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  • Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
  • THE MODEST FITTING is an online women's boutique featuring dresses and skirts that embody modesty, femininity, and beauty. Sign up for my newsletter to be notified about when my first collection drops.
    WEBSITE www.themodestfitting.com
    INSTAGRAM / themodestfitting
    INSTAGRAM / bindi.marc
    COLLABORATION bindi.joyce.marc@gmail.com
    00:00 Intro
    00:37 How the Lord approached me about modesty
    03:55 "What is the sexiest thing I can buy?"
    05:46 And the Holy Spirit said, "I didn't forget what I told you."
    09:00 The Lord said, "The thing you are seeking, you already have. I affirm you. I validate you. I approve of you."
    11:20 "Modesty is the Holy Spirit's cloak of protection for you."
    12:40 A deceived fish amongst hungry sharks
    15:38 Ongoing instruction and correction from the Holy Spirit
    19:10 Our Royal Robes
    22:36 Skirts and dresses only? Modest Femininity
    24:38 Honor over lust.
    26:40 Mean girls and modesty
    #ChristianModesty #ModestFashion #Homemaker
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  • @Bindi_Marc
    @Bindi_Marc  2 года назад +251

    Visit TheModestFitting.com to view my collection of dresses and skirts embodying modesty, femininity, and beauty.

    • @lolyh33
      @lolyh33 2 года назад +17

      😍I can't wait for your collection to drop!! And please include clothes for big sized girls and those who do not like short sleeves. So excited for you to launch It's rare to find modest clothes these days. God bless you sister.

    • @usgoodwomen
      @usgoodwomen 2 года назад +4

      Thank You. Pure Motivation. 😊

    • @sonyathurmond7812
      @sonyathurmond7812 2 года назад +7

      Yes, I like being on my journey through life presenting my body as a living sacrifice. Thank you God for this video.

    • @nairdayerg8739
      @nairdayerg8739 2 года назад +3

      Make sure you loose all those earrings in your ears and also make sure you find an Apostles Doctrine (Acts 2 vs 38) Sabbath Church for you and your family to attend on the Sabbath(Saturdays).Also if you haven't received the infilling of the Holy Ghost seek for it(Evidence of the infilling of The Holy Ghost is Speaking in Tongues as The Self Same Holy Ghost gives you utterance).Also make sure that when you got baptized that you got baptized according to the book of The Acts of The Apostle(Acts 2 vs 38) in The Name of Jesus Christ.
      Bless you.Watch Bishop Dr. G. G. Cooper on youtube he preaches the one true full doctrine.
      Bless you.

    • @nairdayerg8739
      @nairdayerg8739 2 года назад +2

      Also get rid of all the other ring trinkets from off your fingers and only wear the wedding ring your husband gave you.
      Bless you again.

  • @kausha7135
    @kausha7135 2 года назад +3467

    I'm an atheist, but everyday, I subscribe to more and more Christian values. After going through the pain firsthand that my promiscuity caused, I see now why these values are important. Thank you for putting my feelings about the matter in a way I couldn't.

    • @Lethisha7
      @Lethisha7 2 года назад +226

      I praise God for the revelations you are receiving kausha713. May God continue to show up on your journey 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

    • @tashnahtv6098
      @tashnahtv6098 2 года назад +137

      I extend an abundance of love to you. Keep going my dear... 😊.

    • @jadapoole9238
      @jadapoole9238 2 года назад +198

      I pray that you will know Jesus Christ.

    • @artangel23
      @artangel23 2 года назад +54

      sending you blessings 💜

    • @Bruhbe821
      @Bruhbe821 2 года назад +37

      1corinthians15:1-4 kjv

  • @sondrahaywood4781
    @sondrahaywood4781 2 года назад +1158

    I recently started going to church and purchasing modest dresses. I’ve noticed that since I’ve been wearing them, my husband had called me beautiful more than ever. I feel like it’s a type of beauty that is better than lustful appeal when we dress modestly. We are showing that we are beautiful daughters of God, mothers, wives (or wives to be). We are showing our value and in turn attract valued partners. I feel more feminine now.

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 2 года назад +41

      Your beauty is defined by God and your husband definitely knows that the world does not need to validate your beauty. Any good men out there appreciates the beauty of a woman through her modest dressing. I have known of women who beautify themselves with very lustful lingerie to feel sexy. But they do know how to cover themselves modestly on the outside. Whatever that is beneath your clothes is for yourself and your husband. So it’s not wrong for women to wear sexy sleepwear or lingerie because the world does not see them when it’s covered with modest clothing. But your husband is one with you in marriage and therefore, he can see those beautiful pieces on you in the bedroom.

    • @nkganetsangratanang7402
      @nkganetsangratanang7402 2 года назад +15

      Same hear I feel more like a woman

    • @lionnees5479
      @lionnees5479 2 года назад +22

      look holy and be modest but be reasonable. Don't look like you stepped off of Lil House on the Prairie! Take note of Jeff Warren, Menonites, Omish, and Muslims who really endorse this narrative. It's really a cultish mentality. Yes saved holy spirit women should stand out and be ye seperate but not look weird. Be careful this scares me that women still believe this way and feels as if you're pleasing God and now closer to him.

    • @126missday
      @126missday 2 года назад +25

      I haven’t been to church in a while but I recall when I last went which was after things started opening up again after Covid & I tried to dress modestly which makes me feel best at service but I noticed women & men were not dressed so modest there was tight fitting more on trend fashion clothing & I recall thinking wow the times have changed but God never changes so trust your own instict on what feels right for you.

    • @lionnees5479
      @lionnees5479 2 года назад +6

      @@126missday the people you saw are not spirit filled
      The Holy Spirit will guide you and there is a way a Woman of God should look but to push this narrative is DANGEROUS because this is what the Muslims teach and looking like this is what makes their women pure. She's teaching Religion!

  • @ew5969
    @ew5969 Год назад +243

    What’s so crazy is you heard Him tell you His validation is what mattered ❤ I had a very similar experience. My husband had been having an affair and it flipped my world upside down. I started drinking excessively, lost a bunch of weight, tried to be “sexy” to prove a point to my husband. I felt not loveable enough to my core. I went through a feeling of numbness where I didn’t care if I lived or died. I was sobbing on my knees one day and I heard Him say to me..”Your worth is not from men on earth. It is not from your husband. Your worth is in me. You are VALUABLE to me. I LOVE YOU. “ and my life has never been the same since. The love of our Father…. There is nothing like it.

  • @carolweathersbee8627
    @carolweathersbee8627 Год назад +196

    Many years ago, I read a quote that said “Modesty is not about masking your beauty, it’s about managing it.” My apologies that I don’t remember who to credit for the quote, but am thankful for the wisdom.

  • @rheaceleste2091
    @rheaceleste2091 2 года назад +324

    “You will think that lust from a man feels good because you’ve never experienced honor from a man.”
    My jaw dropped. Thank you for your obedience to the Holy Spirit. It’s helped me so much!

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.”♥️

    • @youknowwhatflav9916
      @youknowwhatflav9916 Год назад +1

      Wow!!

    • @szs2785
      @szs2785 Год назад +1

      Dumb as hell🙄🙄 why can a person enjoy both? You can feel attraction and respect for someone at the same time

  • @generalanesthesia6729
    @generalanesthesia6729 2 года назад +1438

    Not sure about the origins of the quote, but this is one I live by:
    “Dress the way you want other women to dress around your husband.”
    If more women did this out of respect for each other and our children, we would protect ourselves as well as our husbands. ♥️

    • @cow.44
      @cow.44 2 года назад +53

      I am so thankful to read about young ladies who are seeking to dress modesty. Your beauty is eminating from within, shows on your faces, and is enhanced by your lovely, thoughtfully selected clothing.
      You blessed me.

    • @mjm3003
      @mjm3003 2 года назад +16

      Amen 🙌❤️

    • @bethroesch2156
      @bethroesch2156 2 года назад +32

      I have never heard that but I wish I had when I was younger

    • @76adagio
      @76adagio 2 года назад +17

      I love this quote!!! Thank you for sharing!

    • @melanielovick-lugo3118
      @melanielovick-lugo3118 2 года назад +15

      WOW! That was good!!!

  • @naomimay82
    @naomimay82 Год назад +128

    You are so beautiful and I love your message of modesty!! I am 40 years old and I was so slow to come to the desire to live modestly. I was 35 years old before I really thought about dressing modestly. I have been a Christian almost my whole life, but I really started to press in and draw closer to God in recent years. Modesty just naturally seems to come when a woman is trying to live a Godly life.

    • @mawuligomado
      @mawuligomado Год назад +10

      I love that last bit that " Modesty just naturally seems to come when a woman is trying to live a Godly life"
      An indictment on christian women so called

    • @nnadichukwunonso9550
      @nnadichukwunonso9550 Год назад +1

      Listen to pastor Paul Rika on RUclips.... you will learn more about truth, Holiness and righteousnes

  • @milasimone8200
    @milasimone8200 Год назад +273

    I love seeing brown housewives and house wives in general it's a breath of fresh air please do more videos like this , it's inspiring

    • @samuraijosh1595
      @samuraijosh1595 Год назад

      Isn't she black?

    • @nuclearmusic77
      @nuclearmusic77 Год назад +26

      skin color doesn't matter, and we should stop referring to people by their color in general. it doesn't help racial tensions.

