Hamza! My son is 18. I am 39. He has had a very hard time over the past couple years and he started showing me your videos and telling me this is hat he wanted. You are very wise for you age… well really any age. You have articulated to him in a manner more coherent then I could’ve with the wisdom I was trying to pass to him. He is now a member of the cult. I wanted to give you my thanks. A lot of prayer. A lot of meditating. A lot of restless nights. He is on the right path. He’s not out of the woods yet, but he will be. I wanted to let you know, you had a part in it. Thank you.
I will pray for you guys and I hope your son expresses his masculine energy in a way that honors God. I think it is disgusting how luster is viewed as a masculine trait even by self-improvement advocates like Hamza.
I had a female teacher in middle school who was one of my best teachers. When she saw me and some of my friends playfully fighting during recess, instead of trying to stop and punish us; she told this to the gym teacher and signed us up for the wrestling team in our school. She found a professional and healthy way to redirect our masculinity and I am very grateful for what she has dome.
That's great, but contrary to what Hamza is indicating, this is what every pedagogue is trained to do today. I know, because I am one. Another thing I disagree with is that you call this urge to wrestle a _masculine_ urge. What about that is masculine? Little girls enjoy wrestling and testing their growing strength day by day too. Again I know, because I work with kids.
@@somedudeok1451 I had my primary and secondary education in Turkey where things were different I guess. When we, even playfully, fought each other we were generally punished by our teachers and what she did stood out amongst my other teachers. And I mention masculinity because this video was about masculinity and I was trying to show an example of how I redirected my energy into something good. Ofc girls can do this as well even though none of the girls in my class were interested.
@@somedudeok1451 girls fight a lot rarer than boys especially after a certain age. Yea maybe when they are little they both fight but after idk 10 girls don t fight that much while boys still playfully "fight"
@@16personalitieswberk4 She definitely sounds like a woman who took her profession seriously. Many teachers don't and I imagine in more conservative countries like Turkey, punishment is still one of the main methods of raising children (even though there are better methods available). Yes, this video is supposedly about masculinity. I watched through all of it and one of the many problems I have with it, is that Hazma seems to fundamentally misunderstand what masculinity is, even though he proclaims to be a messenger on this topic and a hyper masculine man himself. But in truth he is just very fragile with lots of toxic coping mechanisms and little of what he says makes sense. I could go into detail, but...
I'm 18 right now and I'm just gonna give you my upmost respect for recognizing that every man's peak in testosterone and masculinity potential is around mid to late teens. But there are people who are much older than you who also wish that they started somewhere in their twenties. I see 14 year olds here who have already started and I'm like I wish I started back then too. We all have different journeys and we are all being set up for the moment that we decide to make the change in different ways and stages in our lives. Always be grateful for your position. Imagine that you're 37 years old and you haven't been on self improvement for the past 10 years and wasted a lot of valuable time. Then you took a time machine and went back in time 10 years to 27 years old, you're younger and a lot more energetic, where you can now decide to live the next 10 years the right way, exactly how you want it. Little do you know that time is now. Let that motivate you King 💪
I'm a 36 year old man, powerlifter, wife and two daughters. No debt, except mortgage. And I will tell you my friends, it was SUPER close. I went to college and ,the first 2 years it started seeping into my brain, until my Chad ass grandfather pushed me to be the man I was supposed to be, since my dad was an old hippie burn out too. I've worked hard, put in the time in gym, work and family. That what it takes, devote your life to your craft and your family.
It’s tough because a lot of men FEEL that they aren’t living how they naturally should be, but they don’t know anything else. Everything in society has become so fluffy and pussified, but it began when we were babies. Realizing that you’ve been living a lie for your entire life is really tough to understand and it flips your whole worldview. Changing this mindset can be slow or it can be fast, but it must change.
Men know deep down they shouldn't be so passive and feminine, but they're gaslight into thinking they have anxiety or depression and are medicated for it.
@@biggibbs4678 dude whenever I ciriticise women I get immediately called incel and stuff like that, they don’t want to hear the truth, they see us men who are trying to better themselves as dangerous to society, fuck that woke cancel culture.
@@biggibbs4678 no, people simply are depressed. No ones being gaslit into Depression, men are just depressed because of multiple reasons like them feeling worthless.
I admit it. I am weak. But I'm not completely hopeless. I agree with you on some points and less so on others. I'll keep pushing forward, but I'm not going to give up on things I enjoy just because people say it isn't masculine. Fuck that, I'll just become so masculine that nobody cares. At the end of the day all we can do is keep pushing forward as long as we can and achieve what we want. Thanks for being a good role model for men. 👊
At some point you need to question your lifestyle whether it's time wasting, if you feel physically or phycologically unwell, whether you feel like a loser, etc. Some hobbies stay some don't, don't let some just get you trapped like a toxic romantic partner, because life goes on. I hope you can walk out of all these cellars man keep it going.
I'm on a dopamine detox right now that was recommended by Hamza and I just want to say: "Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it" should be tour mantra! Yesterday I did a list of goals I was planning to do today but when the evening came, I realized I was too tired to do workout that I also planned. I wanted to break my rules and play GTA5 instead to 'relax' but then I remembered that I didn't need to _want_ to workout, I just *had* to workout. So I did the workout and it was so productive that I feel even more energized than before it. Sometimes your mind tries to cheat and tells you that videogames will make you relaxed. However, your brain will work the same way (or even harder) and by breaking your plans, you'll feel even weaker tomorrow. Don't let your bad habits control your life, make yourself proud instead even if you don't feel like it c:
I’ve thought about starting mine, but having a RUclips channel seems like a lot of work. But starting a self improvement channel would ensure that you can’t give up because you have hundreds or thousands of people constantly motivating you
@@averagepinkytoeenjoyer9115 yes a self improvement channel gives you a responsibility since you're helping other young men. I've tried youtube other multiple times and I've failed but now that I do self improvement videos it keeps me motivated to keep going since I know it will help a lot of people.
It’s never too late to change your mindset and self-image. I’m 25 right now, heading towards 26 soon. At first, I thought I was too late to change my whole self well-being and give up hope but after I discovered Hamza and the rest of the Self-Improvement RUclipsrs, it changed me how I perceived the world right now. I’ve been struggling with porn and video game addiction all my life which is an ongoing battle right now. Also, doing the good habits that are good for me, for example: Exercise, journaling, following my passion which is music production, getting into martial arts/tricking, eating clean, spending time in nature, etc. At the end of the humble day, we all need to progress through delay gratification in order to grow and enjoy the fruits of our labor. We all are going to make it!
I'm 24 man and I felt the same, but there are many men out there 35+ years old having never discovered self improvement and are completely lost in bad habits. Im still very grateful to be on self improvement even though some may consider 24/25 to be late
Hamza and his bullshit ... You don’t need a woman in your life, and you don’t need to become strong for a woman. 🤦♂️ The game of dating is very unfair Blackpilk is mostly right. You can become strong and high status and still don’t get women interest because of your physical features it’s just true and you can’t deny reality. But the morality of the story is that wether or not women like you you need to get stronger for yourself. You are already all making yourself weak by focusing your thoughts on women as if all you do is centered about how to be the man women like ... Why don’t you think about being the man you want ? About being and doing what you really want to do without thinking of women approbation ? If we follow your philosophy you are all beta males for wasting time listening and reading content to please women lol, you become slave of this shit content and therefore a slave of women. These red pill channel are for loser people who spend time here come in the hope to have a girlfriend lol but why don’t you just forget women if they don’t care about you ?
Dude I resonate a lot with what you said about feeling like it's too late. The truth is that you can change your life at any given moment but it's up to you.
Thank you, Hamza. I am 15 and recently moved to a public high school to seek a better education in the engineering field. I have begun to realize over the past few months how ungrateful my generation is, and not only the men. In my school, you come from either the rich and successful part of town, or what's known as 'the ghetto.' Yet with this diverse background, nearly 80% of the students are all ungrateful, disrespectful, and blatant jerks, no matter how much or how little they come from. I come from more of a successful background and up until recently I hadn't been the most grateful for what I have. I am blessed with two loving parents who both didn't grow up with much; my mom grew up in Iran during the 70's and 80's, and my dad was a local tobacco farmer up until his 20's. They both have worked their asses off to get into college and graduate to make six figures and provide for a family of their own. I have realized how my own two siblings have become lazy bums and won't work for shit. They have become bottom feeders off of me and my parents. Hamza you inspired me. You inspired me to burn off the fat, to build muscle and testosterone, to be a better man; And I thank you for that. I strive to still become a better person and to encourage more young men to focus on themselves, and work to be a better man. Thank you Hamza, and God bless.
For a 15 yo you're very well spoken. I'm 18 now and wish I started when I was 15. You're on a good path, making the right choices and adopting the right mindsets. Good shit.
