Sentencing: What Happened to the Man who Hit Us?

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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2022
  • Hi and welcome back to The Kneady Homesteader channel. I appreciate all of you so very much! Your lover, support and continued prayers for me and my babies have meant more to me than I will ever be able to put into words. God Bless each and every one of you.
    Please remember to check out Nicci’s channel. She does occasionally take orders for her handmade dolls which are absolutely beautiful. Tell her Kneady sent you!
    A Farmhouse Full
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    Members….. I am really going to try to start doing private live streams here on my channel just to talk to you and touch base. I just have to try to remember how to do that and relearn everything. My brain struggles at times but it’s something I definitely want to do! I miss you guys.

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  • @lmc2375
    @lmc2375 7 месяцев назад +52

    Forgiveness is the way to release and healing. We are in this life to mainly learn two things: forgiveness and unconditional love. That is ONLY what the Divine radiates in, it spurns everything else. If one can align closely to it, you can have the best of what this world offers, here. 🙏💫💖🌱🌎

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  7 месяцев назад +11

      YES!!!!!!!! THIS! ALL OF THIS!!!!!!

    • @sarahwyn2739
      @sarahwyn2739 7 месяцев назад +2

      Well Said ... I agree.. and bless you n yours...

    • @sarahwyn2739
      @sarahwyn2739 7 месяцев назад +4

      Self Forgiveness is ultimate

    • @pamelaabettis7225
      @pamelaabettis7225 Месяц назад +1

      THIS is what it’s all about! I know this man will come to saving knowledge of Christ Jesus and be delivered from the oppression of alcohol! I never knew you or Matt but I get the impression that you both will rejoice in that moment.

  • @shelleygeary3205
    @shelleygeary3205 Год назад +771

    Heather, we just love seeing you. You don't have to cook or can. Just hearing you is inspirational. You don't even know how uplifting you are for us. Please just continue to heal and come visit us whenever you can. Come back when you are ready. We'll still be here waiting with love and patience. Bless you and your kiddos!

    • @dianabrown949
      @dianabrown949 Год назад +43

      That is exactly what I would say too. Your faith is so beautiful and so encouraging. I will pray for Jared too. I don’t think Matt’s death was in vain no matter what he decides. You’ve allowed God to bring good from this tragedy and you’ve touched so many people with the love of God. Bless you and never feel pressure that you have to make spectacular videos- like Shelley said we just love seeing you. It helps us yo know what we can pray for for you guys also. Hang in there and keep smiling and abiding in Jesus

    • @shelly8387
      @shelly8387 Год назад +17

      I agree.

    • @debrabrunett6336
      @debrabrunett6336 Год назад +23

      I don’t know you but
      your relationship with the Almighty is profoundly moving. Please seriously consider live-streaming this way. This ministered to me and I am certain many others. Beauty for ashes. I also am in Michigan , Ann Arbor area. You moved the mama in me you could be my daughter. Continue pressing forward as painful as it is. That connection with the Holy Spirit is everything. As I said I don’t know you but I love you. This is church!❤❤❤❤

    • @judybass4339
      @judybass4339 Год назад +9

      Still on my prayer list. I know exactly what you are talking about.. teaching every muscle all over again from a bad stroke! I think of you so often! Have always a ys sent my love in my prayers.

    • @gramnenew6196
      @gramnenew6196 Год назад +4

      Amen! ❤

  • @zaviahopethomas-woundedsou9848
    @zaviahopethomas-woundedsou9848 Год назад +188

    Your learning to walk without a cane is a miracle all in itself!

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +38

      Amen!!!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @Anne-py2ci
      @Anne-py2ci Год назад +18

      Congratulations! You've made such fantastic progress! TY for sharing your difficult story. I continue to pray for you. You are loved!

  • @Mr.old-school545
    @Mr.old-school545 Год назад +96

    Heather you are the most amazing woman I have ever known in my entire life. Coming from a background in law-enforcement I've seen some very horrific accidents that have totally destroyed families, both physically and mentally. I am now retired and I just wanted to tell you you're an inspiration to everybody! You and your family have been through so much pain that most people could never experience in three lifetimes. You and your family will always be in our prayers.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +29

      Thank you for your service! I don’t know what I would have done without the tender mercy of law enforcement and medical staff from several hospitals. Everyone was so kind to me. Matt C&C so going to the sheriffs dept to retrieve his gun was so emotional for me and the police officers were so unbelievably kind. The way they protected me from online trolls who stalked me. How they drove by my house to keep an eye on me until my Dad was here. All through the court hearing. All of it. Wonderful. It’s a thankless job so….thank you!

    • @mandystrong8196
      @mandystrong8196 6 месяцев назад +4

      God Bless you

  • @1cdailey
    @1cdailey Год назад +150

    Your testimony here on this video is the most powerful spoken words that a human can profess! God HAS used you, not only for Jarod, but for every person that watches this video. Your words & beautiful spirit will help so many. Thank you for your candor, your Christian spirit and your infectious smile! God bless you and your family!

  • @MrsAlmaTrumble
    @MrsAlmaTrumble Год назад +377

    We're continuing to pray for y'all. Please know we won't stop.

    • @judyberends7021
      @judyberends7021 Год назад +11

      Amazing faith in God our father.Amen

    • @carolynjohnson6792
      @carolynjohnson6792 Год назад +8

      Hi Mrs Alma, how is your precious baby grandson doing? Much better & home with Mama & Daddy I pray 🙏

    • @joynichols709
      @joynichols709 Год назад +4

      Hi Mrs Trumble as we pray 🙏🏼 together again

    • @appalachiannana7975
      @appalachiannana7975 Год назад +5

      I see the Lord's strength in you I hear his strength too. I'm so sorry you have had to go through all of this. You are touching lives right now!! You have touched my heart!❣️

    • @MrsAlmaTrumble
      @MrsAlmaTrumble Год назад +1

      @@judyberends7021 Amen.

