As long as we have empathy for ourselves as well as others and don’t use it as an excuse to let people hurt us. Empathy is great, but it doesn’t mean it didn’t still hurt. My favourite variation goes: “hurt people hurt people but that’s no excuse to hurt me”
@Rafsanul_Haq_6 I don't think they don't deserve empathy and kindness. What I really think is that all human beings do deserve it, and have the rights for it by just existing. That includes you and me. Even though they deserve kindness and empathy, YOU deserve peace it's self love not to want the worst for yourself yourself
Such a good mantra. Ppl who secretly want you to fail, will do or say anything to see your life crumble if given the opportunity. So don’t let them have it.
@@ABCDEF-jh5bp Isn't that just like saying everyone including ourselves thinks like that? I personally don't mind other's success. To each their own anyway.
As soon as I notice red flags of a jealous friend, I try to avoid and distance myself from that person. Jealousy is a seed that would grow into resentment, toxicity and other negative stuff. I have to avoid those people as soon as possible.
Thats' a good approach as you will keep away from toxic behaviours and unsaid words. But if it's a close friend, it might also be helpful to initially communicate.
@@Psych2goI agree, I'm a person that's very prone to jealousy and I'd like to and am working on that, and I think it'd be really sad if a friend just abandoned me for that
That could result in isolating yourself or your friend. Try to tell your friend about those red flags. Ask them why they are act like that. Friends are better be open with each other than avoid each other without saying anything.
I had a friend in middle school who was my ‘best friend’. She would always go around telling my other friends lies, like that I stole something from someone or something like it. She would always gatekeep, gossip or play victim. I’m glad I found better friends
I'm happy to hear that you were able to find new friends. Sometimes, people may not know how to deal with jealousy and try to bring their friends down with them.
I have a friend like this right now and I’m planning on ending the friendship next year. I invited him into my other group of friends and I believe he’s successfully turned them all against me so now I’m possibly going to have to make new friends but I’m just glad that toxic friend will not be in my life anymore and won’t have access to my new friend group.
Dealt with all of these No more headaches having cut them all off. Solitude for this dude is very refreshing. Loneliness doesn’t occur around toxic people. You value alone time.
I let go of a 15-year-friendship. The signs of jealousy were there for a long time, but I ‘tried’ to ignore them. Until, she made a comment about one of my kids. That was it for me. That ‘let go’ was 8 years ago. No regret. 👍🏽💕
Achievement unlocked: Timestamper 0:42 Competition 1:26 Critical Much 2:08 smear campaign 3:10 Backhanded Compliments 4:09 A form of flattery 5:00 Hot and Cold 5:49 Clingy You are welcome B)
I had a friend for 5 year. She was constantly competitive with me and extremely harsh and critical. She was praying on my downfall. The more I was with her the more I was miserable ,and she seemed to like it. As soon as my life would improve, she would seem uninterested and every time we would have an argument (she was extremely demanding, I had to be available 24/7 for her and answer to all her messages and calls within minutes…) something bad would happen to me. She was always complaining and hateful towards strangers. I really regret those 5 years that I gave her my friendship.
Honestly I don't know how to be jealous of anyone at all because I'm only competing with myself and I and whenever my friends become successful I celebrate with them with no pretending because I'm genuinely happy about their successes
@@tdesq.2463 thanks, it's hard for me to be jealous of one's success because I'm not competing with them, I'm only competing with myself. Whenever one of my friends or family succeeds, I congragulate them and be motivated only
Guess I'm not 😂😂😂 I honestly despise anyone who is better than me mainly because I should be 100 times better than them but life conspires against me to make it so I never improve. The effortless and unworthy are the ones who get rewarded it seems. I don't have any friends so I don't have to worry about it
This is literally what's wrong with my current friendships , my friend is jealous of me ,being the school topper and I'm jealous because she's the social butterfly I probably should talk to her 😅
@2Cute2Eat, well, staying like that won't solve the issue either. It might ruin your friendship, too, you know? Ik it can be difficult to address such things but you need to do it to preserve this friendship
@@Inspired_by_Sarah I 2nd the Motion. There's an open wound here, and it needs to be cleaned and stitched up before an insidious infection takes hold. Don't let it get ugly. Seriously.
