80k In Credit Card Debt!? - Til Debt Do Us Part - See It, Want It, Buy It
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Like many other young couples today, Candice & Clint want it all, and they want it now. They’re both guilty of the typical spending crimes - financing multiple cars, eating out, electronics, entertaining, purchasing home furnishings and over extending themselves on a mortgage they can’t afford. But what sets them apart from other young couples is the sheer amount of debt- $80,000- which they’ve racked up in five short years. Now, the debt is threatening their ability to start a family. Candice feels powerless to stop her husband’s spending. Unless Gail can get fun-loving Clint to focus on what’s really important, these childhood sweethearts could end up apart. -
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Ladies, this is the loser our mothers warn us about.
Why? He makes her happy or is she kidnapped or held against her will? Get it¿ what makes you happy isn't the same for others. Learn that and you'll be better handling situations you don't understand:)
Amen.
She doesn’t need a baby, she already has a child on the hands.
She’s a sweetheart. I hope she saw the light and moved on.
Yeah, if my husband was going to strip clubs, he’d have a lot of time to continue doing that as a divorced man. Incredibly disrespectful!
She was making all the sacrifices, and he was getting all the fun stuff - and that imbalance continued throughout the challenges. She gave up her car, all he gave up was the bike that he never rode anyway. Her extra job was cleaning toilets, his was doing "bad boy" tattoos. I know they can only show so much in a 20-minute format, but I'm surprised Gail didn't even mention that this kind of inequality within a household is a recipe for resentment over the long term.
Not to mention the strip clubs
Nnytevmkk😮😂z zzby
In the end, he came a long way. You can see it in his demeanor and words. He got it.
I agree but at the same time, he didn't ask her. And she somehow chose to have an ugly old robe and cleaning toilets because she thinks she doesn't deserve better.
@@mariiafilatova3979 I think you hit the nail on the head. most women don’t believe we deserve better. I was definitely one of those women but not anymore.
Did anyone else notice that the wife sold her primary mode of transportation while the husband sold a toy that he rarely used? I watched through the end and hope he continued to grow up. Men are not projects women should think they can fix.
She is making all of the sacrifices. If she sacrifices her dream of a child she will be very resentful, and childless. He will string her along and one heartbreaking day she will realize its too late.
@@debbiemohekey1509 So let me ask this question - him selling the bike is not a sacrifice? I think you'll find that's incorrect, ergo she's not making ALL the sacrifices like you said, she is however sacrificing more.
Also got to keep in mind in the beginning of the video they said the value of his car at that time was estimated around $15k while he owed over $30k. The point was to come up with more money, selling a car that was severely underwater was not the way to do it versus a car and a toy that was paid off. This will eventually get them to sell the other car
The fact that she married him despite him being infertile. When men have passed on women who were too 'old' and not fertile. Women sacrifice way too much for men, who don't do the same
Also she picked up a second job while he "had leads" aka no extra job 🙄 I don't see this marriage lasting long
My ex was like Clint…which is why he is my EX
Good for you! 🙌🏻
I don’t think Clint is worth bothering about I think she should dump him and move on
Why? He makes her happy or is she kidnapped or held against her will? Get it¿ what makes you happy isn't the same for others. Learn that and you'll be better handling situations you don't understand:)
I hope she didn't have kids with him. He's a child himself
That's cheap bro, especially for what you're getting in return. Someone who will most likely love you, give you motivation in life and probably take care of you once you age. No is 30k 40k still expensive bro???¿¿¿
I was $30k in credit card debt 13 years ago, decided to change my spending ways and paid off all my debt. Now I have double six figures plus some saved up and continue to save. Don't buy things you don't need and buy used. Hard work and determination pays off!
Smart guy :)
These women marrying these 20 year old man-babies 😂
whomever is responsible for posting these i wish u nothing but health and happiness!!! ❤
Best show ever!
When an episodes open clips have the man lying on the sofa with the remote while his wife is looking through paperwork, it's not a surprise to find out that she's making all of the sacrifices and doing all of the real work while he's an immature man-toddler.
