"You deserve the consequences of your actions, and if that sounds like an insult, you are doing something wrong". Damn, that realy clicked something in my mind
@@ennui5819 you’re all good then bro, that’s exactly what you should feel about that statement, hence why it’s so powerful as it solely depends on what your actions are
@@ennui5819 Evil springs from a wicked soul or from the lack of knowledge. You probably are doing the right thing, or are doing something awful and not knowing the outcome or what are you doing, you want it. Be certain.
As a female (23yo), I find this message empowering for women. The better we are, the more high value men we can attract. My bf and I have been together for 5.5 years, so we're no longer in this race lol, but my goal is to become a better woman, therefore inspiring my bf to become a better man.
@@nathancasey7712 If they are really for each other (If God chose them to be togehter) and if they are moral and good people They will stay together forever.
This is a powerful message. A reminder to fortify, and to never let that fire in your belly go out. Strive to do and be the best you can be, because you attract what you are.
This video may be depressing for some people but I feel like such direct and powerful words energise me and most to continue to improve. I want to climb above people in this race and help others pick up their pace too. Thank you for this message Hamza 🙏🏻
I think its a bit of both, depressing because if you're watching Hamza you've most likely indulged in these activities and perhaps lowered your potential
Ever since I stumbled upon this channel, I became infinitely more grateful for the things that my dad has taught me. While he wasn't completely present in my childhood since he was busy with work, he always tried to spend as much time with me and my sister as possible. Since a young age, he taught me about delayed gratification, that one must not dwell in comfort, even though I grew up in a good environment, and that you need to become strong to get what you want in life. I didn't grow up in the West, and while I there are things about my culture that I don't like, I appreciate that being competitive is drilled into us at a young age (luckily, my family did this in a non-toxic way).
nice, i love to hear a successful solution to teaching morals. See my father for the few years he was there taught me meaningful lessons about respect by *redacted* if I ever disrespected him, and so on. Problem is toxic solutions only work on those who are capable of forgiving the solution and seeing the result. Which is why kind & comassionate ways > violent & aggressive ways
This really set me up with so much urgency. I've been slacking off for quite a bit because "oh I can always get better tomorrow, I just need to get better at my own pace" NO I DO NOT. There's people out there waking up, getting so much work done, advancing on their lives and I'm just sitting there letting it happen? Why would I let that happen. I won't.
Hamza, in February I had no direction in life. I felt like I was just going along with what my family was doing because i had no other option. You’ve helped me a lot dude. Now i’m back again, coming out of a slump. Trying to run faster in the race. I’m here for inspiration, motivation, and dedication. Do more videos like these. Serious shit. This is not a game. This is life. I need you keep telling everyone that. And telling me. Thank you man. 🙏🏽
Hamza I was addicted to meth and Xanax for years so this message hit hard.. I'm now 36 and I've been clean a year and in the gym being better everyday.. I owe alot of that to u and ur videos.. but yes, I'm far behind in the race.. my wife, which I've been with, for over 11 years stuck with me.. we have 2 little girls and I'm lucky they stayed around.. I personally know the race isn't over and I'm catching back up day by day but I have experienced consequences for shit I did.. but I'm catching up my brother.. thank u
My father is an old school. He built himself from nothing and there's a reason why everyone respects him and how much alias he has. He is in his 50s and still look like 30 and gets the eye from women that i have seen. stable Strong men always win in life. I am building myself a bit slower and need to gas it up. I believe we can do great in life.
you are lucky, my friend. You have a target, someone to try to overtake. i hope one day you look down to him and he looks up to you after a great transformation. godspeed
Hamza, honestly you have changed my life and I am grateful for it. On self improvement for more than 4 months now and I can see changes in my social environment the way I think, the friends I hang out with, with girls, in my physique and intellect. I do relapse in between and i feel really really guilty but I will definitely improve that this very month. Thanks. Means a lot. I am 20 right now.
Hey man I’m 20 as well and I really want to start this self improvement journey but I keep failing/relapsing. I just always find a way to go back to my old self. Do you have any advice on how to keep going and reduce those relapses?
@@ashwinpande7095Search for the goals that requires changes in your habits, and know that you deserve shit if you do not have discipline, love you, and I am waiting for your success
Who wants to date a girl who thinks like that? I can see this is true for hooking up. But genuine connections exist. Emotional bonds. I don’t love my friends because they are successful
Hamza, I am so grateful for you spreading the message for deleting social media. I deleted instagram on May 30th this year and the positive mental effects after that are immeasurable. Happy to see so many people do it now. You won't regret it
Yes, I also kept it with the idea of 'what if someone wants to contact me' but the reality is that you are gonna watch 20 stories everyday that make your life seem miserable🤷🏻♂️
This may be the video I’ve disagreed with most. I definitely see where he’s coming from but this metaphor is not 100% accurate. Be the person you think your partner will want. At the end of the day the person you truly want should want you. That “highest quality” woman may not be the kind of woman you really want. Yes you should definitely limit the temptations that you let keep you from your goals. Yes you should work hard for the things you want. No playing some games or watching some anime is not going to stop you from meeting the love of your life. But letting those things take over your life might. Life is about balance. You should find the happy medium where you can improve your self and your life and be an upstanding respectable man and still do the things you love. That way you will find the girl who loves the same things and you can enjoy them with her.
exactly some girls like to watch anime and shows and play games but what he's saying is he'd rather have a 10 out of 10 with a bad personality than a person with a good personality who's a 7 but the personality boosts it
@@rhoyawrld7257 Well that’s fair enough. I won’t argue with his preference but if he’s mentoring young men I would say his preference is not an objective truth. I do like his content and believe he’s trying to give men good advice to better themselves and their lives but I think this one was a bit off base. I think it’s important to be a high quality man and get a woman that is meets your standards but young men shouldn’t quit their hobbies and interests cold turkey just to try to be the highest quality man they possibly can be to fight over the same top tier women who probably don’t share any of your initial interests.
While I do agree to a point, this is getting borderline. You have a point with people wasting time on frivolous things. But going all work 100% will leave you with nothing as well. Also Get the fuck out of cities. You'll never find quality people in them. I've followed you for a while and found myself because of it. But you're starting to sound obsessed. Not every man can be in the 1% that's the nature of the world and the cruel reality. Don't give false hope. However, everyone can find an amazing partner. You just need to temper expectations and not settle for trash. And again, get out of cities. They corrupt passively., even the air you breath is toxic and so is the water. Work on yourself physically mentally and spiritually and find grounded people. Don't just go hard in the paint, because most of your viewers are going to fall for a pretty girl whose good at lying.... Tons of them in the city.
A slither of false hope will destroy more than all of the nihilism in the world. Neither are ideal, but there's no worse situation than believing you can change the unchangeable.
I know this comment will get lost in a sea of others, but I want to thank you so much for starting me on this. And more importantly, uploading this video today. I had been practicing gratitude, exercise, and meditation for nearly all of July, along with other habits I added on. I recently stopped after enjoying vacation and taking part in so many cheap instant pleasures, falling off the bandwagon after just managing to break into the 100lbs line again after being over 200lbs. This is the reason I am going to get back on, For you man. I hope I can race you to the very end, even if I do have a lot of ground to make up, and a lot of laps to get back. Ill put in the hard work, so I can run side by side with everyone else you have encouraged. Thank you, man.
Wow that 95% includes my husband who is passive, non-driven, unmotivated, antisocial, clueless, incompetent and incapable. He just wants to live in his comfort zone bubble and wants us in it. He eats junk food. He doesn’t have the discipline to exercise. He watches TV or reads entertaining novels all the time. He doesn’t fix anything around the house and doesn’t upkeep the yards. I asked him to fix the faucets so we don’t waste water. He said it’s cheaper to pay for the water than a plumber. Our refrigerator has no ice, no water (too cheap to buy expensive filter), no light and with water leak ( we put a towel under). He believes it still works because it’s cold. He said I want too much and expect too high. I keep myself in high standard but why doesn’t he grow on his own?! I am tired of pulling him along for 20 years. We have 3 sons. I am the one who takes them hiking and camping with other dads from scouting. I am angry that he doesn’t parent, teach or discipline. It falls all on me. I hate him for ruining our sons. Under him and with his support, now the oldest son plays video game all day and just wants to get by like his dad. I talked to people at church. One told me to submit no matter what. The other junior pastor said I do bad parenting. I have to choose between God and scouting. I like my sons to learn from other men in scouting because their dad is so lazy and has no achievements in life. His calm and quiet fool me all.
Honestly I’ve known this from the beginning. I started self-improvement because I knew that every guy my age was levelling up, for example going to the gym. I couldn’t let myself decrease in value whilst everyone else boosted themselves. The quality of average man is increasing.
@@user-sb5vt8iy5q yeah agree, average guys are getting weaker and lazier. Everyone is distracted. Which makes it easier to stand out. Maybe part of it is also that the top 5% of men are way more visible than they were in the past
@hive mind So you're saying that fitness culture and healthy food popularity haven't risen? Obesity rates might be higher, but there's no denying there's more fit, muscular people today than a decade ago.
@@Axxxel_in_Harlem that's just because there is more people alive, not because the general population are investing in their fitness. back in the day there were way more necessity for hardened, strong men than there is today, because said strong men of the past created our times of today, the same catchphrase everyone uses "hard times create strong men, strong men create good times and good times create weak men" and the cycle continues.
Hamza, I rarely comment or even subscribe whenever I am on RUclips, which is a lot more than I care to admit (although thanks to your teachings I have learned to reduce greatly). You have honestly been a revelation for me and while I know your content is primarily aimed at a younger audience, you have given me at the age of 34, a chance to reclaim my life. Your videos have burned a new flame within and I now follow the habits you have taught of doing gratitude journals, meditation, exercising each day, eating well and you have got me reading again. I am currently in the middle of "How to win friends and influence people." I plan to read the Tracey books as well. My weed use defnitely fucked me up in university and most likely affected the trajectory of my life. I have now reduced usage to only after 9pm every night, and the ultimate plan is to reduce that to just weekdays and try to keep weekends, weed-free. Do you think I can change it all around at 34?
