I cut out porn a couple of months ago, based on advice from "No more Mr Nice Guy," and to my surprise the next time I hooked up with a woman it was probably the best sex I had ever had. No, I don't think it was because of her. This is great advice Anna.
Don’t be afraid to give tough advice to men, and don’t apologize when you do give tough advice. Tough men will appreciate every ounce of tough advice you give and everything you said in this video is true.
Social media has disrupted peoples thoughts and personalities. I've watched how it's affected my daughter and other people that play on the computer rather than face to face interaction. Reading a book is great for the mind, along with exercise. Good video Anna. I'm glad you're pointing this stuff out.
Great point about actual print book reading! It affects the brain differently than reading on a screen. Also, too much screen time changes the shape of the eye and makes people near-sighted sooner. Sometimes forcing kids (if encouragement doesn't work) to do things they need to do (get off the screen) is worth the attitude you get. (Keeping in mind I don't have kids, just opinions!)
@@YourWingmam As a parent it is almost impossible to remove the screen from your kid. It is much easier to help them doing the right things like going to that activity, meeting friends IRL, or getting that home work done. Be your own loving parent. And remember to hug yourself.
@@YourWingmam You have a very good opinion. I've asked a friend why they enjoy learning and reading. They didn't know until (being me), I dug deeper. She asked her mother. The family had a routine. 5 out of 7 days after dinner they'd read. Her mother would read Shakespeare to the 6 kids starting at 3 years of age. Then they would take turns reading. I was impressed and envious. A great parent. It was a routine everyone looked forward to. Anna, you do good videos that are informative and entertaining. You're helping guys. Keep getting them out of the house and off the screen.
I can’t even imagine what it is like to be in your 20’s now. If I could go back in time, I would spend EVERY waking second improving myself and have some goals. Why? Because you aren’t missing anything in your 20’s and it will probably pay off in your 30’s. The problem is, in your 20’s, you think you are invincible and will live forever
Amazing video. Reconcile yourself with Nature: "inspiring silence"; watchin' a good movie in a mountain shelter, with or without company, is always brutal. Go Nature ! Don't limit yourself to women in your friends groups . Meet someone outside the box.
Thank you for being my wingman. I hold myself responsible for messaging up my last really good opportunity. Perhaps she wasnt the one. my job and circumstances have kept me out of the dating pool. However im taking up the gym , country dancing. Tonight Karaoke. A local musician invited me to a jam session. Thinks i can sing. Anyhow trying real hard at retirement. So our of practice. I appreciate all the help I can get. I need more confidence and learn to be less serious.
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With regard to gaming and also entertainment in general, self improvement is always a very important thing, I do agree. I've learned that you can be too lazy or addicted to entertainment, but you can also work too hard. If you are always thinking about improving yourself, that can lead to burnout and being too achievement focused. Sometimes, it's good to just relax and not work on the next skill to improve, work towards the next promotion, or learn the next thing to know. Personally, trying very hard all the time is something that I find exhausting. I understand that some people are more of the go getter type of personality and love getting things done, but I am pretty laid back. That has helped me to see that life is not just something to change us and challenge us, but also something to be enjoyed. Within a day of productivity is when I think it's fine to relax by doing things such as playing a video game or watching funny videos on RUclips that have no long term value in and of themselves (though I disagree with watching adult content and I agree with not fawning or lusting on social media). Life is full of stress, so having hobbies and having fun is very important, especially for someone who is an adult who has more responsibility and therefore more stress. I'm of the viewpoint that adults should be having more fun and better relaxation than kids when they do get the time so that they can counteract the greater amount of stress they have and recharge themselves appropriately. As the old saying goes, "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy", but I do believe that it will also make him a dull man.
Dude I totally agree. RUclips etc bursting with “ you’re not good enough / squeeze more performance out/ morning routines “ etc etc general self-improvement vids . And then we talk about low self-confidence and depression nowadays … 🙄. There’s a middle ground but the extremes are being pedalled by people who don’t forget are ALL monetising. Interesting to me how many gurus et Al end up in a bad state / exposed a train wrecks in life , even suicide. As you say life’s hard enough nowadays - we need sone bloody stress relief! Like modern women make our lives a pleasure … 🙄.
@@YourWingmam will do. Wish I would've found your videos sooner. Saw the 1 on 5 manipulation tactics today that would've helped me a lot. Better late than never tho. God bless and keep up the great work.
Thank you Coach,amazing video, long over due. You covered it all. Im with you 100 percent. Social media is toxic and it will corrupted most guys involve in it. Good health,gym and hobbies will be a way better option. Music or motorcyles or sports is a great start. Stay safe and God bless.
At age 60, I learned to play guitar, harmonica and sing. 2 years later, I'm the front man of a Neil Young Tribute band. Was on stage at 6 months in. My band members are all long tyme musicians. I would never have dreamed this would be part of my life..
This is very good advice, well-presented, AND supported by well-known psychologists. For example, Jordan Peterson, who says “men and women should think very hard about their own personal shortcomings and not the evil of the opposite sex, and (as you point out) they should strive to amend themselves in the very ways that would make them attractive.”
Good advice. As someone else commented don't apologize for giving hard truths. Exercise can be boring so I watch educational videos while walking on a treadmill. Two birds, one stone.
Absolutely on point. Me, particularly, I’m going to the gym and studying my fourth language, I have a healthy diet… almost like a narcissistic thing 😂. Women don’t have to be the protagonists in our lives
Western women actually love male narcissists tho for real. There are studies. VS a well adjusted caring man (nice guys) women overwhelming choose the narcissist (guys with the dark triad traits)
Top class content and Practical advice. 1). People are going away from social media, FB etc but Tiktok for 20/20 minutes music videos shouldnt harm. 2). Gaming havent done for a decade but for those who do make it on Saturdays and Sundays. NOT EVERYDAY!! 3). Pron. Agree with you, but may be once a week or twice for a few hours wont be that bad. I KNow Ill be rediculed but sometimes it is motivational. But instead of Pron visit some nice place do hiking etc you will love it. Actually people who are into it for a long time are either depressed or dont know what to do. They dont need to get motivation, they need something by which they can earn and get respected and it varies from case to case. A bad incident. fraud has damaged their ego to the point that they cant recover(we thats wahat they think but they can recover 200%) they need to slowly get out of depression etc and you have showed them what needs to be done.
Didn't know how We were going to react to this but...WOW. GREAT content. I think the word that's missing here that most need to hear is BALANCE. Learned that words yrs ago and STILL learning as things like social media keep getting bigger and bigger (no pun). What it might come down to is asking what really matters. GREAT STUFF ANNA!!
Great talk Anna. I think p feels addicting bc it doesn't satisfy to soul like true love. True love is amazing and so satisfying. Having a cute good girl who respects and loves you is totally worth the hard work and self improvement. After awhile stuff like gaming, p really get exposed as boring. Thanks for the very empowering video to be all we can be.
Great advice, as always! 🥰 your videos! Great delivery 😇 😍! You’re giving the kind of life advice that parents should pass onto their kids, but most don’t. Getting your head in the game is so important if you’re going to be successful with anything in life, including relationships. The first 2 distractions you talk about didn’t even exist when I was in the dating game. Life was simpler and more random then. Meditation and listening to your gut helps too. The spirit guides will help you find a romantic partner if you’re open to listening to them.