  • @ng3069
    @ng3069 Год назад +416

    Heather, it's your love for Jesus that the world so desperately needs to see! I love you for sharing your pain, your forgiveness and your hope. You really are such an encouragement to all of us!

    • @VeronicaRonniDorval2638
      @VeronicaRonniDorval2638 Год назад +5

      ❤️

    • @birdlady2648
      @birdlady2648 Год назад +6

      Amen God bless you

    • @mrileydigh
      @mrileydigh Год назад +12

      Your spirit is a mighty one. You are a bright light in the midst of all the darkness that happened to you and your family. The Holy Spirit is alive and well in your soul…God bless you on your continued journey to total healing. It was good to hear your heartfelt testimony💕

  • @lauram9669
    @lauram9669 Год назад +117

    My first husband went home almost 20 years ago. He was killed in a car accident caused by an illegal immigrant in southern Ohio. This person disappeared before trial. I had to realize that his fate was and is in God’s hands and it was not my fate to worry about him anymore. My focus had to be on picking up my life (for me and my son)and rebuilding. It’s so nice to hear you have such wonderful support and a beautiful relationship with God. You can do this. Keep picking yourself up and pushing on. My prayers are with you ♥️ Much Love

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +16

      I am so sorry. I can’t even fathom! But God is sovereign over everything. 🙏🏻❤️ I press into that often!

    • @lauram9669
      @lauram9669 Год назад +10

      @@TheKneadyHomesteader Amen! I can’t imagine what you’ve been through, but I know you’ll make it with God’s grace.

    • @PJJIN
      @PJJIN Год назад +16

      I’m so glad to see you are doing well. I’m so sorry for all you and your family have been through. It’s heartbreaking.
      On November 26th our youngest daughter, Jennifer (39 years old) and I were hit head on by a driver that was on drugs & alcohol. We were both critically injured. She passed away on January 7th. She was the single Mother of a 16 year old son.
      I’m still recovering and looking at more surgeries. The trial for the man that hit us will be sometime this summer. It’s currently scheduled for May 8th but subject to change. I pray we get #JusticeforJen
      God Bless you and your family.

    • @IAMYOU-.
      @IAMYOU-. Год назад +4

      @@PJJIN
      🙏

    • @sheliafarmer
      @sheliafarmer 7 месяцев назад

      So sorry for your loss Happy Thanksgiving

  • @Justaredgirl
    @Justaredgirl Год назад +61

    Thank you Heather. Not for fulfilling our curiosity, but for sharing what God has done in and through you by the power of the Holy Spirit. I will join you in praying for Jared and his family as I continue to pray for you and yours. 🙏🏼You are a great example of the forgiveness Christ gives to us all. What a blessing you are. ❤️

  • @lynbsker1968
    @lynbsker1968 Год назад +160

    Dear lady, we feel honored that you would reach out to us. We share in your pain with our thoughts and prayers. Love you and yours!

  • @patriciavoldberg5849
    @patriciavoldberg5849 Год назад +192

    Oh my Word...my three children were hit by a drunk driver who was more concerned about his dogs in the car being injured than my children.
    My dear You may not have reached your drunk driver, but I am here to tell you you reached me...
    God has given you a precious gift of ministering to the grieving.
    I have no words, but to say thank you and bless you always!

    • @carolsferra3582
      @carolsferra3582 Год назад +14

      So well said Patricia.....ministering to the grieving.

    • @kookietherapy9398
      @kookietherapy9398 Год назад +4

      @@carolsferra3582 That would be me.

    • @grandmasewhappyhomestead187
      @grandmasewhappyhomestead187 Год назад +11

      AMEN she speaks to me every time she shares. The power of the Lord flowing through her life and all that she's gone through

    • @loriannskaggs2357
      @loriannskaggs2357 Год назад +13

      My son in law killed a mother and daughter he was drunk . He asked forgiveness from the family , our family, his 3 children and owned his action. He got 30 years prison.

    • @kookietherapy9398
      @kookietherapy9398 Год назад +11

      @@loriannskaggs2357 Hugs. People disapper when you say stuff like that. I will give you a thumbs up for being so brave ... and not being a coward like most people ARE. 💗

  • @tomlemke5305
    @tomlemke5305 4 месяца назад +8

    God Bless You!! What an inspiration... this video needs to be played in every DWI class across America. What a way to honor Matt and have some good come out of a horrible event.

  • @jeanniewilson2201
    @jeanniewilson2201 8 месяцев назад +6

    Holy Spirit did his work in you. Praise God for his healing power. You will be a testament of faith and forgiveness. I'm at the 7th month Mark of my daughter's move to heaven today. If I didn't trust God, I wouldn't:'t be here today sharing grief with you. He will bring us through. My prayers continue for your family and I will pray for Jared.

  • @lynnloehr1566
    @lynnloehr1566 Год назад +450

    You did not ramble at all. For having 2 TBI and all you have been through, you are remarkably composed and articulate. You have been through unbelieveable pain and trauma, that most people can't even imagine. If you need time, take time, just know we will always be here.

    • @dewuknowHIM
      @dewuknowHIM Год назад +25

      Yes...yes...yes...WE LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT...THATS WHAT THE BODY OF CHRIST DOES SIS !!!!

    • @allisonb.8356
      @allisonb.8356 Год назад +8

      Amen!

