I've noticed that this is also true for me. Since subscribing to your channel, I've put alot of these things to the test in my own marriage and they are proving to be true. Wearing "house dresses" instead of my typical baggy, ratty t-shirts and shorts, spritzing a bit of fragrance on even for bed, wearing a little jewelry even on a lazy weekend. Taking my scarf off and actually doing my hair. Not only do those things make me feel more confident but I notice it makes my husband more interested. Not to say he wasn't interested in first, I just notice it's a different type of interest. The more I settle into my Feminine Essence, the more he settles in to being a "gentleman". I'm more likely to hear a "don't do that, you'll get your dress dirty" , or "let me do that for you " more often than when i was being "one of the boys", which is the premise we got married on. We click already because we're best friends but it's like he's realizing all over again for the first time that his best friend and wife is In fact.. .a woman 🤣
I could have written this; I too wear "house dresses" all the time round the clock. And I even got a romantic-looking white crisp linen-cotton flower lightweight dress that I can wear without a bra, and I use it to sleep in to look ELEGANT. It also makes me FEEL ELEGANT. My husband certainly DOES treat me like a princess
1. Dress feminine 2. Embrace his femininity - Communicate tenderly and clearly - Respect him - Keep peace - Let him free - Honour his protection and provision - Allow him to be unexpressive about his emotions - Read whichever he does to express emotions - Receive his affection 3. Handle conflict playfully 4. Express joy 5. Direct your spirit before your action 6. Be down to earth (humble, unentitled and confident with boundaries) 7. Show your love for children
You have the most beautiful, feminine voice. It is so soothing and nice to listen to. I too have a soft, unassuming voice and men I speak to over the phone always compliment me and tell me how sexy it is. My husband told me my voice is one of the things that endeared me most to him, he thought it was adorable and disarming.
I want to greet my husband when he comes home and have those few seconds of happiness with him and show him I’m happy he’s home! But our children beat me to it, which is wonderful! He has said that he loves it when he’s greeted at the door by his children. But I feel like if I’m there also included that it overwhelming. This could just be in my head. I have a lot of bad parenting trauma in my past where I was made sure I knew I was annoying and worthless. How do I overcome this feeling? I’m slowly learning through your videos and I’m so thankful for them. Please pray for me that I could embrace a more godly femininity and serve Christ through my life being a wife and mama.
Yes!!! It took me way too long to understand this! I hindered my husband this way for so many years. Once I really understood, it’s been amazing how much our relationship between us improved, my sons’ relationships with him improved, their behavior improved, etc. Me stepping back and letting my husband father them instead of expecting him to mother them was the best thing- and not because of what I was doing, really, but because he was finally able to do what he should have been all along. It’s sometimes really really hard to witness the differences because I want to rescue and console and coddle, but that’s not what’s good for my boys most of the time. They do need me in my role of mother, but without Dad fully engaging in his it’s a recipe for disaster.
I’ve been following your topic on this for quite awhile and even put it into practice…it works! Even male unbelievers can’t help but feel attracted to whats natural. Femininity
Haha I don’t mind cleaning up after my husband but I do have some laughs about his socks not all the way in the hamper sometimes. I have said “look how sad your socks look right now. They just want to go home” 😂 lollll
Glad I found your channel tbh. Was watching some "red pill" content recently, and not a lot of it connected. There are some things that make sense, but there are too many hypocrits. Guys saying they need a wife like a virtuous christain women, yet tell young men to "smash and pass" promiscuous women, and engage in the same lustful behavior. I'm just sticking to what the word of God says. "God Pill" if you will, lol.
Yea..dont watch content like that. Like you said its often contradicting and childish. These men arent mature. And these videos arent good to your mental health in the long run. I know what im talking about.
When I was a child I used to question why my dad always egged me on to do daring things, or why he eats more than my mom or why he’s always working while my mother is not. I’m 15 now and your vids have helped me understand a lot!! Thanks Jasmyne!!! :-)) 💌
Hi Jasmyne, I’m 16 years old and recently became orthodox after being catholic most of my life! Your videos help so much. I was hoping if you could do a video on how you do your hair and makeup cause we have similar hair and I love how you do your makeup! Thank youu. 🤍
I don't know but something in me just connects with you.... to think this teaching is coming from someone in the western world is just so wonderful... in a society were femininism and equality are preached everywhere... thank you sister.