I second this motion. Annna is always kicking real game and knowledge. Pay attention and listen closely. "You are the prize." Louder for the people in the nose bleed seats.👏👏👏👏
You are spot on in your analysis! The imagination has always been a more powerful stimulant than watching women whose only goal is to make money, usually for men who exploit them in the sex industry. Online gaming is such a huge issue for so many younger men who forego even learning to drive to feed their thrill of online video games. My personal flaw is using social media to interact with people. I post a lot of real time travel videos, concert clips, and local history stories ( I’m a history teacher) Widowed two years, I get out a lot. I go to concerts, backpack, participate in community theater, and rebuild cars. All of this is done by myself. I am reasonably conversational and funny but I get very little traction with women other than occasional friendly banter. My posts are always well received by usually 150 or so people which gives me a sense of connection with people I don’t seem to get in any other way. Social media is a blessing and a curse
If it's OK for me to say, The peacock feather print dress, the long feathers ornamenting your hair, Your hair itself, Really hit it out of the park today lady. Nice job. Great topic and well laid out too.
I do work out 6 days a week and an in fairly good shape. And I do have about 15 pounds that I need to lose. You’re right! After the gym I typically come home. Watch a lot of TV and or game. I do watch some po-n but it’s not a daily occurrence. Guys she’s 100% correct. I find myself imagining what life could be like but besides the gym I don’t actually want to put in the effort anymore. I think she’s motivated me to take the next steps. I just need to get out there some more. Although as a woman I keep wondering how she figured this all out.
I don't follow ladies on social media other than you Anna! What can I say, I like smart ladies that can hold a great conversation. A nice time out is a whole let better once you get to know a person and share experiences. It's not at all about a physical relationship.
Thanks Wingman, my partner for 53 years has made my life very interesting and I thankfully have never had to use adult content, as she says I would rather do it than watch it. I enjoy your videos that they are productive and have real content. Keep up the good work.
To be honest, I did watch adult content videos that were "homemade videos" created by women themselves alone in those videos. I was single young man at the time & did not have any psychological impact on me. In fact, it taught me to be more aware of female anatomy. By the way.... great video lesson as always from Wingmam!
Wise advice - especially the bit about "even if you want to stay single, is this really going to help you". This is all good advice to men wanting a relationship ore not wanting a relationship. The other dangerous aspect of adult content is it often normalises violent and misogynistic behaviour towards women. Improving your body and your mind will be more self-fulfilling personal and more attractive to women. Well said Wingman! x
I just loved that photo from Doctor Who. 🙂 I also loved what you said about learning a new skill and cleaning up the home environment. In late 2018, I took up ballroom dancing and it has served me well in many ways. Also, I hired cleaners to come in bi weekly and it gives me such a sense of peace. Finally, I loved this video for giving very positive and constructive feedback.
I am 69, divorced for 4 years and have taken up Latin dancing. As with ballroom, it is a good skill to learn (the ladies love a man who knows how to lead her around the dance floor). I have met some lovely ladies from twenty somethings to ladies my own age and would recommend it to anyone who is prepared to put in the effort. Anna has pointed out in numerous videos the importance of working to improve yourself in what ever way appeals to you
Seems like the 3 bad habits boil down to this: they remove the user from reality. They substitute attractive fiction for reality. They train the brain to desire and appreciate something that is actually unobtainable because it is based in fiction. Romans 12:2 addresses the need to focus on godly patterns, not worldly ones, in order to truly experience transformation of the mind. I choose to fixate on the eternal promises of God over the temporal stimulation of this age. Confession: the one woman on the planet I'd choose to take on a date (if I could) is attractive to me for her brain & personality (her stunning red hair is a lovely benefit ;). Another confession: I fought attraction to p0rn for many years; at the end of it all, it was of no benefit and lots of detriment. Real loving relationships have nothing to do with what p0rn sells! Good vid today. Praying for you always. -- Russ PS/Don't worry about the comment above; I'm not one of your stalker boys. A fella has to have an occasional unrealistic aspiration in his life, though, so he keeps reaching higher! Mr. T. snores "hello!" ;)
Very astute observation! Reality and the real tangible world of true connection (even if not with a woman). Thank you for compliment ;) and glad you were able to avoid lurid and lusty temptations! Hello Mr. T and God bless you, Russ!
Great comment, life is never set and is really a work in progress. Those things that nourish the soul and focus on God's truth are what we should all want and work toward. 👍👍👍
FB free (in my phone) since november. Using IG only to connect with my younger coworkers and uploading my material on music and trekking. You nailed it in all three but specially in porno. It truly is pernicious. Gaming and social media too of course but porn is worse because it also influences sex life _heavily_ and not in a good way. There's a fourth element I'd add: recreative drugs. Only very very few people I've met in my life can control that stuff through the years. Working near many musicians and in the gambling industry, I can tell you: do recreative drugs (maybe just occasionally even) for long enough and it'll set you for failure at worst and a mediocre life at best.
This video has been such a positive thing I really enjoyed to see. Not many positive and very full of wisdom type of content like these can be found out there... Not specially from women themselves trying to help men in these current years that feminism and women in general don't care about: the mental issues from men. I'm a virgin, sexless, friendless,kissless guy in 32 years old. Never had a compliment about my body, never had a date, never had sex, never being loved or desired. I wish I could have seen content like these supporting and helping men back then when I started playing videogames since like 6-7 years old. Through the entire course of my life, I have been alone, never had any friends at all. Never had any sexual or romantic interest from any girl, ever. I just used videogames my whole life as a shortcut to avoid reality. My reality. Like a drug would ever do or alcohol for other men to skip something terrible that happened through their lives. I was always bullied, never got positive reinforcements either from my personality or body from a girl, ever. The few girls I found cute through the school and college grades, either laughed on me, humillated, bullied, directly or indirectly called me out as ugly. I'm a genetically and objectively unattractive person. Besides my introverted, chill, quiet, respecful personality, it still never succeeded to give me a sexual-romantic reward from any woman ever. But even to give that girl the same in exchange. I watched porn since 17 until 25 years old but I never masturbated out of that. I just wanted (or attempted to) fit the narrative that mostly of guys were talking back then in school, which is sex. I always thought that touching my genitals was bad, because several insecurity and I always had a problem with foreskin to ever get any pleasure out of it. Surprise is, at least very late in life (28 years old), I could find out I had a larger than average male member. I discovered masturbation late in 28 and a half years old. I never could have ever believed that I could feel such a level of pleasure. Maybe because I was ignorant about the fixes that could get for my penis, but also for never having any sense of self-esteem. Since that age until now, I have used masturbation 3-4 times a day to forget my reality, aside from videogames. I use them to forget the fact that never have had any friends but even what I have wanted and desired for over 2 decades which is giving the max of pleasure in bed and life to one or more women. I never masturbated with porn. I always wanted to believe that some day I could do it with a woman that desired me so incredibly much that I could get out of this deep hole of depression. I eventually in 28 and a half years old, I at least managed to get to know what's like to feel pleasure from your own body through only sexual and erotic fantasies with a girl I could think of. 1) My first question, is actually negative for a man to ONLY masturbate based on some erotic picture from a girl and just get through erotic/sexual fantasies to arouse yourself ? I couldn't find any information about this because the masturbation for men, is very usually associated with porn. Not with erotic fantasies or just pure imagination, besides some picture or casual video. I really wish you can help me with this. 2) Is a bad thing to be a guy that desires so much a girl in bed and being loved in life, but also attempt my best to give her the best pleasure as possible ? 3) Is a crime or sin to ever being an introverted, chill, quiet, respecful (never a simp) guy that never got rewarded in any sexual-romantic way with women, besides many of them were after the "chad" or "asshole" that treated them like sex objects, dominant, aggressive ? I mean, I have been called out as well as "boring", but even if there're dudes out there that are very negative influences for being dominant, treating women like sex objects, being "their protectors", but even if through all social media is supposed to claim they're a "negative companionship", they still do get not only few but very women they can have sex with or establish a relationship. Instead of me, just for being a guy that never got into troubles or debts, never went to any parties, never drank any alcohol, drugs or smoke, I would have beee systematically discarded, rejected, invisibilized and bullied from women themselves.... Is a crime or sin for society to be discarded and isolated this way ? I feel on the same level like it would be a pederast, a drug-dealer, a human trafficker or male rapist. And I have felt all my life like lied by social media because guys like me are not the ones that are precisely surrounded by sexual or romantic opportunities. Specially since 2000 where the sexual-romantic chances for an average to ugly looking man, have been very limited. My point is, I wished these type of videos or books ever existed back then in late 90s. Any society at all ever have cared about mental issues from men. I have always seen there're support for women mental issues but not from us... I can only wish you have a good life, health and success with your RUclips channel, fellow content creator. This is more positive than any onlyfans or pornhub video that could ever exist out there that just represents only self-destruction for the mental state of any man.
