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Комментарии • 800

  • @tamkaur
    @tamkaur  Год назад +103

    I filmed a tutorial on this exact makeup tutorial before I sat down to film this video! It’s on my second channel: ruclips.net/video/p-XtoN3Yy_I/видео.html ❤✨

    • @AFSALASANSER
      @AFSALASANSER Год назад +2

      Hey Tam, Love from India.
      I have a question. What is your opinion on guy-girl friendship? Is it actually possible or is it just an excuse to flirt? Can you share your opinion?Thank you

    • @lilyonyoutube2991
      @lilyonyoutube2991 11 месяцев назад +2

      @tamkaur ❤ dear thank you so much for this video, I wish to be your female friend. Your words are wise n very helpful 🎉

    • @saikavitakumar222
      @saikavitakumar222 2 дня назад

      Lklo

  • @ginger7055
    @ginger7055 11 месяцев назад +1080

    this is a small message for all the people watching this video or reading these comments: a breakup is not easy and although this video is super in depth and helpful not everyones healing journeys are going to be the same. I had a super messy breakup earlier this year in January from a guy I loved for 6 years and it took me SO so long to detach myself from him even though he was super toxic. 7 months after the breakup and many failed talking/dating stages later I met my current boyfriend, I can't even remember the pain I went through from that breakup because of him. Sometimes it takes another person to show you what love is actually like to get over the past. Wishing everyone lots of luck on moving forward and being happy !!

    • @aldena0598
      @aldena0598 10 месяцев назад +28

      Oh my God 6 years?? I am so happy for you and I hope you are having a good time!!

    • @amritpreetkaur510
      @amritpreetkaur510 10 месяцев назад +5

      i cant find any way

    • @ginger7055
      @ginger7055 10 месяцев назад

      It definitely is a challenge, but its so worth it when you figure it out. Everyone's journeys and coping mechanisms are completely different. I wish all the best for you and hope everything works out! everything is a lesson to help you grow for whats next 💟@@amritpreetkaur510

    • @hugzy9
      @hugzy9 8 месяцев назад +3

      Happy to hear that ❤ I hope I’ll be better soon .

    • @timeryd3r
      @timeryd3r 7 месяцев назад +5

      I got surprise breakup yesterday night and i'm blank
      I haven't laughed today and I spent my whole day on bed watching movies and youtube videos to distract myself
      I have cried many time today and don't know how my tomorrow will go because I'm scared that my friends will found it and they will stop talking to me and blame me not him
      I'm in a miserable situation right now 😭🥺
      Please help me
      🙏

  • @atinyff3827
    @atinyff3827 7 месяцев назад +161

    He didn't even like me in the first place and im here getting over him

  • @user-di2bk7nh8o
    @user-di2bk7nh8o 9 месяцев назад +401

    “That mistreatment is your closure” absolutely 💯

    • @mea24palustre3
      @mea24palustre3 6 месяцев назад +1

      Correct period

    • @sarahssharings6157
      @sarahssharings6157 5 месяцев назад +2

      Wow, I was waiting and asking and searching for a closure since months...and me reading this 💔💔😳😳

  • @DavisMalone-m2q
    @DavisMalone-m2q Месяц назад +234

    Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

    • @lorischeiber
      @lorischeiber Месяц назад

      It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.

    • @DavisMalone-m2q
      @DavisMalone-m2q Месяц назад

      That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?

    • @lorischeiber
      @lorischeiber Месяц назад

      His name is Father Abulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.

    • @DavisMalone-m2q
      @DavisMalone-m2q Месяц назад

      Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.

    • @sadeem6630
      @sadeem6630 24 дня назад

      Sweetie stop trying to get him back and get yourself a life and focus on yourself, please please know that there are SO many other guys out there that are so good and will make you laugh at yourself for accepting the bad treatment from your past relationships. Him leaving says enough, when you just let it go, so many bigger opportunities will come your way.​@@DavisMalone-m2q

  • @Jaya-22
    @Jaya-22 6 месяцев назад +57

    the ick list works wonders. i read it everytime i miss him, and i nope tf out of whatever i was missing 😂😭

  • @sanyasachdeva923
    @sanyasachdeva923 7 месяцев назад +63

    I freaking hate him for how much he has hurt me,left me cryinh and went to sleep and called me stupid for crying i freaking hate hate hate hate him

