If this happened to me, I would IMMEDIATELY unsubscribe, stop supporting the streamer, and say a big F YOU. That is disgusting behavior. This guy needs to be banned!
@@solomonstello Unfortunately the more ignorant people are, the more they think they know. This smoothbrain thinks he can teach his chat basic etiquette, when he has as much empathy as Patrick Bateman after a prison knitting-needle lobotomy. What a selfish, apoplectic, muppet.
i bet it’s less of this and more of the fact that he’s so programmed to telling everyone he’s ok that it makes him angry when other people open up.. he wants to open up but somehow in his life he’s been made to feel it’s socially unacceptable ? idk how people end up that way unless they are just entirely antisocial
Narcissism.. played a victim while villainising the other person while only concerned about their own image. Also can't comprehend or accept the idea of actually being wrong about something they do that upsets someone.
A normal person would feel reflex unconcious empathy towards even stranger that tells them their mom just died. Because no matter how selfish it would seem your initial reaction in your head is omg if it were my mom I'd be devastated. So it's easy to understand what that person is going through. This isn't a case of mental diagnosis being required. This a person who is terminally online to point where it's stunted their ability to interact normally with people
I absolutely hate it when people in America greet me with "how are you?" It's improper, and clearly no one cares about my answer, so I usually just respond with "hello." How are you is not a greeting it's a question, which I could have a happy or bad response to. If you're trying to say Hi then just say Hi.
Your comment and Needsmoreflash's comment reminded me of a friend of mine I knew back in college. Her name was Claudia. We saw each other one day heading in different directions and she said “Hi. How are you?” and I responded, “Hello. I’m okay. How are you?”. But she stopped me and pulled me aside and firmly asked, “No. How are you REALLY?”. I never, ever forgot that because I was sincerely doing horribly and it meant everything in the world to me that she didn’t mean that as a typical greeting, rhetorical question combo and was concerned. I was quite touched that that day Claudia really wanted to know about my well being. She took the time to listen to me because I was feeling pretty glum that day. I genuinely want to know how a person is doing when I ask them. If I ask it means I truly want to know and that I care.😊
Ok boomer. Society is not "swirling" some drain. Kids/teens are not worse today. Social media, media are not the "devil" Just like you didn't actually walk up hill to school both ways. Just stop 🛑 RIP boomers and the way they think
"Damn, sorry to hear that! So sorry for your loss! Well, I'm glad you can join us and maybe take your mind off things for a little while." So easy to keep it moving after that bad news.
Nah is better than he is honest of how he actually feels about his viewers so they can stop donating to him. being fake here would be shitty in the long rung.
“Hey how are you” (Gives honest answer) “And I took that personally”. I really hope this guy doesn’t have a wife or has daughters…someone should check on them.
The streamer... all he had to say was "oh, no. Im sorry for your loss. I understand why youve been gone then, must be hard! Stay strong Kirby! Chat, tell Kirby xyz! Moving on now"
If my mom passed away, and I told someone about it and they reacted, this way, they better hope they’re on the other end of the screen where I can’t get to them
I get the feeling that this narcissist is more pissed about the fact that she had the audacity to break one of his stupid little rules than what was actually said.
I hate how he basically talks about in his "apology" video that it's inconvenient for him to hear the news about their mom passing away. Be a human being and show some empathy!! Narcissism is so rampant in social media
I really hate this societal expectation, when someone asks you "how are you?" You are required to respond "I'm fine." Don't ask, if you don't want to know.
I suffer with chronic pain and depression and i HATE when people ask because they just want me to say 'yeah good' when the honest answer is 'terrible' - i feel like i have to lie on a daily basis to make other people feel better. Dont ask if you dont want an honest answer!
Dude seriously SPOT ON. I remember when I said shitty one time the reply I got was "can't you just lie?" I couldn't fucking believe the audacity... Damn.
