Only Way To Deal With TOXIC People | Gurudev

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
  • In this live QnA Gurudev gives us a powerful understanding of why some people behave in a toxic manner and how to deal with them. This is a must watch video!
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Комментарии • 182

  • @ushavenkataramani4715
    @ushavenkataramani4715 Год назад +65

    Guruji when we are forced to interact with toxic people because they are our close relative, how do i protect myself?

    • @PinkuSharma
      @PinkuSharma Год назад +9

      By practicing awareness!

    • @Tarnishtha
      @Tarnishtha Год назад

      Detach yourself mentally

    • @chittaranjanmoharana2766
      @chittaranjanmoharana2766 Год назад

      ​@@PinkuSharma hh yybhhyy byuybhh Hwa yhhhhbhbhh no where byhnh huyhbb

    • @kusrishtikher
      @kusrishtikher Год назад +21

      You are not bound to engage with anyone... just stay away from them as much as possible

    • @tejug1161
      @tejug1161 Год назад +5

      Yathayogya... Mirror their behaviour then they will understand.

  • @triptibhatt1984
    @triptibhatt1984 2 года назад +25

    This video is very relevant in these times where people are venting their toxicity on Social media and in person in the nam eof freedom of expression

  • @surimenon7660
    @surimenon7660 2 года назад +73

    When I Encounter Toxic...People...I JUST SMILE and Silence ...ON MY WAY OUT I....Give a hug...I LET GO....I prefer being with my TRUE SELF...Practice 4S...Silence...Smile...Sharada and Sabri...🙏Hare Krishna 🙏

    • @lakshmisharma991
      @lakshmisharma991 Год назад +3

      👏🏻👌🏻❤️

    • @bhuvaneshwarij1326
      @bhuvaneshwarij1326 Год назад +4

      what to do if we stay with them 24/7

    • @smitathatte8369
      @smitathatte8369 Год назад

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326
      Yes what's the solution for that

    • @natisha82
      @natisha82 Год назад

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326that's some of our karma too so keep smiling all the time & let go their behavior

    • @nomakeupcutie
      @nomakeupcutie Год назад

      What is Sharada and Sabri?

  • @TruthKindness
    @TruthKindness Год назад +40

    Detachment is hard. I got sucked into other people's misery, and into depression. Just like guruji said. Love this talk.

  • @prasannasai6337
    @prasannasai6337 Год назад +12

    Kindly put subtitles when guruji talks in Hindi

  • @asapfilms2519
    @asapfilms2519 Год назад +22

    In simple words…just ignore the toxic people

  • @rupalivaidya6842
    @rupalivaidya6842 Год назад +12

    Beautiful sharing by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar on how to deal with toxic people. Stay away from negative people otherwise they spoil your mentality and make you negative.Always focus on your inner self and the outer will automatically improve. Always pay attention to our self talk
    Thank you

  • @Rhythm_and_Flow
    @Rhythm_and_Flow Год назад +12

    I wish they put english translations..but anyway thank you for this video.

    • @MrTennispie
      @MrTennispie 6 месяцев назад

      He is saying at any cost save your mind …
      Very precious
      Have a sense of humor
      Let go
      Life is short

  • @drkvnaidu9104
    @drkvnaidu9104 Год назад +6

    My realization is that stay away from negative thoughts received from people and simply letgo of those thoughts is the best practice.

  • @bhavnamehta9587
    @bhavnamehta9587 Год назад +20

    Thank you Divine Garudev. This sooth my soul. Currently we are going through some very difficult times. But listening to your wisdom has comforted my troubled mind.🙏

  • @SS-kp5vh
    @SS-kp5vh 2 года назад +4

    Thanks Guruji for giving example of donkey in plate. So whenever someone is going to speak ill about me I will feel happy as donkey is in that person's plate😊. Hope I don't end up laughing and get into trouble

  • @7002164
    @7002164 Год назад +5

    Sometimes I feel like the toxic person but I know it’s my trauma and the need to be away from negative energy. I’m struggling to let the hurt go

