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Just was on a coffee date where even I was bored with myself and got friend zoned after. I always come back to your videos to break down where areas in my life, game could be better. Your videos remind me to have fun out there and not take myself too seriously.
Your response to your crush in middle school was exactly the same response i gave when i was asked out in middle school! I thought it was trickery because i used to being messed around with and didn't think i would be picked.
great talk here. somehow it's drilled into boys, I've felt it, maybe along with some instinct in men to find steps 1. 2. 3. get the one girl then that's all. there's so much more to life then the pressure to be that way. success with women, along with other important endeavors, is hugely dependent on always keeping the freedom to walk away, always. just because you got the girl doesn't mean you'll keep her if you can't walk away at any time. rejected? what a best attitude to have that it's her loss. guess what, now you can level up, upgrade, be with someone enthusiastic to be with you rather than someone you have to keep overcoming rejection from 😎
What`s Jeremy meeks got to do with this? Meeks has the jawline , blue eyes and all those looks that women find attractive, and therefore no game is needed if you look like meeks, you can grind n hustle all you want but you will never get the kind of women that meeks gets, if you are not attractive to women first of all
@@ScavengerPestIncel , Did Jeremy meeks use game to get his woman or did the woman see his mugshot on tv n went crazy about him and then she threw herself at meeks after his mugsot went viral ?
@@fredm2113 He's glowing with confidence in his famous mug shot. Game can teach you how to take pics like that. Angles, smiling with ur eyes, posing, attitude, having the X factor.
@@ScavengerPestIncel that's a prison mugshot, Did he take some game classes and lessons to prepare himself for when he goes to prison to take mugshots like that ? he also received a few offers from fashion designers who were interested in his look to advertise their clothes, was it also game that made him achieve that ? do you think you can run game on fashion designers to give you a modeling job if you do not have the right look for their style?
Todd, you gotta make a video that comprehensively debunks "the Black Pill" using your 20+ years of experience as a dating coach and everything you've seen.
There already is an interview out there he did of this guy in a Vegas hotel who is a male model that pretty much _confirms_ all black pill 😂.. It‘s just what it is: if you don‘t have the genetics it‘s gonna be extremely hard and grindy and even if you better your game it will just get you more of what you can already get but never what you _actually_ want..
I've been told and (now) know (and accepted) i'm quite good looking. Many times i'm more atttracted to girl next door types instead of the stereotypcal 'beauties.' The amount of times i've shown interest in a girl of this type ( repeated eye contact etc. ) in recurring situations ( the gym , a cashier at my regular shop, etc. ) and her looking clearly attracted in return , without me actually approaching and talking to her the first time this takes place , but counting on doing so the next time we encounter each other again , then being surprised she avoids me because she is so insecure about an attractive guy actually making the effort to focus on her again , while she thought she had been rejected the first time around , i can't count anymore. I used to think i had been wrong about them being attracted to me the first time , and now was bothering them , so i gave up. Now i realize it's because of what Todd is talking about. 15:18-15:58
One could make the argument that you should seek rejection. Just because you get a number or Instagram doesn't mean you will do what your ultimate goal is, slamming cheeks. If you can weed out the ones that will waste your time that would would more effective than going for ones who are only playing along to be polite or avoid conflict
faark! for nostalgia sake I've been just watching videos of old coaches from pua days just to see what they are upto, I haven't seen any of these dudes in more than 7-8 years....Tood is rocking that Russell Crowe look!... keep on bro...
Sometimes some women have just taken themselves out of the dating pool for personal reasons. I've personally have done so to work on personal goals and it had nothing to do with any guy.
I personally don't recommend introductions... I would rather open, then display value, and then when they realize you're high value (hopefully) allow her to qualify herself to flip the script, compliment that you're impressed by her efforts and then introduce yourself, introduction should have a reason, ie. You starting to like the conversation. Move to evaluation to further the convo and create Narratives that there's a possibility to grab drinks/coffee, close by asking her phone number... Each step must contain a valid reason for her to comply... It would be weird for her if she doesn't.
