I think her followup video said it best. Everyone is just being petty and flipping out for literally no reason. And in a few days they'll forget and move onto the next petty thing to get upset over.
The people judging the Dad probably aren’t parents. That man may work 60 hours a week to support his family and he plays video game to unwind. It has to be 50/50 to be successful. Everyone has to help but everyone also should get some down time. ❤
@@iamme25yago Are you too immature to see that he could've been more active from the info present she had all that time to set up a video and him not notice.
I see people make assumptions about people's lives constantly and it's really saddening. I guess it's human nature to a point but still saddening. For all anybody else knows, he could have been up with the baby all night long. Nobody knows but they are always so ready to attack.
The misandry is through the roof. Could you imagine if a man said that about a women? “I would've knocked the headphones off, beat her w/ it then tie the cord around her neck & drag her around the house”… Ladies, go to therapy. Go outside. Get some help.
I'd start with a step one - don't share every damn moment of your life with strangers. People are simple, stupid, mean, cruel and it goes double for the people behind the keyboard. Poor guy.
People of the internet also think they are experts in everything and can read people excellently. They don't know anything because they are too involved in the lives of others. Definitely alot worse than playing video games.
Oh geez. If you both constantly foused on the baby, you would both be burned out. You take turns. People are crazy these days. I always wanted to hold my babies, too.
@@iamme25yago As a teacher, having a desire for a child does not mean you will be a good parent, and said desire could also be for selfish reasons. Instead, people should possess the desire to want to do right/ better for their child. Anyone can have a kid, not many can be REAL good parents to them, sadly.
@@hr-hq8ji it's 25 seconds out of their life. You think he never holds the baby? You can't both hold the baby at the same time. If the dad was holding the baby, would you bash the mom? I can't believe this is even a thing.
To be totally fair, she was being ridiculously hyperbolic when she said it was her "last straw" on TikTok. Don't say shit like that unless you want it to be interpreted by the idiots on TikTok in the most dramatic possible way
Wait a minute. People are pushing this narrative onto her that she's a poor victim and he's a bad guy and when she sets them straight they accuse HER of gaslighting??? Make it make sense.
The MOTHER is literally saying she doesn't care, that there's no problem there, and they're still going--perpetually online people. The baby knocking over her food upset her but she seemed fine, everyone has those moments with babies. For all anyone knows, he does take care of the baby but it's just her turn to look after it while he winds down. Both parents can't constantly be looking after the baby, both people would burn out.
All this means is that a lot of people are so sad, that they look for absolutely any reason to get upset. Also, a lot of the people raging would be single women, or single with kids and never married, so jealousy pays a big part. She said “I can’t understand why people are upset”. Yes, you can. You’re happily married with kids. That’s the reason.
When you have a young one at that age they thrash their arms around a lot so make sure things are secured. They don't have the motor skills to control their movements yet. That is a cute kid. Hard to get made at it. Lol
My husband spends alot of time on games. I dont expect him to come running at my every whim thats ridiculous. I'm not the baby lol. Games are his special interest. Some guys like cars, some like farming and hunting. And some like games. What's the problem? Being on a game once doesnt mean your never off it!
Right? Like, I have a life. I work. I do shit. Yet I'm a gamer. I don't understand how humans can be such assholes sometimes. It makes me really want to avoid people... That's why I play games to get away from them.
I guess when you think about it, if someone cant themselves enjoy something as a hobby, then how would they understand someone else doing so? I think we as people tend to be shy about other peoples hobbies, let alone that they really enjoy them. Many people dont take personal time to enjoy a hobby either and I think these can be a little envy that comes from that as well! We hate what we domt understand. And if it's something that seems to bring others a great deal of joy and comfort and we cant understand that, we get big mad. Just how humans do. Lol
Everyone needs to chill. She wasn't massively struggling to eat, in fact, the baby was overall very calm and sitting still, she had one tiny burst of energy and happened to hit the bowl. I dont think people realize that they are also insinuating that she can't hold her own baby and do other things at the same time. Shes a mom. We have suoer powers.
I have a daughter who's a gamer & wears headphones while playing. We have to yell for her to hear us. I'm sure if he had heard the bowl hit the floor he would've at least turned around to see what was up.
@I am me • 25y ago Where are you getting OPs daughter has an addiction? All she did was mention her daughter being a gamer and that she wears headphones while gaming, how does that equal addiction?
@@veronicamascaro3041 same question for you, how does gaming automatically equal addiction? Oh no, you're on RUclips, that much automatically mean you have an addiction to technology, you know, because you use it. Stupid, just absolutely stupid. My husband is gamer, but owns and operates a successful motorcycle/atv/dirt bike/quad shop. He works 6 days a week, 14 hours a day, please tell me how gaming 4-6 hours a week is some addiction... or is it only when headphones are involved that it's actually an addiction? How completely & utterly stupid of you to assume all gamers have some addiction. Do you even know what addiction means?
@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 Thank you. Jesus kids can be kids and play. These people all seem to forget the world has changed. Almost every child is now in childcare early on because we need two incomes thus time is more limited if parents want to actually see their children. Children are more vulnerable as well because kidnapping, child predators, trafficking are all much more prominent then when "we" grew up. We also had video games. This man is simply saying his daughter plays video games and likely the dad didn't hear the bowl because he has headphones on and probably can't hear. People are so quick to judge!
