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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2016
  • When he is assertive, gives flowers for no reason and will maybe defend your honour. What it's like dating that Russian man.
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  • @kathleensloan7201
    @kathleensloan7201 3 года назад +2963

    The love of my life was Russian. He was a brilliant mathematician, spoke flawless English, was so handsome & like most Russian men was very masculine but not macho. Russian culture is very patriarchal so gender roles are strongly adhered to & they're very homophobic. He used to put me to sleep at night tucking the covers tightly around me & singing Russian lullabies to me. He'd record love songs for me, especially Elvis Presley - our song was "It's Now or Never."
    He was very close with his family - Russians are much more family oriented than Americans. They are also far more respectful of their elders & wouldn't dream of warehousing them in nursing homes like Americans do.
    We were planning to spend the rest of our lives together & I was in the process of moving to Moscow when he had a sudden, completely unexpected heart attack & died just 3 days after we celebrated his 54th birthday. I was nearly suicidal with grief. It's been a year & 4 months and I still grieve constantly for him. I adored him.

    • @gmstjs
      @gmstjs 3 года назад +308

      I am so sorry for your pain

    • @vadim-2068
      @vadim-2068 3 года назад +248

      Please accept my condolences

    • @kathleensloan7201
      @kathleensloan7201 3 года назад +83

      @@vadim-2068 Thank you Vadim.

    • @brigeetalight4394
      @brigeetalight4394 3 года назад +99

      I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and happy to hear that you had that great experience.

    • @kathleensloan7201
      @kathleensloan7201 3 года назад +28

      @@brigeetalight4394 Thank you for your kind words.

  • @rcrouwl485
    @rcrouwl485 5 лет назад +5291

    I am from Russia. And I'm surprised that such simple things, can cause so much admiration in the comments of women from the West.

    • @anglmus
      @anglmus 5 лет назад +227

      We like simple things 😊

    • @t.on.y
      @t.on.y 5 лет назад +182

      @@livics610 Слава Руси.

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 5 лет назад +16

      @@livics610 lmaooo u funny u tell em girl

    • @damadearintero1470
      @damadearintero1470 5 лет назад +26

      In spain women loves thinks like that above all in salamanca.

    • @risbolensky3921
      @risbolensky3921 5 лет назад +19

      @@eliza1826 you're not better either

  • @MrAndry123
    @MrAndry123 3 года назад +1458

    I am a Russian guy and I live in Russia. It's a lie that we expect a girl to dress sexy for dates and bars. I do not support such, like many of our guys. And not everyone loves to drink, keep that in mind.

    • @MrAndry123
      @MrAndry123 3 года назад +4

      @@elifsu8528 :)

    • @arabiyyah7965
      @arabiyyah7965 3 года назад +39

      Same for Muslims,but no dating, and no drinking.

    • @user-rb9ey9rr4s
      @user-rb9ey9rr4s 3 года назад +1

      don't tell the shit. Если она к тебе на свиданку придет в спортивках - такое себе дядь

    • @MrAndry123
      @MrAndry123 3 года назад +25

      @@user-rb9ey9rr4s То есть, считаешь, если она будет одета, как проститутка - это норм?!

    • @MoscowAirForce
      @MoscowAirForce 3 года назад +65

      Полностью согласен. Придет в спортивках- будет только веселее, если у нее есть чувство юмора

  • @dorsaal6194
    @dorsaal6194 4 года назад +836

    I'm dating a Russian man. He's very nice and caring. Best part is that he knows what he wants and he doesn't play games. Takes me to very nice places for dates. Buys me flowers every now and then. He's the best. Only problem: They are not really expressive of their emotions and love words! They assume you already know!! Haha!

    • @dorsaal6194
      @dorsaal6194 4 года назад +48

      @Dante Vain and we are women. We need emotional validation and feelings. Show us your soft side and we would love you for 😉

    • @anasmith5683
      @anasmith5683 4 года назад +89

      @@dorsaal6194 I don't know your culture. I'm a Rus girl living in US. I was dating a latino guy and I feel like our guys are real man and latino are like chicken blah-blah-blah. From some point I just feel that he bs me. I expect flowers, gifts and good dates as I always had it with Russian men, and receive just bs. I don't want his "feelings" if it's just words. A man for Rus girl is a verb. And the guy in the video says "Am I look like your friend?" bc he knows that with Rus girl hi will move to friendzone if she pays.

    • @Christianwoman
      @Christianwoman 3 года назад +58

      You see, for most Russian girls and men, actions are much more important than words. They Express all the seriousness of their intentions. Words of love are an important step for couples in Russia, they are never thrown to the wind. Most often, they begin to speak when the relationship has lasted for quite a long time, and people have deeper feelings for each other than simple sympathy and are 100% sure of them.

    • @Christianwoman
      @Christianwoman 3 года назад +13

      @Russian lad this Russian proverb means never say what you are not able to do

    • @sassycat6487
      @sassycat6487 3 года назад +3

      This is so true about not being emotional but good with words!

  • @AntONqa
    @AntONqa 7 лет назад +2318

    He does not let you carry heavy things.

    • @anandadaquino3604
      @anandadaquino3604 7 лет назад +77

      oh russians...

    • @maximgleischer926
      @maximgleischer926 7 лет назад +42

      Категоричность и узколобие - отличительная русская черта, тоже.

    • @AntONqa
      @AntONqa 7 лет назад +245

      Maxim Gleischer мне кажется твое мнение категорично и узколобо.

    • @MssAleyois
      @MssAleyois 7 лет назад +4

      I can relate to this, as well. That make me furious.

    • @DaliyaVector
      @DaliyaVector 7 лет назад +44

      I've been dealing with nepalese for a while, after an earthquake to do some charity for them. And I've realised that it's culturally normal for women there to carry heavy things and give birth very early. As a result, many of them have uretrine prolapse which is terrible. So, it;s not a myth- it's bad for woman's health to carry things often. Just look throgh the pictures and trty to understand.

  • @ramonzzari
    @ramonzzari 7 лет назад +620

    "No I'm not your friend" straight out of the friendzone

    • @BS-yh2vg
      @BS-yh2vg 5 лет назад +1

      ramonzzari 👏👏👏😎

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n 5 лет назад

      😂😂😂😩

    • @ParuAp
      @ParuAp 5 лет назад +10

      This is so true. They do say this haha

    • @user-rr8yi9zg2k
      @user-rr8yi9zg2k 5 лет назад +1

      But like doesn't this ... put off women in Russia?

    • @NoName-gm4kq
      @NoName-gm4kq 5 лет назад +3

      STRAIGHT OUTTA FRIENZONE!

  • @yasashii89
    @yasashii89 4 года назад +2770

    I think I want a Russian boyfriend and I'm a straight male.

    • @Ozlmsnt
      @Ozlmsnt 4 года назад +22

      yasashii89 😂😂

    • @GachiBoi
      @GachiBoi 3 года назад +33

      oh my

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 3 года назад +145

      Ummm, Russians don't tolerate that here

    • @plaguereaperofficial4955
      @plaguereaperofficial4955 3 года назад +88

      Tsar normally no. But some of us really don’t care

    • @missSmile.
      @missSmile. 3 года назад +6

      hahaha 😂😂

  • @jennavandermerwe8307
    @jennavandermerwe8307 5 лет назад +978

    I have a Russian man and I LOVE the way he treats me. Really does feel like old school love. He bought me flowers on the first two dates and my jaw dropped!

    • @RusBoriska
      @RusBoriska 5 лет назад +29

      Yes, Russian guys can be very sweet when they want it. I know this by myself. Yes, I am a single Russian young man. And yes, you have probably heard a lot of bad things about Russians. But I don't drink, don't smoke, don't use drugs and don't beat women. In short, I have many positive traits. And yeah, I am looking for a foreign girlfriend. If you want to know how I look and hear my Russian accent, then watch the videos on my channel. And there you will learn how to contact me.

    • @CyberDulya
      @CyberDulya 5 лет назад +27

      @@RusBoriskadude, you need to look for a pimp, not a foreign girl. My sweety

    • @76rus26
      @76rus26 4 года назад +15

      Привет из России!!!

    • @Martina-Kosicanka
      @Martina-Kosicanka 4 года назад +33

      I was on trip in Belarus and I was very surprised by huge amount of flower shops. Some old ladies were selling flowers even late in night

    • @esterherschkovich6499
      @esterherschkovich6499 3 года назад +11

      @@RusBoriska A year late but hope you found someone nice :) You sound a clean living boy :)

  • @denisedeshellx
    @denisedeshellx 7 лет назад +1296

    LOL. 1:47-1:48.
    "Do I look like your friend?"
    Damn, masculinity at its finest.
    I like a guy that is direct about his intentions with you.

    • @ellenzorzetto3577
      @ellenzorzetto3577 7 лет назад +22

      lol

    • @thebrownnomad9162
      @thebrownnomad9162 7 лет назад +25

      Denise De'shell I do that and they say I come off pretty strong.

