Let me just type it once to affirm myself: “Anger is a protective mechanism to unworkable pains we experience in life. However, the unworkable mindset often is a programme we’ve installed in our subconscious mind. Facing directly to resolve the unworkables brings empowerment to the part of us that feels powerless.” Love this thank you!!
With past history and the current situation as an african descendant living here in the USA this is great advice. As you can tell that anger has reached a boiling point as evident in the news and I can feel it in myself, honestly always have but I hid it.
Being stuck in an enmeshed living situation which is unworkable only if I want to have a sense of self. So, being angry is natural, getting myself out of the patterns of behavior that keep me stuck here is a herculean task but I'm almost there. Now just got to get everything in place & back out quietly
In the same situation friend. Dealing with toxic family members currently who are hair-triggered because I express a different point of view to theirs. They name-call and gaslight me and it's awful. And every time I get outwardly angry at them they turn it against me :/
Teal, in the past 24 hours since you posted this video, I have applied this "new technique" to deal with my "instant fury" / emotional transparency issue... Remarkable results already, so it seems to work for me..."Is it workable?..."how do I make it workable"...It cuts my emotional spike in its tracks, like water on fire...Wow...once again, you punched through my thick skull, and allowed me to see... Thank you, ...and naturally, I love you...can't help it...
I love the dynamic that she uses of asking yourself a question on how to deal with a situation and be open to the answers, whatever the issue you can always ask the question: how can I solve this, what is this telling me about myself, what’s the best next move, this allows the collective intelligence to show you answers and make you ride the frequency of possible solutions which is inherent in the abundance fact of the universe, if you find yourself resistant to receiving answers ask the questions to your close friends and family who are neutral to the subject, the universes will find ways to deliver answers through them.
Thank you! This helps me explain why when my 2nd husband did some of the same things that I would get angry at my first husband about doing, and I didn't even care, it was because of the way I looked at the relationships. My 2nd marriage was much more fulfilling and joyful than my 1st one. Sadly, he passed away, and I definitely learned a lot by being in a relationship with him.
I've been forced to face my anger directly lately, and it has felt completely overwhelming. I came to the conclusion yesterday that I have chronic anger because I chronically experience my boundaries being crossed... almost all day every day. And I feel powerless to the fact that I feel this way relative to every single sector of my life. I can't get away from boundary violation. What feels unworkable is the ability for me to be myself without hurting others.
I totally feel you on boundaries being crossed. I've experienced this so much to the point of holding so much resentment and anger towards others for nor respecting my boundaries. But the truth was that due to my low self-worth, I really had never expressed to anyone what my boundaries actually were, and I allowed people to step all over them because I thought that if I tried to implement boundaries I would be rejected or people wouldn't like me. Since reestablishing a sense of self-value, I've realised that I owe nothing to anybody, and it is my responsibility to look after myself and make sure I take care of all my needs. We can't expect anything from anyone that we are not authentically and powerfully giving to ourselves. Love yourself and put yourself first, because believe you me everyone else is doing so. Blessings
Wow, this is like it's made for me. Thank you so much! I've been dealing with extreme anger for more than a year now. It comes up several times a day and completely takes possession of me leading to the most cruel fantasies. Sometimes it feels like my head is exploding, I can even feel the heat in it. I've read and watched a lot about this topic, including your video where you advise to go through that process of burning it down. However, the latter never worked for me, because as soon as I want to dive in, it disappears. So this video really helps a lot to clarify. My anger is directly aimed at certain people from my past, former friends who hurt me. Now I have to find out what the root of it all is. I suspect it's got to do with not being heard, seen, respected. How I solve this now without being able to talk to them, that's what I need to figure out now. Thanks again for everything you do. I love your work and the way you present it. It's always clear and easy to uderstand due to your choice of words and examples everyone can relate to. Lots of love
I sooo feel this! We will heal through it and get to the root of how to handle it! Personally I found that divining deeper into my guides and the beings that support me when the physical isn't, especially when I deserve it, helps so much. Sometimes when you are so light and supportive the only things that can match that are of divine spirit. We got this💙
I've been learning from you Teal for the past few years quite conscientiously and I really appreciate your work, wisdom, insight and the depth you are sharing. What I don't appreciate and don't like and what makes it almost doubtful sometimes to receive this knowledge is the way you address us - as if we HAVE TO DO IT ("I want you to..."/ "now you will do it this way"). I really can't take it. I prefer a message like : you may choose to do it this way. If any change is possible, I would deeply appreciate it and for sure benefit much more from these videos. Have a good day, Magda
