Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru Full episode link : podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000461431603
Except it cant actually be implemented. We are a product of the people around us. Emagine that you somehow grew up all by your self with no people around you ever, no influence. Who would you be? What words would you be saying? What music would you like? How would you behave and eat your meals? We Owe ourselves to our fellow human beings cause' ist the people around us who makes us who we are.
But y do not you hear from them when they speak subjectively and try to be the better version of yourself ....why you don't even care for others ppl think or say...and we should hear from you ....do you understand what I'm talking about ...
I have one question i.e. when I was 19 i ran away from home, but the society, family and friends bullied me so badly still there is some . I want to know how can I overcome by them
@@adityakumar8148 Nah mate, it's just the fact that this line is soo beautiful, you just wanna share it with everyone and make them understand the deeper meaning of life. Although I understand why you said so. I feel sorry for you mate as your character of judging others is too over-powering that you can't be optimistic and look onto the bright side. 😄
your mom is irrelevant heheheh James Cadzow, sure up to some certain point but its natural to care what other think as this is biological. my opinion is that you just accept what other people think and move on (e.g: self_acceptance of oneself) lets say, a person says you are a killer through an assumption but with no evidence to back it up. and someone finds evidence that you are indeed a killer? wouldnt that make you a killer? wouldnt they excluded you from society. if someone had evidence for me being a killer, i would just self accept what i done and move on. what is done is done. (btw i havent killed anyone, its just an example)
What I am saying is that it is not so much "the fear of being judged" that needs to be addressed, but the underlying "lack of self-confidence"; when their self-confidence is built up, that fear of being judged will go away! Simple as that.
@J F the more you will be "self conscious" the lesser you will become confident. Because self consciousness is character ( unchangeable). And also it comes up with more accuracy in all the way of life. So the roots are in personality.!!?
" right now you are a consequence of somebody" s opinions " -- this just made me realise that we dont even try to find what/who are we from inside .... just because of the judgements being made ... we have shaped ourselves as a result of somebody else' s expectations and stereotypes.....
I know me too, a lot of people tell me I'm nice or pretty.. I just need to stop doubting everything about myself because of a few people that make me uncomfortable
As a caucasian of European descent, I find Sadhguru's insights are very moving. Although great western philoshophers have converged on many of the same core insights, they feel less spiritually conveyed than from Asian cultures. While we are one people on this planet, I feel as if no wisdom has been as deeply distilled and continuously refined since antiquity than from India, so my instinct tells me to pay the highest attention to this great gentleman's thoughts.
"I'm stoned in such a way that I haven't lost my judgement at all. And at the same time, whichever way you judge me, has absolutely no impact on me because I'm completely stoned." pure wisdom. ♡
Basic criteria of judgement is Like or Not.. Beauty is felt through eyes... ok.. but.. in case of another sense.. for eg, tongue.. I don't know why human beings don't like bitter taste? is it part of this judgemental society?
" We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. " ... Love this quote & I believe on this always .
His appearance gives me the impression of a person well versed in the problems of the world and what he says to his audience makes a lot of sense. It does not matter if his looks are old....but what he says is what makes the difference. He is a very sincere person with a way of making his voice and mannerisms look very distinguished, very intelligent to me.
The only way out to realize this is Spiritual Enlightment. There is NO other way out. And Spirituality must therefore be the utmost focus of every citizen of the planet, without which it's forever an ignorant and struggling life.
After I see that I have no power to change how someone else sees me, and after I know that I am trying my best to be positive and good and they still judge me badly, I know that me worrying about what they think is a wasted worry. I might as well be happy with me, because if they see me smiling despite their negative thoughts of me, they have learned that I am not affected by their view of me. The only place that they can then go is to either not think of me at all, or, to be envious of my happiness.
There is truley only one Judge, and that's you. You judge you. Unconsciously, conciously, subconcoliously. Your own judgement is the only judge that counts. Love Sadhguru Namaste 🙏
In the last conversation I had with my father before his Soul departed from his body, He said and stated very clear: Noone absolutely NoBODY should judge Shanti. Most Dying people speak the Truth, he knew who I Am knowing if you judge me, upfront you've already lost. Never judge some1, for you never know, if that same person can become the Cure you'll need......