@I am me • 25y ago How the Fu€k do you know how life was like in the 80's or 90's when you were born in 98. Your life has been nothing but the internet. I was born in 87 and instead of computer screens, some people were watching TV ALL DAY. This weirdo holier than thou generation is your generation. Most of y'all complain about everything and judge people for anything. Like how you're judging a women who's kid is a gamer. GROW THE HELL UP and worry about yourself.
@@plumsmom8043 Like what the hell? Gaming is probably the best way for a child to spend their time nowadays, especially if they play with their friends, not only do they have fun... but they can't get hurt or preyed upon by strangers like outside and not playing outside means they are less likely to find drugs, because you can't take drugs through a screen, the only thing you have to be mindful of at that point is their diet, what sites they frequent and that's about it, and to help them socialize you have school or events that you go to.
My husband works 9 hours for 5 days, sometimes even 6 days, to support us. We have a toddler, and am expecting our second baby. He deserves to unwind and play his videogames. It's pathetic how many entitled women are quick to assume a guy's lazy the moment he tries to relax in their own homes. If you really think nagging and berating your man is a solution every time you feel inconvenienced, don't expect a stable relationship. I can bet they simply expect him to pay the bills AND do all the housework because they're lazy af
Like, It's absolutely unreal how much videogames help stress wise, you might have no idea but without those video games or something to replace them he would be angry and frustrated all the time, at least that's how I am when I don't have something to relieve my stress anyway. Stress relief is paramount for a good/chill life.
I'd bet a month's salary that if the roles were reversed, not a soul on the internet would be outraged about the mom enjoying some game time while the dad fed the kid breakfast. This is straight up man-hating.
"Ppl are angry bc they are upset for you!" Why are you getting upset for other people's sake? People must enjoy arguing and being conflict even if its not their own. They just love being outraged it's insanity.
As someone who was in a marriage for 18 years to a guy who, when he discovered computer games, ignored his family until I kicked him to the curb, I get where some of these people are coming from. BUT....on the other hand....I don't know this guy. It's possible she didn't ask for any help. It's possible she told him to go ahead and play and relax for a while. She said they just got up. Maybe this was a Saturday, he worked all week, and decided to play and drink some coffee before starting his day. I mean, we can't judge anyone based on a 20 second clip. Maybe he was up first, let her sleep in, took care of the baby and she took over when she got up. We will never know, and honestly, it's none of our business.
I'm a mom of 3. I game. That's my stress relief. My question is, why does the mom have to record herself struggling with the kid? Put the damn kid down and distract it with toys or put it to sleep. Stop exploiting your kid for cloud. You're creating your own "last straw". She put her baby daddy in a bad spot and retaliated on the attention she wanted
Ok just by watching the clip alone, i can see why people were upset. They thought she was at the breaking point with him. She shouldn't have put "this was my last straw".
I agree with you that the dad probably did ask her if she wanted him to hold the baby while she ate and she probably said no because she wanted to do a video with the baby. The dad went to start a video game, and the baby decided to change plans on the mom. They don't know what happened before recording or their lives. People wanna start crap for no reason.
Man imagine going through life being so bored and problematic that you actively seek out things to be enraged over, things that aren't even happening to you but to other people. What a miserable existence!
I'm 55 years old and I'm playing zelda right now while I'm watching this video, I am a end of life/ hospice caregiver and I just lost a woman I really got close to so I have lost myself in video games for the last two day's, it's the most stressful and difficult jobs I've ever had and losing myself in gaming is the only way I cope with the loss, I will game until I'm gone.
Honestly I think it was the caption that made people become so invested like that tbh. She made it seem like this was a super common situation that annoyed her at least a small amount.
My dad left me and his other 2 kids when I was 3 for a Russian bride and he gets treated like a perfectly normal upstanding citizen. This man is actually there for his kids and he gets this *hit for taking a gaming break? The people on Social media is out of control
Dead beat Dad wasn't my 1st thought. It was actually working from home...Since I did that for 20+ years that is where my head went for a nano second and then straight back to mom and baby. Haters on the internet just seem desperate for their own lives to have value...dragging others down to lift yourself up seems to be a trend
There are a lot of people these days, who make money playing videos. This could be his way of making money. He met game 7-10. Then watch baby for a few hrs. Then edit the video. Then upload. That was my 1st thought. I follow a lot of RUclipsrs, who are parents. And pay the bills making RUclips videos. Most try to keep their kids out of the videos. And the few that show their kids. It's like a short minute of a 30 min video. Like his John& Mary playing with toys. Ok Dads going to work. Or Mom's going to work.
Before she came out and said he was the dad, people wouldn’t have known if that was her brother, or maybe some other family member. Which that would’ve been hilarious
Why are ppl judging?!?! Is harm being done to the baby? At some point people need to stay in their lane. I’m sure those judging are not remembering what they have done or continue to do. I was happy to see a father spending time with their child. Please stop finding fault and just “BE”. If people were upset about anything; it was something that someone ELSE wrote., that planted that seed. Very unfortunate. Trust and believe that someone will reprimand any and all negative behavior that is done online toward a child/baby. Maybe ppl are feeling the Full Moon In Sagittarius this evening. Sending you ❤️ and light.
She knew what she was doing with the dad playing video games in the background…she got her 15 minutes of fame. That’s all it was, her wanting attention.