Write down your goals, set up a plan with noumerous small good habits and do them every single day; after a while the compound effect will take place and you will see the trajectory of your life change for the better.
im 35, i think regardless how far behind we might feel theres an obligation to keep the struggle because that is better than surrender (commitment) to a further "fallen" version of ourselves as a life fate rather than.... its not revolution cuz that gets back to where it was, another specific r word.... spending to much time tryna remember but its like revolution except it goes somewhere new.... that plus manifest destiny regardless the wins and setbacks
10:12 I am 16 and I am glad that you showed me the light to how society works . As a teen living in Africa it is sad that my fellow tribe men have fallen victim to the western`s society mind set to attract women Instead of being their true selves.
I do agree that you should lower your Bad Habits but Hamza makes it sound like we only live for p***y. Like maybe i have other goals and aspirations instead of only worrying about if im not "behind in the race". Live a Healthy and Humble life and enjoy yourself because we don't have alot of time.
To add nuance to your point, I'd add that life isn't a sprint but a marathon. So having fun, slowing down for a bit, taking a break is all part of the race. Slow and steady wins the race and by never allowing yourself to breathe you'll only burn yourself out. Ofc i'm aware that 99% of people don't need to hear that because they are already resting for too long or have stopped running completely, but I thought the message lacked a bit of nuance so here it is.
@@ErzakMK fun should be a reward you get to experience from time to time, and you should take the time to enjoy it when it happens. But a life pursuing solely fun is nothing but hedonistic and meaningless. Meaning is responsibility. Meaning is carrying a heavy load, whatever load is assigned to you, to the best of your ability.
At a time when I'm really spoiling myself and living low, I'm really glad to stumble upon this video. Hence, I've made a resolution to fix my life before next year and win the race eventually. Thank you so much for sharing this bitter truth, Hamza.
I've been doing this thing quite often recently, I look back at the times in my life when I was absolutely, crazily, madly in love with a girl. I look back at those times with so much fondness, so much happiness, so much gratitude. The feeling of being in love really is like no other, where you're in a short of a trance all the time, you're just happy, you're just smiling for no reason, everything reminds you of her, there's nothing wrong in the world. Over the past couple of years, I'd been telling myself that I'll never allow myself to fall for somebody to that extent again. But over the past couple of months I've realised that its not a feeling I want to sacrifice, its not an experience I want to forego for the rest of my life. I, now, look back at those memories with nothing but fondness, and think to myself, "I cant wait to experience that feeling again." I use that to motivate me. Because I know for a fact, that the more I improve, the better the woman whom I finally do fall for is going to be. This helps motivate me even on my worst days.
the title of this scared me, i didn't want to hear it, but i'm so glad i clicked, hamza is a very very fucking rare person that can actually get through to me, thank you for this, i needed the reality check
I was always extremely competitive but the teachers hated it and told me that life is not a race Our whole social system is based on the jeffry system when even teachers teach u something like that I was lost I was a fucking jeffrey but I am on my journey to self improvement now (currently 16) soooo.... Thank u hamza I love u bro❤
Don’t listen to these stupid idiotic teachers bro, these people don’t even deserve to be a teacher, stay hard, stay restless, and be yourself! (You could still improve your knowledge by them but we don’t listen to their shitty advises)❤
You will never know how apprecated you are my brother. All that you said is true and not dark at all, and for those who think so are actually weak. And this life's success ain't for the weak. Thank you Hamza 🙏🏽
this takes the meaning of a soulmate to a whole different level. The person who's yours, and only yours if you live to a certain high standard required to DESERVE them. I will have to upgrade things too, such as this channel. Thanks Hamza :)
This was in his past and he matured over that experience. I do not think it is wise to call him a hypocrite if he was talking about his past and got over it as a better man, and this applies.
Been on a roll with running every day, meal prep, not eating KFC, minimal gaming. But this morning fell into a slump and slept in. Stumbled across this and got it put back in perspective. Getting outta bed to go running now. Cheers man!
Mostly agree. You need to cultivate your hunger and passion to thrive in this life. Comfort is the silent killer. Though I would caution against the notion that even one hour of video games is unacceptable and is detrimental toward your position in the race. Man is not designed to run forever without a break. I've burned out many times obsessing about improvement and I would have made much greater progress striking the delicate balance of fighting and resting and recovering.
I definitely agree with this. Self improvement using all the tools Hamza has mentioned is important and will certainly improve your life. However if you can't take a little break (which the mind needs) to enjoy the things you like whether it would be movies or games then you potentially spiral into a dark place. I personally now eat clean, gym six days a week, have a decent career, read books and also pray five times a day on top of which I can fit in 1 - 2 hours of gaming/ movies a day and this keeps consistent - without the latter I would have given up a long time ago.
@@shhh994 yep but that's a part of the self discipline process. I smoked around 20 cigarettes for 16 years, I would cluck like crazy if I didn't have a cigarette but then had to tell my mind im done and now its been just over four months - not one cig. For me personally with games/ shows its a bit easier cause I have fixed time (that slightly moves) linked with go to the mosque for prayers so know I need to switch off to head out. Obviously you do whatever works for you and if gaming or not your thing then great, for me it's a part of enjoying life and doing all this other healthy activities becomes rather meaningless if I can't indulge in some pleasure.
@@jgame7587 right on man. It is an opportunity to practice discipline. I feel like life would feel rather dull without watching good movies or playing a good video game. I've given this some thought since I made my comment and I think it's all about the content. Watching reality TV or playing COD online are definitely not a good way to spend your off time. It makes you feel bad about yourself ultimately which causes you to want to do it more. However, watching a thought provoking movie like interstellar or an inspiring one like pursuit of happiness? That is productive. That gives you perspective. That takes you thru a range of emotions that adds value to your life. Likewise playing a great video game like the last of us can teach you life lessons if you look closely enough. Choose your content wisely and it will still be a productive use of time. Some of the best lessons I've learned in life came from fictional books. I used to think reading fiction was a waste of time but man was I wrong.
Started watching you at the start of this year, when my ex gf dumped me, and oh boy, i was devastated. Thanks to your videos i started hitting the gym, lifting weights, working harder than ever, and im impressed by the progess i made. Im happy with my body, got a new girl, life is way better since a followed your lifestyle. Thanks for teaching me Hamza, and keep the grind boys
Brother stupid question but what's the difference between lifting weights and going to the gym? I hit the gym but idk if thats a specific thing im missing
the only thing i want to remark is that sometimes the competition is misunderstood. For example, in the gym, you can consider that the guy that is most muscular and strong is winning the competition to the guy that is athletic but is not as strong as him. But maybe, for that guy, the goal is to be the healthier as possible, and not to lift the maximum weight and f*ck up his joints. So, the competition is to be happy as a person and everyone has an interpretation of happiness and success.
Plot twist: The good thing is that the women men actually compete for the most, are actually often low value women. Just because a woman is attractive or hot doesn't mean she'll make a great partner (e.g Amber Heard). So, average men also have a high chance of getting high value women, she may not be the most beautiful but she'll make your life easy and sweet. Learn to identify a high value woman. Never use beauty as a major yardstick, consider attitude and how much she respects you, the most.
Hamza I'm really grateful for you being really upfront and unfiltered, especially in these topics. I'm really proud of your journey and you inspire me!
I've seen men who were ahead, and they died early due ro exhaustion ! And the men behind them, ended up getting the women. So is you advice really true?
Maybe, those men who where ahead, where only ahead in your head. It's primordial that you chose the right races in your life. Maybe those who where beheind where winning more important races but you didn't even notice. But I know for sure that a race in life where you are more exahusted as the time passes is not a good and sustainable race. It's a race towards degradation. Only chose the races where you are going to feel better in the long run. Improving your mental health, building up your physique or learning a new language. The other ones who don't make you any good, better be in hell
@@Dandnayak778 Bezos got literally skinned alive in divorce court.Not much of a success in my book if now the richest woman in the world is the one he was too stupid to date.
As gruesome and unfair is this is, it’s true. It doesn’t need to be a race, yet here we are, and there is nothing you can do about it. You are stuck in a place that you cannot change. People won’t change for you, so you’ve got to change yourself and do better as a man, and even as a woman. We have gone back to survival of the fittest.
We have gone back? Survival of the fittest was always the case. The person who is good at speaking to many different people has the most connections and therefore force.
This idea of competing against others doesn’t lead to fulfillment. I went down that road and all the benefits of my self improvement started feeling like they were never enough. At my most productive I started resenting my life and would look down on myself for the smallest setbacks/failures. While I think Hamzas advice is usually on the money, this way of thinking is flawed. One needs to find a balance that’s suitable. Long term growth is key and keeping the big picture and passions as your first priority is the way to fulfillment. Others are entitled to feel how they want but I don’t agree with Hamza’s stance in this video.
@@warlockiii1846 Let's look at it. "Competing against others doesn't lead to fulfillment." Competing against others is the way to achieve socially recognised success in the world. Short of renouncing worldly desire and living as a monk, we're all in the same game, and we're wired to feel emotions according to how well we're doing relative to our peers. The satisfaction of success may be fleeting, and competing may be stressful, but if you spend 10 years watching RUclips documentaries because your passion is True Crime, not only will you not get fulfilment from it, you'll suffer the sting of being rejected by women as well. Moreover, fulfilment by its nature is fleeting. We're not wired to experience lasting satisfaction in the absence of achieving some kind of meditative transcendental state, so the aim of chasing some kind of attained level of fulfilment is flawed from the beginning. We're humans and social creatures - we're wired to find meaning in the social relationships we form. If you prioritise indulging a "passion" over working hard at something society recognises value in, you will struggle to form those relationships and in my opinion you'll be worse off for it because of the way we're wired.
@@shugyosha7924 yes this all might be true but that's not what @J Ultimate tried to say. I think he said that while a certain degree of competition is important, being in a constant battle ain't for everyone. Yes this sounds like an excuse but I personally relate to this quite a lot. Being a perfectionist means that every little fucking detail you see that you don't like about yourself drags you down in a deep hole when you're not careful. Combine this with constantly comparing yourself to others. Yes it might bring you forward and will help you with a successful career, but when this very competition kills every emotion in you, makes you hate yourself and assures that you see everyone around as a potential thread (hence someone tries to get your place), it ain't worth it. When you feel depressed and lonely, you won't get bitches because this takes energy you don't have. You won't get friends because everyone is a potential thread. It nullifies ever, bit of progress when it literally kills you. See, no profit. I've been there to some extent and mentioned stuff is a thing. Some can go out hunting their goals for 25 hours and 8 days a week but some can't and that's fine as long as they balance their stuff out.