    • @ladyblue9278
      @ladyblue9278 Год назад +8

      God Bless you and your beautiful children ❤️

    • @reneebarton9295
      @reneebarton9295 Год назад +3

      Always.

    • @karenware86
      @karenware86 Год назад +6

      You take all the time you need !!! You have been through so much and your family! I will pray for Jared like you asked... I hope he gets the he.needs ..Take care of yourself we all will be here-!

  • @ryanfleming55
    @ryanfleming55 Год назад +112

    You are a warrior woman! Continued prayers for the healing of you and your beloved family. Thanks for checking in with us!

  • @lindacline3437
    @lindacline3437 Год назад +43

    Well I don’t think my comment posted so I’m going to try to remember it all and post again.
    You have such a beautiful spirit I’m sure we are all glad just to see you posting 😊. As for me I would love just to see you read a few Bible verses or do a short devotional…. We aren’t worried about seeing you do a canning or cooking video right now.
    Now more than ever we need godly women like you speaking on a public place like RUclips.
    My husband was in an accident with a TBI and unless someone has had a loved one dealing with a TBI it can be hard to imagine the difficulties it can cause.
    Hearing the forgiveness and the loving caring heart you have is such an amazing example of God’s love and forgiveness for all of us. I worked with special needs kids for several years and it blew my mind how many of the kids were innocent enough they would talk about how their parents would have the kids do the parent’s test….unbelievable….
    I am so sorry you and your family have had to endure all this. It just doesn’t seem fair.
    There are so many people struggling with so many issues these days … is there a specific devotional or Bible study you’re doing that you could share with us?
    You are truly a blessing to so many. Please know that there are so many of us still praying for you and your family. God bless you my sweet sister in Christ 🥰.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +19

      This comment is everything this morning. 🙏🏻♥️ Thank you! Being online and sharing is not easy. It is shocking how many cruel people are out here. I know it’s the enemy trying to keep me from brining Gods Kingdom down. It is not fair. But suffering I am learning is the one thing we share with Jesus, and the Lord sees it. Feels it. And never leaves us. 🙏🏻 He is sovereign and good and righteous and he will restore what the enemy steals. It is a daily reminder on social media just how broken people are. And lost from the Lord. 🙏🏻 It makes me weep often. Thank you for your comment. I am pinning it. I think youtube now allows short videos. Maybe a daily devotional would be something others would like too? I will pray on it. 🙏🏻♥️ thank you for such kind words this morning. 🥰

    • @debbieinitaly
      @debbieinitaly Год назад +2

      @@TheKneadyHomesteader I agree with the lady who posted this. I’m brand new to you and your story. I wondered where your faith was in the Lord as I had watched the White bread video and your “hardest video ever” followed. I’ve been binge watching ea one not wanting to jump to the end for some reason. God is allowing me to feel, cry, grieve for things I haven’t in 15 yrs- 7 since my husband couldn’t handle my injuries and undiagnosed TBI from 8 yrs prior!! I lost all! So, I’m praying with and for you as I walk an unfair healing journey my mind and heart are ready to take (no daily memory for 7 yrs. Groundhog’s Day in real life).
      Is there still a GoFundMe set up? What’s the best way to send you a love offering Heather? I’m letting your commercials/ads play that o normally would click through or circumvent. Deb

    • @HISIAM888RUHIS888
      @HISIAM888RUHIS888 Год назад +1

      So Sorry for your loss & All you’ve gone through.. the accident.. injuries & loss of your husband.. My prayers are with you & those you love. 💗I’m praying for Jerry too & for his Deliverance from Alcohol!.. his Salvation..(& that God will use him. & his testimony)..to help others & to Glorify His Name!!🙏🙏🙏
      God Bless You & Your Family with His Strength & Comfort as you Go through this Difficult time!!Much Love & Many Hugs!!💔🙏🙏🕊️🕊️🕊️👑💗💗

  • @cyndyfabian7555
    @cyndyfabian7555 Год назад +10

    Hi Heather, Grannie Cyndy from South Australia here, just found your name after reading through comments.
    Your video just popped up in my feed and I watched it. You are an absolute blessing. I was in tears hearing your heartbreaking story. But your grace, obedience to our Lord in the most trying circumstances and your willingness to forgive is such an amazing testimony.
    I know that you truly are His by your fruit. 'Forgive them Father for they know not what they do'. 💕

  • @tangledroots9078
    @tangledroots9078 Год назад +88

    Thank you for this. I think a lot of people need to know what forgiveness looks like.

  • @bettypecoraro8104
    @bettypecoraro8104 Год назад +108

    How wonderful that you have given him the opportunity to turn his life around and that you pray for him every day. Many people would not be able to do what you have done.❤❤❤

    • @onlybev1
      @onlybev1 Год назад +12

      I would not have been but then again no one is Heather.

  • @eljaysmiley
    @eljaysmiley Год назад +27

    Your compassion for Jared (sp) is commendable Heather. Including his poor parents in that, is astounding.
    Bless you.💜

  • @vodkasoylatte9075
    @vodkasoylatte9075 Год назад +10

    I can't even express how wonderful it was to see your face light up at the mention of your birds. I have 18 hens, 2 turkeys, 3 ducks, and a peacock. I'm planning to get my peacock some girlfriends this year! All my best to you. So much love.