wow, so much of this hit home. I am a boss but I never call myself the boss as we’re a small company. I’ve had many employees over the past 40 years act as if we’re best friends to only find out they spread evil words to other employees to try and win them over from liking me. But to my face they are sweet as apple pie. When called out, the response is always SHOCK. “How could you accuse me of such actions, after all I do for you!” I feel like I lost a friend and an employee as the relationship never lasts long after being called out. I let a lot slide as I don’t want to knit pick but when people are attacked then I step in. Being a boss is complicated because you deal with FEELINGS and today everyone wears their feelings on their sleeves. Defensive and offensive come quick. Years ago if someone was hung over they would still come to work and try and hide the this from me. In the past 15 years not only do they tell me they’re going to get drunk tonight but they text out in the morning and have no issue saying they drank too much and have a headache. I feel Sick. Really?! I am talking about adults 30-50 years old.
I’m a content creator and the hardest lesson I had to learn was not every person following me is supportive nor does everyone in my circle actually want the best for me. I’ve had to disassociate with so many “friends” because they were discreetly envious of my success and it hurts because I’ve always cheered them on and wanted the best. After hearing another content creator say, “People will only support you until they start perceiving your success as a threat. Then they’ll begin to resent you”, I started paying real close attention to the way my at the time “friends” interacted with me. Unfortunately had to cut them off too. Edit: I had this one particular “friend” who actually ended up doing everything in this video, step by step in sequential order which lead to me disconnecting from them, except it go so bad to the point people started approaching me with concern wondering if I was aware of everything that was happening. Of course I was and attempted to initiate conversation about it but it got way too weird to even attempt salvaging the friendship.
I was once that jealous friend towards somebody I use to look up to online. We had a pretty good friendship until things began to crumble and they broke my heart, which made me became resentful not just by how they treated me, but the eventual success they got because of me. This led me into a very unhealthy life style of stalking their socials and bad mouthing them to the point where they had to block me. Now I don’t think about them as often anymore. I do still have moments where I get a tiny bit jealous of a creator’s success and wishing I had the same stuff like them, but I would have to remind myself that it’ll come eventually and that I should focus on myself. It’s painful, but I’m only human.
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Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Now that I watched this I start to understand why I often question myself "Why do I start to hate my friends so much?" or "Why am I pulling an all nighter for 4 days again to get ahead of her in a story quest or book". I do think she rubs her rich father's money in my face and I often wish for her life style. I've known her for two years but this last semester I felt an immense amount of anger when I looked at a new post of her's or a story. I'm really glad you make these types of videos it often helps me realise that maybe I'm the problem in the friendship and I should maybe try and confront them. But sometimes (knowing her) I feel like she would just laugh at my words. She often called me dumb while I was explaining a theory or a classical book's point. (Also, I apologize for any grammatical mistakes i'm really trying to improve my english and being the class topper in an other language is not enough, sorry if i used wierd phrases)
My 3 year friend was I think always jealous of me, god knows why because she was actually prettier and loved by more people than me, and had a boyfriend long before me. I never had a boyfriend. She always told me something mean whenever I came to school, for example: “you didn’t do your hair, it looks messy” or “ I don’t really like your outfit it doesn’t match you” it always brought me down and made me feel insecure, I just took her advice because i thought she knew what was best for me. little words of negativity can cut the deepest when used correctly. Now I decided to not be friends with her anymore because she would talk behind my back and make me feel insecure of how I look and act. 1 more thing I promise - with her I was in a group of 5 people the 5th doesn’t really matter much in this story. So basically I was best friends with one of them in the group because we had known each other for the longest time. She was best friends with the other girl in the group bc the other girl in the group was more “popular”. Anyway whenever my best friend and I would laugh together or something she would say “ you guys are really mean for leaving me out of your conversations” or “ fine, if you guys don’t want to be my friends anymore go away” in a rude manner, Whenever she would laugh with her best friend more than us we would be fine with that, we wouldn’t mind. She would also blame me for pointless stuff like if I don’t notice when she is upset. OH but she would NEVER blame her “popular” friend if her “popular “ friend would leave her alone and go be with other people, NO no never. Basically she preferred to be popular instead of loved, and would bring down people who she thought looked bad or didn’t act well mannered. ( also another toxic this was that she had a friend scale, she said”my best friend is first, your best friend is last, my other friend is 2nd and you’re 4th” and that’s very toxic. Or whenever she had a good grade she would say “omg, I’ve done horribly I’m so bad” and I would just feel bad bc I got a lower grade then her ( she doesn’t usually get good grades so it would be rare that she gets a good grade)
Thank you very much for the video! I have friends who always critic too much using joke and hot and cold. I thought it was normal to be honest since I thought they do not have anything to talk about. But, I always felt sad and unfair. This feeling is always happen when I am with the them. I thought it was me who was the issue as the others is okay. I need to let them know and walk away from group of friends that does not respect my concern.
