10 Signs Someone Secretly Dislikes You
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- Опубликовано: 18 май 2024
- Are you wondering if someone secretly hates you? If so, we have you covered. In this video, you will learn who your secret enemies are.
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So, who's your secret admirer?
My fans
Meeee
nobody
Absolutely nothing bc I am g r o s s
Idk
Alternative title:
*How to become paranoid in 6 minutes and 48 seconds*
😂😂😂
That should really be the channel name.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'll teach y'all.
Yeah. After watching this, I don’t wanna trust anyone ;w;
*Every single person with anxiety has entered the chat*
Yep I agree with
I know when someone doesn’t like me and my anxiety tells me that
Agree 100%
@@ariannesan8110 I think your right 😁😁😁
New topic pls ?????
Avoiding eye contact can be a reason of being shy, too
So true
Or autism
@@AutisticGastrodonya true
As a shy person, I sometimes get accused of looking at the woman's chest when talking to them. No, I am just avoiding eye contact. I hate being shy and people attacking me on top of that. It is a no win situation.
@@AutisticGastrodonyeah
It hurts the most when your friend whom you always gave the first priority starts ignoring you without any reason
I was very close with my old best friend but one day she stopped calling me or to hang out togheter. She never told me what she doesn’t like on me. How should I know it?
@@livianathani9417 I think u should ask her once about the problem but if you find that you are right and have given best from your side than just move on becoz its better to leave than staying in a one sided bond. And don't you ever beg for sorry unless it's your mistake .
Happened to me literally in July. I didn't know why she was angry and ignored me. Wrote an apology without knowing what l was apologising for. We made up. Flash to a month later, she did it again after receiving our prelim lit results and she ignored me again. Haven't talked her since because l gave up
This has happened to be twice the other way around,
there's these 2 people who really didn't like me at school.
randomly they are like "hi" or make small jokes or start a conversation somehow lol and just out of nowhere
@@livianathani9417 Same thing happens to me now...I really don't know the reason behind this. Both of my friends started to ignore me even I haven't done anything wrong.😔 Moreover I was very supportive to them..Also they started to mock me and scold me infront of others ..They blame me for silly things and this made me depressed 😑
"Don't accept criticism from people you would never seek advice from". Morgan Freeman
Thank you.
Thanks :)
*Fact*
That makes so much sense, criticism from people who we don’t seek advice from will end up negative most of the time. People will judge us more negatively and insult us a lot
Thanks I needed this
*Audible Screaming*
Yeah turned out it's everyone
Nah some of us don't understand why certain people just don't get the hint!
@@TaraConti HAH
@@TaraConti true
Yep
Being disliked hurts. Especially if you really want to be friends with ppl. I remember so many times in my childhood that I was told someone didn't like me. They were never afraid to tell me how they felt about me. I never knew what it was I did to make ppl dislike me. It's been a struggle as an adult to make friends, bc of it. I'd rather be alone than worry about if I said something or did something wrong. I have one internet friend. I've been friends for 2 years now. We have a lot in common, and I think it's why. It certainly helps.
Stay strong always🧡
When I turned 20, I decided to be alone for the rest of my life. I was fed up with constantly being attacked by people who were supposed to be my friends. After 30 years, I can say I am alone but not lonely. What I have realized is they don't necessarily hate you or dislike you, they are just indifferent for the most part. I'm sure some do dislike me but most I feel just don't care. Someone said that mean people seem to have the most friends. I'd agree with that. When people don't care about you but then find out that you are easy to criticize or take advantage of, they will do it. Because they don't care and you are any easy target. It is entertainment for them.
My neighbor just ignored me and spoke to the other neighbor that came out as I was going in. I have no idea what I have done but I was certainly ignored! It does hurt but I guarantee she won’t have another chance to snub me because this girl is through with that friendship! I don’t have time for people that run hot and cold and you never know which it will be!
I'm 22 years old, now I don't make any friends and yes, I have online friends, and they are sweet, I'm happy with that, but it hurts when I think of those friends who hurt me before, it's okay, eventually I'll try to forget.
I was made fun of in school a lot because I had a "big forehead". Its hurts the most when people hate you for the dumbest reasons
This is exactly the kind of vibe I get from my entire class, yet they act fake and kind towards me.
It hurts a lot
don't worry bro
You can make friends with people who have the same problem in your class
@@bhabeshdas995 I'm the only one in my class who faces this
How Uno bro some ppl can be feeling this on the inside
They aren't worth it if they are like that anyways@@Axch0thrx
@@Axch0thrxmaybe try making friends with people in other grades or classes
No matter how good you are, someone will always pick you as the villain to their story.
No
Facts
@@codrindobrea1390 yeah your opinion is that this isn't true. But what they said WILL ALWAYS BE A FACT.
Of course
A terrible one
Awkwardly seeing more of these traits in myself than others...