Wow its amazing your insight to all of this, its so simple yet its so hard because people don't want to fit in a specific boss. We can't question the way the world works we either choose to play ther game or we walk away.
I somewhat disagree with the gaming one. There are some games that are very memorable and extremely rewarding, emotionally and spiritually. A good movie, book, song, or game can help guide you through life. Most of these games (for me) are single player story driven games however, and I think you're mostly referring to competitive online games. There are also highly educational games.
I'm definitely watching way too much useless RUclips (with the exception of your thought provoking and productive videos!), and some of the examples you provided, but in my fifties I wrongly justified it as being too old to date now & can't attract anyone, have no real friends...I intentionally limit TV viewing (and watching adult content on the internet), I'm exercising more than ever, cleaning my home more, and most of my social media is keeping in touch with real past friends and family, but being worried about getting covid has definitely made me go out much less. Truth hurts though! You are right on the money, all activities you mentioned are real time wasters and there's always room for improvement. Thank you Anna. Now if i can just keep myself from developing too big a crush on you!😉
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Ana, fabulous & wise advice ! I'm 59 & lost my amazing lovely wife of 32 years 18 months back. Climbing out of the grief tunnel is most difficult thing I've faced. God has really stretched me - losing a beloved spouse is a tragedy. But, Praise God I'm seeking to be a different better version of the old me. Much self improvement going on ! Watching your profoundly excellent advice of course. Boy has dating changed. My wife & I did a Courtship model in our large Church, back in the day. That hasn't changed - the most character filled ladies are frequently (not always or exclusively) found at church. Also I am very active in cycling and pickleball, which means I meet lots of potential active & Christian ladies. May I ask you: As I was HAPPILY married 32 years and am only looking for a healthy Christian lady (45-65) do you think using a Christian dating app (Upwards or Christian Mingle) or e-harmony or fitness singles and specify "Christian" is my best move ? Or just let my Social circles be wide & varied and see if she appears ? I'm not against a divorced woman but the 3 I've gotten to know have a ton of baggage. The ones that are lovely are literally, all married. I've even seen a couple that are married to unfaithful drunk men & they are still there, unwilling to Divorce in their own best interest. (I DON'T support divorce UNLESS Biblical grounds are met & offending spouse refuses to change) You're very solid - best I've seen in fact & much appreciated ! David in semi-rural East Texas
I was watching one of those "Adult Content" videos once and saw a new technique. I later tried with my wife and she was so very HAPPY I did. They can be instructual sometimes.
Most of your advices are good. But I have to disagree and agree with you on the video game topic. Yes playing only video games everyday is bad for men because they are wasting time improving themselves. But you also got to understand that there are men like myself who are gamers at some point who like to play video games everyonce in a while as an hobby. But play at least 1 or 2 hours whenever he gets the chance and have other hobbies as well. And still improving himself like cleaning up his place, still able to hold a job, take care of him, and other responsibilities. These are the type of men who still get girlfriends/wives because of his responsibilities. Plus, some gamers grt paid by taking part in gaming tournaments, or getting paid by streaming games online. So you can't say that all women won't date gamers as long as he still improving himself as a man. Some women like gamers and may able to play along with him as a team or vs each other.
Honestly. Great list. Add maybe, engage productive hobbies, they develop skills and expand friend circles. I've found very much to be gained by this list implemented years ago.
I just want to say you are helping me learn more about my self and that I am on the right track in my life thank you for cleraficatiom And adult content has slowly gotten boring to me and human interaction are more thrilling and fulfilling nothing online give the satisfaction that younacheeved that with in your own abilities and not served to you
Hi WingMam. Thanks for your time and efforts in these great videos! I do keep the Android time to a reasonable amount. My typical WEEK is as follows: • Three to four music playing gatherings (song circles and jam sessions) I play guitar, bass, a little mandolin. Play the drums now & then. •Public skating & ice hockey usually twice per week for twenty years now. Weightlifting at the fitness center, trying for every other day, not always successful however. •Read quite a bit; usually historical, military or economic subject matter. •Take care of an aging live-in parent: meds, hugs, household chores etc. There are very few available women at any of these gatherings. Time to think outside, inside, beside, under and over the box...... gee! I thought I was already doing that. Thanks again for your great efforts!
OK, OK, Anna. I'll admit that I only watched this video because of the 'feather' design dress and those crazy, feather earrings. LOL! 😂 Love it! No seriously, I learned some things. Thanks!
Good useful info. Regardless if one is dating or not, these three habits can be life changing. Basicaly, make every day a productive day. Winners make things happen, losers make excuses.
P*rn is a waste of time and effort. You nailed the key to these issues: While the loser wastes his life in on-line pursuits, Chad hits the gym, hits the books, learns, grows, improves himself, and gets the really desirable woman. The loser just gets older, lonelier, and less valuable in every way: Socially, physically, financially, and sexually.
Hay Anna, I have a testimonyal to your sermon 🙂. Hooters bar an grill was my vice about 20 years ago. You can put a lot of things you said into that. Well, a season happened when I was setting at the counter ( the bar) and I was looking over at other new customers and realizeing they were acting the same way when I first started and trying to make moves on some of the long time waitress that I had tried to make moves on a year earlier. My my first thoughts in that season was he or they have no chance they are just being played. Then I began to think how stupid I looked to some other patron when I was the new kid on the block. All of this I finally figured out was just a revolving door and after a couple of years I quit going.. You spoke of taking walks or doing other positive things. I found that giving myself little home work assignments, doing little chunks at a time got me back on track where I wanted to be. By the way, I always were my glasses when I listen to one of your segments. I don't want to miss a word your saying.🙂.
I'm sorry, but you simply should know better than to make a move on Hooters waitresses. You MUST know that you hold leverage over them simply because you are a customer and they are employed to be friendly and flirtatious with customers. That's where it stops. You're fooling yourself into believing this isn't the case, although it's glaringly obvious it is. You think they are obliged to date you just because you paid 10 bucks for a drink? Sorry for coming down hard on you here, but you know better than taking advantage and putting them in a very awkward situation. Coming from a man!
Hi Anna Yes I agree and I am fortunate with God's grace and mercy. I temporarily deactivated my IG & Facebook 10 days ago. I also saw my pastor to over the adult content influence. Thats my testimony. Lastly this the beginning of week 4 morning workouts. 🌄 Yeah wiyhout these changes, I WAS going downhill and loving it. Asking Jesus to clean your heart works. ❤️
Anna, I just noticed that you are almost at the quarter of 1 million subscriber mark. Congratulations. By the way I watch you because of your beauty, brains and insight.
