How to Deal With A Toxic Personality | Sadhguru
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- Sadhguru answers a question on how to handle the ego. He talks about how the ego is something that we have made for ourselves, and how we can unmake it if we choose.
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Some of the most toxic people come disguised as friends and family🙏
That is the truth. Thanks for saying this! everyone needs to know this.
There are no toxic people, only traumatic events that hurt people. The problem is that trauma takes work to heal, and t majority of people do not want to admit they are traumatized.
@@frskatefun The people who do not admit that they are traumatized are the toxic people. They want to bring everyone into their tiny bubble of fear. I could understand what your point of view is, and i don't mean to undermine it. Thanks for your point of view.
And as guru's ..
I have a toxic boss and a toxic co-teacher. It’s so draining on your energy. Every day us like a roller coaster.
“If you think you are big, you become small. If you know you are nothing, you become unlimited. That's the beauty of being a human being.” - 🧡 *SADHGURU (☀️Your Wisdom RUclipsR)🌸💫💜*
I felt like nothing for such a long time, in my search to find happiness I found value. The guru showed me value that I always had inside myself. If it wasn't for this man I would not be here.
@GeminiBrownEyes beautiful that you are here. Thank you for your service.
Once we heal ourselves, we make the world a better place ✨️
Its really true
Yes 🙌🏻
If i'm beautiful it's me, if i'm ugly it's me. Powerful words by Sadhguru. If only this much sense dawns upon humanity world will be different and probably more beautiful.
Yess
I don t understand what sort of changes this realisation causes inside you
@@stefaniakonstantinidou981 I think I got you, sadhguru said pleasantness and this dude talk about beauty
I loved his original response: "Yours or someone else's?" I can't help but feel a little foolish after an argument when you realize the beginning of things, at least in my case.
Hello am from the caribbean jamaica to be exact and this mans great teachings has opened my eyes and let me see things as never before.much thanks and gratitude to you (Sadhguru)
You don’t deal with a toxic personality at all, that’s how you deal with it
true! or you either greyrock them or practise soul distancing, if you are depending on them one way or another.
Get out of your,, box,, that's how.
What if you have to in order to see your kid
Not always possible if the person is co worker or family/friends
If U don't deal with a toxic person you are just an ostrich with its head in the sand because these people are everywhere their is no avoiding them
I'm in middle school...
I needed these skills
Well said, let's do the inner workings here.
There are people who want to see other people suffer, and they go out of their way to make other people suffer. These people are toxic and should be cut off. There are people who want to see other people do well and they go out of their way to stay out of the way, or help. These people should be bowed down to. We should all be the people that want to see everyone do well. In a capitalist society many people want to see others doing worse then them, so they sabotage them and then both of them do worse. If many people were not busy sabotaging others then they would have time to do as well. No need for sabotage, yet it still happens. Spiritually and physically. These people should be and shall be cut off.
It’s all the same
@@frskatefun everything and everyone and all circumstances are different. Even animals recognize the toxic one in the group and kick them out for the better of the group. Are we not as smart as animals? I really want to know what you mean, that it's all the same.
“If you are not identified with the accumulations of body and mind, you will become still. And that is all it takes to meditate.” - ❤️ *SADHGURU (🧡☀️Your Wisdom RUclipsR)🌸💫💜💗*
if you think sunshine brings you happiness then you have not danced in the rain
You are so right ..whenever rain happens I feel aliveness within me alot ..but some peoples push agenda that rain gives sadness ..these kind of peoples have different karma ..may be more kind of materialistic peoples feels sad in rain
prejudice is the second trouble of humanity 🙏Thank you for your help 🙏
That is soo true, I don't know you but I love you for using the truth.
Yes, is your Who doing all the work, no body out there doing it for you. Remember that , ego work is your creation 💝🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💝💝
Every word he utters is like poetry.
You know
I know
If I'm pleasant its me
If I'm unpleasant it's me
But still it goes on 🙂
Thankyou sadhguru for being the best companion of us 🙏☺️
LOVE FROM UK 🇬🇧🇬🇧
YOU ALWAYS SHARE SIMPLE & POWERFUL TIPS FOR LIFE-CHANGING🍀
Rather than a stranger...all these toxic creatures come to us... as family, extended family, friends or a very close zone which we trust and love the most but get deceived in return...I would always wonder...why this happens to me always 😶
I was unpleasent to people at work a few days ago and i felt so bad i even thought i would get fired and i would not blame them fir doing so but today im still remembering the unplesantness i created but the guilt is now becimcomig a learning exp how not to act and with time it will heal and mabee our team can grow stronger it was a low point in our working days niw mabee we can reach higher but i will do it without creating unpleasness like that again
I would have say, when I am pleasant it's my ego,and when I am unpleasant it's my ego. because when ego is not there, you neither pleasant or unpleasant, you are just a void. if you can qualify yourself as anything, you are already with your ego.
Dear Sadhguru will you please make an Isha yoga center in Mumbai. Thank you very much. Please Sadhguru I request you to make it happen for the people of Mumbai. We really really need it.
Simple but yet powerful... Love from Nairobi, Kenya.