I did mine for protection but I understand I felt I needed to be around ppl I KNOW dont like me so we both now being fake I've realize I dknt care for how they are so yes we display the traits now u know like you tried to work on that relationship sometimes like the video u still live with them or so so u have to interact in a human sense but yes I admit I display this with my family and some friends because I was just being a mirror
Same here dude (ー_ー゛)
The fact that we can recognize some of these things in ourselves speak volumes.
Yes you're probably extremely judgemental, and think you would generally handle everyrhing better than they just did.
@@analystzorncasteel3047 sooo thats bad or not lol once you see the level of stupidity in ppl u have no choice to do it yourself
I know most people are using this to identify people in their lives ( which is totally alright), but realizing that you yourself may be unintentionally may be doing this to someone else and having to admit that you don't like that person is a massive punch to the gut. I know from experience
Some of these are exclusive to people who don’t like you either. Some people have social anxiety, are extremely shy, or are just uncomfortable, especially young folks. Not everybody has to like me, and I do not have to like everybody either. I honestly stopped trying to be a people pleaser years ago.
@@kellidinit3725 I appreciate that, but it is hard to stop people pleasing, even if I do dislike people. I care about others a lot so it's hard to genuinely dislike someone, especially if I know them personally...
@@MosseiShroome I am always nice to people unless they give me a reason not to be. Had an old racist woman that used to live across the street from me and I was even nice to her, but also made it clear I didn’t want to hear her nonsense and if she couldn’t respect that then she shouldn’t speak to me. I was probably the only person on our block that was ever nice to her. I didn’t even know she had a daughter until she passed away, as she never visited her mom and apparently lived in the area. Not sure your age, but when I was younger my feeling would get hurt and I’d obsess more about things like that. As I aged, I just realized not everyone is my cup of tea, and I cannot expect to be everyone’s cup of tea either.
@@kellidinit3725 Your right, it's just a hard pill to swallow is all... I just want to show compassion to everyone, even if they aren't particularly nice to me.
@@MosseiShroome never lose your compassion. Empathy and compassion are in short supply these days. Try to remember you cannot control how other people feel, but it doesn’t have to control you. Don’t lose yourself trying to please anyone else.
Not everybody is going to like you, and you're not going to like everybody - and that's okay. So long as you aren't going out of your way to ruin their day or be mean, it's completely normal to let someone know you're not fond of them (directly or indirectly). I usually do many of these things when I have to interact with someone I don't like - depending on the person and situation - it's better than putting on an act and pretending you like someone imo.
I don’t dislike people, I dislike talking to people because I often don’t have anything to say or talk about
Same for me.
Same
+1
Being a writer, I thought” now I have stuff to talk about” but no one cares, so...
Ikr...that’s why i they ignore me...am i that boring ;-;
Their body language says it all
Me, with an online friend:
Violet Night nothing😂😂
lol
ur online "friend"
Yes so true lol
Yuri Villaflores I think almost all friendships are online right now
So glad I’m a loner, I don’t talk to people much but I know when someone dislikes me but that’s life. I don’t even talk to people at work unless A they come to me or B if I need help
I think being openly disliked is better than being secretly disliked
Me too 💔
People won't hate/love you if you're easily forgettable.
Speaking from experience.
It's weak to run away from hate AND love just because you're scared
Yume NoUsagi but understandable, especially if you’ve already been trounced pretty badly by either thing.
@@charzipuddin6129 I can relate to that. But still it's not good at all to give up no matter why
Yeah, true. I'm always forgotten. No one loves me ;'(
The Heartbreaker - Hate it when I wake up invisible. So annoying.
*when ur crush shows all these signs.*
Feels bad man.
😂😂😕😯😐😑😢😮😱😨😧😦😥😩😭😭😭
Who in their right minds could dislike a kawaii potato?! :O
Why is that a mood?
I know....
🤙🤙
To me, the real problem is that people find it so necessary to tell you that they don't like you. I don't take people who act this way seriously because they aren't creative or thinkers, they are petty reactors who just gossip and complain and taunt others and get something out of that. I don't get anything from doing that except guilt and shame for being abusive and people who waste their time this way are perplexing. Why do they think their opinion is so important to share?
I tell people, but only when they give me a reason to. I'd rather just be honest than watch them waste their energy on me. I'd want other people to do the same.
@@ZoeLeviathan101 Yes, I'm this way, too. But, otherwise, I have better things to do than batter someone else with my disdain. I dunno, it seems like something personality diordered people do in order to get a reaction which gives them "fuel" and regulates their feelings, which are always askew, due to the personality disorder.