The most serious i have ever seen Hamza, legit made me tear up because of how much of the truth he was speaking, my eyes had already been open but to have this as extra light to my eyes i appreciate it hamza, thank you for being the father i never had ❤
Hamza, this video probably has been the most influential for me. I know I just watched it yesterday but I started the day today not sleeping in, working out more frequently (also looking for better form), getting really serious about my startups, and trying to waste less time. Deleted instagram too
Hamza, bro. I just want to thank you on this one. I’m so fucking grateful for every word you’ve said, overall an particularly in this video. You did what should’ve been done. You’re reviving the manhood and masculinity. You are The Man
i just turned 17 last sunday , I've been working out 6 days a week and getting big, thanks for the heads up man i really needed you to remind me of this. I Will Race and outperform the other men competing with me ,Thank you hamza
Me too my brother, but i still take Hamza’s advice for motivation to not let another man surpass me. Even if I don’t really feel that a woman is what I need to stay fulfilled.
Started watching u last year this time and my life is completely different. These style of vids sent me on an upward spiral of me changing my life forever and I’m so grateful ur back to making them. Big ups to King Hamza
@@DaveMediaTV Well if it was before your self improvement happened then your standards will have raised by a few points. So good luck with your future.
Please Read: Do NOT normalize such aggressive & stressful behaviour! Unfortunately, this is what is being instilled in most men's minds nowadays. It is what is becoming of our society. And to a degree, it can be very toxic. Men are becoming even more aggressive, desperate. Everyone compares themselves, they lash out with insecurities. But ultimately, peace & staying content are concepts far out of reach for many. There is greed and unhappiness. Unfortunately, society is full of flaws and there might never be a time where humankind will not have many social flaws. The ego is too powerful. What happened to being in touch with your emotions? What happened to being aware? What happened to ethics? I understand how this influence is supposed to encourage people to be their best selves, but many get lost. They think: "Oh wow, I've become so productive, successful, I'm a sigma male now! I can have anything I want...". And they start the numbers game. They keep on attaining & attaining, but it's never enough. At some point, they wonder what's happening in their lives? Things are falling apart. Their friendships, their relationship. Together with their high testosterone, they think they are now number one and nobody else has a voice louder than theirs. With power, must come responsibility as well, the qualities of being humble, understanding others, not overstepping boundaries. The idealistic & stable version of a relationship is where 2 individuals bond with many of their interests aligning, always having a spark of life AND staying CONTENT. Knowing they are strong together, they will pick eachother up, they will take the best out of eachother. Choosing a partner means investing long-term, knowing you will do great together with them. Knowing you can only improve things together until the end of your life. That is what TRUST & LOVE are. They are what build great things. Not flight or fight mechanisms, comparisons, stress & reoccurring thoughts, wounds that destroy families. Greed & discontent. It is immature. If people could stay open-minded and accept eachother, plus critique, they would be in a much better position. But the ego is our enemy. The only thing we can do is make decisions and make ourselves proud with our decisions, through lots of effort and self-improvement. This is a very animalistic take (Hamza's) and sadly, for the masses, it is true. That is why the world we live in can be such a hell and most intelligent people need to build their own "utopias". Flight or fight effects aren't going to change people for the better, necessarily. It might stress them out so much, that they become negative, aggressive, forceful. This also puts great pressure on women, because it ruins friendships between the opposite genders. Men always being on the chase. Having hidden motives. Manipulating, twisting. If more people could stop pornography, spreading sexual content everywhere, normalizing desensitizing, dopamine-boosting activities that make life a chaotic hell, it would be great. If people could learn healthier coping habits - meditation, sports, journaling & so on. If they could have really good morals, if they could eliminate their insecurities and stop forcing unnecessary stress everywhere, we would have a much more peaceful world. It comes with understanding, awareness... Things not really easily accessible by most. Everyone has forgotten how to make life enjoyable. To trust, to be with others. We are not alone in our journey. We do not need to motivate ourselves with stress all the time, when we could motivate ourselves through love, happiness, peace. I know I sound like a hippie, but these things are well achievable. It is not all about masculinity. Mental illness is rising and it is at an all-time high because of the spread of information around the world. Because we constantly compare ourselves & we are never enough. But we can be enough and still strive for more. And here is another comment I will quote, by Sado: "Hearing this will naturally make men think that every other man is a threat and inherently dangerous to them. It might even cause feelings of aggression and hatred towards other men around them. It should never be this way. The idea that you are in competition with yourself does not actually mean you are just in competition with yourself. It means that you have to become the BEST version of yourself in every way in order to win this race of life. It all begins and ends with you. HOWEVER the main thing you get wrong is that there can absolutely be more than 1 winner. There isn’t any single 1 greatest woman ever that everyone is fighting for. Millions of 10/10 women exist. as with any single 1 greatest man ever. There are truly great people and many of them, not just one single one - that is delusional in this grand scheme of life with billions of humans. Men, you and your brothers can all absolutely be top tier winning men TOGETHER." It is a negative message that you are spreading, with fear. Fear causes negativity to rise. Negativity ---> Insecurity ---> Mental Illness. The true losers in this life are those who have to thrive off of walking over others to feel like they are something more. And these clickbait titles make me wonder if this is all being done to help better people or for the sake of "GLORY" and success.
I understand that the mindset you speak of might be toxic. But it truly is the only way that any modern man can stay above the competition. We must be strong, purposeful and stoic at all times. If you haven't got a high position in this cutthroat race of life, then it's simply because you possess no masculine virtue. "Taking a break", "looking after yourself" and "being vulnerable to others" are all feminine concepts designed to strip us men of our power and our voices. We must be constantly striving for perfection, otherwise society and especially the opposite sex will consider us losers. Like Hamza has explained in this video, society only cares for winners in life. Only the most attractive, successful and disciplined men will succeed during these emerging hard times, and the "average" men are left with absolutely nothing. Our generation are weak and emasculated. Hamza is a beacon of hope in this day and age due to his encouragement of us to band together in this cult and reclaim our masculine drive and strive for dominance of our world. No one is truly your friend, only your competition. No matter how much your mental health deteriorates, nothing else matters so long as you've surpassed everyone else in the race. I urge young men today to take things one step further. Don't just dominate your competition and your women, but make sure other men can never reach your level of success and masculinity. If you can't reach that level of success, you've already lost the race. Wealth, status, looks and game are everything these days, and Hamza embodies all of these qualities in full. He speaks true of the hard times that are coming our way due to our constant quest for hedonism instead of revitalising our masculine drive. Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times. If you're not treating your life like the race we are all in from birth, you're simply better off not living your life at all. "Drop out" of life altogether if you aren't willing to prepare for the hard times.
@Bumly What is this elitist mentality? If you are not the most successful, most fit male then your life isn't as worthy? Wannabe woke cultist, you're feeding yourself lies. Your twisted perception of life is your own dream you're living in. You can still be masculine, while being humble, happy, content. Having enough, striving for more. Your own competition really is, only yourself. Your ego will get in your way throughout your whole life and you will always be imperfect, not even imperfect, straight up flawed to the core. Stop making up these abnormal social constructs. Money won't necessarily make you happy. Productivity won't necessarily make you happy. There is a fine balance. Videogames, art, etc. - it is all joy to be shared with others, they make us more human. They make life more pleasant. Who is going to call you a loser if you're still fit, have a nice job, have many hobbies, a great mind, good habits & so on? Nobody. (Maybe someone who is out of their mind and lives in a fabricated lie, insecurities, an unfulfilling life) You don't have to be the very best to enjoy life, to be successful. If you're not spreading positivity, then what are you leaving on the world after yourself? Nothing. What are you even making for yourself? I hope success is enough to fill that empty, overly masculine heart when you are but an old fool, in an unhappy, torn apart marriage & family, realizing all the mistakes you've made at that point. People are not to be dominated. They are to be helped. Because together, we are stronger. Together, we cover our flaws and become better. We help eachother. If you really want to forsake your mental health all the way for toxic masculinity, then consider becoming a gladiator somewhere. There is SOMETHING & SOMEONE for EVERYONE that makes an effort. You do not have to be at the TOP something percent, this is LIFE and EDUCATION is key. Emotional intelligence is what matters. Awareness is what matters. Good decisions matter the most. We all strive to leave our mark somehow. Some positively. Some through underhanded means, that ultimately crush society.
I suggest reading the book "The Four Agreements". There are good parts in it and it is very short. Sadly, humans will always have different ideas implanted in their minds, ideas that are not even theirs. So go ahead and read this book and please, stop having these really inflated egos that you must force onto everyone.
Disagree. While you're leveling up, she's already getting piped by men who are there or close to being there. By the time you level up and get her, you're already last or somewhere in-between. I get the motivational component. But this is exactly why women should NOT be your motivation. But if you want to interchange "wife" with whatever your purpose or goal is, then this absolutely applies.
@Nero Iv seen many women cheat on these narcissistic guys with the local weed dealer or "lazy guys" who's behind the race, the more men try to see this as a competition, the more toxic and the more complicated thing's are going to become.
what is your motivation then? to be rich or to have the perfect greek god physique? for what? for yourself? i want to be rich to be able to travel the world with my wife and give my kids everything they need and to be free. i want to be super muscular so that i can attract a beautiful woman to become my wife
@ak same thing can be applied to every human being tbh It has been said in centuries that the person you should take most care is yourself because yeah a partner can make your life better but you're the one that needs to start that road for the best
there are many other good women worth improving for so I dont get your point. Even if the girl you were aiming for ends up getting another man who were already at the point you were trying to reach there WILL be another woman who will fit your preferences. Also, any straight man who's normal in his head will be motivated by beautiful women. It makes no sense to say that women shouldn't be your motivation when a great marriage and many healthy children is what EVERY human being SHOULD want in life.
