How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? Sadhguru

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @dharnasahu2506
    @dharnasahu2506 4 года назад +1482

    You can feel the pain the woman's pain in her words, i hope she's doing alright today 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mymagicalworld
    @mymagicalworld Год назад +58

    Better not to make fun of the lady...she is really in stress. If you do not teach correct lesson to such husband thn that fellow may drag u to death.

  • @beekayebolaji87
    @beekayebolaji87 4 года назад +61

    ...8:50everything there is a consequence but let it be a conscious consequence...

  • @amberturquoise9140
    @amberturquoise9140 4 года назад +359

    Thank you sir I had been suffering from a mentally abusing relation. And I never had idea what to do. I struggled a lot but now now today my mind is settled I know what to do.. just be brave and have courage. Face it alone and be strong & independent 🙏thank you. Meant way lot you Sir, can know what I meant.

  • @sanvistark8837
    @sanvistark8837 Год назад +37

    The mansplaining is so annoying! "You want to fix him right?" (*because his pre-made answer was that you should fix yourself... so he changed her question and the answer is "Your original question (fix yourself!) "

    • @rajshiva1093
      @rajshiva1093 Год назад +10

      Agree..no one seems to point this out

  • @ginaland411
    @ginaland411 4 года назад +347

    Hope she found the courage...

  • @thenf9371
    @thenf9371 Год назад +35

    How can sadguru laugh at her situation I can understand her pain.

  • @Lr8_youtube
    @Lr8_youtube Год назад +7

    Be full of:
    - solutions & resources, ppl will run to you
    - take care of yourself internally,, inner purification

  • @Meme_fun_1
    @Meme_fun_1 5 лет назад +108

    U r not a source of problem u r a solution wherever u go. - basic purpose of meditation 👍
    If u r d problem or the one who complains about the problem.nobody wants to see ur face so true!

  • @xandrarod2004
    @xandrarod2004 Год назад +20

    How dare you say that!!! In a society where they have arrange marriages, children children children! Marital rape! And women don't have a saying in these cultures! Poor woman I felt the pain in her voice

  • @rajrajan5869
    @rajrajan5869 7 лет назад +244

    well said guru ji not only for ladies it's common to both men n women.....

  • @vandyke7575
    @vandyke7575 5 лет назад +147

    So helpful. You are a very wise sage! I have always wanted to meet you!! I wish you many blessings!! And continued peace and health!! I have learned so much from listening to your talks. It seems the more I learn, the less I know. Such is the paradox of life I guess. Thank you Sadguru for choosing this path in your life and for sharing your beautiful gift!!!

  • @nazeerpasha2075
    @nazeerpasha2075 Год назад +11

    In Hinduism, there is no concept of separation or divorce among the married couples and there is no route to escape from an abusive relationship. In India, even if they go to court, it will take 3-4 years for the case to come to the bench. That is why domestic abuse is so common in India and a main reason for the high rate of suicide among women.
    The effect of DV is not only physical, psychological or emotional but also impacts upon physical, social, interpersonal and financial domains. The survivors are compelled to live poor quality of life and they have to financially become dependent on their 'mayeke'/ (parental home). They also have less societal interaction due to the social shame of the poor relationship. Due to which they develop many psychological symptoms such as anxiety, fear of going out, lack of self-esteem, confidence, isolation, lack of confidence and self-blame.

  • @priyanka1506
    @priyanka1506 5 лет назад +67

    Hard words but true reality😇😇

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 4 года назад +151

    Wow is the woman crying? Poor thing

  • @lolasmith1585
    @lolasmith1585 Месяц назад

    Whewww she got tears in my eyes because i am dealing with this trauma 😢😢😢

  • @shamimsurani8996
    @shamimsurani8996 7 лет назад +29

    I love Sadh guru and his teachings

  • @manjunathb.s.9068
    @manjunathb.s.9068 10 лет назад +106

    thank you very much for videos uploaded ,people may become aware of what is right what is wrong certainly society will be benefited by watching these videos

  • @towardsabetterlife1609
    @towardsabetterlife1609 Год назад +27

    And what is the solution for womanizer, rapist, child abuser? To help him find another woman daily? There are some situations where you can't just live your life by ignoring everything.. she is in pain and u find humor in that. Very disappointed ☹️

  • @kavitabadoreea6106
    @kavitabadoreea6106 7 лет назад +66

    Knowing you is such a very big thing for me .
    I got to know about you by a friend from India ,
    I'm grateful to my friend who introduced You.

  • @tiramisu9358
    @tiramisu9358 Год назад +4

    6:09 getting along doesn't have anything to do with forced 'action'. It's just a matter of fusion of sperm and egg and once the baby is conceived what other choice does the mother have that is not judged by the society? Only to beget the child. So that's how couples who have children, children, children and those who don't get along.

  • @beyoundblues1711
    @beyoundblues1711 7 лет назад +21

    no words 😊 so simple n so effective.

