I really dislike gossiping and bitching about people and that's why it's difficult for me to fit in college groups. For a long period of time I thought I'm boring but now I realise it's a remarkable and high value trait. Proud of myself.🤗
I’m like this too, and not everyone likes me for it but gossiping is so lame I’m ok to disappoint people who do spread hate and drama! Keep at it girl, the right people will find you!
same but I always follow into the trap especially because it’s so prevalent in todays society😭 I feel that there’s nothing else to talk about which is sad because it feels like gossip brings people together
oof can totally relate. Every time I spend time with a group it feels like all they want to do is talk about other people and the negativity is very uncomfortable:(
Dont mind me, just taking notes Traits : 1. Not everybody gets you, they earn you ; its a privilege to be in your space ; treat yourself high value 2. She is kind and compassionate and mature : radiate love, be at peace, be more acceptable 3. She is addicted to her self development ; be detached from everything 4. Femininity 5. Self worth, love and care Lifestyle 1. She wakes up early 2. She gets her workout done 3. She does her skincare 4. She eats a healthy breakfast 5. She puts effort in her appearance 6. She unwinds herself for starting the second half of the day 7. She eats or cooks a healthy dinner 8. She goes through all the task with the best attitude 9. She journals 10. She goes to bed with peace In friendships 1. Detachment 2. Doesnt surround with people just for the sake of it Affs in comment section
“Just because I know how to be independent doesn’t mean I have to take control of everything and I can’t allow anyone to do anything to me” I loved it ❤️
1. exclusivity - be picky who you spend your time with 2. be kind and considerate but not a people pleaser 3. how will i fix my insecurities? have a mission. start with a purpose for the day, “you know where you’re going” 4. femininity - allow yourself to receive affection and people providing for you. “just because you know you can be independent, doesn’t mean you should be 24/7.” 5. balance - take care of yourself and don’t let emotions control your life. feel them, don’t suppress them. “high value people don’t attach accomplishment to your self worth” - you become unplayable.
I am a man, but actually I find this video way more helpful and useful than many ''high-value man'' videos I've seen on youtube. Some of them are just focused on how to make money and get to work instead of processing your feelings, healing your traumas etc. I just want to heal, accept myself and build a solid foundation for self-esteem and self-development. I also want to share an important fact: I know from personal experience that men can fall into abusive relationships with narcissistic/abusive individuals as easily as women. Everyone struggles with self-esteem and everyone needs to heal, men should embrace femininity too.
Wow I love the part about not controlling your partner. I was in a five year relationship and he always wanted to go out without me. I never complained, I let him be an individual. The truth finally came out and wishing a year of the break up I met the most loving amazing man who cherishes me and supports me and we are now planning our wedding. What’s not for you will never be yours, but what is will come and find you
@EchoCTango yeah it’s so sad, but what’s meant for you will always be yours and what isn’t meant never will be. A lot of times what we think we want isn’t even close to what we are about to receive. Surrender, faith, and trust!
Thanks to you , I’ve began journaling, when I’m angry , sad , happy or normal and I just feel okay writing my thoughts and not having to consider how my words will affect someone . I used to ran to a friend to talk to but now my diary is my closest friend and however my day went , I write it down .
I didn’t get five minutes into the video and was already hollering “yessss!” after every sentence. Every second was absolute gold. This vid was beyond amazing and I wish every women could watch it. The advice is one hundred percent nail on the head accurate and so vitally important. High value has nothing to do with what you look like and everything do with how you carry and take care of yourself.
I feel like so many girls don’t know the secrets we deserve to know… I found this book, 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons and it’s literally life-changing. Has anyone else heard of it??
As a fellow South Asian Brown woman, it is so refreshing to see Tam speak of living an easy and soft life!! Especially because so often Brown women are expected to sacrifice for other people and spend their life pleasing others. Thank you for being a rolemodel, Tam!! I'm so glad to be learning so much from you and finally understanding that I too absolutely deserve to be THAT woman!! 🙏🏽💗🥰 Sending so much love towards you!!
Someone finally said it. Yes!! This! Brown women generally are all facing this. We are brainwashed into feeling "selfish" if we prioritise ourselves & our needs growing up as girls, so we all become people pleasers as Adults. 99% of the convo I have with my dearest family/friends is about other people & how overworked they feel doing so much for them. Even if the conversation is about the worry they have for others. Even if I want to try have a catch up with them. I have begun to invest my time in more positive spaces & I set boundaries now. That will never be me again :) x
@@rushialeema8321 Same here girl. As a fellow brown girl ( Indian), we are made to believe that sacrificing ourselves, especially for our in-laws, spouse and parents is something virtuous. A lot of us end up being a pick-me and Barbara the builders who have no control over our own lives and our destiny are often controlled by others(especially the men of our family)
I heard this best, my families Italian and sometimes we also can be like this. The mammone culture. But I heard imagine your a cup, give from your overflow, not your depletion.
