Outs: the distance, figure out how’s the dating process, oh yeah the language barrier Inns: It's such a wonderful experience and both will feel something unique
Perhaps it is because the series tends to deal with an English speaking audience...I dunno...maybe they didn't want to make it more complicated with the suitor speaking French and getting into the differences between Quebec and France...
@@lolaispure4296 most of those residing in Montreal speak french. If not, they should definitely start learning it. Such a beautiful language, can't see why people wouldn't want to learn it.
I'm married to a French woman and I know lots of French women (colleagues, friends, family) and I none are like the girl of this video. Maybe in Paris girls are like that, but there is more of France than Paris.
This will get lost in the comments but here is my French girl dating story: I had a French girlfriend when I was 19-20 years old and living in France. She wasn’t from Paris. French girls who aren’t from Paris are easy and fun to date. They’re direct, warm, they like to cook (and eat!), and they are generally just absolute sweethearts. She was a kind and gentle person. She had such a soft heart. Thats what I loved about her. I called her my “princesse Savoyarde” (she was from Haute-Savoie lol)... she pretended to be annoyed but she loved it when I called her that Sometimes, usually when I feel lonely or sad, I miss her a lot. I think of when we first kissed, on that train platform on that December night. I think of how adorably frustrated she looked when struggling to speak English to me... until I would gently kiss her forehead and ask her to just say it in French. Anyways. That’s it, thanks for reading I guess. Those were happier days for me. Things in my life were a little... clearer. I’m glad I have those memories.
Pas mieux, hilare du début à la fin de la vidéo, notamment lorsqu'il fait cul sec avec le verre de vin. J'avoue avoir croisé une fois une américaine dans le métro qui buvait du vin à la bouteille croyant que nous faisions tous de même. Pas besoin de vous dire ce qu'en pensait les autres usagers ^^
As a french man, I can admit that some girls are likely the same that in the video but indeed especially in Paris ^^' But it's a bit exaggerated, just be fun with her and it should work
This was sooo on spot haha, well done ! Just for the confused people, here's what to remember from it : - We say what's on our minds - We are 100 % exclusive from the start - French relationships are about NOT over thinking things or following guide lines. If something feels natural, do it, if not, abstain. We hate clichés, douchebags and complicated people ;)
To be honest, this does not sound like a pleasant experience....constantly having to tip toe around what you say even when giving compliments and her being intentionally cold and disinterested towards you at certain times does not sound like a healthy relationship.
Clara Dreams (I’m American) I think the honesty shown in the video is smothering kindness. When the girl knows that she was misinterpreting what he was saying, she still allowed herself to do so, unfairly to him. Yes she was trying to be blunt, but it was _her_ getting emotional, her exerting her emotions too much. Why can’t honesty come with kindness instead of blowing up?
@@jukihiw In my point of vue, I think she was being passionate about what she was saying but I don't think she was mad at HIM. Like for exemple, if someone says something that reminds me of a subject that I really care about, I will probably start a debate about it immediatly and say all that comes to my mind without trying to be kind. But I expect the others to do the same in return, to give me their very honest opinion, and after that we can talk and the debate will calm down naturaly.
And it doesn't matter if it comes from a misunderstanding because by having a debate, at least you will have the opportunity to really understand the other and hopefully you'll never misunderstand him again on this subject.
Clara Dreams But saying all that comes on your mind without trying to be kind, is a lack of self-control. Almost childish to me. (I’m not trying to call you childish, just saying what it sounds like, I’m being very genuine and not demeaning). That doesn’t seem like an effective style of communication-sounds like it’ll just start a fight for everyone but the absolute most patient people on earth
Actually, historically and by definition, *Paris is France!* Because Paris was the beginning of French expansion and consolidation, and the region around the capital is even called "Île-de-France"!
No. So No, that the former capital of France was Orleans, so, again, No. Paris is a microcosm of arrogant and superficial peoples full of pride, not living real life.
I love the idea that dating is serious, and you are automatically not seeing other people! I wish it was more of a thing where I live, but people seem to think it is 'holding each other back' or something. In a way, I think the new 'non exclusive' dating culture is what makes everyone terrified to date. Because if everyone is dating multiple people, how do you know you will be 'picked', and how can you concentrate enough on getting to know the other person?
You don't know you will be picked. You don't know that even if you're exclusive from the start. The person could decide you're not the right one for them. This is whole point of the dating period, to find out if you like each other and are compatible. Sexual and dating exclusivity when you've just started dating someone doesn't make any sense.
@@theprousteffect9717and that is exactly why Americans have a terrible love life. Unless they do it thru their smaller cultures (church, family friends, etc) it usually doesn’t work out. You are an amorphous blob with no direction, no rules, and no cohesion. You treat dating like it’s some corporate job. And then you wonder why your most attractive men don’t even bother marrying with women from your country 😂
Yes, permanently analyzing and reacting to what she expects, and there is no filter, so it may hurt self estime according to your culture. Two important words simple and direct, no séduction too obvious rules. You must show she is unique and expect you to to behave "naturellement". We hate techniques. What is fine in this video is that when you see her eyes, women signals, men have to decode it, act, decode reactions and so on. It may become difficult when a girl is playing with you and you don't understand we're she is going.
In Poland we also don't have that "how are you, I'm fine" culture. If I ask my friend how was his day he will be honest with me and tell me what was good and what was bad. For Polish people always smiling and pretending that everything is ok when it's not is fake. Gretting from Poland🇵🇱😍 ;) I love the French girl
I took French in college and our TA was from Paris She once told me that she was confused about American dating That she didn’t understand why we had to make it official She said “shouldn’t you just know” lol
yeah that happen also in italy, if you ask a girl out you just say "do you wanna go for a beer or a drink" and it's understood that is date even if it's not said specifically
This may be a bit generalistic...but I've heard that once you've made a friend with a French person...you've made a friend for life. Many tend to be very loyal friends. I've met one French person and he's super cool and definitely a friend for life.
En disant ce type de commentaire, Tu affirmes ton individualité et ton opinion, Confirmant donc les points abordé de la vidéo .... Cliché ? et bien peut être pas finalement !
I've read a lot of comments about how difficult dating a french girl seems to be ... so let's just say yes : most french girls will speak their minds whenever they feel like it ... just like french men actually. To us frenchies, this is not about complaining or ranting all the time, but rather about HAVING an OPINION. When we share our opinion, we french people, do not mean any harm or anyhting. Most of the time we're mostly curious. We want to know your thoughts about our opinions and we usually leave the conversation open, so you can share your own ideas as well if you feel like it. When the girl in the video reacts to the idea of a "dress being more feminine than pants", she doesn't mean to lash at her boyfriend, but instead she tells him her opinion about the matter. In the end she basically says:" I don't need to wear dresses to feel like a woman." A sensible french boyfriend would have LISTENED to her, instead of just being offended by her "feminists reaction". At this point, a boyfriend is not expected to apologies or anything, because this is where he is supposed to share his own opinions instead. He could have said: "Of course, you look gorgeous in pants too , that's not the point ! The point is: seeing you in a dress turns me on even more. Maybe it makes me old fashionned, but that's just how I feel !" So in the end of this conversation, what do we have ? We have 2 human beings who just shared their opinion about dresses. The girlfriend now knows she might put on a dress to please her boyfriend. The boyfriend knows she is an independent woman who will not let any man tell her how to dress ... and he could also have a look at Simone de Beauvoir's writtings, even just to show how interested he is in her opinions. In a word, they get to know each other ! What's could be wrong about it ?
I'm half French and couldn't date a French woman if she gets upset about calling her outfit feminine. Life's too short not to appreciate a kind hearted compliment.
I am French from the northern in a country side this is just a huge cliche the Parisian women are not all the French women 😁 🙄😉as Paris is not the entire France so will be great if the foreigners go in an other places in our wonderful country where people live like real French with our traditional food natives languages and culture and not the cliches for tourist 😡
Yes you are right, I heard it from many people living 2 years In Paris after I move to small city in country side but it were the same .since 2016 I didn't had sex in France. Shame on french women's.
La plus part des choses dites sont vrai à ton avis pourquoi de plus en plus d'homme français ce casse chercher leur femmes dans d'autres pays les femmes français la plus part sont infâmes castratrices méchante et ce comporte comme des princesse etc c'est malheureux mais c'est de + en + vrai et les exception deviennent rare
Dating Beyond Borders I never understood why people love our culture so much but it's funny to see it ourself from an outsider's point of view, really, I have a stupid smile every time 😂
As an Australian dude, with a beautiful French partner, I felt this! The biggest clash of cultures relationship wise 😂❤️. But I can say at least in my case French girls are worth it! But you left out getting used to how often you’ll be required to talk about food
I got a lot of comments from you saying that while you agree with the points, it seems like there is not a lot of positive about dating a French woman. I would have to say that while making the videos I try not to think "Ah! Now I have to put something positive". I try to present each culture with as much honesty as I can. It saddens me to read comments like "Well, now I will never date a French woman again" since that is not at all what I was trying to show. I love that you take my videos so seriously, but come on, guys! Sure, French women are generally quite opinionated and individualistic but that doesn't mean you cannot now compliment her for fear she will give you a speech on feminism or order wine for her without her making a face. These are just examples and should not be taken this seriously. It is just something to make a point, not the Holy Grail. Just enjoy and don't avoid a whole culture because of one video. ;)
Seriously, i watched all single video in this account but i dont know why, this one is really the worst one. eg i really enjoyed Russian Turkish Chiness Israil Greek Indian
It seems people took the point. "Individualistic and opinionated" are nice ways of saying they will preach at you, and are intolerant to others' views. Though to be honest, I always thought it was worse in the USA (at least, areas like California).
Classic Marina: funny, tongue-in-cheek, and not afraid to talk about anything. ;) Well-made, as always, good acting, and I'm glad your new cameraman(woman?) is working out for you. Andrew's departure hasn't diminished the quality of your videos one iota. :D Some suggestions for future content: if you do a video about Norwegian men, look up the youtube channel 'Pistolshrimps.' Those guys are hilarious, and maybe they'll do a parody on their channel. ;) Another idea is 3 things men/women love about the opposite sex, and 3 things men/women love it when the opposite sex does them. It'll be neat to see what is consistent across cultures, and what differs. Best luck with your next video! :D
Dating Beyond Borders it's not bad being opinionated if you're educated on what you're saying and have a big real criteria with a lot of culture. The problem is if you're feminazi opinionated and all your arguments are related to 'feminism' or feminazism hembrism, misandric view of point, that's the problem because even the mostly percent of women see 'feminism', feminazism as something negative and fuck up. I have the idea that French specially parisin people are well educated and had rich knowledge in everything like history, literature, geography, science, food, everything in general, like Germans but more, so of course everybody will be opinionated and it's justified as all I have said, not like Americans because they're all opinionated but they're ignorant, neurotic, stupid and stubborn, and it's all about they're personal agenda they want to impose to everyone, they're like politicians always in campaign but speaking of things they doesn't know in a very hysterical, neurotic and emotional sick way. But with French I think is quite the opposite maybe they're opinionated because they know what are they talking about, but Paris people like to complain more than usual, I see on this that can be turned in to a positive things, if you're responsible citizen that get involve I'm the politics of your country maybe you can take it seriously and act to make changes for the benefit of the people, not like in Mejico that everything is funny, you have to always relate everything with a joke, everything is jajajajajajajajajajajaja and no one take things seriously to act and change the country, but that's how social engineering works and we're designed here, so the famous brave and tough legendary Mexican revolutionary can be extinct, and it's a happy world like Aldous Huxley predicted. So I think it's not bad to be opinionated like French people just not be a freaking grinch or a feminazi, or like an American idiot. And in relation with the mind games stuff, in Mejico girls do it, test the men to knowing, but with the Base of romance and love, respect and not going to far, or that use to be after feminazism because younger generations has problems of not going to far with that, or be prejudicial about it depending of the state or city, and pretty or good looking chics usually are more open or free and just let themselves go in romance that the ones are kind of pretty or are normal or ugly. By the way I'm withe we're not all monkeys, depends of the region that you're you will find a prevalence of withe or brown people, is not the same the north that the south that the occidental part of the country. But Europeans in general are very welcome, well everybody except for gringos Americans we hate them, and Peruvian they're stupid, porteños from Argentina, and also I particularly I don't like south Koreans, they like to come with their factorys and slave people, children, teens, women, beating up their employees, arrestment women, and is not one or three companies it's more. Well, have you a video of dating a Mexican men?, you can't make a video with migrants on USA, they're usually very ignorant about their own country Mejico because the lack of education that's why they're there, and different region different type of men, and in the region between states or cities are differences, so you better come here because we're all different, brown are different than withe Mexicans, the North men are different from the ones from the south or center or occident, Mejico has almost the size of Europe. If you don't want or can struggle much focus on the withe men of the center, Querétaro, Aguascalientes, Zacatecas, San Luis Potosí, Puebla, or maybe just take Guadalajara if you don't have time or resources, and don't take a brown guy ass example because they're ugly and a freaking stereotype that gringos believe religiously that we all are and it's misinformation, and it's annoying.