Same. My mother told me when I first got sick that I could talk to her about anything. So if she asked, I would tell her how awful I felt. That is, until one day she asked me, I told her what I was going through and she proceeded to tell me that I was such a downer, no wonder I feel so bad. Why couldn't I say more positive things so I wouldn't drag her down. I was crushed. Because I trusted her when she said that I could talk to her about it and then she threw it back in my face. That was 14 years ago and I still tell no one how bad I feel on regular days, just the "I'm okay, how are you?" response. I only tell my husband on days that I'm struggling to function. So fnck this guy and his stupid @ss stream! He sounds like a douche.
He got bent out of shape because her response took the focus off of HIM. Extending condolences makes the conversation about HER and he can’t abide that. If he wasn’t a needy jerk, his brief expression of condolence would have made him look like a good guy and then he could have moved on. But, in the end, he certainly is getting lots of attention!
Like she legit answered his question??? Try, maybe, chilling the absolute fuck out my dude. I would NEVER respond to someone like that, even if I was caught off guard by the news.
I would unsubscribe but I would never encourage others to do the same, like if they weren’t going to already based on how they felt about it then they shouldn’t do it because of how I feel about it
If I were the streamer, here’s what I would do. One, give my condolences l, then say ‘after the stream ends, we’ll talk. If you want to be private about it.’ He’s personifies incel
Idk this person, but thank you, Xenoshot, for exposing this POS. The lack of empathy, respect, and self-awareness of this boy is absolutely disgusting. The guy just keeps going on about it, and being nasty at on top of that!! Even though he made an "apology" video... he just made his own "drama" Its always the ppl that say they don't like drama or allow it in their lives, lol
WTF is wrong with this guy? Why did he berate her like he’s her father trying to “teach her a lesson” on how to talk to people online? “Etiquette”? Dude was literally screaming at her. I hope nobody looks up to this guy.
What a jerk. A normal person would spend 5 secs acknowledging the loss and giving empathy, but his true personality gets in the way and he spends ages ranting about it and then makes a crappy ‘im actually right but I’m being pressured into an apology video’.
As if "I'm sorry to hear that" couldn't have just been said. Wow. I lost my mom when i was 15 and am now 43 and it still to this day hurts like It did when it first happened. This douche bag needs to learn a lesson and I'm not against him learning it by receiving an ass-whooping. I hope and pray for healing for the person that has lost their mother.
There are NOT only "2 acceptable answers" when someone asks how you are. Do not ask someone how they are if you're not prepared to hear "bad day, my mom died" or "bad day, my dog died" or something like that. It's really that easy. Fuck that, society is actually at 0 IQ if people really think that way
Not just that, he asked where they’d been NOT how they were. It wasn’t like they could have just said “fine” to that. Asking where someone is requires a proper response.
I am the youngest of 4 kids, I am the only 1 to have 1 child. My son doesn't want kids. I am glad he doesn't, that arsehole streamer is just the kind of person that society is becoming. After my family croaks, our side of the bloodline is done. I don't have to know that any grandkids down the line are inheriting this mess.
Literally all he had to say was, “I’m so sorry for your loss. Just know we all are thinking of you today. Chat, please send them love and be respectful. Instead of dragging it out and trying to educate or groom his audience on proper etiquette. When he loses someone near to him, hopefully he won’t experience what he put her through. Actually atrocious.
I get why people don't wanna hear that someone died plus some people react oddly or badly to death. There was no need to rage at someone for that though, they already feel horrible and are grieving. If he didn't want a genuine answer then he shouldn't have asked. The streamer could've easily said his condolences and made some positive commentary to them. like it's funny he's all about positivity but couldn't have tried to make her situation better by uplifting her.
Nah even then that's not normal at all... To go mask off and embarrass someone for answering and then clarifying that when she said lol she wasn't trying to make light of it. That's it. He literally suggested alternative answers to his question to avoid the attention going to someone else.
