Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru

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  • Is it okay to live in fear of being judged by people around us? Should the opinions of others influence us? Watch Sadhguru’s answer to a group of young IITians at Kharagpur.
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  • @sadhguru
    @sadhguru  7 месяцев назад +24

    Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes
    Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru
    Full episode link :
    podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000461431603

    • @ALKHIDRBINARRAHEEM
      @ALKHIDRBINARRAHEEM 26 дней назад

      🙏 NAMASTE 😭😭😭 AWARENESS OF CONNECTION TO DIRECTION IS A GIFT.

  • @shawnbutler5588
    @shawnbutler5588 3 года назад +3756

    “don’t give people the privilege to decide if you are sad or happy.” truly inspiring

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +14

      DEEP

    • @meenah2637
      @meenah2637 2 года назад

      @@imkatekanemoto8738 lopplplnnjjklllll

    • @evawennberg5205
      @evawennberg5205 2 года назад

      neither do I, (så klart) but what about algorithms ?

    • @lucypaul4813
      @lucypaul4813 2 года назад +1

      ¹

    • @felixjacobsen7962
      @felixjacobsen7962 2 года назад +4

      Except it cant actually be implemented. We are a product of the people around us.
      Emagine that you somehow grew up all by your self with no people around you ever, no influence.
      Who would you be? What words would you be saying? What music would you like? How would you behave and eat your meals?
      We Owe ourselves to our fellow human beings cause' ist the people around us who makes us who we are.

  • @JOVI08
    @JOVI08 3 года назад +7377

    I’m beating my fear of being judged! Who’s with me? 😃

  • @sauravbasu8805
    @sauravbasu8805 2 года назад +158

    " No one can insult you without your permission " - Quote

  • @ahadahsan1
    @ahadahsan1 2 года назад +174

    "What they say will not determine how I am" powerful words.

  • @wisdomofyogi1
    @wisdomofyogi1 3 года назад +5231

    “ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ”
    --Sadhguru

    • @udasspieme9044
      @udasspieme9044 3 года назад +29

      I have one question i.e. when I was 19 i ran away from home, but the society, family and friends bullied me so badly still there is some . I want to know how can I overcome by them

    • @winterapplegamingYT203
      @winterapplegamingYT203 3 года назад +20

      @@udasspieme9044 hmm I think we need to discuss Bcoz it's not a small issue if u really did that. That would have been trauma

    • @devikasudhakar625
      @devikasudhakar625 3 года назад +1

      S I don't know how to over come

    • @deepeep
      @deepeep 3 года назад +3

      Wisdom of yogi Yes just like Sadhguru says: You’re not the body & not even the mind! :)

    • @arjanmarku6587
      @arjanmarku6587 3 года назад

      So you think that fear is wrong? Not at all if we wouldn't fear and live life without it we would be dead.

  • @abhishekkumaryadav1308
    @abhishekkumaryadav1308 4 года назад +2215

    *FOR EXTERNAL WOUNDS : BERNOL*
    *FOR INTERNAL WOUNDS : SADHGURU*

  • @user-lb3ox4ku4d
    @user-lb3ox4ku4d 3 года назад +140

    "We think that the other person is thinking about you" and "Other person think that you are thinking about him"
    So dont get fear all are equal.

    • @pradeepsinghsolanki903
      @pradeepsinghsolanki903 Год назад +5

      True... The whole matter is this.... We trying to read others mind constantly and make very strong assumptions

    • @jefftone9898
      @jefftone9898 Год назад +1

      That's funny

  • @rishumalik78
    @rishumalik78 2 года назад +57

    "Be so rooted that nobody's absence or presence could disturb your innerpiece".

  • @jamescadzow9545
    @jamescadzow9545 4 года назад +2117

    The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant.

    • @kajalgiri1870
      @kajalgiri1870 4 года назад +16

      True
      only you holds that key.

    • @doni654321
      @doni654321 4 года назад +5

      your mom is irrelevant heheheh
      James Cadzow, sure up to some certain point but its natural to care what other think as this is biological.
      my opinion is that you just accept what other people think and move on (e.g: self_acceptance of oneself)
      lets say, a person says you are a killer through an assumption but with no evidence to back it up. and someone finds evidence that you are indeed a killer? wouldnt that make you a killer? wouldnt they excluded you from society.
      if someone had evidence for me being a killer, i would just self accept what i done and move on.
      what is done is done. (btw i havent killed anyone, its just an example)

    • @greanbean001
      @greanbean001 3 года назад +1

      James, how do you think people form the option of themselves?

    • @blackbarry45
      @blackbarry45 3 года назад

      great shortcut. you save me 8mins

    • @catselah7368
      @catselah7368 3 года назад +1

      No one is an island no one stands alone

  • @DrAanchalMD
    @DrAanchalMD 4 года назад +5896

    “What they say will not determine what I am” 😇

    • @ankitamondal4313
      @ankitamondal4313 4 года назад +8

      Are you a dermatologist???

    • @NishantSharma-tr6xl
      @NishantSharma-tr6xl 4 года назад +27

      @@ankitamondal4313 Do you need some meds sister ??

