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  • Опубликовано: 1 мар 2021
  • UPDATE March 2023 I appreciate all of the love, cards, gifts, money, the love letters you have written sharing your own stories with me, the photos, the recipes....all of it.....all of it! I love hearing your stories of survival and healing and your cards have meant so much to me and to the kids. Thank you for those who send cards specifically for Mason and Mina. They love to sit and read them and place the card in their room. For a logn time, Mina tapped them to her bedroom door on display. Thank you for loving my babies through all of this for the past two years!
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Комментарии • 26 тыс.

  • @lisagerlach2960
    @lisagerlach2960 3 года назад +299

    I will be watching ALL of the past videos! Who’s going to join me?

  • @MesiahOTHill
    @MesiahOTHill 3 года назад +1806

    I am Erik heathers son and I am extremely thankful for all the support that my mom is getting right now from you guys, you guys are truly amazing for helping us in this dark time

    • @michellefraze9987
      @michellefraze9987 3 года назад +52

      Erik can you please add a P.O. Box so we can send there? You kids are the real heroes. I cannot imagine what you are going through but I lost my Mom less than a year ago- my BFF, I know pain . We are praying diligently ❤

    • @michelel965
      @michelel965 3 года назад +26

      Hello Erik, please let us know how else we can help. Gift cards etc come to mind, but perhaps there are more important ways we can help your family.

    • @kathyduncan3210
      @kathyduncan3210 3 года назад +21

      Heather, I am so sorry to hear what has happened to you and your family. Matt was such a fun guy when he was on your channel. You don't worry about it, those if us to who love you and your channel, aren't going anywhere. I have learned so much from you and miss you terribly! Get well and hugs from Texas!

    • @gypsymommabear3383
      @gypsymommabear3383 3 года назад +10

      So sorry for your family. Praying!

    • @rbsamar
      @rbsamar 3 года назад +11

      Praying for u and ur family. God is with u and ur family. Plz take care of each other.

  • @vickifletcher5448
    @vickifletcher5448 Год назад +28

    I just found your site today. Of all day's to see this dated on Mar 2nd. That date is the day of what was also my car accident. Almost everything you went through with your body, the drunk driver, and the loss of my baby girl. I was in critical care so sadly I did not even get to be at her service, she was 8 months old. My Son was 3, and they never found him for 8 hour's after the accident. The car had been towed to the junk yard. I would wake up every so often and kept asking where he was. Fianlly my family arrived and they also asked where he was. By the grace of God they find him under all the rubble of my car. He was on life support for 93 day's. When he woke up he did not know me or any of the family. Anyone could have been his family! I think part of that was a blessing for he never asked about his baby sister bc he did not know he had one or even what the word sister meant. Yes he had a severe closed head injury. Once he woke up he had both legg's and arm's casted and his jaw was broke in 4 place's. I had a broken neck and 6 rib's broke and a head injury. I never got to see him till 6 week's after the accident. I know I am telling my story only bc I seen that date of Mar 2nd. A mother never forget's date's that tragedy happened on. My Son [only child I have now] is doing well. He learned to talk, crawl, walk, and LOVE HIS MOMMY. I am so sorry for your loss, and even tho it has been a year & a half for you, I know you still have sad day's and painful days as well. You are in my prayer's, and I look forward to watching you progress. To all your follower's please forgive me for sharing my story, it help's sometime's to just tell it.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +15

      Typing through tears my heart is absolutely broken for you. I am so very sorry. Sweet mercy! May the Lord hold both you and your son in his right hand and I know your sweet baby girl is with you both. She will be waiting for you both one day. Oh how I wish I could just hold tour hand and cry with you. God Bless you sweet sister. 💔

    • @vickifletcher5448
      @vickifletcher5448 Год назад +8

      Thank you and I wish I could hold yours as well. God bless you and know I 🙏 for you and your children every since I read your blog or the video I should say. You are so sweet and I love you.

  • @garretisla5282
    @garretisla5282 2 года назад +42

    I lost my fiance and unborn child to a drunk driver. She was 7 months pregnant with what would have been my first daughter. Words cannot console you in these moments. As one who has lived (barely) through this, do not give up. Live for them, for their memory, because they survive by your memories. I will say no more, but for one thing. I am so sorry, both for you and your children. Godspeed.

    • @irenespirit1
      @irenespirit1 2 года назад +3

      Im so sorry for your loss, I wish you so much strenght and love. Take care and bless you

    • @garretisla5282
      @garretisla5282 2 года назад +5

      @@irenespirit1 thank you for your words. I have since had a daughter born, and she is two and a half, and the absolute light of my life.

    • @irenespirit1
      @irenespirit1 2 года назад +2

      @@garretisla5282 Im so happy to hear that. Wish you all the luck. Children are amazing, they can light up everything. They teach you that life is about love and joy.

    • @lumpcrabbarnacle3382
      @lumpcrabbarnacle3382 2 года назад +2

      Oh garret, I’m so sad you had to go through that but joyful with you in the birth of your daughter. I’m sure that both daughters will enjoy their daddy together in heaven. A child Is such a great source of happiness.

    • @garretisla5282
      @garretisla5282 2 года назад +1

      @@lumpcrabbarnacle3382 thank you for your kind words. My child is a blessing; her pure heart, kind nature, and beauty never cease to amaze me.

  • @kindlia
    @kindlia 3 года назад +819

    Today I cried for a man who I never met, and his sweet wife and family. I will keep you in my heart and prayers.

    • @shannoncook9915
      @shannoncook9915 3 года назад +10

      Same here....💔

    • @gaillaviolette6115
      @gaillaviolette6115 3 года назад +8

      Me too.. I feel so sad ..

    • @eileenkillen1481
      @eileenkillen1481 3 года назад +7

      Same here. So heartbreaking.

    • @kellyneumann2129
      @kellyneumann2129 3 года назад +6

      I am so sorry this happened to you. I live watching you and will continue to support you. We will be back stronger than ever. Stay stronge

    • @michelleaus
      @michelleaus 3 года назад +7

      I cried too! So very sad 😢🙏🏼

  • @sphinxaf3969
    @sphinxaf3969 3 года назад +8327

    I am Zack(heathers 21yr old son)And im extremely thankful for anyone that can help our family in anyway. This is an extremely hard video to watch for anyone that knows our family and I thank everyone for talking the time out of your day to watch and help out in our time of need. Matt was an amazing father and friend to many people and will forever be missed. Words can’t describe how grateful I am for everything.The kids are doing great and are well taken care of and my mother is doing amazing with how bad of condition she is in. Thank you guys for everything.

  • @jessicaeaton3183
    @jessicaeaton3183 Год назад +20

    3:52 Even though I've watched this before I still cry like baby. beyond heartbreaking

  • @elainecardenas6472
    @elainecardenas6472 2 года назад +18

    Since you were a victim of a DUI accident/death the attorney general of Michigan has the victims compensation bill that helps families with expenses. Get a case number and submit all your medical bills.