Hamza out of every video you've made this one has given me chills. You've got better at getting a point across well. Edit: watched further and you are truly as frightful as my Indian Math Tutor
Hamza I stopped watching your videos a little while ago because I felt all the stimulation from the editing was doing me more harm than good and I could probably find similar information in one of the books you recommended without all the stimulation, I clicked on this video because the title was captivating and this video legit provided me with genuine information I needed to know, I’ve been messing about lately at festivals going out with girls not uploading on my RUclips channel and I thought it was fine to do those things because of modern society. Thank you Hamza for reminding me there is no time to waste 🙏
Everything hamza said is mostly true but the mindset of "If i dont go all in at this very moment in time and reach the front of the race somebody else is going to be fucking my potential future wife" isnt the realistic approach to reaching your full potential. Going harder than last time and making gradual improvements that you can measure and record in your career, physical fitness and social relationships while staying competitive is the best way to go. This race isnt a marathon it is a sprint. The man that runs at a strong moderate pace for 10 years is going to surpass the man that sprints hard for 1 year then briskly walks another year for 10 years.
I agree that men do have many things to put themselves as high value on the market and it is a natural lizard brain thing for us as animals and humans. However this doesn’t really give any sort of leverage to what the story of life is, are you doing enough? what is enough? are you wealthy? how wealthy are you? are you active and fit? well you aren’t an olympic runner so you aren’t fit enough. At the end of the day one of the main things that make us very unique as humans is our different perceptions of the world based on our past experiences. We also have consciousness as another one of those different factors. Hard work, focus, discipline is lead before a prosperous life of course, however this message without any sort of levity on when to have fun or when you shouldn’t can lead to other problems. I actually do love this message, just perhaps this could lead to a whole other problem of people working for something they might not even know what it is.
Dang it hamza, ur amazing bro, thank you so much, this video made me wake up a little bit more, the hard work... specially when you don't feel like it...we all are gonna make it, c'mon everyone show some motivation!!
Whoopsie daisy! Silly me Hamza, I'm sorry won't happen again I must've had a loose screw thanks for bringing this to my attention. I must've been a little under the weather I won't personally let that slide anymore I'll affiliate with matters such as these. Thank You Sincerely, Hamza #1 D-rider
At 25 I feel like the quality of available women around me are less than desirable. I understand that I myself am perhaps not of the highest quality I could be either. So every day I strive to be better than yesterday. At this age there’s no way a woman doesn’t have a history and all the issues that come with it. Almost feels like you will one day have to pick the best out of a bad bunch ahah. I’ve had my fair share of relationships and casual flings but nothing sticks for too long for various reasons. Finding someone for the ultimate goal and my biological mission of impregnating seems like picking the best out of a bad bunch. Don’t stop chasing for you best self my friends, cos when you stop it’s true you will get left behind
Hamza I have discovered your Channel in March , and I know I am on the good path because everything you say was already in the back of my head as a little voice that was keeping me sane in dark times , as we are speaking now I am on my way to become an entrepreneur, creating unique custom model cars for my clients all over the world. And Shipped my first car to the United States today ... I did not learn much from you, you just reinforced the good thoughts in my mind that helped me improve on every aspect of my life. Being in shape and having an " alpha male" physique is also vital for every man to be considered normal by today's standards , if you're not improving you are regressing. Always always go hard.
"run your own race" - means to focus on your own race strategy and not mind what's going on around you, do not be "influenced", focus on your own goals and advancing yourself for YOUR life... Your own race is for your own life, you have a way you have to attack the race and being "influenced" to change your strategy or adjust yourself by the others is usually a fail...
Exactly. You can't just be born some average looking guy with asthma and hate yourself because you aren't a famous celebrity basketball player, that would be silly.
Men are very competitive, and I respect it so much!!! At the end of the day as a girl my job is to be by a man's side so that I can support him in this race!!!
Competing is good in a certain amount. It's good to race in some stuff with Friends and other men, but exces of competitiveness it's literally deadly. Students in Japan are told to compete a hell lot more than western culture men, to study a hell lot, to have a dream well paid job instead of the one they want, and Guess what? They end up killing themselves if they cannot race ahead of men they don't know for women they don't have. Other men just are so competitive that they get jealous about other man's wife, a woman they have never met or fell in love with that they feel like she would have been their wife, and " if i can't have her, he neither" and end up killing other people because of that. Competing is not bad at a certain extent, it is actually very good as a motivation to improve, but obssesing sick about that Will get you to kill yourself or kill someone else if you think you Lost, or, at least, getting into depression because "you Lost" (didn't marry the woman you didn't knew).
Hit the nail there mate, I agree with this for sure. Especially as someone who also hates the “all day grind” culture (which isn’t even true in most cases and I’m not referring to hamza) it just sometimes leads u nowhere, it’s better to kinda relax and live life but I get what hamzas saying here too, it’s definitely given me a new perspective
Hamza i completely understand and agree with that point but as of now I do not view my mission as "get the 10 out of 10 girl". I find that when you focus on other things and improve yourself the women will come to you. You do not "chase the finishline" because that'll make the finish line further away if that makes sense. You'll repulse the finish line if your only mission is to get women
I joined the gym when I was 15 years old after watching you I've deleted all my video games and also before I know your channel i already deleted tiktok and Instagram and now im trying to focus on my study now im 17 but i look way more Successful then my peers thanks to you
Today I journaled about quitting RUclips just as I quitted instagram and facebook. I was just about to do it when I saw your video. It made me even more determinated to quit and win the race. I just want to thank you Hamza for all you did to me and I hope we meet one day to talk about our journeys.
Quitting RUclips is completely unnecessary. It's what is needed to stay sane in a world that makes no sense. The only outlets of truth you will find are on RUclips (and other places such as Rumble, Locals and Odyssey, sure, but the volume is far greater on here clearly). RUclips is not social media. It is video-hosting that provides people the means to discuss the ideas in a video via comments. TikTok and Instagram are five second dopamine hits with no consideration for discussion and absolute consideration for instilling FOMO and pressure into purchasing products and spending money (mainly through OnlyFans).
"You deserve the consequences of your actions, and if that sounds like an insult, you are doing something wrong". Damn, that realy clicked something in my mind
this must be a first comment in the comment section.
But what if it isn't? What if I want the consequences of my actions? Am I then doing the right thing?
@@ennui5819 you’re all good then bro, that’s exactly what you should feel about that statement, hence why it’s so powerful as it solely depends on what your actions are
@@ennui5819 yes whatever you doing whenever tou doing you should realise what consiquences .
@@ennui5819 Evil springs from a wicked soul or from the lack of knowledge.
You probably are doing the right thing, or are doing something awful and not knowing the outcome or what are you doing, you want it.
Be certain.
As a female (23yo), I find this message empowering for women. The better we are, the more high value men we can attract. My bf and I have been together for 5.5 years, so we're no longer in this race lol, but my goal is to become a better woman, therefore inspiring my bf to become a better man.
Hopefully your friends will be inspired by your movements and you all grow together.
amazing mindset you have, instead of taking this as derogatory towards women you see the true message, you're an absolute Anastasia!
You're kinda still in the race because the chance y'all stay together forever is pretty low. Although I hope you do
@@nathancasey7712 If they are really for each other (If God chose them to be togehter) and if they are moral and good people They will stay together forever.
@@ellgndd5343 you sound like you don't really have much experience dating
Hamza already has finished the race, but he ran back to help other finish or go further than they normally would have gone. ❤
race never over bro
@@dnd21 yeah i realized after i watched more
This is a powerful message. A reminder to fortify, and to never let that fire in your belly go out. Strive to do and be the best you can be, because you attract what you are.
This video may be depressing for some people but I feel like such direct and powerful words energise me and most to continue to improve. I want to climb above people in this race and help others pick up their pace too. Thank you for this message Hamza 🙏🏻
I think its a bit of both, depressing because if you're watching Hamza you've most likely indulged in these activities and perhaps lowered your potential
@@Emerald_Forge "Potential is only the expression of a possibility...."
Ever since I stumbled upon this channel, I became infinitely more grateful for the things that my dad has taught me. While he wasn't completely present in my childhood since he was busy with work, he always tried to spend as much time with me and my sister as possible. Since a young age, he taught me about delayed gratification, that one must not dwell in comfort, even though I grew up in a good environment, and that you need to become strong to get what you want in life. I didn't grow up in the West, and while I there are things about my culture that I don't like, I appreciate that being competitive is drilled into us at a young age (luckily, my family did this in a non-toxic way).
nice, i love to hear a successful solution to teaching morals. See my father for the few years he was there taught me meaningful lessons about respect by *redacted* if I ever disrespected him, and so on. Problem is toxic solutions only work on those who are capable of forgiving the solution and seeing the result.
Which is why kind & comassionate ways > violent & aggressive ways
@AMVH he is most likely Russian or Balkan
@@avoider707 That's Western tho right?
@@jaro551 do you think that any country thats not japan is western?
@@RSw_Why Do you think meth is good?
This really set me up with so much urgency. I've been slacking off for quite a bit because "oh I can always get better tomorrow, I just need to get better at my own pace" NO I DO NOT. There's people out there waking up, getting so much work done, advancing on their lives and I'm just sitting there letting it happen? Why would I let that happen. I won't.
Yes sir! Tbh, I’ve been ignoring Hamza vids to *let* myself slack off.
Disgusting. I’m glad this is the one I clicked on.
keep that in your head, always
Gigachad
same brother... I WON"T SLACK
Hamza, in February I had no direction in life. I felt like I was just going along with what my family was doing because i had no other option. You’ve helped me a lot dude.
Now i’m back again, coming out of a slump. Trying to run faster in the race. I’m here for inspiration, motivation, and dedication. Do more videos like these. Serious shit. This is not a game. This is life. I need you keep telling everyone that. And telling me. Thank you man. 🙏🏽
Hamza I was addicted to meth and Xanax for years so this message hit hard.. I'm now 36 and I've been clean a year and in the gym being better everyday.. I owe alot of that to u and ur videos.. but yes, I'm far behind in the race.. my wife, which I've been with, for over 11 years stuck with me.. we have 2 little girls and I'm lucky they stayed around.. I personally know the race isn't over and I'm catching back up day by day but I have experienced consequences for shit I did.. but I'm catching up my brother.. thank u
Hope your still clean man
My father is an old school. He built himself from nothing and there's a reason why everyone respects him and how much alias he has. He is in his 50s and still look like 30 and gets the eye from women that i have seen.
stable Strong men always win in life. I am building myself a bit slower and need to gas it up.