Ive approached around 1000 girls and i dont really remember any of the conversations...but my success rate isnt great. out of all 1000, its been about 3 hookups, 7 instant dates (2 of them being hookups) and around 75 instagrams with girls that never meet up. Ive passed the point of being anxious and I have a routine, make sure its woman to man, close every time but i am not sure if tis worth it for me.
@@TheAdvide they were definitely hotter than most of my matches but it took SO long to get there and now ive been in a dry spell from cold approaching for months since fall. it seems teh attractiveness is up for cold approaching but the ratio of success is so bad. in dating apps, at least you know they are single, not lesbians (I get that rejection a lot in brooklyn with hipster girls) and they find you attractive.
@@ifeelhalfnaked484 I've gotten compliments from approaching, had girls say it made their day, how they never got approached like this...etc but I feel another big thing could be my height. I'm 5'6
Hit the gym so you know you're the fucking shit, honestly. Hitting the gym changed my life, not just with girls but, changed everything about me. So that was Todd's second point, and that's how you do it. I got rejected by girls and it didn't even bother me. Not straight up rejections but, you know how girls are, and honestly, it's almost always not my fault why I got rejected. Recent ones are one girl had a boyfriend and I was too wreckless when I texted her lol, but she did like me. Other girl was because her friend didn't like me because... I was "wreckless" in a sense of how I don't pull any punches when I talk. I'm always considerate though with how I speak, so fuck that. Got both of their numbers too. And I'm almost always attracted to these conservative girls when I'm a very long-haired, well-built rock 'n' roller who honestly stands out without even trying. Hate that it sounds arrogant but, it's true. But at the end of the day, I know I'm the shit. And those girls really enjoyed my company because I'm just enjoying myself every time. It's all about being a beacon of fun around people depending on how your energy is.
Dating is one of those areas where placebo works. If you think it will help, it will help. If you think going to the gym will help, by all means go to the gym. For me, I'd rather be paid to do physical exercise, instead of me paying to do it. That's why I have hobbies / interests that will earn me money in the long term that involve physical activity.
@@ifeelhalfnaked484 security guard on the street hahah? In shopping centers you can just slowly walk up and do a shoulder tap. but you need to stop her from what she is doing
Thanks for generosity, brilliant content as always. I've been curious for a long time about your date of birth, I'm into zodiac signs, and I wonder if my theory about your sign is correct based on your personality and style of game that is by far the most resonant with mine among all coaches.
I think different cultures around the globe play a (big) part here. Where I live, it's borderline inconceivable to approach a random girl on the streets just like that. Best case scenario, if she's in a good mood, you just get a "mild" giggling rejection on the spot and that's that. Worst case scenario, you're getting told off, she makes a scene and you're called a stalker-weirdo....or some buff guy shows up minutes later. Even men agree with this, not just girls
What would you recommend for somebody who is very sensitive to rejection to the point they get upset and start attacking themselves with self hate? Is that therapy territory?
Stop taking yourself so seriously. Stop taking your life so seriously. You'll be dead by 2130 - the year, not the time in the evening. That's a blink of the eye in history of the universe terms. Nothing you do or say matters much. Lighten up. Enjoy life whilst you have it.
Without trying as in: became world champion for 4 times, got 300 million $+ net worth, created a business literally "loveboy"-ing women. Plus, Todd is giving practical advice, Andrew's only practical advice for an approach was like hey I'm Andrew what's your name?
Wanted to show you a little behind-the-scenes look at the recent program and event in Hollywood. If you'd like to be notified when we do free events in your city, head over to www.toddvdating.com and enter your email. And while you're there, there's also a ton of great free content.
IMAX quality of this video, this is 5th time I am watching it, soo good. Camera, lights, backgrounds, everything top tier.
Todd is an alien, there are no other explanations. Absolutely brilliant video, Todd is definitely killing it!