She can put the baby down if she wants to eat. Like ffs, my cousin has five kids and has never thought that eating with a tot in your arm was a good thing
What's funny is that people will spew a whole narrative and say that whatever they say is "True" and "The Facts". But once someone counter, they'll use the, "You're wrong, you weren't even there." What's even worse is that women always resort to TikTok and want to expose their man like that and will do anything instead of talking with their partner. The Internet will fix your marital problems. Interpersonal communication is key, people
I used to work 2 fulltime jobs and when i had some time i was exhausted and just tried to relax , my wifes family said "red flag hes playing games more than taking care of his family" or "all he does is sleep when hes home " i broke my foot and ripped my ligement and could not walk for months , they told her i was lazy and irresponcible though most of the time i was the sole financial provider..... its fun to only get 4 hours of sleep most weekdays because of your jobs and not even get weekends off just days where only one job has you sometimes..... to be called a piece of crap. they convinced her to leave me back in september and she took our children into the home of a pedo across the us and i dont even get to see my children now. There is a court order saying i should get them in the summer , my wife refuses to follow. Yeah i dont even play games ot get me time anymore , now i live to make money i dont even get to see. To anyone who judges anyone for trying to relax , i hope you are skinned alive and forced to live that way to the ripe age of 120. Ps , she gets free college , free housing , free food , free childcare and daddy pays for her phone , car and insurance......... because shes a "mother in need" she sold all our belongings while i was at work the day she left and took all our money and when i came home she was just gone along with everything..... even our car..... been really fun trying to get back on top. Karmas a bitch hope it flops.
People jump to conclusions that are always negative. Which is insane, cause it's a sign of mental illness. So many crazy people out there it's no joke.
The big sigh of relief and almost involuntarily smile I made when I deleted my fb account 3 years ago just automatically came back to me..... I'm so happy I just watch videos now and don't comment that often... no social media is bliss ❤️❤️
oh no the baby knocked over the bowl with food and people get mad at a dad in the background who was closing cabinet doors at the same time the kid knocks over the bowl
It reminds me of when that picture circulated of the guy playing playstation and his daughters were next to him watching. People were saying he was neglecting them.
Oh honey. You have NO idea what's it's like to be a parent. The moment that child comes into your life. It's 18yrs of NO Time Off. Even when the Child is at a Friends you still working. Because oh look child out of house. I can clean in peace. And try to have a job. You get up 2hr b4 you need to. Because you have to get the child up, then feed. You feed. Everyone in clothes. Bags pack. Take the kid somewhere. You go to work. Hoping you don't get a call with your kids sick. Come get it. Then you get off of work, and you have to take care of the child. That want let you pee alone. Wants everything. Steels your stuff. Throws a fit, because the peas are touching the potatoes. And God forbid your sick. Try being sick, with a sick kid. I would rather work 12 hrs a day, 5 days a week. If that meant, the only person I had to take care of, was me. I love my Child. Don't get me wrong. But I'm counting the days until she turns 18. And I can go on vacation, by myself, and not have to rush home.
Imagine if the roles were reversed and it had been a dad holding the baby and the mom gaming; and someone commented that they would have knocked the headset off her head, wrapped a cord around her neck, choking her and dragged her around the house. How fucked up would that be then??? Double standards istg, people need to mind their own damn business.
One: why wasn’t the child in a high chair. That’s exactly what they are for. Two: why aren’t you using non slip bowls. That’s exactly what they are for. Three: why didn’t you ask your husband for help, instead of farking it up, and seeming to blame him.
People need to mind their own business about other peoples kids. The baby not abused or neglected. They don't pay for the baby its none of their business.
People’s toxicity and self-assured arrogance to blindly believe in their own convictions without evidence is exactly the problem with this world today. Honestly, everyone who said a bad word about the dad is a scumbag
Wtf that baby is a straight up role model. Any parent can see that kid is for all intents a purposes "well behaved". No screaming, looks happy and this lady is trying to make it look like shes having a hard time. What bs.
It's OBVIOUS those ppl, that made the stupid "dad" comments, aren't parents. She was holding the baby on purpose or she wouldn't have recorded in the 1st place. Babies flail their arms all the time when they are little. Just imagine what would have been said if the baby slapped her... smh
Just goes to show how many angry scumbags out there ready to EF someone over without any rhyme or reason other than they want to vent their own pent up anger over the inadequacies of the life they lead. Judging others based on what they think and not what they know is typical of scumbags.
You can still be a great husband & father & be a gamer at the same time. Why do us men get judged when playing video games. We don’t judge women shopping all the time so don’t judge us playing video games.
I see people make assumptions about people's lives constantly and it's really saddening. I guess it's human nature to a point but still saddening. For all anybody else knows, he could have been up with the baby all night long. Nobody knows but they are always so ready to attack.
The parasocial relationship people have with those who post videos obviously live very empty lives if they get so wrapped up in the lives of others without knowing them at all. If they had fulfilling lives of their own they wouldn't act like deranged interlopers judging people watching a 10 second video. The woman who posted the video is too smart for TikTok. She needs to get out. Glad she called out the crazies. The commenter who asked if she was gaslighting them doesn't even know what gaslighting means, the rest are scary if they would hurt a guy for playing a video game. I hope they are single for the safety of others.