I believe we can do great in life.
That is EXACTLY how my father is. He's in the army do obviously fit and self made.
@@aamishazeem3770 yeah they’re a different breed eh. We gotta ante up too brother 🫱🏻🫲🏼. Enough toxicity already.
@@aamishazeem3770 ahh you studied in icse, remember the cbse 2020?
you are lucky, my friend. You have a target, someone to try to overtake. i hope one day you look down to him and he looks up to you after a great transformation. godspeed
@@shhh994 I intend to do so. Godspeed to you too friend
Hamza, honestly you have changed my life and I am grateful for it. On self improvement for more than 4 months now and I can see changes in my social environment the way I think, the friends I hang out with, with girls, in my physique and intellect. I do relapse in between and i feel really really guilty but I will definitely improve that this very month. Thanks. Means a lot. I am 20 right now.
Hey man I’m 20 as well and I really want to start this self improvement journey but I keep failing/relapsing. I just always find a way to go back to my old self. Do you have any advice on how to keep going and reduce those relapses?
@@ashwinpande7095Search for the goals that requires changes in your habits, and know that you deserve shit if you do not have discipline, love you, and I am waiting for your success
Who wants to date a girl who thinks like that? I can see this is true for hooking up. But genuine connections exist. Emotional bonds. I don’t love my friends because they are successful
No, but if you were successful would you love your friends? You think you would but you won’t know until you’re the best version of yourself
Hamza, I am so grateful for you spreading the message for deleting social media. I deleted instagram on May 30th this year and the positive mental effects after that are immeasurable. Happy to see so many people do it now. You won't regret it
A day before my birthday lol
I also deleted Instagram and I think that it is an act all men should take
Great job man, keep up the good work.
Deleted mine 2 years ago, made a new one this year for just my closer mates so I can keep up with them. Best thing i ever did
Yes, I also kept it with the idea of 'what if someone wants to contact me' but the reality is that you are gonna watch 20 stories everyday that make your life seem miserable🤷🏻♂️
This may be the video I’ve disagreed with most. I definitely see where he’s coming from but this metaphor is not 100% accurate. Be the person you think your partner will want. At the end of the day the person you truly want should want you. That “highest quality” woman may not be the kind of woman you really want. Yes you should definitely limit the temptations that you let keep you from your goals. Yes you should work hard for the things you want. No playing some games or watching some anime is not going to stop you from meeting the love of your life. But letting those things take over your life might. Life is about balance. You should find the happy medium where you can improve your self and your life and be an upstanding respectable man and still do the things you love. That way you will find the girl who loves the same things and you can enjoy them with her.
exactly some girls like to watch anime and shows and play games but what he's saying is he'd rather have a 10 out of 10 with a bad personality than a person with a good personality who's a 7 but the personality boosts it
@@rhoyawrld7257 Well that’s fair enough. I won’t argue with his preference but if he’s mentoring young men I would say his preference is not an objective truth. I do like his content and believe he’s trying to give men good advice to better themselves and their lives but I think this one was a bit off base. I think it’s important to be a high quality man and get a woman that is meets your standards but young men shouldn’t quit their hobbies and interests cold turkey just to try to be the highest quality man they possibly can be to fight over the same top tier women who probably don’t share any of your initial interests.
@@traddcooper agreed his take was so bad I mean if he looks boring chicks no problem but don't mean everyone should aim for them
Anime has actually motivated a lot of people to workout.
Hardcore truth Bro, I have been watching you for the last couple of weeks, and I see value in me more and tbh more clearly thank you
im honestly disappointed i didn’t come across your channel sooner, ever since i started watching you i’ve learned so much, thanks for the truth hamza.
While I do agree to a point, this is getting borderline. You have a point with people wasting time on frivolous things. But going all work 100% will leave you with nothing as well. Also Get the fuck out of cities. You'll never find quality people in them. I've followed you for a while and found myself because of it. But you're starting to sound obsessed. Not every man can be in the 1% that's the nature of the world and the cruel reality. Don't give false hope. However, everyone can find an amazing partner. You just need to temper expectations and not settle for trash. And again, get out of cities. They corrupt passively., even the air you breath is toxic and so is the water. Work on yourself physically mentally and spiritually and find grounded people. Don't just go hard in the paint, because most of your viewers are going to fall for a pretty girl whose good at lying.... Tons of them in the city.
A slither of false hope will destroy more than all of the nihilism in the world. Neither are ideal, but there's no worse situation than believing you can change the unchangeable.
I know this comment will get lost in a sea of others, but I want to thank you so much for starting me on this. And more importantly, uploading this video today. I had been practicing gratitude, exercise, and meditation for nearly all of July, along with other habits I added on. I recently stopped after enjoying vacation and taking part in so many cheap instant pleasures, falling off the bandwagon after just managing to break into the 100lbs line again after being over 200lbs.
This is the reason I am going to get back on, For you man.
I hope I can race you to the very end, even if I do have a lot of ground to make up, and a lot of laps to get back.
Ill put in the hard work, so I can run side by side with everyone else you have encouraged.
Thank you, man.
Don't worry bro. Found your comment before it got forgotten.
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The same thing happened to me recently as well. Best of luck to both of us.
Embrace Masculinity, Reject Modernity
quote of the decade and centuries to come
Wow that 95% includes my husband who is passive, non-driven, unmotivated, antisocial, clueless, incompetent and incapable. He just wants to live in his comfort zone bubble and wants us in it. He eats junk food. He doesn’t have the discipline to exercise. He watches TV or reads entertaining novels all the time. He doesn’t fix anything around the house and doesn’t upkeep the yards. I asked him to fix the faucets so we don’t waste water. He said it’s cheaper to pay for the water than a plumber. Our refrigerator has no ice, no water (too cheap to buy expensive filter), no light and with water leak ( we put a towel under). He believes it still works because it’s cold. He said I want too much and expect too high. I keep myself in high standard but why doesn’t he grow on his own?! I am tired of pulling him along for 20 years. We have 3 sons. I am the one who takes them hiking and camping with other dads from scouting. I am angry that he doesn’t parent, teach or discipline. It falls all on me. I hate him for ruining our sons. Under him and with his support, now the oldest son plays video game all day and just wants to get by like his dad. I talked to people at church. One told me to submit no matter what. The other junior pastor said I do bad parenting. I have to choose between God and scouting. I like my sons to learn from other men in scouting because their dad is so lazy and has no achievements in life. His calm and quiet fool me all.
Does he have a job?
Honestly I’ve known this from the beginning. I started self-improvement because I knew that every guy my age was levelling up, for example going to the gym. I couldn’t let myself decrease in value whilst everyone else boosted themselves. The quality of average man is increasing.
the quality of the average man is decreasing lol, but those 5% who put in the work are better in quality
@@user-sb5vt8iy5q yeah agree, average guys are getting weaker and lazier. Everyone is distracted. Which makes it easier to stand out. Maybe part of it is also that the top 5% of men are way more visible than they were in the past
@@user-sb5vt8iy5q How is it decreasing when the number of people that go to the gym and eat healthy, etc, is becoming more and more common?
@hive mind So you're saying that fitness culture and healthy food popularity haven't risen? Obesity rates might be higher, but there's no denying there's more fit, muscular people today than a decade ago.
@@Axxxel_in_Harlem that's just because there is more people alive, not because the general population are investing in their fitness. back in the day there were way more necessity for hardened, strong men than there is today, because said strong men of the past created our times of today, the same catchphrase everyone uses "hard times create strong men, strong men create good times and good times create weak men" and the cycle continues.
Hamza, I rarely comment or even subscribe whenever I am on RUclips, which is a lot more than I care to admit (although thanks to your teachings I have learned to reduce greatly). You have honestly been a revelation for me and while I know your content is primarily aimed at a younger audience, you have given me at the age of 34, a chance to reclaim my life.
Your videos have burned a new flame within and I now follow the habits you have taught of doing gratitude journals, meditation, exercising each day, eating well and you have got me reading again. I am currently in the middle of "How to win friends and influence people." I plan to read the Tracey books as well.
My weed use defnitely fucked me up in university and most likely affected the trajectory of my life. I have now reduced usage to only after 9pm every night, and the ultimate plan is to reduce that to just weekdays and try to keep weekends, weed-free. Do you think I can change it all around at 34?
Write down your goals, set up a plan with noumerous small good habits and do them every single day; after a while the compound effect will take place and you will see the trajectory of your life change for the better.
im 35, i think regardless how far behind we might feel theres an obligation to keep the struggle because that is better than surrender (commitment) to a further "fallen" version of ourselves as a life fate rather than.... its not revolution cuz that gets back to where it was, another specific r word.... spending to much time tryna remember but its like revolution except it goes somewhere new.... that plus manifest destiny regardless the wins and setbacks
Yes you can change your life around at 34, because what else would you do?
Its not about what he thinks about you being able to change your life around or not, its about what you think of it and what you do about it
yes rohan we're in it
Finally, someone said it out loud. This message needs to be heard by everyone.
What message? That you should be afraid of "other men piping your wife"? Ok.
You are a real man, bro. Manly man. You're absolutely right and I agree with you.
14:05 - 14:23 Love this one. It puts into perspective so perfectly how people cope with being sub-standard.
Please shut up
10:12 I am 16 and I am glad that you showed me the light to how society works . As a teen living in Africa it is sad that my fellow tribe men have fallen victim to the western`s society mind set to attract women Instead of being their true selves.
This whole video was about attracting women
@@adrianw0w757 literally 💀
best motivation video that i ve seen in my life
I do agree that you should lower your Bad Habits but Hamza makes it sound like we only live for p***y. Like maybe i have other goals and aspirations instead of only worrying about if im not "behind in the race".
Live a Healthy and Humble life and enjoy yourself because we don't have alot of time.
I'm loving this new slightly more aggressive hamza that has come about since I last watched him.
To add nuance to your point, I'd add that life isn't a sprint but a marathon.
