I’m the weirdo who looks people dead in the eye. The fact I don’t talk much doesn’t help. So you have someone with a blank face staring at you dead in the eyes.
Same here, even close family and friends I just can't keep eye contact - so I just pick a spot on the wall just behind them so I'm looking in their direction without needing eye contact. The joy of bipolar and bpd
You may feel that you are making that person uncomfortable by keeping eye contact. I used to be that way. It shows consideration, which is akin to honesty. Or it may be because of guilt due to lying. There are so many different things to consider! The more clues you have, the greater the chances you will have an accurate overall picture -- just like a huge jigsaw puzzle. This requires a lot of hard thinking, which is work -- something most people do not want to do. That is why there are so many gullible people! But for those who enjoy thinking, stuff like this is priceless. It certainly has more practical value than the things most people waste their energies on. Don't let morons make fun of you for that. Take it as a compliment.
Eye contact scares me because it was enforced in my house as discipline. The way my father and mom made me stare at them while they yelled at me and hit me has scarred me forever, and I refuse to have kids because of it.
Xx_LifeIsA Mystery_xX Me to real story imagine okay? And me when I do it backwards I was riding my bike to my job at 8 but I had to get there at 9 to eat a burger them:say it backwards me: I ate a burger at 9 and had to get to my job at seven? Them: LAIR
One thing I've experienced with a liar is their defensive nature.. If you question anything about them, some times they'll fly off the handle and even deflect and begin accusing you of some wrong-doing. If you experience this kind of behavior, get away from that person!
Very true... But it starts with how we personally approach the person. If our own emotions are in the front line instead of being matter a fact, then they will become defensive. For ex. He /she cheated on you. Depites how painful hearing this can be, we want to make sure we are calm when asking a question about it, without sounding like we're attacking. Then you can tell if they are being defensive. They may mimic you in being calm. So watch the body language. Does it shift kind of quickly. Do they huff, which connects to the thought if being punched in the gut. Do they cover their face instantly when being asked. Do they pause too long before answering. Defensive posture can also be, did their body tighten up. Did they stand up abruptly. .. There are other things to look for. Many times people will become angry because they feel attacked when they really are innocent. So we need to be careful we take in the whole picture if everything. The biggest one... watch the pupil of their eyes. If its dark, pupils are normally large. If lying pupils will shrink. In the light, pupils are small. When lying, pupils become large.
I have a coworker who's a pathological liar and maybe a narcissist. Luckily, he's leaving this week, and I don't have to see his face. Long story short, you can tell when he's lying the story doesn't sound genuine, and he paints himself the hero. Or when I called him out of the stuff he did wrong to my co-workers and myself, he wants to flip the switch and try to gaslight me, trying to make me feel bad. 🙄🙄
Lie and lie detecting is always a cat and mouse arms race. This will help catch the obvious ones, but good liars will know the general detection techniques, so you gotta be one step ahead of that. Bad liars can't maintain eye contact. Good liars tend to use too much eye contact to compensate. Anybody that watches this videos will both become better lie detectors AND better liars since they know what to watch out for.
“Simply asking them what they were wearing or what they ate” I don’t even remember what I ate for dinner last night! I don’t even remember if I had dinner...
Great video!... The problem I encountered is the willingness to believe a lie even you feel it is not the truth, because of your expectations you have in the person, or the love for them... sometimes the best way to know if you can trust somebody, is to trust them.
Biggest lie is saying your internet went out. Whenever im late or absent later on In like a hour I tell them my wifi went out and it the page wasn't loading. At this point I've built enough reputation to were they will belive me.
when there were face to face class, i was known as the polite and smart kid so people will ofc believe me, rn in online class i just cheat and lie every time because i lost motivation
1. Evasiveness: less likely to be specific 2. Inconsistency: can’t keep stories straight. 3. Simulated facial expressions 4. They can’t tell their story backwards 5. Not maintaining eye contact 6. They can’t handle unexpected questions. (What are you wearing, what were you eating) 7. Micro expression (shorter real, longer expressions fake) 8. Blinking: (frequent blinking-mass emotions-lying) 9. Their facial expressions and emotions don’t match up. 10. Play devil’s advocate (if you think someone is scared but says he isnt, talk about how scary you think roller coasters are)
10 is wrong your meant to say how much you "don't relate" to what they say but make them say how they can relate to what you say aka say what you think might be the truth for them and make them say they agree
Rose My advice would be to study how they act, talk, and REALLY feel around you. If they’re acting strangely or in any unhealthy way for a relationship, it’s indeed time to bring it up to them and talk about it. If they continue lying during that talk, you get the message and should dump them. It may be a difficult process, but it’s worth saving yourself from severe heartbreak in the end. Believe me, I’ve been under a bad situation of a liar for a lover and it is about as bad as a one-sided relationship. Don’t take this as criticism or as an insult, I’m just giving some serious advice.
I have ASD and I’m always accused of lying because my face doesn’t match what I say. However, in cases I lied, I am weirdly convincing. Unfortunately, anytime I get accused of lying, I’m telling the truth.
Yeah... As an autistic person myself, I've been accused of all sorts of things. Evasiveness is suspicious af. Particularly if they avoid you on top of it. If they can stay in your neighborhood and in touch, there's no risk. When police are the liars, you have a bigger problem.
Meanwhile me with autism and ADHD: when I tell lies I am literally 100% convincing but if there was a lie detector then I would get worried and like anxious but then when I tell the truth it seems like a lie to them or whenever there talking to me I just don’t look at them :/
So true I use to be punished all the time for telling the truth. So much so to the point the real lier perpetrators domestic violence are protected and the victim myself are nearly murdered and the children also suffer harm because they didn’t listen. Life has been sucked out of us to protect the lier. Great harm. Yes I’m ASD.
the eye contact sucks for me because i genuinely cannot keep eye contact with people in day to day life because i feel like they won’t like me looking at them or that it’s awkward, so a lot of people think i’m lying when i’m being honest. edit: thankyou for the likes guys!!
Yeh same but with all of them except brain power and true emotions, so if we use this logic then people would think I'm Lying all the time which just isnt true
@@Ssnimemk Yep, and there are different degrees of lying, everyone does the simplest and easiest one, but only extremely skilled people and people who have a specific reason to lie will do it to the extreme. The easiest is just lying to someone if you got them something only to surprise them later, the extreme or hardest is far more complicated.
