Only Way To Deal With TOXIC People | Gurudev

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • In this live QnA Gurudev gives us a powerful understanding of why some people behave in a toxic manner and how to deal with them. This is a must watch video!
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Комментарии • 190

  • @surimenon7660
    @surimenon7660 2 года назад +80

    When I Encounter Toxic...People...I JUST SMILE and Silence ...ON MY WAY OUT I....Give a hug...I LET GO....I prefer being with my TRUE SELF...Practice 4S...Silence...Smile...Sharada and Sabri...🙏Hare Krishna 🙏

    • @lakshmisharma991
      @lakshmisharma991 2 года назад +3

      👏🏻👌🏻❤️

    • @bhuvaneshwarij1326
      @bhuvaneshwarij1326 2 года назад +5

      what to do if we stay with them 24/7

    • @smitathatte8369
      @smitathatte8369 Год назад

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326
      Yes what's the solution for that

    • @natisha82
      @natisha82 Год назад

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326that's some of our karma too so keep smiling all the time & let go their behavior

    • @nomakeupcutie
      @nomakeupcutie Год назад

      What is Sharada and Sabri?

  • @asapfilms2519
    @asapfilms2519 Год назад +25

    In simple words…just ignore the toxic people

  • @triptibhatt1984
    @triptibhatt1984 2 года назад +26

    This video is very relevant in these times where people are venting their toxicity on Social media and in person in the nam eof freedom of expression

  • @drkvnaidu9104
    @drkvnaidu9104 Год назад +7

    My realization is that stay away from negative thoughts received from people and simply letgo of those thoughts is the best practice.

  • @TruthKindness
    @TruthKindness 2 года назад +41

    Detachment is hard. I got sucked into other people's misery, and into depression. Just like guruji said. Love this talk.

  • @rupalivaidya6842
    @rupalivaidya6842 Год назад +13

    Beautiful sharing by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar on how to deal with toxic people. Stay away from negative people otherwise they spoil your mentality and make you negative.Always focus on your inner self and the outer will automatically improve. Always pay attention to our self talk
    Thank you

  • @rajindarsingh1417
    @rajindarsingh1417 2 года назад +7

    I’ve been happy for my 50 years & always been happy & laughing.
    Now at 50 , I’m crying & depressed after my operation.
    I’m alone & depressed . Who in the right mind wants to spread sadness. How do I rid myself of this bad phase / karma. During your healthy & happy phase everyone is around you. Now even your shadow is not near.
    The truth of the human race , they will not help those hurt.
    Even guru’s tells his devotees to avoid those depressed.
    I hope there will be love elsewhere. I don’t hate on anyone, just hurt & crying. Unfortunately I tried my best to heal myself.
    I thought the sadh sangat’s energy will have a positive effect on the depressed.

    • @rajindarsingh1417
      @rajindarsingh1417 2 года назад +2

      @@poojachanana2889 - it’s nice to believe God is inside me but speaking the language of God , truthfully I feel abandoned by God now. But Gurudev explained it well. Just ignore the depressed individual ( like it’s a choice 🤦‍♂️)
      I’m finally relaxed & knowing that I will have full control of my end .

    • @rakeshvedpathak1111
      @rakeshvedpathak1111 2 года назад +4

      Guru ji is saying to avoid toxic person not the hurted one, you are not understanding.

    • @neenudogra5712
      @neenudogra5712 Год назад

      What have the Saints come for on this earth then ... if not for Parmarth.
      What else compassion means which is the basis of all teachings ???