Me and my husband have a 9 month old girl. I stay home with her and he works 10 hour days. We have worked out a system of taking turns with our baby when we are both home so the other parent has some "me time" sometimes it's so one can take a nap, play a game, or whatever. There is nothing wrong with him playing a video game...now if that's all he does then that's a problem, but I don't know so I can just assume. You CAN and put the baby down so you can eat, but you can also hold your baby while eating, and yes it is very difficult to do. so I just put my baby in the high chair or playpen. This is seriously rediulus how people just automatically jump to "he's a terrible person and father"
"You just need to be seen." Holy shit the irony and dearth of self-awareness here... Why is the camera there anyway? She was def baiting this. Maybe she actually doesn't think he helps out enough, and because she's too immature she needed the "support" of a million strangers. I wouldn't doubt she showed him all the comments and was all like "I know, right? Can you believe it?" as a passive aggressive way to bring something to his attention. My gut tells me she sucks.
This woman was seeking out *attention* - good or bad. Your relationship should be private but a lot of women don't respect a man's need for privacy and boundaries. This young woman (basically a child still) is screaming for attention. She invited the drama into her marriage because that's a lot of women's fuel - like gasoline for a car. It has to be filled.
That man could be the primary caregiver and be a stay at home dad while the mom works out and then wants to spend time with the baby! Or he worked all day and wanted to unwind for a few minutes like…
Deleted Facebook 9 years ago, deleted Twitter 4 years ago, and never had the other vomit inducing social media platforms (TikShite, IG etc). I have a phone, therefore if i want to "connect" I can just text; or *shiver* call friends/family. The whole social media thing (being an "influencer" etc) is like a narcissists wet dream. I think I'm just old, and don't understand the value or meaning behind spreading your personal life all over the internet, just for morons to comment on it. 🤷🏾♂️
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This is literally the perfect example why I do not do social media
They need to change the name to anti-social media
Yeah i deleted all my accounts 5 years ago and its been great
@@MrGundam0083 hahahaha I deleted mine 4 years ago. 😂 it has been so much better.
@@mr.duanesharpe Yeah like putting their own picture as a profile pic, hate those guys. 😁
P.s FB is the devil 💯
@@RadDadisRad You literally literally literally have a pic of your family as your RUclips pic, literally though.
I think her followup video said it best. Everyone is just being petty and flipping out for literally no reason. And in a few days they'll forget and move onto the next petty thing to get upset over.
Perpetually offended
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We should normalize NOT making insane assumptions about strangers online.
I agree more 👍🏻
It was the norm at one point. Shit got flipped and now we need to make it normal again lol.
The people judging the Dad probably aren’t parents. That man may work 60 hours a week to support his family and he plays video game to unwind. It has to be 50/50 to be successful. Everyone has to help but everyone also should get some down time. ❤
Exactly he can have fun too. After a long day a work why not relax or play games even spend times playing board games with his wife.
He may not either no one knows let's not bank on either.
@@iamme25yago That's his gf not a babysitter he could've been more active but he's not automatically shit for playing a video game.
@@iamme25yago Are you too immature to see that he could've been more active from the info present she had all that time to set up a video and him not notice.
I see people make assumptions about people's lives constantly and it's really saddening. I guess it's human nature to a point but still saddening. For all anybody else knows, he could have been up with the baby all night long. Nobody knows but they are always so ready to attack.
you can see her laughing in the video, that alone should be enough...
It's one of those "you're so frustrated and angry all you can do is laugh" laughs though.
@@Atrus999 no it isn’t truly she thought about it was frustrated but then realized how funny it was and it was on camera lol
The misandry is through the roof. Could you imagine if a man said that about a women?
“I would've knocked the headphones off, beat her w/ it then tie the cord around her neck & drag her around the house”…
Ladies, go to therapy. Go outside. Get some help.
This is what these feminist echo chambers do, it promotes pettiness and narcissism disguised as “progressiveness”
Good point
that's feminist for ya
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@@jbob6545 No, and you know it.
So, baby dropped the food..
Dad doing his own thing, mom giving baby food.. ok.
There's literally nothing in this video to get pissed about..
Lmao exactly so many people assume shit right off the bat it’s crazy honestly.
She's even laughing.
@@comicbooknerd3570 Assumptions, fake outrage, entitlement to give unsolicited advice..
@@Jane-Doe.1126 Yeah.. people assumed her frustrated laugh was aimed at the husband and not the situation..
people are unstable nowadays, drop in testosterone of the population is showing HARD.
I'd start with a step one - don't share every damn moment of your life with strangers. People are simple, stupid, mean, cruel and it goes double for the people behind the keyboard. Poor guy.
This was stagged
People of the internet also think they are experts in everything and can read people excellently. They don't know anything because they are too involved in the lives of others. Definitely alot worse than playing video games.
@@godofwarguy9865How do you know that?
@@eldenlion5850 bc i know them.
People find it easy to judge others when they don't have a clue or have children. The baby looks clean and happy, that's all that matters.
I think that's exactly it, that most of the people getting offended either get offended over everything or don't have children themselves.
The Internet: Always trying to be a hero in someone else's story.
Oh geez. If you both constantly foused on the baby, you would both be burned out. You take turns. People are crazy these days. I always wanted to hold my babies, too.
@I am me • 25y ago Really????? Woooow
So why is she the only one doing it
@@iamme25yago As a teacher, having a desire for a child does not mean you will be a good parent, and said desire could also be for selfish reasons. Instead, people should possess the desire to want to do right/ better for their child.
