Chose to heal, she chose to get into a new relationship less than two months after our break and threw it on every form of social media she could. I went dark, no contact, nothing. Wounds heal but leave a scar, as a reminder. Evolve, refine, grow. Stay strong everyone.
@@Mossy_Bark that's them trying to bury us, like we never existed or mattered, and that's unhealthy/narcissistic and it shows. They complete the pole with the red flag. If they come back for you, or I, we will show them what they left was good for them, and we got better. As I will always say, never leave something good, for something better, when that something good, becomes something greater🙏💪.
He went to another girl the immediately the day after he breakup with me.. Probably she might have been there for the reason of the breakup and he is posting and she does the same .. showing there are living happy lives.. while I'm here under several panic attacks. I can't move on it's been 10 months
My ex is fearful avoidant. After he expressed deep feelings and the relationship became “real “, he began the slow fade before actually monkey branching. We were compatible, and had a calm and peaceful time of four years together. I think that scared the s**t out of him. I said “No” to friendship and let him go. I am healing and moving on after nine months. It is still hard. I have relapses, but it’s NC forever for me. I guess he feels “safe” with the new love. He has family support. She knows nothing about me. Kind of sad.
We broke up at the second time 2 months ago. I deleted her number on the first day of the break up, i started to train like an animal, following strength training program, my salary was upgraded and im learning to invest money. I dont have instagram or facebook so im kind of dead😅 After 2 months i feel that im close to be 100% moving on. I never saw her as the key for my own happiness and she always knew it.
I got tired of it. A couple sentences on facebook messenger then ghosting. I completely blocked her back in May. We were in a long term relationship. She will be the one that regrets losing me. Dont think she thinks i would've been strong enough to block everywhere but I had to. It still stings which is why i still think of her but yah ..
this whole 'right for each other' is a load of crap after a certain amount of time together. People didn't get to choose fopr 99% of human existence, they still made it work. People just have 0 dedication and commitment these days.
I would say it’s more important after a certain of time together, because it must be intentional effort. On the flip side, everyone has the right to leave a relationship if it no longer works for them, my friend. I write about this in my book and how to turn it your advantage.
@@wilma14 Thank you so much for asking. Bless you. I've literally just got married today and I'm expecting the birth of another child. I'm in another country and I miss my kid by my last relationship desperately but I'm just so thankful to the universe/God for new horizons. It still hurts and i caught my self crying about the loss of my last relationship today but hey, the show must go on........
This is the first video of urs ive found and im rlly glad ive found this. Ive been watching a lottt of these sort of videos for the last month since my break up but no one else seems to talk the way you talk. *subscribed*
My ex broke up with me, and I went instant no contact, but after 2 months a mutual friend told me she had sex the next Day from the breakup with another common friend. It made me angry and I told she to meet, and I told her I did not want her to speak to me anymore, but now she is no lomger with the mutual friend, and I still miss her so bad, and feared she will never tall to me because what I said, even it have already been 2 months of NC
First if all stop looking at her. You just need to focus on yourself. Its 72 days from she monkeybranched me left out of the blue. As i know she is still the same person and not working on herself but im progressing fast on every part od my life. Just focus on yourself and you will find better one. Im observe your Chanel from day one my brakeout and It helped me a lot. Thanks Man! Ps Im already meet some nice girls but i'm still not rdy for ltr.
How r u now? The girl that did everything for me but I didnt do enough for and took for granted, monkey branched on me too. Been 14 days of no contact now. She dumped me stone cold for another.
@@whiteswordwarrior9995 First at all i didnt belive time will heal the wound but it happening. Just do not made my mistake becuse i belived that everything still could be fixed after two months. No it canot- Trust can never be fully regain and she will never respect you if you will come back to her. Erase everything that is realted to to her or you will delay your healing proces. It was hard form me in first place but when i done that healing process incresed fast. I belive you will be ok but you need to belive in time! Cheers mate!
Ex gf got in a rebound and her rebound proposed after them dating for 4 months. Haven’t spoken in 7 months. She is hardcore over me and onto other things. My friend told me about the engagement. Break up was last July, but we didn’t fully end things until February. I’m working on myself a lot and have met someone else. I just gave up and move on. I was her first long term relationship. The relationship is beyond dead. I see her in public and she acts like we are strangers, so I treat her the same back.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I was at work teaching and I got the text that she was engaged, so in that moment I got some anxiety due to that old wound breaking open, so I calmed myself down and felt fine until later at night before bed, I went to RUclips and saw your video, so I watched it. I Felt that I needed a rational mind to explain how I feel. It helped. Break ups are not easy.