He could've taken a 10 second pause to acknowledge the loss respectfully. A small 10 second pause would have gone a looong way - to your loyal listener, as well as others in the room.
instead of apologising like a decent human being and admitting what he said was wrong and disrespectful, he decides to justify why he was a POS to that viewer. what a sad life he must be living
Dude I hope you never experience this. You will one day then you’ll see how heartbreaking it is to lose a family member. This guy is a shameful human being
Bro wtf, while i understand its awkward af to hear something that sad while streaming, it takes literally 1% human decency to just be cool and empathetic about it.
Worse, he brought down the mood far more himself. Then they did. He could have just said well you're here right now and we are going to take your mind off it and make you smile.
All he had to do was say the basic line, “I’m so sorry to hear that, I hope things get better,” and move on. It’s wild to me how people have this mentality that real life “kills the vibe”. So we just all pretend everything is sunshine and rainbows all the time?
My exbest friend was like this! would purposely ignore me for a week if she knew that I was in mental distress. Some people when they mean positive vibes only that is what they exactly mean positive vibes, only or gtfo!!!!! What you’re going through is not worth wrecking their vibe😠
It could also mean that they're not equipped to deal with such a similar situation - I'd understand if it's the first time around, but if it happens on the regular, some research on their part is needed (provided that they're a good friend)
I had a friend that said I didn’t want to be around him because he was depressed and he was right but it wasn’t just because he was depressed, it was because for literal years he was so negative about everything and constantly talked about problems over and over. I wouldn’t expect my friends to hang out with me again and again if they knew every single time was going be a huge downer. Some people are emotionally taxing to be around
I just HAD to mention how THRILLED I am to see someone who actually knows the past tense of SHIT!! I have to keep telling people! 😅 BUTT (deliberate misspelling): I want to tell that girl that what she's gotta do to THAT GUY is... Just - disappear. 100% ghost him. Don't even say anything first, not even "goodbye". I've been around for a while and over the years I've managed to figure out when no more words even need be said. You just cut the line and move on. Even if you've known the person for years. It just happened to me, so trust me here, it's for the best. People don't change, or if they do, it's almost always for the worse. You don't owe this noodnik an explanation or any words at all. Somebody acting THIS inappropriately to a STRANGER would merit this, but to do *this* to someone we *have* to assume he calls (or more like *called*) - a FRIEND?! This behavior is NOT a thing that anybody should just shrug off. Trust me, it's only gonna get worse from here.
Even if they change for the better not everyone is meant to be there in your life forever. (Unless you are the streamer here then yeah you're just a sociopath)
I can't tell you how much every fiber of my being wishes that EVERYONE in his live would have clicked out & simultaneously UN- subbed !!!! What an awful person🤮. I bet if his mom had passed that's all he would've been talking about. 🙄 Condolences & prayers to nerdy Kirby 🙏
As a streamer, this is the perfect example of WHAT NOT TO EVER DO. We aren't popular because of what we do or how we act. We are popular because of the community that we build and the sense of community that we build, this dude is just horrible to do that to any of the viewers (loyal or first-time)
This is old news but still deserves it's attention. This is from December 2022. Canadian streamer WeFoundTheBody, whose real name is John Byskal, got into a slightly heated interaction with a viewer who said during one of his streams that her mother had recently died, saying he didn't ask her to share the biggest "bummer news in the world." - Narcity
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All I'm hearing is: "I pretend that I care about my viewers but I don't actually give a fuck about all your problems, now quiet and donate."
You said it all there
"Now quiet and donate." -- nailed it!!
Don't forget "Buy my merch"
And the world's *least indifferent streamer award* goes to...
Telling someone you don't wanna hear an honest answer from small talk tells you they couldn't care less about empathy and love for others.
If this happened to me, I would IMMEDIATELY unsubscribe, stop supporting the streamer, and say a big F YOU. That is disgusting behavior. This guy needs to be banned!
banned, no. But then scolded publicly, yes. Shows exactly what type of streamer they are.