You are amazing! I adore you! With every video I watch I start realising with tears in my eyes that I am embracing my natural femininity more and more! God bless you! ❣️❣️❣️
This is a really good video! First time seeing one, but I really love how you ground things biblically, but also realistic and also grounded in modern life! Great work!
Awesome 🎉🎉🎉🎉. I'm so happy to be viewing this early. Jasmyne please could you consider doing a Video about traditional feminine quiteness and just quiteness or just the art of quiteness. Just something like that
jasmyne, thank you so much for these videos. they help me stay grounded in loving my GOD given femininity and walking in true Christlike love. i listen to you every time i do my self care. praying for you, & yours 🤍
You are dropping so many valuable gems and lessons in this video Jasmyne! Thank you for sharing your feminine wisdom. Wishing you a long and happy marriage. 💛
Very valuable content. Love the model you provided for playful expression of frustration. Thanks for regularly demonstrating examples of your points - like this, not like that. Very helpful.
Hey Jasmyne! Your videos helped me so much. How can I be more playful and youthful instead of being too mature or serious? Anyway, I love your videos so much and I feel like you really changed my life and my perspective a lot❤
OMG first time watching your video and OMG you are married!! Congratulations! I wish you a happy marriage! This is so precious to hear for some reason!
Another great video! ❤ Thank you so much. I would also love to hear what you would have to say about Modesty. I think it is a great feminine quality to have but I am sure you would have a lot more interesting and useful tips on how to be more modest. Thank you 😊
That's a great topic! I have 3 daughters, grandchildren and a great-granddaughter who sure could use something positive feminine but modest. Today's children (my daughters are modest, so is my granddaughter, but my grandsons friends sure could learn some basic modest ways. I have a friend whose daughter could use some guidance.
Can you do a video about how to dress modestly? Like a style video maybe for Christian women who want to dress modest, but still look fashionable. With links to the clothing/brands in the description as well. Thank you!
I think men and women's problems are deeper than just women dressing up. Ive been married 25 years and trust me,what I wear is the least of our troubles. And add children into the mix,4 to be exact...I think we need to focus on real issues like men not spending time with their children,not helping the women on days we are exhausted,only wanting sex but not wanting other forms of intimacy....those are the real issues ...it doesn't matter what you wear,if there is trouble in paradise...and it takes being married for a long time to understand a lot of things....just my thoughts
Of course; this video in particular just isn’t about addressing deep marital issues like those. This is a video just about masculine/feminine polarity and what men find attractive. I want to do more videos about marriage though!
Wow, Jasmyne! Amazing topic points and excellent job breaking them all down, again. Have you ever considered writing a book? I would definitely buy it and I think its really needed in this world. Also, do you have any book recommendations for marriage/becoming a wife? I think that could also be a good video. Love your channel!!
“Onion of a man” I was dying laughing while you were saying all that Thank you for this video!!! I need to work on softening myself and how I deliver things
LOLOLOLOL the playful conflict is so good.. i rarely find that when women generalize about men that i resonate with their generalizations.. but 😅 i think you may have some insight...
I love your channel, it is one of my best or favorite recent subs. I would love to see you circle back around and do a video on your prayer or icon corner in your home if you have one. My marriage is rocky and most likely won't make it but I have been finding comfort in the Orthodox Church and though not yet a Catechumen, I am super interested in how others live their faith. ☦️
In my opinion, we women should be entitled and think that we are the price, BUT from a place of LOVE, not hate, for ourselves and for others.That really makes the difference. What do you think?
Hello, could you make a video on how to keep your femininity and maintain healthy relationship when you are in long distance. How to keep him in his masculine in such situation. ❤
Differently domestic haha My husband gets his clothes dirty at work so he was just ripping them off in the living room as soon as he gets home and leaving them in a pile by the door. Lovely that he doesn’t want to spread dirt around, huh? lol. Anyway, I couldn’t get him to simply go to the bathroom hamper, so now we have a living room hamper.
