To Anyone Who Has Lost Hope in Life
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2021
- Do you feel life’s not worth living anymore? Do you feel like you’re at your tipping point every day? This video might help you feel better.
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Writers: Joshua Munoz
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VO: Amanda Silvera
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Ho, L. (Dec 4, 2020) What to Do With Your Life When All Hope Is Lost. Retrieved at www.lifehack.org/879476/all-h...
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Going to force myself out of my comfort zone and try to make new friends
:D
I’m trying to pull mysef together honestly it’s a long story but in short doe to events I’m really depressed and suicidal and Iv got own friend who’s helping me trouw it it’s realy rough so far but I might pull something off
Write down ur thoughts. Try to find whats bugging u
EGO WORK. Perfecting everything wrong with me is the goal!
Its like i wanna sleep peacefully and never wake up without anyone knowing ..
Me2
Perfect way to describe it. Don't want to kill myself because of the guilt. It feels selfish to permanently end my suffering simply because some people I know will feel bad. But why should I care? They will eventually move on and I'll be forgotten. But I wish there was a way to just silently leave without affecting anybody or giving anyone the chance to claim that they cared about me when they in fact didn't.
@@chocolatfoncee7528 me too
@@chocolatfoncee7528exactly you shouldn’t feel selfish at all.
I wish I could just go to sleep and not exist.
I’ve constantly asked for help and just get treated worse. But as you say if I died. They would all be say how they tried there best to help me bla bla
YES
you know you truly don’t care when you look at the small things that used to make you feel alive and just feel numb.
@@SK-ur2on Sure if you think that way. Mindset is everything, stay strong!
@@eero3516 your mindset doesn’t matter when world shatter HORRIBLE things happen to you constantly
That's depression!
Or when you can't even remember what used to make you feel alive anymore...
I know
You’re not alone is the loneliest phrase that’s ever been said to me
Well, where I'm from, there's a saying. "Your only friends - are Tambov's wolf and it's fleas".
True, sadly. @@vladcrow4225
deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html
Very true
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these are the emptiest words for someone truly suicidal
because what if we ARE alone?
Same goes for "there's nothing wrong with you" well then help me stop feeling like there is because I do feel like there is something wrong with me, constantly, and you telling me that there isn't will not magically make it dissapear.
EXACTLY
Yes. At least they tried... I guess
...
To tell someone:”Why are you depressed? You have everything.”
Is like saying:”Why are you blind? You have eyes.”
True.... Whenever i feel sad or depressed feel like crying my parents say why are you like this you have everything but you still can't be happy.They also say because me always crying bad things happen in house😂but they don't know wht i faced and what i am facing i literally have no friends and the reason are my parents they never let me go out with them never let me talk to them on calls so now thay stopped texting me , calling me and asking me to go out with them😞 and my parents have no time for me ....so as a result i am alone and depressed and can't even express my feelings in my own house...wht a luck😦
Well said ❣️
@@jayshreerane2182 Our stories are very similar. I never go out with friends. But I have one best friend, she has the opposite personality to me.
I'm taciturn because I'm not good at expressing myself and I don't have confidence. But she is very bright and she is trying to act innocent;-; and she can't give advice ;-;
My parents won't let me use Facebook. I mean I can only play games and watch videos but can't post or comment, including RUclips ;-; I can't comment on youtube.
and..Since I was born No matter how much my parents make me cry But there was only one time that my mother said sorry,
Usually my parents natter or ignored me when they made me cry.
✌🏻I'm not good at English I'm sorry if I used the wrong word.
At least I think I've vented and shared my experience :)
❤️Thank you to everyone who read till here. No matter what happens, we will overcome obstacles together. You guys are already good No matter what obstacles come in, you will have to go through it like before!
These obstacles will make everyone grow up to be happy and suffering. But will we lose to suffering or will we fight for happiness!
Happiness is good :)
take care of yourself~!❤️
Exactly, I told my bsf abt my depression and she goes “why? Your life is perfect” and sometimes she’d make it bat her and say something like “oh I sometimes feel sad too.” Then goes on to brag abt her life and why she’s alive, making me feel worse
@@Mypetiscute. hey...learn to express yourself that is the one thing that can help you to make friends and people will love you... atleast you will not be alone....and if not just learn to be happy with yourself trust me being alone is like addiction it's just very nice feeling atleast for me,being with myself i don't have to fake anything whatever i do is what I love not wht others want😃.....and also lets be friends kind of online friends😊
Being told "you're not alone" feels Exactly like gaslighting. I don't like it. It's not true. Yes, there are many other people suffering similarly, but that doesn't make me feel any better, and doesn't mean i'm not alone. There are zero people with whom i can connect; mostly because of everything beyond my control, and my unwillingness and inability to knowingly deceive myself, un-know what i know, or unsee what i've seen. I'm not 'at' my tipping point. I've been past my 'tipping' point for ~25 years. No one, has ever, accepted my painstakingly articulated expression of what exactly is the problem. I am tired of explaining, and tired of people not getting it, or not wanting to get it, and acting like i'm "just being negative." People used to say "it gets better," but it never did, despite my best efforts.
Yeah, it's gaslighting, but it's because a lot of people don't want to see someone's life crash and burn. I'm 30 and experienced all of those things about emptiness and despair. In the past, I also wished to be understood, because I wanted to validate my existence someway... But now, after realizing all the good and bad people can make and the eternal indifference of existence, I realise that nothing of this matters... And how all this made me free.
Yes, evil and unfairness still exist, but I'm just a human. A lonely human on a lonely planet. If I'm not the one responsible for giving meaning to my life, no one else will.
And yes, I know that my answer will probably not bring you any solution, but at least I hope that it will serve as a paradigm to be observed. Because in the end, we feel anguished not because we want an answer, but because we want to be heard...
wow- same. i resonated with every word
I’m actually glad to know that- That I wasn’t the only one who also thought this
Exactly what i mean
Its just so frustrating people see that im in pain i don't hide it but i don't know how to feel better or how to explain what i feel and im so tired of trying, they ask me what to do to help me but i dont know and when i had power to try working on it they were too busy to help me so now i don't want anything anymore and i don't want to care its just too hard and stressful
I didn't consent to existing.
I didn't choose this.
I am unable to off myself because of instinct, trapped here, watching this horror unfold before me.
The game was rigged from the start, you are watching this hell unfold in slow motion.
My solace is the hope that whe i die i will never exist again ❤
Thank god for that... This existence is a nightmare everyday. I would never want to live a human life all over again.
@sannaperkio1469 It's the most disappointing reality. Odds are stacked everyday, as we battle so many external and internal threats, both flesh and spirit. It is mind-boggling how people love this cutthroat society. A considerable majority have no compassion or empathy left; many are just empty soulless shells parading around as normal especially our leaders. Nobody signed up for this!