Hurt people hurt people is a very dangerous generalization. This kind of careless compassion is a very common form of toxic positivitism I keep on hearing lately. You do not have to make amends with toxic people. You are allowed to cut them off, and you are allowed to not explain yourself, and you are allowed to not give them a chance or benefit of the doubt.
Very true! Short quotes like that tend to be massive generalizations that can easily be misinterpreted. Toxic optimism disguised as mental health advice does seem to be on the rise recently, especially with more and more outdated ideas slyly creeping into the newer generation's thought process.
Literally all my “friends” back to high school, Is painfull to have a friends that envy’s you but having a group of persons who are willing to hurt you because of envy you is a living hell. I rembenber having the worst self steam because I grew up in an abusive family, then going to school and spend time with all these “friends” really has put me down. I felt like if I was doomed or something. I hope I found a good psychologist and a good group of friends now that I’m an adult.
I realized I had become the jealous one, but being aware didn't make me get rid of that tomorrow tho; kept seeing my friend, and it didn't indeed. Many comments here said they distanced themselves from such toxic ppl because it was harmful and even traumatizing for their quality of life. So I decided to keep myself away from her, for her own good 'till I solve those bad things I'm projecting onto her. I really appreciate her, so I hope they (friend group) have someone healthier taking my place.
Timestamps 1). Competition 0:42 2). Critical much 1:25 3). Smear campaign 2:07 4). Backhanded compliments 3:08 5). A form of flattery 4:07 6). Hot and cold 4:59 7). Clingy 5:48 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Timestamps: 1:25 Constantly competing with you 1:42 Criticizing you 2:13 Smear campaigning (spreading rumors) 3:11 Backhanded compliments 4:10 Shamelessly copying your persona 5:01 Hot and cold emotions 5:48 Clingy behavior
I’ve experienced being jealous of my childhood friend which turned me into a crazy psycho. This includes my insecurities of not being able to drive due to vision impairment despite my belief that I can. That really fuels my fire. I recognized the signs of it when around one of my current friends. I finally figured out why I kind of liked hanging out with him due to his temporary personality since he becomes rude and disrespectful around the fall and winter due to trauma so I try to understand it while setting boundaries. But I often find myself comparing his achievements, confidences, and charisma that I lack. So I’m taking responsibility and action to address this issue to avoid negative decisions made due to jealousy. Jealousy is a strong emotion but can be managed and addressed.
I was once this person and well still a bit of this person remains, but if you struggle with issues like this you can become a better human being. Emotions are natural and they can be understood and overcome with time.
Timestamp! -0:42 Competition -1:25 Critical much? -2:08 Smear campaign -3:09 Backhanded compliments -4:08 A form of flattery? -5:00 Hot and Cold -5:49 Clingy
I have a friend that copies my chronic ILLNESSES. Now even claiming having the same GENETIC condition as me. I... I have no words. And we are grown ass adults!
I don't agree that friend who feels insecure after seeing his/her friend getting so close with other person/people is a toxic friend. Coz i personally 3xperienced the heinous consequences of it. I can't even describe how my BFF got attached with other people & kick3d me out of the friendly zone. So, I completely disagree with your point.
Jealously and envy have two faces: Wanting what someone has. Or: Wanting someone to not have what they have or could have without wanting their posession for yourself
@@seth2750 The time for you to change, for you to make a better life for yourself! To make more friends, even if you're friendless, you can make some friends, wether that'd be in work, school, ect. Even if you are friendless, by watching this video, you'll know when a friend is jealous of you quicker, so that you can cut that toxic friend out of your life quicker before you become more like him/her.