You are totally my favorite person right now. I've struggled with numbing my mind with social media as a distraction. About a month ago I made the conscience effort to limit my time scrolling. My vice isn't porn, it is alcohol. That's the other way I numb and avoid life. I've been working on staying sober as well. I don't like porn bc it changes the way men treat women. The way men think about women. I believe the Karen and Darrin mentality of treating people is the plague of our time. God Bless Anna! Gary Stevens
I don't share this often. At 32 I joined AA and quit drinking and other. I read your comment and felt maybe you would be encouraged to know that my success with women went up significantly when I got sober. I'm certain I didn't magically turn into Don Juan, but it was very a noticeable positive success difference and didn't take long either. I benefited in countless ways. A new life awaits you. jus' say'n.
Good video. Okay I admit I'm a middle age guy who has a Xbox and likes to play once in while. As for social media I have it to either to keep up with news and old friends or follow some interests. As foe the adult content I actually cut it out because that was becoming a problem (to easy to access) for me (almost addiction). That will really screw a person up and like you mentioned there's really no reality to it plus it wasted my time and brought me low self esteem. It's one of those things I'm glad to give up as I just feel better without it but that's just me.
Thank you for sharing your experience and you are not alone! Gaming or social media once in a while isn't terrible. But anything that takes over your life, keeps you stuck, and avoiding real life isn't healthy. :)
Hello Anna, great video as always. Though I do not suffer from most of these maladies, it is still good to hear it again. BTW, loving the hair, it's growing out nice and beautifully long. 😊😊😊 GH
Very good presentation on an important topic. These three habits are like three addictions from Pandora's Box. Or, to use another analogy, they are three rabbit holes that once can fall into.
Great video Anna. I started doing tennis (at the request of "my friend"), and I am improving. Never thought I could play the game, and have met some interesting people along the way. Porn, no place in life for that, and its not even attractive, misses the beauty of a relationship (even though I am still struggling through some old crap). I use social media mostly to stay in touch with old friends from different parts around the world. I also use youtube videos to try and improve my life, learn about the political situations around the world. Great video !!!
Perhaps I see things through a unique lens but I've always been completely self-sufficient. Perhaps it is in part to bring raised by an absent mother in a latchkey environment. At 6 I was making my own lunches and walking 30 min each way to and from school. Many days I never saw my mother in daylight. So I learned very early on that the only way to make sure my needs were met was to just do it myself. Now we're in a world where it is simply acceptable for me to want a partner so she will do things for me. I don't need anyone to cook it clean for me. I do my own shopping and laundry. I can sew and knit just as well as use a hammer or wrench. Other than bedroom stuff there is literally nothing a woman can do for me that I can't do for myself but it's "wrong" for me to want a woman in my life just for physical pleasure. So now I'm told that i can't even take matters into my own hands (so to speak). So which is it? Can I seek out a woman just to get my physical needs met or do I also just have to do this myself? Does any woman even want a guy to do that? Something tells me no. It seems that men have just been out in a no win situation. Women are help up and praised as empowered for doing it themselves but men are told it's a bad thing and we should restrain ourselves.
Hi Anna, how are you doing? In my own case, I consider myself I'm a man with values but sometimes I think women are like afraid of me. I'm not the most handsome guy on earth but I'm not ugly either. I have a lot of problems like everyone else but what can I do to increase my confidence with girls? I'm all ears.
I love social media ( FB) but, for good reasons. I buy and sell and learn from it and it is an easy way to keep in touch with many people ( you would know of course ). Gaming? such a waste of non productive time. Do not understand it other than it appeals to single moms because it is not dirty/messy like working on a car or other man stuff. Great topics.
The whole point I'm making is that basically when you find a girlfriend you want to make sure you have things in common if you have nothing in common why the hell are you together
This is great subject matter and you are so right I live the fitness lifestyle and I've always been a social person I'm very cautious and aware of what I watch and read in social media I've never been a gossiper or care about what other people are doing they don't care about what I do that's my attitude so life is going great for me I must say God is good you are so right about your content in my opinion a person has to always analyze what they read what they watch and how much and if it's worth your time there's nothing like a great walk in the park with nature and the animals that surround you natural beauty and music go together great job I'm living my best life it's all God's work great job once again 🙏👍💪😎🇺🇲
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I cut out porn a couple of months ago, based on advice from "No more Mr Nice Guy," and to my surprise the next time I hooked up with a woman it was probably the best sex I had ever had. No, I don't think it was because of her. This is great advice Anna.
Not the first time I've heard that! Thank you for validating the info!
❤❤ the godly female that will still have a intimate partner
So I’ve been to church over once a week twice for 7/3/4 Years
Don’t be afraid to give tough advice to men, and don’t apologize when you do give tough advice. Tough men will appreciate every ounce of tough advice you give and everything you said in this video is true.
Social media has disrupted peoples thoughts and personalities. I've watched how it's affected my daughter and other people that play on the computer rather than face to face interaction. Reading a book is great for the mind, along with exercise. Good video Anna. I'm glad you're pointing this stuff out.
Great point about actual print book reading! It affects the brain differently than reading on a screen. Also, too much screen time changes the shape of the eye and makes people near-sighted sooner. Sometimes forcing kids (if encouragement doesn't work) to do things they need to do (get off the screen) is worth the attitude you get. (Keeping in mind I don't have kids, just opinions!)
@@YourWingmam As a parent it is almost impossible to remove the screen from your kid. It is much easier to help them doing the right things like going to that activity, meeting friends IRL, or getting that home work done.
Be your own loving parent. And remember to hug yourself.
@@YourWingmam You have a very good opinion. I've asked a friend why they enjoy learning and reading. They didn't know until (being me), I dug deeper. She asked her mother. The family had a routine. 5 out of 7 days after dinner they'd read. Her mother would read Shakespeare to the 6 kids starting at 3 years of age. Then they would take turns reading. I was impressed and envious. A great parent. It was a routine everyone looked forward to. Anna, you do good videos that are informative and entertaining. You're helping guys. Keep getting them out of the house and off the screen.
@@alfacentauri3686 Good put.
I can’t even imagine what it is like to be in your 20’s now. If I could go back in time, I would spend EVERY waking second improving myself and have some goals. Why? Because you aren’t missing anything in your 20’s and it will probably pay off in your 30’s. The problem is, in your 20’s, you think you are invincible and will live forever
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You can't imagine?
I'm 50 next year. Still looking for my first girlfriend to have family. I was injured by Drs and missed my whole life.
@@srprice2383, may God help you!
@@srprice2383It‘s never too late, the best tips on this channel, keep up going 💪
This is actually REALLY good advice, Anna! You are a wingman worth getting onboard for .
Thank you so much, I appreciate that!
the first few times I also read Wingman and thought : shouldn't it be Wingwoman?
Amazing video.
Reconcile yourself with Nature: "inspiring silence"; watchin' a good movie in a mountain shelter, with or without company, is always brutal.
Go Nature !
Don't limit yourself to women in your friends groups .
Meet someone outside the box.
Yes, love that! And thank you! :))
Thank you for being my wingman. I hold myself responsible for messaging up my last really good opportunity. Perhaps she wasnt the one. my job and circumstances have kept me out of the dating pool. However im taking up the gym , country dancing. Tonight Karaoke. A local musician invited me to a jam session. Thinks i can sing. Anyhow trying real hard at retirement. So our of practice. I appreciate all the help I can get. I need more confidence and learn to be less serious.