    • @ellen823ful
      @ellen823ful Год назад

      You are a wonderful role model. That’s a good thing.

    • @wesharetestimonies8221
      @wesharetestimonies8221 Год назад +1

      You said brown. Love it.

    • @wesharetestimonies8221
      @wesharetestimonies8221 Год назад +3

      @@nuclearmusic77 she is not wrong for saying brown.. it’s rear to see our ppl do things like this and display it… so please deal with your personal issue on color . I understand, she understands pleas relax and you will too love 😊

  • @bethanyleianne
    @bethanyleianne 2 года назад +899

    I'm 16 and decided within the past couple of days to start dressing more modestly. Although I don't really dress immodestly, the clothes I wear do draw more attention to my body because of my figure. As I'm getting older and getting ready to graduate high school I feel it's the right thing to do as I am spiritually and emotionally getting more mature. I just wanted to say that your video is the first one I've watched and it has really helped me figure out how I feel the Lord is calling me to dress and protect myself, so thank you so so much!

    • @Toytatu
      @Toytatu 2 года назад +5

      💕

    • @princessnndlovu9327
      @princessnndlovu9327 2 года назад +7

      lets be friends!

    • @redacted461
      @redacted461 2 года назад +47

      Its rare to see a 16 yo with this so much wisdom and self awareness. Bless you

    • @sarahkay830
      @sarahkay830 2 года назад +8

      Amen 💓💓

    • @patricialegare6847
      @patricialegare6847 2 года назад +12

      There is a variety of channels of modest styling. You can wear any sneakers, doc marten boots any shoes with a dress or skirt.

  • @phoeniciacloud1515
    @phoeniciacloud1515 2 года назад +810

    I probably should have waited until the end of the video to comment. I have noticed that being modest has not just affected my clothing but also my eating habits and speech. And in that the Lord is sculpting away what he doesn’t want on my plate and body. So I’ve lost some stubborn pounds and I look better than ever.

  • @mariannefield2627
    @mariannefield2627 Год назад +243

    I really appreciated this video. I was a High School Sunday school teacher with female students who were chronically dressed immodestly. We separated out the girls and I gave a talk on modesty. It was very poorly received by many of the students and their moms. I came to the conclusion that the message was right but I was trying to convict out of fear for them, for their testimony. Convicting is not my job; it is the Holy Spirits which you beautifully shared. Heartens me that it is ok that they didn’t hear it from me. The Lord will teach each of them when they are ready to hear. Thank you for the gentleness of your presentation and for being vulnerable enough to share.

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад +2

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.” 🙏🏼

    • @modahani7017
      @modahani7017 Год назад +4

      Thank you for sharing. Understanding the reasons of dressing modestly are so attached to the priestly hood that the LORD has designed for us. He even took care of the under garments (Leviticus).
      The act of obedience even when we don't get it or understand it, or don't believed is the step to another spiritual level closer to HIM.

    • @michelleduncan9965
      @michelleduncan9965 Год назад +5

      I'm not surprised it was very poorly received Marianne. It's very sad, but MOST FEMALES JUST WILL NOT LISTEN. But I've come to realize that all I can do is LIVE OUT modesty myself, & keep on praying for the many females who are essentially WEARING THE WORLD. Keep praying !

    • @brittybee6615
      @brittybee6615 Год назад +1

      The explanation that helped me understand modesty the most was a video called let your inner beauty shine from rebbetzin Raquel kirzenbaum. Sometimes it’s just a matter of finding different angles to make it click.

    • @maryann1187
      @maryann1187 10 месяцев назад

      I think the problem was that you separated the girls into groups…. the good girls and the bad girls!!! EVERYONE needed to hear your message…not just the “bad” girls.

  • @hannahnoble4608
    @hannahnoble4608 Год назад +62

    I kinda clicked on this video a bit nervous because I thought it was going to be a literal rule book , but it was actually a genuine discussion about modesty that has been quite edifying and relatable. Questioning my heart posture has been the beginning of my modesty journey as well. Thank you for sharing🌷

  • @kerrah8444
    @kerrah8444 2 года назад +449

    This video is a TRUE BLESSING.I’m 15 years old and I’ve realized that nowadays everything popular for teens is some sort of revealing and I want no parts! This video is beyond helpful.God bless you.❤️

    • @acemanifester1401
      @acemanifester1401 2 года назад +24

      That’s by design hun - protect yourself 👌

    • @Lilaliba88
      @Lilaliba88 2 года назад +15

      I don't necessarily agree: I find it really cool that there is a segment of fashion which "allows" teens to be cool without reveal anything. Those cropped tops and really low waist or short jeans are terrible, yes. But mom jeans are still a really stylish classic, combined with an oversized T shirt and a pair of nice sneakers is so cool without being revealing. Long pencil skirts, floral dresses are also super in. You can be super unrevealing, yet stylish, just look at Korean fashion!

    • @kerrah8444
      @kerrah8444 2 года назад +23

      @@Lilaliba88 Didn’t mean everything in a literal sense..I was referring to what’s popular for teens my age in my demographic in particular,which is far from pencils skirts and simple dresses.

    • @CavegirlMelanieHobby
      @CavegirlMelanieHobby 2 года назад +11

      @kerrah , so you know some good sites to shop for the things you need?
      I like
      Sweet Salt
      Neeses
      Emery Rose
      Simple Retro
      Downeast
      Downeast basics
      And ThredUp has all kinds of used pieces that'll do

    • @kerrah8444
      @kerrah8444 2 года назад +6

      @@CavegirlMelanieHobby Thank you for this!! This is gold.I’ve been looking for some sites to shop.

  • @shmataboro8634
    @shmataboro8634 2 года назад +523

    Bindi, this video is such a blessing to me. I'm an old retired lady now, and was raised in a church that taught modesty. Not that all the girls in church followed the guidelines, but my family did and I feel it protected me from many pitfalls. My high school years were during the mini skirt era. I bought One skirt about four inches above my knees, head to beg my parents like crazy to get it. They finally gave in because I was short, so it was a lot longer on me than what the other girls at school were wearing. We had moved to a new state and I wanted so much to fit in. I wore that dress to school once. I felt very fashionable, like the other girls ☺️ My handsome English teacher noticed my scriptures, which I had with me in class, casually asked about my church affiliation....and suddenly my right-in-style dress felt at least a foot shorter. I knew the Holy Spirit was telling me this way of dressing was not right for me
    The feeling was undeniable. I went home, told mama about it, ( she was not surprised) then got out the sewing machine and turned that mini dress into a blouse.
    Since I am not tall I felt really awkwardly proportioned in dresses "to the knee", which was our church's guideline in those days. Dressed that length were matronly, but everything in the teen departments was short. So I worked on my sewing skills and began making my own dresses, with long graceful full sleeves and the skirts right down to the tops of my shoes. In four years of high school no boy treated me disrespectfully, and no one offered me drugs (which were rampant in our school). I asked a friend about this in later years and he said no one offered me drugs because they knew I "wasn't the type". That was a blessing I didn't understand till after the fact ☺️
    Years later, post divorce, raising four kids alone with plummeting self esteem, I loosened up my modesty standards bit by bit until I became an ordinary wearer of shirts and tank tops....which always felt a bit uncomfortable but by then I was in a church that didn't have a dress code so it didn't matter. Or so I thought. As time went by the Holy Spirit saw fit to convict me again, and bring me back to the straight and narrow and back to modest clothing. By this time all the stores were carrying " body conscious" clothing and the Holy Spirit flat out told me "You have no excuse to not dress modestly, you own a sewing machine, you know how to sew, you live in a city with fabric stores...". My choice to obey this guidance came in steps, as my job required us to wear uniform pants and a company polo shirt. My compromise was to wear long modest dresses in my off work hours. It was at the time the best I could do. Within a few months of my decision to obey and asking for further guidance in my life I was promoted to a supervisor position and told "Supervisors are not required to wear uniforms, you can wear whatever you want". All the other supervisors, mostly men, wore khaki pants and polo shirts or button down shirts. I asked the boss "Anything I want to wear? Because in my real life I wear dresses.". He could have said no, dresses would not be practical....but for some reason he gave me permission, and so I've been in long modest dresses ever since. He also sent me a new crew member for my team, a pentecostal woman who had gotten special permission to wear a long skirt as part of her uniform instead of the pants. We helped keep each other encouraged. The dresses were a great help at work, the men felt comfortable around me because I was clearly there to do my job not to try to get their attention. The women became like sisters to me, they knew I was not in any way competition to them. The wives of my male crew members were not concerned about their husbands having a lady boss because they could see I was a peaceful and harmless person. Modest dress, which I had once thought of as a church imposed burden turned out to be a spirit led blessing and protection.
    Sorry this is so long, but I'm just so happy about finding you and am feeling reassurance that not the entire world has gone to heck in a hand basket ❤️❤️❤️
    As long as there are still women like yourself, listening to the spirit, obeying the counsel they're given, and sharing their experience, this old world will come through alright. ☺️

    • @Bindi_Marc
      @Bindi_Marc  2 года назад +87

      I am so blessed by this comment. I read every word. Thank you for commenting and sharing your experience about how the Lord's way really is the right way. I am encouraged to read about how the Lord has been faithful to you through the years. Again, thank you for sharing. Its an honor to read your words.