Wow thank you so much for this. I've been struggling with rage for the past couple of years, and I was so confused and despairing about it because it created so much havoc in all my relationships, yet I felt like I was powerless over it. I've known for a while that it was highlighting areas in my life in which I needed to take my power back. Thank you so much for simplifying it and giving me a practical tool that I can work with in order to work through it and evolve. You're a legend. Blessings
Teal, this video changed my life in about 5 minutes. Thank you for being brave enough to speak your truth with so much patience and understanding. I love you! You are an absolute gem. 💝
Thank you Teal and team for this very helpful video that motivated me to take a lot of notes, reflect on past experiences, and gain insights. I'll share one example: While working at an early learning center/preschool back in 2012 and 2013, one of the preschool kids, a five year old female, often expressed much anger. One day, she cried and screamed for the entire lunch period, and nothing the main teacher said and did was able to calm her down. So I approached E (as an assistant teacher), and gently told her that whenever she's ready to talk, I would be available; and then I walked away while remaining nearby. To my great surprise, within a few minutes of E thinking about it, she called over to me in a loving manner, and said she was ready to talk. Thanks to this video, I now realize that having given E the option to talk whenever she felt ready, helped her to feel more empowered. At that time, though I wasn't aware of the logical reason behind me approaching E in this manner, I trust that I intuitively knew what to say. By the way, I'm grateful for the extra discount for your frequency painting products today. I bought another shirt, and I look forward to wearing them in the near future. I'm also appreciating your other creative, colorful, meaningful, and practical products as well.
When i get angry, i just watch one or 4 of your videos 😂. You are either always on time, or i sense that somehow, all your videos go hand in hand. You have been saving my mental & emotional state for years, Teal!. Dont know how can i ever repay you.
Thanks Teal for making these videos. This one was PERFECT SYNCHRONICITY since I got angry yesterday and I was trying to work through the intense emotions I was feeling. I realize I was triggered so I can look deeper to find the understanding for myself and my situation and then come up with solutions instead of feeling stuck in powerlessness. Your wisdom and vision have helped me immensely!!!! ETERNAL LOVE AND BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR TRIBE!!!
You nailed it Teal! That's my experience, when I feel a rise in anger I feel backed into a corner and powerless without an option. I have issues accepting certain situations that are unworkable and feel a loss of autonomy!
Wow...talk about "divine timing" and being a vibrational match to this at this very moment! Where do I even start? A lot of my anger actually comes from my mother when she was pregnant with me (she was angry with the way her and my sister were treated by the grandparents and my dad - see how women are treated in Indian culture!). You're so right when you say that anger is a state of feeling disempowered. As an empath who lives with 3x "unconscious" people (dad, mum and sis), I feel "trapped" and even isolated (due to not being able to talk to anyone about this because I don't feel safe). I feel as though if I were to try and speak to my family, I'd end up being emotionally bullied and "guilt-tripped" which again, feeds my anger. I think my family are the "unworkable" problem haha! I will just have to attend one of your retreats and synchronisation workshops in the future Teal! :D (which I definitely will one day)
If you don't mind, I'd like to pitch you an hypothetical scenario involving anger just to see how you suggest resolving it. A forty-five year old divorced man moves in with his seventy-one year old, frail mother to care for her while he re-trains himself for a different career. The old woman is not happy with this circumstance because it requires her to sacrifice her independence to support her son, and move to the place where the greatest trauma of her entire life took place fifty-one years earlier when she was not yet twenty years old. It is the son's weekend to spend with his children, the old woman's grandchildren that she has begged the son to give her for decades. The children come to grandma's house to spend their time with dad and grandma. The man's ten year old daughter asks him to take her and her little brother on an outing that the man knows he cannot afford; he tells the girl "No," promising her that they will do something less expensive later on. The girl and her brother go outside to play, the man lays down for a nap while they do so. When the man awakens he finds his mother berating both of the children. (The girl has decided to play the "Dad said no, let's go ask grandma," game.) In an attempt to de-escalate the situation the man tries to pull his mother into a different room where he and his mother can have a heart-to-heart, adult conversation about what is going on. The old witch bites the man hard enough to draw blood, and the son reflexively slaps her, leaving her in tears. The son collects the grandkids and returns them to their mother's place about an hour north of where he and grandma live. The son returns home to find that his mother has changed the locks in his absence, and sworn out a criminal complaint against him for elder abuse (a felony in the state where they live). The son is arrested, tried, and convicted of the charges against him [by a less than unanimous jury ... something that SCOTUS ruled was unconstitutional about six or seven years too late] and does a 4-month prison sentence in county jail, being released early for good behavior exactly one day after his forty-sixth birthday. Again I'm not saying this actually happened. It's hypothetical in the same vain as OJ Simpson's book, "If I did it," but I am interested in your take on what the protagonist could have done differently that would not have resulted in a permanent rift between his mother and himself?