I would report
Banned? Didn’t break any laws.
He’s a POS. That’s all it is.
100% Agree
@@MegaBlueTpublicly shamed until such a time when they can behave like a civilized person.
A) who even is this self-entitled person?
B) why is he this angry about it? Looks like his mom probably didn’t love him enough as a kid.
Facts
People are ignorant. And cruel.
Can't blame her.😬
@@solomonstello Unfortunately the more ignorant people are, the more they think they know. This smoothbrain thinks he can teach his chat basic etiquette, when he has as much empathy as Patrick Bateman after a prison knitting-needle lobotomy.
What a selfish, apoplectic, muppet.
👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Here’s how that shooodve went.
“Hey how are you?”
“I lost my mom”
“Oh I’m sorry to hear, my condolences”
Why is this so difficult??
Because the internet promotes narcissism which in turn promotes sociopathy.
Because it takes the attention away from him cause he is SOOOO important
It's not. It really isn't. 🎉
@@yumark5800exactly
@@yumark5800 💯!!!
Narcissism runs deep in social media
🤯 And the white house !..
@@alancrisp1582trumps actually not in the white House right now?
Narcissism is social media!
@@KINGSLEY-TV internet
This
“That is a whole Big bucket of Bummer!”
The Audacity of that statement is immeasurable.
You know what’s a bummer? Yelling at a viewer for a minute, especially about a tragic situation someone is dealing with.
@@AB-nk5wv it's more than a minute, even
He felt guilty for asking her why she wasn’t there and displaced that anger. Slime ball. Hopefully other viewers took heed and dropped him.
i bet it’s less of this and more of the fact that he’s so programmed to telling everyone he’s ok that it makes him angry when other people open up.. he wants to open up but somehow in his life he’s been made to feel it’s socially unacceptable ? idk how people end up that way unless they are just entirely antisocial
I hope his mom watched that. Shame on him.
How would the clip being edited EVER excuse that type of behavior? This is the WORST apology video I’ve ever seen so why even do it?
He can't possible like her much, if this is his response.
He’s so self absorbed
What a horrible self absorbed creature. I'm very sorry for Hurvey Curvey's loss.
Did his mom drop him on his head or something?
His mother dropping him would imply that she actually held him at some point.
If she didn’t she should have
I don’t think this clown has a mom 😂
Yes, she dropped him and then dropped dead. He's fighting old demons
Yes, but he landed directly on his face
No empathy... He didn't want to feel anything.
Narcissism.. played a victim while villainising the other person while only concerned about their own image. Also can't comprehend or accept the idea of actually being wrong about something they do that upsets someone.
A normal person would feel reflex unconcious empathy towards even stranger that tells them their mom just died. Because no matter how selfish it would seem your initial reaction in your head is omg if it were my mom I'd be devastated. So it's easy to understand what that person is going through.
This isn't a case of mental diagnosis being required. This a person who is terminally online to point where it's stunted their ability to interact normally with people
This guy is living proof that whenever somebody asks you "how are you doing today" they probably don't actually care how you are actually doing.
I absolutely hate it when people in America greet me with "how are you?" It's improper, and clearly no one cares about my answer, so I usually just respond with "hello." How are you is not a greeting it's a question, which I could have a happy or bad response to. If you're trying to say Hi then just say Hi.
I hate that as a generic greeting, people don’t care and I also don’t care to tell people if I’m not doing good aside from a few people
Your comment and Needsmoreflash's comment reminded me of a friend of mine I knew back in college. Her name was Claudia. We saw each other one day heading in different directions and she said “Hi. How are you?” and I responded, “Hello. I’m okay. How are you?”. But she stopped me and pulled me aside and firmly asked, “No. How are you REALLY?”. I never, ever forgot that because I was sincerely doing horribly and it meant everything in the world to me that she didn’t mean that as a typical greeting, rhetorical question combo and was concerned. I was quite touched that that day Claudia really wanted to know about my well being. She took the time to listen to me because I was feeling pretty glum that day. I genuinely want to know how a person is doing when I ask them. If I ask it means I truly want to know and that I care.😊
@@Needsmoreflash Then stop talking to us/visiting. We ain't losing sleep over you
@@thevalorousdong7675 visiting? I'm an American. I'm born and raised
That wasn't an apology. That was a community guidelines review. This guy is a tool. He was never loved by his mom.