Woah I'm so proud of you, you're so young and have this awareness already! I'm very grateful to read this, it gives me a lot of hope for the world. I'm wishing you tons of blessings 🌻☀️
I have started a week ago and I’m grateful I found your channel. Slowly I have winded down my addictions. I honestly wish this was pushed by the algorithm hard by itself because the world is getting weaker and it doesn’t help how subconscious people are awake. My father stopped trying to do his life passion so he could provide for my large family and I’m grateful for that. He has many flaws but I don’t think we in the western world realize how lucky we are. When my parents went to Mexico in 2011 they went to a poor area in Mexico and were shocked and fed them. Don’t make excuses and Don’t forget how grateful you are E.A.H
You did save my life mate. I'm only 18 and got out of possibly the worst relationship of my life YET. You put me on this path 4 months ago and I will forever be grateful.
A toxic relationship is the last thing you need at such a young age, my last relationship was 5 years ago, decided I’m better off, best decision I’ve made especially considering how screwed the dating game is for men now, self improvement is the best way to go in life.
I am addicted to social media. I started grinding 9 months ago and without videos like yours, I wouldn`t have been able to get where I´m now. I`m at the best shape I`ve ever been. Mentally and physically. Discipline is the key. But on day`s where I don`t feel like it, when I`m tired or just sick of the grind, I watch some higly motivating videos and they get me going. Also looking at other men in a better shape doesn`t make me depressed, I just want to go harder at the gym so I look like them someday.
@@OffbrandMC Definitely porn. It massively lowers your self-confidence and your energy. If you are on NoFap you`ll realize that. I think you don`t have to be completely strict on it, it is not that bad if you fail every 2 - 3 weeks but you should at least try. Also I noticed that I get more attention from women during NoFap. I don`t know why but it`s definitely noticeable. On the other hand, video games are a huge waste of time, so only consume it in moderation. Social media can be used for self improvement tho. So do not scroll thru tiktok for 5h/day, instead watch videos like this and learn something.
And you're right, men do cry, even the toughest of them, my father broke down and cried when he remembered his past one time, he is the toughest and most educated man I've ever known, and he cries, but not while everyone's watching.
It took me a while to start making progress towards becoming more masculine.. but the moment I realised that discipline could be seen as synonymous to masculinity, it changed it all for me. Discipline is the most important precursor to doing any of the actions that make you more masculine. Without discipline, you'll only do the right things when you feel like doing them.. You'll go to the gym like once a week. You'll work towards your goals for like a day, and then for the next 3 days, you wont. There's a chance you don't even know what you want to do, you dont even have a goal to strive towards. Even that is because of discipline (or lack of it, to be precise.) Your brain knows that it doesnt matter whether you figure out what you want to do with your life, or not. Either way, you're just going to lie on your bed scrolling through RUclips comments. But once you're disciplined, you're like that bull just looking around for the red target. As soon as it finds it, it charges towards it. So your brain in strongly incentivised to help you find a goal. Start valuing Discipline in yourself. Strive, not to never feel like fapping, but to resist that urge every time it comes. Strive, not to wake up every day with motivation, but to have days when you don't feel like doing anything, but you make yourself do them anyway. There's a reason Hamza's tagline is what it is, because it truly is the most important skill you will develop on this self improvement journey. So "Do The Hard Work, Especially When You Don't Feel Like It."
@@SahajTalwar yes bro discipline is very necessary today when I go for running and workout my mom tell me not to go but I don't know and said them I need to go let me go and I don't need alarm sharp at 4:30 my body wakes me up by small pain in stomach.
Stop your bullshit , so many men are weak and still have a girlfriend. You don’t need to be a super strong masculine man to have a GF all you need is to be a decent human and be good looking enough. Hamza is a liar , even if it’s good to motivate men but stop lying about what women prefer. These kind of people are a direct enemy of knowledge because they bend reality to get more views. This is a joke , you can always take actions but blackpill explain that for a category of people even if actions are being taken the results won’t happen because of their physical appearance ... No women want to be with a man below 5.8 ft or it’s extremely difficult it’s a fact. If your goal is to make money by making men delusional go for it. The sin is not taking a man’s hope but lying to men about reality for your own Interest.
Discipline is so important. Especially with stuff like video games, which is just supposed to be a relaxing leisure, but a lot of people confuse them for reality, and take them too seriously. Even myself at one point would take games like Fifa seriously and play for 3 hours at a time. To me, something like video games is bad once you start taking it as something of value, rather than just a relaxing leisure.
as bad as it is that we're castrated, I'm glad there's this movement of men that are waking up from it. When we have kids, our kids will lead their generation to greatness
I am 14 years old. 2 nights ago I took lsd, and ended up with one of the most traumatic events that has ever happened to me. Every worry, every aspect of my depression came up from within myself and seemed to be eating me alive in that bad trip. I remember screaming, absolute pure agony, being pulled apart my giant spiders, and seeing my best friend who had helped me through everything being eaten alive. I spent the entire day yesterday screaming and crying with anxiety. The guilt I felt was excruciating. How could I have done such a thing? How could I have lied to my parents about my drug problem and left them thinking their son was okay? I couldn’t bear not to tell them what happened. Today is day one of self improvement. Im taking back my life no matter how hard its going to be, or how long its going to take. Im going to leave my shitty drug friends behind and spend time with my friends who care about me. It’ll take time, and effort, no doubt about that, but I know I can get there. I will achieve it, no matter what. I have faith in myself,
It's okay to be weak. It's not okay to stay weak. There is a difference, because the train of progress isn't a direct line without stops, diversions, and obstructions.
Real shit, if you wanna get tough then you have to go through a lot of hardship. It's quite literally the only way. I got sober from a crippling opioid addiction when I was 16 and now everything seems easy as fuck compared to that. No fap no problem, dopamine detox without even breaking a sweat, putting in the work for yourself will put everything in perspective. It'll make you realize that the most difficult of tasks can be accomplished with the right mindset. I don't regret shit because now I know almost nothing will ever be more difficult in life than making it through day 3 of un-medicated hydromorphone withdrawals. Everyone has a vice in their life to some degree that will provide a similar effect. I can't believe I have to say this, but don't do what I did because I only was able to quit because I was lucky enough to be given the opportunity. I highly doubt I would be getting that lucky again.
The part where you spoke about virtual counterpart was eye-opening "Giving you a virtual version of what you want" 18:11 In my virtual world that I play in I'm getting prestige, status, and a place in the highest level in a hierarchical system knowing this now, I will work for this but in the real world and make progress. I am glad I subbed
I realized that I am addicted to the 3 things mentioned in the video, I took the "Depression and anxiety self-assessment quiz" and I got 15 for depression and 12 for anxiety. I didn't realize how bad I am until I saw this video and decided to take the quiz, I am going to eliminate the 3 addictions and take the quiz again in 3 weeks. I will update this comment. Update: Depression 10 and anxiety 3. I am definitely much happier than I was before but I was not able to completely eliminate all 3 addictions. The first thing I did was uninstall instagram but I noticed I started spending a lot more time on youtube and I couldn't quit porn although I try not to make it an everyday thing, the big change I made was signing up for jiu jitsu 5 days a week, this made me not have time to play video games and it definitely helped me a lot with anxiety fighting everyday for 1 hour lol, when I go home after fighting all I want to do is eat and go to sleep early, I have no energy left to do the bad habits.
@@rogue8363 I guess I have never acknowledged my own perseverance, I am very good at that atleast, we all come with different forms of strength, you too. 🙂👍
There is a difference between being a victim to uncomfortable emotion and transcending them by pushing through them and facing them. I see so many people now a days being a victim to discomfort. Push through give yourself permission to feel, but don’t make an identity out of it. Identifying with emotions is one of the biggest traps right now.
Just a note. Having high testosterone doesn't mean necessarily being more masculine. It also depends on the amount of androgen receptors you have in your body, if those are low then there's no saying that higher test will make one more masculine. Cool vid bro. Love your stuff.
Eat 2kg of broccoli a day. Trust me bro it’s a hack. Something in broccoli reduces estrogen, and lowering estrogen indirectly increases testostone, so a long with animal fat and all the other good habits it’s a good addition
Hamza. I used to live the same life as you. You're quite literally a brother from another mother. I ran home to play video games growing up. Runescape, league, etc. I'm trying to get into strength sports and own a business at some point. I am currently a personal trainer.
Honestly these videos have been helping me so much. Today I haven’t played any video games or have watched any adult content and I’ve completed stuff that would’ve taken my lazy self weeks to do. Thank you.
