*7 Signs you Lack Self Confidence:* 1. you have poor posture 0:42 2. you don’t go out alone 1:05 3. you can’t say no 1:27 4. you seek validation from others 1:54 5. you’re indecisive 2:14 6. you don’t prioritize self-care 2:44 7. you isolate yourself 3:14 *bonus:* you constantly apologize thanks for the video! 💛
Another *huge* sign is constant apologies. When you lack confidence, you doubt yourself and your relationships and overthink it all, blaming yourself for minor and insignificant things. Thank you for the video! 💛
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 well Mr Diamond its not always obvious, and this can also help people that actually have friends and might wanna try to help them
During 80’s in office, I remembered a young lady who ran and squealed to our supervisor that drive our supervisor crazy. She was insecure and had no confidence in herself and didn’t get along with others. We couldn’t figure out why. Later, we learned that she was newly married and her husband was abusive. And Later, She got divorced and regained confidence in herself. Good for her!
@@karldoesstuffYT Oh well... It’s been over 30 years and, I’ve never forgotten all what happened. Later, after her divorce from nasty attitude (she spilled it all) and criticized husband and she did get along with everybody really well. But, I haven’t seen her for 25 years since, I left the agency.
Quick summary of the video : 0:42 1- you have poor posture 1:07 2- you don't go out alone 1:28 3- you can't say no 1:55 4- you seek validation from others 2:16 5- you're indecisive 2:44 6- you don't prioritize self-care 3:14 7- you isolate yourself
Tips I recommend to improve since it's important to be solution oriented after realizing what might be "troubling" you. Take small steps at a time and tell yourself "I am proud of myself" when you complete them: 1. Poor Posture. Solution: Do Yoga (I recommend Yoga with Adrienne - Home series), Exercise, take a walk with music and observe the scene. 2. You have troubles being alone. Solution: Go outside in very daring clothes. Notice how every person you pass stays in your memory for less then 10 seconds. The same applies to you. Do you ever tell someone "omg I saw this person in this flashing clothes the other day, their name must be [...] And they live in [...]. So lame, let's harass them". It never happens so it will never happen to you either. 3. Can't say no. The next time in a store and someone offers you something, gently decline. Practice polite phrases to decline and you will slowly learn to assert your boundaries in your private life. 4. Seek validation from others. Seek out validation from maximum of 2 close friends/family members you trust and stick with only them, not more. Social media detox is helpful too. Remember: there was a life before and there will be a life without social media. Seek self validation by meditation and listening to your emotions and "confront" them. It can be stressfull and strenuous but reward yourself with a gentle 20 mins nap break. 5. You're indecisive. Start small, decide what you want to eat, buy and then cook it. It helps you feel more connected to your decisions. Then try deciding to go out for a walk for 30 mins and set up a timer. Be more aware of your decisions and stick to them. 6. You don't prioritize self care. Work on a small routine, nothing too lavish/expensive/time consuming. Listen to your favorite songs or videos while doing the tasks. Aim to always feel better then you did in the beginning. 7. You isolate yourself. Be daring, accept an invitation even if you have to leave earlier then planned. That's how you learn about yourself and you can practice healthy boundaries. As always, take care of yourself. Life is difficult enough, why do we have to make it more difficult on ourselves? You are a growing flower, take time to water it and give it enough time to adjust your petals.
I'm confused, fears of approaching people's, public speaking or going out by yourself are just because you're shy or socially awkward/nervous ? How's it a lack of confidence since it's about trust within yourself?
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.
If there's any horror that I've went through that'd be a majority of my life being wasted going to school(s) and I'm now BEYOND completely sick and tired of those places since school(s) was/were NEVER ACTUALLY useful it was mostly just total and complete utter waste of time not to mention all that torment and suffering I've had to endure for OTHER PEOPLE'S sake also being away from my loving and beloved mom for too long
I hear, "If not in the rare and reasonable temporarely life crisis that simply happen to everyone eventually, bxxch, you're overly confident for no valid reason!!" :D
I seek a lot of validation from others, but I feel really bad about that. The time I told my school counselor that I just felt like I don’t have a purpose in life, he responded by saying that I was just fishing for compliments. That really hurts, three years later, and I still don’t know if he’s right.
@@Emma-kn8zn I honestly don't know. I know he was wrong and I still resent him. I have found my purpose but I don't know how to achieve it. I'm in college seeking the answer. I've become an activist and want to help others that have the same condition as me, because there's no cure for my disability. I'm definitely still struggling and I don't know if I'm going to make it, but I am doing my best and that's all that matters. Thank you for checking in with me. I appreciate it
I turn to Stoicism for some solution. It is hard I had realization you have to get out of comfort zone to grow. Easy said than done. I need to go out because this awful noisy nephew destroying the house and deliberately target me. His mum doesn't help to discipline. I have anxiety issues which preventing from doing the things I like. Confidence is really trust in yourself. Belief in yourself to do your job well.