That's so true... that's one lesson I learnt by myself within the phase of passing my school,going through many phases in just 6 years in a roller coaster ride and I'm still learning everyday sth from diff people ....when u stop judging u start learning bcz u have an open mind then
I had a near death experience myself, very true. We are truly all the same entity in different bodies, I know it’s been said countless times, but I’ve experienced it first hand. We’re playing chess against ourselves but we always calibrate it perfectly for the maximum amount of learning and fun.
I’ve had a low self esteem for such a long time and I constantly fear what people think of me. I’ve listened to all the bad things people have said to me over the years and this pattern of worrying was created. The hard part is learning to trust yourself and knowing that how you feel about yourself is enough. But how do you truly love yourself and not let those opinions of others control you?
It's very specific to each individual. All journey starts with a first step. The first step is to realise and acknowledge that letting other people's opinions affect you (+ve and -ve way) is not good for oneself. From there, it gets deeper. I find that over time you can get better at looking at what other people say, what facts and evidence that is there in reality to support their view/opinion and accept their comments as feedback to change one's behaviour or educate the other as to why their opinion does not stack up to reality and most importantly ignore the person's opinion if they are not able to see reality. All of this when done with an attitude of humbleness and kindness to oneself and the other person, it works wonders for one's self-esteem. It takes lots of practice to develop this mindset. One needs to be very kind to oneself and readily forgive oneself.
SADHGURU, your words of wisdom really blessed me tremendously. I hope I could meet you in person one day. I am currently following and watching from South Africa.
Like a pop star said once, "What other people think of me is none of my business!" I took that to heart years ago. Thank you Sadhguru, you too are changing my life.
Positive way to tell someone that they are wrong on something is to appreciate them when they are right on something They will understand their mistakes by themselves
Knowing yourself deeply will definitely shield you from what other's think about you. This kind of clarity builds your confidence. Respect your limitations and develop skills for survival. Only listen to sound advice but not to ridicule and destructive criticism that belittles you as a person. Don't rely on others for motivation but be self-motivated towards living an honest life. Don't even try to compare yourself with other's growth or achievement for each individual blooms in his own time.
I have learn this during meditation You cannot let yourself be affected by other people. In samadhi state innerworld is clean then the outside world cannot harm you.
For years I was praised often that when I stop being praised - I went crashing like an airplane which engines failed to keep its float in the sky.. and I now realize that - its never the fault of what others says about us and never the fault of how they make judgement about me. But rather yet our dependence on always hearing the things that we feel fed by as resource of motivation to go out and be something whereas if we trained our thinking to be self willed than to acknowledge praises. I would haven not been seeking it everywhere else and end up being disappointed when it turned to criticism. self views on this
true, I listen to everybody's judgement whether it is good or bad. It settles in my mind for long and keeps running. I floating on clouds if it is good judgement but the bad judgement ruins my 15 16 days. I forget good judgements sooner than bad ones. It demotivates me and makes me unhappy . This video helped me to change my behaviour and to remove fear of being judged. I don't use chemical but anxiety desolves as a chemical in my mind that ruins my mood and work and everything. I should not care of being judged by people and try to be stoned.
WOW!!! “The consequence of other’s opinions..” the DEPTH IN THAT IS REAL!!! Sadhguru- THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. Even though you are stone- I’m sending you loving energy!!! Amen!!! People depend on substances because they don’t know how to escape their internal fears. {that will more than likely never happen} They believe emotions are a bad thing, but in fact they ARE a gift from God to help us navigate through our lifetimes. They tell us if we are in, or out of alignment with our higher self. We know we are in alignment when we feel loving emotions; happy, calm or peaceful. Out of alignment is any fear based emotions. Feeling fear? MEDITATION is best on a daily basis. When you get random scary thoughts, REFOCUS and become that mental master you were all born to be! I believe in you!!! The BODY is a machine, the way we care for it, the way it will work. I got hit by an 80,000 lb tractor trailer and have tons of internal, physical damage including a ceramic hip at 37. This weighed on me mentally. I got into meditation and reiki. I could be addicted to a ton of narcotics, but I chose to give that up and take the natural, holistic path. My faith led the way. If I can overcome what I have been through since I got into that accident, ANYONE READING THIS CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING. I BELIEVE GOD AND YOUR SOUL would NEVER sign up for more than you can handle!!! Sending loving energy everyone’s! Namaste y’all! 🤗💜🙏🏻♾
Whoever is reading this now, remember: You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is! Blessings to all beings! Love and Light!
