(pt1) HOW TO BE SEXY | The Good Christian Wife - A Series | Marriage, Homemaking ft

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Комментарии • 413

  • @Kaymaxwelldevelops
    @Kaymaxwelldevelops Год назад +531

    My husband used to always say when I would complain about my weight after I had our son “Don’t make me see something that I don’t want to see” he didn’t see me that way and didn’t want to but by complaining about it I would bring it to his attention. Work in silence ladies 😊

    • @ohyeah2269
      @ohyeah2269 Год назад +15

      Love this!

    • @andreawithgod
      @andreawithgod Год назад +28

      That’s actually so sweet of your husband to say..

    • @TheDaisyJ
      @TheDaisyJ Год назад +11

      Amen!!! I know exactly what you are talking about. I’m learning more and more when my husband responds to me. I get the dumb look, like why did I say that to him. Why did I point that out to him.

    • @TFARN
      @TFARN Год назад +2

      Oh wow. Beautifully stated...

    • @Strawberry_gal
      @Strawberry_gal Год назад +4

      My husband said the same thing to me.

  • @Maman_poule
    @Maman_poule Год назад +593

    When my husband and I were engaged, there was a short period where we were fighting a lot.
    One night we went to a friends bbq and my husband was asked to lead us in prayer before eating.
    When we were leaving, a girl friend of ours followed us out and told my husband how wonderful his prayer was and how it touched her. It was innocent, but the Lord used that to convict me!!
    I remember thinking “all he is hearing from me is criticism. Do I really want other women filling his cup with praise?”
    Ever since that day, 6 years ago, I have made it a point to compliment and praise my husband every single day.

    • @ohyeah2269
      @ohyeah2269 Год назад +36

      Wow thank you. These stories are rare gems of wisdom to help us preparing 😊

    • @sicilianstraycatsandfriends
      @sicilianstraycatsandfriends Год назад +9

      Does he do the same to you? Relationshiptips are give and take. 50/50.

    • @truthnotlies
      @truthnotlies Год назад +5

      Wow, beautiful point. I needed to hear something like this again. Bless you, sister.

    • @henriquesilva5538
      @henriquesilva5538 Год назад +46

      @@sicilianstraycatsandfriends What men give is not the same as what women give.
      What men take is not the same as what women take.
      Yes, relationships must be BALANCED.
      But there is no such thing as 50/50 equality between men and women.
      But young people believe that a man not praising the woman who praised him first is a "t0xic and @busive relationship"...

    • @VanessasVarietyVenue
      @VanessasVarietyVenue Год назад +3

      Well thanks be to God I am glad you were able to see yourself rather than continue, many times we are so blind on narrow that we never see what we do wrong and are constantly pointing finger i hope you share this with more women. Bless you my sister.

  • @MsJudith0907
    @MsJudith0907 Год назад +105

    We have 7 children, natural birth. I complained so much to my husband. He always says, “Baby what I see is a woman who is beautiful, carried my children with so much strength and beauty. Stop beating yourself up!”

  • @kg2096
    @kg2096 Год назад +235

    So much insight shared in this video! When wearing a dress to go grocery shopping, I feel like I'm engaged in a gentle, low key protest against the masculization of women.

  • @lorrainebarnett8389
    @lorrainebarnett8389 8 месяцев назад +19

    I’m 74 years old and I’m learning so much from you and feeling convicted about my need to be my husband’s wife! For all the young women out there who think sexual pleasure ends when you’re old….it ain’t necessarily true! My husband and I enjoy each other now more than we ever have. In my early years I had so much shame because of my former sinful life. I’ve repented of that and now I am free to be truly intimate with my husband. Thank you ladies!

  • @---wu3qj
    @---wu3qj Год назад +195

    You don’t have to be a super model, just be YOUR PERSONAL BEST. Learn what YOUR OWN HUSBAND appreciates, and do what is possible to you.
    One thing I want to add: Some husbands will have unrealistic expectations. If they have indulged in pornography, they have set themselves up to NOT be satisfied, no matter if you are beautiful! Do YOUR BEST, and if your husband is in sin, let God chasten him.

    • @kayla5285
      @kayla5285 Год назад +9

      you sound wise.

    • @andreawithgod
      @andreawithgod Год назад +4

      This comment is amazing! Thank you!

    • @notibutchristGal222
      @notibutchristGal222 Год назад +9

      I would divorce if my husband was indulging in porn. It's adultery and I can't mentally go through that again.