  • @Alok_Kumar_Software_Engineer
    @Alok_Kumar_Software_Engineer 10 лет назад +33

    Very effective speech. So over all very good.

  • @empressnicholle6180
    @empressnicholle6180 5 лет назад +36

    Wise words👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it's very important to know who you are

  • @sanvistark8837
    @sanvistark8837 Год назад +11

    4:03 - "how will the next generation get fixed when her little boy sees his mom doing all the chores and will expect his future wife to do the same?"; The little boy now will grow up to be an exploitative man because "monkey see, monkey do".
    What a load of bull crap... I should have gone into preaching as well... would have atleast done a better job than him and given her the right answer which is to get divorced. The man will continue to be exploitative as long as he does not have face the consequences of his actions.

  • @mentemadhavapeddiraju2293
    @mentemadhavapeddiraju2293 9 лет назад +24

    thank you sadhguru... for showing or making solution for my life...

  • @The21Poonam
    @The21Poonam 4 года назад +21

    Sadhguru ji is there any way to get rid of unwanted person from our life or is there any mantra to be chanted

  • @nandkumarnair9654
    @nandkumarnair9654 8 лет назад +13

    shambho shiv Shambho!

  • @sandraloysoonleng4944
    @sandraloysoonleng4944 7 лет назад +66

    You are awesome , Sadhguru 👏

  • @paxtonwong9067
    @paxtonwong9067 4 года назад +37

    Does Sadhguru suggest the lady to end her marriage?

  • @makundasjourney1319
    @makundasjourney1319 4 года назад +7

    I Love You Scholar 🙏🏽💓🌟💓🙏🏽

  • @PradeepKumar-vp9ti
    @PradeepKumar-vp9ti 7 лет назад +39

    Well explained!

  • @fareeda1970
    @fareeda1970 7 лет назад +28

    Wise wise man
    💚

  • @sandhyarajpg8807
    @sandhyarajpg8807 8 лет назад +29

    phenomenal advise great master

  • @Eddie2P
    @Eddie2P 7 лет назад +27

    8:22 umm

  • @abhishekksingh8806
    @abhishekksingh8806 6 лет назад +34

    I love u Sadhguru😊

  • @sagebay2803
    @sagebay2803 9 лет назад +39

    Very helpful! Thank you, Sadhguru.

  • @lissuga516
    @lissuga516 Год назад +2

    Wow! Truth is a bitch! And it hurts!! I sometimes don’t agree with this guy but I give my respect because he couldn’t say it any more clearly!! 👏 👏 👏 he just hit me with a huge bolder!!!

  • @georgegilles9008
    @georgegilles9008 9 лет назад +21

    Beautiful.

  • @Rebel101
    @Rebel101 10 лет назад +28

    wow... finally, fundamentals!

  • @kalyanchakravarthy188
    @kalyanchakravarthy188 9 месяцев назад

    Sadhguru🙇
    Healthy soil plays a vital role in climate regulation by storing and releasing water and nutrients. Let's Save Soil for a stable and resilient climate. #soilforclimateaction

  • @theredpilgrim
    @theredpilgrim 6 лет назад +8

    Thanks a lot Sadhguru

  • @ramachandrareddy7890
    @ramachandrareddy7890 7 лет назад +25

    thank you sadguru

  • @lisagnzlz
    @lisagnzlz Год назад

    I always look forward to listening to your Videos . Thank You for sharing your knowledge ❤

  • @nayanmdesai
    @nayanmdesai 6 лет назад +9

    SO TRUE.

  • @TheAkf7
    @TheAkf7 10 лет назад +23

    Thank you Sadhguru!!

  • @deepak696
    @deepak696 8 лет назад +16

    Thank you so much!

  • @sh5415
    @sh5415 8 лет назад +30

    Wow he is da best

  • @sanjeevshastri5960
    @sanjeevshastri5960 4 года назад +7

    Fantastic information

  • @Durgesh_S
    @Durgesh_S 5 лет назад +15

    Be solution not problem

  • @sudhirpandey915
    @sudhirpandey915 10 лет назад +8

    Great sadguru .straight sadguru.

  • @Sammybizness
    @Sammybizness 10 лет назад +14

    Very good!

  • @aloufin
    @aloufin 7 лет назад +23

    Haha, they choose to do the close up @8:22

  • @towardsabetterlife1609
    @towardsabetterlife1609 Год назад +12

    So what's the solution for drunk alcoholic unemployed husband.. to provide him alcohol and get beaten up by him every night??

  • @nalinikasat7291
    @nalinikasat7291 9 лет назад +12

    Thank you Sadguru.

  • @Charruta
    @Charruta 4 года назад +6

    Best video ever

  • @saibhawani7555
    @saibhawani7555 7 лет назад +26

    U r my inspiration Guruji..