I’m an evangelist but I have a lot of sympathy for orthodoxy ! One of the reason I convert to christianity is the Russian litterature. I have similar point of views as you ! Your videos are great 😊 Keep going we need that kind of content !
i believe that if modern day girls would humble themselves and be open to implementing soft and feminine qualities into their forms of relationships, the modern day “feminist” view on men would be a lot different as many women would be receiving and seeing the kind of attention from men that they actually desire in their hearts by nature. Thank you for these videos it has truly helped my relationship so much
Hi. while all of these are true im finding it difficult cooking for a man. Most masculine men expect a woman to at least know how to boil an egg.its not that i dont know.i dont want too bc i dont prefer cooking. i love taking care of my body smelling good etc and relaxing. i resort to painting singing dancing but dont have the nerve to cook. How to keep a masculine men in terms of cooking when he cant afford to awlays buy out lol🙄🤦♀️😒🤷♀️
I've noticed that this is also true for me. Since subscribing to your channel, I've put alot of these things to the test in my own marriage and they are proving to be true. Wearing "house dresses" instead of my typical baggy, ratty t-shirts and shorts, spritzing a bit of fragrance on even for bed, wearing a little jewelry even on a lazy weekend. Taking my scarf off and actually doing my hair. Not only do those things make me feel more confident but I notice it makes my husband more interested. Not to say he wasn't interested in first, I just notice it's a different type of interest. The more I settle into my Feminine Essence, the more he settles in to being a "gentleman". I'm more likely to hear a "don't do that, you'll get your dress dirty" , or "let me do that for you " more often than when i was being "one of the boys", which is the premise we got married on. We click already because we're best friends but it's like he's realizing all over again for the first time that his best friend and wife is In fact.. .a woman 🤣
This is so cute to read! May God continue to bless your union ❤
I’m not married (yet) but this is giving me hope that IT WORKS!
Thank you ❤ and may God continue to lead you to what your heart desires in your union!
this was such a cute little testimony omg🤗
I could have written this; I too wear "house dresses" all the time round the clock. And I even got a romantic-looking white crisp linen-cotton flower lightweight dress that I can wear without a bra, and I use it to sleep in to look ELEGANT. It also makes me FEEL ELEGANT. My husband certainly DOES treat me like a princess
This is my marriage too. He is treating me like his queen instead of the blokes he works with.
1. Dress feminine
2. Embrace his femininity
- Communicate tenderly and clearly
- Respect him
- Keep peace
- Let him free
- Honour his protection and provision
- Allow him to be unexpressive about his emotions
- Read whichever he does to express emotions
- Receive his affection
3. Handle conflict playfully
4. Express joy
5. Direct your spirit before your action
6. Be down to earth (humble, unentitled and confident with boundaries)
7. Show your love for children
A gay boy can still it?
You have the most beautiful, feminine voice. It is so soothing and nice to listen to. I too have a soft, unassuming voice and men I speak to over the phone always compliment me and tell me how sexy it is. My husband told me my voice is one of the things that endeared me most to him, he thought it was adorable and disarming.
"Direct your spirit before your action." 💎💎💎
Words to live by
I want to greet my husband when he comes home and have those few seconds of happiness with him and show him I’m happy he’s home!
But our children beat me to it, which is wonderful! He has said that he loves it when he’s greeted at the door by his children. But I feel like if I’m there also included that it overwhelming.
This could just be in my head. I have a lot of bad parenting trauma in my past where I was made sure I knew I was annoying and worthless.
How do I overcome this feeling?
I’m slowly learning through your videos and I’m so thankful for them. Please pray for me that I could embrace a more godly femininity and serve Christ through my life being a wife and mama.
The honorable mention of letting dads be dads and moms be moms is suuuuuch a hard pill to swallow but it’s true.
Yes!!
Not truly a hard pill if you respect 💯
Yes!!! It took me way too long to understand this! I hindered my husband this way for so many years. Once I really understood, it’s been amazing how much our relationship between us improved, my sons’ relationships with him improved, their behavior improved, etc. Me stepping back and letting my husband father them instead of expecting him to mother them was the best thing- and not because of what I was doing, really, but because he was finally able to do what he should have been all along. It’s sometimes really really hard to witness the differences because I want to rescue and console and coddle, but that’s not what’s good for my boys most of the time. They do need me in my role of mother, but without Dad fully engaging in his it’s a recipe for disaster.