    • @alyssayu1979
      @alyssayu1979 Год назад +1

      🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @Curly_Jay
      @Curly_Jay 9 месяцев назад

      Beautifully stated! 🙌🏼

  • @mrs.ana93
    @mrs.ana93 10 месяцев назад +19

    27:30 This part is so true. I’ve been dressing more feminine lately, and yesterday while I was at target I was the only woman I saw wearing a long floral skirt. I actually caught SEVERAL men turning their heads back to look at me. Which I’m not concerned about their attention, because I am married and my husband was also with me.
    But I kid you not, for YEARS I have not been dressing feminine, sadly I can take it back to AFTER I became married. I became lazy and my daily attire consisted of huge baggy shirts and biker shorts. Of course I didn’t get anyone turning their heads to look at me.. not even my husband!
    But now that I dress feminine I am hearing multiple times a day from my husband how beautiful I am!!
    I didn’t even tell him what I was doing and how I was going to change my wardrobe. So seeing this natural reaction and shift in his perception towards me is so wonderful! I’m ready to throw all my baggy shirts and biker shorts in the trash lol 😂

    • @JosieBarberr
      @JosieBarberr 9 месяцев назад

      Facts

    • @walkinunity5461
      @walkinunity5461 6 месяцев назад

      @@JosieBarberryour comment means a lot to me. I just had our 4th baby and that has been my attire, t shirts and sweatpants in the house. I lost a ton of weight and it’s made me insecure. My first pregnancy took so much out of me, it caused dental problems. It’s so embarrassing. My husband asks me to dress nice for him; buying lingerie or just something nice to bed, like silk nightgowns. I’ve been so insecure that when I put something nice on for him, I cover it with a robe 🥺. I’m 32 and we have been married for almost 9 years this coming March. I have no godly women in my life. So coming here and seeing comments and watching Bindi means a lot to me. I thank YAH for so many of you. I’ve been eyeing a few nice feminine dresses that I think I’m going to finally purchase. Thank you for the encouragement. Praise Elohim! ♥️

  • @Dr.Cherokie
    @Dr.Cherokie Год назад +91

    Honestly. I need to just throw away my whole wardrobe and start off fresh.
    Since I started watching Bindi I literally bought 3 dresses and I love how I look and feel in them! And so does my husband. But now I wore them out too much lol. I need to buy more dresses, lingerie, and figure out how to make this natural hair cooperate and make these edges grow back lol

    • @ondreatorrence4322
      @ondreatorrence4322 Год назад +15

      Thifts stores !! That's where I get all my cute dresses and skirts . All modest and affordable

    • @rasheedaogburn123
      @rasheedaogburn123 Год назад +3

      Hey girl! I only wear dresses and skirts and right now Shein is a huge help. I also just snagged some cute skirts from H&M. I would say start with staple pieces and build from there if you want to incorporate more dresses and skirts into your wardrobe. It’ll come!

    • @leahfinch7126
      @leahfinch7126 Год назад +5

      I have super curly hair and I got my baby hairs to grow back with rosemary mixed with jojoba oil and wearing my hair down more❤️❤️

    • @canelareina3795
      @canelareina3795 Год назад

      Update. Did you do it

    • @ChasingChrist
      @ChasingChrist 10 месяцев назад +1

      You must be me lol because I’m thinking the same thing

  • @jessejules2092
    @jessejules2092 Год назад +96

    Take care of yourself:
    Brush your teeth regularly
    Brush your hair
    Drink mostly water or fluids without sugar
    Listen to your body
    Eat Russell Stover sugar free chocolate for treats if you can afford it.
    Learn to love your own company.
    Do some things for yourself sometimes, even if you feel guilty.
    Do some things for others sometimes when you don't feel like it.
    Think about the possibility of DELETING social media and make a plan of how to do it.
    Discover triggers from childhood trauma and rewire your brain to respond/ communicate differently.
    Establish clear personal boundaries with others.
    If an answer doesn't satisfy your inquiry, don't let it go till you get the answer you're looking for.
    Take mini breaks from intense focus to rest your brain.

