Ins and outs for 2024 // EP 16 - Pretty Lonesome

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  • Опубликовано: 21 янв 2024
  • In this episode of "Pretty Lonesome," Madeline shares her insightful reflections on the New Year. Uncover the profound advantages of handwritten expression, with a focus on the art of journaling, as Madeline eloquently guides listeners through her uplifting perspective on life.
    From the deliberate reduction of alcohol consumption to finding solace in the simple pleasures of tea, Madeline candidly discusses her personal journey. Gain valuable insights as she opens up about the challenges of navigating societal expectations, the art of nurturing meaningful friendships, and the significance of cultivating a select few close connections. Madeline underscores the importance of a supportive community and shares her joy derived from participating in workout classes, emphasizing their impact on both physical fitness and mental well-being.
    This episode serves as a thought-provoking and introspective exploration of self-care and personal growth. Tune in for practical tips, heartfelt anecdotes, and a wealth of inspiration to embark on your journey towards a more positive and mindful lifestyle.

Комментарии • 192

  • @user-om6sp8nn2i
    @user-om6sp8nn2i 5 месяцев назад +773

    “The internet used to be an escape from the real world and now the real world is an escape from the internet” couldn’t agree more and its actually so scary that the worlds become so digital that we don’t know how to live without it 💔

  • @noarotem8
    @noarotem8 5 месяцев назад +172

    I love how every simple thing she’s talking about turns into a deep conversation about her life and feelings, and then she just moves on to the next thing. Like she goes from talking about how people can really be good to saying she wants to do more workout classes. 😭

  • @kamillaruzaeva9895
    @kamillaruzaeva9895 5 месяцев назад +32

    GUEST IDEA:
    - Emma Chamberlain
    - your friend u met at the fashion show

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 5 месяцев назад +178

    We appreciate how well you've articulated your own insights. You'll always have our support.

  • @malonprischer3121
    @malonprischer3121 5 месяцев назад +51

    i love that she uploads so regularly~~

  • @matthewfuckinggrey
    @matthewfuckinggrey 5 месяцев назад +29

    when you started talking about the 5-9 girlies and things along those lines i really resonated with that. it’s hard to be that person when you aren’t living in those settings. “not waking up to a granite counter top, minimalistic room” was just so real and refreshing to hear because i thought i was the only one who felt that way. I don’t have the same motivation as the person in the video because I’m just not motivated in general, and it’s not like seeing that video helps me get motivated if anything it’s just a constant reminder of a place where I’m not at in life. But then again this also refers back to one of my “in’s” / resolutions i made for myself which is to focus on my own progress and not let what i see others doing on social media get me down or even worse start comparing them to myself.

  • @user-dx3mb9hs9r
    @user-dx3mb9hs9r 5 месяцев назад +42

    ’ never been a resolution girl for the new year either . What I do is choose a word of the year that encapsulates my aspirations and values, such as "gratitude," "resilience," or "growth" a
    word that can serve as a source of inspiration and guidance throughout the year that you intentionally seek in every moment, good and bad.

    • @purplecloud13
      @purplecloud13 5 месяцев назад +2

      That is absolutely amazing. I usually pick a music album that'll represent me and lift me up to remember my goals. Works great too

  • @denarendall
    @denarendall 5 месяцев назад +68

    Woooo! Okay, guest ideas:
    Nailea Devora
    Emma Chamberlain
    Alix Earle
    Olivia neil
    Kennedy Walsh

  • @caro5620
    @caro5620 5 месяцев назад +14

    i’m so glad i found you in 2023. it was when your “how to be hot and confident” video went viral and i legit used that mindset and also watched every video of yours ever since. i met you during such a transitional time in my life, im also 23, so it’s special to be able to reflect on parts of your year with you (like when you made a new friend).

  • @Pricx__
    @Pricx__ 5 месяцев назад +14

    PLEASE DO AN EPISODE WITH MAI PHAM WHILE IN NEW YORK!!!! THE COLLAB WE ALL NEED ❤

  • @NeniAsia
    @NeniAsia 5 месяцев назад +10

    My mom passed away and I love reading her diaries 🥰🥹

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 5 месяцев назад +27

    Emma Chamberlain should be a guest!!!

    • @MM1312.
      @MM1312. 5 месяцев назад +1

      pleaseee!!!!!!

  • @whatsyournovember
    @whatsyournovember 5 месяцев назад +4

    everytime i watch ur vids im like.... are we the same person??? ITS CRAZY bc 90% of ur ins are written word for word in my journal ESPECIALLY the thing about memorising how ur day went and minimising alc in that way!! love the pod!

  • @Honeybearluver222
    @Honeybearluver222 5 месяцев назад +8

    We love you so much. So wholesome and real. You are a blessing with each video you upload. I want to sit in the car with you and chat for hourssss. So much love !!

