Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People Full episode link : podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000600283351
You forgot that horrible people take advantage of good environments and that's usually what evokes the negative cycle. You know these things are unavoidable in life, it is duality. Everything splits and recycles. Forever and always
"Holding onto Anger is like holding a hot Stone in your hand. The only one that is burned is you." I think Dalai Lama said this (maybe in some other words ^^)
How about the rapists, abusers, the wife/husband beaters? And how many billions of animals bred just to be tortured, mutilated, raped and murdered every second? All the children kidnapped, raped and sold for their organs? Why? I need an answer on how to cope with this world
@@TheJanakulkarni it is a daily practice from the moment you look in the mirror. We recreate ourselves everyday and we want to feel good about ourselves at the end of the day when we are going to sleep. That is the beauty of life. If you are given the blessing of waking up, you are giving your self the chance of recreating yourself and you can choose in your life that can have around you to keep that vision of yourself balanced. At the end of the day it is only you that can judge yourself.
@KRISHNA CHANDRA Kurup Meditation and mindfulness are two awesome things I find that help me control any anger towards other people. The answer I find is not no response, but *How* will you respond? When you do respond at home make sure first to take a few small breathes in and out, then think about what you want to say. How do you want to say it? When you focus on what you feel and how you feel like expressing it, then you can slow down and look at the better options. Is there a nicer way to say this? If so, then why am I not doing that? The ways of others should not be the ways of my own. Create your own path. I also find that practicing nonviolent communication can also help you to become a more peaceful person. I hope that some of this has helped, and if you do want to talk about it more, then I am right here.
"If someone else can decide what is happening within you, isn't that the ultimate slavery?" BLEW. ME. AWAY. And didn't even realize it's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
When someone in the audience plays his phone interrupting his thoughts, instead of getting angry, he says loudly to himself :"I like music" -> that's the attitude, turning anger to passion in an instant @1:50
This is how my grandfather was, he never saw any bad in any person,always respected and appreciated everyone,he chose to never get angry he lived the happiest life,I miss him so much but I want to spread his wisdom ❤️
Exactly the same thing in my great grandma 😑🧡.. She passed away on oct8th 2020😖..she never spoke bad about anyone.. Even if we complaint about ppl she just say excuse in ur mind and leave it 😖🧡✌🏻😟
Be close to your friends, though be closer to your enemies. No so close that they can ultimately do you in. Don't go on the far west side of Ogden, Utah, USA, least your in with that bunch, for they are neither good nor bad just mixed up. Must be too much government control, is why they'll shoot you for just being there.
I have watched this many times, every time I'm hurt by someone's behaviour especially someone who has been close to me I watch this and afterwards the hurt just vanishes. Thank you Sadhguru for your wisdom. God bless you
That is why I'm watching this clip and other clips of His too. His words literally heal over my hurt caused by rude people like a supernatural healing salve on an open wound.
I’ve been so depressed, very upset with how people treat me cause I don’t have certain things. Becoming very bitter.... Just wow... I’m so thankful I came across this. 🖤✨
Guess I'm in that same boat . It takes less energy to smile and just let it go , then to explode and wreck everything. But alas , we shall find that patience
Totally ✌🏼 I pray for the day we live in harmony, people and animals finally getting to enjoy Our Mother Earth, together and without fear The way we were made to enjoy. God put so many amazing creatures for mankind to enjoy and learn with, and from. Instead, man has destroyed Mother Earth, its animals and its people. It cuts me deep to my core.
It’s okay to get angry or bothered, it is part of the human experience. What matters is how you respond to the feelings and how you choose to act on them.
Yes it's ok to be angry but what is bad is staying angry all the time. When you already said your piece go back to your happy mode coz the reason of your anger happens in the past, maybe a minute ago, an hour ago, a month ago and still you let it affect you? Move on and find reasons to be thankful that will switch your angry mode to happy. Peace po.
not really. I can say "I'm angry but I'm not gonna act on it and do anything bad to anyone else" that does not save myself from having a negative feeling and destroying my own wellbeing.
Never allow someone to determine your happiness. Don't depend on external things to make you happy, you have pure joy inside you just have to access your internal happiness.
Two determine your happiness be determined to share rivers of happiness of multitudes of sustainable types to the subatomic with parental potential foresight wisdom and remind them all the way down to bless those like us to help us in being helpful for all to compatibly survive with greater and greater helpful eloquence whilst doing what is absolutely necessary realising at least the troubles of the environments on Earth but especially their own environments safely for all. And as below sew above and sew below from above.
@@imthegrk trust that you can! But first do the basic ideas: You HAVE TO: (if you want happiness) To eat and sleep and meditate well. Just to bring balance. Then happiness will be by choice if you're well balanced within yourself
I love the PEACE he wants us all to have. It starts with yourself to make the positive changes. We as humans always waiting on other for goodness. We ourselves need to create the goodness. 😌
I really needed this. I’ve been angry at too many people. I can’t stand when people are nasty and mean... but I can’t control them. I can only control my own life.
I feel exactly the same way, then I go to my mental hamster on a wheel torturing myself with the situation... rehashing . Gee I need to change but how? It is easier said than do but I am going to work hard.
how you feel when you are angry tells you it is poison only to you, sending you love to pause, remove yourself to go outside, feel the sunlight, the air, your inner beauty wants to play really
@@j.taires5889 it is so true... however, this is the way the mind works. I guess the nature of our psychology. I bet that some of these Gurus may have their share too when pushed around 😁
Hello,person scrolling through comment.Yes, you. Remember you are beautiful, worth of love and full of potential. Always be nothing les than your best self . ❤
So. Accordind to this terrorists and cereal killers are good people? I think this is poorly toughtout. Yes. People are mostly effected by tge environment but this dosent justify them. They still are in charge of theyr decitions and life.
In the last days people tried to make me feel shame, unhappy, mad, sad, because I was so independent and calm in situations they weren't. It was really Hard to stay stable and át some point I was so sad. But I found my strenght again in this video. His words help a lot. I think I have to watch it again :) thank you so much
Hunny you’re not alone, TRUST. I’m going through this at the moment and came across this video. Ppl will try their HARDEST to get a reaction when you’re calm and unbothered. Just keep being unbothered and do you! That’s how you make them real mad😂 Keep your head up, you got this!😉
@@kayycThanks stranger! This is something I need to practice. If there was a level of 1-100 for being calm and unbothered I am at level 1. I have A low frustration tolerance and I have A LOT to work on.😅
I took this onboard 4 years ago… it made a huge impact on my life… meditations is on the bedside cabinet and always provides insights whenever it’s picked up. Good quote, matey. Stay well.
@@Glasshousebc You're welcome, buddy! Good to hear - his words have been hugely impactful for me too. Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it! All the best!✨
I think the trick is self-awareness. The moment anger comes into play internally, it is not a choice, but the more self-aware a person becomes, the more of a choice they give themselves. The moment after conscious awareness of anger, a choice arises. I see myself angry, and I either choose to sit and feel the anger, or "change the channel". Tap into serenity. Gratitude, humility, acceptance, patience. These all can say "It's ok" without 'it' being 'ok'. Injustice is still injustice. But patience says "it can get better in time". Acceptance says "where we are in the process just is". Humility says "I have been unjust before, and I was allowed that moment". Gratitude says "better them than me, to be unjust. I am grateful for a different perspective".
I was wondering how exactly do we exercise control over emotions since for me it’s an instantaneous and usually inflammatory response. Thank you for breaking it down into more easily understandable chunks 🙏🏽
My teen girl is struggling with getting control of her emotions. I will bring her here, I'm always showing her Sadhgurus ways. He is a tremendous teacher . Good luck with your efforts, I know you will be happier once you stop reacting. I guess the best advice is to remember it is a choice .
When the phone interrupted, he could feel the annoyance the crowd put out , he immediately transmuted that energy into love when he said “ I love music . ✅
I noticed this as well and was very inpressed with the way he did that to transmute the reaction of the other peoples frustration. He is an enlightened being for sure.