Unfortunately, he's a reflection of most of society, entitled, insensitive, lacking empathy, etc. Society in this place is spiraling downhill rapidly
If Main Character Syndrome were a person.
Hence one of the reasons why I am remaining child free. I do not want to bring kids into this kind of society.
I agree
@@taryndancer29 me too
Ok boomer.
Society is not "swirling" some drain.
Kids/teens are not worse today.
Social media, media are not the "devil"
Just like you didn't actually walk up hill to school both ways.
Just stop 🛑
RIP boomers and the way they think
Look! Shallow has a face.
The beard speaks for itself..
"Damn, sorry to hear that! So sorry for your loss! Well, I'm glad you can join us and maybe take your mind off things for a little while."
So easy to keep it moving after that bad news.
Yes but that would take effort and brain cells.
Clearly that’s too much to ask of him
@@kelseybrexit5224Comment top tier. Your response, even better.
Nah is better than he is honest of how he actually feels about his viewers so they can stop donating to him. being fake here would be shitty in the long rung.
He should quit asking people how they are when he clearly doesn't care
So he literally wants them to lie and say good or ok when he asks… dude literally doesn’t care how you’re really doing. What a tool shed.
“Hey how are you”
(Gives honest answer)
“And I took that personally”.
I really hope this guy doesn’t have a wife or has daughters…someone should check on them.
I think we watch a lot of the same channels. I see your name at least once or twice a week lol.
The fact that he didn't even say that Is crazy and the fact that he keep talking about it is insane.
@@williepearl278 Same here! 😂😂😂
@@williepearl278I get around a lot lol. Appreciate the comment
@@daveblackman816 Right after this I saw your comment on We the People University’s channel😂. I’m low key starting to feel like a stalker😳.
Wow what a jerk. He could have handled that alot better.
This guy must’ve had a really bad childhood or grew up with nonexistent parents to be this enraged over someone else’s grieving
Translation: "I don't care, I only asked as a formality. I am the single most insincere man, alive. Make sure to like and sub."
The streamer... all he had to say was "oh, no. Im sorry for your loss. I understand why youve been gone then, must be hard! Stay strong Kirby! Chat, tell Kirby xyz! Moving on now"
Hahaha, imagine being a 40-year-old and still collecting beer 🍺 cans like a frat boy. Tell me his name, please 🙏 😭 😂
If my mom passed away, and I told someone about it and they reacted, this way, they better hope they’re on the other end of the screen where I can’t get to them
It might take a few seconds of attention from the main character.
I get the feeling that this narcissist is more pissed about the fact that she had the audacity to break one of his stupid little rules than what was actually said.
The cans stacked on he basement table with his mom and dad sitting above him tells ya allllllll ya need to know
I hate how he basically talks about in his "apology" video that it's inconvenient for him to hear the news about their mom passing away. Be a human being and show some empathy!! Narcissism is so rampant in social media
Made me despise him even more
I really hate this societal expectation, when someone asks you "how are you?" You are required to respond "I'm fine." Don't ask, if you don't want to know.
Same. And how are you?
It’s an American thing mostly.
Idk who tf this dude is, but this is a pos move he made.
His name is *POSDOUCHEBAG*
Never heard of him either 🤡
There's probably a reason. Lol.
Can we find this🤔🤔
@@katiemilady197yeah cause he's a sociopath
I suffer with chronic pain and depression and i HATE when people ask because they just want me to say 'yeah good' when the honest answer is 'terrible' - i feel like i have to lie on a daily basis to make other people feel better. Dont ask if you dont want an honest answer!
