Hey guys, Dave's story is not like every mans. Don't hyper focus on the "time it took", but rather the mindset, beliefs, and habits he has. THOSE in themselves will give you the most growth and therefore the best opportunity to win her back and improve your marriage.
Just like David, I’ve been watching Josh’s videos for about a year now. I see how I messed up in my marriage, and wish I would have discovered my blind spots sooner before she left.
I've learned alot through your videos and have been working on being non reactive, it is hard sometimes when criticism or mean things are being said but I've been doing my best to stay calm and understanding in all situations
Is it a coincidence most of Josh's paying clients are lawyers, doctors, business owners, and other well-paid professionals? I wish it weren't SO expensive. Middle class men need help with their marriages too.
I did Marriage Mastery Lite - affordable. The lessons in all of these free videos are enough - if you make them part of your life - to make a major change in who you are and how your partner and others see you.
Actually, I'm a medically retired Marine Corps Veteran whose living paycheck to paycheck, and he's helping me, so what about now? I've got any more harsh words to say. Because they have to have an income to support their own families it makes since to have high paid help to make content to show success in helping us regular men who have not the means to afford the cost. There is a balance to everything. Please do not mistake David's program for only wealthy people! You're selling yourself short, unfortunately!
Yeah it's definitely selection bias. I'm a casinonstreamer so I make (and lose) huge amounts of money like it's nothing. Spending $6400, shoot, i lose more than that in a day at least once a week, but equally make more than that in a single stream. So yeah, people with money have an unfair advantage. He put this price only the wealthy could afford realistically on the product, which to be fair, involves advanced psychotherapy. My coach is a PhD in psychology. I used to see a therapist without insurance, it was $250 per session. I have 18 sessions with my coach, let's say the course itself were totally free, that would be $355 per session. So a bit more per session than a regular therapist. If we assume there is some inherent value to the course itself, then the coaching (with real psychologists, it is a form of mental health service) is pretty much the same cost as any high level therapy without insurance. This sort of just shows that in general, mental health help is way too expensive. But, sucks to suck, go out there and get it. There are ways, I promise. It can be extremely hard and terrifying, especially when you come from a place of debt, pay check to pay check living and drowning in bills you need to work nonstop to BARELY cover, but I came from that for half my 20s and then i didn't just find one way, ive found a half dozen different ways once I started makijg money for the first time. It's like my understanding of value changed forever.
It's interesting how men will put up with so much from women to control themselves and be "non-reactive" I guess because women are a source of pleasure but if another man acts the same way prepare for a brawl. Now why is that 🤔 I'm not claiming to be any different, I've just noticed that. Men have training videos on how to control ourselves under pressure with women to save their relationships. Do women have training videos on how to not say stupid things and control themselves 🤔 I still love women just saying...
What about your in a situation where she still tels you she loves you but she just wants some space and time to figure things out. Shes very adamant about the fact she wants to be together but shenthinks we need to work on ourselves right now.
In the same boat pal. In my case I need to learn to control my anger and emotions, not let them control me. I love my girl so much but she broke up with me after 6 yrs. I will win her back!!
I'm in the same boat. She tells me she loves me everyday and even talks about renewing our vows but says we have to work on a lot of things and is still very hesitant about coming home. She has a very cult like family of mostly women, her sisters and her mom(all divorced or on their third husband) and im afraid the longer she is there with them that the more she will be sucked in and start picking up their mannerisms and her life will be what her family's life is. It's like we both are trying to draft her to our team.
Her snarky responses is what gets underneath my skin. She always has a reason to justify her attitude when I call it out …which results in me ignoring her to avoid an escalation.
How does a man who doesnt have a high-paid job be the Provider a wife needs? Can he do this if his wife makes 3 times more? How will she ever view him as the provider?
That is a bit of an added difficulty, for sure. But she didn't fall in love with you because of money. She fell in love with you because she saw a future and potential within you. Financially providing is just one aspect of being a provider. And it doesn't matter that she makes more. You need to do the most with what you have on top of improving and being the best version of yourself that you can. Her making more does create an imbalance that leans towards her masculine mind set, but that can absolutely be offset in other areas as well as by skillfully navigating the income difference issue. Don't let the income thing deter you. It is a reflection of your insecurity. You will be a great man, the greatest version of yourself no matter how much she makes or whether she loves you. Make yourself so great that she would spend every penny to be with you. Stay strong and focused brother
Thank you SO MUCH bro. Your words are what I needed to hear. She's an attorney, so she'll always make more than me. Your words have inspired me and given me hope though. Thank you!
