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I noticed and many preceded me that when Women advice on how men should deal with women, the female advisors make it hard, and unspontaneous, men who heed to such advises realize later and rarely sooner that they were overburdened, don't be like those female advisors.
Really fun watching you milk the keyword cow on your video description! Answers the question: "How many times can an intelligent redhead use the phrase 'big warning signs' in one video description?" See Anna milk the algorithm. Moooooo....! ;)
1) I instead of we future frame of reference 2) Avoids relationship status answers 3) Only in it for her: your are merely money, company, place holder to her 4) Avoids including you with HER friends, family, and workplace 5) Hot and cold / push pull push behavior
Before women were not allowed to have a bank account, so they were financially dependent on men and could not leave a relationship even if they wanted to. Lol
@@YourWingmam when a woman friend zones a man she wants the long term attention but no physical. When a man friendzones a woman he gives her physical but won't commit long term.
@@x-man5056 1 or a dozen act poorly!?!? LOL, what world do you live in? The vast majority of modern western women are BROKEN! The "system" destroyed their femininity and you're lucky to find 1 or a dozen decent ones. Oh, they're out there, but it's much easier to find decent ones in places where the whole "modern woman" crap isn't pushed.
@@almetcalf "It's all stink'n think'n. You can't date women from any era other than the one you are in. All the attitudes that erk you have always been there in some form. You are belly aching over something that is never going to change. Yes, there are many broken women out there, many broken men too. You have too wade through all those modern women to find "the one" for you. Or you live alone. Every man ultimately must face that choice. Today, yesterday and tomorrow. Details have changed, the thrust of the man/woman issues are still the same. Nothing "modern" about them at all.
I take your blessing and fire 2 back at you. Another sign: 'If she doesn't stop what she is doing to help you when you need it, or at least help you as soon as she can, then she definitely is NOT wife material. True love looks out for the other person, even sometimes at the sacrifice of self-interest'.
@@YourWingmam What do you make of the fact that the Bible (Creation Story) describes Eve made out of Adam's ribs? ("Alas, skin of my skin, bone of my bone.") I think it is God's way of saying Adam may never claim Eve is any less than him. She is literally his equal. That ( I think ) is the point of including that section in the Creation Story: Men and women are supposed to be equal.
@@Phaedrus-th7bi I know this is an old post, but just wanted to comment that there is a reason God took Eve out of Adam's side, not his front, not his back, but his side, this shows that Eve isn't behind or in front of him, but along side of him, as his equal.
I am married 25 years. I still enjoy this channel to help guide my adult children. Today's episode has me wondering how I landed my wife... we dated 6 years and she exemplified several of these traits during those 6 years.
Mr. O'dell, good morning. Allow me to express my gratitude to you for sharing your experiences, for me just finding truth in this world is quite cumbersome and often more than not unrewarding. But truth regardless of its origin can be refreshingly alleviating in situations where someone is behind distructive conduct. Thank you for sharing. "Vight"🤗👍
You young pups missed out on the "Rules" girls back in the 90s. They followed this book that said stuff like "only answer every third phone call" and "turn him down for every other date". Anyone else remember that?
1. When you call home a man answers your phone 2 . When she says she is going to the store and a man pulls up into your driveway 3. You come home and everything is missing but your clothes in a heap on the floor 4 . She comes home late from " Work " with her blouse on inside out and backwards with the tag in front 5 . Her girlfriend calls you to say your GF has been arrested for indecent exposure at the public laundry and needs 500 bucks bail
1. ... and is there to fix her plumbing ;) 2. ... and it's laundry day (that's why she's out of undies) 3. ...especially your stinky socks! 4. ...and a crusty collar 5. ...can you please etranfer to Chad@...
I agree with you and the Hot & Cold video. A lot of times, a woman really likes you but doesn’t feel “safe” about your weakness and/or insecurities. As a man, you can use this opportunity to learn more about areas to improve. If she really loves you, she will try to communicate with you and see that she’s nurturing for the relationship. Thumb up!
… well, as rd.pll awareness has one understanding, xx.s can‘t | won‘t ‚really love‘ any gent per se, unconditionally, non-opportunistically, anyway. I‘d guess even if your point has certain direction to appreciate, it’s being cancelled on general pre-dispositions, as per xx.s’ (evo.psych) nature.
My test? On the 3rd date, try taking a “spontaneous” selfie with her. If she’s in to you, she’ll want you to take more than one. If she’s playing you, she will make up 1000 excuses as to why she just doesn’t like being in pictures. It’s all BS. She doesn’t want anyone else to see her with you. If done at an opportune time, like after dinner but before the movie, you can work a “no selfies” situation to your advantage. End the date right there. In fact, just take her straight home. Say very little. Just say you remembered you have something to do. Do not cave to interrogations of why this is really happening. By doing this you will ultimately build attraction because you just shut her down, spanked her like the little brat she is, and showed you can walk away. Wait 3 days. Do not contact her. She’ll call.
If she's got a social media filled with selfies: true! If she's got no social media or few/no selfies (rare indeed): not an accurate test for that one. :)
My ex didn't like taking pictures. Her whole family was practically like that. We got a few together but generally, she just wasn't a picture person. I remember she showed me a small shoebox less than half full of old family Polaroids. I told her that I need to go through ours which is literally several crates worth since both my parents were always taking pictures, and she said that was all the ones they had. I believe it too because I attended several of their reunions, Christmas parties, etc. with tons of people, and I only saw someone bring out a camera once.
I’ve been on both the giving and receiving ends of these five-one brings guilt, the other brings resentment. Neither one is a good feeling, but very educational, like this video.
Sadly, my wife of 31 years started showing a lot of these signals about a year ago. In my gut, I knew something was wrong, but I thought we were just having a rough patch. Now a divorce has been asked for and she does not come home at least once a week. We were the last couple in a group of 6 couples we know, that did NOT get a divorce in the last three years. She finally decided to join there team. I stopped being included in plans, and every night out was a girls night (only to find out later, that new boyfriends appeared at the event). I think its pretty clear what has happened.
Most guys want nothing to do with a women who is going through a divorce and still has kids under 18 at home. So even if she wants out of the marriage, it doesn't necessarily mean she can easily find another guy.
Thank you for the video. This one seem coming out from your heart, truly appreciate it. Sadly this video came 3 weeks late for me. We were together for around 2 years and we were going nowhere. Three weeks ago I contributed that for her being selfish and wanting everything to go her way without willing to sacrafice anything to be together. Now I know it was more than that. If I may add 1 more sign it would this: Her words do not match her actions. In my case she would always say she love me, but her actions gave me the exact opposite.
My heart goes out to you, that's a long time to invest in someone. :( And yes, even if she thinks she means it when she says she loves you, it may be that she hopes she does and/or it's the "right" thing to say to appease you. Big hug.
Valid, I've experienced them previously. I wasn't even being needy nor pushing her to something, but she blew up eventually. Abandon ship and move on. 7 billion ppl what are the odds?