    • @professorelixir3351
      @professorelixir3351 9 месяцев назад

      The true Guru will love you without any judgement. Don't worry, you will find love. Listen to Ram Das

    • @Loveee-q8e
      @Loveee-q8e 9 месяцев назад +1

      Keep doing more meditation and stick on to Satvik foods , lessen your desire , keep a worldly desire❤

  • @sanjayn7306
    @sanjayn7306 4 месяца назад +1

    I personally was toxic person didn't know it. For almost 36 years I was sensitive complaining emiting bad vibes was in depression. My life changed I met gurudev in 2006 he blessed me to be in art of living group....my local aol chapter always was kind and accepting. Slowly but steadily my karma got burned in gurudev's teaching and knowledge and sudharshan kriya. Now my depression has reduced psychiatrist reduced tablets and I feel happier and more cheerful.koti koti shat shat pranams to the Lotus of my guruji Sri Sri Ravishankar ji.❤ Thanks to all my aol family for accepting me giving opportunity and kindness to become a better person

  • @ushavenkataramani4715
    @ushavenkataramani4715 2 года назад +68

    Guruji when we are forced to interact with toxic people because they are our close relative, how do i protect myself?

    • @PinkuSharma
      @PinkuSharma Год назад +9

      By practicing awareness!

    • @Tarnishtha
      @Tarnishtha Год назад

      Detach yourself mentally

    • @chittaranjanmoharana2766
      @chittaranjanmoharana2766 Год назад

      ​@@PinkuSharma hh yybhhyy byuybhh Hwa yhhhhbhbhh no where byhnh huyhbb

    • @kusrishtikher
      @kusrishtikher Год назад +21

      You are not bound to engage with anyone... just stay away from them as much as possible

    • @tejug1161
      @tejug1161 Год назад +5

      Yathayogya... Mirror their behaviour then they will understand.

  • @7002164
    @7002164 Год назад +5

    Sometimes I feel like the toxic person but I know it’s my trauma and the need to be away from negative energy. I’m struggling to let the hurt go

    • @Loveee-q8e
      @Loveee-q8e 9 месяцев назад

      Practice yoga and meditation consistently, do more nd more of meditation and stick to Satvik foods, foods which are natural and avoid non veg slowly , u will notice the difference

  • @roopamp8304
    @roopamp8304 6 месяцев назад +1

    So much wisdom from Gurudev. I had taken a lot of toxic behaviour from relatives n friends for a long time. In the last 3 years, there has been defining moments in my life when I decided to call the shots to not react to toxic behaviours n maintain a cold silence without reacting. I am getting better n better at it and am experiencing a peace within. Fear nothing even if it means spending one's life alone.

    • @sanjayn7306
      @sanjayn7306 4 месяца назад

      Sir thank you I will follow your advice

  • @veenagupta4500
    @veenagupta4500 2 года назад +3

    बहुत ही सुंदर सतसंग सतगुरू जी के संग ।मैं क्रतार्थ ओर धन्यभागी हूँ। jgd ji. 🥰❤️❤️🥰❤️❤️💐👌⭐👌🙏🥰🥰

  • @Fin123-s1k
    @Fin123-s1k Месяц назад

    Jaigurudev ❤

  • @umadevinbhat5464
    @umadevinbhat5464 Год назад +2

    Nicely said ! It happens that mind is always stuck ! Unknowingly and whenever awareness dawns, there is relaxation ❤

  • @bhavnamehta9587
    @bhavnamehta9587 2 года назад +20

    Thank you Divine Garudev. This sooth my soul. Currently we are going through some very difficult times. But listening to your wisdom has comforted my troubled mind.🙏

  • @prasannasai6337
    @prasannasai6337 2 года назад +14

    Kindly put subtitles when guruji talks in Hindi

  • @ambarishr.1080
    @ambarishr.1080 2 месяца назад

    Great speech Gurudev. Jgd. ❤

  • @kavitasehgal1816
    @kavitasehgal1816 Год назад +2

    🙏जय गुरूदेव🙏🌹♥️so rightfully said

  • @subhashree4917
    @subhashree4917 2 года назад +1

    Jaigurdev koti pranam 🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @rajendrakhairnar7724
    @rajendrakhairnar7724 2 года назад +4

    जय गुरुदेव 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sivanareshkurra6972
    @sivanareshkurra6972 2 года назад +6

    Thank you Gurudev for this. I very much needed this.