I’ve been following your topic on this for quite awhile and even put it into practice…it works! Even male unbelievers can’t help but feel attracted to whats natural. Femininity
You should start a podcast! Would love to listen to this type of content on long drives and whatnot.
Haha I don’t mind cleaning up after my husband but I do have some laughs about his socks not all the way in the hamper sometimes. I have said “look how sad your socks look right now. They just want to go home” 😂 lollll
That’s so cute!! I may use that line 😆
@@JasmyneTheodora lol yesss. Thanks for this video 😘😘
Glad I found your channel tbh. Was watching some "red pill" content recently, and not a lot of it connected. There are some things that make sense, but there are too many hypocrits. Guys saying they need a wife like a virtuous christain women, yet tell young men to "smash and pass" promiscuous women, and engage in the same lustful behavior. I'm just sticking to what the word of God says. "God Pill" if you will, lol.
Yea..dont watch content like that. Like you said its often contradicting and childish. These men arent mature. And these videos arent good to your mental health in the long run. I know what im talking about.
I loved the point about playful frustration so much, thank you
So glad!
When I was a child I used to question why my dad always egged me on to do daring things, or why he eats more than my mom or why he’s always working while my mother is not. I’m 15 now and your vids have helped me understand a lot!! Thanks Jasmyne!!! :-)) 💌
You're very interesting and easy to listen to. I also enjoyed your Orthodox Christian ☦️ recording. Shared it with my extended family.
Thank you very much for your support!
Hi Jasmyne, I’m 16 years old and recently became orthodox after being catholic most of my life! Your videos help so much. I was hoping if you could do a video on how you do your hair and makeup cause we have similar hair and I love how you do your makeup! Thank youu. 🤍
You are a gem Jasmyne😘 keep up the work girl! Women NEED this type of information. Not fake femininity, REAL femininity!
I don't know but something in me just connects with you....
to think this teaching is coming from someone in the western world is just so wonderful...
in a society were femininism and equality are preached everywhere...
thank you sister.
your channel is such a blessing, I have been married for 3 months now and I want to be the best wife I can be for my husband. He deserves that!
You are amazing! I adore you! With every video I watch I start realising with tears in my eyes that I am embracing my natural femininity more and more! God bless you! ❣️❣️❣️
You radiate beautiful mama! I’m so grateful for your influence and I’m feeling so feminine practicing these tips ❤
You're glowing✨️
This is a really good video! First time seeing one, but I really love how you ground things biblically, but also realistic and also grounded in modern life! Great work!
A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.”
Ecclesiasticus 26:23
Awesome 🎉🎉🎉🎉. I'm so happy to be viewing this early.
Jasmyne please could you consider doing a Video about traditional feminine quiteness and just quiteness or just the art of quiteness.
Just something like that
That would be great 🩷
That’s a good idea! Thank you!
jasmyne, thank you so much for these videos. they help me stay grounded in loving my GOD given femininity and walking in true Christlike love. i listen to you every time i do my self care. praying for you, & yours 🤍
You are dropping so many valuable gems and lessons in this video Jasmyne! Thank you for sharing your feminine wisdom. Wishing you a long and happy marriage. 💛
I am new here. Wow, you exude beautiful energy and speak so eloquently and just hundred percent on point! Thank you!!
I just came here to quote “onion of a husband’s clothes” - love it lol.
🧅 🤭
Thank you for this! Accepting our differences and embracing it instead of complaining about it
Very valuable content. Love the model you provided for playful expression of frustration. Thanks for regularly demonstrating examples of your points - like this, not like that. Very helpful.
I just found your channel and it’s like you’re giving out money for free 😭so much to watch! So much to enjoy ty sm
I tried playfully correcting my 7 year old daughter today and she loved jt! And the massage got across. I felt energized and closer to her after🥰
Wonderful!
This lady is really worth listening to.
Thank you so much!
