DAMN. One of your best videos to date. All this “red pill” bullshit does nothing but weaken men. Only focusing on women. Gain STRENGTH and they shall follow.
no, being fat is not okay. no fat human are healthy and happy, there's plenty of disease in body and mind of fat human. I've been fat for years, last year my weight was around 111-115kg, and that was my heaviest records. there's pain all around my body, and the only thing in my mind was suicidal thoughts. now i only eat clean and healthy, fasting everyday, walk a lot, lifting weights, after almost three months doing that now i'm 90kg, still long way to the target but i'll get there. cut sugar, cut porn, cut toxic people now i'm getting so much better, even tho the depression thought still there because pressure from society especially from peers but i can fight it, we're all going on top, just keep fighting and reach your limits
@@MJ25709 well in that case, I'm wondering why the fat people who always say that "bEiNg FaT iS oK" never complain about health problems. Like why fight for being unhealthy when you yourself have health problems from it, you could work out, lose the health problems, and be on the right side. I didn't know fat supporters were THAT dumb.
@@Thor_the_Doge they're dumb. they lie to themselves and other people, i know because i was one of them. why they fight to keep being unhealthy? because they're comfortable with it and don't want change it, because it's hard to go back to ideal weight, it's hard to being healthy, they love sweets, lot of fats, junk food, eat a lot, and doing nothing. idk if you're fat or not, you can defend them all you want, being fat is not normal and not healthy.
The famous quote from fight club "we are the middle children of history" is basically means living between hard and easy times. Being caged by the laws of our comfortable civilized everyday life and being scared of a less comfortable, more dangerous future.
One of the best scene in the movie, that captain sinbad from youtube also talk about, is the scene tyler durden put are Gun on the asian guy, go after you dream now, hurry up, get out of you comfortzone, soon is to late, than you to old to catch you dreams , most men never live the life thier dream about. Imagine all the virgin guy that live in front of thier computer, later look back on that shitty life
Even as an autist, i largely surpassed that step of being a weak person. And thanks to a certain amount of people in high school and college, i regained confidence. This year could be my most important one. So wish me best of luck.
I have autism. I'm sick and tired of letting autism define me, I've let it make me a victim of my circumstance for my whole life and for that reason people don't respect me and I don't respect even myself and I'm TIRED of it. I'm am going to change. Just because I'm nero-divergent doesn't mean I can't learn to develop social skills, it just means I have to put more effort into learning it. I've used autism as a excuse deep down to not try or put effort into things because I've always thought that being autistic means im not capable of anything when in reality I haven't even tried yet so I have no idea of my potential. Infact a part of me is saying to myself that I don't deserve to be my best self and live my best life because I've convinced myself that I'm autistic and that I have no potential, so when anything good happens I'm downplaying it, it's a bad mindset I had and the years of no effort, no self belief and low self-esteem have properly reinforced that belief into my choices and actions. The only way I can stop this and be better is with accountability. Truly in a way the autism doesn't even matter because at the end of the day we are in control of ourselves. For me I struggle to accept that but it's true, all choices are my own, its not autism, it's not a lack of social skills, it's truly my own choices. I always throught that I can't be independent because of autism but that's a lie, that's a lack of accountability of the choices I've made. it's the cold hard truth. Yesterday I went out to a restaurant with my family and I saw all the clubs and nightlife and I truly crave to actually socialise, I might say I don't like going out but I think I actually want too. It's the same with girls. I might say 'I'm focusing on myself' but I truly want intimacy with a woman. I have to be real with myself. I know it's going to be hard work but I have to accept that's it's going to be hard, life is hard so it's either I get left behind or I actually try. I chose to try. Sorry if I ended up making that about myself, just trying to share my experiences.
Hey man, I just read your story and I’m so proud of you, if nobody else said that, allow me to be the first, continue striving for victory and learn from your failures. You are already trying to do what most others wouldn’t and with autism as well, it takes a warrior during these modern days to become strong despite the weakness being portrayed around us. I want you to keep going and never give up, remember that when things look tough, imagine the progress and stuff you achieved and keep going. You don’t truly fail until you give up, your story is wonderful and inspiring even to a normal boy like me on my path to self improvement, progress is possible and the fact that you’ve caught yourself on your own excuses is something many would never. Keep going because you my friend are a warrior, I respect your efforts, I respect your situation and I respect you! Keep learning and live your life, doing the hard work will grant you the rewards of life, don’t give in to the pressure and you got to enjoy the hunt, enjoy the struggles, when you can enjoy the tough stuff, everything else will be easy, work on your mental health, body and social skills, do the hard work ESPECIALLY when you don’t feel like it 😁
@@riri2719 Thank you man, that brought a proper smile to my face. I really appreciate the comment! You are the only other person apart from my mum who has actually has praised me like this before. People like you keep me going, the only people who believe in me, it reminds me to not give up not matter what. Making me tear up n shit bro 😅😂 Thank you man! Edit: haha btw I just clocked on you said the lil thing at the end I saw it 😂
Why I love hamza is because he's so fucking unfiltered and true to himself. He's not trying to be relatable or any of that bullshit. I'm glad there are still people who call it as they see it.
I still have bad habits. I am weak, but I'm getting stronger over time. I'm much stronger than I was before. I still smoke weed, but I honestly don't play video games most days anymore. I used to be one of those 16 hour session World of Warcraft gamers. Came a long way, got a long way to go still. We're all gonna make it, brah. Watching Hamza vids even has me closing RUclips (my biggest time waster for sure) and reading a book these days. Right after I post this comment I'm gonna go for a run.
Great! I’m having issues with my RUclips time but I thankfully I found Hamza right after I broke my no fap spell. So now I just wanna continue reducing these consumer habits again. I miss Minecraft. NGL. But I came a long way in one year
@@edwardPCH48 you really don't have to, its just a matter of having that self-discipline but actually sticking to the boundaries you set yourself, knowing that you're only doing yourself an injustice if you continue any bad habit. Easier said that done that's for sure but we'll get there hopefully.
I remember when I used to hear "no pain no gain" and I was just like: but isn't pain bad? I dont like pain! now I know what it means and now I like it, now i know why we absolutely need pain.
Took your attractiveness steps and grew out my beard and cleaned it up and grew my curls out. I’ve noticed so much more attention and it’s made me a lot more confident in the way I look. With a few years of hard work and improvement it’s possible to get to that top 20%
Young dude here that has put in 10 pounds of muscle in the past 9 months. Alcohol free, weed free, nicotine free. Still play video games now and then and pmo in the background but haven’t Pom’s for over a month now which is my longest streak in a while. Also just got my 1st girlfriend. Self improvement is absolutely possible boys 💪🏼🔥
@@simebruglerovic3971 It's never too late to start self-improvement. Even when you will be at your deathbed, you will start going through your life, good or bad, but when it will come to the time you started self-improvement, when you realize that you did all you could to make yourself better, you'll say to yourself "it was worth it".
Doing this for myself and to keep myself honest. I am pretty weak and useless, but I'm getting better. I started back at the gym after a long time and I've been consistent for 3 months now. I'm still playing video games and watching RUclips but it's much lower than it used to be (all-day before vs. ~3 hours). I've started writing stories and books again, I'm planning on either starting some woodwork or making a twitch account to at least make one of my weaknesses useful for something. I've been eating right for a good while now and my meditation and deep Journaling are getting better. Thank you for this Hamza for reminding me that while I've come far, the road ahead is long and hard.
I'm weak as f*cking sh*t but I just started weightlifting, I'm trying to get strong so I can provide for my family. I owe a lot of money for my brothers, I'll give them the money back.
WE NEED THIS MAN IN A CLASSROOM TEACHING KIDS!!! He is spot on about everything. I agree that another country will take over because of the message that it’s okay to be weak. When a war comes a round we are screwed and that scares me we need to stay strong and man up. Don’t be weak, don’t let your emotions control you, go to the gym, get out of bad sleep video games bad eating all that stuff. Be better not weak and IMPROVE YOUR SELF! Or we are screwed.
I Got Mocked by basic girls back then when I was in high school So I decided to get into shape and did a glow up, now they are in complete shock that how could I do that. Now they are lurking Looking for a way to attach themselves to me Back then they didn't want to give me a chance but now what?? Incredible Development Is Very Important In Our Life God Put These Types Of People In Our Life For Us To Grow And Prosper The Person Who Causes Pain In Our Life Led Us To The Journey Of Sucess We Should Be Thankful To Them 😁 999
Everybody has weaknesses and insecuritys... the question is what are you doing against it?? Things you can't change -> f*ck it, accept it or embrace it! Things you can change -> GET THE F*CK up and start doing the things that need to be done!! You went to the gym? Great. Done. Next one. Worked on your business? Great. Done. Next one. Talked and helped a friend for a hour? Great. Done. Next one. -> It never stops!!
Amazing video Hamza! I am 16 years old and am blessed to have been raised in a good environment where I did not spend too much screen time and play games. I watch your videos so I could learn how to make myself stronger and more patient. I get into arguments with my parents and sometimes I am ungrateful towards them. But improving my mindset and making myself stronger will help me achieve greatness and make me appreciate my beloved parents.
Well yeah. Most of my life I lived as a weak man. It’s true. The only way to progress from here is to admit that I am here and make a concisions decision to love who I am, forgive, accept the miss-takes and go again. I am who I am and this little boy says ROAR .. he’s still kickin
This era is basically an extinction of strong men, I really don't have a hope that few thousands of people that changed their life for good will change the life of others. I just really hope that strong men will be still present decades/centuries later
Once the older generations have retired, hard times are gonna come pretty quickly and it will actually be the weak guys who can't provide any value who will be extincted. Not being useful means no money which means they won't make children anyway. Sadly, I'm one of those weak men too atm.