@@maxd3783 I hear you I have been struggling for years and I mean a lot of years and all it does is just grind inside me for myself I have to find a way to let go I hope you too will find peace ✌️
Its hard to let go when you are treated unfairly, but I am going to slowly do that as being angry only destroys your inner peace and physiological functioning. 🙏
@@ritubbhatt may be he is using horrible as a synonym for miserable here.... but i see miserable, bad , horrible all as synonyms..so very fine lines separating them
yes, but there are many people that are spiritually sick, and A.A., at least, taught to try to be understanding of the sick ones and see were we can maybe helpful, until it was closed down on us almost two years ago by closing churches down.
Just a mention, few have unsettled Sadhguru. His reactions were very much as common persons response. However, when the child Abhigya astrologer did, Sadhguru handled it like an irritate non spiritualist!!! Just saying! He still seems bound by his Chinese birth animal, rooster🐓
No way. You need to study more. Bad people are those who intentionally harm others in one way or another. They create disorder in Nature and throughout the Cosmos. They must be educated or punished to ensure they dont continue with their wickedness. Allowing them to continue harming others brings Karma down on you. Be careful with your thoughts and comments - mediate and become enlightened. You will never attain Dharma with the way you are thinking now.
@@safetydave720 When did I say they are doing right? Yes, some ppl do wrong, crime activity. We should take legal action against them. All I said was that even those ppl do such things because they think they are right. They need to be educated. Agreed. We should do all possible things to stop them from doing wrong but we shouldn't have any unpleasant feelings towards them on the inside. Cos then our inner peace will be gone. Their acts are sinful. They are not. Even they are part of cosmos.
U said we shouldn't have any unpleasant feelings towards them on the inside... so my question to you is would u prefer or anybody for that matter to get married to a murderer (who has just murdered your loved ones) in case u get a marriage proposal from such people (who are of course part of the universe) or a rapist or people who are ill treating or cheating others?? Kindly explain what would you do???? Would anybody without having any negative feelings towards them from the inside want to settle their lives with such people..????
You didnt understand Sadghuru. he means, people creating that "bad" image of Someone by telling bad people that they are Bad. but the truth is theres no Good Or Bad people. Bad people Has a Bad Past or Miserable Life thats why they became Villain, and theres a Psychological effect on them. mostly to the people with Miserable childhood. they're also a victim too. thats why in reality theres no Bad people. thats why most of them are broke the rules of laws, they are just a person who has Bad experienced, Broken hearted and psychologically damaged. you all people here need to learn psychology. and you will understand.
About 5 min ago, my younger brother shouted at me, telling me to close our bedrooms door. He said he wanted to be alone and that's why he told me to close the door. But he didn't mind me here at all, which is not what he normally does. So I asked him: "why should I close the door, you know you're not alone". To that he said he wanted personal space. In the other rooms there was no noise, people or anything else. So I told him that. He started shouting, swearing, telling me I'm like a little child. I was heartbroken inside but I knew that now I certainly can't close the door. I need to know why is he so angry. So I asked again, why? He started shouting and suddenly my dad came inside. He shouted at me too. It was difficult to keep a steady voice and not freak out, but I kept calm (which is big for me, so I'm proud of it personally). Dad closed the door after walking out. I'm trying not to cry right now, and it's a bit hard, but I feel unsafe in this same room and really not in the mood for conflict or tears. My dad and brother side against me a lot, so it wasn't very surprising, but I still didn't get to know why is my brother so angry? Why did he want the door closed? And why is my dad defending him at all costs and occasions? Did I do something wrong if the only thing I did was not obey my brother? What should I do? I want the best for them both, so I need to know whether I'm doing something wrong. I'm comforting myself with the idea, that when I grow up I won't need to deal with this, but I still got at least 3-5 years left until I can considering studying or moving out. This video helped me a lot. I'm still highly sensitive and emotional but I'm working on this. I know now that I'm gonna be fine and I trust God to lead me out of this situation. Btw this comment is just to make me feel better. I just get a sense of relief when explaining how I think and feel. Thank you for being a good community. Wish me strength in the presence of threats. Sorry for long comment, I just felt sad and miserable, trying to find a solution for three people with different minds. I wish you a merry Christmas, be safe ❤
@@aurelijagarbanovaite3462 leave all this shitty things that happen , Sell cleverness and buy bewilderness , be humble , and be notorious, destroy the reputation and seek the one that never dies . Everything you see , only love is infinite and everlasting. After some times Everything you see will be destroyed or won't be there . Rumi
@@aurelijagarbanovaite3462 Hey, um I just want to let you know that you're enough! It's really sweet that you want to know the cause of your brother's anger, but sometimes you can't help it. All you can do is accept it and build yourself. Work on yourself, make yourself strong (although you are a very strong woman) and I'm proud of you! Lots of love❤️
@Torque Shock Emotions are reactions if it comes compulsively or u can just be in stillness for those reactions to be conciously triggered . For this you need to be meditative and as Sadhguruji said meditation is not an act but a quality . So , you can very much be peacefull in every situation if this quality becomes apart of you ever moment in your life Namaskaram 🙏🏼❤️😍😌🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I did that for a couple years. Lived in isolation on top of a mountain resort town. Loved it...it’s so much easier. But aren’t we avoiding life by doing this? I feel like I’m hiding..
Whenever I think I'm getting angry in a debate, I realize that I'm really angry with myself for not giving good enough evidence to support my own point of view.
Or even that you need to convince anyone and create a specific outcome, that is, that you may have expectations that the right words will change someone else's mind 😌 it can be quite a challenge
Why bother. Points of view base on opinions wether your own or others rarely matter. Familiarise yourself with the facts instead, they speak for themselves and need no particular point of view to be seen since they can be seen from all points where there are no opinions.
I wasn't necessary the best with arguing with my brother(who is 2 grade levels older me), even though I know right from wrong and what "kindness" is, I could never stop his malignant narcissistic beliefs, he's also a sociopath. He's lazy and immature. While there's me, low self esteem, low confidence, anxiety, 𝗼𝗰𝗱, and bipolar II. Not to mention I always felt like I had a responsibility and feel guilty for not working hard enough.
"The moment we think we are good, we are entitled to destroy the bad, isn't it?" - I thought that was classic! I know people that just because they are on one set path they look down on others who have not gotten their footing just yet and this statement of Sadhguru's really struck me as so very true. No more judgment people! Let's love learning to be VOLUNTEERS and do it all willingly so that we may be happy in every existing moment that comes to us. Blessings Sadhguru.
I wanted to willingly volunteer at satguru's program, but i could not. I registered and showed up there after driving for one hr. Noone said any thing after they reviewed my registration papers. When i showed up at the event his volunteers told me that i have to go through the course before i can be a volunteer. This organization is the only organization where you have to take a course, pay for it... and then you can be a volunteer. Ridiculous. !!
Agreed! I'm going through the comments and writing down the quotes that resonate with me. Hopefully it'll be helpful when dealing with some negative people in my life!
He's brilliant in his own right, but he's no 'Seth' ;-) just in case anyone wondered what the next level could possibly be... I read them all. you'll know if it resonates with you. if you need that material and are ready for that leap, it will find you and you will sample it.
"There are happy people and miserable people, there are no good people and bad people." That hits different when you struggle with depression. May we all find our joy again. Blessed be 🙏
I know what you mean about depression. Stay aware of the ups and downs and know that you are more than your chemical ups and downs. Find even the smallest little thing to be happy about or enjoy. As long as we keep waking up, there is a purpose for us here.💙
God Bless you. I hope you will win the fight against the bad thoughts. I think most people have struggles with negative feelings because of others bad actions, so do I.