Dude seriously SPOT ON. I remember when I said shitty one time the reply I got was "can't you just lie?" I couldn't fucking believe the audacity... Damn.
Same. My mother told me when I first got sick that I could talk to her about anything. So if she asked, I would tell her how awful I felt. That is, until one day she asked me, I told her what I was going through and she proceeded to tell me that I was such a downer, no wonder I feel so bad. Why couldn't I say more positive things so I wouldn't drag her down. I was crushed. Because I trusted her when she said that I could talk to her about it and then she threw it back in my face. That was 14 years ago and I still tell no one how bad I feel on regular days, just the "I'm okay, how are you?" response. I only tell my husband on days that I'm struggling to function.
So fnck this guy and his stupid @ss stream! He sounds like a douche.
Not everyone deserves a platform, especially not those who lack empathy.
Etiquette? Its not polite to berate a grieving person!
His "apology" video is crap.
What is this guys channel? He looks familiar.
Most RUclips apology videos usually are I've learned
He said _where have you been?_ not _how are you?_
So, he's not only a terrible person but also aliar.
He got bent out of shape because her response took the focus off of HIM. Extending condolences makes the conversation about HER and he can’t abide that. If he wasn’t a needy jerk, his brief expression of condolence would have made him look like a good guy and then he could have moved on. But, in the end, he certainly is getting lots of attention!
He sure likes to hear himself talk...
Like she legit answered his question??? Try, maybe, chilling the absolute fuck out my dude. I would NEVER respond to someone like that, even if I was caught off guard by the news.
If i was subscribed to this guy i would've unsubscribed the instant he said it and encouraged other to do so
He wouldn't care and most of his subscribers probably won't care either.
Same
I would unsubscribe but I would never encourage others to do the same, like if they weren’t going to already based on how they felt about it then they shouldn’t do it because of how I feel about it
Apology? More like damage control. Which was poorly done in itself.
If I were the streamer, here’s what I would do. One, give my condolences l, then say ‘after the stream ends, we’ll talk. If you want to be private about it.’ He’s personifies incel
i do not go to lives anymore , they can turn on you in an instant with gang mentality.
Love how he had to specifically use "my husband left me for a *younger* woman."
Wtf? Talk about the true definition of entitlement
Try self-centered.
How to not be a streamer 101 taught by this poor excuse of a human being. Pretty please, don't be like this guy!
Idk this person, but thank you, Xenoshot, for exposing this POS. The lack of empathy, respect, and self-awareness of this boy is absolutely disgusting.
The guy just keeps going on about it, and being nasty at on top of that!! Even though he made an "apology" video... he just made his own "drama" Its always the ppl that say they don't like drama or allow it in their lives, lol
The fact that he has a fuckton of beer cans in the background speaks volumes on him.
that dude needs a closed hand reality check.
WTF is wrong with this guy? Why did he berate her like he’s her father trying to “teach her a lesson” on how to talk to people online? “Etiquette”? Dude was literally screaming at her. I hope nobody looks up to this guy.
What a jerk. A normal person would spend 5 secs acknowledging the loss and giving empathy, but his true personality gets in the way and he spends ages ranting about it and then makes a crappy ‘im actually right but I’m being pressured into an apology video’.
Not this neckbeard teaching etiquette to people after literally responding to "my mum died" with "that's a whole big bucket of bummer"
This is what happens when you give a kid participation trophies. An insane amount of self love. 🤦♀️
Um no. This is what happens when you lack any social etiquette and cannot handle hearing negativity.
As if "I'm sorry to hear that" couldn't have just been said.
Wow. I lost my mom when i was 15 and am now 43 and it still to this day hurts like It did when it first happened. This douche bag needs to learn a lesson and I'm not against him learning it by receiving an ass-whooping.
I hope and pray for healing for the person that has lost their mother.
