It's confusing for me because I made mistakes and wasn't aware of how she was feeling, but I put in a lot of effort and we were seemingly on the right track of fixing things, but she said she wanted to leave for someone else. Hurts like hell
Bro you are in the early stages maybe. Rebuild yourself as a human, my girl left me when I had cancer surgery one week later she had a new boyfriend. I rebuild got fit, fixed my economy and what happens. She unblocked me everywhere and had really understood that I was a High Value man. After her ridiculous rich rebound relationship was over. Money can't buy that real Love and you can't buy a bigger dick you are born with it 🙂. There are plenty fish in the sea and that day you realize you are a high value man. Sky is the limit Bro
I would of taken her back if she had stayed single for a while. But she fact she got with another man 2 weeks after the breakup… like if she came back tomorrow I wouldn’t be able to face her again.
We were together 8 years then apart for 3! We kept in touch during the breakup and stayed civil, but never spoke about our personal lives. Then finally she messaged about seeing me and we started up again. Everything seemed different in a good way. She was more open and relaxed, it felt like we moved on from so many of our past problems. Then about a year in, the old "her" started creeping back in. About another 6 months go by, and she dumped me again thru a Facebook message. My ex is now in a rebound with someone who has been up front with her that he is not monogamous. I truly believe she thinks she is going to be the one to change him. SO sad to see what she has become
When I’m thinking logically I can definitely see that she is not the person for me. She has also lied many times during our relationship. Not speculation these were blatant lies that I caught her in when she was talking to another guy. But when my heart is in control, I only see that sweet woman that I used to love
In reality, a break up is a break up. No one owes anyone loyalty at this point. People do whts best for them at this point and so should you. Honestly you should be rebounding yourself, but most importantly work on yourself. If yall two still have eachothers heart after the fact, then yall should be with eachother and stop the ego mind games.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I agree. Healing and grieving is the correct and only way. Subconsciously most of the time both dumpers and dumpees hop into rebound specially after a serious long term relationship and then boom!!! one day you wake up and realize you was just trying to find yourself all along. This is real and it happens Subconsciously because I been on both Dumper and Dumpees side plenty of times.
My dumper ex told me he fell out of love with me and not just with me but everything in his life and that he needs to be alone because if he stays he will ruin me. He told me that I didn't make it to the end of his story but my 'page' will remain one of his favorites. And that's nice but it still hurt. Literally month before his decision he was talking alone with my dad about marrying me. We were dating for 3 years and he proposed to me literally 1 and a half year before leaving me. I know everyone has the right to leave and I respect that, I just feel so stupid because we both treated each other well and etc and he just dipped out of nowhere. Oh also found out he shares a playlist on spotify with his ex (they broke up 6 years ago and had no contact since then so I feel even more embarresed) one month after the breakup. I just feel like I've wasted my time being there for him and he will never regret or miss me
Sad but true ! It's been almost a year since my ex dumped me! As much as I miss her and think about her, I will never go back ! Now I'm just curious how things worked out without me ! 👍🙏
Sucks she never came bro. I have a big feelin my ex not coming back cause she met her "soulmate" older ugly guy and recently divorce (why they hook up)
@@flat4wankel I'm a little over a year now ! I have no interest in getting back with her now !! I hope she's doing well and happy !! I was the cause of our break up !! She was good to me ! My loss !! I still won't ever take an ex back !!!! If they think it's better with someone else, then let it be !! After a while the shame and hurt goes away and you get you get to start over I will continue to do my best to be a good person !! Cheers !
Why would anyone want the dumper back. I don’t think so, if you want him or her back give yourself time to heal . I did and see everything much more clearly. Unless you caused the breakup is a different story. Great video!!