    • @dhkg5926
      @dhkg5926 5 месяцев назад

      Practice yoga and meditation consistently, do more nd more of meditation and stick to Satvik foods, foods which are natural and avoid non veg slowly , u will notice the difference

  • @kavitasehgal1816
    @kavitasehgal1816 Год назад +2

    🙏जय गुरूदेव🙏🌹♥️so rightfully said

  • @rajindarsingh1417
    @rajindarsingh1417 Год назад +7

    I’ve been happy for my 50 years & always been happy & laughing.
    Now at 50 , I’m crying & depressed after my operation.
    I’m alone & depressed . Who in the right mind wants to spread sadness. How do I rid myself of this bad phase / karma. During your healthy & happy phase everyone is around you. Now even your shadow is not near.
    The truth of the human race , they will not help those hurt.
    Even guru’s tells his devotees to avoid those depressed.
    I hope there will be love elsewhere. I don’t hate on anyone, just hurt & crying. Unfortunately I tried my best to heal myself.
    I thought the sadh sangat’s energy will have a positive effect on the depressed.

    • @rajindarsingh1417
      @rajindarsingh1417 Год назад +2

      @@poojachanana2889 - it’s nice to believe God is inside me but speaking the language of God , truthfully I feel abandoned by God now. But Gurudev explained it well. Just ignore the depressed individual ( like it’s a choice 🤦‍♂️)
      I’m finally relaxed & knowing that I will have full control of my end .

    • @rakeshvedpathak1111
      @rakeshvedpathak1111 Год назад +4

      Guru ji is saying to avoid toxic person not the hurted one, you are not understanding.

    • @neenudogra5712
      @neenudogra5712 Год назад

      What have the Saints come for on this earth then ... if not for Parmarth.
      What else compassion means which is the basis of all teachings ???

    • @professorelixir3351
      @professorelixir3351 5 месяцев назад

      The true Guru will love you without any judgement. Don't worry, you will find love. Listen to Ram Das

    • @dhkg5926
      @dhkg5926 5 месяцев назад +1

      Keep doing more meditation and stick on to Satvik foods , lessen your desire , keep a worldly desire❤

  • @aarthyravi9965
    @aarthyravi9965 Год назад +1

    I don't understand Gurudev. Can dharma be wrong? There are people who commit heinous crimes without an iota of guilt

  • @gayatrisadarangani5625
    @gayatrisadarangani5625 2 года назад +8

    Please keep sharing satsang online on RUclips on daily basis.

  • @arjunshah8637
    @arjunshah8637 Год назад +3

    An eye opener knowledge guruji.hearing you adds broader and newer perspective in life❤

  • @veenagupta4500
    @veenagupta4500 2 года назад +3

    बहुत ही सुंदर सतसंग सतगुरू जी के संग ।मैं क्रतार्थ ओर धन्यभागी हूँ। jgd ji. 🥰❤️❤️🥰❤️❤️💐👌⭐👌🙏🥰🥰

  • @sivanareshkurra6972
    @sivanareshkurra6972 Год назад +6

    Thank you Gurudev for this. I very much needed this.

  • @rupa9648f
    @rupa9648f Год назад +1

    Guru dev.. here I don't understand whoes behaviour is toxic.. I set expectation from otherside nd it was not fulfilled..knowing it was intentionally done... I feeled unloved.. Unwanted... How I become mentally strong

  • @raka8054
    @raka8054 2 года назад +3

    Pranam gurudev.. Needed this knowledge..