    • @pamevf712
      @pamevf712 6 лет назад +8

      But russian men don't let you pay when they are dating you or they don't let any woman pay? Do they pay for their friends (woman friends) too?

    • @MrLegovas
      @MrLegovas 6 лет назад +20

      He may pay for his F friend too, but it much less likely. It depends on their status, the situation, his intentions etc

    • @maalegc
      @maalegc 6 лет назад

      I aprecciate that too

  • @CherryDreamer96
    @CherryDreamer96 3 месяца назад +34

    My husband is Russian and whilst some of these things don't ring true for him (like expecting me to dress up sexy) I have to say my husband is very protective and romantic. The whole mindset is like going back in time, he really treats me well . I've never experienced that with Western men

  • @missellie1
    @missellie1 3 года назад +561

    The one thing I think is missing is the family aspect of the relationship. With my Russian fiance, his parents are very involved in our lives. They took me in like another daughter and treated me with love from the very beginning of our relationship. There was a lot of pressure to get married, and they want to be grandparents as soon as possible, because family is to important to them.
    I've been with my Russian fiance for 3 years, known him for 10. He moved to the US for about 15 years ago. Even growing up in American schools, most of these points definitely still apply to him. He isn't a fighter or a drinker, but if he has to fight, he will; if his dad wants to do shots, he will. His mother has taught me how to cook better, because he definitely appreciates a good meal, though he doesn't really expect it. He's very direct and doesn't like the bullshit of delaying to soften feelings. Oh, and the dressing up when gathering with other women, 100%. I was going to wear jeans and a nice shirt to his mom's birthday party, and he asked me if I was going to change, and said all the women will be super dressed up. And they were, formal dresses, sparkling jewelry, heels, everything, just to hang out at their house. Very different from American culture, but I love Russian culture and my Russian family so much.

    • @gmstjs
      @gmstjs 3 года назад +30

      Wishing you two all the happiness in the world.

    • @spaceoddity6911
      @spaceoddity6911 2 года назад +19

      I'm so happy for you and your man! I'm also dating a russian man and his family took me in as their own daughter too. to be honest sometimes I get scared of coming over to his parents' place because I'm scared that I'm underdressed so I always come in pants or skirts. any advice? >

    • @missellie1
      @missellie1 2 года назад +24

      @@spaceoddity6911 for me it depends on the occasion. My in-laws live on a farm so if it's just a casual stop over, have some food and beer, I don't really put too much thought into what I wear. But if it's a party, ESPECIALLY New Years with all their friends Russian friends, I go all out: sparkly dress, full makeup, etc.
      Also, my partner just told me the other day that his mom found her dress to wear to our wedding. I asked how it looked, and he said "I didn't see it, but it's purple, and mom said specifically that it wasn't sexy, because the focus should be on you" 😂😂
      TL:DR go with your gut, be confident, and if all else fails, bring some flowers for the mom and do shots with the dad. (At least that's what I do).

    • @greenhouse.caterpillar
      @greenhouse.caterpillar 2 года назад +14

      That's why Indian and Russian relationship aspects are so close involvement of families and such etc.

    • @femfiore
      @femfiore Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this with us! I need to hear more positive things about Russians

  • @user-rf6kl5qc1p
    @user-rf6kl5qc1p 7 лет назад +413

    You know you are dating a russian man when he said that his name is Boris.

    • @Maria.randomnumbers
      @Maria.randomnumbers 7 лет назад +41

      I'm russian but I don't know anyone who named Boris, for real :D it's a very rare name

    • @user-rf6kl5qc1p
      @user-rf6kl5qc1p 7 лет назад +28

      riviry vi Да я знаю, у меня у самого из Борисов только Ельцын знакомый )

    • @Maria.randomnumbers
      @Maria.randomnumbers 7 лет назад +13

      лол

    • @nicolettaciccone1004
      @nicolettaciccone1004 7 лет назад +9

      Яр Космос Or his name is Vladimir..

    • @chinzanasweat
      @chinzanasweat 7 лет назад +6

      I have one friend actually :))

  • @sacredwinter5449
    @sacredwinter5449 6 лет назад +726

    I'm russian, and my heart just melted, after all of the comments. Big love for ya, girls

    • @unbreakablenokia363
      @unbreakablenokia363 6 лет назад +78

      You guys are so lovely! Please, never change. Our guys act like thrash compared to u ;*

    • @yuzukii.1539
      @yuzukii.1539 4 года назад +33

      @@unbreakablenokia363 I know right. Oof, now I feel bad for all the men from around the world. I mean, it's not really their fault, it's just that things have changed over time. I wish we could go back to the days when guys are actually romantics.

    • @InfiresTaekook
      @InfiresTaekook 4 года назад +19

      Such gentlemen.

    • @Black_pearl_adrift
      @Black_pearl_adrift 4 года назад +28

      Russia: where real men are made. Dont ever change yall

    • @divyasingh4505
      @divyasingh4505 4 года назад +7

      Love from India🇮🇳

  • @polinafrommoscow4132
    @polinafrommoscow4132 Год назад +54

    Literally the self-esteem of every Russian guy after reading the comments:
    *stocks 📈*

    • @mirrorgt908
      @mirrorgt908 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Anonymous-qj3sf
      @Anonymous-qj3sf Год назад +1

      Ага

    • @ethiop_frum
      @ethiop_frum 11 месяцев назад +4

      Собственно, самооценка русских парней была сильно снижена нашими же русскими девушками... 😂

  • @palikavraja1740
    @palikavraja1740 Год назад +71

    God this is so accurate! Especially the part about gifts....my Russian friend (who I later discovered had feelings for me) bought me a ruby necklace during our very first meeting. (He was an online friend). I was overwhelmed by his kindness.

  • @softblue365
    @softblue365 Год назад +147

    My boyfriend is Russian and he's everything. He's the most gorgeous man I've ever seen in my life. I feel like I’m looking at a movie star with him. 🤩 This video is very accurate. Actually we met online as language partners, so we are very long distance. He takes control in every situation everywhere, he likes to do the talking, lead, carry every bag, open every door. Very gentlemanly.
    He doesn’t care about dressing sexy or high heels though. Actually he prefers that I am not as appearance obsessed as some Russian girls, and that I can go out without makeup. He doesn’t try to control what I wear which I appreciate.
    He's not a big drinker. But he is VERY protective, possessive and a bit jealous. He also loooovveessss a home cooked meal but he’s not as extreme as this video and doesn’t mind some fast food or pizza occasionally.
    I see some comments about Russians being cold. Girl No. They’re men on the outside, stoic and in control but on the inside they’re teddy bears. My Russian is super affectionate. Loves to cuddle, and call me every cute petname in the book: solnyshko, malyshka, lyubimaya, bulochka, sladkaya zhopa.))) Я люблю вас, русские мужчины. Вы просто замечательные, красавчики, мужики, особенно мой парень. Он просто мечта.))
    We've been together for 6 months, and I'm moving in with him in a week. Bridging the distance, I'm so excited to be with him again. 🥰
    Edit: 8 Months! He's still the most amazing, such a sweetie and cooks and takes good care of me when I'm sick! ❤ Such husband material. I met his mom. She's so sweet and loves me already.
    Edit 2: He proposed! 💍❤ He’s the best, language barrier getting easier with time. Was definitely a challenge in the beginning!!!
    Edit 3: Married for 5 months. He’s an amazing husband too! 🥰

    • @eugened4466
      @eugened4466 Год назад +22

      Парень конечно молодец. Все делает правильно. sladkaya zhopa - очень понравилось! 😄

    • @softblue365
      @softblue365 Год назад +20

      @@eugened4466 Знаете он только это говорит когда я дерзкая с ним)) да он молодец.)) Вы самые лучшие парни на свете, не забудьте. ☺️ от американкой девушки)

    • @veronika3073
      @veronika3073 Год назад +3

      Не будьте наивной насчёт всех наших парней, со временем это все равно пройдёт. В любом случае, пусть все у вас будет хорошо. ❤️

    • @duneeaaasha
      @duneeaaasha Год назад +9

      @@eugened4466 Мой муж прям такой же 🤣

    • @My_Spiritual_Journey.
      @My_Spiritual_Journey. Год назад +10

      😍Aw... it sounds to me that you've found a perfect husband.

  • @Sassyminaj
    @Sassyminaj 6 лет назад +1624

    The elevator scene 😂💀

    • @DoeDonDoe
      @DoeDonDoe 5 лет назад +47

      Hahah he was so assertive, commanding and direct! Swoon :P

    • @alices.b.3034
      @alices.b.3034 5 лет назад +137

      “U wanna date?”
      “Uhm I dunno...”
      “Oke Im gonna trap u in this metal box till u decide”

    • @bubblegumdrop8272
      @bubblegumdrop8272 5 лет назад +5

      Alice White lmao

    • @saguntum-iberian-greekkons7014
      @saguntum-iberian-greekkons7014 5 лет назад +18

      @@alices.b.3034 "uhm, i wanna get out so ok, il date you" Haha

    • @user-rr8yi9zg2k
      @user-rr8yi9zg2k 5 лет назад +8

      Alice White S O M A N L Y

  • @Lauren_Helene
    @Lauren_Helene 5 лет назад +2414

    I'm buying a whole plane to go to Russia now, anyone wanna join me?
    Edit Holy shit, I literally forgot about this comment 😂😂😂

    • @imakejokesbecauseican2650
      @imakejokesbecauseican2650 5 лет назад +76

      HuffleFluff How much for two tickets one for me and the other for the Russian boyfriend I plan to get?

