Alia’s Detransitioning - 9 Month Update!
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2021
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As a trans person I think it’s deeply important that we listen to detransitioned people. I don’t fear myself detransitioning but I understand that feelings change and I should never fear going along with that change. Whole point of transition is to live authentically! It’d be dumb of me to only follow authenticity when I like what that means for me.
Thank you for making these videos! They are very helpful for detrans and trans people alike. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
also trans and this is exactly why i am watching this kind of videos too!
Same here, 1. I like hearing different people's experiences, and 2. It helps me know that this is right for me when I don't relate to the way detrans people explain why they transitioned and then detransitioned or how they feel/felt
Agreed this is very fascinating.
Yeah!!
i detransitioned in 2021 as well and watching your story has been incredibly validating and important to me. i'm so glad you're finding your happiness and peace however you find it.
i lost a close friend of mine who is trans because of this process because i supported your content. she told me i was a transphobe for detransitioning and that i was pushing it on her when all i did was speak on my experience and why i encourage people to question this. at the end of the day, i have much better friends who have supported me every step of the way, and i still check in on your journey through tik tok as often as i can.
please keep speaking on this. it's so so important. so many people want to silence our experience because it goes against a narrative but it's hurting so many people to ignore this reality.
I have lost some friends too, but it’s okay! sometimes we grow from people and resonate with others. nothing bad about figuring your journey out and questioning yourself is the only way you can evolve and dive deeper in finding yourself. Just because you question yourself doesn’t also mean that you have to detransition, but it is reality that people do and if I knew about it sooner I might not have waited this long. But here we are. Thanks for your support!
Stay strong,,, it's oky losing people along the way it just show you who truly liked you truly was your friend compared to fairweather people. 🙏🙏
Damn I'm so sorry you experienced that, I'm a trans guy and I have a huge amount of sympathy for detrans people, I can't imagine what I would've felt like if I had transitioned and like regretted it in some way, it's important to hear from all different types of people. Yes it's rare, but so is having ginger hair and blue eyes together, and we shouldn't just ignore things because it's rare :)
There's a lot more to this video than just this, but I've never commented in your channel before and I really wanted to say this: There's something about the way you talk about your experiences that just... resonates with me so much. The way you take change in stride, the way you simply accept your present as it is and CHOOSE to make the best of it, it speaks to me on almost a spiritual level. The way you flow is really inspiring, you are a beautiful person and your viewpoint of life has offered me a lot to think about and reflect upon myself.
Thank you. I hope things go wonderfully for you as your life progresses.
That is so kind to say! I love how we can all help each other reflect and change perceptions. I hope your journey is going well ❤️
You have a beautiful voice. I have a naturally deep voice for a woman so believe me after 56 years you get used too it. Stay strong and sweet.
You have taught me that it’s ok to explore my fluidity. I love your TikToks and what you say. Keep being amazing
@J L huh????????????????
the way you approach identity in these videos and how you speak about various physic traits and stuff is really calming. ive been pretty anxious recently over trying to figure out what my transition will look like but watching these videos really got me to relax about it in a way that just hearing "take your time with figuring it out" from my close ones didn't. i really appreciate these videos :)
You’re amazing, thank you so much for making this video
Youre really pretty and your voice sounds amazing! Im a trans girl working on my voice too. Watching your videos and how you’ve accepted yourself during your detransition has been really inspiring. I hope everything continues to go well!
That’s so sweet thank you! We have to stop comparing ourselves to people we want to look like and accept and love ourselves for exactly how we look like. ❤️ enjoy your journey!
You’re tremendously inspiring. Keep living your truth 🖤
Idk how I ended up here on this video, but you are just so comfortably YOU and that’s so damn beautiful.
I loved the new video ! You have a great energy!
I have been trying to explain to the people around me the social adjustments as a trans person and it’s hard to explain but you did perfectly.. I’ve been thinking about detransitioning too and I’ve been off hormones for 7 months now.. and I don’t regret it.