Rejection lasts a day….regret last a lifetime. Remember that Fellas and you’ll be just fine.
cope. enough rejection can take away your self confidence easily
Just was on a coffee date where even I was bored with myself and got friend zoned after. I always come back to your videos to break down where areas in my life, game could be better. Your videos remind me to have fun out there and not take myself too seriously.
Your response to your crush in middle school was exactly the same response i gave when i was asked out in middle school! I thought it was trickery because i used to being messed around with and didn't think i would be picked.
same
Todd The Messiah
Wow I never even thought about 80% of the things Todd just taught us. THese little details are crazy!
Todd attitude and energy was particularly wholesome on this video. Love it!!!!
great talk here. somehow it's drilled into boys, I've felt it, maybe along with some instinct in men to find steps 1. 2. 3. get the one girl then that's all. there's so much more to life then the pressure to be that way. success with women, along with other important endeavors, is hugely dependent on always keeping the freedom to walk away, always. just because you got the girl doesn't mean you'll keep her if you can't walk away at any time. rejected? what a best attitude to have that it's her loss. guess what, now you can level up, upgrade, be with someone enthusiastic to be with you rather than someone you have to keep overcoming rejection from 😎
John Silver and Anna Jay thumb is hilarious!
Keep going strong Todd, masterclass material.
"Anything is possible don't ever give up. Keep grinding, keep hustling, shoot for your dreams." -Jeremy Meeks
What`s Jeremy meeks got to do with this? Meeks has the jawline , blue eyes and all those looks that women find attractive, and therefore no game is needed if you look like meeks, you can grind n hustle all you want but you will never get the kind of women that meeks gets, if you are not attractive to women first of all
@@fredm2113 That's a limiting belief. Looks don't matter, it's all about game. Just have confidence, bro.
@@ScavengerPestIncel , Did Jeremy meeks use game to get his woman or did the woman see his mugshot on tv n went crazy about him and then she threw herself at meeks after his mugsot went viral ?
@@fredm2113 He's glowing with confidence in his famous mug shot. Game can teach you how to take pics like that. Angles, smiling with ur eyes, posing, attitude, having the X factor.
@@ScavengerPestIncel that's a prison mugshot, Did he take some game classes and lessons to prepare himself for when he goes to prison to take mugshots like that ? he also received a few offers from fashion designers who were interested in his look to advertise their clothes, was it also game that made him achieve that ? do you think you can run game on fashion designers to give you a modeling job if you do not have the right look for their style?
Currently in college! Approaching girls every week and had an amazing approach today in the library.
Todd, you gotta make a video that comprehensively debunks "the Black Pill" using your 20+ years of experience as a dating coach and everything you've seen.
Todd says that looks matter a lot. If you are disgustingly ugly, crippled etc, then no amount of game can compensate for that
There already is an interview out there he did of this guy in a Vegas hotel who is a male model that pretty much _confirms_ all black pill 😂.. It‘s just what it is: if you don‘t have the genetics it‘s gonna be extremely hard and grindy and even if you better your game it will just get you more of what you can already get but never what you _actually_ want..
@@DelasVClink?
The black pill can't be stopped, deal with it!
@@huntermogs It should be somewhere on his channel, too lazy to look it up though. It's an older video where Todd was a bit younger.
I've been told and (now) know (and accepted) i'm quite good looking. Many times i'm more atttracted to girl next door types instead of the stereotypcal 'beauties.' The amount of times i've shown interest in a girl of this type ( repeated eye contact etc. ) in recurring situations ( the gym , a cashier at my regular shop, etc. ) and her looking clearly attracted in return , without me actually approaching and talking to her the first time this takes place , but counting on doing so the next time we encounter each other again , then being surprised she avoids me because she is so insecure about an attractive guy actually making the effort to focus on her again , while she thought she had been rejected the first time around , i can't count anymore. I used to think i had been wrong about them being attracted to me the first time , and now was bothering them , so i gave up. Now i realize it's because of what Todd is talking about. 15:18-15:58
the only way to not do it is… to not do it.