Is this really how foreigners see us? Please don't think all women in France are like this because it's not true. I'm a french woman and I can't relate to this woman. We are not all arrogant and we don't argue for no reason.
Hi S (Sofía) I hope you see this. I'm kind of afraid 😨 of dating a frensh girl. I felt like it was an immigration interview rather than dates. I thought 💭 that French girls were more soft smiley and romantic. In the video 📹 she "killed him" by her behavior like: "I DON'T LIKE THE CHOICE OF WINE 🍷 THAT YOU PICKED"...:o I mean if someone really tries their best why be like that COLD ❄ to someone that doesn't know the culture that well but tries his best. How that you can explain a little bit about this please. Hugs and love from Sweden 🇸🇪
Caracol Caracolito Hi, I can assure you that in France, someone who answer to someone else's effort to please her like she did is considered as a jerk. I think the point here, which has been shown badly, is that a french woman will most probably tell you when you do something 'wrong'. But only when you've been together long enough (never in the begining of the relationship, when you are just exploring eachother), it is done in a nice way, not to hurt her partener feelings, and she actually expect him to do the same. This is to prevent any misunderstanding in the future, honnesty toward eachother is part of respect and essential for the relationship to last. If you want to please her, you would like to know for sure that she is really pleased (because you know her well) not wondering if she just pretend to, to be polite, right ? In the begining of a relationship (like in the video) she will definitely apreciate the effort and be grateful. If you pursue your relationship she will later let you know subtlely (or not 😅) what her real taste is, so that you know and that next time she says 'I love it' she means it 😉
A little piece of Jimin that floats in the air Hi. I think the last thing you said is wonderful: that she would tell you later what she thinks. And I agree with you that is the thing to do. :3 I travel a lot so I was dating a girl and (sorry to say) but I almost tripped over the fucking big carpet at the entry of an shopping mall so my hand "bumped" into her butt (I was looking for something to hang on to). And of course I felt so embarrassed 😳 but she smiled at me and quietly said "it's OK" she took muy arm under her arm and we kept walking. Another time in a dark environment (it was dark outside and dark in the car 🚙) and I was looking to touch her hand or grab her fingers gently buuuuut my hand ended up close to her upper part of her thigh (where the intimate private space of a woman begins) and I can Assure everyone that are reading 📖 this: is not sexy at all. 😢 😢 I guess I just wanted to cry and die and be at the other part of the world 🗺. And in those seconds you start to think stupid things because you are nervous for several reasons (other part of the world 🗺 other cultures and ways of thinking more conservative ways of thinking etc) mainly because you are on a Rendezvous that turns out to take the shape of a date. So she treated me nicely softly softly softly (I was stiff in my whole body looking out the window of the car 🚙 planning the nearest exit and escape route from there...xD) we talked about something and I guess at some point you have to turn back and look at her which I did and when we was about to say goodbye to each other we leaned forward and cheek to cheek to do the "kiss in the air" -thing while we went back from the goodbye kiss our noses 👃 slightly touched each other, we said something for the sake of saying lol 😂 again we where about to say goodbye and after the second goodbye kiss she kissed me at my cheek, moved her lips from the air to my cheek to my lips and we kissed so slowly and wonderfully. :3 She forgived me regarding my hand 🖐 error and of course one could argue that she forgived me because she liked me, that maybe a girl that is not in to the guy would be more cold and non forgiving. And girls look at what I am about to say: it's so damm fu+*@#ing HOT 🔥 when a girl is cute understanding treats you nice witha set of details (touch you arm hands smiles "Says with a voice of caring: " I can get that for you cutie 🤗 😘") But my point is that you girls should try to be more careful and forgiving because most guys are really TRYING they are nervous the heart ♥ is pumping not LITERS of blood in the body it's pumping ⛽ TONS of blood because the guy could be NERVOUS...😂 So all girls heads up here because if we are talking about "Dating across the borders" it's more hard to date, than when you are in your own country. My tips are: Be extra: careful forgiving mindful. It's like courtesy with a touch of gentleness and politeness. :) Because a lot of people are so angry (for example in some comments on the internet) and I think that when you date over boarders you should be able to try to be more sweet to each other regardless if it is a date or if it is another X event. I was in France as a kid and was so nice because I bumped in to two girls my age at that time (15) and we where using a lot of: "oui oui suede passport oui oui :D" and it was so nice because frensh people in that time usually didn't liked to speak 🔊 English so those girls really did an big effort to communicate. It's sweet. Hugs 🤗 to all kind mindful French people out there. Viva 🙌 France 🇫🇷
Hey all! Ok - so you have been asking me for 2 years for this video and I'm happy to say I finally made it. As you can see I went all the way to Paris. Just for one day. Seriously. So if you are here just to say "Make a (insert country) woman video" or "I'm still waiting on (insert country) video" let's just take a pause on demanding and leave me a thoughtful comment about this one first ;) It was not an easy one to make.
The only French girls I have ever dated were from southern France - Lyon and Languedoc. I met them in Mexico. They were very different than the French girls, described in this program. They did not wear heavy makeup. They were not moody or confrontational at all, but very definitely independent. Delightful to be around from dawn to dusk. They had very pleasant dispositions. The one thing that surprised me was that they constantly had a cigarette or joint in their hands, except when eating, doing physical activities or playing a musical instrument. I thought that was a little odd. They were "lady like" actually sexy in their smoking, but didn't quite understand, why they needed to smoke so much.
I dated a French woman for about 2 years. I think this depiction is pretty accurate, however, there were some slight differences which may be because she was from an older generation than the woman in this video. She was very sexual and she certainly didn't mind compliments about her femininity. In the end though, we just lived too far apart. However, I loved her ability to read emotions in other people. I felt her emotional intelligence was quite high. Like any country, you will find assholes and princesses.
I’m Canadian but my family is french and so I grew up with french culture and when I started dating my girlfriend I never asked her out and never thought twice about it because I thought that we were already a thing but she told me a few months into our relationship that I never asked her out and so I ended up having to ask her out and make it “official”. It wasn’t a big deal at all but it just shows the culture differences between French culture and North American culture.
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One thing about women in france is that as a man, if you critcise a woman, people will not like it, even if your girlfriend cheated on you. You're supposed to chill and not complain...
Libellule Turquoise maybe because you dont have any. this vídeo is a heads up for the mesmerized foreigners who may wanna have a relationship with a french gal
@@adele3900 C'est juste qu'ils veulent des filles qui restent bien gentiment à leur place et que la majorité des françaises ne sont pas comme ça ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I am the kind of French girl that say "I hate French clichés", but I do like this video. I think it's fun, and quite accurate in fact. A bit caricatural but that's the case with all of these videos, so I don't mind. Thank you for all your hard work, I'm looking forward your next video :)
I dont understand the number of negative comments. Personally I love to date the women such as the one in the video. She has her own opinion on everything and can argue with you on different topics so you are never bored with her. Definitely better than some dumb chick who only cares about Gucci and her manicure.
Paul V. Arguing is one thing, nagging is another, I don't hate an intelligent woman who has her opinions on things and can put them forward in an intelligent manner but the woman portrayed here was just butthurt over everything and seemed to be terrible at arguments.
If you like to argue too, you will eventually block about a disagreement. Dont' go to France. Eastern European women are sexier and more faithful. Do try Eastern Europe.
As a European, I was just shocked by Canadians trying to date several girls at the early stages and picking the best one. I just can't understand it with my mentality
I’m an American, and I’ve never understood that mentality either. Then again, I’ve always felt like a foreigner in many ways living here. I’ve never been interested in Americans. This kind of mentality towards dating is the consumerism mentality applied to all ways of living here. It’s all incentivized on the end, illusive reward. It’s by far the most programmed place in the world, which makes sense. A country of immigrants (at least the major cities), they take advantage of the broken roots and broken families, lack of community and connection, and spackle it with instant gratification through materialism, artificial food, and sparkly things on the surface to mend the lack of true happiness. Makes for great profits. Americans shop for their fantasy mate in the same way. It’s very weird, dating is akin to a job interview in many ways. “What can I get out of you?”
@@ChristineNavarroTV Right? It’s so funny and ironic because there’s this stereotype that Americans have of the French, I.e. having side pieces and the spouse know but look away, yet that is what our culture does. We may or may not know if people date others and it’s a mystery and we are suppose to be okay with the outcome. It drives people like myself crazy.
I don't understand the shock. What's wrong with finding out who has the most suitable qualities, or who is the most virtuous or even the best sense of humour? If you're going to start a family with someone, for the children's sake, you need to make the best possible decision you can. After all, you'd interview several potential candidates for a waitressing job in your restaurant wouldn't you, yet not the same rigour for someone who was to be the mother of your children?
@@jayaybe1 Cuz for workplaces, nothing is really personal and everything is explicitly geared towards quantifiable ends (earning money and profitting)! Finding a spouse is far more personal and involves also qualitative things you cannot just address with statistics/the scientific method...
I know there are a lot of people complaining in the comments, but I think people are overlooking the common thread between these clips. French women have a genuine nature. In every regard they are being honest about how they feel and in what they want. There is no second guessing if the really liked the flowers they were given or they food they were eating. They prefer something else? They say as much. So many complain about women in the U.S. saying they're "Fine." or "I'm okay." When it's clear they aren't, but they see an example of woman who is actually clear about what she feels and are complaining about that too? If you are a person that complains about women not being clear about what they want while also complaining about women who *are* clear about what they want then please understand that *you* are the person unnecessarily complaining, not these women. If you are not a person that does this, then this doesn't apply to you.
well, am not French, but as a grown Azz woman, I wouldn't like a man going around Dating multiple women at the same time until he chooses one to be with exclusively. Like what's that? The Bachelor? I am not your toy. like,what culture even endorses that?