TAM YOU ARE GROWING SOOO FAST!!! I’m so proud of you! You’re like a big sister I’ve never had. I’m also a young Punjabi girl (16) and I PRAYYY I can become a influencer when I’m older
i can not express how quickly a smile apeared on my face when you said that just because im watching these type of videos im already a potentional for a HVW, ilysm Tam you changed my prespective on life SO much
One of my favourite rituals is putting on a new video from you while I'm doing a mindless copying-by-hand sort of assignment; staying on top of things while also treating myself to wonderfully structured, non judgemental, nuanced pearls of wisdom. Thank you so much for all your work! 💝
I am ECSTATIC I found your page. I've been listening to you and SheRa Seven for the past week and I already feel like a different, more improved woman. I've been so much happier and realized there is nothing wrong with me, I was just dating low vibrational people out of fear of seeming materialistic or "spoiled". Little did I know I actually deserve to be spoiled. Thank you both and women like you so so much. 🖤 This is the change I needed after being clinically depressed for as long as I could remember.
Siento que eres esa amiga que te dice tú puedes y haste dueña ello, esa persona que te motiva a seguir siendo la mejor versión de tí y eso es algo que siempre agradeceré porque me motivas muchísimo cuando estoy deprimida 💗
I recently found this channel and I’m really loving the energy here. The HVW stuff isn’t new to me, but Tam approaches in a way that doesn’t put me on guard if that makes sense. I hate HVW being only discussed in the context of dating or ‘being worthy’ of a HVM. A HVW being a woman stepping a way from toxic social media habits or just making sure she’s good with herself (not for someone else’s approval) that’s so much more relatable to me.
What you said at 5:21, ‘me just clicking on this video and wanting to learn more’ is so empowering! ✨ Im in my learning phase where I’m reading and writing and learning about all these different ways and tips on how to improve myself yet I feel like I’m never there! 😭 but I continue to remind myself that at least I’m taking a step to get better! God bless you for the love ❤️
Just started on a new journey of self development and lately I've been working on my value I have to give myself. This was the very right time to watch THIS video!!
I absolutely adore how in depth you’ve taken this video, truly was not what I expected and 5 minutes in you’re already reminding me that A HIGH VALUE WOMAN IS ALL IN THE MENTALITY, THE MORALS AND VALUING YOUR SELF!!!!! Not the amount of makeup or how much money you spent on an outfit. I love your content already thank you for reality check I needed! Build each other up rather than “fitting in” by bringing anyone down xx
New subscriber after watching about 5 of your videos. You are probably the 1st person who has truly spoken to me. I feel like I have such a fire in my belly to change my life, become a high value waman, becoming emotionally intelligent and so much more. Wish me luck on working on all areas. I do criticise, judge, have victim mentality, why is everything against me. Basically everything you mentioned in your EI video but I'm well aware of all this and I'm determined to completely reinvent myself, work on my traumas etc x
"be 1% better than yesterday" is the simple trick to achieve success. the high value women thing is so engraved in my mind after watching this ,I was genuinely searching for smtg like this and here i found you. Ofc I m subscribing you
Thank you Tam so so much for this video, listening to you whilst I journal... my best friend just got into a high ranking, prestigious university a few hours ago from which I was rejected from. I love her and I'm genuinely so happy for her, yet I hate the underlying jealousy I have because of it. But because of this video, I'm reminding myself to not let it affect me, not to obsess over it, and that we all have different timelines of success.
I love that you are so self aware and honest to yourself❤️❤️ your success is gonna arrive very soon pe proud of yourself for trying and give yourself compassion ❤️ lots of love to you darling from Germany 💕
You pretty much described what a Proverbs 31 woman is. But watching your video has made me realize that I am a high valued woman. I have areas I need to work on of course but I have more worth then I realized. Im.still healing from.so much but God has brought me to that place of love, peace, joy and enlightment. You are super inspirational. God bless you. ❤
One thing i love about Tam is that she goes deep into the topic and gives a logical explanation whilst majority RUclipsrs preach the same thing for eg "Man should be the provider" but no one coherently explains that him being a provider doesnt mean you are incapable of providing for yourself.
i love your videos. i'm from germany and there are only a few youtubers who deal with the topic. I have been dealing with feminine energy and self-healing etc. for a few months and my life has changed completely and more and more positively. your videos bring me even further. Thank you 🫶
girl this is literal gold. u helped me acknowledge low-quality vibes that were so normalised. can you suggest podcasts/ content/ things to do to get out of this rathole of low quality environment and surround yourself with high quality energies.