    • @Type797
      @Type797 4 года назад +11

      *how I am

    • @mystory9682
      @mystory9682 4 года назад +2

      But y do not you hear from them when they speak subjectively and try to be the better version of yourself ....why you don't even care for others ppl think or say...and we should hear from you ....do you understand what I'm talking about ...

    • @user-iw5xr5ew3f
      @user-iw5xr5ew3f 4 года назад +3

      I enjoy watching your channel. 😊

  • @divihehehe_
    @divihehehe_ 3 года назад +833

    No one is born ugly,we're just born on jugemental society

    • @mayankyadav3178
      @mayankyadav3178 3 года назад +11

      Army

    • @invisibleeye8752
      @invisibleeye8752 3 года назад +3

      Yup!

    • @pranavaddanki4263
      @pranavaddanki4263 3 года назад +5

      armyy

    • @007Sanoop
      @007Sanoop 3 года назад +5

      Basic criteria of judgement is Like or Not..
      Beauty is felt through eyes... ok.. but.. in case of another sense.. for eg, tongue.. I don't know why human beings don't like bitter taste?
      is it part of this judgemental society?

    • @invisibleeye8752
      @invisibleeye8752 3 года назад +2

      @@007Sanoop it's judgement but not part of our judgemental society

  • @gamingjunkie707
    @gamingjunkie707 3 года назад +54

    When you overcome fear life begins.

  • @devashishtiwari90
    @devashishtiwari90 4 года назад +4687

    “Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion”. Mannnn that line was extremely catchy and true. ✌🏻

    • @ananyasaini6596
      @ananyasaini6596 3 года назад +40

      I posted the line on my insta status.😍❤️
      Amazing...

    • @adityakumar8148
      @adityakumar8148 3 года назад +48

      @@ananyasaini6596....so that you can be better in someone's opinion. Right? 😀

    • @ananyasaini6596
      @ananyasaini6596 3 года назад +68

      @@adityakumar8148 Nah mate, it's just the fact that this line is soo beautiful, you just wanna share it with everyone and make them understand the deeper meaning of life. Although I understand why you said so. I feel sorry for you mate as your character of judging others is too over-powering that you can't be optimistic and look onto the bright side. 😄

    • @yeshizewde5491
      @yeshizewde5491 3 года назад +4

      Ii donte kare if i listens day and night to this lakcher

    • @prasenjeetdhiwar2067
      @prasenjeetdhiwar2067 3 года назад +10

      @@ananyasaini6596 Now, You are a consequence of sadhguru's opinion. Actually, This is the thing that they want to tell you...

  • @nooryadav7176
    @nooryadav7176 4 года назад +916

    It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others..

    • @greanbean001
      @greanbean001 3 года назад +12

      Good point, Noor. What do you think is self-confidence? How do we grow and sustain it?

    • @vidyamadamanchi8490
      @vidyamadamanchi8490 3 года назад

      Yes very true

    • @ate5ive866
      @ate5ive866 3 года назад +15

      @@greanbean001 Achievements and moral actions

    • @overpricedhealthcare
      @overpricedhealthcare 3 года назад +18

      @@greanbean001 by doing what is positive and whatever benefits you

    • @bhiratkholi1617
      @bhiratkholi1617 3 года назад +10

      @@greanbean001 by gaining more and more knowledge.

  • @kashishadwani9731
    @kashishadwani9731 2 года назад +62

    " right now you are a consequence of somebody" s opinions " -- this just made me realise that we dont even try to find what/who are we from inside .... just because of the judgements being made ... we have shaped ourselves as a result of somebody else' s expectations and stereotypes.....

  • @jasonfeldes9128
    @jasonfeldes9128 3 года назад +197

    As a caucasian of European descent, I find Sadhguru's insights are very moving. Although great western philoshophers have converged on many of the same core insights, they feel less spiritually conveyed than from Asian cultures. While we are one people on this planet, I feel as if no wisdom has been as deeply distilled and continuously refined since antiquity than from India, so my instinct tells me to pay the highest attention to this great gentleman's thoughts.

    • @tasteslikeacid7804
      @tasteslikeacid7804 3 года назад +11

      Beautifully stated my friend. I share the same sentiment.

    • @areaxisthegurkha
      @areaxisthegurkha 2 года назад +4

      Individuals bring wisdom, not people.

    • @suesmith261
      @suesmith261 2 года назад +1

      you had to highlight your superior origin!

    • @flaiirenn
      @flaiirenn 2 года назад +2

      "as a caucasian of european descent"
      sounds redundant, doesn't it?

    • @powerstar817
      @powerstar817 2 года назад

      @@flaiirenn Not English descent😂😂😂but ur genius

  • @michellem4084
    @michellem4084 3 года назад +1989

    The judgment always comes from frustrated unimportant people

  • @bu834
    @bu834 3 года назад +846

    " no one cares about u as much as they care about themselves "

    • @kunaltelang789
      @kunaltelang789 3 года назад +3

      So true

    • @plantmama7442
      @plantmama7442 3 года назад +20

      Exactly. People care more about their little world than anyone else’s 💯

    • @SVL3
      @SVL3 2 года назад +2

      👏👏👏

    • @syritabhutta6796
      @syritabhutta6796 2 года назад +1

      Absolutely right.