    • @nay2670
      @nay2670 Год назад +2

      Love this 💞

    • @kg2096
      @kg2096 Год назад +4

      4th one from the bottom is key and makes a huge difference. Learning to live in a different world, one that is far less threatening than I learned growing up ❤

  • @emptysoul5057
    @emptysoul5057 Год назад +112

    This is so important. I grew up conservative black baptist. I was taught at an early age that female sexual desire was something to be ashamed of. My mother was not as severe as my grandma but she still managed to make me feel ashamed of myself for any sort of feminine beauty I might have portrayed. I was a strong willed child and kinda refused to be completely unfashionable. I did cover up but I didn't think pretty prints or pink or red colors were evil. Nothing in the Bible told me any one color was evil. When I did finally married I felt ashamed when my husband called me beautiful or when he liked an outfit I was wearing. From the years of nonsense I grew up in I felt like attracting my husband was wrong even though the Bible doesn't say that.

    • @emptysoul5057
      @emptysoul5057 Год назад +13

      @AnEssene I was told not to read songs of Solomon until after I was married and talk of anything about anything near that topic was not accepted. I just snuck and learned things anyway though. I wasn't sexual active before my husband but I didn't wanna go into marriage knowing nothing at all. Imagine not knowing how babies are made and being married....yeah nope I wasn't about to let that happen lol.

  • @dorcasbrown1553
    @dorcasbrown1553 Год назад +264

    I think a private online seminar of some sort would be great for some ladies that truly want to understand their femininity. It may also give you the freedom to share more things with us. Your content is amazing x

  • @theartoffemme2997
    @theartoffemme2997 Год назад +69

    I will never speak dispairaging words over myself in front of my husband again. Thank you for bringing an awareness to this issue. I do this ALL the time!! God BLESS my husband who has NEVER said a bad thing about my body or my looks, even though I frequently tear myself apart in front of him.

  • @Jazzrib
    @Jazzrib Год назад +49

    For the ladies struggling to be sexy, what has helped me is taking sexy dance classes, female only. Dancing in high heels for example. It has helped me be more confident in being sensual around my husband and it’s also a good way to stay in shape. New to this channel. ❤

    • @jcqwater8713
      @jcqwater8713 Год назад +1

      great advice!

    • @jcqwater8713
      @jcqwater8713 Год назад +2

      great advice!

    • @nnadichukwunonso9550
      @nnadichukwunonso9550 10 месяцев назад +7

      Ungodly advice

    • @Jazzrib
      @Jazzrib 10 месяцев назад

      @@nnadichukwunonso9550 it’s so ungodly it made my marriage better.

    • @CinemaDoll137
      @CinemaDoll137 8 месяцев назад +2

      Great advice because you could do this for your husband too

  • @sharon6981
    @sharon6981 Год назад +28

    That intro 🔥
    Even when we fight, my husband can’t help but smile and compliment my beauty. It used to make me confused but now I get it!

  • @dahliaherrod4301
    @dahliaherrod4301 Год назад +52

    When you guys were addressing self-confidence I do want to point out how a lot of things that we think about ourselves are purely in our head. When our culture says to fix a problem we think of surgery and body modification to look like somebody else. Rather than have an honest conversation with ourselves about comparison and self-worth. I think it's worth it to really go to God in prayer about how we feel about ourselves and our identity. Our identity should be wrapped up in Christ not in man's standard for us.

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Год назад +47

    I love how you gave a disclaimer when it came to sex in marriage. As long as it's consensual, and there are no third parties ( emphasis on digital) it's all good. 👏🏾. This is key, I have counseled many women who felt pressured to do things that they did not want to.

  • @Afrodite96
    @Afrodite96 Год назад +35

    I like the points about sexual expression in the bedroom. I’ve listened to some ministries that seem to deem certain acts that aren’t considered “procreative” as wrong. Churches are either completely silent on sex or have too much control over what goes on. It has definitely been a challenge to come out of that. It’s important to do what your spouse likes and vice versa but also have healthy boundaries if something is too far.

    • @Tania-rg7jp
      @Tania-rg7jp Год назад

      Nazarenes and Hebrews only had sex to procreate because they practiced spiritual alchemy. If you were in the priesthood you got other practices akin to tantra but commoners were told only to have sex to procreate. Regular sex drains spiritual power. They were not worried about losing their husbands because divorce was mostly forbidden and many husbands had bondage concubines/slaves who they used. Those are the parts Christians leave out. Christians like to cherry pick what to follow and not follow but do what thou will.

    • @dumfriesspearhead7398
      @dumfriesspearhead7398 Год назад

      @@Tania-rg7jp It's funny how John Gray (author of Men are from Mars, Women from Venus) wrote in a recent book a very similar thing, but from a scientific standpoint

    • @vikumugisha1635
      @vikumugisha1635 Год назад +1

      @@dumfriesspearhead7398 which is the title of the book? And what was his view ? Thank you

  • @MonieMediaPolitics
    @MonieMediaPolitics Год назад +57

    This is awesome... bars :) I like these Christian women breaking boundaries and speaking truth! beyond the ordinary.