In punjabi there is an expresson. Duje log sabdu vada rogh. In Hindi dusre log sabse bara rogh. Basically the opinions of others are the biggest disease
'I will never give anyone the privilege of judging me' Wow!!!! Why has it taken me to age 50 to implement that ?! Whenever I watch Sadhguru I am enthralled, sitting here just thinking Yes ! YES! Wake up world and listen 😊💕
Like when someone feels alone he/she feels unimportant and hesitate to say even the right thing bcz of the fear of judgement..even sometimes when i am right and people laugh at me i start thinking from their prospective..
"Any moment we could be doing something wrong, so we listen to everybody but what they say will not determine how I Am, never ever, This you must fix" ~ Sadhguru
I’m stone cold an humble blessing ❤😊🙏🏾, toxic issues is jealousy an addiction illness stop the bullying look at yourself before you judge others…I don’t judge that why I’m with all the blessings from my believing 🙏🏾
That girl asked a good question actually.. it's really the perfect question. We actually don't need to bother about what others think of us. As we know what we are. And we don't need to prove it to others. As simple as that😏
The fact that they are laughing and clapping shows that they are listening to him and understand what he is saying while also showing that they agree with it if you was talking to a bunch of people and they all just sat there stairng at you it would be awkward as fk and you would be questioning weather or not they even have a clue what you are talking about or if they are even listing to a word you say
"To be healthful, you need chemicals, to be joyful you need chemicals, to be peaceful you need chemicals, to be ecstatic of course there is ecstasy." "If 90% of the population is on chemicals believe me, the next generation we produce will be a generation which is much less than us, If we produce the next generation less than ourselves, we have committed a crime against humanity" ~ Sadhguru
I wonder what exactly he meant by "less". I assume he is not worried that there would be less human (in numbers) but that each individual would be "less" (like they'd be void to a large extent)
The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant. “Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion” "A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep" “ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ” Be defined by your actions not their words." It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others.. We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. "
Watching this from my hospital bed in Dublin Ireland being seen after by India nurses and they are fabulous human Beings. They are what ireland was 40 years ago when everyone spoke to and helped everyone else, But sadly that day is gone forever.
MOUSUMI MAZUMDER i don’t know what that is. I don’t have any friends but one that lives 500 miles away and I don’t follow trends. I got here on my own with a little help from chemicals. lol
No When they become famous They become more conscious towards Log kya khenge Also when u become famous It is impossible to not have haters That's why they say To stay at top is more difficult than reaching there
Because you got fame on few conditions if you loose you loose fame That's why we don't need to work for fame Don't take sadguru words in crude sense because he told that for those who are suffering unnecessarily about judgements of others Not for all People who are in top position like pm or president they should concern the judgements of others otherwise they can't sustain there
I don't know how I found this breathe of fresh air, ywt I am grateful for doing so. It may take me a lifetime to master his level of thinking. However, I will get there. ❤
Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes
Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru
Full episode link :
podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000461431603
🙏 NAMASTE 😭😭😭 AWARENESS OF CONNECTION TO DIRECTION IS A GIFT.
“don’t give people the privilege to decide if you are sad or happy.” truly inspiring
DEEP
@@2008_katikati lopplplnnjjklllll
neither do I, (så klart) but what about algorithms ?
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Except it cant actually be implemented. We are a product of the people around us.
Emagine that you somehow grew up all by your self with no people around you ever, no influence.
Who would you be? What words would you be saying? What music would you like? How would you behave and eat your meals?
We Owe ourselves to our fellow human beings cause' ist the people around us who makes us who we are.
“What they say will not determine what I am” 😇
Are you a dermatologist???
@@Smellofsmiles Do you need some meds sister ??
*how I am
But y do not you hear from them when they speak subjectively and try to be the better version of yourself ....why you don't even care for others ppl think or say...and we should hear from you ....do you understand what I'm talking about ...
I enjoy watching your channel. 😊
"What they say will not determine how I am" powerful words.
“ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ”
--Sadhguru
I have one question i.e. when I was 19 i ran away from home, but the society, family and friends bullied me so badly still there is some . I want to know how can I overcome by them
@@udasspieme9044 hmm I think we need to discuss Bcoz it's not a small issue if u really did that. That would have been trauma
S I don't know how to over come
Wisdom of yogi Yes just like Sadhguru says: You’re not the body & not even the mind! :)
So you think that fear is wrong? Not at all if we wouldn't fear and live life without it we would be dead.