I’ve always been indecisive but as i got older and lost confidence i struggled with decision making as i always feared making the “wrong” decision and would use bad decisions to question my overall abilities. i still struggle with this but I’m trying hard to not let my lack of confidence take over my life :( thank you for this informative video :>
You've misunderstood what an introvert is. It is someone who gets their motivations and drive from within. It's a personality style - nothing to do with lacking confidence
This week I have been seriously working on my self confidence. I really struggle with isolating and seeking validation from others. This week I've continually told myself that I'm an adult I can and will make my own choices and be proud of it no matter what others think. I love me. Nobody can love me like myself. Its a work in progress but its getting there!
Signs of low self-esteem to keep an eye out for 👍 Difficulty speaking up and prioritizing your own needs, wants, and feelings Saying “I'm sorry” and/or feeling guilty for everyday actions. Not "rocking the boat" Not feeling deserving of, or capable of, having “more”. Difficulty making your own choices.
Yep!!! I’m terrible at speaking up especially if the person is already talking. It’s even worse when I’m speaking and before I can finish, the subject changes
I just realized how little confidence I have. Everyone throughout my entire life has told me they look up to me and how I'm great. I love hearing people praise me. Yet, I've never felt like I'm anything like what they say I am.
Dang this channel really likes calling me out for how little confidence and self-esteem I have, the only one that didn't apply to me is the one where I feel as if I need someone to come with me and even then it still applies to me a little
Point no. 3:"you can't say no".... Among all the factors covered in this video, I find this one the only factor that makes me feel under confident.I never thought that this could be the reason why i am deprived of enjoying my life.And now i've come to know about it....now i'll definitely try to eliminate this habit of my mine and be a happy person..... Thank you(dhanyawaad in hindi) so much for this amazing video. Love from India💕😃
You don't need to call me out like this :( I have the poor posture, indecisiveness,validation issues, and self care negligence I also have trouble saying no because I'm afraid of upsetting people
I was raised sheltered. I love being in my room playing video games but I notice that now that I'm much older, I have been trying to date and I have been noticing that I lack confidence. I find myself seeking validation from anyone I am talking to. If they don't reply to a text message then I will just start to fall apart and wonder if I am the problem. This video helped me realize where I am going wrong and I would love to put in the work to change that mind-set.
These signs were on point. I really lack confidence and self esteem. It’s because when i was younger, I was bullied for the way I looked and even now I still do. It really hurt my self esteem and confidence.
I like this how you people help us to diagnose our lackings. But there should be part in the video where you guys tell us how to deal with it. How to overcome the problems and how to improve. Because the reason we still have these issues is that we don't know how to deal with them. Love your videos though. ❤️
Number 2 is the one I really relate to. I can’t stand being alone in general, partly because of possible judgement, but mostly cause I like people. Most things in life are boring alone, anyways.
When It's quarantine time and you are at home thinking about how long it has been since you attend a social gathering, and then you watch this video...... I guess everyone is having lack of confidence now.
Psych2Go actually that sounds awesome. For the majority of my teenage life I’ve been lacking motivation to do things that would benefit me later in life, like learning to drive or getting a job.
That would be great. I used to have a lot of motivation and braveness, but it suddenly gone and i do need some advice to that. Especially how to fix the pack of motivation
I've grown much more confident than I was 10 years ago, but I know I've got a ways to go. A book that has helped me a lot is Don Miguel Ruiz's Four Agreements. Thank you for the video! You're awesome! :)
Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.
This video hits all points for me. Would be nice if you could make a video to tackle all these problems because I watch these and always just leave with why I’m lacking or the cause but not enough info to tackle the problem
I had no confidence in my whole life every points out there is related to me 🙂 I feel so bad for myself that is the only reason I made several wrong decision and got depression 😊 lack of self confidence is such a thing that can make you feel disaster
I can relate to most, but especially the last one with the lack of social relationships. I was so kind and lacked confidence when I was a kid, unable to realize how people took advantage of me. With good mentorship from an adult a child can develop a healthy mindset
Ever since I was young I always hated being around people due to anxiety and being unconfident, I can’t even talk to a girls without not making sense or stuttering a bunch and I’ve been short with weight problems for a long time now so I don’t go to pools and I don’t take pictures. I could go on forever about my lack of confidence
I really hope you get saved, but I’m literally dead at this point. The only gift I have is a financially comfortable family, the moment I’m forced to move out, is the day I die.