I've started watching your videos a few months ago, I've started doing progress on myself, started eating better, exercising more, and I'm faping less and less and I've never been so happy in my life thank you Hamza
I really respect you for coming out here and admitting your weak because I am too. There’s nothing wrong with being weak due to our modern society, but there’s something wrong with doing nothing about it. We need to take our cultures back.
The vibe for this video seemed a lot more angry than your other ones but the message is still strong. Let’s all become the best version of ourselves bros 😎
Idk why but i can relate to you in so many ways. Your backstory is quite similar to mine. I guess there are many out there who have similar backstories .
There are so many people alive, its actually very likely that a lot of people have gone through the same type of shit. We’re all gonna smash this journey together !
Fr bro, when he talks it's like he's describing me. Gives me hope that if he was able to stop being such a loser then even I might be able to since he was so similar to me
I Got Mocked by basic girls back then when I was in high school So I decided to get into shape and did a glow up, now they are in complete shock that how could I do that. Now they are lurking Looking for a way to attach themselves to me Back then they didn't want to give me a chance but now what?? Incredible Development Is Very Important In Our Life God Put These Types Of People In Our Life For Us To Grow And Prosper The Person Who Causes Pain In Our Life Led Us To The Journey Of Sucess We Should Be Thankful To Them 😁
The worst thing about our society... ever since I was a smaller kid I wouldn't understand why girls liked the boys who were gayish and very feminine with their dresswear and way of how they acted. Now being in my 18s I realised that with age women change their priorities, and the problem with priorities isn't stuck in the age or gender, it's with how you are educated by your parents and whether the traditions are passed trough to the younger generation. I was growing in a house of people who remembered about the fallen of world war 2 and communism, where my grandfather, grand grandfather and all the way to the past of our family tree, they fought to liberate our country. It's genes and young age education, and experience. For a long time I was lonely because no one around me would think and experience the way I did. I don't have any friends. But I can survive in the wild, cut my own wood, drive a car since I was 15, make wooden constructions, know how to save a human life, know how to care for children, use workshops, make a campfire, use guns and hunt. Yet I never had a girlfriend... The game changed with the society, and now the game is to be doing tik toks and knowing how to impress girls with cheap tricks, nobody wants deep emotional connection, it's not efficient anymore, the game now is to live in the city and social media.
Yeah, it's honestly pretty sad. Most women don't want somebody who's completely jacked, they want somebody who's "Huggable" being either really feminine and weak, or shown to make a good effort at taking care of themselves. The REAL women and the ones you should persue, would want a man over a submissive dumpster. Don't let fake TikTok women disturb you!
As a boy i wanna improve myself, i started with working out, next i accepted the fact that i have to do karate ever weekend and because of that ive enjoyed it more, my grades have improved and i ended up in the GAT class because of determination and dedication to my studies, now I wanna cut off on my screen time and become more honest (also wanna be more productive with spare time), those two are gonna be hard but given the progress I've made it should be possible. I still feel weak, so please wish me luck for my dream.
Sounds like a bloody plan my guy, cut off shit that’s bad for you, reflect on yourself and embrace discipline. Remember that if you want it bad enough you can have it, remember that nothing can stop you, only push you back. It’s always your choice to push through no matter the adversity. Good luck on becoming someone you can be proud of man.
I was born in Chechenya 2 months before the first civil war started in 1994, we managed to flee to Belgium before the end of the second civil war. Did those first 6-7 years of my life mess me up mentally? Yes it did... there is no glory in slaughtering each other like animals. HOWEVER, I am grateful that my origin story started messed up like that as life can only go uphill from there. I am prepared for the shit that life will throw at me, But when I look at my brothers of the West I become horrified at the prospect of war ever reaching this part of the world as many are not strong enough to handle that type of situation, it's much harder to adapt to war when all you have known is peace. I try to warn my friends to start paying attention to the world around them and how fast shit can hit the fan, But they prefer to play League of Legends and jerk off 2-3 times a day. I will stop wasting my time on trying to convince them to become stronger as it has to be a personal choice and it's much easier to convince people if you lead by example... But that doesn't change the fact that I am filled with dread imagining the average young guy of the West being exposed to the horrific shit that is out on your doorstep.
My plan: 1: stay a gamer, check 2: keep playing sports, check 3: keep trying whenever I exercise, check 4: more workouts, work in progress 5: get good sleep schedules, check 6: become in upper 20% of guys The goal: keep my values, avoid drugs, deal with bad habits, become strong, remain smart, do what I love! If my depressed, iron deficient lazy gamer ass can do most of these than you can do as good or better, keep reading books, study, do well in school, no excuses: failed a test, study harder next time. Too weak, get stronger. Become an Adonis, be useful to the tribe, find love. This applies no matter what, no matter your gender, sexuality or current state. Be strong physically and mentally and you will do great in life.
If you just play 1 hour at the weekend, you'll probably be fine. Otherwise, gaming will hold you back from being top 20%. But can still be better than classic jeffreys, let's say top 50%. Gaming affects you on so many level that you don't notice immediately.
Ahhh man, I’m so annoyed with myself. I started watching your videos and felt the motivation to change my life. I started working out, started getting proper sleep, severely reduced the time I jerk off (no I didn’t stop but I did it like twice a week which was progress) and I played video games wayyyy less than I normally do. I was getting shit done. No I didn’t conquer the world but I felt like I was making progress. Then I got ill, stopped working out and everything has went to shit, back to hitting the old habits hard again.
Same shit goes to me man , but you gotta believe something in your mind has forever changed, and u can make changes easier for this time, becuz u aldy make some movements compared to old you
It's very normal to relapse and being angry about it won't make anything better. Accept it and get up again brother, as long as you keep moving is what matters.
Making changes can be difficult, but needs to be done. Those all sound like good changes that will benefit you in many ways. Never stop believing in yourself!
Just because most men dont hit gym or try to get women doesn't mean they are useless. We men are more than just a toys for women to get into relationship so dont judge a man just based on his body shape or number of women he gets. Men can be artist, scientist, businessman and so on. So stop telling most men are useless when most men have potential to be great things I mentioned. Usually the ones who say most men are useless or toxic are generally themselves the ones who are useless.
While honestly, there are only two REAL ways on being "useful" you can A. Invent something that gets humanity closer to space, or stop global warming. Or B. You can have kids and raise them well, hoping they do what you do. In the end, getting a good physique is only helping yourself by adding years to your life. We're all useless, but nobody wants to admit it
This is the energy I like to see. Screw extreme movements. Focus on what's important to what you want. As a father and husband I know what's most important. Thank you for this non bias perspective
As always a gold channel there's always a gold content. Truly grateful for you Hamza, this made me think and stare in my wall "How do I become great or achieve greatness?".
I literally stopped watching your vedio halfway when u said admit your bad habit. I am reading this book Hard time creates strong man and this has incited motivation in me like nothing else. I started to be more discipline like a week ago and i relapsed 3 days after but i got back up in a matter of 2 days and i am back on track. I am not writing this to get a validation or maybe i am but Hamza you are like an angel for me weather you believe it or not and i will come meet you when i grow up we will hit gym together and will compete with each other in everything. So watch your back😉.
yes i cope playing games and watching anime. its boring for me to focus to improve all my time. for real, if i am better every day thats good but i wont do it 24/7 more like 2-4h a day... and thats enaugh. im not obsessed beeing a better me, just improving a bit daily to feel better is enaugh. who feels the same?
I'm glad I've gotten onto self improvement while I'm so young. I only have a learners permit so I can't actually drive to the gym, but I have started taking a strength and conditioning sport after school so that's nice
This is called evolution, They were fighting for the comfort. Now you are eating and living the life they gave you. Be the best version of you. -Jordan Peterson
in the past i have been out of path, out of shape, lonely, depressed, with no women and many more bad things happened as well. BUT, i did one thing right and stayed on my purpose of becoming a dentist. now thanks to you, i’ve started to get my life together. thank you Hamza, you’ve been a big brother to many of us. much love from turkey
We live in a world were a good society is the one were there is more instant gratification and pleasure. Men are becoming weak. Reject weakness guys, embrace manliness. We're gonna make it.
I like what Hamza illustrated. Hard times create strong men -> Strong men create good times -> good times create weak men -> weak men create hard times
Thank you. I am 13 yrs old and on selfimprovement. You are what made me realize I was not destined for a 9 to 5 job like my parents tell me is the best thing. You deserve so much. -Nitish Vel
All men are capable of becoming strong, they will naturally become strong if they live a challenging life but if their life is easy they must seek more challenge.