okay, I am just in love with your content... so grateful for this videos you make for us thank you so much to help us to uplift ourselves and raise our standards THANK YOU SO MUCH TAM KAUR ! 💖
THANK YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS AND YOU BEING WHO YOU ARE!!! I’m starting my journey after my ex broke up with me a couple weeks ago. Your videos are already so helpful. 💕💕
your energy is on one 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you are literally wording everything perfectly. the videos and you are effortless!! keep shining and sharing the wisdom. i see you woman! sending love & light to you 💚✨
You're just a star...you are the only one who always helps me get out of my depression and negative thoughts..today I promise myself to become the best version of myself.. thankyou so much once again...God bless youu❤
Hey Tam! I am jumping straight here after watching your YT video (HVW). I was going through a mental breakdown and your video popped up and it just felt like a therapy to me. I just wanna appreciate you and send in all the love for being this person online who’s out there inspiring us women and enlightening us to be our best!✨ I am kinda emotional rn because it really hit me hard and reminded me of who I really was and how I was losing myself. Can’t wait to watch all your videos and learn more about myself and level up😌🌸 Love, Aayat
Hey I'm new to your channel but I've already watched all of your videos. You've become my comfort channel. Just listening to you in the background when I'm studying gets me out of that anxious depressed desperate state... It's like you validate my feminine energy and emotions which aren't accepted generally. Coz people usually discourage others to set their boundaries but listening to you gives me that validation to keep loving and prioritizing myself. I hope you keep making more videos and especially more on feminine energy, detachment and self love and confidence. I'd love to watch more videos about accepting the bare minimum in a relationship. Maybe you can dive deep in that. Anyway much love 💗❤
I am 15 years old looking forward to be my higher self i am eldest sibling in home but her videos always feels like a sister giving me advice for life . I am just focusing right now that people limiting beleive doest set my boundaries
Damn girl! You literally the ace.. I literally love how pragmatic and authentic your words and thoughts are.. and the rapport which you create with your viewers is something eccentric! Hope you know that.. Remain at the pursuit of your health and happiness..♥️🧿
Traits of a high value woman 1. People don't get you, they earn you 2. She's kind, gentle, compassionate and mature 3. She's addicted to self love and development...detaches from every other thing 4. Femininity... allow yourself to be cared for and pampered by men(without being dependent) 5. Self worth, care and love 3.
I’ve made my vision boards and consistently been doing selfcare at night as well as in morning ,doing gym since 4 months ,I feel 10x better❤❤entering 2024 with the high value confident girl vibes>3 ❤❤Thankyou tam!may god bless you!
Tam this video (and all your other vids obvi) are pure gold. I love how wise you are for your age. You are glowing and radiating, you present so well, and I love your passion. Keep up the amazing work queen 💖
Focus on healing their traumas so they do not display anymore toxic behaviour. I badly needed this. Thank you. I suffer from bullying and I become so defensive when people are showing a bit of aggression to me. Or falsely accusing me. They made tons of falsd allegations that people still believed until now. I react so badly when one makes a false allegation towards me. Because no one listen nor asks my side. Its like they finally found some dirt on me aftef years of looking . Thabk you. Oh my god. I need to learn to not try explaining myself to people not worth it. But alwayx be prepared with facts and evidence . Now let me finish the video 😅 that sentence hit me too hard
You spoke so well...I loved your Myth 1..Many videos were of leveling up to become desirable....Sis it's not someone else...grow for urself... Waiting for more videos.. Much love babe ❤
I love these videos Tam!! It’s also amazing watching your channel grow and get the recognition you deserve🥹 I’m the oldest child in my family, but watching your videos makes me feel like you’re the older sister I never had with all the good advice and wisdom❤️ You’re amazing :-)
I have been around here for almost an hour watching your others videos waiting for this week's video 😍 I just LOVE your energy and all of your advice , thank you from the bottom of my heart , your advice has truly helped me ❤❤
I’ve subscribed to this Channel as soon as I’ve seen the vibrational chart. I don’t like other Chanel’s who focus on toxic ways, I strongly love this Channel and takes loving compassion angle to self healing and growth. Focusing on oneself being better each day an diner work. Thank you Tam xx
Glad to have found this video. I have just realized after being with my high value husband for 11 years, that I have never been a high value woman. I have been feeling so sad for my husband to have had to deal with certain things about me for all this time, and am so done with how I have felt mentally. This video helped me figure out exactly what I have to do going forward. I am so ready to become a REAL power couple rather just acting like one! THANK YOU A MILLION TIMES OVER ❤
Tam I love love love your videos. You don't know how much you are contributing in making us people mentally healthier. I just hope you keep growing and being a queen you already are. I'm so grateful to you. 🤧
In my opinion, I don’t think we can ever reach our “best version”. We will always find a way to be unsatisfied because we will be so attached to the idea of “best version”. I say just be the person you’d like to be around. You don’t have to be the “best” to enjoy who you are or your life. Change that word “best” into “likeable” or “lovable person”. Best is something that isn’t stable but love is continuous. Nobody can take away your how loved you are. This is just my idea. But, I know there are others like me who don’t really like the word “best”.