  • @supersweet131
    @supersweet131 Год назад +19

    I am 18 years married. They are 💯 correct on every point. Listen to Bindi… become a professional. When your daughters or little sisters become engaged for marriage, teach them what you know.

    • @canelareina3795
      @canelareina3795 Год назад

      Can you recommend any RUclips channels or books?

  • @dp8003
    @dp8003 Год назад +31

    Great video. I’m so glad y’all addressed sexuality in marriage. I just got married and come from a background of living in sin then being celibate for 3yrs. I had to readjust my mind that this is now the time for me to indulge and truly get to know my spouse more intimately

    • @ohyeah2269
      @ohyeah2269 Год назад +9

      Congratulations. Song of songs is a place you can also now finally explore through your new blessed holy marriage perspective. I'm so happy for you.

    • @deirdremorris9234
      @deirdremorris9234 Год назад +2

      Congrats! CELEBRATE!!!

  • @Offthebeatenpath.
    @Offthebeatenpath. Год назад +83

    Learned so much and enjoyed our chat, thank you so much for having me on:)

    • @nenyeo6090
      @nenyeo6090 Год назад +8

      Ahhh 😌 I’ll already love the collab. I love both your channels.

    • @Offthebeatenpath.
      @Offthebeatenpath. Год назад +4

      @@nenyeo6090 Thank you!

    • @DesiraeOfori
      @DesiraeOfori Год назад +1

      So excited to see this pop up!! I enjoy you both!! Now to go watch 🤣

    • @naty1012
      @naty1012 Год назад +1

      I subscribed to your channel

    • @Offthebeatenpath.
      @Offthebeatenpath. Год назад

      @@naty1012 thank you 🤗💕

  • @AWomansDiary
    @AWomansDiary Год назад +34

    Hi Joyce,
    I thoroughly enjoyed this video and appreciated you having Gwen on. A lot of us ladies haven't heard these perspectives and honestly it's not spoken about openly in the Christian community. Thanks so much!
    Would you considered doing a series on parenting, discipline, teaching children about God, building confidence in our children, important lessons, etc.?
    🌹🌹🌹

  • @MzCrayKray
    @MzCrayKray Год назад +7

    There are so many of us who are rich in character and we don't take care of ourselves because we have been condition to focus more on one and not the other. That if we just be a good Godly woman our husband will find us and accept us in whatever condition we are in regardless.

  • @patriciabell8028
    @patriciabell8028 Год назад +34

    This was a very good episode. I love that you touched on sexuality. Especially how you emphasized that it should be consenting and as long as no one is getting injured or it's something the other person is uncomfortable with, have the freedom to engage with each other. Married couples should have all the fun. We have God's permission to do so. The church tiptoes if that around sex as if it's a dirty secret. God made it for us. So glad to hear a healthy convo about it. I am a late 40s woman and we are empty nesters. It is time for us to really enjoy ourselves. I even told my kids please do not come over unannounced. We do not want to shatter your dreams 🤣. Keeping up our appearance is so important too. I am guilty of not dressing up to go the store. I'm decent, but I don't put forth the effort for makeup or dresses. I will try but I can't make any guarantees. I really enjoyed this show.

    • @ondreatorrence4322
      @ondreatorrence4322 Год назад +2

      Haha 😅 🤣 my mom said the same thing ! She said you better call first pr I'm not responsible for what you might see... girl let me tell you I call EVERYTIME 😅😅

  • @GraceFilled
    @GraceFilled Год назад +28

    Oh I love this soooo much . I always say our body is the temple!!I have gotten bigger recently and people say oh you look great for a mom of 5 .... But they don't know I am heavier now than when I was pregnant with baby 5!!! I have been dealing with a skin issue and I had to take steroids etc BUT I am not gonna stay here because " they " give me a pass as a mom of 5 or because I am so tall.
    I'm gonna get back to working out so I can get back to a good size for me which is a medium. About 20 pounds lighter 💞
    I definitely agree it's important to keep yourself up! Even in a large I dress up everyday and really take care of myself. I get compliments often because I wear long modest dresses and light makeup and jewelry everyday. People are always willing to hold doors, offer help, offer extras etc and I think that is absolutely amazing!!!