    • @Kuma-ct2vb
      @Kuma-ct2vb Месяц назад

      Me fucking to, fuck them

    • @no-uv8nh
      @no-uv8nh 16 дней назад

      Going through same

  • @cogaichamchi674
    @cogaichamchi674 Год назад +698

    2:24 the grieving stage
    2:41 #1 feel your feelings
    4:03 #2 write a letter
    5:51 #3 the IT list
    7:35 #4 move out
    9:38 #5 have boundaries
    10:16 #6 stop focusing on him/her
    11:27 the healing stage
    12:00 #1 realize your own toxic traits
    13:43 #2 reassure yourself
    14:26 #3 hold yourself accountable
    15:38 #4 everything happens for a reason
    17:13 #5 change the narrative
    17:56 #6 create a new routine
    18:34 #7 what is your purpose/mission?
    20:02 #8 the glow up
    21:39 living
    22:16 #1 regular solo dating
    22:48 #2 detach
    23:31 #3 don't beat yourself up for having flashbacks
    24:15 #4 focus on YOU
    24:33 #5 practice self love
    25:36 homework

  • @jacquelynlauren97
    @jacquelynlauren97 Год назад +131

    You know, I wrote out my dream man qualities, when me and my toxic ex broke up back in March 2021. January 2022 I met a guy and he checked everything off my list. Literally everything. We dated for a year and a half and I thought we were soulmates. Long stories short we broke up 11 or 12 days ago and I’ve realized so much. And the list I had for my “dream man” back in 2021 is still my list, I’m just adding things to that list that I didn’t know I wanted in a man, until after my most current ex. It was a learning experience and I suggest that to anyone I talk to going through a break up. I love this video. Thank you 💞

  • @forevergodly167
    @forevergodly167 Год назад +97

    "Why are they not blocked?" that was so loud Tam. But thanks for calling me out.😂

  • @nosihlemasemabanga9408
    @nosihlemasemabanga9408 Год назад +298

    The timing of this video is too perfect😭 I am currently going through a break-up after my relationship of 5 years ended. It has only been two days but to say I am going through it would be an understatement. Thank you Tam!

    • @mm11115
      @mm11115 Год назад +16

      be strong, love! everything is going to be okay

    • @idk-el5vr
      @idk-el5vr Год назад +6

      Good luck girl! It gets better!! We've got this💪

    • @heavenbcharmer
      @heavenbcharmer Год назад +7

      Yes....7 for me

    • @Cookie-wt4uz
      @Cookie-wt4uz Год назад +2

      All the best !!! Just hold on to it and you would be out of the ruts sooner

    • @qazalhematy
      @qazalhematy Год назад +1

      6 for me haha
      Wish u all the best

  • @manyasharma7758
    @manyasharma7758 7 месяцев назад +8

    I think that getting over a healthy relationship is just so much harder than a toxic one. I was in such an amazing relationship but for such a short time that it almost feels like a dream, and that he literally felt like THE one for me. I don't know why he broke up with me but maybe it is a sign that better things are to come. I might cry my eyes out for a couple of weeks (or months) but at the end, its over, i need to move on from that guy and maybe I do find someone even better.

  • @xxutauh0shinaxx
    @xxutauh0shinaxx Год назад +276

    Three months into my breakup and watching / reading everything i can to process my feelings. So happy you touched on this 😭 THANK YOU TAM

    • @Oztroza
      @Oztroza Год назад

      Hey sis , writing this from an alt to protect myself . But I’ve slept with your boyfriend on many occasions and he always said he was single . Dump his toxic ass sis , sorry for finding out this way

    • @ch3rrybl0ss0m3ev
      @ch3rrybl0ss0m3ev Год назад +9

      Six months in. Keep going, you deserve to feel loved! 💜

    • @chipl336
      @chipl336 11 месяцев назад +4

      It’s been three months this week for me and I’ve just been binge watching Tam’s videos literally all day!!! I feel so motivated 🥹

    • @xxutauh0shinaxx
      @xxutauh0shinaxx 10 месяцев назад

      @@ch3rrybl0ss0m3evThank you 😢

    • @xxutauh0shinaxx
      @xxutauh0shinaxx 10 месяцев назад

      @@chipl336You’ve got this!!!