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So true, I like the way you bring up these themes 👍
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With regard to gaming and also entertainment in general, self improvement is always a very important thing, I do agree. I've learned that you can be too lazy or addicted to entertainment, but you can also work too hard. If you are always thinking about improving yourself, that can lead to burnout and being too achievement focused. Sometimes, it's good to just relax and not work on the next skill to improve, work towards the next promotion, or learn the next thing to know. Personally, trying very hard all the time is something that I find exhausting. I understand that some people are more of the go getter type of personality and love getting things done, but I am pretty laid back. That has helped me to see that life is not just something to change us and challenge us, but also something to be enjoyed. Within a day of productivity is when I think it's fine to relax by doing things such as playing a video game or watching funny videos on RUclips that have no long term value in and of themselves (though I disagree with watching adult content and I agree with not fawning or lusting on social media). Life is full of stress, so having hobbies and having fun is very important, especially for someone who is an adult who has more responsibility and therefore more stress. I'm of the viewpoint that adults should be having more fun and better relaxation than kids when they do get the time so that they can counteract the greater amount of stress they have and recharge themselves appropriately. As the old saying goes, "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy", but I do believe that it will also make him a dull man.
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Dude I totally agree. RUclips etc bursting with “ you’re not good enough / squeeze more performance out/ morning routines “ etc etc general self-improvement vids . And then we talk about low self-confidence and depression nowadays … 🙄. There’s a middle ground but the extremes are being pedalled by people who don’t forget are ALL monetising. Interesting to me how many gurus et Al end up in a bad state / exposed a train wrecks in life , even suicide.
As you say life’s hard enough nowadays - we need sone bloody stress relief! Like modern women make our lives a pleasure … 🙄.
Recent divorcee. Best vid you've done. Youve helped me recognize my mistakes in my marriage and help correct them,but this vid is absolute gold.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@@YourWingmam will do. Wish I would've found your videos sooner. Saw the 1 on 5 manipulation tactics today that would've helped me a lot. Better late than never tho. God bless and keep up the great work.
Anna Marie speaks the truth. This is so obvious and yet people do it ANYWAY. Keep up the good work AMJ...you are the best.
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Thank you Coach,amazing video, long over due. You covered it all. Im with you 100 percent. Social media is toxic and it will corrupted most guys involve in it. Good health,gym and hobbies will be a way better option. Music or motorcyles or sports is a great start. Stay safe and God bless.
You're welcome, glad you enjoyed it! Great suggestions, as well! God bless! :))
Good advice for those who cannot separate cyber, fantasy etc from reality.
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08:32 Hobbies are woodworking and motorcycling.
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At age 60, I learned to play guitar, harmonica and sing.
2 years later, I'm the front man of a Neil Young Tribute band.
Was on stage at 6 months in.
My band members are all long tyme musicians.
I would never have dreamed this would be part of my life..
Amazing! 🙌🎶
@@YourWingmam thank you
At 60 I learned to date professional swimsuit models, win various UFC titles and make my first billion ....... ...yeah right...
This is very good advice, well-presented, AND supported by well-known psychologists. For example, Jordan Peterson, who says “men and women should think very hard about their own personal shortcomings and not the evil of the opposite sex, and (as you point out) they should strive to amend themselves in the very ways that would make them attractive.”
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Good advice. As someone else commented don't apologize for giving hard truths. Exercise can be boring so I watch educational videos while walking on a treadmill. Two birds, one stone.
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Absolutely on point. Me, particularly, I’m going to the gym and studying my fourth language, I have a healthy diet… almost like a narcissistic thing 😂. Women don’t have to be the protagonists in our lives
I hope you're not a narcissist lol you do have healthy habits though!
Western women actually love male narcissists tho for real. There are studies. VS a well adjusted caring man (nice guys) women overwhelming choose the narcissist (guys with the dark triad traits)
Top class content and Practical advice.
1). People are going away from social media, FB etc but Tiktok for 20/20 minutes music videos shouldnt harm.
2). Gaming havent done for a decade but for those who do make it on Saturdays and Sundays. NOT EVERYDAY!!
3). Pron. Agree with you, but may be once a week or twice for a few hours wont be that bad. I KNow Ill be rediculed but sometimes it is motivational.
But instead of Pron visit some nice place do hiking etc you will love it.
Actually people who are into it for a long time are either depressed or dont know what to do. They dont need to get motivation, they need something by which they can earn and get respected and it varies from case to case.
A bad incident. fraud has damaged their ego to the point that they cant recover(we thats wahat they think but they can recover 200%) they need to slowly get out of depression etc and you have showed them what needs to be done.
Glad I could help 🙏
Didn't know how We were going to react to this but...WOW. GREAT content. I think the word that's missing here that most need to hear is BALANCE. Learned that words yrs ago and STILL learning as things like social media keep getting bigger and bigger (no pun). What it might come down to is asking what really matters. GREAT STUFF ANNA!!
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Great talk Anna. I think p feels addicting bc it doesn't satisfy to soul like true love. True love is amazing and so satisfying. Having a cute good girl who respects and loves you is totally worth the hard work and self improvement. After awhile stuff like gaming, p really get exposed as boring. Thanks for the very empowering video to be all we can be.
Glad I could help 🙏
Great advice, as always! 🥰 your videos! Great delivery 😇 😍! You’re giving the kind of life advice that parents should pass onto their kids, but most don’t.
Getting your head in the game is so important if you’re going to be successful with anything in life, including relationships. The first 2 distractions you talk about didn’t even exist when I was in the dating game. Life was simpler and more random then.
Meditation and listening to your gut helps too. The spirit guides will help you find a romantic partner if you’re open to listening to them.
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I don’t do social media… at all, no fb tic tok or anything else. I only watch Your videos to give me info on the one woman I am interested in
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Anna, The Best There Is, the Best There Was, the Best There Ever Will Be
*You're* the best, John, happy Tuesday!
Well there you have it 🧐
@@YourWingmam I wish I was the best, Anna! Happy Tuesday! 🤗
@Lukey boy You got it!
You are 100% correct about what you said. I am a perfect example of everything you said. WOW
100 percent agree. An excellent thing to do is seriously journal about your life and pay attention to how you spend each 24 hour day.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
I second this motion. Annna is always kicking real game and knowledge. Pay attention and listen closely.
"You are the prize." Louder for the people in the nose bleed seats.👏👏👏👏
Thank you for the vote of confidence!!
You are spot on in your analysis! The imagination has always been a more powerful stimulant than watching women whose only goal is to make money, usually for men who exploit them in the sex industry. Online gaming is such a huge issue for so many younger men who forego even learning to drive to feed their thrill of online video games. My personal flaw is using social media to interact with people. I post a lot of real time travel videos, concert clips, and local history stories ( I’m a history teacher) Widowed two years, I get out a lot. I go to concerts, backpack, participate in community theater, and rebuild cars. All of this is done by myself. I am reasonably conversational and funny but I get very little traction with women other than occasional friendly banter. My posts are always well received by usually 150 or so people which gives me a sense of connection with people I don’t seem to get in any other way. Social media is a blessing and a curse
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Only God can give you the peace you are seeking. Everything else is just vanity.
Your voice is awesome the way you explain and express is touching me
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
If it's OK for me to say,
The peacock feather print dress, the long feathers ornamenting your hair,
Your hair itself,
Really hit it out of the park today lady.
Nice job.
Great topic and well laid out too.
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Thank you so much for the positive feedback and compliment!
Good advice. Thank you again Pretty Lady
My pleasure ❤️
I do work out 6 days a week and an in fairly good shape. And I do have about 15 pounds that I need to lose. You’re right! After the gym I typically come home. Watch a lot of TV and or game. I do watch some po-n but it’s not a daily occurrence. Guys she’s 100% correct. I find myself imagining what life could be like but besides the gym I don’t actually want to put in the effort anymore. I think she’s motivated me to take the next steps. I just need to get out there some more. Although as a woman I keep wondering how she figured this all out.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Good advice you've told me I'm on the correct path for I'm looking to achive in life.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Top 3 advice(for men) creators right now:
1. Anna
2. Courtney ryan
3. Jessica hollywood
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I don't follow ladies on social media other than you Anna! What can I say, I like smart ladies that can hold a great conversation. A nice time out is a whole let better once you get to know a person and share experiences. It's not at all about a physical relationship.