  • @southerngardengigi
    @southerngardengigi Год назад +139

    I don’t know what Jared’s choice might be or if he will have a testimony, but yours is simply incredible Heather. God bless and heal you and your children ❤️

  • @kayceefrost7088
    @kayceefrost7088 Год назад +308

    I really needed to hear this. My father was killed last year in a road rage altercation. He was run over by the guys who started the whole thing. My heart has been very heavy for us all. Thank you so much for showing me that His grace truly is sufficient.
    Right after the incident I prayed for them. That they may find Jesus..
    God IS sovereign!!! Yes! Thank you Heather! Sending continued prayers for you and your family.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +84

      Lord have mercy. I am so sorry. What a senseless murder. Anger. Rage. Lord, lift it from your heart. I am so sorry Kaycee. 💔😭🙏🏻

    • @kayceefrost7088
      @kayceefrost7088 Год назад +49

      @@TheKneadyHomesteader thank you so much Heather. You are such a beautiful soul.

    • @joyful_tanya
      @joyful_tanya Год назад +23

      How terrible! People have gone mad. Prayers for you and your family.

    • @DSkye-n7m
      @DSkye-n7m Год назад +19

      Prayers all around for everyone, 🙏🏼😢❣️

    • @kayceefrost7088
      @kayceefrost7088 Год назад +19

      @@joyful_tanya the worst part is that the DA wasn't going to prosecute because my dad was defending himself with a pocket knife

  • @nancytitus3117
    @nancytitus3117 Год назад +7

    My dear lady I just stumbled on your page you broke my heart on one hand but I'm so impressed with your power of healing both physically and how our sweet Jesus has helped you spiritually. You and your family will be in my prayers daily

  • @marysmith7255
    @marysmith7255 Год назад +14

    I have no words......tears. What an amazing, beautiful woman of God. Such an inspiration.

  • @bethanyryan404
    @bethanyryan404 Год назад +111

    Jared’s response to the accident sounds very much like he’s in denial and active in his disease. I hope he chooses recovery. His addiction is a prison in and of itself. My husband is a recovering alcoholic and I thank God his story didn’t turn out like Jared’s. Bless you for giving him a serious talk about changing his life around. He likely hasn’t had a talk like that from anyone. Sending so much love to you and your family.

  • @alishacuarenta5443
    @alishacuarenta5443 Год назад +236

    You bring me to my knees spiritually. What a beautiful soul you are. I haven’t even been able to forgive small things in my life and here you are forgiving a man that hurt your family in an unimaginably deep way. What an inspiration you are.

    • @NotMister
      @NotMister Год назад +13

      I agree! And such a strong spirit only God can provide. She's such a lovely example of what God can do.

    • @lindaf114
      @lindaf114 Год назад +10

      She's the sweetest 💗

    • @carolsferra3582
      @carolsferra3582 Год назад +11

      Oh Alisha......I feel the same way......Heather has a lot to teach us. Blessings!

    • @alishacuarenta5443
      @alishacuarenta5443 Год назад +9

      @@carolsferra3582 she really is a blessing.

    • @gailbroome2563
      @gailbroome2563 Год назад +13

      I couldn't agree more. She is grace. That's the first word that came to my mind.

  • @justgoodness333littlehomes5
    @justgoodness333littlehomes5 Год назад +15

    I knew a lady who's daughter had been killed by a drunk driver. He was a migrant worker here from another country. She went to the jail, took an interpreter and lead him to Christ. Then she, with her church, organized a mission trip to his hometown in his country and she ministered to his family there. Abba can give us grace that surpasses human capability for sure. You're an amazing child of God.

  • @susangabriel9515
    @susangabriel9515 Год назад +17

    Thank you for sharing this difficult video. Unfortunately addiction is such a selfish disease and Jared may or may not heal. You showed him grace and that’s such a powerful thing. I’ll pray for him and for my own son who suffers from addiction as well. ❤️

  • @greysonphoenix3442
    @greysonphoenix3442 Год назад +69

    You are one of the bravest/strongest people I have ever seen. ❤️

  • @bubbles__61104
    @bubbles__61104 Год назад +60

    Forgiveness is not weakness but strength to know you can live.

  • @Shonnasstuff
    @Shonnasstuff Год назад +7

    Heal. Take whatever time you need. If talking to us, or just showing us your chickens, is what brings you some peace & joy, then please, do so. You do not ramble, you inspire, and bring comfort to others. Continued blessings to you

  • @denisedesmarais4479
    @denisedesmarais4479 Год назад +5

    You have one of the brightest lights I have ever seen! God shines right through you! Thank you for sharing your beautiful heart. Sending prayer for your continued recovery and for everyone affected.

  • @lorifnp-c4023
    @lorifnp-c4023 Год назад +149

    Jared might never be awakened and changed, but your tragic, painful, beautiful, blessed, sorrowful, and amazing journey and YOUR response to such extreme heartbreaking events HAS awoken me. Your husband and love of your life and the father of your children did not die in vain! Your experience has prompted me to resume faith in the savior! You are such an example of how to live a life worth living.

    • @ruthfreeman864
      @ruthfreeman864 Год назад +8

      they angels rejoice... a parodical has come home...no greater feeling

    • @carolsferra3582
      @carolsferra3582 Год назад +5

      Praise God Lori!!!!!

    • @OGGlamma
      @OGGlamma Год назад +3

      This has me in tears. What a wonderful thing. Holding on to our faith can be challenging. God will never forsake us. 💙

  • @Inspiringeverydaymum
    @Inspiringeverydaymum Год назад +167

    We come here for you Heather, not for anything else. ❤

  • @shaylenegrekul628
    @shaylenegrekul628 Год назад +9

    You are being used by The Lord in a mighty way Hun! You are setting such an example of what it looks like to have an obedient heart submitted to Jesus ❤ I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and the pain your family has been through. May the Lord give you peace and comfort. Prayers for continued healing on this journey 🙏 ❤

  • @erinthomas3806
    @erinthomas3806 Год назад +11

    I’m so glad God holds you in his hands. Thank you for your wonderful testimony of faith.

