Bridesmaids Share Their Horror Stories

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  • Опубликовано: 12 июл 2024
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  • @rjameelah09
    @rjameelah09 4 года назад +11235

    Are we ignoring the iconic line she just said 😭 “I treated it like Harry Potter and shoved it in the closet till it presented a problem”

  • @camillemadore8511
    @camillemadore8511 4 года назад +14501

    "Treated the dress and shoes like Harry Potter, justed shoved them into the closet until they presented a problem"
    The second bridesmaid is hilare and a total mess. I love it.

    • @hayleygrimes8804
      @hayleygrimes8804 4 года назад +74

      I love it! That is amazing! That is me! I just was in my cousins wedding because she asked me to be a Bridesmaid and it was amazing! I treated it the same way! Just treated the dress and shoes like Harry Potter and shoved it in the closet.

    • @hayleygrimes8804
      @hayleygrimes8804 4 года назад +36

      Until they presented a problem. Lol!

    • @NicoleFoti
      @NicoleFoti 4 года назад +40

      She was my favoriteeee haha

    • @recoil53
      @recoil53 4 года назад +79

      "I don't care that the knot looks a lot like a penis".

    • @jocelynenevarez1457
      @jocelynenevarez1457 4 года назад +22

      I dont understand why she just didn't pin it with safety pins??? 🙄🙄🙄

  • @100Stratusfiedx
    @100Stratusfiedx 4 года назад +27298

    LMAO imagine the night before your wedding you realize you're a lesbian

    • @plzno1854
      @plzno1854 4 года назад +1723

      100Stratusfiedx imagine being married and realizing you a lesbian... Ross geller is SHOOK 😂

    • @narutosraman
      @narutosraman 4 года назад +746

      “decide” instead of “finding out” sounds a bit weird btw, should probably word that better, just giving you a heads up

    • @natanyat4901
      @natanyat4901 4 года назад +75

      @@narutosraman Become? "Turning into?"

    • @100Stratusfiedx
      @100Stratusfiedx 4 года назад +405

      @@narutosraman I didn't mean for it to come off like that. I apologize. I think I said decide because she ended up still getting married.

    • @fynefilms
      @fynefilms 4 года назад +273

      who has a bachorlatte party the night before a wedding?!?!

  • @sneakerhead6625
    @sneakerhead6625 4 года назад +16373

    i feel like bridesmaids have way better stories than the brides themselves 😂

    • @recoil53
      @recoil53 4 года назад +228

      Well the brides aren't going to admit it. They want to sell/believe the fairy tale.

    • @avarosefleck
      @avarosefleck 4 года назад +22

      recoil53 i’m so sorry but i just made your likes 666

    • @A_T216
      @A_T216 4 года назад +54

      The brides always forget their lesbian revelations, so there's nothing to say until 5 years into marriage where they discover their sexualities again and get divorced.

    • @RandomSwiftie13
      @RandomSwiftie13 4 года назад +6

      @@avarosefleck no you didn't it's at 61...

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 4 года назад +4

      @@recoil53 loool what many brides tell a story of stress but they don't get to see the mess other sort out

  • @andreasmith1951
    @andreasmith1951 4 года назад +8241

    Imagine being the “lesbian bride” and finding out through this video that it was you

    • @peach2832
      @peach2832 4 года назад +630

      Imagine being her husband finding this video!!!

    • @rjameelah09
      @rjameelah09 4 года назад +30

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cornishlasscornishlife8855
      @cornishlasscornishlife8855 4 года назад +133

      Sophia Smith Drunk words are sober thoughts.

    • @emilycheek1899
      @emilycheek1899 4 года назад +61

      @@cornishlasscornishlife8855 yes but not ALWAYS

    • @magnoliaroses0
      @magnoliaroses0 4 года назад +28

      Sophia Smith omg imagine her husband! Or the stripper lol

  • @nicolerenee03
    @nicolerenee03 4 года назад +9202

    Siena could be a comedian. Her mannerisms and the way she tells stories is hilarious.

    • @SamCooperYT
      @SamCooperYT 4 года назад +13

      Nicole Wilcox what one is Sierra

    • @Rachel-sz5lq
      @Rachel-sz5lq 4 года назад +29

      Sam Cooper 2nd one

    • @hurricanetortilla2569
      @hurricanetortilla2569 4 года назад +120

      IKR!!! I found her instagram account and turns out she is a comedian!!! @sienaeast

    • @nicolerenee03
      @nicolerenee03 4 года назад +28

      Ritwika Ghosh Haha! I called it!! 🤣🤣

    • @chrishawkins6233
      @chrishawkins6233 4 года назад +72

      Her voice and mannerisms remind me of Awkwafina

  • @corelei
    @corelei 4 года назад +5977

    "I didn't know Sienna was stabbed shortly before the wedding"

    • @summerjones2424
      @summerjones2424 4 года назад +45

      Cordula The Platypus she was so funny

    • @kissyjimenez1364
      @kissyjimenez1364 4 года назад +43

      Siena's is the best one! Such a story you tell and laugh about after.

  • @chinyerekorie6298
    @chinyerekorie6298 4 года назад +6051

    As soon as Sienna starts the story, she sounds like the type of girl you don't ask to do this type of thing, lol. She's so cute.