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Thanks Wingman, my partner for 53 years has made my life very interesting and I thankfully have never had to use adult content, as she says I would rather do it than watch it. I enjoy your videos that they are productive and have real content. Keep up the good work.
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To be honest, I did watch adult content videos that were "homemade videos" created by women themselves alone in those videos. I was single young man at the time & did not have any psychological impact on me. In fact, it taught me to be more aware of female anatomy. By the way.... great video lesson as always from Wingmam!
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Am so glad am not sucked into all the social media BS.
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Wise advice - especially the bit about "even if you want to stay single, is this really going to help you". This is all good advice to men wanting a relationship ore not wanting a relationship. The other dangerous aspect of adult content is it often normalises violent and misogynistic behaviour towards women. Improving your body and your mind will be more self-fulfilling personal and more attractive to women.
Well said Wingman! x
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I almost do 75% of what you were advising...Amazing
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
Stop being a SIMP. No simping. No double texting. No complements. Buy a sail boat and be happy.
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I've been guilty of all three, despite knowing that they're bad habits, but I'm working on it ;)
Awareness is the first step to change! And you're working on it, so go you!!
I just loved that photo from Doctor Who. 🙂 I also loved what you said about learning a new skill and cleaning up the home environment. In late 2018, I took up ballroom dancing and it has served me well in many ways. Also, I hired cleaners to come in bi weekly and it gives me such a sense of peace. Finally, I loved this video for giving very positive and constructive feedback.
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I am 69, divorced for 4 years and have taken up Latin dancing. As with ballroom, it is a good skill to learn (the ladies love a man who knows how to lead her around the dance floor). I have met some lovely ladies from twenty somethings to ladies my own age and would recommend it to anyone who is prepared to put in the effort. Anna has pointed out in numerous videos the importance of working to improve yourself in what ever way appeals to you
Excellent Content that has addressed the current issues in having aspirationless generation growing in large numbers who care less for their future!!!
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@@YourWingmam Welcome Ma'am! Love for you from Bangladesh for your knowledgeable cobtents and yes , been subscribed over a year!!!
Seems like the 3 bad habits boil down to this: they remove the user from reality. They substitute attractive fiction for reality. They train the brain to desire and appreciate something that is actually unobtainable because it is based in fiction. Romans 12:2 addresses the need to focus on godly patterns, not worldly ones, in order to truly experience transformation of the mind. I choose to fixate on the eternal promises of God over the temporal stimulation of this age. Confession: the one woman on the planet I'd choose to take on a date (if I could) is attractive to me for her brain & personality (her stunning red hair is a lovely benefit ;). Another confession: I fought attraction to p0rn for many years; at the end of it all, it was of no benefit and lots of detriment. Real loving relationships have nothing to do with what p0rn sells! Good vid today. Praying for you always. -- Russ PS/Don't worry about the comment above; I'm not one of your stalker boys. A fella has to have an occasional unrealistic aspiration in his life, though, so he keeps reaching higher! Mr. T. snores "hello!" ;)
Very astute observation! Reality and the real tangible world of true connection (even if not with a woman). Thank you for compliment ;) and glad you were able to avoid lurid and lusty temptations! Hello Mr. T and God bless you, Russ!
Great comment, life is never set and is really a work in progress. Those things that nourish the soul and focus on God's truth are what we should all want and work toward. 👍👍👍
Calling religion reality....
@@andersnielsen6044 Everyone has a religion. It's just matter of what it is. Some worship God and others worship their stomach.
Oh brother
That was “ real “ , and most helpful .
Thanks very much .
God bless .
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
FB free (in my phone) since november. Using IG only to connect with my younger coworkers and uploading my material on music and trekking.
You nailed it in all three but specially in porno. It truly is pernicious. Gaming and social media too of course but porn is worse because it also influences sex life _heavily_ and not in a good way.
There's a fourth element I'd add: recreative drugs. Only very very few people I've met in my life can control that stuff through the years. Working near many musicians and in the gambling industry, I can tell you: do recreative drugs (maybe just occasionally even) for long enough and it'll set you for failure at worst and a mediocre life at best.
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This video has been such a positive thing I really enjoyed to see. Not many positive and very full of wisdom type of content like these can be found out there... Not specially from women themselves trying to help men in these current years that feminism and women in general don't care about: the mental issues from men.
I'm a virgin, sexless, friendless,kissless guy in 32 years old. Never had a compliment about my body, never had a date, never had sex, never being loved or desired.
I wish I could have seen content like these supporting and helping men back then when I started playing videogames since like 6-7 years old.
Through the entire course of my life, I have been alone, never had any friends at all. Never had any sexual or romantic interest from any girl, ever.
I just used videogames my whole life as a shortcut to avoid reality. My reality. Like a drug would ever do or alcohol for other men to skip something terrible that happened through their lives.
I was always bullied, never got positive reinforcements either from my personality or body from a girl, ever. The few girls I found cute through the school and college grades, either laughed on me, humillated, bullied, directly or indirectly called me out as ugly.
I'm a genetically and objectively unattractive person. Besides my introverted, chill, quiet, respecful personality, it still never succeeded to give me a sexual-romantic reward from any woman ever. But even to give that girl the same in exchange.
I watched porn since 17 until 25 years old but I never masturbated out of that. I just wanted (or attempted to) fit the narrative that mostly of guys were talking back then in school, which is sex.
I always thought that touching my genitals was bad, because several insecurity and I always had a problem with foreskin to ever get any pleasure out of it. Surprise is, at least very late in life (28 years old), I could find out I had a larger than average male member.
I discovered masturbation late in 28 and a half years old. I never could have ever believed that I could feel such a level of pleasure. Maybe because I was ignorant about the fixes that could get for my penis, but also for never having any sense of self-esteem.
Since that age until now, I have used masturbation 3-4 times a day to forget my reality, aside from videogames. I use them to forget the fact that never have had any friends but even what I have wanted and desired for over 2 decades which is giving the max of pleasure in bed and life to one or more women.
I never masturbated with porn. I always wanted to believe that some day I could do it with a woman that desired me so incredibly much that I could get out of this deep hole of depression. I eventually in 28 and a half years old, I at least managed to get to know what's like to feel pleasure from your own body through only sexual and erotic fantasies with a girl I could think of.
1) My first question, is actually negative for a man to ONLY masturbate based on some erotic picture from a girl and just get through erotic/sexual fantasies to arouse yourself ? I couldn't find any information about this because the masturbation for men, is very usually associated with porn. Not with erotic fantasies or just pure imagination, besides some picture or casual video. I really wish you can help me with this.
2) Is a bad thing to be a guy that desires so much a girl in bed and being loved in life, but also attempt my best to give her the best pleasure as possible ?
3) Is a crime or sin to ever being an introverted, chill, quiet, respecful (never a simp) guy that never got rewarded in any sexual-romantic way with women, besides many of them were after the "chad" or "asshole" that treated them like sex objects, dominant, aggressive ? I mean, I have been called out as well as "boring", but even if there're dudes out there that are very negative influences for being dominant, treating women like sex objects, being "their protectors", but even if through all social media is supposed to claim they're a "negative companionship", they still do get not only few but very women they can have sex with or establish a relationship.
Instead of me, just for being a guy that never got into troubles or debts, never went to any parties, never drank any alcohol, drugs or smoke, I would have beee systematically discarded, rejected, invisibilized and bullied from women themselves.... Is a crime or sin for society to be discarded and isolated this way ? I feel on the same level like it would be a pederast, a drug-dealer, a human trafficker or male rapist.