One could make the argument that you should seek rejection. Just because you get a number or Instagram doesn't mean you will do what your ultimate goal is, slamming cheeks. If you can weed out the ones that will waste your time that would would more effective than going for ones who are only playing along to be polite or avoid conflict
todds the man ....period!
faark! for nostalgia sake I've been just watching videos of old coaches from pua days just to see what they are upto, I haven't seen any of these dudes in more than 7-8 years....Tood is rocking that Russell Crowe look!... keep on bro...
Todd is peacocking with those pink shoes
13:24 very true 💯
Sometimes some women have just taken themselves out of the dating pool for personal reasons. I've personally have done so to work on personal goals and it had nothing to do with any guy.
Johnny Hungy and Anna Jayy in the thumb brought me here LOL
Todd, you are incredible
great points! thank you.
I personally don't recommend introductions... I would rather open, then display value, and then when they realize you're high value (hopefully) allow her to qualify herself to flip the script, compliment that you're impressed by her efforts and then introduce yourself, introduction should have a reason, ie. You starting to like the conversation. Move to evaluation to further the convo and create Narratives that there's a possibility to grab drinks/coffee, close by asking her phone number... Each step must contain a valid reason for her to comply... It would be weird for her if she doesn't.
Using a screen shot of John Silver from BTE with Anna Jay made me click 😂
I heard this affirmation the other day: "There is no rejection, only redirection."
Agreed. All rejection is simply feedback.
Yeah the girl that rejects you simply made the observation for you that the two of you aren't compatible.
Ive approached around 1000 girls and i dont really remember any of the conversations...but my success rate isnt great.
out of all 1000, its been about 3 hookups, 7 instant dates (2 of them being hookups) and around 75 instagrams with girls that never meet up.
Ive passed the point of being anxious and I have a routine, make sure its woman to man, close every time but i am not sure if tis worth it for me.
@@lonewolftrucker3955 that's def not my experience. I've had MUCH better luck online dating
@@TheAdvide they were definitely hotter than most of my matches but it took SO long to get there and now ive been in a dry spell from cold approaching for months since fall. it seems teh attractiveness is up for cold approaching but the ratio of success is so bad. in dating apps, at least you know they are single, not lesbians (I get that rejection a lot in brooklyn with hipster girls) and they find you attractive.
What a waste of time
Too low. Watch your inner game you've to be aware of your negative energy and not spam approaching
@@ifeelhalfnaked484 I've gotten compliments from approaching, had girls say it made their day, how they never got approached like this...etc but I feel another big thing could be my height. I'm 5'6
Thank you
Tried online dating sites and I cannot find someone in my hometown. I have no idea why. It's so demoralizing
I’ve once said to a girl “My name is Todd”🤦♂️
Dope Hot pink shoes Todd!!
He finally got new black t shirt 😎😎😎
My biggest problem is fear
Hey Todd, where can I find the communitu meetup events calendar ? Thanks!
I clicked on the video, because Johnny Hungie, and Anna Jay were in the thumbnail.
can you make a video explaining game using poker analogies just like you did with the efficient frontier video?
todd, how old are you? i need some hope today. to know i have time to get better. thanks
He is 40 or turning 40
He mentioned turning 54 a couple months ago
@@Fred-zt5ky where did he mention that?
@@skeptic3045 he is not 54 lol, dude is baiting you. Todd is in his 30s
Started game in college. Has 20 years of experience teaching. You do the math
"In set, do not be a perfectionist.."
"..just trust yourself, and do good enough!"
Hit the gym so you know you're the fucking shit, honestly. Hitting the gym changed my life, not just with girls but, changed everything about me. So that was Todd's second point, and that's how you do it. I got rejected by girls and it didn't even bother me. Not straight up rejections but, you know how girls are, and honestly, it's almost always not my fault why I got rejected. Recent ones are one girl had a boyfriend and I was too wreckless when I texted her lol, but she did like me. Other girl was because her friend didn't like me because... I was "wreckless" in a sense of how I don't pull any punches when I talk. I'm always considerate though with how I speak, so fuck that. Got both of their numbers too. And I'm almost always attracted to these conservative girls when I'm a very long-haired, well-built rock 'n' roller who honestly stands out without even trying. Hate that it sounds arrogant but, it's true. But at the end of the day, I know I'm the shit. And those girls really enjoyed my company because I'm just enjoying myself every time. It's all about being a beacon of fun around people depending on how your energy is.