    • @Lauren_Helene
      @Lauren_Helene 5 лет назад +23

      @@imakejokesbecauseican2650 Hmm.... Two Matryoshka dolls for two seats...

    • @pinkacademiagirll
      @pinkacademiagirll 5 лет назад +32

      Count me in, girl 😄

    • @BenzinB70
      @BenzinB70 5 лет назад +3

      @@pinkacademiagirll
      you want to compete with our brides?
      do you know how to wield a weapon?
      ruclips.net/video/sDoKTWXMs_A/видео.html
      can you drive a round dance?
      ruclips.net/video/14rXH3tfCKQ/видео.html
      vk.com/video10637356_170625673

    • @annettechaidez6636
      @annettechaidez6636 5 лет назад +5

      How much are the tickets!!

  • @xRainbowCheeriosx
    @xRainbowCheeriosx 4 года назад +95

    Russian accents make me weak in the knees oh my 🥰 it’s like assertive and strong but then they roll that r and I melt

    • @ramcequell1573
      @ramcequell1573 2 года назад

      🇷🇺🦅😏

    • @AsgolVerker
      @AsgolVerker 2 месяца назад

      ​@@ramcequell1573
      🇷🇺 🐻 Not 🦅

  • @MasterRaven0707
    @MasterRaven0707 4 года назад +481

    I want to say this to all the women on this planet. Most russian guys don't care what race you are, what skin color you are and what country you are from, it doesn't matter to them, they just want a girl who they love and that she reciprocate and believe me if he loves you he will be with you to the end.

    • @yosoykarito
      @yosoykarito 3 года назад +9

      Are you sure? Aren't they racist towards latin women?

    • @MasterRaven0707
      @MasterRaven0707 3 года назад +54

      @@yosoykarito No, they don't care where you are from, what race you are, or what skin color you have, they first of all see you as a woman and a person they can love.

    • @MasterRaven0707
      @MasterRaven0707 3 года назад +41

      @@yosoykarito Russians do not condemn or hate anyone for their appearance, the main thing is what kind of person he is, if this person is shit, then they will treat him like shit, regardless of skin color or race, they do not judge him by his appearance. like him, he will become your faithful companion, friend, lover, husband, the main thing is to be sincere and honest with each other and he will be faithful to you to the end.

    • @yosoykarito
      @yosoykarito 3 года назад +21

      @@MasterRaven0707 Do you know russian people? 😮 Anyways, thanks for the response 😊 It's good to know russians aren't the way they are portrayed in the media sometimes.

    • @MasterRaven0707
      @MasterRaven0707 3 года назад +44

      @@yosoykarito Yes, I know russian people, because I am russian to myself, and as for how we are portrayed in Europe and the United States, we are aware of this, it does not offend us, but even amuses us, and sometimes we use this and other stereotypes about us, the main thing remember, ordinary russian people are the same people as everyone else, it's just that our criminal government is trying to turn us against Europe and the United States, many of us hate Putin and want him to be in prison.

  • @dianamora6768
    @dianamora6768 5 лет назад +2157

    My husband was born in Soviet Union, he makes me incredibly happy. He is not the first russian man I dated, trust me ladies, if you are strong and independent, Russian men is the way to go (and viceversa). They know how to handle strong women, they will fight for you, protect you, and will empower you.

    • @HodjaNas
      @HodjaNas 5 лет назад +17

    • @ivanlitvyakov7892
      @ivanlitvyakov7892 5 лет назад +56

      Thanks alot for your words)))
      I wish peace, love and health to your family!))

    • @YumegakaMurakumo
      @YumegakaMurakumo 5 лет назад +125

      Lol dios mio..so many of us Latinas who want robust Russian beasts! Lucky girl! I want to find my Vlad!

    • @l.m.3699
      @l.m.3699 5 лет назад +45

      @@YumegakaMurakumo The russian guys like hot dark women too!

    • @ivanduvalierveryevildictat8940
      @ivanduvalierveryevildictat8940 5 лет назад +24

      +Diana Mora
      do not have to be a strong woman, you just need to learn how to cook them! )))

  • @the-savannahbean9267
    @the-savannahbean9267 5 лет назад +1464

    I want a Russain boyfriend so bad! Am I the only one who finds Russian accents attractive?

    • @the-savannahbean9267
      @the-savannahbean9267 5 лет назад +57

      @@schuck6606 Aww . . . I'm so sorry! Well I love all Russian accents and find them all very attractive.

    • @the-savannahbean9267
      @the-savannahbean9267 5 лет назад +21

      @@schuck6606 My pleasure! ♡

    • @derhoff7077
      @derhoff7077 5 лет назад +6

      OBSERVER it’s mean you’re not Russian

    • @kochevnik88
      @kochevnik88 5 лет назад +18

      @@schuck6606 Ты чмо, а не РУССКИЙ !

    • @user-sx2bw2hl1t
      @user-sx2bw2hl1t 5 лет назад +36

      @@schuck6606 Hello Troll Ukrainian, you already here people do brains))

  • @sulesarpkaya5166
    @sulesarpkaya5166 2 года назад +103

    I am a girl from Turkey and my bf is from Russia. I feel like I found my significant other. We have a very serious and a committed relationship. He is not a person to drink alcohol that much as it is shown and he also doesn't like when I wear such very showing clothes still he is not a person to criticize my clothes in general. I really feel like our family and life values are actually so much similar. Russia may seem far but when it comes to the culture and the family life we have a lot in common. I feel so happy with him, he is a very affectionate and passinonate man. And when they love someone they are really into the relationship and they take it seriously. Love you a lot my miracle, my Alyosha

    • @sulesarpkaya5166
      @sulesarpkaya5166 2 года назад +7

      @Сергей Serge I don't think of like that about any woman. They all have their own mindset of course, it is just different than mine. My bf is also a half Ukrainian) Hope that you will have a happy life with her))

    • @L_from_USA_
      @L_from_USA_ 2 года назад +17

      And im Polish-American and my gf is also from Turkey. Now we have something in common. 😁

    • @alina-le9gr
      @alina-le9gr 2 года назад

      Are you guys still together?

    • @Yusupov_1
      @Yusupov_1 2 года назад +1

      @@alina-le9gr актуальные вопросы

    • @sulesarpkaya5166
      @sulesarpkaya5166 Год назад +4

      @@alina-le9gr да:)

  • @DreamDeep2024
    @DreamDeep2024 15 дней назад +4

    I am a British woman here and I am just so grateful that there are still men out there that love romantically and authentically I can confirm that I as a British don’t expect much in a man all I care for is his soul and love and growth to build together

  • @sirenxo
    @sirenxo 6 лет назад +1638

    They don't make men like this in the USA. I would love to find a Russian man. I love old fashioned and traditional gentlemen.

    • @aphroditeg2712
      @aphroditeg2712 6 лет назад +29

      sirenxo #metoo girl

    • @sicklycherub6091
      @sicklycherub6091 6 лет назад +20

      Right same here!!😍

    • @facts-never-lies3160
      @facts-never-lies3160 5 лет назад +105

      They do but women don't let men be masculine. Let me tell u Russian men yell and hit if they have too

    • @vmkoz
      @vmkoz 5 лет назад +6

      lol

    • @harrietw7571
      @harrietw7571 5 лет назад +1

      Check out the comments on the Russian female video!

  • @caroline6309
    @caroline6309 7 лет назад +2568

    Apparently russian men have exactly what I am looking for in a relationship 😂

    • @N3G4T3
      @N3G4T3 6 лет назад +78

      Loyalty is of utmost importance.

    • @Cassie596
      @Cassie596 6 лет назад +1

      Caro S. Same 😂

    • @ads
      @ads 6 лет назад +48

      Что вы делаете сегодня вечером?

    • @user-ur8fw1zs8u
      @user-ur8fw1zs8u 6 лет назад +22

      Hi. I am from Russia

    • @eipiplusone3791
      @eipiplusone3791 6 лет назад +64

      Fox Archer fuck off man, serbians are awesome and they our bros. I say this as a russkie

  • @stephanieleia
    @stephanieleia 2 года назад +97

    I am so happy to have a Russian boyfriend. He is the most amazing person I have ever met in my life. I can’t imagine a single day without him, he makes me laugh and smile so much with his kindness and protectiveness. Russian men are definitely the way to go.