    • @sandradee7484
      @sandradee7484 2 года назад +3

      Maybe post this on her Facebook page?

  • @MotherNeverland
    @MotherNeverland 3 года назад +1039

    I am Melanie (Heathers sister, caring for the children), and I just wanted to come over here and say how absolutely grateful we are for each and every one of you supporting Heather and the kids as they navigate down this devastating road. I want you to know that your words are encouraging and much needed- I know that although Heather cannot respond, I know she will soon be able to read the comments made by each of you beautiful souls. Thank you SO much. 🙏❤️

    • @Cate7451
      @Cate7451 3 года назад +17

      Wow you are a great sister! Thank you for stepping in. I am a new subscriber coming over from Justin Rhodes announcement about this. Hope the patron account keeps going.:)

    • @suzanne9353
      @suzanne9353 3 года назад +7

      ❤️

    • @jessicabraden5441
      @jessicabraden5441 3 года назад +12

      Bless your heart, your a great sister, prayers for your family🙏🥺

    • @SheriMorgan
      @SheriMorgan 3 года назад +7

      I’d love to help in any way possible! If you have a Zelle or PayPal please send it to me ... no fees will be taken out & you get all the money! My hairdresser was in a tragic accident as well & she lost her husband .. please check my IG bio for her info .. She is a great lady that lost her husband 3 months ago... Love&Light to all !!!! Thank You for your strength & openness!!!

    • @autiemuse
      @autiemuse 3 года назад +8

      Melanie, please tell Heather I am a TBI survivir and she is doing GREAT! So much love to these precious ones...

  • @elainecardenas6472
    @elainecardenas6472 3 года назад +279

    Please apply for the victims compensation bill through the attorney generals office from your state to cover all medical expenses from funeral costs to income loss for life much more praying for you.

    • @SaveTheChildrenFromAbuse
      @SaveTheChildrenFromAbuse 3 года назад +26

      Such good advice! I hope her son sees this.

    • @jimboeeek
      @jimboeeek 3 года назад +11

      Replying so this gets bumped and someone may see this

    • @fellinloveinmaui
      @fellinloveinmaui 3 года назад +8

      @@jimboeeek I'll help you

    • @musicmimi289
      @musicmimi289 3 года назад +10

      Please do this!! So many people do not know about it...but it will take so much financial pressure off! Then you can concentrate on your healing and recovery! Prayers for you and your family...which is the most important thing we can all do for you!❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

    • @debrajudd1587
      @debrajudd1587 3 года назад +5

      I'll help too

  • @katherinegibson5017
    @katherinegibson5017 2 года назад +21

    Your video just came up on my youtube. I know this happened months ago but I want to say I am so deeply sorry about yours and your childrens loss. I pray that you all are healing.

    • @pollackmorgan3149
      @pollackmorgan3149 2 года назад

      Hello how are you doing hope you're safe over there?

  • @cathylongstreth5405
    @cathylongstreth5405 2 года назад +14

    What a beautiful tribute to your dear husband!. I have just found your channel, recognized the Kneady Homesteader from Miss Lori at Whippoorwill Holler. Although a year has gone by, I know that the healing process continues, physically, emotionally, and yes, even spiritually. Please know you and your family are in my prayers, for strength in the Lord, for encouragement, and for all blessings.

  • @Betharoot
    @Betharoot 3 года назад +191

    Here is a woman, going through such personal pain and loss, apologizing to her audience and asking for mercy and forgiveness. She is unbelievably amazing! May the Lord bless and keep you and your family in His loving embrace.

  • @johncarlson9210
    @johncarlson9210 3 года назад +162

    Me and my wife live close and will help put your garden in if you wish and feel it would be good for your health.. Were all with you and were going nowhere. You taught me how to pressure can with your videos .. Praying for a speedy recovery. John and Roberta.

  • @ktpoll8238
    @ktpoll8238 5 месяцев назад +14

    Hi Heather I have been a subscriber for many years and I love your channel. As the anniversary date approaches I have been thinking of you and I am praying for you and your sweet family. With what you have endured the past 3 years has been remarkable to say the least. Your testimony, strength, hope and perseverance has truly been an inspiration to so many! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  5 месяцев назад +5

      this made me cry. thank you so much. the anniversary is so so hard on my heart. another year further away from the last time I held his hand. heard his voice. I just have to give it all to God and let him carry it for me. otherwise the weight of it all will crush me. the grief will always remain, I am just learning how to carry it with me in every aspect of my life. I thank God I am alive to see our babies grow up, and I do it with him in my heart.

  • @pistachio57
    @pistachio57 Год назад +17

    This was a heartbreaking video. I sincerely hope you and your children are well and thriving after such a terrible trauma. I wish cars had a device that would sense a driver’s sobriety so that this never happens again.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +4

      Thank you so much! I do too! With technology today, no reason there isn’t something in place by now!

    • @meuandthelot
      @meuandthelot 11 месяцев назад

      Amen ❤

  • @rebeccasnell8261
    @rebeccasnell8261 3 года назад +117

    Lots of homesteaders are spreading the word. Dont you worry just get better.

  • @justacpa
    @justacpa 3 года назад +228

    This woman expressing condolences to her viewers for her OWN HUSBAND’S DEATH! I can’t imagine doing anything but being consumed in my own personal loss. Amazing woman.

    • @alisonmorgan7238
      @alisonmorgan7238 3 года назад +5

      My thoughts exactly

    • @igkat8
      @igkat8 3 года назад +2

      You never know. I did the exact same thing when I lost my dad and had to tell his friends. It's hard to deliver such terrible news and know that the person you are telling is hurting now. My heart goes out to everyone impacted by this tremendous loss.

    • @amylasswell8643
      @amylasswell8643 3 года назад +1

      My fiance never cries he cried with me watching this. Heather YOU ARE INSPIRING 💜
      GOD KEPT HEATHER HERE FOR BIG THINGS I CAN HARDLY WAIT TO SEE WHAT SHE WILL TEACH US THROUGH HER JOURNEY 💜

  • @jeanieolahful
    @jeanieolahful 2 года назад +16

    I think we should just have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to alcohol and driving. Let’s just make it so if you drink any amount you simply cannot drive. It might be inconvenient, but it would save countless lives. It would take away the grey areas. Call a cab, call a friend, or just don’t drink if you’re driving. I’d love to see that be the law.

  • @BettyCDH
    @BettyCDH 11 месяцев назад +11

    Heather, I remember the first time i watched this. I cried and prayed for you 2 years ago.
    I dont know why it showed up again, but I'm thinking you need an extra dose of intercessory. So, here i am again lifting you and your family up in prayer. You are so strong. You are so loved. ❤❤

  • @chrisblock4916
    @chrisblock4916 3 года назад +106

    I would also like to see a car dealer give them a new safe car since theirs was smashed. Hope someone can donate one.