  • @lismitton904
    @lismitton904 5 месяцев назад +6

    The years really start coming and they don’t stop coming

  • @kaelafreeleagus4591
    @kaelafreeleagus4591 5 месяцев назад +7

    Genuinely so happy when I get the notification she uploaded

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 5 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful videos with us.
    Hava a nice day. ❤

  • @aleynaa33
    @aleynaa33 5 месяцев назад +8

    I literally made myself a mint tea to drink while watching this video. This was my sign to drink it more.

  • @laurenj6771
    @laurenj6771 3 месяца назад

    The way you describe the passage of time is so accurate. I also felt like I was 5 forever, 10 forger, 15 forever but as soon as I entered my 20’s, a year feels like a few months and it’s scary, I’m 22 now and it feels like I’m gonna be in my thirties before I know it

  • @gladiusthedrifter5746
    @gladiusthedrifter5746 5 месяцев назад +3

    It was an enjoyable experience of your in and outs for 2024. I definitely related to many of them, but I really just wanted ti say your hoody looks so comfy. The perfect amount if bagginess, plus I just like that color.

  • @brehurst
    @brehurst 5 месяцев назад

    I have never heard something more relatable to me, I'm so happy I came across this video, thank you

  • @bee8825
    @bee8825 5 месяцев назад +9

    forever an advocate of jasmine tea with a pinch of sugar, it’s great for you and tastes so light and easy on your stomach

  • @yeahnah4303
    @yeahnah4303 5 месяцев назад +3

    this was such a good one fr. it was so interesting and funny. i liked what you said about how we're not special and that since we have goodness within us then it can exist outside of us too. that's somethig i always tell myself

  • @alyssah2839
    @alyssah2839 5 месяцев назад +1

    I'm going to start keeping a diary again. Thanks for the inspiration. ❤

  • @fel3742
    @fel3742 5 месяцев назад +6

    I always used to make tea at house parties (I have stopped drinking completely now) when I was like 19 and didn't want to drink at every party, and one time I had a bunch of drunk people asking me if I could also make them some tea. Always seen as a weird request whenever I had to find the host of the party asking if it was okay if I made tea in the kitchen though.

  • @sarahcastillo9044
    @sarahcastillo9044 5 месяцев назад +9

    nailea Devora would be a perfect guess for your pretty lonesome show!! I think your guys conversations &' insights would carry a good conversation

  • @shackles5850
    @shackles5850 5 месяцев назад +9

    The handwriting thing to remember things better is SUCH an issue for me too and I'm a comp sci student so it's real awkward walking into 3rd year courses with nothing but a notebook

  • @blibliblablaba8577
    @blibliblablaba8577 5 месяцев назад +2

    Your podcast add light to my mondays
    Thank u and god bless you 🧡

  • @AshleyBlondii
    @AshleyBlondii 5 месяцев назад

    Your ability to express your own perspectives is highly valued, and you can always count on our support.

  • @Thumblrr2
    @Thumblrr2 5 месяцев назад +1

    This video genuinely changed my life

  • @aashley.aguilar
    @aashley.aguilar 5 месяцев назад +1

    these are such blessings

  • @hulomaolwan
    @hulomaolwan 5 месяцев назад +4

    bring on emma, it would be iconic

  • @marveldcextinctionwrestler7773
    @marveldcextinctionwrestler7773 5 месяцев назад +1

    My Ins: returning to YT, Posting Trailers and Music
    My Outs: Still Haunted by My Past, Wanting to Hurt Others
    Overall 2024 has been Decent for me, but it’s by no means a Perfect Year

  • @walkonearthofficial
    @walkonearthofficial 5 месяцев назад +5

    Keep on your purpose, practice gratitude the best you can and enjoy the ups and downs :)

  • @rainfields
    @rainfields 5 месяцев назад +1

    you mentioning that december's right around the corner crashed my brain waves

  • @natlxx-dq1fv
    @natlxx-dq1fv 5 месяцев назад +2

    these are crazy good insights i lovee

  • @ferrari4avocado923
    @ferrari4avocado923 5 месяцев назад +13

    Why your face makes my so happy?
    Thanks for your existence.

  • @sarah10gg53
    @sarah10gg53 5 месяцев назад +2

    When you’re younger your more observant so time feels slower…9-3pm ( a school day ) felt like 2days and now a year feels like 2 days 😅

  • @timinri1989
    @timinri1989 3 месяца назад

    Fascinating clip!

