Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited) 💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass 🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions 🗣 Join the FB Group! -> facebook.com/groups/1032426806961329/ 🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
This makes so much sense to me now. My wife briefly left me, for approx. three weeks, six years ago. She has since (July 2021) left me and it is because of my ‘extrinsic value’ and only briefly focusing on that six years ago!
so my girlfriend for the last 6 months told me she doesn’t want to be in a romantic relationship with me due to our age difference of 6 years..it’s long distance and she still wants to be friends but all that’s going through my head is that is that she is talking to other dudes and when I said I would take a trip to go see her beforehand ..she said it would be too much seeing me in person
Gotta say I been watching all your videos since April, and everything you say will happen when you focus on tactics etc literally happened. It’s a lot harder to CONTINUE doing the internal work when your situation feels hopeless. When the bad stuff keeps happening and destroying your hope. But your videos have given me guidance and although I’ve struggled to be consistent, I know that if I stick to these changes that everything will be okay. And for that I’m appreciative for your content 🙌🏽
Ngl I didnt wait to finally seek help but I didn't know I was ever in the wrong. I had gut feelings that something wasn't right but it never really woke me up until the day she said she wanted to leave and left as she said. Only then I realized, like a dumbass, how much pain I really put her through. It's been almost 2 months but I've been studying these videos and master classes. She's stonewalling tf outa me lol if only I seen these on the day she left or before. I still love my ex gf so much that I'm staying calm for her.
Geoffrey love your content and for me always comes as the right time for my situation. You have helped me through this and I Thankyou for that and I’m continuing to grow both internally and externally. I’m currently in a separation (been 5 months) as my wife has had a affair and still is seeing her AP (have had a look at your content in regards to cheating) however I believe I have remained emotionally bulletproof through this but using your other principles how do I when me and her talk about kids etc how do I interact with her knowing this affair is in the back of my mind, do I be just normal and not raise the issue within the affair situation or just be normal whilst interacting asking how she is going, what she been up to lately etc. would like to know your thoughts?
Hi Brendan, Glad you found my video helpful. Your situation is not unique, many of my clients are facing some of the same situations and challenges that you are. What they have learned are the right set of tools, skills, and mindsets to playout the frameworks in conversation to address the issues that are plaguing the relationship even when your partner is having an affair. Check out this video on how to handle things when your partner is having an affair. ruclips.net/video/LWzTNuK9aJc/видео.html
Much appreciated Geoffrey. What do you mean by the Mastering the right daily practices within your video on the 4 layers of growing your intrinsic value, what does that encounter and how. Would love to know your thoughts further on it, may vitally give me insight on my situation. ☺️
Started the daily, way too late into this separation but its for me, and I wish I had the 4000 just to pay this guy cause its saving all my relationships. My notebook is filling up
Sense of urgency is key.. getting help, acting and releltlessly making things happen is urgent... immediately act, don't get confident with a demonstration of affectiin. Someone is not an accident or a mistake... it is serious. Don't hesitate and get help ASAP.
The only thing that needs to be urgent is your growth. Getting your desired outcome is not. I have seen many of my clients separate and get back together after many years. There is no tipping point in long term relationships and in marriages.
@@GeoffreySetiawan This comment is what I needed to hear today. I struggle with the illusion of urgency quite a bit.. .I am literally addicted to your videos now because everytime I start lollygagging I know my mind is focused on the wrong thing, so your videos really help in realigning.
Hi Tony, Thanks brother! Glad you found this video helpful. If you would like to learn more, you can join our free masterclass & consider enrolling in our program. In our Relationship Revival program all our clients have learnt the RIGHT processes (frameworks, mindsets & identity shifting) to create MASSIVE safety & trust. Have a look at how the program has been life-changing for so many of my clients… ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
Hi scotts825, Let me ask you a question. If she does want to do this, how does trying to stop her help? Does her feelings change? Does this stop her from wanting to do this? In my program we have a saying. "Give your partner the power and freedom to leave, treat them well enough to where they will not want to." Hope this helps.
