Jealousy is such a toxic trait and it’s scary because sometimes it comes from the people who are closest to you. This is so informative and I think everyone should be on the look out for traits like this. Even within yourself. We’re all human and it may happen from time to which is why it’s important to self reflect 🙏🏽
YEEEEESSS!!! I am quick to the slow. I have a cousin who is like this. She never was accountable for anything she did. If I was happy, she'd turn it around IMMEDIATELY to make me feel "guilty". And I would hate that I felt guilty for nothing. I finally (after 40+ yrs) just cut her off completely. No warnings. I didnt want her to have time to turn things around. Never been happier. Like this HUGE burden has been lifted. . .
Jealousy is not a toxic trait, but how someone handles that emotion that is toxic. Being a bit jealous is a valid emotion so long as one doesn't act in a negative way due to that feeling.
0:30 They try to bring you down. 1:18 They don’t respect your decisions. 1:58 They avoid you after the good things. 2:40 They’re always attempting to one up you. 3:22 Their compliments are back handed. 4:05 They celebrate your failures. 4:50 They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics.
honestly love the MHA reference in the animation. for people who like the show itll make sense on why whos drawn that way and how it's fitting in with the rest of the info. i liked this alot as usual!
Those are not your friends. I know people that have more and more successful yet i dont hate or do dumb craz shit to them, like whatever, go get happy lol and stop raining on people's parade.
I was unaware that people, especially females are like that. I've learned that every-damn-thing is a competition....the man in our lives and who can get the "better" one, children, jobs, hobbies, weight, beauty....EVERYTHING and when they feel as though they can't compete...WATCH OUT and they are snakes about their leveling the playing field. I'm been through it with females. That's why I don't have any female friends.
If ever people are jealous of you, that's because you're more likely doing something better than them and they want your success without as much effort as you may have put into getting your success.
Let’s face it: I clicked to see the video because of the My Hero Academia artwork. I was not disappointed at all from the outcome. You delivered great on both artwork and topic.
as a person who loves MHA it makes me so happy when you add youtubers/ characters from animes/tv shows/cartoons/movies because it makes it more comforting. tysm much for the amazing content!
The best way to get rid of jealousy as much as possible is to celebrate your accomplishments on the down low. I know it's tempting to share your success with the world but the less people know the less jealousy there is.
Back in high school, my friends were jealous of me because I had higher grades than them like it’s not my fault they don’t be paying attention in class
The mha reference is amazing! Since a lot of people know the show lots of people can understand well the concept!! I love the new animator’s animation too! This is amazing
*7 Signs Someone Is Extremely Jealous Of You* 0:29 1) They try to bring you down. 1:19 2) They don’t respect your decisions. 1:55 3) They avoid you after the good things. 2:39 4) They’re always attempting to one-up you. 2:34 5) Their compliments are back-handed. 4:05 6) They celebrate your failures. 4:47 7)They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics. :)
What's scary is how far jealousy, envy and greed has taken individuals. It's not so much experiencing it but acting impulsively. It's not always evident but there's pretty obvious signs of jealousy like being possessive and passive aggressive in words and actions.
Love the MHA animations. The animator did very well portraying Bakugou's personality and his jealousy of Midoriya. Also, best boi Aizawa makes a cameo :)
Me and my friend had a crush on this boy, she ended up dating him and I was fine with it because me and him stayed friends, but I've been noticing that anytime her bf or any other guy gives me any form of attention, like praise or something, she's always quick to make rude jokes about me infront of them or quickly try and talk about herself to make her seem more interesting, like one time she made fun of my earrings because they were "too thin" and whenever one of my boy bffs asked to see my grades she'd always butt in and show off her's and she even told me once that I should ask HER boyfriend out to the school dance since I didn't have a date, I just found that completely disrespectful towards me and her bf. Edit: She only started showing interest in him because she noticed me and him getting close.
@Louis Kingsta I've wanted to confront her about it, one of my other friends and I have been talking about how toxic she really is and how we should probably say something to her soon, but school is almost out and I'm still not ready to do so, for some reason.
Forget about her. It ain’t worth it bc all they’re gonna keep doing is bring you down. From my experience, that’s not a true friend, and I’d say it’s not worth you putting any more weight into. I hope things go well 🤞🏻
@@damndaniel5192 Ty, I actually talked with my other friends about her behavior recently and they agreed, and we all decided to stop talking to her from now on.
I had to cut off a toxic "friend" awhile back. We both have anxiety/depression, but the way they chose to handle their mental illness was not healthy (for themselves nor the relationships with the people around them). I started to work on myself to give them some hope that recovery is possible. I started seeing improvements after a lot of trial and error (I still have a ways to go, but I'd rather be where I am now than six years ago), but aside from my friend taking their meds they didn't do the work necessary to change their toxic behavior and their mental health and relationships suffered because of it. Long story short, whenever I saw an improvement for myself they would always tell me how "naturally" things came to me and would imply that I didn't have to try or that I wasn't truly struggling due to the results I got that they didn't. For awhile, it made me feel guilty for getting better and taking care of myself; they would use my accomplishments to self-deprecate or to win arguments between us. Never feel guilty about helping yourself; you deserve to enjoy your accomplishments, especially when it comes to your mental health. If you have to cut anyone off that makes you think otherwise, it is perfectly understandable. Your relationship with yourself comes first before your relationship with anyone else.