  • @anujlakhera1109
    @anujlakhera1109 Год назад +1

    Pranam Guruji ❤🙏.. You share great wisdom with such simple words and joyfully. And I grasp it, as smoothly as enjoying & watching an entertainment show. Lots of love ❤️.
    1. Some people become habitual of such strong behavior, that, they even find reason to be angry and miserable at anything and anyone.
    Firstly see yourself before finding others' mistakes.
    2. We should avoid these kinds of people. (skillfully- by doing manviched- ) or detach your mind from that person.😇
    3. Save your mind at ALL costs.❤
    That line... Even I could not make people right. So you leave it 😂

  • @umadevinbhat5464
    @umadevinbhat5464 Год назад +2

    Nicely said ! It happens that mind is always stuck ! Unknowingly and whenever awareness dawns, there is relaxation ❤

  • @sanjayn7306
    @sanjayn7306 7 дней назад

    I personally was toxic person didn't know it. For almost 36 years I was sensitive complaining emiting bad vibes was in depression. My life changed I met gurudev in 2006 he blessed me to be in art of living group....my local aol chapter always was kind and accepting. Slowly but steadily my karma got burned in gurudev's teaching and knowledge and sudharshan kriya. Now my depression has reduced psychiatrist reduced tablets and I feel happier and more cheerful.koti koti shat shat pranams to the Lotus of my guruji Sri Sri Ravishankar ji.❤ Thanks to all my aol family for accepting me giving opportunity and kindness to become a better person

  • @roopamp8304
    @roopamp8304 2 месяца назад +1

    So much wisdom from Gurudev. I had taken a lot of toxic behaviour from relatives n friends for a long time. In the last 3 years, there has been defining moments in my life when I decided to call the shots to not react to toxic behaviours n maintain a cold silence without reacting. I am getting better n better at it and am experiencing a peace within. Fear nothing even if it means spending one's life alone.

    • @sanjayn7306
      @sanjayn7306 7 дней назад

      Sir thank you I will follow your advice

  • @natalyalomakina3800
    @natalyalomakina3800 9 месяцев назад +1

    What about the narcissists?

  • @GuluPhotography
    @GuluPhotography 2 года назад +12

    Big fan Gurudev 🥰😘

  • @arundhatibhattacharya7911
    @arundhatibhattacharya7911 Год назад +3

    Thank you Gurudev...needed this knowledge today

  • @subhashree4917
    @subhashree4917 2 года назад +1

    Jaigurdev koti pranam 🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @rajendrakhairnar7724
    @rajendrakhairnar7724 2 года назад +4

    जय गुरुदेव 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kabitamondal2386
    @kabitamondal2386 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hare Krishna Radhey Radhey 🌙🌹❤️🥰🌞😊🕉🙏

  • @moumitapoddar4442
    @moumitapoddar4442 Год назад +1

    I have got my answer.Namaste Gurudev.🙏🙏

  • @harmikpatel2168
    @harmikpatel2168 Год назад +1

    Gurudev Please bless me to get our my bad karma 🙏🙏

  • @susheeladahiya59
    @susheeladahiya59 Год назад +1

    😊 thank you Gurudev ♥️🙏

  • @sam_boy_shubham_kashyap
    @sam_boy_shubham_kashyap Год назад

    Guru ji bt to aap jo bi bolre ho sahi bol rhe hoge pr kuch smjh sa ni aara please Hindi me bi boliye

  • @anjlisethi9109
    @anjlisethi9109 2 года назад +2

    Krupa karo Gurudev

  • @NM-pz1zo
    @NM-pz1zo 2 года назад +1

    कल भी रहिएगा गुरुदेव सत्संग मे 🙏

  • @ushap4333
    @ushap4333 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Gurudev

  • @susheeladahiya-l2e
    @susheeladahiya-l2e 8 месяцев назад

    But if a mother behaves badly with her child , what can we say then ?

  • @vijaypanchal6138
    @vijaypanchal6138 2 года назад +2

    ।। जय गुरुदेव ।।

  • @malathagalee6019
    @malathagalee6019 2 года назад +1

    JaiGurudev jicharan sparsh..

  • @pamballard2917
    @pamballard2917 4 месяца назад

    Encourage them to do the happiness program, ❤

  • @vasudhachaudhari4678
    @vasudhachaudhari4678 2 года назад +2

    Is guruji in bangalore ashram?