I love this show but this is the saddest episode. I hope she woke up and left before it was too late. He’s too selfish to be a dad. 😢
This one was fine. They just needed to grow up. The worst episode was ,were The Husband was verbally abusive and wouldn't try to make their situation better. They didn't get a check at the end..
The saddest one was the nasty guy who was proved 'right'
@@ruthirwin8222 thats the one I meant. Argued fiercely and mean in front of the kids with his wife.
What woman sells her car when she's about to get pregnant?
@@nataliefontane Well, she isn’t about to get pregnant. It can take multiple rounds of IVF which they can’t afford....nor could they support a baby.
How did they qualify for a condo if they’re $80K in debt??
pre-2008
They're in Canada.
@@Ink30 Canada.
It's always a couple with a guy or a girl that buys frivolous stuff. Its never about what to do if you only make 30k a year, your spouse is too sick to work and you burned through your savings and racked up credit card debt paying for their cancer treatments. This is an unrealistic show that depicts all financial problems as issues of personal responsibility.
I like how she brought up being able to afford a child, cause most don't consider that, and then get the state to pay for it... taxpayers money.
Oh honey, of he's acting like this, be glad you don't have a kid with him. He won't be any help.
At 12:59--- How interesting that even Gail had to admit that she couldn't get their budget to balance! That admittance alone was a red flag!
Loved it. They started as boy-man & girl-woman and really adulted up to a Man & Woman relationship financially.
He don't want a wife he wants a mommy
Clint is cute. I don't think he's ever been told no. 🤮 AND HE FOUND AN ENABLER!!!
Sort of looks like a younger George Clooney!
@@restingsmirkface gross. Don’t let him hear that, it’ll go straight to his head
He should have sold more stuff, instead of her sacrificing so much. He was the one with the problem.
@@TheCmovius she was the enabler.
@@Ana-rb7ws he was the one with the spending problem…
I wish there were updates to these shows! I would watch all of them.
Clint seems spoiled like as a child he always got what he wanted and never worked for anything 😂😂😂😂 like he's never gonna learn the value of hard work
I really didn't hold out hope for this couple because of the big man-child that is the husband; but I was pleasantly surprised by how they turned things around. He actually grew up in the few weeks it took to make this episode. I really hope they stuck to it.
How? He did not sacrifice anything while she sacrificed having a car, being a mother, and working weekends. He didn't make any changes
So happy to watch a "new" episode. I had no hope for Clint in the beginning. I noticed they sold her car, lol. No thought to get out of his ridiculous loan. I guess they were too upside down on that. I wondered if they considered backing out of the new condo after seeing how long it will take them to get out to of debt. I hope they're still together and were able to have a baby.
What she just said about the IVF really got to me because that's the same reasoning I gave my mother on why I don't want to go through it. one AND my family is looking at me like I'm nuts because they think the debts worth it😬
If they save $2000 each year ($170 montly) they can pay it in cash in 5 years. They're young, can have the baby before 35. Then save that amount for a baby/kid fund until 18 to cover his expenses an save for college and is really doable.
@Jessica Smith if you don't mind my asking, how do you boost your fertility naturally?
@Jessica Smith 30 is no age where you have to boost your fertility!
To have or not have children is the most personal decision that a couple can make. It's no one else's business. Stand your ground for what you know is right for you. The only thing worse than wanting children and not having them is to not want children and be pressured by family and society into having them.
@@solidstate9451 Read the book It S aaa tarts With the Egg
Imagine how Clint will feel about the strip club if he has a daughter
She is already on the pole..🤣
Hey, gotta stay on budget lol
In a way it's good she can't get pregnant, because imagine him as a father! She'd have two babies. He's so scared of being with himself, he fills the emptiness of his immaturity with stuff. And strippers.
She is married to a child and more like his mom.
Remember when Gail used to knock their heads against each other? Like literally? I wish she had done that with this couple. They needed it! LOL 😂
I will never understand buy now pay later furniture.
How about buy now pay later babies?
@@drewconway7135 Never pay for babies.