The best version of you is the one that is continuously growing, improving and living your life to your fullest potential. It is not an end goal. It’s living your best life for where you’re at in your journey
Its 12:30 pm half day wasted tried hard to get on completing my assignments, starting doing qriting work and opened this video stopped half drank water, made made to do list, set up structured and began saving the rest of the day Thnks tam ilysm❤
Hello , I am watching you from Kazakhstan, and I just want to say: thank you! Thank you very much, you are helping me a lot in the way to become a person of my dream 😭❤️
I'm a guy and honestly I find a lot of your videos super helpful, grounding, and empowering even though I know they are intended for women. I definitely believe that uniting my feminine and masculine energies is important and find your content to be very illuminating with learning how to operate in the energy of high self-worth, being receptive to blessings and opportunities from the Universe, and creating the reality I want here in the NOW. Thank you for the work that you do and the divine person that you are. My spirit guide - Aphrodite - tells me to watch your videos all the time LOL
I started watching your videos from January 1, 2024. I used to relate to all the low vibrational traits then but now I actually feel like I am healing and improving myself. Honestly speaking, I am now becoming more like Athena😊
Tam I freakin loved this. I love how you really go in depth and explain what is need to be done to become high value Keep up the amazing content ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊
It has been 1 and half month ive been watching these videos and trying my best to connect on more deeper levels with myself. Yesterday just suddenly I wasn’t feeling that high vibration for some reason but now watching these again make me feel good enough because I try to seek something which makes me feel good and not other’s attention or validations
Remember that “high value” and “low value” have nothing to do with your actual worth. These are just labels for good habits and bad habits from what I gather. Even if you have done these bad habits it doesn’t make you less than of a value than someone who does high value habits
i think the term “high value woman” is misleading and can be weaponized by misogynistic men. the way i interpret this is you are already valuable. you inherently have value, but you may not treat yourself as if you have value.
Really loved the affirmations. Definitely gonna be watching this video for a few more times. Even though I consider myself as a high value woman I like seeing my beliefs appreciated. To every woman out there: make ur dreams come true coz u can do anything u set ur mind to.
Thank you so much!! You are absolutely glowing. Any tips on where I can find high value friendships/relationships? They seem so rare! But I feel like it's so much easier to grow as a person when you're surrounded by supportive people
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I really dislike gossiping and bitching about people and that's why it's difficult for me to fit in college groups. For a long period of time I thought I'm boring but now I realise it's a remarkable and high value trait. Proud of myself.🤗
I’m like this too, and not everyone likes me for it but gossiping is so lame I’m ok to disappoint people who do spread hate and drama! Keep at it girl, the right people will find you!
I feel this! Could relate well.
oh god same
same but I always follow into the trap especially because it’s so prevalent in todays society😭 I feel that there’s nothing else to talk about which is sad because it feels like gossip brings people together
oof can totally relate. Every time I spend time with a group it feels like all they want to do is talk about other people and the negativity is very uncomfortable:(
21:19 "Someone else's beauty is not the absence of your own" wow.
Dont mind me, just taking notes
Traits :
1. Not everybody gets you, they earn you ; its a privilege to be in your space ; treat yourself high value
2. She is kind and compassionate and mature : radiate love, be at peace, be more acceptable
3. She is addicted to her self development ; be detached from everything
4. Femininity
5. Self worth, love and care
Lifestyle
1. She wakes up early
2. She gets her workout done
3. She does her skincare
4. She eats a healthy breakfast
5. She puts effort in her appearance
6. She unwinds herself for starting the second half of the day
7. She eats or cooks a healthy dinner
8. She goes through all the task with the best attitude
9. She journals
10. She goes to bed with peace
In friendships
1. Detachment
2. Doesnt surround with people just for the sake of it
Affs in comment section
tysm imma write this in my note book
How does one copy this 😂 honestly need to learn how to be a high value woman with all my baggage and mistakes made
thanks, i have a hard time listening to her tone of voice no hate, just overstimulated
Thanks! I listen to this video while I’m in the train, so I couldn’t take any notes, so this really help me❤❤
This is literally like just a basic everyday routine.. how is this high value
It's okay to feel jealous. It's a natural feeling. What matters is how you react.
True!
wow
"The kind of people you want, are looking for you too". This comment section is a solid proof!
yes..sending you lots of love & light Shresthi!
“Just because I know how to be independent doesn’t mean I have to take control of everything and I can’t allow anyone to do anything to me” I loved it ❤️
1. exclusivity - be picky who you spend your time with
2. be kind and considerate but not a people pleaser
3. how will i fix my insecurities? have a mission. start with a purpose for the day, “you know where you’re going”
4. femininity - allow yourself to receive affection and people providing for you. “just because you know you can be independent, doesn’t mean you should be 24/7.”
5. balance - take care of yourself and don’t let emotions control your life. feel them, don’t suppress them.
“high value people don’t attach accomplishment to your self worth” - you become unplayable.
Tam and the wizardliz are top tier podcasters!
Omg she liked this! She probably likes wizardliz too haha
I am a man, but actually I find this video way more helpful and useful than many ''high-value man'' videos I've seen on youtube. Some of them are just focused on how to make money and get to work instead of processing your feelings, healing your traumas etc.
I just want to heal, accept myself and build a solid foundation for self-esteem and self-development.