Holy crap......
HE JUST ROASTED GOD HIMSELF-
I can agree with this. Sometimes I do wonder if I can just off myself ,but feel trapped and therefore not doing it. So instead I sit silent, just suffering everyday, and dreaming of the day I finally die or fall asleep and never wake up. If I died though I would hope I don't ever have to live it all over again.
What is going on with your life? I am honestly asking. I myself have death always on my mind.
"I would like to tell you that things will get better tomorrow. But I have been through so many tomorrow's and nothing has changed."
deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html
🫂❤️
“Do you fear death?”
“No”
“Why is that?”
“Because life scares me more then death ever could”
@Snomable I don't think he is.
Yes.
dude. its ok.
This is so true for me but i really hope ur okay *hug*
I wish I could but everytime I'm at the edge, my body just freezes up and I can't jump.
"Depression is being colorblind and constantly told how colorful the world is." -Atticus
True
"Dude, think of all the things to live for!"
If I were able to do that, I would have never been here in the first place, now, would I?
That hits different
It's like having asthma and being told "but there's so much air around you"
Atticus knew his shit.
I feel like I'm living so others don't mourn my death
Same here, i'm not gonna die Intel everyone who cared about me dies, although I just want to die now
Im living for my family and because im scared of the pain.everyday i live pleading for god to end it all or kill because i cant take it anymore
Thats me…i have kids and i cant leave them to suffer…
At least you have people who'd mourn your death.
This is the only reason I’m alive.
i lost everything, no friends or family. as soon my divorce is over, i'm gone. nearly 50 years of pain and suffering and no purpose in life anymore. " you're not alone" yes i am!
I feel the same. I try to pray. That’s All I’m able to do. I try to find one thing that takes my mind off everything. Had a friend that volunteered in a shelter for animals and it brought her some peace. I read and try to get my mind off things. It helps a little. Better than nothing.
@@Lisa-vk1ey do you live in Ottawa On. do you want my email address. we can communicate, talk. support each other? up to you.
Please 🙏 stay I ❤ u
I can feel it
@@EEEbrahim3971Me2
"You're not alone" people say this too often without understanding that its a helpless phrase, People do need some company in life but knowing that other people are suffering doesn't make you feel any better about your own life.
The worst in this phrase is that the one who are saying it are often the one who doesn’t care about you when you don’t scare them each day.
At least from my own experience
Yeeeeah, is s very empty and annoyinh quote if you ask me. It helps nothing and just makes me wanna roll up my eues
while it is good to understand that you are not alone in this feeling, this is not what is meant by the phrase here. YOU are not alone, there are people there for you. DO NOT push them away, let them take care of you. That is what they meant. It is not easy to understand it at first, and even if you do understand it and see it, you will struggle to let those people who love you to take care of you. I just said what it means and I cannot do it...
Facts
LITERALLY OMG. this phrase pisses me off so fucking much. along with "it will get better" or anything in that area. like please stfu istg
_"You are not alone"_
The most blatant lie people have told me all my life other than "it's gonna be okay."
@The Blessed Aspie Don't see the point though. Is being sad in mass supposed to be relieving?
@@thicccatto3956 damn that hit hard
For most people it will never be okay
@TheSpratMan damnnn what a broken generation and society we are :((
I agree with you. I don't go to a therapist, but if I did, I wouldn't listen to anything other than "look, life sucks, no one gives a shit about you, you're alone, none of this is going to change, so let's at least start from this base point and proceed". If they DON'T say that, I know they're full of shit, they're just getting paid to go thru the motions and tell you bullshit and run up the clock, and therefore don't trust them.
'You are not alone' most crappiest line I've ever heard. Yes I am alone when there is no one to open up to emotionally, when there are friends who only use you and dump you when your are of no use to them 💔
I've experienced that. People are awful.
@@latasha9898 took me 4 semesters to understand difference between friend and classmate but I'm doing good now..!
Hope you're doing good too :)
Exactly..
“Don’t give up”-🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
true its all a bunch of toxic positivity BS. why can't ppl just be real and say "you are alone and you feel that way and so are others" its more realistic
You know, this is a good video for people who let go of things easily, but this isn’t stopping me from leaving this cruel place
I hope you feel better.
@@yokk9637 it’s been better… I’ve tried “it” but it never worked. They always stoped me
deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html
"You're not alone" well its always easy to say but that's a lie. I am alone and so does many other people. Just because someone has the same problem as me doesn't make me feel less lonely...
I feel you
Still hope it get better overtime bud, both you and me and many others
Same. I’m not getting comfort from others feeling low and depressed like me
Yep
It is @#$_,ed feeling no joy
Especially when these people that apparently share your pain are people you will likely never meet or never befriend. In truth you are actually alone.
it’s not life I lost hope in, it’s humanity.
Damn.. that hit way harder than I thought it would..
I've always been disappointed at what we've doing to the world
Same...
_”If sacred places are spared the ravages of war... then make all places sacred. And if the holy people are to be kept harmless from war... then make all people holy.”_
*-Silver Surfer*
Same dude I agree 100%
I cried so hard when my friend said "Love you bro" because no one in my entire life says that to me ever..
I know that feeling very well
@@DaphneSublime and he basically saved my life by saying that cuz i was so depressed that i was 🤏 this close from hanging myself..
Good for you that you have real friend , i tried talking with my friends about my depression but they called me "emo kid" and started to make jokes about my depression.
@8.8cm_Flak_37_Zugkraftwagen call a helpline bro someone is there for you
I hope ur okay now
The thing is, Im a lier and a procrastinator. Its not the people around me who hurt me, its me, I let everyone around me and my parents down and gave empty promises. Now, I feel nothing but self-hatred and worthlessness because after all I done, nobody believes a word that I say, every single relationship I tried to keep fell apart because of who I am. I fucked every 'second' and 'last' chances I have been given. I never properly owned up to everything, I felt insane guilt, but I never managed to stop an argument before it was too late and when that argument reaches its boiling point, all apologies I say are automatically discarded as 'cheap excuses' as my blunders and lies kept repeating themselves, nobody believes my apologies anymore. I am the problem and I feel like beyond any second chances. The worst part, is that when I was at a very low point and I cut myself out of frustration over my streak of failures, the first thing my parents said was: "what did you want to say with this? Youre trying to manipulate us?" My lies caused my parents who are loving and caring to just become emotionally numb and I feel like shit.
"it gets better" is the biggest and most consistent lie anyone has told me ever
I feel exactly the same...