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +2

      @@plantmama7442 Is this true? That people care more about their own little worlds?

  • @gabriellat.6735
    @gabriellat.6735 2 года назад +147

    *’Sadhguru‘ to overcome the fear of being judged.*
    When it comes to creating wealth, the truth is more important than the facts. I realized the secret of creating a wealth of over *800K $,* and would love to share my ideas with ignorant ones here.

    • @sarahfletcher01
      @sarahfletcher01 2 года назад +1

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    • @gabriellat.6735
      @gabriellat.6735 2 года назад

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      @gabriellat.6735 2 года назад

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    • @svenoliver6040
      @svenoliver6040 2 года назад

      Great! Got it

    • @svenoliver6040
      @svenoliver6040 2 года назад

      I just looked up your lnvestment ProfessionaI and found her web page. Her experience is pretty impressive. I wrote her and I'm waiting on her reply.

  • @bhavini6625
    @bhavini6625 3 года назад +93

    "I have not given this privilege to anybody that somebody can make me happy or sad." - Powerful lines by Sadhguru 🙏

    • @dhirajgupta7435
      @dhirajgupta7435 2 года назад +2

      But you can't realize this with mental effort. Only Spiritual progress can help you attain this state of being.

  • @ayanshabi6134
    @ayanshabi6134 3 года назад +527

    "Be defined by your actions not their words."

  • @jf8461
    @jf8461 5 лет назад +2526

    It shows a lack of self-confidence to be overly-concerned about what others think of oneself.

    • @asmodeus9075
      @asmodeus9075 5 лет назад +286

      Thank you captain obvious, but some people lack self confidence because they were openly judged by parents siblings etc so one can grow that way.

    • @jf8461
      @jf8461 5 лет назад +100

      What I am saying is that it is not so much "the fear of being judged" that needs to be addressed, but the underlying "lack of self-confidence"; when their self-confidence is built up, that fear of being judged will go away! Simple as that.

    • @fredaowusu-agyapong421
      @fredaowusu-agyapong421 5 лет назад +8

      @@asmodeus9075 great

    • @vishalhadiya570
      @vishalhadiya570 4 года назад +30

      @J F the more you will be "self conscious" the lesser you will become confident. Because self consciousness is character ( unchangeable). And also it comes up with more accuracy in all the way of life. So the roots are in personality.!!?

    • @wolverineiscool7161
      @wolverineiscool7161 4 года назад +9

      @@jf8461 lack of self confidence isnt the issue...sometimes u agree with others, maybe their judgement is right and you need to change urself

  • @BeyondResist
    @BeyondResist 3 года назад +215

    “Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth,
    faithfulness the best relationship.”
    - Buddha

  • @freedomhacking
    @freedomhacking 3 года назад +434

    "a friend of mine was drunk"
    Plot twist: it wasn't the friend

  • @highfrequency1483
    @highfrequency1483 4 года назад +632

    “We are all telling ourselves a story in our heads”

  • @reginaldpooftah4525
    @reginaldpooftah4525 4 года назад +1751

    Like the great Tywin Lannister said
    "A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep"

    • @siwadedumelyayet474
      @siwadedumelyayet474 3 года назад +24

      That was a great line never forget that

    • @JOVI08
      @JOVI08 3 года назад +28

      Thank you for this line. I need it right now. My anxiety is drowning me 😬

    • @prashanthpillai5978
      @prashanthpillai5978 3 года назад +7

      By what right does the wolf judge the Lion? By what right?

    • @Karma7711
      @Karma7711 3 года назад +12

      The sheep don't care either haha

    • @prashanthpillai5978
      @prashanthpillai5978 3 года назад +3

      @@Karma7711 But sheep is sheep😈

  • @jadeynorth403
    @jadeynorth403 3 года назад +19

    That "hallo!" makes me sit up straight everytime

  • @healingmelody112
    @healingmelody112 3 года назад +441

    Whoever is reading this now, remember:
    You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is!
    Blessings to all beings!
    Love and Light!

  • @upasnagupta2522
    @upasnagupta2522 4 года назад +970

    I was really in need of this...cz I always fear to get judged by others.

    • @mariohenriquez8599
      @mariohenriquez8599 4 года назад +24

      But who's gonna judge a so gorgeous woman like you. MY GOD!

    • @upasnagupta2522
      @upasnagupta2522 4 года назад +6

      अल्ली X no more...fear😂

    • @officeofvarunraisharmalawc6438
      @officeofvarunraisharmalawc6438 4 года назад

      Enlightenment u got I guess

    • @billuchoudhary4436
      @billuchoudhary4436 4 года назад +1

      Same here 😥

    • @berrybloom2000
      @berrybloom2000 4 года назад +12

      I know me too, a lot of people tell me I'm nice or pretty.. I just need to stop doubting everything about myself because of a few people that make me uncomfortable

  • @dilanlol6046
    @dilanlol6046 3 года назад +169

    "What they say will not determine how I am. Never ever."