  • @KM.0709
    @KM.0709 Год назад +144

    How badly I needed this video as my boyfriend of 4.5 yrs just left me a few months ago for no solid reason & I've been switching between being fine & literally having a mental breakdown, ur vids always give me a new outlook towards a situation 🩷🩷

    • @letholo
      @letholo Год назад +11

      i hope u get better sweetheart

    • @prajjwalika
      @prajjwalika Год назад +6

      Sending strength and serenity your wayyy💗💗

    • @ishikahussain1651
      @ishikahussain1651 Год назад +3

      Omg same my bf of 4 years left me yesterday

    • @prajjwalika
      @prajjwalika Год назад

      @@ishikahussain1651 left you? God took him away from you to make way for your actual soulmate to come...ik you won't feel like it now but when you feel really sad try to give yourself this reason...and then cry and grieve maybe?😀

    • @mahtabn.b5230
      @mahtabn.b5230 Год назад +2

      Wishing you the very best, you're doing amazing❤️

  • @priyaa_2614
    @priyaa_2614 Год назад +60

    To do list:-
    1. Write what made u feel bad in that relationship/ guy.
    2. Perks of not being with him eg, wear whatever u feel like, do whatever u feel, talk to whomsoever ( feel free)
    3. Write your dream relationship
    4. Write What value that relationship added in your life other than toxicity 😂
    5. Write your dream relationship
    6. Overthink what was so spl in them other than the energy u put in them

  • @prajjwalika
    @prajjwalika Год назад +111

    Me who's not even going through a breakup rn but when Tam posted? I've to watch it coz ik there'll be something that I'll be able to learn from this and apply it in my life someday.
    And we don't say 'No' to knowledge, do we queens??

  • @bestiiejenn
    @bestiiejenn Год назад +79

    i recently went through a terrible breakup but you helped me move on from him & i realised he was so toxic for me. Thanks Tam! Enjoying this so far

  • @hsinf9
    @hsinf9 Год назад +19

    I’ve never had a ex bf but multiple failed talking stages 😭 I find myself becoming so desperate to be romantically desired that the other person consumes all my thoughts and I become delusional and miss all their red flags SMDH. I definitely need to prioritize my self-love and not let a man’s validation control my life.

  • @simxiiety
    @simxiiety 11 месяцев назад +51

    been 10 months after the breakup and duh still haven't moved on but i know someday it wont hurt anymore and ima work hard for that. thankyou for this ❤️
    ps - will come and edit this comment when i feel like i have moved on fr

    • @maryamjalilzade8302
      @maryamjalilzade8302 9 месяцев назад +1

      Its same here sis! Keep going

    • @simxiiety
      @simxiiety 8 месяцев назад

      @@maryamjalilzade8302 trying..its hard and sometimes i wish i could throw him out of my heart and mind at once but thats not possible right? it's tough but slowing getting there. how is it going for you?

    • @DREAM_CATCHER.
      @DREAM_CATCHER. 6 месяцев назад +1

      Hey ????? Are u still there??? Have u tried all she said ? I am also lost I was addicted to him . I don't know what to say or not but I am like I would beg him plz don't go , I would cry like an idiot but he Did not stay .
      I am suffering so much I can't even explain , at work I start crying .
      How r u know please tell????

    • @simxiiety
      @simxiiety 6 месяцев назад +9

      @@DREAM_CATCHER. hello. im doing better now, obviously arent move him because he was my first love but honestly it doesnt hurt anymore like it used to earlier. i've accepted the reality that some things arent in our hands, we must go on no matter what. things which are meant for us will find us so never beg someone to stay in your life. i miss him sometimes tho but ik i deserve better. it takes time but promise you'll get there 🙌🏻

    • @tangyrnts
      @tangyrnts 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@DREAM_CATCHER. im going through the same thing rn, just got broken up with yesterday n it hurts so much to have someone one day and then they leave you later on the same day. I know things will be better for me in the future but rn all I can do is cry and grieve. You have to let time heal you. Don't suppress your feelings.

  • @oyinkansolaadekoya4927
    @oyinkansolaadekoya4927 Год назад +164

    hi tam,
    I’m a 14 year old girl and I love watching your videos. I know that your content is typically geared towards older people, but I just want to thank you for your videos and guidance. By following your strategies, I’ve made my life a little bit brighter. Much love for the US ❤️❤️

    • @sabyslay
      @sabyslay Год назад +1

      literally same !!

    • @PresDonaldTrump
      @PresDonaldTrump Год назад +5

      Omg I'm 12

    • @21hours24
      @21hours24 Год назад +2

      good luck 💗 everything is gonna work out for you! 🫶🏼

    • @PresDonaldTrump
      @PresDonaldTrump Год назад +2

      @@21hours24 Is this prophetic prediction? Is it you, God?