Yeah
i hate how that's so true...
biggest lie ive ever heard
Yeh
"so many people will miss you when you're gone"
i dont need them to miss me when im gone, i need them to miss me while im still here
that's what I'm thinking all the time bro
this is the comment that resonates for me
@@liam-hb4kr Matthew 11:28-29
Exactly
The perfect quote. You deserve these likes
I've reached a point where seeking support feels futile because others fail to grasp the depth of what I'm going through, and likely never will. What's the use? They pretend listening and understanding , but in truth, they grow weary of my troubles and eventually distance themselves. I don't wish to burden anyone, so I watch as they enjoy time with friends, build families, and embark on vacations, while I remain isolated and alone. Throughout my life, I held onto hope that things would improve, that somehow I'd find a way to turn my life around. Yet, nothing has changed; I've simply aged, feeling as though my prime years were wasted by this debilitating condition. Despite it all, I can't shut myself down because of my faith in God; it's what sustains me in challenges. Even with apparent blessings-beauty, youth, strength, wealth, and health-none of it matters in the grip of depression, when you feel hollow and dead inside.
Hugs 😢 I understand what you feel..
U just spoke out my mind
I understand you brother, I feel the exact same. I neither have wealth nor looks. Everyday feels like somehow worse than the last. If you talk it with people they will just run away or ignore you after once or twice.
The only thing keeping me going is my faith in God and my parent's faces. But I do sometimes think why God made us suffer like this and wait for a day of when this will end ....
Does it ever end? At one time, I believed it would. Now...not so much. 62 .. divorced, beauty has faded, friends abandoned me for loss of words to say. Ex stole our savings ... no one wants to hire me at my age. Healthy and physically active and completely invisible to the world around me. Dreams crushed and days spent alone. What a wonderful life, right. 🙄
Crock of shit this world is
@@shelley1071 I feel sorry that you feel that way :( It can be hard indeed but Jesus will never abandon you. He is the only One you can turn to , He got through it all... There is still hope...
It's honestly so hard to keep going when the odds are against you
deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html
"Reach out to your friends for support"
Ma'am my friends all left me behind because my issues kept me from progressing in life. So I just get to watch my former friends and peers live their lives while I watch from a mental cage
It’ll be okay I hope, that cage will be broken soon, no matter how long
Same here…
Same
...
Felt that, literally stabbed and abandoned from all my friends and now I'm sitting alone for good.
the worst feeling is feeling alone while surrounded by others
Jesus said in John 14:18
"I will not leave you comfortless: I will come unto you."
Jesus loves you more than anyone you know ever could ❤
@@bensonsarg3904 Your imaginary friend doesn't help, take action or give your condolences and leave
As much as I feel similar, it is EXTEREMELY rude to defy or hate on someone's religion. I am not Christian, but it can be disheartening to the person who was trying to help. Next time, please keep these negative thoughts to yourself.
I don't want you to feel shame, though. Just learn from your mistakes.
@@RoseSiren-nq7kr No, pushing your beliefs on someone, claiming a supernatural being will take care of them is very damaging. He also said his imaginary friend loves him more than anyone he knows, that includes his family, which is a disgusting thing to say.
I made no mistake here and i stand by every word i wrote. I didn't even insult or hate, i simply put the truth into word.
So true man!
*"Rage, rage against the dying of the light."*
A line that I always remember, that reminds me of who I am, and what I'm fighting for,
Happiness.
Thank you for sharing this quote! I find it quite resonating.
I wish you health, love and safety in your life, stranger :] ❤
@@katzr2cooldud I wish the same to you, and you're welcome mate :]
“You’re not alone” objectively I am
"Remember what it's like having a crush?"
Yes, the most painful rejection
Having an unhealthy crush on a fictional character and the actor who plays him. The guy will never know I exist. Deep down I know I am searching for escapism. When I'm not obsessing over him I think of how lonely I am and my trauma comes back. I want this vicious cycle to stop
@@disco_depression hey hey hey coming from a book character and game character simp, I found my guy. Was fucking terrifying telling him since we’ve been friends for 6 years, but apparently he likes me back, yay! Thought the guy of all my expectations never existed, and he was right in front of me. Definitely some downsides and heartache, but at one point (when i was still making fanart and obsessing over fictional characters) i thought i would be alone forever. Well, nope. It’s a fucking miracle, you just gotta look for them. If it happened to me, it will happen to you too. The vicious cycle doesn’t stop, you have to stop it.
I actually don't
@@coffeetree_ The whole "just gotta look" thing doesn't work for me. There's no one right in front of me to settle for. I never meet anyone ever, because my list of defects is too long to type here. I can't will the impossible to happen. My life is a problem for which the only solution is death, and I can't even get that right.
@@JB52520 life may feel like shit right now, but trust me, it gets better. If you kill yourself now, you might miss out on multiple opportunities. Life might be throwing some shit in your face, but I promise, it has good plans in store for you. You will find that special someone eventually, you just have to wait. And if you’ve already waited, wait a little longer
“You’re not alone”
The most empty words to somebody considering ending their life.
I hope you’re doing okay since you wrote this…
@@vladcrow4225 some people hurt themselves and wouldn't even think of hurting someone else. Not sure if you were making a bad joke or just completely lacking in empathy for others suffering.
That wasnt pretty mate... Im not gonna fight myself
@@vladcrow4225 you realize nobody is going to listen 2 you right? youre trying so hard to sound edgy that its truly embarassing.
how about this... "we all gonna die in the future anyway, might as well take everything this life has to offer and then some before going..."
I treat myself as a failure, but not suicidal because I have no courage to end it all. Yet I still feel down, when the source of it comes from my academics and my mother who had the tendency of going randomly nuts and being a complete narcissistic asshole at the same time. I tried to change and correct her, but after this time I realized that it was all futile.
I have nobody by my side, and as an 16-year-old teen, I always dreamt that day the misery would end, yet it's probably never till I close my eyes forever.
I know that I have so many desires and wishes waiting to be accomplished, but all those pales in comparison to how my misery will grow.
Why are you a failure?
The physical pain.. the fact I disabled myself working incredibly hard in my early 20s, for greedy employers, and my family told me I was unworthy of a safe work environment and that I couldn’t quit.. I wish I quit because I can’t work.. it’s been years of debilitating pain and failed surgeries, horrible life advice.. never work hard for anyones business except your own.
“The pain you’re feeling will eventually fade” maybe when I’m dead
Exactly the same thoughts...
I dont know you, but i hope that you get everything sorted out, and that you dont need to die to see yourself worth, feelings overwhelm us alot of the times, and all of us make mistakes, but life isnt about thinking about these mistakes, its abour building our life, our future our home. and whatever home yours might be, i hope that you have found it and that you can heal your scars from all your battles. inside your home, dont give up okay? you got this! i believe in you, and i hope you do some day too.