You're so right about motivation, our generation has become obsessed with the feeling of "motivation" that's all it is, a feeling. As men, we must learn to act despite how we feel. Learn and master the skill of discipline! Don't just watch another motivational video for the rush of dopamine and the feeling of motivation it will give you, that will all fade away. Make a promise to yourself men, stay consistent, stay disciplined and follow through with your promise. Take action, while continuing to learn from your mistakes and consume informative books,videos etc.
I won't lie, it's true. You set me on a path of change, yeah I didn't watch you for a while as I started doing some of the many things you promote and actually got my things together, but that's just proof of it. Being back here watching with a new perspective, being able to look down on my old self while also being proud of the journey. Anyway, I'll skip the boring things and just leave it with a fine and simple: cheers mate, really appreciate the help.
bro this the first video i ever seen of you in my life, first 15 mins i was subbed. i been workin on myself heavily for the past 3 years since i was 15 in high school, i used to be the majority of the young men that were weak and having no discipline besides hoopin really, i was a hooper, on the playstation everyday , releasing my seed everyday all the bullshit man. your motivation and knowledge is hard bro and you inspired me today and gave me a heavy reminder to stay hard and stay strong. i aint been in the gym recently man i broke my right hand protecting my family a week and a half ago it sucks but we recovering 🤞🏽👑
Hey Hamza, I'm about the same age as you and I've been watching your videos for about a year now. When I was a kid growing up, my five brothers and I would just play video games and consume art for hours while trying to be the good kids our mom wanted us to be and not be like our "big bad father". As I got older, I realized how much of that narrative was one sided and false. The way I grew up was making me weaker. I had a lot of angst and couldn't figure out where it was coming from. A year and a half ago, I moved out of the united states to Germany during covid lockdown. It was my first time moving out of my home state let alone country. That was a hard time for. My spirit and mind were really tested. I felt like I was in the hyperbolic time chamber. I learned a lot about myself and realized how flawed and weak I was even though I thought I was strong. I had to learn harder discipline and detox dopamine just to keep my mental health from collapsing. Your videos were great to watch during that time. I agree, alot of men in our generation are very weak. It is very concerning. Sometimes I look at some of my brothers (older and younger) and I'm very concerned for them. I'm not sure how to tell them they are walking on the path of weakness. It's a feminine world right now and these are indeed privileged times. I aim to continuing getting stronger to be motivation for them. People around me notice the growth after walking this path. I thank you brother.
Hamza, i've been unfocused and off track lately. I was once so strong....with so much momentum in ALL areas of my life. I've been feeling weak, giving my attention to shit that's completely useless. Thank for you being real. I'm gonna reclaim everything and more. Let's go.
Discipline is everything. You’re right on the button. I’m 21 and I can assure you 90% of my old associates and peers are not discipline at all. Living young wild and free. I’m not opposed to that , but imagine if you mixed discipline with that. It would make a massive difference.
8:20 This is true. The biggest hindrance for men being productive and regaining their testosterone for a better masculine frame and character, is social media, porn and video games. Even myself, I struggle with social media addiction and video game addiction. If I'm not on social media. I'm on a video game or working. This makes me less productive then I'd like to be and I hate it. I really need to change and start doing something differently. I've even been exercising less and I hate it. It's time I start doing some self evaluation and work on my masculinity. I used to be really talented at drawing/sketching. So much so, that I could design skyscapers and stuff like that. Now everytime I draw, my fingers get wonky cause of the constant button mashing on the controller. It's time for me to experience my form of discomfort so there can be progress.
This was very good to hear. You are right about this generation of men are weak. They lack discipline and when they don't wanna do something e.g. going to the gym just because they don't fee like going, they won't go. This has encouraged me even more to get on my masculine side.
Thank you Hamza You really gave me my Red pill 2 mouths ago I was a weed/porn/social media addict, and I hated It I wanted to change I started by deleting all social media and start watching self improvement videos I started reading books,playing guitar learning spanish........ And I feel very proud
W bro but don't rush on anything you are learning slow down your progress and note it down.When I start learning I rush a lot but then what happens is I leave that shit. Learning slowly and writing and tracking your progress is the best way..
Last week I discovered your channel, and it has been a massive wake up call. I play a ton of videogames, I don't work out, my lifestyle is really unhealthy and I'm hella ugly. My situation isn't gonna get any better if I don't do something about it. Thank you Hamza, my self improvement journey starts now.
I absolutely agree Hamza, being weak is not progress, we will otherwise stay the same, stagnant, I now know I have to do the things that scare me. Thank you so much, the world is brainwashed right now, I really hope our generation and next generations do better.
Hamza my G I just want to say thank you so much for what you have done for me. You may not know what you did and how much of an impact you made on my life but you really are changing young men's lives. Thank you.
I love that everyone here is improving and striving for more. I believe many young men including my self are lacking self respect. The reason why you don't go to the gym, dont study, dont eat healthy is because you don't care about your self. If you truly have self respect you will have extreme ownership and will realize that your goals are not just goals. They are a matter of survival. Here is a interesting thought, you don't need discipline if you're in survival mode. This is why I think that: This weakened I decided to get out of my comfort zone by going on my first solo hike. After I reached the amazing view, I went back and somehow missed the trail where I parked my car. I didn't notice that I missed my trail until an hour in and was on the other side of the mountain. I had no map and didn't save the location of my car. There was no cell signal and my phone was almost dead. In a forest everything looks the same. I turned around and started to retrace my steps. Thankfully, there were other hikers passing by and I asked for direction. They showed me the map and I saw how far I was from my car, it was at least another 2 hours. I was heading back until I came to a T, where the path splits. I had no idea which one was the right path towards the parking lot. At that point I knew I was lost. I was in the middle of the forest having no clue where to go. I didn't care how dumb I looked, I stood at the T until a group of hikers passed by and I asked where the parking lot was. To my relief those hikers were just starting their hike and were coming from the parking lot.... The point is, I would have never experienced this if I didn't go out of my comfort zone. There were so many important lessons to unpack from this. Here are two important lessons that I will remember for life. 1) Treat your goals as Survival, you are on a journey of life. If you are lost you will do anything to find the right path, else you will die. When your mind is in survival mode, you dont care what others think about you. You are fully focused on finding the correct path (your goal) no mater what. 2) Men PREPARE. If you are underprepared you will get wrecked by life. You will be unconfident in what you do because you dont prepare. Preparing is studying, practicing, training, ect.. Learning these lessons in real life is that much more valuable. I didnt expect to write a whole story, but here it is. Go out there and become a Warrior! LETS GO!
I've been on self improvement for about 7 months and have been watching you for that time too. I recently pretty badly broke my left humerus, and have since been physically restricted, I can't go to the gym and doing anything with my arms hurts. It could be easy to devolve into fast food and alcohol due to boredom. But so far I've had the discipline to stay healthy while I recover, and hopefully that discipline stays. But to be honest I don't think I'd have that mindset if I never found this movement, so thanks.
I passed the shit test with the teacher telling me to sit down and be quiet and laughing in her face, then my parents loaded me up on medication when I was a little kid. Imagine pumping your kid full of drugs to make them easier to deal with. Gotta love the modern era.
Hamza, I just want to say your a perfect self improvement youtuber, your not to extreme, your not to easy, you just tell the truth, no matter how hard it is for some to admit. Thanks for the motivation, and I know you probably won’t be seeing this anyways
13 year old here, 1 year been on this journey and couldn't be more thankful for helping me, life has never been better, i feel more masculine and im more confident, thank you. poz sa balkana
Change your depression into anger, anger is not inherently bad, there's a reason that you best progress in the gym or at work was just before you punched your coworker in the face. Anger is that drive and most men cannot handle the amount they're body gives them, so they're labeled with anger issues. Then they're conditioned to remove that anger completely and what's left is a weak male with no individual drive that'll do whatever he's told just because somebody said so. Your anger is not an issue, it is not the problem, your lack of discipline and self control are. Improve your mental health by making your mind stronger, not by crippling the other parts of it.
this is also the same for women tho, I feel like I've been encouraged a lot to display more masculine traits (be dominant, loud, opinionated, strong) and many women think of femininity as inferior. But in reality masculinity and femininity are equally important because they work well together and balance each other
Indeed. But what happens when there are no strong, disciplined men around? Women go and assume those traits themselves, in order to achieve some kind of balance.
You know that ever since I started watching your videos i've found the drive to start exercising, to try and make an actual effort to cut off my negative habbits, my addicitons. I knew I need to do this all along, but it's nice to actually be called out on it, rather than coddled like almost everyone has. I wish there were more people like you in my life, and that those like you already in my lfie I had met earlier.