Nick help me , he keeps reaching out but with nothing still trying to get me to be cordial and I keep enforcing my boundaries. He cheated on me and I know I shouldn’t take him back but I’m still fighting with my heart and mind to see why I shouldn’t take an ex back. I’m tired
Question. My ex reached out 2 weeks after the breakup saying that she missed me and tried calling twice. I ignored her bc I knew she was drunk. She blocked me after that and no coms for 3 months. Was ignoring her in that case the right thing to do? If she wasn’t drunk I would have answered
It’s different for everyone. I’d be hesitant to assign a generic number to it. However , I’d say if it’s been 6 to 8 months they’ve probably detached, but I’ve had clients where their ex’s came back after a year, 5 years and even 10 years in some cases.
She was texting a guy while NEXT TO ME before she even broke up with me. Didn't see anything wrong with it at all. No desire to work things out and just wanted me to be okay with her breaking up and treating me like a bad friend while ignoring me and talking to him. 3.5 year relationship. Makes me wonder if I was being completely immature and accepting someone that wasn't worth my time. There were some bad signs but she was obsessed with me and very thoughtful so I just stuck around. I think maybe she's an attention whore at heart. I'm being a little more mean than usual to make myself feel better, but still the complete lack of respect on her end is crazy. I hope I will look back on this time and be happy it ended, and have found someone more well-rounded.
That’s rough man and I’m sorry. She taught you exactly the lesson you needed to learn, so you can be better in the future. Thank her for it and wish her well. Better women out there for you.
Thank you. It is so easy to only see the good times with her, but I know in my heart we are fundamentally different people and it wouldn't have worked. I think I just really miss her bubbly personality and the constant love I was getting from her. I learned what I did wrong, and I do thank her for the pain that is leading to my success as a person. I only hope she will come to learn and feel the pain I have, but now that they are together maybe she can ignore it forever.@@TheLoveFix-Nick
I’m sorry to hear that man. I personally don’t subscribe to what is meant to be is meant to be. Relationships require intentional ongoing effort and maintenance. That’s what real love is.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I agree completely. She is very insecure in relationships and is terrified of commitment. She also has a very low self esteem. It was a losing battle. I couldn’t help her. I tried my best but the more she worried - the more I worried.
@TheLoveFix-Nick Yeah sure. So, my ex & I had a lovely boy in May. In June, she decides to move out & break up. Note: The kid is 100% mine. She told me that she felt alone in the relationship & the only negative things she's said was me over indulging in video games (though she was offered to be included), giving my friends more attention than her (again invited to be included), & communication. So, she rebounds with a friend of hers. The way I've been moving since, especially after hearing from her that she's "talking to someone" was just focusing on myself & only communicating about our son (I'll be in the army soon so I have matters to attend). She claims to want to just be friends because I'm a "cool person" & expressed (idk how much bull it is) that she's seeing the potential in my growth & feels she's been holding me back from said growth. So, yeah lol
@TheLoveFix-Nick I'm not 100% sure because I've been keeping my mental health from spying on her social media as much as possible & just letting the Universe work But if "true" is about her holding me back, ive never saw that from my POV
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Chose to heal, she chose to get into a new relationship less than two months after our break and threw it on every form of social media she could. I went dark, no contact, nothing. Wounds heal but leave a scar, as a reminder. Evolve, refine, grow. Stay strong everyone.
Sorry about that, hope things get better for you
Same boat as you here, she moved on with her fucking flatmate. Peacocking on social media, never did that with me.
I'm sorry mate.
@@Mossy_Bark that's them trying to bury us, like we never existed or mattered, and that's unhealthy/narcissistic and it shows. They complete the pole with the red flag. If they come back for you, or I, we will show them what they left was good for them, and we got better. As I will always say, never leave something good, for something better, when that something good, becomes something greater🙏💪.
Same thing happened to me. He got married 2 months after a 3 year relationship with me. Working on healing. ❤️🩹
He went to another girl the immediately the day after he breakup with me.. Probably she might have been there for the reason of the breakup and he is posting and she does the same .. showing there are living happy lives.. while I'm here under several panic attacks. I can't move on it's been 10 months
My ex is fearful avoidant. After he expressed deep feelings and the relationship became “real “, he began the slow fade before actually monkey branching. We were compatible, and had a calm and peaceful time of four years together. I think that scared the s**t out of him. I said “No” to friendship and let him go. I am healing and moving on after nine months. It is still hard. I have relapses, but it’s NC forever for me. I guess he feels “safe” with the new love. He has family support. She knows nothing about me. Kind of sad.
We broke up at the second time 2 months ago.
I deleted her number on the first day of the break up, i started to train like an animal, following strength training program, my salary was upgraded and im learning to invest money.
