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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2012
  • A timid young man yearning to connect and express his true attractions finds an opportunity to do so when a handsome stranger unexpectedly sits next to him on a park bench.
    starring Clayton Froning & Brian Neufang
    written & directed by Jim Le & Eli Benavidez
    music by Hamdija Ajanovic
    as seen on OutTV's program "Hot Pink Gay Shorts"
    * Arizona International Film Festival (2007) *
    * Peoria Film Festival (2007) *
    * Sedona International Film Festival (2007) *
    * Toronto Inside Out Gay & Lesbian Film Festival (2007) *
    * Paris Gay & Lesbian Film Festival (2007) *
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Комментарии • 230

  • @underdawg47
    @underdawg47 12 лет назад +15

    I loved this and it rang true for me so many times back when I was younger. Sometimes it is nice when two people find each other, but this is the reality for many of us who are too afraid, too shy, and full of self doubt.

  • @donbowles6386
    @donbowles6386 2 года назад +5

    everyone dreams of meeting the right one, rather it's on a park bench or elsewhere. but the dream can't happen unless you ask, you can always be told no but at least you ask. good message.

  • @breezybearwaters
    @breezybearwaters 12 лет назад +9

    I love how they make it so realistic and relatable. I am quite shy at times and this was a brilliant work

  • @TheHotnessIsHere
    @TheHotnessIsHere 11 лет назад +7

    I was so happy for him for a minute! I relate to this guy so much. How many times I've been too shy. Probably missed out on "the One."

  • @atlien276
    @atlien276 10 лет назад +8

    No one deserves to feel lonely in a world that doesn't know their kind of harmless love exists.

  • @markburguron639
    @markburguron639 2 года назад +2

    I think the other guy was just as scared. Just as shy!

  • @daybird2
    @daybird2 11 лет назад +5

    That sudden, sad twist at the end totally took me by surprise! Great job.

  • @jg1653
    @jg1653 11 лет назад +5

    This is an excellent video about missed opportunities. You can view it as gay themed or just simply about attraction and love and what could have been. I see it as love and attraction and being human. ANYONE can relate to this whether you are straight or LGBT. It's a bittersweet part of being human and daydreaming instead of taking action. :)

  • @triforceforger
    @triforceforger 10 лет назад +42

    I am straight but I have been approached by gay men who offer me compliments. Although I may not feel the same back, I still see it as a great compliment and like to hear positive things from anybody. So if you find yourself in this situation then say something!! Some guys will be upset or offended but most will say thank you. I have the wife of my dreams and got her by approaching her out of the blue. You never know. life is too short for fear

    • @5Dami
      @5Dami 2 года назад +1

      Extraordinary comment!

  • @scotgat
    @scotgat 4 года назад +16

    Alternate ending: The next day the same thing happened and he actually asked him out; he said "yes" and they lived happily ever after with lots of good kinky sex. The End.

  • @RogerEmory
    @RogerEmory 11 лет назад +4

    Very nice film. Perfectly captures the struggle between wanting to communicate and being too afraid to take a chance. I hope when young people see this they realize how much better it is to take the risk (especially when it comes to love) than to let the opportunity go by.

  • @juncospuertorro
    @juncospuertorro 12 лет назад +2

    This is such a heartwarming story! It is so hard to express your feelings sometimes mainly for fear of scaring the other one away and end up alone. Thanks for uploading.

  • @hpribot
    @hpribot 11 лет назад +2

    I really liked the story and the actors. I hope they got together.

  • @davidholiday4494
    @davidholiday4494 5 лет назад +4

    Hi Jim I just commented on "Le Americaine" and now have seen this. It's really lovely/devastating. You (and your collaborator)
    certainly have the sense of unrequited desire down pat - it is intriguing and sometimes painful to watch. Good work!!! DH

  • @MrBoyxboy92
    @MrBoyxboy92 11 лет назад +2

    Aww they both are SUPER cute! Wish there could have been a happy ending though.

  • @doc071972
    @doc071972 12 лет назад +1

    this is just so cute, I like this short film. When you are shy, d I know what I'm talking about, it's very difficult to talk to people. And I can imagine what he felt when he saw this beautiful guy leaving.
    Simply wonderful

  • @billytxn
    @billytxn 11 лет назад +2

    Your story is sad and moving, I truly appreciate your sharing it. I did not accept myself until I was 29 just as I was about to give up hope and life. I finally moved to a large city and in the first month I found my first love and only then did I begin to live. Over time we became more like brothers as we are to this day and I later met and committed my life to a wonderful man, still together 12 years later.. Some things you never forget and your story is one of them.