@@tmm6884 Some people cannot have biological children, though.
@drew the IVF is different. Some people cannot have biological children.
@@blue-wb8yn And some people can’t afford to
The “shocker” sticker on his bike tells me EVERYTHING I need to know about that dude. Gross
They should have sold his dumb Chrysler 300 and kept her car, using the loan consolidation to cover the gap between its value and what he owed. Her car had 0% interest on its financing.
The ex would say we never have any money and I'd reply sit down and I'll tell you where the money goes. He said he didn't want to know. I left him and took the car and the payment book with me. Then he complained I left him and left all the bills. I wasn't going to pay for a place I wasn't living in. He just had living expenses and his car payment. This was in the mid '80s and we didn't have any credit cards. Thankfully I didn't have kids with him.
Getting married young is not an excuse to be dumb with money. Your basic needs to be met first then if you have money left over you can save it for something you want later.
Gail, get your behind down to Australia, Ive learnt and passed on all your money tips and life strategies to my own kids. PS.I love that laugh
She’s retired. All these shows are from early 2000’s.
This is peak early 2000s
What the heck with these people? 80 k in debt is no laughing matter. Are you a little kid? You are the government spending any time anywhere. This is nuts. Neal
100 k is in the top 10 % of all workers make. You need some therapy now. I don't have kids but have had 4 little brothers. They are still doing great. Bet they are to selfish to go on a budget. Neal
I could not honestly love a man who goes to the strip club. Period.
Yesssss!!! My god! Yesssss
This guy is the worst.
Enjoy your spinsterhood
It's a form of infidelity and destroys respect.
@@drewconway7135 I’m happily married, thank you very much. To a man who’s never gone to a strip club.
@@michelleolivas6811 EXACTLY
Babies are so expensive so make sure you have some savings. And yes the savings will be depleted fast but it will be better than using credit.
"you are a man-child" 🤣
80k in debt they make 90k a year combined. All he has to do is adjust his spending for at least 2 years if you want to fix it and keep it fixed
The most insane thing about this is how the f--k it can be legal to over spend so much money.
Why didnt they froze their credits after they spent their first 30 000 dollars?
She's desperate AF for putting up with him.
Why? He makes her happy or is she kidnapped or held against her will? Get it¿ what makes you happy isn't the same for others. Learn that and you'll be better handling situations you don't understand:)
There is nothing in this world that is impossible, with the exception that these two are still together.
Wait.... did we just watch the same episode? I didn't have much hope for him during the intro but I thought they were very sincere and worked hard.
Caught the "two in the pink, one in the stink" sticker on his bike. Stay classy, Clint.
Best comment here
What does it mean? 🥵
@@MrsEJV since I didn’t know, I had to look it up. Best you do the same. There’s no way to explain it without an R rating. 😬
🤣🤣🤣
I was gonna say lol why does the cam keep zooming in on it lol
I really liked this couple! Clint is learning, and his heart is in the right place. Plus, he clearly loves Candace and she him. He's not a bad guy.
Yey...Clint turned it around!! I hope they get what they want.
Me too!
I wonder how this turned out. I hope he ran away & got her baby. 😭❤️
I didn't watch the video. I will admit that, but just by what I saw, it reinforced my decision to never marry.
She’s always sacrificing
She should’ve made him dinner and go out and fed him because that’s not part of living in a car nobody’s going to make you a hot meal
“Hell bent on having a baby” - such a rude and insensitive comment.
It was the reality she needed! Better than bring a baby into this world that you can't afford and suffering daily.
He is really selfish…. A narcissistic personality
Why? He makes her happy or is she kidnapped or held against her will? Get it¿ what makes you happy isn't the same for others. Learn that and you'll be better handling situations you don't understand:)
Absolutely love the ending of how the shift in mindsets can to to any situation, very well done you guys, best wishes going forward in your debt free journey, Love and blessings ❤️🙏🏽
Clint wasn’t really a responsible man in the beginning but he looked sincere and made changes, unlike Guy from another episode who gambled, liar, big ego, manipulative and really thought that the challenges is not helpful and not realistic.