    • @mischelledotson4197
      @mischelledotson4197 2 года назад +41

      Wow powerful testimony right here! Thank you so much! I needed the reassurance that modesty is a blessing of protection not limitation☺️ God bless you and May He always keep you safe in His arms 🙏🏼❤️

    • @user-qy9ov2fo2j
      @user-qy9ov2fo2j 2 года назад +24

      Very powerful testimony! God honor those who honor him.

    • @plantbasedtv
      @plantbasedtv 2 года назад +22

      Thank you so much for your testimony. I also read every word of it. So reassuring

    • @almohadaparlante4168
      @almohadaparlante4168 2 года назад +10

      Este comentario era lo que necesitaba y no sabía, nací y crecí en el camino, me fui y hace 3 años volví. Obedezco pero hay cosas que me costaban volver a entender

  • @LemonLimeJuiceBarrell
    @LemonLimeJuiceBarrell Год назад +6

    Bindi you are living my dream life! I am newly saved and my husband is not…I already do all of the duties of a a SAHM but I also work full time. I have such a deep desire to step fully into my role as a homemaker. As soon as I was saved I did the same as you and got rid of almost half of my wardrobe. I am stepping more into modesty as time goes on and I’m loving it. The gym has been a struggle though because of leggings. I have just been wearing oversized t-shirts over my leggings but I hope to one day be able to work out at home as well. It’s very difficult to go to a gym and not attract male attention no matter what you wear. Anyway now I’m rambling but Bindi if you see this please pray for me and for my husband and that he soften his heart toward the Lord. Peace be with you. You are really living that Proverbs 31 life and are such an inspiration! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @BodaciousBeverly
    @BodaciousBeverly Год назад +115

    This was the most beautiful way of addressing modesty that I've ever seen! Thank you for sharing so frankly. You are reaching more people than you know.

  • @ellen823ful
    @ellen823ful 2 года назад +189

    I was wearing a modest and feminine skirt and top at my local grocery store one day. I received a sincere compliment from a man passing me by in an aisle. “I love your skirt” he said.
    I just said “thank you so much!” It’s a good feeling.

    • @garlicgirl3149
      @garlicgirl3149 Год назад +36

      I agree!!! You can feel the difference. I had an older gentleman say the same but it felt totally different than leering men that make you feel vile.

    • @Honey_angelbaby
      @Honey_angelbaby Год назад +20

      Absolutely, I had the same experience wearing a modest dress and a man genuinely complimented my dress😊💞

    • @rickyshappenings
      @rickyshappenings Год назад +30

      A gentleman told me one day while I was shopping, "Its so wonderful to see a woman in a dress."

    • @mahaonexpress
      @mahaonexpress Год назад

      @@rickyshappenings that's interesting. Men want to see women dressed decently, not half naked.

    • @kathleennorton7913
      @kathleennorton7913 Год назад +16

      As a 65 year old we were helping out a very beautiful young lady who dressed quite immodestly.
      I went into a gas station with her and ended up in a light conversation with a nice man and another man joined in.
      She was standing there looking very, very provocative. They didn't even look at her.
      I was dressed modestly. They enjoyed their quick, light interaction with me, but cared less about her.
      I was actually surprised. I thought about it and realized that many men are burnt out concerning today's immodest women. They are actually craving the sight and sound of modest, gentle speaking woman. It actually causes a man to realize their own masculinity in a way that is welcomed to themselves.

  • @ejc1692
    @ejc1692 2 года назад +315

    As a believer and abuse survivor, I know that your message has truth in it. I would caution, however, that we be very careful when talking about protection and not placing blame on the wrong people for unwanted attention, i.e. adultery .I have been assaulted as an innocent child, assaulted while modestly dressed from head to toe and street harassed for minding my own business and attempting to stay away from ungodly men. Dressing modestly is a very small piece of protection, but we as godly people must do much more to protect our children and women from monsters in our own family as well as in society. TRUTH at its highest form is the greatest protection one can have!

    • @cassgray9340
      @cassgray9340 2 года назад +18

      I agree completely, as a CSA survivor as well.

    • @elaineyutzy9899
      @elaineyutzy9899 2 года назад +58

      I came here to say something similar but from a religious perspective. I was raised super conservative and we wore specific dresses. The amount of sexual sin that gets covered in those environments is awful. But we dressed modestly.. it shouldn’t have happened, right? Now I love wearing dresses, etc, and I’m not trying to bash modesty. But, I think we need to be careful that if someone lusts after us, it’s not about the clothes. But it is always the heart. On both the woman and the man…. So where is my heart?

    • @quisutdeus4793
      @quisutdeus4793 2 года назад +31

      I agree! I too was groomed by a religious. Yes, he promoted modesty in dress but he also had ulterior motives as well. I dressed modestly then, as I do now but that didn't stop my predator. Yes, modesty is super important but it also comes down to the individual. If a man has evil in his heart, then he has evil in his heart but as women, we have a responsibility not to aid men, in fostering lustful desires and thoughts by dressing immodestly.
      🤗😊👍🇦🇺💕

    • @jacinthberyl5817
      @jacinthberyl5817 2 года назад +21

      I agree, personally the reason I like to dress modestly is for myself. To keep my conscious clear. At the end of the day an evil man will do as he pleases, but I don't ever want to find myself in a position where I or anyone else can point a finger at me. The victim blaming is real, and I don't think I could ever survive that kind of emotional damage. I don't want anyone to ever be able to put a word in about how my dressing was the reason for someone else's actions. No matter what it's always the perpetrators' fault and I won't let anyone try to say "what were you wearing" and try to convince me that that's why. No. Our clothes are never why. They are greedy, insatiable and selfish in every may possible. That's why.

    • @twpsy634
      @twpsy634 2 года назад +40

      At last a woman strong enough to lay the blame where it actually lies.I am sorry to be rude,but I am an 80yr old woman and I can't believe the utter naivity and gullibility of most of the women on here .
      Do you think men behaved differently when women wore modest clothes?!!Really?
      Wake up girls!

  • @SMD2308
    @SMD2308 Год назад +11

    I’m much older than you (57), and in a different country (New Zealand), but I too am on a modesty journey. I didn’t grow up Christian, but when I first read the Bible, modesty and gender distinctions stood out. To be content with more of a natural appearance (regarding makeup), lessening jewellery, and dressing modestly has been a journey over many years, and still is. Thank you for such a positive and honest video ❤

  • @greenseasun
    @greenseasun Год назад +48

    This video had me mind blown. I’ve spent too many years being oblivious of my sin and how it’s negatively affected my life. This video marks the day that I’m finally waking up to it. Your shark tank analogy was very poignant. You’re a great teacher. Thank you for your message. 💙

  • @elizabethvidrine7936
    @elizabethvidrine7936 2 года назад +145

    Me and my husband moved to a new place and I made a very special friend who naturally always dresses very modestly, and is meek and childlike in character, faithful, humble, and kind, never failing to serve others. She was key to helping me make the switch, because I am a very socially-oriented person, I tend to want to please people instead of God unfortunately. But the Lord blessed me with a friend who would encourage me in His standards. He is good

    • @LivingMyBestAlways
      @LivingMyBestAlways 2 года назад +3

      A friend of mine she is a Christian she was buying some cut up jeans I said she shouldn’t wear that pants she told me don’t judge her.
      I said to her I’m not judging her we are supposed to be dressing modestly I never told her anything else again some are not ready to receive it.
      I heard profanity comes out her month but she was angry I never told her anything about that because I don’t want her to think I was judging her which I wasn’t.

    • @elizabethvidrine7936
      @elizabethvidrine7936 2 года назад +5

      @@LivingMyBestAlways yeah people really don't want to hear it lol so I mostly just try to exemplify good standards and let the Lord work on others' hearts:)

    • @elizabethvidrine7936
      @elizabethvidrine7936 2 года назад

      @Justice&Punishment agreed!!

    • @bmarie8965
      @bmarie8965 Год назад

      @@LivingMyBestAlways I don't think anyone should tell anyone anything. Cut up jeans are ugly but not immodest

    • @erinisom2
      @erinisom2 2 месяца назад +1

      This is so beautiful. God sent you an Angel. 🩷🩷

  • @dls5690
    @dls5690 2 года назад +151

    What’s interesting to me is that the more modest I am the more compliments I get from my husband, I feel more cherished by my husband.

  • @msjetta5818
    @msjetta5818 Год назад +12

    I love that you’re sharing your journey of modesty.
    You are modest AND naturally, stunningly beautiful!

  • @gracereborn2150
    @gracereborn2150 Год назад +81

    This has been so wholesome...it's a conversation you dont hear everyday.
    I am in my 2nd year in my salvation and just started my modesty journey. I am excited to change my whole wardrobe.

    • @nnadichukwunonso9550
      @nnadichukwunonso9550 Год назад

      Listen to pastor Paul Rika here on RUclips.... you will learn more about truth, Holiness and righteousnes

  • @PrincessJewels08
    @PrincessJewels08 2 года назад +253

    I’m far from modest. I’m single, child free and an entrepreneur but I absolutely ADORE this video. You are so beautiful and I greatly respect your choice to be a stay at home mother/wife. I feel that women who choose to take care of their family and home full time are not respected nor appreciated these days. You seem to be genuinely happy and fulfilled. Your daughter is adorable btw

    • @moniquedurrant5072
      @moniquedurrant5072 2 года назад +6

      Same

    • @kcx2678
      @kcx2678 2 года назад +28

      I want to be a stay at home mom but the bills won’t allow it. Praying. I’m happy for her. Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to be fulltime moms. Life isn’t just about the money.

