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    00:00 Teaser
    01:18 Modest Dress of the Day | www.themodestfitting.com/
    00:41 Self Control, An Overview
    08:00 Accomplish Much or Very Little - Confidence in the Lord
    11:50 IDENTITY & Self Worth
    16:00 Fasting & Prayer: Food & Sexual Self Control
    21:14 DISCIPLINE - Training the Will
    26:14 RESOLVE - Determination
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  • @melissaconroy2804
    @melissaconroy2804 2 года назад +386

    I had a thought in church the idea. My seven year old was struggling to stay quiet and still and I thought, " The task of childhood is self control over your body. The task of adulthood is self control over the mind."

    • @kilodeltawhisky1504
      @kilodeltawhisky1504 Год назад +12

      Even as adults, control our body is a challenge.

    • @Mosh-p5f
      @Mosh-p5f Год назад +14

      @@kilodeltawhisky1504 control your mind first and the body will follow

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Год назад +5

      @@kilodeltawhisky1504 done by FASTING !
      Killing addictions as we seek GOD

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Год назад +3

      @@Mosh-p5f by FASTING !

    • @angelagregory2810
      @angelagregory2810 Год назад +5

      My husband and I trained our daughters to be still in church by practicing in 20 minute increments at home. We also appealed to their hearts by explaining people come to church to worship God and be fed by the word of God and we don’t want to disrupt or distract that ❤️

  • @fearlizz_wandress
    @fearlizz_wandress 2 года назад +432

    I’m struggling with everything that has to do with self mastery. Over eating, laziness with prayers, homemaking and responsibilities, sticking to a schedule, being distracted by my phone or spending time with friends. I needed to hear all of this and thank you for this video! You’re inspiring me to be better!

    • @EarzOnTunz
      @EarzOnTunz 2 года назад +52

      I would caution you not to say it's laziness but dig more deeply. It may be a lack of self-confidence, a lack of feeling worthy of achieving what you can, deep self-doubt from social or family conditioning or simply exhaustion or burnout. Ask the Lord to help you find the cause. I'm struggling with the same things and I KNOW for a fact I'm not lazy but disheartened. That is likely still a condition with spiritual roots but I don't want you to feel you're lazy when you're really suffering. Find the cause of the suffering and you can start healing.

    • @NeverAloneNeverAfraid
      @NeverAloneNeverAfraid 2 года назад +15

      Have you asked God if there’s something you need to obey in the Gospel? God showed me that I didn’t understand baptism and that it’s more than a symbol. When I saw it as a death and a new start, I got baptized (the other times were just a ritual). I went under one way, and came out another. A dead man, theoretically, can’t sin, meaning that the sin nature is no longer our first nature. We put on Christ. Then we walk by faith remembering that He’s washed away our sin through the waters of baptism and put away the sinful flesh. And then we need to be filled with His Holy Spirit with evidence (speaking in tongues, prophecy). Baptism of the Holy Spirit is a game changer, He helps to be holy and He changes is as we continue in the Word and prayer. Then He commissions us to tell others and disciple them - but it all starts with repentance (turning from sin and turning to God, crying out for Him to give us soft hearts again so we’re convicted by sin). Let us not treat these foundational things as casual, I often find that skipping these foundational things can cause a lot of lack of victory and faith in who the Lord is as well as striving and eventually falling away. A lot of these things are talked about in Romans, Galatians, and other verses in the New Testament. The book of acts helps us understand what our foremost role is as priests and messengers for Christ and gives us this amazing foundation.
      Hebrews 2:3 - how shall we escape if we ignore so great a salvation? This salvation, which was first announced by the Lord, was confirmed to us by those who heard him.

    • @BLJackson
      @BLJackson 2 года назад +8

      Don't be so hard on yourself love. Take one day at a time and breathe through it.

    • @EbonyJon
      @EbonyJon Год назад +2

      Same!!

    • @Shasta31487
      @Shasta31487 Год назад +14

      What I find helps a TON is doing something, anything, one little thing towards the right direction. Something is better than nothing. It's okay to wash one dish. It is okay to text one friend to let them you know care. It is okay to make one meal.
      Then do it again.

  • @lizbave5426
    @lizbave5426 2 года назад +622

    I struggle with controlling my eating, de-cluttering, making & sticking to schedule.

    • @Bindi_Marc
      @Bindi_Marc  2 года назад +279

      I recommend reading the book "Atomic Habits" (shoot, I may do a video series on it). It can help unpack the basic principles that run most human beings with habit setting and ultimately self-control. I would also recommend you pray to God and ask Him to give control over yourself. Ask Him to gift you with resolve, know-how, and skill. Ask Him to help you to better understand how YOU tick. I'm an early bird and have discovered that if I really need something done, I need to make it happen before noon, because after 12p my energy starts slowing down. Others are the opposite in that they get major portions of their load done at night. It helps to know how He designed you so you can with your general tendencies as opposed to against them.