    • @mybrokenfingerz
      @mybrokenfingerz Год назад +6

      im 13 n i watch a bunch of self help content like this too! i feel like not all of it works bc a lot of its geared towards older ppl but i still try my best to apply what i can.

  • @karenfierro9308
    @karenfierro9308 Год назад +26

    I needed this sooo bad Tam, Broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago, feeling lost, sad, angry not knowing what to do, your videos make my life better, you are incredible ❤

  • @PardeepAttwal
    @PardeepAttwal Год назад +20

    How is a woman half my age have so much wisdom! You’re young enough to be my daughter but you have a lot more sense than I do! Keep these videos coming xx

  • @thebrowngirl5259
    @thebrowngirl5259 Год назад +25

    I really needed this so much right now, I'm currently going through a situationship breakup.

  • @Elevenbravo_ABN
    @Elevenbravo_ABN 11 месяцев назад +11

    Even as a man, I’m benefiting a lot from this. I’m even more prone towards nostalgia than the average person, and that’s always been a huge roadblock in getting over my ex.
    I finally learned and deleted every trace of her, including emails and texts. I should have done that from the beginning.
    Don’t make the mistakes I made.

    • @mehakpreet1202
      @mehakpreet1202 11 месяцев назад +1

      i do have their number and i do stalk their wsp whether they came online or not. You made me realise that i should let it all go in order for me to actual move on:)

  • @nerdzel185
    @nerdzel185 Год назад +10

    im over my ex but am gon still watch your video queen , you literallly got me through it 😌

  • @miunny
    @miunny Год назад +66

    it’s insane how tam knows what i’m going through! definitely needed this video after a messy breakup!

  • @Musicislove83
    @Musicislove83 7 месяцев назад +6

    How tf are you 22 & so wise?! I'm about to turn 41 & it has taken me so many wasted years & broken hearts to gain even a fraction of the clarity, self-confidence, poise, and knowledge you have. I'm impressed, inspired, and a little 🤯 idk what else to say except thank you 💜 subbed & looking forward to watching more of your videos xo

  • @katherine7715
    @katherine7715 Месяц назад +3

    Just going through my first major breakup. Cannot believe I have to actually learn how to get over someone who became a part of me.
    Step 3, at 14:30 really helped me. Thank you for mentioning these things!!

  • @cherryshoda4910
    @cherryshoda4910 Год назад +22

    This video came to me at the perfect time. I've recently completely cut off my ex because they were awful to me, and while I'm slowly moving on by myself, I definitely needed this advice and push to continue to heal and never, ever go back.
    Everyone who's reading this, you've got this too

  • @maisyax
    @maisyax 22 дня назад +1

    crazy how from being 14-21(now) my life revolved around him so much that when you said “you are not his ex” and to become someone else it actually hit me that i am my own person. i’ve always felt that i was a side character in his life and not rlly cared about my own. it’s so scary to take control of my own life, but you’ve helped me to realise that it is possible, so thank you and sorry for this long ass comment lol

  • @rituparnade8193
    @rituparnade8193 8 месяцев назад +5

    I was just on the verge of texting my ex who I broke up with 4 months ago..I started watching this video and was just 5 mins into it , paused it, blocked him and came back watching the video... I will keep coming back to the video whenever I feel low and think of texting him again... A guy who didn't value me the first time doesn't deserve any second chance in my life. I am much more valuable than the way he treated me... Thank you so much❤

  • @okayemily
    @okayemily Год назад +61

    Girl my bf dumped me literally 2 days ago, this could not have come at a better time 😂😂😂

  • @irenerebecca9706
    @irenerebecca9706 Год назад +14

    I feel like Tam is the only girl out there who's keeping it real. Her videos are amazing and another great thing is she creates a safe space for all of us without judgement. A true Queen❤❤❤

  • @LadyActressRoblox
    @LadyActressRoblox 11 месяцев назад +5

    Omg! You're awesome!! Spent the whole day crying because my ex randomly blocked me on Instagram last night. But after this video, my tears have dried and I'm feeling Great!!!!!