Anyone can have a kid, not many can be REAL good parents to them, sadly.
@@hr-hq8ji it's 25 seconds out of their life. You think he never holds the baby? You can't both hold the baby at the same time. If the dad was holding the baby, would you bash the mom? I can't believe this is even a thing.
@@hr-hq8ji We don't know, it's not our relationship nor kid, so why should we care?
To be totally fair, she was being ridiculously hyperbolic when she said it was her "last straw" on TikTok. Don't say shit like that unless you want it to be interpreted by the idiots on TikTok in the most dramatic possible way
I mean with a title like that what else was the internet to conclude 😂
"Ridiculously hyperbolic" is a bit of an exaggeration...
But she had laughing emoji!
@@Ammut6 fair
@@dinabaughman8731 true, I guess I didn't notice that. That does change the connotation significantly
Isn’t it great how this generation has no idea how to deescalate and actually sees deescalation as out of the question .
0 to 100 instantly.. and doubling down, no matter what.
Wait a minute. People are pushing this narrative onto her that she's a poor victim and he's a bad guy and when she sets them straight they accuse HER of gaslighting??? Make it make sense.
The MOTHER is literally saying she doesn't care, that there's no problem there, and they're still going--perpetually online people. The baby knocking over her food upset her but she seemed fine, everyone has those moments with babies. For all anyone knows, he does take care of the baby but it's just her turn to look after it while he winds down. Both parents can't constantly be looking after the baby, both people would burn out.
All this means is that a lot of people are so sad, that they look for absolutely any reason to get upset. Also, a lot of the people raging would be single women, or single with kids and never married, so jealousy pays a big part. She said “I can’t understand why people are upset”. Yes, you can. You’re happily married with kids. That’s the reason.
Probably the majority of TikTok lurkers yeah. Not enough to do in their lives so scroll their life away on TikTok
When you have a young one at that age they thrash their arms around a lot so make sure things are secured. They don't have the motor skills to control their movements yet. That is a cute kid. Hard to get made at it. Lol
My husband spends alot of time on games. I dont expect him to come running at my every whim thats ridiculous. I'm not the baby lol. Games are his special interest. Some guys like cars, some like farming and hunting. And some like games. What's the problem? Being on a game once doesnt mean your never off it!
Right? Like, I have a life. I work. I do shit. Yet I'm a gamer. I don't understand how humans can be such assholes sometimes. It makes me really want to avoid people... That's why I play games to get away from them.
I guess when you think about it, if someone cant themselves enjoy something as a hobby, then how would they understand someone else doing so? I think we as people tend to be shy about other peoples hobbies, let alone that they really enjoy them. Many people dont take personal time to enjoy a hobby either and I think these can be a little envy that comes from that as well! We hate what we domt understand. And if it's something that seems to bring others a great deal of joy and comfort and we cant understand that, we get big mad. Just how humans do. Lol
Everyone needs to chill. She wasn't massively struggling to eat, in fact, the baby was overall very calm and sitting still, she had one tiny burst of energy and happened to hit the bowl. I dont think people realize that they are also insinuating that she can't hold her own baby and do other things at the same time. Shes a mom. We have suoer powers.
sounds legit. never heard of this power but okay. 🤣😆 I'll ask my wife when she's pregnant if she can levitate my azz lawl
@@iamme25yagothose who judge other's love languages are also annoying
It’s nice to see an audience being crazy instead of the people making the video for a change. People are insane all around.
We live in a society...
...Where nobody can mind their own damn business, and where outrage culture is king...
And most of it is fake outrage.. they literally couldn't care less in real life..
You upload one video of you trying to enjoy yourself, everybody loses their minds
So basically its the whole "Even though you're not upset, we're upset for you" mindset. 😂 As if that's logically sound or morally just. It's just sad.
I have a daughter who's a gamer & wears headphones while playing. We have to yell for her to hear us. I'm sure if he had heard the bowl hit the floor he would've at least turned around to see what was up.
@I am me • 25y ago Where are you getting OPs daughter has an addiction? All she did was mention her daughter being a gamer and that she wears headphones while gaming, how does that equal addiction?
@@veronicamascaro3041 same question for you, how does gaming automatically equal addiction? Oh no, you're on RUclips, that much automatically mean you have an addiction to technology, you know, because you use it.
Stupid, just absolutely stupid.
My husband is gamer, but owns and operates a successful motorcycle/atv/dirt bike/quad shop. He works 6 days a week, 14 hours a day, please tell me how gaming 4-6 hours a week is some addiction... or is it only when headphones are involved that it's actually an addiction?
How completely & utterly stupid of you to assume all gamers have some addiction. Do you even know what addiction means?
@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 Thank you. Jesus kids can be kids and play. These people all seem to forget the world has changed. Almost every child is now in childcare early on because we need two incomes thus time is more limited if parents want to actually see their children. Children are more vulnerable as well because kidnapping, child predators, trafficking are all much more prominent then when "we" grew up. We also had video games. This man is simply saying his daughter plays video games and likely the dad didn't hear the bowl because he has headphones on and probably can't hear. People are so quick to judge!
@I am me • 25y ago How the Fu€k do you know how life was like in the 80's or 90's when you were born in 98.
Your life has been nothing but the internet.
I was born in 87 and instead of computer screens, some people were watching TV ALL DAY.
This weirdo holier than thou generation is your generation.
Most of y'all complain about everything and judge people for anything.