@@donaldmullins6582 Man, it's my pleasure. My wife has been moved out for a while and I'm lucky I found Josh's videos on like day 3. We are at 3 weeks now and Josh's content works. You have to truly be okay and come to terms with the fact that she may not come back. You will be okay regardless. I struggled with that at first, but I just made it clear to her that she's free to leave if she wants, and I understand that, but I am free to lean in and that she will have a place with me if she chooses. Though Ive also realized that I may feel differently if she waits too long. And that's okay. I will tell you this: no contact is legit. I only respond to my wife when she reaches out, I have never once asked her where she is staying, I've never once texted her with some bullshit before bed, I just let her come to me. And it's working. She's been coming around to talk, she took me out for lunch for Father's day, I almost turned her down too just to make sure she's operating within my frame, but with the kids involved I couldn't. But you stay strong man. I know I have my bad days but you need to keep yourself in check. Truthfully, I wonder if Im even ready for her to come back all at once. This is a whole reformation bro
I’ve been married for a week, I want a divorce. I don’t think things will get better, it’s best I move on now before I have to pay alimony or spousal support
When I first started watching Josh - I was creeped out too. Uncomfortable. The truth hurts sometimes. But you know what? It changed me for the better. Keep watching and learning. Slow down and do the work. You and I will become better men.
Hey guys,
Dave's story is not like every mans. Don't hyper focus on the "time it took", but rather the mindset, beliefs, and habits he has. THOSE in themselves will give you the most growth and therefore the best opportunity to win her back and improve your marriage.
Just like David, I’ve been watching Josh’s videos for about a year now. I see how I messed up in my marriage, and wish I would have discovered my blind spots sooner before she left.
Same here.
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My Jiu Jitsu professor used to always say “slow is smooth, smooth is fast”
I've learned alot through your videos and have been working on being non reactive, it is hard sometimes when criticism or mean things are being said but I've been doing my best to stay calm and understanding in all situations
how do I get into your program
Is it a coincidence most of Josh's paying clients are lawyers, doctors, business owners, and other well-paid professionals? I wish it weren't SO expensive. Middle class men need help with their marriages too.
I did Marriage Mastery Lite - affordable. The lessons in all of these free videos are enough - if you make them part of your life - to make a major change in who you are and how your partner and others see you.
I just started the lite version and it can be broken into payment plan which really helped get the ball rolling.
Actually, I'm a medically retired Marine Corps Veteran whose living paycheck to paycheck, and he's helping me, so what about now? I've got any more harsh words to say. Because they have to have an income to support their own families it makes since to have high paid help to make content to show success in helping us regular men who have not the means to afford the cost. There is a balance to everything. Please do not mistake David's program for only wealthy people! You're selling yourself short, unfortunately!
Yeah it's definitely selection bias. I'm a casinonstreamer so I make (and lose) huge amounts of money like it's nothing. Spending $6400, shoot, i lose more than that in a day at least once a week, but equally make more than that in a single stream.
So yeah, people with money have an unfair advantage. He put this price only the wealthy could afford realistically on the product, which to be fair, involves advanced psychotherapy.
My coach is a PhD in psychology. I used to see a therapist without insurance, it was $250 per session. I have 18 sessions with my coach, let's say the course itself were totally free, that would be $355 per session. So a bit more per session than a regular therapist.
If we assume there is some inherent value to the course itself, then the coaching (with real psychologists, it is a form of mental health service) is pretty much the same cost as any high level therapy without insurance.
This sort of just shows that in general, mental health help is way too expensive. But, sucks to suck, go out there and get it. There are ways, I promise. It can be extremely hard and terrifying, especially when you come from a place of debt, pay check to pay check living and drowning in bills you need to work nonstop to BARELY cover, but I came from that for half my 20s and then i didn't just find one way, ive found a half dozen different ways once I started makijg money for the first time. It's like my understanding of value changed forever.