It really hurts to have a friend and find out that person secretly dislikes you. My best friend secretly dislikes me because of peer pressure by the wrong crowd and I got to understand that with the help of my friend and this video. It hurts A LOT right now but at least I now know the truth. Thank you 😊😔
As I like to say, *”Not everyone likes me, but not everyone matters.”*
I don't know if that was supposed to be funny or cruel
*cough*instagram*cough*
@bish wat *cough* nah *cough*
Y’all need cough drops
@@thatskai3070 *cough* i'm good 👌🏻
"If they dislike you, they'll avoid eye contact, cross their arms, and lean away from you."
Or it could also mean they have social anxiety.
Valiant Velvet I think I have that.
maybe, but i do that to someone i secretly dislike
Absolutely true. I do this out of anixety/fear, not because I necessarily dislike someone.
I do those to be comfortable.
oof not really, well in my case i guess..
Excellent video, it helps me a lot! A comment: I have read it on numerous sites, it is advisable to respect those who dislike you, I mean you should avoid them too. Cheers up for the background music, it is super, I love it! Thank you for the upload!
The last two were true for me once. To keep it short, I found out from another friend that a girl I thought I was friends with secretly disliked me. I was a little disappointed, and I did have suspicions before finding out, but said nothing because I had no way to prove my claim and I didn’t want to start internal drama within the friend group. Now, i’m paranoid/anxious that the people I meet and become friends with secretly dislike me. I know it's not really great to care so much on what people think of you, but it really hurts when you find out that someone who you thought was your friend isn't.
it hurts when you realize that someone who you thought was your friend turns out they just kinda mildly tolerated you to avoid drama
That's how i feel.
So true...I know that feeling...and it's the worst thing you ever feel..
Yup.
I secretly hate this girl since she never knew my real worth and took advantage of me and paired me up with people she didn’t like like some trash that’s why I don’t like that girl and I do some of these signs
BUT GUESS WHAT. I’m still nice to her when she cries I ask what’s wrong as much as I hate her I still try to listen and make her day better even though a lot of my tears where shed because of her
But she did a lot wrong to me and did the social gathering one too but she doesent ALWAYS avoid me her friend my ex friend and her old bully invites me over there instead of her herself
@@chris1428_cars I know the pain that you're going through. Even though I'm nice to my friends they will always take advantage of me. I'd cry so many times and always being misunderstood by them.
I always runaway from the feeling because no matter how much I cried for the pain they had cost me they just don't care..nor yourself and the feeling we have.. She doesn't deserve you.. one day God will punished them and their wrong doings..
Some of this behavior is also just socially awkward people,
john bush true some people don’t trust easily
john bush oh yeah like which ones?
@@bigress4300 me for exemple and i'm not the only one out there not sure about how to talk to people
I can spend like 10 min trying to say something to a friend, but i can't find my word and just give up leaving the conversation without answer
@@PurpleShadow108 that's still something differnt because you still care enough for your friends that you at least try to explain and get a result done!
Thank you
My heart just broke at number 6. My friend I thought loved me and was actually understanding me out of nowhere in the last year decided she wants to make any excuses not to see me. Please, don't put all your trust in one person.
Maybe your friend is simply going through something right now and needs some space.
It hurts when someone doesn’t like you. As humans, we search for validation. It’s what we do. But not everyone is gonna like you. I’m sure there are people that you don’t like, and I’m sure you have your reasons. Someone doesn’t have to do something wrong for you to dislike them, they can just have a personality that goes against what you believe. You’re not wrong for not liking someone, and someone else isn’t wrong for not liking you. If you know someone who does these things to you , keep your head up before your crown falls and go find people who want to be around you. You got this ❤
A sign someone doesn't like you is they humiliate and embarrasse you in front of others.
My mom doesn’t like me then 😂😒
Then someone is really close to you is one of them
So my friend
That's a good one! Thank you. Reminds me of my ex-boyfriend (narcissist) who did that, plus 8 out of 10 things on this list -- almost all of them from the beginning while he was "love-bombing" me to keep me from figuring out what was really going on.
My ‘friends’ are ignoring me completely without any context. I know I’ve done something wrong but could I at least have some background info?
Picking up information shared by others is not it.
I have a feeling that people think I don't like them just because I show a lot of these traits when really I am just too nervous to start up conversations or keep them going.
Me Too
Relatable
Same
The only thing on this I do is I will occasionally tune people out, but that's because they'll say something that gets me thinking, and when I realize what I did I will apologize and ask them to repeat what they said. It gets annoying sometimes and I feel when it happens I have a vacant look on my face.
Right?... Things like closed off body language come with social anxiety... They should have noted that :/
It would help to talk to someone about this, but I find it hard to open up to people I know…
This has genuinely been the worst year of my life. I have never felt so lonely and depressed, and I couldn’t tell you a single thing I like about myself.
I try to always be kind to others and often get compliments and a positive reception, but I find it hard to make any long lasting friendships and fully include myself in a group environment.