    • @Victoria_Marie
      @Victoria_Marie 4 года назад +120

      Chinyere Korie swear! Lol she looks adorable in the pictures though. But also looks like she’ll punch you if you say she’s adorable. I love her, I need to find more videos of her lol

    • @katherineheasley6196
      @katherineheasley6196 3 года назад +21

      Nah, you do ask her to do this thing, but you realize she's going to be a mess, but at least she'll be good-natured about it.

    • @TinasCrazyLife
      @TinasCrazyLife 3 года назад +15

      She was my favorite to listen to lmao

    • @Be1smaht
      @Be1smaht 2 года назад +3

      Yeah but irresponsible

    • @wvrjl
      @wvrjl 2 года назад +6

      I'd say you shouldn't ask her for other reasons, like zero consideration for someone other than herself.

  • @carleyreyner6814
    @carleyreyner6814 4 года назад +18322

    WHY do people have bachelorette/bachelor parties the DAY before their wedding??? Is that ever a good idea????

    • @jenniferbond7073
      @jenniferbond7073 4 года назад +916

      Carley Reyner not a good idea, agreed! I had a bachorlette way before the wedding. But had an impromptu party with my bridesmaids in the room the night before. I was sooooo hungover the day of my wedding. Wasn’t planned, had a great time but if I could do it over I would not have gotten so lit the night before. 🤣

    • @avonee1976
      @avonee1976 4 года назад +77

      Never!

    • @Tlove4321
      @Tlove4321 4 года назад +362

      Never. My sister chipped her tooth at her bachelorette party and was sick the whole first half of her wedding 😂 thank God for BC powder lol

    • @MeggieTheWerewolf
      @MeggieTheWerewolf 4 года назад +379

      Starting a petition to make bachelorette/bachelor parties a freaking WEEK before, who's in?

    • @carleyreyner6814
      @carleyreyner6814 4 года назад +90

      @@Tlove4321 ouch! I had to look up BC powder because I thought it was slang for coke! Lol!!!

  • @sophiebee1679
    @sophiebee1679 4 года назад +2808

    "you can't argue with drunk people" - so true

  • @emilyjane6901
    @emilyjane6901 4 года назад +1587

    "i didnt realize sienna was stabbed shortly before the wedding and now she's limping down the aisle" WHEN I TELL YOU I CRIED LAUGHING

    • @Alexis-go5cd
      @Alexis-go5cd 3 года назад +4

      I broke the 666 likes 😌

    • @Kylie_h
      @Kylie_h 3 года назад +5

      I was not expecting that one. I spit out my water

    • @ireneangelucci3733
      @ireneangelucci3733 Год назад

      same, Sienna was hilarious

  • @emilyfogerty6438
    @emilyfogerty6438 4 года назад +8647

    That last one I literally would have just kicked them out. If you are ruining a special day that is once in a lifetime and you are refusing to cooperate for pictures then you need to leave because that is so unfathomably rude.

    • @karenksz34
      @karenksz34 4 года назад +463

      Right!? She was given way too many chances at that point lol

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 года назад +321

      I honestly think she had some serous mental illness issues that she was not working on.

    • @mariamiamonteleone
      @mariamiamonteleone 4 года назад +141

      Maybe she has a crush on the bride or groom

    • @ashleyjohnson6273
      @ashleyjohnson6273 4 года назад +119

      I almost kicked a bridemaid out of my line a few days before my wedding, but realized it would completely throw off the walk down the aisle (we used a song dedicated to a late family member and things were timed) so she stayed. I just kind of ignored her on the day and tried to have as little interaction as possible lol

    • @CheriseRichardson
      @CheriseRichardson 4 года назад +33

      Oh god yes, I wouldn't want to see my photos and see her in them!

  • @Boxes-of
    @Boxes-of 4 года назад +1805

    I don't even have 5 friends, can't imagine being a bridesmaid that many times

    • @cutekitten1185
      @cutekitten1185 4 года назад +35

      Instead of being, like, 100% friends with 1 - 4 people i’m like 20% friends with like 10 people????

    • @shannonstibor6967
      @shannonstibor6967 4 года назад +16

      I've been a bridesmaid once, and if I could, I would have turned it down. But it was for my dad and stepmom's wedding so I felt I had to say yes. It's overrated, don't even bother trying to imagine doing 5 times

    • @veevee4805
      @veevee4805 4 года назад +5

      I have quite a few close friends, but only one of them is Christian, and she doesn't want to get married, so I'll probably be a bridesmaid only at my sister's wedding.
      But hearing all these bridesmaids horror stories, I'm starting to think that's a good thing.

    • @pinds83
      @pinds83 4 года назад +8

      @@veevee4805 Christians aren't the only one's who get married, so I'm not sure what you mean.

    • @veevee4805
      @veevee4805 4 года назад +1

      @@pinds83 I thought Christians were the only ones who had bridesmaids....
      Correct me if I'm wrong

  • @blaq_betty
    @blaq_betty 4 года назад +3593

    this first story is sooo juicy😂😂😂😂😂

  • @JAdreams88
    @JAdreams88 4 года назад +3118

    The second woman had an amazing personality!!

