Not true at all. If you've ever suffered from loneliness you would know how it feels and never would want someone to feel that way. In fact you would be a much better parent if you know the possibility of how the child might feel unloved and be the love you wished for.
@@kim__xoxosadly simply knowing isn't enough. It takes action. And if you can't take action, you torture yourself until you become strong or give up entirely. As it should be. Survival of the fittest. Lets keep suffering together. Cheers! 🎉
Omg you sound like me! I was punished for smiling or laughing too much and was told 'only stupid people are happy all the time'. I still wake up with a song in my head and an unbeat mood even now at 40, but I shut down really bad some days, especially on days when my co-workers are in a bad mood. On those days allot myself a certain number of words to say outside of being absolutely, directly work-related and use tally marks to keep count. That way I don't have anxiety over whether or not I talk too much and annoy people. Today for example, I was in a super good mood this morning because I had one of the best weekends I've had in years. I can tell that my co-workers did not have a great weekend and did not appreciate joy that early in the morning, so I have a lot of myself 500 Words as per the norm in such a situation. 😂
My weirdness don’t get me wrong I’m still weird but it’s different now and every time I let a tiny bit of my true weirdness out I get scolded. I had to get rid of my disability’s I had to get rid of my identity. I had to get rid of all negative emotions. My imperfections. To many things to count. And I hate both sides of it I hate who I am now and I hate the person I had to surpress I hate who I am now and I hate who I was. I really don’t see why anyone would like me and I’m starting to think they don’t like me..
My honesty and the real me because if i don't please my parents, i would get those yelling and not love and all the negative opinion about me from other.from my family i will not at peace at home, and i want to be close with my family so i have to please them to get what i want.
I had to reject all parts of me to satisfy my mother. She did hate me just for being who i am now i am hating my self in every aspect of my life i can't even authenticly express who i am what i want what i do anxiety of rejection don't let me go either
I guess my emotional side. The side that takes things too seriously. The side that over cares for her siblings. The side that’s overly responsible. And the side that’s scared and angry.
My happiness. starting at 4 years old. I'm 63. Long time to be avoiding being happy. Rage has been smoking instead. Taste the rainbow bridge may it come soon.
I had to reject and deny myself and thats why i say **** u. its silently tho i know my worth and idc how i have play the game when in the social presence of others that want me to deny and reject myself I LOVE MYSELF PERIOD
Vulnerabilities, sadness, anger, showing bad emotions, taking a day off not going to monastery because feeling mentally tired, sexual needs, talking about emotions, talking of needing words of love or consideration, singing (because they will criticized me)....
I mess every little thing up. I'm failing Algebra, I’m in a cycle of lying, I try so hard to learn how to sew but I can't, I keep not doing Bible study. I'm worth nothing.
@@anyagee9467 boo- frigging- hoo. Is getting everything and everyone you want ruined because some jealous high-schoolers said mean things once or twice? My heart is breaking. I still reject any advice on the subject by anyone who has no legitimate reason to hate themselves.
This is such a shallow statement. Be open minded. Beauty is subjective anyway. Being beautiful doesn't mean their parents aren't shallow or abusive, doesn't mean they are born and raised with love either
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So many people shouldn't have children or be around children when you grow not feeling loved.
That sounds like me.. guess I should never have a family of my own
Not true at all. If you've ever suffered from loneliness you would know how it feels and never would want someone to feel that way. In fact you would be a much better parent if you know the possibility of how the child might feel unloved and be the love you wished for.
@@kim__xoxosadly simply knowing isn't enough. It takes action. And if you can't take action, you torture yourself until you become strong or give up entirely. As it should be. Survival of the fittest. Lets keep suffering together. Cheers! 🎉
@@kim__xoxonot at all true...🙂
my race, sexuality, my trauma, and my happy self.
My neurodivergence, obsessive interests, adventurousness, upbeat energy, and love for knowledge
Omg you sound like me! I was punished for smiling or laughing too much and was told 'only stupid people are happy all the time'. I still wake up with a song in my head and an unbeat mood even now at 40, but I shut down really bad some days, especially on days when my co-workers are in a bad mood. On those days allot myself a certain number of words to say outside of being absolutely, directly work-related and use tally marks to keep count. That way I don't have anxiety over whether or not I talk too much and annoy people. Today for example, I was in a super good mood this morning because I had one of the best weekends I've had in years. I can tell that my co-workers did not have a great weekend and did not appreciate joy that early in the morning, so I have a lot of myself 500 Words as per the norm in such a situation. 😂
My sexuality, my race/skin color, hair, my body, I struggled with learning in school,
like, all of me
same
Agreed
Sameeee 😭
same
Pretty much
My weirdness don’t get me wrong I’m still weird but it’s different now and every time I let a tiny bit of my true weirdness out I get scolded. I had to get rid of my disability’s I had to get rid of my identity. I had to get rid of all negative emotions. My imperfections. To many things to count. And I hate both sides of it I hate who I am now and I hate the person I had to surpress I hate who I am now and I hate who I was. I really don’t see why anyone would like me and I’m starting to think they don’t like me..