I also want to share an important fact: I know from personal experience that men can fall into abusive relationships with narcissistic/abusive individuals as easily as women. Everyone struggles with self-esteem and everyone needs to heal, men should embrace femininity too.
You're right bro, good luck
@nivekkito Love your comment! as a girl, I also love my masculine energy ! and you are right!
well you can also use these videos to know what you may want to find in a high value woman
@@randomstuff3224 sooo true!!!
I love this comment 🥹❤️🙌
Wow I love the part about not controlling your partner. I was in a five year relationship and he always wanted to go out without me. I never complained, I let him be an individual. The truth finally came out and wishing a year of the break up I met the most loving amazing man who cherishes me and supports me and we are now planning our wedding. What’s not for you will never be yours, but what is will come and find you
@EchoCTango yeah it’s so sad, but what’s meant for you will always be yours and what isn’t meant never will be. A lot of times what we think we want isn’t even close to what we are about to receive. Surrender, faith, and trust!
Thanks to you , I’ve began journaling, when I’m angry , sad , happy or normal and I just feel okay writing my thoughts and not having to consider how my words will affect someone . I used to ran to a friend to talk to but now my diary is my closest friend and however my day went , I write it down .
That’s wonderful.
YOU are your own best friend ❤
I didn’t get five minutes into the video and was already hollering “yessss!” after every sentence. Every second was absolute gold. This vid was beyond amazing and I wish every women could watch it. The advice is one hundred percent nail on the head accurate and so vitally important. High value has nothing to do with what you look like and everything do with how you carry and take care of yourself.
exactly!!! it's basically the amount value you're giving to yourself nothing controversial there
At first I thought it's some, " Alpha men podcast " High value woman, thankfully it's not 😂😂😂😂
So happy I've grown to become a high-value woman! I'm 18 and I truly want to become the best version of myself everday.
Omg same 💕18 has been a turning point for me
how was 16 for you? and how is it going so far?:)
I feel like so many girls don’t know the secrets we deserve to know… I found this book, 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons and it’s literally life-changing. Has anyone else heard of it??
I got it, truly a good book
thankss
As a fellow South Asian Brown woman, it is so refreshing to see Tam speak of living an easy and soft life!! Especially because so often Brown women are expected to sacrifice for other people and spend their life pleasing others. Thank you for being a rolemodel, Tam!! I'm so glad to be learning so much from you and finally understanding that I too absolutely deserve to be THAT woman!! 🙏🏽💗🥰 Sending so much love towards you!!
omg I love this so much. thank you for the sweetest comment ever !! 🧡
Someone finally said it. Yes!! This! Brown women generally are all facing this. We are brainwashed into feeling "selfish" if we prioritise ourselves & our needs growing up as girls, so we all become people pleasers as Adults.
99% of the convo I have with my dearest family/friends is about other people & how overworked they feel doing so much for them. Even if the conversation is about the worry they have for others. Even if I want to try have a catch up with them.
I have begun to invest my time in more positive spaces & I set boundaries now. That will never be me again :) x
@@rushialeema8321 Same here girl.
As a fellow brown girl ( Indian), we are made to believe that sacrificing ourselves, especially for our in-laws, spouse and parents is something virtuous.
A lot of us end up being a pick-me and Barbara the builders who have no control over our own lives and our destiny are often controlled by others(especially the men of our family)
I heard this best, my families Italian and sometimes we also can be like this. The mammone culture. But I heard imagine your a cup, give from your overflow, not your depletion.
I think this is exclusive to religious and rural communities everywhere as well
omg, i no longer have to feel so alone anymore and suffer the criticism of others for not joining the crowd. THANK YOU!!!!
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden". I have studied men before.
really? should i buy it?
ah damn it, it‘s just online
TAM YOU ARE GROWING SOOO FAST!!! I’m so proud of you! You’re like a big sister I’ve never had. I’m also a young Punjabi girl (16) and I PRAYYY I can become a influencer when I’m older
You definitely will young lady ❤️
@@ayushmitachakraborty3414 awww Tysm. Sending you the best engery ever, I hope you become you’re dream women in no time❤️
you got this girlie 💖💖💖
@@macygreene3622 thank you Macy❤️
I am Punjabi too!! 15btw..... Hope you achieve whatever you want in life...
i can not express how quickly a smile apeared on my face when you said that just because im watching these type of videos im already a potentional for a HVW, ilysm Tam you changed my prespective on life SO much
stepping into a very "rebrand" era in some areas in my life and this vid was exactly what i needed rn .
One of my favourite rituals is putting on a new video from you while I'm doing a mindless copying-by-hand sort of assignment; staying on top of things while also treating myself to wonderfully structured, non judgemental, nuanced pearls of wisdom. Thank you so much for all your work! 💝
Girl Boss Hustle: Earn 10k from Home showed me the way to make 10k a month without leaving my house. Why is no one talking about this?
I am ECSTATIC I found your page. I've been listening to you and SheRa Seven for the past week and I already feel like a different, more improved woman.