Hamza, thank you for making this video because I've been thinking of this from past few days and I haven't been able to rest properly thinking about our generation
I respect you Hamza. I look up to you. I feel your words, because I know what you are talking about, its reality. Its the truth. I am extremely grateful to you, you have changed my life in the last few months. You have motivated me. You truly have changed the lives of thousands of young males, who needed help and guidance. You are a bigger brother to many, who never had one.
hamza, i'm 14 yo, this spring I started to watch your videos now I uso social media 15 minutes a day. I remember that I was using social media 4 hours a day ,video games about 4 hours and masturbate a lot and I was obese, now I lost 25kg and I go to the gym enjoying real life and make real friends. I have to thank you because your videos helped me, and I workout every day to become a adonisss.
As a Black Belt in 3 martial arts and Strongman silver medalist in my country. I urge boys to be men. Society will mock you today but will beg for your protection tomorrow.
It’s interesting too, because videos like this also make us feel like we are achieving something. If we are hearing a lot of this information for the first time, than sure, you have achieved something, you’ve learned new, helpful information, or motivation. But if you’ve been watching his channel for a while now, you’ll notice a lot of this information has already been stated in previous vids, he just articulates it in a different way. I’m realizing now that only a few of his vids that he posts now actually present value to me, which is what he foresaw, he told us to unsub when we believe we have made enough progress in our journeys. Now, I’m only a few months in, so I still have much to learn, but it’s something I’m starting to notice.
For me this is the pinnacle of this channel. It’s so sincere and so spontaneus that it awakened me for a few days then I got back on a rut. I’m watching it again to find that motivation and those strong values
"If you are a weak, submissive, feminine man, you will only attract dominating, masculine women..." This seems so simple, but I only discovered this recently. Always a skinny guy, I attracted obese, butch women all the time. Started putting on muscle and have attracted more feminine women.
I think this is your best video, I have rewatched it 3 times already and shared it to some friends. Unfortunately few are receptive to this, a lot ghosted me. I’m not gonna waste any energy on trying to help those guys anymore
the student-teacher analogy you made at the beginning really made me realise how feminine most of us have become, i've gotten on self improvement since september and i've had a few encounters with female teachers where i knew i was right and i was ordered but i kept my point since i knew they were wrong and everyone was so surprised like "oh look he isn't just submitting because she said so".
For me it's youtube, I use it way too much, in the past I always used it for curious questions which is fine, but now im doing it just for the sake of wasting time, because I don't have enough discipline to use every second of my day towards my goals, to be truthful it's hard as fuck, but I can still do it, I need to force myself
I’m now starting to cycle 20 miles + at least twice a week which I probably wouldn’t have done if I didn’t find you channel hamza. It’s done wonders for my mental health. Thank you.
" The way of the superior man " - David Deida I am again suggesting everyone this book even when Hamza made videos on it because this book is really life changing in terms of :- Part - 1 : The man's way ( 15 rules for men ) Part - 2 : Dealing with women ( This part teaches you some characteristics of feminine women and it help you understand them and deal with them) Part - 3 : Working with polarity energy ( this part will help you to understand the masculine and feminine energy which are the exact opposite similar to the north and South Pole, Yin and Yang ) Part - 4 : What women really wants ( the previous part and this part combined will give you the complete idea about women and what they want) Part - 5 / 6 / 7 / 8 : Here Part 5 will help you to know your Dark Side, part 6 will show you the feminine attractiveness, what 7 actually shows off some body practices like ejaculation up to the spine and finally part 8 actually gives some ideas about Mens and womens yoga of intimacy. I think that this content list will encourage you to actually buy that book and read it, this is very important for this generation of men to read this book at least once in their lifebecause now all over "Weak Men "
lol this is so funny to see how all these clowns lead men to intellectual masturbation with their self claimed sophisticated stories. They send men into deep subject of psychology, pseudo science non sense as if they were going to resolve men sexual misery, They just making money on men sexual misery . The same way some countries are making money with war by selling their weapons.
@@alastairpearce8278 As far as my read this book has lots of practical advice for married men and men on relationships . Whereas none of these scenarios apply to me but it's a great read anyway as I got benefitted in learning to work with women
This video has put all my thoughts and feelings into words. It articulated my feelings which will help turn them into actions. I greatly appreciate this video Hamza💪🏻
i'm sad for my younger self as a woman for dating losers and being fine with it because i didn't know any better. (I never dated older guys) When I hear these deep throughts I come to the realization that I have given the chance for young and unexperienced guys to "train" on me in a way. Young women have no clue about how addicted to either of those three things young guys are...PS) this video is full of insanely good insights. This channel is a goldmine I swear!
Hi Hamza, I wanted to tell you that there are also a lot of weak even younger men out there (Teens) that also have these problems with addictions and not mainly 20 year olds. Thank you for making these videos and please keep making videos for this newer generation that I know will have the same problem. But I think it will be even worse for them, because they have been exposed and brainwashed more than the 20-30 year olds to the modern world. I hope you see this comment
Yeah man I get that we’re supposed to be demonising males becoming feminine and whatnot but it’s almost as if women are being made out to be perfect this whole time when that’s far from the truth haha.
@@RawMilkEnthusiast more or less the truth i get it hamzas channel is centred around male self improvement but i think he should dive a lil into female space too
@@Strbashorts Yeah man like we always discuss men being lazy, fat and unmanly with lower testosterone levels than ever. And I understand it, it’s fair enough, but it makes you almost feel like you’ll never be able to be worthy enough for a girl because they are this idea of perfection that’s unattainable. What’s happening to their hormone levels, are they low in oestrogen, do they act “feminine” anymore yano. Not to belittle them per se - just to give both sides of the picture so us guys can realise that they ain’t all that perfect either.
Hamza! My son is 18. I am 39. He has had a very hard time over the past couple years and he started showing me your videos and telling me this is hat he wanted. You are very wise for you age… well really any age. You have articulated to him in a manner more coherent then I could’ve with the wisdom I was trying to pass to him. He is now a member of the cult. I wanted to give you my thanks. A lot of prayer. A lot of meditating. A lot of restless nights. He is on the right path. He’s not out of the woods yet, but he will be. I wanted to let you know, you had a part in it. Thank you.
18 too and this is just another scam. unlike your blinded selves would ever understand. have fun being milked
I will pray for you guys and I hope your son expresses his masculine energy in a way that honors God. I think it is disgusting how luster is viewed as a masculine trait even by self-improvement advocates like Hamza.
Good job
Props to you, Hector. Your son will forever be thankful to have a father like you. 💯
Respect+
I had a female teacher in middle school who was one of my best teachers. When she saw me and some of my friends playfully fighting during recess, instead of trying to stop and punish us; she told this to the gym teacher and signed us up for the wrestling team in our school. She found a professional and healthy way to redirect our masculinity and I am very grateful for what she has dome.
I'm grateful for your 3rd grade teacher brother, bless her heart
That's great, but contrary to what Hamza is indicating, this is what every pedagogue is trained to do today. I know, because I am one. Another thing I disagree with is that you call this urge to wrestle a _masculine_ urge. What about that is masculine? Little girls enjoy wrestling and testing their growing strength day by day too. Again I know, because I work with kids.
@@somedudeok1451 I had my primary and secondary education in Turkey where things were different I guess. When we, even playfully, fought each other we were generally punished by our teachers and what she did stood out amongst my other teachers. And I mention masculinity because this video was about masculinity and I was trying to show an example of how I redirected my energy into something good. Ofc girls can do this as well even though none of the girls in my class were interested.
@@somedudeok1451 girls fight a lot rarer than boys especially after a certain age. Yea maybe when they are little they both fight but after idk 10 girls don t fight that much while boys still playfully "fight"
@@16personalitieswberk4 She definitely sounds like a woman who took her profession seriously. Many teachers don't and I imagine in more conservative countries like Turkey, punishment is still one of the main methods of raising children (even though there are better methods available).
Yes, this video is supposedly about masculinity. I watched through all of it and one of the many problems I have with it, is that Hazma seems to fundamentally misunderstand what masculinity is, even though he proclaims to be a messenger on this topic and a hyper masculine man himself. But in truth he is just very fragile with lots of toxic coping mechanisms and little of what he says makes sense. I could go into detail, but...
Man I feel so behind all of you guys, I am 27 and I am just starting to on the self improvement journey, I wish I realized this when I was 18.
it's never too late. you can set yourself up for a successful 30s. i started at 28 and i'm feeling more hopeful for the future than ever.
I'm 18 right now and I'm just gonna give you my upmost respect for recognizing that every man's peak in testosterone and masculinity potential is around mid to late teens. But there are people who are much older than you who also wish that they started somewhere in their twenties. I see 14 year olds here who have already started and I'm like I wish I started back then too. We all have different journeys and we are all being set up for the moment that we decide to make the change in different ways and stages in our lives. Always be grateful for your position.