It also helps if you know something they don't, or you both know the same thing but they think you don't know, that happened to me and it irritated me, being lied to, this was via online text.
in Reality I have no sense of I and even less one I am proud and happy about.... So I compensate with narcish tendencies.... and with fake achievement..... I try to overcompensate with physical non achievement... at which all people are better and superior than me Same for fake superficial philosophy and psychology.... I'm just an unknowing pathetic amateur nerd
As a person who used to have a bad habit of lying very often(and I still throw out the occasional small one out of reflex from time to time, working on it), I came to realize while watching this both what I've noticed and improved upon already(control your emotions, pre-create your story at least a little, approach confidently and calmly) and where I had fallen short as a younger liar(I blinked quite a bit, and I held facial expressions too long). I take your psychology with gratitude, and silently add it to my arsenal of lie-crafting tools XD
Been there, done that. It forced me into a course of action I didn't want to take, and the person denied going behind my back, lying, all of thst. I think what angered me the most is, they obviously thought I was stupid. Cue shit hitting fan.
no the sad thing is EVERYONE is capable of lying even those who never lied (cause that doesnt exist, everyone lied at a point in their life for this or that reason)
What they meant with that. Is that when someone makes a story to lie about something they create a chronological unfold of events. The story might seem real and very well spoken with ease.. But if you just ask them to tell it backwards their brains will slow down considerably.. When you speak truth it's almost like a flow backwards yeah sure you can lose a few seconds but will come out as genuine. Not in a story processed in only a way of events 😉
3:00 Actually, that isn't a solid sign that the person is lying. They could have ADHD and stuff like that, and then they could just have trouble maintaining eye contact in general, and maybe they heard a noise and even seeing a moving car! There is many instances where that is wrong. One of the main signs they are lying is freezing in place, heart beat change and/or increased pauses between speaking.
Well, the main signs you're mentioning as being more reliable can be related to loads of other stuff too: context, stress, emotional overload, anxiety, depression, trauma....
The eye contact one bothers me, because I’m an honest person, but suck at eye contact when speaking. My mind blanks if I look at people the while talking. Also I needed this because I know someone very close to me that is a good liar. I want more confirmation with his body language. So thank you.
Traci-Jean Behind Blue Eyes Thank you for the recommendation. I’ve heard of the extra details thing as well, but forgot about it. Thanks for that as well guys.
@@rascalragdoll182 You're welcome. 😊 With mine it's not just extra details. He will come home and start explaining himself for absolutely no reason...I gave up asking a long time ago, but it's like he has a ready-made excuse and can't wait to use it. The dumbass doesn't even realize how guilty that makes him look...not to mention pathetic.
3:01. MYTH!🤥 Some people might maintain relatively little eye-contact when telling a true story, while practised liars can easily maintain eye contact while lying.
I love you guys!! As an ADHD who struggles to make eye contact due to low dopamine levels and taking time to consider my answers to best succinctly answer a question, due to my impulsivity both suggest I’m a liar - when in fact I am a shit liar and am very focused on answering with clarity.
Yes, it's a bad stereotype, which makes life for these people more difficult, because they have to maintain eye contact, even if this stresses them out...
Met so many lying minipulative people with hidden agendas, no integrity. It's become second nature to spot them and read all the signs. So predictable! So superficial and the insincerity is a dead giveaway.
I wont ever lie again. Learned this in my twenties. You have to remember what you lied about and continue to lie. "What a tangled web we have weaved, if at first we learn to deceive". Also, once you are caught in a lie once, every else becomes tainted
@@domo201 there's some rational amounts of overlap... and I'm right there with you on both of those. Have you looked into narcissistic abuse? Victims can morph into abusers if they aren't fully aware of how the behaviors may be manifesting for them or their friends/family (or you may tell yourself it's something good, when it really isn't)
Hocker Well I don’t mean to brag but I’m pretty self aware, I’m not anywhere close to abusive. I would think victims are good natured since they know the pain of abuse, at least that’s my experience
I suffered many forms of abuse for many years by many members of my family growing up. A lot of it from simply one person. She was the worst offender. Yet everyone else turned a blind eye until it would look even worse if they got caught. One of the big things she would do that still bothers me even to this day is call me a liar even when I was being 100% honest. So now, I have a hard time maintaining eye contact with anyone. Even in casual conversation. But especially when facing confrontation. So...hearing facts like that and being told it's a definitive telltale sign...
Watching this to get even better at lying. Lying is a skill I want to be able to do on the spot if needed or to benefit me. Thanks for the tips on what not to do
Agree, scammers and pathological liars are unsettling. Everything is wrong and artificial but they'll look you in the eyes without blinking. (Bad ones look over your shoulder)
No doubt. Throughout my childhood I had it beat into me how important it was to make eye contact during a conversation (or interrogation). I could force myself, briefly, but my focus would quickly and inadvertently wander. In my thirties I was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome. My son also abhors eye contact just the same. Those jackoffs that place such a premium on the value of eye contact can go suck the big one.
I never had a direct eye contact with someone because it makes me feel uncomfortable, looking at someone in the eyes reminds me that they're actually looking straight at me and that makes me insecure.
Extremly good liars may even show the opposite: Rarely ever blinking (to maintain eye contact), or being completely still, showing to much information.
Do you want to show a little of lying and truth? Like somewhat maintain eye contact and blink and use half truths? I’m not sure how to tell a liar from a truthful person.
@@exoticcats6119 I meant that talented liars know the red flags to avoid but they are not immune to these signs. It is just more difficult to spot there games.
Having anxiety, I think about things like this when I get nervous because I don't want people to think I'm lying/unqualified to do what I'm saying. It would be awesome to see a video teaching us how to discern between a liar and someone with ptsd having a bad day.
thank you for that comment. I couldn't lie it makes me feel ill and my conscience wouldn't let me or my morals, but I suffer with impaired cognizance so a few of these "tips" apply to me. I can't remember what I ate the day before or what I might have been wearing, I never have been able to answer an out of the blue question right away. THanks to my service time in the military, I'm damaged goods.
@@ateachableheart2649 I feel you there, I'm in the same boat. If it's anything of a silver lining though, at least its given us the compassion to see not everyone with these expressions as inherently bad.
Yes indeed someone may be in a bad mood have a bad memory a mental illness or all three at once. they have their own signs of lying that may be different from the usual lol
Actually the first time I caught a liar was in 3rd grade when someone from behind me was tugging my hair. I looked back and saw everyone was busy because it was math so everyone was serious I minded my own business until the tugging continued. I looked back and stared at everyone behind me. Everyone else was saying "What did I do" But one said "Why are you looking at me like that, I wasn't the one who tugged you're hair!" it was him, I never told anyone why I was staring at them. I felt like a genius.
That is not proof that he did it. He probably saw the person that did it so he was afraid you thought it was him. The other ppl that said "what did i do" is probably the liar. Because no one is stupid enough to say "i didnt do it".
The eye contact thing isn't always true .. it's been found that most children that's been in foster care or are orphans, don't make eye contact with adults or peers around them when they talk, or they don't hold eye contact constantly because of a deep rooted feeling of incompetence or as if they aren't good enough...
That's actually not true body laungue is only accurate about 70 percent of the time. Which mean's they get it wrong about 30 percent. People which rely on a certain tool to spot lying over exaggerate the effectiveness of their technique. Take polygraph examiner's they say science back's up them being 98 percent accurate but the study's I have seen say they are 70 percent accurate at the most. But most study's say their 60 percent accurate so it's safe to say a polygraph is accuare about 60 percent and has a 40 percent fail rate. At most you can say their are signs of lying but these signs are not unique to lying.