I've been so much happier and realized there is nothing wrong with me, I was just dating low vibrational people out of fear of seeming materialistic or "spoiled". Little did I know I actually deserve to be spoiled.
Thank you both and women like you so so much. 🖤 This is the change I needed after being clinically depressed for as long as I could remember.
Siento que eres esa amiga que te dice tú puedes y haste dueña ello, esa persona que te motiva a seguir siendo la mejor versión de tí y eso es algo que siempre agradeceré porque me motivas muchísimo cuando estoy deprimida 💗
Love the earlier sarcasm in the video and the passion you use to speak about the topic. LOVE you girl
I recently found this channel and I’m really loving the energy here. The HVW stuff isn’t new to me, but Tam approaches in a way that doesn’t put me on guard if that makes sense. I hate HVW being only discussed in the context of dating or ‘being worthy’ of a HVM. A HVW being a woman stepping a way from toxic social media habits or just making sure she’s good with herself (not for someone else’s approval) that’s so much more relatable to me.
What you said at 5:21, ‘me just clicking on this video and wanting to learn more’ is so empowering! ✨ Im in my learning phase where I’m reading and writing and learning about all these different ways and tips on how to improve myself yet I feel like I’m never there! 😭 but I continue to remind myself that at least I’m taking a step to get better! God bless you for the love ❤️
“People don’t get you, they earn you” spill me some tea Tam😍🥳. We high valuing henceforth 😀💃💃💃. Thank you 💝
24:09
Just started on a new journey of self development and lately I've been working on my value I have to give myself. This was the very right time to watch THIS video!!
I absolutely adore how in depth you’ve taken this video, truly was not what I expected and 5 minutes in you’re already reminding me that A HIGH VALUE WOMAN IS ALL IN THE MENTALITY, THE MORALS AND VALUING YOUR SELF!!!!! Not the amount of makeup or how much money you spent on an outfit. I love your content already thank you for reality check I needed! Build each other up rather than “fitting in” by bringing anyone down xx
Glad you enjoyed it!
New subscriber after watching about 5 of your videos. You are probably the 1st person who has truly spoken to me. I feel like I have such a fire in my belly to change my life, become a high value waman, becoming emotionally intelligent and so much more. Wish me luck on working on all areas. I do criticise, judge, have victim mentality, why is everything against me. Basically everything you mentioned in your EI video but I'm well aware of all this and I'm determined to completely reinvent myself, work on my traumas etc x
she’s really healing so many women! i love her immensely ❤
A confident woman never puts other women down.
"be 1% better than yesterday" is the simple trick to achieve success.
the high value women thing is so engraved in my mind after watching this ,I was genuinely searching for smtg like this and here i found you.
Ofc I m subscribing you
all of your vids just inspire me so much to be a better version of myself
You're so much younger than I am - you could be my daughter and yet here I am in my early 40s listening to your pearls of wisdom. You're an old soul.
Thank you Tam so so much for this video, listening to you whilst I journal... my best friend just got into a high ranking, prestigious university a few hours ago from which I was rejected from. I love her and I'm genuinely so happy for her, yet I hate the underlying jealousy I have because of it. But because of this video, I'm reminding myself to not let it affect me, not to obsess over it, and that we all have different timelines of success.
I love that you are so self aware and honest to yourself❤️❤️ your success is gonna arrive very soon pe proud of yourself for trying and give yourself compassion ❤️ lots of love to you darling from Germany 💕
You pretty much described what a Proverbs 31 woman is. But watching your video has made me realize that I am a high valued woman. I have areas I need to work on of course but I have more worth then I realized. Im.still healing from.so much but God has brought me to that place of love, peace, joy and enlightment. You are super inspirational. God bless you. ❤
One thing i love about Tam is that she goes deep into the topic and gives a logical explanation whilst majority RUclipsrs preach the same thing for eg "Man should be the provider" but no one coherently explains that him being a provider doesnt mean you are incapable of providing for yourself.
i love your videos. i'm from germany and there are only a few youtubers who deal with the topic. I have been dealing with feminine energy and self-healing etc. for a few months and my life has changed completely and more and more positively. your videos bring me even further. Thank you 🫶
Affirmations mentioned by Tam Kaur in this video
Thank you!,,
girl this is literal gold. u helped me acknowledge low-quality vibes that were so normalised. can you suggest podcasts/ content/ things to do to get out of this rathole of low quality environment and surround yourself with high quality energies.
okay, I am just in love with your content... so grateful for this videos you make for us thank you so much to help us to uplift ourselves and raise our standards THANK YOU SO MUCH TAM KAUR ! 💖
THANK YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS AND YOU BEING WHO YOU ARE!!! I’m starting my journey after my ex broke up with me a couple weeks ago. Your videos are already so helpful. 💕💕
YOU GOT THIS🥹✨✨✨
I've been in an awful rut for over 2 months. I'm so grateful I found you.
ill clean my depression room now, i feel so much better:D
your energy is on one 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you are literally wording everything perfectly. the videos and you are effortless!! keep shining and sharing the wisdom. i see you woman! sending love & light to you 💚✨
You're just a star...you are the only one who always helps me get out of my depression and negative thoughts..today I promise myself to become the best version of myself.. thankyou so much once again...God bless youu❤
Hey Tam!