    • @NicoleFoti
      @NicoleFoti 4 года назад +75

      She was SO funny

    • @Selene666
      @Selene666 4 года назад +23

      she was too intense for me

    • @peachypeppa
      @peachypeppa 4 года назад +6

      Do you want her contact info

    • @puckbryn3583
      @puckbryn3583 4 года назад +29

      “like a flesh shoe”

    • @beez6039
      @beez6039 4 года назад +8

      Like a flesh shoe.

  • @chloeralston2498
    @chloeralston2498 4 года назад +12943

    No one:
    Literally no one:
    Seriously no one on the earth:
    The first bride: I had a lap dance, and I’m lesbian now

    • @meensbeans_
      @meensbeans_ 4 года назад +289

      Chloe Ralston I cant believe the wedding was still on 😂

    • @NicoleFoti
      @NicoleFoti 4 года назад +15

      bahahahaha

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 года назад +227

      Every drunk girl thinks she's a lesbian

    • @Pepperthecory
      @Pepperthecory 4 года назад +401

      I have a feeling more than a lap dance occurred

    • @salemh931
      @salemh931 4 года назад +61

      @@Pepperthecory Yup, definitely.

  • @magickmiiror2853
    @magickmiiror2853 4 года назад +4999

    That last bridesmaid in the story seemed absolutely rude and self-centered, especially considering she was supposed to be the bride's "childhood best friend". Fighting with the bride, texting the bride's groom a very out of line chain of texts, throwing tantrums, stealing center pieces, and more? Oh no, they had far more patience than I. I would have booted her out after the first tantrum. Not on MY day! There's already enough stress going into planning such a ceremony. If they don't have the courtesy of help and instead add even more- nope! Goodbye!

    • @NicoleFoti
      @NicoleFoti 4 года назад +129

      She sounds like such a monster

    • @magickmiiror2853
      @magickmiiror2853 4 года назад +214

      @@NicoleFoti when I first started hearing the story and how after her first breakdown she admitted she had no where to stay and yadda yadda, I did feel for her a bit at first, but then she kept on going and going with more and more drama, and especially at texting the bride's groom what she did, didn't feel for her anymore!

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 года назад +231

      She definitely had some very weird attachment issues towards the bride.
      I'm not sure if it was just emotional immaturity or a severe mental illness. Maybe a combination of both?

    • @stephlrideout
      @stephlrideout 4 года назад +94

      I dunno, it sounded to me like she was very sick and desperately needed some help. That's not normal crazy behaviour.

    • @magickmiiror2853
      @magickmiiror2853 4 года назад +8

      @@stephlrideout & @SB W, very true. Good point. I should have thought about those.

  • @Candies1Creations
    @Candies1Creations 4 года назад +1406

    I would have kicked her out my wedding as soon as she sent that text . Like who does that?

    • @destinygatez7068
      @destinygatez7068 4 года назад +73

      Candice Marie Creations SAME I’m already obsessive as it is. If my childhood best friend tried this I would’ve burnt her with her own cigarettes.

    • @ada627
      @ada627 3 года назад +2

      😂

  • @alexal.2483
    @alexal.2483 4 года назад +3256

    "She's literally crying in a fetal position"

  • @haneenhawash1739
    @haneenhawash1739 4 года назад +440

    Hard-to-swallow-pill of the day:
    Sometimes we just outgrow our child best friends and it’s ok

  • @quinngerber8237
    @quinngerber8237 4 года назад +766

    3:57 "I treated it like Harry Potter: I shoved it in the closet until it presented a problem" omg I died 😂😂

  • @devinrehrig1565
    @devinrehrig1565 4 года назад +3462

    why not just... find another tailor.

    • @NicoleFoti
      @NicoleFoti 4 года назад +106

      right tho? haha

    • @firedragon7911
      @firedragon7911 4 года назад +384

      But fr did that tailor legit refuse to work on the dress because of her bra???? Or did I misshear that?

    • @emilycheek1899
      @emilycheek1899 4 года назад +16

      @@firedragon7911 yeah they did

    • @Tlove4321
      @Tlove4321 4 года назад +276

      I’m confused on the fact that they ordered the dresses 8-10 months before the wedding yet she only had 3 weeks to get it tailored 🤨

    • @RemRewRoe
      @RemRewRoe 4 года назад +120

      @@Tlove4321 right?? What year was it that it takes 7 months to get something from China? And three weeks is enough to find someone in the neighbourhood who knows how to sew to fix that dress sizing issue

  • @lilvamplaura
    @lilvamplaura 4 года назад +474

    "you're marrying both of us" and multiple meltdowns? I think her friend may be in love with her honestly.

    • @lemen11
      @lemen11 4 года назад +100

      Or maybe jealous of her friend, the bride, and wanted to be the centre of attention. Some people will create drama when it's not all about them. It's childish and selfish, but unfortunately some people just don't know how to behave like mature adults.