The evasiveness! My brother does that. Not only does he do that, he also tries to change the topic and I can slip up on him and flat up ask "Hey, y/n, did the chocolates you steal taste good?" But if I don't wear him down first and spring the question immediately, it's often hard.
It also helps if you get to know a person better. The most important thing about lie detecting is knowing a person's baseline behavior when they are not trying to lie. Then, if there is any deviating behavior, you can then have an easier time spotting it.
Unless they have a personality disorder. They lie for a living, so it feels natural, as natural as telling the truth. Unfortunately, I have seen it in action. They study videos like this.
I say I don’t know/I don’t remember a lot. I’m inconsistent sometimes(cuz I remember things _after_ I say something sometimes). I almost never maintain eye contact (The longest I’ve kept eye contact was like maybe a little over 10 seconds). I do this in normal convo, even when I’m not lying...
Worst attemptive lie: I asked my friend to meet in our village he said he can't he's not at home, but we share our snapchat location and his snapchat location said he's at home, so I told him his snapchat location says you're at home and in future no need to lie you can just say no, he said his snapchat location was a error then immediatley turns shared location off and again says he's not at home.
My girlfriend lied to me. I broke up with her, and looking back now with the perspective of this video, I could've pointed specific points out about how I knew she was. I'm going to be more aware now 😄
I’ve come clean in someways but not in other ways not so. I’ve still got so much more room to grow I want that I know it’s in me and I just want to say thank you, you have help me through a lot and I mean a lot
@@LongCOVIDAdvocator I don't think so, even in common situation for some poeple staring in the eye is hard, for exemple I cna never stare in the eyes of my friend or family
I swear to god I will respond to any comments that have DR in it and it is true about it being like danganronpa (Kokichi is an expert Liar, I don’t think he’ll fall for these lmao)
Eye Contact is a bit more "complex" simply because avoiding eye Contact is sometimes just a natural thing in some people like myself, recently I started seeing patterns in my eye contact behaviour, I realized making steady eye contact makes me feel restless and uncomfortable. I would like to know more about this.
You guys are right lol, I have trouble with eye contact because I'm on the Autism Spectrum, though I've realized I can hold eye contact longer with people I have developed relationships with and trust :0
I'm also an aspie, and making eye contact feels really aggressive to me, super uncomfortable ( I can't imagine anyone thinking it's pleasurable or natural; and if a person is more than 3 feet from me I can't tell what they're looking at, although that may have more to do with having double vision ). I also read a psych today article that said liars will make more eye contact to see if you're buying their lie. If you're talking to me and I'm looking around, I'm seeing stuff inside my head; images that your conversation is creating. When given an association test and told to say the first thing that occurs: They say "black" and I see black cardboard so I say "cardboard". When they say "right" I see the word "right" and frankly don't know how to respond to that. So ... the eye contact rule is fraught with "exceptions" that require intimate knowledge.
Bro I'm just like u when I saw this vid I got scared that ppl actually think I'm lying if I don't make eye contact coz i always don't make eye contact it's so hard to do and it's uncomfortable
"They cant handle unexpected questions." Gotta disagree on this one. When I've been accused of doing something I actually didn't do, because I strive to be honest in general it takes me a bit to consider whether something I did could have been interpreted as that act. I instinctively give the accusation the benefit of the doubt and thus my response might come across as calculated or over-considered, but in fact it's because it's shocking to me that somebody might deliberately lie about me.
@@whatsmysexuality6536 if you smile every time it gets harder for them to tell if youre lying or telling the truth since it happens whether youre telling the truth or lying
Crap You said mass binking is linked with lying but I blink every 2 second even if I am not talking! I do this because my eyes dry out often so i try to keep the moist.
funny how a lot of these "liar" traits also apply to abuse victims. evasion, simulated facial expressions, not maintaining eye contact, inability to answer unexpected questions, microexpressions, blinking, the gang's all here. very funny. *very, very funny.*
My ex in a nutshell. Never had I met someone with such a simultaneously great and terrible memory. "It was exactly this" turned into "I don't remember at all" so fast it was like instant amnesia if she felt like it.
Who here loves dogs? Comment below.
ME!!
WHERE MY DOGS???!! (DMX voice)
Ur mom
Me I have 2.
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Biggest lie ever: when your mom says "Tell the truth i won't be mad"
Frr and then not even a second later she's like OMG WHY DID YOU DO THAT and screaming all up in your face
Lmao
Oh ya they will also say
*i HaVe NeVeR tOlD a LiE iN mY lIFe*
So trueee
SkyTan 6Ord in reality they have
Probably more than us
Biggest lie ever: I had read and agreed the Terms and Conditions.
Yep, who actually reads them?
Nerds
Artantoni AGREED
I don't
When I was in 4th Grade, everytime I see those, I would read it no matter how long it is. *Just to prove I am not lying...
I never look someone dead in the eyes when I’m talking to them, idk why I just feel uncomfortable
I feel shy-
When looking at a boys eyes while talking-
Yeah
I kinda look at their nose or forehead unless I’m scared
I’m the weirdo who looks people dead in the eye. The fact I don’t talk much doesn’t help. So you have someone with a blank face staring at you dead in the eyes.
Same my eyes start watering
I have always had a hard time keeping eye contact with anyone. Not that I lie , I just have a weird feeling when I look at anyone
Same here, even close family and friends I just can't keep eye contact - so I just pick a spot on the wall just behind them so I'm looking in their direction without needing eye contact. The joy of bipolar and bpd
Ur just like me. Im shy too
You may feel that you are making that person uncomfortable by keeping eye contact. I used to be that way. It shows consideration, which is akin to honesty. Or it may be because of guilt due to lying. There are so many different things to consider! The more clues you have, the greater the chances you will have an accurate overall picture -- just like a huge jigsaw puzzle. This requires a lot of hard thinking, which is work -- something most people do not want to do. That is why there are so many gullible people! But for those who enjoy thinking, stuff like this is priceless. It certainly has more practical value than the things most people waste their energies on. Don't let morons make fun of you for that. Take it as a compliment.
Eye contact scares me because it was enforced in my house as discipline. The way my father and mom made me stare at them while they yelled at me and hit me has scarred me forever, and I refuse to have kids because of it.
Me too for me it gives me anxiety to look at someones eye for too long
*they cant tell their story backwards*
I wouldn't be able to do that even telling the truth-
Xx_LifeIsA Mystery_xX Me to real story imagine okay? And me when I do it backwards I was riding my bike to my job at 8 but I had to get there at 9 to eat a burger them:say it backwards me: I ate a burger at 9 and had to get to my job at seven? Them: LAIR
Xx_LifeIsA Mystery_xX exacly same
Lol
I read that right as she said it lol
Tru
Fun fact: Good liars are the BEST at finding lies, better than almost anyone.