You and me both…
You gotta fight
Brother.. Don't...
Robin Williams said it best:
"I used to think the thought of being alone was the worst, it's not, it's the people that make you feel alone.
Robin Williams was a king among men
Which Robin Williams? The actor or the singer?
@@pedrolopes3542 the late actor
@@pedrolopes3542 the singer is called Robbie not Robin
😔felt that
I'm in my 21 year of age, I grew up doing things half-assly, spending time playing games/watch anime, not getting involved with problems, have less friends due to bullying, trust issues, and avoiding myself to do things that would make me mistakes or blame me for what I do. I picked up Psychology in college because it sparked me and I love the course. Now in my 4th Year of college, I was scared in my OJT and my thesis. My thesis was the start that I realize my mistakes in life and blamed myself because research is something I am mostly afraid of especially as a solo researcher. I was afraid of not able to graduate on time even if I've already done and defended my study. I am afraid of letting other people down. I am afraid to try things and suffer all over again. It made me feel discouraged about my course and also have suicidal thoughts of my own mistakes in life. I just want life to have fun. But, fun doesn't last because in the end, people will leave and I'm only by myself. I also envy from other people who pick up things easily while I am having a hard time to understand something. It truly scares me even if I am having an effort for it.
Watching this video made feel anxious and at the same time reassurance that everyone makes mistakes. Yet, it's hard for now.
While reading your reply I was felling like I was looking at myself at a mirror. I had the exact same issues as you and now as I am doing my masters I am getting anxious each day of if I will be able to finish it or not. I also don't have many friends due my own introverted nature. But despite all things I am somehow still going. So stay strong. We will go though it, both of us.
Everything that ever feels meaning has slipped through my fingers. I only remember the disgust and hate. I've lost all confidence in my presence. I've been stripped of all my parts and just left to rot. I'm beyond empty. I have nothing to offer anyone anymore and the thought of that isolation for the rest of my life is terrifying.
Telling someone "you shouldn't be sad, others have it worse than you."
Is like telling someone "you shouldn't be happy, others have it better than you."
i honestly keep that in my head, because my parents have said that to me before
It also implies that only the single person having the single worst life in the world is "allowed" to be sad, which is obviously inane
@@Hubcool367 so like what would that be someone being tortured for days in the most brutal painful way possible cant think of anything much worse then that
@@walterwhite5764 I personally have no idea, you would have to ask the "stop complaining, other people have it worse" crowd who they consider has the "right" to be sad/unhappy/complaining.
Not really. If you put it in a good way, it’s telling you to be grateful
"you're not alone."
no. the problem with my life is that I am very much alone and the fact that other people struggle with the same things doesn't make me feel less alone
For those still living the depressed life ---->ruclips.net/video/fcqxzXMRGoc/видео.html
I feel the exact same way.
For a lot of reasons I am literally alone, aside from my Mom.
I'm not trying to talk down to you, state the obvious, or diagnose anything, but there are two things I learned too late that I really needed earlier.
1) media, digital and physical, are fantastic resources for understanding and community (even if it's the illusion of community). Movies, games, books, and music that talk about your feelings are a great way to find a way out. (I'll recommend something if you want)
2) Message my siblings, friends, or grandparents. The worst thing I told myself was that "they're too busy". Anyone you know you can talk to, set a time with them. My brother especially was able to help me feel like there was a way out.
Yo we have the same name :D
yay :D
Yo man i was alone in life for 2 years in my child hood i feel your pain every day you feel emptyness and its just depressing. The only thing i can say to you is hold on and keep fighting there is always light at the end. And im thinking about you today and i will not forget you so technially you're not kind of alone now😅😉
dawg I am so tired of the cycle
I hate it to...
This is the prime example of toxic positivity. It feels exactly like when you finally vent to someone about how severe your depression is, and the response you get is, "You just have to think positive. You have to try hard and realize the world isnt going to give you ___ (insert literally anything here)"
It's like, "Oh wow, Susan. You're right!!!!! This whole time I could have battled my way out of the severe depression with thinking positive!?"
Revolutionary idea.....
As much as I would absolutely LOVE to be super positive, this video is the same cliché I've heard all of my life. It's like a story book, at this point.
I'm in a tough spot, but i know I've made a ton of progress. Telling people that life will get better and to "think positive" are probably the worst things you could say. At that point, dont even hear me out.
toxic positivity is exactly what this is. we cannot control everything. also thinking or doing any kind of positivity does not equal happiness or getting what you want in life. the only way i see happiness in myself personally is to live in the present moment and to stop controlling the things i strive to get for because 95% of times it fails.
happiness in yourself by living in the present moment? Wow. Im cured. What a revolutionary idea.
I have severe ptsd from being a victim of attempted mdr.
I CANT stay in the present moment, obviously....
I already know i can't control everything. I'm not that naive. I just want to feel better, that's all. @@1993babygirll
Like Freddy Mercury once sang:
"I'm a man of the world and they say that I'm strong, but my heart is heavy and my hope is gone (...)
I long for peace, before I die..."
It's all I want from life anymore.
Just peace of heart and mind...
Before is the key word. I side with you. Not everyone has hope...
I feel the same way. I know that at the very least I can also find comfort in the lyrics of people who understand.
For what its worth, from a random stranger on the internet, I hope you find that peace of heart and mind.
The show must go on!
"Oh yes, im the great pretender, pretending that im, doing well"
Mother Love is an underrated masterpiece
"You're not alone." No ma'am, the problem quite literally is that I am in fact very much alone and have been my whole life.
@The Blessed Aspie How does that help? Other ppl suffering doesn;t help anyone going through hard times.
@@supadupadutty We can always go out and meet new people, though. Every relationship in your life fell apart? Go find your purpose and make new relationships after that. Wilderness seasons are for learning about yourself
@@MrScotty2Hotty28 I don’t deserve other people, and no one likes me anyway.
@@MrScotty2Hotty28 That's rubbish advice u have no idea what you're saying its not that easy when you are poor and ppl around you are nothing but assholes🤦♂️ they don't even understand us at all and think we just lazy it is a waste of time to be around these kind of ppl.
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I’ll never get attached to anyone ever again. I type into the search bar how to feel happy again after I’m feeling at my lowest. This video popped up, I learned that time doesn’t heal pain, it forces us to live with it.
Sometimes, even if you want to keep fighting, you just don't see the point anymore.
Thanks we needed this
“If you cried while watching this, it’s not because your weak, you’ve just been strong for too long”
-some guy in the comments section
I can't even cry almost anymore.
