Women Share Their Wildest Valentine's Day Horror Stories
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
- Women share stories of cheating, being stood up, and more on their worst Valentine's days ever.
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Omg that last story had a PLOT TWIST
Savannah ikr
Sounds like my story. Ill summarize: met in training for a job, i criticized her ability to do the job (was trying to get the job, competitively), she hated me alot, her family told her to avoid me, its 4 years later now and we are married and her family loves me.
Plot twist strikes again!
Savannah omg I thought it was just me. My jaw literally dropped, and I mean literally not figuratively 🤣
@@Dannie-My0wnReality I actually let out a little scream at the part, it surprised me SO MUCH.
I was SO surprised!
Anyone else feel like that last girl needs to give us the story of how they went from point A to point B.
Sometimes persistence is key
I need their story!
So unexpected, I need to know HOW?
So I completely despise the guy, tried to destroy anything that reminded me of him . . . anyways long story short we're married.
Austin Uttilie right?!?! “I freaking hated him so much but now he enters me regularly.” 💁♂️
I wanna hear the story of how that last girl went from hating him to marrying him lol
Yaaas, me too
Sameeeee!
My mom has a similar story with my dad. Dad really liked her and they both worked at the same Big 5. Mom tells me she found him annoying and full of himself and kept telling him no. He left all kinds of things for her and after one shift she found balloons or flowers (I can’t remember which) and a card on her car and she finally caved to one date. They got engaged a month later and married 6 months after that. They then had me 9 months after they married. 😬
For real like hold up sis tell the whole storyv
Same, she need to tell us!
“Now he is my husband!” I LAUGHED. LMAO
i did NOT see that coming
plot twist
IM GAGGING
I WAS LIKE WHAT
LITERALLY I WAS SO SHOCKED LOLL
her: and now he is my husband!
they had us in the first half not gonna lie
True
I actually called it (as more of a random thought though, like, “Imagine they get married!”)
her: “AND NOW HE IS MY HUSBAND”
me: surprised pikachu face
That took me out
😂😂😂😂
It shocked pikachu face not surprised
Same
lmao I came here to write this exact comment
"I went to court for you, and you just left me at the club" funniest line I have ever heard
I feel like that’s the life in the hood! (no offense to anyone)
When she said he’s my husband... I died
Your profile so cute
Dk Nurul tyty~
it's so sweet
"You SHOULD be able to swim" gurl you'd be surprised how many people can't swim or are afraid of water
My brother-in-law can’t swim and my family *LOVES* going to the lake!!! It’s kinda interesting/weird that he can’t swim and he *never* wants to learn
Guilty! Lol I actually love being by the lake or river. But rarely go in past my torso. I'd like to learn but im really just afraid of deep water. I know. Doesn't make sense. 🤷♀️
That second story - don't be mad at the waitress, she did you a favour!
Right?
NotTheSauce she most likely didn’t care as how she explained it
Same thing I was thinking!!
1000th like lmao
She actually replied to some comments. The waitress wasnt being totally sincere as she stated because she was laughing and smiling. She wasnt mad at her for telling her.
The way Katie talks about her ex not knowing how to swim is sad
Paru B yeah I thought that was pretty rude
@@lousunny5682 Agree. Very insensitive. Also you have to CAREful if a person cant swim and not mean. Check up on them so they dont drown.
Agree! Mean about the swimming!
I agree! Just because you live in a city or state with a beach doesnt mean you should just assume everyone who grew up there knows how to swim, it's not a requirement 😂
Okay but you should definitely let people know if you can't swim!!!
Omg can we pleaseeeeeee have a video on how the last girl went from throwing his flowers on the ground to marrying him?!?
Please
"And now he is my husband"
YOU CAN'T JUST LEAVE IT AT THAT WITHOUT A BACK STORY?????? HOW DID IT HAPPEN????????
You can't assume everyone who lives near the beach knows how to swim. I live in an island and don't know how to swim. 😂😂😂
@Charlynne Magno Lol my friends growing up. What isle?
@@da1stamericus i'm from Philippines hahaha so we're basically surrounded by ocean
@@Hi_iamChay true. Mmm u dont have to swim... You have adobo and chicharron. Mmm
I’m from California and any time I tell people that they ask if I surf. I grew up next to cows but that doesn’t mean I know how to raise them either. I do know how to milk them though.