    • @scampi_2766
      @scampi_2766 2 года назад +3

      Okay, now i'm jealous, does yours have a brother? 🗿

    • @lly_09
      @lly_09 Год назад +2

      Does he have some single male friends to spare lol

    • @jamielauro2623
      @jamielauro2623 Год назад +5

      They are are very protective and very romantic 💐🥀

  • @dornelli1
    @dornelli1 2 года назад +44

    in the USA for more than 25 years I had many russian male friends and they all impressed me with their fealess attitude and loyalty to their friends and family...great people

  • @alexandraphipps
    @alexandraphipps 7 лет назад +226

    They love bringing you flowers and little presents. They LOVE it when you wear skirts/dresses and heels. They don't like it when women curse. They open every door for you. They don't let you carry bags/anything heavy. They feel insulted if you try to pay.

    • @samuriaaa
      @samuriaaa 5 лет назад +7

      dearalexandra where can i meet one ? 😆

    • @mikepolarny
      @mikepolarny 5 лет назад +12

      Come to Poland or Russia :) We do in Poland the same :)

    • @Bobbiii0.2
      @Bobbiii0.2 5 лет назад +3

      Thats me screwed then lol. I swear loads and never wear skirts or heels.

    • @supbabe7203
      @supbabe7203 5 лет назад +4

      I got some dresses. Learning to cook. Was always out with my brothers working. Need to learn them feminine roles lol

    • @stuartbritton7408
      @stuartbritton7408 5 лет назад +2

      The men do exactly what the women demand, because they know they won't stand a chance if they just behave as they were meant to be. It's a female dominated culture.

  • @natsutaruka1558
    @natsutaruka1558 7 лет назад +1607

    I'm a Russian, it may be true, but I'm not expecting from a woman that she should always cook for me, because well, I like to cook too 🙈

    • @birthright94
      @birthright94 7 лет назад +46

      tbh, same here. And I believe men are better cookers at some point

    • @chinzanasweat
      @chinzanasweat 7 лет назад +47

      great! I hate cooking. And I'm a Russian :)))

    • @tasharice2507
      @tasharice2507 7 лет назад +79

      ...they do exist!

    • @clem159
      @clem159 7 лет назад +20

      precious

    • @joelsavoie9555
      @joelsavoie9555 7 лет назад +4

      Walter White agrees

  • @scgraves98
    @scgraves98 4 года назад +317

    Dang didn’t know Russian men were so attractive

    • @Nordwind.
      @Nordwind. 4 года назад +10

      Интересно узнать какими ты нас представляла?

    • @scgraves98
      @scgraves98 4 года назад +12

      Valery von Schenk I’m sorry I have no idea what you just said here

    • @Nordwind.
      @Nordwind. 4 года назад +9

      Sorry, I thought you had a translator installed in your browser. I wrote: It is interesting to know how you represented us (Russian men)?

    • @scgraves98
      @scgraves98 4 года назад +1

      Valery von Schenk well, it is interesting how the maker of the video represented Russian men 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @viicing
      @viicing 3 года назад +1

      They aren't 🌚

  • @lila8938
    @lila8938 Год назад +32

    It's 2 a.m and just found out that all I need in life is a Russian husband

  • @feliciarianita
    @feliciarianita 7 лет назад +455

    I know some Russian guys. They are really gentlemen and manly. Didn't regret to date one.

    • @gsenrum6413
      @gsenrum6413 7 лет назад

      How do they smell? vs. say an Italian guy....? I like the smell of men

    • @feliciarianita
      @feliciarianita 7 лет назад +10

      well..they smell like vodka? lol

    • @gsenrum6413
      @gsenrum6413 7 лет назад

      Felicia Lamongi Thanks! But, when they don't drink do they smell any different from a French, Italian guy? They are not very hairy?

    • @Elize2085
      @Elize2085 7 лет назад +33

      I'm Russian, and your question about smell is weird. They smell like men. That's all. And no, Russian guys are not very hairy

    • @feliciarianita
      @feliciarianita 7 лет назад +1

      lol don't take it seriously. I don't smell anything particular from them but as some of those I know drink quite lot, they often smell like alcohol 😄

  • @skyhighlihi
    @skyhighlihi 7 лет назад +3833

    off to Russia we go ladies

    • @sharikakhaled1096
      @sharikakhaled1096 7 лет назад +193

      yusss!need to find myself a boris

    • @Roman-wv4rd
      @Roman-wv4rd 7 лет назад +27

      skyhigh lihi yea but over there is alrdy way too many girls unlike in the USA, so it b tuff to find them in Russia

    • @Roman-wv4rd
      @Roman-wv4rd 6 лет назад +4

      Sharika Khaled why Boris ??? Lol

    • @sharikakhaled1096
      @sharikakhaled1096 6 лет назад +44

      Roman Dovgushev the boris in this video is a real man so i need to find a man like boris😂😂

    • @Roman-wv4rd
      @Roman-wv4rd 6 лет назад +3

      Sharika Khaled lol I know 😂 what u mean, but boris isn't the only Russian around , ohh I have a friend boris in Arizona

  • @alyamcvay9831
    @alyamcvay9831 4 года назад +882

    I am a Russian. I am dating a Russian man. He cooks. I don't. Welcome to the 21st century.

    • @ivanp1716
      @ivanp1716 4 года назад +44

      You are a man tho

    • @alyamcvay9831
      @alyamcvay9831 4 года назад +23

      @@ivanp1716.... i am definitely not. Did you see my videos?

    • @ivanp1716
      @ivanp1716 4 года назад +4

      Alya McVay huh I was just kidding )

    • @alyamcvay9831
      @alyamcvay9831 4 года назад +46

      @@ivanp1716 okay? Weird joke.

    • @ivanp1716
      @ivanp1716 4 года назад +3

      Alya McVay let me see... it wasn’t taken first, second it was explained, third it has led to a nonsense thread. So it comes that you are deeply understating things

  • @mandarina-vu2eg
    @mandarina-vu2eg 4 месяца назад +19

    I hope one day I marry a Russian man. I am latina and I just love how much of a gentleman they are.

    • @user-cj8vz1mk1g
      @user-cj8vz1mk1g 27 дней назад +2

      Мне нравится Латиноамериканки. Горячие девушки

  • @ryn4710
    @ryn4710 5 лет назад +258

    I once dated a Russian guy and he almost got into a fight with a guy for bumping into me.

    • @citlalivillegas9298
      @citlalivillegas9298 4 года назад +46

      damn the man we all need sis

    • @s0f_03
      @s0f_03 4 года назад +30

      Damn, sounds like he was a protective man. But that’s a good thing! 🥰

    • @anxious_j0ke
      @anxious_j0ke 4 года назад +6

      hahah, that's usual

    • @jena6781
      @jena6781 4 года назад +12

      damn i feel like i’m on fire just thinking about a guy like that
      😫😍

    • @hasekfan2450
      @hasekfan2450 4 года назад +13

      It's not good to fight innocent people because they happen to bump into you on the street, that's fucked up what is wrong with you people?
      he/she has anger issue problems.

  • @bebegoth3361
    @bebegoth3361 5 лет назад +837

    I have an imaginary Russian boyfriend

    • @riymshazaly1402
      @riymshazaly1402 5 лет назад +1

      Lmfao girl same 😹

    • @user-rs9qd1rk1i
      @user-rs9qd1rk1i 5 лет назад +2

      Hello! I'm from Russia! open for acquaintance with you))) mr.redsky@mail.ru

    • @Groza_Sadika
      @Groza_Sadika 5 лет назад +1

      @@user-rs9qd1rk1i nice try lmao

    • @user-rs9qd1rk1i
      @user-rs9qd1rk1i 5 лет назад

      but you don't want to meet real?

    • @atulkumarindian1044
      @atulkumarindian1044 5 лет назад

      Indian marriage is considered to be very important in the world.Indian marriage is added to the birth of Rishto of two hearts, for janmas. There is so much love between husband and wife that the love of the whole world fades in front of him. Divorce between the Indian people is very rare.Indian people love the Goddess of equal respect and love to women. That is why celebrate the marriage of Indian people. And that is the dream of all the girls. That is my I love so much. That's why Indian love is very great. Bharat, India should share the massege as a civilization.

  • @starkhanloo1569
    @starkhanloo1569 2 года назад +80

    I am currently dating a Russian guy and I can definitely say he is the best man I have ever seen in this world ( not just because he is my boyfriend lol) he is so caring, supportive, kind and contrary to my expectations he does not like drinking! when I am with him, I really feel like I am in those old romance movies where everything is perfect 😍 🤩

    • @L.b2
      @L.b2 2 года назад +2

      Where are you from?

    • @TakaraoftheElves
      @TakaraoftheElves 2 года назад +12

      Same here! 😃
      I just recently started dating a Russian man, and this is literally the first guy I’ve EVER been with who makes me feel romantically pursued. And not just pursued: the way he conducts himself radiates this inner confidence and chivalry that I’ve just never encountered in North American men before. I’m a modern woman in most every sensibility, and he not only keeps up with me…he attracts me, he interests me, he takes me into consideration!! It’s so refreshing, and for the first time ever in my dating history I’m hoping this relationship actually goes somewhere. 💐

  • @jazmine2855
    @jazmine2855 3 года назад +59

    As someone that was in a relationship with a Russian man, I can confirm. Honestly the best dating experience ever.