This made me realise how much my family have offered my. They have given me so many opportunities and compromises, and I’ve thrown it back in their faces. Thank you for this. 🙂💜
I am soooooooo f****** mad today that I’m scared of myself!!! Please people take up for anyone that is being discriminated against right now!!! If you see a bully f them up and I will .........okay time to shut up and watch the video! Soooo grateful this is the topic!! 💜
The unworkability comment is very true for me. When things don't work, I get frustrated and it escalates on the anger scale the longer something doesn't work.
This just changed my life Teal. I dont know what i would do without your videos. I feel beyond blessed to get to recieve your Profound insight. 🙏 Thank you
Teal I'm so grateful for your words. You break down a feeling (anger even)into conusous thought so we understand ourselves. So relevant today. Thank you so much!!!
We are programmed by the matrix to be trapped in the hive mind. But we came here to spiritualise. Which means following our hearts no matter what. I hope to inspire as many people as you in my channel one day. Thank you for what you do
💡 video idea: - Is there a difference between God, Source, and Divine? Does the vibration of these words that has been placed upon it impact you personally? How does our enviorment impact our ideas about what to call/pray to?
Whaaaaat! I just did your excerise "Internal Arson" today cause I was so angry and didn't know what to do. Will see this tomorrow, looking forward to it!!
Thank you for this excellent clarity With love and respect - I find anger defined by 'your standards have been violated' to be more accurate Thank you - with love and respect
Another breakthrough for me at the right time. Teal, thank you. I feel as though you’re some type of guardian angel. I will forever be thankful for your existence.
I feel that I need to find the reason for my anger (the unworkability) and that I need to find a space or good use for my anger. Sometimes it’s like my ego just gets a little too jumpy and protective. If I could identify these things perhaps I could us my anger as a too or a friend and not an annoying evil foe.
0:45 perceived unworkability, 1:54, 3:11 lack of empowerment to bring about the thing they want (or wanted) 4:12 toddlers & anger 4:32 adults & anger 4:58 help them figure out a way to feel empowered to make their life feel better / to avert that threat / to change it to a way which increases wellbeing (yes you have the capacity) 7:06 call out the unworkability, directly 7:29 Anger Hack 101 8:13 ‘Name the unworkability & bring it up directly’ tool 11:46 Anger as a protector: resolve the unworkability, collapses the protection ‘need’ 12:18 What happens when anger leaves? 13:25 welcome to the seat of strategy ♟️ 13:52 you are meant to be empowered
Thank you SO MUCH, Teal, this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear at this time (1 year after I ceased contact with my Step-dad). The relationship itself was unworkable. Conversations with him were unworkable, therefore Communication with him was unworkable. Any kind of life with him, even from afar (we live in different countries from each other) was unworkable because 'moving forward' in life-situations with him was unworkable. You're damn right about the pain aspect of unworkable situations. 43 years of pain with him... Thank you for helping me to deepen my knowledge/understanding that I made the right decision last year. Sending you much, much love
thank you Teal, your videos always give me hope, reduce my anxiety, and improve my life as well as the lives of those around me. I'm so grateful for you
I'm watching this after watching Struggle with Anger and it really staring to make sense to me and the traps I've fallen into how and why.This explains alot to me and at 56 Like Teal said there's so much bad advice out there hasn't worked for me at all ! Sincere thanks Teal 😊❤️🙏💯
Teal Sawn...This is Christine Vandenberg. I've came to you before as Lady of the Water. I thank you for putting this content out as we approach our "collective" shadow self. Well, all I can say is here goes nothing! Much love and protection to you! Your friend and sister-in-light. We got this! 🌺❤🌺 Also, facing myself....TY✨❤✨
Just the guidance I needed to hear. Still, it's hard to soar like an eagle when what you got to work with are turkeys, lower consciousness folk who you need to rely on in life and can't escape. And sad part is oftentimes it's only after blowing up thatt they react and you get what you need. I resent having to go through such grief again and again, thus another layer of anger. Takes a toll. Thank you Teal, your teachings help.