  • @nitinmahendru92
    @nitinmahendru92 7 лет назад +16

    Excellent Post.

  • @madhavibhamidipati1313
    @madhavibhamidipati1313 6 лет назад +5

    Brilliant reply. 🙏🙏Sadguru

  • @fpmcrw
    @fpmcrw 10 лет назад +20

    4;15 onwards

  • @navyaarjun3897
    @navyaarjun3897 7 лет назад +15

    So so true

  • @lifepath5308
    @lifepath5308 Год назад +2

    I don't have house of mine.. I have abusive parents
    Then I went to my relatives.. there also I got abused n they told me to go home..
    Then I came to bf's house n here also I got abusive in laws n bcz of that Bf also abuses me.
    Everyone is taking advantage of my situation that I'm helpless person 😢

    • @lifepath5308
      @lifepath5308 Год назад +1

      I want to build my own house and live alone ♾️ but I don't know how to deal with my anxiety and depression and how im gonna save for house.. buy plot n all as a single unsupported girl 😭😭

  • @gracyrg
    @gracyrg Год назад

    It's a good idea for those who don't save, who are shopholic and waste money like anything so every ideas differ

  • @vinitaranghera5393
    @vinitaranghera5393 10 лет назад +13

    Thankyou sadhguru

  • @babaksalehi3176
    @babaksalehi3176 6 лет назад +5

    I love this video

  • @tanmayvarshney2328
    @tanmayvarshney2328 Год назад

    Great video

  • @shwetasharma472
    @shwetasharma472 7 лет назад +8

    True

  • @beenapp1009
    @beenapp1009 7 лет назад +11

    awesome

  • @aseembansal6929
    @aseembansal6929 10 лет назад +14

    Much similar to sartre's philosophy

  • @sridharanvit
    @sridharanvit 10 лет назад +6

    #SadhguruJV

  • @nagarajaca2005
    @nagarajaca2005 9 лет назад +12

    nice

  • @rocknlearn1946
    @rocknlearn1946 Год назад +2

    Real pain of housewife 😢

  • @amarrs3608
    @amarrs3608 6 лет назад +5

    Awesome

  • @miss.samanthalee6793
    @miss.samanthalee6793 9 лет назад +33

    Aum Namah Shiva

  • @rahulsankalpa7731
    @rahulsankalpa7731 9 лет назад +13

    Great :)

  • @bharattomar4612
    @bharattomar4612 4 года назад +2

    Thankyou sir

  • @KYBViews
    @KYBViews 6 лет назад +6

    Interesting...

  • @raadhaenaidu3635
    @raadhaenaidu3635 10 лет назад +4

    With Sathguru words pale!!!!!!

  • @damianfreeney9710
    @damianfreeney9710 7 лет назад +7

    💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @unknownvd
    @unknownvd 9 месяцев назад +4

    Laughinh at this situation is not funny

  • @joannguzman3703
    @joannguzman3703 5 лет назад +8

    🙏

  • @mineazco8866
    @mineazco8866 Год назад

    He said “hell” many times!!!!!!! I’m conflicted

  • @mysticqueen.
    @mysticqueen. 7 лет назад +14

    ❤❤❤

  • @anjmoon6601
    @anjmoon6601 4 года назад +2

    🙏🌸🙂

  • @yogeshkumar3364
    @yogeshkumar3364 3 года назад +8

    How do i fix my exploirative wife

  • @sanjeevshastri5960
    @sanjeevshastri5960 4 года назад +1

    Ok

  • @godisafrequencystaytuned259
    @godisafrequencystaytuned259 7 лет назад +7

    💜💙💚

  • @vtrntic6627
    @vtrntic6627 Год назад

    Sadhguru Bhenki 👌

  • @asankasampath-ow3sg
    @asankasampath-ow3sg Год назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️☀️☀️☀️☀️💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @bitcoin7231
    @bitcoin7231 Год назад +1

    Actually women also torture

  • @sunnygusain
    @sunnygusain 7 лет назад +4

    🤗

  • @joeantsaphia3446
    @joeantsaphia3446 Год назад

    Real pain of a woman

  • @shilpi2810
    @shilpi2810 6 лет назад +5

    🙆🙆🙆

  • @deesticco1719
    @deesticco1719 6 лет назад +4

    😂😂😂

  • @nervousdog1
    @nervousdog1 10 лет назад +4

    :)

  • @nandkumarnair9654
    @nandkumarnair9654 8 лет назад +35

    shambho shiv Shambho!

  • @skidboi5718
    @skidboi5718 6 лет назад +13

    This is very insightful

  • @Vivek-mq1gf
    @Vivek-mq1gf 3 года назад +3

    🙏🏽🙏🏽💐

  • @rickonmaui7054
    @rickonmaui7054 7 лет назад +5

    :)

  • @shyamolimadattatherapy
    @shyamolimadattatherapy 6 лет назад +1

    :)