  • @GinaRudenko
    @GinaRudenko 7 лет назад +78

    I'm Hispanic and am with my Russian husband for 20 years and we have two daughters together. I love that he is the man and is very confident.

  • @yanusanders7686
    @yanusanders7686 6 лет назад +1257

    I'm German and my boyfriend is half Russian half Irish. When he paid all the time for my food I was feeling absolutely awful because in German culture it would look like I'm "just with him for the money" and even my parents told me how mean and abusing I am for "letting him pay all the time". But for him it's just a part of being a gentleman. I came to accept is as a sign for affection. Also the love goes through the stomach thing is true, when I met his russian grandparents they invited themselves in to our place to test my cooking (probably to see if I'm worth dating their grandson). I was standing in the kitchen for 3h making the best food I knew from scratch. I succeeded 😂

    • @hurikat3613
      @hurikat3613 6 лет назад +58

      Pay for girl, it's like duty for us

    • @ArturVoronchuk
      @ArturVoronchuk 6 лет назад +118

      Since childhood, we have been taught the idea that a person is the protection and support of his family. A Russian male is a hunter and a warrior, ready at any time to protect his woman (mother, wife, sister, daughter). And for us this is normal for Russians. A Russian man can give a gift or his woman without a reason, pay an invoice in a restaurant. No Russian man will pass by a woman who descends a stroller with a child on the stairs, even if he does not know this woman. Russian women appreciate it, he help them. This is part of our upbringing.

    • @ArturVoronchuk
      @ArturVoronchuk 6 лет назад +9

      Смешная шутка)))

    • @dwainerdjon5559
      @dwainerdjon5559 6 лет назад +7

      баборабы одним словом

    • @maogu1999
      @maogu1999 6 лет назад +67

      Half Russian and half Irish?
      I want his liver.

  • @jazminpelaez7904
    @jazminpelaez7904 3 года назад +71

    Omg! Spot on! Im laughing so much cus my boyfriend behaved the same way when we first started dating like on this video! I remember when I offered to pay the tab on our first date (Just to be nice and not assume anything, cus yea us ladies do that! We test you!) and he just stared at me all serious and said "Youre insulting me" hahaha. Im Mexican and our cultures are very similar. I enjoy our relationship very much and to be honest I understand now why all my ex's sucked!, there is no comparison!! Aqui yo me quedo por vida! lol

  • @sassycat6487
    @sassycat6487 4 года назад +209

    When I met my boyfriend, I was literally speechless when we first talked on the phone because he was already planning our future and telling me God brought us together.. I wasn't prepared for that.. wow 🤣 These men DO NOT mess around! If you have to question if a Russian man wants you - he definitely doesn't.

    • @karrotlyn204
      @karrotlyn204 3 года назад +29

      Omg I just met a Russian guy and he’s very straight forward and I’m surprised that he is like that, cause Mexicans take a long time to know if they want you or not

    • @Valentina-eh5zf
      @Valentina-eh5zf 3 года назад +1

      @@marianaamdarosa57 are you Brazilian?

    • @Valentina-eh5zf
      @Valentina-eh5zf 3 года назад +52

      Girl I know. My husband has Russian background although he grew up in Northwest Germany. He has a little German culture influences but he’s very very Russian. When I met him, he was very intense in his approach, he praised me in every way possible, he said that I’m exactly his type and beautiful, he asked if I’m a singer because my voice is so beautiful and feminine, and after a while he said he’s in love and wants to marry me, he did fly to my country to ask my hand and to meet my family after a very short time. Russian men play no games at all. They’re straightforward and direct about their feelings. And I love that.

    • @sassycat6487
      @sassycat6487 3 года назад +15

      @@Valentina-eh5zf this is such a cute story!! And since writing that we just recently got married too 🥰 these Russia men are the best

    • @c.s.70
      @c.s.70 3 года назад +10

      Be careful. You could be dealing with a Narcissist love bombing you in the initial stages to secure your interest, but doesn't truly care for you, just what they can get out from you as their supply (admiration, attention, sex, devotion, etc.). There's a reason men don't commit right away if they don't know you well for the same reason as women wouldn't, but men got to know for sure. Those that care, make the effort to know you first. There can be no real love without this at minimum if they don't even know or bother to get to know you. Just be careful, narcissists are can be dangerous and they play their part well.

  • @lale6354
    @lale6354 5 лет назад +570

    I am Turkish and my boyfriend is Russian. He's such an amazing person. He warms my heart. The video is an accurate representation of my experience- except for one part- he would never ask me to dress slutty if there'll be people around. He dislikes that.

    • @antonvashkelis6049
      @antonvashkelis6049 5 лет назад +16

      Turkish women allowed to meet with Russian?

    • @shimisufumika325
      @shimisufumika325 5 лет назад +4

      She must be non-Turkish girl from Turkey, or orthodox.

    • @antonvashkelis6049
      @antonvashkelis6049 5 лет назад +48

      @@shimisufumika325 not necessary. In Russia, there are Muslim women who marry Russian. But it is a rarity.

    • @lale6354
      @lale6354 5 лет назад +179

      ​@@antonvashkelis6049 Well, I certainly don't identify as a Christian. Turkish girls date who they want. There is a vast variety of beliefs and practices in Turkey, and marrying foreigners is a common practice for both men and women. I will not respond to any further distasteful remarks.

    • @shimisufumika325
      @shimisufumika325 5 лет назад +16

      @Anton Vashkelis
      If you think Turkic women they aren't really Muslim just brainwashed by Saudi expansionary Sunni propaganda.

  • @solar0wind
    @solar0wind 7 лет назад +576

    Я немка и люблю русский язык и акцент. Потому это я учу.
    Это мой первый коментарий по-русски.

    • @DatingBeyondBorders
      @DatingBeyondBorders  7 лет назад +42

      Spasibo za komentariy. Ochen horosho napisala :) Udachi!

    • @solar0wind
      @solar0wind 7 лет назад +48

      Спасибо! (I actually had to use the dictionary for most words, but I'll learn. Извините, что я это не пишу по-русски, but I haven't learnt other tenses than present tense yet.^^)

    • @RTL2L
      @RTL2L 6 лет назад +6

      Solar Wind Как успехи в изучении русского? )

    • @user-ww8vn7pr7z
      @user-ww8vn7pr7z 5 лет назад +3

      Нормально!

    • @rokportrok3936
      @rokportrok3936 5 лет назад +14

      Умница) ты скоро станешь нашей) Удачи тебе в изучений русского)

  • @razor_baby
    @razor_baby Год назад +23

    once i met a russian guy, and now i want to return it
    russian people are a bit cold and rude, but they are very kind, fair and selfless, omg perfect human being

  • @niecynee206
    @niecynee206 4 года назад +44

    I've watched this a million times! God knows I need this old-fashioned chivalry 😍

  • @frinekristia
    @frinekristia 5 лет назад +1102

    I’m moving my tinder Location to Russia!!

    • @aphroditeg2712
      @aphroditeg2712 5 лет назад +19

      Genius. What happens when they want to meet?

    • @frinekristia
      @frinekristia 5 лет назад +84

      American Woman there’s this thing called plane..

    • @aphroditeg2712
      @aphroditeg2712 5 лет назад +16

      @@frinekristia Cool, a plane that will get you to Russia in an hour. Can I hitch a ride?

    • @user-vg9fe4zm9y
      @user-vg9fe4zm9y 5 лет назад +10

      Good idea!Welcome to visit.Greetings from St. Petersburg

    • @user-xw8mu7yh5h
      @user-xw8mu7yh5h 5 лет назад +8

      Come my lady😉😂 ur my butterfly... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sweetie9559
    @sweetie9559 7 лет назад +303

    I have been dating my boyfriend who is Russian for over a year now and I can vouch for this video 100%. Its funny how accurate it is especially about how they like men being manly and women being feminine. As long as he keeps complimenting my cooking, I'll keep his belly full

    • @catdeluxeatday
      @catdeluxeatday 6 лет назад +3

      Alex Alexov eww

    • @rappheat
      @rappheat 6 лет назад

      yes dude its funny and as we know that is the basics and fundamental thing but its not available alot these days .

    • @evamaria644
      @evamaria644 5 лет назад +13

      Hispanic women cook a lot more than the average American woman

    • @user-li5cr6wv5b
      @user-li5cr6wv5b 5 лет назад +7

      Full stomach & empty balls - the recipe old as time.

    • @Time_Developer
      @Time_Developer 5 лет назад

      @@evamaria644 *, ну, значит в доме не будет тихо. ;)*

  • @user-sz8ze9cu3r
    @user-sz8ze9cu3r 4 года назад +321

    I want to marry a Russian man

  • @QualityPen
    @QualityPen 4 года назад +172

    As a Russian man- this describes my romance life with about 90% accuracy.

    • @jereee4732
      @jereee4732 3 года назад +11

      RIP BUDGET

    • @simpleutil
      @simpleutil 3 года назад +7

      ​@@jereee4732 RIP budget but HELLO chivalry ))

    • @jereee4732
      @jereee4732 3 года назад +1

      @@simpleutil true, true.