  • @m.logendran7696
    @m.logendran7696 2 года назад +16

    To not be influenced by others, it starts by taking responsibility for yourself, about all aspects, emotionally, mentally. Then really your inner world is in your own hands, you choose how you want to feel etc.

  • @LilianChacha
    @LilianChacha 2 года назад +36

    I always come back to listen to you Guruji. May you live long

  • @hrush437
    @hrush437 5 лет назад +2514

    "I'm stoned in such a way that I haven't lost my judgement at all. And at the same time, whichever way you judge me, has absolutely no impact on me because I'm completely stoned."
    pure wisdom. ♡

    • @brunomerko
      @brunomerko 5 лет назад +36

      Old Soul he smokes weed

    • @hrush437
      @hrush437 5 лет назад +21

      @@brunomerko it's divine.

    • @bellsognodi1787
      @bellsognodi1787 5 лет назад +11

      What is the meaning of stoned?

    • @brunomerko
      @brunomerko 5 лет назад +6

      Old Soul divine weed

    • @brunomerko
      @brunomerko 5 лет назад +19

      Bell Sognodi it means that nothing can penetrate you

  • @royalflight8860
    @royalflight8860 5 лет назад +1218

    Sadguru's sense of humour....top notch 😍

    • @g.niranjanreddygnr6577
      @g.niranjanreddygnr6577 4 года назад +1

      yeah, sadhgyru says about don't think people what says u know how u are

    • @jay1970
      @jay1970 4 года назад

      What did you find funny in this 10 minutes blabbering?

    • @h9production
      @h9production 2 года назад +9

      @@jay1970 some people won't get it...its better for u to stop investing time over here

    • @dilipjain6899
      @dilipjain6899 2 года назад +1

      @@h9production Hi

  • @afeefaathar1888
    @afeefaathar1888 2 года назад +61

    Positive way to tell someone that they are wrong on something is to appreciate them when they are right on something
    They will understand their mistakes by themselves

    • @jefftone9898
      @jefftone9898 Год назад

      That's the only way to be at peace within your self

  • @anirudh655
    @anirudh655 3 года назад +31

    The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant.
    “Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion”
    "A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep"
    “ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ”
    Be defined by your actions not their words."
    It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others..
    We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. "

  • @kindwaychasing
    @kindwaychasing 5 лет назад +475

    I was inspired by what the old man said. Don't be anxious no matter what people are going to talk about you, because you are yourself, you are not the others. Thanks to the master.

    • @tarunbhalla7972
      @tarunbhalla7972 4 года назад +17

      First of all if you are agreed and inspired by the the man who is seeing the video don't call him old man call him Sadhguru vid means to teacher who enlightment the life of other people by their fishes experience and knowledge called gyan in Hindi

    • @Sats33
      @Sats33 4 года назад +12

      Don't call him an old man he's the Sadhguru - enlightened person

    • @shyamganesh7304
      @shyamganesh7304 4 года назад +2

      You're right call him "Sadhguru"

    • @saideepreddy9922
      @saideepreddy9922 4 года назад +7

      @@tarunbhalla7972 are yar no problem
      Sadguru don't affect by this because he already stoned himself not to take opinions of others.

    • @Tsooraz
      @Tsooraz 4 года назад

      Bitter truth,well said but you better called him as sadh Guru will be the better than bitter🙏

  • @dag4096
    @dag4096 4 года назад +84

    Watching from Ireland we need people like him running the country.

    • @choco1026
      @choco1026 4 года назад +4

      people like him wouldn't want to.

    • @koustavmajumdar1235
      @koustavmajumdar1235 3 года назад

      Ireland is known for booze and alchohol. Its great.

    • @SA-yp6ej
      @SA-yp6ej 3 года назад +1

      We already have a yogi in the form of Modi.

  • @ashokr505
    @ashokr505 2 года назад +21

    If other people words can decide your mood that means anyone can control you.

  • @therichbuddha3277
    @therichbuddha3277 3 года назад +14

    Though laughter is medicine and Sadhguru's humor is profound, there is an element of a TV show sitcom to these.

  • @titikshasharma2959
    @titikshasharma2959 3 года назад +284

    " I would not give the privilege to others to make me feel sad, Happy, fearful, hopeless". I desperately need implication of this mantra in my life.

    • @dhirajgupta7435
      @dhirajgupta7435 2 года назад

      The only way out to realize this is Spiritual Enlightment. There is NO other way out. And Spirituality must therefore be the utmost focus of every citizen of the planet, without which it's forever an ignorant and struggling life.

    • @Jz-gx5eb
      @Jz-gx5eb 2 года назад

      Me too!!!

  • @lesliehatun2044
    @lesliehatun2044 5 лет назад +789

    What they say will not determine who I am. 😊

  • @awaaforahinatu7603
    @awaaforahinatu7603 3 года назад +26

    Until I learned to ignore people's judgement about me, life wasn't easy and I was always living in darkness.

  • @valentinesmuriuki6291
    @valentinesmuriuki6291 2 года назад +2

    he never lets me down

  • @Repontex
    @Repontex 4 года назад +186

    " We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. " ... Love this quote & I believe on this always .