Like how you're judging a women who's kid is a gamer.
GROW THE HELL UP and worry about yourself.
@@plumsmom8043 Like what the hell? Gaming is probably the best way for a child to spend their time nowadays, especially if they play with their friends, not only do they have fun... but they can't get hurt or preyed upon by strangers like outside and not playing outside means they are less likely to find drugs, because you can't take drugs through a screen, the only thing you have to be mindful of at that point is their diet, what sites they frequent and that's about it, and to help them socialize you have school or events that you go to.
My husband works 9 hours for 5 days, sometimes even 6 days, to support us. We have a toddler, and am expecting our second baby.
He deserves to unwind and play his videogames. It's pathetic how many entitled women are quick to assume a guy's lazy the moment he tries to relax in their own homes. If you really think nagging and berating your man is a solution every time you feel inconvenienced, don't expect a stable relationship. I can bet they simply expect him to pay the bills AND do all the housework because they're lazy af
Like, It's absolutely unreal how much videogames help stress wise, you might have no idea but without those video games or something to replace them he would be angry and frustrated all the time, at least that's how I am when I don't have something to relieve my stress anyway. Stress relief is paramount for a good/chill life.
I'd bet a month's salary that if the roles were reversed, not a soul on the internet would be outraged about the mom enjoying some game time while the dad fed the kid breakfast. This is straight up man-hating.
This is the result of feminist echo chambers on the internet, it turns them into petty narcissists who jump to the biggest conclusions
I have to agree with that. It sucks but the comments would be completely different.
No, everyone would be calling her a bad mom and telling her to stay home because that's her job.
@@juliab9596 Don't know what fantasy cotton candy land you live in, but society has this thing called double standards
"Ppl are angry bc they are upset for you!" Why are you getting upset for other people's sake? People must enjoy arguing and being conflict even if its not their own. They just love being outraged it's insanity.
As a husband and a father, my wife and I still game together and separately just fine. Agreed your kid comes above all. But nobody is a bad guy.
As someone who was in a marriage for 18 years to a guy who, when he discovered computer games, ignored his family until I kicked him to the curb, I get where some of these people are coming from. BUT....on the other hand....I don't know this guy. It's possible she didn't ask for any help. It's possible she told him to go ahead and play and relax for a while. She said they just got up. Maybe this was a Saturday, he worked all week, and decided to play and drink some coffee before starting his day. I mean, we can't judge anyone based on a 20 second clip. Maybe he was up first, let her sleep in, took care of the baby and she took over when she got up. We will never know, and honestly, it's none of our business.
As the mom of five and grandmother of eleven- she totally knew that baby would smack that bowl over.
She wasn’t trying to eat. She was trying to eat while doing social media.
I'm a mom of 3. I game. That's my stress relief.
My question is, why does the mom have to record herself struggling with the kid? Put the damn kid down and distract it with toys or put it to sleep. Stop exploiting your kid for cloud. You're creating your own "last straw". She put her baby daddy in a bad spot and retaliated on the attention she wanted
Ok just by watching the clip alone, i can see why people were upset. They thought she was at the breaking point with him. She shouldn't have put "this was my last straw".
I agree with you that the dad probably did ask her if she wanted him to hold the baby while she ate and she probably said no because she wanted to do a video with the baby. The dad went to start a video game, and the baby decided to change plans on the mom. They don't know what happened before recording or their lives. People wanna start crap for no reason.
She looked like she was holding back tears... 😥
Tears of laughter..!! 🤣
Man imagine going through life being so bored and problematic that you actively seek out things to be enraged over, things that aren't even happening to you but to other people. What a miserable existence!
People junp to WILD conclusions online... Occasionly crack unsolved murders and missing person cases but usually wild nonsense lol
Dogs: Nature's vacuum cleaners 😆
There was nothing wrong with the video the mom had it under control
It would be totally different, if the, idk, kitchen was on fire or something.. but it isn't.. people are crazy online🤦🏻♀️😂
@@einienj3281 with the amount of reaching from hell they do they may ignite the kitchen on fire
@@youcansave15ormoreoncarins75 🔥😎🔥
I'm 55 years old and I'm playing zelda right now while I'm watching this video, I am a end of life/ hospice caregiver and I just lost a woman I really got close to so I have lost myself in video games for the last two day's, it's the most stressful and difficult jobs I've ever had and losing myself in gaming is the only way I cope with the loss, I will game until I'm gone.
Honestly I think it was the caption that made people become so invested like that tbh. She made it seem like this was a super common situation that annoyed her at least a small amount.
Can’t stand when people put their life online
My dad left me and his other 2 kids when I was 3 for a Russian bride and he gets treated like a perfectly normal upstanding citizen. This man is actually there for his kids and he gets this *hit for taking a gaming break? The people on Social media is out of control
Games + Nuclear Family Image = YES, they can coexist.
The anger is seeing a family structure most people have never experienced or have.
Dead beat Dad wasn't my 1st thought. It was actually working from home...Since I did that for 20+ years that is where my head went for a nano second and then straight back to mom and baby. Haters on the internet just seem desperate for their own lives to have value...dragging others down to lift yourself up seems to be a trend
There are a lot of people these days, who make money playing videos. This could be his way of making money. He met game 7-10. Then watch baby for a few hrs. Then edit the video. Then upload. That was my 1st thought. I follow a lot of RUclipsrs, who are parents. And pay the bills making RUclips videos. Most try to keep their kids out of the videos. And the few that show their kids. It's like a short minute of a 30 min video. Like his John& Mary playing with toys. Ok Dads going to work. Or Mom's going to work.