Rosa I always considered if you go out once. and plan to go out on another date.its exclusive!!! I never understood why other guys need to date more than one woman. I want to get to know the woman I'm seeing. You can not do that when you seeing 2,3 or more ! That's just me though. Some of the things that guys do that are "wrong" or offensive. Like in these videos . I am thinking why would you do that!!! It's just a matter of being respectable and treat others like you want to be treated! I do line these videos though!!
yeah that's crazy most people (guys? haha) here in the comment section are reacting about the girl's behavior, which is obviously a cliché to be fun. But no one seems to be shock about what the man says. And then they insults feminist? I don't understand...
She wants to play hard to get and have the man do all the approaching for her... but wants to be completely disassociated with being "feminine" and takes offense when she's told she looks lady-like. Sounds like an entitled brat to me.
0:18 she replied when you said hello. A real parisian girl would never do that, no she would just pretend you're invisible or look at you as if you slaughtered a litter of cats in front of her.
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As someone who is slowly turning into what the Japaneses may call a hikiko mori, I have nothing to do with dating life, but it's nice knowing the mindsets of people in faraway lands whom I may never encounter. I see nothing wrong with the French girl being herself, but I really don't get the idea of non-exclusive dating. Extremely weird for an Asian mind like me. But hey what do I know.
Actually for many (but not all) French people, exclusive dating is more or less the norm, although I feel like things have been changing for the younger generations. It really baffled me as well when I heard of the concept of "non-exclusive dating", it feels almost like cheating in a way when you're not used to it
been here for years and this is on point!!!! French women are hopeful romantics and dating doesn't exist here at all! either you're together or you're not!!! They play hard to get but they're not that hard...they love to go out to eat so you better take her out!! I'd call them faithful... but since french people complain a lot expect her to be very naggy or as we say in french "CHIANTE" ... LOOL
"you are together or you are not".well, what did you expect? do you want to play games? going around dating as many women as u want? Ain't nobody got time for that
At 1:10 WTF are they talking about hahahaha. Here's a translation if you don't speak French: "-Come on, he could've commited suicide somewhere else, I'm really tired of this. -This is when girls remind you of bikes, it's not that stupid. -Yes with our hair! -Sometimes there are trapped packages and suicidal people, you can't do anything about it"
It does make sense. You misunderstood what they're saying and thus translated it wrong. :) They're talking about whether they should stop using the métro. The guy says "C'est vrai les filles à un moment donné il faut penser au vélo", loose translation: "True, girls, at one point maybe you should think about cycling (ie to work)" (instead of using the métro which isn't that fast because of all the problems with suicides and so on). And the girl says "with our hair?" because she thinks cycling to work will mess up her hair. I hope this helps. 😊
Well I am myself french and I dont find us particularly crazy or scary (that is just my opinion of course) but I get that people may not be used to us because of our tendency to speak our minds and be quite blunt! I personally see it as a strengh because I do not refrain from being myself just because people don't like it! French girls (even though everyone is different) may show an exterior that look cold or bitchy from what I gathered in the comments but they are just normal and loving when you get to know them! The thing about religion is really an issue I ve not encountered yet! And as for feminism it is also completely exagerated in the video ! But yeah we re nice at heart!😊
To be honest I don't see how the feminist thing has become a whole debate. To me (french adult man (I specify because on the itnernet you never know...)) the feminist mindset is a mark of lack of confidence and need for validation. So not that good in my opinion and tbh, it's not just my opinion. Now some will like it anyways everyone's got his own take on the subject. Besides, if you feel challenged by such petty things, perhaps you're lacking in confidence :)
They are incredibly arrogant, they DON'T shower that much and are always making scenes!!! French women are the worse! I'm European and it's well known here you do not want to marry one!
I feel this clip sums up the stereotypes of Parisian people: quite confrontational, moody and often complaining about anything. Yes, it is true that a lot of people are actually like that in Paris, but that's a generalization and there is also a lot of people that are very relatable, kind, well-educated, curious and sociable. I lived in Paris for almost two years and after the initial cultural shock it wasn't too hard to quickly fit in, have a social circle of friends, a girlfriend and be happy. But a very important thing to keep in mind is that if you live in France you must learn French, and this is not a small detail. Learning the language there is an absolutely mandatory skill, unlike anywhere else in the world: for some reason, most French people seem to really HATE having to speak English and sometimes even when they are english speakers they literally refuse to communincate in any Language except French. Unless you learn French you will likely not fit in. But when you fit in, voila, you are in a great place full with interesting people.
I would like to explain why we hate to speak english. We find our accent so bad and the english way of articulate is not natural at all for us. It's like we feel as disabled people when we do (if we are not used to).
@@behemoth8399 Thank you for your explanation. But that's exactly the same feeling everyone else has when speaking in another language: Italians, Spanish, Portuguese, all of us have a hard time pronouncing the "alien" sounds of English language. Still, we don't refuse to speak English when someone who doesn't speak our language addresses us in English. I've have had this strange experience only in France (well, only in Paris, to be precise). And it was not a single episode: it was something that happened almost systematically. I may be wrong, but I had the strong feeling that this "resistence" has something to do with something almost ideological, that may be summarized as "When in France, French is the language, period". But this is just my impression, so I may be wrong. According to some friends of mine from France, another possible explanation may be that French used to be the "lingua franca", before English replaced it, and there is some kind of resentment about it.
@@emiquetzalkoala4288 As a French dude grown up in Burgundy and living in Paris for 4 years, I'm pretty sure you are wrong on the point "in France you speak French" mentality, it's a common mistake. It may exist but marginally. I don't personally know people who would refuse to answer in english except the ones whose english is very bad. I do think parisians might be tired to repeat the same thing without be understood and they don't want to lose time, plus there are a lot of french words in the english language so it often happens to us to be understood while speaking french, the less trained of us would very often try (that's why you will often hear french people in the US try to express them in french). Then people in France are often prouds and don't want to look ludicrous particularly parisians. I don't think it is always the same feeling for all languages, I don't feel it when I try to speak spanish or deutsch, more for russian. I think it really is a way to articulate which is very demanding for us.
Very cool. A French prof. said French women were wonderful. In the office very professional, after work they were women, they left the office behind. I found French women, the few I had the privilege of meeting and working with, wonderful. Very engaging, affectionate. Even spontaneous and engaging in light chat on the metro. Very little if any, pretence. Thanks for this great blog.
Totally agree. And yes - I gotta admit, I cheated it with this one. I could not for the life of me find a non-French actor so we had to get a French one!
This video just made me laugh a lot. I dated a French girl from Bordeaux if thats correct. She was so, romantic? But at the same time kinda crazy, and was so common to talk to her or say smthing maybe she didnt like and hear a "putain" and more French words that you are like... Okay what did you said? "Nothing" :) Also i had those moments where i said smthing she liked and just started to laugh red like a tomato and saying also French words i didnt even understand. French girls are really complicated, but adorables hahaha
Wow, I never thought about dating a French women before this video because I always got the impression that they were incredibly arrogant; but I like their approach of relationship. I don't like the North American 'game' mindset and the idea of clear stages. I find the French approach more genuine and natural. Marina, great job again! I like the cast as well- both actors are very likeable. Just one note- the texts at 2:39 and 4:25 were insightful but a bit too long; I needed to pause the video to read them through. Otherwise, the video is very nicely produced. I am looking forward to your next work!
Thank you :) Happy you liked it! And yes -- you are right. It might have been a bit too long. I had so much to say, but I should have toned it down a bit
akx They are incredibly arrogant, they DON'T shower that much and are always making scenes!!! French women are the worse! I'm European and it's well known here you do not want to marry one!
@@Roar902 Ma io mi trasferisco a parigi e vorrei capi ste francesi che ho sentito che sono difficili da approciare ma è vero? o sono piu complicate le italiane
Ok as a french woman I can say that french women are much more cheerfull and smiling than that. I would find really lame to say that a dress is feminine indeed, but wouldn't react crazy and bringing Simone de Beauvoir in the conversation like that would be considered to be ridiculus,
Wow. This wasn't my experience at all when I visited France. The French women I met were some of the warmest, most hospitable people I've ever met. Then again I mainly traveled around Normandy and only interacted with non-Parisians in Paris so maybe this video is more of a Parisian woman thing.
Liar. French women are cold, even in Marseille they run away. Besides, nobody will host you if you are in the street in France. There is no love in France anymore. Don't go to France.
There are many different types of persons in each country. The same in France! That girl looks more like the "parisian girl" cliché (not a the type of person that I personally like) than the average french woman ^^
I'm a Vietnamese guy, and I dated an Algerian girl from Marseille... and yeah, everybody says that it's basically "Parisians vs. everyone else" in every aspect of life in France.
Oh my God. I'm French of African descent, and it is SCARY how I tend to have the same overintellectural reactions. Living overseas for like 14 years taught me to tone down the opinionated stream though...I'm getting there. >__
There's over 3 billion women on the planet, not hard to cross off French women and go for someone more chill. This coming from someone who did study abroad, an internship, and worked in France for 3 years.
@ItsTheEndOfTheWorldAsWeKnowIt Z Well that's weird. In my country there's way more women than men, and in my city the male to female ratio is 1>15. There's actually 6,3 million more women than men.
As beautiful as she is, it seems way to much like hard work trying to say and do the right thing. Spanish girls are also all for equal rights, but are far more approachable.
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For those of you who are curious, the conversation at 1:15 went like this : - Black haired girl : "They should have committed suicide elsewhere. I'm so tired of this!" - Guy : "What about cycling, girls?" - Black haired girl : "With hair like that?" - Blond girl : "So what? There are suspicious packages, suicidal people... We can't do anything about it!" I think they're talking about the Paris metro and its delays and cancellations caused by suspicious luggage and suicides. So French people are definitely known to complain a lot and can be quite insensitive at times
I'm French and I agree with the exclusive thing, we prefer to try one person at a time, and we are not in a rush to find someone at all cost as soon as possible. And the complaining, I have done it on purpose in the past in a way of "testing" the guy, to see what is his way of replying to negativity but maybe that's just me
To people saying French women are basically announcing, they only speak their mind. So yes they complain but if you spoke your mind wouldn’t you? They just basically say what they think stop saying they’re just a pain in the ass
I'd love to see one on Icelandic men! I have lived in Canada all my life (descended from Portuguese), I have never been to Iceland, never met an Icelander, so I can say without bias that I am absolutely fascinated by them and their country, and would love to see them covered in this series! :D Plus, I've heard some talk that because Iceland is waterlocked, Icelanders don't have much variety and the gene pool is getting smaller and smaller with every generation (I think I heard it said that every Icelander is probably at least 8th cousins with everyone else in the country). Therefore, when a foreigner shows up, Icelandic men take notice and get their dating game on. Now, I'm not sure if that's completely true, I guess I would need someone from Iceland to confirm for me, BUT if that really is true, that bodes well for this single girl if she ever decides to finally visit Iceland...
The young go to the night clubs, US American culture, small chance if you are French ! If you are lucky, somebody can meet you, drink something, talk to you, and ask you 15' after "Do you want to go out with me ?" :-D . They say it gets more complicated after. Quite open about sex, there is a museum of penises and they don't mind if you are homosexual. 37 % divorce rate, maybe more when the time of death has come. Highly repectful of women, a legacy of matriarcal families, as in many cold countries. Women and men wages tend to be equal, at least in big companies. They work when it's cool and enjoy reading close to a good fire in the winter.