That is VERY TRUE
Yes i am good at Spotting Liers 😌
Lady Dragon Same here
I hate the fact people lie, mostly when they Just arent good at it 😂
Why would you expose me like that!?
Liars: _watch this video_
*Lying has been improved by +100*
Zuzu 👏👏👏
You're the new Justin I see you everywhere XD
FUCK YOU GOT ME
Not really as they will unconsciously do such things
speech 100
persuasion
One thing I've experienced with a liar is their defensive nature.. If you question anything about them, some times they'll fly off the handle and even deflect and begin accusing you of some wrong-doing.
If you experience this kind of behavior, get away from that person!
Very true...
But it starts with how we personally approach the person. If our own emotions are in the front line instead of being matter a fact, then they will become defensive.
For ex. He /she cheated on you. Depites how painful hearing this can be, we want to make sure we are calm when asking a question about it, without sounding like we're attacking. Then you can tell if they are being defensive. They may mimic you in being calm. So watch the body language. Does it shift kind of quickly. Do they huff, which connects to the thought if being punched in the gut. Do they cover their face instantly when being asked. Do they pause too long before answering. Defensive posture can also be, did their body tighten up. Did they stand up abruptly. ..
There are other things to look for.
Many times people will become angry because they feel attacked when they really are innocent. So we need to be careful we take in the whole picture if everything.
The biggest one... watch the pupil of their eyes.
If its dark, pupils are normally large. If lying pupils will shrink.
In the light, pupils are small. When lying, pupils become large.
I have a coworker who's a pathological liar and maybe a narcissist. Luckily, he's leaving this week, and I don't have to see his face. Long story short, you can tell when he's lying the story doesn't sound genuine, and he paints himself the hero. Or when I called him out of the stuff he did wrong to my co-workers and myself, he wants to flip the switch and try to gaslight me, trying to make me feel bad. 🙄🙄
MYTH!
People who lie use more eye contact. They're trying see if thier lie is believed.
Lie and lie detecting is always a cat and mouse arms race. This will help catch the obvious ones, but good liars will know the general detection techniques, so you gotta be one step ahead of that. Bad liars can't maintain eye contact. Good liars tend to use too much eye contact to compensate. Anybody that watches this videos will both become better lie detectors AND better liars since they know what to watch out for.
True lmao, a friend of mine lies so much and they ALWAYS try to make eye contact with me
Liar do not make eye contact or do it way too much, ta daaa
A lot of people will look to the right, and this is due to the right hemisphere of the brain being the "creative" side.
@Abraham Lenson
Same. I makes me very uncomfortable.
“Simply asking them what they were wearing or what they ate” I don’t even remember what I ate for dinner last night! I don’t even remember if I had dinner...
😂😂😂
Same
Ditto
Same
same XD
Me telling truth- Most people be like: “Lies.”
Me telling lies- Most people be like: “I trust you”.
Bruh-
Lmao 😅 😂🤣
Probably played among us
Story corner
Uh no.
I’m talking about (especially) real life and at certain situations. Not the game.
@@dyh.4337 That was just a joke bro it was not ment to be taken as seriously 😅
LOLLL-
Great video!... The problem I encountered is the willingness to believe a lie even you feel it is not the truth, because of your expectations you have in the person, or the love for them... sometimes the best way to know if you can trust somebody, is to trust them.
Biggest lie during online school:
“Hi, my camera is broken and my mic is going to shut down.
Biggest lie is saying your internet went out. Whenever im late or absent later on In like a hour I tell them my wifi went out and it the page wasn't loading. At this point I've built enough reputation to were they will belive me.
My Mic doesn't work and camara my teachers doesn't need that
I scream HERE HERE HERE and they say close enough please Fix your microphone
bahaahha
U chaught me teacher
Edit: he is not my teacher, its a joke
when there were face to face class, i was known as the polite and smart kid so people will ofc believe me, rn in online class i just cheat and lie every time because i lost motivation
About the avoiding eye contact thing-some people just hate eye contact,such as me ;-;
Yes, so you have to watch for more than one signs..
Same. @_@
I would say compare baseline behaviour rather than looking for more signs since OP could fit many of these signs normally under no stress.
Nothing to see here, yep! Me too!
Saaaaame the only reason I look anyone in the eye is to convince people that I'm not lying
"Because some liars are just really good at acting"
True 👍
And I ain't one of em
I'm so good at acting :3
blueaslan _ I’m one of them but don’t do it often
Mira Lust that's okay, funny fact that i'm the one of them too. We have reasons why do that. And i know it's not to hurt anyone
I'm sometimes good at acting
Over reacting is a huge red flag to me. When someone gets really excited when you ask them a simple question. They are lying.
Never trust you or god
1. Evasiveness: less likely to be specific
2. Inconsistency: can’t keep stories straight.
3. Simulated facial expressions
4. They can’t tell their story backwards
5. Not maintaining eye contact
6. They can’t handle unexpected questions. (What are you wearing, what were you eating)
7. Micro expression (shorter real, longer expressions fake)
8. Blinking: (frequent blinking-mass emotions-lying)
9. Their facial expressions and emotions don’t match up.
10. Play devil’s advocate (if you think someone is scared but says he isnt, talk about how scary you think roller coasters are)
Thank you!
10 is wrong
your meant to say how much you "don't relate" to what they say but make them say how they can relate to what you say
aka say what you think might be the truth for them and make them say they agree
Me be like when I am telling the truth but can’t say it backwards
Also if eye contact is lying then autistic be like aka me
There is so many things wrong with this
@@mrvalkyrie2998 idk if anyone will be prepared to tell their story in reverse lol
also just figure a way to break that defence
“Intense eye contact”
Me with social anxiety: I ain’t lying I promise👁👄👁💧
Ayy same
Ayee
Same here
I wonder how u deal with it
I can't make an eye contact.
I never do eye contact even when I'm telling the truth
A snake can look at u in the eyes but still bites
Same
If someone is lying they usually get angry when confronted.
Absolutely. And call you crazy.
That's a good sign! But expert level knows how to conceal or mask their emotions..
because they saw your comment.
I've been in a "relationship" with narcissist for 6 years...I'm a walking lie detector. Lol.
That is SO true. When someone wants to end the topic as soon as possible, the more aggressive they get.
Traci-Jean Behind Blue Eyes practice makes perfect! I wonder if there’s a little narcissism in all of us? That’d be an interesting psych topic
11. They call you cute.
😂
*Doubts*
"So that was a fucking lie."😂
Every time my significant other calls me pretty/cute, I feel like they’re lying to me.
Rose
My advice would be to study how they act, talk, and REALLY feel around you. If they’re acting strangely or in any unhealthy way for a relationship, it’s indeed time to bring it up to them and talk about it. If they continue lying during that talk, you get the message and should dump them. It may be a difficult process, but it’s worth saving yourself from severe heartbreak in the end. Believe me, I’ve been under a bad situation of a liar for a lover and it is about as bad as a one-sided relationship. Don’t take this as criticism or as an insult, I’m just giving some serious advice.