This guy cares more about his microfeelinngs being hurt rather than someone going through a tough time.
There are NOT only "2 acceptable answers" when someone asks how you are. Do not ask someone how they are if you're not prepared to hear "bad day, my mom died" or "bad day, my dog died" or something like that. It's really that easy. Fuck that, society is actually at 0 IQ if people really think that way
Not just that, he asked where they’d been NOT how they were. It wasn’t like they could have just said “fine” to that. Asking where someone is requires a proper response.
How cruel and insensitive of him! To bash someone who has lost their Mother! Who would want to "follow" this turdball?
I will say this. If there's one of the ways not to ruin your career, "don't be an total a$$hole!"
I am the youngest of 4 kids, I am the only 1 to have 1 child. My son doesn't want kids.
I am glad he doesn't, that arsehole streamer is just the kind of person that society is becoming. After my family croaks, our side of the bloodline is done.
I don't have to know that any grandkids down the line are inheriting this mess.
this guy makes me think of what a 18 year old frat boy would be like if he was in his 30s and .. yikes
Such punks.
Some people don't realize just how self-absorbed they are. God forbid she bring him down with something as depressing as grief. 🙄
This would have to be the most toxic individual I've ever had the misfortune of having to listen to.
Literally all he had to say was, “I’m so sorry for your loss. Just know we all are thinking of you today. Chat, please send them love and be respectful.
Instead of dragging it out and trying to educate or groom his audience on proper etiquette. When he loses someone near to him, hopefully he won’t experience what he put her through. Actually atrocious.
You weren't nitpicking. The fact that he asked "where have you been" is crucial to understanding how much of a whiny hypocrite he was being.
I get why people don't wanna hear that someone died plus some people react oddly or badly to death. There was no need to rage at someone for that though, they already feel horrible and are grieving. If he didn't want a genuine answer then he shouldn't have asked. The streamer could've easily said his condolences and made some positive commentary to them. like it's funny he's all about positivity but couldn't have tried to make her situation better by uplifting her.
The stacked cans in the back are all I need to know.
Like I get saying this if someone randomly unprompted said this. But you asked a question they responded.
Nah even then that's not normal at all... To go mask off and embarrass someone for answering and then clarifying that when she said lol she wasn't trying to make light of it. That's it. He literally suggested alternative answers to his question to avoid the attention going to someone else.
He could've taken a 10 second pause to acknowledge the loss respectfully. A small 10 second pause would have gone a looong way - to your loyal listener, as well as others in the room.
WTF...
There is so much I want to say, but WTF is the only thing I can think of that encompasses everything I am feeling at the moment.
instead of apologising like a decent human being and admitting what he said was wrong and disrespectful, he decides to justify why he was a POS to that viewer. what a sad life he must be living
Dude I hope you never experience this. You will one day then you’ll see how heartbreaking it is to lose a family member. This guy is a shameful human being
Talk about an EGO going overboard SMH
1 second in i am already regretting clicking this video to here this self absorbed human being
Thats not what you asked tho... keep that same energy when your loved ones hit the dirt... I hope Kirby removes herself from being a supporter..
He was a jerk about it but asking someone to keep the same energy about the death of someone they don’t know versus someone they love is silly
@@LinksQuesthow many times did they drop you as a baby? be honest
No more space for jerks yall take up the entire room never leave it for the rest of us@@LinksQuest
Bro wtf, while i understand its awkward af to hear something that sad while streaming, it takes literally 1% human decency to just be cool and empathetic about it.
Worse, he brought down the mood far more himself. Then they did. He could have just said well you're here right now and we are going to take your mind off it and make you smile.
All he had to do was say the basic line, “I’m so sorry to hear that, I hope things get better,” and move on. It’s wild to me how people have this mentality that real life “kills the vibe”. So we just all pretend everything is sunshine and rainbows all the time?
What a horrible human being, the lack of empathy and common decency is utterly mind-blowing.