Imagine that you're 37 years old and you haven't been on self improvement for the past 10 years and wasted a lot of valuable time. Then you took a time machine and went back in time 10 years to 27 years old, you're younger and a lot more energetic, where you can now decide to live the next 10 years the right way, exactly how you want it. Little do you know that time is now. Let that motivate you King 💪
No worries man, 29 here and have going for about 4 months. Not really close to the place i wished to be, but there are progress here and there
Never too late brother, I only started at 28
26 myself. We are what's called "late bloomers". In the end, we will have the amazing stories to tell. Men age like fine wine!
I'm a 36 year old man, powerlifter, wife and two daughters. No debt, except mortgage. And I will tell you my friends, it was SUPER close. I went to college and ,the first 2 years it started seeping into my brain, until my Chad ass grandfather pushed me to be the man I was supposed to be, since my dad was an old hippie burn out too. I've worked hard, put in the time in gym, work and family. That what it takes, devote your life to your craft and your family.
@@GoKeWhO nahahahaahahah
@@GoKeWhO I thought he meant he's a man a powerlifter and a wife😭😭
Reject Weakness, Embrace Strength
its because they have responsibility WITHOUT authority
@Kamil S Hamza is a parody channel. Prove me wrong.
Embrace hard work and discipline.
It’s tough because a lot of men FEEL that they aren’t living how they naturally should be, but they don’t know anything else. Everything in society has become so fluffy and pussified, but it began when we were babies. Realizing that you’ve been living a lie for your entire life is really tough to understand and it flips your whole worldview. Changing this mindset can be slow or it can be fast, but it must change.
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Men know deep down they shouldn't be so passive and feminine, but they're gaslight into thinking they have anxiety or depression and are medicated for it.
@@biggibbs4678 dude whenever I ciriticise women I get immediately called incel and stuff like that, they don’t want to hear the truth, they see us men who are trying to better themselves as dangerous to society, fuck that woke cancel culture.
I like how you put that. “Pussified” is a great term for the modern day society.
@@biggibbs4678 no, people simply are depressed. No ones being gaslit into Depression, men are just depressed because of multiple reasons like them feeling worthless.
I admit it. I am weak. But I'm not completely hopeless. I agree with you on some points and less so on others. I'll keep pushing forward, but I'm not going to give up on things I enjoy just because people say it isn't masculine. Fuck that, I'll just become so masculine that nobody cares. At the end of the day all we can do is keep pushing forward as long as we can and achieve what we want.
Thanks for being a good role model for men. 👊
tatakae
At some point you need to question your lifestyle whether it's time wasting, if you feel physically or phycologically unwell, whether you feel like a loser, etc. Some hobbies stay some don't, don't let some just get you trapped like a toxic romantic partner, because life goes on. I hope you can walk out of all these cellars man keep it going.
@@eugenedupont7154 Truth
But you can't just enjoy video games and use that time to "enjoy" yourself because it'll worsen your future
I'm on a dopamine detox right now that was recommended by Hamza and I just want to say: "Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it" should be tour mantra!
Yesterday I did a list of goals I was planning to do today but when the evening came, I realized I was too tired to do workout that I also planned. I wanted to break my rules and play GTA5 instead to 'relax' but then I remembered that I didn't need to _want_ to workout, I just *had* to workout. So I did the workout and it was so productive that I feel even more energized than before it.
Sometimes your mind tries to cheat and tells you that videogames will make you relaxed. However, your brain will work the same way (or even harder) and by breaking your plans, you'll feel even weaker tomorrow. Don't let your bad habits control your life, make yourself proud instead even if you don't feel like it c:
thank you for this
I ss'ed ur comment bro. Good way to express wisdom right there.
Everytime I see other men start their self improvement channels it makes me proud. We are slowly making a change in the world💪
indeed brother we will all make it
I’ve thought about starting mine, but having a RUclips channel seems like a lot of work. But starting a self improvement channel would ensure that you can’t give up because you have hundreds or thousands of people constantly motivating you
@@averagepinkytoeenjoyer9115 yes a self improvement channel gives you a responsibility since you're helping other young men. I've tried youtube other multiple times and I've failed but now that I do self improvement videos it keeps me motivated to keep going since I know it will help a lot of people.
It's raining men.
Bro look for my comment with the masculinity parade this could change the world
It’s never too late to change your mindset and self-image. I’m 25 right now, heading towards 26 soon. At first, I thought I was too late to change my whole self well-being and give up hope but after I discovered Hamza and the rest of the Self-Improvement RUclipsrs, it changed me how I perceived the world right now. I’ve been struggling with porn and video game addiction all my life which is an ongoing battle right now. Also, doing the good habits that are good for me, for example: Exercise, journaling, following my passion which is music production, getting into martial arts/tricking, eating clean, spending time in nature, etc. At the end of the humble day, we all need to progress through delay gratification in order to grow and enjoy the fruits of our labor.
We all are going to make it!
stop the hopeful bs no one cares. I turned 18 this month watching this guy for years nothing but a clown. you're just another wallet in his eyes
Wtf man 25 is very young, but I'm glad you are becoming better by yourself!
I'm 24 man and I felt the same, but there are many men out there 35+ years old having never discovered self improvement and are completely lost in bad habits. Im still very grateful to be on self improvement even though some may consider 24/25 to be late
Hamza and his bullshit ... You don’t need a woman in your life, and you don’t need to become strong for a woman. 🤦♂️
The game of dating is very unfair Blackpilk is mostly right. You can become strong and high status and still don’t get women interest because of your physical features it’s just true and you can’t deny reality.
But the morality of the story is that wether or not women like you you need to get stronger for yourself.
You are already all making yourself weak by focusing your thoughts on women as if all you do is centered about how to be the man women like ... Why don’t you think about being the man you want ? About being and doing what you really want to do without thinking of women approbation ?
If we follow your philosophy you are all beta males for wasting time listening and reading content to please women lol, you become slave of this shit content and therefore a slave of women.
These red pill channel are for loser people who spend time here come in the hope to have a girlfriend lol but why don’t you just forget women if they don’t care about you ?
Dude I resonate a lot with what you said about feeling like it's too late. The truth is that you can change your life at any given moment but it's up to you.
Bro this one feels like it's straight from the unfiltered channel. LOVE IT. Thank you for going back on that route of pure man to man talk
Thank you, Hamza. I am 15 and recently moved to a public high school to seek a better education in the engineering field. I have begun to realize over the past few months how ungrateful my generation is, and not only the men. In my school, you come from either the rich and successful part of town, or what's known as 'the ghetto.' Yet with this diverse background, nearly 80% of the students are all ungrateful, disrespectful, and blatant jerks, no matter how much or how little they come from. I come from more of a successful background and up until recently I hadn't been the most grateful for what I have. I am blessed with two loving parents who both didn't grow up with much; my mom grew up in Iran during the 70's and 80's, and my dad was a local tobacco farmer up until his 20's. They both have worked their asses off to get into college and graduate to make six figures and provide for a family of their own. I have realized how my own two siblings have become lazy bums and won't work for shit. They have become bottom feeders off of me and my parents. Hamza you inspired me. You inspired me to burn off the fat, to build muscle and testosterone, to be a better man; And I thank you for that. I strive to still become a better person and to encourage more young men to focus on themselves, and work to be a better man. Thank you Hamza, and God bless.
For a 15 yo you're very well spoken. I'm 18 now and wish I started when I was 15. You're on a good path, making the right choices and adopting the right mindsets. Good shit.
its because they have responsibility WITHOUT authority
Woah I'm so proud of you, you're so young and have this awareness already!
I'm very grateful to read this, it gives me a lot of hope for the world. I'm wishing you tons of blessings 🌻☀️
I have started a week ago and I’m grateful I found your channel. Slowly I have winded down my addictions. I honestly wish this was pushed by the algorithm hard by itself because the world is getting weaker and it doesn’t help how subconscious people are awake. My father stopped trying to do his life passion so he could provide for my large family and I’m grateful for that. He has many flaws but I don’t think we in the western world realize how lucky we are. When my parents went to Mexico in 2011 they went to a poor area in Mexico and were shocked and fed them.
Don’t make excuses and Don’t forget how grateful you are
E.A.H
You did save my life mate. I'm only 18 and got out of possibly the worst relationship of my life YET. You put me on this path 4 months ago and I will forever be grateful.
Keep going strong! We believe in you!
@@AMONEYOFFICIAL91 thank you bro, I know we're all gonna make it
A toxic relationship is the last thing you need at such a young age, my last relationship was 5 years ago, decided I’m better off, best decision I’ve made especially considering how screwed the dating game is for men now, self improvement is the best way to go in life.
fr man i knew hamza from 9 months and those months really changed my life forever i hope we will still motivated
@@jjboss7896 man don't even remind me, that was the toughest part to move on from
I am addicted to social media. I started grinding 9 months ago and without videos like yours, I wouldn`t have been able to get where I´m now. I`m at the best shape I`ve ever been. Mentally and physically. Discipline is the key. But on day`s where I don`t feel like it, when I`m tired or just sick of the grind, I watch some higly motivating videos and they get me going. Also looking at other men in a better shape doesn`t make me depressed, I just want to go harder at the gym so I look like them someday.