  • @michellem9275
    @michellem9275 Год назад +85

    If you only knew how this tragedy affected us viewers...heartbreaking and heartbroken sorrow...prayers always for all of you.⚘

  • @krisssutton4260
    @krisssutton4260 Год назад +26

    I am joining you in praying for Jerrod. Your testimony is strong and powerful. God is definitely working in you and through you. 🙌

  • @wendybestward4299
    @wendybestward4299 Год назад +18

    Thank you for having the strength to tell your story and thru God giving a struggling person the gift of forgiveness and a chance for redemption even thru all your pain and grief. It takes a very special person and faith to be able to do that. Heather your smile absolutely lights up a room.....wishing you sunny days ahead. You have restored my true belief in goodness during these trying times.

  • @Julieac100
    @Julieac100 Год назад +57

    I am honestly amazed at your strength, and your ability to forgive. I truly pray for continued comfort for you and your kids.

  • @valerienelson3296
    @valerienelson3296 Год назад +57

    I am so glad you forgave him for your sake. I hope when he gets sober he has a great awakening 💕

  • @andreahughes6288
    @andreahughes6288 4 месяца назад +5

    Heather you've got the sweetest little giggly laugh and I just love it, your laugh is infectious!!! Matt would be so proud of you and the children and how far you have come, and all that your family has done for you, Matt would be ecstatic about that. Keep doing what your doing and keep Jesus close to your family, heart and soul. Praying for you and your children and your ama extended family. Not everyone has a family like that and they are a blessing from above and they are your angels on earth. I'm so proud of all you progress as well! God bless to all!!!

  • @LisatheGreatest
    @LisatheGreatest 10 месяцев назад +8

    The world and especially your family is just so fortunate that you’re still here with us. Just talk about whatever you want. You are precious.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  10 месяцев назад +2

      awwww thank you Lisa!!! xoxo

    • @LisatheGreatest
      @LisatheGreatest 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@TheKneadyHomesteaderII don’t know you personally, but you are just spectacular. Praying for POG mom and Jenny Apple, I can see what a very special person you are. Thanks for doing that.

  • @bobbiallison1117
    @bobbiallison1117 Год назад +54

    I lost my husband in an accident when I was 32. I know as a mother you have to move forward and be strong for your children. I believe we carry our dead with us every day, and grieve when we can. You will find that time makes things a bit easier, a bit more accepted. Forgiveness is a huge thing for YOUR recovery. Jared will never be your burden, so let him go. You are doing so so much better and a true warrior so be proud and take care of you!

  • @jaala1759
    @jaala1759 Год назад +217

    I can’t hardly find the words. This very raw testimony has pulled me, just as others, into a very sacred place where the Holy Spirit holds you up and speaks to our hearts as only God can do. You are the one in this place and not only did you and your families’ path meet in that moment but all of our paths as well. I pray that you feel joy again. ❤

    • @1976mcfarlane
      @1976mcfarlane Год назад +12

      You worded that absolutely perfectly. Perfectly

    • @BBB-rd2qi
      @BBB-rd2qi Год назад +1

      Your comment is beautiful.♥️

  • @EvangSuz
    @EvangSuz Год назад +19

    Heather please keep sharing with us, what God is doing in and through you is a supernatural miracle.We need to hear this.Thank you for your Faithfulness.

  • @shirleyvincent131
    @shirleyvincent131 Год назад +4

    You are absolutely an amazing child of God! You are unbelievably strong my dear precious lady. Sending you hugs and prayers. May the peace of the Lord be with you.

  • @lisamr40
    @lisamr40 Год назад +20

    My dear, you are a nicer person than I!! In 2007, My 17year old daughter and her friend were both killed in a similiar crash. The guy driving the car they were in was high on drugs. He was charged 7-20 years for killing both of them. He served 11 years. I believe the charges should be more severe. Everyone of driving age knows the consequences of driving under the influence. I pray and think of you and the kids every day. I watched you since before you were pregnant with Mina. I send you strength and a great big giant hug!!!

    • @azpersonal
      @azpersonal 11 месяцев назад +2

      11 years for two lives is unfair! What is wrong with these judges.

  • @lorazembruski2765
    @lorazembruski2765 Год назад +51

    Found you on youtube recently when looking for canning. Saw your recent tragic horror and now watch you with so much compassion. No words will ever suffice. So so so so so so sorry. God be with you and your whole entire family. 🙏🏼 ❤️

  • @jonawesolowski-thecommunit9968
    @jonawesolowski-thecommunit9968 Год назад +13

    What an amazing testimony to your love and obedience of the Lord. God Bless you all ❤️

  • @connieparker8896
    @connieparker8896 Год назад +7

    Also because of your channel I started food preparation, and had many plans, my family loves you and your and the Lord is our comforter, Amen

  • @FermentedHomestead
    @FermentedHomestead Год назад +38

    Wow, I’m not crying 😭 I’m amazed at how much grace and forgiveness you’ve been able to attain through this all.

  • @barbarapatriciaharrison3853
    @barbarapatriciaharrison3853 Год назад +114

    For once in my life i'm lost for words ,absolutely lost for words . You're one strong lady to come on here and speak of salvation for the man that changed your life forever is beyond words . My prayers are on going ,as I share your pain ,having lost my only Son on Christmas Day last year. Grieving for me will be forever . My love and prayers to you all xxx 🙏💔

  • @ElPasoTom
    @ElPasoTom Год назад +10

    Thank you for sharing your story update. My wife and I lost our daughter 2 years ago and the feeling of loss is indescribable. Your ability to speak to the world about this is a blessing to all who hear. Your pain over your loss is visible but not as much as your strength and faith. Your ability to forgive is amazing and I'm not sure I could do it. All the best to you and the kids.