    • @justmeandHim
      @justmeandHim 2 года назад +5

      Same

    • @hisbeautifultruth5931
      @hisbeautifultruth5931 2 года назад +6

      Wow. This☝️☝️

    • @dee4174
      @dee4174 2 года назад +2

      Me too.

    • @breannaphillips5761
      @breannaphillips5761 2 года назад +21

      I hear ya sis. I am starting my weight loss journey over. I gained 14 pounds since June 5th. So now I am eating 1 meal a day of chicken, no added salt. We got this sis💕.

  • @amberhanzy6576
    @amberhanzy6576 2 года назад +294

    Dang these videos are tough. I’m binging these videos because I recognize the truth in them. I’m not married and I don’t have children, but the principles are spot on. I have had such a hard time mastering my belly. Food has been a source of entertainment and comfort for me. I gained 13lbs since the pandemic and I just recently started exercising. Pray for me to adapt self control.

  • @RonishaTV
    @RonishaTV 2 года назад +397

    I really just had to sit here and ask the Holy Spirit why in the world am I JUST discovering this channel ? Literally love this content !! 🥰

    • @ericacaines2529
      @ericacaines2529 2 года назад +18

      His timing is perfect. I just found it too. Been going through the old videos, and what a blessing. Been doing some serious prayer and reflecting in the last few days.

    • @lesegontsoele6678
      @lesegontsoele6678 2 года назад +7

      Me too

    • @Sulanboujetbeauty
      @Sulanboujetbeauty 2 года назад +3

      Same sis, same

    • @ForYourInformation2
      @ForYourInformation2 2 года назад

      @TestimonyTalk SAME 💜 💙

    • @phillipsk100
      @phillipsk100 2 года назад +7

      OMGoodness- I just turned 72 and found this channel and SUBSCRIBED! I was a stay at home mom when my 3 children were young then used my teaching degree when they were in school. I retired to care for my grandchild(ren) and since they have been in school I am "Grammy on call". We had some extensive interior renovations done and I can't seem to get a handle on returning the house to "normal" and my eating habits, well, I've already learned about that from Bindi, so I am encouraged! Bless you, Bindi, for being a blessing to other women who seek the Lord in our life!

  • @christine_marie_sings
    @christine_marie_sings 2 года назад +240

    Your videos are so motivating! Your content is far better than any average “clean with me” or “how to be an it girl” or “how to exude femininity”. Every video of yours is how to carry yourself in a way that is pleasing to God in accordance to His word. To me that is how to be an “it girl”. Love this! Thank you for serving God’s people🙏🏽

    • @dominiquefelder1809
      @dominiquefelder1809 2 года назад +4

      Awe! Amen!

    • @JMarie-th8xe
      @JMarie-th8xe 2 года назад +4

      I agree.

    • @lisebaricako474
      @lisebaricako474 2 года назад +3

      You are absolutely right ! 🙂

    • @marilynnfrazier1960
      @marilynnfrazier1960 2 года назад +3

      I appreciate you and your channel so much!! God bless you for everything you've helped me do!!I'm a right brain dominant woman, a former elementary teacher, a wife of 49 yrs., a mother. I have problems organizing but God will help me. My home is cluttered. I like what you said about cluttered mind,cluttered house. I pray I can improve and truly live the life God wants me to live.

  • @jamesntui
    @jamesntui 2 года назад +84

    As a man who was brought up in a traditional home but was exposed to a more liberal, Western style, and now a Christian, embracing and solidifying my traditional, conservative, Christian values, a love your videos and just subscribe.
    More women especially Christian ones should base their lives on the Word. Same for men.

    • @deirdremorris9234
      @deirdremorris9234 Год назад +4

      Agree. And men, especially young men, need so much more support!!

  • @BriLoveMusic
    @BriLoveMusic 2 года назад +36

    I want to thank you for correcting our fleshy habits without arrogance or being condescending at all. Your humility and obedience truly blesses me. God bless your beautiful family ❤️

  • @justinnequintos1521
    @justinnequintos1521 2 года назад +27

    That part about; you can leave a long lasting legacy when you’re successful in the realm of your home, really got me bc i get discouraged in the mundane everyday tasks. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @sincerelykayyy
    @sincerelykayyy 2 года назад +190

    Bindi, you have no ideal how much your channel means to me. Although I don't know you, I really look up to you. A lot of attributes that I decided I wanted to develop in myself and in my relationship with Christ (before I become a wife and a mother) I see in you. Even down to having microlocs.
    I'm thankful to God that you have created a RUclips channel and are obedient to Him with what you post. Representation really does matter. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family 🥹❤️

  • @just.marysew
    @just.marysew 2 года назад +52

    I tell you this in complete honesty and sincerity, this video is one of the most uncomfortable videos I have watched that has ever pointed the finger at my flaws and shortcomings. However, thankfully I love the nature given to me by Our Heavenly Father that once I see the truth I cannot ignore it. So thank you very much for sharing this video, I believe this was a major wake-up call for me, as well as others, and I thank you for being the vehicle for that.