Exactly I'm from FL and can't swim but been going forever to the beach and grew up having a pool in my house i just didn't ever cared to learn to swim
i mean... he shouldn't have kissed you after throwing up but the poor guy clearly COULD NOT SWIM and wanted to please you
but he should have told her that he cant swim so she can look out for him together. She is still mean, oh well.
I thought when she said it was gonna be chill they were just gonna lay on the beach. What is this swimming deep into the currents stuff. Hiking would have been easier.
She’s like I know he’s not the outdoorsy type but how could he not know how to swim living right next to the beach... which is outside
Can't help but wonder did they stay together afterwards or was the barf kiss a deal breaker?
No offense to her, but the dismissive attitude to the waitress is exactly why people don't feel comfortable calling out cheaters. Like, don't be mad at the messenger for bringing to your knowledge that your partner is literal trash. If that were me, I'd give her the biggest tip for saving me time and energy.
EDIT: Zarinah responded and turns out the waitress was a snake and seemed to come off very manipulative which is why she said what she said. It was not because she was dismissive of the messenger telling her bf cheated on her.
She wasn’t dismissive. The waitress was being petty. People should mind their business. She should have pulled her to the side if she was sincere. You’d be embarrassed
Foxy Jai Eh I just think we have different definitions of what’s acceptable and what’s not. If you cheat, you open yourself to public embarrassment. Not petty just reaping what you sow. But hey that’s just how I see it.
Galen223adept I understand but what’s done in the dark comes to the light regardless and it didn’t have to be done that way. I’m sure his gf didn’t even find out so what was the point
Foxy Jai To me that was it coming to light. I doubt the partner was going to say anything so that was karma biting him in the butt for thinking he could take both girls to the same place and not get caught. Plus even if the gf doesn’t find out, not like the waitress could’ve known who was the main gf, at least one person in the wrong did which is better than them both if not more getting played. If more people had this mentality to call out cheaters, then no doubt dude’s gf would’ve been told by someone else or even the waitress if she ever came back to the bar by herself.
Everyone knee my bf was cheating on me but didnt tell me 😒 would've been nice to know. Found out after he got arrested and this girl messaged me lmao
The girl with the swimming story is literally just her forcing her bf to swim, him not being able to (maybe that’s why he didn’t want to go outside) and then her making fun of him for it.
“You grew up in Santa Monica you should know how to swim” 🙄 not everyone has that kinda upbringing
Exactly, maybe no one ever taught him as a child
She was horrible!
yes holy crap.. taking in salt water is how people 'drown' without realising it. From Google:
"Dry drowning sets in less than an hour after inhaling water. But secondary drowning, which is also rare, can happen up to 48 hours after a water accident."
I disagree from this comment because the man or boyfriend whatever should tell her instead of trying to please her and should've siad I can't swim. It might be embarrassing but it's the truth. My I'm pretty sure that if she said that she would've understood. That's why she said all that stuff because if he would've stop being such a boy pleaser then she wouldn't say all those things about him.
S W E E T H O N E Y D I N K he seemed to not want to tell her because of wanting to please her. He probably had the mindset that he could do it. Plus if he did tell her she still would’ve been like “i found it crazy because he lives and Santa Monica and cant swim!” so either way, she is still a bit rude and yes he should’ve told her
No wonder that guy never wanted to try anything with her, just listening to how judgmental the girl in the red sweater is was upsetting
some BODY there’s 2 girls in red sweaters?
Im guessing first girl. She's creepy
I guess its the second girl... She's just so ughhhh
I thought the same thing. Just because he's from Santa Monica he's supposed to know how to swim?? LOL
some BODY Right! I grew up on an island and I can’t swim. She should just find someone that’s into the things she’s into, instead of being an ahole about it.
omg when the last girl say”and now he is my husband “ my heart omg 🥺❤️❤️❤️
Guy that dated red sweater dodged a bullet
ok but thay are all in red lol
but i know exacly wwho you're talking about, the santa monica girl
Exactly!
Alexsandra Rivera exactly, she’s lame. He tried.
Imagine if SHE was like "and now... HE'S MY HUSBAND! :)"
Also don't make fun of someone for not being able to swim, third person. That's rude
girl in the red too judgemental...
i live in a small island surrounded by so much water and even I cant swin... girl
@hb desu, literally everyone is wearing red
@@clairemishlerr Not everyone.