So having fun, slowing down for a bit, taking a break is all part of the race. Slow and steady wins the race and by never allowing yourself to breathe you'll only burn yourself out.
Ofc i'm aware that 99% of people don't need to hear that because they are already resting for too long or have stopped running completely, but I thought the message lacked a bit of nuance so here it is.
Resting and having fun aren´t the same.
@@achilles7736 yes they are
Having fun is a form of rest
Are you saying we should aspire to a life without fun ?
This right here. You should have time to have fun while still competing in the race
the race is fun and addicting tho, you gotta admit that at least
@@ErzakMK fun should be a reward you get to experience from time to time, and you should take the time to enjoy it when it happens. But a life pursuing solely fun is nothing but hedonistic and meaningless. Meaning is responsibility. Meaning is carrying a heavy load, whatever load is assigned to you, to the best of your ability.
At a time when I'm really spoiling myself and living low, I'm really glad to stumble upon this video. Hence, I've made a resolution to fix my life before next year and win the race eventually. Thank you so much for sharing this bitter truth, Hamza.
thx for opening my eyes dude, I actually started doing push-ups while listening to your videos
hope you've kept it up
I've been doing this thing quite often recently, I look back at the times in my life when I was absolutely, crazily, madly in love with a girl. I look back at those times with so much fondness, so much happiness, so much gratitude. The feeling of being in love really is like no other, where you're in a short of a trance all the time, you're just happy, you're just smiling for no reason, everything reminds you of her, there's nothing wrong in the world.
Over the past couple of years, I'd been telling myself that I'll never allow myself to fall for somebody to that extent again. But over the past couple of months I've realised that its not a feeling I want to sacrifice, its not an experience I want to forego for the rest of my life.
I, now, look back at those memories with nothing but fondness, and think to myself, "I cant wait to experience that feeling again." I use that to motivate me. Because I know for a fact, that the more I improve, the better the woman whom I finally do fall for is going to be.
This helps motivate me even on my worst days.
The first girl ur talking about I assume u broke up ofc right?
Beautiful mindset to have.
@@theknight7229 yepp
“Life doesn’t give you what you want, it gives you what you deserve”
Life doesn't give you what you deserve
It gives what you think you deserve - Iman Ghazhi
So be happy about it, and self improve everyday.
Adam22 should've watched this video
Talking to you, Adam 22...
I'm sharing this video with my wife and her BF as we speak, thanks Hamza!
With who
Smart reply kiddo
@@shafaet1194 with her best friend *
the title of this scared me, i didn't want to hear it, but i'm so glad i clicked, hamza is a very very fucking rare person that can actually get through to me, thank you for this, i needed the reality check
I was always extremely competitive but the teachers hated it and told me that life is not a race
Our whole social system is based on the jeffry system when even teachers teach u something like that
I was lost I was a fucking jeffrey but I am on my journey to self improvement now (currently 16) soooo.... Thank u hamza I love u bro❤
I feel u bro
Don’t listen to these stupid idiotic teachers bro, these people don’t even deserve to be a teacher, stay hard, stay restless, and be yourself! (You could still improve your knowledge by them but we don’t listen to their shitty advises)❤
Bro I was born 2006😢
You will never know how apprecated you are my brother. All that you said is true and not dark at all, and for those who think so are actually weak. And this life's success ain't for the weak. Thank you Hamza 🙏🏽
this takes the meaning of a soulmate to a whole different level. The person who's yours, and only yours if you live to a certain high standard required to DESERVE them. I will have to upgrade things too, such as this channel. Thanks Hamza :)
What if your ones arleady lost her virginity left right and center? So better speed up
Yeah
Hamza literally changing lives no cap
Hamz: AS MEN WE COMPETE AGAINST EACH OTHER
Also Hamz: MY FRIEND BETRAYED ME FOR TALKING TO A GIRL I LIKED AND NOW WE AREN'T FRIENDS 😞
This was in his past and he matured over that experience. I do not think it is wise to call him a hypocrite if he was talking about his past and got over it as a better man, and this applies.
Been on a roll with running every day, meal prep, not eating KFC, minimal gaming. But this morning fell into a slump and slept in. Stumbled across this and got it put back in perspective. Getting outta bed to go running now. Cheers man!
Mostly agree. You need to cultivate your hunger and passion to thrive in this life. Comfort is the silent killer. Though I would caution against the notion that even one hour of video games is unacceptable and is detrimental toward your position in the race. Man is not designed to run forever without a break. I've burned out many times obsessing about improvement and I would have made much greater progress striking the delicate balance of fighting and resting and recovering.
I definitely agree with this. Self improvement using all the tools Hamza has mentioned is important and will certainly improve your life. However if you can't take a little break (which the mind needs) to enjoy the things you like whether it would be movies or games then you potentially spiral into a dark place. I personally now eat clean, gym six days a week, have a decent career, read books and also pray five times a day on top of which I can fit in 1 - 2 hours of gaming/ movies a day and this keeps consistent - without the latter I would have given up a long time ago.
but in 1 hour you could decide, this game is too fun imma play it more, and then you get addicted
@@shhh994 yep but that's a part of the self discipline process. I smoked around 20 cigarettes for 16 years, I would cluck like crazy if I didn't have a cigarette but then had to tell my mind im done and now its been just over four months - not one cig. For me personally with games/ shows its a bit easier cause I have fixed time (that slightly moves) linked with go to the mosque for prayers so know I need to switch off to head out. Obviously you do whatever works for you and if gaming or not your thing then great, for me it's a part of enjoying life and doing all this other healthy activities becomes rather meaningless if I can't indulge in some pleasure.
@@jgame7587 right on man. It is an opportunity to practice discipline. I feel like life would feel rather dull without watching good movies or playing a good video game. I've given this some thought since I made my comment and I think it's all about the content. Watching reality TV or playing COD online are definitely not a good way to spend your off time. It makes you feel bad about yourself ultimately which causes you to want to do it more. However, watching a thought provoking movie like interstellar or an inspiring one like pursuit of happiness? That is productive. That gives you perspective. That takes you thru a range of emotions that adds value to your life. Likewise playing a great video game like the last of us can teach you life lessons if you look closely enough. Choose your content wisely and it will still be a productive use of time. Some of the best lessons I've learned in life came from fictional books. I used to think reading fiction was a waste of time but man was I wrong.
@@jgame7587 good for you, as long as you keep running that race as fast as you can
Started watching you at the start of this year, when my ex gf dumped me, and oh boy, i was devastated. Thanks to your videos i started hitting the gym, lifting weights, working harder than ever, and im impressed by the progess i made. Im happy with my body, got a new girl, life is way better since a followed your lifestyle. Thanks for teaching me Hamza, and keep the grind boys
Brother stupid question but what's the difference between lifting weights and going to the gym? I hit the gym but idk if thats a specific thing im missing
@@boriskrustev4070 They are synonymous if you are doing dumbell exercises, benching, dead lifting when you are at the gym
Getting a new girl who'll dump you too isnt the answer. Work on yourself first then women will come
@@abyssary8796 thank you
@@boriskrustev4070 That's not really his point though
the only thing i want to remark is that sometimes the competition is misunderstood. For example, in the gym, you can consider that the guy that is most muscular and strong is winning the competition to the guy that is athletic but is not as strong as him. But maybe, for that guy, the goal is to be the healthier as possible, and not to lift the maximum weight and f*ck up his joints. So, the competition is to be happy as a person and everyone has an interpretation of happiness and success.
Plot twist: The good thing is that the women men actually compete for the most, are actually often low value women. Just because a woman is attractive or hot doesn't mean she'll make a great partner (e.g Amber Heard). So, average men also have a high chance of getting high value women, she may not be the most beautiful but she'll make your life easy and sweet. Learn to identify a high value woman. Never use beauty as a major yardstick, consider attitude and how much she respects you, the most.
It's a blessing to have hamza reminds me every day about the mission I'm doing.
Big love for you brother
Hamza I'm really grateful for you being really upfront and unfiltered, especially in these topics. I'm really proud of your journey and you inspire me!
I've seen men who were ahead, and they died early due ro exhaustion ! And the men behind them, ended up getting the women. So is you advice really true?
Elon Musk, Bezos, gates ...they all are alive and seem to be doing just fine
Maybe, those men who where ahead, where only ahead in your head. It's primordial that you chose the right races in your life. Maybe those who where beheind where winning more important races but you didn't even notice. But I know for sure that a race in life where you are more exahusted as the time passes is not a good and sustainable race. It's a race towards degradation. Only chose the races where you are going to feel better in the long run. Improving your mental health, building up your physique or learning a new language. The other ones who don't make you any good, better be in hell
@@Dandnayak778 Bezos got literally skinned alive in divorce court.Not much of a success in my book if now the richest woman in the world is the one he was too stupid to date.
As gruesome and unfair is this is, it’s true. It doesn’t need to be a race, yet here we are, and there is nothing you can do about it. You are stuck in a place that you cannot change. People won’t change for you, so you’ve got to change yourself and do better as a man, and even as a woman. We have gone back to survival of the fittest.
We have gone back? Survival of the fittest was always the case. The person who is good at speaking to many different people has the most connections and therefore force.
You don't view women as sex objects. Not like you even need to, They themselves already do that.
This idea of competing against others doesn’t lead to fulfillment. I went down that road and all the benefits of my self improvement started feeling like they were never enough. At my most productive I started resenting my life and would look down on myself for the smallest setbacks/failures. While I think Hamzas advice is usually on the money, this way of thinking is flawed. One needs to find a balance that’s suitable. Long term growth is key and keeping the big picture and passions as your first priority is the way to fulfillment. Others are entitled to feel how they want but I don’t agree with Hamza’s stance in this video.
If you think success is unfulfilling just wait til you experience failure.
@@shugyosha7924 I don't think that this was his point
@@shugyosha7924 jesus christ hamza fans are so braindead
@@warlockiii1846
Let's look at it.
"Competing against others doesn't lead to fulfillment."
Competing against others is the way to achieve socially recognised success in the world. Short of renouncing worldly desire and living as a monk, we're all in the same game, and we're wired to feel emotions according to how well we're doing relative to our peers.