Dating is one of those areas where placebo works. If you think it will help, it will help. If you think going to the gym will help, by all means go to the gym. For me, I'd rather be paid to do physical exercise, instead of me paying to do it.
That's why I have hobbies / interests that will earn me money in the long term that involve physical activity.
@@lint8391 my passion makes me earn income from it, so there's no excuse why you shouldn't go.
Lmao, nice use of the Anna Jay/John Silver pic.
Hey bud , do you still concur with "open, premise, evaluate, narrative, close"?
Is there like a server for this type of stuff? I've got some questions
Todd is the GOAT
Are you trying to be funny?, these PUAs couldn’t score a root in a brothel with a fistful of fifties.
Why pink shoes? (I guess because they’re awesome)
So Anna Jayy is in Todd V’s sights..
3:20 to 4:00 thats all. and you r welcome.
Why dont you teach the front stop?
It’s not 2003 anymore
Because that looks too obvious and chasing girl can trigger security guard
@@tf2368 lolz. Walking with is creepy af. But to each his own.
@@ifeelhalfnaked484 security guard on the street hahah? In shopping centers you can just slowly walk up and do a shoulder tap. but you need to stop her from what she is doing
Thanks for generosity, brilliant content as always. I've been curious for a long time about your date of birth, I'm into zodiac signs, and I wonder if my theory about your sign is correct based on your personality and style of game that is by far the most resonant with mine among all coaches.
Lol
I think different cultures around the globe play a (big) part here. Where I live, it's borderline inconceivable to approach a random girl on the streets just like that. Best case scenario, if she's in a good mood, you just get a "mild" giggling rejection on the spot and that's that. Worst case scenario, you're getting told off, she makes a scene and you're called a stalker-weirdo....or some buff guy shows up minutes later. Even men agree with this, not just girls
You live in Iran? Or Afghanistan?
Nope :)
Once they world finds out about Todd then world peace..lol
I'm recording myself;)
why is he wearing black
they can't ressist the big black dingus
gg
If you don’t have hair you don’t go far.
1st
RoboTodd
Todd, omg, you need to loose that extra you gained from easy life!
Step 1 have good looking face
like for sigma
"sIgMa" is the male version of "I'm a 10".
“Sigma” is a dump novelty for discussions. Just like new meme.
nothing serious or related to reality
Sigma is a beta on steroids
todd needs a haircut very bad
Just trying to prove looks don't matter... lol
@@ToddVDatingsounds like a shit test lol
@@ToddVDating it doesnt matter to a point
@@ToddVDating Get that Goddam Haircut!
@@ToddVDating, it was a shit test.
What would you recommend for somebody who is very sensitive to rejection to the point they get upset and start attacking themselves with self hate? Is that therapy territory?
Forget game, and go pay some escorts to stroke your ego n pretend that she likes you
RUclips the demonic confidence challenge and d0 that ! Hope this helps
Stop taking yourself so seriously. Stop taking your life so seriously. You'll be dead by 2130 - the year, not the time in the evening. That's a blink of the eye in history of the universe terms. Nothing you do or say matters much.
Lighten up. Enjoy life whilst you have it.
You spend your entire life to become a dating coach and TOP G ANDREW TATE just blew you guys out the water without trying
Yeah and now hes in jail lmao
@@suv3534 and they murdered JFK and he is 6 feet under. It’s about impact. Not how long you can live like a rat. Nobody wants to target a nobody.
Only incels and immature kids follow Andrew Tate.
Andrew Tate cant match it 😂
Without trying as in: became world champion for 4 times, got 300 million $+ net worth, created a business literally "loveboy"-ing women. Plus, Todd is giving practical advice, Andrew's only practical advice for an approach was like hey I'm Andrew what's your name?