The Self-Improvement Hub Being able to take criticism from the right people is a quality. I think, all people - everyone being able to take constructive criticism is The Right Quality. Not being able to take constructive criticism The Self-Improvement Hub because you and/or someone else thinks the person saying constructive criticism isn't the right person and/or is the so-called wrong person is arrogance and ego. The Self-Improvement Hub I focus on self-Improvement instead of what you and/or someone else focuses on: Is the person caring enough to say constructive criticism qualified or unqualified measures up to a level or doesn't measure up is perfect or isn't perfect. I'm just saying my point one on one on-line and behind the scene instead of unknown to you behind your back in a phone conversation a text a email a tv episode a newspaper a video a audio and just because your profile name says hub in my healthy un-judgeful sound mind and heart your profile name DOESN'T to me implicate nor involve MotivationHub.
Hey Jocko I'm working at a high school right now in South Central. I've incorporated your stance of "Extreme Ownership" into my teaching, and it's done wonders for my students and my own patience. I've been taking the confusion my students are experiencing as a failure on my part for not explaining the concept well enough to them. This has encouraged me to pivot and be more organic with my teaching, and this has reduced anxiety in my students, particularly when they get nervous about asking questions or not understanding the lesson plan. Thank you so much :)
I have found that being dicipline makes me confident and being confident gives me more opportunities to be happy. Thanks Jocko for helping me come to this realization.
I was a Navy avionics technician in the '80s, east coast top gun squadron. Had Navy, Marine, Air Force and foreign officer pilots who were at the top of the pack assigned to us. I admired their intellegence and athleticism (you have to be an athlete to be a combat pilot).. But they showed a respect, an esprit de corps, if you will, for everyone... which permeated down through the enlisted (may be not "normal", felt like an elite bastion even at the time...)
An instructor who was in the air force taught me this when I was 12 and it has stuck with my for nearly twenty years... It is better to know you're wrong and ask for help than to think you're right and get people killed.
1:51 "We all must suffer one of two pains, the pain of discipline, or the pain of regret. Discipline weighs ounces, while regret weighs tons." Jim Rohn
I'd love to see more of Jocko's wisdom on ego vs arrogance. Even he mentioned that this is only one point of distinction, so it's clear that there are several others he sees. I admire him so much.
*The moment you stop complaining and take FULL responsibility for your life, that's the moment you get the full control on your life to achieve your goals.*
Iris met and writes Cain my life and your life and everyone's life is ones own full responsibility and of course your business The moment you get the full video and monitor you control mindsets of people on peoples lives with your facts of what is only visible Video and monitor peoples lives wasn't nor isn't my gold in life Things and people aren't always as things and people seem
Good call. (sorry 4 my English) As Freud was anticipating there is a difference between EGO, which is "the being of Your existence" and Arrogance, which is totally another "bishop" - On this topic thick books were written, probably without coming to a solution. To my opinion, if you are Humble, you are open toward learning, because you think you do not know enough, so you listen to others and then decide whether to accept the advice or not. If you are not Humble, so you are arrogant, you think you know, and since you know everything, you do not need to learn, so your brain is closed toward learning and growing your knowledge because you do not need to ... you know everything. In the old days, aka Roman Empire, several Generals had a couple of soldiers on low rank whom were almost insulting their Generals on every mistakes they were doing. That was their job. A lot to say, too much to write. Ciaoooooo from the Old Boot.
“It even seems as if the ego has not been produced by nature to follow its own arbitrary impulses to an unlimited extent, but to help to make real the totality-the whole psyche. It is the ego that serves to light up the entire system, allowing it to become conscious and thus to be realized. If, for example, I have an artistic talent of which my ego is not conscious, nothing will happen to it. The gift may as well be non-existent. Only if my ego notices it can I bring it into reality. The inborn but hidden totality of the psyche is not the same thing as a wholeness that is fully realized and lived.” Carl Jung This subject that Herr Jocko speaks of with his learned guest goes vastly deeper into the nuances that make up the human mind, and it’s decisions. Arrogance and Ego manifest their light from the same place, it is the human psyche and the development of said psyche ( or a lack there of ) that determines which switch is flicked. Often times it is both, for one flows seamlessly with the other in the psyche of youthful endeavor in which the drive is as physical as it is cerebral.