This is pretty normal. In the ancient books they advised to refer to great people from the past for the same effect
Out of video games, porn and social media. Which would you say is the worst to be addicted to?
@@OffbrandMC Definitely porn. It massively lowers your self-confidence and your energy. If you are on NoFap you`ll realize that. I think you don`t have to be completely strict on it, it is not that bad if you fail every 2 - 3 weeks but you should at least try. Also I noticed that I get more attention from women during NoFap. I don`t know why but it`s definitely noticeable.
On the other hand, video games are a huge waste of time, so only consume it in moderation.
Social media can be used for self improvement tho. So do not scroll thru tiktok for 5h/day, instead watch videos like this and learn something.
And you're right, men do cry, even the toughest of them, my father broke down and cried when he remembered his past one time, he is the toughest and most educated man I've ever known, and he cries, but not while everyone's watching.
It took me a while to start making progress towards becoming more masculine.. but the moment I realised that discipline could be seen as synonymous to masculinity, it changed it all for me.
Discipline is the most important precursor to doing any of the actions that make you more masculine. Without discipline, you'll only do the right things when you feel like doing them.. You'll go to the gym like once a week. You'll work towards your goals for like a day, and then for the next 3 days, you wont.
There's a chance you don't even know what you want to do, you dont even have a goal to strive towards. Even that is because of discipline (or lack of it, to be precise.) Your brain knows that it doesnt matter whether you figure out what you want to do with your life, or not. Either way, you're just going to lie on your bed scrolling through RUclips comments.
But once you're disciplined, you're like that bull just looking around for the red target. As soon as it finds it, it charges towards it. So your brain in strongly incentivised to help you find a goal.
Start valuing Discipline in yourself. Strive, not to never feel like fapping, but to resist that urge every time it comes. Strive, not to wake up every day with motivation, but to have days when you don't feel like doing anything, but you make yourself do them anyway.
There's a reason Hamza's tagline is what it is, because it truly is the most important skill you will develop on this self improvement journey. So "Do The Hard Work, Especially When You Don't Feel Like It."
as sharp as a TALWAR.
@@sonatestd2085 Ahahha appreciate you my man
@@SahajTalwar yes bro discipline is very necessary today when I go for running and workout my mom tell me not to go but I don't know and said them I need to go let me go and I don't need alarm sharp at 4:30 my body wakes me up by small pain in stomach.
So where is yo girlfriend now ?
Stop your bullshit , so many men are weak and still have a girlfriend. You don’t need to be a super strong masculine man to have a GF all you need is to be a decent human and be good looking enough.
Hamza is a liar , even if it’s good to motivate men but stop lying about what women prefer.
These kind of people are a direct enemy of knowledge because they bend reality to get more views.
This is a joke , you can always take actions but blackpill explain that for a category of people even if actions are being taken the results won’t happen because of their physical appearance ...
No women want to be with a man below 5.8 ft or it’s extremely difficult it’s a fact. If your goal is to make money by making men delusional go for it.
The sin is not taking a man’s hope but lying to men about reality for your own Interest.
Discipline is so important. Especially with stuff like video games, which is just supposed to be a relaxing leisure, but a lot of people confuse them for reality, and take them too seriously. Even myself at one point would take games like Fifa seriously and play for 3 hours at a time. To me, something like video games is bad once you start taking it as something of value, rather than just a relaxing leisure.
as bad as it is that we're castrated, I'm glad there's this movement of men that are waking up from it. When we have kids, our kids will lead their generation to greatness
its because they have responsibility WITHOUT authority
Hamza I quit fapping, began working out and have cancelled out most negativities in my life and am down the path to Adonis.
Hamza, I’m 22. Found you at 20, and made some changes, learnt some truths since then.
So, just wanted to say:
I fucking love you, man
impractical jokers :)
I am 14 years old. 2 nights ago I took lsd, and ended up with one of the most traumatic events that has ever happened to me. Every worry, every aspect of my depression came up from within myself and seemed to be eating me alive in that bad trip. I remember screaming, absolute pure agony, being pulled apart my giant spiders, and seeing my best friend who had helped me through everything being eaten alive. I spent the entire day yesterday screaming and crying with anxiety. The guilt I felt was excruciating. How could I have done such a thing? How could I have lied to my parents about my drug problem and left them thinking their son was okay? I couldn’t bear not to tell them what happened. Today is day one of self improvement. Im taking back my life no matter how hard its going to be, or how long its going to take. Im going to leave my shitty drug friends behind and spend time with my friends who care about me. It’ll take time, and effort, no doubt about that, but I know I can get there. I will achieve it, no matter what. I have faith in myself,
Good luck bro, hope you wont quit
We're all with you mate never give up!
Hey mike, don't you fucking dare go near that nasty shit again.
Bro u 14 why you doing drugs already lol
who tfs youtube name is just "mike" ur not even a real person
It's okay to be weak.
It's not okay to stay weak.
There is a difference, because the train of progress isn't a direct line without stops, diversions, and obstructions.
Real shit, if you wanna get tough then you have to go through a lot of hardship. It's quite literally the only way. I got sober from a crippling opioid addiction when I was 16 and now everything seems easy as fuck compared to that. No fap no problem, dopamine detox without even breaking a sweat, putting in the work for yourself will put everything in perspective. It'll make you realize that the most difficult of tasks can be accomplished with the right mindset. I don't regret shit because now I know almost nothing will ever be more difficult in life than making it through day 3 of un-medicated hydromorphone withdrawals. Everyone has a vice in their life to some degree that will provide a similar effect. I can't believe I have to say this, but don't do what I did because I only was able to quit because I was lucky enough to be given the opportunity. I highly doubt I would be getting that lucky again.
The part where you spoke about virtual counterpart was eye-opening "Giving you a virtual version of what you want" 18:11 In my virtual world that I play in I'm getting prestige, status, and a place in the highest level in a hierarchical system knowing this now, I will work for this but in the real world and make progress. I am glad I subbed
I realized that I am addicted to the 3 things mentioned in the video, I took the "Depression and anxiety self-assessment quiz" and I got 15 for depression and 12 for anxiety. I didn't realize how bad I am until I saw this video and decided to take the quiz, I am going to eliminate the 3 addictions and take the quiz again in 3 weeks. I will update this comment.
Update: Depression 10 and anxiety 3. I am definitely much happier than I was before but I was not able to completely eliminate all 3 addictions. The first thing I did was uninstall instagram but I noticed I started spending a lot more time on youtube and I couldn't quit porn although I try not to make it an everyday thing, the big change I made was signing up for jiu jitsu 5 days a week, this made me not have time to play video games and it definitely helped me a lot with anxiety fighting everyday for 1 hour lol, when I go home after fighting all I want to do is eat and go to sleep early, I have no energy left to do the bad habits.
good luck brother tell me if you need anything
I would wish you the best of luck but I doubt you'll need it. You can do this
bro i got 17 for depression and 17 for anxiety how tf am i still standing....💀💀
@@sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228 because you are strong brother
@@rogue8363 I guess I have never acknowledged my own perseverance, I am very good at that atleast, we all come with different forms of strength, you too. 🙂👍
There is a difference between being a victim to uncomfortable emotion and transcending them by pushing through them and facing them. I see so many people now a days being a victim to discomfort. Push through give yourself permission to feel, but don’t make an identity out of it. Identifying with emotions is one of the biggest traps right now.
Just a note. Having high testosterone doesn't mean necessarily being more masculine. It also depends on the amount of androgen receptors you have in your body, if those are low then there's no saying that higher test will make one more masculine. Cool vid bro. Love your stuff.
Eat 2kg of broccoli a day. Trust me bro it’s a hack. Something in broccoli reduces estrogen, and lowering estrogen indirectly increases testostone, so a long with animal fat and all the other good habits it’s a good addition
Nah g the higher the testosterone the better it helps in ways you just know, it's just feels healthy and easier to the masculine habits
@@bwmanhath3770 it's not that simple, but we get what you mean
@@bwmanhath3770 understandable
Ok Jeffrey
Hamza. I used to live the same life as you. You're quite literally a brother from another mother. I ran home to play video games growing up. Runescape, league, etc. I'm trying to get into strength sports and own a business at some point. I am currently a personal trainer.
My name is Hamza., searching up my own name 3 months ago saved me.... Thank you, Hamza
haha legend
what you're doing for society.....this movement......thank you! God Bless!
Honestly these videos have been helping me so much. Today I haven’t played any video games or have watched any adult content and I’ve completed stuff that would’ve taken my lazy self weeks to do.