Don't listen to others, especially those who are jealous of you. Remember no one knows your story better than you do and only you know your true potential. And yes there are people who try to uplift you, but remember most want you to be successful but not more successful than them. The only advice and criticisms you should take are from yourself.
It's hard to do at the time, but dropping frenemies saves you so much precious time that can be better spent with the people who really matter. Thank you for making this video
I had to end a 20 year friendship for these reasons it appears it took me awhile to realize how unhealthy it really was, in the end it's just better for all involved
@@Psych2go Sorry didn't see this Yes Characters from our favorite animes, cartoons or movies where their perspectives are relatable to your videos please
One way to tell if someone is jealous of you, is to do something that you already know what you are doing , watch what that person does while you are finish doing it. They always try to emulate what you did, but try to talk down on you. I have always have this happen to me.
I had a friend (a boy), he liked me for a year. He would be “nice” but he’s worse than you think. He would make sexual assumptions behind my back, sometimes around me. My friend told me everything that he told her, telling her to not tell me about it but she had to tell me. Talked about s**, kissing, babies etc. I was so uncomfortable. Now I’m here. He talked behind my back, saying to spy on me and then, he backstabbed me. Whenever I come to talk to his friends, he just leaves. It was my birthday, I came to say hello and then he never said anything with a straight face like I was a stranger. I asked to be friends again, he just left with no consent, I asked again, around his friends. You guessed it, he turned around to his friends, then kinda shouted no. I’ll never forget that year
As soon as you see *ANY* of those red flags, remove that person from your life. It might sound radical, but you have no idea what those type of people are capable behind the curtains. The sooner you cut them, the happier your life will become, I promise.
I loved the twist on this video! There was one consistent reference instead of many because this went hand and hand with specifically MHA. I also loved how the sticky-note pad with the reason on it flipped so that the end of the section reminded us what the reason was again. Don't get me wrong, I also love the usual format but it's always nice to see one of my favorite youtubers trying something new. The new animator seems to work really well with the team! 😁
@@Psych2go :0 Hi, I really love all your Genish Impact, Minecraft, Avatar, Marvel, Owl House, and more references! 😁 You're videos are really helpful and amazing, thank you, Psych2Go!
0:30 They try to bring you down 1:19 They dont respect your decisions 1:58 They avoid you after the good things 2:39 They always try to one up you 3:21 Their compliments are backhanded 4:06 They celebrate your failures 4:50 They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics
I love this channel!!! It has helped me tremendous, and I thank you!! Jealousy is a hurtful thing for the person feeling jealous. Envious people stink and always get their karma back.
1) They Try to Bring you Down ( 0:30 ) 2) They don’t respect your decisions ( 1:20 ) 3) They avoid you after good things ( 1:59 ) 4) They’re always attempting to one-up you ( 2:40 ) 5) Their compliments are back-handed ( 3:22 ) 6)They celebrate your failures ( 4:06 ) 7) They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics ( 4:55 )
It’s pretty hard to live with someone who is constantly jealous of you. My older sister is very jealous of me sometimes to an extreme and harmful extent and always has been because I was considered the favorite child when in actuality me and my mom just have a better relationship. But I’ll never forget when I told her a got a new job that paid $20 and hour and she was so angry at me because I was making more then her or when she told her friend we were hanging out with that I never had a job and despite having multiple jobs or when she gets a better score on a video game we both play she won’t text me for weeks but as soon as she does some accomplishment that I am trying to do in a game like get a special character she has to let me know that she did it before me aka one uping. So yeah I’ve just sort of accepted it at this point and that she has to live with those difficult feelings of jealously.
@@Psych2go thanks for the reply and it’s a possibility I just kind of live my own life and not interact with her as much as I used too it isn’t great but it is what it is at this point
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I saw Bakugou and Deku and immediately clicked- btw, ty for the video. I will most definitely use these signs to see if any of my friends or classmates seem jealous of me
My roommate in college was exactly like this, and it's crazy because I really considered her my best friend. I'm upset at myself for not seeing the signs sooner, because she truly caused a lot of damage to me and my personal life. I'm glad to know now that I wasn't the issue, it was her just making me feel like everything was wrong with me. These people have no hearts. Stay away from them at all costs.
This is what I've been learning over the past several years: My only competition is myself;The only person that I have to please is myself.I'm learning to be content with who I am.
I think I payed more attention to the My Hero Academia characters than the actual message of the video 😅😅 I was so excited to see them in this video!!! The new animator is great!! Keep up the great work!!!
To be hones with you, this is really portraying someone with narcissistic personality disorder, as they will target you etc in the ways that are mentioned in the above. Sure , lots of people feel a bit envious or jealous of someone , but in moderation. Behaviour disorders are cruel and unkind , and many people who have them know exactly what they're doing to others.