    • @SUpersaiyajinjerkbag
      @SUpersaiyajinjerkbag 3 года назад +2

      I did not know women were so turned on by homophobic control freaks.....

    • @jereee4732
      @jereee4732 3 года назад +1

      @@SUpersaiyajinjerkbag wtf?

  • @renireni3779
    @renireni3779 7 лет назад +247

    my husband is Russian. I agree with almost everything , apart that he actually likes cooking . Russian are the best!

  • @AshLeighDaxton
    @AshLeighDaxton 7 лет назад +171

    Being an American girl dating a Russian, I can say these things are true. He grew up in Russia but moved to the US where I met him & he is by far the best person I know. I dated a lot of American guys before him and they are all nothing compared to him. So ladies pay attention, go out and meet some Russian guys, and I promise you'll think to yourself "Why haven't I done this sooner?!"

    • @mamedkharitonov9073
      @mamedkharitonov9073 6 лет назад

      Lol DNA name.

    • @kristineburkhardt8141
      @kristineburkhardt8141 6 лет назад +20

      Girl I am there! Dating a Russian now and will never date outside of that.

    • @RabbitholeIsrael
      @RabbitholeIsrael 6 лет назад +2

      but American women are known to be feminist cheats who like to cheat on their men

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 2 года назад +3

      I’m hoping to find my Russki soon. ❤️

  • @leiicass
    @leiicass 3 года назад +47

    I'm an italian women so automatically after I finished this video, I went up like "Seems like it's time to learn some russian and meet a cute handsome russian guy"

    • @MissTrueIvory
      @MissTrueIvory 3 года назад +1

      Go for it. I am Italian and my husband is Ukrainian. I recommend you Ukrainian guys more, especially those from western Ukraine. :p

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 2 года назад

      @@MissTrueIvory Can you please explain why you suggest western Ukrainian men specifically?

    • @MissTrueIvory
      @MissTrueIvory 2 года назад +1

      @@laundrybasket2689 western Ukraine is more traditional, has a lower divorce rate than eastern Ukraine and Russia and people value family unity more.

  • @lydiafitrifilan3860
    @lydiafitrifilan3860 Год назад +27

    Been dating a Russian guy, I was still surprised what happened on our first n second date. Yes he paid the resto bills etc. Also he would not let me carry heavy bag, so he would carry it for me. Awww n The way he treated me like a queen, such as open the car door for me n held my hand when I got out of the car, it was a new experience I felt awkward that time, but it's all about the small things that make me beyond happy.

  • @mirasy7521
    @mirasy7521 5 лет назад +198

    For 6 years ago I was dating a Russian guy. He was very handsome and he did exactly the same things you showed in your video. He was very generous and treated me like princess 😍 I'm still very sad that I broke up with him. I really love Russian people.

    • @user-xe9ht3gk4b
      @user-xe9ht3gk4b 5 лет назад +3

      Where r u from?:)

    • @petyapevko2589
      @petyapevko2589 3 года назад +27

      women nature in one comment xd
      guys, take notes

    • @mirasy7521
      @mirasy7521 2 года назад +6

      @@user-xe9ht3gk4b I'm from Syria 😊

    • @mirasy7521
      @mirasy7521 2 года назад +1

      @@petyapevko2589 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bestt8926
      @bestt8926 2 года назад +2

      Why leave??

  • @twisters999
    @twisters999 7 лет назад +417

    I see that Polish and Russians... maybe this is stereotype... but still. We seems to be very simmilar :D :P Maybe slavic origin determinate our habits :P

    • @alexeybogdanov8070
      @alexeybogdanov8070 7 лет назад +15

      I'm willing to disagree. There are some significant differences between us. Similarities as well, but not as much as you might think. No disrespect )

    • @twisters999
      @twisters999 7 лет назад +31

      Alexey Bogdanov
      It's normal. We are slavian but we have other culture too. But the main things seems to be simmilar and unique for slavians :)

    • @polinabckff
      @polinabckff 7 лет назад +12

      yeah, we have some similarities. but i'd rather live in Poland than here in Russia, to be honest
      and your president has a hilarious surname lol

    • @twisters999
      @twisters999 7 лет назад +1

      Lost Goose
      I always wonted to travel to Russia :) See Moscow and Kołyma. :)Yes that true :P Our and in the other hand this name is easy to remember :P

    • @polinabckff
      @polinabckff 7 лет назад +7

      twisters999 you should also visit Saint Petersburg, it's like the second capital city. it's really beautiful here

  • @colly3333
    @colly3333 4 года назад +25

    This is informative. I think I'm currently dating a Russian man from Murmansk. And, he has told me that he is my protector. I hope it keeps going.

  • @jdbird1989
    @jdbird1989 4 года назад +23

    That "what do I look like your friend!" moment sent chills down my spine. And I kinda almost got pregnant from his tone. Even the lady got nervous.🤣😌

    • @kevinharries9513
      @kevinharries9513 3 года назад +1

      Haha " kinda got pregnant from his tone "haha. Thanks I have use this line. Hahaha

    • @lesiatrickett2661
      @lesiatrickett2661 4 месяца назад

      I am Russian women. I live in US. I was telling my co-workers that by the time American men will ask you out for coffee, you will be pregnant from Russian men.

  • @a200tq1
    @a200tq1 5 лет назад +612

    Hm...I am a Russian man (but living in the USA now:-)), and i can tell you, that this video is pretty accurate. Of course, this vodka scene is exaggerated (it`s taking from a very low-class life style), and usually, Russian man even more romantic, open minded, and active when dating) . For example-i always open the door for the woman, give my hand to help she leave a car, and so on)

    • @aphroditeg2712
      @aphroditeg2712 5 лет назад +58

      a200tq1 You single? Asking for "a friend". 😉😂

    • @a200tq1
      @a200tq1 5 лет назад +49

      Sorry, but i am married :-)

    • @aphroditeg2712
      @aphroditeg2712 5 лет назад +34

      a200tq1 Congratulations! Happy life and many sons😊

    • @user-bv1yc2zb4s
      @user-bv1yc2zb4s 5 лет назад +1

      American Woman u are Italian woman

    • @a200tq1
      @a200tq1 5 лет назад +3

      Sounds good! Thank you!)))

  • @takelow6301
    @takelow6301 5 лет назад +55

    All perfectly right, but the thing with "he doesnt let you carry heavy things" is more like " he doesnt let you carry any things" Good video :)

    • @AndreyTsukanov
      @AndreyTsukanov 5 лет назад +2

      your clutch is rightfully belongs to you!))

  • @ec6621
    @ec6621 3 года назад +56

    I *married* a Russian man and I've seen or experienced all these things either while dating or in marriage, though not always directly from him but from my observations of his Russian friends and family.
    I'm an (Americanized) Latina and lots of those "traditional" gender role and expectations aren't foreign to me.

  • @FidaAifiya
    @FidaAifiya Год назад +21

    Currently dating a Russian man. Can confirm this. Wish me luck so we can be in relationship

  • @franmckerrichen1697
    @franmckerrichen1697 5 лет назад +361

    A gentleman who is protective of you and doesn’t play games. Bye New Zealand, off to Russia I go 😂😂 frfr jk

    • @rokportrok3936
      @rokportrok3936 5 лет назад +5

      Добро пожаловать в Россию)

    • @xolodkov
      @xolodkov 5 лет назад

      ruclips.net/video/4u2xXQvoMs8/видео.html

    • @RusBoriska
      @RusBoriska 5 лет назад +7

      New Zealand? Well, to be honest, I'm looking for a decent girl from an English-speaking country. So if you are really interested in Russian guys, then this information is for you. Generally speaking, I am a single Russian guy. And I am very surprised that some foreign girls are actually interested in Russian guys. Well, if this is true, then let's get acquainted. I am real Russian. But I have no bad habits. I don't drink, don't smoke, don't take drugs, don't beat women and so on. In short, I'm a perfect Russian. And if you want to see how I look and hear my strong Russian accent, then you can watch videos on my channel. Yes, my contact details are there, if you want to get a Russian boyfriend.

    • @jestes7
      @jestes7 4 года назад +1

      @@RusBoriska Get some brother. Best wishes from the US

    • @RusBoriska
      @RusBoriska 4 года назад

      @@jestes7 Haha, thank you.

  • @elenaradulova1060
    @elenaradulova1060 4 года назад +674

    Одной из причин, по которой я выучила русский язык, было то, что их характер очень близок нашему (я болгарка). И я действительно чувствую себя как дома, когда я с русскими. С любовью из Болгарии🇧🇬🇷🇺

    • @f_ckstereotypes2403
      @f_ckstereotypes2403 4 года назад +47

      elena radulova С любовью из России 🇷🇺 🇧🇬

    • @Metallsturm
      @Metallsturm 4 года назад +37

      Елена, ваши знания русского языка замечательны :) Ждем вас в России :)

    • @trayvip
      @trayvip 4 года назад

      Какие вы нам братья, предатели? Забудь русский язык.