Thank you.
You're so right about motivation, our generation has become obsessed with the feeling of "motivation" that's all it is, a feeling. As men, we must learn to act despite how we feel. Learn and master the skill of discipline!
Don't just watch another motivational video for the rush of dopamine and the feeling of motivation it will give you, that will all fade away. Make a promise to yourself men, stay consistent, stay disciplined and follow through with your promise.
Take action, while continuing to learn from your mistakes and consume informative books,videos etc.
I won't lie, it's true. You set me on a path of change, yeah I didn't watch you for a while as I started doing some of the many things you promote and actually got my things together, but that's just proof of it. Being back here watching with a new perspective, being able to look down on my old self while also being proud of the journey. Anyway, I'll skip the boring things and just leave it with a fine and simple: cheers mate, really appreciate the help.
bro this the first video i ever seen of you in my life, first 15 mins i was subbed. i been workin on myself heavily for the past 3 years since i was 15 in high school, i used to be the majority of the young men that were weak and having no discipline besides hoopin really, i was a hooper, on the playstation everyday , releasing my seed everyday all the bullshit man. your motivation and knowledge is hard bro and you inspired me today and gave me a heavy reminder to stay hard and stay strong. i aint been in the gym recently man i broke my right hand protecting my family a week and a half ago it sucks but we recovering 🤞🏽👑
I was feeling miserable today, but thanks to you and this video I got up of the chair and decided to work out, so thank you a lot!
Hey Hamza, I'm about the same age as you and I've been watching your videos for about a year now. When I was a kid growing up, my five brothers and I would just play video games and consume art for hours while trying to be the good kids our mom wanted us to be and not be like our "big bad father". As I got older, I realized how much of that narrative was one sided and false. The way I grew up was making me weaker. I had a lot of angst and couldn't figure out where it was coming from. A year and a half ago, I moved out of the united states to Germany during covid lockdown. It was my first time moving out of my home state let alone country. That was a hard time for. My spirit and mind were really tested. I felt like I was in the hyperbolic time chamber. I learned a lot about myself and realized how flawed and weak I was even though I thought I was strong. I had to learn harder discipline and detox dopamine just to keep my mental health from collapsing. Your videos were great to watch during that time. I agree, alot of men in our generation are very weak. It is very concerning. Sometimes I look at some of my brothers (older and younger) and I'm very concerned for them. I'm not sure how to tell them they are walking on the path of weakness. It's a feminine world right now and these are indeed privileged times. I aim to continuing getting stronger to be motivation for them. People around me notice the growth after walking this path. I thank you brother.
Hamza, i've been unfocused and off track lately. I was once so strong....with so much momentum in ALL areas of my life. I've been feeling weak, giving my attention to shit that's completely useless. Thank for you being real. I'm gonna reclaim everything and more. Let's go.
10/10 I am great full for your videos I am grateful for the pride you gave me on my self I am thankful for all of it
As a gamer and trying to get out cycle of the addiction I really find this video helpful
Discipline is everything. You’re right on the button. I’m 21 and I can assure you 90% of my old associates and peers are not discipline at all. Living young wild and free. I’m not opposed to that , but imagine if you mixed discipline with that. It would make a massive difference.
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This is true. The biggest hindrance for men being productive and regaining their testosterone for a better masculine frame and character, is social media, porn and video games.
Even myself, I struggle with social media addiction and video game addiction. If I'm not on social media. I'm on a video game or working. This makes me less productive then I'd like to be and I hate it. I really need to change and start doing something differently. I've even been exercising less and I hate it. It's time I start doing some self evaluation and work on my masculinity.
I used to be really talented at drawing/sketching. So much so, that I could design skyscapers and stuff like that. Now everytime I draw, my fingers get wonky cause of the constant button mashing on the controller. It's time for me to experience my form of discomfort so there can be progress.
This was very good to hear. You are right about this generation of men are weak. They lack discipline and when they don't wanna do something e.g. going to the gym just because they don't fee like going, they won't go. This has encouraged me even more to get on my masculine side.
Listened to this on loop during my workout. Better than hardstyle
Thank you Hamza
You really gave me my Red pill
2 mouths ago I was a weed/porn/social media addict, and I hated It
I wanted to change
I started by deleting all social media and start watching self improvement videos
I started reading books,playing guitar learning spanish........
And I feel very proud
W brother
W bro but don't rush on anything you are learning slow down your progress and note it down.When I start learning I rush a lot but then what happens is I leave that shit. Learning slowly and writing and tracking your progress is the best way..
Last week I discovered your channel, and it has been a massive wake up call. I play a ton of videogames, I don't work out, my lifestyle is really unhealthy and I'm hella ugly.
My situation isn't gonna get any better if I don't do something about it. Thank you Hamza, my self improvement journey starts now.
Same here
I absolutely agree Hamza, being weak is not progress, we will otherwise stay the same, stagnant, I now know I have to do the things that scare me. Thank you so much, the world is brainwashed right now, I really hope our generation and next generations do better.
Been on self improvement for several months now. Getting stronger and more confident every week, thanks brother. No more weakness
Hamza my G I just want to say thank you so much for what you have done for me. You may not know what you did and how much of an impact you made on my life but you really are changing young men's lives. Thank you.
I love that everyone here is improving and striving for more. I believe many young men including my self are lacking self respect. The reason why you don't go to the gym, dont study, dont eat healthy is because you don't care about your self. If you truly have self respect you will have extreme ownership and will realize that your goals are not just goals. They are a matter of survival. Here is a interesting thought, you don't need discipline if you're in survival mode.
This is why I think that:
This weakened I decided to get out of my comfort zone by going on my first solo hike. After I reached the amazing view, I went back and somehow missed the trail where I parked my car. I didn't notice that I missed my trail until an hour in and was on the other side of the mountain. I had no map and didn't save the location of my car. There was no cell signal and my phone was almost dead. In a forest everything looks the same. I turned around and started to retrace my steps. Thankfully, there were other hikers passing by and I asked for direction. They showed me the map and I saw how far I was from my car, it was at least another 2 hours. I was heading back until I came to a T, where the path splits. I had no idea which one was the right path towards the parking lot. At that point I knew I was lost. I was in the middle of the forest having no clue where to go. I didn't care how dumb I looked, I stood at the T until a group of hikers passed by and I asked where the parking lot was. To my relief those hikers were just starting their hike and were coming from the parking lot....
The point is, I would have never experienced this if I didn't go out of my comfort zone. There were so many important lessons to unpack from this. Here are two important lessons that I will remember for life.
1) Treat your goals as Survival, you are on a journey of life. If you are lost you will do anything to find the right path, else you will die. When your mind is in survival mode, you dont care what others think about you. You are fully focused on finding the correct path (your goal) no mater what.
2) Men PREPARE. If you are underprepared you will get wrecked by life. You will be unconfident in what you do because you dont prepare. Preparing is studying, practicing, training, ect..
Learning these lessons in real life is that much more valuable. I didnt expect to write a whole story, but here it is.
Go out there and become a Warrior! LETS GO!
I miss these videos!
I've been on self improvement for about 7 months and have been watching you for that time too. I recently pretty badly broke my left humerus, and have since been physically restricted, I can't go to the gym and doing anything with my arms hurts. It could be easy to devolve into fast food and alcohol due to boredom. But so far I've had the discipline to stay healthy while I recover, and hopefully that discipline stays. But to be honest I don't think I'd have that mindset if I never found this movement, so thanks.
I passed the shit test with the teacher telling me to sit down and be quiet and laughing in her face, then my parents loaded me up on medication when I was a little kid. Imagine pumping your kid full of drugs to make them easier to deal with. Gotta love the modern era.
WHAT THE FUCK?! Your parents are evil.
Hamza, I just want to say your a perfect self improvement youtuber, your not to extreme, your not to easy, you just tell the truth, no matter how hard it is for some to admit. Thanks for the motivation, and I know you probably won’t be seeing this anyways
Amazing video!!! One of Hamza Best!! Men rise up and better your life! Let's do this!!
Wisdom, Perception, and Discipline!
13 year old here, 1 year been on this journey and couldn't be more thankful for helping me, life has never been better, i feel more masculine and im more confident, thank you. poz sa balkana
12 year old here, I hope I do the same as you mate
Us guys are lucky to have started early, I'm 15 and we are all on the right path
@@thespencerr7645 you are lucky as well because im 22 here and i havent even started because of social anxiety
@@user-rj1sh7og5m damn man I’m sorry, hopefully self improvement will solve this man. All the best
@@thespencerr7645 thanks bro i wanted to start with doing some sports but unfortunately there's no gyms near my home but the search keeps going
dont ever say fuck being humble. Humility is a virtue every strong man should have
Fax
You are right and I am weak, but we can still grow to become better.