I had a online friend of 10 years, I always thought her copying me for my helpfulness and positive energy to make friends was kind of strange and a bit annoying to me. Fast forward to today, we are no longer friends because she got offended by a minor argument and instead of talking to me about it she went to my ex-bf and he absolutely blackmailed me cause she told him i had a new bf. I am glad I disconnected from her and my ex. It sucks that i couldn't say my part to the friends I shared with them because they all think I'm lying but having her to do something disgusting to run to my ex and him making threats to blackmail me was extremely traumatizing.
Just now, my joke about how spooky and scary I am turned to my friend saying I was heavily misinterpreting myself, and trying to gaslight my ability to read emotions. The main reason I thought of jealousy is that friend has had issues in the past that also point to mild jealousy. I’m most likely going to distance from them for a bit.
I dealt with this back in middle school. One of my "friends" was having a hard time with life (puberty, family drama, etc.), and they took it out on me. They tried to spread rumors about me, but it died out after a few hours. (I'm a very simple person.) They tried being snippy with me, but I never acted snippy back at them, so they just looked stupid. They'd butt into conversations, but I was just like: "Oh, you want a turn to speak? Okay. I'll go do something else." But it still hurt to have them act that way, because I honestly wondered what I did to upset them, and wanted to go back to being good friends. We happened to cross paths at a movie theater in our early 20s, and they IMMEDIATELY apologized for how they treated me 😊 which was nice.
Signs Your Friend is Jealous of You: 1. They are frequently competitive with you. 2. They are overly-critical of you. 3. They create a smear-campaign/gossip about you. 4. They give you back-handed compliments. 5. They start copying everything you do shamelessly. 6. They give you hot/cold treatment, meaning one moment they’re friendly with you but then next they’re emotionally distant. 7. They have possessive/clingy behavior over you.
I love your channel.. and it is very useful for me... but I find it difficult to understand everything... because I do not speak English well... I would be grateful if you would add a translation in Arabic, and thank you for your efforts. ❤❤❤
Jealousy and perfection go hand in hand I guess. Some people just aren't happy without the best of everything. At least that's the conclusion I've come up with. Maybe it's a defense mechanism. I don't understand it myself. Ill just see myself out.
Envy is Jealousy's dirty cousin. There's no problem wanting to work on yourself and aspire towards goals. But what happens when you spend all your time on perfection and making things just right? What if you never enjoy the opportunity in front on you? What if you spend so much time on perfection this fun opportunity doesn't bring joy? Your health and well being means more.
damn, the first girl buddy i got since primary school was my best friend back then but when we got into middle school she didnt talk to me, and i didnt talk back- so she found other friends and when we were at the last year of middle school i had a fight with a jealous classmate who acted like victim thats annoying nevermind that part but just after that event the 'buddy' i havent talk to for years came up to me, instead of asking how i was "you had a fight with that girl?" literally asking for materials to gossip, its disgusting.. i was the one who didnt left her out of friend groups and i was the one who held up a hand to them at primary school, she was ignored because she had an illness and i didnt like them get ignored but their last act from her wasnt something i deserved to get
I have a best friend who used to be jealous of me. The thing was he had a crazy crush on someone very famous, she was very beautiful and had a charming personality. She was friends with almost anyone so, she it was the same for me. That time I used to talk to her in chats cuz she was also my crush (it was pretty common cuz almost everyone had a crush on her) I was like a person who had higher self-esteem, I was a respected person in my friend group from very start people may treat me badly at first but after time they tend to respect me more (not bragging its just my personality) so in my perspective I was way out of her league so, I never tried to make a move on her. When I felt like she was just replying I left, simply left. When I stopped texting her she didn't bother it either so I was kinda disappointed and ended up losing a crush on her. After that I was living peacefully and normally existing I realized I was completely wrong she did think of me as someone important…like bro my buddy got completely jealous. The feeling was so strong that I could feel it he was introverted like me so he never had expectations from me that I would be highlighted like this. Luckily our relationship (with my buddy) was not that strong at that time so he didn't try any shit but after some time when we started to hangout more and became very good friends one day, That girl I mean her crush suddenly texted me to ask why I was not talking to her and all so misunderstanding cleared up and we were back to normal. But I mentioned this thing to my