  • @EricaLasan
    @EricaLasan 2 года назад +164

    This video was great! The 5:30 AM wakeup time is something I'm really trying to get under control so I can spend time hearing from the Lord in silence. And so I can worship and pray and do devotions without the noise of my kids in the background. I've really been loving this faith-based content! :)

    • @jennjc800
      @jennjc800 2 года назад +3

      This is one of my main chains: sleep and waking up early to workout out and spend time with the Lord.

    • @LorensJ
      @LorensJ 2 года назад +3

      Same here. Please share if you have helpful tips on how to accomplish those goals. I just want to dedicate quality time to our Father before the kids take up my time.

    • @netchix7840
      @netchix7840 Год назад +1

      Don't feel too bad if you can't. I couldn't do this until I had a baby. I love waking up at 5:30AM now. If you can't wake up early, then go to bed late.

    • @goviralgo6418
      @goviralgo6418 Год назад +2

      Have you ever tried praying WITH your kids?
      I started doing that and the kids learned a lot they stay quiet ? And get in agreement. We pray as I family and let me tell you I have felt the presence of the lord just as I do alone . And the best part my kids also. Don’t seek to separate prayer time. Include them. Later at night I have my alone time with God too

    • @LorensJ
      @LorensJ Год назад

      @@goviralgo6418 I love your reply. Can you give me an idea on how you make it work for your family? We’re praying for the Lord to help us get organized at home so that we can spend more time with Him but you’re right the kids need the exposure/experience as well. Thank you!

  • @mistyjordan7147
    @mistyjordan7147 2 года назад +85

    It's been a year and four months of celibacy since God removed my husband from out the household; due to domestic violence of narcissistic abuse. My daughter and I seek counseling now from the trauma of mental abuse. Now, I need to get things done. Thank God I ran into your video, maybe I can get some order back into my life again. I use to be so organized, but when your mind is cluttered it shows outwardly. My son pointed that out to me. Time to get on the grind and declutter. 🙏💯🤗🥰

    • @cherylwebb8340
      @cherylwebb8340 2 года назад +2

      God bless you. I hope you have a good church home to love and support you ✝️🙏❤️

    • @dolphinshark3202
      @dolphinshark3202 2 года назад +7

      God recently delivered me and my children from narcissistic and domestic violence father. I understand the pain, stress, and torture. God is so good though❤️

    • @babekglam5146
      @babekglam5146 2 года назад

      God bless you .It will be well with you .You are on your way to a greater love and self rediscovered.I thank God he saved you and your son.🙏

    • @mistyjordan7147
      @mistyjordan7147 2 года назад

      @@cherylwebb8340 unfortunately, I thought I did. Apparently, I've been Ostrichsized by church members of narcissism.

    • @zandymartin4751
      @zandymartin4751 2 года назад

      Praying for your strength!

  • @missmaedeut3210
    @missmaedeut3210 Год назад +11

    Thank you sister for being so obedient to our God. I was crying out to Him last night after I had sinned (self-pleasure). Something I have been tied to for a very long time. And I want to be done with this. And you have helped me by saying start with having control over my belly. Hallelujah. God is good. I will start there. "My life is not my own, to you father I belong, I give myself, I give myself to you." Hallelujah ❤️

  • @MrsMeganDyer
    @MrsMeganDyer 2 года назад +38

    This content is so contrary to what our culture preachers right now. That just shows you how far gone our society is! More women need to hear these teachings and be empowered to embrace them. How life changing! How free are truly when we're ruled by our emotions, negative self talk, and things that offend us? We aren't! This is so so so good! Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️

  • @englandrose2366
    @englandrose2366 2 года назад +30

    I literally prayed the other day about Self-Control and how I need it especially when it comes to caffeine, sugar and a particular person in my life.
    I have also learnt to fast more and to not put something off that can be done today because who knows if I will see tomorrow, only God knows that 💯

  • @Heart_LikeChrist
    @Heart_LikeChrist 2 года назад +8

    I’m currently facing a challenge of practicing Healthier stress management , rather than turning to addictive behaviors of eating

  • @cherylwiemann5863
    @cherylwiemann5863 Год назад +6

    Thank you for this video.
    I gained 50 lbs after my oldest son died. I’m currently trying to lose it but I struggle w exercise.I’m praying for energy and motivation to start. I have lupus and feel quite sick and fatigued most days. So it is a struggle although I have lost 15lbs by watching my diet.