    • @connienatale7886
      @connienatale7886 3 года назад +5

      Insurance company of the other driver or the driver would seem like be responsible for the car if not more.

    • @colleenosburn-sapp3201
      @colleenosburn-sapp3201 3 года назад +2

      @@connienatale7886 he was uninsured

    • @judithniles2827
      @judithniles2827 3 года назад +3

      @@connienatale7886, this other driver who was drunk behind the wheel should be charged with the murder of this great man. We all loved Matt and will miss him greatly.

    • @aprillove9318
      @aprillove9318 3 года назад +2

      I hope you had full coverage so at least your insurance will cover it this is awful

  • @DamfinoFarm
    @DamfinoFarm 3 года назад +77

    It just seems so wrong to 'like' a video like this... so the 'like' is for your courage and strength. You're in my thoughts. Take your time and heal. We'll be here.

    • @therealz360z7
      @therealz360z7 3 года назад

      I feel the same,can't bring myself to give a thumbs up but yet i know that theory yt operates it will actually be a good thing.

  • @sylviacarlson3561
    @sylviacarlson3561 Год назад +11

    Oh! Sweetie, I'm just reading this now. I"m so sorry for the loss of your dear Husband. I would like to know how you are doing 2 years later. I hope you are doing better. You are an amazing woman! God Bless you darling girl!

  • @froggiealicia
    @froggiealicia 7 месяцев назад +10

    I am watching your video from California in the middle of the night. Your words in honor of your husband made me realize that maybe i need to consider that im taking all my husband does for granted and not honoring him.

  • @grannyprepper1181
    @grannyprepper1181 3 года назад +126

    For those who may not be able to give to the go fund me account, go back and start watching all her videos. That way RUclips will continue to monetize Heather. Take care everyone.

  • @abigailbelford883
    @abigailbelford883 3 года назад +59

    Breathe baby.
    We're not leaving dear.
    Take the time you need now.
    To feel the absolute totality of your emotions...
    And let the blessings of each day remind you of Truth.
    And Know
    God's got you covered And we got your back.
    You're in good hands.

  • @mojognoinski3039
    @mojognoinski3039 2 года назад +9

    🙏🏼😢🙏🏼God, please help give this family strength, healing and the peace that they need🙏🏼😢🙏🏼

  • @havecourageandbekind9605
    @havecourageandbekind9605 8 месяцев назад +10

    I found you through Jenny Appel’s channel. May God protect you and your children🙏🏼

  • @imangiomo
    @imangiomo 3 года назад +971

    **ATTENTION** For those of you like me who want to help but cannot afford to do so financially, try to devote some time to watching some older videos, or re-watching them. I think that will add to her YT income.
    So since I am not working, I have a lot of time to spend watching YT, I have set a daily alarm & am going to watch at least a few videos per day from this channel. So if you just commit to maybe one video per day or even a weekly commitment if you have less time, anything is something, right? The more of us that watch, the more of a difference it should make.
    Just an idea- Take care all!
    -☆♥︎☆

    • @loriclark6881
      @loriclark6881 3 года назад +52

      What a great idea! Thanks for sharing that. I'm gonna start watching as many as I can :-)

    • @Bobisworld
      @Bobisworld 3 года назад +21

      Good idea!

    • @annarodriguez9868
      @annarodriguez9868 3 года назад +46

      This is the first time I have seen this channel. I will watch all the videos since I can't contribute cash. I will ask neighbors and friends to do the same and also ask them to keep them all in constant prayer.

    • @glennagoss5755
      @glennagoss5755 3 года назад +16

      I am watching and loving her video’s. Praying adding her family to prayer list. Love

    • @cindys5426
      @cindys5426 3 года назад +29

      Thank you .I have never seen any of these .Just popped up while looking for something .I will start watching now. So very sad.Prayers going up.😥

  • @HeatherRose_
    @HeatherRose_ 3 года назад +180

    EVERYONE, we must rewatch all the old videos and leave them on continuous play to get the hours up.

    • @marygallagher3428
      @marygallagher3428 3 года назад +2

      Good idea!

    • @diannamc367
      @diannamc367 3 года назад +1

      I was just thinking that.

    • @NhaughtyD
      @NhaughtyD 3 года назад +1

      That is a wonderful idea!! I’m sure there are a few I haven’t seen yet too!!

    • @terrigarner9155
      @terrigarner9155 3 года назад

      How do you leave them on replay?

    • @debmoore3980
      @debmoore3980 3 года назад

      Leave them in replay? What does that mean?

  • @lisasword4058
    @lisasword4058 5 месяцев назад +9

    Becky from Acre Homestead recommended you in one of her videos from two years ago and I clicked on your site and just watching this video. I know it’s two years ago but I am beyond sorry for your loss and traumatic circumstances and I pray for peace and healing of you and your families pain. God bless!

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  5 месяцев назад +3

      Awwww thank you. It will be 3 years in a couple of weeks. Still recovering. Will always grieve. But by the grace of God go I, so living with him in my heart is what I must do. Thanks for stopping by. 🥰

  • @Mindy56743
    @Mindy56743 2 года назад +10

    Yesterday would have been my 24th anniversary. My husband passed away on December 19, 2020. I have spent the last few days crying. Widowhood sucks so bad. Sending you prayers

  • @eirika2001
    @eirika2001 3 года назад +54

    As a stranger who just subscribed today I want to say that this is exactly what GoFundMe should be for - I am glad you will let folks help, I can see many many people love and care for you in your channel community. I will happily wait for your new content by watching your older videos.

    • @ORSkie
      @ORSkie 3 года назад +3

      Amen. I just subscribed to help as best I can. The thought of anyone leaving at this 💔 time is incomprehensible to me.
      🙏 for Heather & family.

    • @shelahogletree7711
      @shelahogletree7711 3 года назад +1

      Same here. So sorry 😢. New subscriber to your channel. Take your time and I will be here when you make videos. Heard about you from Pinball Preparedness.

    • @marygallagher3428
      @marygallagher3428 3 года назад +1

      Welcome JE!

    • @eirika2001
      @eirika2001 3 года назад

      @@marygallagher3428 thank you...have popped in over the years but never subbed! She is amazing and I am enjoying the videos.

  • @rootsrocksfeathers1975
    @rootsrocksfeathers1975 3 года назад +192

    Oh, NO, dear Lord, Heather! I had no idea. I knew you were missing, but I just figured you were so busy. I am so very devastated by your loss, my sister in Christ. I think we on your channel were all so fond of Matt and were touched by your relationship we all saw. The love was just so apparent. Your dear children, oh, my, I cannot imagine. You are so strong even if you don't feel that way now. Love you and praying for you, Mason and Mina. Shared on my channel, of course. May the Lord lift you up in his Grace. ~Cynthia

    • @barbarapearce6335
      @barbarapearce6335 3 года назад

      Heather,may god bless your an heal your family.We will be praying for healing.love u an god bless!