  • @anujlakhera1109
    @anujlakhera1109 Год назад +1

    Pranam Guruji ❤🙏.. You share great wisdom with such simple words and joyfully. And I grasp it, as smoothly as enjoying & watching an entertainment show. Lots of love ❤️.
    1. Some people become habitual of such strong behavior, that, they even find reason to be angry and miserable at anything and anyone.
    Firstly see yourself before finding others' mistakes.
    2. We should avoid these kinds of people. (skillfully- by doing manviched- ) or detach your mind from that person.😇
    3. Save your mind at ALL costs.❤
    That line... Even I could not make people right. So you leave it 😂

  • @gayatrisadarangani5625
    @gayatrisadarangani5625 2 года назад +8

    Please keep sharing satsang online on RUclips on daily basis.

  • @ushap4333
    @ushap4333 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Gurudev

  • @sanjaykumarahirrao621
    @sanjaykumarahirrao621 Год назад

    Thank you, Thank you,Thank you!!!

  • @jiwanupadhayay2225
    @jiwanupadhayay2225 2 года назад +1

    Guru dev 🙏🙏🌹🌹

  • @panduranggurav8225
    @panduranggurav8225 Год назад

    जय गुरुदेव बडिया गुरुजी

  • @malathagalee6019
    @malathagalee6019 2 года назад +1

    JaiGurudev jicharan sparsh..

  • @NM-pz1zo
    @NM-pz1zo 2 года назад +1

    कल भी रहिएगा गुरुदेव सत्संग मे 🙏

  • @Sushilkumarpawar3560
    @Sushilkumarpawar3560 2 года назад +1

    जय गुरुदेव!

  • @arjunshah8637
    @arjunshah8637 Год назад +3

    An eye opener knowledge guruji.hearing you adds broader and newer perspective in life❤

  • @kabitamondal2386
    @kabitamondal2386 Год назад +1

    Hare Krishna Radhey Radhey 🌙🌹❤️🥰🌞😊🕉🙏

  • @Rhythm_and_Flow
    @Rhythm_and_Flow 2 года назад +12

    I wish they put english translations..but anyway thank you for this video.

    • @MrTennispie
      @MrTennispie 10 месяцев назад

      He is saying at any cost save your mind …
      Very precious
      Have a sense of humor
      Let go
      Life is short

  • @vijaypanchal6138
    @vijaypanchal6138 2 года назад +2

    ।। जय गुरुदेव ।।

  • @sadhanadas806
    @sadhanadas806 Месяц назад

    Great knowledge session 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @mukund9949
    @mukund9949 3 месяца назад

    Keep a tray to collect their 'fire of ignorance'..then Use it to heat 'Our Ananda swarupam'❤

  • @qd4051
    @qd4051 Год назад

    Thank you Gurudev for your wisdom.

  • @susheeladahiya59
    @susheeladahiya59 2 года назад +1

    😊 thank you Gurudev ♥️🙏

  • @anjlisethi9109
    @anjlisethi9109 2 года назад +2

    Krupa karo Gurudev

  • @anjushandilya8249
    @anjushandilya8249 2 года назад +1

    Guru Dev, kripa kare .Bless me and my family.

  • @sumanbhat4653
    @sumanbhat4653 2 года назад

    Shri Gurubhyo Namaha

  • @MS-lk1cn
    @MS-lk1cn 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much Gurudev 💛

  • @moumitapoddar4442
    @moumitapoddar4442 2 года назад +1

    I have got my answer.Namaste Gurudev.🙏🙏

  • @JyotiShivShakti
    @JyotiShivShakti 10 месяцев назад

    💯% Agreed! I really avoid such people who gossip, interfere, swear etc. Totally agree with what you say😊🙏♥️I've been like this for years. Yet there are people not many 1 or 2 who keep stalking. And affecting your living environment. It has made me very happy to avoid such people.
    Har Har Mahadev🙌

  • @kaushgaming5538
    @kaushgaming5538 Год назад

    Every person have different thought it means not toxic i always feel happiness.