I was like this in the past, I was so self conscious that it's affecting my social life BIG time. Now all of these are almost non existent, I know my worth and I am not afraid to speak my mind, I love myself a lot more now. If you're BTS, thank you. You gave me hope at the darkest of times. You literally made me a new person with better insight of the world. And Kim Namjoon, i hope you know how much I cry everytime I listen to your mixtapes.
I lack confidence, i have really low self-esteem, i always doubt myself, i always overthink small things, i always think about what others think of me. I have really kind and supportive family and friends, but i don't want to say anything to them coz im scared they might think im "overreacting". I never cried infront of anyone (even when i was a child my mom said i barely cried and they thought its good). Im always scared of what other people might think. Even writing this comment makes me feel scared already....
i clicked this video because i know i lack confidence but instead, this signs were me *before*. i'm glad that i have learned to believe in myself more. i hope whoever read this, may you boost confidence and have a worry-free life :)
I lack so much confidence, I try to keep going or build confidence but I always end up feeling hollow, sad, and weak. Sometimes I don’t feel like I belong or fit in anywhere.
I saw some points in this video... When i don't isolate myself for long periods of time, i seek desperatly for someone to talk to, and also... I rarely enjoy time alone...
Today we had our yearbook photoshoot and everyone and it made me realize how different I was from ALL of my classmates. Everyone was confident, they did make up, they did cool poses for the pictures. While I was about to cry when I knew I was up next- I mean I’ve always been aware of my low self esteem but seeing other people so confident like that, it shocked me. Now I actually realized the degree of my low self esteem. It shouldn’t be like this and I can’t imagine being confident like at all, this is how I’ve been my whole life. It’s sad when I actually think about it lol
I related to #3, #4, #5 and #7 in my childhood and adolescence. Sometimes being nice gets to the point where you start to resent others. Don't say yes so often that others start asking too much of you. Don't be so nice that people start to take advantage of your kindness and use your good nature against you.
Mr Diamond I mean if you are lazy it doesn’t mean that you have a lack of confidence but if you are lazy it might be because you have a lack of confidence
This is the Amazing grace. John 3:16 "For God loved the world that he sent his only begotten son so that's whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life" . For God didn't send his son to condemn the world but through him they might be saved... God loves you so much that he suffered died and rose from the dead to pay the punishment of your sins. All you gotta do is ask for forgiveness 🙏 (read the 10 commandments)and trust in the finished work of The lord Jesus Christ on the cross. You be saved from the eternal damnation of Hell and be granted eternal life in Heaven... The end is Nigh🔥. Jesus is coming soooon. Jesus is lord ruclips.net/video/CDdvReNKKuk/видео.html
Number 4 and 5 are big ones that I can relate to. Number 4 is because I always have a need to try and get people close to me to say " I'm proud of you" because otherwise I feel like I haven't accomplished anything. I also have trouble making decisions on my own because I'm afraid that people will say what I'm doing is wrong and give me the impression that I shouldn't be making mistakes. I finally came to this realization in December 2019 and made it new years resolution to work on it. It doesn't mean I'll stop before 2021, it means that it is a goal that I started in 2020 and stay committed to making that goal a reality.
1 You have poor posture. Yes, I do that consciously. I feel it's less intimidating that way. 2 You don't go out alone? no. 3 You can't say no? no. 4 You seek validation from others? no. 5 You're indecisive? not really. 6 You don't prioritize self-care? yes. I'm making progress. 7 You isolate yourself? yes. well no. Thanks for the video, now I understand why sometimes I get told I'm lacking confidence.
Well that's generally true its concerning that several of the richest most successful investors are sitting on the sidelines right now and waiting for a better entry point
I'm not confident enough to achieve my dreams because I am afraid my family will judge me, and hate me. I barely have the confidence to go against my parents' will, so If they say no, I just feel really pissed, shove it in and say "Ok". I am trying to get enough confidence so I can at least try to stand up for myself, it's a work in progress.
Name someone who might need this video.
Me 😭
Myself
Myself
Me,my friend
Me :( and a friend
*7 Signs you Lack Self Confidence:*
1. you have poor posture 0:42
2. you don’t go out alone 1:05
3. you can’t say no 1:27
4. you seek validation from others 1:54
5. you’re indecisive 2:14
6. you don’t prioritize self-care 2:44
7. you isolate yourself 3:14
*bonus:* you constantly apologize
thanks for the video! 💛
that’s like the actual definition of me
ayra ahmad ofc!
Mahshmallow LITERALLY THOUGH
Cariiツ felt that
@@caroline-jz8np I can relate too
“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.”