The dynamic style of this animation is hiding something...distracting us from the truth within this video. I can taste it.
I can taste it....
Jojo REFERENCE
@Jay L What is this comment.
What do you think it's hiding? Take a guess :P
I think it tastes spicy what do YOU think? Tell me backwards
😭😭😭😭
I have ASD and I’m always accused of lying because my face doesn’t match what I say. However, in cases I lied, I am weirdly convincing. Unfortunately, anytime I get accused of lying, I’m telling the truth.
Yeah... As an autistic person myself, I've been accused of all sorts of things.
Evasiveness is suspicious af. Particularly if they avoid you on top of it. If they can stay in your neighborhood and in touch, there's no risk.
When police are the liars, you have a bigger problem.
Meanwhile me with autism and ADHD: when I tell lies I am literally 100% convincing but if there was a lie detector then I would get worried and like anxious but then when I tell the truth it seems like a lie to them or whenever there talking to me I just don’t look at them :/
So true I use to be punished all the time for telling the truth. So much so to the point the real lier perpetrators domestic violence are protected and the victim myself are nearly murdered and the children also suffer harm because they didn’t listen. Life has been sucked out of us to protect the lier. Great harm. Yes I’m ASD.
"Cannot maintain ye contact"
"inconsistency"
Me: What if it's only because of social anxiety
MizuAchi me.... me too
yeah most of the signs can check out for social anxiety lmfao
Wr nul THAT MAKES ME FEEL BETTER.
“I... didn’t know I was lying.”
I hate eye contact, I get so uncomfortable
a person with social anxiety will always act the same, a person lying only acts like this when they're lying
the eye contact sucks for me because i genuinely cannot keep eye contact with people in day to day life because i feel like they won’t like me looking at them or that it’s awkward, so a lot of people think i’m lying when i’m being honest.
edit: thankyou for the likes guys!!
I agree! But i can keep eye contact while lying
To make you feel comfortable when looking at people's faces just stare them on the forehead if you don't feel uncomfortable
Same
Yeh same but with all of them except brain power and true emotions, so if we use this logic then people would think I'm Lying all the time which just isnt true
Imagine Liars that watch this video taking notes too to avoid getting caught lol
That's why we made it. So liars can become experts (sarcasm intended)
@@Psych2go Some people are just natural born liars, those are the ones you have to be careful about.
Well we all lie so...
@@Ssnimemk Yep, and there are different degrees of lying, everyone does the simplest and easiest one, but only extremely skilled people and people who have a specific reason to lie will do it to the extreme. The easiest is just lying to someone if you got them something only to surprise them later, the extreme or hardest is far more complicated.
So ProJared, you mean?
Best tips ever! Turns out that I have had a lot of people lying to me. Now I am ready to accuse them and get them in the guilty zone.
I CAUGHT MY FRIEND LYING ABOUT HIS GAME PROGRESS, THANKSSSSSSS
@Mikayla D
Ye coz it makes me feel im a nubie for having a low game progress....
Δ _ Δ
@F F ok but it's fckin game progress
As I always say
“‘The best lie is the truth’”
=D
I think your lying
Its not a lie if you reconstruct the truth
🤔
🙂
you can tell people are lying when they self destruct too.
Good point, ddi you want to elaborate on this?
It also helps if you know something they don't, or you both know the same thing but they think you don't know, that happened to me and it irritated me, being lied to, this was via online text.
What do u mean by self destruct?
in Reality I have no sense of I and even less one I am proud and happy about....
So I compensate with narcish tendencies.... and with fake achievement.....
I try to overcompensate with physical non achievement... at which all people are better and superior than me
Same for fake superficial philosophy and psychology.... I'm just an unknowing pathetic amateur nerd
*_28 STAB WOUNDS_*
As a person who used to have a bad habit of lying very often(and I still throw out the occasional small one out of reflex from time to time, working on it), I came to realize while watching this both what I've noticed and improved upon already(control your emotions, pre-create your story at least a little, approach confidently and calmly) and where I had fallen short as a younger liar(I blinked quite a bit, and I held facial expressions too long).
I take your psychology with gratitude, and silently add it to my arsenal of lie-crafting tools XD
Oh Jesus, you’re cold, you’re kinda edgy. Jeez
The sad thing is when you know someone is outright lying to you but you just cannot believe they could do it to you 😕
The skilled manipulator learns to be indiscriminate with their lies.
Felt that today she literally laughed and thinks I don’t know she’s lying but it’s alright 😭she doesn’t know I’m a better liar than her
Been there, done that. It forced me into a course of action I didn't want to take, and the person denied going behind my back, lying, all of thst. I think what angered me the most is, they obviously thought I was stupid. Cue shit hitting fan.
no the sad thing is EVERYONE is capable of lying even those who never lied (cause that doesnt exist, everyone lied at a point in their life for this or that reason)
I deal with that all the time. I feel for you
I couldn’t tell my story backwards even if I was telling the truth
What they meant with that. Is that when someone makes a story to lie about something they create a chronological unfold of events. The story might seem real and very well spoken with ease.. But if you just ask them to tell it backwards their brains will slow down considerably.. When you speak truth it's almost like a flow backwards yeah sure you can lose a few seconds but will come out as genuine. Not in a story processed in only a way of events 😉
Same
I’m going to try and use that strategy on my friend who lies 24/7 and I’m the only person who can tell when she’s lying
I woke up, had breakfast, had a shower then brushed my teeth
I had a shower, brushed my teeth then head breakfast
So you’re a liar then lol
You can tell they're lying when their pants burst into flames
McDonald's Employeee yes
Lol
If only! 🤣
..or their nose suddenly starts to grow lol
I wish
Small problem with this, a good amount of these behaviors are also traits of people who have certain anxiety disorders
“I love you, sweetie!”
“SAY THAT BACKWARDS”
Papa Shpee
*Yoda noises intensifies*
"!eiteews ,uoy evol I"
"sweetie, I love you"
Or sweetie you love i.
My dad said that and still hasn't came back from the supermarket with the milk------ yeah he definitely lied
Legend has it
He’s still smiling to this day
4:53
Creepy 😟
Hmmmm machael Jackson?XDDDD
Ok
I was laughing on seeing his expression
3:00 Actually, that isn't a solid sign that the person is lying. They could have ADHD and stuff like that, and then they could just have trouble maintaining eye contact in general, and maybe they heard a noise and even seeing a moving car! There is many instances where that is wrong. One of the main signs they are lying is freezing in place, heart beat change and/or increased pauses between speaking.
Unless I'm mad I can't look people in the eye with out smiling
I hqve ADHD
And for the blinking one I have torretets and ADHD (a bit) so it doesn't really aply to me
Well, the main signs you're mentioning as being more reliable can be related to loads of other stuff too: context, stress, emotional overload, anxiety, depression, trauma....