  • @Christina4JesusChrist
    @Christina4JesusChrist 2 года назад +43

    you are the first Christian woman I have seen who talks about Christian femininity. I have had to resort to going to groups that enjoy 50's living so I can ask about modest dress but they clearly do it as a personal interest and not for modesty and christian morality (so things slip). But thank you so much for this I will be listen to all your videos

    • @melodiemusic9956
      @melodiemusic9956 Год назад +1

      There are actually a ton of RUclips channels about Christian Femininity you should explore those too!

  • @cspann33
    @cspann33 2 года назад +64

    I’m single and don’t have children; a late bloomer, but I have a strong desire to learn to be a godly, feminine woman. I came across your channel seeking knowledge on RUclips to grow and develop into that woman. Thank you for sharing. I’m gaining wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I now need to implement what I’m learning.
    I’m still struggling with self control (eating & exercising), and consistency Blessings.

    • @jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168
      @jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168 2 года назад +3

      Seek after the kingdom of god, you’re not a late bloomer

    • @carolbierman2910
      @carolbierman2910 2 года назад

      A great channel to learn about God's wisdom & truth....
      Smyrna Christian Church, Kokomo Indiana. They got a bad rap when they stated about God's truth in the both 6th & 8th day creation. This is a place of God's truth and worship. I promise.

  • @Kyndal-Kyn
    @Kyndal-Kyn 2 года назад +40

    This was a really great video.
    I LOVED how you talked about doing something unpleasant and difficult. My pattern is to quit ot be lazy and at 35, I'm tired of living my life like this. Since rededicating my life to CHRIST he has been guiding me to videos and women like yourself to help me be ALL that he purposed me to be. Thank You For Sharing. 🙏🏾

    • @jilliandavis4495
      @jilliandavis4495 2 года назад

      Hi! I’m interested, what other channels have you been watching that are similar to Bindi’s? I am interested in discovering other women who echo these convictions.

    • @Kyndal-Kyn
      @Kyndal-Kyn 2 года назад +1

      @@jilliandavis4495 You can check our Elisabeth Elliot also

  • @LISLOVESTRUTH
    @LISLOVESTRUTH 2 года назад +39

    This is a deep one. I loved it. It was extremely convicting. Ironically, I'm a designer and I work in a Project Management firm, so your example from your corporate days was targeted directly to me. I have made other people's houses dreamy and yet my house is a mess. You are right about it being a reflection of the internal climate of the soul. I will apply myself to addressing this area of my life. Blessings to you.

  • @almetrabriggs6377
    @almetrabriggs6377 2 года назад +22

    I love this: order, structure and discipline guided through Holy Spirit. This welcomes the peace of God into our homes and it begins with us as we yield ourselves to the will of God. We must be able to manage ourselves first!🙏🏽

  • @laurynfrancis3161
    @laurynfrancis3161 2 года назад +19

    I needed this reminder. Fasting is transformative. I will need to re-watch and write down those scripture references

  • @omoyeleR
    @omoyeleR 2 года назад +32

    It is relaxing to see your videos. Just to see a woman with discipline and feminine ways is amazing. It is not something I see at all on a regular basis. I wish you the best. And thank you

  • @Shasta31487
    @Shasta31487 Год назад +17

    I am morbidly obese as well and have found that water fasting is amazing! I feel so good when I don't eat for periods of time and it is really shocking.

  • @sashanoel167
    @sashanoel167 2 года назад +30

    I am proof that you're never too old to learn. I can't wait to pass your channel on to my daughter and granddaughter. May God bless you and your ministry!!!

    • @Lynaelary
      @Lynaelary 2 года назад +1

      Yes, please pass this on to the next generations💯%

  • @kookiekae14
    @kookiekae14 Год назад +4

    I struggle with self worth. I want to be better for other more than myself. I care too much about others. I’m upset with my mistakes and past and I believe I don’t deserve things I currently have. I also beat myself down & it causes me to not take care of responsibility. I’m glad I’m aware of it I just need to work on it. Thank you for this message 😢❤. On a journey to self love & worth!✨

  • @deec3561
    @deec3561 2 года назад +22

    This channel is a blessing

  • @tonij6688
    @tonij6688 2 года назад +9

    Oh, I am 54 years of age, grown children with grandchildren, retired and on a new Journey and this is helping me with the new responsibilities of self employment/Author and etc. I am still learning and Thank you again.