Beats, ever if you were the one to mess, would you still want a partner back who jumped into bed with the first person that gave them attention? Not what i would call high quality my friend.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Actually its kind of immature for me to think this as Im finding myself sleeping around with multiple rebounds. I been on the dumper and dumpee side plenty of times and understand both psyches. We are humans and you can't expect for someone to not try to move on at some point. Been there done tht. Once you hit a certain maturity, it's about what the heart wants and ignoring is the reason why majority are growing old and miserable living with regrets because they lacked emotional maturity and intellect.
@@beats-by-skrill8925 well if you've been the dumper and the dumpee plenty of times then you obviously lack that which you are preaching and you're probably the problem...mature people dont "sleep around" or have multiple rebounds, they face the truth about why their relationship failed and work on themselves. This is how you move on, all other things are just distractions
What does doing the work after the breakup mean? I’m working on my career, fitness and looking better but is this it? I don’t know how to grow socially and I feel like this is a very important part
In 2018 My ex left me for an alcoholic in Breckenridge Colorado who her mom set up whale we were still together!!!?? WT!!!! It didn't work out and she wanted to come back.... How about NO!!!!!!! Fast forward 2023 shes still alone... THEY CAN'T REPLACE YOU!! Jack: high country of Colorado
My ex walked out in the middle of the night after we have been together and lived together for 21 years. She said she needed to go stay with her brother to work on herself... we did have what seemed like a great relationship we still went on dates a few nights a week. We were intimate still 2 times a day or more, even the night she left. I found out on Facebook that she was seeing a girls dad that she works with one week after she left... its been two months now and im trying my hardest to keep myself together. She still keeps calling and acting like everything is fine and asking me for help with money and working on her jeep. I cant believe someone could betray me like this lying to my face that she loved me every single day and it makes me wonder how long this has been going on. I know he just got out of jail and is a felon, i have no criminal record and have my life in order. Messed up and it hurts the worst that i cant alow myself to ever take her back after this. I have more self respect than that and it hurts watching her ruin her life now...
DO NOT give her any more money and refuse her calls. I know it’s brutal but you must hold your boundaries. I’m sorry for you pain, but she can’t walk out and expect you to be there. You’re making yourself less attractive by giving her money and staying in contact.
It’s alright. I blocked all ways to contact me after being broken up for 30 days/30 days of no contact..finding out on day 30(today) she has a tinder profile. And we were engaged! Good fucking riddance 😂
What are your thoughts on monkeybranching/rebounding to a long-distance thing. My ex-wife is 37 and mokeybranched to a 19-year old back in june. This person live in Michigan and we live in idaho. He has visited multiple times but I am almost positive they are both on their best behavior during this time and I suspect things would deteriorate rather quickly if by some chance in hell he were to ever move here. I think it's highly unlikely. I don't know if it's still going on or not as I haven't talked to her since the divorce was finalized in Dec. I ma just focusing on myself and being alone...reading...gym...and raising our son on my own. He no longer talks to her.
Distance is irrelevant my friend. Monkey branching is a fancy term for cheating. I am sorry you had to go through that and i hope you find your way to a better future and woman.
I did no contact after messing up bad. She text me around 29 days for the car payment because my car in her name and she came over to pick up the money then ask if she can come up to talk to my daughter then came into my room after talking to my daughter then we talk about how we working on ourselves then she left. Next day text me about are AAA renew next month she’ll let me know how much. What you think about that?
I think shes keeping it business buddy. Unless she engages you in reconciliation talks, try not to entertain the possibility of reconciling. It has to come from her, assuming she is the dumper.
My ex of 3 years left me for a guy she was patiently waiting for 6 years since this guy was married... so recently i confront her and told her i know everything... once she admits to me she was tellin me they want to get marry. So this guy amd my ex rebound to finally get together. So what are the odds of them working out? I dont want to compare who is better but i do feel insecure since he has a house, older than me, he is stable financially compare to me and its killing me!
I’m sorry to that buddy. That’s savage. I don’t know the odds, but May I ask why that is important? Don’t be taking rebounders back buddy. All you will is to let them know they can do what they want when that want.