  • @TheAmazinWards
    @TheAmazinWards Год назад +13

    This testimony was a blessing! Everyone needs to hear this❤

  • @callydeare6878
    @callydeare6878 Год назад +44

    Your message will reach millions! Continued prayers for you and your family and theirs!

  • @tracybingham7739
    @tracybingham7739 Год назад +56

    You are a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing your testimony. I was hit by a drunk driver which resulted in 5 back surgeries and still suffer debilitating pain every day. It’s now been 12 years. He never served any jail time and I struggled with forgiving him. I thought I did but hearing you made me realize I actually never truly did. Thank you for reminding me that he is also deserving of God’s grace and mercy and I should be praying be praying for his soul every day. Thank you so much! ♥️

  • @actuallowroller
    @actuallowroller Год назад +4

    Moving forward even second by second is still moving forward. Sending you and that beautiful family prayers and love.

  • @jenniferkingsbury8229
    @jenniferkingsbury8229 Год назад +5

    I'm not sure if you'll see this, but I'm new to your channel and blown away by your strength and commitment to not only healing your body but also your emotions and helping your children heal as well. You have a very strong faith and I'm sure that helps you through those difficult days. On that brighter note you spoke of, you are teaching me to bake bread and it's helping to heal my guys skin issues. Turns out he's allergic to preservatives! Thank you so very much.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +1

      I see you!🥰 and thank you so much sweet sister. God bless you! I appreciate you being here. Welcome!😁❤️

  • @lindab2144
    @lindab2144 Год назад +52

    Prayers for you & the kids, Ms. Heather. You look much better now. God is answering the prayers that I'm sure lots of people have been saying for you.

  • @cathysteenson9591
    @cathysteenson9591 Год назад +46

    I know this must have been so difficult for you to tell us how the trial and subsequent outcome went. Even more amazing is how you talked to him face to face and continue to pray for him. I have so much admiration for you, Heather. And besides, you have adorable chickens and turkeys!

  • @debkate2957
    @debkate2957 Год назад +4

    Heather, your video is helping me receive joy again since I lost my dad and younger brother within 3 mos of each other in 2019. ❤ The ones in Heaven would want us to have joy! I will get there, with joy reigning in me again. You are getting there, too! ❤

  • @joyjohnson5158
    @joyjohnson5158 Год назад +5

    Your strength, faith, and love are all felt through this video! Your love for understanding your calling is very special! Thank you for sharing!

  • @Michelle-es9ct
    @Michelle-es9ct Год назад +41

    We are just happy to see & hear from you. Take all the time you need... We'll wait for when your ready. God bless.

  • @amberpoynter3303
    @amberpoynter3303 Год назад +74

    Watching your train of thought process heal as these update videos come out is incredibly encouraging to see. Regardless of the topic, seeing you recover is a gift that can't be described. Your journey is proof that God can carry us through anything. Thank you for the uplifting reminder that God is using everything.

  • @missellie6581
    @missellie6581 Год назад +4

    You know as you spoke to us with your solemn words, the sun shined brighter and brighter on you, and put you in a beautiful glow. That is testimony to the grace and love you are receiving as you walk through this time in your life. I feel it, believe it, and see it.

  • @JeannieMitchellMyers
    @JeannieMitchellMyers Год назад +20

    One day at a time sweet Jesus... After your video ended that song popped into my head. You all are going to all get through this because God has a plan for each and every one of you!!!

  • @donnalawson4235
    @donnalawson4235 Год назад +26

    What a powerful testimony you have given. May God continue to bless and guide you as you continue to heal. May your children continue to heal both physically and emotionally

  • @kenjenhilton1
    @kenjenhilton1 Год назад +79

    Your testimony of God’s goodness and faithfulness in the midst of deep personal tragedy is SO important for us to hear. As someone has already said, “He is already using this story for His Glory.” Thank you so much for sharing what He is teaching you. We hear you. ❤

  • @kimbucao9291
    @kimbucao9291 Год назад +3

    You are so precious! I’ve watched you several times since the accident and you have such a sweet spirit.
    🙏💕🙏

  • @angiefagan4122
    @angiefagan4122 Год назад +11

    You are an amazing lady ! I hope that Jared makes positive changes. I pray he becomes the person that is deserving of your forgiveness. I pray that you and your family continue to heal. Bless you all ♥️

  • @tammieowens8664
    @tammieowens8664 Год назад +65

    Your godliness and your testimony has touched me beyond words! Thank you for sharing your deepest sorrows here and giving God the glory for bringing you through it all. You are a precious soul!

  • @pearlsandsocks5605
    @pearlsandsocks5605 Год назад +46

    The way you lit up talking about your chickens, turkeys and kids at the end is absolutely EVERYTHING. I am grateful for your channel and your courage and willingness to share. I’d be all over watching and doing a series of Bible studies with you if you ever feel led.

    • @carolsferra3582
      @carolsferra3582 Год назад +2

      Me too!!!!!!!

    • @BlueberryGirl723
      @BlueberryGirl723 Год назад +2

      Same! I’d love to do a Bible study with Heather if she feels led to do one. ❤🕊
      Such an inspirational and motivating speaker! Forgiveness is the key factor, and I just got it yesterday FINALLY! Then I found this lovely video from you, Heather. Just what was needed to give more encouragement. Thank you! You cheered me up as well as led me to a deeper understanding of grace and forgiveness. You are such a blessing. I will keep you, your family, those helping you recover and move forward in life, as well as for Jarred and his family all in my prayers. God bless!