    • @briannawright6460
      @briannawright6460 Год назад +1

      Checkout glowbody PT, a Christian RUclipsr who is awesome for mamas!

  • @dezzy8575
    @dezzy8575 Год назад +6

    You ladies were dropping gems. I enjoyed it and it will help me be a better wife. I have started a journey on being more feminine, dropping weight, and eating healthy. My husband in subtle way has let me know I have gained weight, the old me would have gone off but now that I have been walking closer to God he has been letting me know that I have been eating badly and my husband is right. I realized that my husband missed the woman that was when we first got married. I ate healthy, always had myself put together and exercised. We are two kids in now and things change but I know I can get back to taking better care of myself. I have an unhealthy relationship with food and I have asked God to help me make better food choices and he is.

  • @shysheyannashockley844
    @shysheyannashockley844 Год назад +3

    Wow wow wow!! When you said invest in a public, private and bedroom wardrobe it made me think about entering into the tabernacle in the Old Testament. The courtyard, the holy place then the inner room or the holy of holies…. Chills!!!!! You ladies have blessed me with this open conversation. Iron sharpening iron!!!

  • @rachelmurdock8448
    @rachelmurdock8448 Год назад +1

    Y’all are cracking me up! 😅😂Very good truths, honesty and humor! I love it!

  • @iamnicolewebster
    @iamnicolewebster Год назад +14

    I’m a silent follower here, working in that lol. I just had to comment and say you ladies are my people! This topic is so refreshing and something I desire to share more of with women as well. It’s been on my heart for years and this is confirmation to share what’s on my heart. Well done ladies!

  • @morghan8095
    @morghan8095 Год назад +1

    This was a very good conversation and much needed. Thank you both!

  • @nyemahwest64
    @nyemahwest64 Год назад +3

    This was convicting, encouraging and such a blessing! Thank you ladies

  • @Abigail.444
    @Abigail.444 Год назад +11

    Coming from a single women here I think also dressing up and looking good can be so beneficial for our mental wellbeing as well! Looking good makes us feel good and motivates us for the day ahead! Thank you Bindi and Gwen for this discussion! I’ll remember it for when I get married one day! Please do a video with Melissa Dougherty her on RUclips! Would love to see you two together!

    • @zachianggandu774
      @zachianggandu774 11 месяцев назад

      Some women think wearing heavy makeup demonic nails and wig makes them look beautiful. Just enhance your natural look, exercise, be respectful and be celibate till your wedding night. It will eliminate the f boys. Live a righteous life, don’t dress naked like the modern women. Anything they do just do the opposite. Avoid surgery for any bbl, just be natural as possible. Wear your own hair stop trying to copy the white Woman by wearing wigs, u will look second to the white Woman.
      Don’t smoke or drink for any reason, enjoy your soft drink men love it.

    • @TheBlaxkWolf
      @TheBlaxkWolf 11 месяцев назад

      @@zachianggandu774no where in the Bible does it say wearing acrylics or wigs is demonic.

  • @mizzhelloo
    @mizzhelloo Год назад +23

    These are the honest conversations that we NEED!! This was awesome, well done ladies.

  • @zalikaharris8676
    @zalikaharris8676 Год назад +4

    I normally don't comment but you ladies did an awesome job. I loooove the transparency. Had me laughing, convicted and inspired to grow all at the same time.
    Gwen you have such a beautiful, graceful, honest, humble spirit. Bindi I’ve been a sub for a while….you and I are the exact same! That’s all I’m going to say love you girl. 😂😂😂

  • @kate_700
    @kate_700 Год назад

    This was so good to listen to. Thank you for sharing this online! ❤

  • @delightfullife9489
    @delightfullife9489 Год назад +6

    I’m loving this video format and the special guests! Amazing content. ❤ You ladies are sharing so much wisdom. More please!!

  • @nyeemajohnson7924
    @nyeemajohnson7924 Год назад +3

    Just started watching and know this conversation is going to be fire because it features my two favorite homemakers!

  • @S_1490
    @S_1490 Год назад +3

    I could listen to your wisdom ALL day!!!! You are on another level & I love it so much. Thank you for blessing us with your insight and not shying away from the truth 🙌

  • @arianahillebrand9428
    @arianahillebrand9428 Год назад

    Been waiting all day to cozy up on the couch with my coffee and watch this!!🥳🥳 thank you!

  • @takeupyourcrown6407
    @takeupyourcrown6407 Год назад

    Thank you ladies for having this conversation and sharing your tips and wisdom with us! This helped me with some of the things I’ve been wrestling within my walk!