  • @ruatsangawhite7261
    @ruatsangawhite7261 4 года назад +571

    "The first time in human history that this many people can think for themselves"
    I cried,what a strong and eye opening words

    • @nikilkenway4533
      @nikilkenway4533 4 года назад +4

      What's the meaning? Please explain

    • @jay1970
      @jay1970 4 года назад +2

      First time in human history... how does he know? Has he been conducting survey since the first generation of human beings?

    • @aditi1729
      @aditi1729 4 года назад +11

      jay1970 it’s basic knowledge duh
      Have you not heard of science and evolution? And also internet?

    • @Imperfect5252
      @Imperfect5252 4 года назад +1

      What is the meaning??

    • @mkb54
      @mkb54 3 года назад +1

      I didn't understood this line

  • @cheptuketcomedian4100
    @cheptuketcomedian4100 2 года назад +7

    Humanity will judge you but they will never determine who you are

  • @pallavitripathii
    @pallavitripathii 3 года назад +21

    So many positive vibes he generate omg 😭💜

  • @tessralte
    @tessralte 4 года назад +59

    What other people think of me is none of my business! 😃🤩

  • @kellyokeefe7290
    @kellyokeefe7290 4 года назад +191

    I’ve had a low self esteem for such a long time and I constantly fear what people think of me. I’ve listened to all the bad things people have said to me over the years and this pattern of worrying was created. The hard part is learning to trust yourself and knowing that how you feel about yourself is enough. But how do you truly love yourself and not let those opinions of others control you?

    • @GireeshVenkateswaran
      @GireeshVenkateswaran 2 года назад +28

      It's very specific to each individual. All journey starts with a first step. The first step is to realise and acknowledge that letting other people's opinions affect you (+ve and -ve way) is not good for oneself. From there, it gets deeper. I find that over time you can get better at looking at what other people say, what facts and evidence that is there in reality to support their view/opinion and accept their comments as feedback to change one's behaviour or educate the other as to why their opinion does not stack up to reality and most importantly ignore the person's opinion if they are not able to see reality.
      All of this when done with an attitude of humbleness and kindness to oneself and the other person, it works wonders for one's self-esteem.
      It takes lots of practice to develop this mindset. One needs to be very kind to oneself and readily forgive oneself.

    • @SweetUniverse
      @SweetUniverse 2 года назад +8

      It takes practice. Always usher the bad thoughts out of your mind & remember all the good things about yourself. ☺️✌️❤️❤️❤️

    • @sowmyasow3321
      @sowmyasow3321 2 года назад +2

      @@GireeshVenkateswaran wonderfully said.

    • @chercuts
      @chercuts 2 года назад +6

      The problem is we think we have more time than we actually do. Live your life. It's over in the blink of an eye.

    • @shikastormcrow6224
      @shikastormcrow6224 2 года назад +2

      @@GireeshVenkateswaran perfectly said and practical advice too. Something I will defo be practicing! Thank you 🙏🏼💙

  • @themaninthegoldenfields2543
    @themaninthegoldenfields2543 2 года назад +1

    I made my exgf my higher power. She tormented me for years, I believed I was worthless, which she told me so often. Sadhguru makes me realize just how ridiculous it is to believe her. I was good before her, and I’m good after her. God bless you all, love and humility.

  • @doroteotimtim8854
    @doroteotimtim8854 Год назад +7

    His appearance gives me the impression of a person well versed in the problems of the world and what he says to his audience makes a lot of sense. It does not matter if his looks are old....but what he says is what makes the difference. He is a very sincere person with a way of making his voice and mannerisms look very distinguished, very intelligent to me.

  • @Traderjoe
    @Traderjoe 3 года назад +10

    After I see that I have no power to change how someone else sees me, and after I know that I am trying my best to be positive and good and they still judge me badly, I know that me worrying about what they think is a wasted worry. I might as well be happy with me, because if they see me smiling despite their negative thoughts of me, they have learned that I am not affected by their view of me. The only place that they can then go is to either not think of me at all, or, to be envious of my happiness.

  • @abhiji5739
    @abhiji5739 4 года назад +129

    0:42 Sadhguru laughs likes so innocent kid..Even I got laughter along with him

  • @juanrosilio777
    @juanrosilio777 3 года назад +4

    I have learn this during meditation
    You cannot let yourself be affected by other people.
    In samadhi state innerworld is clean then the outside world cannot harm you.

  • @TheSenshi7
    @TheSenshi7 3 года назад +42

    At the age of 15 I like to put spirituality in life..

    • @A__j217
      @A__j217 3 года назад

      me to.

    • @A__j217
      @A__j217 3 года назад +1

      its tough to understan and practice.

    • @daneladu
      @daneladu 3 года назад +1

      I advise you to trust in God first

    • @jgaming4x619
      @jgaming4x619 3 года назад +1

      @@daneladu god is within you look in

  • @anildhakal5011
    @anildhakal5011 3 года назад +83

    What an enlinghtment this man has got 🥺 I was messing round with my life and then this man happened ❤️

    • @peacebe2u480
      @peacebe2u480 3 года назад

      Anil,
      So... u keep messing around with your wife till reaching orgasm while watching sadhguru cracking jokes.