*FOR EXTERNAL WOUNDS : BERNOL*
*FOR INTERNAL WOUNDS : SADHGURU*
Sooo true !!!!
So true
Very true 👍
@Brandi832 it is a medicine, not a person.
@Brandi832 : ) you're welcome. ❤️
" No one can insult you without your permission " - Quote
❤
It's right.
me , have you conquered your fear
“Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion”. Mannnn that line was extremely catchy and true. ✌🏻
I posted the line on my insta status.😍❤️
Amazing...
@@ananyasaini6596....so that you can be better in someone's opinion. Right? 😀
@@adityakumar8148 Nah mate, it's just the fact that this line is soo beautiful, you just wanna share it with everyone and make them understand the deeper meaning of life. Although I understand why you said so. I feel sorry for you mate as your character of judging others is too over-powering that you can't be optimistic and look onto the bright side. 😄
Ii donte kare if i listens day and night to this lakcher
@@ananyasaini6596 Now, You are a consequence of sadhguru's opinion. Actually, This is the thing that they want to tell you...
The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant.
True
only you holds that key.
your mom is irrelevant heheheh
James Cadzow, sure up to some certain point but its natural to care what other think as this is biological.
my opinion is that you just accept what other people think and move on (e.g: self_acceptance of oneself)
lets say, a person says you are a killer through an assumption but with no evidence to back it up. and someone finds evidence that you are indeed a killer? wouldnt that make you a killer? wouldnt they excluded you from society.
if someone had evidence for me being a killer, i would just self accept what i done and move on.
what is done is done. (btw i havent killed anyone, its just an example)
James, how do you think people form the option of themselves?
great shortcut. you save me 8mins
No one is an island no one stands alone
"Be so rooted that nobody's absence or presence could disturb your innerpiece".
GOD BLESS YOU
I’m beating my fear of being judged! Who’s with me? 😃
🙋
He will judge you behind your back.
Jovelyn Marco ✋
Who so ever judges behind u. Does it matter? It only does when you judge😊
Marco you are so sexy
It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others..
Good point, Noor. What do you think is self-confidence? How do we grow and sustain it?
Yes very true
@@greanbean001 Achievements and moral actions
@@greanbean001 by doing what is positive and whatever benefits you
@@greanbean001 by gaining more and more knowledge.
"We think that the other person is thinking about you" and "Other person think that you are thinking about him"
So dont get fear all are equal.
True... The whole matter is this.... We trying to read others mind constantly and make very strong assumptions
That's funny
" no one cares about u as much as they care about themselves "
So true
Exactly. People care more about their little world than anyone else’s 💯
👏👏👏
Absolutely right.
I hv a loving family
It shows a lack of self-confidence to be overly-concerned about what others think of oneself.
Thank you captain obvious, but some people lack self confidence because they were openly judged by parents siblings etc so one can grow that way.
What I am saying is that it is not so much "the fear of being judged" that needs to be addressed, but the underlying "lack of self-confidence"; when their self-confidence is built up, that fear of being judged will go away! Simple as that.
@@asmodeus9075 great
@J F the more you will be "self conscious" the lesser you will become confident. Because self consciousness is character ( unchangeable). And also it comes up with more accuracy in all the way of life. So the roots are in personality.!!?
@@jf8461 lack of self confidence isnt the issue...sometimes u agree with others, maybe their judgement is right and you need to change urself
When you overcome fear life begins.
"Be defined by your actions not their words."
cool !
ever heard of defamation
Words of wisdom.🙏❤️
WOW yesss 👏🏽👏🏽💯
“We are all telling ourselves a story in our heads”
Fact
Right
" right now you are a consequence of somebody" s opinions " -- this just made me realise that we dont even try to find what/who are we from inside .... just because of the judgements being made ... we have shaped ourselves as a result of somebody else' s expectations and stereotypes.....
Exactly we do what others say or whatever they find negative on us we start working on them
The judgment always comes from frustrated unimportant people
True bro😃
He right on that
Michelle M you’re judging too 😌
Agreed
Michelle,
Spoken like a tragic victim.
I was really in need of this...cz I always fear to get judged by others.
But who's gonna judge a so gorgeous woman like you. MY GOD!