Are you talking about jealousy or envy? We have the same words in french and the difference is that "envie" is trying to have something an other person has, and "jalousie" is the fear of losing something we already have. A husband is jealous because he is afraid his wife may leave him. "Envie" is also synonymous to desire, craving, or longing. I don't know if english has the same nuance.
Bro I have this classmate who copies almost everything i do then she makes fun of me 🤧 and now she’s experiencing something not good and she’s getting more mature so like finally 👹🙏
Thank you for the video! Yes, I have a jealous person in my life, but after this video I feel sorry for him.. what should I do to make things better? I don’t want him to feel this way about me.. this is just sad :(
I have a family member who is extremely jealous as well as his wife. They are even violent and aggressive. I always wondered if this was a combination of jealousy and something else. It’s like they enjoy hurting people. They have so much hate in their heart. I had to cut them out of my life for good due to their toxic behaviors. Maybe doing a video on aggressive/violent behavior that ties with jealousy. 🙏🏻 Much love, Psych2Go!
The funny thing is that in the manga [SPOILERS DONT GET SPOILED] Bakugou ended up apologizing for all the things that were mentioned here so it’s kinda ironic
wow im watching this while i have an old friend thinking of me exactly right now and i don't know why he thinks its a competion or jealousy some people just never grow up
A girl a work with is always putting me down and I swear she stalks me on social media, she always knows what I’m up to and always has something to say about it….so frustrating
My friend once used to do all of these things to me, it was somewhat awkward because he always used to make me look stupid in front of others, thankfully we are now ok and he aparently no longer feels jealous about me, im kinda grateful to have him tbh
Thanks as always. Now i finally know why my classmate from a few years ago gave me vibes of pure hatred, this guy matched all 7 points (even tried to turn the class and my friends against me). Socially speaking after that ordeal he ended up at the bottom ( i don't know where i ended up bc i don't care about social status).
Yes..i agree.. I heard it once said.. jealousy is just another form of admiration.. on the other hand..its just confirmation that were doing good and happy doing what we do..
I’m someone who struggles with Jealousy. I guess it’s because I Have my own Major insecurities and all and I Try to be happy when My friends sometimes tell me some good news. Good thing I’m seeking counselling to learn how to manage these feelings
For some time I kept getting clues but ignored them. Everything here I experienced it. It makes me so sad. 😎 Additionally every suggestion I make is second guessed , even when finding out I was right they do not apologize. 😞
My mother. I have 3 degrees and multiple professional licenses and certifications, in part because I kept trying to make her see I was worth something. All she does is make backhanded compliments and tell me she and my (deceased) dad are not happy with how I live. Finally figured out at almost 70 that she is jealous and, as she says, “not get the big head. “ She did her work well, so no danger of that!
Jealousy is something that I can't control control. At this point I don't even know if I'm jealous or just severely dislike her. I want to cut her off in my life, but I can't cause she's my friend. I'm afraid to hurt her. We were bestfriends, but lately we fought alot. So she found another group of friends. I didn't mind at first, but I found it offended how she blame me for make her suffer, and her new friends were the one's who kept her sane. This is where it got intense. I'm an average girl, I don't do great at things. I'm just living and playing games. Just casual, and don't have alot of friends, but still functional. Lately I feel like my bestfriend is getting favors of my childhood friends. They like her enough that they told me to let her in a group. I didn't say anything and left. She's been doing alot of achievements and wanted me to be there and look at it. I want to be happy for her, but why does my heart feels so angry and hurt. I don't want to feel this things. My friends is somewhat egoistic sometimes that's why I am afraid to open up with her. How can you break a friendship for 4 years being together? In a way that she won't get hurt aha. I don't want to be selfish, but I don't think our friendship is going to last long.
It’s the same with me. Been friends for nearly 6 years. This one friend is so successful that I start avoiding the person because I don’t want to handle my own insecurity when I’m with the person. The person said “it’s okay because I’m not that smart too” to comfort me and I decided to trust the person but then BAM, the person result is so good and mine is just the worst.
My ex best friend acted like all of these, she talked behind my back, called me mean names, gaslight me, made a whole GC to insult me, disappeared for 3 months, tried to impersonate me.
OK. I HAVE NOT WATCHED THE VID YET BUT ALL I CAN SAY IS WHY THE HECK AM I SO EXITED JUST BECAUSE YOU USED MY FAV ANIME FOR A VIDEO OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH RIGHT NOW PLEASE AAHHHHH😖😖😖❤️❤️❤️
im ashamed that I used to be like this :(my bad attitude and mental health caused me to be a terrible friend and yes it's not an excuse but it is a reason and I lost so many friends because of it.) I'm really glad that I became better this year and improved a lot but I still think about it from time to time :/
If you have envy over someone when you are 11 years or older, that sure is pretty embarrassing. It shows he or she can’t appreciate the good things in your life, so you try to take that away from others.
Wow. I didn't want to think that this was the case because I don't have much self-esteem and I believe in being humble, anyway. But there was recently someone in my life who was using my depression and lack of self-confidence against me and actually committing these same actions, toward me. Again, I didn't want to think so highly of myself to think that they were jealous. But literally, they had all of these same behaviors. And it got to the point where they actually tried to ruin mine and my child's lives. Sad, really. I sure hope they find happiness within themselves. Because they were constantly trying to find it in outwardly things. Just as this video explained.