  • @arundhatibhattacharya7911
    @arundhatibhattacharya7911 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Gurudev...needed this knowledge today

  • @chandabutani9783
    @chandabutani9783 Год назад

    Beautiful Shukrana 🙏 Thanks 👍

  • @jayeshpatel493
    @jayeshpatel493 2 года назад +1

    Pranam Gurudev

  • @raka8054
    @raka8054 2 года назад +3

    Pranam gurudev.. Needed this knowledge..

  • @psi42
    @psi42 Год назад

    when people do work with their hearts discipline is lacking": meinem vater completed his work with sincere duty:-prabhudata

  • @akhterofficial
    @akhterofficial 2 года назад +1

    Thank You So Much Guru Ji 😍😍😍

  • @RiteshKumar-yw1gi
    @RiteshKumar-yw1gi 2 года назад

    जय गुरूदेव,💐💐🙏

  • @SS-kp5vh
    @SS-kp5vh 2 года назад +4

    Thanks Guruji for giving example of donkey in plate. So whenever someone is going to speak ill about me I will feel happy as donkey is in that person's plate😊. Hope I don't end up laughing and get into trouble

  • @jmahalekshmymenon9309
    @jmahalekshmymenon9309 Год назад

    Thank you Gurudev...😊🙏

  • @atulsingla5337
    @atulsingla5337 2 года назад +1

    Bliss gurudev 🙏👌👌👌

  • @pamballard2917
    @pamballard2917 8 месяцев назад

    Encourage them to do the happiness program, ❤

  • @LSSV1227
    @LSSV1227 Год назад

    What ever people around you accept them what ever they are if negative thoughts people's around you then we can't able to change then let go and keep away ourself from this personality with ❤

  • @ricklall2553
    @ricklall2553 2 года назад

    Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

  • @nitapanchu2803
    @nitapanchu2803 2 года назад

    True..thanks dear sri guruji...aum..aum.aum

  • @renugoyal3478
    @renugoyal3478 Год назад

    Thank you guru ji for fantastic knowledge about how away from toxic people

  • @seemadeshpande4602
    @seemadeshpande4602 Год назад

    Charan sparsh

  • @meenakshisubramanian1340
    @meenakshisubramanian1340 2 года назад +1

    So nicely presented Gurudev. Earlier I also used to get irritated if someone spoiled my Rangoli. Now I'm able to connect the dots, moving ahead in this path

  • @GuluPhotography
    @GuluPhotography 2 года назад +12

    Big fan Gurudev 🥰😘

  • @rebachakraborty2265
    @rebachakraborty2265 Год назад

    +jay gurudev pranam shatakoti.

  • @shriyagupta982
    @shriyagupta982 2 года назад +1

    Love you guruji ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💮🌿✨️

  • @galinakondratenko5400
    @galinakondratenko5400 2 года назад

    They just reflect your mood

  • @mansirana2022
    @mansirana2022 Год назад

    It sometimes happens with me too and I am catching that pattern whilst seeing this video.

  • @rupa9648f
    @rupa9648f Год назад +1

    Guru dev.. here I don't understand whoes behaviour is toxic.. I set expectation from otherside nd it was not fulfilled..knowing it was intentionally done... I feeled unloved.. Unwanted... How I become mentally strong

  • @ashishgupta3290
    @ashishgupta3290 2 года назад +3

    Bliss 💕💕

  • @sakshiduklan
    @sakshiduklan 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️🔥🔥 So Truee

  • @sheetalkhekale853
    @sheetalkhekale853 2 года назад

    Jgd🙏🙏

  • @doctorpavana157
    @doctorpavana157 Год назад

    Just superb

  • @vishakhajoshi2204
    @vishakhajoshi2204 Год назад

    Guruji answered my question asked to him😊

  • @yashodakravindra3737
    @yashodakravindra3737 Год назад

    Thank you for the timely knowledge Gurudev...