अल्ली X no more...fear😂
Enlightenment u got I guess
Same here 😥
I know me too, a lot of people tell me I'm nice or pretty.. I just need to stop doubting everything about myself because of a few people that make me uncomfortable
As a caucasian of European descent, I find Sadhguru's insights are very moving. Although great western philoshophers have converged on many of the same core insights, they feel less spiritually conveyed than from Asian cultures. While we are one people on this planet, I feel as if no wisdom has been as deeply distilled and continuously refined since antiquity than from India, so my instinct tells me to pay the highest attention to this great gentleman's thoughts.
Beautifully stated my friend. I share the same sentiment.
Individuals bring wisdom, not people.
you had to highlight your superior origin!
"as a caucasian of european descent"
sounds redundant, doesn't it?
@@flaiirenn Not English descent😂😂😂but ur genius
Sadguru's sense of humour....top notch 😍
yeah, sadhgyru says about don't think people what says u know how u are
What did you find funny in this 10 minutes blabbering?
@@jay1970 some people won't get it...its better for u to stop investing time over here
@@h9production Hi
"I'm stoned in such a way that I haven't lost my judgement at all. And at the same time, whichever way you judge me, has absolutely no impact on me because I'm completely stoned."
pure wisdom. ♡
Old Soul he smokes weed
@@brunomerko it's divine.
What is the meaning of stoned?
Old Soul divine weed
Bell Sognodi it means that nothing can penetrate you
No one is born ugly,we're just born on jugemental society
Army
Yup!
armyy
Basic criteria of judgement is Like or Not..
Beauty is felt through eyes... ok.. but.. in case of another sense.. for eg, tongue.. I don't know why human beings don't like bitter taste?
is it part of this judgemental society?
@@007Sanoop it's judgement but not part of our judgemental society
Like the great Tywin Lannister said
"A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep"
That was a great line never forget that
Thank you for this line. I need it right now. My anxiety is drowning me 😬
By what right does the wolf judge the Lion? By what right?
The sheep don't care either haha
@@Karma7711 But sheep is sheep😈
" We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. " ... Love this quote & I believe on this always .
"I have not given this privilege to anybody that somebody can make me happy or sad." - Powerful lines by Sadhguru 🙏
But you can't realize this with mental effort. Only Spiritual progress can help you attain this state of being.
"The first time in human history that this many people can think for themselves"
I cried,what a strong and eye opening words
What's the meaning? Please explain
First time in human history... how does he know? Has he been conducting survey since the first generation of human beings?
jay1970 it’s basic knowledge duh
Have you not heard of science and evolution? And also internet?
What is the meaning??
I didn't understood this line
Watching from Ireland we need people like him running the country.
people like him wouldn't want to.
Ireland is known for booze and alchohol. Its great.
We already have a yogi in the form of Modi.
I always come back to listen to you Guruji. May you live long
"What they say will not determine how I am. Never ever."
What they say will not determine who I am. 😊
You are the temple of God
*How I am
@@Type797 Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou
easy to say tough in practical
Hardeep Kaur ddddfdt
His appearance gives me the impression of a person well versed in the problems of the world and what he says to his audience makes a lot of sense. It does not matter if his looks are old....but what he says is what makes the difference. He is a very sincere person with a way of making his voice and mannerisms look very distinguished, very intelligent to me.
" I would not give the privilege to others to make me feel sad, Happy, fearful, hopeless". I desperately need implication of this mantra in my life.
The only way out to realize this is Spiritual Enlightment. There is NO other way out. And Spirituality must therefore be the utmost focus of every citizen of the planet, without which it's forever an ignorant and struggling life.
Me too!!!
“Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth,
faithfulness the best relationship.”
- Buddha
Though laughter is medicine and Sadhguru's humor is profound, there is an element of a TV show sitcom to these.
After I see that I have no power to change how someone else sees me, and after I know that I am trying my best to be positive and good and they still judge me badly, I know that me worrying about what they think is a wasted worry. I might as well be happy with me, because if they see me smiling despite their negative thoughts of me, they have learned that I am not affected by their view of me. The only place that they can then go is to either not think of me at all, or, to be envious of my happiness.
There is truley only one Judge, and that's you. You judge you. Unconsciously, conciously, subconcoliously. Your own judgement is the only judge that counts.