True true.... at the same time, wasting 3 hours everyday working out is extraordinarily PRIVILEGED and equally as selfish as playing games for that amount of time if you have a semblance of an actual life and REAL responsibilities (bills and keeping your house clean and feeding your dog and getting your oil changed are the bare minimum of what's expected of you to even function in today's world, so those don't even register as responsibilities for me), and at least during those hours you're at home and you can still connect with your family and do things that need to be done in between. In the military I was in another state, moved around a lot (because of the military) had very few friends, a long-distance GF (worst, dumbest mistake I ever made trying to be that dedicated and loyal at that age) so no sex, and spent literally 12 hours or more working my ass off everyday and on the weekends, and even completed my associate's degree on the side.... bought a car and paid it off and had money saved up, and when I wasn't doing all that, because I had a tiny ass tv and lived with roommates to save money and had barely anything of a social life or real responsibilities, I went to the gym and ran nonstop and listened to music for LITERALLY hours.... According to this guy, that's what we should all strive for and I should've just stopped there, BAM I'm a man right? And surprise surprise, I consider those years my WORST by how misguided I was, what I considered important, how mature I "thought" I was yet how much I ignored that I shouldn't have, and made the biggest mistake in equating total independence/financial success to being a man... (and thanks to my girl cheating on me, I even had that same sense of "women need to prove to ME that they're worth it, because I clearly am" confidence thing going on that this guy does) More importantly, I've never been MORE depressed than during those years... I had two squad mates in very similar circumstances (single, successful financially/physically/educationally, hard-working) kill themselves and I literally can't think of any ONE point I would time travel back to during those years... yet the last 12 years of me being out of the military and learning to TRULY unwind, TRULY say "fuck it" to societal roles and learning with my SO to carve out our own versions of these roles, while also learning to be proud to use my time/resources to give back to that same society and my family has brought me more genuine happiness and challenge than I have ever experienced before... And I would say while I'm not nearly as financially successful now as part of learning to be less selfish, and maybe a little less focused and my world not as physically expanded as I learn to become preoccupied with more than just myself (which requires "anchors and weights" of a different kind to have a solid foundation to do so), I can say with certainty that I've literally never been fucking happier. I'm just saying don't take this guy's advice unless you take your whole life into account as far as what you've accomplished. Every modern man has "stages" as far as I'm concerned and we all go through them at different times, and this guy is in his "chad" phase where he over-corrects out of a sense of disgust for his former self for one reason or another (trauma, bad life decisions, cheating wife, etc.) or of his earlier flaws and is even more motivated because it's the best he's ever physically looked and felt (and probably the dating scene becoming more active would help with his confidence). There's a reason you can find a lot of motivated "diet/working out/being a man is life" youtubers as easily as you can find twitch game streamers... I don't have all the answers either, and I probably won't EVER know the most important ones until i'm old enough to have regrets about them, but I do know that there's more than one definition of a man, and age and circumstances will change what you can and can't do in life, so your definition of being a man better get used to changing too.
life's about balance, you can't just only work on yourself and never rest your body and mind, that's why people like this often relapse into bad habits, because they never let themselves rest until they get fed up with their self imposed demands, it's all about maintaining habits that you can do permanently and that allow you to be happy
it’s crazy cuz i literally been thinking ab this a lot recently with the idea of the draft coming back in the us. 99% of my friends don’t even know how to start a fire.
I'm on self improvement and i totally agree i had a huge ego just cause i was on it. I'm just a weak 16 yr old sadfuck. You opened my eyes today Thanks man i don't know where I'd be without you.
Real talk. Most men are not weak and useless. This is most of the men in the western world. You go to Asia or Africa or South America these places men are legends
Another great video! I feel like underdeveloped countries have a long way to go in their evolution. We’re on the pinnacle of success as a nation because we’ve hit a flat line. We’ve been in the religion of materialism soooo long that we’re snapping out of it. Other countries are just beginning the stage we’re exiting
A wise man once say that too much of anything is bad a life without balance result in unbalance life and I feel like your masculinity is getting out of control brother life is not just gym and girl it's more than that
I am weak but I’m improving myself thanks to your videos, I feel much better already and I am working hard to improve myself to be more useful and to be stronger. Stay hard everyone 🙏
I’ve been in both worlds too. It’s ok to be weak, but it’s not ok to STAY weak, when I look around the world I constantly tell my self.” When I look around, I see people that are lost and don’t know where they’re going mentally and physically. It’s a harsh reality, harsh or not it doesn’t matter, it’s the truth! Society is weak. At my age of 15, there aren’t that many other people around my age as discipline as me. Thanks for this video.
@@budaloops exactly, I remember Tehran someone from a title boxing gym I go to told me.”15? You’re going places kid, you got a lot of time.” In my mind what I wanted to say back was that I have no time, time goes by if you use it or waste it. So take your chance now! Have a good day brother!
Hey hamza, you always talk about why we should take responsibility, why taking responsibility is making you a man, building you up. But you never talk about what is responsibility. A very important topic for a whole video.
Ever since i broke up with my grilfriend 4months ago (i dont even know why i did it) i dont want anything to do with women, ive been called a 10/10 but i simply dont care about it, when i think of a relationship i just cringe. I think ill be happier alone, not in a sad depressed way but i think ill just be happier. Having a girl just feels like a parasite. Idk how to better explain it
Usually I agree with Hamza, but on this I don't on some points What's wrong with playing video games or watching rick and morty, if that's something you enjoy doing? How is that a "bad habit"? I could understand it if you spend 10 hrs a day. Me personally, i set aside the weekends with the homies to have fun and take a break from our weekly routines. That includes walking in nature, having a beer or two, and playing video games. We all do physical jobs (law enforcement, military etc) and it's fun to just chill laugh and relax together when everyone's schedules allign. I don't think you can compare video games with fucking nightclub hoes and smoking weed I fully agree that we as men should strive to be the best version of ourselves. But you should also enjoy life with the people that mean alot to you. Whether that's playing monopoly on a saturday, traveling the world or simply having a drink with your brothers (as long as it fits your diet goals). Wtf else are you supposed to do, meditate 6 hours work out for another 6 and shower cold for another 10. Yeah what a life
I’m sorry mate but it seems you are just trying to cope with being called out on addictions, this is a common thing so it’s alright but I’m not going to answer your question directly, instead I want you to ask yourself, would the ideal man, whether that be Adonis or The Prophet or any role model, would be watch rick and morty and play games? Second think why they don’t or do participate in these activities.
And also Hamza encourages fun activities that are away from technology, like for example you could visit some new place that opened up down the street, meet up with friends and play a sport or go to the gym, you could study, so many things to do besides watching some show or playing some game.
@@Eshawn3108 But what if I have the free time after I have done all the things you claimed I did? Let’s say - sleep (7-8 hours) - studying (5-6 hours) - gym (1-2 hours) - meeting up with people (2-3 hours) That’s still like 5 hours in the day left to kill time.
@@shujinko2944 That’s if you follow that schedule, but also you could be so much more productive by doing something like meditation 45min -1 hour a day, starting business plans 1 hour a day, writing a book or journaling 1 hour a day, then you have two hours of free time where you can have some rest. This is a balance, the problem is keeping the balance. If you can consistently enjoy your rest while maintaining all your good habits you are absolutely fine, but it is a very hard task
For all my life I have been contempt in living a normal life, being weak and cowardly. I couldn't bring myself to stand up for what I believe in or for people to respect me. I didn't love myself for the longest time. But I'm taking a stand. For far too long have I laid down and accepted defeat. I am 3 weeks into this, but I feel good. I may still be weak, I have a lot to learn. But I am willing to rise up and accept the challenge and work towards a better life. I'm done with my former self. I'm going be someone who isn't a lazy slob for the first time in my life. The roads long but I look forward to it...
I have changed just about everything mentioned here for the better and also agree with a lot of it. Personally I refuse to quit videogames for the moment. I have already limited all my gaming to exclusively play games that I actually want to play. No more habitual gaming where I'm not even really having fun. In a few months I move countries for a greater job and that is when I plan to take my life into more of an offline direction with a fresh start in a new place. Keep grinding brothers
Same, I kicked a lot of addictions and toxic thought patterns but I want to keep playing some video games I actually enjoy. Best of luck to you bro with your fresh new start. 💪
Why not both? Be strong and do all the fun stuff. Why do you have to put yourself in a box and accept this premade notion of what masculinity is? If I am strong enough, I get to decide what masculinity is.
True masculinity is balancing IDGAF to a full T and being a good person (through character and value) to those around you. You can certainly do both. I think Hamza and other self-improvement Tubers forget that these warriors and men of the past also had their past times too. The difference is ours are more virtual and are double-edged swords.
@@danyal6211 my personal take is this - put crazy horus in and really prioritiaze your max effort everyday until you become succesful to a decent extent (financially, fitness wise etc) - now enjoy a 12:4 day and have a 8:8 weekend.... basically 12 hours of grind, 4 hours relatively chill doing something you enjoy... 8 to 8 ratio on the weekends..... thats my take cuz ion wanna be lacking when life is good, becuase good times create weak men, andcomfort and pleasure will ruin your success. *a 16 hour day is practical in the event if you maximize your time usage by listening to hamza or some good content during your commute, while making breakfast, morning routine etc -- instant knowledge lol
@@MK-zf6or I agree on maximizing your time and efforts everyday and slowly getting better. The problem lies with the accountability. Are you Truly working every minute of those 12 hours? Do you take breaks? How effective are you? Would shorter bursts of energy spread over 12 hours be more efficient? Will you retain all this knowledge from passive listening or is it background noise? I don't mean to clown you, I ask these because I promote effectiveness over time spent. I started out working longer hours and I suppose over time you get better at managing your time and getting better at Deep Work. If your split works for you then by all means keep on the grind bro. Make sure you don't burn out and take breaks. Good on you for wanting to be a better person and working for it. I wish you the best of luck.
@@danyal6211 thanks brother, and I appreciate the constructive criticism/feedback to be quite honest, these past few days Ive been in a bit of a rut, but in the midst of this, Ive managed to hold my ground and contine making progress, id def say this weekend and today ive maybe done 7-9 hours of working towards my goals. but ive acknowledged the issues im facing right now, and actually i was just working on my new schedule, which would allow me to function best based on knowing at what times i fall off, what the major distractions are etc........ its a hard process really getting everything together and it required helluva experimentation and tracking, but at the end of the day, a few months back id be binge watchig netflix, skipping workouts, sleeping in too much and all sorts of negatives, and im glad to say that thats all in the past now overall, my target is to achieve this perfect time management daily by April, Ive really gotten most of it together and Im realy confident going forward. best of luck in your journey too, and appreciate the comment man, gonna think deeper on it tonight.
@@MK-zf6or it's a process for sure. I'm glad you are recognizing what needs to be done and that you have improved from what you did a few months ago. Give yourself some props man, change is fucking hard. Keep on pushing and as Hamza says, do the hard work even when you don't feel like it. In addition to that, pace yourself for the long run.
Getting more muscular in the gym has improved my life. I'm stronger and I get more respect from straight guys and more interest from gay men and women.