Oh damn, with my loud, obnoxious, Spanish speaking, loud laughter, my vocal voice, deep kissing, my date with a French chica would be over within a few hours hahahaha
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@@betespatiotemporelle She is ugly because she is ugly. She compensates her physical ugly with her style and her sociopathic tendencies. Why bother? Lmfao and no, actually coldness and sociopathy doesn't determine good quality. She is indeed a lunatic with a patent. Don't waste your time 😆
"be prepared for the hot and cold responses" Have had this with French, Danish, and Italian women. I met some French girls in Berlin, and one had a good vibe with me but we couldn't get together. I tried to keep in touch with her, texted her in the months followed, never a response. But when I went to Paris and met up with a friend of hers... her friend said the other girl wanted to come and join us. She never showed up! This pretty much NEVER happened in the US. The girls either are interested or not. They will get back to you within 1 text.
Thank you for the video! It was fantastic! I was one of the people asking for 2 years i'm sure or at least one. Thank you again, most fun videos on RUclips to watch!
Thank you for saying that!!! What a great thing to hear. Yeah - I have been going crazy over this one and couldn't find a French actress for a long time. I am happy I waited to film it in Paris. It's just a whole other experience.
To all of you that think french women are just annoying, complain to much let me remind you that everyone complains in France so don't judge them for their culture. It's their way of expressing their emotions help her think about something else or get over it. Also to those thinking that French women need too much work I'd remind you that it's like anything in life, you have to put in the work if you want it. Don't get me wrong they don't see themselves superior to any other woman they just expect you to show her what you feel, they want to feel special just like any woman in the world and aren't afraid to ask for it. Like the video said there's no "Dating" which means you don't go on dates to "see how it goes" or if you develop feelings but you go on dates BECAUSE you have feelings for her and want to be her boyfriend. This also why they don't always like being hit on by strangers because they assume there's no way that guy has feelings for me he just wants a one night stand unless of course that's what they're looking for. I'll also remind you that everything complicates when passion is involved, you wouldn't be fascinated by it otherwise.
QueenLeo Bagpack It certainly plays a part in spreading the negative thoughts that's for sure. Although I don't think that it would be the main reason as it is considered okay to be unhappy about something? And also if you keep ranting about the same thing you usually get told to do something about it or to stop complaining.It depends on what you're complaining about too. Imo what creates it is more likely to be the societal pressure and standards that are taken a lot more seriously therefore you can quickly feel out of "the norm". The school system is very competitive too which doesn't help younger people that are still trying to find themselves. In France if you don't know what you wanna do around 18 you are gonna feel very lost and there no such a thing as "I'll see how it goes" Just an example if you are trying to get a job and that you took a gap year in your studies you are gonna have to justify yourself to the employeur. Anyway what were the process of the study? Have the subjects been clinically diagnosed as depressed? Don't get me wrong I'm not saying the study was bull, it's just we have to take in consideration that complaining and not feeling okay with things is okay in France therefore they might tend to admit being depressed more easily instead of denying it? If you see what I mean? Cheers G'day too you too
C Slg I would go fucking nuts with someone living by me and all day just fucking complaining about the tiniest shit is there nothing better to do in life. I'd throw everyone out of my house
Yes I agree there is better to do than complain but it needs to be put in perspective, that's not all they do. It also depends on the personality of the woman, some complain more than others as in any country. Also what you call "tiniest shit" might not be that tiny for her and actually be a problem. Once you know her a bit more you start reading between the lines and it usually makes it better
bossboy191919 Don't assume they are constantly complaining either. Plus there is complaining and complaining if you see what I mean. Even warm,honest,sweet,loyal,fun girls complain it feels good to every once in a while
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I think it was important to point this out . The ending proved that people can be hypocritical 😅
He come from montreal and doesn't speak french wtf is that
C'est pas normal
Perhaps it is because the series tends to deal with an English speaking audience...I dunno...maybe they didn't want to make it more complicated with the suitor speaking French and getting into the differences between Quebec and France...
Montréal is not only comprised of french québécois
He actually speaks french but the chanel is focused towards an english audience which is why they made them speak english.
@@lolaispure4296 most of those residing in Montreal speak french. If not, they should definitely start learning it. Such a beautiful language, can't see why people wouldn't want to learn it.
I'm married to a French woman and I know lots of French women (colleagues, friends, family) and I none are like the girl of this video. Maybe in Paris girls are like that, but there is more of France than Paris.
kernell32bcn hi how r u
thank god
Thank GOD, I was hoping there would be a bit more warmth and joy. This girl is a bummer avenue decorated with red flags.
@@honeyfrissonhoneyfrisson6994 I guess there's all kinds, but french women are amazing generally 😉
@@nacimshigari2036 fine thanks
This will get lost in the comments but here is my French girl dating story:
I had a French girlfriend when I was 19-20 years old and living in France. She wasn’t from Paris. French girls who aren’t from Paris are easy and fun to date. They’re direct, warm, they like to cook (and eat!), and they are generally just absolute sweethearts.
She was a kind and gentle person. She had such a soft heart. Thats what I loved about her. I called her my “princesse Savoyarde” (she was from Haute-Savoie lol)... she pretended to be annoyed but she loved it when I called her that
Sometimes, usually when I feel lonely or sad, I miss her a lot. I think of when we first kissed, on that train platform on that December night. I think of how adorably frustrated she looked when struggling to speak English to me... until I would gently kiss her forehead and ask her to just say it in French.
Anyways. That’s it, thanks for reading I guess. Those were happier days for me. Things in my life were a little... clearer. I’m glad I have those memories.
I am curious. how your relationship ended?
@@astran5970 We were on different paths in life. We loved each other but we had to say goodbye. We both left Europe and moved to different countries.
That sounds so romantic 🥰
That sounds so sweet and amazing. Hope you someday have a contact again with her, cheers and luck man :)
Thank you so much for sharing that ❤️
As a French man, I laughed my ass off.
Well done. :)
Pas mieux, hilare du début à la fin de la vidéo, notamment lorsqu'il fait cul sec avec le verre de vin. J'avoue avoir croisé une fois une américaine dans le métro qui buvait du vin à la bouteille croyant que nous faisions tous de même. Pas besoin de vous dire ce qu'en pensait les autres usagers ^^
Was it accurate or is it the same with French man ?
Why do you think the French so unfaithful and promiscuous? There is a higher incidence of infidelity compared to other cultures.
Calling a woman by the wrong name is not good in any language.
My ex-wife must have been French.
U just made my day Lol😂
Hahahaha!
Would you like to have a russian one?)
What a man! Does not even know from which country his wife is from
Edit 3 years later: Guys i ask forgiveness for my cringe back then
@@witheeeeeerx I believe a woosh is in order
German guy dates a French girl :
How you want to conquer her ?
dunno maybe over Belgium ?
Are you trying to be funny fucktard?
@@radioactivebeans8724 loll butt hurt much
Radioactive beans Im laughing Mate, Chill
Is your name von Schlieffen? Hahaha
I'm Belgian, and I find this funny
OMfG dating a French woman sounds more dangerous than doing astronomical math.
You have no idea..... But it is true that most of what is said is reserved to our dearest Parisian women
Get your Physics in shape, mate.
@jungly one of the most realistic comments I had ever read my friend. 👍
Well yeah, there must be a reason why I avoid going to out Spanish women hahahaha
I’m frightened... laughing, but scared!
I will correct you ...
"You know you are dating a PARISIAN when ..."
Last time i checked paris is in france
Very true
@steven cellugi how am i an idiot? So paris isnt in france? Okay i must be an idiot then. You got me.
@@brocolli17
I think steven's point is that Paris doesn't represent the entire France, even though it is indeed part of France.
As a french man, I can admit that some girls are likely the same that in the video but indeed especially in Paris ^^'
But it's a bit exaggerated, just be fun with her and it should work
This was sooo on spot haha, well done ! Just for the confused people, here's what to remember from it :
- We say what's on our minds
- We are 100 % exclusive from the start
- French relationships are about NOT over thinking things or following guide lines. If something feels natural, do it, if not, abstain. We hate clichés, douchebags and complicated people ;)
haha nice. :)
TAKE A SHOWER.
But YOU are complicated people yourselves!
@@betespatiotemporelle hahahahahahahahahahahaha i died by laughter LMFAOAOAOAOOAOAOAOAOAOAOAOAOA thanks a lot 🤣🤣🤣
@@betespatiotemporelle that's harsh.
To be honest, this does not sound like a pleasant experience....constantly having to tip toe around what you say even when giving compliments and her being intentionally cold and disinterested towards you at certain times does not sound like a healthy relationship.
I m french and I don't think we are trying to be cold, we are just very honest. Americans tends to exagerate their emotions.
Clara Dreams (I’m American) I think the honesty shown in the video is smothering kindness. When the girl knows that she was misinterpreting what he was saying, she still allowed herself to do so, unfairly to him. Yes she was trying to be blunt, but it was _her_ getting emotional, her exerting her emotions too much. Why can’t honesty come with kindness instead of blowing up?
@@jukihiw In my point of vue, I think she was being passionate about what she was saying but I don't think she was mad at HIM. Like for exemple, if someone says something that reminds me of a subject that I really care about, I will probably start a debate about it immediatly and say all that comes to my mind without trying to be kind. But I expect the others to do the same in return, to give me their very honest opinion, and after that we can talk and the debate will calm down naturaly.
And it doesn't matter if it comes from a misunderstanding because by having a debate, at least you will have the opportunity to really understand the other and hopefully you'll never misunderstand him again on this subject.
Clara Dreams But saying all that comes on your mind without trying to be kind, is a lack of self-control. Almost childish to me. (I’m not trying to call you childish, just saying what it sounds like, I’m being very genuine and not demeaning). That doesn’t seem like an effective style of communication-sounds like it’ll just start a fight for everyone but the absolute most patient people on earth
This is more like "You know you are dating a Parisian woman when ..."
Yep!
Totally agree. This arrogant attitude is so typical of Parisian people...
Agreed. Even this American knows that the French are not like this....just Parisians
Paris is NOT France .
Durahan82 Paris is french for France
Actually, historically and by definition, *Paris is France!*
Because Paris was the beginning of French expansion and consolidation, and the region around the capital is even called "Île-de-France"!
No.
So No, that the former capital of France was Orleans, so, again, No.
Paris is a microcosm of arrogant and superficial peoples full of pride, not living real life.
@@Suite_annamite No at the beginning the capital was Soissons
Paris is one small part of france. It doesn't define us (french people) at ALL
I love the idea that dating is serious, and you are automatically not seeing other people! I wish it was more of a thing where I live, but people seem to think it is 'holding each other back' or something. In a way, I think the new 'non exclusive' dating culture is what makes everyone terrified to date. Because if everyone is dating multiple people, how do you know you will be 'picked', and how can you concentrate enough on getting to know the other person?
You don't know you will be picked. You don't know that even if you're exclusive from the start. The person could decide you're not the right one for them. This is whole point of the dating period, to find out if you like each other and are compatible. Sexual and dating exclusivity when you've just started dating someone doesn't make any sense.
I wish it was also a thing in the US and also the same about long distance relationships
@@theprousteffect9717and that is exactly why Americans have a terrible love life. Unless they do it thru their smaller cultures (church, family friends, etc) it usually doesn’t work out. You are an amorphous blob with no direction, no rules, and no cohesion. You treat dating like it’s some corporate job. And then you wonder why your most attractive men don’t even bother marrying with women from your country 😂
This video suggest the level of difficulty in understanding french girls!