I have this ex-friend, ex-crush from college years who exactly describes like this. I try to be friendly with him, but turns out that my effort is in vain I decide to distance myself from him. We are both artists and I think he's jealous of my talent. He never leave me alone, he persistently picks on me and try to show the public everything he has that I don't have; spouse, children, nice car, money, fame etc. It is so childish. Honestly I don't care of all that, I have my struggles, he has his, I believe we all have them, too. He started to become a real pain in the ass. Seems like it's best to avoid him completely than letting him continue ruining my day.
I do, she's been jelous of me all her life. And for no real reason whatsoever... It started in our early childhood from things her mother would tell her that was not the truth. coming from envy and jealousness she had towards my mother which made her her sister-in-law. And me and her daughter cousins. My mother having me 6 months or so right after her daughter obviously changed a lot which continued over years when we were in another state more than we were ever aware of. Destroyed a lot of relationships that were built on nothing but love she succeded in her evil quest. the times which aren't many me and her daughter get together we do get together now in our early 40s, I get to hear the same ole delusional stories/ memories she recalls growing up she remembers from her mother telling her how we got so many things when they got nothing my grandmother gave so much more to us than she ever did them the treatment was so different etc still wanted so on you name it and each time I sit there with a blank look on my face and don't even bother saying a word because there's absolutely no point despite the times I've told her I've always loved you and I've never seen anything other than us as equal always complimenting her, which has changed nothing. After all the destruction that I will not even begin to mention here and after the spiritual awakening I've had I've realized that family is not always blood and you cannot change anything of another person only accept who and what and how they are or walk away and cut ties. And that is what I'm going to do new year new me
Now I know why one of my classmates acts the way she acts... Well, not that I'm gonna stop being helpful towards her, but now I understand a little better why all her friends almost ignore her, great for me
I know someone like that, he criticised me for posts I made, insulting me and harass me. He told me to go outside and touch grass, he accused me of something he did and went talking about history on my DMs about a story on Instagram, he even insulted his grandparents in order to prove me wrong. He told me to get a life and all that and he insulted me for being christian and after a few moments of conversation I blocked him
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Bullying is one way someone shows they're jealous of you. As is putting your accomplishments down or needing to outdo you.
so true
@@paba323 Yes. That's my experience. The last being from my ex.
Indeed!
They did it to me.
Jealousy is such a toxic trait and it’s scary because sometimes it comes from the people who are closest to you. This is so informative and I think everyone should be on the look out for traits like this. Even within yourself. We’re all human and it may happen from time to which is why it’s important to self reflect 🙏🏽
Totally toxic!🌸🌸🦈🦈
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Absolutely 💯 if someone is gonna be jelous of you they really need to move on I can't be around people like that live for yourself not other people
YEEEEESSS!!! I am quick to the slow. I have a cousin who is like this. She never was accountable for anything she did. If I was happy, she'd turn it around IMMEDIATELY to make me feel "guilty". And I would hate that I felt guilty for nothing. I finally (after 40+ yrs) just cut her off completely. No warnings. I didnt want her to have time to turn things around. Never been happier. Like this HUGE burden has been lifted. . .
Jealousy is not a toxic trait, but how someone handles that emotion that is toxic. Being a bit jealous is a valid emotion so long as one doesn't act in a negative way due to that feeling.
0:30 They try to bring you down.
1:18 They don’t respect your decisions.
1:58 They avoid you after the good things.
2:40 They’re always attempting to one up you.
3:22 Their compliments are back handed.
4:05 They celebrate your failures.
4:50 They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics.
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nice :-)
My sister 😭😭😭😭😭💯💯💯💯💯
my sister💀
My friend who I thought just hated me for fun
honestly love the MHA reference in the animation. for people who like the show itll make sense on why whos drawn that way and how it's fitting in with the rest of the info. i liked this alot as usual!
Ikr!!
Bakugo was actually jealous of Midoriya on how far he had come. That's why I love this reference.
@@akfm31 exactly! I think it was smart of the new animator to do this.
Me too I’ve seen it a lot before
and I want to see it again in order
Yes
This is why I don't tell my "friend's" about my movements, purchases, or even accomplishments. It's always a competition.
Stop being friends with them.
Kind of sad really.
Those are not your friends. I know people that have more and more successful yet i dont hate or do dumb craz shit to them, like whatever, go get happy lol and stop raining on people's parade.
I was unaware that people, especially females are like that. I've learned that every-damn-thing is a competition....the man in our lives and who can get the "better" one, children, jobs, hobbies, weight, beauty....EVERYTHING and when they feel as though they can't compete...WATCH OUT and they are snakes about their leveling the playing field. I'm been through it with females. That's why I don't have any female friends.
Me too
If ever people are jealous of you, that's because you're more likely doing something better than them and they want your success without as much effort as you may have put into getting your success.
Let’s face it: I clicked to see the video because of the My Hero Academia artwork. I was not disappointed at all from the outcome. You delivered great on both artwork and topic.
So did I 😃
Me too 😂😂
Ya 🙌🤣
same
Thank you for your support!