Don't get too carried away with what he says. If you're working out like an animal + eating well, making good money, attracting women and generally useful; you can play video games. What is objectively wrong about gaming, when not doing the things mentioned above? Obvs doesn't have to be video games (cultivating new skills, exploring etc) but honestly, if you're already winning do whatever the fuck you want as long as it's not setting you back Tone it down, you can't hunt either. You couldn't guarantee youd be useful in a fight/war. You couldn't guarantee you won't crumble when things actually get dire. And that's ok - as long as people continue to strive to be better than what they are. Otherwise, great content
I used to know a person that was in a warzone back in the 70s. You know what he'd told me? "Weak don't survive, neither do strong. The one who's willing to pull the trigger faster with no remorse does. The one who adapts quickly to the circumstances he finds himself into. Not necessarily a strong fearsome wolf who'll charge with courage into the battle to save his pack thus dying 1st, nor a weak pathetic rat, for most of them flee in the slightest sign of danger and they'll do anything to save their skin; a soldier does." While I agree with some of your points, the main dissagreement is the "biggest motivation = woman love cause it's equal to reproduction (the 2nd strongest instict)". Talking about myself and ONLY (which means I don't speak for you reader). Personally I get motivated by my own will, to do something for me, something I like and am proud of. That's why I'm in bootcamp and I strife to be a soldier. I need no partner since they're nothing but trouble and nuisance. Repeating, I'm only talking about myself. I saw a couple of your videos, keep motivating people.
The roman empire suffered the exact same thing that you are talking about in this video. The populance became so disassociated with the rest of the empire and its people that nobody wanted to be a soldier anymore, nobody wanted to work the hard jobs and every citizen was searching for pleasure. It got so bad that at a specific point in time, most of the roman army was made by paid barbarian conscripts from outside the empire that used to be (and still were) its enemies. This is what led to the great decline of the empire and then its inevitable collapse. It is very terrifying seeing the exact same thing happening to the west right now.
This guy is one of the rare men on RUclips who would save our generation of men from destruction. I am happy that we have guys like this. This self-improvement journey is something that is important to every man.
I don't agree with some of the stuff being said here. The one point I want to bring up is that I think its okay to play video games or watch TV in moderation, it doesn't make you "weak". Ofc, if you're spending your whole day doing that with no other responsibilities, goals or ambitions in your life then I agree that that isn't healthy for you. However, I think it's important to do activities you find enjoyable in your downtime so that you can unwind from the stress of everyday life.
I'm stronger than before but still weak, I'm on the pursuit still. I just need to do more productive things in the day, so I'm gonna start competing in powerlifting.
I know I’m very weak that were the developing process comes to me and remove my weaknesses and hope potential I have no weaknesses as 16 yr old hope I can improve and pray god my be with me
I'm no leader I'm no genius I'm no artist I'm not social I sit on my ass all day But recently I've been trying, working to be strong, as a woman. My drive isn't love for somebody, but love for my hobby. I can't do my hobby cuz I'm weak, I run out of breath just tryna do it. I don't waste time finding tutorials, cuz I just wanna start. I just wanna hear a person to say, "You can do it." & someone to tell me I can just start. The only person to do that is Hazma. I love your content, I hope more people can come across your channel. Cuz it really is a wake-up call.
I can't fully agree with this. Entertainment and media CAN be a vessel for self-improvement too. Videogames can teach you and train you in a lot of ways, just like a book or a film can. You just have to choose the right ones.
@@1ayden Dark Souls did it for me. Granted, it's a one and done experience to have as a kid, but it really gives you a Rocky attitude if you take the lessons of its gameplay right Your body will go through many rebirths and many trials, but you'll have to keep pushing. The trick to media and all books, is to put the lessons taught into action instead of being stuck on a cycle of continuous learning
Hamza Iam 16 years old and found your videos I saw this and I feel great and ready to be better and not be like 99 percent of men i will do my best to be better and stronger physically and mentally and cut these negatives habits wish me luck :)
Videogames are art though Hamza. Also how do things you call "weak" make people who do them "weak?" If people wanted to change they would, but they do these things because they may want to. How does doing what you want gauge your strength or "weakness"? What even is "weakness?" Everyone can do anything if they want, its just some people do not care enough. So what exactly is "weakness?"
My question for Hamza and the community is: Is completely cutting out video games a necessity or is having self control of your time and duties make it ok? Genuine question because it seems to be one of the messages here.
I mean, I just deleted every videogame from my phone and computer a few weeks ago because I found them distracting me even when I felt like I had it under control, it was an unnecessary thing I had to control when it could be solved once and for all. I haven't looked back, I don't have any urges to play videogames anymore, same with TV and sugar. Like Hamza said, even if you say "oh but it's just one hour here and there", let's be real who's gonna stop you from doing 5 hours per day when you start comfortably sitting and having fun? Nobody. Delete them all, go for a walk or read a book when you feel bored, videogames are going to do just harm to you. People often say "but but I can spend time with friends there and socialize", as if that's somehow tied to videogames. Go hiking, fishing, playing some sport or for a dinner with your friends, that's actual socializing. Overall, videogames aren't evil or anything, but they're a bit childish ngl and you would be probably better off replacing it with something else
@AK I agree that I should be replacing them with more productive things, but deleting them, I feel like I want to reach a point in will power where I can a plethra of games in my face and say no. Thanks for the advice though. I'm glad you've seen great progress
@@ghostglitch5355 maybe you just think you will eventually just play again and don't have the courage to delete them. Hamza's don't delete game stuff doesn't necessarily need to be a rule. And yes. If you don't stop levelling your stupid character in a game you will never start leveling up your own real self
Since the year has begun I've not made a concerted effort to avoid video games. I've just come to realise that it's too unproductive a way to utilize time. Gym, starting BJJ, reading along with other things have replaced it almost naturally
I am a SW developer starting a company and trying to get better physique just because. I read book and science articles for breakfast. Even though your videos are only 40 % applicable , they still provide awesome motivation for workout. I hope this lasts.
Even the greatest MMA fighter will enjoy a warm tea while cuddling with their flowery girl on a soft sofa in a safe home. Weakness is part of a man's journey. The point is that you need to know when to be strong and when to recover due to inevitable weakness. If you stay strong all the time you'll never sleep and die after a week. If you stay weak all the time you might survive as a body but you'll be a body dead inside. So know the right time to be strong and be strong then.
Reject weakness..WE are the revolution..STRONG MEN..no excues...we got this gentlemen
Good to see you
Kinda cringe but i am in
@@GabrielTFS773 weak is cringe
We need to destroy the lizard brain daily to STAY HARD!
STAY HARD
DAMN. One of your best videos to date. All this “red pill” bullshit does nothing but weaken men. Only focusing on women. Gain STRENGTH and they shall follow.
you and hamza are goated. best selfimprovement creators out there fr
Yes sir!!
David!!!💪🏾
Gain strength. True
that's exactly the opposite of what he's saying. be ambitious and use women as a motivator for your self improvement.
"Being fat is ok" yeah, sure
but
Being fit is better
and
Being strong is best
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I like how you put it. Embrace and move on up
no, being fat is not okay. no fat human are healthy and happy, there's plenty of disease in body and mind of fat human. I've been fat for years, last year my weight was around 111-115kg, and that was my heaviest records. there's pain all around my body, and the only thing in my mind was suicidal thoughts. now i only eat clean and healthy, fasting everyday, walk a lot, lifting weights, after almost three months doing that now i'm 90kg, still long way to the target but i'll get there. cut sugar, cut porn, cut toxic people now i'm getting so much better, even tho the depression thought still there because pressure from society especially from peers but i can fight it, we're all going on top, just keep fighting and reach your limits
@@MJ25709 well in that case, I'm wondering why the fat people who always say that "bEiNg FaT iS oK" never complain about health problems. Like why fight for being unhealthy when you yourself have health problems from it, you could work out, lose the health problems, and be on the right side. I didn't know fat supporters were THAT dumb.
@@Thor_the_Doge they're dumb. they lie to themselves and other people, i know because i was one of them. why they fight to keep being unhealthy? because they're comfortable with it and don't want change it, because it's hard to go back to ideal weight, it's hard to being healthy, they love sweets, lot of fats, junk food, eat a lot, and doing nothing. idk if you're fat or not, you can defend them all you want, being fat is not normal and not healthy.
The famous quote from fight club "we are the middle children of history" is basically means living between hard and easy times. Being caged by the laws of our comfortable civilized everyday life and being scared of a less comfortable, more dangerous future.
Bro i shit you not, i just finished watching that movie 5 mins ago
“We had no Great War, no Great Depression, our great war is a spiritual one and our great depression is our lives” what an amazing film
Best movie ever, that really show how people think, and live after in the western world
One of the best scene in the movie, that captain sinbad from youtube also talk about, is the scene tyler durden put are Gun on the asian guy, go after you dream now, hurry up, get out of you comfortzone, soon is to late, than you to old to catch you dreams , most men never live the life thier dream about. Imagine all the virgin guy that live in front of thier computer, later look back on that shitty life
In that movie brad pitt say "self improvement is like masterbation "...what you are gonna say for that
“Reject weakness embrace greatness”
Reject embrace, weakness greatness
Reject modernity, embrace masculinity
All day every day
Even as an autist, i largely surpassed that step of being a weak person. And thanks to a certain amount of people in high school and college, i regained confidence. This year could be my most important one. So wish me best of luck.
Good luck
Good luck brother, we got this
Same bro I’m a autist to I started training a month and a half ago
Dude you are freaking inspiring!
SNAKE!!!
I have autism.