  • @no-name1025
    @no-name1025 Год назад +2

    "loving someone is never a waste." thanks a lot!
    i was thinking that i have been wasting my time so much at those days, that what i was sad about was the time that i wasted, due to it being online dating and we never met IRL. but i did in fact really loved and enjoyed talking with this person! so, i feel like now, at least my feelings were valid, and that i can treasured those memories instead of feeling ashamed about it.
    i wonder if anyone has the experience of online dating? i would love to listen to anybody stories❤

  • @plata3032
    @plata3032 Год назад +12

    YOU MADE A BREAKUP PLAYLIST FOR US???!! LIKE WHATTTTT, can't tell you how grateful iam omg what would i have done without you, you literally make so many lives better, im so grateful to have found you
    Im 20 and im rn like your older version and you inspire me to love myself and become the best version of myself and keep a man as last priority, omg i feel so much better after this, thankyou so much

    • @plata3032
      @plata3032 Год назад

      @@Star_Butterfly_7 in the description, check it out

  • @shanayaagarwal8333
    @shanayaagarwal8333 6 месяцев назад +5

    Today i texted my bff and told her to come to my place for a sleepover just so i can cry and vent and let it all out , i really need that 💔

  • @ridh-zt7kg
    @ridh-zt7kg 5 месяцев назад +2

    "someboday else's love isn't yours to lose" ‼️

  • @nusaibahtotinee1007
    @nusaibahtotinee1007 Год назад +12

    HOW SHE KNOWS WHAT WE NEED AT THIS VERY MOMENT!?

    • @sree4367
      @sree4367 7 месяцев назад +1

      she a secret spy

  • @hereisacookiepri
    @hereisacookiepri Год назад +15

    even though I'm not really good through a breakup i just know she definitely delivered something that's worth learning & remembering a lifetime in this video, so this is what I'll be watching while having my breakfast 💗

  • @user-pj4wd4lm2z
    @user-pj4wd4lm2z 3 дня назад

    im following you for two years now and last year i skipped this video, thinking i will never need that advice because i was so obsessed with myself, successful and happy. Everything changes, that is insane :)

  • @musewounded
    @musewounded Год назад +619

    This is spiritual alignment because I needed this right at this exact moment ❤😂

  • @LoveFluffybums1
    @LoveFluffybums1 Год назад +8

    I really like all of the advices, thank you! I just want to point out that for anxious preoccupied person is more difficult to move on than with a secure or avoidant attachment person.

  • @gwllybaxtiar6056
    @gwllybaxtiar6056 5 месяцев назад +2

    i wanna give you the biggest hug you’re the big sister i never had.

  • @dolleene
    @dolleene 6 месяцев назад +1

    I just wrote what she said to, the letter, and it was looooong. Truly just get EVERYTHING you want out. Like everything you want to say, wish, wonder, hope, regret, dislike, hurt, anything and everything. Jeez I feel SO much better and that was a relationship I truly cherish and I feel like Im ready to move on.

  • @Abby-jb6zk
    @Abby-jb6zk 9 месяцев назад +3

    I just want you to know that its been a few days over a break up but I've been watching your videos for months now and the first thing I did after my break up is TAM is gonna save me and my mental peace. You have taught me more than anyone ever has , I am truly grateful. Sending every female out there loads of love.

  • @aspirituallyblissedlife
    @aspirituallyblissedlife Год назад +9

    Tam you've helped me so much on my healing journey since 5 months forever grateful love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @JustAaryeah23
    @JustAaryeah23 Год назад +11

    OMG... Its like she knows what I need right now... I was struggling with few unsorted emotions and feelings and boom... Tam dropped the video. I LOVE HER SM ❤

  • @thelivingiseasy
    @thelivingiseasy Год назад +20

    Tam, I just found your channel a couple of weeks ago after going through the worst breakup of my life. We have very similar experiences when it comes to relationships and your energy and outlook is contagious. I've already started making changes and can't believe your timing with this video. Thank you for not only pursuing your aspirations but also being the friend that we all need right now. You are impacting lives all over the world and helping people grow and build healthy relationships with themselves, so thank you for that.

    • @jannzmoss9466
      @jannzmoss9466 6 месяцев назад

      Hi ! How do you feel now ? Did you recover?

    • @thelivingiseasy
      @thelivingiseasy 6 месяцев назад

      @@jannzmoss9466 I feel great. All I can say is the power of acknowledging your self-worth and unconditionally loving yourself for who you are, on both the bad days and the good days, is the best thing I've ever done for myself.

    • @jannzmoss9466
      @jannzmoss9466 6 месяцев назад

      @@thelivingiseasy So you did get over it ? I'm really struggling rn ..

    • @jannzmoss9466
      @jannzmoss9466 6 месяцев назад

      @@thelivingiseasy its such reassuring to hear this ! keep going

  • @chess6767
    @chess6767 6 месяцев назад +2

    I brokeup with my gf six months ago, still not fully recoverd yet. I'm so glad that I found this video and can't wait for my glow up journey in the next few months💜✨ thank you so much!