@@JasmyneTheodora gentle strength :-)
We need a skincare & makeup video 🙏🏽✨
Practical truths shared in an authentic way, as always. Thank you, Jasmyne ❤
Oooo we find you very radiant
Thank you 🙏
@@JasmyneTheodora you are very welcome 🙂
Hey Jasmyne! Your videos helped me so much. How can I be more playful and youthful instead of being too mature or serious? Anyway, I love your videos so much and I feel like you really changed my life and my perspective a lot❤
OMG first time watching your video and OMG you are married!! Congratulations! I wish you a happy marriage! This is so precious to hear for some reason!
Another great video! ❤ Thank you so much. I would also love to hear what you would have to say about Modesty. I think it is a great feminine quality to have but I am sure you would have a lot more interesting and useful tips on how to be more modest. Thank you 😊
That's a great topic! I have 3 daughters, grandchildren and a great-granddaughter who sure could use something positive feminine but modest. Today's children (my daughters are modest, so is my granddaughter, but my grandsons friends sure could learn some basic modest ways. I have a friend whose daughter could use some guidance.
You've taught me so much😊 Thank you!
Another great video!! I love what you said about playful conflict!!
Thank you!! Glad you enjoyed it!
Can you do a video about how to dress modestly? Like a style video maybe for Christian women who want to dress modest, but still look fashionable. With links to the clothing/brands in the description as well. Thank you!
You are a breath of fresh air🤍
Another cracking video Jasmyne. Thank you. By the way love your acting skills x
13:57 Its light hearted and entertaining 😂 shows that we can laugh at ourselves I'm a playful banter ❤
I got some really useful tips from this. Some feminine energy videos that I have come across are often vague.
I'm so glad! Thanks for listening!
How do I keep the status quo as friends with guys when I am a cheery girl and I may unconsciously engage in flirty playful behaviour?
I think men and women's problems are deeper than just women dressing up. Ive been married 25 years and trust me,what I wear is the least of our troubles. And add children into the mix,4 to be exact...I think we need to focus on real issues like men not spending time with their children,not helping the women on days we are exhausted,only wanting sex but not wanting other forms of intimacy....those are the real issues ...it doesn't matter what you wear,if there is trouble in paradise...and it takes being married for a long time to understand a lot of things....just my thoughts
100%
Of course; this video in particular just isn’t about addressing deep marital issues like those. This is a video just about masculine/feminine polarity and what men find attractive. I want to do more videos about marriage though!
HEYYYYYYYY❤❤❤GOD BLESS YOU JASMINE🎉
God bless you 🩷🩷
I enjoy your channel. Thank you for this much needed content 🙏🏾
Wow, Jasmyne! Amazing topic points and excellent job breaking them all down, again. Have you ever considered writing a book? I would definitely buy it and I think its really needed in this world. Also, do you have any book recommendations for marriage/becoming a wife? I think that could also be a good video. Love your channel!!
“Onion of a man” I was dying laughing while you were saying all that
Thank you for this video!!! I need to work on softening myself and how I deliver things
I love your content💜. May i ask if you could considere a video of how you do your makeup, I also feel curious about the makeup you own...
Yes I could do that! I may do a comprehensive beauty video 🩷
@@JasmyneTheodora that sounds wonderful 💜
May I ask if there can be a video on changing a relationship dynamic around if you have previously been in your masculine?
Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
Love and enjoyyy tour videos. And your voice is so therapeutic 🥰. Happy Easter 🐰✨
Thank you! Easter for Orthodox is in May but Christ is of course always risen! ☦️🙌
LOLOLOLOL the playful conflict is so good.. i rarely find that when women generalize about men that i resonate with their generalizations.. but 😅 i think you may have some insight...
I love your content
Thank you so much!
Love you Jasmine, thank you so much girl
This video makes me feel hopeful 🌸🌸
Loved watching your video girl! ❤ Thank you for putting it out there 🙏
You are so pretty! You have a glow girl! 😍
Jasyme, kindly do a video of feminine friendships
I love your channel, it is one of my best or favorite recent subs.
I would love to see you circle back around and do a video on your prayer or icon corner in your home if you have one.
My marriage is rocky and most likely won't make it but I have been finding comfort in the Orthodox Church and though not yet a Catechumen, I am super interested in how others live their faith. ☦️
Hey Jasmyne! Will you make a video on the 7 feminine archetypes? Thx ❤
Good video idea 💞
Subscribing to you is one of the best things I’ve ever done! ❤
Loved this video ❤
Thank you!!