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@nobodyimportant9510 Any sadness soon turns into anger once I learn it could have been avoidable
@@nobodyimportant9510 Hi nobodyimportant, I wish a good day to you! I really wanna know how to cry! (Last time was maybe in early-2021) I thank you in advance with a virtual-coffee, enjoy!😊 ☕
her voice is so gentle...it's like hearing a mother comforting us after falling. It may seem like nothing, but it really helps a lot. Thank you for all the affection you put in the videos.
Yeah, i cried while watching this video. Really.... im touched... im having mental issues but no one knew and then i discovered this channel, this channel helped me to restore my original self bit by bit...
For some reason I dont feel like crying but most wholesome voice I've ever 👌
Still can't find hope
Sry
@@day_dreamer473 someday u will find ur hope, fighting! :)
@@enteryourtexthere.6348 tnx :)
and she added a soft piano in the background. brilliant move. people don't know how much muisc affects us emotions. sad music has alot of EMOTIONS and that's good because when you express the EMOTIONS in you you give them an outlet and they don't build up until you feel like you can't breathe. that's also why sad anime romance is good aswell. cause you will feel the emotions that you can't express otherwise and thus they disappear, at least for the MOMENT. :D
I gave up on happiness, love, and trust many years ago. The only time I can feel any sense of normality is being completely isolated.
It's not that I lost hope in life, it's that I feel like im losing myself and that my emotions and my soul is fading away.
Please, call a helpline.
@@yagirlskyunmotivatedroadto1834, problem is u want to talk to someone who actually cares, but no one does.
Same here, I feel apathetic towards everything. I laugh for the sake of a joke, the little things that used to make me feel alive are now just what they are, little things. I don't have any expectations and I don't have any emotional attachments, I feel like I'm floating just above water in the middle of nowhere and not doing anything about it.
I can relate to you ,
@@purple_jams same for me
It's easy to say that you'll bounce back and be stronger for it. But a lot of depression videos act like there's a single thing causing the depression. Not just being so tired of life and unhappy in the unjust world we live in. It's easy to say you're not alone to someone who doesn't remember what human touch feels like
Exactly 😢
ikr like we cant just magically feel better
😔
I delight in giving forgiveness, understanding, but I don't get much of it. Perfection is the standard,,,, I should have been a hermit 🤔
Being a hermit ends up turning on you and it’s horrifying and sad
I actually started crying when watching this, thank you this video helped me a lot❤
"Never let yourself succumb to despair. Never stop fighting." Sadly, I already have..
Also, bold of you to assume I ever had a dream job or college, or any dreams at all. Maybe others did. I can spare myself all this, with a single bullet. Your channel is amazing for those who still try/strive/fight for something. Sadly I'm not one of those anymore.
Truth is, you can't save them all. Realising I'm one of them while still alive, stings. Maybe it was all meant to be like that. Death is part of the journey, after all. "But not like that" Yeah, well.. we can't know for sure. Maybe it was meant to end like this.
@doggo7166 you need to save yourself from such things. don't give out your energy to people like that
@doggo7166 you should. i didn't care about me either, and always ran to help others. but nobody ever appreciated it, and you only end up being the replaceable one. nobody deserves your effort, so keep it for yourself and focus on your own future. people are despicable.
if i may recommend you a method (that isn't for me, but has helped many others) look up "family constellation therapy" (it doesn't actually involve your family)
@doggo7166 don't do that. i also always used to rush to help people. nobody appreciates it and you end up being the replaceable and disposable friend. focus on your own future. people are despicable.
if i may recommend you two methods: look up "family constellation therapy" and "emotional freedom technique and matrix reimporting" (also, youtube is deleting my comment, tf)
Me hearing the phrase "You're doing so well, keep going." Is like hearing "Just keep going, no matter how you feel, even if you're tired." Out of all my life, I *have* been trying my best, and I'm just extremely tired. Maybe, sometimes, I just need to hear "Thank you for your efforts, it's okay." Or "You've done enough."
Hearing those Words Make me Cry, I Barely get those comments. My teacher told me these words on the last day of school, I then cried, I felt like they cared. But then it was time to go. I still had my crying face. My mom saw me crying and told me “stop crying you’ll see your teacher again”
your doing amazing love, your a really great person, your doing amazing in life, please keep going, thank you for all the things you've done in life, you've helped many people and they want you to stay
@@iluhcatssm Tysm
ofc, sorry if this doesn't reply to ur new comment, my yt is kinda weird rn, and tysm
@@iluhcatssm You are going to make me cry
It’s the fact that random people on the internet can understand and help you better then the closest people you know.
Very true maybe its because facing people in person can be very difficult but its easier to type it in words than explaining it
Those randoms hey...
fr, it’s better to have the internet that inspires you more than anyone around ever could
Yeah some pepple in the internet have way more things in comment with me more than my own family...
:( my tears.
I feel everyday gets harder to live i just feel like im not okay and even when i know my death is near im trying to use every second of life even when i'm soon gonna be dead and never talked about but remember there is always light in life never give up start finding the light
-red killer aka Valtteri
may he rest in peace
he died i'm just his dad
these past few months my gf who I loved a lot broke up w me and found someone else, I’ve been getting injured and sick so much which prevents me from getting better at my sport while I see everybody passing me in skill level, I’ve lost a lot of friends, and in general nothing seems to be working out. This video really gave me that push today to keep trying, thank you
"Always remember, you're not alone."
This may be true but I hate myself even more when I talk to my friends about my issues. My family doesn't even have an inkling as to what I'm going through, how I find living in this world a pain and how much I want to end myself. I want to spare them from my burden so I choose to pretend I'm okay, but I am not. For the past 25 years, I am not and I'm so sick of it.
Please just don't end it ok? All of us here fell the same. You can always talk here if you want :)
You can make a comment here just to let it out and than if you want you can delete it if you feel that it's too personal(I won't read your comment if you don't want but if you do just write it first 😃)
Hope you have a good morning/day/night :D
l think you are an army too . please don't feel that way .l can feel how painful is your life .lam also struggling throughout my life forpast 20 years .may be it is different from each other but it doesn't mean that our stuggles are invalid.yeah the phrase you are not alone is a bit kind of Gaslighting but you have to remind it is a world with 7 billion people at the end of the day we are alone .so the only one we have is ourself .so don't be hard on you because we know how gentle was our soul .why did tear that gentle cute thing apart .love yourself ( l think it is a bit hard but try with baby steps engage in moments which makes you happy .if don't move away from it .lts not your fault .the struggle now we encounter is not for permanent one day we will find a better way .if you need someone to share you thoughts you can have a touch with me .... I don't know what is happening in your life stay strong don't stumble on struggles . atleast we try .if you feel bad about want to cry cry loud then move on from that .it will fade away little by little .l don't know you should notice this comment if so please give a reply .l think atleast you feel better .