I dont have instagram or facebook so im kind of dead😅
After 2 months i feel that im close to be 100% moving on. I never saw her as the key for my own happiness and she always knew it.
Great work. 😊😊💪💪
U got that right. Her body will not touch mine. If she is not in, she is out
Believe me. I have no one after a breakup. Not even family. I hope to leave soon and never return without contact to and from anyone.
Get around some friends
I got tired of it. A couple sentences on facebook messenger then ghosting. I completely blocked her back in May. We were in a long term relationship. She will be the one that regrets losing me. Dont think she thinks i would've been strong enough to block everywhere but I had to. It still stings which is why i still think of her but yah ..
Any update bro ??
@AhmadAhmad-vl4ic same stuff, man. She's still blocked.
this whole 'right for each other' is a load of crap after a certain amount of time together. People didn't get to choose fopr 99% of human existence, they still made it work. People just have 0 dedication and commitment these days.
I would say it’s more important after a certain of time together, because it must be intentional effort.
On the flip side, everyone has the right to leave a relationship if it no longer works for them, my friend.
I write about this in my book and how to turn it your advantage.
It just hurts so much. Hard to cope
I hear you. Pain need to be felt my friend. We must walk towards it not run from it. I hope you feel better.
How are you doing now bro?
@@wilma14 Thank you so much for asking. Bless you. I've literally just got married today and I'm expecting the birth of another child. I'm in another country and I miss my kid by my last relationship desperately but I'm just so thankful to the universe/God for new horizons. It still hurts and i caught my self crying about the loss of my last relationship today but hey, the show must go on........
All of my exes have one in common emotional damage and clingy
If you keep choosing those kind of partners, then it’s you who is the problem, my friend.
I like how you cut to the point. Thanks Nick!❤
It’s an acquired taste! 😁
This is the first video of urs ive found and im rlly glad ive found this. Ive been watching a lottt of these sort of videos for the last month since my break up but no one else seems to talk the way you talk. *subscribed*
Thank you for your kind words and support. I am glad to hear i can be of some help. I hope you’re feeling better.
My ex broke up with me, and I went instant no contact, but after 2 months a mutual friend told me she had sex the next Day from the breakup with another common friend. It made me angry and I told she to meet, and I told her I did not want her to speak to me anymore, but now she is no lomger with the mutual friend, and I still miss her so bad, and feared she will never tall to me because what I said, even it have already been 2 months of NC
I’m sorry to hear that. She’s shown you exactly who she is. Believe her.
Focus your own self love and healing.
Feel better.
Fuk her move on she ain't shit
My live in BF of 8 years monkey branched on me. I am heartbroken. Is she also a rebound case
I’m sorry to hear that. That’s heartbreaking.
Monkey branching is emotional cheating. So it less of a rebound and more of an overlap of relationships.
First if all stop looking at her. You just need to focus on yourself. Its 72 days from she monkeybranched me left out of the blue. As i know she is still the same person and not working on herself but im progressing fast on every part od my life. Just focus on yourself and you will find better one. Im observe your Chanel from day one my brakeout and It helped me a lot. Thanks Man!
Ps Im already meet some nice girls but i'm still not rdy for ltr.
If it were a case of just moving on, everyone would just do it. It’s not as easy as that my friend.
How r u now? The girl that did everything for me but I didnt do enough for and took for granted, monkey branched on me too. Been 14 days of no contact now. She dumped me stone cold for another.
@@whiteswordwarrior9995 First at all i didnt belive time will heal the wound but it happening. Just do not made my mistake becuse i belived that everything still could be fixed after two months. No it canot- Trust can never be fully regain and she will never respect you if you will come back to her. Erase everything that is realted to to her or you will delay your healing proces. It was hard form me in first place but when i done that healing process incresed fast. I belive you will be ok but you need to belive in time! Cheers mate!
@@ukaszbuzak3611 ty g. She block me anyway
@@whiteswordwarrior9995 any update brother 🤧💔
Ex gf got in a rebound and her rebound proposed after them dating for 4 months. Haven’t spoken in 7 months. She is hardcore over me and onto other things. My friend told me about the engagement. Break up was last July, but we didn’t fully end things until February. I’m working on myself a lot and have met someone else. I just gave up and move on. I was her first long term relationship. The relationship is beyond dead. I see her in public and she acts like we are strangers, so I treat her the same back.
I’m glad you’re working on yourself and seeing someone else. That being the case, why are you still consuming breakup content?
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I was at work teaching and I got the text that she was engaged, so in that moment I got some anxiety due to that old wound breaking open, so I calmed myself down and felt fine until later at night before bed, I went to RUclips and saw your video, so I watched it. I Felt that I needed a rational mind to explain how I feel. It helped. Break ups are not easy.