Love Sadhguru
Namaste 🙏
Being yourself is useful to other’s people because that’s how you change humanity
Sadhguru’s answer is always in the first sentence, it’s up to us if we grasp it🤓🤓😃😃😃♥️🙏🏼💜
Stoned
In the last conversation I had with my father before his Soul departed from his body, He said and stated very clear: Noone absolutely NoBODY should judge Shanti. Most Dying people speak the Truth, he knew who I Am knowing if you judge me, upfront you've already lost. Never judge some1, for you never know, if that same person can become the Cure you'll need......
That's amazing!! Thanks, and love from Australia
That's so true... that's one lesson I learnt by myself within the phase of passing my school,going through many phases in just 6 years in a roller coaster ride and I'm still learning everyday sth from diff people ....when u stop judging u start learning bcz u have an open mind then
I had a near death experience myself, very true. We are truly all the same entity in different bodies, I know it’s been said countless times, but I’ve experienced it first hand. We’re playing chess against ourselves but we always calibrate it perfectly for the maximum amount of learning and fun.
@Arjun Warrior Prince Bevause they are competing and very catty.
That "hallo!" makes me sit up straight everytime
🌝😁😂😂
I’ve had a low self esteem for such a long time and I constantly fear what people think of me. I’ve listened to all the bad things people have said to me over the years and this pattern of worrying was created. The hard part is learning to trust yourself and knowing that how you feel about yourself is enough. But how do you truly love yourself and not let those opinions of others control you?
It's very specific to each individual. All journey starts with a first step. The first step is to realise and acknowledge that letting other people's opinions affect you (+ve and -ve way) is not good for oneself. From there, it gets deeper. I find that over time you can get better at looking at what other people say, what facts and evidence that is there in reality to support their view/opinion and accept their comments as feedback to change one's behaviour or educate the other as to why their opinion does not stack up to reality and most importantly ignore the person's opinion if they are not able to see reality.
All of this when done with an attitude of humbleness and kindness to oneself and the other person, it works wonders for one's self-esteem.
It takes lots of practice to develop this mindset. One needs to be very kind to oneself and readily forgive oneself.
It takes practice. Always usher the bad thoughts out of your mind & remember all the good things about yourself. ☺️✌️❤️❤️❤️
@@GireeshVenkateswaran wonderfully said.
The problem is we think we have more time than we actually do. Live your life. It's over in the blink of an eye.
@@GireeshVenkateswaran perfectly said and practical advice too. Something I will defo be practicing! Thank you 🙏🏼💙
What an enlinghtment this man has got 🥺 I was messing round with my life and then this man happened ❤️
Anil,
So... u keep messing around with your wife till reaching orgasm while watching sadhguru cracking jokes.
@@peacebe2u480 wth? What do you mean by that?
I think that overcoming people's opinions is directly tied to others affecting me. Freedom from others yet caring for others is my goal
SADHGURU, your words of wisdom really blessed me tremendously. I hope I could meet you in person one day.
I am currently following and watching from South Africa.
Me too! Wish he would come here...I am waiting too!
Namaste to both of you 🙏🏼
Y don't u visit puduchery India and meet him
lets get him here...
Mee too
Seeing him a lot in my recommendations and being as isolated as I am this helps me hearing this man's words
So many positive vibes he generate omg 😭💜
Stop. Looking ur self from anyone else view,
To be happy
This is the theme
Like a pop star said once, "What other people think of me is none of my business!" I took that to heart years ago. Thank you Sadhguru, you too are changing my life.
Positive way to tell someone that they are wrong on something is to appreciate them when they are right on something
They will understand their mistakes by themselves
That's the only way to be at peace within your self
Knowing yourself deeply will definitely shield you from what other's think about you. This kind of clarity builds your confidence. Respect your limitations and develop skills for survival. Only listen to sound advice but not to ridicule and destructive criticism that belittles you as a person. Don't rely on others for motivation but be self-motivated towards living an honest life. Don't even try to compare yourself with other's growth or achievement for each individual blooms in his own time.
There is a saying in Marathi- Aikave janache , karave manache.. means listen to every body but do what your Vivek says..
Thanks for your generosity.....dear man......
I have learn this during meditation
You cannot let yourself be affected by other people.
In samadhi state innerworld is clean then the outside world cannot harm you.
For years I was praised often that when I stop being praised - I went crashing like an airplane which engines failed to keep its float in the sky.. and I now realize that - its never the fault of what others says about us and never the fault of how they make judgement about me. But rather yet our dependence on always hearing the things that we feel fed by as resource of motivation to go out and be something whereas if we trained our thinking to be self willed than to acknowledge praises. I would haven not been seeking it everywhere else and end up being disappointed when it turned to criticism. self views on this
Me too
You’re so right about the new generation I’m 15 stay focused and balanced 👁
"You can judge me whichever way you want" that's profound...