I have an old friend ( over 23 years ) and we have gotten closer over the years. Loved together last two years. We hook up, but she says she doesn’t want a “relationship”. Recently we’ve been talking about getting a house together. I’m close to being able to buy one on my own, but told her I’m not interested unless we have something more serious. This angered her and I spent all day yesterday in the doghouse. That was the last red flag.
@@YourWingmam won’t lie, it hurt. I don’t understand the logic. We are sexually compatible. We love each other’s company. She’s against open relationships… she actually makes a disgusted face when people bring it up…. But she’s willing to use my money to buy a home but doesn’t want to commit to me. Anyway, long story short, I’m moving out and buying my own place without her. We are still friends, but i won’t lie… when I’m out I will break contact with her. I just cannot wrap my mind around the logic.
Good video. Straight to the point with indicators that a lot of people would miss. This is helpful to people. What I'd challenge you on is what it means to be deserving. Everybody gets this one wrong. The problem lies in the definition of "judgement", or rather, the understanding people have of it. Discernment of right and wrong isn't judgement. To impose consequence, good or bad.... is... We can think of the court room where jurors would discern as to whether or not the accused did right or wrong. The judge... well.... judges. More to the point, the judge determines the consequences of what was determined. It's to say, "we've established you did this, and because we've discerned this, you deserve this sentence..." Here's a face plant you'll see commonly amongst those with a lack of understanding. You'll say, "what you did was wrong..." to which they reply, "How DARE you judge me, I deserve to be happy." There's so much wrong with this reply, however common it is, I usually just give up to re-evaluate my continued interaction with them. For one, nobody judged them. A discernment was made on the morality of their action, however no consequence was implied. It was simply evaluation. The more intolerable part is they follow up their, "how DARE you" with... you can't make this up... judgement. "I deserve to be happy". People tend to be very, very poor judges of themselves, and even more poor when judging other people because they do so in the context of their own struggles in life and without the benefit of the entirety of knowledge. I'll call it projection. However religious or believing in a divine Creator of the Universe somebody is... we venture into moral grounds when making judgement calls. Either we impose our own values onto the person in a judgement call, or we assume the role of the Creator in saying what somebody deserves. Do people "deserve" somebody great? Doubtful, as people are generally terrible, selfish creatures with little or no hesitancy to destroy the life of another for so much as what's perceived as a moderate gain in their own. It's a call nobody can make. Simply put, to say what we or anybody else deserves is judgement. Figured you hadn't thought about that. Maybe this is helpful to you.
It took me a while to watch this video, since I'm getting used to girls not being into me at all, haha. However, you mentioned important signs to observe when we start dating someone. Thanks
I appreciate you soooo much!!! I have been talking again to my ex wife, who I love and adore. We had an amazing marriage for 10 years until we didn't. She cheated on me with her "best friend" in the end. It really damaged me. But I think it may have damaged her more. She is not the same open loving happy person that she used to be. Our talks have been very nice and civil. But she is still very walled up. She regularly ghosts me intermittently between conversations about vacationing with me in Morocco (she has always wanted to go there). I feel like she is bread crumbling me. It doesn't feel good or right. Backing off.
You may want to watch (/rewatch) some of the videos in my playlists: Red Flags: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ And Get Her Back: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dmD-owPvpw7bxSIwz5gZbmc
Run bro run. If no kids and you are divorced, move on. It didn't work out with Chad, now she wants you back. Don't fall for it. She doesn't respect you. Work on strengthening yourself on all fronts. In six months you won't look back.
she sounds like a classic narcissist . I would either get as far away as possible and leave no forwarding address - or figure out a good way to stage a drowning - neither are particularly appealing that is the problem with narcissists
Exactly correct - string you along until you either force the issue or she is finally ready to bolt - more stuff about women not being accountable and men bearing the pain of their selfishness.
Been there - done that ! Hearing your explanation REALLY helped put that experience behind me , and thank you 🙏 . Those earrings are totally hot on you - BTW .
This video is absolutely an eye opener....Guys trust me such girls are everywhere and we get trapped by such females cos of many reasons....specially their sweet acting skills and beauty..... I wasted half of my life by pressing such wrong buttons....keep your mind and eyes open while dealing with a girl for any LTR in mind....don't be emotionally attached with every girl that you meet (happens normally).... She is not yours....it's just your turn... 🙄
Also, if she is TOO focused on her own privacy, and has too many guy friends and no female friends. I've been in relationships with girls before who said that it's not my business who she hangs out with, and that I need to stop being controlling and jealous. She also would not introduce me to her friends. That's a red flag. Hot and cold could also mean she is narcissistic (I repeat COULD). They will often give you bread crumbs of attention, and then turn abusive, then cute, then abusive. They do this to keep you hooked.
Good tips as usual. I was on a date last Friday (yup this guy), I thought it went great, the conversation was fun, and she didn't shy away from physical contact at all. But the next day she said she wasn't ready for anything but still wanted to be friends and I understood and was fine with that.. The conversation went down to an idle, and I was carrying it all. So I called her out on it, and got closure. Because if you're going to be my friend, mean it by communicating. Now we don't talk at all, which I prefer. I'm not going to waste time being on someone's back burner.
Sometimes women use the let's be friends excuse to soften a rejection :( Regardless, never invest more effort than the other person, romantic or otherwise :) ... but hey, you went on a date! #highfive
I look back now to the woman I once loved and your descriptions nailed it. She won't discuss why the sex is non existent(the massive chasm in our bed), the occasional phone calls from someone who won't speak to me, the weekend evenings out with friends to celebrate their birthdays...and finally the test. Brings 'the guy' back to our flat so that he can assess me. I was in schmuckville and hoping she would change. WRONG. Once the work colleague dumped his girlfriend she was off like a shot. 20 Years on I smile and know simply that it was not meant to be. It was part of my development as an experienced man. I wish I had watched this video in 1998. Now married to a fantastic woman who simply melds with me.....such was all our journeys.
I am glad to learn about these things, and I wish I had known about these in the late 70's. Even if a person tries to find someone who shares religious beliefs, values, ideals, etc., you waste a lot of time on someone who who intends to be somewhere else.
I was recently talking to a girl, it was going good but then boom because of hee no initiative taking I stopped talking to her, she never replied back. And now this videos shows all the things that were wrong. Thanks mam for the video
Okay, it's almost midnight Saturday January 1,2022. I just joined your channel today 😌 .But my concern is I am married and have been these last 15 years to my 2 nd wife . Everything that you bought up in the video , was like it was directed to me. I am dealing with all these issues . Thanks So Much for posting this and God Bless 🙏
Anna, My GF just broke up with me about a week ago, and she showed a lot of these signs except the hot and cold. Another video idea for you would be how to date a girl with substantial sexual trauma in her past and how to approach it, or when to cut and run. That info would be very helpful. Love your content, keep up the good work.
My heart goes out to you. :( Malcolm is right, it's a tough road to date an emotionally damaged woman. You can't fix them and even if they "recover" while with you, they often leave. I highly encourage you to watch my Red Flags / Emotionally Damaged Women playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
@@YourWingmam Thank you! Fortunately we didn't date for long so no lasting emotional damage. Yeah, I was definitely putting that together, but she hit me with the "don't leave me because I'm broken" line which is manipulative AF, but she just beat me to the breakup punch so to speak. I'll certainly look at that playlist. Thanks!