Admist our strengths and what we feel stops us are there to test our emotional reactions . Failure is not a bad thing - without it we cannot ever experience true success. With many failures are many lessons to be learned . Life is a journey; sometimes smooth; sometimes bumpy.🦋❤️
I live in Florida and travelled all the way to Detroit to see this wonderful human. His wisdom is beyond measure. If I could take just ONE philosophical aspect he teaches and truly “make it so,” I will consider my life well-lived... namaste 🙏
"There's no better pathway to self-realization and the ennoblement of being than to pause at the highest good that you can conceive of and commit yourself to it." ~Jordan Peterson
@@loadapish you probably misinterpreted what it's really about. it's not about sitting around doing nothing and letting people do whatever they want to you. what you need to do will become clear with a non-judgmental mind. that doesn't mean it won't require hard work or stepping out of your comfort zone.
I’ve been struggling with anger issues for a long time and I said and done some things that I really hate and dislike. I can only thank the people who shown me grace and leniency and to Sadhguru for amazing advice. Om.
We all struggle. I conditioned myself to say the Aussie phrase,”No Worries” it is so disarming to myself and it softens those who deliver info that is not so good
I've struggled with this for years as a cashier. I've been so deeply affected by evey little thing customers do. It's hard to detach myself; I'm too sensitive and emotional....
I don’t know why but for some reason this speaks to me so much louder than anything my parents, teachers, church people and friends have ever tried to. I’ve wondered if I am lost cause at this point because I do not put myself out there, I push people away, I stay silent, and I’ve been doing my whole life because I know I will have conflict with people especially if they are close to me, and I have to see and talk to them every day. I do exactly as he says, I see others who not like me as the “bad” sometimes and it’s childish but it’s just the way my mind works. I don’t think I’m perfect at all, far from it, but I like to think I don’t bother anybody and yet, I will always be alone of I continue down a path of seclusion from the world. When someone asks me what I want from life I’m clueless, because I can’t give a simple answer. I need people in my life, I have people in my life but, I need help, from myself sometimes.
Same with me.... I remain silent when i am angry or upset with someone then they said i stop the communication and creat more problems .. But once things pile up and i finally speak out they say i am an angry person who is starts fights.... People close or distant will not stop blaming me in any which way i behave.... They r happy as long as i do as they say...... Messed up people around us make our life miserable...
6:00 my life is about me, not about them. I'm not given freedom to somebody to make me angry, unhappy....what they do, I'm always me. You have to become 1 big YES!
@@john_from_eastcoast. if you're not joyful the vision you create isn't going to great. Don't try to understand from a limited perspective mate. Be humble and open to deeper aspects of life
to the person reading this, always remember that every positive thought is a silent prayer that will change you life. big hugs from Shanthi healing music
@@asad-kc8zf I agree with you. Keeping less in touch does not do any good, your just hiding the problems under a blanket and wishing they would get better. But there are exceptions...Like Sadhguru said, its your will to stay in control and not let others get to you. That's the ultimate power.
@@asad-kc8zf yo i got a question for u.... would u stay in touch with lets say ur mom if her word doesnt mean anything. she says one thing then does the exact opposite. never has ur back and its whenever u have somethign to address its as if its insignificant. so realistically this person is not on your team but related to you by blood only - so my question to you is would you still keep that person around even though they are unreliable and you literally dont know whats truth and what is a lie when you speak to them.... but yes you are related by bblood haha
You're doing something willingly, that's your heaven. You're not doing something willingly, that's your hell. So obvious but would have never looked at it this way. Awesome wisdom here
@@dlon8899 Free will and willingness are not the same my friend Free will is being able to make decision with any pressure and any real consequences, willingness is being dedicated to something, You can't live and be happy as a office worker if you want to be a writer, giving up ones dream and accepting what id given to you will stop your suffering however, no one is saying not to reignite that dream later in you life when you the resources too. It's better to give up now just to try again after years later.
I am freeing myself more and more from the idea of “should.” The world should be this way or that way, people should do this or that, life should give me this or that. It’s all so exhausting. To determine what goes within oneself is indeed a privilege that should never be given away to a single human. I am so fond of Sadhguru. I love his stories especially anything to do with Shankaran Pillai:-) He’s indeed a guru- the way showerer.
I am so grateful someone suggested Sadhguru on The Modern Empath video. Both are so helpful. I truly love Sadhguru. And hes got great sense of humor too💗🙏 I really needed to hear this cause I suffer with infertility never had a child and Im letting that grief prevent me from working and living my true life. And part of it was cause working with people especially parents. When you said "If you want to work with ideal people you must go to heaven_today" it made me think. And all Im doing is holding myself back. Namaste 🙏💗🌸
I'm from Iraq and I really like your way of thinking, accepting, understanding, laughing, ..etc💎 You make my mind more wider , near to my soul , light, clearness 🌤 New look to every thing around me 🕊🕊 Thank you, 🌹 May God bless you and your family 💚
"There are joyful people and miserable people. But there are not good people and bad people." "If somebody can decide what happens within you right now. Isn't that slavery?" "If you are a big yes to life. You'll find the way"
When I was younger my father told me that to be serene and calm in life half of what you hear you don't believe the other half you don't listen to. Trust your inner instincts and you will know the difference between good and bad. Ciao from Little Italy 🇮🇹 Montréal
I have come to same conclusion before seeing this, about not letting outsiders control your internal thoughts. It's the hardest thing do and I still haven't mastered it yet. I realized that The only time I get upset/disappointed is when some person/s does/fails to do/say something regarding me.
There are internal messages that play in our minds over and over again. These are affirmations that we must change to be positive and in time they will become so strong that they won't be affected by external influence.
"If you want to work with ideal people you must go to heaven and today!!" I'm glad I came across this😂😂😂😂 It helped me to accept others, the thing which I was reluctant to do before
"If somebody else can decide what can happen within you right now, isn't this the ultimate slavery" That really made me rethink how much I rely on people. Wouldn't all of my problems and sadness be easier to handle if I was not waiting for someone else to figure it out? I could figure it out right now! I don't need to wait for any husband or man!
I’ve always hated how emotional/upset I get about things. It’s something I’m REALLY working on and something that’s made me really dislike myself when I catch it😞 Ive been wondering how I can navigate it and I really needed to hear this.
Just sharing with you what I’ve been trying and doing hard to live more happily at every moment. - Accept, love and forgive myself. Observe my ways of thinking that cause emotion and transform it. Investing more in improving aspects of my life. - Say YES to like, accept people and situations as they are. Just observe & experience them and learn. - Give up demands; no demands, no dissatisfaction. Listen, read and explore myself more than looking at the others. Kiss, acknowledge myself everyday. Say thanks to the universe everyday. When I fall down, on my knees, I stand up again and fresh start, it’s ok to be like that. :) I hope these help. :)
You were probably born a sensitive soul, which is exactly what the world needs right now. Navigating through life will be difficult, but make sure you carry your 'emotional armor' with you in case you need to use it when dealing with an angry or negative person. Much love to you!
"There are no good people and bad people , everybody is oscillating between the two. if you create a very pleasant wonderful atmosphere, everybody behave wonderful".
“Every human is at different levels of experience and understanding” So powerful for not taking things personally, for giving grace to others & to yourself
Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes
Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People
Full episode link :
podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000600283351
You forgot that horrible people take advantage of good environments and that's usually what evokes the negative cycle.
You know these things are unavoidable in life, it is duality.
Everything splits and recycles.
Forever and always
try to do that to your own mother
"If somebody else can decide what can happen within you right now - isn't this the ultimate slavery?" Awesome words.
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I really love the line " I do not give this priveilage to anyone to make me sad, happy, irritated"
But remember that You also not hurt anyone or judge anyone
Lord, please give me this strength!
A quote I really like is "holding a grudge against someone is like letting them live rent free in your head" ☺
So true ❤️
It is hard for me, I need to work at it.
"Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."
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Thank you. That helped me.
"Holding onto Anger is like holding a hot Stone in your hand. The only one that is burned is you." I think Dalai Lama said this (maybe in some other words ^^)
okay, then how do you get rid of the anger? I'm going to have to watch this video 100 times until I understand.