  • @Ritikaaa_57
    @Ritikaaa_57 Год назад +19

    Ok breakup is okay
    but how to get over from one sided love ??? 😭 How to unlove him how to avoid having feelings for them when you saw their face everyday and memories hit you back
    How to move on from person whom you love with your whole heart but didn't love you back and see you just as a friend:(

    • @prettyliltang1264
      @prettyliltang1264 6 месяцев назад +3

      Current situation and that’s the worst, just know they always come back once the greener grass is fake and doesn’t fulfill them anymore. Know that all the love and energy you have them impacted them one way or another and you did all you could, let the future and God teach them lessons ❤

    • @Ritikaaa_57
      @Ritikaaa_57 6 месяцев назад

      @@prettyliltang1264 hahaha God teaches me lesson after this comment maybe after 2-3 months later god teaches me the biggest lesson ( friendship,love,etc) now yeah I'm healing and moved on (trying) and feel so happy after that :)))

  • @LiamN407
    @LiamN407 9 месяцев назад +1

    ARIANA SAID IT BEST !!!!! PAINTED A PICTURE . In love with a version painted in our heads!!!!!

  • @chuucake
    @chuucake Год назад +4

    this is divine timing. i cried so hard watching this. i love you sister tam

  • @AnnaSmokes-sw7hn
    @AnnaSmokes-sw7hn 7 месяцев назад +1

    I seen this video before my broke up and literally when you said to adopt the mindset of "everything happens for a reason." i was telling myself that before i click on this video. I feel like this year has me on the right path, doesn't matter where it'll end cause i know everything happens for a reason so i can achieve what i believe i can be and have.

  • @rue2599
    @rue2599 Год назад +2

    It was at this moment in time I realized that Tam Kaur is the psychic guru all we girlies need. ♥️

  • @veduramkabir2888
    @veduramkabir2888 6 месяцев назад +2

    You posted this video in the month I fall apart from my ex !! Like the timing ❤❤❤

  • @manhaabdellah3474
    @manhaabdellah3474 10 месяцев назад +3

    You're literally my future self. You told every single thing I'm going through right now. I'm 20 too lol I wanna get out of this phase asap! And I'll take all necessary steps. My great and successful life ahead isn't worth clinging on to someone. That is not what my parents took the hardships for to raise me. Thanks again!

  • @EvieBirds
    @EvieBirds 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love that this is different in not settling for villainising the other person, but rather focusing on yourself 😊

  • @nicoledumani
    @nicoledumani Год назад +5

    Gosh I LOVED this video, I Was literally crying all days for my ex and then this video appeared thanks Tam

  • @ajmpbangtanminyoongi
    @ajmpbangtanminyoongi 3 месяца назад +1

    So even after 8 months, i needed this video as i was dumped by ex bf and ghosted by a situationship. THANK YOU ❤

  • @themountainisyoulove
    @themountainisyoulove Год назад +3

    OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU FOR THIS, ITS BEEN EXACTLY ONE MONTH SINCE MY BREAKUP AND I WAS ALMOST MOVING ON BUT I NEEDED THE BOOST AND I WAS PRAYING AND MANIFESTING A VIDEO FROM TAM ON THIS AND I GOT IT!!! THANK YOU TAM, THANK YOU UNIVERSEEE!!! (sorry for the caps, I'm so grateful and excited)

  • @osicapasachhe9270
    @osicapasachhe9270 4 месяца назад +5

    I’m in so much pain, it’s been 5 months but it still hurts so much. I miss him all the time. I made an ick list but it’s not helping that much today. I feel so alone, all my friends are living their own life and I feel like I’m starting over alone. I’m so sad

  • @sunshine-sn5jr
    @sunshine-sn5jr Год назад +6

    Hey tam 💜I'm 18 right now and i want to improve myself ✨️❤️through your videos i learn so many thing i don't even know thank you and i am greatful for ur help 🤞🏻💯

  • @MrRosegirl5
    @MrRosegirl5 Год назад +1

    i was so SHOCKED when i saw this come up. a little more than a week since the breakup. pretty fresh. your timing is perfect ❤

  • @Jennifer.031
    @Jennifer.031 6 месяцев назад +1

    Tam thank you so much, I watch your videos every time I want to text my ex and then I remind myself I deserve better , you are doing amazing work