buddy that day I felt jealous of a sweet introverted guy I could feel the anger he had. He mentioned he was jealous of me and still, he is from a very long time. I was in complete shock who tf can be jealous of me (my whole life I lived like a side character that had no social life and no friend circle) he expressed it in a normal voice hiding his anger “I was thought from the beginning why this guy always gets eyes of everyone (I was silent all the time I was so insecure that I could never imagine people looking at me occasionally) why wherever he goes gets complete attention and now even my crush who rarely cares about me and many others but he got her attention every time she even mentioned this guy (me) many times, why are u like this I do not understand”. I was in complete shock and couldn’t process it…I kept arguing with him stop this bullshit tf are u saying (I still think it was complete bullshit I know he was just being delusional) but the reality was he was jealous. If he was an angry ungrateful person he could have created a whole drama. My point was I felt a little anger very often in btw our convo, he was competitive all of a sudden like he was competing with me even in normal convos it was like a friend who doesn't want me to be right in normal convos. Now it's all fixed we are still good buddy but what's really concerning is he still thinks of me as someone who is far better than him and could steal something from him luckily I didnt got that girl (idk why I said “luckily” lol) even today he noramally states that “thank god u were not here with me in the same coaching” he had new crush in her coaching Its kinda feel bad that just cuz was girl of whatever he was willing to stay happy even if I was away.
I would’ve been more supportive but my close friend had an anger issue and it resembles my childhood. So when she tried to make me apologize for things I didn’t do or she misunderstood my intentions, she wouldn’t talk to me but instead send these long messages when I asked her before not to. It’s because she accuses instead of asks and also got into the habit when we were young of yelling at me. She grew up without her mother but I feel that’s not a good excuse to mistreat me because we’ve been like family. My own mother with defend others against me so I just let her explode on me for the last time.
I noticed my friend, when we in company with other people, she would correct me unnecessarily with some alternative way of doing something that i suggested, often about things she knew nothing about. And that little patronising laugh. I pointed it out to her, then deleted and blocked😊
I had this toxic friend, and I knew she was toxic and already having things like depression and ptsd so her comments harmed me most, I knew she was toxic but I just couldn’t let go, she was the only friend I had and I would’ve gone crazy if I was alone… probably suicided or something because my parents were abusive and without anyone missing me I would’ve done something…
Not really related to the video titles but I happen to attend the same class with my classmate, and after a while I realize that I am jealous of her because of some talents she have. Kinda hard for me to be true to myself at first but after I learned about something like "accepting your feelings" etc..., I have no more fear of stating what I truly feels about events, things, people. I was scared of being judged and have a pressure to "becoming a good person" in the past, so I tried to persuade myself that I have to be kind to others, not to angry at someone or must not jealous with people's success but instead praise it. Now I think yeah its okay to not feeling happy for others for victory/achievements/talents if they make me feel ashamed, self-doubt and hopeless because I don't have that same kind of victory/achievements/talents. (For me, this phenomenon could occurs for some specific reasons/person at times, not everything, anybody could triggers that jealousy from me LOL). For those make me feel like a "loser" like what I stated before, I would maintain a distance with them so I would not hurt them or let the feelings hurt me. Welp, at least I don't trying to be close with them and talking behind their backs right?
The fact that i knew all along that my best friend and my other friend were jealous, and i still friends with them its because i dont wanna be that rude to them but srsly i really cant deal with them..
I was a jealous person towards my friend but she dealt with me in a wrong way (ghosting me and doing the same thing towards me) and that really hurt me and it made me confused if i was the bad person or not. I explained to her why im acting this way but she showed no interest abt it.
My older and only sister is like that with me .. she hurt me many of time's where our relationship is close but afar at the same time .. like she's a narcissist and can be just rude one minute and fake nice another minute.
Can you guys please make a vid on people living with a record? My family has been significantly impacted by an event. I feel like it'd help a lot of people, especially since it's so stigmatized :(
I feel like I am that jealous friend but It does not mean I am that toxic (I hope), I try to still look out for my friend but left with so much heartache. I hate and feel jealous to her but still care so much not to hurt her even if she hurts me.