Hahaha found this in my boyfriend's playlist ...l felt the same way about him. He used Is and always replied with 'it's fine, it's good' .. sometimes when you realise you have been investing in somebody but the relationship isn't moving to another level..well tables will turn. I had to break up with him and now we are working on things...but l will not move back in with him unless he is going to commit. Now he wants to know where it's all going. A relationship is a two way street and we have been together for nearly 5 years. Good video though, same advice works for females too.
I swear you have the most creative decorating style. YOU could make a whole new channel on how to decorate a room. A living room, bathroom, dining room, hallway, etc. Seriously, you know how to make a room stand out, little props that add so much character. One video you have a red stand, in the opposing corner there is a red umbrella that looks “cute”. You have to admit, it’s a good idea!
Not is my realm of experience, but valuable nonetheless. Good job! Now we'll see if YT will delete this too; this platform gets progressively more irritating. Praying for you! -- Russ P PS/I'll store up scratches for PJ, but as I see him less often these days, I may use a few on my old fella Tyson (with your permission, of course).
Great video this has happened to me already a couple of times. Last year it has happened with a girl that I was really into, and we only saw each other once and we couldn't see each other again. She kept everything by phone, and so I, just decided to call it quits on her. Know I'm 42 years old and there's a commit here that once you get older it gets harder to date, and that's what's happening to me right now.
Very nice change-up on the hair Anna. I like that look a lot. The "not having you meet her family/friends" thing means you are not seen as a REAL LTR person to her. Start securing yourself and prepare to move on if you've been seeing each other more than 4-6 weeks and she's doing this. You are not Mr. Right to her, just Mr. Right Now. Nip it.
@@RJay121 Learned that in the Navy. Literally means Batten down hatches or tie down things, also clear or safe. My use is more broadly applied. I think you know what I mean.
"hoping that she'll warm up to you" I'd put sharp limits on how much effort I invest in a relationship where she doesn't seem all that interested and I'm just hoping I can spark her interest. There are times when that can work, of course. She's not very interested but you chase her and she likes being chased and let's herself get caught. But if you're trying and trying and she keeps brushing you off, at some point you have to admit to yourself that this isn't going anywhere.
My ex did talk about retirement in the singular. I should have just called her on it: "Seems like I'm not in your future..." I'd now rather face it than just wait for the pattern come to it's natural completion and let her dump me.
That's very subtle. I once dated a woman who never took my name while talking, she would use pronouns but never my name. Also, she would never give a straight answer to any question which made me think that either she was hiding something or just not a good communicator. She might be a good person in general, but not for me.
Good vid, Spot on! You just described my ex for points 1, 2, 3, 5!! Point #4, I went with her family on Xmas and I met her friends so I guess.. *She's Romanian so it's to show it's not about a cultural issues but it's a case-by-case. ;-) **She's Bipolar so I don't know if that has any effect.. she was on and off with her ex and I didn't accept they stayed "friends" only as they don't have kids in common so why was he staying there? She says he did a lot for her (yeah, I can do the same if you let me..) so she don't wanna let him go as she feels everyone is letting her go.. In the end, she told me: I don't love you but I care a lot about you, can we be friends? She said I'm a bad lover but a good friend (lol yeah right) Then later that evening we kissed.. kissed.. and we were about to have s3x.. she said: I really want it but it wouldn't be a good idea.. I told her: I cannot be friends with someone I've seen naked and got emotions towards. So we split and so far she didn't contacted me, respecting my wishes for the first time in 3 years!! I am torn since I care about her and I wanna know if she's ok.. but cannot reach her now.
@@YourWingmam Thank you for reading all of this and to reply! Long live the Wingman ;-) *It's been a year so although I hope she's happy, I'm done and moved on.
I personally don't believe in a consolation prize; I prefer a more realistic approach. When I was young and nieve, the red flags were popping up everywhere and I fell hard. But, after years of growth and travel, I learned to be more attentive in recognizing potential hazards and to avoid. Anna! it has taken me years to put pen to paper, your channel has helped me write about some of my experiences that were very painful to share. But, it has also allowed me to express my feelings in ways I could not have imagined.
What a beautiful compliment, thank you so much! Much to some men's surprise, women do want a man who'll communicate. (Just not one who is whiny and needy.) :))
Once again and I mention this in a few of your other vids lol.. I wish our paths had crossed at sometime in our life’s I would have loved a chance to meet you
I love the earrings. With the brown and green. Compliments the shirt and hair. My father tought me about colors and how to compliment. I have seen all these tips as I have lived through them. You are spot on.
God knows, when I was young and clueless, I ended up on the bitter end of your list of behaviours more than once :/ But on the bright side, if she... (a) mentions me in future plans (b) comfortably talks about the relationship (c) gives as well as takes with money and time (d) involves me with her family and friends, and (e) is consistent in her feelings there's a good chance she's as serious about a future together as I am... right? I guess that's logical. Funny... sometimes it's as hard to believe you're not being played as to believe you are :p
I met a woman and our conversation hit off well. We talked for a while online. She even gave me her number. She didn't answer when i texted her there. Then she kept putting excuses not to hang out. I stopped communication.
Hello Sensei Anna, This North Delta followed your advised on online dating. I have noticed that it's more of a ladies choice looking for their unicorn knight. Well anyway, I'm going thru my third date with Bel-Liza-ma. There are no MAGIC yet, just friends first, similar to Joy Koy and Chelsea Handler. I'll heed your advice and see if there are any red flags. Thanks Sensei. PS, Peekaboo Waldo the Cat. She is about to gouge out my eyes. LOL.
Wonderbar you're on date #3! A lot of guys don't get that far. Remember, never invest more in her (emotionally/financially) than she's already invested in you. And don't put all your eggs in her basket (so to speak), keep hunting. Finally, remember *you are the prize!* :) Edit: p.s. For everyone else... My online dating program (only $10US)!: members.wingmam.com/double-your-online-dating-2/
okay number 3 is we have known each other for over 8 years now. and infact constantly tells me how much she really enjoys spending time with me. infact mentions more then more then once how i am one of the few people she knows who she just vibes with her how most people she ends up meeting just tend to seriously drag the mood down. infact there is this guy who self invites himself to hang out with her/us sometimes and it was like last time he was there he ruined the mood completely but when it was just us at the same place(at a coffee shop near her place it was so relaxing and fun and just nice to just be with each others company(even though we saw each other a week ago(not with that guy joining us)) infact she was telling me how annoyed with him she was most of the time when he did hang out for quite a bit.
I have hundreds of comments to answer, will you please come back with a shorter question so I can get to everyone? Thanks so much for understanding! :))
Thank you, your videos are very helpful and ever since I started watching I recognise behaviour patterns better and trust my intuition more. Your presentation and voice are amazing, the many 'in box clips' detract from this.
Here is how I avoid "time wasters". Ask (you figure the way, I have mine) if she likes to do "girls night out". If the answer is yes, hit it and get out. A "yes" to that one question is all it will take to get rid of me.