Love you Jasmyne! Thank you so much for this wonderful video!
Thank you so much for watching!
Happy Easter 🌈✝️
Christ is risen!
@@JasmyneTheodora Amen 🙏🏻 🙌🏻
Ortodox Easter is May 5th, we go by old calendar
Indeed, I didn’t celebrate Easter today but Christ is always risen!
Happy Resurrection Day Jasmyne!
Ortodox Easter is on may 5th we go by old calendar
Yes in Ethiopia also we celebrate on may 5th. We are still on fasting period
And "the crows eat your mustard seed" 😂😂😂
Thank you for this🔥🥰
Of course!
I adore wearing dresses.
Off topic but what Lipgloss do you use? Please and thank you 😊
Glossier lipgloss! Not my favorite though. I prefer Fenty.
Yes good advice from a beautiful married woman, thanks ❤
I love you Jasmyne 🥰.
In my opinion, we women should be entitled and think that we are the price, BUT from a place of LOVE, not hate, for ourselves and for others.That really makes the difference. What do you think?
It just seems a bit conceited to me personally. Maybe I’d characterize it as “I’m the feminine prize” and he’s the “masculine prize”?
@@JasmyneTheodora jshsjshs okay, I see your point of view.
Hello, could you make a video on how to keep your femininity and maintain healthy relationship when you are in long distance. How to keep him in his masculine in such situation. ❤
I wish I had a girl like you, your husband is a lucky man❤
jasmyne, where are the shoes you showed from?
Heels from Vivaia and flats from M Gemi! I love those brands but my favorite flats are from Everlane (day glove) and Rothy! Super comfortable
Differently domestic haha
My husband gets his clothes dirty at work so he was just ripping them off in the living room as soon as he gets home and leaving them in a pile by the door. Lovely that he doesn’t want to spread dirt around, huh? lol. Anyway, I couldn’t get him to simply go to the bathroom hamper, so now we have a living room hamper.
Love that flexibility 🙌 working smarter, not harder
I don’t have the creativity to joke like that lol
I love your Videos
I needed this - at times, I struggle with “girliness” and having no idea what it can mean
THANK YOU!
5:23 Who did she say? I couldn't quite catch
Suzanne Venker?
@@JasmyneTheodora Thank you! I loved this video!😊
Great video, as always🩵
She knows Kibbeeeee. Definitely my twinnn
I’m an evangelist but I have a lot of sympathy for orthodoxy ! One of the reason I convert to christianity is the Russian litterature. I have similar point of views as you ! Your videos are great 😊 Keep going we need that kind of content !
Have you read Dostoyevsky?
Yes, I read “Crime and Punishment “ 😊 But the one who convinced me (if I can say like that) is Tolstoy with “Anna Karenina” and “War and Peace”
I need to read “War and Peace”! It just seems so, so long. Is it worth it?
hahahahahaha love that onion bit!!!!!! loooool
12:09 is the second i liked the video 😂
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i believe that if modern day girls would humble themselves and be open to implementing soft and feminine qualities into their forms of relationships, the modern day “feminist” view on men would be a lot different as many women would be receiving and seeing the kind of attention from men that they actually desire in their hearts by nature. Thank you for these videos it has truly helped my relationship so much
Thnx
1 beauty 2 beauty 3 beauty 4 beauty 5 beauty 6 beauty 7 beauty
You’re not wrong! Haha
Christ has Risen! 🌈✝️
Hi. while all of these are true im finding it difficult cooking for a man. Most masculine men expect a woman to at least know how to boil an egg.its not that i dont know.i dont want too bc i dont prefer cooking. i love taking care of my body smelling good etc and relaxing. i resort to painting singing dancing but dont have the nerve to cook. How to keep a masculine men in terms of cooking when he cant afford to awlays buy out lol🙄🤦♀️😒🤷♀️
Yeah but what about friendships or liking someone
Thank you for this video. You gave a name of someone else u litsen to, her name pls
Second 🥰🥰
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Really enjoyed the video. I‘d love to see a video about the art of feminine grace🤍
Yes, me too❤
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