    • @ukpabigenevieve4478
      @ukpabigenevieve4478 3 года назад +1

      @@peacebe2u480 wth? What do you mean by that?

  • @Divine00
    @Divine00 5 лет назад +235

    Sadhguru’s answer is always in the first sentence, it’s up to us if we grasp it🤓🤓😃😃😃♥️🙏🏼💜

  • @Craze16
    @Craze16 2 года назад +36

    When i can't sleep,
    I play his session and listen then i dont realise at which instant i fall a sleep,
    Are u guys agree that his voice has a magic hmm ?

  • @ajohnson4431
    @ajohnson4431 2 года назад +5

    Being yourself is useful to other’s people because that’s how you change humanity

  • @shantisk6982
    @shantisk6982 5 лет назад +228

    In the last conversation I had with my father before his Soul departed from his body, He said and stated very clear: Noone absolutely NoBODY should judge Shanti. Most Dying people speak the Truth, he knew who I Am knowing if you judge me, upfront you've already lost. Never judge some1, for you never know, if that same person can become the Cure you'll need......

    • @deer3d174
      @deer3d174 5 лет назад +7

      That's amazing!! Thanks, and love from Australia

    • @Phoenix.219
      @Phoenix.219 4 года назад +5

      That's so true... that's one lesson I learnt by myself within the phase of passing my school,going through many phases in just 6 years in a roller coaster ride and I'm still learning everyday sth from diff people ....when u stop judging u start learning bcz u have an open mind then

    • @metrognome2225
      @metrognome2225 4 года назад +1

      I had a near death experience myself, very true. We are truly all the same entity in different bodies, I know it’s been said countless times, but I’ve experienced it first hand. We’re playing chess against ourselves but we always calibrate it perfectly for the maximum amount of learning and fun.

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад

      @Arjun Warrior Prince Bevause they are competing and very catty.

  • @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT
    @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT 4 года назад +92

    I am going to addicted to u
    Lots of love from 🇵🇰

  • @takikun1427
    @takikun1427 2 года назад +2

    got bad marks in two subjects today , thankyou Guru ji to make me feel good

  • @Ethicalgrandma
    @Ethicalgrandma 2 года назад +3

    7:44 is 100 💯💯 percent true...

  • @LIV2CRE8NATION
    @LIV2CRE8NATION 4 года назад +104

    There is truley only one Judge, and that's you. You judge you. Unconsciously, conciously, subconcoliously. Your own judgement is the only judge that counts.
    Love Sadhguru
    Namaste 🙏

  • @sandeepdandia92
    @sandeepdandia92 4 года назад +268

    I am here only for his fluency of being English spoken

    • @shouryababhare2
      @shouryababhare2 4 года назад +7

      I too watch his videos for the same reason

    • @sabarieswaran9055
      @sabarieswaran9055 4 года назад

      I am also

    • @creator3596
      @creator3596 4 года назад

      Same here bro👍

    • @chamanthic6379
      @chamanthic6379 4 года назад +5

      Morethan that there is something else which you ever learn before

    • @siddarthshah1773
      @siddarthshah1773 3 года назад +3

      but when we already have 22 language of our own den why concentrate learning english language..

  • @judithbcajuban3718
    @judithbcajuban3718 2 года назад +6

    What God knows about me is more important than what others think about me.❤️😇🙏

    • @messue428
      @messue428 Год назад

      At the end of the day this is all that matters!!!

  • @danielcastillo4537
    @danielcastillo4537 3 года назад +20

    "I'm stoned" - The Tao of Jeff Spicoli

  • @paulfletcher5632
    @paulfletcher5632 4 года назад +351

    He is a gift to everyone

  • @gideonsmart53
    @gideonsmart53 5 лет назад +321

    SADHGURU, your words of wisdom really blessed me tremendously. I hope I could meet you in person one day.
    I am currently following and watching from South Africa.

    • @nix1434
      @nix1434 5 лет назад +5

      Me too! Wish he would come here...I am waiting too!

    • @ShashankB94
      @ShashankB94 5 лет назад +3

      Namaste to both of you 🙏🏼

    • @lokeleenP
      @lokeleenP 5 лет назад +3

      Y don't u visit puduchery India and meet him

    • @narensunker6666
      @narensunker6666 5 лет назад +1

      lets get him here...

    • @aecha2588
      @aecha2588 4 года назад +2

      Mee too

  • @mearslab
    @mearslab Год назад +14

    Wow! This video and perspective just blew my mind. I wish I would have heard somebody say this a loooooong time ago. Thank You!