She broke up with me but i did cause the break up. Waited some months for some contact and found out she has been dating someone for some short time before i reached out. Long story short, have been able to talk to her for more than an hour yesterday, after she blocked me an entire month, and just let her know to Think about getting back , telling her i know the mistakes i made. She says she has to process this new information and the she Will Think about it. I dont really have much hope about it , since she wants to be a mother now, and since i Fly to another place in a few days, and Will not be expecting anything since there is nothing else i can do about it, but who knows
Buddy, i would highly recommend you stay no contact, disappear and work on you my friend. If she wants you back she will let you know. Nothing you can do apart from work on yourself.
My ex said the same shit, she needed to think about it and work on herself smh in other words I believe our exes wanted to play the field and see if they can find better options instead of us 🤦🏻♂️
Is it a rebound when they started talking 1.5 - 2 months after we broke up and aren't 'serious' but are talking a lot every day, hanging out, and sleeping with each other. 3 months after the fact she tells me 'maybe' it's going to become serious but isn't right now? 3.5 years together. The breakup because of long distance and because of that, the feeling of 'being in love' faded. Small fights felt so much bigger and even though when we were together in person things were great, that love feeling faded. Even after the breakup she has told me she loves me, has love for me, still has part of me in her heart. She tells me she misses me, that she still has all my gifts and pictures, and thinks about me every day. I was an important part of her life, and she won't forget me. I taught her so much about love and she never felt the love I gave her. Yet she did not want to try again, she gave me chance after chance to fix what was going on during the relationship and we had those conversations, yet I still didn't. She is very anxiously attached, and I wasn't giving her the attention she needed. I was dealing with some depression and definitely could have done better; I've reflected so much and am so mad at who I was in the last couple months of our relationship. She told me that it was both our faults and we both could have done things differently but can't change them now. While she still says she has feelings for me and is attracted, she is trying to move on and be happy.
Rebounds are about where someone is emotionally. It has very little to do with tilt. I’ve just finished writing the script for my next rebound video. It’s about why dumpers fall into rebounds. Keep an eye for it. 😊
@@TheLoveFix-Nick So you would consider this a rebound, even though they are not officially dating yet? To me it just seems like she is waiting to finally be fully over me so then they can start dating. She told me she is scared of opening up like how she was with me and get hurt again and doesn’t know if she will be able to love so deeply again. She said the guy knows what she is going through
@@TheLoveFix-Nick No it doesn't really matter what she is doing at all. I guess I am just trying to understand if it is a rebound or not because I still feel hurt that she found someone else after how close and how long we were together. We broke up saying that we hope to work on ourselves and get back together in the future
Yeah man. It’s okay to be hurt! But figuring if it’s a rebound or not is just going to drive you crazy. You’re in enough pain as is. Why inflict more upon yourself? 😩
But if my ex tried dating after some weeks after break up and didn't work,and reach out after a mouth (seems like she did the work, but i am not sure), is it worth reconciliation?
That’s going to be a personal choice. Have you both done the work? Are you prepared to starting again like you just met? Can you leave the old relationship buried to start a new one? Can you both have the hard conversations that must be had? Can you both fix the shit that broke the first relationship? After you go through the above, then you can think about a full reconciliation.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick i was just thinking about this case. We are still in no contact, after 14 days i think i seen her with someone else in a car, but I am not sure. Today we have 30 days NC, she started to watch my instagram stories for a week, started posting story selfies with herself almost daily like she wants to attract my attention, but i dont watch her stories from my personal account to not breach the NC rule somehow. And i dont know what the hell is going on😅😂. I kinda want to know if she is in a rebound just to move on and if she will reach out to reject her without remorse but i cand get any information about her relationship status at all. But if she is not in a rebound and did the work, i dont want to let her go, we had lovely 1.3 years together, we loved each other.