― Lao Tzu
guess I'm a ✨felon✨
*_-i'minjailohwow--_*
I'm prison number #4872B
Question Everything - Thought Provoking Ideas that means i’m a criminal
So ur saying that if I accidentally knock someone down, I should just go on my way since I’m not suppose to care if they’re hurt or upset?
**relates to every single one**
The video has been up for 27 seconds how u watch the whole video 😂😂
@@kalimontroy this video was unlisted it was uploaded 3 weeks ago
Haikyuu’s Floor no it said “Posted 27 seconds ago” But that’s happens a lot tho 😹 💀
Puppaccino with Pupcake ok I don’t know what that means but imma act like I do 😂 🤷
Every single one and beyond?
Another *huge* sign is constant apologies. When you lack confidence, you doubt yourself and your relationships and overthink it all, blaming yourself for minor and insignificant things.
Thank you for the video! 💛
That’s true
Yep I do this all the time
Guilty as charged :(
That’s me 😱🤦♀️
I do this way more than I should
Let’s admit though, the cartoons are extremely adorable.
Thank you!
Yeah you're right
I thought i was the only one who thought so!!
And the voice is so soothing too.
Lil leafy boi 😊
“name someone who needs this video”
myself?
“you don’t say no”
“you don’t go out alone”
man, i can’t believe this is 100% accurate.
Yep
Same
The mirrror
A better title would be what makes you come off as unconfident. You know if you are confident or not, thats obvious. I know i am because i am
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 well Mr Diamond its not always obvious, and this can also help people that actually have friends and might wanna try to help them
During 80’s in office, I remembered a young lady who ran and squealed to our supervisor that drive our supervisor crazy. She was insecure and had no confidence in herself and didn’t get along with others. We couldn’t figure out why. Later, we learned that she was newly married and her husband was abusive. And Later, She got divorced and regained confidence in herself. Good for her!
What a great story! Good for her!
@@Psych2go Thank you..... In 1994, Leticia got married 2nd time. And she took sign language class to communicate with deaf employees too.
ouchie this didn't even hit too close to home, this actually hit home
@@karldoesstuffYT Oh well... It’s been over 30 years and, I’ve never forgotten all what happened. Later, after her divorce from nasty attitude (she spilled it all) and criticized husband and she did get along with everybody really well. But, I haven’t seen her for 25 years since, I left the agency.
Rb Smith it will be cool tho if u guys stay in touch or kind of like msg her telling abt her impact in ur life i think it would make her day
Her voice is really calming, she could insult me with that voice and I wouldn’t feel offended
Wow. Should we do a video like that
Psych2Go yikes
@@Psych2go hahaha.. that's not a bad idea! 🤗🙃
Hahahah😂ikrrrr
I've made it go to 69 likes ;)
Her: “Name someone that might need this video”
Me-
Same-
Same
Exactly
I mean, I cant really help it... Plus I'm an introvert ;-;
Same.
Quick summary of the video :
0:42 1- you have poor posture
1:07 2- you don't go out alone
1:28 3- you can't say no
1:55 4- you seek validation from others
2:16 5- you're indecisive
2:44 6- you don't prioritize self-care
3:14 7- you isolate yourself
Thank you!
a week ago
Thank you! And I relate to all of them T-T
@@streamgirlsnight I'm glad im not the only one who saw that
they know me😳
I got cyber bullied by a whole gang, and they had NO confidence at all. So that made me win.
But sometimes it’s bad to be overconfident.
Tips I recommend to improve since it's important to be solution oriented after realizing what might be "troubling" you. Take small steps at a time and tell yourself "I am proud of myself" when you complete them:
1. Poor Posture.
Solution: Do Yoga (I recommend Yoga with Adrienne - Home series), Exercise, take a walk with music and observe the scene.
2. You have troubles being alone.
Solution: Go outside in very daring clothes. Notice how every person you pass stays in your memory for less then 10 seconds. The same applies to you. Do you ever tell someone "omg I saw this person in this flashing clothes the other day, their name must be [...] And they live in [...]. So lame, let's harass them". It never happens so it will never happen to you either.
3. Can't say no.
The next time in a store and someone offers you something, gently decline. Practice polite phrases to decline and you will slowly learn to assert your boundaries in your private life.
4. Seek validation from others.
Seek out validation from maximum of 2 close friends/family members you trust and stick with only them, not more. Social media detox is helpful too. Remember: there was a life before and there will be a life without social media. Seek self validation by meditation and listening to your emotions and "confront" them. It can be stressfull and strenuous but reward yourself with a gentle 20 mins nap break.
5. You're indecisive.
Start small, decide what you want to eat, buy and then cook it. It helps you feel more connected to your decisions. Then try deciding to go out for a walk for 30 mins and set up a timer. Be more aware of your decisions and stick to them.