  • @BeingFitinLA
    @BeingFitinLA 12 лет назад +4

    Awww...that was SO touching!

  • @beachcomberT
    @beachcomberT 5 лет назад +2

    Long time ago, handsome guy made the first move in a piano bar. I never expected it, funny how your universe can change in an instant. Despite bumps along the way, we're still together 37 years later.

    • @scotgat
      @scotgat 4 года назад

      Tell it like it is, brother. It's nice to know that there are still couples around from our generation because all of my friends from the 1980's are dead with the exception of about two.

  • @bearjamesnh
    @bearjamesnh 11 лет назад +2

    I met my partner of 10yrs by sitting next to him on a bus. He said hello! We've been together ever since !

  • @mdgraystone
    @mdgraystone 5 лет назад +9

    Hmmm...I'm gonna have to go with the "dream" ending to the story...

  • @Antryg7
    @Antryg7 11 лет назад +1

    Love this. Subtle and clean. Thanks for this piece of film. Real art.

  • @mikehudson8884
    @mikehudson8884 6 лет назад +3

    GREAT film, very entertaining and touching. The shooting and editing was BRILLIANT as were the actors.
    I have a friend who did exactly that, passed a note and it wasn't in a dream scene. It didn't end well. Such is life I guess.

  • @markdavidantonio353
    @markdavidantonio353 10 лет назад +2

    this is so cute as a whole clip. someone should write a whole story for this and make it into a full film...am sure there the 208 + viewers can contribute at kickstarted or the now upcoming youtube movie thingee...thumbs up. love the soundtrack as well...

  • @JimmyT132
    @JimmyT132 11 лет назад +1

    I will tell you! In 1978 I had a crush on this guy when we were in college. The feeling was not mutual, he was straight. But he introduced me to the man who has been my partner for nearly 35 years. We were married on June 1 of this year in front of family and friends.
    It is terrible about your first love, but I am glad you were able to heal and find love again.

  • @lildeanturbonc
    @lildeanturbonc 11 лет назад +1

    This little film doesnt set us back ! Dont forget all the men and women who came before us ,all of this kind of confusing self doubt is much less nowadays .Finally we are all becoming more accepted .

  • @sawolaja65
    @sawolaja65 11 лет назад

    he took the note in the young mans dream of how he wanted the situation to play out. In reality he didn't even speak let alone write the note!!

  • @taalyn
    @taalyn 10 лет назад +17

    Boo!... No , I really liked it :) Just sad ending. I like watching all these gay shorts, but only 1 or 2 that I've seen actually end on a happy note. I want my "gay" Disney ending damn it!! LOL

    • @jeremykendall-thomas7300
      @jeremykendall-thomas7300 5 лет назад

      RIGHT!?!! Like. At the very end he opens his book••• And there! The note asking, "dinner?" , with a "Yes!" scrawled beneath. ~magically~💫🌠✨🌟

  • @swingsc
    @swingsc 11 лет назад +1

    Yes I've been there to,a lovely film complimented by some beautiful music.

  • @pattmahiney
    @pattmahiney 2 года назад +1

    That's hilarious but I also feel personally attacked 😂😂😂😂😂 thanks for sharing

  • @ChristopherCherry02
    @ChristopherCherry02 11 лет назад +3

    This was absolutely beautiful...

  • @wholeNwon
    @wholeNwon 5 лет назад +2

    "Hi, what are you reading?"

  • @Vangelis2702
    @Vangelis2702 8 лет назад +1

    Really beautiful... Really real...

  • @tigergreg8
    @tigergreg8 5 лет назад +2

    Very interesting video. You seldom see both sides of a story. One that has no regrets, and the other where he'll never know what could have been. It was a sad , yet happy ending.

  • @Leftatalbuquerque
    @Leftatalbuquerque 11 лет назад

    Theme: all of us are capable of being leaders. All it takes is a decision to be one. Many people are only seeking permission to be one.
    As Yoda says, "do or do not do. There is no "try"." Yeah, sometimes you fail. That is irrelevant!

  • @FortificationCity
    @FortificationCity 11 лет назад +2

    That is the cutest story ever.