Seeing the comments from other people who can't swim makes me feel better. I do live somewhere completely landlocked but that's a total excuse, my mom tried her best to teach me lol
I live kind of near an ocean and know how to swim but I'm afraid of the ocean
@@clairemishlerr no they’re not? 😂
That second to last girl was really rude with the way she was describing the guy’s poor swimming. At least he was trying to make you happy. Not cool at all.
I agree. A guy shouldn’t have to take a month a swimming classes to please a girl
She was a Bee’yotch!
I’m pretty sure the guy who went on the date with the girl on the red sweater thinks the same thing that day was his worst valentines date lol
Ok when her tyre popped in the last story i thought the universe was trying to tell her something for sure.. And now they're married 🤷♀️
“I really wanted nothing to do with him at that point in my life and now, he’s my whole life” oh my goodness this is just so cute 🥺
that last story: TOP 10 ANIME PLOT TWISTS YOU DIDNT SEE COMING
The second before last story kind of got to me because the guy was trying and he was kind of being a little bit rude like you live in Santa Monica you’re supposed to know how to swim it’s like not all people and learn how to swim it’s just kind of got to me he’s like trying to impress her trying to let her in like you know what I mean I feel like it’s not really that big of a horror story like don’t get me wrong it’s bad that he’s throwing up on Valentine’s Day but he was still like trying to do something new with you
Specially when he is feeling bad thinking he let her down and that he is an embarrassment. Couldn't agree more with you said.
Yeah but that kiss is pretty grous. He did know that he didn't brush his teeth and they still stinked
There is something called punctuation
I was going to like this comment but the lack of punctuation made it painful to read
@@fjdsksjfhfkskdjfhfgh sorry😁 this is my second language. That's why I can't write 😁🤷♀️
Thumbs up if you never had someone for Valentine's day and probably never will. Just me? Ok.
It's not a real holiday. It's just a happy day for companies. If you can be single on every day of the year, you can also be single on VDay. It also shouldn't be a standard for couples. You can make each other happy everyday, not just bcaus its VDay.
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk
@RC Daniel r/niceguy
@RC Daniel 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
BIG FAT THUMBS UP
This will be my first year having a boyfriend for Valentine's day and i'm 30 yrs old. Miracles can happen lol
Excuse me SUSHI NIGHT CLUB what
Had the same reaction. HAHAHAHA
I think she meant Sushi and then Night club.
Exactly
I wanna go there!!!!!
A rose thorn popped ur tire seriously?
That were they made of???
What were your tires made of????
NICHOLAS ARNOLD thank you! I call BS on that! Did u have super thin ballon tires on ur car 🙄
Well she did say she ran over them,so maybe more than one.
Besides,who are you 2 call BS on that?
Sure it sounds kinda impossible but it might not be,you don't know that.
Bloody Rose Who am I? I’m a person with an opinion. Just like hmm; you. Just like you can choose to believe that story, I can choose to call BS. Oh I forgot everything posted in videos and the internet is 100% facts. Yeah ok 🙄
@@mike888c I've had a thorn pop my tire before lol but it was one of those longer thorns plus my tires were so bald
I can maybe see like a goat head or Long-thorn Kiawe could but a soft rose thorn? Naah couldn't puncher a tire anymore then u getting stabbed in the foot throw your shoe
Women who waste their precious time with undeserving men are missing out on meeting the good ones. Either be with a person who treats you well or be single, it’s better to be alone than stressed out and miserable. Life is way too short!
I agree.
This goes both ways. 👀
PA0PU of course it does. Many toxic women out there too! Both men and women should strive for healthy partners but often people are toxic themselves and won’t fix themselves before entering a relationship.
Omgosh that last story was the best!
How did a rose thorn pop your tire?????
Yeah, I don’t believe it
Soon as I heard that I doubted it 😂
Right!? I backed it up 20 seconds because I was like... wait did I miss something, were the roses of steel that he crafted in shop class or something .
I mean something else might’ve popped it but she never investigated it further
I was gonna say, were the tires balloons? Cause that's the only way that makes sense
Last girl. You go for that story to “and now he’s my husband!” I feel like she yadyadayadad over the best part. 😂
We NEED to know how that annoying guy came from no way Jose to I like the way you work it. I mean we NEED to know the key to success
Hold up. I need to find out how they ended up together!!!
when she said "and now he's my husband!!" i felt whiplash.
11:22 didn’t see that coming🤣🤣🤣
The last story reminded me of the Andy Bernard Quote:
"Every success I've ever had in my job or with the lady folk has come from my ability to slowly, and painfully, wear someone down.”