I wouldn't be so sure if my friend is jealous of me but.. there's just something about her behavior that I don't like, sometimes she's always trying to copy me like what games I play, who I talk to, and do stuff that I do and I don't like it because I don't really consider her as my best friend but we're somehow close, she also throws backhanded compliment or idk what to call it but for example a friend of mine is calling me "cute" then she tells my friend "oh but you're cuter" that happened so many times, another friend also said i'm charismatic and her reaction was like "huh" she was disagreeing with it, until now i dont even know if I like her or not, i don't even know if i can learn how to like her because we have been friends and talking for almost 2 years but she's "scared" of me.. like how can you be my friend if you're scared of me wth!! i feel like she has been talking to her friend about me because even her friend says i'm scary or intimidating :/ well i have a real friend though, she's part of our friend group but she's not scared of me, she's the only one in the friend group i consider my best friend
does anyone have experience this : when they have a hard time they hang out with you but when they have a little succeed they look down on you, sorry for my bad eng
As a jelous friend, it’s not my fault bro. She gets things so easily. I spend 6 years on a sport, thousands of first and second places, and she does it for one month and suddenly she’s known at school for that sport. Get out.
Recently my best friend broke up with me because I was friends with another friend that she didn't like and it's not like I ignored my best friend or anything. No, I was just friends with her normally, I was also friends with another girl and she simply didn't like her very much because she did something bad to her and because she didn't like her, she said she would break up with me too because I was friends with her😢
One time, I heard my supposed to be close friend said a sentence to my other friends. The sentence are "don't you guys think her(my name) smile is kinda scary". I I understand cause you can see my 4 fangs when i laugh and smile, but that was truly hurt my feelings. I have insecurity of smiling and showing teeth to my non family till now. What do you guys think? Is that jealousy or something else??
Jealousy is wanting to keep something for yourself. Wanting what someone else has is envy. The song Jesse's Girl is about envy. The song Thief of Hearts is about jealousy. These words are OPPOSITE sides of the same coin. We have /different/ words because they have /different/ meanings. These words are NOT interchangeable.
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"Hurt people hurt people" that is a quote I'll remember. It gives me a bit of empathy for the bad guy ngl
That's a great quote!
thats from project nightfall
As long as we have empathy for ourselves as well as others and don’t use it as an excuse to let people hurt us. Empathy is great, but it doesn’t mean it didn’t still hurt.
My favourite variation goes:
“hurt people hurt people but that’s no excuse to hurt me”
@@PsycloneSarah Yeah, agreed, that's probably the best version of it
@Rafsanul_Haq_6 I don't think they don't deserve empathy and kindness. What I really think is that all human beings do deserve it, and have the rights for it by just existing. That includes you and me. Even though they deserve kindness and empathy, YOU deserve peace it's self love not to want the worst for yourself yourself
I rather be alone than be around people who secretly want me to fail. I may not be perfect, but at least I'm straight with people.
This.
Such a good mantra. Ppl who secretly want you to fail, will do or say anything to see your life crumble if given the opportunity. So don’t let them have it.
honestly, most people will want their friend to fail, this is bad but it is like instinct
@@ABCDEF-jh5bp unfortunately. With friends like these, who needs enemies? 🤷♂️
@@ABCDEF-jh5bp Isn't that just like saying everyone including ourselves thinks like that? I personally don't mind other's success. To each their own anyway.
Having no friends is far better than having thousands of fake friends😌, trust the time and process and move forward 😊
That's true. Time will help you find the right friends and a good mindset.
No friends is no good either, so maybe is better to be more selective about friends. By having a standard, for example.
As soon as I notice red flags of a jealous friend, I try to avoid and distance myself from that person.
Jealousy is a seed that would grow into resentment, toxicity and other negative stuff. I have to avoid those people as soon as possible.
Thats' a good approach as you will keep away from toxic behaviours and unsaid words. But if it's a close friend, it might also be helpful to initially communicate.