And I have felt all my life like lied by social media because guys like me are not the ones that are precisely surrounded by sexual or romantic opportunities. Specially since 2000 where the sexual-romantic chances for an average to ugly looking man, have been very limited.
My point is, I wished these type of videos or books ever existed back then in late 90s. Any society at all ever have cared about mental issues from men. I have always seen there're support for women mental issues but not from us...
I can only wish you have a good life, health and success with your RUclips channel, fellow content creator. This is more positive than any onlyfans or pornhub video that could ever exist out there that just represents only self-destruction for the mental state of any man.
Wow its amazing your insight to all of this, its so simple yet its so hard because people don't want to fit in a specific boss. We can't question the way the world works we either choose to play ther game or we walk away.
I somewhat disagree with the gaming one. There are some games that are very memorable and extremely rewarding, emotionally and spiritually. A good movie, book, song, or game can help guide you through life. Most of these games (for me) are single player story driven games however, and I think you're mostly referring to competitive online games. There are also highly educational games.
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I'm definitely watching way too much useless RUclips (with the exception of your thought provoking and productive videos!), and some of the examples you provided, but in my fifties I wrongly justified it as being too old to date now & can't attract anyone, have no real friends...I intentionally limit TV viewing (and watching adult content on the internet), I'm exercising more than ever, cleaning my home more, and most of my social media is keeping in touch with real past friends and family, but being worried about getting covid has definitely made me go out much less. Truth hurts though! You are right on the money, all activities you mentioned are real time wasters and there's always room for improvement. Thank you Anna. Now if i can just keep myself from developing too big a crush on you!😉
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Adult content is addictive, meaningless, and dangerous I have seen all the stuff you say to be true.. moderation is key
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
So are we considering the fact that many men watching this video are not only here for the rare and wonderful information but that this very beautiful woman is enjoyable to see as well as listen to. 🎉❤
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Thanks for the content and coaching young lady ❤️🩹
You really know how to make me laugh! LOL 😆
So happy this video doesn't apply to me... or does it? 🙄
Noon 🤣
I hope you have a chance to read my comment.
Ana, fabulous & wise advice !
I'm 59 & lost my amazing lovely wife of 32 years 18 months back.
Climbing out of the grief tunnel is most difficult thing I've faced.
God has really stretched me - losing a beloved spouse is a tragedy.
But, Praise God I'm seeking to be a different better version of the old me.
Much self improvement going on !
Watching your profoundly excellent advice of course.
Boy has dating changed. My wife & I did a Courtship model in our large Church, back in the day.
That hasn't changed - the most character filled ladies are frequently (not always or exclusively) found at church.
Also I am very active in cycling and pickleball, which means I meet lots of potential active & Christian ladies.
May I ask you:
As I was HAPPILY married 32 years and am only looking for a healthy Christian lady (45-65) do you think using a Christian dating app (Upwards or Christian Mingle) or e-harmony or fitness singles and specify "Christian" is my best move ?
Or just let my Social circles be wide & varied and see if she appears ?
I'm not against a divorced woman but the 3 I've gotten to know have a ton of baggage.
The ones that are lovely are literally, all married.
I've even seen a couple that are married to unfaithful drunk men & they are still there, unwilling to Divorce in their own best interest.
(I DON'T support divorce UNLESS Biblical grounds are met & offending spouse refuses to change)
You're very solid - best I've seen in fact & much appreciated !
David in semi-rural East Texas
Good video. So many people are wasting their lives on the internet. Women included. Smh. Live an active lifestyle.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Be yourself, nobody can scam that from you. Also don’t watch too many self-help videos…
Yes! Take what resonates, but be open to examine what doesn't :))
Correction. Be the best version of yourself. That involves development which involves acquisition of knowledge and its application.
Being perfect, I achieved the higher echelons of greatness some time ago…!
@@martinsellars5008 How do you cope with us mortals ?🙂
I was watching one of those "Adult Content" videos once and saw a new technique. I later tried with my wife and she was so very HAPPY I did. They can be instructual sometimes.
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Most of your advices are good. But I have to disagree and agree with you on the video game topic.
Yes playing only video games everyday is bad for men because they are wasting time improving themselves.
But you also got to understand that there are men like myself who are gamers at some point who like to play video games everyonce in a while as an hobby. But play at least 1 or 2 hours whenever he gets the chance and have other hobbies as well. And still improving himself like cleaning up his place, still able to hold a job, take care of him, and other responsibilities. These are the type of men who still get girlfriends/wives because of his responsibilities. Plus, some gamers grt paid by taking part in gaming tournaments, or getting paid by streaming games online. So you can't say that all women won't date gamers as long as he still improving himself as a man. Some women like gamers and may able to play along with him as a team or vs each other.
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@@YourWingmam you're welcome
I'd rather run through a mine field wearing snow shoes, than to date an American or Western woman...
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@@YourWingmam
You told me to top my comment from 3 days ago "Giving Up On Women"
Remember...
Honestly.
Great list.
Add maybe, engage productive hobbies, they develop skills and expand friend circles.
I've found very much to be gained by this list implemented years ago.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
I just want to say you are helping me learn more about my self and that I am on the right track in my life thank you for cleraficatiom
And adult content has slowly gotten boring to me and human interaction are more thrilling and fulfilling nothing online give the satisfaction that younacheeved that with in your own abilities and not served to you
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Well 'splained, Anna. Yes you're still among my favorite people I've never met!
I cant believe you respond to all the comments,..great video...keep up the good wrk...
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much! I will 🙏
I respect you so much and I cherish your hard work and time to help this generation
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
She was pretty genuine in this video. Thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
Hi WingMam. Thanks for your time and efforts in these great videos!
I do keep the Android time to a reasonable amount. My typical WEEK is as follows:
• Three to four music playing gatherings (song circles and jam sessions) I play guitar, bass, a little mandolin. Play the drums now & then.
•Public skating & ice hockey usually twice per week for twenty years now.
Weightlifting at the fitness center, trying for every other day, not always successful however.
•Read quite a bit; usually historical, military or economic subject matter.
•Take care of an aging live-in parent: meds, hugs, household chores etc.
There are very few available women at any of these gatherings.
Time to think outside, inside, beside, under and over the box...... gee! I thought I was already doing that.
Thanks again for your great efforts!
Great life, great catch! I’ve got a video coming up that’ll give you some new ideas! :)
@@YourWingmam Awesome, looking forward to it.
What are some of your interests and hobbies?
Good stuff. My situation is common but complicated.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Wow! I don't do any of them!
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Hi Anna, is there a problem with your RUclips channel?
OK, OK, Anna. I'll admit that I only watched this video because of the 'feather' design dress and those crazy, feather earrings. LOL! 😂 Love it! No seriously, I learned some things. Thanks!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Thank you for letting me know I’m doing SOME things right. ;)
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Excellent advice Sister Anna, thanks n keep that extraordinary sense of humor 😀KE.
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Good useful info. Regardless if one is dating or not, these three habits can be life changing. Basicaly, make every day a productive day. Winners make things happen, losers make excuses.
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
P*rn is a waste of time and effort. You nailed the key to these issues: While the loser wastes his life in on-line pursuits, Chad hits the gym, hits the books, learns, grows, improves himself, and gets the really desirable woman. The loser just gets older, lonelier, and less valuable in every way: Socially, physically, financially, and sexually.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Great video. Sometimes you just need to hear it from some where else. I find your videos helpful and calming.