Yes yeah yup indeed and of course, of course.
Be truthful to yourself and others and you’ll naturally spot anyone who does differently.
The eye contact one bothers me, because I’m an honest person, but suck at eye contact when speaking. My mind blanks if I look at people the while talking.
Also I needed this because I know someone very close to me that is a good liar. I want more confirmation with his body language. So thank you.
@Alida Green
Absolutely. I have one of those as well and he always gives himself up when he starts explaining something I didn't even ask about.
Look up the pantomimes, Rascal Ragdoll. Far more informative than this video.
Traci-Jean Behind Blue Eyes
Thank you for the recommendation.
I’ve heard of the extra details thing as well, but forgot about it. Thanks for that as well guys.
@@rascalragdoll182
You're welcome. 😊
With mine it's not just extra details. He will come home and start explaining himself for absolutely no reason...I gave up asking a long time ago, but it's like he has a ready-made excuse and can't wait to use it. The dumbass doesn't even realize how guilty that makes him look...not to mention pathetic.
I hope everything works out for you and he turns out to be one of the honest ones. They're a rarity these days. Take care, hun. 😊
Liars have just gained 900+ knowledge
Great now we can't spot them ....
@@strudlasajabukama how?
I've now turned into
*Sherlock Holmes*
Your profile pic tho
AmySarah Ace baby alien lmao
no shite sherlock
Hello brother
@@CC-fh6yx brother 🤯
3:21 nah I’d be terrified whether I’m lying or not
Among Us Players:
Write That Down, *WRITE THAT DOWN*
But- nevermind.
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@@fedlawliet howw??
@ZOEY SMITH charles the french
@@zed5094 ඞ
plot twist: *shes lying about all of this*
Never thought about it that way
She is lying about the eye contact one. She might not know that, though
Edit: spelling
@@DjokaVeliki thank you
Dahm
That one dude that’s hot
3:01.
MYTH!🤥
Some people might maintain relatively little eye-contact when telling a true story, while practised liars can easily maintain eye contact while lying.
@dani cali unless you have enough experience not to do that
I've never done that when I lie look them straight in the eyes lmao
Is this an r/woosh moment??
wow do u want a award?
Crina_ Marian your kinda wrong
I love you guys!! As an ADHD who struggles to make eye contact due to low dopamine levels and taking time to consider my answers to best succinctly answer a question, due to my impulsivity both suggest I’m a liar - when in fact I am a shit liar and am very focused on answering with clarity.
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that basically has to do with motivation, desires, etc.
I don't see how dopamine applies here
Nice try
"Frequent blinking is linked to masked emotions"
me, someone who has really dry eyes very often: what
Sad Satan *fingerguns* ayyyyyyy
Sad Satan I just get nervous and never saw anything wrong with it till now 😂
I have really dry eyes too
Then they should see an eye doctor for that. Eye drops too
Me: blinks while watching
*FBI OPEN UP*
???
ddd safey dog network remember what they said about blinking?
That’s the joke.
@@MK-qh7jq ohhhh thanks
Darn I gotta manually blink now...
But for eye contact, there could be other reasons, too: Autism, social anxiety, etc...
Yes, it's a bad stereotype, which makes life for these people more difficult, because they have to maintain eye contact, even if this stresses them out...
Well im shy so i cant make eye contact that long
ADHD too.
@@axew3127 I didn't know that. Thanks for mentioning!
Literally everytime I tell the truth but smile at the same time people think I'm lying just because I'm smiling 😭
Met so many lying minipulative people with hidden agendas, no integrity. It's become second nature to spot them and read all the signs. So predictable! So superficial and the insincerity is a dead giveaway.
4:50 Made me laugh for a good few minutes. Whoever the artist is for this, thank you for making me laugh, you did a fantastic job.
Kyle Graham! You can check him out here: ruclips.net/user/studioBOMBSHELL
@@Psych2go Thank you, I will when I have a chance. He is really talented, I hope he does more.
@@Psych2go Pls subscribe to jake paul and logan paul
@@jynx3978 We're already subscribed. Can you ask them to subscribe to us?
Psych2Go did you notice all of the jojo references they made?
I wont ever lie again. Learned this in my twenties. You have to remember what you lied about and continue to lie. "What a tangled web we have weaved, if at first we learn to deceive". Also, once you are caught in a lie once, every else becomes tainted
Yes me too!!! Too much work, never worth it.
Sadly, people who are traumatized from long-term abuse show most of the same signs
I was thinking the same thing. My therapist mistakenly diagnosed me with NPD instead of severe depression/cptsd.
@@domo201 there's some rational amounts of overlap... and I'm right there with you on both of those. Have you looked into narcissistic abuse? Victims can morph into abusers if they aren't fully aware of how the behaviors may be manifesting for them or their friends/family (or you may tell yourself it's something good, when it really isn't)
Yep...ive been through horrific abuse and I know I show some of these signs...im grateful to have a good trained therapist who knows better in my case
Hocker Well I don’t mean to brag but I’m pretty self aware, I’m not anywhere close to abusive. I would think victims are good natured since they know the pain of abuse, at least that’s my experience
I suffered many forms of abuse for many years by many members of my family growing up. A lot of it from simply one person. She was the worst offender. Yet everyone else turned a blind eye until it would look even worse if they got caught.
One of the big things she would do that still bothers me even to this day is call me a liar even when I was being 100% honest. So now, I have a hard time maintaining eye contact with anyone. Even in casual conversation. But especially when facing confrontation.
So...hearing facts like that and being told it's a definitive telltale sign...
Watching this to get even better at lying. Lying is a skill I want to be able to do on the spot if needed or to benefit me. Thanks for the tips on what not to do
Same
I’m literally doing this to lie too
"Eye contact is linked with truthfulness"
so my whole life is a lie...
Agree, scammers and pathological liars are unsettling. Everything is wrong and artificial but they'll look you in the eyes without blinking. (Bad ones look over your shoulder)
except in those people's case who get tensed or scared quickly
Me who tells the truth without eye contact because I get uncomfortable with eye contact especially with my social anxiety:
Some people are naturally dislike to make eye contact because of their shyness,introverted character or few other reasons.And it's totaly okay!
No doubt. Throughout my childhood I had it beat into me how important it was to make eye contact during a conversation (or interrogation). I could force myself, briefly, but my focus would quickly and inadvertently wander. In my thirties I was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome. My son also abhors eye contact just the same. Those jackoffs that place such a premium on the value of eye contact can go suck the big one.
*I tried this on my dad and i learned i was adopted*
Erich von Manstein really?
@@veyolaski4324 no you dummy lmfao
Lol
Erich von Manstein ok
Michael Xia r/wooooosh
I never had a direct eye contact with someone because it makes me feel uncomfortable, looking at someone in the eyes reminds me that they're actually looking straight at me and that makes me insecure.