THE DEKU AND BAKUGO ANIMATION, I love how the animator always can summon a fandom
YESSS
I HAVE BEEN SUMMONED
as a person who loves MHA it makes me so happy when you add youtubers/ characters from animes/tv shows/cartoons/movies because it makes it more comforting. tysm much for the amazing content!
Same!
Haha thanks!
@@Psych2go oh my gosh, one of my favorite youtube channels just replied to my comment!
The best way to get rid of jealousy as much as possible is to celebrate your accomplishments on the down low. I know it's tempting to share your success with the world but the less people know the less jealousy there is.
Back in high school, my friends were jealous of me because I had higher grades than them like it’s not my fault they don’t be paying attention in class
but they have a squad, they don't have to stop
@@halcyon.89 what do you mean?
@@jaysupreme7867 it's not about u r wrong or not, it's about fighting back, make it not worth for them to treat u unfairly
yeah...
The mha reference is amazing! Since a lot of people know the show lots of people can understand well the concept!! I love the new animator’s animation too! This is amazing
Yes, true that! I was pleasantly surprised by this
Aww thank you!!
@@Psych2go no problem!! Thx to you!
I love how the characters look like mha it's amazing applause for the new animator
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:))))
Jealous people don't think about the work it takes to get to where they want to be.
100% Agree. And they often love to blame others for "not working hard enough".
Perhaps they would be father along if they weren’t trying to jam up other people’s feeds with their stupidity.
*7 Signs Someone Is Extremely Jealous Of You*
0:29 1) They try to bring you down.
1:19 2) They don’t respect your decisions.
1:55 3) They avoid you after the good things.
2:39 4) They’re always attempting to one-up you.
2:34 5) Their compliments are back-handed.
4:05 6) They celebrate your failures.
4:47 7)They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics.
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Ty!
What's scary is how far jealousy, envy and greed has taken individuals. It's not so much experiencing it but acting impulsively. It's not always evident but there's pretty obvious signs of jealousy like being possessive and passive aggressive in words and actions.
@Pedro Ortegawow that's awful. I didn't know that and I loved "The Land before time." Jealousy and envy bring out the worse in a person.
this our life its our time to shine this Bout us not about them 🌬🍎🍒
@@butterfly-sky 🙏🏿💯
Yes...
Love the MHA animations. The animator did very well portraying Bakugou's personality and his jealousy of Midoriya.
Also, best boi Aizawa makes a cameo :)
Yes 🙌
Thank you for your support!
Me and my friend had a crush on this boy, she ended up dating him and I was fine with it because me and him stayed friends, but I've been noticing that anytime her bf or any other guy gives me any form of attention, like praise or something, she's always quick to make rude jokes about me infront of them or quickly try and talk about herself to make her seem more interesting, like one time she made fun of my earrings because they were "too thin" and whenever one of my boy bffs asked to see my grades she'd always butt in and show off her's and she even told me once that I should ask HER boyfriend out to the school dance since I didn't have a date, I just found that completely disrespectful towards me and her bf.
Edit: She only started showing interest in him because she noticed me and him getting close.
@Louis Kingsta idk what to do, I can't avoid her cause we're in the same friend group and we sit next to each other in every class.
@Louis Kingsta true
@Louis Kingsta I've wanted to confront her about it, one of my other friends and I have been talking about how toxic she really is and how we should probably say something to her soon, but school is almost out and I'm still not ready to do so, for some reason.
Forget about her. It ain’t worth it bc all they’re gonna keep doing is bring you down. From my experience, that’s not a true friend, and I’d say it’s not worth you putting any more weight into. I hope things go well 🤞🏻
@@damndaniel5192 Ty, I actually talked with my other friends about her behavior recently and they agreed, and we all decided to stop talking to her from now on.
I had to cut off a toxic "friend" awhile back. We both have anxiety/depression, but the way they chose to handle their mental illness was not healthy (for themselves nor the relationships with the people around them). I started to work on myself to give them some hope that recovery is possible. I started seeing improvements after a lot of trial and error (I still have a ways to go, but I'd rather be where I am now than six years ago), but aside from my friend taking their meds they didn't do the work necessary to change their toxic behavior and their mental health and relationships suffered because of it. Long story short, whenever I saw an improvement for myself they would always tell me how "naturally" things came to me and would imply that I didn't have to try or that I wasn't truly struggling due to the results I got that they didn't. For awhile, it made me feel guilty for getting better and taking care of myself; they would use my accomplishments to self-deprecate or to win arguments between us.
Never feel guilty about helping yourself; you deserve to enjoy your accomplishments, especially when it comes to your mental health. If you have to cut anyone off that makes you think otherwise, it is perfectly understandable. Your relationship with yourself comes first before your relationship with anyone else.
Thank you for sharing this
Don't listen to others, especially those who are jealous of you. Remember no one knows your story better than you do and only you know your true potential. And yes there are people who try to uplift you, but remember most want you to be successful but not more successful than them. The only advice and criticisms you should take are from yourself.
Preach!