“There are no good or bad people. We are just oscillating between the two.” Amazing 🙏🏼
How about the rapists, abusers, the wife/husband beaters? And how many billions of animals bred just to be tortured, mutilated, raped and murdered every second? All the children kidnapped, raped and sold for their organs? Why? I need an answer on how to cope with this world
I think it’s how you define bad people. I have seen some very bad ones. Real tyrants. I judge them from their actions
There are intelligent and unintelligent people
This man can help many, but surely you do not have to believe everything he says. There is good and evil.
there are inherently bad people ..sorry
"Do not let the behaviour of others destroy your inner peace."
Easier said than done isn't it ?
How exactly?
@@TheJanakulkarni it is a daily practice from the moment you look in the mirror. We recreate ourselves everyday and we want to feel good about ourselves at the end of the day when we are going to sleep. That is the beauty of life. If you are given the blessing of waking up, you are giving your self the chance of recreating yourself and you can choose in your life that can have around you to keep that vision of yourself balanced. At the end of the day it is only you that can judge yourself.
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Meditation and mindfulness are two awesome things I find that help me control any anger towards other people.
The answer I find is not no response, but *How* will you respond?
When you do respond at home make sure first to take a few small breathes in and out, then think about what you want to say.
How do you want to say it?
When you focus on what you feel and how you feel like expressing it, then you can slow down and look at the better options.
Is there a nicer way to say this?
If so, then why am I not doing that?
The ways of others should not be the ways of my own.
Create your own path.
I also find that practicing nonviolent communication can also help you to become a more peaceful person.
I hope that some of this has helped, and if you do want to talk about it more, then I am right here.
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"If someone else can decide what is happening within you, isn't that the ultimate slavery?" BLEW. ME. AWAY. And didn't even realize it's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
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That is such a rich teaching... He needs to bubble wrap.
When someone in the audience plays his phone interrupting his thoughts, instead of getting angry, he says loudly to himself :"I like music" -> that's the attitude, turning anger to passion in an instant @1:50
i like that part 😂😂😂
I like getting pissed off by my younger sibling
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the same passion that he killed his wife
I use to tell my children, don't get caught up in someone else's tornado. Create your own air flow.
This was wonderful!!
This is amazing! Thank you 😌🙏💗
Beautifully spoken
I love the way he laughs, with his entire body.
Yes.with a jumping belly:)
Me too ..
No good people no bad people. So Hitler is not bad and Gandhi is not good? Ok
Me too. His laugh always makes me smile.
Exactly, I'm too found of it.
This is how my grandfather was, he never saw any bad in any person,always respected and appreciated everyone,he chose to never get angry he lived the happiest life,I miss him so much but I want to spread his wisdom ❤️
may he rest in power!! he seems like a gem, and i’d love to have a convo with someone like him.
The G.O.A.T...🙏🏾🙌🏾my personal goal
exactly my grandfather, but never got to know him sadly. ♥️
My Grandmother passed away at 100yrs old and she was a earth Angel!!
Exactly the same thing in my great grandma 😑🧡.. She passed away on oct8th 2020😖..she never spoke bad about anyone.. Even if we complaint about ppl she just say excuse in ur mind and leave it 😖🧡✌🏻😟
Such a wise man! This satsang reminds me of the Buddhist saying: "I bless my enemy, for he teaches me patience."
Be close to your friends, though be closer to your enemies. No so close that they can ultimately do you in. Don't go on the far west side of Ogden, Utah, USA, least your in with that bunch, for they are neither good nor bad just mixed up. Must be too much government control, is why they'll shoot you for just being there.
Don't be judgemental in some cases friends become foe so live conciously
Patience is when we choose to understand.
@@Dances_With_Skies very well teaches
Nice 👍👍👍
I have watched this many times, every time I'm hurt by someone's behaviour especially someone who has been close to me I watch this and afterwards the hurt just vanishes. Thank you Sadhguru for your wisdom. God bless you
That is why I'm watching this clip and other clips of His too. His words literally heal over my hurt caused by rude people like a supernatural healing salve on an open wound.
And what about that person who was somewhere dear to me. Please answer
Me too!!
I needed to hear this today❤
@@rohanrathore5323
Sadhana sadhana sadhana.
Just do your sadhana.
Doing your shambhavi daily?
“You are doing something willingly, that’s your heaven. You are doing something unwillingly, that’s your hell.”
-Sadhguru
He is so wise ☺️
...
PERIOD!!👏🏻✨
I can feel I'm in it
Unwilling and bitter and turns to hatred. But I live w these people and see them everyday!!!!!!! How can I stop hating?
I’ve been so depressed, very upset with how people treat me cause I don’t have certain things. Becoming very bitter.... Just wow... I’m so thankful I came across this. 🖤✨
Stop caring on how people will treat you
You will be better
All the best
@@hmlmao5539 🙂 All the best for you too
Guess I'm in that same boat . It takes less energy to smile and just let it go , then to explode and wreck everything. But alas , we shall find that patience
He doesn't laugh, he vibes. And that's what we all should admire.
smile create more smile, laugh create more laugh 😂😂😂😇
And aspire.
Totally ✌🏼 I pray for the day we live in harmony, people and animals finally getting to enjoy Our Mother Earth, together and without fear The way we were made to enjoy. God put so many amazing creatures for mankind to enjoy and learn with, and from. Instead, man has destroyed Mother Earth, its animals and its people. It cuts me deep to my core.
Catherine Wacker no, life evolved, it wasn’t put here.
My guess is hes just overthinking waay to much on things that are perfectly clear
I like how he adds hello after things. He knows we have the attention span of squirrels.
😅
Ahahaha
😂😂
😂😂😂
No, not everyone scrolls on short form content.
It’s okay to get angry or bothered, it is part of the human experience. What matters is how you respond to the feelings and how you choose to act on them.
Yup when we get bothered by somebody...The best we can do is distract ourselves or ignore it
Spiritual and quality is great, but know basic survival!
Yes it's ok to be angry but what is bad is staying angry all the time. When you already said your piece go back to your happy mode coz the reason of your anger happens in the past, maybe a minute ago, an hour ago, a month ago and still you let it affect you? Move on and find reasons to be thankful that will switch your angry mode to happy. Peace po.
@Isha Saini
What you expressed is very true.
not really. I can say "I'm angry but I'm not gonna act on it and do anything bad to anyone else" that does not save myself from having a negative feeling and destroying my own wellbeing.
Never allow someone to determine your happiness. Don't depend on external things to make you happy, you have pure joy inside you just have to access your internal happiness.
Yes! Radiate from the inside, out!
Like 111!!🌹🙏💓🌌
Two determine your happiness be determined to share rivers of happiness of multitudes of sustainable types to the subatomic with parental potential foresight wisdom and remind them all the way down to bless those like us to help us in being helpful for all to compatibly survive with greater and greater helpful eloquence whilst doing what is absolutely necessary realising at least the troubles of the environments on Earth but especially their own environments safely for all. And as below sew above and sew below from above.
Ok, so how do you do that?
@@imthegrk trust that you can! But first do the basic ideas:
You HAVE TO: (if you want happiness)
To eat and sleep and meditate well. Just to bring balance. Then happiness will be by choice if you're well balanced within yourself
I love how he laughs with his whole body 🥰
Hehe yeah!😂❤️
I've tried several times to shake that way as i laugh without success,i think its a skill.
Ppl care more about the demagogue, then the messege
@@chriss1672 But you are here.🤔
@TDE is
I literally made notes of 3 pages on this video as every single line sadhguru spoke was amazing . Sadhguru is really a great inspiration.
Sach me
I love the PEACE he wants us all to have. It starts with yourself to make the positive changes. We as humans always waiting on other for goodness. We ourselves need to create the goodness. 😌
Share with us the summary of your note. We could possibly learn from it.
true
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I need to watch this probably everyday. I want to get to the point where I am UNBOTHERED
Best of luck
I thought the same. Watch this daily.
Same. Every day
Same here
@@jasmineashleh3663 thanks for replying bc i needed a reminder.
I really needed this. I’ve been angry at too many people. I can’t stand when people are nasty and mean... but I can’t control them. I can only control my own life.