    • @TheFunctionalForce
      @TheFunctionalForce 2 года назад +20

      I loved your comment as someone who’s been on both sides :) I’m 38 and, until recently, I was single, child free and a successful entrepreneur (6 figure business).
      Then something changed a couple of years ago within me. I wanted traditional values. and, following that change, I met my current partner who has beautiful traditional values.
      I’m still an entrepreneur but little by little I go more into the traditional values lifestyle and I’m loving it. I also want to be a mother of many children if that’s still a possibility. 🥰
      These changes truly amaze me. And I did enjoy my previous life a LOT! But now I’m called somewhere else. Fascinating.

    • @KimmieNoel
      @KimmieNoel 2 года назад +13

      So true,I’m sahm/homeschooling mama to seven. I’m happy to see a working woman give a sahm a complement.

    • @amber689
      @amber689 2 года назад +5

      I was you 20 years ago. I was still working 50-60 hrs a week once I was married with 2 babies. The Lord had to bring a lot of circumstances into my family’s life for me to stop.
      I’m 45, but I am a wife and mother first. I work part time, serve at our church, volunteer at the school, and my family is healthier.
      Things change as you age and circumstances change. Trust in the Lord.

  • @skybound5435
    @skybound5435 2 года назад +140

    “Being the object of lust for men that I don’t even know” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.

  • @MrsJohanna33
    @MrsJohanna33 Год назад +67

    It is absolutely insane that this video popped up for me "randomly" just when I was having a mental battle over the issue of modesty and the popularity of sexy clothing primarily on social media an hour prior. As a married mom in my late thirties, I began my journey with God a little over a year ago. Many things have changed, especially my way of thinking and acceptance/participation in regards to certain social issues or activities, etc. that were not a "big deal" to me before. However, I have noticed that the more I engage in social media and encounter posts of beautiful women with immodest outfits, I find myself craving that attention or validation for my self from the opposite sex to affirm "that I still got it!" Which is ridiculous because I never have had it! 😂 Goes to show how vulnerable we are to the enemy's tactics, especially if we are early in our walk with the Lord and have not established solid communication in which we can rely on yet. This was a great video and the wording to explain your personal views were ideal for any woman to have a what could possibly be a life-changing take-away, even if not Christian.

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Год назад +1

      You may not call it Christian BUT we can call it depending on God.

    • @ellen823ful
      @ellen823ful Год назад +2

      I had that feeling around age 40 or so.
      It’s something biological that just happens so we need to seek wisdom of our elder women who’ve been through menopause.

  • @hopekeehn4836
    @hopekeehn4836 Год назад +17

    Immodesty has such a grip on our young people. I am a youth... I have found much respect from wearing modest clothing. I have sisters who are very immodest, and tho it might be cool at the moment, it never lasts. I'm growing more and more in this. I just pray my siblings realize the value of it❤

    • @russiankodiak6849
      @russiankodiak6849 6 месяцев назад +1

      I commend you, many women especially in the younger generations decide to reject it, to reject modesty, even women within the faith. God bless you

    • @Battlefield1918
      @Battlefield1918 6 месяцев назад

      @@russiankodiak6849 It's a product of how far our society has fallen, cross dressing and dressing immodesty has unfortunately been normalized to the point where when we comment on modesty, especially within the faith it's suddenly an offensive topic, it's suddenly extreme.

  • @jocelyncastro2203
    @jocelyncastro2203 2 года назад +195

    I’m 14 and honestly it’s hard trying to dress modestly especially because of what people these days encourage us young girls to wear. I use to wear jeans/pants, but The Lord put it on my heart to start wearing skirts more and dressing more feminine after watching a few videos of other sisters and their modesty journey and what The Lord revealed to them. However, I still wear sweatpants because they keep me warm and they’re cozy :). The Lord also called me away from wearing makeup because it became and idol and it was used mainly because I didn’t like how I looked without it. I used it to entice those around me, but The Lord has changed me both on the inside and out. I feel more confident with how I look without it, but at times I need to humble myself. I miss wearing it at times and pants also, but I don’t want to disobey The Lord and break His heart. I struggle at times because this is not easy. Seeing others wearing makeup and pants made me not want to give it up, but I’m trying my best and trusting The Lord. God bless you all and remember great is your reward in Heaven 😊❤️

    • @petranamuyiga
      @petranamuyiga 2 года назад +11

      Am experiencing the same

    • @iyaayas
      @iyaayas 2 года назад +12

      What's wrong with pants? Without pants, I couldn't do my job or chase after my toddlers as easily.
      I don't think dressing modestly is a dress/skirt vs pants type of thing. It's What's in your heart and mind of why you need specific outfits for different circumstances.
      A church I attended a couple decades ago had a dress code. Suits for men, dresses/skirts/kool-lots (sp?) for ladies. A lot of the ladies wore form fitting skirts and dresses that are much less modest than the jeans and t-shirts I wear most of the time.
      My standard: Comfortable (not skin tight) fit jeans with pockets. The greater in number and size, the better. I can only find these in the men's section. Shirts need to be one size larger than skin tight and no clevage. Shorts are to have lots of large pockets to fit anything. Skin tight and short shorts dont have them. I only wear shorts if I shave my legs.
      Dresses are worn for special occasions and are to be the best taken care of clothes I have. I hope for pockets but never expect them.

    • @jocelyncastro2203
      @jocelyncastro2203 2 года назад +22

      @@iyaayas This is something The Lord put on my heart. I idolized fashion and I actually dressed tomboyish before. I understand that your job has a dress code, I’m entering High School this August and the dress code has only khaki pants and the school shirt. I’m aware some work places have a dress code and I will dress accordingly to the dress code because that’s following the laws of the land. But outside of school I dress for The Lord and choose to Honor my body the Temple of The Holy Spirit.

    • @jocelyncastro2203
      @jocelyncastro2203 2 года назад +7

      @@petranamuyiga Stand tall girly, The Lord Loves you ❤️

    • @kaymccastle1154
      @kaymccastle1154 2 года назад +15

      I wear shorts that are loose fitting and are just above the knees in length. I wear tank tops that are not plunging, with an accompanying light weight blouse that can double as a jacket. I find that it is not so much WHAT you wear as much as HOW you wear it. I am 75 years old. I have found throughout the years that by combining ELEGANCE with MODESTY you can receive the appropriate attention from men without being a threat to their wives, fiancees, and girlfriends!

  • @edifymytemple
    @edifymytemple 2 года назад +166

    CHRIST has really worked with me on this. Last year I changed my entire wardrobe. For me it was a process that happened over years but once it clicked I've never turned back. People are always so nice to me now. I agree with you about the love and honor part. I receive this often now from strangers. Some family have attacked me about being modest. Telling me I've changed so I know I'm doing something right.

  • @Luuve
    @Luuve 8 месяцев назад +3

    Joyce, I started following you years ago because I wanted to start locs. I started them, and combed them out but I never unfollowed. I recently got baptized and started to follow the Lord with sincerity. The Lord has been whispering and sometimes loudly speaking to me about my appearance, and now you are back in my algorithm. Thank you for these words and an actual example of what inner and outer modesty looks like. Thank you and God bless you. 💚

  • @keylagalarzalopez8033
    @keylagalarzalopez8033 Год назад +5

    For me, the most powerful thing you said was "you couldn't pay me to go back". Wow... that really shows a transformation from someone who struggled for years to become modest. Must really be worth it! Thank you so much for sharing ❤

  • @cathyvanatta
    @cathyvanatta 2 года назад +256

    I am so glad you are getting this message out! When I was 27, the Holy Spirit worked with me in the same way. I am 71 now, and dressing modestly has been one of life’s joys for me. My mom never understood not wearing pants, but my heart knew it was wrong for me. My husband has loved me for 54 years now. I wish more girls and women could experience exactly what you and I have experienced. The Lord’s blessings that comes from obedience about our dress.

    • @meganmcknight
      @meganmcknight 2 года назад +3

      It really is a joy 💓 Praise YHWH! Our Father and protector

    • @victoriousneish429
      @victoriousneish429 2 года назад +2

      @@meganmcknight Amen! HalleluYah 🙌🏾

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    • @MiaMonique
      @MiaMonique Год назад +1

      Yes.

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      @keliaa9791 Год назад

      God bless youu🙌

  • @SheenaCEvans
    @SheenaCEvans 2 года назад +233

    That honor piece!!! Man, so good. Honor. Not many women experience honor from men at all. It pales in comparison to lust, absolutely!! What a revelation.

    • @ashley_brown6106
      @ashley_brown6106 2 года назад +5

      Well not all women have honor

    • @mightywind7595
      @mightywind7595 2 года назад +5

      I dressed modestly in my marriage and my husband hated it. Not all men are the same, some are full of lust. I still dressed modestly by the way. My accountability is to God. Sorry commented this on wrong post but I will leave it.

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      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.” 🙏🏼

  • @meganwilkerson154
    @meganwilkerson154 Год назад +2

    I’m on my modesty journey. The Lord showed me that I am sanctifying myself when I dress this way. My husband has told me he feels more respected by me when I dress this way as well.