. Liked your comment Thank you sadhguru for bringing me to light.Jane wambui. Kenya.
To be honest,precisely because of ego, almost most of the problems in my life, I can thank you right now for my fear of being ridiculed, of being rejected from society.. And it was all a product of my ego that was pretty shaky as early as childhood.. Because of the need to appeal to others, we do various childish things by harming ourselves, especially if we fall into the trap of being special, that no one can understand us and that we are forced to live some avant-garde life, alone against the world, while secretly suffering for distance that we've imposed on ourselves. Indeed, ego is a very complex side of personality that attacks to protect against re-hurting our personality. It is very difficult to discern at times whether our actions are due to ego or a real meaningful reaction!? We definitely need to think twice before we act!!! 🌬️🌀🌌🙏🏻
you dont need enemies when you have wonderful family,friends,teachers,colleagues ....................... :)
you are again going in to the dependent zone No dont go there be independent be all by yourself peaceful and pleasant
your life is you your making only if your pleasantness comes from your family teachers colleagues thats a sickness u know
@@sanjayreddy1388 I agree. My family makes me sick, and I am sooo at peace by myself. My family wants to take that peace away from me because they don't have it. If I try to share it with them they will not accept it.
@@QuailCanyonAnthropolgy
There mentally ill or very bitter cause life didn't pan out for them the way they fantasized
I love how the answer is always the same and yet I could hear it said over and over 💛
Beautiful lesson thanks this will help me to connect with my unpleasant and horrible me!❤️
passing through very hard times.. plzz blesse me Sadh guru 🙏.. im totally collapsed
You shuld Jivan vidya global som Tyagi
Maybe your all problems solve.
@@alphaarchonff4609 i just don't get it 🙏.. plzz say clearly
When In hard time, always start and end your day with one good video (any 10 minute or more video), either sadguru, bk shivani or eckhart tolle etc. it will slowly shift your consciousness and you come out stronger. It changes the quality of the day and the sleep at night.Then when you come out of this hardship and look back , you will actually be glad you went thru this hard time, because without it, you could not have developed the strength!! Every hardship has come to you to reveal a hidden treasure within you. This technique has worked and continues to work for me , so I am sure you can too. Good luck and take care dear one! 🙏
@@mca3001 thank you 😊
It would be really helpful if you add subtitles into this please, it's hard to hear for non english speakers. Thanks 🙏
Kind sir, you can turn on the captions on this video and it will give you auto-generated subtitles. It may help you out.
@@rudolf5792 it was disabled, now it's on, thanks.
@@pgporta bro sadhguru have other language channels also ..go to channel option you may find your language
The moment of horror will go down. U don't hav to do anything. Rightly said.
Love how the person asks about how to deal with a big ego, especially from a Western person.
And Sadhguru brings it back to the asker.
Thank u for your wisdom honestly these videos are really teaching me how to live a better life for myself and my family
Sometimes pleasant sometimes unpleasant it is me!!!
So what if *I'm* the toxic personality? (Childhood trauma, hyper-criticism and self-loathing.) Thanks for Inner Engineering. When I'm consciously aware and choosing my thoughts it works. But I can't be myself, or emotionally available, or on the moment. I'm a horrible person to be around.
I Know-how that feeling… wishing you the best. changing is Hard… Therapie Anfang small Changes in relationships maybe
Sending you love ❤.
Thank you SadhGuru Ji
Pranam Guru... we are all experiencing life...simply life
Toxic people are everywhere even in family. This formula can be applied there also....
What's the formula? I dint quite understand
Malefic spirits/beings enter the Mind, I've seen it with my own eyes and Soul..
Healing a broken Heart means time will charm you with Higher Conciousness, with Duality.. We need ego, but Love Vibration is essential in our Heart 🙏
@@LWLProductions Ego is the personality fed by the propaganda of the systematic program."I need to win and others need to loose" That is the ego. Many people are programmed this way. In my perception the ego is a problematic spirit that possesses a person, and makes them malefic. Guruji said there is no ego. Then why do we have to save the soil? Because many people with ego destroyed it. Now the people with no ego must fix it, or try to fix it. I don't disagree with Sadhguru, but I must fill in the holes in his truth.
@@QuailCanyonAnthropolgy I guess ego is unconscious state of mind... this invade our every cognitive functions like feelings thinking intuition and sensitivity...
Namaskaram Sadhguru.Thank you.
We are pretty busy to go within. What will you find when you go within? It's better to be unemployed here because even in Heaven, there will be no employment. - Sadhguru.
Hari om namah shivaay
Thanks sadguru
Beautiful explanation 👌
Simple and so beautiful is the way of life
Is vaccine must to come at adi Yogi statue on Shivaratri? Can anyone tell me?
That's so true.. Sadguru aapko sadar naman..
😆 I LOVED his original response: "Yours or someone else's?"