I love your channel! Please talk about how women on dating apps who only have head shots or angle pics is a red flag lol. How some women who don't have a right future or have no ambition, is a red flag. Also, never reward bad behavior fellas
I just started dating someone. I don't know if she really likes me but i don't have the time to date more than one at a time. I think on dating apps these kinds of things are pretty common.
I have lots of questions. I wish you had a practice near me. I could use some real coaching. Your videos are very helpful, however there are a lot of questions I need to ask. Maybe I can find a dating coach near me. I will still be looking for more insight from you on how to and what not to do. Thanks Anna
Hi Anna, Ohh yeah, number 4 and 5. Lots of lovie dovie and crash and burn that was me years ago. Giving to me sometimes so, when I was giving everything. Finally I said, to her. "I believe you are too late." It's great to listen to your vides especially when it concerns me. I understand the way I am now. Oh today I was having coffee with the boys at the senior center, and one other fellow said. It is against the law in Ontario for 4 Georges to be together at the same table or area..I looked at him and smiled you are not one of the Georges right. laugh a little on me. true Have a great week George..
@@SimplyMalibu my comment wasn’t really about me keeping a woman. It’s about the fact that women are no longer held accountable. They can treat people however they want and get away with it. Because of this relationships aren’t working, children and society are suffering.
Women learn better from male coaches (there are several out there), though I do have a few women who follow this channel to learn what not to do. Maybe I'll start including more tidbits for the ladies (there's a very good tip mentioned in next week's video ALL men will appreciate lol)!
Very good video Red. You always speak logical Truth. What a Doll this Lady ❤😍🔥🥰💯👋👋. If I ran across her. I'd definitely say something, Sweetheart type. Getting rarer Take care Wingmam. Yes your the best ❤️🙏💯👋👋👍. Sigh......sigh.....😊😊
Hi Anna. Question: Few years ago I was friends with a woman who apparently had Bi-Polar. For a few months it was like we were a couple, hanging out a lot, heaps of texts etc. All of a sudden she goes quiet and blocks me from Facebook with no explanation, then acts like nothing has happened. Never treated her badly in any way and felt betrayed. Any clue to why? Cheers from Brisbane Australia
My heart goes out to you! Borderline is challenging enough but Borderline is even more of a rollercoaster (IMHO). I feel bad for those who've got either personality disorder and for those who try to love them. There could be so many reasons: a trigger, someone else, old trauma, being too good to her (not what's comfy for her). There are usually red flags along the way. Remember, you can't fix or save them. Red flags playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
@@YourWingmam Thank you for your reply Anna, greatly appreciated. I haven't had any contact with her in 3 years now, with no regrets, and happy to keep it that way. She became friendly with a mutual friend of mine around the time she went quiet so that could be it. She was also a newly recovering drug addict who I tried to help. Keep up the good work, your videos are brilliant :-)
thank you girl... I start to demolished my girl now. oh im in number 4.... not only that she only come to me every Saturday. Sunday until Friday she's invisible... no contact. no chat....
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I noticed and many preceded me that when Women advice on how men should deal with women, the female advisors make it hard, and unspontaneous, men who heed to such advises realize later and rarely sooner that they were overburdened, don't be like those female advisors.
Really fun watching you milk the keyword cow on your video description! Answers the question: "How many times can an intelligent redhead use the phrase 'big warning signs' in one video description?" See Anna milk the algorithm. Moooooo....! ;)
Wise advice as always. And a joy to behold! 😊❤️
Good to know all this. Thank You
1) I instead of we future frame of reference
2) Avoids relationship status answers
3) Only in it for her: your are merely money, company, place holder to her
4) Avoids including you with HER friends, family, and workplace
5) Hot and cold / push pull push behavior
Concise summary! #4 reason for just her fam/friends is worth watching :))
Don’t want to hang out with your friends or family
1) actually does not show anything
2) feministic and other indie minded woman does not like the relationship status questions
Thank God, I grew up in the 50's, 60's and 70's.
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Most countries are still Normal
We feel the same 😂
Before women were not allowed to have a bank account, so they were financially dependent on men and could not leave a relationship even if they wanted to. Lol
Sign number one - she is a modern woman .
No need for the rest .
Thank you.
Ha! True ;)
@@YourWingmam when a woman friend zones a man she wants the long term attention but no physical. When a man friendzones a woman he gives her physical but won't commit long term.
Sign # 1.5 / she's American
@@x-man5056 1 or a dozen act poorly!?!? LOL, what world do you live in? The vast majority of modern western women are BROKEN! The "system" destroyed their femininity and you're lucky to find 1 or a dozen decent ones. Oh, they're out there, but it's much easier to find decent ones in places where the whole "modern woman" crap isn't pushed.
@@almetcalf "It's all stink'n think'n. You can't date women from any era other than the one you are in. All the attitudes that erk you have always been there in some form.
You are belly aching over something that is never going to change. Yes, there are many broken women out there, many broken men too. You have too wade through all those modern women to find "the one" for you. Or you live alone.
Every man ultimately must face that choice. Today, yesterday and tomorrow. Details have changed, the thrust of the man/woman issues are still the same. Nothing "modern" about them at all.
I take your blessing and fire 2 back at you. Another sign: 'If she doesn't stop what she is doing to help you when you need it, or at least help you as soon as she can, then she definitely is NOT wife material. True love looks out for the other person, even sometimes at the sacrifice of self-interest'.
Relationships require effort. Forever after. Amen. :))
@@YourWingmam What do you make of the fact that the Bible (Creation Story) describes Eve made out of Adam's ribs? ("Alas, skin of my skin, bone of my bone.") I think it is God's way of saying Adam may never claim Eve is any less than him. She is literally his equal. That ( I think ) is the point of including that section in the Creation Story: Men and women are supposed to be equal.
@@Phaedrus-th7bi Finally--a Christian who speaks through the Bible for male-female equality. Refreshing!
@@Phaedrus-th7bi I know this is an old post, but just wanted to comment that there is a reason God took Eve out of Adam's side, not his front, not his back, but his side, this shows that Eve isn't behind or in front of him, but along side of him, as his equal.
I am married 25 years. I still enjoy this channel to help guide my adult children. Today's episode has me wondering how I landed my wife... we dated 6 years and she exemplified several of these traits during those 6 years.
You are an awesome father.
Mr. O'dell, good morning. Allow me to express my gratitude to you for sharing your experiences, for me just finding truth in this world is quite cumbersome and often more than not unrewarding. But truth regardless of its origin can be refreshingly alleviating in situations where someone is behind distructive conduct. Thank you for sharing.
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She probably kept you as her backup plan for many years. And then she ended being stuck with you when what she was really hoping for didn't work out.
You young pups missed out on the "Rules" girls back in the 90s. They followed this book that said stuff like "only answer every third phone call" and "turn him down for every other date".
Anyone else remember that?
Nowadays girls (younger women) don't answer the phone at all and are dating 3 other guys in between your dates lol
I remember that one of the stupidest fads of that decade. It was written for and by smug coastal fart smellers.