I really just want to know what’s wrong with me. I want to know what people think and what is sometimes stopping them from fully including me. I’m part of a theatre group and when we do meet up they have the kindest words to say and say stuff to me like “you’re the only person we don’t talk shit about” and “everyone loves you” but will really never ask me to hang out or anything… I feel so lonely and that everyone’s lying to me.
I don’t know what to do, I just feel hurt and my confidence is on the floor.
It’d be nice to speak to someone who’s been through a similar thing.
Exactly. I have only recently come to realise that some of my very old friends do not really like me, and I've started seeing almost all of these signs mentioned. It's hard to accept, but I also see clearly that the only way they might like me more would be if I started to think, behave, even dress like them. One of them is the dominant charecter and the other two almost copy her. I don't think that's how friendship should be. I simply cannot change my taste, or my perspective over matters so that others like me more..It seems I have to gradually cut down my contant with them to a minimum in order to protect myself.
hi to all reading this: you can never please everyone, so just let it be 😃
idk :( :/
@@mubbashirgear even if you don't, what is the problem? it's their fault if they have a problem with you, you're great
@@nowayout7861 Thankx for saying me great you are great too :)
@U sUs It does sucks
Thank you but most started to hate me when i started to talking, it makes me stop talking and hide my personality 😐
me, who accidentally does many of these things: oh n o
I want my dad’s side of the family to watch this video
It's not accidental, but either planned or subconsciously executed to avoid the unpleasantness of dealing with you (not you personally). This is my basic understanding. And I probably send off the same signals to some of those who I think mistreat me or "rub me the wrong way".
I alw a ys cross my arms but I dint dislike them O_o
@DAVO CAMPBELL lol
@DAVO CAMPBELL I guess they are
When you do all of these things to everyone as a result of depression, anxiety, ADHD, bottling up your emotions, and just being really shitty in social settings
it doesn’t mean we don’t want to form any long lasting connections or friendships
I'm done dealing with people who don't want to deal with me. I don't have to prove myself to anyone. I don't need to prove I'm worthy.
I don't care about people who secretly dislikes me they're a complete waste of time.
True talking to people that dislike you is a waste of time
They are just wasting time to put someone diwn by creating false.image 🙏
without any investigation.....
people likes rumors not thinking 🙏
i keep em just to annoy them even more🤣
@@gavinburt1093 Obviously.. some people wre just want to talk otber people forcefully ,while no one want to do that....
Id rather die than live with arseholes and narcassists that think they know all but know little. They strip your life out from underneath you and leave your life irreversibly damaged i still to today find no purpose for life when you cant enjoy any of it
The fact that my "bestfriend" of 3 years does all of this... I'm glad i ended the friendship.
You made the right choice the best thing to do is find another friend that's the same age as you and born in the same year as you
Sorry to hear that. Had to do the same with some [former] friendships.
I'm glad my friends didn't show this signs,we were a friends since kindergarten
Let me tell you this I show all these signs of being a bad friend maybe your friend was empty inside dont just let a video depend on your friendship Im not a bad person I just feel alone and I kbow that that person will leave me in the dust like the other ones so if your friend is showing signs investigate more before you make your move.
I have a best friend for nearly 6 years and after this I won't wanna be friends with them
We can’t like or dislike anyone or anything because nothing and nobody really exists the way we perceive everything. The only thing we can experience is perceptions but we never experience reality.
I can confirm the one about eye contact. Two of my friends stopped being friends but i wanted to still be friends with both because i didn't wanna pick a side. But one of them just constantly vented about them without asking and was like "dont trust them they're fake" and said all kinds of bad things about her while knowing im still friends with her, then had the audacity to say "Btw lets keep what i said between you and me". After talking trash about one of my best friends. After that I couldn't get myself to look her in the eye because of how much I was annoyed at her. As you can imagine I stopped being friends with her after that.
11. When your "friend" only talks about THEIR friends when they are with you
This hurt me :(
That's my friend..
{ Gacha Floof } Ik u r right
This.
I dont claim anyone as mah FRIEND...
If you're wondering why I got 2k likes go check in the comment section to know
I don't have no friends too. I am mother of 5 kids and trying to make it too .. I am allowing myself to be alone for me and my kids. I works so hard for my kids and for my family and my kids. Your not the onlying one I don't have an friend also
Yes my thoughts exactly
I have friends but I never trust them, and they all ignore me, I always have a feeling that they all hate me except for my sister, and I can’t find any places that are quit so I could peace from all the drama.
I have no friends been bullied in school, at work people don't like me, and in relationships guys always do me wrong for some reason.
I don't need friends they disapoint me
I'm glad that the person I am right now, as I discover this video, has already gone through the painful growth necessary to not be bothered by people giving me these signals, and knowing when to stop making an effort with someone who isn't returning the same.
Right. Tough to do when it's involving your immediate family.