  • @ondreatorrence4322
    @ondreatorrence4322 Год назад +4

    Loved this !
    Gwen you gained a new subscriber.
    I'm not married but I desire to be. And this was full of soooo much needed information. Wow such a blessing ladies

  • @bellavita2484
    @bellavita2484 Год назад +4

    Thank you, ladies! What an interesting conversation with so much wisdom and great advice. God bless you ❤️

  • @chrissiec2123
    @chrissiec2123 Год назад +3

    My two favorite homemaker RUclipsrs in one video. From watching Gwen talk about Bindi in one of her videos out of admiration to watching Gwen be on Bindi's channel, is such a beautiful thing! 🥺

  • @kgothatso28
    @kgothatso28 Год назад +7

    It’s these collabs with my favourite people 🥺🤭♥️♥️ looking forward to it 💃🏾

  • @sandemalgas7860
    @sandemalgas7860 Год назад +18

    A-MA-ZING! Loved every minute of this conversation. To know that God wants us to take care of these areas and that it's actually good stewardship 🙌🙌

  • @HelloooDear
    @HelloooDear Год назад +3

    Wow ! Such a blessing .💕 I really enjoyed this video.😊

  • @erinjensen8023
    @erinjensen8023 Год назад

    You guys are so encouraging and motivating! Y’all have given me a broader perspective on the Christian walk as a wife and expecting mother. I definitely agree that we shouldn’t compartmentalize beauty or virtue and look at the whole person. ❤

  • @TLG2211
    @TLG2211 Год назад +1

    Guuuuurl, okay I gotta come back to this , preach sis 👏🏾

  • @CamiStapleton
    @CamiStapleton Год назад +9

    This talk was a much-needed wife talk. I have learned alot and will carry with me several tips given. Thanks ladies

  • @Abc-qv4gj
    @Abc-qv4gj Год назад +5

    You have helped me so much! Please write a book for women, I love how candid and honest you are ♡♡

  • @Abc-qv4gj
    @Abc-qv4gj Год назад +5

    Can't wait to watch this!!!

  • @dorisdeal8729
    @dorisdeal8729 Год назад

    Love this! Thank you ladies! God bless you both. I’m down for the private seminar! 🙋‍♀️

  • @asiaowens6669
    @asiaowens6669 Год назад +2

    I enjoyed this! Thank you both so much!!

  • @jessolovely89
    @jessolovely89 Год назад

    This was another great discussion alot of gems in this video!

  • @paigedeclue9766
    @paigedeclue9766 Год назад +7

    My thyroid was off and I gained weight for a while and I will never forget my husbands reaction once I lost the weight. 💕

  • @Be_Better1002
    @Be_Better1002 11 месяцев назад

    @Bindi_Marc honey you NAILED it in your analogy! I love analogies too!!! You made me reflect on myself based off of that. That was a blessing to hear!

  • @sidehustlewithgloria
    @sidehustlewithgloria Год назад

    Wow tons of advice for all of us. Thank you so much ladies. Looking forward to next episode.

  • @diannew3512
    @diannew3512 Год назад +7

    My husband and I will celebrate our 1 year anniversary in 3 days. This video was very helpful in combating some inner turmoil I've felt since becoming married. I really wish more christians were "open" about this topic.
    I would definitely participate in a seminar where christian married women could go more in depth on this subject!
    I really loved the conversation! 😊

  • @GraceFilled
    @GraceFilled Год назад +3

    Hey!! I'm so excited about this video 🥰

  • @emilywalton4105
    @emilywalton4105 Год назад +6

    This is so important to talk about I struggle with confidence. I started taking care of my hair more and hygenie. My husband really dosent care what I wear I would like to wear more feminine clothing.

  • @thehappysouledwomen7832
    @thehappysouledwomen7832 Год назад +8

    It’s hard for me to put effort into how I look. It’s always been something I never tried to do because I don’t feel comfortable in my own skin if I’m not in a hoodie and jeans or leggings. My husband fell in love with me when he met me in my leggings and hoodies and T-shirt’s lol so I’ve continued to just dress that way our entire relationship..I was younger than and I do now wish I put more effort in looking better, doing my hair or putting on nice clothes etc, but I feel uncomfortable when im like that idk why. I hope that changes for me. I really value your teachings and suggestions this was an awesome session.