    • @lilvamplaura
      @lilvamplaura 4 года назад

      @@lemen11 tell someone who cares

    • @lemen11
      @lemen11 4 года назад +56

      @@lilvamplaura alrighty then. You have a good day.😘

    • @itsamberwest
      @itsamberwest 4 года назад +69

      lemen11 you handled this so well 😂 I’m just as confused as you are

    • @ChickenTendere
      @ChickenTendere 4 года назад +29

      @@lilvamplaura I- tf was that whole 360° I-

  • @HijabiStarr19
    @HijabiStarr19 4 года назад +367

    I love the second girl in the white stripes. Her explanation was HILARIOUS “im not ready im not wearing deodorant” “i feel like i was being lightly bullied” HAHA DEAD

  • @Cheeseanonioncrisps
    @Cheeseanonioncrisps 4 года назад +226

    I have been a bridesmaid once, and halfway through the ceremony I decided that I didn't want to be one anymore and tried to push the other bridesmaid out the way so I could go and sit in the pews with my parents. My grandmother had to usher me back into the aisle.
    I mean, in my defence, I was four, so nobody's expectations were very high. 😅

    • @erinnichols4866
      @erinnichols4866 3 года назад +52

      Sweetheart, you were probably a flower girl.

    • @siobhangallagher2576
      @siobhangallagher2576 3 года назад +25

      @@erinnichols4866 I love how nice and calm the response was🤣😊

    • @lexim1430
      @lexim1430 3 года назад +11

      @@erinnichols4866 Yeah, this is much more accurate. No 4 year olds are bridesmaids, they are flower girls

    • @melissaherrera940
      @melissaherrera940 3 года назад +4

      @@lexim1430 my mom had young girls from the family as bridesmaids for her wedding so it’s not impossible

    • @letitianaidoo4267
      @letitianaidoo4267 3 года назад +2

      @@melissaherrera940 Odd, but cool. I guess it's nice when people switch things up at weddings coz that makes it more interesting and less traditional

  • @Lauren.E.O
    @Lauren.E.O 4 года назад +620

    The “old friend” in the last bridesmaid story sounds like the star of some bridal horror movie 🍿 👰 👧 🔪

  • @sarahoconnor7656
    @sarahoconnor7656 4 года назад +1417

    She should of used safety pins to hem the dress.

    • @zionakinjide650
      @zionakinjide650 4 года назад +10

      have*.....S.pin sound more reasonable.

    • @peaceandlove2752
      @peaceandlove2752 4 года назад +14

      Sarah O'Connor that or tape?

    • @FraxinusDipetala
      @FraxinusDipetala 4 года назад +24

      Ive used a stapler and scissors in a pinch.

    • @Izzy41630
      @Izzy41630 4 года назад +9

      I know someone who used some bobby pins once, in a pinch, but it didn't last too long. Might do for a walk down the aisle.

    • @funnyfoxbird
      @funnyfoxbird 4 года назад +10

      Or cut it at that point

  • @miray3242
    @miray3242 4 года назад +507

    I think the rude bridesmaid in the last story was in love with the bride.

    • @TrueImmortality
      @TrueImmortality 4 года назад +59

      Still not okay to act like a crazy person lol

    • @miray3242
      @miray3242 4 года назад +16

      TrueImmortality I agree

    • @bxgirl2930
      @bxgirl2930 4 года назад +30

      Or a episode of single white female! Wanted to be with the bride or BE THE BRIDE

    • @mariamatedei
      @mariamatedei 4 года назад +6

      Pretty toxic love if that's the case lmao

    • @mariamatedei
      @mariamatedei 4 года назад +12

      @@bxgirl2930 that sounds like a reality TV show "Single White Female: want the bride or be the bride?"

  • @VBVTV
    @VBVTV 4 года назад +741

    You never hear dudes saying, "I've been a groomsman 5 times."

    • @emilycheek1899
      @emilycheek1899 4 года назад +85

      My brother in law is like in a wedding every weekend lol

    • @VBVTV
      @VBVTV 4 года назад +25

      @@emilycheek1899 He's an anomaly.

    • @Izzy41630
      @Izzy41630 4 года назад +110

      It's probably because usually they just kind of show up. They don't have to do fittings, and showers, and all of that stuff months in advance. They get a rental tux, slap on a boutonniere, stand there for photos, done.
      With bridesmaids, it is an ORDEAL.

    • @christinamitrovich7554
      @christinamitrovich7554 4 года назад +4

      Emily Cheek some guys are grooms men a lot.

    • @emilycheek1899
      @emilycheek1899 4 года назад +1

      @@christinamitrovich7554 thats what I was saying?

  • @snakeufaceu9759
    @snakeufaceu9759 4 года назад +4561

    „Im not ready, I’m not wearing deodorant” me every Monday morning
    Edit: daaaamn thanks for the likes guys, I’ve never gotten this many 💜

    • @ashleygeorge1994
      @ashleygeorge1994 4 года назад +12

      Me every morning I have to work lol 😂 despite waking up with way more than enough time to get ready

    • @uzmanaveed4877
      @uzmanaveed4877 4 года назад +5

      Army

    • @snakeufaceu9759
      @snakeufaceu9759 4 года назад +3

      Uzma Naveed damn right 💜

    • @alejandramanzanares413
      @alejandramanzanares413 4 года назад +3

      Damn I love that profile pic 💜#BTS

    • @theegrach
      @theegrach 4 года назад +1

      what part of asia bc in my country, you have to or else, it's gonna be hella stinky. lmao

  • @stanypensaert3720
    @stanypensaert3720 4 года назад +1985

    I've never been a bridesmaid. Who else? 😭

    • @magickmiiror2853
      @magickmiiror2853 4 года назад +43

      Me either /: I was invited to be one only once, but the wedding never happened, they broke up shortly after beginning to plan it lol

    • @monaherman
      @monaherman 4 года назад +17

      Yeah same, I'm the oldest sibling so no marriages yet cuz they're too young and my best friend was only allowed to do sisters and SILs as bridesmaids. :/

    • @meganreid3206
      @meganreid3206 4 года назад +9

      Stany Pensaert i’m being one tomorrow for the first time!