As a bipolar person, anger is a constant issue for me, not just because it's a symptom of the illness but because not having a brain that works 100% is extremely frustrating, which makes me very angry at times. It stinks when you can't create your own destiny because our your health.
Hi teal ❤️I’ve been listening to you for so long and it has changed my life ! I love you and your insights . But I wish you would go back to more esoteric things again . There is a lot of psychology already out there but there’s not enough teachers of the divine secrets . You know these secrets ! Teach us all that again
I cry whenever I feel anger. When I was a kid I used to yell crazy loud with my bully - that time my sister. One day my mother came and told me not to yell anymore, because the neighbous were bothered by it. Now I'm a grown up woman who is not able to say even one word to the people who make me angry. I just cry like a helpless baby which makes my adult life a little bit difficult... Maybe now I have a chance not to act like a baby and deal with my anger in a useful way. Thank you!
This video helped me more with my anger problems than 22 years of therapy hahaha I love you Teal
As a bloke with a foul temper I have tried over the last few months to calm it down this was very interesting thank you made me think
You are a true gift to Humanity. Please never stop.
Let me just type it once to affirm myself: “Anger is a protective mechanism to unworkable pains we experience in life. However, the unworkable mindset often is a programme we’ve installed in our subconscious mind. Facing directly to resolve the unworkables brings empowerment to the part of us that feels powerless.”
Love this thank you!!
*screenshots*
Well said, thank you!
coming from a family with generational explosive rage, this is revolutionary. thanks.
I love the way Teal is able to mix abstractness with true pragmatic scenarios. She's a real master, I love her
Very balanced INFJ
"unworkable" is great word that goes along the lines of "powerlessness". very workable/helpful word. thanks!
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With past history and the current situation as an african descendant living here in the USA this is great advice. As you can tell that anger has reached a boiling point as evident in the news and I can feel it in myself, honestly always have but I hid it.
Taraji P Henson is going to be offering free therapy sessions soon June 5, it could help you out
Spice Gyal Lili Thank you for letting people know! I’m going to look into that and share with others because we all need this!
Thank you for explaining.
Try looking into statistics on who is killing who in America. That would go a long way to helping you see the anger for what it really is.
have you guys tried not having a 75% single mother rate? That's ridiculous
Being stuck in an enmeshed living situation which is unworkable only if I want to have a sense of self. So, being angry is natural, getting myself out of the patterns of behavior that keep me stuck here is a herculean task but I'm almost there. Now just got to get everything in place & back out quietly
In the same situation friend. Dealing with toxic family members currently who are hair-triggered because I express a different point of view to theirs. They name-call and gaslight me and it's awful. And every time I get outwardly angry at them they turn it against me :/
What's unworkable for me is tone of voice, when I am spoken to with disrespect and contempt. that sends me.
Teal, in the past 24 hours since you posted this video, I have applied this "new technique" to deal with my "instant fury" / emotional transparency issue...
Remarkable results already, so it seems to work for me..."Is it workable?..."how do I make it workable"...It cuts my emotional spike in its tracks, like water on fire...Wow...once again, you punched through my thick skull, and allowed me to see...
Thank you,
...and naturally, I love you...can't help it...
I love the dynamic that she uses of asking yourself a question on how to deal with a situation and be open to the answers, whatever the issue you can always ask the question: how can I solve this, what is this telling me about myself, what’s the best next move, this allows the collective intelligence to show you answers and make you ride the frequency of possible solutions which is inherent in the abundance fact of the universe, if you find yourself resistant to receiving answers ask the questions to your close friends and family who are neutral to the subject, the universes will find ways to deliver answers through them.