  • @mimisheean3411
    @mimisheean3411 Год назад +28

    Wonderful message, very wise for such a young woman! It breaks my heart to see some of the ways women degrade themselves for attention, especially since so-called Women’s Liberation was supposed to end all that. I know it’s far worse now for women than when I was young back in the 60’s and 70’s. People like Madonna, wearing lingerie as clothing, started it and now we have people like Megan the Stallion performing simulated sex on TV. I just can’t believe it, and all the feminists now saying this kind of behavior empowers women. How far from the truth that is. You are doing God’s work, God bless you.

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Год назад

      Yes. The devil owns the clothing fashion industry

  • @LMEL756
    @LMEL756 2 года назад +350

    I didn’t know that I was embarking on a modesty journey until I saw this video. Something has been changing inside of me for the past few weeks where I have been drawn to more coverage in clothing. It started with needing to buy a swimsuit. I have a large chest, and every top that I tried on exposed far too much skin. Ever since that day, I’ve been paying more attention to what I’m putting on my body. I went out and bought loosefitting pants because I realized that my skinny jeans were too formfitting. I’ve been trying to wear higher coverage around my chest. My husband has always wished that I would wear dresses, but I never felt like they suited my body type. But today I went out and bought a dress and when I showed him when he got home, he was stunned. To see that reaction from my husband was really motivating for me to wear more dresses and skirts for him. Although I am just now starting my modesty journey, watching this video was so inspiring that I’m going to start making it a priority in my life.
    Thank you.

    • @grcleve7053
      @grcleve7053 Год назад +20

      Not to mention looser pants, skirts, and dresses are way more comfortable and healthier as well. Bonus - more attractive and make you feel good inside and out 👍

    • @auddie7133
      @auddie7133 Год назад +12

      The dress thing is literally so cute omg 😭

    • @saragabrielaalexandre7258
      @saragabrielaalexandre7258 Год назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад +1

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.”♥️

    • @ernafalcon6386
      @ernafalcon6386 Год назад +8

      Years ago, I went to buy a new swimsuit but I couldn't see myself wearing any of them in public. In the end I bought men's swim shorts and a t-shirt with a built-in bra. Since then my sister and some of my nieces have done the same.

  • @kyla593
    @kyla593 2 года назад +63

    My modesty journey started after I got married. My husband married me as I was in university, wearing skinny jeans and tight clothing, looking for validation from men. However I started to become aware of the need to be more modest and elegant after I was married and started experimenting with wearing longer, looser dresses and my husband actually loved it. I started to notice when I dressed that way that he would have a certain little grin on his face when I walked by. I also felt much better in my spirit and conscience about dressing that way so I have continued ever since. I don't have any friends or family that dress the way I do. I get the feeling that they feel self-conscious of the way they dress when they're around me but I don't want to offend them. I'm just trying to be a good example to them without saying anything

    • @thisbeautifulhour9512
      @thisbeautifulhour9512 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for sharing this!!! This is my experience too!! 💜💜

    • @kazkazzie3906
      @kazkazzie3906 2 года назад +3

      Yesss, i love what yoj said, especially the last part about being a good example without saying anything, great 😊
      I wish you well.

    • @keliaa9791
      @keliaa9791 Год назад

      God bless youu🙌

  • @allies5725
    @allies5725 Год назад +5

    Thank you for sharing. I remember being told as a kid/teenager that modesty is protection for brothers in Christ, but not a lot about it being protection for women.

  • @MyHobbiesAndMyChild
    @MyHobbiesAndMyChild Год назад +13

    Uaw, now i get the meaning of “royal robes” ❤️ this is also how The Holy Spirit worked and is still working with me!

  • @bonfer20
    @bonfer20 2 года назад +122

    This video was so spiritually mind opening. At 71 years old, I'm naturally modest now. I do wish I had known about modesty when I was young. 😊 I feel my life would have been better spiritually.

    • @johodgson2449
      @johodgson2449 2 года назад +8

      I wish had guidance when I was younger, someone to take an interest in my welfare. My life would have been very different.

    • @threesaiahs
      @threesaiahs 2 года назад +8

      Don't Worry you both. Jesus loves you.
      Just train other younger women

    • @csmitchell2227
      @csmitchell2227 2 года назад

      @@threesaiahs Yeah. I try to tell my daughter that. She feels I'm nagging or preaching to her. I might just drop a word about human trafficking to her. I'm praying for the Holy Spirit to speak to my daughters. I have noticed some changes in a couple of the young women.

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад +1

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.”♥️

  • @BlessedinKentucky
    @BlessedinKentucky 2 года назад +87

    I truly wish that every single girl in the world, Christian and not Christian yet, could hear this! How the Holy Spirit explained all this to you is so clear! Thank you for making this video. I do pray that the Lord will lead many, many women and girls to hear this! The Lord is leading me also in how to dress and this was very eye opening!

  • @dianalewis7132
    @dianalewis7132 Год назад +1

    I am 71, Apostolic Pentecostal, and dress modestly. I wear jeans when mowing and working outside. I occasionally wear capris in the house. Otherwise, skirts and tops and dresses. A year or so ago, a gentleman approached me in the store. "Please excuse me -- and don't be alarmed. I only wanted to thank you for the lovely way you are dressed. I wish more women would look like you." When my dad was in a nursing home, the staff and several residents would comment on my clothing and how nice I always looked. Some would ask why I was dressed up . . . Thank you. It's just an every day outfit I would say. Modesty isn't a burden. It's a blessing. I loved your comments on royal clothing. After all, Christ-followers ARE representatives of the King !! God bless!

  • @reborn4450
    @reborn4450 Год назад +10

    This came at the right time. Just when I had an inclination that I have been dressing and behaving in ways that dishonors my husband in terms of modesty, and that I need to practice being modest. This video pops up as a suggestion for me. That was God!

    • @nnadichukwunonso9550
      @nnadichukwunonso9550 Год назад

      Listen to pastor Paul Rika here on RUclips... you will learn more about truth, Holiness and righteousnes

  • @SunniDayzeCollection
    @SunniDayzeCollection 2 года назад +207

    “I’ve been called to something different.” That’s it right there for me. Thank you for this video!

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.”♥️

    • @TheMoodyHouse
      @TheMoodyHouse Год назад

      Yes

  • @dove861
    @dove861 2 года назад +149

    “There is no validation higher than the one I can give.” What a helpful reminder for a person like me that constantly worries about how I come across to others. Makes me feel much more at peace to remind myself of this!

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.”♥️

    • @neopatmaseko6651
      @neopatmaseko6651 Год назад +1

      Love these simple truths about putting on modesty & maintaining a dress code that honours God...
      God bless you for your obedience & for upholding these standards

    • @scottpalmer829
      @scottpalmer829 11 месяцев назад

      Here is a wonderful verse on the subject, Ephesians 1:6, ". . . He hath made us accepted in the beloved . . to the praise of his glorious grace."

  • @vickismith9047
    @vickismith9047 Год назад +10

    Your delivery of your journey to modesty is so warm & honourable. I am touched deep within how you share without being combative toward others who may not have that revelation yet. You have a soft manner approach toward a very difficult subject. Thank you for paving the way & encouraging those who really desire to please the Holy Spirit over man. Galatians 1:10. I'm a 1st time visitor & a new subscriber. Great channel!

  • @Jeanniebugg
    @Jeanniebugg Год назад +17

    Pausing the video to say... The analogy with the sharks was perfect! Edited to add: Okay, I finished the video and I 100% love everything you've said. My modesty journey started about 4 years ago. It started with my hair. My hair has always been a point of pride for me and I think this is probably why He worked on that, first. Not long after I started covering my hair (within weeks), He convicted me about wearing makeup. In the last couple of years I have been feeling the need to either wear a skirt, or a tunic over the top of my jeans. But my butt and crotch need to be covered. I've always dressed rather conservatively - jeans and a t-shirt most days. I've never been one to show cleavage, wear mini skirts, or wear tight clothes. So, there hasn't been as much that needed correcting in my closet. Though, lately, I've been questioning the wearing of t-shirts (I still wear t-shirts, just with skirts now) that have text or an image on the front. I don't wear things that are tight, but is the text (usually a Christian message) drawing attention to my chest..? This is the question that's been running through my mind, lately. I'm not sure if that's me or the Holy Spirit. When I started covering my hair, I think my whole family thought that I'd lost my mind. My husband wasn't against me doing it, but he also didn't 100% agree with me doing it, either. A couple of months ago, my husband told me that he was proud of me for my obedience to God in my modesty journey. That made me feel really good. :)

    • @vanesagvl9095
      @vanesagvl9095 Год назад +4

      If I started covering my hair, people here would think I have converted to islam! I don't know a single Christian who is covering their hair!

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Год назад

      @@vanesagvl9095 there are churches in America that cover hair 😏

    • @ashleyjones9928
      @ashleyjones9928 Год назад +2

      I just started covering my head this weekend. It just naturally happened. There are several ladies at my church that wear the full head wrap and I’d been thinking about it (I have chapel caps for church and I’d wear them to work but I wanted to do more) My hair is a big thing with me and I was starting to feel vain. I also have been crying more when I talk to God like things are releasing. I’m taking it a day at a time and I’m happy to see other people on their journey.