Before she came out and said he was the dad, people wouldn’t have known if that was her brother, or maybe some other family member. Which that would’ve been hilarious
Beautiful baby!!! I don’t get why anyone would be upset???? They are bonding people 😂😂😂💯😂💯
Did you miss why people were "upset?" How?
Why are ppl judging?!?! Is harm being done to the baby? At some point people need to stay in their lane. I’m sure those judging are not remembering what they have done or continue to do. I was happy to see a father spending time with their child. Please stop finding fault and just “BE”. If people were upset about anything; it was something that someone ELSE wrote., that planted that seed. Very unfortunate. Trust and believe that someone will reprimand any and all negative behavior that is done online toward a child/baby. Maybe ppl are feeling the Full Moon In Sagittarius this evening. Sending you ❤️ and light.
The dogs clean the floor? Hello
My dog is a vacuum cleaner.. sometimes it never even lands on the floor.. 😂
She knew what she was doing with the dad playing video games in the background…she got her 15 minutes of fame. That’s all it was, her wanting attention.
She can put the baby down if she wants to eat. Like ffs, my cousin has five kids and has never thought that eating with a tot in your arm was a good thing
Lol but the mom can be on the phone when she relaxes or all day 😂
the way she places the camera an phrases it made ppl think she was angry at the guy, which u cant assume when u dont even know the ppl
What's funny is that people will spew a whole narrative and say that whatever they say is "True" and "The Facts". But once someone counter, they'll use the, "You're wrong, you weren't even there." What's even worse is that women always resort to TikTok and want to expose their man like that and will do anything instead of talking with their partner. The Internet will fix your marital problems. Interpersonal communication is key, people
I used to work 2 fulltime jobs and when i had some time i was exhausted and just tried to relax , my wifes family said "red flag hes playing games more than taking care of his family" or "all he does is sleep when hes home " i broke my foot and ripped my ligement and could not walk for months , they told her i was lazy and irresponcible though most of the time i was the sole financial provider..... its fun to only get 4 hours of sleep most weekdays because of your jobs and not even get weekends off just days where only one job has you sometimes..... to be called a piece of crap. they convinced her to leave me back in september and she took our children into the home of a pedo across the us and i dont even get to see my children now. There is a court order saying i should get them in the summer , my wife refuses to follow. Yeah i dont even play games ot get me time anymore , now i live to make money i dont even get to see. To anyone who judges anyone for trying to relax , i hope you are skinned alive and forced to live that way to the ripe age of 120.
Ps , she gets free college , free housing , free food , free childcare and daddy pays for her phone , car and insurance......... because shes a "mother in need" she sold all our belongings while i was at work the day she left and took all our money and when i came home she was just gone along with everything..... even our car..... been really fun trying to get back on top. Karmas a bitch hope it flops.
I bet no one that posted a negative comment actually made a follow up comment admitting their over reaction. 😂
He has headphones on? If she went over and asked for his help and then he refused. Then he would be an AH, but she didn’t.
People jump to conclusions that are always negative. Which is insane, cause it's a sign of mental illness. So many crazy people out there it's no joke.
The big sigh of relief and almost involuntarily smile I made when I deleted my fb account 3 years ago just automatically came back to me..... I'm so happy I just watch videos now and don't comment that often... no social media is bliss ❤️❤️
I always find it interesting how these videos are so coincidentally recorded when something happens perfectly to make someone out to be the bad guy
Can someone explain why its ok for women to encourage fellow women to abuse the man in their lives, but God forbid if a dude said these things.
oh no the baby knocked over the bowl with food and people get mad at a dad in the background who was closing cabinet doors at the same time the kid knocks over the bowl
This is the state of misandry in the west.
Passport bros we up.
I honestly wouldn’t have noticed the dad in the background if not for this.
This is why I strictly don't use social media especially tiktok and Twitter. It just ruins your mind like crazy
We all need to stop making assumptions. All of us.
It reminds me of when that picture circulated of the guy playing playstation and his daughters were next to him watching. People were saying he was neglecting them.
Don’t share your private life on TikTok.
Bet if she just went over and asked 'Hon could you help me clean this up' He woukd probably be like yeh sure doll
I’m not a parents but I honestly think working is harder than being a parent
Oh honey. You have NO idea what's it's like to be a parent. The moment that child comes into your life. It's 18yrs of NO Time Off. Even when the Child is at a Friends you still working. Because oh look child out of house. I can clean in peace. And try to have a job. You get up 2hr b4 you need to. Because you have to get the child up, then feed. You feed. Everyone in clothes. Bags pack. Take the kid somewhere. You go to work. Hoping you don't get a call with your kids sick. Come get it. Then you get off of work, and you have to take care of the child. That want let you pee alone. Wants everything. Steels your stuff. Throws a fit, because the peas are touching the potatoes. And God forbid your sick. Try being sick, with a sick kid. I would rather work 12 hrs a day, 5 days a week. If that meant, the only person I had to take care of, was me. I love my Child. Don't get me wrong. But I'm counting the days until she turns 18. And I can go on vacation, by myself, and not have to rush home.
@@AuttumnDawn shut sorry I meant the other way around
The people hating on the dad are moms who have kids and no guy could stand being with them, because they think like this.