I'm sick and tired of letting autism define me, I've let it make me a victim of my circumstance for my whole life and for that reason people don't respect me and I don't respect even myself and I'm TIRED of it. I'm am going to change. Just because I'm nero-divergent doesn't mean I can't learn to develop social skills, it just means I have to put more effort into learning it. I've used autism as a excuse deep down to not try or put effort into things because I've always thought that being autistic means im not capable of anything when in reality I haven't even tried yet so I have no idea of my potential. Infact a part of me is saying to myself that I don't deserve to be my best self and live my best life because I've convinced myself that I'm autistic and that I have no potential, so when anything good happens I'm downplaying it, it's a bad mindset I had and the years of no effort, no self belief and low self-esteem have properly reinforced that belief into my choices and actions. The only way I can stop this and be better is with accountability. Truly in a way the autism doesn't even matter because at the end of the day we are in control of ourselves. For me I struggle to accept that but it's true, all choices are my own, its not autism, it's not a lack of social skills, it's truly my own choices. I always throught that I can't be independent because of autism but that's a lie, that's a lack of accountability of the choices I've made. it's the cold hard truth.
Yesterday I went out to a restaurant with my family and I saw all the clubs and nightlife and I truly crave to actually socialise, I might say I don't like going out but I think I actually want too. It's the same with girls. I might say 'I'm focusing on myself' but I truly want intimacy with a woman. I have to be real with myself. I know it's going to be hard work but I have to accept that's it's going to be hard, life is hard so it's either I get left behind or I actually try. I chose to try.
Sorry if I ended up making that about myself, just trying to share my experiences.
Hey man, I just read your story and I’m so proud of you, if nobody else said that, allow me to be the first, continue striving for victory and learn from your failures. You are already trying to do what most others wouldn’t and with autism as well, it takes a warrior during these modern days to become strong despite the weakness being portrayed around us. I want you to keep going and never give up, remember that when things look tough, imagine the progress and stuff you achieved and keep going. You don’t truly fail until you give up, your story is wonderful and inspiring even to a normal boy like me on my path to self improvement, progress is possible and the fact that you’ve caught yourself on your own excuses is something many would never. Keep going because you my friend are a warrior, I respect your efforts, I respect your situation and I respect you! Keep learning and live your life, doing the hard work will grant you the rewards of life, don’t give in to the pressure and you got to enjoy the hunt, enjoy the struggles, when you can enjoy the tough stuff, everything else will be easy, work on your mental health, body and social skills, do the hard work ESPECIALLY when you don’t feel like it 😁
@@riri2719 Thank you man, that brought a proper smile to my face. I really appreciate the comment! You are the only other person apart from my mum who has actually has praised me like this before. People like you keep me going, the only people who believe in me, it reminds me to not give up not matter what. Making me tear up n shit bro 😅😂
Thank you man!
Edit: haha btw I just clocked on you said the lil thing at the end I saw it 😂
You got this bro love you man
@@sussyfortniteclips9670 Thank you brother 😌💪🏾❤
@@sussyfortniteclips9670 Thank you brother 😌💪🏾❤
Why I love hamza is because he's so fucking unfiltered and true to himself. He's not trying to be relatable or any of that bullshit. I'm glad there are still people who call it as they see it.
Not trying to be relatable? What are you on about he's most definitley trying to be relatable, that's like his entire brand.
Yea he is relatable haha. Ironic huh. He’s being himself and we can see ourselves in him. We can’t see ourselves through fake plastic can we
its true self confidence
I still have bad habits. I am weak, but I'm getting stronger over time. I'm much stronger than I was before. I still smoke weed, but I honestly don't play video games most days anymore. I used to be one of those 16 hour session World of Warcraft gamers. Came a long way, got a long way to go still. We're all gonna make it, brah. Watching Hamza vids even has me closing RUclips (my biggest time waster for sure) and reading a book these days. Right after I post this comment I'm gonna go for a run.
Great! I’m having issues with my RUclips time but I thankfully I found Hamza right after I broke my no fap spell. So now I just wanna continue reducing these consumer habits again. I miss Minecraft. NGL. But I came a long way in one year
I was just doing random bgs ;)
Keep going, we're all gonna me it
Proud of you
@@edwardPCH48 you really don't have to, its just a matter of having that self-discipline but actually sticking to the boundaries you set yourself, knowing that you're only doing yourself an injustice if you continue any bad habit. Easier said that done that's for sure but we'll get there hopefully.
Everyone has a dream, no one has a plan.
Everyone has a dream. Someone has to put it in motion. Get up and take the first step you will soon be addicted to your progress
I remember when I used to hear "no pain no gain" and I was just like: but isn't pain bad? I dont like pain!
now I know what it means and now I like it, now i know why we absolutely need pain.
If we don't pain ourselves, others surely will
Took your attractiveness steps and grew out my beard and cleaned it up and grew my curls out. I’ve noticed so much more attention and it’s made me a lot more confident in the way I look. With a few years of hard work and improvement it’s possible to get to that top 20%
When you feel good, you look great
@@budaloops my experience tells me thats absolutely true
"Women will tell you that it's ok to be weak but they'll f*ck a strong guys"
My favorite part of the vid
Strong men are their weakness. They fall in love with such men. That is what weak men don't know.
Dont believe anything a women says. Words gossip deception and manipulation are their only weapons
In fairness I see them go for weak men who don't even take care of themselves
@@Gyup523 those are low quality "girls" who don't value themselves
No cause alpha strong men like myself don’t want those useless women and treat them like shit coming from expirence
Young dude here that has put in 10 pounds of muscle in the past 9 months. Alcohol free, weed free, nicotine free. Still play video games now and then and pmo in the background but haven’t Pom’s for over a month now which is my longest streak in a while. Also just got my 1st girlfriend. Self improvement is absolutely possible boys 💪🏼🔥
Great bro, how old are you? Feeling like am too old sometimes and to much of a burden
@@simebruglerovic3971 It's never too late to start self-improvement. Even when you will be at your deathbed, you will start going through your life, good or bad, but when it will come to the time you started self-improvement, when you realize that you did all you could to make yourself better, you'll say to yourself "it was worth it".
As a woman, your advices also apply to my life, and I can use them to better up! Thank you!!
Doing this for myself and to keep myself honest. I am pretty weak and useless, but I'm getting better. I started back at the gym after a long time and I've been consistent for 3 months now. I'm still playing video games and watching RUclips but it's much lower than it used to be (all-day before vs. ~3 hours). I've started writing stories and books again, I'm planning on either starting some woodwork or making a twitch account to at least make one of my weaknesses useful for something. I've been eating right for a good while now and my meditation and deep Journaling are getting better. Thank you for this Hamza for reminding me that while I've come far, the road ahead is long and hard.
I wouldn't recommend twitch imo
@HetoVerseo I'm curious as to why not. Is there a better platform you would recommend or just not to try doing it at all?
Let the creativity out brother
Adonis awakens
Yo bro quick question, what do you journal? Recently just bought one but I don’t even know where to start ahaha
Thanks for the advice I actually feel like this made me realize i was weak and useless. Much love from Mexico Hamza🖤
that would sound so funny without context lol
Nunca creí que encontraría a alguien de latinoámerica aquí, saludos bro
@@tthymos6233 saludos ojalá que tengas un buen día carnal
I'm weak as f*cking sh*t but I just started weightlifting, I'm trying to get strong so I can provide for my family. I owe a lot of money for my brothers, I'll give them the money back.
@@Discaptured I believe you in bro! Set your priorities straight and get rid of toxic people.
WE NEED THIS MAN IN A CLASSROOM TEACHING KIDS!!! He is spot on about everything. I agree that another country will take over because of the message that it’s okay to be weak. When a war comes a round we are screwed and that scares me we need to stay strong and man up. Don’t be weak, don’t let your emotions control you, go to the gym, get out of bad sleep video games bad eating all that stuff. Be better not weak and IMPROVE YOUR SELF! Or we are screwed.
I Got Mocked by basic girls back then when I was in high school So I decided to get into shape and did a glow up, now they are in complete shock that how could I do that.
Now they are lurking Looking for a way to attach themselves to me Back then they didn't want to give me a chance but now what??
Incredible Development Is Very Important In Our Life God Put These Types Of People In Our Life For Us To Grow And Prosper The Person Who Causes Pain In Our Life Led Us To The Journey Of Sucess We Should Be Thankful To Them 😁 999
seems like a movie! great story bruh keep it up
Everybody has weaknesses and insecuritys... the question is what are you doing against it??
Things you can't change -> f*ck it, accept it or embrace it!
Things you can change -> GET THE F*CK up and start doing the things that need to be done!!
You went to the gym? Great. Done. Next one. Worked on your business? Great. Done. Next one. Talked and helped a friend for a hour? Great. Done. Next one.
-> It never stops!!
the strongest man is the man who conquers himself - some dude 100-4000 years ago
@@vectorsahel5420 I believe that was plato champion!
Man im tired can I sit down for a moment I've been running around the past 3 days doing this stuff 😞
Amazing video Hamza! I am 16 years old and am blessed to have been raised in a good environment where I did not spend too much screen time and play games. I watch your videos so I could learn how to make myself stronger and more patient. I get into arguments with my parents and sometimes I am ungrateful towards them. But improving my mindset and making myself stronger will help me achieve greatness and make me appreciate my beloved parents.
Well yeah. Most of my life I lived as a weak man. It’s true. The only way to progress from here is to admit that I am here and make a concisions decision to love who I am, forgive, accept the miss-takes and go again. I am who I am and this little boy says ROAR .. he’s still kickin
I like this guy, he doesn't sugar coat things.
This era is basically an extinction of strong men, I really don't have a hope that few thousands of people that changed their life for good will change the life of others. I just really hope that strong men will be still present decades/centuries later
It takes one. You can influence many readers with your message. What do you want to see?
They will be present, these events happen to every society after some time.
Once the older generations have retired, hard times are gonna come pretty quickly and it will actually be the weak guys who can't provide any value who will be extincted.
Not being useful means no money which means they won't make children anyway.
Sadly, I'm one of those weak men too atm.
@@derbar4340 I'm one of them, not weak but just a dummy. If you want a good life, go for it
I've started watching your videos a few months ago, I've started doing progress on myself, started eating better, exercising more, and I'm faping less and less and I've never been so happy in my life thank you Hamza
Thank you for sharing your story
Our lives will enhance and become better as we listen and watch your informative videos & then we apply it. Thank you Hamza for this video!