To those who reads the comments:
Not everyone needs to like you. It’s going to be okay. *hug*
*hug*
*hug*
Why thank you, now I feel even weirder but still *hug*
*hug*
hug (っ•.•)っ
“I don’t need friends they disappoint me”
Brooke c CLAP 👏
👏
You could stop at 5 or 6 stores, or just one
Agreed
*points hand to the righy while slapping the knee with the other hand*
wow. You just explained my ‘best friends’ in this video…. Thanks for letting me know
2:36
They might not always secretly dislike you, at the start of most friendships you start having big fights and get annoyed at each other a lot (most of the time)
But that’s a good thing because you start to get to know them more
"If someone dislikes you, they cross their arms"
Meanwhile : me crossing my arms while talking to people because I'm suddenly too aware of them and I feel awkward and I don't know what to do with my hands..
Duh
Actually what you described is your disliking about them in other words.
@@hulkman129 😂i don't dislike them. I get self conscious and feel insecure. Worried, if they don't like me if I just sway my hands around like a fool..😂😂
I mean, it happens when I'm with my friends sometimes..
TRUE! I never look people in the eye, it makes me so uncomfortable! It never means I don’t like them, it’s just the way I handle conversations. Haha
Eunna Won honestly same
@@VictoriaBe Exactly. Two seconds of eye contact starts making me feel like something's wrong. I shy away so easily when its with others.
I avoid eye contact while discussing because I'm insecure about myself
Same I’m trying my best to fix it tho
Same, I can't look into someone's eye for too long, it feels really awkward and I sometimes get embarrassed.
Don’t think it about it this way if they say anything or do anything then plug them in the face especially if it’s a feminist or Karen
@@nickborlas5282 saying is easy but executing isn't as easy as it sounds like
same
This has given me great advice, thank you for this.
It's soo weird that the person sees you as a competition when u see them as family/friends :(
Life is too short. Don't waste your time with some who treats you like this.
Sara McGuire any relation to Lizzie McGuire???
Yes, move on
It's hard when there in your everyday life
@@pz1007 stop being with people like this. I don't care if you tell them you don't wanna be their friend/like them/ anymore or just leave without telling. leave them they are soo horrible be careful with people you don't need anyone to complete yourself alright queen!? They deserve to rot. And you? You deserve to sit in a throne...
@@sariturn thank you also not important but I'm a guy
This list almost perfectly clash with the misunderstandings of introverts.
Ya I was just thinking that :/
no man I'm an introvert and I wouldn't be so rude ass
@@crazypinata9873 they don't mean you'd be rude on purpose most of these are associated with subconscious actions introverted people do to avoid casual interaction
An introvert not necessarily is like this, I actually feel that classifying yourself in these kind of behaviors is not good because then you would be in this mental box of where you do and dont belong
For example, I am very close to the definition of an introvert, but I like to talk, make friends and hang out with people, I just need my time alone as well (almost always)
Everyone can be different 🤗
yea i don't hate them, it's just, I'm too shy to make an eye contact and sometimes I'd like to continue the conversation but I'm scared they'd think I talk too much lol (or I just actually don't know what to reply 👁️👄👁️)
Thank you 🙏. I realized who are fake friends just acting like they care about 😢 me!
Thank you so much for this video, It made me understand that one of my friend's. Family member's. Neighbor's. Stranger's secretly dislike's me, I rlly understand the word's now. I would love to watch more video's abt these!
"they shorten the conversation, don't look at their eyes and avoid you"
Me a shy person: Oh no I do this! But I don't hate them! I just don't like to talk
Same
Hi • Friend OOF same! XD but I just smile at them and hide behind a item or my mom and my dad (/;w;/)
thats literally me XD
same here
Same
I have trouble making eye contact with everyone even family members
Same
LadyChild even family members? Boi get som help
@@itsoracle yea i do need help
I hate eye contact! It's like they can see my soul I don't want that
i relate to this in a highly spiritual level
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...I'm one of those sick twisted freaks who actually put effort into making a person believe we were friends when I really dislike them a lot. And what's worse is that I let them know... Through a letter explaining everything I've lied about (and the reasons why).
...This person is just.. Not my kind of person. Not a person I'd ever truly want as a friend.
They spent an entire semester wishing death upon some random girl over high school drama, and fantasized about all the ways they wanted her to die for months and months IN CLASS, even after they were told to stop repeatedly. It was so bad that I almost called the cops on them... (This girl they were "threatening" did some bad things, but wishing death upon her for months is complete overkill. She's not worth the energy.)
The person in question is nosy and likes to get themself wrapped up in drama they're not supposed to be in just because they're "bored".... And they think this is a cute, positive attribute.
...Their entire personality is, quite frankly, the equivalent of an obnoxious piece of stale bread.
...This person talks constantly and obsessively and doesn't shut up. Whenever they get going, there's no stopping them.