6. You don't prioritize self care.
Work on a small routine, nothing too lavish/expensive/time consuming. Listen to your favorite songs or videos while doing the tasks. Aim to always feel better then you did in the beginning.
7. You isolate yourself.
Be daring, accept an invitation even if you have to leave earlier then planned. That's how you learn about yourself and you can practice healthy boundaries.
As always, take care of yourself. Life is difficult enough, why do we have to make it more difficult on ourselves? You are a growing flower, take time to water it and give it enough time to adjust your petals.
I'm confused, fears of approaching people's, public speaking or going out by yourself are just because you're shy or socially awkward/nervous ? How's it a lack of confidence since it's about trust within yourself?
Thankyouuu for this may God bless you more!
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.
If there's any horror that I've went through that'd be a majority of my life being wasted going to school(s) and I'm now BEYOND completely sick and tired of those places since school(s) was/were NEVER ACTUALLY useful it was mostly just total and complete utter waste of time not to mention all that torment and suffering I've had to endure for OTHER PEOPLE'S sake also being away from my loving and beloved mom for too long
“With confidence, you have won before you have started.”
Confidence is key.
7 Signs You Lack Confidence: You're watching this video to see how insecure you are
I hear, "If not in the rare and reasonable temporarely life crisis that simply happen to everyone eventually, bxxch, you're overly confident for no valid reason!!" :D
@@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 I was making fun of myself for watching this video because I myself lack a lot of confidence.
The first step to fixing your insecurity recognizing.
Did you relate to these 7 signs?
@@Psych2go yeah, all seven 7 😳
I love how this is a list of signs of lacking self confidence but doesnt show you how to build confidence. Very, very useful.
idk why I clicked this I already know I'm not confident I'm literally the thumbnail
lmaooooo
Same
Everyone here knows they arent confident. Its obvious
@Hinemoa yes. I know im wrong, because im confident and i still posted it
"Name someone who might needs this video."
Me
Myself
And I
What about us?
@@Psych2go you know about the signs to tell if you are confident or not, and dont know if you are confident or not. Hmmmmmmmmm
Me
It's probably me😖😩
don’t even need to watch this to know that I lack confidence ✌🏽
Because you are ultra confident that you are not confident
@@Psych2go wow- That's deep hshagahdg
Psych2Go what.. no, my head wasn’t built with paradox-absorbing crumple zones *head explodes*
When this video was just a random video you watched bc you were bored, and then it turned into something you actually needed
I seek a lot of validation from others, but I feel really bad about that. The time I told my school counselor that I just felt like I don’t have a purpose in life, he responded by saying that I was just fishing for compliments. That really hurts, three years later, and I still don’t know if he’s right.
@Short& Sweet Thank you :D. Imma go cry now lol
Wow. He definitely shouldn’t even have been a counselor to begin with. Shame on him for such a comment
How are you doing now?
@@Emma-kn8zn I honestly don't know. I know he was wrong and I still resent him. I have found my purpose but I don't know how to achieve it. I'm in college seeking the answer. I've become an activist and want to help others that have the same condition as me, because there's no cure for my disability. I'm definitely still struggling and I don't know if I'm going to make it, but I am doing my best and that's all that matters. Thank you for checking in with me. I appreciate it
“If you ever feel sad put on the lipstick and attack.” -Coco Chanel
So the second quote pretty much says, that we all should just give up with things. Thank you😂
To the second quote
“Hmmm, this sledgehammer might do the trick”
oops I thought the second quote meant like don’t spend time complaining that you haven’t gotten a glow up because you haven’t tried
Kwenz Landah really I didn’t know that she was a nazi, I thought this quote was inspirational should I just delete my comment
Kwenz Landah ohhh, thank you i learned something new
People who have given us their complete confidence believe that they have a right to ours. The inference is false, a gift confers no rights.
All this is relatable and stuff but, HOW DO I GAIN THE CONFIDENCE AGAIN???, I NEED HELP
I was thinking the same thing😭
Do the opposite of the video
@@corpseparade7500 Good advice! lol
Yes! lol
I turn to Stoicism for some solution. It is hard I had realization you have to get out of comfort zone to grow. Easy said than done. I need to go out because this awful noisy nephew destroying the house and deliberately target me. His mum doesn't help to discipline. I have anxiety issues which preventing from doing the things I like. Confidence is really trust in yourself. Belief in yourself to do your job well.