    • @oksanaspb5408
      @oksanaspb5408 4 года назад +56

      @@trayvip ой дурееень🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @MegaVanesko
      @MegaVanesko 4 года назад +24

      Потрясающее знание русского языка. Ни одной ошибки! Моё уважение. Привет из России!

  • @akaeron6472
    @akaeron6472 4 года назад +9

    This is surprisingly acurate. Thank you for this. Most people get the information wrong and makes us look bad

  • @rejalanano6002
    @rejalanano6002 3 года назад +33

    Started dating a russian man a week ago, and damn boy! Hes fucking sweet and nice. Couldn't be happier. Didn't expect I'll see myself smiling just thinking how good looking russians are 💙💙

  • @charis3406
    @charis3406 7 лет назад +881

    Where can I get one? 😂😍

    • @mariach2163
      @mariach2163 7 лет назад +255

      In Russia

    • @angeldela7633
      @angeldela7633 7 лет назад +74

      they are scarce many Russian women can't get one.

    • @birthright94
      @birthright94 7 лет назад +76

      Because there are 10 million Russian women more than Russian men. Russia has lost a lot of men in WW2 and in 1990s

    • @charis3406
      @charis3406 7 лет назад +28

      Edward hellary I realize that, I'm well aware of Russia's demographics

    • @sighberian5463
      @sighberian5463 7 лет назад +158

      We are as rare as Unicorns.

  • @dinewithangela2794
    @dinewithangela2794 6 лет назад +72

    I married a Russian and been together for 15 years now. By the way I'm Korean-american.

    • @RusBoriska
      @RusBoriska 5 лет назад

      I am glad that you are happy. And I guess that other girls want to be happy, too. So, girls, if you need a true Russian man, then pay attention to me. I am a single young Russian man who is looking for a foreign girl. I am smart, funny and faithful. I have RUclips channel, where I publish my funny videos. So right now you can see what I look like and hear my strong Russian accent. And there you will find data for communication with me.

  • @Anonymous-qj3sf
    @Anonymous-qj3sf 2 года назад +37

    I had an English girlfriend, and she was always surprised when I carried her bags, opened the door for her and paid her bill on our first date. I think it's true

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 2 года назад +8

      As an American woman with Slavic roots, I would love all of this. It’s true!

    • @divyashah1654
      @divyashah1654 2 года назад

      @@laundrybasket2689 can u tell more about it.

    • @Yusupov_1
      @Yusupov_1 2 года назад

      @@divyashah1654 интересно а в каком смысле?

    • @divyashah1654
      @divyashah1654 2 года назад

      @@Yusupov_1 Sorry I don't understand ur language.

  • @alexandraflowerchild6504
    @alexandraflowerchild6504 3 года назад +54

    I am dating a Russian man and he is the love of my life.. I adore him with all of my heart. This video was so cute, hilarious and so accurate!!😘🇺🇲🇷🇺🤭❤

    • @Yusupov_1
      @Yusupov_1 2 года назад

      Удачи вам

  • @piratesfan123
    @piratesfan123 5 лет назад +318

    The fact that Russian men are Alpha Males is such a turn on 😍

    • @doctorhouse597
      @doctorhouse597 5 лет назад +13

      Piratesfan123 Russian men are not alpha males. They are sociopaths.

    • @RusBoriska
      @RusBoriska 5 лет назад +10

      Well, different Russians behave differently. But among Russian guys there are definitely good people. For example, I am a single Russian who does not drink, does not smoke, does not use drugs and does not beat women. In short, I have many positive traits. And yeah, I am looking for a foreign girlfriend. If you want to find out how I look and hear my Russian accent, then watch the videos on my channel. And there you will learn how to contact me.

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 5 лет назад +2

      @@doctorhouse597 lol

    • @11matt11
      @11matt11 4 года назад +10

      Russian men are great, but they also cheat like no tomorrow. I lived in Russia, and I did not meet one man who wasn't cheating. It was insane.

    • @danterain8520
      @danterain8520 4 года назад +1

      You're right

  • @TaylorLee
    @TaylorLee 4 года назад +111

    LOL so accurate with my Russian man. He was born in 1990 in the Soviet Union and when it fell he came to the US. He has a lot of American traits, but still holds tradition like being protective, loves it when I dress up and he LOVES my cooking. Once you go Russian there ain't no repercussion!

    • @wallbert2000
      @wallbert2000 3 года назад +7

      Bold of him to make the decision to immigrate at 1 years old 😂

    • @k-leb4671
      @k-leb4671 3 года назад +3

      @@wallbert2000 That what I was thinking at first. I'm sure she meant his parents decided to go to the US and by proxy he went to.

    • @pagodebregaeforro2803
      @pagodebregaeforro2803 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@wallbert2000hey, didn't you saw the video? They are assertive and make their moves.

  • @fuinha9781
    @fuinha9781 Год назад +35

    It's sad that the chivalry that Russian men preserved on their behavior turned something rare in other countries. Wish I could see more of that. ❤️

    • @user-kg6rm2qk2t
      @user-kg6rm2qk2t Год назад

      Поэтому и существует Россия, люди , а не государство, с традиционными ценностями парадоксального симбиоза православия и советского воспитания.

  • @scribbles1440
    @scribbles1440 4 года назад +63

    I’m dating a Russian man and this is 100% correct! 😍😍😍

  • @RussiangirlKsenia
    @RussiangirlKsenia 5 лет назад +278

    You have Russian boyfriend when he makes you always gifts 😂❤️without a reason or gives you flowers.. they treat their woman like the best in the world. And Russian guys are VERY handsome too and they have a good sense of style👌🏻

    • @user-wu9cj5xr9k
      @user-wu9cj5xr9k 5 лет назад +24

      Все равно лучше русских девчонок никого нет. Вы самые любимые и родные для нас.

    • @user-rs9qd1rk1i
      @user-rs9qd1rk1i 5 лет назад +9

      hello)) let's get acquainted soon)) it is very interesting for me to meet a foreign girl! They say that they are very strong and independent! but I think every girl needs care!

    • @RussiangirlKsenia
      @RussiangirlKsenia 5 лет назад +10

      Павел Согласна, но вы самых лучших на земле для нас!❤️

    • @teltos6817
      @teltos6817 4 года назад +2

      @@user-wu9cj5xr9k "русский сдавайся" ))

    • @daringboymalayaforhelppubl9838
      @daringboymalayaforhelppubl9838 4 года назад

      Ok

  • @violetk4147
    @violetk4147 7 лет назад +26

    I was dating a Russian man for 4 weeks and he was already bringing up marriage. Very direct indeed

  • @txfajita
    @txfajita 2 года назад +25

    I'm engaged to a Russian man, its all mostly true except he does not drink and doesn't expect me to be dressed up always.

    • @joshualieberman1059
      @joshualieberman1059 2 года назад +3

      Yeah, many Russians are not into alcohol these days and showing off with your gf appearance is kinda weird too…I mean how it’s “manly” when you have to choose what shoes your woman gonna wear. “Wear whatever I have no clue I’m not a fashion designer but you look amazing as always”.

  • @kapoianyxta5886
    @kapoianyxta5886 2 года назад +27

    From a Greek who has had many relationships of all kinds with Russian people.
    I must confirm they're literally like that and there's more to it.
    They're very courteous,generous, straightforward, protective and religious.

  • @nanaalmani4300
    @nanaalmani4300 5 лет назад +22

    The second one is so true! They buy flowers for their women for no reason. I know someone whose Russian husband always does that and it’s not only him, her father-in-law does that to her mother-in-law too!

    • @Wolfwo0d
      @Wolfwo0d 5 лет назад +4

      Certainly. If we like a person, we want to make it nice. No matter the mother-in-law, the girl, the grandmother, just the acquaintance, we want to make thus a little more pleasant day for this person. Besides, that's how we're raised. Local girls to the word for the most part, don't like that, they think that giving flowers is cliche, because you have to be more creative=)

  • @veziAk47
    @veziAk47 7 лет назад +119

    But Your Russian friends whom you invited would never ever touch your girl even if bladdered and the ones who can do that are never invited in the first place and yes if stranger does that in some outing then he surely get punched on face.Our woman is everything for us and Yes we never let woman pay any where..Loved the Cooking part that is so true we love them more if they're a fantastic cook.

    • @FenixDream91
      @FenixDream91 6 лет назад

      You are such a nice man) We love you too^^

    • @FenixDream91
      @FenixDream91 6 лет назад +5

      Sounds really bad. But you know, I'm married russian too and he is the most loving and nicest person I ever met. And he would never ever even shout at me. So it's not about nationality, I think it's more personal. You can find great or crazy husbands/wives in any culture

    • @siegfriedia9986
      @siegfriedia9986 6 лет назад

      Mini Art yes true

    • @user-mm2os8oz3i
      @user-mm2os8oz3i 6 лет назад

      winning &making peace-I I don't think that has anything to do with nationality. You get horrible abusive people wherever you're from.