From a annonymous person who is struggling with her life 💜
I know exactly how you feel
I am planning on overdosing by Friday
@@kolfoster6926 Hey I know I can physically stop you but I can still tell you this. You are loved and even if I don't know you I can fell that we could be good friends. You should try talking to someone about your problems. You could even talk here with me if you want. I won't juge you I promise. Just plz don't do it ok? You are loved.
"We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope" - Eustace Bagge
Great quote, never expected old cranky to say such a thing!
Even for those who aren't religious it's a good quote.
Um... this is an MLK Jr. quote tho.
But how...how to accept disappointment and how to never lose hope
@@kemo.s.mabrok5800 Becuz there is always something to be learned from disappointment and time = opportunity so in the future, you're bound to meet better results. Your mindset makes all the difference here so if you have hope in yourself, you should be able to achieve more than you know.
I feel like have i lost everything i ever have, my father, my brothers, 90% of my friend, my 3 years gf, i lost hope for life, lost the fire i use to have. I dont want to end it all, but keep going hurt so much
I really needed this message today. Thank you to all at the Psych2Go team. THANK YOU! 🙏
I swear this channel posts every single time I'm not feeling well, it's very wholesome. ^^
Yeah... I don't know how is that
Trueeee
I would say “same” but they’re not posting all the time
luckily sometimes l fell like dying but this vidoes make me wanna put effort
IKR!!
'You're not alone"
God, I've heard that all my life......I don't even know what it's supposed to mean. As long as I'm alive I'll always be alone. Which is why death is the only thing I've got going for me at this point.
Absolutely Same With me. come here man 🫂
@@alejandroguevara8455 yea bro, true. I think it's something we all lack when it's something we all need
it means that there are other who feel the exact same way you do. it also means there are people out there that will be there and support you. its bullshit to say "youre not alone" when you dont have anyone in your life who's there for you. you just need to reach out. youll be surprised and comforted about what you find. i've gone through very tough things before, i know how it feels. please reach out to anyone you feel comforting, tell them what youre going through.
it means this ruclips.net/video/NNiBgaiTeq8/видео.html
It's a feel good term. But to be honest if you are always alone, you may want to figure out what you may be doing wrong and not blame it on society. Being a one man army sounds cool on paper but in reality it just ends with you on welfare and a crippling alcohol addiction a few years down the line.
Out of everything I’ve done. Having hope was the worst mistake I could have ever made.
deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html
i was just crying my heart out a few minutes before watching this and i was thinking about bullies, my Dad telling me to shut up x100 getting told off or shouted at for not knowing something or even talking. i just wanted to give everything up, but after scrolling and found this video i thought: "Well, im not perfect and i never will be, but that doesn't stop me from making a difference."
so to everyone else reading this, just remember: life is like one big roller coaster, it starts and theres ups and downs, but then, the roller coaster reaches the end and you will have wanted to enjoy it more but its already been and gone.
so please NEVER give up on yourself! people out in the world love you! and you have a whole adventure ahead of you!
thank you for spending time to read this!
the fact that people are going through the same thing doesnt make me feel better. it makes me feel worse to realize how terrible this world is and that people have to deal with the things i am, and worse. im not sad about my situation. im sad that this world is just horrible and unjust.
Very well said. All we can do is put out positivity!
Watch American Psycho edits and realize that Patrick Bateman is literally you
Just try to see the light at the end of the tunnel, we're all in this together
Thank you someone finally understands my pain this generation is draining me I hate this generation 😪 the fact my parents don’t care they’re toxic I have no friends no relationship no pets I only have god 💔
They break down because they say that what they have not done for me and raised me to this age only to see me break down and lose hope
This feeling is killing me
I needed this. I fight constant battle of depression. When I thought I'm finally becoming happier, my mind reverts back to the way it was: self sabotaging, critical, hopelessness and s**cidal, because it's how I'm used to. I find it creepy how automatic the negative thoughts becomes during times I genuinely encouraged myself. So, I'll keep this video to remind myself of better things. Thank you :D
We hope this helped!! You got this!!
I feel the same way….I’m trying to hold on, I’m trying to remember good things, but it’s hard. I always only see the negative side of things no matter how hard I try to see the positive side. I’ll start obsessing over it and thinking about it even more. (I’ve been diagnosed with OCD, so that’s probably why) Everytime I feel happy, it just goes back to being negative again. I feel so alone, I know I’m not, but still.
I can relate so much to you guys. I'm trying to find the hope to continue living again.
Unlike many here, I still have goals and dreams, but they don't really seem worth living right now. They don't make the discourage, pessimism, negativity and sadness go away.
i fight depression on the inside but i let people see i’m happy and i go lone wolf and no one seems to know that the reason i’m so violent and mean is because of self defense and because i go lone wolf so i don’t like doing stuff with people,i’m better on my own
I feel you istg, yesterday i just motivated myself to work myself into learning something regarding what i want to be, but it's just like you said, i just go back to feeling depressed, sad, self-sabotaging, lonely and suicidal. But to me unfortunately what works once won't work twice.
I recently started having suicidal thoughts which I’ve never had before in my 22 years of living this (horrible) life. I’ve always felt like the odd one out and alone even when surrounded by others. No best friend, no joy doing my hobbies anymore, socially anxious, anxious 24/7, never been in a relationship, alienated and nothing positive to add. When thinking of positive things in this world I can think of none, it just feels like this world is falling apart day by day and nobody is fixing it, nobody is even trying to fix it. Not only that but also social media that promotes toxic standards about life and beauty making people feel insecure as hell which leads to depression and comparison.
Man, what even is life? It really doesn’t have a meaning, maybe I haven’t found my meaning or purpose yet.
I 100% agree with you. This existence is shit. When my mother die, i will go too. I just cant give that huge amount of suffering when she is alive.
3:29 "reach out to your friends for support"
yeah when wanting friends is why I'm losing hope on finding some is the issue, idk about that
Can relate but hey people online can be helpful when it comes to fighting dark thoughts. I for sure can help by listening if you ever need it :)
@@KieransFanboy_Glitchy my mom always says "Its better to have one friend cause if you have them alot someone will backstab you and when you turn back you will see a group of people and you will have a problem to find who backstabbed you
Same here
rip same
Y'all have a friend here. I don't know what help I can be, but I at least want to be here for you. :)
A letter to myself:
I'm sorry for crushing down your dreams, for not working hard, for wasting time in things which don't really matter, for wasting time on people who don't hold any value in your life. You deserve better. I'll work hard to make you proud. And till then I shall not let the fire within me burn out. I'm sorry once again and I love you.