  • @ritutripathi7610
    @ritutripathi7610 11 месяцев назад

    Gurudev I am so scared to speak to my mother
    Because every time she has something to shout at me from the other side of the phone
    Don't know what to do
    Today I have no feelings
    Just feel neutral

  • @vandanaalli1037
    @vandanaalli1037 Год назад

    Our guruji very well the persons journey of karama our pachan indriya are to listen, test, they are not allowed in the satsang also the skill of consciousness to detach and be with ourselves and save your mind for all situations it is difficult time not impossible for the sadhak. Work on myself not others, only change the person at least I am at peace The school teacher has wisdom and clever use your wisdom don't see others teachers do their work with heart do your karma and move on

  • @vijayanv.v2922
    @vijayanv.v2922 Год назад

    So, if someone is suffering or in misery, ignore / neglect him ? Do not provide him solace ? All those who suffer are not toxic people.

  • @psi42
    @psi42 Год назад

    when people do work with their hearts discipline is lacking": meinem vater completed his work with sincere duty:-prabhudata

  • @WorldPeaceandLove
    @WorldPeaceandLove Год назад

    I know someone whose mother in law gave incense stick marks to her child. Sister in law completely owns husband he does as they both say. She doesnt think about them until they do something more to hurt.The husband is a mere doll in their hands. A smart guy otherwise until it comes to them. How do you deal/ think of this situation? She is living with him since she knows her husband also is a puppet. They will loot him completely. Use him like a tissue and finish him.Even now they demand loads of money both have done nothing for their in-laws. These are real toxic people harmful. How do you deal with them?

  • @jerry-tm8lj
    @jerry-tm8lj Год назад

    I was a person who couldn't remain tensed for a long time for something but people around me impacted me in a bad way and somehow it happened so that in last ten years I attracted only negative people and circumstances. Was it my fault? What went wrong?

  • @sukumardutta9260
    @sukumardutta9260 Год назад

    Bhagawat Gita is the intellectual property of humanbieng which is the knowledge of culture and education of soceitys significant feserves Punyaa Bharatbhumi was ver rich in intellectual in the past in every field of astronomy scienc and traditional knowledge of wisdom and so on who taught us how to count while sceintific discoveries could not have made base on creation of mind such a literary invention and artistic work sign and images etc

  • @netraskitchenandvlog
    @netraskitchenandvlog Год назад +1

    Jgd🙏🙏🙏

  • @ashishgupta3290
    @ashishgupta3290 2 года назад +3

    Bliss 💕💕

  • @thinkright--healthmatters6071
    @thinkright--healthmatters6071 Год назад

    Not possible -impossible to see good or change toxicity in toxic people -11min *sharp !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @shailajahl7529
    @shailajahl7529 Год назад

    Some people are making my husband toxic.He is trusting them a lot. How to overcome this

  • @MS-lk1cn
    @MS-lk1cn 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much Gurudev 💛

  • @LSSV1227
    @LSSV1227 Год назад

    What ever people around you accept them what ever they are if negative thoughts people's around you then we can't able to change then let go and keep away ourself from this personality with ❤

  • @anjushandilya8249
    @anjushandilya8249 2 года назад +1

    Guru Dev, kripa kare .Bless me and my family.

  • @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
    @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk 9 месяцев назад

    😊👉🤔 toxic is karma of life 🙆

  • @jiwanupadhayay2225
    @jiwanupadhayay2225 Год назад +1

    Guru dev 🙏🙏🌹🌹

  • @atulsingla5337
    @atulsingla5337 2 года назад +1

    Bliss gurudev 🙏👌👌👌

  • @Itzel-camacho72
    @Itzel-camacho72 5 месяцев назад

    15:01 ❤❤❤

  • @rebachakraborty2265
    @rebachakraborty2265 Год назад

    +jay gurudev pranam shatakoti.