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
Just found your channel. You give good advice in an entertaining way and have a warm, motherly aura. Thanks for the video
Glad to hear that. Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified each time I upload a new video 🙏
I feel so called out with the gaming problem!! I've been a gaming addict for years, it's really gotten in the way of getting anywhere in life.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Hay Anna,
I have a testimonyal to your sermon 🙂. Hooters bar an grill was my vice about 20 years ago. You can put a lot of things you said into that. Well, a season happened when I was setting at the counter ( the bar) and I was looking over at other new customers and realizeing they were acting the same way when I first started and trying to make moves on some of the long time waitress that I had tried to make moves on a year earlier. My my first thoughts in that season was he or they have no chance they are just being played. Then I began to think how stupid I looked to some other patron when I was the new kid on the block. All of this I finally figured out was just a revolving door and after a couple of years I quit going..
You spoke of taking walks or doing other positive things. I found that giving myself little home work assignments, doing little chunks at a time got me back on track where I wanted to be.
By the way, I always were my glasses when I listen to one of your segments. I don't want to miss a word your saying.🙂.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
I'm sorry, but you simply should know better than to make a move on Hooters waitresses. You MUST know that you hold leverage over them simply because you are a customer and they are employed to be friendly and flirtatious with customers. That's where it stops. You're fooling yourself into believing this isn't the case, although it's glaringly obvious it is. You think they are obliged to date you just because you paid 10 bucks for a drink? Sorry for coming down hard on you here, but you know better than taking advantage and putting them in a very awkward situation. Coming from a man!
Hi Anna
Yes I agree and I am fortunate with God's grace and mercy. I temporarily deactivated my IG & Facebook 10 days ago. I also saw my pastor to over the adult content influence. Thats my testimony. Lastly this the beginning of week 4 morning workouts. 🌄 Yeah wiyhout these changes, I WAS going downhill and loving it. Asking Jesus to clean your heart works. ❤️
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Cool. I don't have those bad habits. I'm off to a good start.. I'm just working on myself. Found my path an purpose.
Excellent! :)
Thanks Anna. 😊
Love you Anna! Especially when you´re being harsh
I don't love dishing out tough love but it's the kind thing to do! 💞
Anna, I just noticed that you are almost at the quarter of 1 million subscriber mark. Congratulations. By the way I watch you because of your beauty, brains and insight.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you, I appreciate that 🙏
I spin lots of time in the great out doors when not working
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The legend is back!
Anna what are the chances that we could have a conversation with you!
Will need to clone myself first lol but thanks for being here!!
@@YourWingmam Your are already cloning yourself for people in your videos! Thank you.
so many but Annas in this video ❤. Happy new year 🎉
Happy new year!!
I really luv your videos... your character is "AMAZING" keep up the great work!!!! ...whats next :)
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
You are totally my favorite person right now. I've struggled with numbing my mind with social media as a distraction. About a month ago I made the conscience effort to limit my time scrolling.
My vice isn't porn, it is alcohol. That's the other way I numb and avoid life. I've been working on staying sober as well. I don't like porn bc it changes the way men treat women. The way men think about women. I believe the Karen and Darrin mentality of treating people is the plague of our time.
God Bless Anna!
Gary Stevens
Thank you for sharing and may God bless you as well 🙏
I don't share this often. At 32 I joined AA and quit drinking and other. I read your comment and felt maybe you would be encouraged to know that my success with women went up significantly when I got sober. I'm certain I didn't magically turn into Don Juan, but it was very a noticeable positive success difference and didn't take long either. I benefited in countless ways. A new life awaits you. jus' say'n.
@@x-man5056 thank you! It is encouraging to hear this.
Good video. Okay I admit I'm a middle age guy who has a Xbox and likes to play once in while. As for social media I have it to either to keep up with news and old friends or follow some interests. As foe the adult content I actually cut it out because that was becoming a problem (to easy to access) for me (almost addiction). That will really screw a person up and like you mentioned there's really no reality to it plus it wasted my time and brought me low self esteem. It's one of those things I'm glad to give up as I just feel better without it but that's just me.
Thank you for sharing your experience and you are not alone! Gaming or social media once in a while isn't terrible. But anything that takes over your life, keeps you stuck, and avoiding real life isn't healthy. :)
Hello Anna, great video as always. Though I do not suffer from most of these maladies, it is still good to hear it again. BTW, loving the hair, it's growing out nice and beautifully long. 😊😊😊
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❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Very good presentation on an important topic. These three habits are like three addictions from Pandora's Box. Or, to use another analogy, they are three rabbit holes that once can fall into.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
beautiful adviser!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
h! your welcome!
I love to watch your channel daily!God bless!
This video touches on several important habits to follow/avoid. Definitely a healthy and useful advice. Thank you and please keep doing what you do.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you! I will.
Great video Anna. I started doing tennis (at the request of "my friend"), and I am improving. Never thought I could play the game, and have met some interesting people along the way. Porn, no place in life for that, and its not even attractive, misses the beauty of a relationship (even though I am still struggling through some old crap). I use social media mostly to stay in touch with old friends from different parts around the world. I also use youtube videos to try and improve my life, learn about the political situations around the world. Great video !!!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Perhaps I see things through a unique lens but I've always been completely self-sufficient. Perhaps it is in part to bring raised by an absent mother in a latchkey environment. At 6 I was making my own lunches and walking 30 min each way to and from school. Many days I never saw my mother in daylight. So I learned very early on that the only way to make sure my needs were met was to just do it myself. Now we're in a world where it is simply acceptable for me to want a partner so she will do things for me. I don't need anyone to cook it clean for me. I do my own shopping and laundry. I can sew and knit just as well as use a hammer or wrench. Other than bedroom stuff there is literally nothing a woman can do for me that I can't do for myself but it's "wrong" for me to want a woman in my life just for physical pleasure. So now I'm told that i can't even take matters into my own hands (so to speak). So which is it? Can I seek out a woman just to get my physical needs met or do I also just have to do this myself? Does any woman even want a guy to do that? Something tells me no. It seems that men have just been out in a no win situation. Women are help up and praised as empowered for doing it themselves but men are told it's a bad thing and we should restrain ourselves.
Good advice - you make a lot of sense! Thank you for sharing 🙂
My pleasure ❤️
Another excellent video. Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
Hi Anna, how are you doing? In my own case, I consider myself I'm a man with values but sometimes I think women are like afraid of me. I'm not the most handsome guy on earth but I'm not ugly either. I have a lot of problems like everyone else but what can I do to increase my confidence with girls? I'm all ears.
My video on how to develop true confidence with women will give you the clarity you need. Check it out here 👉 ruclips.net/video/S6R4VnISABk/видео.html
That dress ! Those earrings! 😍
Happy Happy Tuesday Anna!🙏
They match! :)) I'm such a chick lol... happy Tuesday! :)
@@YourWingmam Oh God , yes you are lol
I love social media ( FB) but, for good reasons. I buy and sell and learn from it and it is an easy way to keep in touch with many people ( you would know of course ). Gaming? such a waste of non productive time. Do not understand it other than it appeals to single moms because it is not dirty/messy like working on a car or other man stuff. Great topics.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
The whole point I'm making is that basically when you find a girlfriend you want to make sure you have things in common if you have nothing in common why the hell are you together
You're absolutely right!
This is great subject matter and you are so right I live the fitness lifestyle and I've always been a social person I'm very cautious and aware of what I watch and read in social media I've never been a gossiper or care about what other people are doing they don't care about what I do that's my attitude so life is going great for me I must say God is good you are so right about your content in my opinion a person has to always analyze what they read what they watch and how much and if it's worth your time there's nothing like a great walk in the park with nature and the animals that surround you natural beauty and music go together great job I'm living my best life it's all God's work great job once again 🙏👍💪😎🇺🇲
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!