A person should value himself more than loving himselff (i think)
What is self-love? I can't find an answer to this
it's just like a popular saying
But if I value myself sometimes i say out loud to myself
i love you, girl :)
like value ratio is everything
Love you too stranger
I hope you find a path towards healing
LYSM ❤
I want to say the same to myself, honestly..
The thing is I spent most of my life being told "your just being dramatic!" So this helps so much.
Yeah..My parents tell me that often when it comes to my health. But when my health gets worse they say that I never told them about it. It's quite ironic.
The fact that we are not alone is all the more depressing, challenges are fine but to work for nothing every day is unbearable... Thank you for the video I just cant find a way to live
The hard part is that everything feels completely pointless. I don't really have any goals because I can't seem to figure out what I like or even want out of life.
Edit: Wow! I have never gotten this many likes on a comment before! It actually helps a lot just knowing that there are other people out there struggling just like me. Hang in there everyone! ❤️
I feel the same way...
Same here... at this point I don't even know what I'm doing everyday
Same here. I just live day by day. I try to do something to pass the time by playing video games. I also don't know what I want to do or if I even want to be a somebody
Yeah it’s hard
Hope ur ok:)
"My death will affect someone close" is the only reason stopping me.
Caring about "someone else" more than yourself is not really rational... And doesn't pay off...
Me to. The only season i keep on is my parents i dont think they and there magig could take it the already lost on childe dont ned two things like that in my family. Otherwise i would have kild my self two years ago. Sory for bead riding this is my second languag. have a god day
You need to find another reason to stay because I bet there is a better one. I cant say what since I have also given up but your reason is not very good because you need to put yourself first. It’s not selfish like others say, in the end you are your top priority.
I know....Me too.
Yeah, in my case - they'll be too happy for me to allow it.
the fact I have revisited this video many times says alot. I can't wait for the day I finally never wake up
Thank you so much, you saved me from suicide thank you so so much. When I was feeling despaired tonight, drinking and social media were my escape but they didn’t work naturally and my life felt fucked. I had watched so many worthless self-improvement videos but I was fighting too much and not truly living, just occupying a body. I was considering the right rope to use for strangulation because I am so hopelessly alone but I looked up “what to do when all hope is gone.” I clicked and with your lovely animations, calming music and beautiful gentle voice I am healing. You gave me courage to keep in fighting, to never ever stop despite the odds. Thank you so much ma’m.
The truth is I haven't lost hope, I have not lost motivation, I have family and friends, I am loved and people care about me. The thing that I lost is a goal in life and to be honest I can't seem to find anything that I could want for myself
I feel this, I try to do well in school because “it matters” but I can’t connect well social or emotional with people or society… I have goals an ideal career, but I don’t “want” that. It sounds more fun than other option of life, but I don’t have an ultimate goal. I feel useless and apathetic, and above all board… nothing strong enough to die, maybe a stray though, but just sheer exhaustion
I relate to this so much
OMG im going through this right now
Same man. Have a year left, hard to stay even tho haven't even reached a quarter of my life yet
exactlyyyy thats how i feel the only reason im ever living on is because of my family and friends
To anyone who feels defeated and can't afford to see a mental health professional, you are truly amazing for still being here. This video is not professional help, but definitely pulled up some inspiration for me. Thank you, Psych2Go. ❤
Its not like i cant afford to go see a mental health professional, im not more at what will come to this, how it will affect my life and how will other people think about me, how will i tell my parents who werent ever aware of that it. It scares me to even think of it even tho i know itd the right thing to do.
thanks I guess
YOU DARE INSULT THIS WONDERFUL CHANNEL THAT MAKES THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE'S DAYS?!?!?!
im not saying its professional or not, im just saying that either way its nice and heartwarming.
@@snarls3760 couldn't have said it better :‹
There is so much Cat too plow and you need to be there so live on kid
I genuinely feel like I’m just cursed. And tbh I don’t even deserve it. I do everything to escape and I end up back at square one. I have no one. I have no support, no care, no love, no one to talk to, not even someone. It’s just me. And I battle and battle and battle and I try and eventually it ends up back at square one. People who did me so dirty are excelling with everything I wish I could have. With connections, with happiness, with love, with care, with laughs and memories. I seriously don’t want to end it. But what choice do I have? What’s the end goal? I look pathetic and even think of myself as a pathetic loser for even having hope things will get better. They never do. They never have. My life is a joke. Everything that’s happening to me I just can’t explain it. Whatever is out there the universe, god, or so forth it feels like everything is against me
I hear you. It sounds like you're facing a lot right now. You're not alone in feeling this way. It's okay to seek support, and things can improve, even if it's hard to see right now.
In my 15 years of life, I have never experienced true happiness for more than a day...
" The only problem with being strong is that no one asks how you're doing." I dont know who said this quote but it hit me very hard.
Hits Hard.
Because no one really cares except as relates to themselves.
When one is strong or (shudder) happy, others are envious. When one is depressed, sad, hopeless, others feel good, except that they don’t really want to help because that would require actual empathy.
Yeah, that feels real. When you act stoic or put a neutral face forward to hide what’s within or use your pain to succeed, everyone assumes you’re doing great. No one asks how the emotionless or successful person is doing mentally. I like this quote, but only because it’s too real.
I swear that a simple "have a nice day" or "how was your day?" is the most uplifting thing if it comes from the right person. Damn, I miss it so much.
No wonder bro even my family doesn't even care and never ask myself what did I feel 😂 u are on ur own in this world
I honestly feel cursed. Every time there’s a shred of good in my life, it’s only temporary. Only to be eclipsed by negativity. And yet for some strange reason I still wake up everyday because a small part of me feels like it’ll all be okay🥲. I’m still figuring it all out, and it hurts like hell, but I’m still fighting 🙏🏾
It will work out my man, keep going
same but without the small part of me thinks it will be ok
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I feel like this every damn day, literally. Though I know from this day and age, that doesn't exist. Heck I don't even know why I am still alive when I have to deal with a lot of sh*t the moment I wake up. I always have to question my existence.
All good must come to an end, because if not everything would be oh so monotone
I haven't seen anything worth living for.
I love listening to Psych2go videos whenever I just can't get out of the bad thoughts in my head. It gets a little lighter. Thank you ❤
It's crazy how many people viewed this. Me myself searched "I don't wanna live anymore" and find this. It's not like I wanna die but iam tired of dealing with past trauma
,forcing myself to make progress and lack of appreciation for my progress but cant blame anyone iam the one who only knows iam struggling mentally.
Virtual hugs for everyone who reads this. We can overcome this ❤🤗
I understand what you mean. Trauma is tough to deal with on a regular basis. All we're left with is coping methods to control that pain. In the end, we must keep fighting, despite how exhausting it may be.