  • @davidtaylor8406
    @davidtaylor8406 Год назад +11

    This video popped up on my recommended list. Watching it was so sad for me. You posted this video the day my wife of 27 years was intubated and she passed away four days later. I'll pray for you and your children.

    • @jankrygier1607
      @jankrygier1607 Год назад

      Just now said a prayer for you as well. I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @loiskinder6133
    @loiskinder6133 2 года назад +11

    I am so sorry to learn of the tragic auto accident and the loss of your husband and the critical injuries your family has endured. Just be positive and know many of us care.

  • @cindyb8775
    @cindyb8775 3 года назад +82

    I can’t hardly stand to watch this. And this is the first time I’ve watched a video from this channel. God in your great mercy, please please touch this woman in a miraculous way, amen

  • @shelleycarefoot2
    @shelleycarefoot2 3 года назад +46

    As a police wife, this makes my blood boil that innocent people suffer from someone's selfish actions. I am so sorry for your suffering and loss. I pray for the speedy recovery of the injuries. Praying you and your family.

  • @oliviaginsbourg6541
    @oliviaginsbourg6541 2 года назад +9

    I am truly shocked. A beautiful family destroyed through criminal driving. My prayers go out to you. May you recover as much as possible.

  • @DaniKoopman
    @DaniKoopman 2 года назад +10

    Just came to your channel via Becky from Acre Homestead. I’m so sorry for your lost.
    🙏

  • @unapologeticvegan
    @unapologeticvegan 3 года назад +54

    Who's near her? Someone close by please get her garden going 🙏

    • @Msaltares91
      @Msaltares91 3 года назад +10

      Maybe Migardener can help he is a RUclipsr in Michigan

    • @sherryllynnjones7077
      @sherryllynnjones7077 3 года назад +2

      Wish I was🙏❤🙏😭

    • @unapologeticvegan
      @unapologeticvegan 3 года назад +1

      @@Msaltares91 that's an amazing idea!

    • @Andy_rabbit_
      @Andy_rabbit_ 3 года назад +1

      Someone Needs to build tall raise beds so she can sit and garden at the same time. Its about the only way I can do it.

    • @kmlambart
      @kmlambart 3 года назад +3

      1870's homestead is Michigan as well as Pratt Homestead. We should get together and do a spring clean up for her and help out around the homestead.

  • @pbar8439
    @pbar8439 3 года назад +105

    Hey guys, go to her largest playlist and hit play all. Play it while you sleep. Hit the mute of course. I don't know how channels are paid, but I was told doing this will help her out financially and bring her up to the top of the algorithims so that her channel has a better chance of being seen. Thank You.

    • @femvetusa5263
      @femvetusa5263 3 года назад +9

      Great idea!!,

    • @jubilee1181
      @jubilee1181 3 года назад +2

      I’m on it!!

    • @paflowerfarmer
      @paflowerfarmer 3 года назад +2

      I put the 151 video Playlist on loop!

    • @pbar8439
      @pbar8439 3 года назад +1

      @@femvetusa5263 thank you

    • @pbar8439
      @pbar8439 3 года назад +1

      @@jubilee1181 thank you

  • @suspectdevice5644
    @suspectdevice5644 2 года назад +13

    Just stumbled across this . . . Am so so so sorry for your loss and the relentless suffering you have endured.
    May God Bless you !!!

  • @teresaburrell527
    @teresaburrell527 2 года назад +16

    I have not ever seen your channel until today. I am so very sorry for your loss and for the pain you all have endured. May God give you all great grace, and quick healing for all you've been through. Praying for you all.

    • @tooslow2do
      @tooslow2do 2 года назад +2

      I just saw this as well. Prayers for all of you. My husband passed from being hit by a car in a crosswalk and he went into a coma. This devastated my family and still today we are estranged. Please pray for us as well.

    • @diannamc367
      @diannamc367 Год назад

      @@tooslow2do 🙏🏻

  • @mommchan
    @mommchan 3 года назад +292

    Guys, we can help her by also by watching her videos including the ads. Just start her playlists and let them to go. Even if you have to leave home. Let them play. I even put them on at night to help our community vloggers. This could be a blessing to her whole family 😘.

    • @mommchan
      @mommchan 3 года назад +4

      We will be there for you. Matt would want you to keep going. He was so in love with you and your children.

    • @E.P.91
      @E.P.91 3 года назад +1

      That is a wonderful idea, I will definitely do that

    • @elizabethcrosby9095
      @elizabethcrosby9095 3 года назад +2

      Thank you! I was wondering if this would work as I cannot contribute to the go fund me.

    • @stayinghomewithkristen6756
      @stayinghomewithkristen6756 3 года назад +7

      Im new to her channel.. And thats what i plan on doing.. Just play her playlist while i cook and clean all day and night.

    • @dancingwholeness
      @dancingwholeness 3 года назад +6

      Great idea. I will do that!

  • @OverwelmingLove
    @OverwelmingLove 3 года назад +88

    Please put together an Amazon wishlist for things we can get for you and the kids to help you all heal. Toys for the kids and items to help you pass the time.
    I pray that God just lifts you all up and guides you through all of this.
    I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @midsouthhomestead7527
      @midsouthhomestead7527 3 года назад +1

      Yes, please do! We can't do go fund me.

    • @sarahprather3889
      @sarahprather3889 3 года назад +1

      This is my 3rd time listening to your story, in 😢. I have been following you for years. I just went to your fb page, I can't do go fund me, but Jake if you would set up a P.O. box, I would love to help your family. I'm in Sterling Heights. Love and prayers to your family, 🙏 🙏

  • @pennyadams9087
    @pennyadams9087 10 месяцев назад +11

    I realize that 2 years have gone by since you made this video, but I also know that the hurt remains. My heart breaks for you and your family. Hopefully, time has been good to you and you are doing well. Cherish those memories and, hopefully, they will bring you all some comfort. God bless you all.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  10 месяцев назад +4

      I appreciate that. Thank you❤️ I will see my Matty again one day in Heaven, Lord willing. We are doing well. ❤️🙏🏻 we speak about him every day as if he were here in spirit. I want our kids growing up knowing him as if he were here yet just away physically. Where they can talk about him freely without sadness but will all encompassing love. 🙏🏻❤️ He would have done that for me.

  • @patsygroves3812
    @patsygroves3812 2 года назад +11

    You just appeared on my home page . I am not familiar with you or your channel ; but my heart goes out to you ! I am So Very Sorry for your Huge Losses ! I Pray that God Will Surround you and Lift you Up and Touch you and your children With His Mighty Healing Right Hand and Heal you and both of your beautiful children Speedily ! God Bless you and your children ! IJMN AMEN !
    Again , I am So Very Sorry ! Please be patient with yourself . Everything takes time . God Bless you !

  • @sherrydubois7856
    @sherrydubois7856 3 года назад +54

    PSALM 147: 3. HE healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.

  • @karincartwright8752
    @karincartwright8752 3 года назад +66

    I'm sure I speak for everyone following you when I say we won't leave.
    Stay strong. (Hugs).