It's hard to do at the time, but dropping frenemies saves you so much precious time that can be better spent with the people who really matter. Thank you for making this video
I had to end a 20 year friendship for these reasons it appears it took me awhile to realize how unhealthy it really was, in the end it's just better for all involved
True! Thank you for your support!
😂I love the new animated style
Respect to the new animator he knows what's going down 🙏🏾
Glad you like it! Are there any other styles that you want to see?
@@Psych2go Sorry didn't see this
Yes
Characters from our favorite animes, cartoons or movies where their perspectives are relatable to your videos please
One way to tell if someone is jealous of you, is to do something that you already know what you are doing , watch what that person does while you are finish doing it. They always try to emulate what you did, but try to talk down on you. I have always have this happen to me.
Then you have a “Secret admirer”
Facts... drop em like their hot!
They also forget your good things and bring up the bad things about you
The MHA references actually make it easier to understand
Yayy!!!
The my hero academia reference is so good and makes the topic easier to understand, animater did amazing!
Awww thanks!
I had a friend (a boy), he liked me for a year. He would be “nice” but he’s worse than you think. He would make sexual assumptions behind my back, sometimes around me. My friend told me everything that he told her, telling her to not tell me about it but she had to tell me. Talked about s**, kissing, babies etc. I was so uncomfortable. Now I’m here. He talked behind my back, saying to spy on me and then, he backstabbed me. Whenever I come to talk to his friends, he just leaves. It was my birthday, I came to say hello and then he never said anything with a straight face like I was a stranger. I asked to be friends again, he just left with no consent, I asked again, around his friends. You guessed it, he turned around to his friends, then kinda shouted no. I’ll never forget that year
My cousin did all these things to me and out of respect for myself I have cut contact, I figure it's better for my personal well being 💚
As soon as you see *ANY* of those red flags, remove that person from your life. It might sound radical, but you have no idea what those type of people are capable behind the curtains. The sooner you cut them, the happier your life will become, I promise.
Thats what iv done and im HAPPY
@@pinky-ud1rt Proud of you, much love and blessings to you 💖
I loved the twist on this video! There was one consistent reference instead of many because this went hand and hand with specifically MHA. I also loved how the sticky-note pad with the reason on it flipped so that the end of the section reminded us what the reason was again. Don't get me wrong, I also love the usual format but it's always nice to see one of my favorite youtubers trying something new. The new animator seems to work really well with the team! 😁
What other references do you enjoy?
@@Psych2go :0 Hi, I really love all your Genish Impact, Minecraft, Avatar, Marvel, Owl House, and more references! 😁 You're videos are really helpful and amazing, thank you, Psych2Go!
0:30 They try to bring you down
1:19 They dont respect your decisions
1:58 They avoid you after the good things
2:39 They always try to one up you
3:21 Their compliments are backhanded
4:06 They celebrate your failures
4:50 They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics
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Thanks for the list :)
I love this channel!!! It has helped me tremendous, and I thank you!! Jealousy is a hurtful thing for the person feeling jealous. Envious people stink and always get their karma back.
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The artstyle is so cute! 🌸
Very anime!🤣🤣🤣
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Thanks so much!
1) They Try to Bring you Down ( 0:30 )
2) They don’t respect your decisions ( 1:20 )
3) They avoid you after good things ( 1:59 )
4) They’re always attempting to one-up you ( 2:40 )
5) Their compliments are back-handed ( 3:22 )
6)They celebrate your failures ( 4:06 )
7) They scrutinize you while imitating your traits and characteristics ( 4:55 )
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It’s pretty hard to live with someone who is constantly jealous of you. My older sister is very jealous of me sometimes to an extreme and harmful extent and always has been because I was considered the favorite child when in actuality me and my mom just have a better relationship. But I’ll never forget when I told her a got a new job that paid $20 and hour and she was so angry at me because I was making more then her or when she told her friend we were hanging out with that I never had a job and despite having multiple jobs or when she gets a better score on a video game we both play she won’t text me for weeks but as soon as she does some accomplishment that I am trying to do in a game like get a special character she has to let me know that she did it before me aka one uping. So yeah I’ve just sort of accepted it at this point and that she has to live with those difficult feelings of jealously.
Sorry about this... she may be projecting her own insecurities...
@@Psych2go thanks for the reply and it’s a possibility I just kind of live my own life and not interact with her as much as I used too it isn’t great but it is what it is at this point
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication
is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if
someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not!
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Jealousy is a form of selfishness. Try not to have this behavior. It is not becoming of a person.
I saw Bakugou and Deku and immediately clicked-
btw, ty for the video. I will most definitely use these signs to see if any of my friends or classmates seem jealous of me
My roommate in college was exactly like this, and it's crazy because I really considered her my best friend. I'm upset at myself for not seeing the signs sooner, because she truly caused a lot of damage to me and my personal life. I'm glad to know now that I wasn't the issue, it was her just making me feel like everything was wrong with me. These people have no hearts. Stay away from them at all costs.
This is what I've been learning over the past several years: My only competition is myself;The only person that I have to please is myself.I'm learning to be content with who I am.
I think I payed more attention to the My Hero Academia characters than the actual message of the video 😅😅 I was so excited to see them in this video!!! The new animator is great!! Keep up the great work!!!