I am jumping straight here after watching your YT video (HVW). I was going through a mental breakdown and your video popped up and it just felt like a therapy to me.
I just wanna appreciate you and send in all the love for being this person online who’s out there inspiring us women and enlightening us to be our best!✨
I am kinda emotional rn because it really hit me hard and reminded me of who I really was and how I was losing myself.
Can’t wait to watch all your videos and learn more about myself and level up😌🌸
Love,
Aayat
Hey I'm new to your channel but I've already watched all of your videos. You've become my comfort channel. Just listening to you in the background when I'm studying gets me out of that anxious depressed desperate state... It's like you validate my feminine energy and emotions which aren't accepted generally. Coz people usually discourage others to set their boundaries but listening to you gives me that validation to keep loving and prioritizing myself. I hope you keep making more videos and especially more on feminine energy, detachment and self love and confidence. I'd love to watch more videos about accepting the bare minimum in a relationship. Maybe you can dive deep in that. Anyway much love 💗❤
I am 15 years old looking forward to be my higher self i am eldest sibling in home but her videos always feels like a sister giving me advice for life . I am just focusing right now that people limiting beleive doest set my boundaries
Wow your channel have grown a lot for just a few weeks. You deserve it. Thank you so much, you’re such an inspiration. 🎉❤
Damn girl! You literally the ace.. I literally love how pragmatic and authentic your words and thoughts are.. and the rapport which you create with your viewers is something eccentric! Hope you know that.. Remain at the pursuit of your health and happiness..♥️🧿
This has to be one of the most valuable videos on the internet right now. Your videos are like therapy to me. Thank you so much for helping us all out
Traits of a high value woman
1. People don't get you, they earn you
2. She's kind, gentle, compassionate and mature
3. She's addicted to self love and development...detaches from every other thing
4. Femininity... allow yourself to be cared for and pampered by men(without being dependent)
5. Self worth, care and love
3.
I’ve made my vision boards and consistently been doing selfcare at night as well as in morning ,doing gym since 4 months ,I feel 10x better❤❤entering 2024 with the high value confident girl vibes>3 ❤❤Thankyou tam!may god bless you!
Tam this video (and all your other vids obvi) are pure gold. I love how wise you are for your age. You are glowing and radiating, you present so well, and I love your passion. Keep up the amazing work queen 💖
hey girl I know this is off topic but- PLEASE can we get a room tour? I am in awe with your setup space!
Focus on healing their traumas so they do not display anymore toxic behaviour.
I badly needed this. Thank you.
I suffer from bullying and I become so defensive when people are showing a bit of aggression to me. Or falsely accusing me. They made tons of falsd allegations that people still believed until now.
I react so badly when one makes a false allegation towards me.
Because no one listen nor asks my side. Its like they finally found some dirt on me aftef years of looking .
Thabk you. Oh my god.
I need to learn to not try explaining myself to people not worth it. But alwayx be prepared with facts and evidence
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Now let me finish the video 😅 that sentence hit me too hard
You spoke so well...I loved your Myth 1..Many videos were of leveling up to become desirable....Sis it's not someone else...grow for urself... Waiting for more videos.. Much love babe ❤
I love these videos Tam!! It’s also amazing watching your channel grow and get the recognition you deserve🥹 I’m the oldest child in my family, but watching your videos makes me feel like you’re the older sister I never had with all the good advice and wisdom❤️ You’re amazing :-)
Me tooo!~ ^^, wishing you goodluck being the best version of yourself sis~💖💖
I have been around here for almost an hour watching your others videos waiting for this week's video 😍 I just LOVE your energy and all of your advice , thank you from the bottom of my heart , your advice has truly helped me ❤❤
I’ve subscribed to this Channel as soon as I’ve seen the vibrational chart. I don’t like other Chanel’s who focus on toxic ways, I strongly love this Channel and takes loving compassion angle to self healing and growth. Focusing on oneself being better each day an diner work. Thank you Tam xx
I enjoy these videos so much. It's like listening to my 22 year old self reminding my 40 year old self who I was before life got in the way. Lol
Glad to have found this video. I have just realized after being with my high value husband for 11 years, that I have never been a high value woman. I have been feeling so sad for my husband to have had to deal with certain things about me for all this time, and am so done with how I have felt mentally. This video helped me figure out exactly what I have to do going forward. I am so ready to become a REAL power couple rather just acting like one! THANK YOU A MILLION TIMES OVER ❤
Thank you Tam for motivating me to be better! Love you hope you're good!😌❤
Tam I love love love your videos. You don't know how much you are contributing in making us people mentally healthier. I just hope you keep growing and being a queen you already are. I'm so grateful to you. 🤧
Me watching this video, realizing I’m already doing the majority of things she stated… so I guess I’ll just keep going 😂❤
After liz, u r my fav RUclipsr ngl, I don't usually comment but girl, thanks for showing up in my feed, wish u the best ❤
In my opinion, I don’t think we can ever reach our “best version”. We will always find a way to be unsatisfied because we will be so attached to the idea of “best version”. I say just be the person you’d like to be around. You don’t have to be the “best” to enjoy who you are or your life. Change that word “best” into “likeable” or “lovable person”. Best is something that isn’t stable but love is continuous. Nobody can take away your how loved you are.