    • @stanypensaert3720
      @stanypensaert3720 4 года назад +4

      @@meganreid3206 Good luck, girl!

    • @hannahott9185
      @hannahott9185 4 года назад +6

      Consider yourselves lucky!!! 🤣

  • @mj-yo7vt
    @mj-yo7vt 4 года назад +355

    Bridesmaid 5 times? I don't even have 5 friends

    • @jettasify
      @jettasify 4 года назад +5

      I'm at 8, said no to two. It's overrated. Won't do it again. Ruined one friendship

    • @myAinAutistic
      @myAinAutistic 4 года назад +2

      Yeah, I have 3 friends, 2 are closeted gays, the last one is a man, with enough male friends. I already made up with the idea of not being a bridesmaid-best ma’am, but I still trust him to have a wedding (of someone I care and not some long lost cousin that I don’t know) to attend xD

    • @jettasify
      @jettasify 4 года назад

      @Agatha z keep it that way. Trust me. Lol

    • @summerjones2424
      @summerjones2424 4 года назад

      Marry Goround love your profile

    • @helenf.7221
      @helenf.7221 4 года назад

      I have like two friends and my bf is my best friend. Never had to do any of this stuff thank christ

  • @seenamr6405
    @seenamr6405 4 года назад +188

    Imagine watching this and realizing the story is about you.

    • @aldc1697
      @aldc1697 4 года назад +9

      There should be a video where the people who the story is about react to these videos 😂

  • @dikshaml5507
    @dikshaml5507 4 года назад +465

    You know in India the bride pays for the bridesmaids dresses, shoes, makeup and hair. Being a bridesmaid sounds expensive in America.

    • @mohamstaz3618
      @mohamstaz3618 4 года назад +63

      It depends on the bride. When I got married, I had the girls pick their dresses from Azazie, which have nice quality dresses starting at around 50 USD, and told them to buy whatever silver shoes they wanted to go with it. I also paid for their hair and makeup, and their accessories. All in all, they only paid around 150 dollars each (a high estimate), and the wedding was local, so no big travel expenses. I'm also of the opinion that you don't ask your bridesmaids to pay any amount that you wouldn't personally pay yourself if you were in their wedding. These crazy women asking their bridesmaids to fork over 1,000 dollars or more for destination weddings/dresses/accessories can sit on it.

    • @mkuti-childress3625
      @mkuti-childress3625 4 года назад +30

      I think that got cemented when people began paying for their own weddings instead of the bride’s parents covering all of it. They need their friends to buy their own clothes.
      I ordered my bridesmaids’ dresses from China, too! 4/5 of my bridesmaids were going through a tough time financially, and I didn’t want them to go broke for my wedding. They looked great for the price.
      I’m older now, but I was a bridesmaid a few times in my 20s and 30s, and I remember really stressing about the cost, especially when I was a broke student.

    • @avilik13
      @avilik13 4 года назад +25

      I'm Samoan and it's the same in our culture. It's kinda rude to expect people to pay for their own stuff.

    • @londongalx
      @londongalx 4 года назад +6

      It depends on the bride, I bought all my girls dresses, shoes, jewellery and paid for their hair to be however they wanted. Make up was on them though

    • @joiceraiana
      @joiceraiana 4 года назад +7

      Exactly. I don't wanna spend that amount of money to someone get married. I would rather be a normal guest and even that only if Im close enough to the bride or groom.

  • @desireeholloway3353
    @desireeholloway3353 4 года назад +59

    “She did end up stealing a center piece and throwing up everywhere “ lmao!!!

  • @cmsunny111
    @cmsunny111 4 года назад +353

    The last story sounds like a horror movie omfg

  • @meganhoover361
    @meganhoover361 4 года назад +316

    “She ended up stealing a centerpiece” I lost it 😂😂

  • @taikayaki
    @taikayaki 4 года назад +382

    This is why I never wanted a big wedding 😂 too much drama

    • @valerielinares2068
      @valerielinares2068 4 года назад +35

      It's not about the size of the wedding. It's about the type of personalities you have in your wedding. My cousin had 14 bridesmaids. Wedding went off without any drama. It also depends on perspective and attitude. Some brides are easy going and can let stuff just roll off their back. While other brides let every little thing get to them. So, even if there were issues (major or not) at my cousin's wedding, it seemed she was laid back enough to not let it bother her.

  • @laurenkylehines
    @laurenkylehines 4 года назад +235

    The first woman is soooo beautiful!! Her smile and teeth... omg, I'm swooning.

    • @EN-mh6sr
      @EN-mh6sr 4 года назад

      @Lauren Hines....check out the Buzzfeed As/Is teacher video. She's on there too.