  • @sanglogsu
    @sanglogsu 5 месяцев назад

    not me drinking tea while watching and listening to this amazin poddy

  • @StephenBelcher-sr3zk
    @StephenBelcher-sr3zk 12 дней назад

    It’s very Good to See that Your “ Simply Happy Just To Be You”❤, Don’t Analyse it

  • @djmyclit
    @djmyclit 5 месяцев назад +4

    I learned things from this thank you

  • @nosybasaid346
    @nosybasaid346 5 месяцев назад +2

    Outs of 2024:
    1. Snapchat.
    2. Minimise social media time in general.
    3. Staying up late and phone night time.
    4. Having time to wind down on afternoon. Away from phone.
    5. More than one coffee a day.

  • @marianneserret3235
    @marianneserret3235 5 месяцев назад +8

    Guest: Brooke schofield

  • @violetofme
    @violetofme 5 месяцев назад

    I use your podcasts to study for the listening part of my IELTS exam next month.

  • @Jasper.mp4
    @Jasper.mp4 5 месяцев назад +1

    About the petry dish stuff with the vaseline; You put the qtip in the vaseline, put it on your lips, and 'double dipped' the same qtip in the vaseline pot. Either switch sides of the qtip or put enough on it the 1st time because you still put bacteria/germs in the pot after having it touch your lips the 1st time tbf.... just looking out for you haha

  • @penelope6018
    @penelope6018 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wow feels so good to be early 🎉🎉🎉

  • @miimii357
    @miimii357 Месяц назад

    olivia neill as a guest would be the best !!!!!! love you sm 🥰

  • @nosybasaid346
    @nosybasaid346 5 месяцев назад +12

    Ins of 2024:
    1. Write it down/hand writing.
    2. No drinking.
    3. Eat healthy (e.g. fish)
    4. Tea.
    5. More female friends, but keep close ones minimal. And choose ones that are oriented in the aspect of life you wanna be oriented in.
    6. Try new workout classes. Especially morning ones.
    7. Interacting with people. The world is not over.
    8. Trying new things (e.g. random seminars)
    Generally do little things to please your life.
    “The world is not so scary, and people could have good intentions”
    If love exists in you, it exists in others.

  • @user-fm9fx6gx5h
    @user-fm9fx6gx5h 5 месяцев назад

    Best podcast also love your vlogs please do more ❤

  • @kirstenlarsen8088
    @kirstenlarsen8088 5 месяцев назад

    the tea is so slay i love that idea

  • @itsizzy4574
    @itsizzy4574 5 месяцев назад +2

    love u mads

  • @alanis3967
    @alanis3967 5 месяцев назад

    only ins and outs video i will watch bc i love u

  • @elaineurena2599
    @elaineurena2599 5 месяцев назад +3

    Madeline’s pod is still so relatable compared to the other girly on unwell

  • @nini44553
    @nini44553 5 месяцев назад +2

    Omg firstt love u sm

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 5 месяцев назад +1

    Drink my fish 🥲🥲🥲 I also agree with the IN of writing more :)

  • @Roberto-ot7tk
    @Roberto-ot7tk 5 месяцев назад

    In's,but out's.Right on..

  • @sudozkar
    @sudozkar 5 месяцев назад +1

    I missed you soo much mads

  • @crissgiraldo5233
    @crissgiraldo5233 5 месяцев назад

    Great episode! Would love to see you and Leo skepi ❤

  • @jezza_
    @jezza_ 5 месяцев назад

    That made laugh so much 😂😭12:03

  • @MalikEXXL
    @MalikEXXL 5 месяцев назад +2

    Listening to this while making spaghetti for the 5th time this month because I'm broke 💅

  • @5ham1nry32
    @5ham1nry32 5 месяцев назад

    🎉 new years.

  • @kyosuke3688
    @kyosuke3688 5 месяцев назад +2

    I like your voice from Japan

  • @paigeeee6526
    @paigeeee6526 5 месяцев назад +2

    Get cench onnnnn

  • @yeahnah4303
    @yeahnah4303 5 месяцев назад +1

    i like this

  • @princessfokoe689
    @princessfokoe689 5 месяцев назад

    love you girl

  • @Wiggy_knows_null
    @Wiggy_knows_null 5 месяцев назад +1

    tea is great

  • @fsjfsjfs
    @fsjfsjfs 5 месяцев назад +2

    U AND BROOKE SCHOFIELD SHOULD PODCAST TOGETHER FOR AN EPI I LOVE U BOTH SO MUCH ALSO AN IN FOR 2024 IS BLUE LIGHT GLASSES FOR ME I GET SO LAZY AND THEN WHEN I FINALLY PCIK THEM BACK UP AFTER A COUPLE OF MONTHS IM LIKE WHY DID I STOP THIS AND WITH DRINKING TEA INSTEAD OF ALC IS SOOOO great sorry for yelling I didn't feel like clicking the button to turn it off

  • @gabi-kd8nv
    @gabi-kd8nv 5 месяцев назад

    16:33 i feel the exact way abt the minimalist videos like my moms painted our kitchen orange i can’t do this

  • @MelanieJosephine
    @MelanieJosephine 5 месяцев назад +1

  • @ugly_sleeper
    @ugly_sleeper 5 месяцев назад +8

    emma chamberlain!! u guys have similar but different vibes in the greatest way

  • @FlasKamel
    @FlasKamel 5 месяцев назад +1

    Man I love ppl just telling me about stuff

  • @s_a7315
    @s_a7315 5 месяцев назад +2

    I want a vlog madz x

  • @SheridanOMalley
    @SheridanOMalley 5 месяцев назад +2

    Brooke Schofield as a guest please!!!