Dude, just because you’re not using your profile, doesn’t make it okay. Read what you wrote back to yourself and try to realise that, you’re interpreting her actions to what you want it to mean. Unless she reaches out for a reconciliation, it means nothing buddy. Focus on you and get off the socials. It’s just going to drive you crazy otherwise.
@TheLoveFix-Nick I just trying to heal, but when I see that she watched my story I just lose all the progress, and I can't hold myself to check what she is doing, what she is posting, its like an addiction 😭😭
So my ex broke up with me the past September, I was in no contact until she broke no contact a couple days before my bday. We talk for a couple days and we talk about getting back together however she kept saying she needs to work on herself and yada yada yada. Sounded like some b.s to me tbh. Then she went radio silent on me for 10 days. I didn’t hear a peep from her. Then my sister tells me she’s out on IG showing off she’s at the club with some dude smh 🤦🏻♂️ the next day she texts me “hey I’m going to jump from a plane I’m going to put u down as an emergency contact in case something happens “ I couldn’t believe what she wrote me smh I didn’t reply and I haven’t spoke to her since. I heard through the grapevine she’s seeing someone else. So no matter what if she decided to come back I couldn’t take her back. Ultimate betrayal. 6 years down the drain smh good thing I never texted back though. I’m pretty sure she was trying to breadcrumb me to see if I would reply
@The Love Fix the situation. My partner always mentioned the time difference and distance were issues. As a generally anxious individual, over the course of our relationship, she talked about how her mental health was deteriorating. She started dating a coworker now after 2 weeks. After we broke up, she told me that she loved me (since we never expressed those words directly to each other during our relationship) but the current situation was what made her end things. After finding out she had a partner (that she was speaking to someone) I told her my goodbyes and went NC.
@The Love Fix broke up on Dec 27th and been in NC for around 3 weeks now. Been working on myself and removed her from discord. She recently removed me from Steam (a gaming client). There is no way to contact each other anymore.
It's confusing for me because I made mistakes and wasn't aware of how she was feeling, but I put in a lot of effort and we were seemingly on the right track of fixing things, but she said she wanted to leave for someone else. Hurts like hell
Sorry to hear that buddy. I know it hurts like hell, however practicing acceptance it’s a great way to help us heal.
Update?
Man, i just cant stop thinkin of what she did to me
Forever heartbroken and betrayed.
I hear you man. Have you considered therapy?
Bro you are in the early stages maybe. Rebuild yourself as a human, my girl left me when I had cancer surgery one week later she had a new boyfriend. I rebuild got fit, fixed my economy and what happens. She unblocked me everywhere and had really understood that I was a High Value man. After her ridiculous rich rebound relationship was over. Money can't buy that real Love and you can't buy a bigger dick you are born with it 🙂. There are plenty fish in the sea and that day you realize you are a high value man. Sky is the limit Bro
I don’t want to offend anyone, but what kind of pathetic person would take their ex back after she has f..ked another man?
People are hiring John. It’s not pathetic, it’s called being human. All we can do is educate them to a better alternative.
Exactly! Nasty…find some other women to start fresh
Do you think your ex hasn’t fucked anyone before YOUR relationship???
I would of taken her back if she had stayed single for a while. But she fact she got with another man 2 weeks after the breakup… like if she came back tomorrow I wouldn’t be able to face her again.
Good for you. I hope you’re feeling better.
Yea it’s been a month since our break up and went no contact immediately. Just found out this morning she has a tinder. SEE YA 😂
@@schylerjohnson9216these tricks man smh 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
We were together 8 years then apart for 3! We kept in touch during the breakup and stayed civil, but never spoke about our personal lives. Then finally she messaged about seeing me and we started up again. Everything seemed different in a good way. She was more open and relaxed, it felt like we moved on from so many of our past problems. Then about a year in, the old "her" started creeping back in. About another 6 months go by, and she dumped me again thru a Facebook message.