  • @kateseverein7650
    @kateseverein7650 7 месяцев назад +2

    How absolutely pure + beautiful of you xxx

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  7 месяцев назад

      Definitely the Holy Spirit within me. My flesh wants to hate him. 😭💔🙏🏻

  • @jhallman0
    @jhallman0 Год назад +12

    This was so sad but at the same time one of the most inspirational videos Ive ever seen. Your faith is incredible and you got your message across so very well. Stay focused on your faith as Im sure it has helped you as well as your followers.

  • @paulahensley9583
    @paulahensley9583 Год назад +14

    God Bless You! What a witness you were to this young man.

  • @nancydavis670
    @nancydavis670 Год назад +23

    That was heart wrenching.
    I was glad to hear you laugh a little at the end.
    Praying for your continued healing. 🙏🏻

  • @andreacooley9428
    @andreacooley9428 Год назад +4

    I just LOVE that your doing this with the kids and the eggs🥚 ❤ I think it's such a great lesson.

  • @melindaweaver786
    @melindaweaver786 3 месяца назад +1

    That is how God makes you stronger,you are so much stronger now ,wait a couple of more years. You are Blessed and Loved so much.

  • @LadyKatz
    @LadyKatz Год назад +33

    May God continue to use you and to keep Matt's story alive in Jared's life. May Jared be convicted by the Holy Spirit. May Jared find God and may you and your family face each tomorrow with a brighter smile knowing your burden was lifted the day you let God be in control. I know it had to be hard to walk in faith during this time.

  • @thegraymarlin
    @thegraymarlin Год назад +7

    Your grace and faith is so inspiring, Heather! My family also found out first hand how broken our justice system is. My husbands life was forever changed by a juvenile. Because he was a juvenile, he received a slap on the wrist. In the years that have followed, he has continued to reoffend and still walks free to this day. It has taken many years for me to forgive him. I hold on to the knowledge that he, too, will be judged by the only one who can judge us. God bless you and your family Heather! Much love from south Texas.

  • @sharleenduplessis6632
    @sharleenduplessis6632 Год назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your journey. I pray for your healing and your grievance. Grief is such a personal journey. You are getting through this and Matt in spirit is always right beside you.
    You are such a beacon of light and love.
    Thanks so much Heather for being here on YT to share and spread the word of having faith . Much love and big HUGS to you and your family .
    xOxO

  • @niccoleshrider9794
    @niccoleshrider9794 7 месяцев назад +3

    I am brand new to your channel. My first view of your channel was the video of you telling your followers about the accident. Before you even really got to fully process it yourself. I have been through loss, not of this kind, but loss none the less. I am thankful, for every moment your will to share. Dealing with loss is so profoundly difficult, any perspective is helpful. Thank you for being will to share!😊

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  7 месяцев назад +1

      God bless you Nicole and I am so happy you are here! I am so sorry for your grief.....it is the hardest work I have ever done....healing your heart and soul....only with the Lord's help have I been able to gather the broken pieces and heal. It's been a journey. But suffering opens you up to loving bigger and harder than ever before. I know now what can be lost....gone in an instant. I don't waste a second of living anymore. God less and keep you and thank you for such a sweet comment. xoxo

  • @annasheartyhomestead
    @annasheartyhomestead Год назад +10

    We lost a dear friend this year to a drunk driver. A RUclipsr by the name Steph Pappas just lost her father and dog to a drunk driver. The scary part about drunk driving is anyone can do it. Anyone can obtain alcohol, over consume, and get behind the wheel of a vehicle. One decision can cost so many lives. All we can do is say a prayer before we leave our homes, things like this will never make sense or be fair 🙏🏽 Thank you for sharing this Heather. 5 years is not enough for what he cost you/your community/family/friends. But thank you for continuing to spread your light even in darkness! ✨️ Hang in there!

  • @terrilatham5357
    @terrilatham5357 Год назад +151

    There are no words for how inspirational your faith is. I have friend who's husband was just killed by a drunk driver. It's heartbreaking all the way around, just like you said. "There are no winners here!!" Your example is how Christians should ALWAYS act. Bless you and your family!!

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +17

      Praying for her 💔🙏🏻 When will the senseless killing stop

    • @stardustgirl2904
      @stardustgirl2904 Год назад +9

      I don't drink 🍷🍻🍷 it's against my faith, and I'm thankful to have the word of Wisdom, from my church! I feel bad that liquor is being pushed so hard on everyone, and young people are clueless to the consequences of drinking, and other things they do in this day and age! People today don't live in reality! It's so sad , but Jesus Christ 🙏🏻💜🌸 will return and all will be made well again!