I got angry earlier. But the deeper awareness of "why" I was feeling that way made it easier to process.
Thank you! This helps me explain why when my 2nd husband did some of the same things that I would get angry at my first husband about doing, and I didn't even care, it was because of the way I looked at the relationships. My 2nd marriage was much more fulfilling and joyful than my 1st one. Sadly, he passed away, and I definitely learned a lot by being in a relationship with him.
I've been forced to face my anger directly lately, and it has felt completely overwhelming. I came to the conclusion yesterday that I have chronic anger because I chronically experience my boundaries being crossed... almost all day every day. And I feel powerless to the fact that I feel this way relative to every single sector of my life. I can't get away from boundary violation. What feels unworkable is the ability for me to be myself without hurting others.
I'm pretty sure that Teal has a video about boundaries as well. It might help you.
👐 🙌 🙏 I’m sorry dear. Actually, I am looking for help and change, too
Keep up the mindful effort, that will always empower you with choices besides lighting your anger fuse
I totally feel you on boundaries being crossed. I've experienced this so much to the point of holding so much resentment and anger towards others for nor respecting my boundaries. But the truth was that due to my low self-worth, I really had never expressed to anyone what my boundaries actually were, and I allowed people to step all over them because I thought that if I tried to implement boundaries I would be rejected or people wouldn't like me. Since reestablishing a sense of self-value, I've realised that I owe nothing to anybody, and it is my responsibility to look after myself and make sure I take care of all my needs. We can't expect anything from anyone that we are not authentically and powerfully giving to ourselves. Love yourself and put yourself first, because believe you me everyone else is doing so. Blessings
@@albahendricks1538 Plus once you set a boundary hold it. Don't worry about hurting others. If you need the boundary, you need the boundary.
Wow, this is like it's made for me. Thank you so much!
I've been dealing with extreme anger for more than a year now. It comes up several times a day and completely takes possession of me leading to the most cruel fantasies. Sometimes it feels like my head is exploding, I can even feel the heat in it. I've read and watched a lot about this topic, including your video where you advise to go through that process of burning it down. However, the latter never worked for me, because as soon as I want to dive in, it disappears. So this video really helps a lot to clarify.
My anger is directly aimed at certain people from my past, former friends who hurt me. Now I have to find out what the root of it all is. I suspect it's got to do with not being heard, seen, respected. How I solve this now without being able to talk to them, that's what I need to figure out now.
Thanks again for everything you do. I love your work and the way you present it. It's always clear and easy to uderstand due to your choice of words and examples everyone can relate to.
Lots of love
I sooo feel this! We will heal through it and get to the root of how to handle it!
Personally I found that divining deeper into my guides and the beings that support me when the physical isn't, especially when I deserve it, helps so much. Sometimes when you are so light and supportive the only things that can match that are of divine spirit. We got this💙
I've been learning from you Teal for the past few years quite conscientiously and I really appreciate your work, wisdom, insight and the depth you are sharing.
What I don't appreciate and don't like and what makes it almost doubtful sometimes to receive this knowledge is the way you address us - as if we HAVE TO DO IT ("I want you to..."/ "now you will do it this way"). I really can't take it.
I prefer a message like : you may choose to do it this way.
If any change is possible, I would deeply appreciate it and for sure benefit much more from these videos.
Have a good day,
Magda
Thank you Teal. Your videos have been helping me for years!
gratified to help
You're awesome awesome awesome Teal!!!
I love Teal
Literally woke up to the most illogical text and I’ve been upset since. This video came legit at the correct time!! 💓💓💓
New teal swan video? Sign me up sis!
Freakin Awesomeness. The better it gets... And it jus keeps gettin better!! Luv It! Thank You so very much Teal. Simply Wonderful.
Wow thank you so much for this. I've been struggling with rage for the past couple of years, and I was so confused and despairing about it because it created so much havoc in all my relationships, yet I felt like I was powerless over it. I've known for a while that it was highlighting areas in my life in which I needed to take my power back. Thank you so much for simplifying it and giving me a practical tool that I can work with in order to work through it and evolve. You're a legend. Blessings
Person who struggles with anger is a person who feels powerless
Straight on this feel like it was meant for me😂
I benefit so much from this video. At the core of anger, is an expectation. We need to know whether that expectation is reasonable, possible, or not.