Glad to hear I explained it well for you! Glad you’re following your own path, I think some people get scared to admit that they don’t like how they’re perceived or treated in that gender expression. It’s totally okay to recognize that. Why live in a body or expression that makes you feel uncomfortable because of what others will think? I had to ask myself that and it was really hard.
Hi, I just came across your TikTok and then watched all your videos here. Thank you for sharing your story so eloquently! I’d like to point out that these stories are, for me, the opposite of invalidating, and I hope we can make a more welcoming environment free of old binary and gatekeeping ideals. We should never treat someone else’s personal journey as a threat.
I relate to so much of what you’ve said because in my fear of transition, I spent years first leaning into my masculine traits, and then trying to satisfy myself with nonbinary labels when that didn’t work.
When I finally transitioned, I was so sick of trying to fit people’s expectations that I decided to focus on expressing myself more freely and doing things because I like them, not because of what others will think. It’s been fantastic, one of the best choices I’ve made for myself. We always have more in common than we seem to assume. ❤️
Thank you for the lovely message! I’m glad you found connection in some of my words. Sometimes I think people don’t understand me well because of some of the things I say, but they are truly just my thoughts, some times I agree with them and some times I don’t, but they are there and enjoy sharing them to see what it invokes in others.
So I appreciate all the support 💕
I'm so happy for you!
I love your perspective on having masculine traits, tbh it's something I really struggle with, and always feel a lot of pressure to change even if I don't actually want to. Finding peace with my physical form has been hard, and it's really helpful hearing ur insight!! Thank u for sharing!
I’m so glad! With every conversation I find people have similar insecurities which helps me break down my perceptions of people because deep down we all feel the same!
Don’t let other people pressure you into changing you’re body. Personally I didn’t feel comfortable in my natural body until I was 30.
Your ok we’re all different. Ignore the negativity. Focus on what makes you happy not what you have to do to make all others happy.
I like what you said about men and women being treated differently. As a man, it's been difficult to notice that as I age I become more "aggressive" even before I say or do anything.
Thanks for sharing as usual ❤️ Really inspired by your self acceptance and confidence that has blossomed over the past year. You are incredible my friend
Also really appreciate the perspective you have to allow yourself room to change as time goes on. Not defining yourself but allowing that to fluctuate as life does
I always love your messages on my thoughts! You are also incredible! I super enjoy how your express your vulnerability to show admiration. Thank you so much Emily!!
Keep it up! Made me smile. Prayers.
I found you during your documentary on Snapchat and I love your voice
I found you on tiktok and I’ve found myself drawn to you ever since. You radiate such a beautiful energy 💫
That is so sweet!! Thank you so much for your support ❤️
Yes. You have such a nice, kind energy.
I could listen to you talk all day! Love love love your voice.
Oh thank you! ❤️
Im happy that you as a person feel better in your own skin. While we are here on this earth in our current state of consciousness its crucial to be able to feel comfortable you know. And its a journey. As a person who is apart of the community lgbtq (srry if this is the wrong acronym rn ) i feel it very freeing to watch someone so open. Thanks:) youre very pretty btw too.
I saw your story on snapchat. Keep doing you! 🙏🏻❤️
you look great. no guilt, no shame !
Good for you Alia. I wish you the best with your journey.
Thank you for sharing your testimony. ❤️
Thank you for sharing yourself!
Thank you for watching 💕
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s so interesting and very brave of you. Funnily enough, I found you due to an interview Blair White did in which she said to search up the word “Detransition” on youtube and when I did your video was one of the ones that popped up.
(hope I didn’t offend anyone by mentioning Blaire 😬 )
Blaire white is a known liar and an example of a pick me girl, but for trans women. She blatantly lied and spread misinformation about Alia. She said she regrets transitioning, Alia does not regret transitioning. It was also subtly condescending when Blaire White said in a surprising way that she was beautiful pretransition. Alia has always been beautiful before AND after detransition. You should not listen to her or take her seriously, she is a blatant liar who throws her own people under the bus to get cis people's validation and approval. Not healthy at all.