@@thomaslewis2336 and don’t look at old photos bro. For god sakes, no. If ya do, you’re only torturing yourself on purpose. Focus on letting go and moving on. Not easy and will take a long ass time. But all I’m saying is this: Do NOT torture yourself ON PURPOSE. Depression doesn’t need to occupy any significant region of your mind. 🤝 you got this. Fight. ⚔️
@@thomaslewis2336 hey, also wanted to mention that while I am here for you, if you ever get really down and out... seek licensed professional help from a counselor. They are available online nowadays. Try a counseling app like Talkspace or BetterHelp on Google Play or Apple.
I can totally relate to your single seat mentality Dave. My father ASAAF was deeply disappointed when, he was assigned to Thomasville, GA as a P-39 Instructor in 1943. His skills were most valuable as a teacher. His attitude? Want to know how good I am? Ask me. Don't believe me? I'll show you.
He taught many aces. Was deployed to Nuremberg in June 1945 flying recon in P51D. After the war, he was the first C.O. of one of the OANG Squadrons at Wright Paterson. He then flew 31 years for TWA. Flying everything from DC-3 L-1049 Super G, B-707, L-1011 & B-747. He retired in 1982 with 30K hours. But he will always be a fighter pilot first!
I laugh at egotistical and arrogant individuals.They act like they own the world and think they control people.Humility is another.I either take it as a personal gain of confidence from it or allow it to weaken my productive experience from my job.That I can't allow myself to absorb.I have those types of things happening on my job.
I guess it depends on what unable to work means. As long as you have your brain and a connection to the internet the possibilities are decent in number. It requires hard work, but it is possible to improve on the poverty levels with time. Work is not just going to a place and performing some task for someone else. Work is putting your skills, whatever they are, to use so that you produce some resources(money, food, shelter, etc.) for yourself and eventually for the people around you. All the best to you!
Good I'm glad that brain's working , probably better than mine after days and days of sleep disruption, deprivation , that is ....wait for it I love it Humility St Bernard would have laughed too ! No, no no you're buddies are in there too Jocko , just so hilarious you guys trying to define ego , humility . Does Mr ego do relationships ? No what .....better than arrogance we've quantum leapt to another galaxy missing pride and now we are , cross section what ? Am i hearing this right ? I no longer feel safe . I wonder why they didn't come back . ....As far as I am aware the basis for the ego is the "body" sense first , all most from the get go and the limbic system active and the warrior spirit means toughness is regarded and needed the inner feminine important for individuational balance isn't ( C. G Jung) so imbalance occurs 24/7 , a bunch of killing machines following orders i guess is what general so and so wants not a thinking man , sensitive , self aware and intelligent , heh where is that podcast on the hero helicopter pilot from Vietnam . God Bless
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Being able to take criticism from the right people is a great quality
The Self-Improvement Hub
Being able to take criticism from
the right people is a quality.
I think,
all people - everyone
being able
to take constructive criticism is
The Right Quality.
Not being able to take constructive criticism
The Self-Improvement Hub
because you
and/or
someone else thinks
the person saying
constructive criticism
isn't the right person
and/or is
the so-called wrong person is
arrogance and ego.
The Self-Improvement Hub
I focus on self-Improvement
instead of
what you and/or someone else focuses on:
Is the person caring enough
to say constructive criticism
qualified or unqualified
measures up to a level
or doesn't measure up
is perfect or isn't perfect.
I'm just saying my point
one on one on-line
and behind the scene
instead of unknown to
you behind your back in
a phone conversation
a text
a email
a tv episode
a newspaper
a video
a audio
and just because
your profile name says
hub
in my healthy
un-judgeful sound mind
and heart
your profile name
DOESN'T
to me implicate nor involve
MotivationHub.
Who would be the right person to hand out criticism?
Ego and arrogance is about making conclusion about our abilities. While humility is about questioning and testing our abilities.
This is good
@@Ungrievable Indeed, an experiment to determine which individuals fight like hell to realise as much of their ultimate potential, and which do not
@@arthurfleck629 give them time.
Hey Jocko
I'm working at a high school right now in South Central. I've incorporated your stance of "Extreme Ownership" into my teaching, and it's done wonders for my students and my own patience. I've been taking the confusion my students are experiencing as a failure on my part for not explaining the concept well enough to them. This has encouraged me to pivot and be more organic with my teaching, and this has reduced anxiety in my students, particularly when they get nervous about asking questions or not understanding the lesson plan. Thank you so much :)
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
One of the greatest things that I've learned and I now teach everyone is this. "Everything is a test, but the tests. The tests are bullshit."