At first, I was just trying to keep this person from getting into a fight with another dude in the class (he was annoyed and was straight-up telling them that. I wish I had balls like that...). I'd let this person talk to me nonstop about a friend of a friend's second cousin's dog's "drama" while not really listening, but after they got their story out, they shut up.
...The sweet relief when they finally shut up, I swear... The silence sounded like angels singing.
It just went on like that, and I had to pretend to be friendly so that they wouldn't know I didn't like them... (Not to mention that I was scared. I mean... This person wished death upon a girl over high school drama... I'm not okay with my name being in this person's mouth. This person said stuff like "I wish I wasn't such a good person, because I have the most intense instinct to just cave her skull in, but I can't. I want to lose control for just once, let the rage take over me for once, like everyone else." Yeah... Nooo thanks. This is why I almost called the cops. And this person is a lot bigger and taller than me too, so I don't want to fight.)
...And then this person made a joke about their s*icidal BROTHER being "unable to be trusted with his own life".
.....It made me absolutely sick, because the way they said it was with the timing of a Big Bang Theory joke or even fucking Disney Channel, and the way they expected me to laugh, just...
...Oh my god. Get medicated. Please, get medicated. Please. Please do it, get medicated. Do it, please.
...So.... I feel guilty about faking being friends, but I had some pretty good reasons...
Plus I'm telling them the truth... I can't handle this on my conscience for long. It's unbearable enough that I had to fake being someone's friend for an entire school year... I couldn't stand NOT coming clean, especially since I'm a Senior and will never see them again in my life.
All I wanted was to be a lightning-rod, enduring whatever this storm of a person threw at me so that other people didn't have to.
I never expected it to be this way.
Crossing arms is BS. That's a self hug many do this for comfort
Jacob Jordan, Crossing arms can mean more than just “hugging” yourself, it could show emotions.
I do it either bc I’m cold or it’s comfortable
It's comfortable bc it's a defense mechanism
called staying warm in a freezing building
I can relate to that. Sometimes I don't know where to put my hands, so I cross my arms?
If people don’t like me then that’s their problem not mine.
Maybe yes, maybe no.
same, ill just be talking with whatever someone was talking about and id join in and they all just say why im talking so offtopic and then just ignore whetever i say.
come into my van usually I mock those who dislike me just so they can actually have a reason to hate me
likklej8 I already don’t like you from this self righteous comment lol
likklej8 after u evaluate your behavior and think it thru and decide that there is nothing wrong with it, then yes its their problem.
Charlotte Bronte says : ‘If all the world hated you and believed you wicked, while your own conscience approved of you and absolved you from guilt, you would not be without friends.
this says everything that has been swirling in my head. thank you
What do I do if my mother in law exhibits most of these qualities especially when she used the wording "keep the peace and move on" but passive aggressively brings up those things in conversation?
Also her husband turned physically aggressive and pushed me, what do I do then??
"Life is short. Cherish your moments with people who love you, and leave the rest behind."
I like this quote.
Thank you.
yeah, but everyone is too busy being "depressed" and looking at the downside of life. sad :/ but they're just attention seekers. and we HAVE to cherish our moments with the people who love us :) thanks for actually commenting something that doesn't include self-demoting!
@@disgust-d2833 noo i'm talking about the fake depressed people!
Thnx
yeah but also don't discount the people who have no opinion of you, be open to making new connections
Remember
"You are not born to impress,
You are born to express"
“Work for a cause, not for applause. Live life to express, not to impress. Don't strive to make your presence noticed, just make your absence felt.” - unknown
@@MissBeeMarie 👍
Kinda gæ
@@slayer7965 is that a problem?
@@mragankmanitripathi3302 yes
I hate it when people judge you and take a dislike to you without even trying to get to know you first!
Makes me angry!!!!
Me too.
We moved to a small town and "someone" put out the word that I was "horrible person". It spread far and wide and severely damaged my reputation in no time.
This person did not even know me. And the others didn't know me either. I even had dirty looks given to me while standing in line to vote. I still live here.
@kellilien1736 That's very bad of these people dear, my heart goes out to you!
I have a similar problem in my job, it only takes one lie!
Stay strong!
It hurts the most when you thought you had a bestie, and then they change and hate you.
This sounds like a lot of my “friends.”
Now I’m hella depressed.
i was always depressed
Having something in high amount can also make yor life miserable
same here m8 dont trust any of them everyone is out to get the folkz like us
@@alanimustafa9260 Some people are just opposite what they seems to be...hard to believe anyone....
I'm always depressed it just doesn't go away sometimes you can be happy and other times it just hits you I know people don't like me mostly people I thought were my good Internet friends I tried everything to be a part of there group again but after seeing them post stuff like " I need my best friends over here" and them tagging each other and then keeping one word conversations with me I now know I was never liked just tolerated it hurts a lot but I just have to move on
“Talk with your best friend 24/7”
Me: *What’s a best friend?*
Trueeeeee😢
Trueeeeeeeeeeeeeee :(
I feel you, i had no bf for sooooo long
Yeah I don't have friends 😤😔
That's good. I've been betrayed by those who proclaimed I was their best friend.