  • @SolaScriptura-n-cats
    @SolaScriptura-n-cats Год назад +2

    Bindi, you are so wholesome in sharing the truth with us. I crave this knowledge. You remind me of my baby sister so much. She’s a mother of nine, home-schooler, household manager. Purely Biblical wife and mother, and I admire her so very much. As I do you. I, myself, am 54yo and divorced. Can you tell me, please, how can I best apply your teachings to my own life, being that I don’t have a husband and my kiddos are grown. I just work full-time as a nurse now, and have cats. 😹 Thanks. Love your ministry, sister. 💗😻

  • @asiak1334
    @asiak1334 2 года назад +8

    I love this thank you sis! I’ve recently over a month now have picked a day in the week to fast and pray. I’ve also picked a day when I do self care and spend time journaling and spending extra time with God. I wakes up in the morning at 3am to study for my career which is hard for me as a single mom, Plus im not a morning person lol. I struggle with cooking home cooked meals though I love to cook, I’m currently de cluttering my home and praying God helps me to keep up with it🙏🏼💖

  • @lucynjuguna9653
    @lucynjuguna9653 2 года назад +6

    I have had a constant battle to lose my weight and I felt overwhelmed coz nothing was working until I tried cutting out most of the carbs and sugar I was putting in.i must say it's working out well.slow but sure

  • @amouressence7931
    @amouressence7931 2 года назад +9

    Hello ! I am a young single lady, still living at my parent house. And I m so glad I found out your videos, cause I really need to be teach on how to become a successful godly woman. For my marriage tomorrow, but in general periodt. I feel like I have so much lack on self disciplined, organization, bulding a healthy routine and get stick to It.. could you make a video on what would be your advises to your single self now that you re married (If it s not done yet) ? That would be great. 🤗 thank you, love your content. God bless you 💋

  • @HabitsofaHomemaker
    @HabitsofaHomemaker 2 года назад +5

    This video was such a blessing. Loved it sis!❤️

  • @kaysmall1
    @kaysmall1 2 года назад +20

    Not sure how I came across your channel but I’m so glad I did. I’ve been struggling with finding balance and disciplining myself in certain areas and aspects of my life. Thank you for sharing and being sensitive to the things of God. This definitely puts things into perspective for me and how I will grow as a whole

  • @crownofgloryandhonour
    @crownofgloryandhonour 2 года назад

    Thank you for the book review and demystifying some of the ideas in it. I have had a copy for a while and will now read it.

  • @ninakeeler647
    @ninakeeler647 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing your heart with us. It is thought provoking, challenging and loving all at the same time. I am excited to get on my journey of self control with eating and will be adding in a weekly fasting day!

  • @somitom7813
    @somitom7813 2 года назад +5

    Just what I needed to hear. Having self control over my eating habits. 🙏🏽

  • @1FloGlo
    @1FloGlo 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing... I needed to hear this...and help apply this to both my home and work life 🙏🏽🙌🏾🙏🏽

  • @WhitDough
    @WhitDough 2 года назад +5

    Very blessed by your channels topics. Been watching you since your 1st set of locs. Thank you for sharing and challenging us.

  • @lovewins699
    @lovewins699 2 года назад +4

    I just ran across your channel, and I must say that this feels like therapy for me. I sure needed this word. The background nature sounds is easing my mind. I'm going through a lot right now. Today feels stressful for me, but I'm starting to feel better.....thank you!

  • @bravemac8612
    @bravemac8612 2 года назад +15

    These are soooo good! Thanks so much for sharing. Sometimes it’s good to hear other perspectives so you can learn and grow!❤️

  • @TanieBaker
    @TanieBaker 2 года назад

    This is an excellent video and touched on so many things I’m facing as a stay at home mom and wife. Thank you so much!!

  • @marciaoppong
    @marciaoppong 2 года назад +3

    This video was excellent. Just exactly what I needed to hear. Planning to act on it asap and listen to it again later. Thanks for what you do, and also really nice and encouraging to see your progression.

  • @ashleyrose4220
    @ashleyrose4220 2 года назад +1

    I needed this video! Your words hit home very deeply. I've been struggling with certain things you've mentioned. Thank you for helping me to become more aware. 💗

  • @candacekenyon7130
    @candacekenyon7130 2 года назад +1

    Just went I thought I was caught up on all your videos I came across this one. ♥️ it was has been a rollercoaster over here. I was a business owner for several years and came home full time last summer. Mother of 4. I do really great at taking care of our home at times and then let overwhelm happen and get extremely behind. Also I’m heavier than I have ever been even while carrying my children. When you said how we are on the inside effects toe care of our home I was like 😮😮😮🤦🏻‍♀️ 🤯🤯🤯 I’m sitting here praying for wisdom as well as thanking God for letting me come across your page.
    Kicking my Dr Pepper habit would help. I struggle to plan meals and keep a routine.

  • @nunuallen4327
    @nunuallen4327 2 года назад +7

    Smart, and blessed. I listened to this whole thing and I'm an older woman. This is something that my daughter does, manage her house, and head project manager, and always looking out for husband and children.

  • @tonij6688
    @tonij6688 2 года назад +8

    This is so good with clarity. "Training my Will and self mastery" are actions I wanted to execute, but hadn't yet knew the terminology of. Thank you.