  • @The23PRNCSS23
    @The23PRNCSS23 11 лет назад +3

    This was too adorable for words. P.S. we had to do something like this for my psyche class where we mimicked the actions of strangers without speaking to them, it freaks most people the fuck out.

  • @j.richardmonast5686
    @j.richardmonast5686 3 года назад +1

    stunning...excellent storyline and very well performed.

  • @5Dami
    @5Dami 2 года назад +2

    Magnífico!

  • @NTwyable
    @NTwyable 11 лет назад

    Beautifully observed. Sweet, melancholy and honest. Worthy of Trufaut. A poetic film that my late friend James Broughton would love.

  • @ed2135az
    @ed2135az 12 лет назад +1

    Being shy will only lead to being alone for a very long time, I speak from experience. If nothing else, JUST SAY HI.

  • @The_Sentai_System
    @The_Sentai_System 11 лет назад +1

    This is me exactly. Every time I have the opportunity to say hello to a cute guy I shut down and panic. Most of the time I talk myself out of it by assuming he is straight even if I'm at a gay bar.

  • @bostonbrowser
    @bostonbrowser 11 лет назад +1

    This is totally sweet -- great music score, too!

  • @diamondgrader3215
    @diamondgrader3215 9 лет назад +1

    I certainly would like to see more from this actor.

  • @irishredbone8996
    @irishredbone8996 4 года назад +1

    They'll see each other again, anticipation is foreplay of the best kind

  • @calebtemple1253
    @calebtemple1253 5 лет назад +1

    Omg, I was so excited till the end, then it was so sad!! But I still really liked it💜

  • @doc071972
    @doc071972 12 лет назад +1

    I'm pretty sure this day will happen. Like I always say, everybody deserves to be loved or to be in love. And like you just said it doesn't hurt to try or to make the first step. Sometimes it's difficult but that's worth it. Take care

  • @benedictsotto7645
    @benedictsotto7645 11 лет назад

    One of the best short film I've seen

  • @HP-tl7xf
    @HP-tl7xf 5 лет назад +5

    Nice, attractive, clean-cut guy takes an interest in you and is brave enough to make a move; you brush him off! Backpack guy doesn't know what he's missed. This could have been the start of a great friendship.

    • @Coasterdude02149
      @Coasterdude02149 5 лет назад

      He didn't brush him off. It was a fantasy in the guys mind of what he was hoping could happen. It never happened.

  • @rj627
    @rj627 9 лет назад

    Right in the feels

  • @benedictsotto7645
    @benedictsotto7645 11 лет назад

    I LOVE IT!!

  • @TheHotnessIsHere
    @TheHotnessIsHere 7 лет назад +5

    Quit dreaming! Start doing!

  • @AlexanderAnco
    @AlexanderAnco 11 лет назад

    I love it!!!!!

  • @stainedorange3664
    @stainedorange3664 11 лет назад

    Awww.
    His cute little face.
    :

  • @mymalesecret
    @mymalesecret 11 лет назад +1

    THIS IS SOO CUTE! AND SOOO SAD!!!!!!

  • @eslovia
    @eslovia 11 лет назад

    Esto es una maravilla! excelente, gracias

  • @godezygforte
    @godezygforte 11 лет назад +1

    Simplesmente lindo !

  • @markburguron639
    @markburguron639 4 года назад

    Omg sequel!!!!

  • @Sticklemako
    @Sticklemako 12 лет назад +1

    Damn awesome film. simple and can really relate

  • @johnathonf1
    @johnathonf1 11 лет назад +2

    Been there so many times. I wish I had more courage in my personal life!

  • @hpribot
    @hpribot 11 лет назад

    Great clip. Very much enjoyed watching it . . . again.

  • @juancarlosjc1101
    @juancarlosjc1101 Год назад +1

    I am not shy at all and it's hard for me to relate to people like this, because I am so outgoing and find it easy to approach people I don't know.
    But it's a nice film.
    Shy guys are very cute and a sexy challenge for me.

  • @MrTobias008
    @MrTobias008 11 лет назад

    Beautiful ...

  • @thomasucc
    @thomasucc 10 лет назад

    Excellent

  • @unclefrunk
    @unclefrunk 11 лет назад +2

    Beautifully shot and described, I think few are the people who haven't experienced the desire, anxiety and eventual loss (through inaction). Oh, the bittersweet fantasy of the one that might have been!
    Thank you for such a poignant short.