I'm constantly relapsing into those ways, but I slowly get change done, seeing these vids make me see my wrongs
I really respect you for coming out here and admitting your weak because I am too. There’s nothing wrong with being weak due to our modern society, but there’s something wrong with doing nothing about it. We need to take our cultures back.
The vibe for this video seemed a lot more angry than your other ones but the message is still strong. Let’s all become the best version of ourselves bros 😎
Idk why but i can relate to you in so many ways. Your backstory is quite similar to mine. I guess there are many out there who have similar backstories .
There are so many people alive, its actually very likely that a lot of people have gone through the same type of shit. We’re all gonna smash this journey together !
@@benjioffdsv Fax brother!
Fr bro, when he talks it's like he's describing me. Gives me hope that if he was able to stop being such a loser then even I might be able to since he was so similar to me
I Got Mocked by basic girls back then when I was in high school So I decided to get into shape and did a glow up, now they are in complete shock that how could I do that.
Now they are lurking Looking for a way to attach themselves to me Back then they didn't want to give me a chance but now what??
Incredible Development Is Very Important In Our Life God Put These Types Of People In Our Life For Us To Grow And Prosper The Person Who Causes Pain In Our Life Led Us To The Journey Of Sucess We Should Be Thankful To Them 😁
Relatable
“Those who cannot change their minds, cannot change anything” -Cruz Antwi
The worst thing about our society... ever since I was a smaller kid I wouldn't understand why girls liked the boys who were gayish and very feminine with their dresswear and way of how they acted. Now being in my 18s I realised that with age women change their priorities, and the problem with priorities isn't stuck in the age or gender, it's with how you are educated by your parents and whether the traditions are passed trough to the younger generation. I was growing in a house of people who remembered about the fallen of world war 2 and communism, where my grandfather, grand grandfather and all the way to the past of our family tree, they fought to liberate our country. It's genes and young age education, and experience. For a long time I was lonely because no one around me would think and experience the way I did. I don't have any friends. But I can survive in the wild, cut my own wood, drive a car since I was 15, make wooden constructions, know how to save a human life, know how to care for children, use workshops, make a campfire, use guns and hunt. Yet I never had a girlfriend... The game changed with the society, and now the game is to be doing tik toks and knowing how to impress girls with cheap tricks, nobody wants deep emotional connection, it's not efficient anymore, the game now is to live in the city and social media.
That is so true
Isn’t a little bit lonely having no friends and nobody to talk to expect from your family
Thats so cool-
@@ayo4773
alone =/= lonely
Yeah, it's honestly pretty sad. Most women don't want somebody who's completely jacked, they want somebody who's "Huggable" being either really feminine and weak, or shown to make a good effort at taking care of themselves. The REAL women and the ones you should persue, would want a man over a submissive dumpster. Don't let fake TikTok women disturb you!
you know that it's bad when even Adonis is scared.
As a boy i wanna improve myself, i started with working out, next i accepted the fact that i have to do karate ever weekend and because of that ive enjoyed it more, my grades have improved and i ended up in the GAT class because of determination and dedication to my studies, now I wanna cut off on my screen time and become more honest (also wanna be more productive with spare time), those two are gonna be hard but given the progress I've made it should be possible.
I still feel weak, so please wish me luck for my dream.
Sounds like a bloody plan my guy, cut off shit that’s bad for you, reflect on yourself and embrace discipline. Remember that if you want it bad enough you can have it, remember that nothing can stop you, only push you back. It’s always your choice to push through no matter the adversity. Good luck on becoming someone you can be proud of man.
@@existentialbowlofnoodles2495 Thank you
Gl dude!
I was born in Chechenya 2 months before the first civil war started in 1994, we managed to flee to Belgium before the end of the second civil war. Did those first 6-7 years of my life mess me up mentally? Yes it did... there is no glory in slaughtering each other like animals. HOWEVER, I am grateful that my origin story started messed up like that as life can only go uphill from there. I am prepared for the shit that life will throw at me, But when I look at my brothers of the West I become horrified at the prospect of war ever reaching this part of the world as many are not strong enough to handle that type of situation, it's much harder to adapt to war when all you have known is peace. I try to warn my friends to start paying attention to the world around them and how fast shit can hit the fan, But they prefer to play League of Legends and jerk off 2-3 times a day. I will stop wasting my time on trying to convince them to become stronger as it has to be a personal choice and it's much easier to convince people if you lead by example... But that doesn't change the fact that I am filled with dread imagining the average young guy of the West being exposed to the horrific shit that is out on your doorstep.
When are you gonna start posting content brother?
Ya start posting now
My plan:
1: stay a gamer, check
2: keep playing sports, check
3: keep trying whenever I exercise, check
4: more workouts, work in progress
5: get good sleep schedules, check
6: become in upper 20% of guys
The goal: keep my values, avoid drugs, deal with bad habits, become strong, remain smart, do what I love!
If my depressed, iron deficient lazy gamer ass can do most of these than you can do as good or better, keep reading books, study, do well in school, no excuses: failed a test, study harder next time. Too weak, get stronger. Become an Adonis, be useful to the tribe, find love. This applies no matter what, no matter your gender, sexuality or current state. Be strong physically and mentally and you will do great in life.
Thank you! I'm not giving up something I love. Gamer for life.
I also play game 1 hr on weekends, study most of the day, go to gym, and I agree with you
If you just play 1 hour at the weekend, you'll probably be fine. Otherwise, gaming will hold you back from being top 20%. But can still be better than classic jeffreys, let's say top 50%.
Gaming affects you on so many level that you don't notice immediately.
Ahhh man, I’m so annoyed with myself. I started watching your videos and felt the motivation to change my life. I started working out, started getting proper sleep, severely reduced the time I jerk off (no I didn’t stop but I did it like twice a week which was progress) and I played video games wayyyy less than I normally do. I was getting shit done. No I didn’t conquer the world but I felt like I was making progress. Then I got ill, stopped working out and everything has went to shit, back to hitting the old habits hard again.
Ok Sam. Next time you comment we’ve gotta hear that you’ve kept the pace up, or exceeded expectations and took another step. I’ll remember you
Same shit goes to me man , but you gotta believe something in your mind has forever changed, and u can make changes easier for this time, becuz u aldy make some movements compared to old you
What's your go to excuse? Cut its head off and think a better thought, Time to kick ass
It's very normal to relapse and being angry about it won't make anything better. Accept it and get up again brother, as long as you keep moving is what matters.
Making changes can be difficult, but needs to be done. Those all sound like good changes that will benefit you in many ways. Never stop believing in yourself!
Just because most men dont hit gym or try to get women doesn't mean they are useless. We men are more than just a toys for women to get into relationship so dont judge a man just based on his body shape or number of women he gets.
Men can be artist, scientist, businessman and so on. So stop telling most men are useless when most men have potential to be great things I mentioned. Usually the ones who say most men are useless or toxic are generally themselves the ones who are useless.
The man hating media and feminism have played a big role in making men feel useless
While honestly, there are only two REAL ways on being "useful" you can A. Invent something that gets humanity closer to space, or stop global warming. Or B. You can have kids and raise them well, hoping they do what you do. In the end, getting a good physique is only helping yourself by adding years to your life. We're all useless, but nobody wants to admit it
This is the energy I like to see. Screw extreme movements. Focus on what's important to what you want. As a father and husband I know what's most important. Thank you for this non bias perspective
We must respect the past, and mistrust the present, if we wish to provide for the safety of the future.
As always a gold channel there's always a gold content. Truly grateful for you Hamza, this made me think and stare in my wall "How do I become great or achieve greatness?".
I literally stopped watching your vedio halfway when u said admit your bad habit. I am reading this book Hard time creates strong man and this has incited motivation in me like nothing else. I started to be more discipline like a week ago and i relapsed 3 days after but i got back up in a matter of 2 days and i am back on track.
I am not writing this to get a validation or maybe i am but Hamza you are like an angel for me weather you believe it or not and i will come meet you when i grow up we will hit gym together and will compete with each other in everything. So watch your back😉.
yes i cope playing games and watching anime. its boring for me to focus to improve all my time. for real, if i am better every day thats good but i wont do it 24/7 more like 2-4h a day... and thats enaugh. im not obsessed beeing a better me, just improving a bit daily to feel better is enaugh.
who feels the same?
I'm glad I've gotten onto self improvement while I'm so young. I only have a learners permit so I can't actually drive to the gym, but I have started taking a strength and conditioning sport after school so that's nice
My man's just predicted the Russia invasion 😬😬
Well tru 😶
This is called evolution,
They were fighting for the comfort.
Now you are eating and living the life they gave you.
Be the best version of you.
-Jordan Peterson
in the past i have been out of path, out of shape, lonely, depressed, with no women and many more bad things happened as well. BUT, i did one thing right and stayed on my purpose of becoming a dentist. now thanks to you, i’ve started to get my life together. thank you Hamza, you’ve been a big brother to many of us. much love from turkey
Their not just saying "it's okay to be weak" sometimes its, "You should be weak."
"Some other country is going to dominate in 2 weeks"
We live in a world were a good society is the one were there is more instant gratification and pleasure. Men are becoming weak. Reject weakness guys, embrace manliness. We're gonna make it.
I like what Hamza illustrated. Hard times create strong men -> Strong men create good times -> good times create weak men -> weak men create hard times
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Thank you. I am 13 yrs old and on selfimprovement. You are what made me realize I was not destined for a 9 to 5 job like my parents tell me is the best thing.
You deserve so much.
-Nitish Vel
All men are capable of becoming strong, they will naturally become strong if they live a challenging life but if their life is easy they must seek more challenge.