We’re not talking as of right now, it’s been over 3 months. She told me she loved me on the 4th, but do i keep waiting for her to reach out to me ? or will she eventually go and talk to somebody else
Hi Isaac, That’s a very common issue in most relationships. When there is a lack of safety & trust, there is always a struggle to openly communicate. When there is a lack of communication this leads us to make wrong assumptions about what your partner is looking which inevitable leads to conflicts. In our Relationship Revival program all our clients have learnt the RIGHT processes (frameworks, mindsets & identity shifting) to create MASSIVE safety & trust. Have a look at how the program has been life-changing for so many of my clients…
Its been almost 2 months, at this point shes starting to stome wall me and is unsure if she wants to continue our relationship. To make things worse her brother is making decisions for her.
Feel free to watch my interviews with Michael, Eve, or Scott. We talk about dealing with stonewalling and resistance a lot in those interviews. I've also made a video about this. ruclips.net/video/RajkNHGvh2Y/видео.html
Where can I find the ressources to imprive my framework, mindset and identify shifting ? I'm at this stage now, Emotionnal/psychological trust is fine but I need to improve myself.
Hi, Please feel free to submit you application to join the Relationships Revival program at the end of the master class to learn about identity shifting and learning the frameworks. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
80 grand Plus dollars a month business??? Maybe you should bring for a bookshelf that cost more than $6 and a $12 chair.... Just saying I don't need to work at a rodeo to know what horseshit smells like!
Horseshit? I don't know man - my actual earnings report does not seem to horseshit to me :) In fact, we've actually grown to much bigger than $80K a month! Why? Because we're actually AWESOME at what we do :) www.loom.com/share/30e11081a8f1415d837848112c0afaf7
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Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts?
Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
🗣 Join the FB Group! -> facebook.com/groups/1032426806961329/
🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
This makes so much sense to me now. My wife briefly left me, for approx. three weeks, six years ago. She has since (July 2021) left me and it is because of my ‘extrinsic value’ and only briefly focusing on that six years ago!
Yep, you are starting to get it now. Don't make the same mistake twice!
so my girlfriend for the last 6 months told me she doesn’t want to be in a romantic relationship with me due to our age difference of 6 years..it’s long distance and she still wants to be friends but all that’s going through my head is that is that she is talking to other dudes and when I said I would take a trip to go see her beforehand ..she said it would be too much seeing me in person
Gotta say I been watching all your videos since April, and everything you say will happen when you focus on tactics etc literally happened. It’s a lot harder to CONTINUE doing the internal work when your situation feels hopeless. When the bad stuff keeps happening and destroying your hope. But your videos have given me guidance and although I’ve struggled to be consistent, I know that if I stick to these changes that everything will be okay. And for that I’m appreciative for your content 🙌🏽
Ngl I didnt wait to finally seek help but I didn't know I was ever in the wrong. I had gut feelings that something wasn't right but it never really woke me up until the day she said she wanted to leave and left as she said. Only then I realized, like a dumbass, how much pain I really put her through. It's been almost 2 months but I've been studying these videos and master classes. She's stonewalling tf outa me lol if only I seen these on the day she left or before. I still love my ex gf so much that I'm staying calm for her.
bro, plz let me know if you got back with her. are u together? did u work things out?
Geoffrey love your content and for me always comes as the right time for my situation. You have helped me through this and I Thankyou for that and I’m continuing to grow both internally and externally. I’m currently in a separation (been 5 months) as my wife has had a affair and still is seeing her AP (have had a look at your content in regards to cheating) however I believe I have remained emotionally bulletproof through this but using your other principles how do I when me and her talk about kids etc how do I interact with her knowing this affair is in the back of my mind, do I be just normal and not raise the issue within the affair situation or just be normal whilst interacting asking how she is going, what she been up to lately etc. would like to know your thoughts?
Hi Brendan,
Glad you found my video helpful. Your situation is not unique, many of my clients are facing some of the same situations and challenges that you are.