I feel exactly the same way, then I go to my mental hamster on a wheel torturing myself with the situation... rehashing . Gee I need to change but how? It is easier said than do but I am going to work hard.
May be you suffer from anxiety. Obsession and you may not know it yet?
@@simranbrar1606 may be you may suffer from anxiety, obsession and may not know it...
how you feel when you are angry tells you it is poison only to you, sending you love to pause, remove yourself to go outside, feel the sunlight, the air, your inner beauty wants to play really
@@j.taires5889 it is so true... however, this is the way the mind works. I guess the nature of our psychology. I bet that some of these Gurus may have their share too when pushed around 😁
Hello,person scrolling through comment.Yes, you.
Remember you are beautiful, worth of love and full of potential.
Always be nothing les than your best self . ❤
Thank u
Hi there and thank you. But I feel sad that this is the closest I have felt to another human being in I don’t know how long.
Haha yeah you caught me.
❤
Thank you
The moment we think we are good, we're entitled to destroy the bad.
Wow, so simple yet so true.
Needs spray painting on the white house in 20 feet tall letters
But could you please explain it in detail
To me that sounds psychopathic for someone to think they're good and to feel they have the right to destroy someone they imagine is bad
@@dampergoldenrod4156 What about destroying the bad in yourself?
“There are no good people and bad people everybody is oscillating between the two”
I’m gonna live by that for the rest of my life
Good luck with that
@@fseesauras thx
@@gordoramsey3908 u don't hav to thnk it u jus gotta save it
No doubt some oscillate more towards bad in life hence why there are prisons.
Good 🇮🇳
“there are joyful people and there are miserable people, but there are no good people and bad people” i’m taking this one with me
Thats very much true from our life experience so far. Rt?
R u from out of m india
Yes
That’s what got me too. Had me crying 😭
So. Accordind to this terrorists and cereal killers are good people?
I think this is poorly toughtout.
Yes. People are mostly effected by tge environment but this dosent justify them.
They still are in charge of theyr decitions and life.
This guy makes me cry every time.....he has changed my life in so many ways...Thank you Sadhguru...
He changed mine too🙏🥰
Exactly my words.... Can't agree more...
Try Bruce Lipton next
He almost made me cry while I was watching this.
Really...? How?
In the last days people tried to make me feel shame, unhappy, mad, sad, because I was so independent and calm in situations they weren't. It was really Hard to stay stable and át some point I was so sad. But I found my strenght again in this video. His words help a lot. I think I have to watch it again :) thank you so much
Hunny you’re not alone, TRUST. I’m going through this at the moment and came across this video. Ppl will try their HARDEST to get a reaction when you’re calm and unbothered. Just keep being unbothered and do you! That’s how you make them real mad😂 Keep your head up, you got this!😉
@@kayycThanks stranger! This is something I need to practice. If there was a level of 1-100 for being calm and unbothered I am at level 1. I have A low frustration tolerance and I have A LOT to work on.😅
"For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind."
but theirs only peace or mind
@@dudeisful you are right
We keep being nasty and we don't even know why
Or, 30 seconds if you live in New York.
The 2 goals for me in life is
To Achieve Peace of Mind
And
Peace of Heart!
I like how he laughs with his whole body. Makes me smile everytime.
Same here 😂❤️
Yes
4:39 7:33
Me too!
I thought I was the only one ...lol
“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this and you will find great strength.”
- Marcus Aurelius
I took this onboard 4 years ago… it made a huge impact on my life… meditations is on the bedside cabinet and always provides insights whenever it’s picked up.
Good quote, matey.
Stay well.
@@Glasshousebc You're welcome, buddy!
Good to hear - his words have been hugely impactful for me too. Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it!
All the best!✨
That’s a quote I’d get tatted
He thinks he can make water sweet with mind though.
@@simstar6557 Well, with a mind u can think, with thinking properly u will know that you can put something sweet in the water then it will be sweeter
I think the trick is self-awareness. The moment anger comes into play internally, it is not a choice, but the more self-aware a person becomes, the more of a choice they give themselves. The moment after conscious awareness of anger, a choice arises. I see myself angry, and I either choose to sit and feel the anger, or "change the channel". Tap into serenity. Gratitude, humility, acceptance, patience. These all can say "It's ok" without 'it' being 'ok'. Injustice is still injustice. But patience says "it can get better in time". Acceptance says "where we are in the process just is". Humility says "I have been unjust before, and I was allowed that moment". Gratitude says "better them than me, to be unjust. I am grateful for a different perspective".
I was wondering how exactly do we exercise control over emotions since for me it’s an instantaneous and usually inflammatory response. Thank you for breaking it down into more easily understandable chunks 🙏🏽
i need this. i get angry too fast, and destroy relationships.
Acting on impulse becomes a habit.
Same me s well 😅
We all do.... its a problem
My teen girl is struggling with getting control of her emotions. I will bring her here, I'm always showing her Sadhgurus ways. He is a tremendous teacher .
Good luck with your efforts, I know you will be happier once you stop reacting. I guess the best advice is to remember it is a choice .
Could it be you are just getting played?
Anger is the easiest way to control others.
When the phone interrupted, he could feel the annoyance the crowd put out , he immediately transmuted that energy into love when he said “ I love music . ✅
He was very conscious and alert.
I noticed this as well and was very inpressed with the way he did that to transmute the reaction of the other peoples frustration. He is an enlightened being for sure.
Good observation!
other day..a standup comedian would do the same. so no big deal
@@thumpdragfilms but how do you know the enlightened one wasn’t actually annoyed on the inside
"Not forgiving the one who causes anger, causes more anger than the anger caused by the one we can't forgive". Buddha.
That's absolutely correct! Unforgiveness hurts one who's the victim than who creates!
I forgive ❤️
Sometime you can't forgive someone for horrible crimes they have done to you no matter what .Okay?
@@maxd3783 I hear you I have been struggling for years and I mean a lot of years and all it does is just grind inside me for myself I have to find a way to let go I hope you too will find peace ✌️
@@tonygombas491 thankyou hope you find peace too .But I know I can't forgive not atleast in this life.
Its hard to let go when you are treated unfairly, but I am going to slowly do that as being angry only destroys your inner peace and physiological functioning. 🙏
"Care about others approval and you become their prisoner." -Tao Te Ching
To take care of others or to help others, we doesn't need their approval, we Only need willing Hearts to help and willing Hearts to receive😍😍
*"Size does matters!"* *-Ding Dong*
Sometimes our closest friends and family see us better. Don’t dismiss their opinion or approval to readily.
@@sylvestermerced3988 Logic still applies to that situation.
@@THeOliveGardin re read the last sentence, especially the “to readily “
"There are joyful people and miserable people, but there are no good people and bad people." -Sadhguru.
WOW.
But in later part of the video he addresses there will be some horrible people..so not sure how to interpret that statement with the above statement
@@positivity20 i was thinking the same but i think he meant horrible as in 'horrible'.
@@ritubbhatt may be he is using horrible as a synonym for miserable here.... but i see miserable, bad , horrible all as synonyms..so very fine lines separating them
Hitler was very sad.
Im joyful and miserable, good and bad, im versatile, im everything and nothing
I love how he says "hello" to check people are listening 😂
He's amazing at how he makes every lesson enjoyable to learn.
I'm echoing him everytime
My mum does it ....and boy does it get our attention back To her 🤣 ....HELLO?
@@ramieoileus1544 lol I admit, it's very effective.
Me too. Love his style.
I thought he did that when he really believes in what he is saying in the moment.
I have not given this right anybody to make me angry, happy and smile.. awesome words ...
yea as if that ever worked for anybody at any time, what a pile of bullshit
"The moment we think we're good. We're ENTITLED to destroy the bad" needed to hear that one
Same here
can also apply to when we think we're lawful. we're entitled to destroy the unlawful
This man is one of the most positive people I have ever listened to. He has something to teach all of us.
yes, but there are many people that are spiritually sick, and A.A., at least, taught to try to be understanding of the sick ones and see were we can maybe helpful, until it was closed down on us almost two years ago by closing churches down.