Imagine if the roles were reversed and it had been a dad holding the baby and the mom gaming; and someone commented that they would have knocked the headset off her head, wrapped a cord around her neck, choking her and dragged her around the house. How fucked up would that be then??? Double standards istg, people need to mind their own damn business.
People are overall just fucking sad. We need to have a major catastrophe hit the world to weed out the weak. And get rid of the internet forever.
No one would've said a dang thing if the roles were reversed tho 🤦🏽♀️ what is wrong with people
One: why wasn’t the child in a high chair. That’s exactly what they are for.
Two: why aren’t you using non slip bowls. That’s exactly what they are for.
Three: why didn’t you ask your husband for help, instead of farking it up, and seeming to blame him.
People need to mind their own business about other peoples kids. The baby not abused or neglected. They don't pay for the baby its none of their business.
People’s toxicity and self-assured arrogance to blindly believe in their own convictions without evidence is exactly the problem with this world today. Honestly, everyone who said a bad word about the dad is a scumbag
Tiktok needs to be banned already. Everything starts with tiktok.
It's always the people without children that say this stuff.
Good for her!!!! Glad to see a younger person have some grasp on reality when it comes to social media. ❤
Wtf that baby is a straight up role model. Any parent can see that kid is for all intents a purposes "well behaved". No screaming, looks happy and this lady is trying to make it look like shes having a hard time. What bs.
Interesting…
I wonder who’s watching the baby during her reply videos?
It's OBVIOUS those ppl, that made the stupid "dad" comments, aren't parents. She was holding the baby on purpose or she wouldn't have recorded in the 1st place. Babies flail their arms all the time when they are little. Just imagine what would have been said if the baby slapped her... smh
This is what happens when some people run out of things to be mad about in their own lives.
Just goes to show how many angry scumbags out there ready to EF someone over without any rhyme or reason other than they want to vent their own pent up anger over the inadequacies of the life they lead. Judging others based on what they think and not what they know is typical of scumbags.
You can still be a great husband & father & be a gamer at the same time. Why do us men get judged when playing video games. We don’t judge women shopping all the time so don’t judge us playing video games.
Don't. Share. Your. Life. With. Strangers.
TikTok - the Internet's sewer.
Anyone who coparents knows you take turns looking after the baby or youre going to burn out. Respect to single parents... youre superheroes.
if momma needed help she would ask.
Bull sh*t she knew the Dad was in the back,ground. She was playing the victim.
The Tiktokers Contradiction: Omg look at what everyone else is doing but ignore me tiktoking about it🤷♀️
I see people make assumptions about people's lives constantly and it's really saddening. I guess it's human nature to a point but still saddening. For all anybody else knows, he could have been up with the baby all night long. Nobody knows but they are always so ready to attack.
The parasocial relationship people have with those who post videos obviously live very empty lives if they get so wrapped up in the lives of others without knowing them at all. If they had fulfilling lives of their own they wouldn't act like deranged interlopers judging people watching a 10 second video.
The woman who posted the video is too smart for TikTok. She needs to get out. Glad she called out the crazies.
The commenter who asked if she was gaslighting them doesn't even know what gaslighting means, the rest are scary if they would hurt a guy for playing a video game. I hope they are single for the safety of others.
And this is why i dont post online because you open up the flood gates for ppl to judge you who have no idea whats really going on.
Me and my husband have a 9 month old girl. I stay home with her and he works 10 hour days. We have worked out a system of taking turns with our baby when we are both home so the other parent has some "me time" sometimes it's so one can take a nap, play a game, or whatever.
There is nothing wrong with him playing a video game...now if that's all he does then that's a problem, but I don't know so I can just assume.
You CAN and put the baby down so you can eat, but you can also hold your baby while eating, and yes it is very difficult to do. so I just put my baby in the high chair or playpen.
This is seriously rediulus how people just automatically jump to "he's a terrible person and father"
"You just need to be seen." Holy shit the irony and dearth of self-awareness here...
Why is the camera there anyway? She was def baiting this. Maybe she actually doesn't think he helps out enough, and because she's too immature she needed the "support" of a million strangers. I wouldn't doubt she showed him all the comments and was all like "I know, right? Can you believe it?" as a passive aggressive way to bring something to his attention. My gut tells me she sucks.
The mum is laughing, so what's the big deal. He's a young dad, let him do his thing
This woman was seeking out *attention* - good or bad. Your relationship should be private but a lot of women don't respect a man's need for privacy and boundaries.
This young woman (basically a child still) is screaming for attention. She invited the drama into her marriage because that's a lot of women's fuel - like gasoline for a car. It has to be filled.
That man could be the primary caregiver and be a stay at home dad while the mom works out and then wants to spend time with the baby!
Or he worked all day and wanted to unwind for a few minutes like…
Deleted Facebook 9 years ago, deleted Twitter 4 years ago, and never had the other vomit inducing social media platforms (TikShite, IG etc). I have a phone, therefore if i want to "connect" I can just text; or *shiver* call friends/family. The whole social media thing (being an "influencer" etc) is like a narcissists wet dream. I think I'm just old, and don't understand the value or meaning behind spreading your personal life all over the internet, just for morons to comment on it. 🤷🏾♂️
A baby knocking down food that’s normal. I would still play games as a parent but I’ll ask my wife if she needs help.