If there was a hell. He'd be going to it
Depends. If Hitler was a believer he's in heaven. God really isn't picky as long as you submit lol.
@@N7_Jedihe isn't retarded. That's like having the memory span of a goldfish
I’m probably older than you Guys so I look at it as that being my Son & that made me cry. Takes a lot to affect me.
My exbest friend was like this! would purposely ignore me for a week if she knew that I was in mental distress. Some people when they mean positive vibes only that is what they exactly mean positive vibes, only or gtfo!!!!! What you’re going through is not worth wrecking their vibe😠
It could also mean that they're not equipped to deal with such a similar situation - I'd understand if it's the first time around, but if it happens on the regular, some research on their part is needed (provided that they're a good friend)
I had a friend that said I didn’t want to be around him because he was depressed and he was right but it wasn’t just because he was depressed, it was because for literal years he was so negative about everything and constantly talked about problems over and over. I wouldn’t expect my friends to hang out with me again and again if they knew every single time was going be a huge downer. Some people are emotionally taxing to be around
@@LinksQuestit pays to be honest tho so I hope you were
Wow, this really disgusting behavior of him.
People are cruel.
I just HAD to mention how THRILLED I am to see someone who actually knows the past tense of SHIT!! I have to keep telling people! 😅 BUTT (deliberate misspelling): I want to tell that girl that what she's gotta do to THAT GUY is... Just - disappear. 100% ghost him. Don't even say anything first, not even "goodbye". I've been around for a while and over the years I've managed to figure out when no more words even need be said. You just cut the line and move on. Even if you've known the person for years. It just happened to me, so trust me here, it's for the best. People don't change, or if they do, it's almost always for the worse. You don't owe this noodnik an explanation or any words at all. Somebody acting THIS inappropriately to a STRANGER would merit this, but to do *this* to someone we *have* to assume he calls (or more like *called*) - a FRIEND?! This behavior is NOT a thing that anybody should just shrug off. Trust me, it's only gonna get worse from here.
Even if they change for the better not everyone is meant to be there in your life forever. (Unless you are the streamer here then yeah you're just a sociopath)
If main character syndrome was a person.
Hate it when those true colours shine through.
What an asshole. He shouldn't have even bothered with that "apology". I've never heard of this guy and I can see why.
This guys expects his chat to be robot NPCs wth. Go talk to ChatGPT if that’s what you’re seeking. 😂
Who is him?
Yes, bad etiquette is not flipping out on someone when their mom died but rather when one honestly answers a question you’ve asked.. 🧐
I can't tell you how much every fiber of my being wishes that EVERYONE in his live would have clicked out & simultaneously UN- subbed !!!!
What an awful person🤮. I bet if his mom had passed that's all he would've been talking about. 🙄
Condolences & prayers to nerdy Kirby 🙏
Dude is so out of touch and self centered its pathetic, a streamer worth avoiding
Dude's sniffin' Adderall.
"How are you?"
"Not grea..."
"F OFF How dare you tell me anything other than 'good or I'll make it through'?!?"
I hope he lost alot of viewers. Now that they know you want them to lie to you.
As a streamer, this is the perfect example of WHAT NOT TO EVER DO.
We aren't popular because of what we do or how we act. We are popular because of the community that we build and the sense of community that we build, this dude is just horrible to do that to any of the viewers (loyal or first-time)
" Im so sorry for your loss, hang in there, lets try and cheer you up for a little bit" , its an easy thing to do.
This is old news but still deserves it's attention. This is from December 2022.
Canadian streamer WeFoundTheBody, whose real name is John Byskal, got into a slightly heated interaction with a viewer who said during one of his streams that her mother had recently died, saying he didn't ask her to share the biggest "bummer news in the world." - Narcity
Wow! That "apology" video was SO MUCH WORSE! Holy ish!
Actually, he didn't say what's up. How are you. He actually said hey where the F have you been?
What an a-hole
Bet he got vicious backlash.