This man & Joe Dispenza ate changing my view of my existence 🥰
Just a mention, few have unsettled Sadhguru. His reactions were very much as common persons response. However, when the child Abhigya astrologer did, Sadhguru handled it like an irritate non spiritualist!!! Just saying! He still seems bound by his Chinese birth animal, rooster🐓
He is part of the NWO!!
@@nottherealraskitchen1521 Horseshit'
"There are no good ppl or bad ppl. There are just joyful ppl & miserable ppl" ☺️❤️❤️👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
No way. You need to study more. Bad people are those who intentionally harm others in one way or another. They create disorder in Nature and throughout the Cosmos. They must be educated or punished to ensure they dont continue with their wickedness. Allowing them to continue harming others brings Karma down on you. Be careful with your thoughts and comments - mediate and become enlightened. You will never attain Dharma with the way you are thinking now.
@@safetydave720 When did I say they are doing right? Yes, some ppl do wrong, crime activity. We should take legal action against them. All I said was that even those ppl do such things because they think they are right. They need to be educated. Agreed.
We should do all possible things to stop them from doing wrong but we shouldn't have any unpleasant feelings towards them on the inside. Cos then our inner peace will be gone.
Their acts are sinful. They are not. Even they are part of cosmos.
Well then what about Hitler how can he be no good or bad ???? or someone like him... What about them...???
U said we shouldn't have any unpleasant feelings towards them on the inside... so my question to you is would u prefer or anybody for that matter to get married to a murderer (who has just murdered your loved ones) in case u get a marriage proposal from such people (who are of course part of the universe) or a rapist or people who are ill treating or cheating others?? Kindly explain what would you do???? Would anybody without having any negative feelings towards them from the inside want to settle their lives with such people..????
You didnt understand Sadghuru. he means, people creating that "bad" image of Someone by telling bad people that they are Bad. but the truth is theres no Good Or Bad people. Bad people Has a Bad Past or Miserable Life thats why they became Villain, and theres a Psychological effect on them. mostly to the people with Miserable childhood. they're also a victim too. thats why in reality theres no Bad people. thats why most of them are broke the rules of laws, they are just a person who has Bad experienced, Broken hearted and psychologically damaged.
you all people here need to learn psychology. and you will understand.
The way he puts things across and the way he makes people understand is on another level.
"Vision is all inclusive. Desire is personal."
I felt that.
Many dalits also everyday feel untouchability.
Massive power statement..
@@nicedude2370 🖕🖕🖕 propegenda lie
Can someone explain what this means? I don’t really get it. Thx you
Giving another power over your emotions is the Ultimate Slavery!
Feels like most times nowadays
Amen to that!
Isn’t that a battle itself?
@@PerlaOC nope u can do that with the snap of your fingers
Powerful!
The fact that this was recommended to me the day after I cried myself to sleep due to anger...
About 5 min ago, my younger brother shouted at me, telling me to close our bedrooms door. He said he wanted to be alone and that's why he told me to close the door. But he didn't mind me here at all, which is not what he normally does. So I asked him: "why should I close the door, you know you're not alone". To that he said he wanted personal space. In the other rooms there was no noise, people or anything else. So I told him that. He started shouting, swearing, telling me I'm like a little child. I was heartbroken inside but I knew that now I certainly can't close the door. I need to know why is he so angry. So I asked again, why? He started shouting and suddenly my dad came inside. He shouted at me too. It was difficult to keep a steady voice and not freak out, but I kept calm (which is big for me, so I'm proud of it personally). Dad closed the door after walking out. I'm trying not to cry right now, and it's a bit hard, but I feel unsafe in this same room and really not in the mood for conflict or tears. My dad and brother side against me a lot, so it wasn't very surprising, but I still didn't get to know why is my brother so angry? Why did he want the door closed? And why is my dad defending him at all costs and occasions? Did I do something wrong if the only thing I did was not obey my brother? What should I do? I want the best for them both, so I need to know whether I'm doing something wrong. I'm comforting myself with the idea, that when I grow up I won't need to deal with this, but I still got at least 3-5 years left until I can considering studying or moving out. This video helped me a lot. I'm still highly sensitive and emotional but I'm working on this. I know now that I'm gonna be fine and I trust God to lead me out of this situation. Btw this comment is just to make me feel better. I just get a sense of relief when explaining how I think and feel. Thank you for being a good community. Wish me strength in the presence of threats. Sorry for long comment, I just felt sad and miserable, trying to find a solution for three people with different minds. I wish you a merry Christmas, be safe ❤
@@aurelijagarbanovaite3462 leave all this shitty things that happen ,
Sell cleverness and buy bewilderness , be humble , and be notorious, destroy the reputation and seek the one that never dies . Everything you see , only love is infinite and everlasting. After some times Everything you see will be destroyed or won't be there .
Rumi
Thats the power of the universe right there...
@@aurelijagarbanovaite3462 Hey, um I just want to let you know that you're enough! It's really sweet that you want to know the cause of your brother's anger, but sometimes you can't help it. All you can do is accept it and build yourself. Work on yourself, make yourself strong (although you are a very strong woman) and I'm proud of you!
Lots of love❤️
Your fbi phone agent must’ve heard you. So Sweet of them to recommend this video.
My life is not about them, it's about me💛
Yoj
It isn't my emotions that I can control; rather, it's my reactions to my emotions that I can control.
Torque Shock correct!
🤔🤔🤔
Emotions are consequences of your thoughts. If you can control your thoughts (and you should), you can indeed control your emotions just as much
@Torque Shock Emotions are reactions if it comes compulsively or u can just be in stillness for those reactions to be conciously triggered . For this you need to be meditative and as Sadhguruji said meditation is not an act but a quality . So , you can very much be peacefull in every situation if this quality becomes apart of you ever moment in your life Namaskaram 🙏🏼❤️😍😌🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You can’t control your reaction just the reaction to your reaction. It’d be nice if the first reaction was the better one haha
Love how she said "If I'm quoting you correctly". Called respect! Missing in mainstream media.
@@stevescoffee8325 nope media never talks respectfully she was great
I need to watch this one often. I'm too sensitive to what others do and😎 I find myself secluding myself to protect my state.
Me too, friend
Same☹️
Same. Happy holidays.
I did that for a couple years. Lived in isolation on top of a mountain resort town. Loved it...it’s so much easier. But aren’t we avoiding life by doing this? I feel like I’m hiding..
Same
So inspirational. I come back to this video every time I encounter life challenges or having to deal with difficult people.
Whenever I think I'm getting angry in a debate, I realize that I'm really angry with myself for not giving good enough evidence to support my own point of view.
Or even that you need to convince anyone and create a specific outcome, that is, that you may have expectations that the right words will change someone else's mind 😌 it can be quite a challenge
Why bother. Points of view base on opinions wether your own or others rarely matter. Familiarise yourself with the facts instead, they speak for themselves and need no particular point of view to be seen since they can be seen from all points where there are no opinions.
Omg AMEN. I’m the EXACT same way .
Oh my dear ♥ welcome to the club 😁 it is what it is.
I wasn't necessary the best with arguing with my brother(who is 2 grade levels older me), even though I know right from wrong and what "kindness" is, I could never stop his malignant narcissistic beliefs, he's also a sociopath. He's lazy and immature.
While there's me, low self esteem, low confidence, anxiety, 𝗼𝗰𝗱, and bipolar II. Not to mention I always felt like I had a responsibility and feel guilty for not working hard enough.
I just love the way he laughs 😄😄
He really laughs "WHOLEHEARTEDLY"
Isn't it???? 😄😄
with his whole being
Yesss
He actually "VIBRATES" on a higher dimension
You can tell that he's wise, coz he listens and doesn't interrupt. 🤔
this is why we have 2 ears and one mouth. we should listen more than we speak.
My biggest weakness..