  • @pamholbrook4516
    @pamholbrook4516 2 года назад +3

    I just found this channel this morning as I’m sitting outside needing to be with nature because I’m struggling with some things that have upset me with work. I’ve always been a scheduled person. I’ve always been able to find a way to balance my life keep my home clean, make great meals. But I struggle with eating. I go up and down with it. I have periods where I lose weight I keep the weight down for a while and then I gain weight back. And all these years I forgot that not controlling what I eat is glutinous. I needed that message as I struggle right now with losing weight. Thank you for the channel.

  • @setapartaay925
    @setapartaay925 2 года назад +2

    Sister girl, you got my ALLLLLL the way together! I thank you dad this is confirmation for me.
    Thanks for the reminder!! New subscriber here!! 😊

  • @MMM-du4qg
    @MMM-du4qg 2 года назад +6

    I’m really enjoying your videos. I appreciate the time you’ve taken to prepare them and bless you for your diligence in answering this call. ❤

  • @alantheaclarkson1679
    @alantheaclarkson1679 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for your work. I have been seeking a channel like yours for years and am so grateful for what you are doing. I feel you have really touched on an authentic Christian women's character.

  • @heather8311984
    @heather8311984 2 года назад +8

    I am so convicted by what you shared in the video sister! I also have a genetic tendency towards obesity and I am currently obese. I feel so confused in my mind and heart as to how to get healthy and I realize after listening to what you shared that I have not relied on the Lord to strengthen me in this area. It has very much impacted my marriage and confidence. Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to share your heart. The Lord is speaking through you. 💜

    • @aubreybryan5332
      @aubreybryan5332 2 года назад +1

      Drink more water, avoid all soda pops and fizzy drinks. No good. Move more. Sit less. Lift weights while sitting. Do gardening if you have space on windows or patio ✅

  • @kmsongbird
    @kmsongbird 2 года назад +1

    Oh how I need to control my tongue! Thank you for your hard work preparing and delivering these so helpful videos!

  • @AbigailCarter710
    @AbigailCarter710 2 года назад

    I am so happy to have found this channel. This is going to be a source of inspiration to a young woman who is needing a guideline!

  • @sabinasoto5151
    @sabinasoto5151 2 года назад +19

    When I am tired from all the mom things I ask myself How do athletes do it? How do they work so hard and end up stronger after? Yet as I mom I tell myself that I am wearing myself out. That is what I found it’s what I was telling myself about my work. I started setting goals around housework, measuring my progress, and believing that I am getting stronger from this job.

  • @debbieyork864
    @debbieyork864 Год назад

    I prayed about these issues last night and this is the first video I found and watched today! Thank you for sharing and giving this information and thank God for his insight love and guidance.

  • @juliannacodde8633
    @juliannacodde8633 2 года назад

    This was amazing, thank you so much! You are clearly a godly woman and I so appreciate your wisdom and example. I will have to pick up that book.

  • @roseb.5367
    @roseb.5367 2 года назад +5

    Just landed on your video, felt at peace and dozed off for a few minutes while listening. The back ground sounds of nature are what I have yearned to hear for years. The your voice is caressing and firm- nurturing, felt convicted 😊 without being screamed at.

  • @sandracrump
    @sandracrump 2 года назад +2

    I love this video so much this has been on my mind! Fasting and be more mindful what I consumed! Also last week I’ve have had this talk with my co worker saying the biggest goal is for me is becoming a mom and she said she wants to grow in the company become at a the top ! Family makes your rich not a title or position because that can be moved! Family can grow and blossom from a woman!

  • @ohkay1976
    @ohkay1976 2 года назад +3

    Wow sis the love covers a multitude of sins part sent me CHILLS. thank Abba for your channel. I've been working on this lately as well & this was confirmed. Thank you for being so vulnerable & trusting in YAH mwah 😽

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker Год назад +2

    That part about being hangry and subduing our stomachs spoke to me! I may start doing the 24 hour fasts as well x

  • @maggiea6766
    @maggiea6766 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing these points from the book. I have never thought of fasting that way.

  • @kidsnkittens
    @kidsnkittens 2 года назад

    Such precious, life giving words! I wish I would have heard this 25 years ago. I’ve learned, but so many mistakes along the way.

  • @stephaniedevine4767
    @stephaniedevine4767 Год назад +1

    Just found your channel today and absolutely LOVE it!!! Thank you for speaking truth!!!

  • @sassymango9369
    @sassymango9369 2 года назад

    I just found your channel and I m so glad I did. You are a lovely lady and a great teacher. I struggle with my eating and you helped me see that it is affecting my relationships and my whole life.

  • @valeriya105
    @valeriya105 Год назад

    Your videos are everything... thank you for these. Much needed and I shared with a few friends of mine. Thank you thank you thank you.

  • @rebeccaestrada4946
    @rebeccaestrada4946 2 года назад +1

    I have had so much revelation. I declare self mastery. I ha e been in a season of finger pointing and dealing with familiar spirits. I am prioritizing cleaning more because I have been so miserable with the mess but dealing with my attention bring pulled towards work, when the truth is, it has always mattered so much to me to have my home organized for my family. Loving these videos. Praise God!