    • @Paul-pz1er
      @Paul-pz1er Год назад +1

      I'm a woman. I understand. I pray it changes for you too. Be encouraged. You are lovely. God sees and knows you

    • @lindsaypeek63
      @lindsaypeek63 Год назад +1

      I still have this to some degree but have been changed tremendously. For me it came from resentment or rejection of being a woman and being feminine. God is still healing me from the feminism programming

  • @steffa648
    @steffa648 Год назад +6

    Oh man 😫 I thought I was going to watch the whole thing and then saw it doesn’t load until December 9!

  • @jameliamcintosh2477
    @jameliamcintosh2477 Год назад +1

    As a woman that’s been married for 11 years this was helpful. Though my husband and are very clear on our love language we can always learn something new as a Christian couple. Definitely subbing to Gwen as well. Thanks Ladies! ❤

  • @kimokat
    @kimokat Год назад +5

    Can't wait to hear this chat!

  • @deirdresheridan8223
    @deirdresheridan8223 Год назад

    Wow, just can’t thank you enough. Growing up Catholic, there are so many mixed messages and non of them really positive. This episode was really helpful and much needed!!!!

  • @tresurecarter7013
    @tresurecarter7013 Год назад +6

    This was a really good conversation ❤

  • @margaretpenner1184
    @margaretpenner1184 Год назад

    Thank you very much for taking time and making RUclips videos like this, our culture needs it, we as woman need true.. And the encouragement to take care of ourselves and our Man.

  • @victoryhouse1446
    @victoryhouse1446 Год назад +2

    Bindi was spitting straight facts in the intro! I know for a fact that my husband sees me very differently than I see myself and this is just because of the grace of God within marriages!

  • @ameliahenry6
    @ameliahenry6 Год назад +2

    Hi Bindi. I really enjoyed watching that talk. My suggestion for another channel to do an interview with is Mrs. Widwest

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker Год назад +14

    Brilliant conversation, ladies. I enjoyed it a lot. Lots of things I'll take away from this. I do struggle with wearing less modest clothes at home though, as either i need to throw rubbish outside or the postman is knocking every day- sigh ☺️

    • @naty1012
      @naty1012 Год назад +8

      Keep a robe handy. I understand because my in-laws live downstairs the apartment and they come upstairs unannounced sometimes but I won't allow it to stop me, we have to find ways to work around that.

  • @yerushalom87
    @yerushalom87 Год назад

    This was soooooo good ladies , thank you !
    Please do another ❤️

  • @springsoflivingwater
    @springsoflivingwater Год назад

    What an amazing conversation ❤❤ in preparation for my marriage and this is something that had been put on my heart for a while. I loved the areas spoken about and the honesty 👏🏾 ❤...

  • @meglupo18
    @meglupo18 Год назад

    I love you girl! You are doing some great work with these videos!

  • @leirno
    @leirno Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing that. Since I started taking seriously my relationship with our God I have let go of myself. I used to dress with very tight clothes and straighten my hair all the time but lately I donated all of my tight clothes and tried leaving my hair naturally how He created it but I stopped caring as much on my day to day to groom myself and I was kind of feeling guilty of trying to hard to make myself pretty but this makes soo much sense

  • @arimox3942
    @arimox3942 Год назад +4

    Thank you for this transparent and clean video to help us out ! :) a couple of inquiring questions : how do/should we develop the 'know how' in the bedroom? Should we read certain books to be a 'professional', or are you saying it comes with time ?lol what resources would you recommend to aid us in becoming a professional ?

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker Год назад +10

    ❤️❤️❤️ Two inspirational women.

  • @EliBetti
    @EliBetti Год назад +3

    I loved this convo! ❤
    We need the sexuality and sex appeal talk more for married women. It's so important. I'm currently working on weight loss after baby 2 and the confidence that comes with seeing your body getting lean makes such a difference in the bedroom. There's nothing wrong with bettering yourself externally and internally for your husband. That's loving your man. I used to hate lingerie because I wasn't confident. It's something in learning to love now. I loved the analogy of wrapping up a gift for him. I'm also in the process of having a private and a bedroom wardrobe. This just solidified my decision on that. God bless you ladies and your marriages! ❤

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 11 месяцев назад

      A women’s body is a precious gift for her husband. There’s nothing wrong with putting on sexy lingerie and either unwrapping it yourself in front of him or allowing him the honour to unwrap it. It is God’s intended design for spouses to enjoy sexual intimacy together.

