all about him and if not then there's demise.
Because I have a voice and use it... How I choose to do that in no way requires your approval or agreement. Arturo Asael, i see that you are some sort of speaker...your comment is even more bazzaar and arrogant .
That's when I knew my marriage was over, when he no longer needed anything from me or asked anything of me.
sounds helpful, i'm w him for 10 years and sometimes he kinda ignores me and i feel so... i don't know how to explain this... miserable? But yeah, relationship between me and my man is sometimes hard . but at least i enjoy every moment w him in bed . he was always so bad there but after i bought him 6 packs of natural drops spanish fly he wanted me to buy more of them (i think he literally said 100) so great results
To make a man like Matt, obviously you need good parents also. He has had good upbringing.
I do my own thing. He lives me more.
Hi, Mathew! I just want to congratulate you for your very successful youtube channel! I know you will go a long, long way! I have been consistently watching and gaining a lot of wisdom from your videos. You have been such a big guide towards my journey, in my love life and life in general. More power to you! God bless! 😊
I gave all my attention, he just take me for granted.
Give him, and yourself, the space! You both need that.
I try not to hit my anger for my bf.
When I felt angry,gently tell him how sad I was.
Because an angry face is hard to love.
I watching this video from japan.
It was helpful for me!
I can learn English and about love at the sametime.
Thank you so much!
When each one is individually happy in his own world, and the other worries that he continues to be. Happiness is magnificent in your relationship. That's it. ✨🌈💞
How to keep long distance relationship interesting?
Edit: we had long distance relationship for 6 years until last year I moved to his city. I was asking for pandemic. Stop saying it doesn't work. We are living breathing prove that it works. And we are getting married and in my culture marriage is for life.
Don’t do long distance relationships..! It just doesn’t work..
@@geneviveross4234: You're so right it doesn't work, cuz that person most likely cheating on you. Or lying to you about something !!
Lookup Matthew Coast
Find someone local.
Don’t listen to the negative comments you can find someone local who could still end up cheating and lying to you. You run the risk with all relationships. The same rules he says can be applied to LDR.
Thanks for giving us the clues- and being a freaking genius!!!!!
Thanks Mat, for another great video! I"m in a relationship with a man that has a career that causes him to be "dark"(he can't call or text) during the assignment. I write him letters to read when he returns, called After Dark Letters. I create guessing games, send him photos of funny things I see while I'm out and about, and I even code the letters so he has to figure out the order to read them. It's a way I can feel like I'm still connected and I can't wait until he gets home to see what I've created for him. P.S. He doesn't read the letters in front of me. I allow him time to read them by himself.
Fashionals! I love that word. Thanks for this video, Matt. Been a while since I got some new tips from u. Best regards.
I really like videos like this one which is aimed at people who are in relationships. I am married for almost 10 years and there are some nice reminders and good advice in this video. - Would love to see more of this kind of videos.
Hi Mathew
I just wanted to say I’m in a long distance relationship and all your wonderful videos give me imagination to continue to keep our fired up!!!! Thx for just being YOU!!!
I’m very grateful 🙏🏼
“Hey honey, I’d love to do something new this weekend, would you take me out?”
Four possible outcomes to this situation
1. Sure, sounds fun… plan something I’m down to do
2. Sure, sounds fun! (Weekend comes and he asks what I planned)
3. Can’t gotta work
4. He says sure then completely forgets
lol why waiting for him to take you out when you can take him out instead? Men also appreciate women with determination and power
I’m glad I found your channel! You have fresh ideas and good humor! Love that!❤️
Mathew I love minute 10! VERY important in every relationship! I have ended with love of my life cause he never permited me to have my own time or go somewhere without him. He had big problems with selfesteem and we were young that time. But that means everything. And doesn't matter how much you love someone you cannot support being only dedicated to him.
Sounds like he was controlling
I love the challenge to do new things once a month to create new experiences! I cant wait to start this!
I have found that telling to each other new curious things keeps the relationship and him interested. I just write down some cool pieces of knowledge I get through my studies-conversations with others-media etc. which I think will interest him. In this way every time we see us I have some content he will listen with pleasure and will learn something from it. As I really appreciate people which can teach me something, open some new view, I also try to share to be interesting. Another thing is a list of really curious, deep questions which we have made (Internet sources) and try at least once a week to ask ourselves some questions to know a bit more of each other. The third positive thing I can mention is switching languages. Once a week we make an English day when we only speak English which adds a big variety to the story.
Thanks Boggs! Great advice ! 🙌🏽
Your best one yet! Thank you for sharing!
Thanks Matthew for this great instructive video. Really appreciated. Bless 🤗
I smile and giggle every time Matt mentions his Family anecdotes!! :)
Love your video, i think that's great advice! I found that not talking over text much or at all helps. For example if it's absolutely necessary you can text your man what he needs to know or whatever but other than that just exclusively communicate face to face. I feel like that makes life way easier and more relaxed because you don't have to care about what's happening on your phone or worry about your partner when you're with friends or at work. This might come across wrong but if both partners are on the same page about this, I find it very rejuvenating.
Ty. For the Tips. Matt. You are Amazing!! 😊
I tell him what I like about what he does so he gets the reward and so he will be more apt to do it again! For instance, we only see each other every or every other week. He chooses to call me every day. I love that and I have told him so! I value our phone callls!