The satisfaction of success may be fleeting, and competing may be stressful, but if you spend 10 years watching RUclips documentaries because your passion is True Crime, not only will you not get fulfilment from it, you'll suffer the sting of being rejected by women as well.
Moreover, fulfilment by its nature is fleeting. We're not wired to experience lasting satisfaction in the absence of achieving some kind of meditative transcendental state, so the aim of chasing some kind of attained level of fulfilment is flawed from the beginning.
We're humans and social creatures - we're wired to find meaning in the social relationships we form. If you prioritise indulging a "passion" over working hard at something society recognises value in, you will struggle to form those relationships and in my opinion you'll be worse off for it because of the way we're wired.
@@shugyosha7924 yes this all might be true but that's not what @J Ultimate tried to say. I think he said that while a certain degree of competition is important, being in a constant battle ain't for everyone.
Yes this sounds like an excuse but I personally relate to this quite a lot.
Being a perfectionist means that every little fucking detail you see that you don't like about yourself drags you down in a deep hole when you're not careful. Combine this with constantly comparing yourself to others. Yes it might bring you forward and will help you with a successful career, but when this very competition kills every emotion in you, makes you hate yourself and assures that you see everyone around as a potential thread (hence someone tries to get your place), it ain't worth it.
When you feel depressed and lonely, you won't get bitches because this takes energy you don't have. You won't get friends because everyone is a potential thread. It nullifies ever, bit of progress when it literally kills you.
See, no profit.
I've been there to some extent and mentioned stuff is a thing.
Some can go out hunting their goals for 25 hours and 8 days a week but some can't and that's fine as long as they balance their stuff out.
probably the best video by hamza by far
WE DON'T HAVE TIME TO DO EVERYTHING IN LIFE
BUT WE HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO DO WHAT WE TRULY DESIRE
The most serious i have ever seen Hamza, legit made me tear up because of how much of the truth he was speaking, my eyes had already been open but to have this as extra light to my eyes i appreciate it hamza, thank you for being the father i never had ❤
I'm 14 and I'm so glad I found this channel now rather than in my 20s
Adam22 needs this video
Hamza, this video probably has been the most influential for me. I know I just watched it yesterday but I started the day today not sleeping in, working out more frequently (also looking for better form), getting really serious about my startups, and trying to waste less time. Deleted instagram too
Hamza, bro. I just want to thank you on this one. I’m so fucking grateful for every word you’ve said, overall an particularly in this video. You did what should’ve been done. You’re reviving the manhood and masculinity. You are The Man
This is a special video specifically made for Will Smith.
Hahahahhaha Broo 💀
Since that slap.
I remember when I was a kid and watched I robot…Back when will was still a cool guy
LMFAOAOOO
"stop letting other men _rock_ your wife"
i just turned 17 last sunday , I've been working out 6 days a week and getting big, thanks for the heads up man i really needed you to remind me of this. I Will Race and outperform the other men competing with me ,Thank you hamza
This just sounds like you’re doing self improvement just to get a woman of your dreams but i wanna do it to feel fulfilled and happy inside
Me too my brother, but i still take Hamza’s advice for motivation to not let another man surpass me. Even if I don’t really feel that a woman is what I need to stay fulfilled.
youre coping, doing it for yourself when your inner human nature of being a man requires peace to be along side have a woman to satisfy you ...
What do you think being first in the race is?? Prolly constantly working to "feel fulfilled and happy inside".
Obtaining the mother of your children is a part of your being fulfilled and happiness.
@@Maraien Right
Thank you, Hamza u changed many young mens lives, you are a G!
*ruined many young mens lives
Started watching u last year this time and my life is completely different. These style of vids sent me on an upward spiral of me changing my life forever and I’m so grateful ur back to making them. Big ups to King Hamza
This is my preworkout.
Thats based af
The prospect of another man fvcking my future wife is my biggest drive and motivation
Damn the title is really coming after me and I don't even have a wife
Other men will "IMPREGNATE" your wife. That was disgusting but very true.
True! And I think, another man already impregnated the woman who is supposed to be my wife.
@@DaveMediaTV Well if it was before your self improvement happened then your standards will have raised by a few points. So good luck with your future.
Sneako moment
am i the only one who likes sneako and hamza
sneako be like: its the systems fault that someone bangs my gf infront of me 😡
@@aayush.b9891 No they are both very insightful, I hate that they've had drama
@@adamlesliefilms honestly the drama was so fucking stupid i cant care
Which girlfriend was it?
Hamza the reallest nigga in the self improvement Uniservum 😸🔥🙏🏾
Please Read:
Do NOT normalize such aggressive & stressful behaviour!
Unfortunately, this is what is being instilled in most men's minds nowadays. It is what is becoming of our society. And to a degree, it can be very toxic. Men are becoming even more aggressive, desperate. Everyone compares themselves, they lash out with insecurities.
But ultimately, peace & staying content are concepts far out of reach for many. There is greed and unhappiness.
Unfortunately, society is full of flaws and there might never be a time where humankind will not have many social flaws. The ego is too powerful.
What happened to being in touch with your emotions? What happened to being aware? What happened to ethics?
I understand how this influence is supposed to encourage people to be their best selves, but many get lost. They think: "Oh wow, I've become so productive, successful, I'm a sigma male now! I can have anything I want...". And they start the numbers game. They keep on attaining & attaining, but it's never enough. At some point, they wonder what's happening in their lives? Things are falling apart. Their friendships, their relationship. Together with their high testosterone, they think they are now number one and nobody else has a voice louder than theirs. With power, must come responsibility as well, the qualities of being humble, understanding others, not overstepping boundaries.
The idealistic & stable version of a relationship is where 2 individuals bond with many of their interests aligning, always having a spark of life AND staying CONTENT. Knowing they are strong together, they will pick eachother up, they will take the best out of eachother. Choosing a partner means investing long-term, knowing you will do great together with them. Knowing you can only improve things together until the end of your life.
That is what TRUST & LOVE are. They are what build great things. Not flight or fight mechanisms, comparisons, stress & reoccurring thoughts, wounds that destroy families. Greed & discontent. It is immature. If people could stay open-minded and accept eachother, plus critique, they would be in a much better position. But the ego is our enemy. The only thing we can do is make decisions and make ourselves proud with our decisions, through lots of effort and self-improvement.
This is a very animalistic take (Hamza's) and sadly, for the masses, it is true. That is why the world we live in can be such a hell and most intelligent people need to build their own "utopias".
Flight or fight effects aren't going to change people for the better, necessarily. It might stress them out so much, that they become negative, aggressive, forceful.
This also puts great pressure on women, because it ruins friendships between the opposite genders. Men always being on the chase. Having hidden motives. Manipulating, twisting.
If more people could stop pornography, spreading sexual content everywhere, normalizing desensitizing, dopamine-boosting activities that make life a chaotic hell, it would be great.
If people could learn healthier coping habits - meditation, sports, journaling & so on. If they could have really good morals, if they could eliminate their insecurities and stop forcing unnecessary stress everywhere, we would have a much more peaceful world. It comes with understanding, awareness... Things not really easily accessible by most.
Everyone has forgotten how to make life enjoyable. To trust, to be with others. We are not alone in our journey. We do not need to motivate ourselves with stress all the time, when we could motivate ourselves through love, happiness, peace. I know I sound like a hippie, but these things are well achievable. It is not all about masculinity. Mental illness is rising and it is at an all-time high because of the spread of information around the world. Because we constantly compare ourselves & we are never enough. But we can be enough and still strive for more.
And here is another comment I will quote, by Sado:
"Hearing this will naturally make men think that every other man is a threat and inherently dangerous to them. It might even cause feelings of aggression and hatred towards other men around them. It should never be this way. The idea that you are in competition with yourself does not actually mean you are just in competition with yourself. It means that you have to become the BEST version of yourself in every way in order to win this race of life. It all begins and ends with you. HOWEVER the main thing you get wrong is that there can absolutely be more than 1 winner. There isn’t any single 1 greatest woman ever that everyone is fighting for. Millions of 10/10 women exist. as with any single 1 greatest man ever. There are truly great people and many of them, not just one single one - that is delusional in this grand scheme of life with billions of humans. Men, you and your brothers can all absolutely be top tier winning men TOGETHER."
It is a negative message that you are spreading, with fear. Fear causes negativity to rise. Negativity ---> Insecurity ---> Mental Illness.
The true losers in this life are those who have to thrive off of walking over others to feel like they are something more.
And these clickbait titles make me wonder if this is all being done to help better people or for the sake of "GLORY" and success.
Amen brother, this is the other side of the toxic spectrum. You shouldn't go too far either way.
I understand that the mindset you speak of might be toxic. But it truly is the only way that any modern man can stay above the competition.
We must be strong, purposeful and stoic at all times. If you haven't got a high position in this cutthroat race of life, then it's simply because you possess no masculine virtue.
"Taking a break", "looking after yourself" and "being vulnerable to others" are all feminine concepts designed to strip us men of our power and our voices. We must be constantly striving for perfection, otherwise society and especially the opposite sex will consider us losers.
Like Hamza has explained in this video, society only cares for winners in life. Only the most attractive, successful and disciplined men will succeed during these emerging hard times, and the "average" men are left with absolutely nothing.
Our generation are weak and emasculated. Hamza is a beacon of hope in this day and age due to his encouragement of us to band together in this cult and reclaim our masculine drive and strive for dominance of our world.
No one is truly your friend, only your competition. No matter how much your mental health deteriorates, nothing else matters so long as you've surpassed everyone else in the race.
I urge young men today to take things one step further. Don't just dominate your competition and your women, but make sure other men can never reach your level of success and masculinity. If you can't reach that level of success, you've already lost the race.
Wealth, status, looks and game are everything these days, and Hamza embodies all of these qualities in full. He speaks true of the hard times that are coming our way due to our constant quest for hedonism instead of revitalising our masculine drive.
Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times.
If you're not treating your life like the race we are all in from birth, you're simply better off not living your life at all. "Drop out" of life altogether if you aren't willing to prepare for the hard times.
@Bumly What is this elitist mentality? If you are not the most successful, most fit male then your life isn't as worthy?
Wannabe woke cultist, you're feeding yourself lies. Your twisted perception of life is your own dream you're living in.
You can still be masculine, while being humble, happy, content. Having enough, striving for more.