You can't control what people do with their minds and thoughts...
What other people think of me is none of my business! 😃🤩
true, I listen to everybody's judgement whether it is good or bad. It settles in my mind for long and keeps running.
I floating on clouds if it is good judgement but the bad judgement ruins my 15 16 days. I forget good judgements sooner than bad ones. It demotivates me and makes me unhappy .
This video helped me to change my behaviour and to remove fear of being judged.
I don't use chemical but anxiety desolves as a chemical in my mind that ruins my mood and work and everything. I should not care of being judged by people and try to be stoned.
Dimple it's so simple...
WOW!!! “The consequence of other’s opinions..” the DEPTH IN THAT IS REAL!!!
Sadhguru- THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. Even though you are stone- I’m sending you loving energy!!!
Amen!!!
People depend on substances because they don’t know how to escape their internal fears. {that will more than likely never happen} They believe emotions are a bad thing, but in fact they ARE a gift from God to help us navigate through our lifetimes. They tell us if we are in, or out of alignment with our higher self. We know we are in alignment when we feel loving emotions; happy, calm or peaceful. Out of alignment is any fear based emotions. Feeling fear? MEDITATION is best on a daily basis. When you get random scary thoughts, REFOCUS and become that mental master you were all born to be! I believe in you!!!
The BODY is a machine, the way we care for it, the way it will work. I got hit by an 80,000 lb tractor trailer and have tons of internal, physical damage including a ceramic hip at 37. This weighed on me mentally. I got into meditation and reiki. I could be addicted to a ton of narcotics, but I chose to give that up and take the natural, holistic path. My faith led the way. If I can overcome what I have been through since I got into that accident, ANYONE READING THIS CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING. I BELIEVE GOD AND YOUR SOUL would NEVER sign up for more than you can handle!!!
Sending loving energy everyone’s! Namaste y’all! 🤗💜🙏🏻♾
OMG.. what a sense of humour. And also teaching in a lighter vein great truths... Sadhguru is incomparable. Namaskaram Sadhguru.
Whoever is reading this now, remember:
You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is!
Blessings to all beings!
Love and Light!
@PowerOf One ❤️✨
And so are you!!💥
🙏🙏♥️
Thank you beautiful
Blessings to you, your light shines like tears of joy.
If other people words can decide your mood that means anyone can control you.
SIR YOU ARE A LEGEND ... YOU ARE A PERSON WITH UTMOST INTELLIGENCE..
In punjabi there is an expresson. Duje log sabdu vada rogh. In Hindi dusre log sabse bara rogh. Basically the opinions of others are the biggest disease
What God knows about me is more important than what others think about me.❤️😇🙏
At the end of the day this is all that matters!!!
'I will never give anyone the privilege of judging me' Wow!!!! Why has it taken me to age 50 to implement that ?! Whenever I watch Sadhguru I am enthralled, sitting here just thinking Yes ! YES! Wake up world and listen 😊💕
Same here! Why give them that power?
I'm glad I find it at 31
I am here only for his fluency of being English spoken
I too watch his videos for the same reason
I am also
Same here bro👍
Morethan that there is something else which you ever learn before
but when we already have 22 language of our own den why concentrate learning english language..
Until I learned to ignore people's judgement about me, life wasn't easy and I was always living in darkness.
And how did u do so?
Like when someone feels alone he/she feels unimportant and hesitate to say even the right thing bcz of the fear of judgement..even sometimes when i am right and people laugh at me i start thinking from their prospective..
"Any moment we could be doing something wrong, so we listen to everybody but what they say will not determine how I Am, never ever, This you must fix" ~ Sadhguru
Ask and the universe provides; I've been struggling a bit lately and now I understand that it was a little growth that i needed.
Simply Wow. This man is beyond imagaination. Thank god I found you.
This could easily solve many issues if it were HEARD.....spread this around!
He is just incredible , what a genious he is , love from Pakistsn
I’m stone cold an humble blessing ❤😊🙏🏾, toxic issues is jealousy an addiction illness stop the bullying look at yourself before you judge others…I don’t judge that why I’m with all the blessings from my believing 🙏🏾
That girl asked a good question actually.. it's really the perfect question. We actually don't need to bother about what others think of us. As we know what we are. And we don't need to prove it to others. As simple as that😏
As simple as that then why this 8 minutes long video?