The car Jocko talks about actually is from Lamborghini, not Ferrari, it's called "Egoista" and is a concept car, so 1-of-1.
It's basically Speed Racer's Mach 5... but for billionaire Saudi princes.
I have found that being dicipline makes me confident and being confident gives me more opportunities to be happy. Thanks Jocko for helping me come to this realization.
I was a Navy avionics technician in the '80s, east coast top gun squadron. Had Navy, Marine, Air Force and foreign officer pilots who were at the top of the pack assigned to us. I admired their intellegence and athleticism (you have to be an athlete to be a combat pilot).. But they showed a respect, an esprit de corps, if you will, for everyone... which permeated down through the enlisted (may be not "normal", felt like an elite bastion even at the time...)
An instructor who was in the air force taught me this when I was 12 and it has stuck with my for nearly twenty years...
It is better to know you're wrong and ask for help than to think you're right and get people killed.
1:51 "We all must suffer one of two pains, the pain of discipline, or the pain of regret. Discipline weighs ounces, while regret weighs tons." Jim Rohn
Confidence is knowing your hard work can bring you to a higher level.
Arrogance is thinking you are already at the highest level.
I'd love to see more of Jocko's wisdom on ego vs arrogance. Even he mentioned that this is only one point of distinction, so it's clear that there are several others he sees. I admire him so much.
*The moment you stop complaining and take FULL responsibility for your life, that's the moment you get the full control on your life to achieve your goals.*
Iris met and writes Cain
my life and your life
and
everyone's life is
ones own
full responsibility
and
of course your business
The moment you get the full
video and monitor you control
mindsets of people on
peoples lives
with your facts of
what is only visible
Video and monitor
peoples lives
wasn't nor isn't
my gold in life
Things and people aren't
always as things and people
seem
Thank you both. I really appreciate your wisdom during these times.
Good call. (sorry 4 my English) As Freud was anticipating there is a difference between EGO, which is "the being of Your existence" and Arrogance, which is totally another "bishop" - On this topic thick books were written, probably without coming to a solution.
To my opinion, if you are Humble, you are open toward learning, because you think you do not know enough, so you listen to others and then decide whether to accept the advice or not.
If you are not Humble, so you are arrogant, you think you know, and since you know everything, you do not need to learn, so your brain is closed toward learning and growing your knowledge because you do not need to ... you know everything.
In the old days, aka Roman Empire, several Generals had a couple of soldiers on low rank whom were almost insulting their Generals on every mistakes they were doing. That was their job. A lot to say, too much to write. Ciaoooooo from the Old Boot.
"For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." Matthew 23:12
“It even seems as if the ego has not been produced by nature to follow its own arbitrary impulses to an unlimited extent, but to help to make real the totality-the whole psyche. It is the ego that serves to light up the entire system, allowing it to become conscious and thus to be realized. If, for example, I have an artistic talent of which my ego is not conscious, nothing will happen to it. The gift may as well be non-existent. Only if my ego notices it can I bring it into reality. The inborn but hidden totality of the psyche is not the same thing as a wholeness that is fully realized and lived.”
Carl Jung
This subject that Herr Jocko speaks of with his learned guest goes vastly deeper into the nuances that make up the human mind, and it’s decisions. Arrogance and Ego manifest their light from the same place, it is the human psyche and the development of said psyche ( or a lack there of ) that determines which switch is flicked. Often times it is both, for one flows seamlessly with the other in the psyche of youthful endeavor in which the drive is as physical as it is cerebral.
True that, with Forethought and Wisdom added.
Without those of us who question the status quo, the change we all seek in this world would never come to pass . Debate is healthy and productive. Friction makes things sharp . Our ego and emotions should never enter the arena of societal philosophy, politics,or religion. The mind is like a parachute... It works best when wide ass open . ©® God Bless and Much Love 😘💕
I was wishing that you would cover this topic
Boy this helps after a breakup for some reason thanks jocko always look forward to a new clip or podcast
@@Ungrievable thanks I'm trying
@@thomaslewis2336 and don’t look at old photos bro. For god sakes, no.
If ya do, you’re only torturing yourself on purpose.
Focus on letting go and moving on. Not easy and will take a long ass time.
But all I’m saying is this:
Do NOT torture yourself ON PURPOSE.
Depression doesn’t need to occupy any significant region of your mind.
🤝 you got this.
Fight. ⚔️
@@Ungrievable thank you I'll try to keep fighting this one
@@Ungrievable thank you for the words of advice have a good day sir
@@thomaslewis2336 hey, also wanted to mention that while I am here for you, if you ever get really down and out... seek licensed professional help from a counselor.