The part he says "I felt good because she felt good" Couldn't relate to more. I don't mind if *hit rains as long I can see her smiling. I know I've been a good husband and a father taking care of my family. Men are hardwired that way I guess.
Thanks you for this videos!
Oh my heavens, every guy I've had a date with has talked non stop about himself. I encourage it of course as otherwise there would be no conversation as they never ask even a reciprocal question. And the one thing in common is they like to make sure you know when his birthday is and what he likes to do to celebrate....when they are over 50! Seriously.
Now I get it why am still single 😂
HA HA HA HA
I love the time with friends we do this regularly it’s a refresh button
Such an interesting and informative ways and believed it's perfect. Well, my LDR I did not meet yet I let him take his time to do his thing what you called space and let him breathe not obligating him to see him most of his free time to chat. I observed he is happy with it. Liked let him talk more by getting his attention and give him a challenge
Wow!!! I will treasure this valuable information!!! Thank you so much Matt
Hello mazol
Hi there, Mat. I've been watching your videos for a while now, and as someone in a long-term relationship, can I just offer my sincere thanks for your insights into the male psyche? Sometimes life gets busy, and it's easy to forget to appreciate our favourite person, but your words have reminded me to pay him some proper attention. So, again, thank you.
So good! Thank you!
Thank you 🙏
Very valuable information 😇
Hi Boggs😊always love your videos and topics😍💓
Great video Mathew😊😊
My guy and I don’t live together and we can only see each other once a week. (Living and work situations) Neither of us is much of a texter and we don’t call each other much either. I find that we are always excited to see each other and the time we spend together is always great. Eventually we’ll spend more time together and more frequently but for now I think it helps that we’re slowly building a strong foundation of friendship and respect
Hmmm Idk that sounds great if it works for BOTH of you I hope you have a timeline for increasing the level of contact and I wish you all the very best
That sounds like a perfect relationship. I like doing my own thing and I definitely don’t want to live with anymore. A close friend once a week sounds great!
thnx mr Boggs we r learning more everyday stay blessed
Wow! I love this!! Thanks
So true i asked my hubby to wake me up at 5am and after I challenging him to do so he set his phone to 5am and when the alarm went off he literally wake me up he was very excited
Awesome video keep it up matt
Hi Mathew Boggs. Inlove watching your vlogs. I am a Single mum of two Girls. And i am Currently in a LDR. I learned now how to my man keeps his interest on me. Thank you for this vlog..
Loved this!
Love your content Boggs🖤🖤
Thank You!
Thanks for the tips 🙏🤗
Great content, thankyu xx
Great video!
Since we have been on this quarantine we had to find new things and new ways to “date” from indoors. We still go out sometimes we aren’t hermits but with all this going on in the world it’s difficult. We started finding new foods and making them, we got subscription boxes from universal yum and hunt a killer, he’s been teaching me card games I’ve never played, we find local places that offer take home boxes like from the painting place. We buy the home kit pick it up and follow the video (like a paint and sip at home).
Filling your own cup 😋🥰 that’s some great advice
I really love your content and advices. Please please do make a content like this for long distance relationships 😊
I'm in an ldr.
Its honestly the same thing. Everything Matt says can be applied to any relationship.
Love your positive attitude to relationships.
Hello ettie
thank you for this video i believe ladies need videos like this frequently.
Do you mean they lack basic knowledge on how to do basic things?
Thank you so much.
Love your video from Somali .😍👍 Thank you. I'll try that 😊
Thank you so much
Matt, you are a gem! 🦄 You've got this thing figured out ! I'm so proud of you as a fellow human being! 👼🏆🙏💝 Honest! I can't thank you enough for the work you do 👍🙏 AMEN !
Give him attention is what i did on many first dates. They thought i was fantastic but i knew they were not for me.
I'm still on my journey yet very close to the goal yet closer to a forever relationship and appreciate advice here. Thank you Mat.
Human Needs Psychology in action... love how you can take the best things from the Gottman's, Helen Fisher, Cloé and Tony and more, and then be able to make it easily understandable and immediately actionable. Bravo! :)
Wow. Thanks mathew 🧡
Mat thanks so much this changed my whole life about when u said let ur man talk 80 percent of the time
Love all your videos~ What should we do if our man are in midlife crisis? Do you have a video for that? Thank you Matt!
You are so right!!!
My Him definitely loves the attention I give him and being intentional when loving him according to his love language.
Golf? Yeah right. Obsessed much! Nice analogy, Mat!
Please do more videos like this 🦋
Thank will note this down.
Thank you, this will give ladies to educate more on how to handle relationship will stay forever and happier 👍
Great video
craving is a common word in Matt's videos 😂❤
haha, im fourty and only now starting to understand men little bit. partly thanks to him right there!
Trying together hobbies which we haven't mutual is fun...🤣😅🙈❤ I recommend it to everyone.😊
What an amazing
video
Thank You 🥰
👍👍👍👍great tips
I Am on that stage getting to know its others feelings,talking about what we had and so on😊
Thank you ...
We like to talk about traveling. We discuss all the different types of trips we could take together.
tqwe soo much