To be hones with you, this is really portraying someone with narcissistic personality disorder, as they will target you etc in the ways that are mentioned in the above. Sure , lots of people feel a bit envious or jealous of someone , but in moderation. Behaviour disorders are cruel and unkind , and many people who have them know exactly what they're doing to others.
Are you talking about jealousy or envy? We have the same words in french and the difference is that "envie" is trying to have something an other person has, and "jalousie" is the fear of losing something we already have. A husband is jealous because he is afraid his wife may leave him. "Envie" is also synonymous to desire, craving, or longing. I don't know if english has the same nuance.
Bro I have this classmate who copies almost everything i do then she makes fun of me 🤧 and now she’s experiencing something not good and she’s getting more mature so like finally 👹🙏
Watched this during an ad break… while watching MHA. This is amazing.
Heheehhe
There are many moments when people are jealous of my success. One thing I can tell is their menacing stare towards me secretly. I could feel that.
Thank you for the video! Yes, I have a jealous person in my life, but after this video I feel sorry for him.. what should I do to make things better? I don’t want him to feel this way about me.. this is just sad :(
The fact this is a MHA reference, you know how accurate these two are to these signs! It’s perfect!
I have a family member who is extremely jealous as well as his wife. They are even violent and aggressive. I always wondered if this was a combination of jealousy and something else. It’s like they enjoy hurting people. They have so much hate in their heart. I had to cut them out of my life for good due to their toxic behaviors. Maybe doing a video on aggressive/violent behavior that ties with jealousy. 🙏🏻 Much love, Psych2Go!
I love how they put some popular anime or video game characters into their videos to attract a large population about these topics.
The funny thing is that in the manga
[SPOILERS DONT GET SPOILED]
Bakugou ended up apologizing for all the things that were mentioned here so it’s kinda ironic
What to do when that extremely jealous of you person is one of your parents 😓
Seek family counseling or get the hell away.
I think to a degree I experienced that with one of my parents.
wow im watching this while i have an old friend thinking of me exactly right now and i don't know why he thinks its a competion or jealousy some people just never grow up
There is a difference between constructive criticism and asking new questions about problems with the intent to find better solutions.
i love the mha references and the jealousy between deku and bakugo is very accurate lol. nice job :)
A girl a work with is always putting me down and I swear she stalks me on social media, she always knows what I’m up to and always has something to say about it….so frustrating
My friend once used to do all of these things to me, it was somewhat awkward because he always used to make me look stupid in front of others, thankfully we are now ok and he aparently no longer feels jealous about me, im kinda grateful to have him tbh
This channel is so educational and it feels like I’m learning something new every day which I love
Thank you for your support!
Plus I love how you put Izuku midoriya and katsuki bakugou. Lmfao I like the mha theme
I honestly don’t understand people who are jealous. Those people are most likely to have some sort of issue going on…
For real
I love how this is with My hero academia characters 🤣❤️
Thanks for making this video
Thanks as always. Now i finally know why my classmate from a few years ago gave me vibes of pure hatred, this guy matched all 7 points (even tried to turn the class and my friends against me). Socially speaking after that ordeal he ended up at the bottom ( i don't know where i ended up bc i don't care about social status).
I love the MHA anime! This was a nice choice for the topic and the comparisons are great.
Thank you!
Yes..i agree..
I heard it once said.. jealousy is just another form of admiration.. on the other hand..its just confirmation that were doing good and happy doing what we do..
I've dealt with people who tried to one up me
I’m someone who struggles with Jealousy. I guess it’s because I Have my own Major insecurities and all and I Try to be happy when My friends sometimes tell me some good news. Good thing I’m seeking counselling to learn how to manage these feelings
For some time I kept getting clues but ignored them. Everything here I experienced it. It makes me so sad. 😎 Additionally every suggestion I make is second guessed , even when finding out I was right they do not apologize. 😞
i love the mha reference!! it fits so well with this topic. love this channel 💕
I love the mha animation it relates well to the jealousy topic with scenes from the first 3 seasons
Envy and jealousy is demonic 😢
Sounds like my older sister with me but she'll never admit it
I loved how u used mha things such as bakugo all might deku love it and “I am here!
All the girls in my school hates me for no reason💀
My mother. I have 3 degrees and multiple professional licenses and certifications, in part because I kept trying to make her see I was worth something.
All she does is make backhanded compliments and tell me she and my (deceased) dad are not happy with how I live. Finally figured out at almost 70 that she is jealous and, as she says, “not get the big head. “
She did her work well, so no danger of that!
Jealousy is something that I can't control control. At this point I don't even know if I'm jealous or just severely dislike her. I want to cut her off in my life, but I can't cause she's my friend. I'm afraid to hurt her. We were bestfriends, but lately we fought alot. So she found another group of friends. I didn't mind at first, but I found it offended how she blame me for make her suffer, and her new friends were the one's who kept her sane. This is where it got intense.
I'm an average girl, I don't do great at things. I'm just living and playing games. Just casual, and don't have alot of friends, but still functional. Lately I feel like my bestfriend is getting favors of my childhood friends. They like her enough that they told me to let her in a group. I didn't say anything and left.