  • @ingkarina822
    @ingkarina822 Год назад +4

    i dont know if you're going to see this Tam, but i had a really tough breakup a week ago and it was my first time feeling such unbearable pain in my chest where i didn't know what i was feeling, or what i could do to fix it. i found you in my youtube recommendations and I'm so glad i did because after listening to your videos throughout my day has helped me realize a lot of things, I've learnt a lot by just watching your content for the past week and I'm so grateful there is a creator like you on this platform. you have no idea how much u have helped me mature emotionally over something so tragic, and i hope you can keep on helping more people to cope with similar situations

    • @PrangyaprabhaNayak
      @PrangyaprabhaNayak Год назад

      It will be fine over time.I was in the same boat ❤

    • @ingkarina822
      @ingkarina822 Год назад

      @@PrangyaprabhaNayak thank u, first heartbreaks hurt so bad

  • @esmeraldaintent
    @esmeraldaintent 6 месяцев назад +2

    how can i like this video more than one time? 💗

  • @MegaRedhead93
    @MegaRedhead93 5 месяцев назад +1

    This video was so powerful for me. I have watched sooo many RUclips videos and TikTok’s since my breakup and this was one of the best. Thank you❤

  • @LoveRue.
    @LoveRue. Месяц назад +1

    I was here for my first break up and now I’m here for my second

    • @no-uv8nh
      @no-uv8nh 16 дней назад

      Hey going through breakup. Getting anxiety attacks. Can you help?

  • @user-sc4mp3bu7p
    @user-sc4mp3bu7p Год назад +2

    Your videos are such a breath of fresh air; I’m not even going through a breakup but I listened all through❤️

    • @tamkaur
      @tamkaur  Год назад +2

      Wow, thank you!!

  • @sriya7640
    @sriya7640 2 месяца назад

    she’s the big sister i never thought i needed , thankyou so much 😭❤

  • @nwna-fe7xp
    @nwna-fe7xp 6 месяцев назад +4

    this is actually helpful

  • @hEalShineandgRow
    @hEalShineandgRow Год назад +3

    Girl..... I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I was literally struggling through everything that WHO IS gonna understand what I am going through Thank you so much I will definitely do the Homework

  • @reighanrosette
    @reighanrosette 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this. I was in a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship for 5 years. They have said the most disgusting things to me, threatened me and my family, and would mock me and get annoyed when I cried. He would even talk bad on my mom who has terminal cancer… I was walking on egg shells and tried my best to make him happy and he never was. He is leaving tomorrow and the messed up thing is, is that I still love him. I’m really fragile and I know I feel too much sometimes.. I will follow what you say and hopefully it won’t be as painful one day..

  • @jimenavalle__
    @jimenavalle__ 3 месяца назад

    took a pen and my journal and started taking notes the minute you started talking. you have no idea how much this has helped me. thank you for being who you are and doing this for us. you deserve the world

  • @jewelscox4197
    @jewelscox4197 6 месяцев назад +2

    just had a break up the other day and have been struggling to process the emotion, we go to the same school and live in the same neighborhood so it’s hard to move on when u see them everyday

  • @smolbilli607
    @smolbilli607 Год назад +3

    It's been 4 months and I'm still grieving. It's hard because I have no one to lean on. No one knows about our relationship and I can't even talk to anyone about it. Life with her was hell and left without her is hell.

    • @Sadhrita2002
      @Sadhrita2002 9 месяцев назад

      Exactly it's really hard because I can't open up to anyone because it was a private relationship 😢

  • @sharchannel1836
    @sharchannel1836 9 месяцев назад +1

    The best get over ex video I've seen

  • @IndiaAlice
    @IndiaAlice 5 месяцев назад

    i cant put into words how grateful i am for tam. 3 months ago i came to this video but i only watched the first chapter. i kept coming back to rewatch it. now im at a place where i can follow through with the next two chapters. your videos ground me whenever i spiral and remind me that i am that girl. ilysm.

  • @lynnmayorga
    @lynnmayorga Год назад +10

    Thank you Tam! I love this and will be following these steps for my life right now❤️ You’re truly doing amazing work to help young women like me💕

  • @unknownuser4340
    @unknownuser4340 Год назад +3

    Im 14 years old and going through a breakup. The problem is I have attachment issues and i need to be around people constantly so I attached myself to my ex. I feel so alone right now but im willing to get over him. Were still good friends and he's doing his best to help me.