    • @Omatimestwo
      @Omatimestwo Год назад

      Modesty is good but when it becomes excessive and legalistic we need to be careful. Men are responsible for their own eyes and what they think. Women have shapes. God never said to cover the natural shape of the body. Skin tight can be immodest. Worrying about if writing on a tshirt is causing a man to focus on your breasts, is going too far. You are not responsible for every man’s eyes, sister.

    • @Omatimestwo
      @Omatimestwo Год назад

      @@vanesagvl9095 That’s a good point.

  • @zora8263
    @zora8263 2 года назад +25

    notice how at the beginning of your journey you were praying for wisdom and knowledge (0:55) and during your journey when you obeyed and made decisions towards modesty, God really gave you what you asked for (15:38)

  • @morganlynn7235
    @morganlynn7235 2 года назад +11

    The part about modesty being a cloak of protection for us & our brothers is a good word!! 🙏🏼

  • @ruth5538
    @ruth5538 Год назад +7

    You are a blessing for the body of Christ. My modesty journey includes a headcovering. Everything you said was spot on, because I've received the same from the holy spirit (almost shocking). I must admit I do feel protected and respected. I Will never go back. I still need to throw out a few more things and sometimes old habits can resurface, but I feel uncomfortable, remorseful and just repent. Just the idea that my husband Will be the only one seeing my body, is so beautiful.
    Remain blessed ❤

  • @mrsangelamaldonado
    @mrsangelamaldonado Год назад +7

    I hardly ever (if ever) post comments on youtube, but I just had to say Thank You so much for making this video, and thank you to all of the women who also commented and shared their hearts. I am so incredibly encouraged by all of your words and stories. I never thought I would find such a large group of women who values modesty in my generation. My mother raised me with strong modesty - yet fashionable - standards, and it has been so difficult maintaining it over the years…especially when my christian female peers and the men in my life mocked and jeered me (or pressured me to be more “risky”) for having convictions about it for as long as I can remember. I cried hard watching this and reading all the comments, because I finally felt like I wasn’t alone anymore, and that God is still speaking to his girls. I also feel like the Lord deepened my understanding of “why” modesty matters. Thank you again Bindi, for being so vulnerable, honest, and Non-judgmental. It’s like a big sister-hug of acceptance and forgiveness, and I need to stop feeling like the outcast! ❤️

  • @its_just_elena
    @its_just_elena 2 года назад +37

    I'm on my modesty journey too! The Lord has recently convicted me in my modesty. I have struggled so much with vanity and insecurities, but I feel like the Lord has used this video to speak to me in many ways. Thank you for using your platform to honor Him

  • @QueenAthena0903
    @QueenAthena0903 2 года назад +15

    Loved this and is so true. Modesty is a feminine characteristic. You can be sexy for your husband but when presenting yourself to the world…modestly is where it’s at. I need to buy more flowy dresses.

  • @smurphsoccer
    @smurphsoccer Год назад +10

    Wow. Just came to your page and watched this entire video, hooked! Yes, He has been sparking my heart on modesty. I’m married, but also in pro sports. The lifestyle of playing creates a lot of situations where I’m almost negotiating with my Christian values. The Holy Spirit spoke through you on a number of topics. Thank you!

  • @TheFunkyEarthling
    @TheFunkyEarthling Год назад +11

    Thank you & thank God for this message-you didn’t even shame [me] into this profound realization. I felt the love. 🙏🏽 I’d recently turned 50 and have always subliminally struggled with vanity & my spirituality. When I was younger, I was shamed in the church & the masjid-thank you, I can do it now! Closet clear out time…

  • @TheRadicalBlackConservative
    @TheRadicalBlackConservative 2 года назад +38

    I used to be a covered Christian...and have gone 180 --- this has been on my mind, and I needed this discussion. Thank you 💜

  • @pepperminttea8155
    @pepperminttea8155 2 года назад +11

    Thank you for making this video! I am a Christian teenage girl and about a year ago I got into historical fashion. After a few months I started realizing how covered women were through most of history and how drastically that has changed. Since then, I don't wear any bottoms that don't cover me from my knees up or tops that don't cover my torso entirely. I never really consciously connected modesty with godliness until I saw this video. It's so refreshing to see something like this on RUclips! I cringe at shorts and crop-tops now, it seems that the internet now considers wearing what is essentially a bra in public socially acceptable.

  • @jammieshilynncorgill9988
    @jammieshilynncorgill9988 Год назад +15

    You have truly blessed me by seeing this video and sharing what the Lord has showed you and convicted you of . I am a reborn Christian as of February 2020 and the Lord has been convicting me of this and opening my eyes and my ears to this so thank you for your obedience to our father and for your boldness in sharing this ! I do not want to grieve the Holy Spirit when I heard this 😭😭😭😭 father change me !

  • @jenniferbasford709
    @jenniferbasford709 Год назад +8

    I’ve never dealt with an immodesty problem, per se, so your insights toward the end were very interesting. I would love both my daughter and my sons to watch this video. Thank you for your comments on this subject.

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.” 🙏🏼

  • @RosaryJo
    @RosaryJo 2 года назад +85

    This could almost make me cry because it’s a similar journey to me but I hadn’t heard anyone else speak about it.
    My wardrobe 5 or 6 years ago was totally and completely different from what it is now. I have pretty much ditched make-up , my clothes are way more modest. It just happened, God just put the desire in my heart thankfully! I don’t really think that many people around me like the new way that I dress but I absolutely love it and if God likes it that’s what matters to me. God bless you, great video. Xxx

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.”♥️

    • @celinebapbaptiste1969
      @celinebapbaptiste1969 Год назад +4

      Am going through the same thing the Holy spirit is working on me too.keep the faith

  • @_submitted
    @_submitted 2 года назад +32

    God called me to modesty and I strayed and it even started reflecting in my daughter. I'm on a journey to return and yes your dressing is so beautiful. God bless you for the message you spread.

    • @LivingMyBestAlways
      @LivingMyBestAlways 2 года назад +5

      I’ve been on the modesty journey from the moment I accept the Lord. I use to wear nothing but thongs I didn’t understand why I was getting rid of them when they’re under my clothes but I did anyway but God knows best even when we don’t understand.
      I use to love wearing low cut dresses and blouses I no longer desire to wear those. I didn’t think it was because men attention, because whether some women wearing a paper bag men are still going to hit on her.
      What I think is we men and women represent God and we have to not only look the part on the outside but inside of us.

    • @KimmieNoel
      @KimmieNoel 2 года назад +3

      I feel like once you dress modest along with the right spirit. You won’t attract the rude behavior. That’s what I’ve noticed when I started dressing modestly and having a connection with Christ. Recently, I haven’t dressed as modest as I once was.

  • @mashaabrikosova7831
    @mashaabrikosova7831 Год назад +5

    I just "stumbled" on this video today and I am loving it. I wish I heard this when I was a little girl. Women, teenagers, and even little girls need to be talked to about this topic. God is working with me in this area of my life for the past few years.

  • @maryruth7977
    @maryruth7977 Год назад +18

    This is so refreshing and encouraging. I have been trying to dress modestly since The Lord saved me and it has been harder and harder to find clothes I am comfortable wearing.

    • @vanessajones3508
      @vanessajones3508 Год назад +1

      You may want to learn to sew. You could make clothes that are modest.

    • @nicolevangeline
      @nicolevangeline Год назад +2

      I know how difficult the search can be! And I do agree with Vanessa: a knowledge of sewing would be handy and I also hope to learn to sew soon. What I do for now is visit volunteer-run charity/benefit shops (they are normally Catholic) selling clothes for maybe a dollar each. These places are often filled with donations from other godly/modest women. Hopefully there is one near you that you can have some shopping success at!

    • @yellowyosh470
      @yellowyosh470 Год назад +1

      The struggle is real 😅 totally worth it though.

  • @rjfunchesrahjohfun
    @rjfunchesrahjohfun 2 года назад +123

    Very interesting. As a Muslim I love hearing others speak of modest dressing.

    • @r.m5883
      @r.m5883 2 года назад +12

      And I love muslims getting closer to Jesus as God ❤️

    • @rjfunchesrahjohfun
      @rjfunchesrahjohfun 2 года назад +26

      @@r.m5883 Please don't twist my religion, but more importantly NOT the topic here! Respect my beliefs as I respect yours! Peace and blessings.

    • @karinberryman2009
      @karinberryman2009 2 года назад +6

      Truth is, conservative Muslim women carry respect and dignity in your dress!

    • @hzlkelly
      @hzlkelly 2 года назад

      Right.

    • @twpsy634
      @twpsy634 Год назад

      @@karinberryman2009 ...and are controlled by men who behave as they wish

  • @margaretdillinger5090
    @margaretdillinger5090 2 года назад +22

    Oh sweetheart I’m so proud of you. I have tried to teach my girls (3) that modesty is very important. You don’t have to go around looking drab or dress in ugly clothes but modest clothes can be beautiful.

  • @Marvillar
    @Marvillar Год назад +7

    I have been struggling with dressing modesty and this video helped me so much! The lessons from the spirit are so important. Thank you. I will be rewatching this many times

  • @godivabaker6622
    @godivabaker6622 Год назад +10

    I loved this! 🥰I’m currently in my modesty journey. I feel everything you said. I always had women envying me and complimenting me. Some going as far as saying they would do porn if they had my body. 🤦🏾‍♀️As I’ve gotten closer to God I’ve feel the holy spirit tugging at me when I wear certain things and like you I sometimes feel that FOMO from getting attention. God is still working on me.