True true.... at the same time, wasting 3 hours everyday working out is extraordinarily PRIVILEGED and equally as selfish as playing games for that amount of time if you have a semblance of an actual life and REAL responsibilities (bills and keeping your house clean and feeding your dog and getting your oil changed are the bare minimum of what's expected of you to even function in today's world, so those don't even register as responsibilities for me), and at least during those hours you're at home and you can still connect with your family and do things that need to be done in between.
In the military I was in another state, moved around a lot (because of the military) had very few friends, a long-distance GF (worst, dumbest mistake I ever made trying to be that dedicated and loyal at that age) so no sex, and spent literally 12 hours or more working my ass off everyday and on the weekends, and even completed my associate's degree on the side.... bought a car and paid it off and had money saved up, and when I wasn't doing all that, because I had a tiny ass tv and lived with roommates to save money and had barely anything of a social life or real responsibilities, I went to the gym and ran nonstop and listened to music for LITERALLY hours.... According to this guy, that's what we should all strive for and I should've just stopped there, BAM I'm a man right?
And surprise surprise, I consider those years my WORST by how misguided I was, what I considered important, how mature I "thought" I was yet how much I ignored that I shouldn't have, and made the biggest mistake in equating total independence/financial success to being a man... (and thanks to my girl cheating on me, I even had that same sense of "women need to prove to ME that they're worth it, because I clearly am" confidence thing going on that this guy does)
More importantly, I've never been MORE depressed than during those years... I had two squad mates in very similar circumstances (single, successful financially/physically/educationally, hard-working) kill themselves and I literally can't think of any ONE point I would time travel back to during those years... yet the last 12 years of me being out of the military and learning to TRULY unwind, TRULY say "fuck it" to societal roles and learning with my SO to carve out our own versions of these roles, while also learning to be proud to use my time/resources to give back to that same society and my family has brought me more genuine happiness and challenge than I have ever experienced before... And I would say while I'm not nearly as financially successful now as part of learning to be less selfish, and maybe a little less focused and my world not as physically expanded as I learn to become preoccupied with more than just myself (which requires "anchors and weights" of a different kind to have a solid foundation to do so), I can say with certainty that I've literally never been fucking happier.
I'm just saying don't take this guy's advice unless you take your whole life into account as far as what you've accomplished. Every modern man has "stages" as far as I'm concerned and we all go through them at different times, and this guy is in his "chad" phase where he over-corrects out of a sense of disgust for his former self for one reason or another (trauma, bad life decisions, cheating wife, etc.) or of his earlier flaws and is even more motivated because it's the best he's ever physically looked and felt (and probably the dating scene becoming more active would help with his confidence). There's a reason you can find a lot of motivated "diet/working out/being a man is life" youtubers as easily as you can find twitch game streamers...
I don't have all the answers either, and I probably won't EVER know the most important ones until i'm old enough to have regrets about them, but I do know that there's more than one definition of a man, and age and circumstances will change what you can and can't do in life, so your definition of being a man better get used to changing too.
life's about balance, you can't just only work on yourself and never rest your body and mind, that's why people like this often relapse into bad habits, because they never let themselves rest until they get fed up with their self imposed demands, it's all about maintaining habits that you can do permanently and that allow you to be happy
You do not need a dog. That is a privilege. The reality is most people waste tons of time everyday that they spend working out.
If you even have an "hour a day to play video games", that is a problem.
I'd be lucky if I get an hour a WEEK to play video games.
it's ok to be weak, it's not ok to stay weak. always strive for a better you.
The “stfu bro” gets me every time 😭 but nah bro is speaking facts fasho💯 we truly are motivated by women
it’s crazy cuz i literally been thinking ab this a lot recently with the idea of the draft coming back in the us. 99% of my friends don’t even know how to start a fire.
you give me hope on the worst days, stay based.
I'm on self improvement and i totally agree i had a huge ego just cause i was on it.
I'm just a weak 16 yr old sadfuck.
You opened my eyes today Thanks man i don't know where I'd be without you.
Real talk. Most men are not weak and useless. This is most of the men in the western world. You go to Asia or Africa or South America these places men are legends
Another great video! I feel like underdeveloped countries have a long way to go in their evolution.
We’re on the pinnacle of success as a nation because we’ve hit a flat line. We’ve been in the religion of materialism soooo long that we’re snapping out of it.
Other countries are just beginning the stage we’re exiting
A wise man once say that too much of anything is bad a life without balance result in unbalance life and I feel like your masculinity is getting out of control brother life is not just gym and girl it's more than that
I am weak but I’m improving myself thanks to your videos, I feel much better already and I am working hard to improve myself to be more useful and to be stronger. Stay hard everyone 🙏
I wanna be strong enough.. stronger to protect someone, protect the weak and my loved ones.
Dude your the person that finally made me pursue my dream of becoming a police officer!
2:50 I died at this one💀💀
Hahaha XD
Being fat or skinny is okay, but staying fat or skinny isn't
I’ve been in both worlds too. It’s ok to be weak, but it’s not ok to STAY weak, when I look around the world I constantly tell my self.” When I look around, I see people that are lost and don’t know where they’re going mentally and physically. It’s a harsh reality, harsh or not it doesn’t matter, it’s the truth! Society is weak. At my age of 15, there aren’t that many other people around my age as discipline as me. Thanks for this video.
Show em how you do it. Get out of the rat race as best as you can and take on responsibilities now while you have plenty of room to make miss takes
@@budaloops exactly, I remember Tehran someone from a title boxing gym I go to told me.”15? You’re going places kid, you got a lot of time.” In my mind what I wanted to say back was that I have no time, time goes by if you use it or waste it. So take your chance now! Have a good day brother!
@@s-host3786 thanks, and same!
This is absolutely brilliant hamza I love how honest you are, so relatable makes me really go within and then I realize I'm so fkn weak
Hey hamza, you always talk about why we should take responsibility, why taking responsibility is making you a man, building you up.
But you never talk about what is responsibility. A very important topic for a whole video.
Man speaks truth, nothing but truth.
Here for the growth stay for the mindset
And addicted to the glory. I need to post a new video
Ever since i broke up with my grilfriend 4months ago (i dont even know why i did it) i dont want anything to do with women, ive been called a 10/10 but i simply dont care about it, when i think of a relationship i just cringe. I think ill be happier alone, not in a sad depressed way but i think ill just be happier. Having a girl just feels like a parasite. Idk how to better explain it
Usually I agree with Hamza, but on this I don't on some points
What's wrong with playing video games or watching rick and morty, if that's something you enjoy doing? How is that a "bad habit"? I could understand it if you spend 10 hrs a day. Me personally, i set aside the weekends with the homies to have fun and take a break from our weekly routines. That includes walking in nature, having a beer or two, and playing video games. We all do physical jobs (law enforcement, military etc) and it's fun to just chill laugh and relax together when everyone's schedules allign. I don't think you can compare video games with fucking nightclub hoes and smoking weed
I fully agree that we as men should strive to be the best version of ourselves. But you should also enjoy life with the people that mean alot to you. Whether that's playing monopoly on a saturday, traveling the world or simply having a drink with your brothers (as long as it fits your diet goals).
Wtf else are you supposed to do, meditate 6 hours work out for another 6 and shower cold for another 10. Yeah what a life
I’m sorry mate but it seems you are just trying to cope with being called out on addictions, this is a common thing so it’s alright but I’m not going to answer your question directly, instead I want you to ask yourself, would the ideal man, whether that be Adonis or The Prophet or any role model, would be watch rick and morty and play games? Second think why they don’t or do participate in these activities.
And also Hamza encourages fun activities that are away from technology, like for example you could visit some new place that opened up down the street, meet up with friends and play a sport or go to the gym, you could study, so many things to do besides watching some show or playing some game.
@@Eshawn3108 But what if I have the free time after I have done all the things you claimed I did?
Let’s say
- sleep (7-8 hours)
- studying (5-6 hours)
- gym (1-2 hours)
- meeting up with people (2-3 hours)
That’s still like 5 hours in the day left to kill time.
@@shujinko2944 That’s if you follow that schedule, but also you could be so much more productive by doing something like meditation 45min -1 hour a day, starting business plans 1 hour a day, writing a book or journaling 1 hour a day, then you have two hours of free time where you can have some rest. This is a balance, the problem is keeping the balance. If you can consistently enjoy your rest while maintaining all your good habits you are absolutely fine, but it is a very hard task
@@Eshawn3108 The ideal man can't exist because we are not perfect. We are weak and have limits to break.
For all my life I have been contempt in living a normal life, being weak and cowardly. I couldn't bring myself to stand up for what I believe in or for people to respect me. I didn't love myself for the longest time.
But I'm taking a stand. For far too long have I laid down and accepted defeat. I am 3 weeks into this, but I feel good. I may still be weak, I have a lot to learn. But I am willing to rise up and accept the challenge and work towards a better life.
I'm done with my former self. I'm going be someone who isn't a lazy slob for the first time in my life. The roads long but I look forward to it...
I have changed just about everything mentioned here for the better and also agree with a lot of it. Personally I refuse to quit videogames for the moment. I have already limited all my gaming to exclusively play games that I actually want to play. No more habitual gaming where I'm not even really having fun. In a few months I move countries for a greater job and that is when I plan to take my life into more of an offline direction with a fresh start in a new place.
Keep grinding brothers
Same, I kicked a lot of addictions and toxic thought patterns but I want to keep playing some video games I actually enjoy. Best of luck to you bro with your fresh new start. 💪
Respect brother, honest respect for you man! Keep up the great content🦍
Why not both? Be strong and do all the fun stuff. Why do you have to put yourself in a box and accept this premade notion of what masculinity is? If I am strong enough, I get to decide what masculinity is.
True masculinity is balancing IDGAF to a full T and being a good person (through character and value) to those around you. You can certainly do both. I think Hamza and other self-improvement Tubers forget that these warriors and men of the past also had their past times too. The difference is ours are more virtual and are double-edged swords.