  • @vasanthar4533
    @vasanthar4533 Год назад

    I can relate this so much...

  • @reemasingh3184
    @reemasingh3184 2 года назад +1

    Jgd

  • @vijayanv.v2922
    @vijayanv.v2922 Год назад

    So, if someone is suffering or in misery, ignore / neglect him ? Do not provide him solace ? All those who suffer are not toxic people.

  • @neerajchodhri4317
    @neerajchodhri4317 2 года назад

    Jgd jii🙏🙏

  • @sreedevisunilkumar
    @sreedevisunilkumar 2 года назад

    Jaigurudev🌹

  • @natalyalomakina3800
    @natalyalomakina3800 Год назад +1

    What about the narcissists?

  • @fleuralmeida579
    @fleuralmeida579 2 года назад

    Love you💗

  • @kshri4417
    @kshri4417 2 года назад +1

    Great talk 🙏🙏🙏

  • @harmikpatel2168
    @harmikpatel2168 2 года назад +1

    Gurudev Please bless me to get our my bad karma 🙏🙏

  • @sissileliseminde4589
    @sissileliseminde4589 2 года назад

    Thank you Gurudev ❤️😊🌿🌹. I have learn so much from you.. Norway 🙏🧜‍♀️

  • @subashkp9549
    @subashkp9549 2 года назад +3

    ജയ് ഗുരുദേവ്🙏🙏🙏

  • @vandanaalli1037
    @vandanaalli1037 Год назад

    Our guruji very well the persons journey of karama our pachan indriya are to listen, test, they are not allowed in the satsang also the skill of consciousness to detach and be with ourselves and save your mind for all situations it is difficult time not impossible for the sadhak. Work on myself not others, only change the person at least I am at peace The school teacher has wisdom and clever use your wisdom don't see others teachers do their work with heart do your karma and move on

  • @Itzel-camacho72
    @Itzel-camacho72 9 месяцев назад

    15:01 ❤❤❤

  • @SAARIKA-sw3lv
    @SAARIKA-sw3lv 22 дня назад

    Gurudev how to deal when your own father becomes that person in your life? I have seen the worse from throughout my childhood. I am a family loving person, but i am struggling really hard to get over. Please help🙏🏼

  • @gargi3kaushik
    @gargi3kaushik 2 года назад

    G am happy and at peace

  • @jerry-tm8lj
    @jerry-tm8lj Год назад

    I was a person who couldn't remain tensed for a long time for something but people around me impacted me in a bad way and somehow it happened so that in last ten years I attracted only negative people and circumstances. Was it my fault? What went wrong?

  • @ritutripathi7610
    @ritutripathi7610 Год назад

    Gurudev I am so scared to speak to my mother
    Because every time she has something to shout at me from the other side of the phone
    Don't know what to do
    Today I have no feelings
    Just feel neutral

  • @susheeladahiya-l2e
    @susheeladahiya-l2e Год назад

    But if a mother behaves badly with her child , what can we say then ?

  • @supercool2032
    @supercool2032 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
    @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk Год назад

    😊👉🤔 toxic is karma of life 🙆

  • @Justanotherrandomstuff
    @Justanotherrandomstuff Год назад

    How to deal with toxic parents?

  • @UPASANAPANDEY05
    @UPASANAPANDEY05 Год назад

    ❣️❣️

  • @shailajahl7529
    @shailajahl7529 Год назад

    Some people are making my husband toxic.He is trusting them a lot. How to overcome this

  • @thinkright--healthmatters6071
    @thinkright--healthmatters6071 2 года назад

    Not possible -impossible to see good or change toxicity in toxic people -11min *sharp !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @jhalloran5280
    @jhalloran5280 2 года назад

    🙏

  • @sajisnair9354
    @sajisnair9354 Год назад

    Deals 👈👉🌞?😮