They are available online nowadays. Try a counseling app like Talkspace or BetterHelp on Google Play or Apple.
Are we all ignoring that Dave's vocal cadence sounds the same as Jocko but two octaves up? He even has similar mannerisms.
Was just about to comment this lol
“The greatest lesson in life is to know that even fools are right sometimes”
Winston S. Churchill
See you,
Motivation team
Thank You Much 😊
Man, the "flying the AH-1W, not good enough" line broke my heart. But thats an ego/pride thing I picked up in 2012.
Damn I see 5 open cans... you boys are lit :)
I feel bad for Jocko thinking civilians think and function like us.
Awesome content Joko. Keep giving that core instruction
This is a great one. 👍
Sometimes you need to satisfy your ego and or impulses.
damn Dave haha, thats a very cool piloting dream
"Didn't come back from Mexico in time" LMAO
Its a line we must all explore
I can totally relate to your single seat mentality Dave. My father ASAAF was deeply disappointed when, he was assigned to Thomasville, GA as a P-39 Instructor in 1943. His skills were most valuable as a teacher.
His attitude? Want to know how good I am? Ask me. Don't believe me? I'll show you.
He taught many aces. Was deployed to Nuremberg in June 1945 flying recon in P51D. After the war, he was the first C.O. of one of the OANG Squadrons at Wright Paterson. He then flew 31 years for TWA. Flying everything from DC-3 L-1049 Super G, B-707, L-1011 & B-747. He retired in 1982 with 30K hours. But he will always be a fighter pilot first!
Semper Fidelis
Ambition 👍
Greed 👎
Greed in the right doses can be good and can lead to ambition.
@@gcoffey223 No.
@@jamajnasoares5702
Ever see the movie Wall Street??
@@gcoffey223 One of my favorites.
@@jamajnasoares5702
Be greedy when others are fearful, and be fearful when others are greedy. - Warren Buffet
👊👊
All I took from this was, "Be cold, do pull-ups."
Wisdom
Lamborghini Egoista. Single seater concept car.
2 sides. ONE COIN.
Perfect 👌
Good
Jocko is thanos?
Re: mindset - I'd be really interested in a new guest - Master She Hung Yi (see TedxTalks)
Professional Race Car Drivers are notoriously bad passengers. Sounds similar to what he was talking about.
I laugh at egotistical and arrogant individuals.They act like they own the world and think they control people.Humility is another.I either take it as a personal gain of confidence from it or allow it to weaken my productive experience from my job.That I can't allow myself to absorb.I have those types of things happening on my job.
jocko do you have any advice for people that are poor and living in poverty but are unable to work? thanks
I guess it depends on what unable to work means. As long as you have your brain and a connection to the internet the possibilities are decent in number. It requires hard work, but it is possible to improve on the poverty levels with time. Work is not just going to a place and performing some task for someone else.
Work is putting your skills, whatever they are, to use so that you produce some resources(money, food, shelter, etc.) for yourself and eventually for the people around you.
All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrder you’re a smart person.
@@Ungrievable Thank you for the compliment. I don't know if I'm smart or not, that just seems logical to me.
All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrder you too! Rough time these days. Hell on earth for some. All the best.
@@Ungrievable Yes, but hard times build strong people. All the best.
If you get deployed to south america...is it likely you will see action ?
Good I'm glad that brain's working , probably better than mine after days and days of sleep disruption, deprivation , that is ....wait for it I love it Humility St Bernard would have laughed too !
No, no no you're buddies are in there too Jocko , just so hilarious you guys trying to define ego , humility . Does Mr ego do relationships ? No what .....better than arrogance we've quantum leapt to another galaxy missing pride and now we are , cross section what ? Am i hearing this right ? I no longer feel safe . I wonder why they didn't come back .
....As far as I am aware the basis for the ego is the "body" sense first , all most from the get go and the limbic system active and the warrior spirit means toughness is regarded and needed the inner feminine important for individuational balance isn't ( C. G Jung) so imbalance occurs 24/7 , a bunch of killing machines following orders i guess is what general so and so wants not a thinking man , sensitive , self aware and intelligent , heh where is that podcast on the hero helicopter pilot from Vietnam .
God Bless
not first
Humility
Why would you want to buy Ferrari and not be able to bring a girl?
Dave Berkeley doesn’t seem like the humble type imho.
First