I’ve always been indecisive but as i got older and lost confidence i struggled with decision making as i always feared making the “wrong” decision and would use bad decisions to question my overall abilities. i still struggle with this but I’m trying hard to not let my lack of confidence take over my life :( thank you for this informative video :>
You lack confidence
People having social anxiety: tell me something I don't know
You've misunderstood what an introvert is. It is someone who gets their motivations and drive from within. It's a personality style - nothing to do with lacking confidence
Never gets better....I wish i could end it all but im so useless that I can't even do that...Damn i wish i was someone else
It's okay i believe that you will get trough these hard times
i’m so confused it said this was posted right now but the comments are from 3 weeks ago LOL
Simple, a time machine.
I think it's uploaded earlier for the members, if you join their membership you can watch their videos earlier like the time it was actually posted.
Nicole Beloro oh okay
Don't ask. Don't tell. Don't show. Jkjk.
Psych2Go OMG U NOTICED MEEE I LOVE YOUUU 💞💞 YOU HAVE HELPED ME SO MUCH 💞💞
I already know I lack a lot of confidence but I really want more confidence
Thanks for sharing! Would you like a video on that?
@@Psych2go Yes! :)
This week I have been seriously working on my self confidence. I really struggle with isolating and seeking validation from others. This week I've continually told myself that I'm an adult I can and will make my own choices and be proud of it no matter what others think. I love me. Nobody can love me like myself. Its a work in progress but its getting there!
Any progress?
Signs of low self-esteem to keep an eye out for
👍
Difficulty speaking up and prioritizing your own needs, wants, and feelings
Saying “I'm sorry” and/or feeling guilty for everyday actions.
Not "rocking the boat"
Not feeling deserving of, or capable of, having “more”.
Difficulty making your own choices.
Yep!!! I’m terrible at speaking up especially if the person is already talking. It’s even worse when I’m speaking and before I can finish, the subject changes
I just realized how little confidence I have. Everyone throughout my entire life has told me they look up to me and how I'm great. I love hearing people praise me. Yet, I've never felt like I'm anything like what they say I am.
Lets be honest this is just confirming what we already knew about ourselfs
There are people who have confidence who shouldn't and there are people who should have confidence but dont.
Dang this channel really likes calling me out for how little confidence and self-esteem I have, the only one that didn't apply to me is the one where I feel as if I need someone to come with me and even then it still applies to me a little
Point no. 3:"you can't say no"....
Among all the factors covered in this video, I find this one the only factor that makes me feel under confident.I never thought that this could be the reason why i am deprived of enjoying my life.And now i've come to know about it....now i'll definitely try to eliminate this habit of my mine and be a happy person.....
Thank you(dhanyawaad in hindi) so much for this amazing video.
Love from India💕😃
I used to have good posture until my friend said that I was like a “stick” as a joke. For some reason that got to my head and now I look horrible 👍🏻😁
Well, jokes on them, because now you know that your good posture boosts your confidence! Dont worry about what they said, like I said, jokes on them!
I don't have good posture cause it makes my tits look big and I have chest dysphoria 😸
Yo... fix yourself.
Yeah, our self esteem really gets affected by those around us ;(
My mom said i was overweight now I hate my body and everything about me
You don't need to call me out like this
:(
I have the poor posture, indecisiveness,validation issues, and self care negligence
I also have trouble saying no because I'm afraid of upsetting people
Sign 1: You get scared to visit the Nether in Minecraft
PFFT- TRUE TRUE😂😂
Oml- why you gotta call me out like that tho 😭
HOW DID YOU KNOW!!!
I haven't even played the Nether update yet because of that-
Bro you have one of the best Minecraft comparisons I’ve ever seen in comment sections, especially in their channel😂😂
I was raised sheltered. I love being in my room playing video games but I notice that now that I'm much older, I have been trying to date and I have been noticing that I lack confidence. I find myself seeking validation from anyone I am talking to. If they don't reply to a text message then I will just start to fall apart and wonder if I am the problem. This video helped me realize where I am going wrong and I would love to put in the work to change that mind-set.
Remember: A pretty face does not mean a pretty heart.
-The Shades
These signs were on point. I really lack confidence and self esteem. It’s because when i was younger, I was bullied for the way I looked and even now I still do. It really hurt my self esteem and confidence.
I like this how you people help us to diagnose our lackings. But there should be part in the video where you guys tell us how to deal with it. How to overcome the problems and how to improve. Because the reason we still have these issues is that we don't know how to deal with them. Love your videos though. ❤️
Number 2 is the one I really relate to. I can’t stand being alone in general, partly because of possible judgement, but mostly cause I like people. Most things in life are boring alone, anyways.
When It's quarantine time and you are at home thinking about how long it has been since you attend a social gathering, and then you watch this video......
I guess everyone is having lack of confidence now.