I've never been so happy to have a woman rip the smile from my face. You're right. Goddamn it, you're right every time.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
1. When you call home a man answers your phone 2 . When she says she is going to the store and a man pulls up into your driveway 3. You come home and everything is missing but your clothes in a heap on the floor 4 . She comes home late from " Work " with her blouse on inside out and backwards with the tag in front 5 . Her girlfriend calls you to say your GF has been arrested for indecent exposure at the public laundry and needs 500 bucks bail
1. ... and is there to fix her plumbing ;)
2. ... and it's laundry day (that's why she's out of undies)
3. ...especially your stinky socks!
4. ...and a crusty collar
5. ...can you please etranfer to Chad@...
@@YourWingmam Hahahahahahaha...
Honestly, I'd rather have lots of one night standers than settling for one that will end up bored and start treating me like a Will Smith.
It seems to me like Will lost some of his alpha charm along the way :( more on this in next week's video: a review of a PUA channel ;)
@@YourWingmam typical, always the guys fault...
I agree with you and the Hot & Cold video. A lot of times, a woman really likes you but doesn’t feel “safe” about your weakness and/or insecurities. As a man, you can use this opportunity to learn more about areas to improve. If she really loves you, she will try to communicate with you and see that she’s nurturing for the relationship. Thumb up!
Thank you and yes, I'll be talking about all of this in a couple different videos coming up! :)
… well, as rd.pll awareness has one understanding, xx.s can‘t | won‘t ‚really love‘ any gent per se, unconditionally, non-opportunistically, anyway. I‘d guess even if your point has certain direction to appreciate, it’s being cancelled on general pre-dispositions, as per xx.s’ (evo.psych) nature.
My test? On the 3rd date, try taking a “spontaneous” selfie with her. If she’s in to you, she’ll want you to take more than one. If she’s playing you, she will make up 1000 excuses as to why she just doesn’t like being in pictures. It’s all BS. She doesn’t want anyone else to see her with you. If done at an opportune time, like after dinner but before the movie, you can work a “no selfies” situation to your advantage. End the date right there. In fact, just take her straight home. Say very little. Just say you remembered you have something to do. Do not cave to interrogations of why this is really happening. By doing this you will ultimately build attraction because you just shut her down, spanked her like the little brat she is, and showed you can walk away. Wait 3 days. Do not contact her. She’ll call.
If she's got a social media filled with selfies: true! If she's got no social media or few/no selfies (rare indeed): not an accurate test for that one. :)
some gurls make up go fugly after 1.5 hours
My ex didn't like taking pictures. Her whole family was practically like that. We got a few together but generally, she just wasn't a picture person. I remember she showed me a small shoebox less than half full of old family Polaroids. I told her that I need to go through ours which is literally several crates worth since both my parents were always taking pictures, and she said that was all the ones they had. I believe it too because I attended several of their reunions, Christmas parties, etc. with tons of people, and I only saw someone bring out a camera once.
I’ve been on both the giving and receiving ends of these five-one brings guilt, the other brings resentment. Neither one is a good feeling, but very educational, like this video.
Sadly, my wife of 31 years started showing a lot of these signals about a year ago. In my gut, I knew something was wrong, but I thought we were just having a rough patch. Now a divorce has been asked for and she does not come home at least once a week. We were the last couple in a group of 6 couples we know, that did NOT get a divorce in the last three years. She finally decided to join there team. I stopped being included in plans, and every night out was a girls night (only to find out later, that new boyfriends appeared at the event). I think its pretty clear what has happened.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
The female middle age crisis.
Yep been there long ago..she devorced me and married the guy she cheated on me with😅
@@paulross8815 I hope to god that she does that. I would love to stop paying alimony asap.
Most guys want nothing to do with a women who is going through a divorce and still has kids under 18 at home. So even if she wants out of the marriage, it doesn't necessarily mean she can easily find another guy.
Experienced this years ago. It was a roller coaster. The experience clearly helped me today to shovel things to a compost pile as soon as noted.
And roller coasters are only fun for a little while! :)
@@YourWingmam Very true. Always good to get off the roller coaster or your ticket will expire.
Thank you for the video.
This one seem coming out from your heart, truly appreciate it.
Sadly this video came 3 weeks late for me. We were together for around 2 years and we were going nowhere. Three weeks ago I contributed that for her being selfish and wanting everything to go her way without willing to sacrafice anything to be together. Now I know it was more than that.
If I may add 1 more sign it would this: Her words do not match her actions. In my case she would always say she love me, but her actions gave me the exact opposite.
My heart goes out to you, that's a long time to invest in someone. :( And yes, even if she thinks she means it when she says she loves you, it may be that she hopes she does and/or it's the "right" thing to say to appease you. Big hug.
@@YourWingmam thank you
Valid, I've experienced them previously. I wasn't even being needy nor pushing her to something, but she blew up eventually. Abandon ship and move on. 7 billion ppl what are the odds?
Exactly. Never invest more in her (emotionally) than she invests in you.
I have an old friend ( over 23 years ) and we have gotten closer over the years. Loved together last two years. We hook up, but she says she doesn’t want a “relationship”. Recently we’ve been talking about getting a house together. I’m close to being able to buy one on my own, but told her I’m not interested unless we have something more serious. This angered her and I spent all day yesterday in the doghouse. That was the last red flag.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️
@@YourWingmam won’t lie, it hurt. I don’t understand the logic. We are sexually compatible. We love each other’s company. She’s against open relationships… she actually makes a disgusted face when people bring it up…. But she’s willing to use my money to buy a home but doesn’t want to commit to me. Anyway, long story short, I’m moving out and buying my own place without her. We are still friends, but i won’t lie… when I’m out I will break contact with her. I just cannot wrap my mind around the logic.
She is 100% correct about all of these things.
Absolutely!
Good video. Straight to the point with indicators that a lot of people would miss. This is helpful to people. What I'd challenge you on is what it means to be deserving. Everybody gets this one wrong. The problem lies in the definition of "judgement", or rather, the understanding people have of it. Discernment of right and wrong isn't judgement. To impose consequence, good or bad.... is... We can think of the court room where jurors would discern as to whether or not the accused did right or wrong. The judge... well.... judges. More to the point, the judge determines the consequences of what was determined. It's to say, "we've established you did this, and because we've discerned this, you deserve this sentence..." Here's a face plant you'll see commonly amongst those with a lack of understanding. You'll say, "what you did was wrong..." to which they reply, "How DARE you judge me, I deserve to be happy." There's so much wrong with this reply, however common it is, I usually just give up to re-evaluate my continued interaction with them. For one, nobody judged them. A discernment was made on the morality of their action, however no consequence was implied. It was simply evaluation. The more intolerable part is they follow up their, "how DARE you" with... you can't make this up... judgement. "I deserve to be happy".
People tend to be very, very poor judges of themselves, and even more poor when judging other people because they do so in the context of their own struggles in life and without the benefit of the entirety of knowledge. I'll call it projection. However religious or believing in a divine Creator of the Universe somebody is... we venture into moral grounds when making judgement calls. Either we impose our own values onto the person in a judgement call, or we assume the role of the Creator in saying what somebody deserves. Do people "deserve" somebody great? Doubtful, as people are generally terrible, selfish creatures with little or no hesitancy to destroy the life of another for so much as what's perceived as a moderate gain in their own. It's a call nobody can make. Simply put, to say what we or anybody else deserves is judgement. Figured you hadn't thought about that. Maybe this is helpful to you.