Another powerful video, thank you
Change your depression into anger, anger is not inherently bad, there's a reason that you best progress in the gym or at work was just before you punched your coworker in the face. Anger is that drive and most men cannot handle the amount they're body gives them, so they're labeled with anger issues. Then they're conditioned to remove that anger completely and what's left is a weak male with no individual drive that'll do whatever he's told just because somebody said so. Your anger is not an issue, it is not the problem, your lack of discipline and self control are. Improve your mental health by making your mind stronger, not by crippling the other parts of it.
this is also the same for women tho, I feel like I've been encouraged a lot to display more masculine traits (be dominant, loud, opinionated, strong) and many women think of femininity as inferior. But in reality masculinity and femininity are equally important because they work well together and balance each other
Indeed. But what happens when there are no strong, disciplined men around? Women go and assume those traits themselves, in order to achieve some kind of balance.
Well said
You know that ever since I started watching your videos i've found the drive to start exercising, to try and make an actual effort to cut off my negative habbits, my addicitons. I knew I need to do this all along, but it's nice to actually be called out on it, rather than coddled like almost everyone has. I wish there were more people like you in my life, and that those like you already in my lfie I had met earlier.
Hamza, thank you for making this video because I've been thinking of this from past few days and I haven't been able to rest properly thinking about our generation
I was massively addicted to all three of the big addictions, but thanks to hamza I am getting better. Thanks Hamza.
Everyone put a sign above your computer screen that says "Being a man is all about experienceing discomfort for the sake of progress"
its eye opening honestly, nice vid man
This is my favorite video of yours. Encompasses the whole movement!
I respect you Hamza. I look up to you. I feel your words, because I know what you are talking about, its reality. Its the truth. I am extremely grateful to you, you have changed my life in the last few months. You have motivated me. You truly have changed the lives of thousands of young males, who needed help and guidance. You are a bigger brother to many, who never had one.
The word misogynistic doesn’t hold any weight anymore, it’s just a lazy insult. Way to go feminist
Appreciate you talking without holding back, you think something, you say it, no filters. Keep it up 👍👍👍
Strong video man, thanks, needed this to get back on the saddle after a period of weakness
hamza, i'm 14 yo, this spring I started to watch your videos now I uso social media 15 minutes a day. I remember that I was using social media 4 hours a day ,video games about 4 hours and masturbate a lot and I was obese, now I lost 25kg and I go to the gym enjoying real life and make real friends. I have to thank you because your videos helped me, and I workout every day to become a adonisss.
Bro is gegachad damn good job
12 yo here good luck on your journey fellow gigachad
As a Black Belt in 3 martial arts and Strongman silver medalist in my country. I urge boys to be men. Society will mock you today but will beg for your protection tomorrow.
Excellent video
love from india... love u hamza... always trying to follow u... still far behind...
"Bulls are male cows."
Hamza Ahmed.
I spent my half an hour working out whiles listening to this. Got me pumped
Watching this while working out feels great!!
Bro if it wasn’t for you I wouldn’t have improved my physical attractiveness
It’s interesting too, because videos like this also make us feel like we are achieving something. If we are hearing a lot of this information for the first time, than sure, you have achieved something, you’ve learned new, helpful information, or motivation. But if you’ve been watching his channel for a while now, you’ll notice a lot of this information has already been stated in previous vids, he just articulates it in a different way. I’m realizing now that only a few of his vids that he posts now actually present value to me, which is what he foresaw, he told us to unsub when we believe we have made enough progress in our journeys. Now, I’m only a few months in, so I still have much to learn, but it’s something I’m starting to notice.
Same I wish he stops positing vids every day. I hope he focuses more on quality than quantity
For me this is the pinnacle of this channel. It’s so sincere and so spontaneus that it awakened me for a few days then I got back on a rut. I’m watching it again to find that motivation and those strong values
I am grateful that i found your RUclips channel, you are helping me a lot to develop as a person. Thank you Hamza!
"If you are a weak, submissive, feminine man, you will only attract dominating, masculine women..." This seems so simple, but I only discovered this recently. Always a skinny guy, I attracted obese, butch women all the time. Started putting on muscle and have attracted more feminine women.
same
They are scared to be with real women too
real women are hard to find. They all look ugly af and dye their hair in unnatural colors (especially blue)
I think this is your best video, I have rewatched it 3 times already and shared it to some friends. Unfortunately few are receptive to this, a lot ghosted me. I’m not gonna waste any energy on trying to help those guys anymore
thank you brother
the student-teacher analogy you made at the beginning really made me realise how feminine most of us have become, i've gotten on self improvement since september and i've had a few encounters with female teachers where i knew i was right and i was ordered but i kept my point since i knew they were wrong and everyone was so surprised like "oh look he isn't just submitting because she said so".
For me it's youtube, I use it way too much, in the past I always used it for curious questions which is fine, but now im doing it just for the sake of wasting time, because I don't have enough discipline to use every second of my day towards my goals, to be truthful it's hard as fuck, but I can still do it, I need to force myself
I’m now starting to cycle 20 miles + at least twice a week which I probably wouldn’t have done if I didn’t find you channel hamza.
It’s done wonders for my mental health. Thank you.
I was feeling pretty depressed. But this video has motivated me to do some shit I need to. Thanks.
We are all gonna make it Brah! Just work on yourselves my boys. Women will always be there.
" The way of the superior man "
- David Deida
I am again suggesting everyone this book even when Hamza made videos on it because this book is really life changing in terms of :-
Part - 1 : The man's way ( 15 rules for men )
Part - 2 : Dealing with women ( This part teaches you some characteristics of feminine women and it help you understand them and deal with them)
Part - 3 : Working with polarity energy ( this part will help you to understand the masculine and feminine energy which are the exact opposite similar to the north and South Pole, Yin and Yang )
Part - 4 : What women really wants ( the previous part and this part combined will give you the complete idea about women and what they want)
Part - 5 / 6 / 7 / 8 : Here Part 5 will help you to know your Dark Side, part 6 will show you the feminine attractiveness, what 7 actually shows off some body practices like ejaculation up to the spine and finally part 8 actually gives some ideas about Mens and womens yoga of intimacy.
I think that this content list will encourage you to actually buy that book and read it, this is very important for this generation of men to read this book at least once in their lifebecause now all over "Weak Men "
These advice won’t get you laid 🤣
lol this is so funny to see how all these clowns lead men to intellectual masturbation with their self claimed sophisticated stories.
They send men into deep subject of psychology, pseudo science non sense as if they were going to resolve men sexual misery,
They just making money on men sexual misery . The same way some countries are making money with war by selling their weapons.
@@Lo-to7zh why is getting laid your main goal?
Main issue is that I don't have a Partner... It's a good read.
@@alastairpearce8278 As far as my read this book has lots of practical advice for married men and men on relationships .
Whereas none of these scenarios apply to me but it's a great read anyway as I got benefitted in learning to work with women
This video has put all my thoughts and feelings into words. It articulated my feelings which will help turn them into actions. I greatly appreciate this video Hamza💪🏻
Missed these kinds of videos. Really needed this. Now it's time to rule the world. Thanks
i'm sad for my younger self as a woman for dating losers and being fine with it because i didn't know any better. (I never dated older guys) When I hear these deep throughts I come to the realization that I have given the chance for young and unexperienced guys to "train" on me in a way. Young women have no clue about how addicted to either of those three things young guys are...PS) this video is full of insanely good insights. This channel is a goldmine I swear!
Hi Hamza, I wanted to tell you that there are also a lot of weak even younger men out there (Teens) that also have these problems with addictions and not mainly 20 year olds. Thank you for making these videos and please keep making videos for this newer generation that I know will have the same problem. But I think it will be even worse for them, because they have been exposed and brainwashed more than the 20-30 year olds to the modern world. I hope you see this comment
Thanks man
Danke!
"My generation of women are damaged " can we talk on this is this like a good stance as 95% of women are damaged nowadays
Yeah man I get that we’re supposed to be demonising males becoming feminine and whatnot but it’s almost as if women are being made out to be perfect this whole time when that’s far from the truth haha.
@@RawMilkEnthusiast more or less the truth
i get it hamzas channel is centred around male self improvement but i think he should dive a lil into female space too
@@Strbashorts Yeah man like we always discuss men being lazy, fat and unmanly with lower testosterone levels than ever. And I understand it, it’s fair enough, but it makes you almost feel like you’ll never be able to be worthy enough for a girl because they are this idea of perfection that’s unattainable. What’s happening to their hormone levels, are they low in oestrogen, do they act “feminine” anymore yano.
Not to belittle them per se - just to give both sides of the picture so us guys can realise that they ain’t all that perfect either.
@@RawMilkEnthusiast Hopefully hamza latter down the line starts preaching to the other gender too