  • @thelaurenanya
    @thelaurenanya 2 года назад

    I NEEDED to see this video. I’m grateful for your openness. This video has helped me in ways I didn’t know I needed. God bless you!

  • @neba_heals
    @neba_heals 2 года назад +1

    This was heavy and timely for my present space! Thank you sis💜🙏🏾

  • @OshunErzulieHetHeru
    @OshunErzulieHetHeru 2 года назад +6

    Sexual mastery hasn't been an issue for me. Food, however has been a substitute. Sometimes food acts as a comfort from anxiety and the effects of trauma.

  • @phoeniciacloud1515
    @phoeniciacloud1515 2 года назад +4

    This was so on time! Sheesh I don’t know anyone that doesn’t need to see this!

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 2 года назад +3

    I’m blessed to see your discipline and spiritual maturity to connect the word of God to your skill set into home making.

  • @katelynb7238
    @katelynb7238 2 года назад

    This channel is a tremendous blessing to me. Thank you, Bindi.

  • @ChristandLocs
    @ChristandLocs 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with the Lord as He spoke to me through your sharing of one of them. God bless!

  • @martikajahnae1005
    @martikajahnae1005 2 года назад

    Thanks for this content! I am currently working on my health it's been a up and down battle. In my family on both sides it appears extra weight is applauded and associated with good cooking. I am a decent cook, more healthier foods than what I was raised on and mother to one. I know I do not want to battle high blood pressure, diabetes high cholesterol. At the start of this year, I joined a weight loss program with my job and I am grateful for the process. I am looking at my weight loss journey this time around as a life long journey. I love the authentic way you shared about your family weight and tips paired with the expounding of the portion of the book shared. Thank you

  • @Ohheyyall
    @Ohheyyall 2 года назад +1

    Oh goodness, I needed this. I thought something was wrong with me having to write down literally everything. Thank you for sharing what helps you function.

    • @scaj76
      @scaj76 2 года назад

      You have to there's no way to keep everything organized in your head all the time. You're right on track.

  • @ailene_e
    @ailene_e 2 года назад +2

    I just started watching you and subscribed. I love these homemaker videos because I’m an aspiring homemaker and wife. God willing, if and when he blesses me with a husband, I want to be ready and prepared for the work that entails. Your videos are so practical and biblically solid, I’m feeling really edified and grateful I found them. I recently just bought the original print of Fascinating Womanhood as well, so I gotta get on that and read it. Thank you!

  • @susangillespie4443
    @susangillespie4443 2 года назад +1

    💙I am grateful that keeping our home is a joy that I am honored to do… and your reading and discussion has given me the knowledge and wisdom to up the organization and completion of these tasks. Thank you, Bindi for all your time and talent in sharing your blessings with us… it has renewed my enthusiasm and helps me remember for whom 💙and why I get to do these loving things…

  • @JMarie-th8xe
    @JMarie-th8xe 2 года назад +6

    Wow, I needed this! Thanks for sharing! Definitely need to work on being determined in my homemaking and also I've been working on moderation in eating. Gluttony is a sin that we often forget.

  • @immensebeaute5293
    @immensebeaute5293 Год назад +1

    This by far one of the best videos I’ve watched on RUclips . Something overcame me during my watch thank you 🙏🏾

  • @anniedrosham7299
    @anniedrosham7299 Год назад +1

    I really struggle with food intake and self control in that area. I eat until im sick every night, for the last 2 years. Wishing I could stop, dreaming of breakthrough everyday. Ive put on so much weight that nothing even fits me and I see how its affecting every area of self control in my life.

  • @nicoleephraim913
    @nicoleephraim913 2 года назад +3

    Hi! This is my first video of yours that I’ve watched. I’m looking forward to others within your channel. This is so inspiring and extremely helpful. I feel strapped with tools to overcome and control my belly. All Praises to the Most High that I was led to you by the Holy Spirit. Thank you sister for being a remarkable example of how we should be!! HalleluYah!! 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾🔥🔥

  • @callistoglitter450
    @callistoglitter450 Год назад +1

    My biggest struggle is simply "forgetting" my reasons. Whenever I attempt to fast I'm so overwhelmed by my hunger that I either forget why I'm fasting in the first place or somehow convince myself that I should eat.

  • @kbere4142
    @kbere4142 2 года назад +2

    Your video showed up as I was thinking about how hard food addiction has been for me. I’ve had my third baby this year, and every time I have a baby it’s so hard to lose all the weight. I stress eat, and that compounds the issue. I’m praying for strength to drop the addiction and find another way to comfort myself during stress. I resent how hard my work is and that we can’t afford for me to focus solely on the children, and I use it as a cop out to overeat. Thank you for your video. It’s encouraging me to keep trying.