I isolate myself because I'm an empath, and I dont like to socialize a lot and absorb unwanted energies around me. I am still confident
everyone (including me) is just relating to all of these things in the comments, I relate to all of these i- 😭.
I didn't know lack of confidence was literally my way of life until i watched this video
Can you do one on lacking motivation? if you haven't done so already.
Sure! We can do one on habits that kill your motivation. How does that sound?
Psych2Go actually that sounds awesome. For the majority of my teenage life I’ve been lacking motivation to do things that would benefit me later in life, like learning to drive or getting a job.
That would be great. I used to have a lot of motivation and braveness, but it suddenly gone and i do need some advice to that. Especially how to fix the pack of motivation
It feels pretty good when I realize I don't relate to these signs anymore
Yes!! That’s amazing! How did you overcome it? Feel free to share so others can learn your from your experience
And now we return to another episode of "Psych2Go Described My Life Again"
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I just love the fact your voice is so soft and relaxing 🙃
I've grown much more confident than I was 10 years ago, but I know I've got a ways to go. A book that has helped me a lot is Don Miguel Ruiz's Four Agreements. Thank you for the video! You're awesome! :)
It's nice how y'all respond to comments about people relating to this
🎶 ”Tell me something I don’t know, something I don’t know”🎶
my confidence increased when i made a conscious decision to always do my prayers (good and bad days) it sincerely help boost my confidence...♡♡
This feels like some kind of callout
Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.
wait why is this video unlisted?
It is still?
I might be dumb but how did u say this 3 weeks ago if this was only post i think about 20 hours ago
@@gorgeousgirlyreadmychannel7867 they joined the member thing to get early content before others.
NBS -5224 ooh ok ty for explaining itt
This video hits all points for me. Would be nice if you could make a video to tackle all these problems because I watch these and always just leave with why I’m lacking or the cause but not enough info to tackle the problem
I had no confidence in my whole life every points out there is related to me 🙂 I feel so bad for myself that is the only reason I made several wrong decision and got depression 😊 lack of self confidence is such a thing that can make you feel disaster
Same here; hope we could retrieve soon. 🇧🇩❤️
I can relate to most, but especially the last one with the lack of social relationships. I was so kind and lacked confidence when I was a kid, unable to realize how people took advantage of me. With good mentorship from an adult a child can develop a healthy mindset
0:41 playing video games is bad. I always sit like that when i work, read or mostly, play video games. And now sitting straight just gives me pain xD
Hold up. This vid was nAde 4 mins ago
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Ever since I was young I always hated being around people due to anxiety and being unconfident, I can’t even talk to a girls without not making sense or stuttering a bunch and I’ve been short with weight problems for a long time now so I don’t go to pools and I don’t take pictures. I could go on forever about my lack of confidence
I really hope you get saved, but I’m literally dead at this point. The only gift I have is a financially comfortable family, the moment I’m forced to move out, is the day I die.
Thank you, I needed this!!
The fact that this was on my recommendations says everything
Yes this helped a lot
Congrats for 4 mil!
Thank you! Let’s go for 5 mil?
Yes!
I was like this in the past, I was so self conscious that it's affecting my social life BIG time. Now all of these are almost non existent, I know my worth and I am not afraid to speak my mind, I love myself a lot more now.
If you're BTS, thank you. You gave me hope at the darkest of times. You literally made me a new person with better insight of the world. And Kim Namjoon, i hope you know how much I cry everytime I listen to your mixtapes.
The only thing I'm confident about is having no confidence
I lack confidence, i have really low self-esteem, i always doubt myself, i always overthink small things, i always think about what others think of me. I have really kind and supportive family and friends, but i don't want to say anything to them coz im scared they might think im "overreacting". I never cried infront of anyone (even when i was a child my mom said i barely cried and they thought its good). Im always scared of what other people might think. Even writing this comment makes me feel scared already....
I subscribed today and already got like 4 notifications of this Channel. I never saw something like This lol you guys work so hard thank you :D
i clicked this video because i know i lack confidence but instead, this signs were me *before*. i'm glad that i have learned to believe in myself more.
i hope whoever read this, may you boost confidence and have a worry-free life :)
You cant have a relationship because you believe a partner can get someone better than you.
I lack so much confidence, I try to keep going or build confidence but I always end up feeling hollow, sad, and weak. Sometimes I don’t feel like I belong or fit in anywhere.
Feels like there’s nobody out there like me.
“Have you noticed one of these signs in others or maybe yourself?”
Me - “all of them”
you just opened my eyes, thanks for do this videos
I definitely relate to undiciciveness 😅
Thanks...so uplifting...this channel is so great in pointing out all my flaws 🙂
your video helps a lot. I wish there were some to do things also, means how to overcome these... 😀
POV: You knew already and were just making sure
PERFECT TIMING W H A T
I saw some points in this video... When i don't isolate myself for long periods of time, i seek desperatly for someone to talk to, and also... I rarely enjoy time alone...