  • @shonna4545
    @shonna4545 7 месяцев назад +12

    Wow, I watched this video 2 years ago and am watching it again this Monday morning at 4:30am.....I hope you and your children are doing amazing!! I plan on watching more recent videos once I finish this one...again. lol

    • @esthersiersema
      @esthersiersema 7 месяцев назад +5

      Same 😊 Hope their ok and in a better place right now ♥️

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  7 месяцев назад +8

      Thank you so much! We are approaching the 3rd year mark since our tragedy but we are all doing very well. ❤️🙏🏻 We take it day by day as our hearts will always feel an emptiness and a longing but God is a redeemer and he is helping us build a life again. It’s definitely a process that can’t be rushed. ❤️🙏🏻 But the Lord is sovereign so we all take comfort in that. Thanks for being here and watching. So much love to you.

  • @munkustrap2
    @munkustrap2 2 месяца назад +6

    I came across a video of yours for Texas Roadhouse Buns & when I went looking through some more of your videos I came across this. I want to commend you in taking care of your children's mental health, as well as their physical. I lost both my parents to a drunk driver when I was 5 years old & back then (I'm going to age myself but we're talking 1968) no one gave a thought to my mental health & to this day I still have problems from it, they just manifest themselves differently as an adult. I hope you & your children are doing well. I truly am sorry for your loss...& even sorrier for how it came about.

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  2 месяца назад +2

      I am heartbroken for you.... I am so so sorry. My Mama heart..... I am so thankful my life was spared.... your story could easily be the story my children could have had. This is why I live for them, and to keep their Daddy's memory alive for them. I am so sorry nobody did that for you. I am praying for your broken heart..... grief is so heavy to carry but for a 5 yr old sweet baby, it's unfathomable!

  • @kkimberly2004YT
    @kkimberly2004YT 3 года назад +56

    I will be praying for you and your family. The fact that you survived that crash says God still has a purpose for you on this earth.

  • @nancysahrakar3125
    @nancysahrakar3125 3 года назад +157

    Ok You Tube friends, if all of Heather's subscribers donated just $1 each her family would have $111k to help with mortgage, bills, medical expenses... etc. Imagine if we could chip in more. Let's help this beautiful family out💗 She has been a wealth of knowledge for all of us.

    • @lyndagaylebanner6462
      @lyndagaylebanner6462 3 года назад +4

      We are staying right by your side.

    • @crazydee1955
      @crazydee1955 3 года назад +6

      I will donate monthly. I am retired and get paid each month.

    • @stephaniemason5184
      @stephaniemason5184 3 года назад +3

      Commenting as I am watching. Is there a place to donate? Going to watch all of there is something mentioned. If not, can somebody start a GoFundMe account for Heather and her family?

    • @crazydee1955
      @crazydee1955 3 года назад

      @@stephaniemason5184, somebody started one but I can't find it.

    • @carylrose7502
      @carylrose7502 3 года назад +1

      @@crazydee1955 there is a gofundme link in the description box. 👍🏻

  • @esthersiersema
    @esthersiersema 7 месяцев назад +15

    Grazy that this video from 2 years ago can across all our timelines ❤

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  7 месяцев назад +6

      It is! RUclips’s algorithm is crazy but I thank you for taking the time out of your day to watch. God bless. 🙏🏻❤️

    • @nikkimclay5474
      @nikkimclay5474 7 месяцев назад

      @@TheKneadyHomesteadermany people believe this is current, you need to clarify

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@nikkimclay5474 the date is there I confess I didn’t see it before I was maybe almost halfway through but the algorithm does that if a handful of people like it, they push it out there.

  • @Ashaliyeva
    @Ashaliyeva Год назад +12

    …and this is why I hate alcohol. 💔
    Good lord, I am SOOO sorry you went through all of this and lost your husband as well. 😭
    I’m responding over a year later, and I sincerely hope that you & your kids, and all of your family, are healing from this. Our bodies can mend, but we can never replace our loved ones. 💞

  • @deborahsthisthat5034
    @deborahsthisthat5034 3 года назад +67

    I am going to play Heather's videos on my phone all night. This is one way to help her financially as well.
    I just go into her playlists and let them play, while my phone is charging. Hopefully others will do this as well, to increase her revenue. I will continue to do this for as long as i think about it.
    Love you Heather ❤

    • @serobinson1
      @serobinson1 3 года назад +10

      Make sure to try and comment / like when awake, interaction counts too! God bless

    • @deborahsthisthat5034
      @deborahsthisthat5034 3 года назад +3

      @@serobinson1 absolutely!!!

    • @busybeeplanner8640
      @busybeeplanner8640 3 года назад +3

      Great idea!! Thank you, I will do the same.

    • @Bikerbabe1210
      @Bikerbabe1210 3 года назад +2

      Thank you for this suggestion. This is the first time I've even seen her videos and for it to be this one, I am devastated for this family. 🙏❤️

    • @deborahsthisthat5034
      @deborahsthisthat5034 3 года назад +2

      @@Bikerbabe1210 ❤ Hugsssssss

  • @lindajones8253
    @lindajones8253 3 года назад +69

    Concentrate on not only mending your body but your soul too. Don't rush your rehab on our accounts. Take however long you need to make your way back. Don't rush your grief. Only time will heal. We will be here when you are ready. Our prayers are with you and your family.

  • @grtdrmmrs
    @grtdrmmrs 2 года назад +10

    I just stumbled upon this and my heart breaks for you and your family. Prayers to you and the family.

  • @casta9172
    @casta9172 2 года назад +10

    This hurts 😔🙏🏼
    I was in a car accident that almost ended me, but I survived, my neck is shifted and my lower back hurts every day still.
    Life throws us these obstacles and we have to move forward one day at a time.

  • @ebethd5976
    @ebethd5976 3 года назад +65

    You know how sometimes you fall down a RUclips rabbit hole and end up somewhere completely random? I landed here and I’m in tears listening to a stranger pour out her heart and share about her life completely turning inside out. I haven’t even clicked anything yet to find out your name or what your channel is even about, but you just gained a subscriber. Vulnerability is scary and so, so hard, and yet it’s incredibly powerful. I welcome the opportunity to pray for you and your family as you navigate a new path in such a different way than you’d ever planned. Much love and strength to you. 💕

    • @mikelemoine4267
      @mikelemoine4267 3 года назад +3

      Same here. I'm feeling pretty angry as well that someone would do this to a family instead of taking an Uber.

    • @wickidgrrl
      @wickidgrrl 3 года назад +2

      I understand your anger but perhaps you don’t understand the situation of this person that made it behind the wheel. They had a very high alcohol reading of .35+ they very well didn’t know how/what they were doing, let alone the capacity to call an Uber. Does not excuse them for what they’ve done. That person is dead by their actions. This woman has lost her husband among injuries. Please try to focus your anger into healing vibes for this woman and her family.♥️

    • @coupondawnsavesalot6268
      @coupondawnsavesalot6268 3 года назад

      Yes...what she said. New subbie here too. Love, light and prayers to you.