More than difficulty, as a french man, I admit that I don't understand them myself! :o XD
For me, there is nothing to understand. What you see is what it is. And what it is, is not for me haha
It's not difficult at all. It's just annoying to any man.
Was about to write the same. Are French women (some of them) really _this_ confused?
+Etienne Decosse Don't try to understand women. "Women are made to be loved, not understood." - Oscar Wilde :) I'm not a French woman btw.
Based on this woman's facial expressions, she switches moods by the second!
Yes, permanently analyzing and reacting to what she expects, and there is no filter, so it may hurt self estime according to your culture. Two important words simple and direct, no séduction too obvious rules. You must show she is unique and expect you to to behave "naturellement". We hate techniques. What is fine in this video is that when you see her eyes, women signals, men have to decode it, act, decode reactions and so on. It may become difficult when a girl is playing with you and you don't understand we're she is going.
In Poland we also don't have that "how are you, I'm fine" culture. If I ask my friend how was his day he will be honest with me and tell me what was good and what was bad. For Polish people always smiling and pretending that everything is ok when it's not is fake. Gretting from Poland🇵🇱😍 ;) I love the French girl
@Japan Japan And that's a good thing. I love pork. And porn. And beer.
I find that to be a slavish cultural trait. Russians have a similar disposition, especially toward needlessly smiling.
Hate polish....
Kocham Polske i ucze sie polskiego (przepraszam nie mam polskiego alfabetu).
@@pat13ntzer0 yeah, russian .like you are better huh? LOL
I took French in college and our TA was from Paris
She once told me that she was confused about American dating
That she didn’t understand why we had to make it official
She said “shouldn’t you just know” lol
yeah that happen also in italy, if you ask a girl out you just say "do you wanna go for a beer or a drink" and it's understood that is date even if it's not said specifically
Seems in Poland it's the same. It would feel awful if you find out that person you are dating is into someone else.
I am from from America and always found this confusing. Sounds like I have something in common with Europe’s way of dating.
It's the same across Europe, not just France.
As a Male from the USA i can tell you this most of us are idiots.
Do we talk about the fact that i'm french but i'm still reading the English subtitles when they talking in french 😭😭😂😂
Asma Mdn same happened to me when i was watching the Turkish version lol
Asma Mdn مليح
guiness bottle
Asma Mdn فاقو بيك
Asma Mdn Sa
Same 😂 (except that I'm Swiss). We are just making sure that they translated correctly 😂😂
You know you’re dating a french when she strikes every 2/3 month or so .
Stupid myth, that comes from a minority of leftists (teachers and SNCF)
@@ME-eu9sf COMMRADE STALIN IS NEVER WRONG!!!!
I agree. Rebellious streak is ingrained by our education system.
@@ME-eu9sf Mdr. Les gens qui font des grèves sont pas tous de gauche, y a des gens de droite et même des fachos.
@@ME-eu9sf On voit que t'es jamais allé manifester toi..
This may be a bit generalistic...but I've heard that once you've made a friend with a French person...you've made a friend for life. Many tend to be very loyal friends. I've met one French person and he's super cool and definitely a friend for life.
C'est pas la femme française mais la parisienne. Et puis le cliché de la fumeuse... C'est dommage.
tout à fait d'accord avec toi !
Safsoufa exactement d'accord avec toi aussi ahah
En disant ce type de commentaire, Tu affirmes ton individualité et ton opinion, Confirmant donc les points abordé de la vidéo .... Cliché ? et bien peut être pas finalement !
oui exactement!
D'accord exactement
I've read a lot of comments about how difficult dating a french girl seems to be ... so let's just say yes : most french girls will speak their minds whenever they feel like it ... just like french men actually. To us frenchies, this is not about complaining or ranting all the time, but rather about HAVING an OPINION. When we share our opinion, we french people, do not mean any harm or anyhting. Most of the time we're mostly curious. We want to know your thoughts about our opinions and we usually leave the conversation open, so you can share your own ideas as well if you feel like it.
When the girl in the video reacts to the idea of a "dress being more feminine than pants", she doesn't mean to lash at her boyfriend, but instead she tells him her opinion about the matter. In the end she basically says:" I don't need to wear dresses to feel like a woman." A sensible french boyfriend would have LISTENED to her, instead of just being offended by her "feminists reaction". At this point, a boyfriend is not expected to apologies or anything, because this is where he is supposed to share his own opinions instead. He could have said: "Of course, you look gorgeous in pants too , that's not the point ! The point is: seeing you in a dress turns me on even more. Maybe it makes me old fashionned, but that's just how I feel !"
So in the end of this conversation, what do we have ? We have 2 human beings who just shared their opinion about dresses. The girlfriend now knows she might put on a dress to please her boyfriend. The boyfriend knows she is an independent woman who will not let any man tell her how to dress ... and he could also have a look at Simone de Beauvoir's writtings, even just to show how interested he is in her opinions. In a word, they get to know each other ! What's could be wrong about it ?
Exactly! There are a lot of people who don't actually have anything to say, or at the very least, don't want a woman who does.
Yawn, I'm dying of boredom
yes :)
stupid people statements who make generalization because they don't want to use theur brain are, in general worthless. Period @630247365
but you will not see people as they really are @630247365
I'm half French and couldn't date a French woman if she gets upset about calling her outfit feminine. Life's too short not to appreciate a kind hearted compliment.
Me too and im also half french
I am French from the northern in a country side this is just a huge cliche the Parisian women are not all the French women 😁 🙄😉as Paris is not the entire France so will be great if the foreigners go in an other places in our wonderful country where people live like real French with our traditional food natives languages and culture and not the cliches for tourist 😡
@Christianno Moura Vasconcelos what do yoy mean? 'Cuz of African and Middle eastern immigrants?
Yes you are right,
I heard it from many people living 2 years In Paris after I move to small city in country side but it were the same .since 2016 I didn't had sex in France. Shame on french women's.
La plus part des choses dites sont vrai à ton avis pourquoi de plus en plus d'homme français ce casse chercher leur femmes dans d'autres pays les femmes français la plus part sont infâmes castratrices méchante et ce comporte comme des princesse etc c'est malheureux mais c'est de + en + vrai et les exception deviennent rare
Please teach me about France.
Where would you recommend a person visit in France?
As a french woman, I never dated before but holy christ this video was so relatable on a personal level!! I'm impressed, thumbs up to you people :)
Niiiice! Thanks, Sarah. :)
It was one that I have been wanting to make for a long time. French culture is a very interesting one to focus on for me
Dating Beyond Borders I never understood why people love our culture so much but it's funny to see it ourself from an outsider's point of view, really, I have a stupid smile every time 😂
Sarah M are you still single?
Elliose Cool uhm...yes? Sadly I guess X,D but I kind of see how couples behave around me
Sarah M Wow great then, I'm single as well, so would you be interested to be in touch and get to know each other?
I love her face when she says "non merci" at the beginning, typical parisian woman :D
its no merci.not non merci.sorry big thing for a french girl like me
Qu'est-ce que vous racontez ? Elle dit "non merci".
lol do u even french
Wtf HP 4 life she said Non merci why on earth would she say no merci thats dosent make any sense
Ron you're right she says " Non merci" harry potter ça n'a pas de sens no merci
As an Australian dude, with a beautiful French partner, I felt this! The biggest clash of cultures relationship wise 😂❤️. But I can say at least in my case French girls are worth it! But you left out getting used to how often you’ll be required to talk about food
I got a lot of comments from you saying that while you agree with the points, it seems like there is not a lot of positive about dating a French woman. I would have to say that while making the videos I try not to think "Ah! Now I have to put something positive". I try to present each culture with as much honesty as I can. It saddens me to read comments like "Well, now I will never date a French woman again" since that is not at all what I was trying to show. I love that you take my videos so seriously, but come on, guys! Sure, French women are generally quite opinionated and individualistic but that doesn't mean you cannot now compliment her for fear she will give you a speech on feminism or order wine for her without her making a face. These are just examples and should not be taken this seriously. It is just something to make a point, not the Holy Grail. Just enjoy and don't avoid a whole culture because of one video. ;)
Seriously, i watched all single video in this account but i dont know why, this one is really the worst one. eg i really enjoyed Russian Turkish Chiness Israil Greek Indian
It seems people took the point. "Individualistic and opinionated" are nice ways of saying they will preach at you, and are intolerant to others' views. Though to be honest, I always thought it was worse in the USA (at least, areas like California).
Classic Marina: funny, tongue-in-cheek, and not afraid to talk about anything. ;)
Well-made, as always, good acting, and I'm glad your new cameraman(woman?) is working out for you. Andrew's departure hasn't diminished the quality of your videos one iota. :D
Some suggestions for future content: if you do a video about Norwegian men, look up the youtube channel 'Pistolshrimps.' Those guys are hilarious, and maybe they'll do a parody on their channel. ;)
Another idea is 3 things men/women love about the opposite sex, and 3 things men/women love it when the opposite sex does them. It'll be neat to see what is consistent across cultures, and what differs.
Best luck with your next video! :D
Dating Beyond Borders it's not bad being opinionated if you're educated on what you're saying and have a big real criteria with a lot of culture. The problem is if you're feminazi opinionated and all your arguments are related to 'feminism' or feminazism hembrism, misandric view of point, that's the problem because even the mostly percent of women see 'feminism', feminazism as something negative and fuck up. I have the idea that French specially parisin people are well educated and had rich knowledge in everything like history, literature, geography, science, food, everything in general, like Germans but more, so of course everybody will be opinionated and it's justified as all I have said, not like Americans because they're all opinionated but they're ignorant, neurotic, stupid and stubborn, and it's all about they're personal agenda they want to impose to everyone, they're like politicians always in campaign but speaking of things they doesn't know in a very hysterical, neurotic and emotional sick way. But with French I think is quite the opposite maybe they're opinionated because they know what are they talking about, but Paris people like to complain more than usual, I see on this that can be turned in to a positive things, if you're responsible citizen that get involve I'm the politics of your country maybe you can take it seriously and act to make changes for the benefit of the people, not like in Mejico that everything is funny, you have to always relate everything with a joke, everything is jajajajajajajajajajajaja and no one take things seriously to act and change the country, but that's how social engineering works and we're designed here, so the famous brave and tough legendary Mexican revolutionary can be extinct, and it's a happy world like Aldous Huxley predicted. So I think it's not bad to be opinionated like French people just not be a freaking grinch or a feminazi, or like an American idiot.
And in relation with the mind games stuff, in Mejico girls do it, test the men to knowing, but with the Base of romance and love, respect and not going to far, or that use to be after feminazism because younger generations has problems of not going to far with that, or be prejudicial about it depending of the state or city, and pretty or good looking chics usually are more open or free and just let themselves go in romance that the ones are kind of pretty or are normal or ugly. By the way I'm withe we're not all monkeys, depends of the region that you're you will find a prevalence of withe or brown people, is not the same the north that the south that the occidental part of the country. But Europeans in general are very welcome, well everybody except for gringos Americans we hate them, and Peruvian they're stupid, porteños from Argentina, and also I particularly I don't like south Koreans, they like to come with their factorys and slave people, children, teens, women, beating up their employees, arrestment women, and is not one or three companies it's more. Well, have you a video of dating a Mexican men?, you can't make a video with migrants on USA, they're usually very ignorant about their own country Mejico because the lack of education that's why they're there, and different region different type of men, and in the region between states or cities are differences, so you better come here because we're all different, brown are different than withe Mexicans, the North men are different from the ones from the south or center or occident, Mejico has almost the size of Europe. If you don't want or can struggle much focus on the withe men of the center, Querétaro, Aguascalientes, Zacatecas, San Luis Potosí, Puebla, or maybe just take Guadalajara if you don't have time or resources, and don't take a brown guy ass example because they're ugly and a freaking stereotype that gringos believe religiously that we all are and it's misinformation, and it's annoying.