    • @aphroditeg2712
      @aphroditeg2712 6 лет назад

      Vasiley, We need someone like you in our lives. And I am very sorry about your neighbor, mini art.

  • @user-jc2uz3tl6n
    @user-jc2uz3tl6n 3 года назад +60

    I stole a FedEx plane and I’m flying to Russia tonight. Anyone wanna snag some Russian husbands w me?

    • @lawlietway3733
      @lawlietway3733 3 года назад +1

      @@marekkelin1181 😅😂 it's like assuming I'm Polish but in reality I'm a brown LatinAmerican. Anyway, she does look Slavic to me by judging her profile pic

    • @user-jc2uz3tl6n
      @user-jc2uz3tl6n 3 года назад +1

      @@lawlietway3733 my profile pic is Bella Hadid I wish 😭 I like to dream

    • @user-jc2uz3tl6n
      @user-jc2uz3tl6n 3 года назад +2

      @Gringo Русский родился в Америка sorry my Russian is bad 😂

  • @user-tg6hy7lv7m
    @user-tg6hy7lv7m 4 года назад +52

    Also one important thing you forgot, russian men can do everything in the house, fix and repair all the problems inside the house. They r men with gold hands.

  • @NogaTerry
    @NogaTerry 5 лет назад +32

    Haha the thing about picking up the tab is sooo true😂 4 years in and he still never let's me pay

    • @user-vc5eo6gi9n
      @user-vc5eo6gi9n 5 лет назад

      Haha the thing about picking up the tab is sooo true😂 4 years in and he still never let's me pay

  • @Yes.Im.Mr.Anderson
    @Yes.Im.Mr.Anderson 5 лет назад +110

    Not everything true - not all russians drink a lot, and not everyone cares about how u looks like, especially when u meet friends. Im Russian, and most of my friends and i dont like alcohol, but most of other stuff here - facts)

    • @elifsu8528
      @elifsu8528 3 года назад

      What about russian boy? They re folllowing to many girl in instagram.So how can I trust him?

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 3 года назад

      @@elifsu8528 work on your own insecurities and trust issues.

  • @maya_chx
    @maya_chx 3 года назад +48

    English girl dating Russian guy here; this is SO true :) thank u for this video, made me laugh sm

  • @Cheyf97
    @Cheyf97 3 года назад +114

    Yes! I’m American Asian mixed and I love my Russian boyfriend ! We want to get married :) it’s so refreshing to be taken seriously and he’s so protective of me. He’s my dream guy 💕

  • @AbcDef-tv8cu
    @AbcDef-tv8cu 6 лет назад +32

    the flower thing is so true lol
    it was the very first time for me to get a bouquet of flowers for NO reason. it was one of the nicest things ever.

  • @ZahiraIsabel
    @ZahiraIsabel 5 лет назад +42

    Direct, assertive, a gentleman and all that it's in the video. That's all I'm looking for, definitely I want a Russian man.

  • @Dee-cr2mg
    @Dee-cr2mg 3 года назад +49

    I always had a crush on Russian men! Now I'm waiting for my handsome Russian husband! 😭😂

  • @mitrogulf4073
    @mitrogulf4073 4 года назад +35

    Very interesting, but there is one inaccuracy. Usually, we don’t drink alcohol without a snack. Whether it’s vegetables (fresh or greasy), small pieces of meat, sea food or bread, cause you get drunk faster and it affects the digestive system worse. In addition, alcohol has a large water-taking capacity, so to prevent this, and at the same time to maintain the balance of vitamins in the body, while drinking strong alcohol, we sometimes drink various fruit juices. If drinks vodka, whiskey, etc. without a snack, then we drink it with juice, without carbonated drinks, which for the most part are more likely to harm the stomach.

    • @ban6096
      @ban6096 2 года назад

      That's interesting to know. So, if one day I have a party with drinks I should prepare a lot of appetizers as well as regular food, right?

  • @Jessknowsbestt
    @Jessknowsbestt 5 лет назад +339

    Im Latina (dark hair & olive skin) and A few days ago I was at Walmart with my older brother doing grocery shopping (the usual haha) when all of a sudden two blonde men with light brown hair with green eyes from a distance where conversing and stopped midway and both stared at me in shock but with smirks and went near me and started talking then tapped me & smiled and called me beautiful in the cutest English with a strong accent haha :,) !!! This WAS THE FIRST TIME MEETING A RUSSIAN it was cool to me and them thinking I was so beautiful was weird to me but so sweet 😂I thought they were American tbh but my brother said they were speaking Russian and yea I was shocked by their charm & forwardness, i DONT know why I thought they would be colder but I guess they are Romantic & confident 😍😭

    • @Birsa88
      @Birsa88 4 года назад +10

      nice)

    • @yoyoyo111able
      @yoyoyo111able 4 года назад +21

      As a Latina who lives in Russian I’m shocked cuz they are normal really racist and ignorant towards latinas, are you light skinned ?

    • @mennokoegorn9483
      @mennokoegorn9483 4 года назад +2

      @@yoyoyo111able Do they insult you?

    • @yoyoyo111able
      @yoyoyo111able 4 года назад +12

      Menno Koegorn they do, one time I was in a store and this lady thought I was trying to steal her items

    • @mennokoegorn9483
      @mennokoegorn9483 4 года назад +18

      ​@@yoyoyo111able I think she thought you are a gypsy, could she? Latinas have dark features, so it can be true.
      Wanna be penpals? I have never had a friend from South America.

  • @supermonk3y07
    @supermonk3y07 7 лет назад +356

    I should be more badass like a Russian.

    • @DatingBeyondBorders
      @DatingBeyondBorders  7 лет назад +12

      haha come on now!

    • @supermonk3y07
      @supermonk3y07 7 лет назад +46

      I think thats how it should be, be clear, be direct with your intentions and have her be clear and direct. If she agrees amd likes you, you know. If she doesnt like you then you know as well and you move on.

    • @BigMarakas
      @BigMarakas 7 лет назад +12

      Please, don't be, Antonio =D
      Every nation is unique and every person is unique, don't copy what you like for not to loose who you are.
      Also, spanish/latin men are also known for being direct, brutally romantic and defending.
      I honestly think russian, spanish and thai people are relatives somehow, there's so much in common of their mentality...

    • @alexeybogdanov8070
      @alexeybogdanov8070 7 лет назад +9

      What's badass about just being a man?

    • @PaulV.
      @PaulV. 7 лет назад +5

      +BigMarakas Thats true. As a Russian who travelled a lot and had been several times to Spain, I can confirm that Russian and Spanish men do have lot in common. Both nations are pretty straightforward and hot tempered, very open to meet new friends, more or less traditionalist in gender roles but not as extreme as say Arabs, know how to have a good party and dont really obsessed with their work

  • @tresnanymoonlight888
    @tresnanymoonlight888 3 года назад +28

    my current crush is Russian, he's living in Bali... we had a 3rd date last week. He always pay our bills at the resto... OMG he is so romantic, but SHY at the same time, we kissed and hugs a lot... polite as well... the thing that i liked is.. he control to not having sex eventho I already in his room 2 times... wow, amazing

    • @heide-raquelfuss5580
      @heide-raquelfuss5580 3 года назад +6

      That is amazing! A man who does not take sexual advantage of the situation! I would fall very hard. When you feel sexual not harrast, not scared. That is very nice.

  • @andrealucena4188
    @andrealucena4188 Год назад +14

    Wow! Isn't that a real man. Handsome (I love blondes and blue eyes ) assertive, knows what they want. Traditional. They are perfect! They are a volcano under their icy appearance.

  • @aliyabarter
    @aliyabarter 6 лет назад +79

    OMG can we talk about how hot that guy is ?? I mean when he took charge in the restaurant and ordered for her ... that's so hot ! Love an Alfa male !

    • @totochanel2251
      @totochanel2251 4 года назад +5

      Yeah because he understands she is just shy to eat but actually hungry)

    • @76rus26
      @76rus26 4 года назад

      Привет из России!!!

  • @viktorkenez1614
    @viktorkenez1614 7 лет назад +117

    its true about every russian man,who is not a gopnik

    • @aishazhankina
      @aishazhankina 6 лет назад +4

      Viktor Kenéz ору

    • @FenixDream91
      @FenixDream91 6 лет назад +5

      Well character from video actually reminds me a gopnic somehow)

    • @jurisprudens
      @jurisprudens 6 лет назад

      Actually, his exclamation before engaging into fight reminds of a gopnik.

  • @sanguinariaa
    @sanguinariaa Год назад +21

    when u want a russian boyfriend but u live in brazil 🙃

    • @ruthdejesusreisdasilva4173
      @ruthdejesusreisdasilva4173 Год назад +5

      Tipo eu😅❤, meu sonho ter um namorado/marido russo🥺 eles são tão lindos, românticos, cavalheiros e respeitosos😍💞.

  • @ms.stealyomeal7529
    @ms.stealyomeal7529 3 года назад +33

    Reading all these comments about people sharing their experiences with a Russian man/men is making me want a Russian hubby now 😙😙