  • @AccordingToLeah
    @AccordingToLeah Год назад +3

    You have inspired me! I am not Christian, but I am a young wife soon to be a first time mother. My biggest struggle so far is with homemaking especially experiencing a difficult pregnancy. According to my spirituality prayer is also quite important and just last night my husband and I started praying together - I have to admit that the work of asking for help and being honest with myself has done a difference in how I feel and how I view my responsibility as a woman and a wife.

  • @melissadonis1790
    @melissadonis1790 Год назад +2

    Wow.. I love this. When you said being hangry is a pathetic excuse to be sharp tongued with my children.. that hit me. these are things we need to be speaking about more! Thank you for articulating things so nicely!

  • @abigailmendez8999
    @abigailmendez8999 2 года назад +1

    you inspire me. I'm 20 years old. I pray for the wisdom you imparted. Thank you may God continue to use you.

  • @dzidzokumahor3857
    @dzidzokumahor3857 2 года назад +3

    Your channel is such a blessing. Thank you for sharing your journey with Christ. Very inspiring!

  • @kether316
    @kether316 2 года назад +3

    This video is reminding me of God's overwhelming and magnificent love for me and for His children and I just want to say thank you. Thank you for your ministry and reminding me of His love and inspiring me to want to minister to others ;)

  • @hnsmith11
    @hnsmith11 2 года назад +5

    I am so glad the Lord led me to you, this is such an encouragement for things i have been working on. Self discipline and sticking with it. Also self love and self image. Thank you for doing what you do. I already am looking forward to other videos. God bless you sister in Christ.

  • @allthingsaremadenew236
    @allthingsaremadenew236 Год назад

    I appreciate the kind and genuine honesty on these topics.
    They're very good to hear!
    I use to get up at 5AM every morning but I haven't done that in 5 months. I'll be doing this again starting tomorrow. I am always so much more productive when I get up early.

  • @nikkithomas9857
    @nikkithomas9857 2 года назад +2

    This is very refreshing we are in the world not of the world. I am a new subscriber. So happy I found this channel.

  • @mingonoel
    @mingonoel 2 года назад +8

    This is something that the LORD has been opening my eye up to, in this season of my life I’m definitely being refined. He has brought me to Galatians and the fruit of the spirit. I will say the area I struggle the most with is motivation and doing the uncomfortable things . I’ve never really had a successful fast. Thank you for posting this . It was conformation for me.

  • @APRMinistries
    @APRMinistries 2 года назад

    I love every video on your channel but this is my favorite. Thank you so much sister Bindi. 💗

  • @janicerenderos7677
    @janicerenderos7677 Год назад +1

    You are a blessing! Yes have thoroughly enjoyed this video. I am on the path to self mastery. As someone who has struggled with being messy and over indulging in all things this has spoken Volumes to me.

  • @honeylovesluxury
    @honeylovesluxury Год назад +1

    You have been such a blessing in my life as a Christian, Wife, mother and homemaker. I appreciate you and thank you for sharing your insight, motivation and authenticity with us through RUclips. Bless you & your family

  • @prodigaldaughter5978
    @prodigaldaughter5978 2 года назад +10

    I'm a single mother with two jobs. I struggle very much with keeping up with the housekeeping and staying in my word 😭 I often have the audio Bible while I'm driving or on my break at work and sometimes when I'm winding down for bed but sometimes that's not enough. The way my life is right now, it's very easy to just plop down on the couch after getting off of work, getting my child from daycare and maybe making dinner and deciding that I'm done for the day. Praying that the Lord helps me to not be lazy when it's very easy because I do want to be a homemaker/housewife and want my child(ren) and husband comfortable and happy. Thank you for your content. Give me a lot to think and pray about.

    • @sabinasoto5151
      @sabinasoto5151 2 года назад +1

      I struggle a lot with clocking out at the end of the day too. I had to get over the mindset that more work or service is depleting. I changed my mindset to I am training and when I have more to accomplish i am getting stronger. Like when I push myself during a workout. Another thing I think about often is that my actions have infinite meaning and everything matters. I get to serve 100% of my kids needs and I get 100% of the hugs, and love too. It’s important to set those intentions and create a space in your home that reminds you of that. Maybe Holy art or an altar that is set up with those intentions in mind.

    • @prodigaldaughter5978
      @prodigaldaughter5978 2 года назад

      @@sabinasoto5151 that's a really good idea! Thank you for that. I've been thinking that when I move out (hopefully within the year) that maybe I can look for a place with an extra bedroom and make that room or making a small closet and turn into a prayer closet. And yes Changing our mindset is so important because our babies are sponges and see everything. Especially our responses to our issues/circumstances. It's important to point our kids to Christ intentionally through not only our words but our actions too.

  • @hawleygirl
    @hawleygirl Год назад +2

    So good Bindi! Your message on self control is spot on.
    I love playing your videos during my morning routine of cooking and cleaning. ❤️