    • @tselanelove8197
      @tselanelove8197 4 года назад +6

      Omg THANK YOU. You can follow my IG tselanelove

  • @e.k_liadon
    @e.k_liadon 4 года назад +81

    So the moral of the story is “never invite your childhood friend unless you’re still very close”

    • @letitianaidoo4267
      @letitianaidoo4267 3 года назад +4

      It seems like a given to me, but maybe it's coz of the life I had. I moved a lot and lost touch with many friends. I occasionally run into people from the past over the years, and it's nice and first, but after you're done catching up there isn't much to talk about anymore and then it's just awkward.

  • @b64771
    @b64771 4 года назад +190

    Omg that last story was nightmarish. What a train wreck from start to finish

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 4 года назад +56

    I absolutely REFUSE to be a bridesmaid [anymore]. When I get married, it’s just a simple elopement, nice honeymoon. No parties, no ceremony. Too expensive, and I hate my family.

    • @katieohlms2319
      @katieohlms2319 4 года назад +4

      Princess Marlena ouch!

    • @lonelyronin2428
      @lonelyronin2428 3 года назад +1

      Damn, what the family do to you! Stories, please?

    • @malorie8557
      @malorie8557 3 года назад +3

      Honestly, one of the best decisions my husband and I made was not having bridesmaids/groomsman. A wholeeeee lot of stress was missed due to it.

  • @EH012
    @EH012 4 года назад +85

    Bridesmaid number two, who is hilarious, reminded me so strongly of the actor Natasha Lyonne, who plays Nichols on Orange is the New Black, that I literally googled her name to accurately comment about it. I'm so satisfied.

  • @Miztli3
    @Miztli3 4 года назад +66

    Lmao "I felt like I was lightly bullied by this woman" 😂😂😂

  • @gemuseschnitzel8261
    @gemuseschnitzel8261 4 года назад +93

    This Siena girl needs to be a comedian

  • @h.m.d.2989
    @h.m.d.2989 4 года назад +123

    "It was so hellish to have someone with throwup on them and like, resist..."
    Sounds like a day with a sick toddler.. 😅🤮

  • @danielle739
    @danielle739 4 года назад +391

    I wish they showed a picture of the safety pin story dress!

  • @chloewhitesell417
    @chloewhitesell417 4 года назад +142

    that sienna girl was hilarious

  • @NicoleFoti
    @NicoleFoti 4 года назад +187

    The dress hemming story gave me so much anxiety haha That would 100% happen to me

  • @graceneedham18
    @graceneedham18 4 года назад +86

    seems like the childhood friend decided to stay a child

  • @allyford92
    @allyford92 4 года назад +212

    The second bridesmaid was hilarious if anyone knows her @ lmk.

  • @charlenesantiago6104
    @charlenesantiago6104 4 года назад +59

    "I treated them like Harry Potter; I shoved them in the closet until they presented a problem" is my favourite line ever.

  • @chelsea2059
    @chelsea2059 4 года назад +47

    Did this feel like an episode of Drunk History to anyone else? Lol. It just needs the reenactments.

  • @avarosefleck
    @avarosefleck 4 года назад +80

    the first story is called being the mom friend

  • @dumisalengwati3068
    @dumisalengwati3068 4 года назад +77

    Good God the girl in the last story is incorrigible 😱 She managed to do every inappropriate thing a bridesmaid shouldn't do!

  • @brigittemlr
    @brigittemlr 4 года назад +27

    “Like a flesh shoe”- Sienna 2019

  • @aaliyakhan5370
    @aaliyakhan5370 4 года назад +66

    The blue dress in the safety pin story was stunning. She did a great job!

  • @josiespeakman3590
    @josiespeakman3590 4 года назад +33

    "I treated them like HARRY POTTER. Shoved them in the closet till they presented a problem." When I tell you I LOST IT.

  • @Lexiekween
    @Lexiekween 4 года назад +41

    “I’m not ready I’m not wearing deodorant”

  • @QuimBeelivingstone
    @QuimBeelivingstone 4 года назад +65

    WOW. I didnt realize how much i love bridesmaid horror stories

  • @kiksuyesni
    @kiksuyesni 4 года назад +32

    4:20 "I was gonna ask my grandma to hem it but she was on the rez" FELTTTTT I WENT TO A PROM WITH A FRIEND A STATE AWAY AND MY AUNTIE WAS SUPPOSED TO HEM KT BUT SHE WAS ON THE REZ SO WE USED PAPER CLIPS-😂💀 ( I knew this girl was native American😂)

    • @crystalm586
      @crystalm586 4 года назад +3

      @Elizendo No honey, we natives call all reservations "the rez". She's Native according to her insta

    • @christie7201
      @christie7201 4 года назад +3

      @Ellllaaa Actually it's "Nation" I'm Pima and T.O. 🙃 We call it the rez here in AZ, hon

    • @christie7201
      @christie7201 4 года назад +2

      @Ellllaaa And btw. Nation has nothing to do with it. If you are Native American, you'd know most Natives call it the rez. Let me guess. You're a Cherokee princess? Apache, Navajo, Cheyenne? Oh I know! You must be a "Great Granddaughter of a Blackfoot chief"! Right?