    • @nechiedavis1779
      @nechiedavis1779 10 месяцев назад

      Sad, sad, sad. Confidence is the most beautiful thing a woman can wear

  • @GhanaianLove
    @GhanaianLove Год назад +1

    I NEEDED to hear ALL of this 🙌🏾

  • @SlayAHM
    @SlayAHM Год назад

    Great conversation, ladies! Thank you 🙏

  • @margaretgathoni6547
    @margaretgathoni6547 Год назад

    The best video I've watched this year,good job ladies ❤️

  • @beccar1605
    @beccar1605 Год назад

    This is amazing and so unbelievably profound for me. Thank you ladies SO much!

  • @sher-sasha9817
    @sher-sasha9817 Год назад +6

    I hope I remember to come back to this video once I'm married. (If it's God's will). Great information

  • @Lovedatfirstwrite
    @Lovedatfirstwrite Год назад +4

    So ready!!!

  • @naty1012
    @naty1012 Год назад +4

    "Professional in training" I totally agree !

  • @Xoxoanita
    @Xoxoanita Год назад +3

    I can’t wait!

  • @nyemahwest64
    @nyemahwest64 Год назад +4

    I’m so excited

  • @anned.6446
    @anned.6446 Год назад +2

    I love this interview!

  • @Mmolesy
    @Mmolesy Год назад +1

    I remember I read a comment on a blog I follow. (Which will remain unnamed to protect the privacy of the person mentioned) but this lady said her and her husband had both grown up in a church that told it's congregants that a woman was not allowed to feel pleasure in the marriage bed as that was sinful. Only the husband was allowed. And the concept of mutual pleasure was shocking to her. But at the same time, she was in a lot of pain because she never got any pleasure out of it. It was also a topic her husband refused to discuss.
    It literally hurt my heart hearing that. I love wearing lingerie. I love God's design for marriage.
    Sex appeal within the confines of marriage is vital. I need to work on it more and I need to lose weight and make an effort in my appearance..
    I loved this video.❤️

  • @kristiecox7350
    @kristiecox7350 Год назад +3

    This is so good. ❤

  • @bellalane5358
    @bellalane5358 Год назад

    Love this ❤ Thank you my beautiful sisters!!!

  • @blspenza
    @blspenza Год назад +2

    I appreciate all this so much. So much needed right now. One note i would make about your "at home" wardrobe" what about if you have older sons? I think we still need to present ourselves modestly around the house to our sons.

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 8 месяцев назад

      Not just sons, even in the presence of daughters, modest dressing is also important. The not so modest dressing should be reserved solely for your husband and it should never be worn outside of the bedroom. That would also be a good way to teach your daughter about dressing modestly. And how would you classify modest dressing at home? Should mothers and daughters be allowed to walk around the house without wearing a bra?

  • @PureLace
    @PureLace Год назад +1

    Amazing video, as always.

  • @johnsonmm07
    @johnsonmm07 Год назад +5

    I so appreciate the 2 wardrobe. My husband has also been giving me flack about dressing too modest. Now, I just have to work on being warm while being less modest🤣😂

  • @tesajones5107
    @tesajones5107 Год назад

    This is so helpful.Thank you for sharing.

  • @TierraLebbie_Realty
    @TierraLebbie_Realty 29 дней назад

    This was such a blessing! I have been struggling with the intersection of "looking my best" and relationship with Christ. Much wisdom and insight! Appreciate you ladies!

  • @TFARN
    @TFARN Год назад +4

    I really enjoyed this perspective. It's so encouraging and refreshing to hear women speak this way. One thing I would like to add is that I've had a couple of women express that their issue with connecting freely with their husbands sexually stems from the sexual abuse they have experienced. Any advice on how to handle a situation like that?

    • @lodoia9532
      @lodoia9532 Год назад +4

      I would suggest they pray for deliverance from the trauma. It's very unfortunate what these woman went through but God can take their pain away.

    • @stephanieadim5010
      @stephanieadim5010 Год назад

      @@lodoia9532 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @yarekim5932
    @yarekim5932 Год назад +4

    Wow I follow you Both, This is Great! This is what Godly Women look like. PERFECTION.

  • @Ranchmoma
    @Ranchmoma Год назад +1

    Thank you thank you thank you for this. Women need this!!!!!

  • @cory5478
    @cory5478 Год назад

    Good Christian counseling from your church is terrific too!

  • @blessedgreenchick2222
    @blessedgreenchick2222 8 месяцев назад

    I really appreciate this conversation..especially being a young wife. 🙏🏾 blessings Gwen and Bindi❤❤❤