I found a blink 👏👏
I love staring
Me too :(
only ugly and low self esteem people have this problem...
Maybe u have ADHD or ur just insecure.
1 )Evasiveness
2 )Inconsistencies
3 )Simulated Facial Expressions
4 )Not Maintaining Eye Contact
5 )Can't Handle Unexpected Questions
6 )Microexpressions
7 )Blinking
8 )Play Devils Advocate
Extremly good liars may even show the opposite:
Rarely ever blinking (to maintain eye contact), or being completely still, showing to much information.
Do you want to show a little of lying and truth? Like somewhat maintain eye contact and blink and use half truths? I’m not sure how to tell a liar from a truthful person.
@@exoticcats6119 I meant that talented liars know the red flags to avoid but they are not immune to these signs.
It is just more difficult to spot there games.
Having anxiety, I think about things like this when I get nervous because I don't want people to think I'm lying/unqualified to do what I'm saying. It would be awesome to see a video teaching us how to discern between a liar and someone with ptsd having a bad day.
thank you for that comment. I couldn't lie it makes me feel ill and my conscience wouldn't let me or my morals, but I suffer with impaired cognizance so a few of these "tips" apply to me. I can't remember what I ate the day before or what I might have been wearing, I never have been able to answer an out of the blue question right away. THanks to my service time in the military, I'm damaged goods.
100% agree!
@@ateachableheart2649 I feel you there, I'm in the same boat. If it's anything of a silver lining though, at least its given us the compassion to see not everyone with these expressions as inherently bad.
THIS
Yes indeed someone may be in a bad mood have a bad memory a mental illness or all three at once. they have their own signs of lying that may be different from the usual lol
i think you missed the high voice tone.
when my friend attempts to lie, her high tone always rats the lie out.
Hinata Byrer And laughing
And fiddling with there hands or something like that
I remember seeing a vine about that
Looking at the floor
Or
Not making eye contact
another person lack of eye contact is proven to be more truthful it’s the ones that DO give you more eye contact that are likely lying. Look it up
You can’t just ask a liar to tell there story backwards they’ll freak out and call you crazy
*Uuh is a sign of lying*
Me, who says "uuh" every 5 seconds of speaking: *intensive uuuuuuhing*
Uh, what?
Eh, I am 1,000 years old. Eh
Uhm _____________ and uhmmm _____ ehhh I don't know
Actually lots of people say uh. It's a thing humans do when they are thinking, not everyone can remember things.
@@cornwall8029 GUHAN DEH HUSKEH. I've been subscribed to him since the very beginning, I love him.
Actually the first time I caught a liar was in 3rd grade when someone from behind me was tugging my hair. I looked back and saw everyone was busy because it was math so everyone was serious
I minded my own business until the tugging continued. I looked back and stared at everyone behind me. Everyone else was saying "What did I do" But one said "Why are you looking at me like that, I wasn't the one who tugged you're hair!" it was him, I never told anyone why I was staring at them. I felt like a genius.
That is not proof that he did it. He probably saw the person that did it so he was afraid you thought it was him. The other ppl that said "what did i do" is probably the liar. Because no one is stupid enough to say "i didnt do it".
ZiCat Well if he saw someone do it they saw who the person was so they could’ve simply said “I saw *insert person* tugging at your hair”
yes because no one ever knew why u were staring at them soo...
@@zicat7994 no one knew why she was starting at them so how did the guy know why?
@@zicat7994 No one knew that person was tugging their hair. But that person said, I wasn’t tugging your hair. So it’s obvious it was him/her
"Where's the vase?"
"Oh the cat broke it."
"The cat is right here"
"FUUUUUUUUUUUUU-"
The cat can teleport. No, *mom* , I have NOT been playing too much Minecraft.
MaronaPossessed NO ANOTHER CAT BROKE IT!
@@Hazyla The other cat is right here.
You: FUUUUUUUUUUUUUU-
YUR GOING TO JAIL FOR L Y I N G
The eye contact thing isn't always true .. it's been found that most children that's been in foster care or are orphans, don't make eye contact with adults or peers around them when they talk, or they don't hold eye contact constantly because of a deep rooted feeling of incompetence or as if they aren't good enough...
90%: ..... sO THEY ARE LYING!
10%: Lol. I'mma go use this to do "non-shady" stuff.
That's actually not true body laungue is only accurate about 70 percent of the time.
Which mean's they get it wrong about 30 percent.
People which rely on a certain tool to spot lying over exaggerate the effectiveness of their technique.
Take polygraph examiner's they say science back's up them being 98 percent accurate but the study's I have seen say they are 70 percent accurate at the most.
But most study's say their 60 percent accurate so it's safe to say a polygraph is accuare about 60 percent and has a 40 percent fail rate.
At most you can say their are signs of lying but these signs are not unique to lying.
Alternate title: 10 tips to avoid getting caught lying
Here.🏆You win most underrated comment of the day.
bruh
@@tjf5148 thats not lying
also if someone asks you a question not responding is a little sus
Yes 👍
Lmfao, that' s to funny! They should post a video like that! I wonder how diffrent the tips would be 🤣😅🤔
"No that's Wrong!"
-Every Danganronpa main character
Was hoping I'd find someone who saw the reference
HOLD IT!
@@beatriceswartz9243 HOPE....
@@akt.y I didn't even notice I said hope
@@beatriceswartz9243 but you did :]
The evasiveness! My brother does that. Not only does he do that, he also tries to change the topic and I can slip up on him and flat up ask "Hey, y/n, did the chocolates you steal taste good?" But if I don't wear him down first and spring the question immediately, it's often hard.
"They often forget"
Me: *Has 16GB of sh*tty memory for a brain* "Well sh*t"
Lmao, me too
I DO OFTEN FORGET
Exactly
I have 8GB of a mind
I remember when 16GB was not too bad lol
5:31 wait, hold on... did that person just put two tallies on the paper in one stroke?
They have Knowledge 900+
Ye one for being obvious and one for blinking :D
@@strawberryneedshelp361 is that a compliment or an insult? Either way, thanks
@@thisisepic3052 wut
@Joshua Playz games OR IS IT
Me, forgetful and awkward: I guess I’m a liar
Daniel Makes Cadences that's exactly what I was thinking
Daniel Makes Cadences How could you lie and not know it? That literally makes no since.
Same.
@@blaisefontenot3570 He ment that this is how he behaves normally
Even though I'm the same like you, I can still lie.
It also helps if you get to know a person better. The most important thing about lie detecting is knowing a person's baseline behavior when they are not trying to lie. Then, if there is any deviating behavior, you can then have an easier time spotting it.
Unless they have a personality disorder. They lie for a living, so it feels natural, as natural as telling the truth. Unfortunately, I have seen it in action. They study videos like this.