My ex is now in a rebound with someone who has been up front with her that he is not monogamous. I truly believe she thinks she is going to be the one to change him. SO sad to see what she has become
Ahh that’s harsh. Sorry to hear that.
What do the truth of her actions tell you?
Believe her when she shows you who she really is.
When I’m thinking logically I can definitely see that she is not the person for me. She has also lied many times during our relationship. Not speculation these were blatant lies that I caught her in when she was talking to another guy. But when my heart is in control, I only see that sweet woman that I used to love
I would take her back anyday but once there is/was another men in the game, she's out for ever.
In reality, a break up is a break up. No one owes anyone loyalty at this point. People do whts best for them at this point and so should you. Honestly you should be rebounding yourself, but most importantly work on yourself. If yall two still have eachothers heart after the fact, then yall should be with eachother and stop the ego mind games.
Beats, you were doing well until you said rebound yourself. No my friend. That is not good advice when there is healing to be done.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I agree. Healing and grieving is the correct and only way. Subconsciously most of the time both dumpers and dumpees hop into rebound specially after a serious long term relationship and then boom!!! one day you wake up and realize you was just trying to find yourself all along. This is real and it happens Subconsciously because I been on both Dumper and Dumpees side plenty of times.
SAME HERE, SHE COULD GO DOWN HER BIG ASS LIST OF DOGS SHE HAS WAITING
Yeah I'm with you she went around with another guy telling me she kid she missed me she missed my kiss I wouldn't take her back either I'm with you
Don’t ever do it. Stay no contact
Trauma bonds are intense mate
My dumper ex told me he fell out of love with me and not just with me but everything in his life and that he needs to be alone because if he stays he will ruin me. He told me that I didn't make it to the end of his story but my 'page' will remain one of his favorites. And that's nice but it still hurt. Literally month before his decision he was talking alone with my dad about marrying me. We were dating for 3 years and he proposed to me literally 1 and a half year before leaving me. I know everyone has the right to leave and I respect that, I just feel so stupid because we both treated each other well and etc and he just dipped out of nowhere. Oh also found out he shares a playlist on spotify with his ex (they broke up 6 years ago and had no contact since then so I feel even more embarresed) one month after the breakup. I just feel like I've wasted my time being there for him and he will never regret or miss me
Love is giving someone the power toe destroy and hope they never use it.
My ex wanted to come back after his rebound didn’t work. Nope!!!!
Good for you Megan. I hope you’re doing well.
Sad but true !
It's been almost a year since my ex dumped me!
As much as I miss her and think about her, I will never go back !
Now I'm just curious how things worked out without me !
👍🙏
Get curious and excited about what YOU do now my friend.
Sucks she never came bro. I have a big feelin my ex not coming back cause she met her "soulmate" older ugly guy and recently divorce (why they hook up)
@@flat4wankel
I'm a little over a year now !
I have no interest in getting back with her now !!
I hope she's doing well and happy !!
I was the cause of our break up !!
She was good to me !
My loss !!
I still won't ever take an ex back !!!!
If they think it's better with someone else, then let it be !!
After a while the shame and hurt goes away and you get you get to start over
I will continue to do my best to be a good person !!
Cheers !
She dumped me and had a date later that night with a “new connection” and didn’t want to risk her new connection with anything.
That’s rough. Sorry to hear that. Heartbreaking! 😩
Hell no, we are mutually exclusive. I baught an apartment, getting badass at electric guitar.
Why would anyone want the dumper back. I don’t think so, if you want him or her back give yourself time to heal . I did and see everything much more clearly. Unless you caused the breakup is a different story.
Great video!!
It depends if you was the fuck up and kids our involved.
Beats, ever if you were the one to mess, would you still want a partner back who jumped into bed with the first person that gave them attention? Not what i would call high quality my friend.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Actually its kind of immature for me to think this as Im finding myself sleeping around with multiple rebounds. I been on the dumper and dumpee side plenty of times and understand both psyches. We are humans and you can't expect for someone to not try to move on at some point. Been there done tht. Once you hit a certain maturity, it's about what the heart wants and ignoring is the reason why majority are growing old and miserable living with regrets because they lacked emotional maturity and intellect.