When you realize the beginning of things, at least in my case, I can't help feeling a little 🤤 foolish after an argument 😅
the spammer verified guy copied your comment lol
THANK YOU for the insight 😊
Aapko Naman h gurudev
I can't see Sadhguru's turban! That camouflage is too strong 😎
Forget ego. If I am pleasant, it is me; if I am unpleasant, it is me. Just simply be pleasant on a daily basis by forgetting ego. -Sadhguru
I'm sad that I'm almost 30, that means I was seeking for 24 years already and I still haven't been able to leave, this life is a sick joke, imprisoned in this body 👁️👁️ I hope this life never happens again
Same feeling, just want to go
This was bomb!!! Thank you so much 🙏❤️
Create an antioxidant personality
My guide for my soul
🙏quite cool..let's do lot of work here..and have a vacation after that
Thank you, Sadhguru.
Ego is subtle.
Can you see air??
Does it mean it doesn't exist?
Ego exists, and it is a bad ego that destroys the soil. It is the good ego that is trying to fix the soil.
Human ego is universal. It has no direction as Western, Eastern, Southern or Northern.
It is inborn and primitive. It can be disciplined.
Either vote them out or ask why these "toxic characters" are the only choices 🤔 As for anything else, look within. 🌍❤
My neighbor is the worst enemy , they always drinks , talks loud, always try to bring us down so that they can I their insecurities.
namaskaram satguru ❣👏
Take responsibility for your own actions
Jai Ho sadhguru ji koti koti 🙏🙏🙏🌟🌟🌟🌞🌞🌞😇😇😇🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Sadguru is star
I appreciate his answer. The title of the video and the answer don't match.
i am coming Coimbatore velliyangiri and isha yoga 2.3.22 🕉️🙏
The original question asked by this woman was, "I would like to ask how to deal with the ego; especially somebody from the Western world. How to get over it and be a good yogi?"
"...it is just like saying I'm possessed. When people behave in unreasonable ways they think spirits have taken over. No, they don't want to see that they're unreasonable people. That's why they never get well; that's why they never get straightened out. The first step that you need to see is this, if I'm pleasant it's me, if I'm unpleasant it's me." - Sadhguru
People suffering from mental and emotional imbalances have the same reality mirror as the rest of us. They are given feedback from the world, through experiences. If you have difficult interactions with others then the first place to look is yourself. This is the answer in all cases.
Self-awareness needs to be cultivated. If one doesn't want to look within to see where they are creating all experiences then through ignorance they will continue to react unconsciously and perpetuate circumstances and situations that bring only suffering.
So how to deal with difficult people? First, look within. What inner experience are you creating for yourself? Know that all experience is created only by you. Knowing that through greater self-awareness you are capable of creating a pleasant inner-experience no matter the external situation, you will consciously choose this.
Second, understand that if the person you are dealing with hasn't cultivated enough self-awareness within themselves, then they will not realize that their suffering is self-created and hence they will perpetuate unpleasant situations. They are doing this unconsciously. If the person is unwilling to look within and take responsibility for their creations then you must decide how you want to proceed. Each situation is different with different circumstances and energies. There is no 'one fits all' answer.
Look within and see what is the best way forward for you and always take responsibility for your state of consciousness.
Generally the faster the mind goes the harder it is to control ur reactions.
The body has a autonomic system with means it's reactions are pretty automatic.
So the hardest thing to do sometimes is slow down ur mind. U ever notice if u try to slow ur mind it usually gets faster?
So meditating on things is pretty much needed.
So controlling ur reactions isn't always ur fault as again it can be very automatic.
We all behave on patterns it's only thru alot of practice and self awareness we can change it.
Still a very good comment tho.
No words for u
Namaskaram sadhguru🙏
Much love to all ❤️
Thank you, thank you!!!
True .. protect yourself some guru. it’s your defensive .. dude..
Ego is not a being. It's a point of view.
🌲Sadhguru🌳🌿🌸🌹🙏
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Great vdo sir 👍
Good evening sadhguru
Thankyou for sharing this ❣️
Big fan sir
I saw your all vedios
Ok
Sadhguru qué pasa con los insectos? siento compasión por ellos pero me atacan y pueblan mi hogar, me llevaría todo el día quitarlos uno por uno y tampoco me parece dejar que lastimen mi cuerpo. estoy en una trampa karmica por matarlos? Se que son conciencia colectiva pero estoy confundido en como actuar frente a dicho evento para el bien mayor.
Gracias :)
Jai jai
Thank you.
Trmksh 🙏🙏
Nice
This is JUST what i needed to hear🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Jai sreemahakaal Jai mata di guruji
Good Timing G
Amongst many traumas I (a hardworking, resilient, diseased, bereaved, minoritised, depressed, marginalised young Indian woman) have been mistreated by too many people to this day, includinga female GP who showed zero compassion!
I am worthy of so much better!
Goodbye!
Time is ticking!
Ya bit some people have terrible attitudes no matter how you treat them. Is there any point to treat them with any respect?
Hello
Namaskaram
I came here to know how to deal with toxic person not to know how to deal with your ego..🤷♀️
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The master
One question if anybody help me i will be thankful to you
My question is when I start to meditate my posture is straight but when I finish meditation my head is facing upwards towards sky why so can anybody explain it to me 🙏
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He means his critics.
Ego is like a cartoon character trying to break free from an aminated realm into the real world, then faced with the difficult task of being human.