  • @lalafl200
    @lalafl200 Год назад +2

    Watching your subscribers grow makes me happy. Been with you for a while and I'm loving the growth

    • @tamkaur
      @tamkaur  Год назад +1

      You're the best😭💕

  • @ساراصمدی-ل8ب
    @ساراصمدی-ل8ب 5 месяцев назад +1

    This video take about 5 hours for me, but it really works! I'm going to eat after 3 days of starving, i smile and the voices in my head gone
    I want to do every single thing you said in this video, and i want to be a diffrent girl
    Just want to say thank you, you saved me!

  • @Julia-dj7kp
    @Julia-dj7kp 8 месяцев назад +1

    My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago because of our long distance relationship. It hurts so much not having him there everyday, but deep down i know it was the best decision for both of us... thanks for the homework tasks❤ they sure will help ms out

  • @sabyslay
    @sabyslay Год назад +3

    girlie we NEED a make-up routine !!

    • @tamkaur
      @tamkaur  Год назад +1

      It’s on my vlog channel! Linked in the description x

  • @MiaCarter7
    @MiaCarter7 Год назад +2

    I’m way older than you but I’m a late bloomer. Wish I’d learned all of this sooner. Great advice!

  • @Charlie-rm8de
    @Charlie-rm8de 11 месяцев назад +1

    Literally just broke up with my other half, I needed to hear this so much ❤❤❤

  • @chelcy-laviniadavidson8901
    @chelcy-laviniadavidson8901 Год назад +2

    Thankyou so much Tam for making videos to help us women, you are so smart and very inspiring, this video really aligned with me, you are so right about everything, i blocked my ex for good! Going to do all the homework, thankyou for helping me with my glow up ❤❤ much love from australia

  • @princess_irene12
    @princess_irene12 Год назад +1

    I had so many letters that I had'nt trashed and finally thanks for this video, I can burn that letters and they aren't part of my life!!

    • @tamkaur
      @tamkaur  Год назад

      SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!

  • @trupthijc
    @trupthijc Год назад +1

    can we take a second to appreciate tam's makeup???? like girl SLAYYYYY

  • @musicheals266
    @musicheals266 25 дней назад +1

    Tam thanks so much I am currently going through a break up a bad one it has been 2 months now I do cry sometimes because of the fact that he was so handsome but now I am realising that a handsome man in my life does not complete me I am beautiful and attractive I don't need a man I am going to become the dream girl I wanted to be in 3 years prolly come back and write how I am completely over him and over the fact that I don't need a handsome man

  • @YellowDG
    @YellowDG 11 месяцев назад +2

    My bf of 2 years broke up with me today and didn’t know what to do. I’ve been aware that he was not my dream man and the man I fell in love with was long gone but still held on very tightly. Your video helped me realise that doing so pushes the opportunity of finding someone better even further away. Made the first step of making a breakup playlist, still unable to fully cut contact as of now.

    • @jannzmoss9466
      @jannzmoss9466 6 месяцев назад

      Hi how do you feel now ? did you get over it ?

  • @MsLaFashionista
    @MsLaFashionista Год назад +2

    Best post breakup video I’ve ever seen! With practical steps too. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @liabomolapo3437
    @liabomolapo3437 Год назад +2

    This video really helped me a lot cause I didn't even realize I felt this way, or I thought it was just a weird feeling and it was bad to grief, only to realize it's normal and I have to go through it at my own pace and not to be hard on myself 😂😂😪😪
    Thank you 😊 ❤

  • @already8use
    @already8use 5 месяцев назад

    To be honest I SAID EVERYTHING I HAD TO SAY . In each every single one of my break up and it always made me feel so much better

  • @Ririkoii
    @Ririkoii Год назад +10

    It took me 6 months and i do still think about him sometimes but I’m not emotionally attached anymore haha

  • @ericaaputri
    @ericaaputri Год назад +1

    I just broke up within this month, and this is definitely what I needed to hear. Thank you Tam 😭 you’re a godsend

  • @Cookie-wt4uz
    @Cookie-wt4uz Год назад +3

    I love you so much Tammm! I am so glad I sat with blank A4 sheets and did everything you spoke about and I feel lot lot lottttt better! I hope i get a bit closer to my dream version this year with you ❤

  • @user-iq8ds3mr6b
    @user-iq8ds3mr6b 4 месяца назад +1

    it really helped me to move on.. thank youu tam kaur

  • @heathermansur8673
    @heathermansur8673 Год назад +7

    Thank you so much! I wish I had your wisdom when I was in my 20s. This was exactly what I needed to hear!❤