And he did. And now they’re married 😂
Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results”
But also there’s a quote that says, “You have a good chance at making some of your wildest dreams come true. Most people don’t even try, sadly. Most people try and then stop or give up. Very few people try, and try, and try or do, and do, and do and never give up. And those are the people that ultimately succeed and win.”- Jared Leto 😂
Everybodys commenting when they came here but im just hear for the valentines story!
*here
Homophones are annoying sometimes 😂😂😂
No hate😊
Four years ago i confessed to the cute international student I had a crush on. HIs best friend then confessed his feelings to me. It was an awkward first few months of dating my boyfriend (the international student)
ManhaRockz sorry 😂
K-pop Emily awww thats soo cute!!
I think i sort of understand what you tried to say
Lady says her name
IMMEDIATELY after: "Valentine's Day is for the birds!"
Tell us how you really feel.😂😂😂
I've got one:
Our previous/first Valentine's day ended with my boyfriend faceplanting in the rain and dropping the arts/crafts gift I made him into puddles and he got his car towed.
So he was DETERMINED to make this one better. Intensely planning a romantic weekend getaway and hid details from me to surprise me, that sort of stuff. Fast forward to Vday, all the hotels were fully booked, so we couldn't exactly have a 3-day weekend getaway in the city. It's fine 🤷♀️ just change plans a little.
We're in SoCal so he plans a romantic walk through the canals at Venice. (If anyone is in SoCal, you know EXACTLY why you avoid Venice)
--cue the unbearable heat in the city, us being harassed by panhandlers, him almost getting run over, getting mooned by a homeless person, and me stepping in a warm gooey pile of feces.
I couldn't enjoy the day at all because of the stress, and he felt awful for not actually researching how Venice is. Buuuut there is one nice thing about Venice: it's right next to its prettier sister Santa Monica.
We spend the rest of the day looking around the Getty Villa 😁 (it's so beautiful and was SO EMPTY!) and looking at the beautiful scenery of the beach and forests of Topanga
We spend the next day re-doing Valentine's day by exploring some local shops at Topanga, then spending the rest of the day at Dave &Buster's and getting Korean bbq 😊
Even though a lot of it sucked, I still adored his determination to make it a special day.
"Now he my husband"
Me: "Wait!....What? How the f did she went from hating him to walk down the aisle?"
Not my horror story, but a friend's:
They got a rose bouquet and chocolates from their at-the-time boyfriend, the first time they'd gotten a nice Valentine's gift.
They noticed after a while that the bouquet had 11 roses, not 12.
SURPRISE, they figured out that boyfriend gave the single rose to someone else on the side.
Safe to say, they are no longer dating.
Is every bouquet supposed to have 12 roses?
@@mayala854 yes, 6 for half a dozen, 12 for a dozen :)❤🌹🌹🌹🥀🥀🥀🌹🌹🌹🥀🥀🥀
maya la i work in floral we have 12, 10, 6, and 3.
In eastern slavic countries (at least some of them) it's rude to give someone an even number of flowers. It used to be considered bad luck, because you always bring an even number of flowers to dead people's graves, and an uneven number - to the living. Some people still think it's bad luck... So giving someone 12 roses is like wishing them death. Just so you know, if you ever date a slavic bf, they might not be cheating, just want you to live longer 😅
I just like the fancy chocolates when they're on sale 12 hours after Valentine's Day 👀
My husband one year went to the flower shop to get me flowers and saw a heart shaped flower and thought it was a great Valentine's Day surprise. It was one of the big heart shapes funeral wreath! Real story.
Girl at the beginning is honestly so great, love her smile and think she just seems like a really fun, articulate, and emotionally honest person. Loved the video As/Is, keep it up! Buzzfeed forever.
When the first girl was saying “he told her that I’m a psycho”, thought “I bet he ain’t even wrong either”🤪😂
😂😂😂😂😜😜😂😂😂😂
She definitely seems extra. It makes you wonder. Course in high school almost every girl is a little dramatic.
Why was the second women mad at the waitress? Atleast she told her the truth 😕
I wasn't expecting that twist ending
To the waitress “girl bye” more like “THANK YOU & here’s a huge tip”
“And now he’s my husband”
OMG BIGGEST TWIST EVER 😂😂
The last story OMG 💑
Be your own sugar daddy on Valentine's day...