I would argue rebounding in any context is the very apex of the lack of emotional maturity.
@@beats-by-skrill8925 well if you've been the dumper and the dumpee plenty of times then you obviously lack that which you are preaching and you're probably the problem...mature people dont "sleep around" or have multiple rebounds, they face the truth about why their relationship failed and work on themselves. This is how you move on, all other things are just distractions
What does doing the work after the breakup mean? I’m working on my career, fitness and looking better but is this it? I don’t know how to grow socially and I feel like this is a very important part
That’s great, but the emotional and spiritual side is where you have to focus. Are you able to go to therapy? It can really help.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I can, I’ll definitely look into that. Thanks a ton for the reply
In 2018 My ex left me for an alcoholic in Breckenridge Colorado who her mom set up whale we were still together!!!?? WT!!!!
It didn't work out and she wanted to come back.... How about NO!!!!!!!
Fast forward 2023 shes still alone... THEY CAN'T REPLACE YOU!!
Jack: high country of Colorado
Well done for holding your boundaries.
My ex walked out in the middle of the night after we have been together and lived together for 21 years. She said she needed to go stay with her brother to work on herself... we did have what seemed like a great relationship we still went on dates a few nights a week. We were intimate still 2 times a day or more, even the night she left. I found out on Facebook that she was seeing a girls dad that she works with one week after she left... its been two months now and im trying my hardest to keep myself together. She still keeps calling and acting like everything is fine and asking me for help with money and working on her jeep. I cant believe someone could betray me like this lying to my face that she loved me every single day and it makes me wonder how long this has been going on. I know he just got out of jail and is a felon, i have no criminal record and have my life in order. Messed up and it hurts the worst that i cant alow myself to ever take her back after this. I have more self respect than that and it hurts watching her ruin her life now...
DO NOT give her any more money and refuse her calls.
I know it’s brutal but you must hold your boundaries.
I’m sorry for you pain, but she can’t walk out and expect you to be there. You’re making yourself less attractive by giving her money and staying in contact.
It’s alright. I blocked all ways to contact me after being broken up for 30 days/30 days of no contact..finding out on day 30(today) she has a tinder profile. And we were engaged! Good fucking riddance 😂
Thank you soooo much! You nailed it
What are your thoughts on monkeybranching/rebounding to a long-distance thing. My ex-wife is 37 and mokeybranched to a 19-year old back in june. This person live in Michigan and we live in idaho. He has visited multiple times but I am almost positive they are both on their best behavior during this time and I suspect things would deteriorate rather quickly if by some chance in hell he were to ever move here. I think it's highly unlikely. I don't know if it's still going on or not as I haven't talked to her since the divorce was finalized in Dec. I ma just focusing on myself and being alone...reading...gym...and raising our son on my own. He no longer talks to her.
Distance is irrelevant my friend. Monkey branching is a fancy term for cheating. I am sorry you had to go through that and i hope you find your way to a better future and woman.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick thank you for taking the time to reply, I'll press my luck and ask if you think something like that will work out?
Statistically, probably not, but some people do beat the odds. It’s really not worth thinking about or pinning any hope on it.
I did no contact after messing up bad. She text me around 29 days for the car payment because my car in her name and she came over to pick up the money then ask if she can come up to talk to my daughter then came into my room after talking to my daughter then we talk about how we working on ourselves then she left. Next day text me about are AAA renew next month she’ll let me know how much. What you think about that?
I think shes keeping it business buddy. Unless she engages you in reconciliation talks, try not to entertain the possibility of reconciling. It has to come from her, assuming she is the dumper.
My ex of 3 years left me for a guy she was patiently waiting for 6 years since this guy was married... so recently i confront her and told her i know everything... once she admits to me she was tellin me they want to get marry. So this guy amd my ex rebound to finally get together.