I have been consciously listening to others lately, I received back such a good feeling of their gratefulness
deluca studios Some would argue we have two ears to get stereo sound
@@trondbolme5435 I'm dead ! XD
It’s always the simple wisdom with Sadhguru, thank you this perspective has changed my life.
are you havesha?
"The moment we think we are good, we are entitled to destroy the bad, isn't it?" - I thought that was classic! I know people that just because they are on one set path they look down on others who have not gotten their footing just yet and this statement of Sadhguru's really struck me as so very true. No more judgment people! Let's love learning to be VOLUNTEERS and do it all willingly so that we may be happy in every existing moment that comes to us. Blessings Sadhguru.
Absolutely right Mam. Only few months ago I started following sadguruji I cant resist to hear more n more.
I wanted to willingly volunteer at satguru's program, but i could not. I registered and showed up there after driving for one hr. Noone said any thing after they reviewed my registration papers. When i showed up at the event his volunteers told me that i have to go through the course before i can be a volunteer. This organization is the only organization where you have to take a course, pay for it... and then you can be a volunteer. Ridiculous. !!
Absolutely true
Once you help your ego without consciousness you start discriminate others n this depends largely on your own experience of life
I think it was Shakespeare who said “There no such thing as good or bad,it’s thinking that makes it so “ !
It’s amazing watching this video and reading the comments, everyone picks out little nuggets of what stood out to them most. 💛 God bless!
Why do you say this?
Agreed! I'm going through the comments and writing down the quotes that resonate with me. Hopefully it'll be helpful when dealing with some negative people in my life!
when I first read your comment I got scared because I was doing just that. (sounds odd but I know what I mean)
which god?
He's brilliant in his own right, but he's no 'Seth' ;-) just in case anyone wondered what the next level could possibly be... I read them all. you'll know if it resonates with you. if you need that material and are ready for that leap, it will find you and you will sample it.
"There are happy people and miserable people, there are no good people and bad people." That hits different when you struggle with depression. May we all find our joy again. Blessed be 🙏
I know what you mean about depression. Stay aware of the ups and downs and know that you are more than your chemical ups and downs. Find even the smallest little thing to be happy about or enjoy. As long as we keep waking up, there is a purpose for us here.💙
God Bless you. I hope you will win the fight against the bad thoughts. I think most people have struggles with negative feelings because of others bad actions, so do I.
❤️
Admist our strengths and what we feel stops us are there to test our emotional reactions . Failure is not a bad thing - without it we cannot ever experience true success. With many failures are many lessons to be learned . Life is a journey; sometimes smooth; sometimes bumpy.🦋❤️
You may want to watch his talk on mental depression, stress. In most his talks he touches on nental depression, etc
"If someone else can decide what is happening within you, isn't that the ultimate slavery?" I'm all tears now!!
get your vax
A powerful line... I can't seem to understand how to be unbothered, I take everything to heart (both positive and negative energy) ... :(
When this guy speaks its simple,yet mind blowing.
Because the beauty of it is that, it really is that simple
Just simple imo. I wish you the best.
Absolutely
Life is simple, it's hard to see . Big words are just there to distract.
That's the reason he is SADGURU
I live in Florida and travelled all the way to Detroit to see this wonderful human. His wisdom is beyond measure. If I could take just ONE philosophical aspect he teaches and truly “make it so,” I will consider my life well-lived... namaste 🙏
Plzzz come india....🙏
Take a Bow
He’s Bhagwan rajneesh 2.0
"There's no better pathway to self-realization and the ennoblement of being than to pause at the highest good that you can conceive of and commit yourself to it." ~Jordan Peterson
Surrender to life: just go with the flow without judging anything or anyone.
Tried it. I got walked all over for years
_"Only a dead fish goes with the flow"_
dave oneil I guess go with the flow but be assertive and know your worth?
@@loadapish you probably misinterpreted what it's really about. it's not about sitting around doing nothing and letting people do whatever they want to you. what you need to do will become clear with a non-judgmental mind. that doesn't mean it won't require hard work or stepping out of your comfort zone.
Much better if it's "Grow with the flow".
I’ve been struggling with anger issues for a long time and I said and done some things that I really hate and dislike. I can only thank the people who shown me grace and leniency and to Sadhguru for amazing advice. Om.
good luck on your journey
We all struggle. I conditioned myself to say the Aussie phrase,”No Worries” it is so disarming to myself and it softens those who deliver info that is not so good
I've struggled with this for years as a cashier. I've been so deeply affected by evey little thing customers do. It's hard to detach myself; I'm too sensitive and emotional....
Simp
Don't take things personally
@@bjond8403
Ellmao
Hugss 💕
@@supadarattagan5095 Thank you!
I don’t know why but for some reason this speaks to me so much louder than anything my parents, teachers, church people and friends have ever tried to. I’ve wondered if I am lost cause at this point because I do not put myself out there, I push people away, I stay silent, and I’ve been doing my whole life because I know I will have conflict with people especially if they are close to me, and I have to see and talk to them every day.
I do exactly as he says, I see others who not like me as the “bad” sometimes and it’s childish but it’s just the way my mind works. I don’t think I’m perfect at all, far from it, but I like to think I don’t bother anybody and yet, I will always be alone of I continue down a path of seclusion from the world. When someone asks me what I want from life I’m clueless, because I can’t give a simple answer. I need people in my life, I have people in my life but, I need help, from myself sometimes.
Same with me.... I remain silent when i am angry or upset with someone then they said i stop the communication and creat more problems .. But once things pile up and i finally speak out they say i am an angry person who is starts fights.... People close or distant will not stop blaming me in any which way i behave.... They r happy as long as i do as they say...... Messed up people around us make our life miserable...
This guy is so enlightened. What an epic attitude to have towards life. If only we could all be more like this.
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You mean wise? A man who knows others is a wise man. A man who knows himself is an enlightened man.
But yes... Indeed 😁
This is not a guy thay are Sadhguru 😎
and we can all be more like this! :)
@@Bananahammockingbird indeed we can! (with a lot of effort put into ourselves)
6:00 my life is about me, not about them. I'm not given freedom to somebody to make me angry, unhappy....what they do, I'm always me. You have to become 1 big YES!
This should be pinned 📌 as a “Top Comment”. 💯
Most helpful extraction, thank you.
So true isnt it..i let their comments haunt me n bother me
Thankyou ❤️
Don't let other people to make you angry and unhappy.... Means never expect anything from anybody.. Isn't it??
Is it possible?
I love how he patiently listens. He then answers in a very detailed way.
the "guru" said lots of pretty words, but zero actionable advice, some bs about willing vs. volunteer, vague non sense like a astrology
LoL, he talks vague rubbish!
Cut the chase!
@@john_from_eastcoast. if you're not joyful the vision you create isn't going to great.
Don't try to understand from a limited perspective mate. Be humble and open to deeper aspects of life
@@pv9214 this old geezer is talking bs mate!
Be open to that!
@@john_from_eastcoast. What do you need answers to that led you down this path?
to the person reading this, always remember that every positive thought is a silent prayer that will change you life. big hugs from Shanthi healing music
thank you for this
I used to get angry and bothered alot by my family members but now I keep less in touch with them I'm much calmer and dont let them bother me too much
same ... aint that a trip lol
Why you should go to your family though
@@BingQiLing. yea real talk . its like u expect a mother to be a mother... but whose to say a mother is to be a mother lol
@@asad-kc8zf I agree with you. Keeping less in touch does not do any good, your just hiding the problems under a blanket and wishing they would get better. But there are exceptions...Like Sadhguru said, its your will to stay in control and not let others get to you. That's the ultimate power.
@@asad-kc8zf yo i got a question for u.... would u stay in touch with lets say ur mom if her word doesnt mean anything. she says one thing then does the exact opposite. never has ur back and its whenever u have somethign to address its as if its insignificant. so realistically this person is not on your team but related to you by blood only - so my question to you is would you still keep that person around even though they are unreliable and you literally dont know whats truth and what is a lie when you speak to them.... but yes you are related by bblood haha
You're doing something willingly, that's your heaven. You're not doing something willingly, that's your hell. So obvious but would have never looked at it this way. Awesome wisdom here
Free will is an illusion
Are Hungry, homeless, motherless children more than willing to be happy?