Teal: "If you liked this video..."
Me: "um, YEA I liked this video!!"
Teal, this video changed my life in about 5 minutes. Thank you for being brave enough to speak your truth with so much patience and understanding. I love you! You are an absolute gem. 💝
Thanks Teal your brilliant....you help not only me but .....so many people.UR MY HERO❤
the pain in your eyes...now it is like went away... beautiful
I needed this so bad. I recognize now that my rage is a result of feeling powerless. This is so deep dude. Thank you so much Teal Swan.
Thank you Teal and team for this very helpful video that motivated me to take a lot of notes, reflect on past experiences, and gain insights.
I'll share one example: While working at an early learning center/preschool back in 2012 and 2013, one of the preschool kids, a five year old female, often expressed much anger.
One day, she cried and screamed for the entire lunch period, and nothing the main teacher said and did was able to calm her down.
So I approached E (as an assistant teacher), and gently told her that whenever she's ready to talk, I would be available; and then I walked away while remaining nearby.
To my great surprise, within a few minutes of E thinking about it, she called over to me in a loving manner, and said she was ready to talk.
Thanks to this video, I now realize that having given E the option to talk whenever she felt ready, helped her to feel more empowered.
At that time, though I wasn't aware of the logical reason behind me approaching E in this manner, I trust that I intuitively knew what to say.
By the way, I'm grateful for the extra discount for your frequency painting products today. I bought another shirt, and I look forward to wearing them in the near future. I'm also appreciating your other creative, colorful, meaningful, and practical products as well.
When i get angry, i just watch one or 4 of your videos 😂. You are either always on time, or i sense that somehow, all your videos go hand in hand. You have been saving my mental & emotional state for years, Teal!. Dont know how can i ever repay you.
Thanks Teal for making these videos. This one was PERFECT SYNCHRONICITY since I got angry yesterday and I was trying to work through the intense emotions I was feeling. I realize I was triggered so I can look deeper to find the understanding for myself and my situation and then come up with solutions instead of feeling stuck in powerlessness. Your wisdom and vision have helped me immensely!!!! ETERNAL LOVE AND BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR TRIBE!!!
Perfect timing exactly:)
Perfect timing as always 💖💖💖 Thank you ❤️
You nailed it Teal! That's my experience, when I feel a rise in anger I feel backed into a corner and powerless without an option. I have issues accepting certain situations that are unworkable and feel a loss of autonomy!
Loved the birds chirping and the wind in this one
Wow...talk about "divine timing" and being a vibrational match to this at this very moment!
Where do I even start? A lot of my anger actually comes from my mother when she was pregnant with me (she was angry with the way her and my sister were treated by the grandparents and my dad - see how women are treated in Indian culture!). You're so right when you say that anger is a state of feeling disempowered. As an empath who lives with 3x "unconscious" people (dad, mum and sis), I feel "trapped" and even isolated (due to not being able to talk to anyone about this because I don't feel safe). I feel as though if I were to try and speak to my family, I'd end up being emotionally bullied and "guilt-tripped" which again, feeds my anger. I think my family are the "unworkable" problem haha!
I will just have to attend one of your retreats and synchronisation workshops in the future Teal! :D (which I definitely will one day)
SAME family can be the "unworkable" 😂😂😂 then comes acceptance
Thanks xx
If you don't mind, I'd like to pitch you an hypothetical scenario involving anger just to see how you suggest resolving it.
A forty-five year old divorced man moves in with his seventy-one year old, frail mother to care for her while he re-trains himself for a different career. The old woman is not happy with this circumstance because it requires her to sacrifice her independence to support her son, and move to the place where the greatest trauma of her entire life took place fifty-one years earlier when she was not yet twenty years old.