It took me a while to watch this video, since I'm getting used to girls not being into me at all, haha. However, you mentioned important signs to observe when we start dating someone. Thanks
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Thank you for talking about no. 5- that one confused the heck out of me!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Good points. Hair nicely accessorized too.
Thanks so much! :)
I appreciate you soooo much!!! I have been talking again to my ex wife, who I love and adore. We had an amazing marriage for 10 years until we didn't. She cheated on me with her "best friend" in the end. It really damaged me. But I think it may have damaged her more. She is not the same open loving happy person that she used to be. Our talks have been very nice and civil. But she is still very walled up. She regularly ghosts me intermittently between conversations about vacationing with me in Morocco (she has always wanted to go there). I feel like she is bread crumbling me. It doesn't feel good or right. Backing off.
You may want to watch (/rewatch) some of the videos in my playlists:
Red Flags: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
And Get Her Back: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dmD-owPvpw7bxSIwz5gZbmc
Run bro run. If no kids and you are divorced, move on. It didn't work out with Chad, now she wants you back. Don't fall for it. She doesn't respect you. Work on strengthening yourself on all fronts. In six months you won't look back.
she sounds like a classic narcissist . I would either get as far away as possible and leave no forwarding address - or figure out a good way to stage a drowning - neither are particularly appealing that is the problem with narcissists
You Don’t deserve this. Leave and don’t Look back
Exactly correct - string you along until you either force the issue or she is finally ready to bolt - more stuff about women not being accountable and men bearing the pain of their selfishness.
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Been there - done that !
Hearing your explanation REALLY helped put that experience behind me , and thank you 🙏 .
Those earrings are totally hot on you - BTW .
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This video is absolutely an eye opener....Guys trust me such girls are everywhere and we get trapped by such females cos of many reasons....specially their sweet acting skills and beauty..... I wasted half of my life by pressing such wrong buttons....keep your mind and eyes open while dealing with a girl for any LTR in mind....don't be emotionally attached with every girl that you meet (happens normally).... She is not yours....it's just your turn... 🙄
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Also, if she is TOO focused on her own privacy, and has too many guy friends and no female friends. I've been in relationships with girls before who said that it's not my business who she hangs out with, and that I need to stop being controlling and jealous. She also would not introduce me to her friends. That's a red flag. Hot and cold could also mean she is narcissistic (I repeat COULD). They will often give you bread crumbs of attention, and then turn abusive, then cute, then abusive. They do this to keep you hooked.
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Good tips as usual. I was on a date last Friday (yup this guy), I thought it went great, the conversation was fun, and she didn't shy away from physical contact at all. But the next day she said she wasn't ready for anything but still wanted to be friends and I understood and was fine with that.. The conversation went down to an idle, and I was carrying it all. So I called her out on it, and got closure. Because if you're going to be my friend, mean it by communicating. Now we don't talk at all, which I prefer. I'm not going to waste time being on someone's back burner.
Sometimes women use the let's be friends excuse to soften a rejection :( Regardless, never invest more effort than the other person, romantic or otherwise :) ... but hey, you went on a date! #highfive
@@YourWingmam Thanks, but I prefer the hard brutal truth than a lie. For me that's closure and helps me move on.
@@PrineGuy Thank you!
I look back now to the woman I once loved and your descriptions nailed it. She won't discuss why the sex is non existent(the massive chasm in our bed), the occasional phone calls from someone who won't speak to me, the weekend evenings out with friends to celebrate their birthdays...and finally the test. Brings 'the guy' back to our flat so that he can assess me. I was in schmuckville and hoping she would change. WRONG. Once the work colleague dumped his girlfriend she was off like a shot. 20 Years on I smile and know simply that it was not meant to be. It was part of my development as an experienced man. I wish I had watched this video in 1998. Now married to a fantastic woman who simply melds with me.....such was all our journeys.
So glad you found your right person! And yep, never *never* go for potential. Thank you for watching and sharing your experience! :)
I am glad to learn about these things, and I wish I had known about these in the late 70's. Even if a person tries to find someone who shares religious beliefs, values, ideals, etc., you waste a lot of time on someone who who intends to be somewhere else.
Glad I could help 🙏
I was recently talking to a girl, it was going good but then boom because of hee no initiative taking I stopped talking to her, she never replied back. And now this videos shows all the things that were wrong. Thanks mam for the video
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
It's the subtle things that always get you. 😲
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I think you must be the best partner in the whole world. Your thoughts and advise is always wonderful and honest. Many thanks.
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
awesome stuff!!! hit the nail on the head with this one... play it again sam!!!
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Okay, it's almost midnight Saturday January 1,2022. I just joined your channel today 😌 .But my concern is I am married and have been these last 15 years to my 2 nd wife . Everything that you bought up in the video , was like it was directed to me. I am dealing with all these issues . Thanks So Much for posting this and God Bless 🙏
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
Anna, My GF just broke up with me about a week ago, and she showed a lot of these signs except the hot and cold.
Another video idea for you would be how to date a girl with substantial sexual trauma in her past and how to approach it, or when to cut and run. That info would be very helpful. Love your content, keep up the good work.
LMFAO, you can't heal anyone. You don't date that girl, find another
My heart goes out to you. :( Malcolm is right, it's a tough road to date an emotionally damaged woman. You can't fix them and even if they "recover" while with you, they often leave. I highly encourage you to watch my Red Flags / Emotionally Damaged Women playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
@@YourWingmam Thank you! Fortunately we didn't date for long so no lasting emotional damage. Yeah, I was definitely putting that together, but she hit me with the "don't leave me because I'm broken" line which is manipulative AF, but she just beat me to the breakup punch so to speak. I'll certainly look at that playlist. Thanks!
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Hahaha found this in my boyfriend's playlist ...l felt the same way about him. He used Is and always replied with 'it's fine, it's good' .. sometimes when you realise you have been investing in somebody but the relationship isn't moving to another level..well tables will turn. I had to break up with him and now we are working on things...but l will not move back in with him unless he is going to commit. Now he wants to know where it's all going. A relationship is a two way street and we have been together for nearly 5 years. Good video though, same
advice works for females too.
You're absolutely right! Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️
I swear you have the most creative decorating style. YOU could make a whole new channel on how to decorate a room. A living room, bathroom, dining room, hallway, etc.
Seriously, you know how to make a room stand out, little props that add so much character. One video you have a red stand, in the opposing corner there is a red umbrella that looks “cute”. You have to admit, it’s a good idea!
Great compliment! Thank you! :))
You see this as a calling!
I just realized that.
Good for you, Ana!
I have a typo in one of my posts but can't find it.
I wanna correct it.
Not is my realm of experience, but valuable nonetheless. Good job! Now we'll see if YT will delete this too; this platform gets progressively more irritating. Praying for you! -- Russ P PS/I'll store up scratches for PJ, but as I see him less often these days, I may use a few on my old fella Tyson (with your permission, of course).