So what are the odds of them working out? I dont want to compare who is better but i do feel insecure since he has a house, older than me, he is stable financially compare to me and its killing me!
I’m sorry to that buddy. That’s savage.
I don’t know the odds, but May I ask why that is important?
Don’t be taking rebounders back buddy. All you will is to let them know they can do what they want when that want.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick what are the odds of them working? Seems like is a perfect match. I feel like total crap
Buddy, no one can tell you the odds.
But let’s it doesn’t work out and she comes back, why would you take such a person back?
Damn she's in rebound but we're contacting and seeing each other for kids, what should i do?
She broke up with me but i did cause the break up. Waited some months for some contact and found out she has been dating someone for some short time before i reached out. Long story short, have been able to talk to her for more than an hour yesterday, after she blocked me an entire month, and just let her know to Think about getting back , telling her i know the mistakes i made. She says she has to process this new information and the she Will Think about it.
I dont really have much hope about it , since she wants to be a mother now, and since i Fly to another place in a few days, and Will not be expecting anything since there is nothing else i can do about it, but who knows
Buddy, i would highly recommend you stay no contact, disappear and work on you my friend. If she wants you back she will let you know. Nothing you can do apart from work on yourself.
My ex said the same shit, she needed to think about it and work on herself smh in other words I believe our exes wanted to play the field and see if they can find better options instead of us 🤦🏻♂️
Is it a rebound when they started talking 1.5 - 2 months after we broke up and aren't 'serious' but are talking a lot every day, hanging out, and sleeping with each other. 3 months after the fact she tells me 'maybe' it's going to become serious but isn't right now?
3.5 years together. The breakup because of long distance and because of that, the feeling of 'being in love' faded. Small fights felt so much bigger and even though when we were together in person things were great, that love feeling faded. Even after the breakup she has told me she loves me, has love for me, still has part of me in her heart. She tells me she misses me, that she still has all my gifts and pictures, and thinks about me every day. I was an important part of her life, and she won't forget me. I taught her so much about love and she never felt the love I gave her.
Yet she did not want to try again, she gave me chance after chance to fix what was going on during the relationship and we had those conversations, yet I still didn't. She is very anxiously attached, and I wasn't giving her the attention she needed. I was dealing with some depression and definitely could have done better; I've reflected so much and am so mad at who I was in the last couple months of our relationship. She told me that it was both our faults and we both could have done things differently but can't change them now.
While she still says she has feelings for me and is attracted, she is trying to move on and be happy.
Rebounds are about where someone is emotionally. It has very little to do with tilt.
I’ve just finished writing the script for my next rebound video. It’s about why dumpers fall into rebounds. Keep an eye for it. 😊
@@TheLoveFix-Nick So you would consider this a rebound, even though they are not officially dating yet?
To me it just seems like she is waiting to finally be fully over me so then they can start dating. She told me she is scared of opening up like how she was with me and get hurt again and doesn’t know if she will be able to love so deeply again. She said the guy knows what she is going through
Put it another way, if she’s not with you, does it really matter what she is doing?
@@TheLoveFix-Nick No it doesn't really matter what she is doing at all.
I guess I am just trying to understand if it is a rebound or not because I still feel hurt that she found someone else after how close and how long we were together. We broke up saying that we hope to work on ourselves and get back together in the future
Yeah man. It’s okay to be hurt!
But figuring if it’s a rebound or not is just going to drive you crazy. You’re in enough pain as is. Why inflict more upon yourself? 😩
But if my ex tried dating after some weeks after break up and didn't work,and reach out after a mouth (seems like she did the work, but i am not sure), is it worth reconciliation?
That’s going to be a personal choice.
Have you both done the work?
Are you prepared to starting again like you just met?
Can you leave the old relationship buried to start a new one?
Can you both have the hard conversations that must be had?