    • @harmonydragonfly88
      @harmonydragonfly88 3 года назад

      Same! Prayers, love, healing! I can't imagine your pain 💔

  • @vodkasoylatte9075
    @vodkasoylatte9075 3 года назад +86

    Oh, love. No one is going anywhere. You don't have to inspire anything right now-- you're supposed to lean on this community. Lean hard. We're all here.

  • @j.a.y.7617
    @j.a.y.7617 7 месяцев назад +9

    I’ve not seen your channel previously, so this was a chance meeting. I wish you and your family peace and strength on your journey to healing.

  • @BevLoveNlife
    @BevLoveNlife 10 месяцев назад +10

    Omgosh I had no idea. I stumbled across your channel looking for a canning apple pie filling recipe & watched yours, can’t wait to try it.
    I always go to home pages before I subscribe and saw this incredible video. I just cried & cried for you and your entire family. I’m so sorry for what you all have endured, I can’t even imagine your journey. From watching your current videos one would not begin to know & understand your strength. You are an amazing woman, I’m so glad I found you. I’ve already fwd your pray circle video to my son this morning, he needs to hear your message. Thank you so much for the many blessings your channel gives to so many of us.
    God bless you, much love, Bev

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  10 месяцев назад +2

      Oh Bev! Welcome to my channel and I am so incredibly humbled you are here. 🥰❤️🙏🏻 We all carry our own sufferings and I will be praying for your son and that he allows the Lord to help him to carry his. 🥰

    • @BevLoveNlife
      @BevLoveNlife 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@TheKneadyHomesteader
      Thank you so much for your prayers for my son, drug addiction is the devil’s playground especially for a believer In Christ. The closer my son gets to having a relationship with our Lord Jesus, the more he falls into earthly traps. Yes, we all have our tribulations of hell on this earth. Some may think others are worse than others, I believe they’re all equal in pain and suffering when laid at the feet of our most high, realizing when you’re in the thick of it is the key.
      Thank you again for your prayers, your love for others & being here for so many of us needing to hear your message through the Holly Spirit.
      Praying God continues to bless you and your family with peace & strength. ❤️ Bev
      You have a subscriber for life

  • @fruitafarmgirl
    @fruitafarmgirl 3 года назад +79

    I've never seen your blog before today. For some reason this tragic video showed up in my feed today and I was too compelled to watch. I managed to cry and pray the entire length of the video. NO one is going to leave this channel!! Not one person! You have the biggest online cheer leaders ever! Please continue to take great care while you rehab. I don't know you at all but know you will find your strength more and more every day! I look forward in watching you heal and be reunited with your wonderful children. And whatever your future has in store for all of you! We're praying for your babies, your farm, your friends and family and you! 🙏❤

    • @BoardroomtoBounceHouse
      @BoardroomtoBounceHouse 3 года назад +6

      Same here... Never watched until now but I’m here to support and pray 🙏🏻

    • @littlejack6123
      @littlejack6123 3 года назад +2

      Me too.... The video just showed up today and I subscribed. I can't imagine the pain and sadness you are enduring. I wish I could hug you. I pray the Lord gives you strength and healing. I know He loves you...and your beautiful sweet family. linda from Illinois

    • @theresav2479
      @theresav2479 3 года назад +2

      Me as well. First time here and praying for you. I am also in Michigan. I feel your beautiful ❤️.

    • @fruitafarmgirl
      @fruitafarmgirl 3 года назад +1

      @@BoardroomtoBounceHouse Absolutely! 💗

    • @emmawheeler4624
      @emmawheeler4624 3 года назад +1

      Hi, I'm exactly the same. Video appeared from nowhere but was compelled to watch, and am so heartbroken by this news for the family

  • @judyjackson639
    @judyjackson639 3 года назад +69

    OH SWEET JESUS PLEASE WRAP YOUR ARMS AROUND this dear family. Please heal not only their wound but their heart and soul. Guide them Lord with you grace and give those around them the wisdom to help and watch over them.
    Dear lady please never apologize. ❤️❤️❤️
    Your are truly loved by many. Rest your heart ease your mind as much as you can. We will all be here when you are ready to return. Your are strong but need to take care of yourself right now. All the love and prayers are coming you way🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️ please take care

  • @virginiachase6008
    @virginiachase6008 Год назад +10

    BY GOD'S grace you survived...incredible! Prayers for your family and for your healing.

  • @desireemarana4997
    @desireemarana4997 Год назад +12

    I'm brand new to your channel, like 5 minutes ago. I am here, I have subscribed, and I will spend the day liking and commenting on your channel, I don't know how it does but I'm told it helps the you tubers channel. I will be starting at your first video and working my way to today. I am so sorry for your loss, I know what that loss feels like, and I am so sorry you're going through it. The lovely Becky from Acre Homestead has turned me on to your channel. sending you love and light ❤

  • @goatygal
    @goatygal 3 года назад +60

    and just saying.... I hope that “person” that irresponsibly drove is held accountable.

  • @gingerkirby8208
    @gingerkirby8208 3 года назад +80

    If this video doesn't hit home about how everything can change in the blink of an eye, nothing will. Grateful you have your children and loved ones to walk beside you as you start this new chapter. Im so sorry for your loss.

    • @hollygibson628
      @hollygibson628 3 года назад +1

      EXACTLY my first thought! My husband and I are in the car as im watching this. I just looked at my husband ans blinked.....he could be gone. Im praying for them!

    • @gracenmercy579
      @gracenmercy579 3 года назад +1

      Cherished our husband and our kids, because we never know life is like a vapor here today gone tomorrow.

  • @roseckansas3871
    @roseckansas3871 2 года назад +11

    I wish I could hug you so bad. I just found your channel and I will always be here. Your subs will always be here for you, you need to heal my dear. Please keep us updated on how you are all doing. You are such a strong lady. I send you many prayers and much love. Don't be sorry, please. We all love you...

    • @MzClementine
      @MzClementine 2 года назад

      @Rose C she just posted an update. Bless her.

  • @samanthawalker4171
    @samanthawalker4171 2 года назад +10

    R.I.P Mathew. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😪
    Hello, I'm a complete stranger. I'll be honest I've never seen your channel or any of your videos except for this 1.
    My heart absolutely bleeds for your loss and i cannot begin to understand how you must be feeling. I'm so very sorry for your loss.😪😞. You are an incredibly strong and powerful woman and i was shocked by your strength and positive mindset given your situation. I will absolutely say prayers for you and your family.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. Wishing you and your your children a speedy recovery and may all of your families hearts heal the pain of loss. God bless you all.❤🙏🏻🇬🇧

    • @outdoors-gs9td
      @outdoors-gs9td 2 года назад +1

      im just seeing off another sites suggestion,,, what happened?