  • @julievansteenberghe6819
    @julievansteenberghe6819 5 месяцев назад

    So Nailea in LA and Mai Pham in NY!! They would also love your view on the rotten girl aesthetic I think :)

  • @sheilaaa23
    @sheilaaa23 5 месяцев назад

    Omg what mascara do you use! Your lashes look amazinggg

  • @sudozkar
    @sudozkar 5 месяцев назад +1

    Damnnn the video quality

  • @valentinasosa3704
    @valentinasosa3704 5 месяцев назад

    i love u so muchhh

  • @daniel-ou3ix
    @daniel-ou3ix 5 месяцев назад +1

    do you upload your podcasts also to apple podcasts?

  • @yunatemoon575
    @yunatemoon575 5 месяцев назад +1

    girl let me put you onto some amazing things...yogi tea- skin detox rose, lemon balm tea

  • @aarontierney3303
    @aarontierney3303 4 месяца назад

    twin peaks girl.

  • @jetteholtherm6565
    @jetteholtherm6565 5 месяцев назад +1

    Does someone know where her hoodie is from?

  • @katherine.n.martinez
    @katherine.n.martinez 5 месяцев назад

    Would love to connect and share more value to our audiences! I started my channel on self improvement as well:)

  • @LibbyBennettdrums
    @LibbyBennettdrums 5 месяцев назад

    'I've got tea to sip while i drink my fish....' genius😭

  • @faithbennett2800
    @faithbennett2800 5 месяцев назад

    please invite gk Barry you and her on saving grace was amazingggg

  • @valentinajade19
    @valentinajade19 5 месяцев назад

    9:06 - abt wine - this must be a UK&USA mentality where drinking is to get drunk or buzzed. In Southern Europe, we enjoy a glass of wine at every meal. It’s called the art of enjoying. That’s sole purpose. And as you can see Greece & Italy are in the Blue zone & they drink a few glasses of wine everyday. Enjoy 🍷

  • @oanhtuan2408
    @oanhtuan2408 3 месяца назад

    Your face, your style so attractive ❤

  • @hadley_youtube
    @hadley_youtube 5 месяцев назад

    You need to visit Bird and Blend tea store in London.

  • @hamesh3474
    @hamesh3474 5 месяцев назад

    Get your self a cross pen.. always makes writing special 🤔☺️

  • @aashley.aguilar
    @aashley.aguilar 5 месяцев назад +1

    i love u so so much

  • @sshreyaa444
    @sshreyaa444 5 месяцев назад

    NEED mai pham, amalie star and nailea devora on ur pod omg!!

  • @theodora55
    @theodora55 5 месяцев назад +5

    Okay, okay, if we are doing big people. Hear me out, you and Renee Rapp. Chating. I discovered you two at about the same time, like a year and a half ago and I've somehow connected you two in my head. It's weird, but anyway, would like both of you adhd chaotic girls to just ramble for hours.

  • @darartumunira93
    @darartumunira93 5 месяцев назад +1

    I think you should bring Central Cee on your podcast 😏

  • @0.8caro
    @0.8caro 5 месяцев назад

    Where’s your hoodie from? :)

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 5 месяцев назад +3

    Did you go to dinner with Orion Carloto? ☺️❤️

  • @louisethomson04
    @louisethomson04 5 месяцев назад +2

    get jacob elordi on if it ever becomes possible

  • @virtuozasofficial
    @virtuozasofficial 5 месяцев назад +1

    You was born in the year 2000, the year of “the dragon” this year, 2024 is the year of “the dragon” again meaning there’s a chance that this is the year for all people that were born in the year of the dragon to thrive. Could have something to do with it.
    Including some factors including numerology

  • @anika1200
    @anika1200 5 месяцев назад +2

    How do u always release an ep when im taking a shower and need something to listen to

    • @julialumina1615
      @julialumina1615 5 месяцев назад

      Live a moment without a second stimulation it will do u good

  • @evelyncehovski6160
    @evelyncehovski6160 5 месяцев назад

    Please nailea devora as a guest!!!💜

  • @maliatn5n72
    @maliatn5n72 5 месяцев назад +1

    PLEASE have brooke schofield ON !!