Don't worry about your deep voice. I'm only 17 and I have a deep raspy voice so don't worry lol. I mean look at Lauren Bacall. She had a deep voice as a woman and she made me feel better about my voice. U got this ❤️👍🏻
Your a kind soul .
I think you look great I love it 😍 question so idk how this process works? Like is there a lot of money and do you feel it’s a “waste”? I’ve always wanted to know that perspective
I'm 19 trans girl I knew I'm trans since when I was 15 and recently I started medically transition and 2 weeks ago I finally come out to my boyfriend I though Maybe he gonna leave me but he knew it he was like babe I know it since day one from ur voice how u act but I didn't want make u uncomfortable about it
That’s amazing!! You should always do what you need to do though regardless of what anyone thinks about you! Do it the time that works for you too, no pressure and take it day by day.
This is such an interesting topic. If we had been, let's say colleagues, I would've treated you differently as well. I am, in general very wary of men. I have a lot of bad expereiences with men, and I'm a lesbian so it's not from past relationships because I've never dated a man. I don't open up to men and I don't make friends with them. I talk to them, treat them with respect (as long as they deserve it), but I don't bond with them.
Hi, may I ask what ur experiences with men are? I don't mean to come off as passive aggressive or anything like that. But I dont understand why people are assuming all men are like emotionaless freaks who don't understand anything. I have been abused by men and I have also been saved by men. I have been kidnapped and I had past trauma that occured bc of men. But how come I'm not like u? How come I saw these past issues as a peoples problem not a gender specific problem?
Regarding the difference you have observed in personal perceptions/ interactions, does it give you more of an appreciation for how men navigate through the world?
Wow you look great ! Blessings
Hello I am a bit lost and watching your videos I felt really understood for once... Right now I identify as genderfluid, but with time I found out I just like femenine things like make up and trans masc can also like that so... Idk I am really confuse... The thing is I also presented really femenine when I was younger and now I am 23 and I have this big urge to be seen as male, I hate being percive as a woman... But it is just because of society and I totally agree with you we are just a little moment of awareness in the extent of the universe, it doesn't even matter what you are if you are happy
But I need to know who I am and what I need to stop changing and wanting one thing and not wanting the other next day... Is exhausting... I really really like the idea of having deeper voice and a beard and a bigger body but... Idk if is it worth it because I also don't like getting involved with pills and all those things... I know whatever I do is going to be fine with me but I just want an answer so I can left this topic on peace...
I hope you read this.. thank you for talking about what nobody talks so openly it was so important to .e to listen this
Hi there! Thank you for sharing all of your feelings. It can be really hard feeling lost and just wanting to pick something so don’t have to obsess over this anymore, but sadly there will always be moments in life where we have those feelings, with so many things. I think right now the best thing for you to do is follow your heart. What calls to you. Safely try things and see what you like and don’t like. It takes a lifetime to find yourself and you’ll constantly be changing. Just move with happiness and love ❤️ good luck on your journey!
Your problem is verte common and is called "gender". Make up, dresses, wanted behabior... You are what you was born biologically. The problem comes when you prefer changing of "identity" and you forget that society is sexist and se must right against that, not aganist our bodys or identities. You're ok like you are.
Thanks for sharing this very valuable perspective with us. There seems to be some sort of stigma which is preventing detransitioning people of the male sex from speaking out and I hope this can be addressed by society so that these men can re-integrate after detransitioning from "f to m"...
There's going to be an enormous amount of detransitioners over the coming decade, especially as now the ideology has been thoroughly exposed for what it is and that we know full well the part that social contagion has played in it and what with all the children who have been put on a pathway leading to infertility, it's only a matter of time before the lawsuits roll in, thick and fast.
Cool video! :-)
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what a nice woman!