It is the son's weekend to spend with his children, the old woman's grandchildren that she has begged the son to give her for decades. The children come to grandma's house to spend their time with dad and grandma. The man's ten year old daughter asks him to take her and her little brother on an outing that the man knows he cannot afford; he tells the girl "No," promising her that they will do something less expensive later on. The girl and her brother go outside to play, the man lays down for a nap while they do so. When the man awakens he finds his mother berating both of the children. (The girl has decided to play the "Dad said no, let's go ask grandma," game.) In an attempt to de-escalate the situation the man tries to pull his mother into a different room where he and his mother can have a heart-to-heart, adult conversation about what is going on. The old witch bites the man hard enough to draw blood, and the son reflexively slaps her, leaving her in tears. The son collects the grandkids and returns them to their mother's place about an hour north of where he and grandma live. The son returns home to find that his mother has changed the locks in his absence, and sworn out a criminal complaint against him for elder abuse (a felony in the state where they live). The son is arrested, tried, and convicted of the charges against him [by a less than unanimous jury ... something that SCOTUS ruled was unconstitutional about six or seven years too late] and does a 4-month prison sentence in county jail, being released early for good behavior exactly one day after his forty-sixth birthday.
Again I'm not saying this actually happened. It's hypothetical in the same vain as OJ Simpson's book, "If I did it," but I am interested in your take on what the protagonist could have done differently that would not have resulted in a permanent rift between his mother and himself?
Thank you teacher, I am so proud of you.
This made me realise how much my family have offered my. They have given me so many opportunities and compromises, and I’ve thrown it back in their faces. Thank you for this. 🙂💜
Just discovered you through Ralph Smart. This video and your message has really helped me thank you. Also when you smile😍👍🏾
Glad you are still here... Long time no see...................
I am soooooooo f****** mad today that I’m scared of myself!!! Please people take up for anyone that is being discriminated against right now!!! If you see a bully f them up and I will .........okay time to shut up and watch the video! Soooo grateful this is the topic!! 💜
I needed to hear this. Thank you!
You save lives Teal.
Thank you Teal.
Thank you Teal. For being you
The unworkability comment is very true for me. When things don't work, I get frustrated and it escalates on the anger scale the longer something doesn't work.
This just changed my life Teal. I dont know what i would do without your videos. I feel beyond blessed to get to recieve your Profound insight. 🙏 Thank you
Perfect timing, thank you love, sincerely, the angry teenager.
The sound of her voice alone puts me at ease. Thank you ,Teal🙂
her energy is so different in this video!
This is the best advice and explanation I've seen so far.
Teal I'm so grateful for your words. You break down a feeling (anger even)into conusous thought so we understand ourselves. So relevant today. Thank you so much!!!
"Unworkable"!! I didn't see this. "Empowerment"!! I didn't see this. Thank you Teal 🙏❤ I will see and self inquire 🌹
Never tought about anger this way. Another veil lifted. Thank you Teal
Teal, thank you for transforming your pain and experience into insight for us. You make my mind better.
We are programmed by the matrix to be trapped in the hive mind. But we came here to spiritualise. Which means following our hearts no matter what. I hope to inspire as many people as you in my channel one day. Thank you for what you do
Aaaaawwww this parrot singing in the background 💕💕💕
Wow!! I needed this today! Thanks Teal!! ♥️
you're welcome
💡 video idea:
- Is there a difference between God, Source, and Divine? Does the vibration of these words that has been placed upon it impact you personally? How does our enviorment impact our ideas about what to call/pray to?
Whaaaaat! I just did your excerise "Internal Arson" today cause I was so angry and didn't know what to do. Will see this tomorrow, looking forward to it!!
Thank you for this excellent clarity
With love and respect - I find anger defined by 'your standards have been violated' to be more accurate
Thank you - with love and respect
Thank you for the video Teal. I am very grateful.
you are always on sync with my life situations. i recently had someone do a hit and run on my car.
Another breakthrough for me at the right time. Teal, thank you. I feel as though you’re some type of guardian angel. I will forever be thankful for your existence.
I feel that I need to find the reason for my anger (the unworkability) and that I need to find a space or good use for my anger. Sometimes it’s like my ego just gets a little too jumpy and protective. If I could identify these things perhaps I could us my anger as a too or a friend and not an annoying evil foe.