    • @christie7201
      @christie7201 4 года назад +2

      @Ellllaaa You're in Canada. Your terms aren't the same as us U.S citizens'. Like I said, we call it the rez here in AZ. T.O. is one of the many nations whom was also put on the "rez" back in the 1800s. So instead of sitting here trying to tell someone that the rez does not mean reservation (Which, to us, it does) take in to consideration that if you're from Canada, your cultures and terms are way different. We don't use the term of rez for residential homes here in the West, it's used to refer to the reservation.
      And if you're assuming I'm not Native, you are very wrong 🙃

    • @mariesbabysis
      @mariesbabysis 4 года назад

      @Nameless You do not speak for every native person in Canada. I know a lot of indigenous people that refer to reserves as a rez.

  • @wiliatar
    @wiliatar 4 года назад +40

    The last story is sad asf the bridesmaid is jealous of the bride and is trying to sabotage the wedding

  • @edenmuriel1021
    @edenmuriel1021 4 года назад +2

    The last story was my favourite. The bridesmaid stole a center piece.

    • @omg_jess
      @omg_jess 3 года назад +1

      Eden Muriel they were very beautiful lol

  • @shadajalloyd5786
    @shadajalloyd5786 4 года назад +83

    The last one would’ve been out of my wedding IMMEDIATELY. cause girl no lmao

  • @tilarfifield2407
    @tilarfifield2407 4 года назад +15

    OMG THE DAVIDS BRIDAL STORY 😱 I cannot even believe that lady asked her about her weight! I used to work there and we would literally be fired if we ever commented on someone’s weight. RUDE!

  • @mugdhanbapat
    @mugdhanbapat 4 года назад +15

    Sienna seems to be the friend everyone needs. Crazy and cute!

  • @zipporahp.30
    @zipporahp.30 4 года назад +159

    “Someone with throw up on them trying to resist.” Welcome to nursing.

  • @roomforlight1047
    @roomforlight1047 4 года назад +17

    I absolutely fell in love with the second girl in like 2 seconds

  • @SalmaBchr
    @SalmaBchr 4 года назад +28

    Don’t ask bridesmaids to pay for their dress, especially if you have expensive taste. You never know people’s financial situation.

    • @Kimmehface
      @Kimmehface 3 года назад +5

      If a bridesmaid can’t pay for the dress, they can politely decline. Paying for the dress is part of accepting the role of bridesmaid. Unless you have a friend or family member that can’t afford it and you really want them in your wedding... then the bride should pay it.

    • @SalmaBchr
      @SalmaBchr 3 года назад +1

      Kimmehface nowpe

    • @C1984_FR
      @C1984_FR 3 года назад +5

      @@Kimmehface Bride and groom should pay for everything.
      Bridesmaids dresses ect should be included in the budget.
      I would not have dreamed of allowing my bridesmaids to pay for anything, the dress, hair, make up and nails were paid for by me.

    • @Kimmehface
      @Kimmehface 3 года назад +1

      That’s very unusual. I don’t know anyone that did that and I was in a lot of weddings. I wish someone paid for my stuff but it’s not traditional in my culture. Maybe elsewhere it is.

    • @letitianaidoo4267
      @letitianaidoo4267 3 года назад +1

      In my sister's wedding, she paid for our hair, makeup and nails as it was for the day. We paid for the dresses and shoes since we would get to keep them. It seems like a good compromise to me. But I do agree that you must first ask your bridesmaids what price range they're comfortable with and work from there.

  • @gogobubblegum9763
    @gogobubblegum9763 4 года назад +70

    I'm no longer upset I've never been a bridesmaid 🤣🤣

  • @rowenaravenclaw2215
    @rowenaravenclaw2215 4 года назад +6

    The second girl's voice is so beautiful. I could listen to her forever

  • @katxberry7691
    @katxberry7691 4 года назад +5

    I was the MOH for my bff and overall it was a fine experience. There were no issues with the bride at all because she was very easy but her wedding party was 8+8. Huge! It’s really hard to coordinate with 9 different women’s schedules, preferences, and personalities. We split the group down the middle to plan and execute the bridal shower and the bachelorette party, with me leading the party team. One of the girls (and her friend she brought along-it was a destination bachelorette party) was extremely difficult to work with, late to everything, made side comments about everything that was already planned, basically didn’t put effort into the planning process but acted like she felt left out from the beginning. Another one kept making suggestions for things to do that cost money but kept expressing how she wouldn’t be able to spend much. A few of the girls went out one of the nights and she joined them, they paid her way the whole night. She literally lived the closest to our location and travel for her was the cheapest. Overall, it went well and the bride was extremely happy and grateful with how everything turned out. But working with women you don’t really know who are so different from you was a challenge. I learned A LOT from the experience-mainly that I will probably never agree to be MOH again except to do it for one other person in my life. I say that because I was MOH for a coworker once.......MISTAKE. Wasted a beautiful speech on her lol. But that’s another story. I’ll happily stick to the bridesmaid role.

  • @magica4679
    @magica4679 4 года назад +11

    “I was gonna ask my grandma to hem it but she was on the rez.” Lmfao I felt that.
    I just knew she was native from the moment she came on.😂

  • @Hessed3712
    @Hessed3712 4 года назад +14

    That last girl (not the lovely lady telling the story) needs to see a psychiatrist. Who acts like that?!