What they have learned are the right set of tools, skills, and mindsets to playout the frameworks in conversation to address the issues that are plaguing the relationship even when your partner is having an affair.
Check out this video on how to handle things when your partner is having an affair.
ruclips.net/video/LWzTNuK9aJc/видео.html
Much appreciated Geoffrey. What do you mean by the Mastering the right daily practices within your video on the 4 layers of growing your intrinsic value, what does that encounter and how. Would love to know your thoughts further on it, may vitally give me insight on my situation. ☺️
Started the daily, way too late into this separation but its for me, and I wish I had the 4000 just to pay this guy cause its saving all my relationships. My notebook is filling up
Sense of urgency is key.. getting help, acting and releltlessly making things happen is urgent... immediately act, don't get confident with a demonstration of affectiin. Someone is not an accident or a mistake... it is serious. Don't hesitate and get help ASAP.
The only thing that needs to be urgent is your growth. Getting your desired outcome is not. I have seen many of my clients separate and get back together after many years. There is no tipping point in long term relationships and in marriages.
@@GeoffreySetiawan This comment is what I needed to hear today. I struggle with the illusion of urgency quite a bit.. .I am literally addicted to your videos now because everytime I start lollygagging I know my mind is focused on the wrong thing, so your videos really help in realigning.
Excellent content as always!
Hi Tony,
Thanks brother! Glad you found this video helpful.
If you would like to learn more, you can join our free masterclass & consider enrolling in our program.
In our Relationship Revival program all our clients have learnt the RIGHT processes (frameworks, mindsets & identity shifting) to create MASSIVE safety & trust.
Have a look at how the program has been life-changing for so many of my clients…
ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
Thank you so much for the information. Sincerely.
GEOFF IS THE BEST.
Peter Box, thank you my man. Glad I am able to provide help to you all.
What if I give her the space she ask for but she's really just looking for someone else around this time? Or she finds someone else?
Hi scotts825,
Let me ask you a question. If she does want to do this, how does trying to stop her help? Does her feelings change? Does this stop her from wanting to do this? In my program we have a saying. "Give your partner the power and freedom to leave, treat them well enough to where they will not want to." Hope this helps.
We’re not talking as of right now, it’s been over 3 months. She told me she loved me on the 4th, but do i keep waiting for her to reach out to me ? or will she eventually go and talk to somebody else
Hi Isaac,
That’s a very common issue in most relationships. When there is a lack of safety & trust, there is always a struggle to openly communicate. When there is a lack of communication this leads us to make wrong assumptions about what your partner is looking which inevitable leads to conflicts.
In our Relationship Revival program all our clients have learnt the RIGHT processes (frameworks, mindsets & identity shifting) to create MASSIVE safety & trust. Have a look at how the program has been life-changing for so many of my clients…
Its been almost 2 months, at this point shes starting to stome wall me and is unsure if she wants to continue our relationship. To make things worse her brother is making decisions for her.
Feel free to watch my interviews with Michael, Eve, or Scott. We talk about dealing with stonewalling and resistance a lot in those interviews.
I've also made a video about this. ruclips.net/video/RajkNHGvh2Y/видео.html
Where can I find the ressources to imprive my framework, mindset and identify shifting ? I'm at this stage now, Emotionnal/psychological trust is fine but I need to improve myself.
Hi,
Please feel free to submit you application to join the Relationships Revival program at the end of the master class to learn about identity shifting and learning the frameworks.
relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
What are the five pillars?
What if man is still not trusted
80 grand Plus dollars a month business??? Maybe you should bring for a bookshelf that cost more than $6 and a $12 chair.... Just saying I don't need to work at a rodeo to know what horseshit smells like!
Horseshit? I don't know man - my actual earnings report does not seem to horseshit to me :) In fact, we've actually grown to much bigger than $80K a month!
Why? Because we're actually AWESOME at what we do :)
www.loom.com/share/30e11081a8f1415d837848112c0afaf7