Awww, of course! Puppies always get all the attention, gotta save some love for the old dogs (so to speak) lol God bless you, Russ! :)
Great video this has happened to me already a couple of times. Last year it has happened with a girl that I was really into, and we only saw each other once and we couldn't see each other again. She kept everything by phone, and so I, just decided to call it quits on her. Know I'm 42 years old and there's a commit here that once you get older it gets harder to date, and that's what's happening to me right now.
I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏
Very nice change-up on the hair Anna. I like that look a lot.
The "not having you meet her family/friends" thing means you are not seen as a REAL LTR person to her. Start securing yourself and prepare to move on if you've been seeing each other more than 4-6 weeks and she's doing this. You are not Mr. Right to her, just Mr. Right Now. Nip it.
Truth! And even if she's not introducing you to them because they're on bad terms or has no friends, still at least a pink flag!! :)
"start securing yourself," I totally love that term
@@RJay121 Learned that in the Navy. Literally means Batten down hatches or tie down things, also clear or safe. My use is more broadly applied. I think you know what I mean.
Wow, I definitely needed this video !!! I have been a little bit through some of this!!! And will definitely watch Hot & Cold video !!!
Glad you find this video helpful!
I like how the arrows go up-and-down at the end, Hey am I being manipulated.
Lol, no you're being encouraged (win-win)! ;)
I could've definitely used this video in my early twenties.
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Big sis is telling you straight.
Absolutely!
"hoping that she'll warm up to you" I'd put sharp limits on how much effort I invest in a relationship where she doesn't seem all that interested and I'm just hoping I can spark her interest. There are times when that can work, of course. She's not very interested but you chase her and she likes being chased and let's herself get caught. But if you're trying and trying and she keeps brushing you off, at some point you have to admit to yourself that this isn't going anywhere.
You're absolutely right! Thank you for sharing ❤
Highly appreciate this
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you are so on the ball , almost all off those things I have been through, wish I knew about you a long time ago, thanks Anna.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
@@YourWingmam thank you Anna, I don't think I can ever recover from this one , to late in life for me to start again.
My ex did talk about retirement in the singular. I should have just called her on it: "Seems like I'm not in your future..." I'd now rather face it than just wait for the pattern come to it's natural completion and let her dump me.
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
That's very subtle. I once dated a woman who never took my name while talking, she would use pronouns but never my name. Also, she would never give a straight answer to any question which made me think that either she was hiding something or just not a good communicator. She might be a good person in general, but not for me.
I already know this answer......if she talked to me, she is not interested, weird dynamics
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Love your memes, Anna. You're a beauty with creative talent.
Thank you for a wonderful compliment! :)
You're Not Your
Girl was supposed travel see for Thanksgiving I got new Cov variant so quarantine until mid Dec
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Aww your hair looks lovely
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Thank you, Wingmam! You are awesome!
My pleasure ❤️
Exactly! Well said , Thankyou! ❤
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Good vid, Spot on! You just described my ex for points 1, 2, 3, 5!!
Point #4, I went with her family on Xmas and I met her friends so I guess..
*She's Romanian so it's to show it's not about a cultural issues but it's a case-by-case. ;-) **She's Bipolar so I don't know if that has any effect.. she was on and off with her ex and I didn't accept they stayed "friends" only as they don't have kids in common so why was he staying there? She says he did a lot for her (yeah, I can do the same if you let me..) so she don't wanna let him go as she feels everyone is letting her go..
In the end, she told me: I don't love you but I care a lot about you, can we be friends? She said I'm a bad lover but a good friend (lol yeah right)
Then later that evening we kissed.. kissed.. and we were about to have s3x.. she said: I really want it but it wouldn't be a good idea..
I told her: I cannot be friends with someone I've seen naked and got emotions towards. So we split and so far she didn't contacted me, respecting my wishes for the first time in 3 years!!
I am torn since I care about her and I wanna know if she's ok.. but cannot reach her now.
I'm sorry to hear about that, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thank you for reading all of this and to reply! Long live the Wingman ;-)
*It's been a year so although I hope she's happy, I'm done and moved on.
Well now, as far as getting your heart torn to shreds hey what can I say dudes welcome to love. You got to take your chances My brothers!
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Awesome advise !
Do you do privity council ?
Thank you for your trust, at this time this is where you’ll find one-on-one options: wingmam.com/dating-coach-men/
I personally don't believe in a consolation prize; I prefer a more realistic approach. When I was young and nieve, the red flags were popping up everywhere and I fell hard. But, after years of growth and travel, I learned to be more attentive in recognizing potential hazards and to avoid. Anna! it has taken me years to put pen to paper, your channel has helped me write about some of my experiences that were very painful to share. But, it has also allowed me to express my feelings in ways I could not have imagined.
What a beautiful compliment, thank you so much! Much to some men's surprise, women do want a man who'll communicate. (Just not one who is whiny and needy.) :))
@@YourWingmam Usually men that are whiny and needy are insecure about themselves, "and afraid of losing their loved one".
Once again and I mention this in a few of your other vids lol.. I wish our paths had crossed at sometime in our life’s I would have loved a chance to meet you
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I love the earrings. With the brown and green. Compliments the shirt and hair. My father tought me about colors and how to compliment. I have seen all these tips as I have lived through them. You are spot on.
Thanks so much for appreciating my fashion efforts! Experience is the best education, indeed!
God knows, when I was young and clueless, I ended up on the bitter end of your list of behaviours more than once :/ But on the bright side, if she...
(a) mentions me in future plans
(b) comfortably talks about the relationship
(c) gives as well as takes with money and time
(d) involves me with her family and friends, and
(e) is consistent in her feelings
there's a good chance she's as serious about a future together as I am... right? I guess that's logical. Funny... sometimes it's as hard to believe you're not being played as to believe you are :p
That's exactly right! :))
I love it when you say Hey Guys.
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@@YourWingmam I was reading on your memoir and sorry to hear of health concerns Anna. I wish you so much good.
I also hope your feeling better. ❤
I met a woman and our conversation hit off well. We talked for a while online. She even gave me her number. She didn't answer when i texted her there. Then she kept putting excuses not to hang out. I stopped communication.
Best thing you can do is move on. Check out the videos in my pinned comment! :)
A girl I liked in high school and yes even loved named Tracci Ludwick is only in it for her and really doesn’t care about me.
She still acts hot and cold to me.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
the parents too if they question her one time. Hey you got one did you do it yet? go for it. She will get pissed
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Hello Sensei Anna, This North Delta followed your advised on online dating. I have noticed that it's more of a ladies choice looking for their unicorn knight. Well anyway, I'm going thru my third date with Bel-Liza-ma. There are no MAGIC yet, just friends first, similar to Joy Koy and Chelsea Handler. I'll heed your advice and see if there are any red flags. Thanks Sensei. PS, Peekaboo Waldo the Cat. She is about to gouge out my eyes. LOL.