  • @madisonbarnett6564
    @madisonbarnett6564 4 года назад +2

    The girl with the red hair! Her hair looks so beautiful omg the color looks amazing on her

    • @omg_jess
      @omg_jess 3 года назад +1

      Madison Barnett thank you so much!!🥰🥰🥰

  • @capture_diaries
    @capture_diaries 4 года назад +7

    Siena, the one-time bridesmaid, is legit the best storyteller ever.

  • @jessicacashion5372
    @jessicacashion5372 4 года назад +21

    Sienna was soo funny, love her energy. Hope shes in more vids in the future!

  • @aisenpai6721
    @aisenpai6721 3 года назад +4

    I LITERALLY LOST IT WHEN SHE SAID '' YOU KNOW LIKE FLESH SHOE''

  • @lexim1430
    @lexim1430 3 года назад +7

    The child hood best friend was totally in love with the bride. No question about it

  • @AlexisGatica07
    @AlexisGatica07 4 года назад +15

    Girl the first story😂😂 somethings better left unsaid

  • @annikabrewster6667
    @annikabrewster6667 4 года назад +89

    “bc my grandma was out on the rez” 😂

    • @alexandria3005
      @alexandria3005 4 года назад +1

      Like me too girl lmao

    • @Izzy41630
      @Izzy41630 4 года назад +5

      I was briefly confused by this because we have a lake near me, that's our town's reservoir, and everyone calls it the Rez. My mind went to 'How could she be on a lake for so long?' XD Think I need to go to bed.

  • @samiahpierce2244
    @samiahpierce2244 4 года назад +43

    I would have just kicked the girl from the last story out of my wedding and enjoyed the rest of my day 😂

  • @nadeenalmomani5490
    @nadeenalmomani5490 4 года назад +2

    The last one killed me

  • @KittenKrazySAAAN
    @KittenKrazySAAAN 4 года назад +24

    “I was going to ask my grandma but she was on the Rez” HAHAHAHAHAHA #nativeproblems

  • @tarasitton8176
    @tarasitton8176 4 года назад +9

    When I plan a wedding I inform the Bride that she needs to be careful in choosing her bridesmaids. As a rule of thumb if you wouldn't trust that girl to be in the room with you when you give birth she doesn't need to be at the alter with you when you give your heart to someone. It is equally as important and a bad friend or a drama queen can ruin the whole day.

  • @nancyoyula
    @nancyoyula 2 года назад +5

    Started with pregnancy horror stories yesterday and I've been binge watching all the horror stories lol

  • @rachelolsen3428
    @rachelolsen3428 4 года назад +1

    These were wild stories! I've never been a bridesmaid, and I hope if/when I am one, we can keep things a little calmer.

  • @desireeholloway3353
    @desireeholloway3353 4 года назад +2

    Wow! The safety pen dress and venue looks astonishing!👍🎉🎉🎉

  • @NotTheSauce
    @NotTheSauce 4 года назад +6

    That first bride needed some serious intervention - stuff you say when you're drunk is just stuff you're too scared to say sober.....

  • @shannonbrophy3687
    @shannonbrophy3687 4 года назад +83

    The third lady was hard to follow in her story; pauses in her sentences was odd. Last story was really good.

    • @sallylee8422
      @sallylee8422 3 года назад

      Still entertaining story tho

  • @i.k.8236
    @i.k.8236 3 года назад +2

    That 3rd one sounds like me so much 😂

  • @perlaphilpot77
    @perlaphilpot77 4 года назад +12

    Someone tell Sienna to make a RUclips channel! She's so entertaining

  • @NuttyRedBaBonkerz
    @NuttyRedBaBonkerz 4 года назад +5

    Sienna's storytelling was amazing I would listen to a podcast of her

  • @leiratzadok4712
    @leiratzadok4712 3 года назад +7

    sienna is definitely the best one but they are all so beautiful,have amazing personalitys overall really have interesting storys🙌🏼💗

  • @sophieghaffari9006
    @sophieghaffari9006 3 года назад +8

    They’re like “just let her do her own thing” and I’m like “she’s crying in the fetal position what!” 😂🤣

  • @narnia1233
    @narnia1233 4 года назад +7

    The girl with the unhemmed dress, she could have had it pinned up. I’m surprised no one at the wedding could help her with that. My mom could have done that in just a few minutes.

    • @baileywright1656
      @baileywright1656 3 года назад +1

      My mom used to temporarily hem stuff with a glue stick. Works great for dress pants, though pins would probably work better for heavy dress fabric XD

  • @oliviabarr4489
    @oliviabarr4489 4 года назад +5

    Just got married and told two of my bridesmaids to excuse themselves from the wedding because they didn’t come to the wedding shower and ditched me at my bachelorette party for another bachelorette party that they knew from high school 😂😂😂😂 I had my brother fill in for them 😂 I wasn’t about to have some girls I didn’t like that much not show up for my wedding lol

  • @dvybeyond
    @dvybeyond 4 года назад +9

    You cannot argue with drunk people - yes! Totally agree! XD

  • @sarahbedwell2542
    @sarahbedwell2542 4 года назад +23

    Absolutely love that nude and shinny sweater💕

  • @themarquis336
    @themarquis336 3 года назад +1

    That last girl telling the story is HILARIOUS. Such a fan.