I fear getting close with a person.
It's so difficult especially if you're are the one not liking, but you don't want not to like others.... It's really annoying...
10' signs , hell a roll of the eye's any outward rudeness or verbal sarcasm or obvious body language usually gives it away
“they never invite you to social gatherings”
man no one has ever invited me lmao
Same for over 17 years no one invits me
For me it’s bc I don’t go that no one really bothers to invite me lol
@@hello.stangncd600 no one invited me once or proposed me
MOOD
@@wierdsk8ergirl331 thats hard i hope it will be better for u
I’m not one to hate anybody but I tend to avoid eye contact either way... bc I’m very anxious 🥺💕💞
Yes relatable
Same
#Relatable
Same
Me too
Sometimes you like the person but you’re just anxious and it looks like this
it's hurts when someone you thought as your best friend suddenly change and give these signs to you😔😔😔
I can feel your pain😔
Same, thought my friend was cool with me.
I guess it‘s my turn to do it...
1. They‘re curt with you. 0:49
2. Their body language says it all. 1:27
3. There‘s a lack of trust. 2:03
4. They get easily frustrated with you. 2:33
5. Their etiquette is forced. 2:58
6. They avoid you as much as possible. 3:35
7. They listen to you half-heartedly. 4:11
8. They don‘t make an effort to understand you. 4:40
9. They never invite you to social gatherings. 5:16
10. Your gut tells you something is wrong. 5:40
Jackie Thank you, random kind person in the internet.
@@jwx9509 you are very welcome. Have a nice day c:
@@Jackie-yf1ks you too.
Thanks!
Every Kingdom hall I've ever been in
You don't have to worry, Psych2Go audience, I like you.
Long live Joe. :)
Awwww sweet!
QuQ
Thanks, Joe!
Have a good day :D
You don't even know me. How can you?
I don't need to know if someone "secretly" hates me, I already know just by looking at them.
"Are you wondering if someone secretly hates you?" - what a destructive question to feed paranoia. Who even cares? Labelling people as haters isn't going to help. Maybe they avoid because they feel "less than" whenever you are in the room - Maybe they are just moody. Maybe we should all do a confidence course and end up veering towards people who can help make us a better version of ourselves ❤
When I go to school I feel like people talk behind my back and say I’m ugly and all that shit.
In my 35 years of life I've found that if you feel people are like that, it's because they are. We humans are, mostly, gutter trash, nearly a half step above guests on Jerry Springer. We'll steal your shit and make you feel guilty for catching us. Don't let those that bullshit you get you down, they're not worth the effort and strain.
@@thatguybehindtheglass same age, same thought
yup, I know how it feels because they think that I dont deserve to get a higher grades and talking 💩 about me and shaming my body. It hurts, but I have to keep strong 'cause no one cares about me except myself.
The G.O.A.T I do too...
@@rosettepeligaria1391 I hope it gets better for you.
Very insightful. I realized I express such behaviour unintentionaly, because I am reluctant to invest time in small talks and "meaningless" social interaction. This leads to a situation when people starts to reflect such behaviour, because they think I dislije them. Or I am just overthink this)
It always doesn't mean someone dislikes u if he/she isn't making eye contact with u or he/she isn't talking more with you , sometimes the reason may be they are shy or having weak communication skills!
Most people: Why would you even want to go to someone's birthday party when you know they hate you?
Introverts: why would you want to go to a party?
JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY TO EVERLASTING LIFE 🕇🕇🕇
I am introverted and I like parties if they are a week spaced
@Hannah Wen Heaven will be a continuing joyous celebration. Honor Jesus Christ, then you can rejoice , for real. FOREVER 🕇🕇🕇
@@donnafranks-oldpathhome for real for real?
Me: *sees comment*
Also me: Here we finally have some relatable shit--
me: gets a boyfriend
my whole recommended: why someone hates you, is he cheating, why you’ve been ghosted for 3 days
me: *panics*
RIP
Recommendation*
Frick you Jonathan madi roblox
@@TheLetterJ10 mabye you shut up, we don't need your opinion on gays. So just take your sorry ass and leave
Jonathan Madi Roblox Ew, a homophobe.
as someone who dislikes someone, this is accurate.
it's not who you are- it's the falsehoods you're living in, which thereby make the other person feel ill or repelled by you, no matter how wonderful and a miracle of a person you are
cleanse off whatever dirt you're energetically bringing into the friendship or relationship, and things'll change
it's the defilement you're habitually identifying with, venting about, or immersed in...not the person you are, which is inherently perfect
whoever you're watching this about, they love you. just live in truth.