Love you alia
You are Jameela Alia, you have my Mom’s name ❤
I like your voice
Who is here after rvcj post 😅
Oh your voice is a LOT higher :) but voice pitch says nothing about identity. Very confirming though
Alia I know you or very beautiful.
Every thing about you is lovely.
I watch you change
You had an orb visitor at about 1 minute 😯
Do people stare at you sometimes because you look a bit different than other women?
Update
congrata
I've seen a lot of these detransitioning videos one thing they have in common is that all these girls look very pretty
What is your diet.
I know you said this in your video that you did get your period so for me to understand that means you still have all your parts in your uterus and all that in between just so I can understand because I get confused really easily and this is just how I function and I mean no disrespect and the raspy voice there’s a lot of girls out there that have it and it’s beautiful and it makes you unique
@Ruby Religion has nothing to do with us the question was towards the crater not you I appreciate your opinion but at this point I don’t give a rats ass I asked her a question not you
@Ruby You can obviously respond to it but you got to be nice and think about what they are going through saying that religion should be in your life doesn’t mean anything like for instance I don’t follow anyone I don’t have a religion fuck that I fucking hate that OK say I can put my own opinion in this and you’re gonna get butt hurt you’re a snowflake you’re a marshmallow your soft get over yourself OK
@@siennaguptill Regarding yr questions, I believe the reason Alia is still able to have her periods after stopping testosterone is because she did not proceed with a surgical hysterectomy. That means her uterus has not been removed which is why she is able to regain the function of her female body, & in the future if she decides to have children, she may still be able to do that as well. Hope this helped with some of your queries.
@Ruby I actually agree...I'm Catholic and we talk a lot about this. We are assigned our sex at birth by God (if you don't like that word there are other words to use). No amount of plastic surgery or medicine has the power to change that. Once we get in touch with our soul we understand that happiness, peace and joy come from having a sound healthy soul.connecting with spirit shows us the way.
❤️🌹
Do you ever worry that you might change your mind and decide to transition again? Your voice is starting to sound more feminine.
My question is : will you be able to have kids in the futur as a woman?
Its important to me as i'm thinking about transition & de-transition in the futur
I have a question - I lead a transgender voice group and what is your experience/opinion on addressing the group as "you guys"? I can't believe how second nature it is for me to use this phrase, but I wonder if it's more uncomfortable for the group for me to correct myself and draw attention to it? Thank you!!
I always slip up on gendered language even as a trans man. We’re just so ingrained to say masculine inclusion terms and I don’t mind it if someone used it for me, but I think just asking. A lot of people use “folks” or “y’all” and that’s super gender neutral!
I also detransitioned but retransitioned btw
RE-DETRANSITION! CRYBABY
You’re starting to look like Kristen Stewart haha 👍🏼
Are you a straight woman, now?
RUclips will hate you.
Can you show how your entire body looks?
Maybe you can do a clothing try-on haul.
How tall are you, you look about 5'4 .
Creep detected
Creep
@@emilyzitioun3789 If liking looking at female physique is defined as being a creep then I am guilty as charges .😊😊
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Why the hell did you detransition
Was I supposed to continue living as a transgender man when I was unhappy doing that? Why don’t you watch a couple other videos of mine that explains my decisions.
Because SHE did!
احس صوتك يعتبر انوثي، ممكن فيه بحه، البحه امر جميل، وايضا ملامح وجهك الانوثيه طاغيه، اتمنى لك حياة جيدة اهم شي صحتك وسعادتك، كوني بخير
Other people treating you poorly because you're a man doesn't mean you should detranstion I lost u
You sound bitter and confused... A WOMAN will always be a WOMAN... DETRANSITION again!
Assigned female at birth by God
By God, lol. This random “man” that you look up to chose to assign me female the moment I was born. LMFAO. No, I was born in this body, and society chose to use the word female and male because of sex characteristics I had, and then imposed gender stereotypes on me because of that…got it 👍🏼