Bro we are literally same :(
The most ridiculous thing is that this video on "losing hope" is on a channel with over 10 million subs. Nothing like someone who's enjoying more success than we ever will telling us to have hope.
*hugging you back*
I know how you feel,hope you're ok*hugs*
I’m 31 other than my mother I have no reason to live. I stay up at night and watch videos like this to literally keep myself alive.
hey man if you want to vent without being judged, i can leave my email address and we can talk, just say yes and ill put it here for you
You don't work or have a job dude?
@@javierpacheco8234 not the time mate, not good timing
I feel like that because I am almost 50. Ageism is real. You have about 15 years in which you can change everything. It's too late for me now. I hope you don't squander this time...I did and it is my biggest regret.
@@jm7514 Its never too late bud
It's just never been the same since my dad died. It feels like an endless circle of guilt, hopelessness and all those negative aspects. I'm finding it hard to even find motivation for most things
Losing a loved one is really tough. It's normal to feel a mix of emotions, like guilt and hopelessness. Taking things one step at a time and leaning on support from others can help, even if finding motivation is hard right now. You're not alone in this.
@@imagenotfound_xd How is saying "You're not alone in this" supposed to help anyways? Does it give some kinda hope there's someone out there suffering the same fate as I am? Am I supposed to do better than them? Or maybe become friends?
Whatever it means, it clearly won't make the life shine like a bloom.
i lost hope in myself i just feel like i m not human anymore i have no emotions no soul it s just like everything is fading away i have no life no friends no family im always alone i dont even remember the last time i was happy in i lost everything i was a straight away in the last year and i know i jsut can t study i want to but i cant i just find it too hard for me i dont wanna live anymore i just want to have an eternal sleep where i cant wake up but i dont wanna die either because i feel like i m not a good person i dont know what to do i m just lost and hopeless i have no positive idea i m full of crap i just lost hope in me (i m writing this while i m crying for myself and how it becomes)
The feeling of "It is not that I want to die, I just don't see a reason to live" was with me for a long time. Try changing something in your life step by step, it should help. 🙂
Ah. That’s the phrase lookin for and feeling. Idk how to say what I feel but thanks random person.
Same that’s how I feel :(
Hope ur doing better now 🤍
@@lovelynikki_346 nice name c: or delicious name
@@Shelby-rh8jz ty lol ☺️
@@lovelynikki_346 Ayy good thing u happy, seeing as ur here watching the same vid, life prolly has no meaning for now, but maybe… just maybe. U’ll find along the way, find a meaning or someone who’ll give u motivation and give u a reason to live life and give u hope. And ur welcome, I just thought about food when I saw ur name
Person with severe depression and anxiety here. It’s just gotten to the point where I’m too embarrassed to even show emotion in front of people. I can’t even walk to the pantry to get a snack by myself.
Oh, that's sad to know dear!
But do you know your exact reason for depression??
Like what makes you so sad about in life, eh??
@@0rhythm_divine0 sorry for being late on replying but its severe bullying
If you are bullied severely have a go at them the best defence is offence so make every time they bully sting and even bully THEM if you could exploit anything.
@@RayanOmar-fs4be Thanks for the advice.
Any time dude just stay alert.👍
I have lost all hope in the universe, in people, in humanity.. life is always too hard. It always kicks you in the teeth every chance it gets. This is literal hell. My life is my punishment and the only way out is to leave
Thank you. I needed this kindness, though, a pleasant lie.
The only reason I'm still here is to not disappoint my friends and family by leaving them :/
yup, same
Same
Exactly
Mine is my religion it forbids suicide so I won't do it but that doesn't help me from feeling any better in myself
i recommend you guys listen to a song called On Gp by Death Grips. the lyrics are very relatable and it has helped me get a better comfort in how i feel about myself
I don't know why, but these words guide me through each day:
*"Never underestimate a person who has nothing to lose."*
edit: best comment i ever wrote, 1k likes
another edit: man. i wrote this maybe 3-6 months ago, and people are still appreciating this comment. people who are reading this may be suicidal, or is just tired of life. i wish to that anyone who reads this finds their meaning, their peace. people are wondering “what is the meaning of life?” well. we already found it. its what we make of it.
If you get underestimated... thank the people who underestimated you because they gave you the energy to KEEP GOING!
@@thuyluong5925 i try but it only gets worse
You gave me quite a boost, thanks
i needed this
f e a r m e
Not everyone make that type of usefull videos in RUclips but @Psych2Go you're really doing a great work.
Thank you for being here for me. I’ve recently been in a break up with an amazing person and it was hard to grasp that they didn’t want to be with me anymore. I’ve recently been to some pretty dark places but your content has helped me so much
deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html
I think that sometimes everyone can use hope in their life (for example not giving up. Fighting for yourself, and your future) "you dont have to do it alone" even if you are alone. Does not mean, That you cant do it. there are always people that are in bad situations. But if you feel alone sometimes or sad just think i will get through this! "Dont give up" cause it will get better even if you think it isn't. I know you can do this
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_"You're not alone", "Try again", "Your spark will eventually return", "Reach out to your friends for support"_
Videos like this just make me angry because I've heard it all before. Incorrectly assuming we have safety nets, resources, and friends/family to bounce back only makes me sink deeper.
Hi! If that its not the way to ask or talk, What can I do or ask if that doesn't help? I don't mean to start a fight or sound rude, I'm actually curious and it will be so helpful to know, I have to many friends with this type of problems and I want to help them, Can I do it or I can't make anything?
Finally. Somebody gets it.
Exactly what I always think , may be the world is different out there.
The clichés are so eye roll inducing. Makes me want to just yank them out.
Real
"Dying is easy, living is harder."
Dying is not that easy actually.. try doing something about your life ;), you always matter to someone ( think about your mom)
@@dishansri9 really? My mom does physical abuse to me..
@@dishansri9 idk man literally everyone dies, that seems pretty easy to me.
@@dishansri9 Pfft give me a bunch of medicine, I can do this in my sleep.
@@frozen8477 yall this is just a hamilton quote lmao
Rejection hurts so much, i can't try again.
Me too
@@ProphetessGloryOladunjoye They always say that you have to keep going, that you have to try again, but those people seem not to understand the magnitude of the pain you can feel when they tell you that you are not enough. Maybe all we need is to rest a bit. I'm going through a tough time and I imagine you are too. I don't know you, but I feel empathy for you and I believe you are worth it.
watched this and started to cry uncontrollably. I always feel like I'm on a wire. I try to hang on but the more I do, the more worn out it gets. I've told people how I feel and only ONE person actually wanted to help me. The one person who I barely know.
Life is kind of like a swing, you swing high but while swinging you may lower.
At least you have the one. Just have one person to help is all that is needed.