Dating Beyond Borders Do a video about dating a Mexican man
Is this really how foreigners see us? Please don't think all women in France are like this because it's not true. I'm a french woman and I can't relate to this woman. We are not all arrogant and we don't argue for no reason.
Evi1M4chine maybe she will come to you
Evi1M4chine
Not in Paris to begin with . Try the countryside or the south they are nicer and warmer .( more jealous tho )
Hi S (Sofía) I hope you see this. I'm kind of afraid 😨 of dating a frensh girl. I felt like it was an immigration interview rather than dates. I thought 💭 that French girls were more soft smiley and romantic. In the video 📹 she "killed him" by her behavior like: "I DON'T LIKE THE CHOICE OF WINE 🍷 THAT YOU PICKED"...:o I mean if someone really tries their best why be like that COLD ❄ to someone that doesn't know the culture that well but tries his best.
How that you can explain a little bit about this please. Hugs and love from Sweden 🇸🇪
Caracol Caracolito Hi, I can assure you that in France, someone who answer to someone else's effort to please her like she did is considered as a jerk. I think the point here, which has been shown badly, is that a french woman will most probably tell you when you do something 'wrong'. But only when you've been together long enough (never in the begining of the relationship, when you are just exploring eachother), it is done in a nice way, not to hurt her partener feelings, and she actually expect him to do the same. This is to prevent any misunderstanding in the future, honnesty toward eachother is part of respect and essential for the relationship to last. If you want to please her, you would like to know for sure that she is really pleased (because you know her well) not wondering if she just pretend to, to be polite, right ?
In the begining of a relationship (like in the video) she will definitely apreciate the effort and be grateful. If you pursue your relationship she will later let you know subtlely (or not 😅) what her real taste is, so that you know and that next time she says 'I love it' she means it 😉
A little piece of Jimin that floats in the air Hi. I think the last thing you said is wonderful: that she would tell you later what she thinks. And I agree with you that is the thing to do. :3 I travel a lot so I was dating a girl and (sorry to say) but I almost tripped over the fucking big carpet at the entry of an shopping mall so my hand "bumped" into her butt (I was looking for something to hang on to). And of course I felt so embarrassed 😳 but she smiled at me and quietly said "it's OK" she took muy arm under her arm and we kept walking.
Another time in a dark environment (it was dark outside and dark in the car 🚙) and I was looking to touch her hand or grab her fingers gently buuuuut my hand ended up close to her upper part of her thigh (where the intimate private space of a woman begins) and I can Assure everyone that are reading 📖 this: is not sexy at all. 😢 😢 I guess I just wanted to cry and die and be at the other part of the world 🗺. And in those seconds you start to think stupid things because you are nervous for several reasons (other part of the world 🗺 other cultures and ways of thinking more conservative ways of thinking etc) mainly because you are on a Rendezvous that turns out to take the shape of a date.
So she treated me nicely softly softly softly (I was stiff in my whole body looking out the window of the car 🚙 planning the nearest exit and escape route from there...xD) we talked about something and I guess at some point you have to turn back and look at her which I did and when we was about to say goodbye to each other we leaned forward and cheek to cheek to do the "kiss in the air" -thing while we went back from the goodbye kiss our noses 👃 slightly touched each other, we said something for the sake of saying lol 😂 again we where about to say goodbye and after the second goodbye kiss she kissed me at my cheek, moved her lips from the air to my cheek to my lips and we kissed so slowly and wonderfully. :3
She forgived me regarding my hand 🖐 error and of course one could argue that she forgived me because she liked me, that maybe a girl that is not in to the guy would be more cold and non forgiving. And girls look at what I am about to say: it's so damm fu+*@#ing HOT 🔥 when a girl is cute understanding treats you nice witha set of details (touch you arm hands smiles "Says with a voice of caring: " I can get that for you cutie 🤗 😘")
But my point is that you girls should try to be more careful and forgiving because most guys are really TRYING they are nervous the heart ♥ is pumping not LITERS of blood in the body it's pumping ⛽ TONS of blood because the guy could be NERVOUS...😂
So all girls heads up here because if we are talking about "Dating across the borders" it's more hard to date, than when you are in your own country. My tips are:
Be extra:
careful
forgiving
mindful.
It's like courtesy with a touch of gentleness and politeness. :) Because a lot of people are so angry (for example in some comments on the internet) and I think that when you date over boarders you should be able to try to be more sweet to each other regardless if it is a date or if it is another X event.
I was in France as a kid and was so nice because I bumped in to two girls my age at that time (15) and we where using a lot of: "oui oui suede passport oui oui :D" and it was so nice because frensh people in that time usually didn't liked to speak 🔊 English so those girls really did an big effort to communicate. It's sweet. Hugs 🤗 to all kind mindful French people out there. Viva 🙌 France 🇫🇷
Hey all! Ok - so you have been asking me for 2 years for this video and I'm happy to say I finally made it. As you can see I went all the way to Paris. Just for one day. Seriously.
So if you are here just to say "Make a (insert country) woman video" or "I'm still waiting on (insert country) video" let's just take a pause on demanding and leave me a thoughtful comment about this one first ;) It was not an easy one to make.
Dating Beyond Borders its good video, this time i noticed that quotes in the video were really long like a paragraph?
This video also looks to have different style compare to your other videos, it's different. May be the French wanted you make it like this 😁😁
New videographer and editor. We wanted to try a new style :) Also -- there was a lot to say!
Dating Beyond Borders please do one on carabean girls (jamaican)
Yeah you did it ! :D
The only French girls I have ever dated were from southern France - Lyon and Languedoc. I met them in Mexico. They were very different than the French girls, described in this program. They did not wear heavy makeup. They were not moody or confrontational at all, but very definitely independent. Delightful to be around from dawn to dusk. They had very pleasant dispositions. The one thing that surprised me was that they constantly had a cigarette or joint in their hands, except when eating, doing physical activities or playing a musical instrument. I thought that was a little odd. They were "lady like" actually sexy in their smoking, but didn't quite understand, why they needed to smoke so much.
I don't know dude 45% of italians smoke 33% of french smoke same for spain it's like ther'es a triangle of bermuda smokers here
@@marcnawezi1877 45% Italians? Not true
I dated a French woman for about 2 years. I think this depiction is pretty accurate, however, there were some slight differences which may be because she was from an older generation than the woman in this video. She was very sexual and she certainly didn't mind compliments about her femininity. In the end though, we just lived too far apart. However, I loved her ability to read emotions in other people. I felt her emotional intelligence was quite high. Like any country, you will find assholes and princesses.
I’m Canadian but my family is french and so I grew up with french culture and when I started dating my girlfriend I never asked her out and never thought twice about it because I thought that we were already a thing but she told me a few months into our relationship that I never asked her out and so I ended up having to ask her out and make it “official”. It wasn’t a big deal at all but it just shows the culture differences between French culture and North American culture.
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Dating a French girl: the "very hard" difficulty level of your average video game...
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One thing about women in france is that as a man, if you critcise a woman, people will not like it, even if your girlfriend cheated on you. You're supposed to chill and not complain...
I'm a french woman and this video makes me kind of sad... It doesn't show any qualities :(
I don't know why but dis video was depressing for me😂
Are there any good qualities in French women? You didn't deny that the video is wrong.
Libellule Turquoise maybe because you dont have any. this vídeo is a heads up for the mesmerized foreigners who may wanna have a relationship with a french gal
@@joshua50101 you all are so mean
@@adele3900 C'est juste qu'ils veulent des filles qui restent bien gentiment à leur place et que la majorité des françaises ne sont pas comme ça ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I am the kind of French girl that say "I hate French clichés", but I do like this video. I think it's fun, and quite accurate in fact. A bit caricatural but that's the case with all of these videos, so I don't mind.
Thank you for all your hard work, I'm looking forward your next video :)
Welll, thank you :) We worked hard to make it "non-cliche" ";)
Aurore Durand hello how are you ?
I dont understand the number of negative comments. Personally I love to date the women such as the one in the video. She has her own opinion on everything and can argue with you on different topics so you are never bored with her. Definitely better than some dumb chick who only cares about Gucci and her manicure.
Paul V. Arguing is one thing, nagging is another, I don't hate an intelligent woman who has her opinions on things and can put them forward in an intelligent manner but the woman portrayed here was just butthurt over everything and seemed to be terrible at arguments.
Tru that
Yeah the not dating you for money it call economic.
Im French and I can tell you its just boring after a moment.
If you like to argue too, you will eventually block about a disagreement.
Dont' go to France. Eastern European women are sexier and more faithful.
Do try Eastern Europe.
As a European, I was just shocked by Canadians trying to date several girls at the early stages and picking the best one. I just can't understand it with my mentality
I’m an American, and I’ve never understood that mentality either. Then again, I’ve always felt like a foreigner in many ways living here. I’ve never been interested in Americans. This kind of mentality towards dating is the consumerism mentality applied to all ways of living here. It’s all incentivized on the end, illusive reward. It’s by far the most programmed place in the world, which makes sense. A country of immigrants (at least the major cities), they take advantage of the broken roots and broken families, lack of community and connection, and spackle it with instant gratification through materialism, artificial food, and sparkly things on the surface to mend the lack of true happiness. Makes for great profits. Americans shop for their fantasy mate in the same way. It’s very weird, dating is akin to a job interview in many ways. “What can I get out of you?”
@@ChristineNavarroTV Right? It’s so funny and ironic because there’s this stereotype that Americans have of the French, I.e. having side pieces and the spouse know but look away, yet that is what our culture does. We may or may not know if people date others and it’s a mystery and we are suppose to be okay with the outcome. It drives people like myself crazy.
I don't understand the shock. What's wrong with finding out who has the most suitable qualities, or who is the most virtuous or even the best sense of humour? If you're going to start a family with someone, for the children's sake, you need to make the best possible decision you can. After all, you'd interview several potential candidates for a waitressing job in your restaurant wouldn't you, yet not the same rigour for someone who was to be the mother of your children?
@@jayaybe1 Cuz for workplaces, nothing is really personal and everything is explicitly geared towards quantifiable ends (earning money and profitting)! Finding a spouse is far more personal and involves also qualitative things you cannot just address with statistics/the scientific method...
I know there are a lot of people complaining in the comments, but I think people are overlooking the common thread between these clips. French women have a genuine nature. In every regard they are being honest about how they feel and in what they want. There is no second guessing if the really liked the flowers they were given or they food they were eating. They prefer something else? They say as much.
So many complain about women in the U.S. saying they're "Fine." or "I'm okay." When it's clear they aren't, but they see an example of woman who is actually clear about what she feels and are complaining about that too?
If you are a person that complains about women not being clear about what they want while also complaining about women who *are* clear about what they want then please understand that *you* are the person unnecessarily complaining, not these women. If you are not a person that does this, then this doesn't apply to you.
to quote a famous Brit: "a spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down".
We want kind and genuine women.
Not those little nasty bitches.