“Now he is my husband!”😂😂 like so unexpected
Zarinah’s voice is so relaxing!!! More of her please
lolitaDavita yasss follow me on the gram 💜
The last one is sooooo duckie from pretty in pink
He's the only reason I like that movie 😂
Can we get more of the last person???? Guess what they say is true... "The more you hate, the more you love" Though as much as I would like that kind of story, THAT will never happen!!! I really want more of this last girl!!!!
Zarinah. I love that name!
OMG that last story got me though. That is sooo funny! hahahaha
Lady DaVinci thank uuuu
I'm sorry, HE'S WHAT
omg I'm so glad I didn't read the comments beforehand and I got to witness that plot twist in real time 😫
If a rose thorn pops your tire, it's not the roses fault. How worn do you let your tires get?! Egads.
You owe him additional loving because it would have been much more scary if you'd been on the road and run over...I don't know....a butterfly, lol.
“And now he is my husband” be careful drinking any liquids during this part. I almost died laugh choking. 🤣
I don't know why, but the last one made me bust up laughing at the end when she said he was her husband now....😭🤣
The last one got me😂😂❤️❤️
The last girl needs to tell how he won her heart.
“definitely left a bad taste in my mouth” 😅😅 literally and figuratively
for the last story i was like wow thats what you get! then she said now his my husband lmao! how adorable he knew since day one. \
2019 Valentine's day gifts:
Chocolate
2020 Valentine's day gifts:
Surgical masks
The way the first girl moves her hands constantly while telling the story, makes me nervous 😬
Jenny Ml was pissing me off tbh lol
The last story!!! 😂😂 I love it!! My guy was like I SAID we're going to be together 😂😂😂
I've never laughed so hard at the "And now.. he's my husband!" he won tho
When she said “ and now he is my husband “ 😂😂😂that’s some true karma there
10:44 You’ve gotta be kidding me XD
: that last story was hilarious!
The ending had us alllll shocked 🤣 Love it! 💖
😍 KaylaNoel101 👋🏽 my daughter’s name is Kayla... I’m sorry it’s just I haven’t seen anyone with the same name since I named her and that was 10yrs ago now. So I just thought I would say hello and send you best wishes for a wonderful day. 💛
WHAT A PLOT TWIST AT THE END!!!
One time when I was 16, I was working at my first job at a pizza place. I finished my shift and it was about 11:00pm and very dark out. It was also Valentines Day and I walked to my car in the back of the buildings parking lot and opened my car door to get inside. I jumped back in shock when I saw a GIANT teddy bear sitting in my passenger seat and a bunch of flowers with chocolates.. I immediately flipped out because someone who like me clearly BROKE INTO MY CAR while I was working and left this for me but didn't have a clue as to who it would be. Very creepy.
The last one got me laughing
I put a guy in the friendzone for the entire time we were hanging out and talking...... and now we've been married for 3 months 😂
Damn I want to know more about the last one. How do you even start a relationship after that?? 😶
There needs to be more waitresses like that, that Lookout and tell the truth! She saved you from a relationship that was not going to work out and heartache...
“And I was just like 🖕🏾”
Nobody:
Katie’s high school boyfriend: LETS GO TO THE MOVIES!
How do you suppose that someone can swim just because he is from Santa Monica?
8:47 I come here every year to listen to this story ❤I love this couple and I wish them the best
These stories are so RELATABLE.
Except the last one...
The last one he annoyed his way into her heart
“And now he’s my husband 😊”
BRUH
The last one is just so unbelievably precious
That was a nice bit of instant Karma happening with that last lady. I say Bravo to her hubby for lording it over her each Valentine's day!
Wow, husband? Didn't expect that
I need to know how that guy finally turned the last woman around.
“And now, he is my husband!” I’M HOLLERIN’
I told my aunt happy valentines day at 5:00pm she the proceeded to tell me my uncle hadn’t told her happy v-day at all that day 🤣🤣🤣
they broke up on a motorcycle? how do you even talk to each other???
Something tells me the last chick ran out of options & finally gave in lol
LMAO THE LAST ONE goals
Last story was the absolute best 😂 was not expecting that
Hiya! Little bit of a PSA here! Just because someone grew up near the ocean, doesn't mean they know how to swim or enjoy swimming. I grew up in California and I hate going in the sea cuz I think its nasty... Different people like different things. Have a good day! And an even better Valentine's Day!