    • @shawnalLovesJesus
      @shawnalLovesJesus Год назад

      @@TheKneadyHomesteader On Aug 27 at about 313 AM, in my somewhat sleep, I heard - He’s bringing the rapture at the speed of light.
      From nineplanets I read a bit on the speed of light. Saw this: We know that nothing can surpass the speed of light, at least in theory. If you’d have the power to move with the speed of light, you could go around the Earth 7.5 times in one second.
      Oct 26, 2020, I heard - Biden Harris
      July 31,2021 I heard - Stay in the Word.
      Aug 1, 2021, I heard - Do not fear what is coming.
      Aug 9, 2021 - Surge. Isolate.
      In 2019, I heard - famine and plague.
      Jan 26, 2021. Heard - War is coming Shawna. Better prepare. Prophesy.
      April 9, 2021, before going to bed, my vision went black for a quick moment, and then I saw in gold letters: Thus saith the Lord. About four hours later, April 10, during my sleep I heard: Prophet. Tell them I am coming soon. Maybe 3-5 min after that, at 1235 AM, our area had a small earthquake registering 3.1.
      In April 2019, I heard - Tell them I am coming soon. Later in the day I heard: There will be a great shaking. When I didn't tell a particular church about it, I got a dream where I was scared. I could hear myself saying: I'll tell them, I'll tell them, I'll tell them. Then I saw a person in the dark with well lit windows behind him and another person dressed in white walking behind him and up some stairs.
      Dec 20, 2021. I had a dream of an eagle on a power line. I was standing below and looking up at the eagle as it sat there, calmly, looking around. Then it started to morph into a dragon. Then I was above that dragon looking down at it with its wings spread open. I could see the black veins in the right wing.
      I was in QFC one day and a song caught my attention. I believe the Lord wanted me to hear it. It's called - Get Closer by Seals and Crofts. (also look at lyrics). Supporting scripture - James 4 vs 8 and Zechariah 1 vs 3.

    • @BBB-rd2qi
      @BBB-rd2qi Год назад +1

      @@stardustgirl2904 - Well said! Drinking is glorified on social apps especially with young people. It is a horrible, devastating legal drug.

    • @stardustgirl2904
      @stardustgirl2904 Год назад +4

      @@BBB-rd2qi Thank you ❗💯👍🏻🙏💜 My son knew a guy at his work and they became friends, he was older and hat two daughters. One daughter was a party girl, he tried to get her to make better decisions for herself ❗ The other daughter stayed clear of that lifestyle, until she decided to attend a party 🎉 she thought it might be fun. She went, she started drinking and ended up killing someone from drinking and driving, she's 21 year's old, and her entire life is ruined ❗Her parents sold there house 🏠 and bought one next to the prison she was being kept at! Not to mention,she ruined the victim's family, as well , it's so incredibly sad ,my heart goes out to them with my prayers ❗🙏 These young people today don't understand these bad things that can happen from drinking ❗And the government doesn't care what happens to these families ❗ The government doesn't care about any of us, we don't need alcohol in society at all, it's not helpful in any way, to anyone ❗And at the end of the day, your problems are still there❗💜👍🏻💯🎄⛄🦌

  • @moam2799
    @moam2799 6 месяцев назад +2

    God bless you and your family. Praying 🙏

  • @jeanlatham391
    @jeanlatham391 Год назад +8

    You are an amazing woman. I was bawling my eyes out. You preached a whole sermon to those of us whose hearts were open to it. What a great example of Godly love you have shown. I’m certain that God will say to you, “Well done my good and faithful servant” one day! God bless you and your family. ❤

  • @jacquiland6467
    @jacquiland6467 Год назад +18

    It's wonderful to see how far you have come. When I look back at what you have been through, it is the Lord who has carried you in his arms and cared for you, he has nourished your soul. May God continue to bless you with healing as you greet each new day. Keeping you in our prayers, all the way from New Zealand. 💜💚💙🧡💛❤

  • @marjoried.9277
    @marjoried.9277 Год назад +20

    So good to see U looking healthy and beautiful. I pray for your recovery everyday!

  • @hbrws813
    @hbrws813 Год назад +7

    So, so good to see you again. Thank you for talking to us and filling us in. Much love to you.

  • @janwormuth9739
    @janwormuth9739 9 месяцев назад +3

    You are beautiful and I am lifted up by your spirit of love and joy..

  • @AlternativeHomesteading
    @AlternativeHomesteading Год назад +22

    Thank you for the update. You have been through so much yet you are still have the more adorable, beautiful face. Blessings.

  • @29cyd1
    @29cyd1 Год назад +32

    Oh, Heather, I cry along with you. I can not wrap my brain around what you are going through and how difficult it must be to forgive him. The fact that he takes no accountability makes it that much worse. It's good to know that while he is in prison, he will not be able to drink one more drop and will then have to face his demons. It will probably be the first time that he will finally feel guilt. God is using you mightily. I'm praying for you. You totally amaze me.
    Please post those videos. :D ♥🙏

  • @mariannedressler6784
    @mariannedressler6784 Год назад +1

    May God continue to shower you with his love. What a testament to your faith.

  • @JudeR1977
    @JudeR1977 Год назад +4

    Heather, you are such a beautiful soul. Your faith is an amazing thing to witness and be a part of. Would love to see videos of your turkeys and chickens. God Bless you and your children. ♥️🙏🏻

  • @WingardMT
    @WingardMT Год назад +12

    as a long time subscriber, i appreciate the difficulty it took to update us. your sharing is a witness for so many, it is with gratitude i thank Him for you! hugs from ours to yours.

  • @racheleldred8346
    @racheleldred8346 Год назад +14

    Tears poured the whole time watching this.. you are such an incredible woman! Praise be to God for giving you the strength to endure this. And so much respect to you for turning to the Lord through such heartache and trial.. such an inspiration! May God continue to restore you and your children and give you peace! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @icidive3890
    @icidive3890 Год назад

    Your such an angel. The Lord is just radiating through you.... im so sorry you lost Matt... Im sooo sorry the kids lost Matt... you have such a beautiful grace about you... ill keep you in our prayers 🙏 ❤️ 💕

  • @edithjohnson6835
    @edithjohnson6835 Год назад +8

    God shines through you, you are doing his earthly works. Even if Jarret doesn’t see what he has done, or if he never gets redeemed, there are people out here who are being redeemed through your testimony.
    Matt would be so proud of you, as we all are. Thank you for your love and concern for us, who live out here in You Tube Land.