She's been doing alot of achievements and wanted me to be there and look at it.
I want to be happy for her, but why does my heart feels so angry and hurt.
I don't want to feel this things. My friends is somewhat egoistic sometimes that's why I am afraid to open up with her. How can you break a friendship for 4 years being together? In a way that she won't get hurt aha. I don't want to be selfish, but I don't think our friendship is going to last long.
It’s the same with me. Been friends for nearly 6 years. This one friend is so successful that I start avoiding the person because I don’t want to handle my own insecurity when I’m with the person. The person said “it’s okay because I’m not that smart too” to comfort me and I decided to trust the person but then BAM, the person result is so good and mine is just the worst.
My ex best friend acted like all of these, she talked behind my back, called me mean names, gaslight me, made a whole GC to insult me, disappeared for 3 months, tried to impersonate me.
OK. I HAVE NOT WATCHED THE VID YET BUT ALL I CAN SAY IS WHY THE HECK AM I SO EXITED JUST BECAUSE YOU USED MY FAV ANIME FOR A VIDEO OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH RIGHT NOW PLEASE AAHHHHH😖😖😖❤️❤️❤️
...I admittedly tapped on the video because of the thumbnail, but the whole video itself is very helpful? I'm not good with words
STAAAAHHP cuz the animation, the characters, the almight😗 its TOO CUTE 😫
the giggle i let out when i saw the bnha reference on the thumbnail. i absolutely love it. but regardless, this was a very good video!
im ashamed that I used to be like this :(my bad attitude and mental health caused me to be a terrible friend and yes it's not an excuse but it is a reason and I lost so many friends because of it.) I'm really glad that I became better this year and improved a lot but I still think about it from time to time :/
If you have envy over someone when you are 11 years or older, that sure is pretty embarrassing. It shows he or she can’t appreciate the good things in your life, so you try to take that away from others.
Wow. I didn't want to think that this was the case because I don't have much self-esteem and I believe in being humble, anyway. But there was recently someone in my life who was using my depression and lack of self-confidence against me and actually committing these same actions, toward me. Again, I didn't want to think so highly of myself to think that they were jealous. But literally, they had all of these same behaviors. And it got to the point where they actually tried to ruin mine and my child's lives.
Sad, really.
I sure hope they find happiness within themselves. Because they were constantly trying to find it in outwardly things. Just as this video explained.
I love how the entire video is MHA themed
I mean, Bakugo is like that
yeah I think everyone noticed, it's kinda obvious
I love this! It’s amazing so far!
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Love the MHA theme you have here.
Thank you for using mha characters!
I have this ex-friend, ex-crush from college years who exactly describes like this. I try to be friendly with him, but turns out that my effort is in vain I decide to distance myself from him. We are both artists and I think he's jealous of my talent. He never leave me alone, he persistently picks on me and try to show the public everything he has that I don't have; spouse, children, nice car, money, fame etc. It is so childish. Honestly I don't care of all that, I have my struggles, he has his, I believe we all have them, too. He started to become a real pain in the ass. Seems like it's best to avoid him completely than letting him continue ruining my day.
Welcome New Animator~! Awesome work as always~! Love MHA Reference~!
Wow the MHA Animation is so cool and the Best of allí is that it fits with the topic
I literally love how they added my hero acadmia to an emotional support video
THE ANIMATION IS SO GOOD
AND I LOVE THE MHA REFERENCES SO MUCHH
I do, she's been jelous of me all her life. And for no real reason whatsoever... It started in our early childhood from things her mother would tell her that was not the truth. coming from envy and jealousness she had towards my mother which made her her sister-in-law. And me and her daughter cousins. My mother having me 6 months or so right after her daughter obviously changed a lot which continued over years when we were in another state more than we were ever aware of. Destroyed a lot of relationships that were built on nothing but love she succeded in her evil quest. the times which aren't many me and her daughter get together we do get together now in our early 40s, I get to hear the same ole delusional stories/ memories she recalls growing up she remembers from her mother telling her how we got so many things when they got nothing my grandmother gave so much more to us than she ever did them the treatment was so different etc still wanted so on you name it and each time I sit there with a blank look on my face and don't even bother saying a word because there's absolutely no point despite the times I've told her I've always loved you and I've never seen anything other than us as equal always complimenting her, which has changed nothing. After all the destruction that I will not even begin to mention here and after the spiritual awakening I've had I've realized that family is not always blood and you cannot change anything of another person only accept who and what and how they are or walk away and cut ties. And that is what I'm going to do new year new me
Now I know why one of my classmates acts the way she acts... Well, not that I'm gonna stop being helpful towards her, but now I understand a little better why all her friends almost ignore her, great for me
I know someone like that, he criticised me for posts I made, insulting me and harass me. He told me to go outside and touch grass, he accused me of something he did and went talking about history on my DMs about a story on Instagram, he even insulted his grandparents in order to prove me wrong. He told me to get a life and all that and he insulted me for being christian and after a few moments of conversation I blocked him
addicted to the way u talk ❤
Hey I love you guys so much thank you for helping me ❤️❤️
The animator nailed it when he picked My hero academia