My sexuality, body, interests and personality
Thanks girl.
You’re welcome ❤️
Any emotional part me, especially fear and anxiety. The part of me that cares.
My honesty and the real me because if i don't please my parents, i would get those yelling and not love and all the negative opinion about me from other.from my family i will not at peace at home, and i want to be close with my family so i have to please them to get what i want.
I get that and understand but smh feel close but have to be a mask or have the you know I'm just choosing to show up this way and they know trust me
I had to reject all parts of me to satisfy my mother. She did hate me just for being who i am now i am hating my self in every aspect of my life i can't even authenticly express who i am what i want what i do anxiety of rejection don't let me go either
I guess my emotional side. The side that takes things too seriously. The side that over cares for her siblings. The side that’s overly responsible. And the side that’s scared and angry.
My dreams and goals.
Ever since I realized people thought I was annoying, I’ve been closed off. I’m not the same person anymore
My giftedness, intelligence, neurodiversity, disabilities, mental illness, creativity, introversion, hypersensitivity, affection, kindness, and empathy.
You have my gratitude. You just made me put together why i wasnt fond of myself.
Wheeeew!!!! That hit hard.
Wow! So powerful! Never thought about it from this perspective! My extroversion, innovation, tenacity, joy, and confidence!
Elicia wow thank you. That was a mic drop moment
My happiness. starting at 4 years old. I'm 63. Long time to be avoiding being happy. Rage has been smoking instead. Taste the rainbow bridge may it come soon.
Love u girl ❤
I’m intelligence, my creative mind, my hug energy, my desire for really nice things and accomplished partners
1st a person must understand how many forms of self hatred a person has or can have...
I had to reject and deny myself and thats why i say **** u. its silently tho i know my worth and idc how i have play the game when in the social presence of others that want me to deny and reject myself I LOVE MYSELF PERIOD
I’ve always felt alone ive always thought I was ugly still do
Vulnerabilities, sadness, anger, showing bad emotions, taking a day off not going to monastery because feeling mentally tired, sexual needs, talking about emotions, talking of needing words of love or consideration, singing (because they will criticized me)....
I never got close to someone by rejecting part of myself
My self
Thank you sweetheart ❤
Every part of me, if it wasn't at their disposal when the wanted it.
My moles, my hyper sensitivity and my calmness and they take my happiness for weakness
My natural skepticism.
I have no idea. I'm struggling to have any self worth. It's all self hate.
that part of me was my skin colour:D
my entire face
I mess every little thing up. I'm failing Algebra, I’m in a cycle of lying, I try so hard to learn how to sew but I can't, I keep not doing Bible study. I'm worth nothing.
I Do not hate myself I Totally Hate dealing with other people thou
Sexuality, personal interests, morals and principles, religion, physical and clothing appearance.
All of Me
Having trouble answering this, any advice?
All of me… I had to hide all of me
I gave me up....
How i look/i used to be good at art but i lost it due to not drawing in months now i lack talent which makes me even more upset
My biggest thing is how much i talk with my annoying voice
Never stop talking 🫶🏼🤍
What if it’s everything?
I don't know what part I have no idea
This hit hard actually... pretending to be something I'm not and now hating who I've become. Side note, you look a little like Mila Kunis
Seems like the whole me, idk
😥
My race & sexuality
Every part.
I rejected my eyes so I did not have to look at my ugly and fat 😢
What part?? Should I say whole body...
My face
i dont know.
Yeah when you’re pretty it’s easy to love yourself lol
Nope.
She means mentally and emotionally , psychologically
Wtf would a beautiful person know about this?
Lol what a condescending, dismissive statement.
Sometimes more than a "regular" person - because pretty girls are bullied a lot by others who are jealous of them.
@@anyagee9467 boo- frigging- hoo. Is getting everything and everyone you want ruined because some jealous high-schoolers said mean things once or twice? My heart is breaking.
I still reject any advice on the subject by anyone who has no legitimate reason to hate themselves.
This is such a shallow statement. Be open minded. Beauty is subjective anyway. Being beautiful doesn't mean their parents aren't shallow or abusive, doesn't mean they are born and raised with love either
@@snahbrah4046 Good. I HOPE that is true. F the beautiful, and F their advice and feelings.
I had to reject AND deny my whole body and personality for people to think I’m worth something 🥲
Same!