  • @rawrnonetheless1734
    @rawrnonetheless1734 Год назад +1

    I’m stone cold an humble blessing ❤😊🙏🏾, toxic issues is jealousy an addiction illness stop the bullying look at yourself before you judge others…I don’t judge that why I’m with all the blessings from my believing 🙏🏾

  • @lydiamurphy1765
    @lydiamurphy1765 4 года назад +63

    Seeing him a lot in my recommendations and being as isolated as I am this helps me hearing this man's words

  • @prameshsharma6327
    @prameshsharma6327 4 года назад +164

    Stop. Looking ur self from anyone else view,
    To be happy
    This is the theme

  • @stevenkhol8485
    @stevenkhol8485 3 года назад +3

    My forefather 'famous word,
    Your heart should be great enough,
    Not your body.
    With it,no body or nothing can stop you.

  • @lindabev6741
    @lindabev6741 2 года назад

    I live in a Senior community where they are all stoned... prescribed medication...and some are still driving...I am following you now and have found new peace.. thank you for your dedication to bliss.

  • @gillianm9367
    @gillianm9367 4 года назад +15

    'I will never give anyone the privilege of judging me' Wow!!!! Why has it taken me to age 50 to implement that ?! Whenever I watch Sadhguru I am enthralled, sitting here just thinking Yes ! YES! Wake up world and listen 😊💕

  • @MuhammadFarooq-pv3wc
    @MuhammadFarooq-pv3wc 4 года назад +333

    Respect from Pakistan.

    • @AkTheApple
      @AkTheApple 4 года назад +13

      Pkmkb

    • @harshitpathak7641
      @harshitpathak7641 4 года назад +9

      Kya be bin mtlb ladne lgte ho uski kya glti h

    • @businessboss4190
      @businessboss4190 4 года назад +1

      Thanks gentleman

    • @user-ek6ts5ew9p
      @user-ek6ts5ew9p 4 года назад +32

      @@MuhammadFarooq-pv3wc sorry for the bad comments above bro some fool will never change no matter to whom they gonna listen love from india.

    • @zaibakhan5044
      @zaibakhan5044 3 года назад +13

      Don't let other people make u loose ur ethics.
      Honoured India. 💚

  • @AbhaySingh-wl9yd
    @AbhaySingh-wl9yd 3 года назад +9

    At the age of 19 i think I'm enough mature to deal with world
    Thank to guru ji to give path to my spirituality 🙏

  • @dan_useche
    @dan_useche 2 года назад +1

    I have this problem and my solution for this early in my life was to become a rebel, now I know that I was just trying to convince other people that I don't care about what they say,, when I actually cared the most. Now I tell myself the truth, now I don't have to be a rebel without a cause anymore.

  • @markdeguzman6556
    @markdeguzman6556 4 года назад +22

    Knowing yourself deeply will definitely shield you from what other's think about you. This kind of clarity builds your confidence. Respect your limitations and develop skills for survival. Only listen to sound advice but not to ridicule and destructive criticism that belittles you as a person. Don't rely on others for motivation but be self-motivated towards living an honest life. Don't even try to compare yourself with other's growth or achievement for each individual blooms in his own time.

  • @sharathkumars9135
    @sharathkumars9135 4 года назад +355

    Listeners should stop being so curious about clapping and laughing... instead it should be on understanding

    • @pranjalkhanvilkar2801
      @pranjalkhanvilkar2801 4 года назад +4

      Yaa true, I also felt the same

    • @viswanathajangam2305
      @viswanathajangam2305 3 года назад +2

      Dude I always feel like this
      Why people clap without listening

    • @outkast3133
      @outkast3133 3 года назад +15

      The fact that they are laughing and clapping shows that they are listening to him and understand what he is saying while also showing that they agree with it
      if you was talking to a bunch of people and they all just sat there stairng at you it would be awkward as fk and you would be questioning weather or not they even have a clue what you are talking about or if they are even listing to a word you say

    • @truthboom
      @truthboom 3 года назад +1

      they should learn from japanese archery kyudo

    • @ViolaVoltairine
      @ViolaVoltairine 3 года назад +3

      maybe stop shoulding on people and attend to yourself. lol

  • @philomathnj.16
    @philomathnj.16 2 года назад

    I think you're the only person in the world, whose each answers to any kind of questions can satiate me in every way.

  • @stevenhamilton801
    @stevenhamilton801 2 года назад +3

    I think that overcoming people's opinions is directly tied to others affecting me. Freedom from others yet caring for others is my goal

  • @louisecassidy5991
    @louisecassidy5991 4 года назад +18

    Like a pop star said once, "What other people think of me is none of my business!" I took that to heart years ago. Thank you Sadhguru, you too are changing my life.

  • @dimple5241
    @dimple5241 3 года назад +22

    true, I listen to everybody's judgement whether it is good or bad. It settles in my mind for long and keeps running.
    I floating on clouds if it is good judgement but the bad judgement ruins my 15 16 days. I forget good judgements sooner than bad ones. It demotivates me and makes me unhappy .
    This video helped me to change my behaviour and to remove fear of being judged.
    I don't use chemical but anxiety desolves as a chemical in my mind that ruins my mood and work and everything. I should not care of being judged by people and try to be stoned.

    • @mosnobi6271
      @mosnobi6271 3 года назад

      Dimple it's so simple...

  • @pchamprock9535
    @pchamprock9535 3 года назад +1

    Smile of that girl is fantastic.