Dear Teal and Team ,Thank you so much for your Help and guidance for all of our healing 🌏💞🙏🙅🏻♀️🌈🌺 Big Hugs from Germany 🥰
0:45 perceived unworkability, 1:54, 3:11 lack of empowerment to bring about the thing they want (or wanted) 4:12 toddlers & anger 4:32 adults & anger 4:58 help them figure out a way to feel empowered to make their life feel better / to avert that threat / to change it to a way which increases wellbeing (yes you have the capacity) 7:06 call out the unworkability, directly 7:29 Anger Hack 101 8:13 ‘Name the unworkability & bring it up directly’ tool 11:46 Anger as a protector: resolve the unworkability, collapses the protection ‘need’ 12:18 What happens when anger leaves? 13:25 welcome to the seat of strategy ♟️ 13:52 you are meant to be empowered
Clear and compassionate. Thanks
Thank you SO MUCH, Teal, this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear at this time (1 year after I ceased contact with my Step-dad). The relationship itself was unworkable. Conversations with him were unworkable, therefore Communication with him was unworkable. Any kind of life with him, even from afar (we live in different countries from each other) was unworkable because 'moving forward' in life-situations with him was unworkable.
You're damn right about the pain aspect of unworkable situations.
43 years of pain with him...
Thank you for helping me to deepen my knowledge/understanding that I made the right decision last year.
Sending you much, much love
thank you Teal, your videos always give me hope, reduce my anxiety, and improve my life as well as the lives of those around me. I'm so grateful for you
Thank you, so much Teal!!! You are helping me every time ❤️❤️❤️
It's amazing how you are picking up what's happening in the world, and in me! Thank you for sharing your Teaching.
Literally just what I need right now 🔥
You’re the best thanks!
Unworkability....genius. Thank you for this monumental insight! Makes complete sense
I'm watching this after watching Struggle with Anger and it really staring to make sense to me and the traps I've fallen into how and why.This explains alot to me and at 56 Like Teal said there's so much bad advice out there hasn't worked for me at all ! Sincere thanks Teal 😊❤️🙏💯
Teal Sawn...This is Christine Vandenberg. I've came to you before as Lady of the Water. I thank you for putting this content out as we approach our "collective" shadow self. Well, all I can say is here goes nothing! Much love and protection to you! Your friend and sister-in-light. We got this! 🌺❤🌺 Also, facing myself....TY✨❤✨
Just the guidance I needed to hear. Still, it's hard to soar like an eagle when what you got to work with are turkeys, lower consciousness folk who you need to rely on in life and can't escape. And sad part is oftentimes it's only after blowing up thatt they react and you get what you need. I resent having to go through such grief again and again, thus another layer of anger. Takes a toll. Thank you Teal, your teachings help.
As a bipolar person, anger is a constant issue for me, not just because it's a symptom of the illness but because not having a brain that works 100% is extremely frustrating, which makes me very angry at times. It stinks when you can't create your own destiny because our your health.
Thanks Teal, you’re always so in tune💕
Thank you Teal. You are always amazing. Much love!
Wow. Unworkability Against the Machine. A whole culture and conditioning reframed. Thank you 🙏🍀
I would like to personally thank YOU for giving me tools to journey into oneness consciousness.
Hi TEAL,,LOVE you teaching Humanity to deal with emotions,,huggggssss
Literally watched this like 7 times and STILL found gems,, I suggest ya tale notes,, you catch little things you may have missed ‼️✨
youre an fn genius teal. i canNot express enough how extremely helpful and powerful your videos are. i thank you from the bottom of my soul 💓💓💓💥💖💖💖
Woooooow. Huge realization!!🥰❤️ Thank you
Amazing, thank you Teal.
Thank you. More on this subject whenever it occurs to you. It seems very much to the point right now.
Thank u, Teal, this is really helpful!
Teal, You have been my Godmother! 🙏
Hi teal ❤️I’ve been listening to you for so long and it has changed my life ! I love you and your insights . But I wish you would go back to more esoteric things again . There is a lot of psychology already out there but there’s not enough teachers of the divine secrets . You know these secrets ! Teach us all that again
I cry whenever I feel anger.
When I was a kid I used to yell crazy loud with my bully - that time my sister. One day my mother came and told me not to yell anymore, because the neighbous were bothered by it. Now I'm a grown up woman who is not able to say even one word to the people who make me angry. I just cry like a helpless baby which makes my adult life a little bit difficult...
Maybe now I have a chance not to act like a baby and deal with my anger in a useful way. Thank you!
This is really astute and cool. Something we can probably all relate to.