This is a great list! Thanks for sharing.
Of course!
It's interesting how men will put up with so much from women to control themselves and be "non-reactive" I guess because women are a source of pleasure but if another man acts the same way prepare for a brawl. Now why is that 🤔
I'm not claiming to be any different, I've just noticed that.
Men have training videos on how to control ourselves under pressure with women to save their relationships.
Do women have training videos on how to not say stupid things and control themselves 🤔
I still love women just saying...
I want to take the program can I pay in instalments ?
Live out the lessons in these free videos and you will make positive changes. I find these videos just as important to me as the program.
What about your in a situation where she still tels you she loves you but she just wants some space and time to figure things out. Shes very adamant about the fact she wants to be together but shenthinks we need to work on ourselves right now.
In the same boat pal. In my case I need to learn to control my anger and emotions, not let them control me. I love my girl so much but she broke up with me after 6 yrs. I will win her back!!
@@accxmplice yeah I tried but she was fucking a dude with herpes and her ex her beat her. They can have rm
I'm in the same boat. She tells me she loves me everyday and even talks about renewing our vows but says we have to work on a lot of things and is still very hesitant about coming home. She has a very cult like family of mostly women, her sisters and her mom(all divorced or on their third husband) and im afraid the longer she is there with them that the more she will be sucked in and start picking up their mannerisms and her life will be what her family's life is. It's like we both are trying to draft her to our team.
Same here currrent situation with 2 kids
Her snarky responses is what gets underneath my skin. She always has a reason to justify her attitude when I call it out …which results in me ignoring her to avoid an escalation.
same here it's American women.period. can't always be my fault.a man has to stand up sooner or later.or scrap the project start over and learn.
How does a man who doesnt have a high-paid job be the Provider a wife needs? Can he do this if his wife makes 3 times more? How will she ever view him as the provider?
That is a bit of an added difficulty, for sure. But she didn't fall in love with you because of money. She fell in love with you because she saw a future and potential within you. Financially providing is just one aspect of being a provider. And it doesn't matter that she makes more. You need to do the most with what you have on top of improving and being the best version of yourself that you can. Her making more does create an imbalance that leans towards her masculine mind set, but that can absolutely be offset in other areas as well as by skillfully navigating the income difference issue. Don't let the income thing deter you. It is a reflection of your insecurity. You will be a great man, the greatest version of yourself no matter how much she makes or whether she loves you. Make yourself so great that she would spend every penny to be with you. Stay strong and focused brother
Thank you SO MUCH bro. Your words are what I needed to hear. She's an attorney, so she'll always make more than me. Your words have inspired me and given me hope though. Thank you!
@@donaldmullins6582 Man, it's my pleasure. My wife has been moved out for a while and I'm lucky I found Josh's videos on like day 3. We are at 3 weeks now and Josh's content works. You have to truly be okay and come to terms with the fact that she may not come back. You will be okay regardless. I struggled with that at first, but I just made it clear to her that she's free to leave if she wants, and I understand that, but I am free to lean in and that she will have a place with me if she chooses. Though Ive also realized that I may feel differently if she waits too long. And that's okay. I will tell you this: no contact is legit. I only respond to my wife when she reaches out, I have never once asked her where she is staying, I've never once texted her with some bullshit before bed, I just let her come to me. And it's working. She's been coming around to talk, she took me out for lunch for Father's day, I almost turned her down too just to make sure she's operating within my frame, but with the kids involved I couldn't. But you stay strong man. I know I have my bad days but you need to keep yourself in check. Truthfully, I wonder if Im even ready for her to come back all at once. This is a whole reformation bro
What happens when you do this right for years and it doesn’t work
Women like men who put themselves first
I feel like this training is like training a dog. 😂
I’ve been married for a week, I want a divorce. I don’t think things will get better, it’s best I move on now before I have to pay alimony or spousal support
This video gives me the creeps
When I first started watching Josh - I was creeped out too. Uncomfortable. The truth hurts sometimes. But you know what? It changed me for the better. Keep watching and learning. Slow down and do the work. You and I will become better men.