  • @ahatcho138
    @ahatcho138 3 года назад +6

    Simply Wow. This man is beyond imagaination. Thank god I found you.

  • @MrSexydivas
    @MrSexydivas 4 года назад +42

    His laughter itself is wisdom and I can't help but laugh with him

  • @onkarkulkarni1312
    @onkarkulkarni1312 3 года назад +40

    There is a saying in Marathi- Aikave janache , karave manache.. means listen to every body but do what your Vivek says..

  • @tedmccarthy8501
    @tedmccarthy8501 Год назад

    Watching this from my hospital bed in Dublin Ireland being seen after by India nurses and they are fabulous human Beings. They are what ireland was 40 years ago when everyone spoke to and helped everyone else, But sadly that day is gone forever.

  • @ridhavgamer
    @ridhavgamer 3 года назад

    Every of his speeches touches me...

  • @ToyaDOracle
    @ToyaDOracle 4 года назад +102

    For years I was praised often that when I stop being praised - I went crashing like an airplane which engines failed to keep its float in the sky.. and I now realize that - its never the fault of what others says about us and never the fault of how they make judgement about me. But rather yet our dependence on always hearing the things that we feel fed by as resource of motivation to go out and be something whereas if we trained our thinking to be self willed than to acknowledge praises. I would haven not been seeking it everywhere else and end up being disappointed when it turned to criticism. self views on this

  • @bobbymidha3901
    @bobbymidha3901 4 года назад +34

    In punjabi there is an expresson. Duje log sabdu vada rogh. In Hindi dusre log sabse bara rogh. Basically the opinions of others are the biggest disease

  • @kall_me_krazi
    @kall_me_krazi 2 года назад

    WOW!!! “The consequence of other’s opinions..” the DEPTH IN THAT IS REAL!!!
    Sadhguru- THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. Even though you are stone- I’m sending you loving energy!!!
    Amen!!!
    People depend on substances because they don’t know how to escape their internal fears. {that will more than likely never happen} They believe emotions are a bad thing, but in fact they ARE a gift from God to help us navigate through our lifetimes. They tell us if we are in, or out of alignment with our higher self. We know we are in alignment when we feel loving emotions; happy, calm or peaceful. Out of alignment is any fear based emotions. Feeling fear? MEDITATION is best on a daily basis. When you get random scary thoughts, REFOCUS and become that mental master you were all born to be! I believe in you!!!
    The BODY is a machine, the way we care for it, the way it will work. I got hit by an 80,000 lb tractor trailer and have tons of internal, physical damage including a ceramic hip at 37. This weighed on me mentally. I got into meditation and reiki. I could be addicted to a ton of narcotics, but I chose to give that up and take the natural, holistic path. My faith led the way. If I can overcome what I have been through since I got into that accident, ANYONE READING THIS CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING. I BELIEVE GOD AND YOUR SOUL would NEVER sign up for more than you can handle!!!
    Sending loving energy everyone’s! Namaste y’all! 🤗💜🙏🏻♾

  • @archerx68
    @archerx68 3 года назад +4

    Fear of being judged by others because of my disability... Makes me feel like I'm not good enough... Feeling more invisible y'all stay safe 😷🙏✌️🎭

  • @Consciousplanetorg
    @Consciousplanetorg 5 лет назад +340

    "To be healthful, you need chemicals, to be joyful you need chemicals, to be peaceful you need chemicals, to be ecstatic of course there is ecstasy." "If 90% of the population is on chemicals believe me, the next generation we produce will be a generation which is much less than us, If we produce the next generation less than ourselves, we have committed a crime against humanity" ~ Sadhguru

    • @stefansfisimatenten3682
      @stefansfisimatenten3682 4 года назад +1

      I wonder what exactly he meant by "less". I assume he is not worried that there would be less human (in numbers) but that each individual would be "less" (like they'd be void to a large extent)

    • @mickspriggs7894
      @mickspriggs7894 4 года назад

      Best quote!

    • @harshapartha8501
      @harshapartha8501 4 года назад

      @@stefansfisimatenten3682 he means that if they can't handle an iPad when you're 3... Then you are "less" than the current generation

    • @angelicalyn6520
      @angelicalyn6520 4 года назад +1

      Ok we watched the video dont have to keep quoting it 50 times to get likes.

    • @claudekmolefi8071
      @claudekmolefi8071 4 года назад +4

      He means chemicals cause alterations to human DNA the impact may be detrimental to our offsprings...not hard to comprehend really people

  • @srikanthsrinivasan3843
    @srikanthsrinivasan3843 3 года назад +22

    "What they say will not determine how I am!!"

  • @colonizedgrain4034
    @colonizedgrain4034 Год назад +3

    I felt free of judgement for 3 months last year and I thought I was free of it forever... until I slipped back into my old bad habits and now I’ve been in my apt for months again and it’s a hassle for me to even walk outside, in case neighbors see me and judge me. I don’t know why I care so much, it’s like I’m in a prison in my mind. I will get over this again. I think it stems from my judgement of others; I judge them and I feel like I’m being judged back, but they probably aren’t even thinking about me.