The root cause of most of our problems is lack of confidence...
Self doubts kill..
Then solve your confidence problem. I did, and my life is a thousand times better
Root cause is thought pollution 🤯...giving rise to all problems
Today we had our yearbook photoshoot and everyone and it made me realize how different I was from ALL of my classmates. Everyone was confident, they did make up, they did cool poses for the pictures. While I was about to cry when I knew I was up next- I mean I’ve always been aware of my low self esteem but seeing other people so confident like that, it shocked me. Now I actually realized the degree of my low self esteem. It shouldn’t be like this and I can’t imagine being confident like at all, this is how I’ve been my whole life. It’s sad when I actually think about it lol
>7 signs you lack confidence
_#8: You rush to comment on videos as soon as notifications go off._
KWBWOWJWK 💀💀
How'd you know-
i got 3 out of 7 this time but before i got every single one of the signs. i’m so happy i improved! i’m still slowly getting there.
One step at a time! 💪
Me: *Knows I have abysmal self confidence and that I do all these things*
Also Me: I feel called out-
Woww I just realized that something that is stopping me from achieving my goals is lack of self confidence!
Me knowing damn well I lack confidence: well well well let's find out
I related to #3, #4, #5 and #7 in my childhood and adolescence. Sometimes being nice gets to the point where you start to resent others. Don't say yes so often that others start asking too much of you. Don't be so nice that people start to take advantage of your kindness and use your good nature against you.
Believe me confidence and self admiration are the best feelings 🥲❤️👑
So... laziness is a lack of confidence ;^; oki thats stupid.. anyways
Thank you for making this video. It really helps us alot❤
Laziness does not mean lack of confidence, it’s a sign of lack of confidence.
@@lydia3158 that is exactly the same thing. A red wall is not a red wall, its a red wall
Mr Diamond I mean if you are lazy it doesn’t mean that you have a lack of confidence but if you are lazy it might be because you have a lack of confidence
@@lydia3158 its kinda hard to believe you can take on the world while living on your couch
This is the Amazing grace. John 3:16 "For God loved the world that he sent his only begotten son so that's whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life" . For God didn't send his son to condemn the world but through him they might be saved... God loves you so much that he suffered died and rose from the dead to pay the punishment of your sins. All you gotta do is ask for forgiveness 🙏 (read the 10 commandments)and trust in the finished work of The lord Jesus Christ on the cross. You be saved from the eternal damnation of Hell and be granted eternal life in Heaven... The end is Nigh🔥. Jesus is coming soooon. Jesus is lord
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Number 4 and 5 are big ones that I can relate to.
Number 4 is because I always have a need to try and get people close to me to say " I'm proud of you" because otherwise I feel like I haven't accomplished anything.
I also have trouble making decisions on my own because I'm afraid that people will say what I'm doing is wrong and give me the impression that I shouldn't be making mistakes.
I finally came to this realization in December 2019 and made it new years resolution to work on it.
It doesn't mean I'll stop before 2021, it means that it is a goal that I started in 2020 and stay committed to making that goal a reality.
I constantly wanna just eat *eat EAT E A T* all the time idk if it's normal (it's not) or why •_•
Or maybe I'm just hungry idk
_proceeds to eat table_
1 You have poor posture. Yes, I do that consciously. I feel it's less intimidating that way.
2 You don't go out alone? no.
3 You can't say no? no.
4 You seek validation from others? no.
5 You're indecisive? not really.
6 You don't prioritize self-care? yes. I'm making progress.
7 You isolate yourself? yes. well no.
Thanks for the video, now I understand why sometimes I get told I'm lacking confidence.
Who put me in the thumbnail 😡
Im starting to see myself improving because I always say yes before even when im really busy and this video made me realize I have a development
The rich stay rich by investing like and investing without stopping then the poor stay poor by spending like the rich yet not investing like the rich
Well said👏
You are right, investing is the key
Well that's generally true its concerning that several of the richest most successful investors are sitting on the sidelines right now and waiting for a better entry point
So true lol, it doesn't make sense
It can be said a little simpler, if you want to be rich then focus on saving and investing, if you want to be poor then focus on spending
Already invested in stocks and I cant really get a good returns from it
I'm not confident enough to achieve my dreams because I am afraid my family will judge me, and hate me. I barely have the confidence to go against my parents' will, so If they say no, I just feel really pissed, shove it in and say "Ok". I am trying to get enough confidence so I can at least try to stand up for myself, it's a work in progress.