Wonderbar you're on date #3! A lot of guys don't get that far. Remember, never invest more in her (emotionally/financially) than she's already invested in you. And don't put all your eggs in her basket (so to speak), keep hunting. Finally, remember *you are the prize!* :)
Edit: p.s. For everyone else... My online dating program (only $10US)!: members.wingmam.com/double-your-online-dating-2/
okay number 3 is we have known each other for over 8 years now. and infact constantly tells me how much she really enjoys spending time with me. infact mentions more then more then once how i am one of the few people she knows who she just vibes with her how most people she ends up meeting just tend to seriously drag the mood down. infact there is this guy who self invites himself to hang out with her/us sometimes and it was like last time he was there he ruined the mood completely but when it was just us at the same place(at a coffee shop near her place it was so relaxing and fun and just nice to just be with each others company(even though we saw each other a week ago(not with that guy joining us)) infact she was telling me how annoyed with him she was most of the time when he did hang out for quite a bit.
I have hundreds of comments to answer, will you please come back with a shorter question so I can get to everyone? Thanks so much for understanding! :))
Not ready for a serious relationship but thanks for the tips Anna. Another Awesome video Anna. Definitely looking Good in this video lol.
Glad you liked it! Thank you for watching! :)
That was a great vid with lots of good information. Thanks Anna!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you, your videos are very helpful and ever since I started watching I recognise behaviour patterns better and trust my intuition more.
Your presentation and voice are amazing, the many 'in box clips' detract from this.
Thank you for watching and for the candid feedback! :)
Here is how I avoid "time wasters". Ask (you figure the way, I have mine) if she likes to do "girls night out". If the answer is yes, hit it and get out. A "yes" to that one question is all it will take to get rid of me.
Depends on if girls' nice is happy hour 3-5pm or night club ending at 3-5am lol, if the latter: agreed!
You had me scared after the first three Anna 😅
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Pretty, well spoken and smart! Bravo!!
Thank you kindly! :))
I love your channel! Please talk about how women on dating apps who only have head shots or angle pics is a red flag lol. How some women who don't have a right future or have no ambition, is a red flag.
Also, never reward bad behavior fellas
Thank you! I have a whole playlist on red flags: ruclips.net/video/sQe0IBI-yL0/видео.html
I just started dating someone. I don't know if she really likes me but i don't have the time to date more than one at a time. I think on dating apps these kinds of things are pretty common.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I have lots of questions. I wish you had a practice near me. I could use some real coaching. Your videos are very helpful, however there are a lot of questions I need to ask. Maybe I can find a dating coach near me. I will still be looking for more insight from you on how to and what not to do. Thanks Anna
Glad I could help 🙏
Thank You for this Wingmam!....Im gonna drop a big $$$ in your tip jar.
Just The Tip! Always welcome lol (so to speak!) ;)
Hi Anna, Ohh yeah, number 4 and 5. Lots of lovie dovie and crash and burn that was me years ago. Giving to me sometimes so, when I was giving everything. Finally I said, to her. "I believe you are too late."
It's great to listen to your vides especially when it concerns me. I understand the way I am now.
Oh today I was having coffee with the boys at the senior center, and one other fellow said. It is against the law in Ontario for 4 Georges to be together at the same table or area..I looked at him and smiled you are not one of the Georges right. laugh a little on me. true
Have a great week George..
Haa! Thanks for the story and chuckle! And glad you escaped a throwback :)
Your contents are always great, but this one is extraordinary.
You always look elegant, but this time is amazing ❤
Thank you so much!
Merry Christmas and God bless you.
Merry Christmas to you and God bless you!
You should have a channel that teaches women to have morals and character. If they had those traits we wouldn't need this channel.
Don't let women fool you, they know what they should do to keep a man. If she isn't doing it for you, she's just not interested
@@SimplyMalibu my comment wasn’t really about me keeping a woman. It’s about the fact that women are no longer held accountable. They can treat people however they want and get away with it. Because of this relationships aren’t working, children and society are suffering.
Women learn better from male coaches (there are several out there), though I do have a few women who follow this channel to learn what not to do.
Maybe I'll start including more tidbits for the ladies (there's a very good tip mentioned in next week's video ALL men will appreciate lol)!
@@harthart7529 ok ok, fair enough, I hear what you're saying
Very good video Red. You always speak logical Truth. What a Doll this Lady ❤😍🔥🥰💯👋👋. If I ran across her. I'd definitely say something, Sweetheart type. Getting rarer Take care Wingmam. Yes your the best ❤️🙏💯👋👋👍. Sigh......sigh.....😊😊
Great advice as always. Your ear ring matches your beautiful hair. Keep it up!
Thank you! :))
#5. Ouch. I moved on, but it was hard.
Big hug ... try to watch for red flags next time :)
Hi Anna.
Question: Few years ago I was friends with a woman who apparently had Bi-Polar. For a few months it was like we were a couple, hanging out a lot, heaps of texts etc. All of a sudden she goes quiet and blocks me from Facebook with no explanation, then acts like nothing has happened. Never treated her badly in any way and felt betrayed. Any clue to why?
Cheers from Brisbane Australia
My heart goes out to you! Borderline is challenging enough but Borderline is even more of a rollercoaster (IMHO). I feel bad for those who've got either personality disorder and for those who try to love them. There could be so many reasons: a trigger, someone else, old trauma, being too good to her (not what's comfy for her). There are usually red flags along the way. Remember, you can't fix or save them. Red flags playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
@@YourWingmam Thank you for your reply Anna, greatly appreciated. I haven't had any contact with her in 3 years now, with no regrets, and happy to keep it that way. She became friendly with a mutual friend of mine around the time she went quiet so that could be it. She was also a newly recovering drug addict who I tried to help.
Keep up the good work, your videos are brilliant :-)
thank you girl... I start to demolished my girl now. oh im in number 4.... not only that she only come to me every Saturday. Sunday until Friday she's invisible... no contact. no chat....
That's a red flag for sure. I recommend watching chasing vs pursuing: ruclips.net/video/O6_q8VGFrtE/видео.html
yeah it's pretty hard to hear that you are not good enough after being together for 11 years and you've worked your guts out to give her everything.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus should be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Number 5 for sure, Im not in the mood. I have a toothache, I am tired. The list goes on. I need to move on.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
5 was the best topic for discussion
Why she acts hot and cold: ruclips.net/video/R32-X1--G6Y/видео.html :))
PS this just happened to me SMFH
Love the long long long earrings!
Glad you like them! Thank you for watching and commenting! :)
Thanks Anna, love your videos ... lots of good advice ... It makes me appreciate that I don't need to go thru all the drama of dating anymore
I'm happy that the videos are helpful to you 🙏
Video explains how to navigate hook up culture and ends with God bless. Here’s some advice focus on your life goals yeah opposite sex will find you.
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I have made it a point to never compliment on looks anymore. Most definitely not earrings or haircuts.
But thats just me 🤷♀️
Thanks for sharing!!
@@YourWingmam 🤣
Thnx 🌦️
My pleasure ❤️
Nice video thanks. Cute cat placement lol
Sometimes the cat hides in sneaky places lol Thank you for watching! :)
Wow, spot on! Wished I cudve known this b4.
Thanks for watching! At least you'll be able to watch for flags next time :)