  • @arunkumark7057
    @arunkumark7057 8 лет назад

    really nice

  • @TheVideoVector
    @TheVideoVector 12 лет назад

    god they were both so adorable X]

  • @anemicvimpire8438
    @anemicvimpire8438 10 лет назад

    awww... so true

  • @WarlesMattos
    @WarlesMattos 10 лет назад +4

    I'm 31 years old and still have not found someone mess with my feelings; that is, until I found however was not matched!

  • @Jupiter3713
    @Jupiter3713 10 лет назад +2

    I really enjoy this short, a laugh like a idiot... but at the end is so hopeless

    • @ricktomlinson5481
      @ricktomlinson5481 5 лет назад +1

      No ! It is not hopeless ! In no way did this guy reject him and they will have dinner together but not that night ! Read between the lines these two are destined to be a couple !

  • @AshleyzWannaB
    @AshleyzWannaB 10 лет назад +1

    Aw. :3 That was cute. ♥

  • @TheStewmeup
    @TheStewmeup 12 лет назад +1

    i love this, thumbs up cute guys.. you will find him x

  • @liamthecat2965
    @liamthecat2965 10 лет назад

    so cute it made me smiling the entire time that it ends up a sad... damn... that was cute yet sad..

  • @Heryckique
    @Heryckique 3 года назад

    Relatable

  • @hpribot
    @hpribot 12 лет назад

    Blue shirt was best but I liked both.

  • @imamnurmawan6042
    @imamnurmawan6042 12 лет назад

    Charming

  • @jenny6352
    @jenny6352 12 лет назад

    wow..nice one!!!

  • @Mugtree
    @Mugtree 12 лет назад

    So true

  • @swan777
    @swan777 6 лет назад +1

    Nice

  • @theoryg
    @theoryg 11 лет назад

    The problem with that is it should have been more a bus stop. The last thing thats going to happen between two guys in a park is they arent going to sit on the same bench to do the same thing. There has to be more then one bench firstly and I wasnt sure whether the guy giving the note was visualizing or dreaming or did in fact give the note-regardless its far from real-

  • @loveispatient0808
    @loveispatient0808 5 лет назад

    Make a sequel!

  • @grickthies
    @grickthies 12 лет назад

    Very true feelings. We all have been there. Too shy to speak up....too afraid of rejection......

  • @ridge83
    @ridge83 12 лет назад

    Good one, liked it

  • @mixboy02000
    @mixboy02000 12 лет назад

    i agree ... same with me....

  • @419waywardkid5
    @419waywardkid5 7 лет назад

    Honestly story of my life

  • @sandorzoltangergely
    @sandorzoltangergely Год назад

    Goodstory

  • @beto2u
    @beto2u 12 лет назад

    wow my life in six minutes!!

  • @bender5rules
    @bender5rules 11 лет назад +1

    That;s ok. The relationship he imagins is better than the real one would have been.

  • @myastroflight
    @myastroflight 11 лет назад

    Brave!

  • @sawolaja65
    @sawolaja65 11 лет назад

    awwww you waited to long bud. live fearlessly, chances go as quickly as they come!!

  • @blendibr9554
    @blendibr9554 11 лет назад +2

    Story of my life, fantasizing about talking to guys (crushes) but not having the balls to do so, losing my chances that i dont take.

    • @vulcan2882
      @vulcan2882 3 года назад +1

      I hope that's changed for you over the past 8 years.

  • @mangadud
    @mangadud 12 лет назад

    Aww that was kinda sad at the end but realistic too, I can relate :(

  • @hsuitos
    @hsuitos 11 лет назад

    it was cute...

  • @cheshireblue528
    @cheshireblue528 11 лет назад

    I was actually looking for the park bench game where you have to do something weird to scare the person sitting on the bench... But this is better! :)

  • @LMays-cu2hp
    @LMays-cu2hp 3 года назад

    That was cute.

  • @duncy90
    @duncy90 11 лет назад

    a story without a happy ending

  • @quietlyours
    @quietlyours 12 лет назад

    I can remember being that shy; still am a little, it kind of sucks.

  • @luisalbertocoronel
    @luisalbertocoronel 11 лет назад

    Being through that so many times :...(

  • @sackettjack
    @sackettjack 11 лет назад

    Didn't see that coming I think my heart was ripped out for a couple of moments hahah

  • @MarcietheMurderer
    @MarcietheMurderer 12 лет назад

    Awww