This is just my idea. But, I know there are others like me who don’t really like the word “best”.
This needs more likes
The best version of you is the one that is continuously growing, improving and living your life to your fullest potential. It is not an end goal. It’s living your best life for where you’re at in your journey
I love this!!! You explain high value women as such a powerful thing and not being cocky!
You came into my life when I needed you the most...sign from universe ig
Love your content girl 💖 keep growing and keep glowing 🌹
I love how she said at the start that this was NOT meant to just be something to attract men or boys. This is for ourselves ~
I could literally listen to you all day. Wow, your mindset has literally changed my life ❤ thank you for that
I just want to say; I'm so addicted with your videos. Thank you so much for packing so much values into each one of them.
plusss your earrings omg 😍
girl, i love you and admire you, literally you don't have idea of how much impact you have in my life!! LOVEEE your videos.
Thank you so much!!
Its 12:30 pm half day wasted tried hard to get on completing my assignments, starting doing qriting work and opened this video stopped half drank water, made made to do list, set up structured and began saving the rest of the day
Thnks tam ilysm❤
Girl! This is such a wholesome video! Loved how you laid this out. 🙌
Hello , I am watching you from Kazakhstan, and I just want to say: thank you! Thank you very much, you are helping me a lot in the way to become a person of my dream 😭❤️
Wow this one hit me hard- alot of tough love here that I needed
I don’t love the high value low value language, but a lot of this was great advice and reminded me of what my therapist has told me.
your accent is so satisfying❤
😊 thank you
I'm a guy and honestly I find a lot of your videos super helpful, grounding, and empowering even though I know they are intended for women. I definitely believe that uniting my feminine and masculine energies is important and find your content to be very illuminating with learning how to operate in the energy of high self-worth, being receptive to blessings and opportunities from the Universe, and creating the reality I want here in the NOW. Thank you for the work that you do and the divine person that you are. My spirit guide - Aphrodite - tells me to watch your videos all the time LOL
I found your channel a few days ago and I'm in love! Thank you for a lot of inspiration and positive energy 🤍
I started watching your videos from January 1, 2024. I used to relate to all the low vibrational traits then but now I actually feel like I am healing and improving myself. Honestly speaking, I am now becoming more like Athena😊
Tam I freakin loved this. I love how you really go in depth and explain what is need to be done to become high value
Keep up the amazing content ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊
I am so glad you gave up this isolation lark honey pie! I was worried! I love my community in its own right but I like to do my best myself
It has been 1 and half month ive been watching these videos and trying my best to connect on more deeper levels with myself. Yesterday just suddenly I wasn’t feeling that high vibration for some reason but now watching these again make me feel good enough because I try to seek something which makes me feel good and not other’s attention or validations
Honestly at just the age of 15 I'm able to call myself a High Value Women. I've already started self love and stuff. I'm proud of myself thnx Tam ✌
Wow!! I needed this SO much. You speak through gods words girl. You’re so powerful✨✨✨ thank you for sharing this incredible energy with all of us
Girl you speak my language! You know the rational, emotional and SPIRITUAL knowledge 😅 I love how you balance your knowledge 👏
Remember that “high value” and “low value” have nothing to do with your actual worth. These are just labels for good habits and bad habits from what I gather. Even if you have done these bad habits it doesn’t make you less than of a value than someone who does high value habits
My perspective shifts and I feel myself growing with every video I watch and implement into my life! Could you make a journaling video next?
i think the term “high value woman” is misleading and can be weaponized by misogynistic men. the way i interpret this is you are already valuable. you inherently have value, but you may not treat yourself as if you have value.
POV : you took your heartbreak personally.
This!!!
Or you learnt from it...
Istg
so heavy on this, im still 16 and I've experience my first ever heartbreak and damn, it motivates me to change and be a better person
Same bro 🤜@chingchingyaaaa
So early! I love your videos, they make me feel so confident and I am so glad your channel blew up!
Thank you so much!!😭✨❤️
TAM!!!! Your words heal a broken person💡
U can verbalize everything I think but sometimes I don’t find the right words, thank u.
Really loved the affirmations. Definitely gonna be watching this video for a few more times. Even though I consider myself as a high value woman I like seeing my beliefs appreciated. To every woman out there: make ur dreams come true coz u can do anything u set ur mind to.
I love her content ❤it's so eye opening
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Thank you so much!! You are absolutely glowing. Any tips on where I can find high value friendships/relationships? They seem so rare! But I feel like it's so much easier to grow as a person when you're surrounded by supportive people