OBJECTION
TAKE THAT
srsly the thumbnail remind me of ace attorney
Ikr. I saw that too
for me it reminded me of Danganropa
And the imminent dramatic breakdown afterwards lmao
Keshia Annisa Putri IKR
Ikr
Video: blinking is a sign of lying
Me: I'll never blink again 👁👁
you'll get dry eye, my friend
*_L i a r_*
This video means when you’re blinking a lot
I have mild tourettes and it makes me blink a ton
You know? That's an obvious lie.
Lying is deceptive so it can't be that easy to see a lie for what it is
I say I don’t know/I don’t remember a lot.
I’m inconsistent sometimes(cuz I remember things _after_ I say something sometimes).
I almost never maintain eye contact (The longest I’ve kept eye contact was like maybe a little over 10 seconds).
I do this in normal convo, even when I’m not lying...
Liar! (Jk, me too~)
Same
Yo same
Galaxy Bagel Is that Mikan-
@@Cotton_Candy.__ Yep!
Worst attemptive lie: I asked my friend to meet in our village he said he can't he's not at home, but we share our snapchat location and his snapchat location said he's at home, so I told him his snapchat location says you're at home and in future no need to lie you can just say no, he said his snapchat location was a error then immediatley turns shared location off and again says he's not at home.
bad friend :(
My girlfriend lied to me. I broke up with her, and looking back now with the perspective of this video, I could've pointed specific points out about how I knew she was. I'm going to be more aware now 😄
Good luck and sorry about your past experience. Hopefully, you find a keeper!
Dont be sorry u ahould learn thiss in real lige. Nd reflect over it in. Movie
@@stefanandersen7726 what? XD
I’ve come clean in someways but not in other ways not so. I’ve still got so much more room to grow I want that I know it’s in me and I just want to say thank you, you have help me through a lot and I mean a lot
i find it so hard to stare someone in the eyes even when I'm telling the truth and not start smiling and laughing
Maybe you are having a hard time to speak how you feel which can make the situation clumsy. For example, "I have a crush on you."
@@LongCOVIDAdvocator I don't think so, even in common situation for some poeple staring in the eye is hard, for exemple I cna never stare in the eyes of my friend or family
Yeah, same
Person: Tell me about your experiences dating.
Me: I am unable to keep this story straight.
Oof
This video is seriously upbeat! It looks like a hip hop videoclip, for some reason, that and it also looks like a Danganronpa trial... I love it!
Duarte Santos Kyle has a really unique vibe to his work :)
Lmao i agree with danganronpa comparison
I swear to god I will respond to any comments that have DR in it and it is true about it being like danganronpa (Kokichi is an expert Liar, I don’t think he’ll fall for these lmao)
I had to see this, because I had a strange feeling that gossip people where telling me was true or false. Thanks for this ❤
Eye Contact is a bit more "complex" simply because avoiding eye Contact is sometimes just a natural thing in some people like myself, recently I started seeing patterns in my eye contact behaviour, I realized making steady eye contact makes me feel restless and uncomfortable. I would like to know more about this.
If someone stares at you without blinking, don’t trust them.
Too much eye contact is also a sign of lying
You guys are right lol, I have trouble with eye contact because I'm on the Autism Spectrum, though I've realized I can hold eye contact longer with people I have developed relationships with and trust :0
I'm also an aspie, and making eye contact feels really aggressive to me, super uncomfortable ( I can't imagine anyone thinking it's pleasurable or natural; and if a person is more than 3 feet from me I can't tell what they're looking at, although that may have more to do with having double vision ). I also read a psych today article that said liars will make more eye contact to see if you're buying their lie. If you're talking to me and I'm looking around, I'm seeing stuff inside my head; images that your conversation is creating. When given an association test and told to say the first thing that occurs: They say "black" and I see black cardboard so I say "cardboard". When they say "right" I see the word "right" and frankly don't know how to respond to that. So ... the eye contact rule is fraught with "exceptions" that require intimate knowledge.
Bro I'm just like u when I saw this vid I got scared that ppl actually think I'm lying if I don't make eye contact coz i always don't make eye contact it's so hard to do and it's uncomfortable
Me throughout the video: Ok don’t do that next time.
Here is a better technique passed down from generations:
Observe the suspects trousers, if they are indeed on fire, then you have a liar.
What the heck?
@@lyrariddle4067 It's the "liar liar pants on fire" thing
Oh yeah, the liar liar pants on fire rhyme! haha
Lol!
Liar,liar pants on fire.
"They cant handle unexpected questions." Gotta disagree on this one. When I've been accused of doing something I actually didn't do, because I strive to be honest in general it takes me a bit to consider whether something I did could have been interpreted as that act. I instinctively give the accusation the benefit of the doubt and thus my response might come across as calculated or over-considered, but in fact it's because it's shocking to me that somebody might deliberately lie about me.
I have a bad stutter and people think I’m lying when I talk 🤦🏻♀️😂
Same story man but it only is true if im talking to my scary brother or my parents
im asian.
When I’m lying my mum looks me in the face and it makes me smile but even when I’m telling to truth it still makes me freaking smile
@@whatsmysexuality6536 if you smile every time it gets harder for them to tell if youre lying or telling the truth since it happens whether youre telling the truth or lying
Sam3
I was five when I caught a liar
It was me
Edit: press Q to yeet ice age baby
I see you are lying or not
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@Gacha Gamer basically the gacha raid is when everyone from the gacha community raids multiple channels
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I will vote u
I can prove you right
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(3:20) I'm just incapable of looking people in the eye because it makes me all nervous
Eye contact is a no go for me
Crap
You said mass binking is linked with lying but I blink every 2 second even if I am not talking! I do this because my eyes dry out often so i try to keep the moist.
I cant keep eye contact because i get stressed so i blink lots
Oh jesus, people probably think i'm lying then. For some reason during the day i'll just start blinking rapidly.
I usually blink because I wear contacts.
**MOIST**
Elioo_ RedRose
Fuckin liar
funny how a lot of these "liar" traits also apply to abuse victims. evasion, simulated facial expressions, not maintaining eye contact, inability to answer unexpected questions, microexpressions, blinking, the gang's all here. very funny. *very, very funny.*
So the child abuse is the reason I do these things. Thanks!
I genuinely have a hard time saying stories backwards because of my bad memory.
Even when I'm telling the truth about a story
same and i can’t even remember what i ate or what i was wearing
@@versette7950 same
Same I can't even remember things that happened two days ago
@@takeoutant9839 you guys can remember thing?
@@petergriffin6917 hol up
My ex in a nutshell. Never had I met someone with such a simultaneously great and terrible memory. "It was exactly this" turned into "I don't remember at all" so fast it was like instant amnesia if she felt like it.
kokichi watched this video, that’s why he’s good at it.
Shuichi: That's Make sense and he's my grape boi~
But I give him my love still!!!
Kokichi: Now that's not lie
You meant shuichi! I played all of the games, including despair resists which is the first ever danganronpa game
Y e s
You mean Eleni
@@whatsmysexuality6536 huh? who's that?