  • @robasiansensation3118
    @robasiansensation3118 3 года назад +139

    I have zero interest in canning and such. Don't know how I stumbled here, but what an honor to watch this slideshow and to see the palpable love the two of you have. He is not truly gone, he just was called to return. Know that he is in bliss. Eternal bliss. Sending you so much love. Also, let your channel change as you change, it doesn't matter the content, people will stay-and even more will come (like me) as long as you stay authentic and true to yourself and your journey.

    • @bonitalawrenceguy2666
      @bonitalawrenceguy2666 3 года назад +5

      You have shared such a moving post. You found this channel because you followed God’s will. You have a sweet spirit.

    • @TheZebraTribe
      @TheZebraTribe 3 года назад +1

      I second the 2nd comment. Your post is touching and well said. God is good and brought us to this channel to show love and support. My heart aches for her and her family. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @jennid8958
    @jennid8958 3 года назад +32

    I have never watched this channel. It was on my home page, but I wanted to send condolences and prayers. I am so sorry.

  • @angelachristle2116
    @angelachristle2116 3 месяца назад +6

    Watching again several years later, because you popped up again. Watching some of your most recent ones as well. Sending you so much love. You are a miracle. You have the Lord within you your light shines and always will. You are still here with so much too, do this life still. Sending lots of hugs and love and look at you even now three years following this video. You are a true testament. Much love my friend!

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  3 месяца назад +1

      You're the best! Thank you for coming back by. So much love to you Sis!

    • @dianegarcia6562
      @dianegarcia6562 3 месяца назад +1

      Me too. I sent Heather's site to a nurse coworker of mine who years ago delivered a full term stillborn after many prior losses. She kept her with her in room several days not wanting to say goodbye to her. She reminds me of Heather and would totally understand such tremendous loss and be blessed by her. She told me she is going to follow her. ❤

    • @angelachristle2116
      @angelachristle2116 3 месяца назад

      @@dianegarcia6562 💜💜💜💜

    • @angelachristle2116
      @angelachristle2116 3 месяца назад

      @@TheKneadyHomesteader 💜love endures💜 too keep living with so much grace is proof of that love… we need you😁❤️

  • @macanon2
    @macanon2 8 месяцев назад +7

    God bless you and your children. This is the first time connecting with you. Stay strong, you are all in our prayers. This 83 yr young one is holding and rocking you in my arms sending you all my love.

  • @sarahkirbach5040
    @sarahkirbach5040 3 года назад +181

    Jesus, please calm her children’s fears and give them peace. Jesus while she is grieving, please give her moments of peace and lighten her burdens

    • @beingperfected9479
      @beingperfected9479 3 года назад +5

      Amen

    • @tygerlily1700
      @tygerlily1700 3 года назад +2

      LORD GOD ALMIGHTY please fill them with Your Love and Comfort and Peace...💞
      Help them to know he is Safe in Your Everlasting Mighty Faithful Hands...They will see him again....
      One day at a time, one night at a time....
      Help them in every way that is needed.
      Thank You LORD God that You are so good.
      You will constantly be with them...they are never alone.
      Much Love and Prayers ...
      🙏💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🤗🤗🤗🥰🕊⚘⚘⚘🦋🌸

    • @solangesouza6277
      @solangesouza6277 3 года назад +2

      Amen.

    • @stevem6949
      @stevem6949 3 года назад

      In the name of Jesus Christ Amen

    • @sandye4731
      @sandye4731 3 года назад +1

      Amen

  • @pegv4718
    @pegv4718 3 года назад +81

    Dear God, rap your merciful arms around this 🙏 family and give them strength and comfort during this sorrowful time. Amen

    • @misskat3218
      @misskat3218 3 года назад

      Please. God help this family heal.

    • @kenya91b
      @kenya91b 3 года назад

      Yes, please Jesus! I stand with you all in prayer and faith for this family!🙏🏾

    • @tracycouture3955
      @tracycouture3955 3 года назад

      Amen 🙏

  • @peach7348
    @peach7348 2 года назад +11

    I've never watched your channel so I don't know your story other than what you just told on here, but I pray God lifts you and your children up, comforts you, speedily heals the bodies, and places peace and the memory of joy in your hearts and minds. I am so very sorry for your loss. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @briannamorrison380
    @briannamorrison380 2 года назад +12

    I don't know who you are but I came across this video and felt compelled to watch. It breaks my heart to hear about what has happened to you. My grandmother who was healthy and a big part of my life was hit and killed by a drunk driver. She was pulled over on the side of the road and in the process of getting into her car when he hit her car. My husbands cousin was hit by a drunk driver and it caused the car to catch fire, he didn't make it either. I feel your pain very deeply, I am so sorry to hear about this. I wish everyone thought about how their actions affect others. Some people are so evil and selfish that they can't see beyond themselves. I hope you can find your strength to get you through this terrible tragedy. I'm so incredibly sorry for you😔

  • @kimcolby8761
    @kimcolby8761 3 года назад +57

    You have nothing to apologize for! as a nurse I can tell you that being three and a half weeks out from what you're telling us happened you are doing amazing and you will come back emotionally physically beaten but also amazingly strong and you are going to take the world by an even bigger storm than you already had started to! Good luck with everything and I look forward to seeing your guest vloggers and awaiting your eventual return when you are ready

    • @barbarabrand190
      @barbarabrand190 3 года назад +3

      As a nurse and a widow, my heart and prayers go out to you. My youngest was 6 when thier father passed unexpectedly. You were spared for a reason, and your return home will alleviate a lot of the children's anxiety. For all that you have been through, you look wonderful. You can do this, but only if you take care of yourself. Im new to your channel, but like many of the you tube followers, if you let us know when you are home and how we can help, we will. Prayers of comfort and courage for you and yours, healing, knowledge for your providers, and peace of mind.

  • @juneortiz1104
    @juneortiz1104 3 года назад +140

    Don’t worry about videos. The Bible says that God is close to the broken-hearted. He will take care of you and your kids. I will not stop praying for you until I see you restored.

  • @IMNSignificant
    @IMNSignificant 2 года назад +9

    Oh Heather!!! This is Beatleha from the Ron Paul days. I just came across this today. I am so very sorry for the horrible loss you have had.
    If you remember we were pretty good RUclips friends and I was around when you and Matt started your romance and watched you two grow your family. So, this is quite a shock to see this now a year after your accident.
    I'm so sorry to have dropped out to be aware of this, I also have had some life challenges.
    Even though we haven't spoken in years, my heart hurts for you terribly.
    I'm aware that you're still struggling with your recovery, I just want you to know I have big love for you and your family.
    Matt was a good guy, a joy to watch on your channel. I'm truly so very sorry.
    Stay strong my old friend.

  • @marydrewthepsychicnextdoor899
    @marydrewthepsychicnextdoor899 2 года назад +12

    Blessings! I just saw this and since I do not have other social media, I apologize for not seeing videos you have done. But, I wanted to comment if that is okay. You are a warrior. I will pray for you and your children. Loss and grief are forever 💔 but love is also forever. May the light of God and heaven embrace you and heal you. Mary Drew

    • @pollackmorgan3149
      @pollackmorgan3149 2 года назад

      Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic ??