  • @EarCandyAsmr
    @EarCandyAsmr 2 года назад +72

    the shark analogy was extremely on point, lustful views always made me uncomfortable. I remember in Miami I noticed a lot of women didn’t wear bras and as much as I love the freedom of not wearing a bra I don’t like people looking at my nipples I don’t understand how people are okay with that it makes my skin crawl

    • @deebestest100
      @deebestest100 2 года назад +3

      Same! I use nipple covers if I’m going braless. I have a small chest but I just cant show my nipples to everyone.

    • @ellen823ful
      @ellen823ful 2 года назад

      Yah. Same here.

    • @caddieohm7059
      @caddieohm7059 Год назад

      @@deebestest100 why?

    • @deebestest100
      @deebestest100 Год назад

      @@caddieohm7059 i don't feel comfortable doing so

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.” 🙏🏼

  • @EbonyMakeda
    @EbonyMakeda 2 года назад +63

    Ok but that shark and fish analogy though. Very apt. Thank you for presenting this so clearly!

    • @girlinthesouth850
      @girlinthesouth850 2 года назад +3

      Right!?

    • @iyaayas
      @iyaayas 2 года назад +1

      I love that analogy. I hear from people all the time, "Nobody should be attacked for what they wear." This is specifically referring to women should have the freedom to wear what they want without being sexually harrassed by men. Men also need to control their impulses.
      I agree with this statement HOWEVER I acknowledge we live in reality. If you want people to treat you a certain way, you need to dress the part. If you want to wear what you like without worrying about what others think or do, you're going to have to deal with each situation as it arrises.
      Doesn't make the action of others good. Just makes you have to waste time that you otherwise wouldn't have to in dealing with the people being people.

    • @lindapike7885
      @lindapike7885 2 года назад +1

      Yes I am for sure that's true.

  • @sarahmichellewolf7169
    @sarahmichellewolf7169 Год назад +2

    “I’ve been called to something different.”
    That’s such a good point. Thanks for sharing your own journey.

  • @DangerousFacts48
    @DangerousFacts48 Год назад +2

    Men respect self-discipline and honesty. A woman being modest shows that a) she's not seeking sexual attention from strangers (sexual self-discipline) and b) that she's honest enough to communicate it through her clothing.
    That's why men honour you more when you're modest.

  • @meganfox5219
    @meganfox5219 2 года назад +19

    I am on a modesty journey as well. I too only knew lustful attention from men and most of my life I sought attention because that’s how I felt pretty. The LORD is changing all this so gently and is changing me! Praise the LORD.

  • @Shannon.Hazleton
    @Shannon.Hazleton 2 года назад +26

    This is beautiful. I have been on a similar journey for a long time and one of those “bonuses” is that it has influenced how my daughters dress as well… I have 5 daughters; 4 of them are teens, and we have had no issues with them wanting to dress to fit the crowd or draw attention. And we have never told them “no, you’re not wearing that… you have to wear things like this” or anything of that nature. They have taken their cues from me without me saying anything. And they each have very different styles; so it is not like we are a cookie-cutter, stereotypical modest family… but I think they just feel their worth, and dress accordingly.

  • @dudeonyoutube
    @dudeonyoutube Год назад +1

    There is great power in women who accept their natural femininity. It's a different power from the male one that comes from the threat of violence, but it's at least as powerful if not more so. I'm a non-believer and struggling with the fact but find young people like yourself a ray of hope in these dysfunctional times.
    Bless you, beautiful angel
    Old White Guy

  • @castaway123100
    @castaway123100 Год назад

    I appreciate you mentioning the silence after He spoke. The silence. That silent whisper that only speaks once and waits to be heeded before speaking again is the Holy Spirit.

  • @SunFuzzyOne
    @SunFuzzyOne 2 года назад +69

    Out of the blue, I felt the Holy Spirit tell me to avoid putting tip nail extensions on. My sister received the same direction the same week. Coincidence? I don't think so. I haven't worn extensions since, and I am saving money too. 😊

    • @bodyofhope
      @bodyofhope 2 года назад +4

      Amen. That's a great reminder that modesty isn't just about showing skin. It's about not showing off, not putting yourself on display- whether it's your body, your wealth, level of education, etc. Thank you for sharing

    • @milkyywayy222
      @milkyywayy222 Год назад

      What's wrong with nail extensions?

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.” 🙏🏼

    • @beautyoflifewithtalya5322
      @beautyoflifewithtalya5322 Год назад

      @@milkyywayy222 that’s what I want to know because I have on dip with tip right now lol.

    • @idomagirlabahi7786
      @idomagirlabahi7786 Год назад +2

      There might be nothing wrong with it, but depending on someone’s calling or where He’s leading them, the Holy Spirit will tell someone to avoid certain things. Just like the Nazarenes in the Bible like Samson that were instructed never to cut their hair, cutting hair is not wrong but for them they were instructed not to.

  • @toniduval4350
    @toniduval4350 2 года назад +21

    I've only seen two of your videos, but wow, have I ever been blind. I never realized that "modesty" was anything more than just an adjective that described plain, boring, or small things. You have opened my eyes. Now that I've seen that modesty is actually a character trait, I've also come to recognize how fostering modesty in all aspects of our behaviour brings about honor, self-control, and self-worth. All these fruits fuel what our unbelieving society would recognize as "inner strength", but I think that what they are really seeing is the power of the Holy Spirit shining through our bodies as we decide to treat them like the holy temples that they were intended to be.

    • @suenolan3086
      @suenolan3086 2 года назад +2

      Beautifully expressed Sister...thank you so much...and God be with you.

  • @Hillz6
    @Hillz6 Год назад +10

    As a modest muslim woman I agree to everything you said related to modesty sister. A little difference in Islam is that the modesty rules are set clearly by God, unlike the Christian teachings, (in a way just saying dress modestly can mean different things to different people just to avoid that from happening). Thank you for your beautiful video. Peace and love🦋🌸

    • @karriem5666
      @karriem5666 Год назад +4

      Biblical scripture also teach modesty. The Apostle Paul taught about it.

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Год назад

      You cannot expect people to change outwardly without changing inwardly through the Holy Spirit.
      Muslims still practice Mut'ah shown in Qur'an Which is PROSTITUTION.
      Is this from your Islamic god?

    • @karriem5666
      @karriem5666 Год назад +1

      @@J_a_s_o_n Calm down. She posted in peace and mutual respect.

    • @Hillz6
      @Hillz6 Год назад

      @@J_a_s_o_n Im sunni muslim. That's a practice done in Shia islam which only represents 15% of muslim population world wide. We dont agree with it and it isn't acceptable by any means in real Islam.

  • @valtaylor22
    @valtaylor22 Год назад +3

    This is the BEST video I have ever seen about modesty! I have been on a journey myself with it and this explains it so well. I love how you’re not being bashful about it and hiding parts of your journey because you don’t want offend anyone and you’re not sorry about where the Lord had brought you. This is such a serious issue these days that needs to be talked about more! Amen!

  • @Somashi481
    @Somashi481 2 года назад +29

    The timing of this coming across my feed is phenomenal. I have been going through this same exact thing lately. I have been constantly wearing cover ups and even looking into getting more cover ups 😍💯😌🥰 this is such a breath of fresh air that I needed. Cause every where I look I’m seeing how I used to dress and get sad because I want more females to dress like this but Lord willing we will get higher rates of modesty over dressing lustful.

  • @HolyNationOfficialMain
    @HolyNationOfficialMain 2 года назад +12

    This topic is COMPLETELY overlooked in the church. This past Resurrection Sunday my HUSBAND commented how unbelievable the women were dressed - their lack of modesty and how many dresses were so short they could not pick things up, bend down to help their children and how many bare and low necklines. These words came from a MAN. This has been a serious ongoing issue, and I have even personally witnessed women worship leaders stand dressed without modesty. Your journey has brought you to the beauty of Christ. My prayer is that our women will find this sooner, and even faster than your journey. What great fruit for your testimony is that others find the truth even sooner and faster than you. Excellent video. Well done.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 2 года назад

      Don't woman in your church read the bible for themselves?

    • @JamieSantos
      @JamieSantos 2 года назад

      Same with wedding attire!! How does a woman dress like a prostitute in Church?!

  • @vickidacus1571
    @vickidacus1571 Год назад +1

    Beautifully said. How precious that God cares so much about us that he protects us.

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.” 🫶🏼

  • @candicebrunson9131
    @candicebrunson9131 Год назад +3

    This has been super encouraging and I know the Holy Spirit dropped this in my recommended as a reminder.
    I am finding that as I get older I am having some temptation to dress less modestly than I usually do. Let me preface that by pointing out I used to be a collegiate bball player. Since middle school I've worn basketball clothes 85% of the time and it's still the case in my early 30s.
    I have been wanting to dress more feminine on a daily basis even though I stay home full time with my toddler daughters. So my struggle is trying to find a new personal style that is becoming and honoring to God, my husband, myself and others around me.
    In this new desire to be more feminine I am finding insecurities about aging, weight gain, etc pop up. This video has encouraged me to find my identity in Christ and in his affirmation and love for me.
    We don't need to compete with the worldy standards. I definitely am going to pray on this and now I have daughters that need biblical guidance in this area as well. I will be their main model and I pray God continues to mold my heart in this area.