  • @shriyagupta982
    @shriyagupta982 2 года назад +1

    Love you guruji ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💮🌿✨️

  • @Jbutterfly9
    @Jbutterfly9 6 месяцев назад

  • @renugoyal3478
    @renugoyal3478 Год назад

    Thank you guru ji for fantastic knowledge about how away from toxic people

  • @akhterofficial
    @akhterofficial Год назад +1

    Thank You So Much Guru Ji 😍😍😍

  • @vishakhajoshi2204
    @vishakhajoshi2204 Год назад

    Guruji answered my question asked to him😊

  • @mansirana2022
    @mansirana2022 Год назад

    It sometimes happens with me too and I am catching that pattern whilst seeing this video.

  • @reemasingh3184
    @reemasingh3184 2 года назад +1

    Jgd

  • @kaushgaming5538
    @kaushgaming5538 Год назад

    Every person have different thought it means not toxic i always feel happiness.

  • @sissileliseminde4589
    @sissileliseminde4589 Год назад

    Thank you Gurudev ❤️😊🌿🌹. I have learn so much from you.. Norway 🙏🧜‍♀️

  • @Justanotherrandomstuff
    @Justanotherrandomstuff Год назад

    How to deal with toxic parents?

  • @yashodakravindra3737
    @yashodakravindra3737 Год назад

    Thank you for the timely knowledge Gurudev...

  • @nikhil2211986
    @nikhil2211986 Год назад

    Mentally vichhed the relation with toxic people...

  • @RK-en8ic
    @RK-en8ic Год назад

    Jgdv

  • @Sushilkumarpawar3560
    @Sushilkumarpawar3560 2 года назад +1

    जय गुरुदेव!

  • @qd4051
    @qd4051 Год назад

    Thank you Gurudev for your wisdom.

  • @mohdalam9840
    @mohdalam9840 Год назад +1

    they spread misery

  • @jayeshpatel493
    @jayeshpatel493 2 года назад +1

    Pranam Gurudev

  • @potterdumb
    @potterdumb 2 года назад

    Why were ads being played even before guruji left ?

  • @sajisnair9354
    @sajisnair9354 Год назад

    👉deals only by soil😂

  • @chandabutani9783
    @chandabutani9783 Год назад

    Beautiful Shukrana 🙏 Thanks 👍

  • @hephzibavarghese7531
    @hephzibavarghese7531 Год назад

    3:14 😢

  • @subashkp9549
    @subashkp9549 2 года назад +3

    ജയ് ഗുരുദേവ്🙏🙏🙏

  • @kishorisharma2293
    @kishorisharma2293 Год назад

    🙏

  • @sajisnair9354
    @sajisnair9354 Год назад

    Deals 👈👉🌞?😮

  • @user-bl4ud2bb1c
    @user-bl4ud2bb1c Год назад

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @panduranggurav8225
    @panduranggurav8225 Год назад

    जय गुरुदेव बडिया गुरुजी

  • @sanjaykumarahirrao621
    @sanjaykumarahirrao621 Год назад

    Thank you, Thank you,Thank you!!!

  • @nitapanchu2803
    @nitapanchu2803 2 года назад

    True..thanks dear sri guruji...aum..aum.aum

  • @seemadeshpande4602
    @seemadeshpande4602 Год назад

    Charan sparsh

  • @mohdalam9840
    @mohdalam9840 Год назад

    dukhi aatma

  • @kshri4417
    @kshri4417 2 года назад +1

    Great talk 🙏🙏🙏

  • @VijayPraveen07
    @VijayPraveen07 Год назад

    ✨🤍

  • @vasanthar4533
    @vasanthar4533 Год назад

    I can relate this so much...

  • @cryptomfhippo
    @cryptomfhippo Год назад

    I'm the dawg

  • @jmahalekshmymenon9309
    @jmahalekshmymenon9309 Год назад

    Thank you Gurudev...😊🙏

  • @urai9981
    @urai9981 Год назад

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @UPASANAPANDEY05
    @UPASANAPANDEY05 Год назад

    ❣️❣️

  • @galinakondratenko5400
    @galinakondratenko5400 Год назад

    They just reflect your mood