Can you both fix the shit that broke the first relationship?
After you go through the above, then you can think about a full reconciliation.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick i was just thinking about this case. We are still in no contact, after 14 days i think i seen her with someone else in a car, but I am not sure. Today we have 30 days NC, she started to watch my instagram stories for a week, started posting story selfies with herself almost daily like she wants to attract my attention, but i dont watch her stories from my personal account to not breach the NC rule somehow. And i dont know what the hell is going on😅😂. I kinda want to know if she is in a rebound just to move on and if she will reach out to reject her without remorse but i cand get any information about her relationship status at all. But if she is not in a rebound and did the work, i dont want to let her go, we had lovely 1.3 years together, we loved each other.
Dude, just because you’re not using your profile, doesn’t make it okay.
Read what you wrote back to yourself and try to realise that, you’re interpreting her actions to what you want it to mean.
Unless she reaches out for a reconciliation, it means nothing buddy.
Focus on you and get off the socials. It’s just going to drive you crazy otherwise.
@TheLoveFix-Nick I just trying to heal, but when I see that she watched my story I just lose all the progress, and I can't hold myself to check what she is doing, what she is posting, its like an addiction 😭😭
I hear you, but who responsibility is that?
GREAT VIDEO !!
Thank you Anna. I hope you’re well.
Brilliant 👏!!
Thank you, Julie. I hope you’re well.
So my ex broke up with me the past September, I was in no contact until she broke no contact a couple days before my bday. We talk for a couple days and we talk about getting back together however she kept saying she needs to work on herself and yada yada yada. Sounded like some b.s to me tbh. Then she went radio silent on me for 10 days. I didn’t hear a peep from her. Then my sister tells me she’s out on IG showing off she’s at the club with some dude smh 🤦🏻♂️ the next day she texts me “hey I’m going to jump from a plane I’m going to put u down as an emergency contact in case something happens “ I couldn’t believe what she wrote me smh I didn’t reply and I haven’t spoke to her since. I heard through the grapevine she’s seeing someone else. So no matter what if she decided to come back I couldn’t take her back. Ultimate betrayal. 6 years down the drain smh good thing I never texted back though. I’m pretty sure she was trying to breadcrumb me to see if I would reply
She made out with two different guys a few days after the break up, do they count as rebound? And what do I do?
That’s rough and I’m sorry to hear that.
What should you do?
Don’t take someone like that back, EVER!
What if I was the one who caused the break up, or I rebounded myself too? :(
Can you give me some context please, Yolanda.
How did you cause the breakup?
And, did you rebound?
What if you find out she was cheating with the money Branger before they left
Don’t ever take someone like that Bach! What does that say about your self worth if you took them back?
Does this apply to long distance relationships too?
Yes and no. Did they break up with you or the situation? To answer your previous question, I only do phone coaching/consultations
@The Love Fix the situation. My partner always mentioned the time difference and distance were issues. As a generally anxious individual, over the course of our relationship, she talked about how her mental health was deteriorating. She started dating a coworker now after 2 weeks. After we broke up, she told me that she loved me (since we never expressed those words directly to each other during our relationship) but the current situation was what made her end things. After finding out she had a partner (that she was speaking to someone) I told her my goodbyes and went NC.
@The Love Fix broke up on Dec 27th and been in NC for around 3 weeks now. Been working on myself and removed her from discord. She recently removed me from Steam (a gaming client). There is no way to contact each other anymore.
Yeah thats rough man. Her mental illness is her issue, it wasn’t the distance. We all make our own hell, wish her well with hers.
Do they last with a rebound whome they got pregnant?
Most rebounds fails, but some do go on.
Having a baby probably makes the rebound less likely to succeed, but there’s always a possibility it could.
It has a week she is rebound she looks sad and tried to talk to me
Would you want to someone back who rebounded? Someone that disrespected you like that?
Thanks bro
Almost 2 yrs for me