That is wayward attitude really. Seek counsel from the wise... or else it can lead you to dark places unknowingly.
"What they say will not determine how I am!!"
Wow! This video and perspective just blew my mind. I wish I would have heard somebody say this a loooooong time ago. Thank You!
Listeners should stop being so curious about clapping and laughing... instead it should be on understanding
Yaa true, I also felt the same
Dude I always feel like this
Why people clap without listening
The fact that they are laughing and clapping shows that they are listening to him and understand what he is saying while also showing that they agree with it
if you was talking to a bunch of people and they all just sat there stairng at you it would be awkward as fk and you would be questioning weather or not they even have a clue what you are talking about or if they are even listing to a word you say
they should learn from japanese archery kyudo
maybe stop shoulding on people and attend to yourself. lol
Rather than Sadhguru this guru is knowledge abundant guru Smart intelligent Old man full of wisdom
Everything you need you already inside of you. Best advice through the up and downs in my life
I am going to addicted to u
Lots of love from 🇵🇰
@LE MONKE obviously
"To be healthful, you need chemicals, to be joyful you need chemicals, to be peaceful you need chemicals, to be ecstatic of course there is ecstasy." "If 90% of the population is on chemicals believe me, the next generation we produce will be a generation which is much less than us, If we produce the next generation less than ourselves, we have committed a crime against humanity" ~ Sadhguru
I wonder what exactly he meant by "less". I assume he is not worried that there would be less human (in numbers) but that each individual would be "less" (like they'd be void to a large extent)
Best quote!
@@stefansfisimatenten3682 he means that if they can't handle an iPad when you're 3... Then you are "less" than the current generation
Ok we watched the video dont have to keep quoting it 50 times to get likes.
He means chemicals cause alterations to human DNA the impact may be detrimental to our offsprings...not hard to comprehend really people
At the age of 19 i think I'm enough mature to deal with world
Thank to guru ji to give path to my spirituality 🙏
Imagine being a consequence of someone else's opinion :O omg . Thank you Sadhguru
Wonderful man, quiet humor so refreshing! Great audience. Love the lack of pomposity; science he adds.
My forefather 'famous word,
Your heart should be great enough,
Not your body.
With it,no body or nothing can stop you.
I needed to hear this, thank you.
Sadhguruji I feel blessed because I got the privilege to listen to you.
Thank you so much Sadhguruji 🙏
The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant.
“Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion”
"A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep"
“ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ”
Be defined by your actions not their words."
It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others..
We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. "
REMEMBER
I AM CONSTANTLY JUDGED BY PEOPLE AROUND ME THINKING I AM NOT TAKING THE RIGHT DECISION... BUT I AM . I HAVE THE SELF CONFIDENCE TO DO SOMETHING..
Go with it buddy ...you gonna rock ..best of luck
Thank you Sadhguru. ❤ -From Philippines
Watching this from my hospital bed in Dublin Ireland being seen after by India nurses and they are fabulous human Beings. They are what ireland was 40 years ago when everyone spoke to and helped everyone else, But sadly that day is gone forever.
He has opened my eyes to everyting.
People say, "They are sick of listening log kya kahenge". Suddenly when you get fame(instant/gradual) you started liking "Log kya kahenge" right?
MOUSUMI MAZUMDER i don’t know what that is. I don’t have any friends but one that lives 500 miles away and I don’t follow trends. I got here on my own with a little help from chemicals. lol
No
When they become famous
They become more conscious towards
Log kya khenge
Also when u become famous
It is impossible to not have haters
That's why they say
To stay at top is more difficult than reaching there
Good
Because you got fame on few conditions if you loose you loose fame
That's why we don't need to work for fame
Don't take sadguru words in crude sense because he told that for those who are suffering unnecessarily about judgements of others
Not for all
People who are in top position like pm or president they should concern the judgements of others otherwise they can't sustain there
Man his language and the way he uses it is mind blowing
When you do the things good, nobody can say you do it wrong.
Imagine a generation, who s Alys happy,,, wow,, I wish I could heard this years before... MA life ND career might hve changed.
I don't know how I found this breathe of fresh air, ywt I am grateful for doing so. It may take me a lifetime to master his level of thinking. However, I will get there. ❤