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well, am not French, but as a grown Azz woman, I wouldn't like a man going around Dating multiple women at the same time until he chooses one to be with exclusively. Like what's that? The Bachelor? I am not your toy. like,what culture even endorses that?
Rosa
I always considered if you go out once. and plan to go out on another date.its exclusive!!! I never understood why other guys need to date more than one woman. I want to get to know the woman I'm seeing. You can not do that when you seeing 2,3 or more ! That's just me though. Some of the things that guys do that are "wrong" or offensive. Like in these videos . I am thinking why would you do that!!! It's just a matter of being respectable and treat others like you want to be treated! I do line these videos though!!
Because we don’t trust you guys when your text 3-5 guys
yeah that's crazy most people (guys? haha) here in the comment section are reacting about the girl's behavior, which is obviously a cliché to be fun. But no one seems to be shock about what the man says. And then they insults feminist? I don't understand...
She wants to play hard to get and have the man do all the approaching for her... but wants to be completely disassociated with being "feminine" and takes offense when she's told she looks lady-like. Sounds like an entitled brat to me.
I don't think that the woman in the video is not feminine
Why do so many women not like being feminine?
I think everybody is different and wants to show it differently. There are many ways to be "feminine" @@et5895
@@auroraborealis6398 so why not just express it in that way? If it can mean different things, treat it as such.
I don't understand your answer @@et5895
0:18 she replied when you said hello. A real parisian girl would never do that, no she would just pretend you're invisible or look at you as if you slaughtered a litter of cats in front of her.
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I am French and I can say this is pretty accurate! Well done :)
Thank you! :)
fat ugly women usually go with fat ugly men.... y a pas de fumée sans feu.
Sarah Sophia how do you with such attitude even reproduce. Men must hate ya'll. I'd be avoiding such personalities at any price 😂
KRaikkonenSF i' m brazilian too and this is just exemple like man can be stupid regardless of where you are
Dragoslav Vega Vasconcelös better being fat and ugly than being arrogant and rude like you😂
This Quebecois guy is definitely French :) But otherwise excellent description of the French woman. 200% mind game.
Yes, he is. Can't even deny that!
haha that's what they say
Was this in Canada? Like Quebec?
they are very masculine men. Like men from 500 years ago. I am the man. You are the woman. Very clear cut. No soft men with mangina's.
im quebecois
of course he is not Quebecios. He doesn't have a horrible accent.
Look outside of Paris and you'll meet many wonderful women that are far less snobby.
Still very opinionated, but I think it's charming :)
As someone who is slowly turning into what the Japaneses may call a hikiko mori, I have nothing to do with dating life, but it's nice knowing the mindsets of people in faraway lands whom I may never encounter.
I see nothing wrong with the French girl being herself, but I really don't get the idea of non-exclusive dating. Extremely weird for an Asian mind like me. But hey what do I know.
Actually for many (but not all) French people, exclusive dating is more or less the norm, although I feel like things have been changing for the younger generations. It really baffled me as well when I heard of the concept of "non-exclusive dating", it feels almost like cheating in a way when you're not used to it
Do you not want to date? You should get out there and meet people.
@@ruskasielu6261 No, in the video, it was the Americans who were non-exclusive dating. The French are the opposite.
how are you doing bro ?
Heyyy how are youuu? You good?
I'm French and I wouldn't bear being friend with that girl 😂
Menteuse 😃
I live in France and this is very accurate haha. I didn't expect it to be that on point
Yess! So happy to hear that. Put tons of research into this one and my cast/crew helped a lot!
all her videos are well researched and almost 99% accurate.
mais tg
Sorry little troll, that's not happening :)
Aïcha Diagne Ignore him.
been here for years and this is on point!!!! French women are hopeful romantics and dating doesn't exist here at all! either you're together or you're not!!! They play hard to get but they're not that hard...they love to go out to eat so you better take her out!! I'd call them faithful... but since french people complain a lot expect her to be very naggy or as we say in french "CHIANTE" ... LOOL
Thomas More well that's your opinion...
Ptn chiante is the word haha
According to polls, France is the 5th most unfaithful country in the world. 4th place in Europe
Van Ivanov i hope spain, Italy and Sweden are before them
"you are together or you are not".well, what did you expect? do you want to play games? going around dating as many women as u want? Ain't nobody got time for that
"i hate cliches...what some more cheese?"
XD
That's one of the truest clichés about france :) cheese is exteemely common.
And most of us also buy bread every day.
The French attitude to dating is as complex as the French existentialist philosophy! ;)
At 1:10 WTF are they talking about hahahaha. Here's a translation if you don't speak French:
"-Come on, he could've commited suicide somewhere else, I'm really tired of this.
-This is when girls remind you of bikes, it's not that stupid.
-Yes with our hair!
-Sometimes there are trapped packages and suicidal people, you can't do anything about it"
haha What!? I didn't know that. I will let them know that everyone knows now that they were talking nonsense.
Is it some deep French joke? Because I certainly don't understand the bike comment and 'without hair'.
Miami Beach Yeah it's the only think that makes sense, but the "girl reminds you of bikes" comment is very strange hahaha
It does make sense. You misunderstood what they're saying and thus translated it wrong. :) They're talking about whether they should stop using the métro. The guy says "C'est vrai les filles à un moment donné il faut penser au vélo", loose translation: "True, girls, at one point maybe you should think about cycling (ie to work)" (instead of using the métro which isn't that fast because of all the problems with suicides and so on). And the girl says "with our hair?" because she thinks cycling to work will mess up her hair. I hope this helps. 😊
Justin Case Wow je l'avais vraiment pas compris comme ça! J'avais vraiment compris "C'est là que les filles font penser aux vélos quand même"
You know you are dating a FRENCH woman when she refuses to speak English with you.
Thats parisian
@James lol 😂
i have a french girlfriend and we speak english like 90% of the time what are you on...
@@Mark-eu6mc no i dont give a fuck about english language. Im in my country i speak the langage of my country and foreigner have just to adapt to me
@@jeangontranceabdoulmaleekb5185 not even french lol
I heard it while french men ideally loves Russian women , French women loves scandinavian men.
I'M FRENCH ITALIAN AND I LOVE COLOMBIAN WOMEN. THEY ARE THE BEST.
@@mercibeaucoup2639 I’m American and they are the best haha.
i'm french and i like german guys
Definitely, French women are a beautiful puzzle ☺️ admirable, smart, sweet and strong souls! A friend from Mexico says hello to all of you 🙃
Thank you ! With all the horrible comments I have read, I needed this ! =)
One of the first positive comments I ve seen that far!
Well I am myself french and I dont find us particularly crazy or scary (that is just my opinion of course) but I get that people may not be used to us because of our tendency to speak our minds and be quite blunt! I personally see it as a strengh because I do not refrain from being myself just because people don't like it! French girls (even though everyone is different) may show an exterior that look cold or bitchy from what I gathered in the comments but they are just normal and loving when you get to know them! The thing about religion is really an issue I ve not encountered yet! And as for feminism it is also completely exagerated in the video ! But yeah we re nice at heart!😊
To be honest I don't see how the feminist thing has become a whole debate. To me (french adult man (I specify because on the itnernet you never know...)) the feminist mindset is a mark of lack of confidence and need for validation. So not that good in my opinion and tbh, it's not just my opinion. Now some will like it anyways everyone's got his own take on the subject.
Besides, if you feel challenged by such petty things, perhaps you're lacking in confidence :)
Since the first time I watch Before the sunrise movie I've had this feeling I would love to date a french woman.
Really confusing video
confusing just like the french people are confusing and strange
They are incredibly arrogant, they DON'T shower that much and are always making scenes!!!
French women are the worse! I'm European and it's well known here you do not want to marry one!
I feel this clip sums up the stereotypes of Parisian people: quite confrontational, moody and often complaining about anything. Yes, it is true that a lot of people are actually like that in Paris, but that's a generalization and there is also a lot of people that are very relatable, kind, well-educated, curious and sociable.
I lived in Paris for almost two years and after the initial cultural shock it wasn't too hard to quickly fit in, have a social circle of friends, a girlfriend and be happy. But a very important thing to keep in mind is that if you live in France you must learn French, and this is not a small detail. Learning the language there is an absolutely mandatory skill, unlike anywhere else in the world: for some reason, most French people seem to really HATE having to speak English and sometimes even when they are english speakers they literally refuse to communincate in any Language except French. Unless you learn French you will likely not fit in. But when you fit in, voila, you are in a great place full with interesting people.
Ha ha ha ha, I would put up side down your text and then it would be right
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I would like to explain why we hate to speak english. We find our accent so bad and the english way of articulate is not natural at all for us. It's like we feel as disabled people when we do (if we are not used to).
@@behemoth8399 Thank you for your explanation. But that's exactly the same feeling everyone else has when speaking in another language: Italians, Spanish, Portuguese, all of us have a hard time pronouncing the "alien" sounds of English language. Still, we don't refuse to speak English when someone who doesn't speak our language addresses us in English. I've have had this strange experience only in France (well, only in Paris, to be precise). And it was not a single episode: it was something that happened almost systematically. I may be wrong, but I had the strong feeling that this "resistence" has something to do with something almost ideological, that may be summarized as "When in France, French is the language, period". But this is just my impression, so I may be wrong.
According to some friends of mine from France, another possible explanation may be that French used to be the "lingua franca", before English replaced it, and there is some kind of resentment about it.
@@emiquetzalkoala4288 As a French dude grown up in Burgundy and living in Paris for 4 years, I'm pretty sure you are wrong on the point "in France you speak French" mentality, it's a common mistake. It may exist but marginally. I don't personally know people who would refuse to answer in english except the ones whose english is very bad. I do think parisians might be tired to repeat the same thing without be understood and they don't want to lose time, plus there are a lot of french words in the english language so it often happens to us to be understood while speaking french, the less trained of us would very often try (that's why you will often hear french people in the US try to express them in french).
Then people in France are often prouds and don't want to look ludicrous particularly parisians. I don't think it is always the same feeling for all languages, I don't feel it when I try to speak spanish or deutsch, more for russian. I think it really is a way to articulate which is very demanding for us.
my girlfriend is french and she was shocked how realistic video this is, please continue making more (she is a non-binray vanilla goddess)
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Very cool. A French prof. said French women were wonderful. In the office very professional, after work they were women, they left the office behind. I found French women, the few I had the privilege of meeting and working with, wonderful. Very engaging, affectionate. Even spontaneous and engaging in light chat on the metro. Very little if any, pretence. Thanks for this great blog.
@chillicheesefry good
this is one of the most complicated episodes I've ever watched!!!
Yeah so basically run away as fast as you can from them. Gotcha
french language is enough to get me into the sensual mode XD
French dating videos: a kiss means the start of a relationship!
Me: ...isn't it like that... In every country...?
no
No what country aru from?
Hell no
This video is different in the sense a French man is dating a French girl, although diff country😁
He says he comes from Montreal in this video, but he really has the French accent and not French Canadian.
Totally agree. And yes - I gotta admit, I cheated it with this one. I could not for the life of me find a non-French actor so we had to get a French one!
Nice vd. but that actor is a moron. Look what he is doing at the end of the vd. The actress is talented and gorgeous .
A lot of french people do not feel at home in Paris. Maybe if the Quebecois went to the working class areas of France they would feel more at home.