@@dlon8899 What if they are more than willing to be sad? That's totally up to them, that's what free will is, my friend.
@@dlon8899 Free will and willingness are not the same my friend Free will is being able to make decision with any pressure and any real consequences, willingness is being dedicated to something, You can't live and be happy as a office worker if you want to be a writer, giving up ones dream and accepting what id given to you will stop your suffering however, no one is saying not to reignite that dream later in you life when you the resources too. It's better to give up now just to try again after years later.
@@sarthakarora3212 there are always consequences
I am freeing myself more and more from the idea of “should.” The world should be this way or that way, people should do this or that, life should give me this or that. It’s all so exhausting. To determine what goes within oneself is indeed a privilege that should never be given away to a single human. I am so fond of Sadhguru. I love his stories especially anything to do with Shankaran Pillai:-) He’s indeed a guru- the way showerer.
Yes! Expectations are a huge source of misery!
Love this.
God is truly the way maker and the way shower. Let's ask for His wisdom, knowledge, and mercy. We need it!!!
A "should" did slip in to your last concept! 😄
Anyone who is not just like us , is the bad guy.
Every time I listen to this gentleman my heart is full of joy!!! Peace to everyone!!! 🙏🏿
God just that voice! Can we talk about that voice. It BOOMS across the room in a beautiful jolly yet firm way. I could just listen to that voice.
So true!
Reality...
I like this voice tooooooo much
And his English is very good.
Certain words have no accent at all.
*meditation is a powerful habit to help us respond to life instead of living in reaction*
He's not just full of wisdom, he is so charming with it. Love him.
Wisest person i have ever come acrossed
@@GeoClix hello
I am so grateful someone suggested Sadhguru on The Modern Empath video. Both are so helpful. I truly love Sadhguru. And hes got great sense of humor too💗🙏 I really needed to hear this cause I suffer with infertility never had a child and Im letting that grief prevent me from working and living my true life. And part of it was cause working with people especially parents. When you said "If you want to work with ideal people you must go to heaven_today" it made me think. And all Im doing is holding myself back. Namaste 🙏💗🌸
I'm from Iraq and I really like your way of thinking, accepting, understanding, laughing, ..etc💎
You make my mind more wider , near to my soul , light, clearness 🌤
New look to every thing around me 🕊🕊
Thank you, 🌹
May God bless you and your family 💚
"There are joyful people and miserable people.
But there are not good people and bad people."
"If somebody can decide what happens within you right now. Isn't that slavery?"
"If you are a big yes to life. You'll find the way"
VeryTrue
There are sexy people like u love u babay
There aerw sexy people like y
The only thing I don’t get is how is Hitler not good nor bad? 🥴
amazing guru !
What a wonderful person!! If someone is depressed from life, just listen to this human 👏🏻👏🏻
he she will continue depressed...
@@gonza8824 true but it can help a little. I’m depressed but hearing things like this can help me see things differently
He's profound through simplicity, probably so we'll GET IT. I love how his laughter moves his entire body!
I don't know why but I see one video of Shri Sadguru and it changes my mood. I woke up grumpy but I am smiling now :)
I was advised by an elder, "If you don't like what's on TV, change the channel." .....Let that sink in
Brilliant...Wisdom right there
The thing is...I often don’t own the remote control and the person owning it doesn’t want to change the channel
@@cactus982 you own the remote that links to your mind. That's yours and no one else is allowed in.
Don't want the farts, don't eat the beans 🙏
thegreatsiberianitch Amen
When I was younger my father told me that to be serene and calm in life half of what you hear you don't believe the other half you don't listen to. Trust your inner instincts and you will know the difference between good and bad.
Ciao from Little Italy 🇮🇹 Montréal
The saying that I am familiar with that is similar to your's is to believe only half of what you see and none of what you hear.
@@shanegaffey3586 yes I have read about that one too that is also similiar to a quote on one of Edgar Allen Poes' book.
That is also known to be 5150; la di da..
Which is ' blind to the way extremes of spiritual antibodies a..ND mentalities..
Idk what I'm trying to get said here, therefore peace out space Ghost
"The heart is deceitful above all things
and beyond cure.
Who can understand it?"
Jeremiah 17:9
I have come to same conclusion before seeing this, about not letting outsiders control your internal thoughts. It's the hardest thing do and I still haven't mastered it yet. I realized that The only time I get upset/disappointed is when some person/s does/fails to do/say something regarding me.
Same and it's really hard
There are internal messages that play in our minds over and over again. These are affirmations that we must change to be positive and in time they will become so strong that they won't be affected by external influence.
@@Calocarv Thank you for this. I really appreciate it. Wish you all the best
Inner engineering - by sadhguru is the practical way to achieve it
To everyone who needs to hear this: you are loved and amazing 💗
Right back at you, beautiful soul! 💜
You are loved too! You are amazing too!
That’s nice of you. 👍
Thank you
Thank you, healing and peace to you
"If you want to work with ideal people you must go to heaven and today!!" I'm glad I came across this😂😂😂😂 It helped me to accept others, the thing which I was reluctant to do before
"There are joyful people and miserable people. But there are no good people and bad people." Love it.
😂😂😂👍😉
"Vision is all inclusive,desire is personal - Desire leads to incremental improvements,vision changes the whole situation." Beauty!
"If somebody else can decide what can happen within you right now, isn't this the ultimate slavery"
That really made me rethink how much I rely on people. Wouldn't all of my problems and sadness be easier to handle if I was not waiting for someone else to figure it out? I could figure it out right now! I don't need to wait for any husband or man!
So true
Go Get after your inner peace 👌
I’ve always hated how emotional/upset I get about things. It’s something I’m REALLY working on and something that’s made me really dislike myself when I catch it😞 Ive been wondering how I can navigate it and I really needed to hear this.
Just sharing with you what I’ve been trying and doing hard to live more happily at every moment.
- Accept, love and forgive myself. Observe my ways of thinking that cause emotion and transform it. Investing more in improving aspects of my life.
- Say YES to like, accept people and situations as they are. Just observe & experience them and learn.
- Give up demands; no demands, no dissatisfaction. Listen, read and explore myself more than looking at the others.
Kiss, acknowledge myself everyday.
Say thanks to the universe everyday.
When I fall down, on my knees, I stand up again and fresh start, it’s ok to be like that. :)
I hope these help. :)
Same. I am working on myself also
You were probably born a sensitive soul, which is exactly what the world needs right now. Navigating through life will be difficult, but make sure you carry your 'emotional armor' with you in case you need to use it when dealing with an angry or negative person. Much love to you!
Oh wow I didn’t know sensitive souls exist.... I am happy to know am one ... 🥰🥰
@@ellacorrigan7935 totally agree with you 💯 this world would be a better place if people were more emotional and have compassion towards each other. 👍
"There are no good people and bad people , everybody is oscillating between the two. if you create a very pleasant wonderful atmosphere, everybody behave wonderful".
unfortunately there are bad people, to think otherwise is not wise, but I get what he is trying convey
There are bad people such as mental problem like serial killers don’t matter how good of a house they come they turned out killers
@@yeshayem6274 Atmosphere isn't just about your immediate home though. Its the whole society you're in as well.
@@michaelthorpe1869 I agree.
Tell that to Joseph Stalin's 20,000,000 victims.
“Every human is at different levels of experience and understanding”
So powerful for not taking things personally, for giving grace to others & to yourself
I won't allow any body to irritate or hurt me, because it's me who uplift me or derogate me.
Namaste Sadguru 🙏❤️
"The moment we think we are 'good' - we are entitled to destroy the 'bad'."
, yes I thought of this, and ofcourse there are not only 2 kinds of people. We are all different
Whenever I listen sadhguru I become more humble and calm
“You will Find a way …… “. My heart is full and I have tears of joy to hear those words. Thank you 🙏❤️