I absolutely love this couple.
This show gives us a glimpse into what is really going on. Thank you Gail.
I married a divorced man who had a financially irresponsible spouse. That taught him well about money management!
Oh for heavens sake there are many homeless people out there who virtually live in their cars. He would not survive any more than a couple of days.
It’s game over. They haven’t seen the writing on the wall yet.
I love these shows and Gail. Thanks whoever is posting!
I'm thirty seconds in and I'm hoping he has to sell some of this stuff. Sometimes the poor resale value of something is the thing that stops me purchasing it in the first place :P Whatever works!
This is a couple I am cheering for 👏👏
This couple did great Thank you Gail!
I love this show. When this show came out
Beautiful couple ❤❤❤❤❤ good luck with everything!
These shows must be 20 years old!
Yes early 2000 and 80k was a lot of debt back then
@@Bz0480k is STILL a lot of debt. I don’t know anyone who has that kind of debt.
This wife laughs like she has a secret inheritance somewhere that he's never going to touch. At least I hope for her that that is the case!
Why? He makes her happy or is she kidnapped or held against her will? Get it¿ what makes you happy isn't the same for others. Learn that and you'll be better handling situations you don't understand:)
I hope they are still together and doing good, this episode came out a long time ago. Hopefully they got the family they wanted.
It’s all good as long as they move forward carrying the lessons they got from these challenges. Learning to forgive yourselves from past mistakes is one of the keys to succeed. I hope they’re doing better now.
sounds like he wants a mommie...
Does not look like Clint gave up much but he did make changes
I really REALLY adore this couple!❤
They were awesome! He had a complete attitude and heart change. She had a reality check as far as having a baby. Good for them! This was my favorite couple so far.
I laughed so much with this couple, happy they did it well, they were so friendly and honest. lol the egg challenge was so good.
A married guy goes to a strip joint?
That creek is a great metaphor for debt.
Sooooo curious to know if these two are still together
What a pathetic guy. He is obviously using buying things as a why to cope with stress/trauma or he just never grew up..
I really liked this episode!! Thanks for posting it!
Lovely show, fun to watch..
Love these shows
GREAT episode. Good people.
I appreciate your approach to teaching, to my understanding this just proves how much we need an edge as investors because playing the market like everyone else just isn't good enough. I was quite unsure about investing in this current market and at the same time I felt like it's the best time to get started. on the market.
I have made quite a stride investing on my own but I am aware of the benefits of consulting with a professional but haven't found one yet.
I would recommend you get started with a professional broker that will trade for you while you get the profit.
@@robertwoodward6089 Do you have any idea of any good broker I can start with that is trust worthy?
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@Robert Woodward ow! I’m shocked you mentioned Cheryl Lynne financials, she is also my current broker.
Seems these two are on the right track now.
Omg..the dude is completely clueless and useless..he’s been done over by these creditors who are having there way with him because of very poor financing planning and living beyond his means..fleecing him
Dry whilst he plays with his stuff 😮 ridiculous 😢 great that Gail completely wiped the floor with them
Both 😮
Wow love it
Bring thos show back !!
I hope this family is doing well. They both love each other and yes, sometimes we do first think later, we are all humans after all. But this couple are ready to work. And I love the way they look at each other 😍I just think that like most of us sometimes we need kick in an ass in right direction
Is this dude living with his mommy?
I liked this couple. I hope they make it.
I would have balked at eating a black egg. That was an oddity I thought should have been left out.
I think that until he grows up, you won’t have a good relationship.
If I was her dad... he'd be in big trouble.
She married a child
I watched 2 minutes and stopped. He's so shallow, so immature, so selfish. I can't watch the rest.
That's cheap bro, especially for what you're getting in return. Someone who will most likely love you, give you motivation in life and probably take care of you once you age. No is 30k 40k still expensive bro???¿¿¿
i have over 50 hats, 30 watches...im a huge comic nerd so have bunch of different ones. but....im not in debt lol
Adult child with new Mama