  • @shirleydrake1602
    @shirleydrake1602 3 года назад +80

    Please post about your recovery. There may be thousands of people, or maybe even just one person, who desperately needs to hear your inspiring recovery story, as it happens. You have already given a great deal with your YouTUBE teaching. Now switch gears for a season. Let us go with you throughout your recovery process. Don’t even edit, just post it raw. Your loss is tremendous but it might save countless lives. You have my prayers.

  • @Egberts5753
    @Egberts5753 3 года назад +80

    I have no words about this tragedy, just tears.

  • @alarmz4344
    @alarmz4344 7 месяцев назад +11

    So sorry for your loss. This just came across my feed November 2023 so I hope you and your family are doing well.

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 7 месяцев назад

      Same here! I hope things are a lot better now for mama and kiddos and I’m so sorry for the loss of Matt. Such a senseless tragedy. 😢

  • @merandasmith2140
    @merandasmith2140 Год назад +11

    I was here when you made this video and I'm still in prayer for you and your family. Please know that I'm always a message away if you need *ANYTHING WHATSOEVER* I love you!! ❤️😘🙏🏽

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +3

      You are the best! Thank you!!!!! ❤️ we are doing good!!!! Promise 🥰

  • @deemcc2086
    @deemcc2086 3 года назад +39

    i'm 75 and i know "life sucks" sometimes. i saw a saying one time that's gotten me through rough times be fore...."when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on". God bless you sweetheart. we'll all be praying for you and we won't forget or abandon you.

  • @kardiaheart
    @kardiaheart 3 года назад +95

    Babygirl, you need to stop apologizing. I cannot imagine the depth of hurt you have. Matt was one helluva man and he loved the hell out of you as you did him. Please do not worry about this channel or any of us. It's our turn to take care of you. You have our love and prayers for you and the kids. Take whatever time you need, forever if need be. Grieving will take a long time and right now you just need to take care of you and your babies. You mom was watching over you and the kids and now she's taking care of Matt. Love you to pieces sugar.

    • @michaelraymond1279
      @michaelraymond1279 3 года назад +1

      God bless you! Thank you for you comment!! 😭😭😭

    • @alexmac6386
      @alexmac6386 3 года назад +3

      Yes !this .this is what I wanted to say, but could not find the words...I could not stop crying...you are a wonderful person and God needed another angel in heaven because that man was a wonderful man/father everything.i loved watching both of you

  • @janajgtezz6627
    @janajgtezz6627 2 года назад +10

    My heart aches for you and your family, I can't even imagine the pain, but your strength and openness is just incredible. You are an amazing woman. God bless you, you and your kids are in my prayers. I only recently discovered your channel. I look forward to your full recovery and return. Hugs and Prayers for you and your kids.

  • @cozacamp4644
    @cozacamp4644 2 года назад +8

    My apologies, I've not seen your channel until this one. My heart goes out to you and your family. I believe you got through this, because he's still you strength, armor and shield. He needs you 2 live, because he believes you can. You have beautiful children who needed you & he lives on through them. Wishing you all the best. Fight hard and be your strong wonderful self. Worry about you. 💙

  • @LA_Giacobe09
    @LA_Giacobe09 3 года назад +88

    Your video appeared in my feed. I am heart broken by your story. Lord please guide this wonderful woman and her children on their new journey. The road may be long but you can wrap them in your arms, allow them to grieve and give them peace.

  • @kathymurray5209
    @kathymurray5209 3 года назад +58

    I lost my husband to a drunk driver 21 years ago. My only advice is that your grief is your own, you may grieve however you need too. I still think of him every day, as you probably will.

  • @SandiFischer
    @SandiFischer Год назад +11

    Hi Heather, I have been with you and your channel since first watching this video, it touched me greatly. I am now 60, when I was 26 a drunk driver hit me and my boyfriend, who is now my husband. So much still impacts my life today from that accident. I won't get into it all, not nearly as devastating as your loss has been. We survived, I still suffer to this day, I am permanently disabled, whenever i even think of feeling sorry for myself I come back and watch this video and remind myself how much worse it could have been, but mostly to gain strength through you and your determination, you are a true warrior, and inspiration beyond belief, stay strong and continue to heal, I am following your sour dough starter series, i love it...thank you so much, much love and prayers to you and your family

    • @TheKneadyHomesteader
      @TheKneadyHomesteader  Год назад +5

      I am so sorry. I am permanently disabled as well even though I am not collecting disability. I am choosing instead to keep going on youtube and doing what i can. It’s hard some days. But surrendering it all to the Lord has helped. I grieve for so many things. I just remind myself how blessed i am. I am still alive. 🙏🏻❤️

    • @SandiFischer
      @SandiFischer Год назад +4

      @@TheKneadyHomesteader well you have sure helped me, with your positivity and continued strength, I know we don't see the worsed, as most don't see my worst, but I just cannot imagine your pain and suffering, and you have been such a help to me, whenever I am feeling down and going through it, a bad day a bad week, i come and watch this, and it gives me strength, so thank you for being you 🥰♥ I fought going on disability, and continued to work till i could no longer walk, eat or sleep because of the pain, so after fighting it, I became so sick I had to give up my career, it was very hard to do. Our drunk driver had just gotten his license back from a dwi one week before hitting us, and he was back behind the wheel a week later, he got no punishment at all, I only wish he knew the damage he caused in hopes he would never do that again, because of our experience our daughter in highschool was the leader of students against drunk drivers for her 4 years of high school, she is awesome.

  • @perfectlovenofear8060
    @perfectlovenofear8060 2 года назад +9

    Oh sweetheart, I cried with you toady. Sending you love. Bless your whole precious family with healing and strength to get through this dark time with grace.

  • @kryslow
    @kryslow 3 года назад +37

    I’ve never watched you before but this video popped up, my heart is broken for you. I am so so sorry for your unimaginable loss.

  • @nanci6134
    @nanci6134 3 года назад +45

    The fact you can speak to us at all is a miracle and testement to your need to be there for the kids. God is listening to all of our prayers. Hugs

  • @CharitysClarity
    @CharitysClarity Год назад +13

    For some reason your video started playing again randomly today. I just lost my mom in July my best friend in august and my uncle two weeks ago, I was praying for strength today, not knowing who to call for some things I need to talk about, and then realized I can call my husband. Your video started to play I watched it over a year ago when it first happened I cried then but today I cried for you again, god bless you. God works in mysterious ways I pray he is giving you strength an relief today you are an incredible women, and your strength is encouraging may god continue to be with you walk along side you and Cary you when you need , god bless you an your family one day you will be together again, in heaven praise the lord for our salvation knowing your husband is there I hope brings you some peace in such an unfair situation 🙏😭