Your own competition really is, only yourself. Your ego will get in your way throughout your whole life and you will always be imperfect, not even imperfect, straight up flawed to the core.
Stop making up these abnormal social constructs. Money won't necessarily make you happy. Productivity won't necessarily make you happy. There is a fine balance. Videogames, art, etc. - it is all joy to be shared with others, they make us more human. They make life more pleasant.
Who is going to call you a loser if you're still fit, have a nice job, have many hobbies, a great mind, good habits & so on?
Nobody. (Maybe someone who is out of their mind and lives in a fabricated lie, insecurities, an unfulfilling life)
You don't have to be the very best to enjoy life, to be successful. If you're not spreading positivity, then what are you leaving on the world after yourself? Nothing. What are you even making for yourself? I hope success is enough to fill that empty, overly masculine heart when you are but an old fool, in an unhappy, torn apart marriage & family, realizing all the mistakes you've made at that point.
People are not to be dominated. They are to be helped. Because together, we are stronger. Together, we cover our flaws and become better. We help eachother.
If you really want to forsake your mental health all the way for toxic masculinity, then consider becoming a gladiator somewhere.
There is SOMETHING & SOMEONE for EVERYONE that makes an effort. You do not have to be at the TOP something percent, this is LIFE and EDUCATION is key. Emotional intelligence is what matters. Awareness is what matters. Good decisions matter the most.
We all strive to leave our mark somehow. Some positively. Some through underhanded means, that ultimately crush society.
I suggest reading the book "The Four Agreements". There are good parts in it and it is very short. Sadly, humans will always have different ideas implanted in their minds, ideas that are not even theirs. So go ahead and read this book and please, stop having these really inflated egos that you must force onto everyone.
Unfortunately, Hamza has fallen to that side. You described it perfectly.
Disagree. While you're leveling up, she's already getting piped by men who are there or close to being there. By the time you level up and get her, you're already last or somewhere in-between.
I get the motivational component. But this is exactly why women should NOT be your motivation. But if you want to interchange "wife" with whatever your purpose or goal is, then this absolutely applies.
I truely agree with u.
@Nero Iv seen many women cheat on these narcissistic guys with the local weed dealer or "lazy guys" who's behind the race, the more men try to see this as a competition, the more toxic and the more complicated thing's are going to become.
what is your motivation then? to be rich or to have the perfect greek god physique? for what? for yourself? i want to be rich to be able to travel the world with my wife and give my kids everything they need and to be free. i want to be super muscular so that i can attract a beautiful woman to become my wife
@ak same thing can be applied to every human being tbh
It has been said in centuries that the person you should take most care is yourself because yeah a partner can make your life better but you're the one that needs to start that road for the best
there are many other good women worth improving for so I dont get your point. Even if the girl you were aiming for ends up getting another man who were already at the point you were trying to reach there WILL be another woman who will fit your preferences. Also, any straight man who's normal in his head will be motivated by beautiful women. It makes no sense to say that women shouldn't be your motivation when a great marriage and many healthy children is what EVERY human being SHOULD want in life.
Hamza out of every video you've made this one has given me chills.
You've got better at getting a point across well.
Edit: watched further and you are truly as frightful as my Indian Math Tutor
Subbed for that bitter truth Hamza. Let's race my brother and have fun doing it.
I am so lucky I heard this at this young age. Thanks brother
Hamza I stopped watching your videos a little while ago because I felt all the stimulation from the editing was doing me more harm than good and I could probably find similar information in one of the books you recommended without all the stimulation, I clicked on this video because the title was captivating and this video legit provided me with genuine information I needed to know, I’ve been messing about lately at festivals going out with girls not uploading on my RUclips channel and I thought it was fine to do those things because of modern society. Thank you Hamza for reminding me there is no time to waste 🙏
Everything hamza said is mostly true but the mindset of "If i dont go all in at this very moment in time and reach the front of the race somebody else is going to be fucking my potential future wife" isnt the realistic approach to reaching your full potential. Going harder than last time and making gradual improvements that you can measure and record in your career, physical fitness and social relationships while staying competitive is the best way to go. This race isnt a marathon it is a sprint. The man that runs at a strong moderate pace for 10 years is going to surpass the man that sprints hard for 1 year then briskly walks another year for 10 years.
I agree that men do have many things to put themselves as high value on the market and it is a natural lizard brain thing for us as animals and humans. However this doesn’t really give any sort of leverage to what the story of life is, are you doing enough? what is enough? are you wealthy? how wealthy are you? are you active and fit? well you aren’t an olympic runner so you aren’t fit enough. At the end of the day one of the main things that make us very unique as humans is our different perceptions of the world based on our past experiences. We also have consciousness as another one of those different factors. Hard work, focus, discipline is lead before a prosperous life of course, however this message without any sort of levity on when to have fun or when you shouldn’t can lead to other problems. I actually do love this message, just perhaps this could lead to a whole other problem of people working for something they might not even know what it is.
I love you Hamza❤this video changed my life
In my opinion this is one of your very best videos so far
Dang it hamza, ur amazing bro, thank you so much, this video made me wake up a little bit more, the hard work... specially when you don't feel like it...we all are gonna make it, c'mon everyone show some motivation!!
Whoopsie daisy! Silly me Hamza, I'm sorry won't happen again I must've had a loose screw thanks for bringing this to my attention. I must've been a little under the weather I won't personally let that slide anymore I'll affiliate with matters such as these. Thank You
Sincerely, Hamza #1 D-rider
factual readings man!
@@user-hi8iz Gnarly dude🤙
At 25 I feel like the quality of available women around me are less than desirable. I understand that I myself am perhaps not of the highest quality I could be either. So every day I strive to be better than yesterday.
At this age there’s no way a woman doesn’t have a history and all the issues that come with it. Almost feels like you will one day have to pick the best out of a bad bunch ahah. I’ve had my fair share of relationships and casual flings but nothing sticks for too long for various reasons.
Finding someone for the ultimate goal and my biological mission of impregnating seems like picking the best out of a bad bunch.
Don’t stop chasing for you best self my friends, cos when you stop it’s true you will get left behind
Hamza I have discovered your Channel in March , and I know I am on the good path because everything you say was already in the back of my head as a little voice that was keeping me sane in dark times , as we are speaking now I am on my way to become an entrepreneur, creating unique custom model cars for my clients all over the world. And Shipped my first car to the United States today ... I did not learn much from you, you just reinforced the good thoughts in my mind that helped me improve on every aspect of my life. Being in shape and having an " alpha male" physique is also vital for every man to be considered normal by today's standards , if you're not improving you are regressing. Always always go hard.
Bro I love the aggression in this video 😂 kept me very captivated throughout. Extremely insightful and I absolutely agree
This is genuinely one of the best videos you've ever made
"run your own race" - means to focus on your own race strategy and not mind what's going on around you, do not be "influenced", focus on your own goals and advancing yourself for YOUR life... Your own race is for your own life, you have a way you have to attack the race and being "influenced" to change your strategy or adjust yourself by the others is usually a fail...
Exactly. You can't just be born some average looking guy with asthma and hate yourself because you aren't a famous celebrity basketball player, that would be silly.
i feel like watching hamza videos is a waste of precious time at this point
always has been
These titles are getting out of hand LMAO😭
Fr💀
who remember school teaching you the lie of "everyone is a winner if you just try your best"
Brainwash 🤣
I always felt that there was some sort of competition amongst all men, Hamza just confirmed it to be true
Very inspiring
Men are very competitive, and I respect it so much!!! At the end of the day as a girl my job is to be by a man's side so that I can support him in this race!!!
@@lillienwaligora6082 always be by your man's side and he should do the same
This is one of Hamza's greatest videos.
Competing is good in a certain amount. It's good to race in some stuff with Friends and other men, but exces of competitiveness it's literally deadly. Students in Japan are told to compete a hell lot more than western culture men, to study a hell lot, to have a dream well paid job instead of the one they want, and Guess what? They end up killing themselves if they cannot race ahead of men they don't know for women they don't have. Other men just are so competitive that they get jealous about other man's wife, a woman they have never met or fell in love with that they feel like she would have been their wife, and " if i can't have her, he neither" and end up killing other people because of that. Competing is not bad at a certain extent, it is actually very good as a motivation to improve, but obssesing sick about that Will get you to kill yourself or kill someone else if you think you Lost, or, at least, getting into depression because "you Lost" (didn't marry the woman you didn't knew).
It's better to be dead than to become a fucking loser.
Hit the nail there mate, I agree with this for sure. Especially as someone who also hates the “all day grind” culture (which isn’t even true in most cases and I’m not referring to hamza) it just sometimes leads u nowhere, it’s better to kinda relax and live life but I get what hamzas saying here too, it’s definitely given me a new perspective
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Hamza i completely understand and agree with that point but as of now I do not view my mission as "get the 10 out of 10 girl". I find that when you focus on other things and improve yourself the women will come to you. You do not "chase the finishline" because that'll make the finish line further away if that makes sense. You'll repulse the finish line if your only mission is to get women
I joined the gym when I was 15 years old after watching you I've deleted all my video games and also before I know your channel i already deleted tiktok and Instagram and now im trying to focus on my study now im 17 but i look way more Successful then my peers thanks to you
Wild title but the message is clear. Keep on shinning kings👑
i am 16 years old and i am so happy to watch your videos so early in my life. Thanks for making my life better💪
Today I journaled about quitting RUclips just as I quitted instagram and facebook. I was just about to do it when I saw your video. It made me even more determinated to quit and win the race. I just want to thank you Hamza for all you did to me and I hope we meet one day to talk about our journeys.
Quitting RUclips is completely unnecessary. It's what is needed to stay sane in a world that makes no sense. The only outlets of truth you will find are on RUclips (and other places such as Rumble, Locals and Odyssey, sure, but the volume is far greater on here clearly).
RUclips is not social media. It is video-hosting that provides people the means to discuss the ideas in a video via comments. TikTok and Instagram are five second dopamine hits with no consideration for discussion and absolute consideration for instilling FOMO and pressure into purchasing products and spending money (mainly through OnlyFans).
it does not matter how convicted you sound when you say it -- your life does not and should not revolve around the sexual marketplace.