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This video just made me laugh a lot. I dated a French girl from Bordeaux if thats correct. She was so, romantic? But at the same time kinda crazy, and was so common to talk to her or say smthing maybe she didnt like and hear a "putain" and more French words that you are like... Okay what did you said? "Nothing" :)
Also i had those moments where i said smthing she liked and just started to laugh red like a tomato and saying also French words i didnt even understand. French girls are really complicated, but adorables hahaha
Yes, that's correct. You *did* date that girl from Bordeaux!
Less about happy endings, more about the experience ❤️
Wow, I never thought about dating a French women before this video because I always got the impression that they were incredibly arrogant; but I like their approach of relationship. I don't like the North American 'game' mindset and the idea of clear stages. I find the French approach more genuine and natural. Marina, great job again! I like the cast as well- both actors are very likeable. Just one note- the texts at 2:39 and 4:25 were insightful but a bit too long; I needed to pause the video to read them through. Otherwise, the video is very nicely produced. I am looking forward to your next work!
Thank you :) Happy you liked it! And yes -- you are right. It might have been a bit too long. I had so much to say, but I should have toned it down a bit
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They are incredibly arrogant, they DON'T shower that much and are always making scenes!!!
French women are the worse! I'm European and it's well known here you do not want to marry one!
akx good comment buddy. Exactly expressed everything in my mind to the bits.
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U are not European.. Ip = North america... Liar and jealous haha !
Weak in your head
AirMix he could be a european moved to USA recently?
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French women are more Complicated than Quantum Mechanics... 😅
French women are very nice and charming, cheers from Italy!
Leonardo: Thanks! And Italian men are very charming too! Just the language does it for me! I love Italy, the most beautiful country in Europe!
@@roberto3193 scusa a me piacciono le francesi per i miei gusti personali, se a te non piacciono meglio per me.
@@roberto3193 Non potrei essere più d'accordo.
@@roberto3193 D'altronde è una reazione naturale, siamo fessi noi ed i francesi a dare troppe attenzioni, questo è ahimè il risultato.
@@Roar902 Ma io mi trasferisco a parigi e vorrei capi ste francesi che ho sentito che sono difficili da approciare ma è vero? o sono piu complicate le italiane
Ok as a french woman I can say that french women are much more cheerfull and smiling than that. I would find really lame to say that a dress is feminine indeed, but wouldn't react crazy and bringing Simone de Beauvoir in the conversation like that would be considered to be ridiculus,
i was sceptical, but the overwhelming feedback of french people approoving the video is fascinating.
Wow. This wasn't my experience at all when I visited France. The French women I met were some of the warmest, most hospitable people I've ever met. Then again I mainly traveled around Normandy and only interacted with non-Parisians in Paris so maybe this video is more of a Parisian woman thing.
Liar. French women are cold, even in Marseille they run away.
Besides, nobody will host you if you are in the street in France.
There is no love in France anymore.
Don't go to France.
There are many different types of persons in each country. The same in France! That girl looks more like the "parisian girl" cliché (not a the type of person that I personally like) than the average french woman ^^
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I'm a Vietnamese guy, and I dated an Algerian girl from Marseille...
and yeah, everybody says that it's basically "Parisians vs. everyone else" in every aspect of life in France.
Oh my God. I'm French of African descent, and it is SCARY how I tend to have the same overintellectural reactions.
Living overseas for like 14 years taught me to tone down the opinionated stream though...I'm getting there. >__
There's over 3 billion women on the planet, not hard to cross off French women and go for someone more chill. This coming from someone who did study abroad, an internship, and worked in France for 3 years.
correct me if I'm wrong but women are more than men in this world
@ItsTheEndOfTheWorldAsWeKnowIt Z more dogs than cats
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Well that's weird. In my country there's way more women than men, and in my city the male to female ratio is 1>15.
There's actually 6,3 million more women than men.
@@angelicelly_904 1:15 ? That's pretty rough.. What do the other fourteen women do ?
@@sortsvane We cry and die of loneliness 😭😭😭😭😭
You know you are dating a French woman when you begin to lose your grip on your sanity.
Quite true
She tests your strengh
As beautiful as she is, it seems way to much like hard work trying to say and do the right thing. Spanish girls are also all for equal rights, but are far more approachable.
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Spain is paradise for feminists.
Absolutely ... Spanish hospitability culture and warmth make the difference.
@@MrFreeman0179 You have clearly never been, or are oblivious to the macho culture which still exists.
@@Cervando no way omg ,Spain is so liberal .go to eastern Europe to see machos lol
For those of you who are curious, the conversation at 1:15 went like this :
- Black haired girl : "They should have committed suicide elsewhere. I'm so tired of this!"
- Guy : "What about cycling, girls?"
- Black haired girl : "With hair like that?"
- Blond girl : "So what? There are suspicious packages, suicidal people... We can't do anything about it!"
I think they're talking about the Paris metro and its delays and cancellations caused by suspicious luggage and suicides.
So French people are definitely known to complain a lot and can be quite insensitive at times
More parisians (and people from all other big cities) than the rest of frenchies :D
I spent 4 days on an adventure with a French girl and I can say this is true! They have a lot of character and act rude sometimes lol
all your videos are 100% genius, but THIS one is beyond...beyond...just incredible!
Oooh La La French women make me feel I am in love
I'm French and I agree with the exclusive thing, we prefer to try one person at a time, and we are not in a rush to find someone at all cost as soon as possible. And the complaining, I have done it on purpose in the past in a way of "testing" the guy, to see what is his way of replying to negativity but maybe that's just me
To people saying French women are basically announcing, they only speak their mind. So yes they complain but if you spoke your mind wouldn’t you? They just basically say what they think stop saying they’re just a pain in the ass
I'd love to see one on Icelandic men! I have lived in Canada all my life (descended from Portuguese), I have never been to Iceland, never met an Icelander, so I can say without bias that I am absolutely fascinated by them and their country, and would love to see them covered in this series! :D
Plus, I've heard some talk that because Iceland is waterlocked, Icelanders don't have much variety and the gene pool is getting smaller and smaller with every generation (I think I heard it said that every Icelander is probably at least 8th cousins with everyone else in the country). Therefore, when a foreigner shows up, Icelandic men take notice and get their dating game on.
Now, I'm not sure if that's completely true, I guess I would need someone from Iceland to confirm for me, BUT if that really is true, that bodes well for this single girl if she ever decides to finally visit Iceland...
The young go to the night clubs, US American culture, small chance if you are French !
If you are lucky, somebody can meet you, drink something, talk to you, and ask you 15' after "Do you want to go out with me ?" :-D . They say it gets more complicated after.
Quite open about sex, there is a museum of penises and they don't mind if you are homosexual.
37 % divorce rate, maybe more when the time of death has come.
Highly repectful of women, a legacy of matriarcal families, as in many cold countries. Women and men wages tend to be equal, at least in big companies. They work when it's cool and enjoy reading close to a good fire in the winter.
You know you are dating a French woman when her friends wear a scarf indoor
Haha true)))
What about if she's wearing a scarf that's part of a cosplay?
Everyone: I don’t understand frances declining birth rate.
Me: I get it, I wouldn’t want to have a kid with a women like that either.
I rather do the river dance through a mine field than date one of those "strong independent" women.
Allow me to agree with both of you! 👍
Actually French fertility is still the highest in all Europe 😉
@@Pandaplume Because of African's people, not the native.
@@AlexKS1992 Aye Aye captain
saw most of the vids sounds like french girls are the most complicated
I think French women are gorgeous. French, Italian, Spanish and Dutch. Some good looking chicks.
This was a very awkward episode....
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Oh damn, with my loud, obnoxious, Spanish speaking, loud laughter, my vocal voice, deep kissing, my date with a French chica would be over within a few hours hahahaha
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that girl is absolutely gorgeous
Wrong. She's ugly, because she's a heart breaker.
She's an actress, we don't know what she's like in reality.
@@betespatiotemporelle
She is ugly because she is ugly. She compensates her physical ugly with her style and her sociopathic tendencies. Why bother? Lmfao and no, actually coldness and sociopathy doesn't determine good quality. She is indeed a lunatic with a patent. Don't waste your time 😆
I'm so glad I'm only half French and don't live there. This would make me fucking crazy.
Accurate! French girls can be romantic and such "free spirit" at the same time
"be prepared for the hot and cold responses"
Have had this with French, Danish, and Italian women.
I met some French girls in Berlin, and one had a good vibe with me but we couldn't get together.
I tried to keep in touch with her, texted her in the months followed, never a response.
But when I went to Paris and met up with a friend of hers... her friend said the other girl wanted to come and join us.
She never showed up!
This pretty much NEVER happened in the US. The girls either are interested or not. They will get back to you within 1 text.
Thank you for the video! It was fantastic! I was one of the people asking for 2 years i'm sure or at least one. Thank you again, most fun videos on RUclips to watch!
Thank you for saying that!!! What a great thing to hear. Yeah - I have been going crazy over this one and couldn't find a French actress for a long time. I am happy I waited to film it in Paris. It's just a whole other experience.
And the actress is even one of the best you've gotten yet :)
To all of you that think french women are just annoying, complain to much let me remind you that everyone complains in France so don't judge them for their culture. It's their way of expressing their emotions help her think about something else or get over it. Also to those thinking that French women need too much work I'd remind you that it's like anything in life, you have to put in the work if you want it. Don't get me wrong they don't see themselves superior to any other woman they just expect you to show her what you feel, they want to feel special just like any woman in the world and aren't afraid to ask for it. Like the video said there's no "Dating" which means you don't go on dates to "see how it goes" or if you develop feelings but you go on dates BECAUSE you have feelings for her and want to be her boyfriend. This also why they don't always like being hit on by strangers because they assume there's no way that guy has feelings for me he just wants a one night stand unless of course that's what they're looking for.
I'll also remind you that everything complicates when passion is involved, you wouldn't be fascinated by it otherwise.
QueenLeo Bagpack It certainly plays a part in spreading the negative thoughts that's for sure. Although I don't think that it would be the main reason as it is considered okay to be unhappy about something? And also if you keep ranting about the same thing you usually get told to do something about it or to stop complaining.It depends on what you're complaining about too. Imo what creates it is more likely to be the societal pressure and standards that are taken a lot more seriously therefore you can quickly feel out of "the norm". The school system is very competitive too which doesn't help younger people that are still trying to find themselves. In France if you don't know what you wanna do around 18 you are gonna feel very lost and there no such a thing as "I'll see how it goes"
Just an example if you are trying to get a job and that you took a gap year in your studies you are gonna have to justify yourself to the employeur.
Anyway what were the process of the study? Have the subjects been clinically diagnosed as depressed? Don't get me wrong I'm not saying the study was bull, it's just we have to take in consideration that complaining and not feeling okay with things is okay in France therefore they might tend to admit being depressed more easily instead of denying it? If you see what I mean?
Cheers G'day too you too
C Slg I would go fucking nuts with someone living by me and all day just fucking complaining about the tiniest shit is there nothing better to do in life. I'd throw everyone out of my house
Yes I agree there is better to do than complain but it needs to be put in perspective, that's not all they do. It also depends on the personality of the woman, some complain more than others as in any country. Also what you call "tiniest shit" might not be that tiny for her and actually be a problem. Once you know her a bit more you start reading between the lines and it usually makes it better
C Slg STILL: Too complicated to have around. I like warm, honest, sweet, loyal, fun personalities. But everyone his own.
bossboy191919 Don't assume they are constantly complaining either. Plus there is complaining and complaining if you see what I mean. Even warm,honest,sweet,loyal,fun girls complain it feels good to every once in a while
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