I'm always interested in growing past the pain. I still am reminded of it.@@TheLoveFix-Nick
Yeah man, break ups are savage. May i suggest that whoever is supplying you with information about your ex, that you ask them not to.
I told him several times to stop. I stressed to him that it's doing more harm then good. I hope he understands now. @@TheLoveFix-Nick
Thank you buddy!
Nick help me , he keeps reaching out but with nothing still trying to get me to be cordial and I keep enforcing my boundaries. He cheated on me and I know I shouldn’t take him back but I’m still fighting with my heart and mind to see why I shouldn’t take an ex back. I’m tired
You may have to block him, my friend. I get that you’re fighting with your heart, but some self parenting has to come into it.
I AM IN THE SAME PLACE.
My ex still... breadcrumbing sayin she miss me....
Dude this can only happen if you allow it to.
Morning my man
Thank you
My pleasure. I hope you’re well. 😊
Question. My ex reached out 2 weeks after the breakup saying that she missed me and tried calling twice. I ignored her bc I knew she was drunk. She blocked me after that and no coms for 3 months. Was ignoring her in that case the right thing to do? If she wasn’t drunk I would have answered
Any update bro ?
Moved i heal hes no worth it i no my worth narcissist
How long until they detach? She still contacts me 7 months on from the break up with breadcrumbs…
It’s different for everyone. I’d be hesitant to assign a generic number to it. However , I’d say if it’s been 6 to 8 months they’ve probably detached, but I’ve had clients where their ex’s came back after a year, 5 years and even 10 years in some cases.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick thanks any ideas why she keeps coming back with any excuse for contact 8 months on?
Only she would know, but my guess would be anxiety and maybe keeping you as a back up option.
She was texting a guy while NEXT TO ME before she even broke up with me. Didn't see anything wrong with it at all. No desire to work things out and just wanted me to be okay with her breaking up and treating me like a bad friend while ignoring me and talking to him. 3.5 year relationship. Makes me wonder if I was being completely immature and accepting someone that wasn't worth my time. There were some bad signs but she was obsessed with me and very thoughtful so I just stuck around. I think maybe she's an attention whore at heart. I'm being a little more mean than usual to make myself feel better, but still the complete lack of respect on her end is crazy. I hope I will look back on this time and be happy it ended, and have found someone more well-rounded.
That’s rough man and I’m sorry.
She taught you exactly the lesson you needed to learn, so you can be better in the future.
Thank her for it and wish her well.
Better women out there for you.
Thank you. It is so easy to only see the good times with her, but I know in my heart we are fundamentally different people and it wouldn't have worked. I think I just really miss her bubbly personality and the constant love I was getting from her. I learned what I did wrong, and I do thank her for the pain that is leading to my success as a person. I only hope she will come to learn and feel the pain I have, but now that they are together maybe she can ignore it forever.@@TheLoveFix-Nick
How are you doing now bro?
My ex tried her best to make it work. I made a mistake. It’s what’s meant to be. Metallica said it best - Sad but true.
I’m sorry to hear that man.
I personally don’t subscribe to what is meant to be is meant to be.
Relationships require intentional ongoing effort and maintenance. That’s what real love is.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I agree completely. She is very insecure in relationships and is terrified of commitment. She also has a very low self esteem. It was a losing battle. I couldn’t help her. I tried my best but the more she worried - the more I worried.
I hear you.
Keep in mind, it’s not your job to fix anyone but yourself.
Focus on that and you’ll likely attract women who have their shit together. 😊
So, I have a question; What if you have a kid with your ex and they decided to break-up and rebound?
What’s the question, buddy? Can you give some more context, please?
@TheLoveFix-Nick Yeah sure. So, my ex & I had a lovely boy in May. In June, she decides to move out & break up. Note: The kid is 100% mine.
She told me that she felt alone in the relationship & the only negative things she's said was me over indulging in video games (though she was offered to be included), giving my friends more attention than her (again invited to be included), & communication. So, she rebounds with a friend of hers.
The way I've been moving since, especially after hearing from her that she's "talking to someone" was just focusing on myself & only communicating about our son (I'll be in the army soon so I have matters to attend). She claims to want to just be friends because I'm a "cool person" & expressed (idk how much bull it is) that she's seeing the potential in my growth & feels she's been holding me back from said growth. So, yeah lol
I’m sorry to hear that.
Is what she said true?
@TheLoveFix-Nick I'm not 100% sure because I've been keeping my mental health from spying on her social media as much as possible & just letting the Universe work
But if "true" is about her holding me back, ive never saw that from my POV
When it come to playing too many computer games and not giving her the attention. Is that part true?
He’s so BEGGGGGGGGGGGG