  • @lisawickham6532
    @lisawickham6532 2 года назад +30

    This is my first time visiting your channel and I have not finished the video but I'm ready to subscribe I am a young woman who still struggle with the way I dress and I believe the holy spirit has lead me to your channel. God bless you and your family and may God be with us who are struggling to completely surrender to our Lord's will for our lives.

  • @ThisMamasHouse
    @ThisMamasHouse 2 года назад +13

    💯 % agree that I have not been treated poorly by men or given unwanted attention since I was lead to dress modestly. So excited this was the first video I found if yours

  • @wow.za.
    @wow.za. Год назад +2

    thank you so much for this, I'm somewhere starting on my own modesty journey, and you've mentioned a lot of things that I struggled with (and am still healing from honestly) but having someone who's seen God's voice/perspective on this as a young person is really invaluable so thank you :)

  • @glorialynnjackson
    @glorialynnjackson Год назад +2

    So glad RUclips recommended this video. I am 58 years old and the Lord has been speaking to my heart about dressing modestly. I was never the type to wear sexy or provocative clothes but was wearing more pants than skirts or dresses. And the pants were not loose fitting. We are never too old or young for God to teach us or show us things that needs to be dealt within our hearts. I applaud 👏 you sister! Keep letting God use you!👏🙏

    • @nnadichukwunonso9550
      @nnadichukwunonso9550 Год назад

      Listen to pastor Paul Rika here on RUclips.... you will learn more about truth, Holiness and righteousnes

  • @Lise01
    @Lise01 2 года назад +67

    I was sent this video by a sister from my church and Iim so glad she sent this. I really enjoyed your input on dressing modest it gave me some insight on views I never thought about. Being a Christian woman I strive to be all that God will have me to be and dressing modesty is something I’m in the process of doing. I’m a single Christian woman that desire marriage but I want to experience that honorable love ❤️ thank you for being transparent. God has convicted me with wearing jewelry, certain clothing and heavy makeup. I can’t wait to watch your other vids. God bless you and your family and keep me in your prayers.

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.”♥️

    • @renarich4942
      @renarich4942 Год назад

      Awww that's awesome I'm a seventh day Adventist. and people turn their noses up including me at times when pastor's preach on dress makeup etc. Glad to see u r receiving that which I foolishly refused for a time

  • @QueenAthena0903
    @QueenAthena0903 2 года назад +143

    I love what your teaching women Bindi. Too much of the opposite being promoted…not so much of this. Women need to get back to their roots of femininity ❤️❤️

    • @by_grace_through_faith
      @by_grace_through_faith Год назад

      ♥️ SALVATION IS SO SIMPLE! 🙏🏼
      “In whom 👉🏼ye also trusted👈🏼, after that
      👉🏼ye heard👈🏼 the word of truth, 👉🏼the gospel of your salvation👈🏼: in whom also after that 👉🏼ye believed👈🏼, ye were 👉🏼sealed with that Holy Spirit👈🏼 of promise,” - Eph 1:13 KJB
      “But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach 👉🏼any other gospel👈🏼 unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.” - Gal 1:8 KJB
      The GOSPEL 👉🏼 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4 KJB:
      15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you
      👉🏼the gospel👈🏼 which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that 👉🏼Christ died for our sins👈🏼 according to the scriptures;
      4 And that 👉🏼he was buried👈🏼, and that
      👉🏼he rose again the third day👈🏼 according to the scriptures:
      You can be 100% sure you’re saved & going to heaven! 👇🏼
      1 John 5:13 KJB
      13 These things have I written unto you that BELIEVE on the name of the Son of God; that YE MAY KNOW THAT YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      What must you believe? 👇🏼
      ***Salvation is a FREE GIFT! Be saved the very moment you BELIEVE the GOSPEL OF CHRIST! (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB): 👉🏼 Believe that Jesus Christ, who is God, died for all YOUR sins (past, present & future), He was buried & He rose again the third day, Putting all your faith (trust) in His finished work on the cross and the blood He shed to save you, Not trusting in your own works (self righteousness). The very moment you believe, you are saved and “sealed unto the day of redemption” (Eph **4:30**)! Eph **1:13** KJB* Eph 2:8-9* Rom 3:25* Rom 1:16* KJB
      >>> Clear cut salvation lesson 👇🏼 (Believing Is Receiving):
      ruclips.net/video/CrMJwz6ibdw/видео.html
      The Surety of Salvation 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/eIKtrHocYZE/видео.html
      Rightly Dividing The Word of Truth (99% of Christians Hide This…) 👇🏼:
      m.ruclips.net/video/VnTj--yWydY/видео.html
      Pre-trib Rapture of the Body of Christ 👇🏼:
      The Top #1 Video On PreTribulation Rapture You Will Ever See | Dr. Gene Kim
      m.ruclips.net/video/nboxWhqQd-8/видео.html
      The King James Bible is Supernatural 👇🏼:
      ruclips.net/video/eoOyuQ9BvhU/видео.html
      God bless 🙏🏼
      -------
      Biblical Repentance:
      expreacherman.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/cucuzza-repentance-booklet-pdf.pdf
      “There is a great amount of confusion today about the issue of repentance and its relationship with how to be saved. The problem today has to do with the meaning of repentance. Make no mistake about it- repentance is taught in the Bible. John the Baptist preached repentance. Jesus preached repentance. Peter preached repentance. Paul preached repentance. Unfortunately, the simple fact is, over the history of the church the word has changed meaning.
      Those of us who believe in salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Jesus Christ alone, have often been falsely accused of not believing in repentance. We do believe in it. But we believe in Biblical repentance.” 🙏🏼

  • @risenshineofficial
    @risenshineofficial Год назад

    Queen! I am so happy I found this channel. I’ve been looking for so long for a female YOuTuber to look up to. I’ve noticed a lot of women talk about God on here and have lovely wisdom and femininity but wear tons of makeup, weave, use profanity, listen or use secular music on their videos, or wear il-modest clothing. Not saying they are bad women for doing it no judgement towards them. It took me some time myself to learn how to be modest myself. To be modest is an inward adjustment as you said. And God daily delivered me from my old desires as I obeyed his teaching. And through that I was able to heal from trauma that drove this il-modest behavior. My moto is “I am who God says I am and only what he says about me is true” it’s my mantra. It’s so refreshing to see a lady on here who looks like me. New subscriber I can’t wait to binge watch your videos lol. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and being authentic woman of God❤

  • @ozarkview928
    @ozarkview928 Год назад +4

    Your testimony is amazing ! I was raised to dress modest . So much wisdom in what you shared !

  • @wifeoftim
    @wifeoftim 2 года назад +11

    Thank you Bindi. I love seeing young ladies who choose to dress modestly. I've been dressing modestly for a number of years now. I want to always dress in a way that honors the Lord.

  • @thinktink1583
    @thinktink1583 2 года назад +76

    I love this I've been going thru a similar journey and honestly the shift from lustful attention to I'll say "wholesome " attention was never expected but majorly appreciated. There's nothing wrong with being Fine but being called beautiful hits differently.

    • @_sowhat_
      @_sowhat_ 2 года назад +4

      Being cherished and protected as God's daughter is UNBEATABLE! If you don't already have a church home, I encourage you to start looking for one that's right for you and yours. We can study & worship at home/alone, but God gives us SO MANY gifts through a church family. Keep up the good fight, lady 🙌🏻💕✝️🌻

    • @_sowhat_
      @_sowhat_ 2 года назад +1

      @Lyric Smith 🙌🏻🤗✝️

    • @TheFearlessBabe
      @TheFearlessBabe 2 года назад +3

      I definitely understand, I just want women to be careful not to be drastic in their approach to modesty.

    • @_sowhat_
      @_sowhat_ 2 года назад +1

      @@TheFearlessBabe whats the danger of being drastically modest?

  • @tlit3284
    @tlit3284 Год назад +1

    I’m absolutely agree with you! When I started to be closer to God , I changed my style with wisdom of Holy Spirit 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👍🏻🌹

  • @frandemianczyk
    @frandemianczyk Год назад +7

    Hello dear sister! I just found your channel & I must say you’re a beautiful, modest, and discerning young woman. My journey began in 1999 and I’m so very thankful and blessed! Your observations are absolutely correct. You’re a breath of fresh air! Keep on keeping on 🥰🙏🏻❤️

  • @lrobertson2009
    @lrobertson2009 2 года назад +7

    Just the other night I wrote in my journal. Dressing more modestly is one of the things God want me to work on. Thank you for this.

  • @CatGee
    @CatGee 2 года назад +32

    What an anointing, This is such a blessing to my life during this process of spiritual maturity that I'm undergoing right now. I'm determined to walk in obedience to the Lord Jesus by His grace. In tears because He even cares about the fine details.....I promise I never knew love like this before.

    • @Bindi_Marc
      @Bindi_Marc  2 года назад +7

      Isn't it such a privilege for the Lord to be mindful even of our wardrobe? It's really amazing. 😊

  • @alinas8003
    @alinas8003 Год назад +5

    I was stopped by a woman at Lowe's and she told me "thank you for wearing appropriate clothes, these days it's rare to see young people in clothes" i was so shocked, at that time I struggled putting on right clothes, and that stuck with me