When you realize your family and friends hates you. Feelsbadman
I feel ya everyone hates even my parents just better to not live
@@muwahibahmedidriz7869 thats not true. No one deserves to die. You don't know if they really dislike you, which is unlikely. Maybe thats just their way of expressing themselves, but everything can change, starting from ourselves. I have problems with my parents too, but I find that if I would just make a little more effort to be a little more agreeable, than things would be better. Just have a little patience and hope. God loves you, and He is the One who's never going to give up on you. Ever. Trust Him.
@@muwahibahmedidriz7869 yea, and i dont dislike you either, dont take your life away just because of other's it's stupid
Becca Raefin ya, even my mom dislikes me. yikes.
Hugs
Quarantine had me seeing everyone’s true colours and questioning everyone even my best friend
Even my family
Everyone I met in my life
It made me question my family and friends
I have fought with so much with my best friend. I thought I would get to know them better and enjoy being around them more but I realized they are insecure and they boss people around
Same :( my bff endid our friendship on Friday :( and doesn’t even talk to me idk why
A couple of these signs funny enough also fall under traits of someone with Asperger's, the biggest being eye contact. Since Asperger's downside is social anxiety, one of the issues we Aspies have is struggle to make eye contact. For us, making eye contact is a neurological offense to the brain (literally) so often times we are trained to look at the person's nose to simulate eye contact.
Sadly, this often gets seen as rudeness because of it being a sign of dislike toward someone. So in my childhood, I'd often be surprised by someone who I thought was my friend now suddenly being a total scumbag to me and I'm all flustered and confused about where I went wrong. Most Aspies grow out of these problems later in life but I'll still make mistakes and I'm 26 at the time of this comment (I was diagnosed and treated late).
Thank you to those that list it out.
Saves me time
I'd rather not have friends than having people who think they are when you know they're not. Cannot stand 2 faced people.
I don't have friends because I do trust anyone. Classmates and childhood friends aren't to be trusted either. They will turn their backs on you or act like they don't know you in my experience. That's why I'm a loner. They better not come to me for help because I'm not going to help them. Im sorry but that's how I feel
@@mitzithompson6585 you can't help how you feel. I just hope you have close family around you for the love & friendship you need. Stay strong x
@@chocoholic832 yes. I have a very strong family support . I just have many people in my circle because of being betrayed ,hurt,disappointed. I don't get back what I give which is loyalty.. im content it just hurts sometimes when u don't vibe with other that don't share the same with u. Thanks for your words
@@mitzithompson6585 so glad you have a loving family around you. I got rid of a couple of so called close friendships as I felt used but I don't miss those friendships at all & I only have those people i love in my life now. Keep smiling 😁
@Jane MG 🤣 Me too!
I act like i dislike everyone then huh I swear I'm just socially awkward
People misunderstand a lot when I’m having a conversation with someone because it looks like I’m not listening at all 😔
@@spectralmystery7048 maybe because it`s true and you don`t care, but that doesn`t necessarily need to be a bad thing...
It may be not ok if it`s with people close to you, that might not be that okay, I don`t know, though...
Movies ain`t shit. Thing is, I’m actually listening and adding my own thoughts into the conversation ;v;
@@spectralmystery7048 Then what`s your issue?
This school year a new classmate joined our class. My best friend was instantly attached with the new classmate, I was fine with it and I was more than happy to be friends with her. But things started going wrong as I realised they started speaking in their native language I don’t understand at all, I tried to talk to them but they seem to ignore me and push me away by saying ‘Oh it’s nothing important’ when I ask them what they were talking about. At this point, it doesn’t feel like I am part of the friend group anymore. I feel invisible and it doesn’t seemed like they acknowledged my existence, they only talked to me when they needed help.
Am I a really demanding friend who don’t respect them? Everyone says that I should have learned their language but I thought friends were supposed to respect each other, speaking in a common language when other friends are present. Is that really so much to ask for?
Wow! this makes me think so much Im so glad that my fresinds sent this video to me the more you know.
Alternative title:
*10 Signs You Secretly Dislike Someone*
Yea I like it lmao
@@cluots7664 that doesnt even make any sense.
Mizu-na Tsubasa agreed
Lol no
You like Tsubasa?
from this video, I learned that I dislike literally everyone.
Lol same it a sad world
Yeah it appears I dislike everyone except for a very few people. That makes sense
so dislike your mom,dad,sister,brothers,cousins,aunts,uncles,grandpas,and grandmas
So dislike yourself? Well could make sense.
gamer777 yes.
"Not everyone is going to like you, and that's ok."
So what happens if no one likes you and you're just out there being a nice person?
Honestly I wonder the same thing
it rlly hurts when you are trying your best to communicate with the people around you and they just don't give the same respect back, i literately found out that the whole grades talks behind my back