@@danyal6211 my personal take is this
- put crazy horus in and really prioritiaze your max effort everyday until you become succesful to a decent extent (financially, fitness wise etc)
- now enjoy a 12:4 day and have a 8:8 weekend.... basically 12 hours of grind, 4 hours relatively chill doing something you enjoy... 8 to 8 ratio on the weekends.....
thats my take cuz ion wanna be lacking when life is good, becuase good times create weak men, andcomfort and pleasure will ruin your success.
*a 16 hour day is practical in the event if you maximize your time usage by listening to hamza or some good content during your commute, while making breakfast, morning routine etc -- instant knowledge lol
@@MK-zf6or I agree on maximizing your time and efforts everyday and slowly getting better. The problem lies with the accountability. Are you Truly working every minute of those 12 hours? Do you take breaks? How effective are you? Would shorter bursts of energy spread over 12 hours be more efficient? Will you retain all this knowledge from passive listening or is it background noise? I don't mean to clown you, I ask these because I promote effectiveness over time spent. I started out working longer hours and I suppose over time you get better at managing your time and getting better at Deep Work.
If your split works for you then by all means keep on the grind bro. Make sure you don't burn out and take breaks. Good on you for wanting to be a better person and working for it. I wish you the best of luck.
@@danyal6211 thanks brother, and I appreciate the constructive criticism/feedback
to be quite honest, these past few days Ive been in a bit of a rut, but in the midst of this, Ive managed to hold my ground and contine making progress, id def say this weekend and today ive maybe done 7-9 hours of working towards my goals.
but ive acknowledged the issues im facing right now, and actually i was just working on my new schedule, which would allow me to function best based on knowing at what times i fall off, what the major distractions are etc........ its a hard process really getting everything together and it required helluva experimentation and tracking, but at the end of the day, a few months back id be binge watchig netflix, skipping workouts, sleeping in too much and all sorts of negatives, and im glad to say that thats all in the past now
overall, my target is to achieve this perfect time management daily by April, Ive really gotten most of it together and Im realy confident going forward.
best of luck in your journey too, and appreciate the comment man, gonna think deeper on it tonight.
@@MK-zf6or it's a process for sure. I'm glad you are recognizing what needs to be done and that you have improved from what you did a few months ago. Give yourself some props man, change is fucking hard. Keep on pushing and as Hamza says, do the hard work even when you don't feel like it. In addition to that, pace yourself for the long run.
Everyone should watch this
"It is okay to be weak, but never okay to stay weak."
- Some other guy but then I put in quotes so it is mine now
Getting more muscular in the gym has improved my life. I'm stronger and I get more respect from straight guys and more interest from gay men and women.
Don't get too carried away with what he says. If you're working out like an animal + eating well, making good money, attracting women and generally useful; you can play video games. What is objectively wrong about gaming, when not doing the things mentioned above? Obvs doesn't have to be video games (cultivating new skills, exploring etc) but honestly, if you're already winning do whatever the fuck you want as long as it's not setting you back
Tone it down, you can't hunt either. You couldn't guarantee youd be useful in a fight/war. You couldn't guarantee you won't crumble when things actually get dire. And that's ok - as long as people continue to strive to be better than what they are.
Otherwise, great content
I used to know a person that was in a warzone back in the 70s. You know what he'd told me? "Weak don't survive, neither do strong. The one who's willing to pull the trigger faster with no remorse does. The one who adapts quickly to the circumstances he finds himself into. Not necessarily a strong fearsome wolf who'll charge with courage into the battle to save his pack thus dying 1st, nor a weak pathetic rat, for most of them flee in the slightest sign of danger and they'll do anything to save their skin; a soldier does." While I agree with some of your points, the main dissagreement is the "biggest motivation = woman love cause it's equal to reproduction (the 2nd strongest instict)". Talking about myself and ONLY (which means I don't speak for you reader). Personally I get motivated by my own will, to do something for me, something I like and am proud of. That's why I'm in bootcamp and I strife to be a soldier. I need no partner since they're nothing but trouble and nuisance. Repeating, I'm only talking about myself. I saw a couple of your videos, keep motivating people.
"Do hard things so you feel good"
-Me
I'll never get tired of the Jeffrey vs Adonis comparison
Reject modernity, embrace masculinity💪😎
The roman empire suffered the exact same thing that you are talking about in this video. The populance became so disassociated with the rest of the empire and its people that nobody wanted to be a soldier anymore, nobody wanted to work the hard jobs and every citizen was searching for pleasure. It got so bad that at a specific point in time, most of the roman army was made by paid barbarian conscripts from outside the empire that used to be (and still were) its enemies. This is what led to the great decline of the empire and then its inevitable collapse. It is very terrifying seeing the exact same thing happening to the west right now.
This guy is one of the rare men on RUclips who would save our generation of men from destruction. I am happy that we have guys like this. This self-improvement journey is something that is important to every man.
I don't agree with some of the stuff being said here. The one point I want to bring up is that I think its okay to play video games or watch TV in moderation, it doesn't make you "weak". Ofc, if you're spending your whole day doing that with no other responsibilities, goals or ambitions in your life then I agree that that isn't healthy for you. However, I think it's important to do activities you find enjoyable in your downtime so that you can unwind from the stress of everyday life.
I'm stronger than before but still weak, I'm on the pursuit still. I just need to do more productive things in the day, so I'm gonna start competing in powerlifting.
I know I’m very weak that were the developing process comes to me and remove my weaknesses and hope potential I have no weaknesses as 16 yr old hope I can improve and pray god my be with me
I'm lack of words to applaud you, Hamza.
I'm no leader
I'm no genius
I'm no artist
I'm not social
I sit on my ass all day
But recently I've been trying, working to be strong, as a woman. My drive isn't love for somebody, but love for my hobby.
I can't do my hobby cuz I'm weak, I run out of breath just tryna do it. I don't waste time finding tutorials, cuz I just wanna start.
I just wanna hear a person to say, "You can do it." & someone to tell me I can just start. The only person to do that is Hazma.
I love your content, I hope more people can come across your channel. Cuz it really is a wake-up call.
What's your hobby?
@@senka369 My hobby's biking. I hate that I'm so slow at it. I'm always bugging to go and I feel bad to be the one ruining the experience.
@@goingstrong2381 "practice makes men perfect" you got it mate 💪
@@liaash3227 👊
I can't fully agree with this. Entertainment and media CAN be a vessel for self-improvement too. Videogames can teach you and train you in a lot of ways, just like a book or a film can. You just have to choose the right ones.
Motivated by Baki and Kenichi
what video game is doing that for u
@@1ayden Dark Souls did it for me. Granted, it's a one and done experience to have as a kid, but it really gives you a Rocky attitude if you take the lessons of its gameplay right
Your body will go through many rebirths and many trials, but you'll have to keep pushing.
The trick to media and all books, is to put the lessons taught into action instead of being stuck on a cycle of continuous learning
When it becomes a habit that doesn’t yield fruit vs the time we spend then we’re going overboard on the wrong end
My motivation is doom eternal’s soundtrack.
Shit hits different.
Hamza Iam 16 years old and found your videos I saw this and I feel great and ready to be better and not be like 99 percent of men i will do my best to be better and stronger physically and mentally and cut these negatives habits wish me luck :)
Videogames are art though Hamza. Also how do things you call "weak" make people who do them "weak?" If people wanted to change they would, but they do these things because they may want to. How does doing what you want gauge your strength or "weakness"? What even is "weakness?" Everyone can do anything if they want, its just some people do not care enough. So what exactly is "weakness?"
They aren’t all art don’t act like playing war zone for the 100th time is some how art
This sounds like mad cope
My question for Hamza and the community is: Is completely cutting out video games a necessity or is having self control of your time and duties make it ok? Genuine question because it seems to be one of the messages here.
I mean, I just deleted every videogame from my phone and computer a few weeks ago because I found them distracting me even when I felt like I had it under control, it was an unnecessary thing I had to control when it could be solved once and for all. I haven't looked back, I don't have any urges to play videogames anymore, same with TV and sugar.
Like Hamza said, even if you say "oh but it's just one hour here and there", let's be real who's gonna stop you from doing 5 hours per day when you start comfortably sitting and having fun? Nobody. Delete them all, go for a walk or read a book when you feel bored, videogames are going to do just harm to you.
People often say "but but I can spend time with friends there and socialize", as if that's somehow tied to videogames. Go hiking, fishing, playing some sport or for a dinner with your friends, that's actual socializing.
Overall, videogames aren't evil or anything, but they're a bit childish ngl and you would be probably better off replacing it with something else
@AK I agree that I should be replacing them with more productive things, but deleting them, I feel like I want to reach a point in will power where I can a plethra of games in my face and say no. Thanks for the advice though. I'm glad you've seen great progress
@@AK-xi5vy for me videogames are not an addiction RUclips is
@@ghostglitch5355 maybe you just think you will eventually just play again and don't have the courage to delete them. Hamza's don't delete game stuff doesn't necessarily need to be a rule. And yes. If you don't stop levelling your stupid character in a game you will never start leveling up your own real self
Since the year has begun I've not made a concerted effort to avoid video games. I've just come to realise that it's too unproductive a way to utilize time. Gym, starting BJJ, reading along with other things have replaced it almost naturally
I am a SW developer starting a company and trying to get better physique just because. I read book and science articles for breakfast. Even though your videos are only 40 % applicable , they still provide awesome motivation for workout. I hope this lasts.
Even the greatest MMA fighter will enjoy a warm tea while cuddling with their flowery girl on a soft sofa in a safe home.
Weakness is part of a man's journey. The point is that you need to know when to be strong and when to recover due to inevitable weakness.
If you stay strong all the time you'll never sleep and die after a week. If you stay weak all the time you might survive as a body but you'll be a body dead inside.
So know the right time to be strong and be strong then.