@@Psych2goI agree, I'm a person that's very prone to jealousy and I'd like to and am working on that, and I think it'd be really sad if a friend just abandoned me for that
That could result in isolating yourself or your friend. Try to tell your friend about those red flags. Ask them why they are act like that. Friends are better be open with each other than avoid each other without saying anything.
I had a friend in middle school who was my ‘best friend’. She would always go around telling my other friends lies, like that I stole something from someone or something like it. She would always gatekeep, gossip or play victim. I’m glad I found better friends
I'm happy to hear that you were able to find new friends. Sometimes, people may not know how to deal with jealousy and try to bring their friends down with them.
Me too
I have a friend like this right now and I’m planning on ending the friendship next year. I invited him into my other group of friends and I believe he’s successfully turned them all against me so now I’m possibly going to have to make new friends but I’m just glad that toxic friend will not be in my life anymore and won’t have access to my new friend group.
Dealt with all of these
No more headaches having cut them all off.
Solitude for this dude is very refreshing. Loneliness doesn’t occur around toxic people. You value alone time.
I let go of a 15-year-friendship. The signs of jealousy were there for a long time, but I ‘tried’ to ignore them. Until, she made a comment about one of my kids. That was it for me. That ‘let go’ was 8 years ago. No regret. 👍🏽💕
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0:42 Competition
1:26 Critical Much
2:08 smear campaign
3:10 Backhanded Compliments
4:09 A form of flattery
5:00 Hot and Cold
5:49 Clingy
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I was looking for a comment like this cuz this new guy's voice irritates me thank you
Being copied by the non- black world while being black is they not having an identity.
I had a friend for 5 year. She was constantly competitive with me and extremely harsh and critical. She was praying on my downfall. The more I was with her the more I was miserable ,and she seemed to like it. As soon as my life would improve, she would seem uninterested and every time we would have an argument (she was extremely demanding, I had to be available 24/7 for her and answer to all her messages and calls within minutes…) something bad would happen to me. She was always complaining and hateful towards strangers. I really regret those 5 years that I gave her my friendship.
Me too. I was friends with her for 8 years and I regret it.. and I have PTSD thinking she's copying me still
When you realize your sisters are jealous of you is devastating. I’ve always been supportive and happy for any accomplishment in their lives.
Honestly I don't know how to be jealous of anyone at all because I'm only competing with myself and I and whenever my friends become successful I celebrate with them with no pretending because I'm genuinely happy about their successes
Congratulations! You're a decent Human Being. How refreshing.
@@tdesq.2463 thanks, it's hard for me to be jealous of one's success because I'm not competing with them, I'm only competing with myself. Whenever one of my friends or family succeeds, I congragulate them and be motivated only
Im the same as you.
I’m literally the same way, I’m glad to know that humans like us still exist and value wanting others to win 🏆
Guess I'm not 😂😂😂 I honestly despise anyone who is better than me mainly because I should be 100 times better than them but life conspires against me to make it so I never improve. The effortless and unworthy are the ones who get rewarded it seems. I don't have any friends so I don't have to worry about it
These examples describe a situation I’m in with my sister, not a friend.
Jealousy a natural part of being human. It can occur between anyone especially when they feel worried that they will lose the person closest to them.
This is literally what's wrong with my current friendships , my friend is jealous of me ,being the school topper and I'm jealous because she's the social butterfly
I probably should talk to her 😅
Do it.
Yeah do it and try to explain your feeling and have an open discussion with her about the matter
I'm too scared that it might ruin our friendship
I'm kinda shy
@2Cute2Eat, well, staying like that won't solve the issue either. It might ruin your friendship, too, you know? Ik it can be difficult to address such things but you need to do it to preserve this friendship
@@Inspired_by_Sarah I 2nd the Motion. There's an open wound here, and it needs to be cleaned and stitched up before an insidious infection takes hold. Don't let it get ugly. Seriously.
wow, so much of this hit home. I am a boss but I never call myself the boss as we’re a small company. I’ve had many employees over the past 40 years act as if we’re best friends to only find out they spread evil words to other employees to try and win them over from liking me. But to my face they are sweet as apple pie. When called out, the response is always SHOCK. “How could you accuse me of such actions, after all I do for you!” I feel like I lost a friend and an employee as the relationship never lasts long after being called out. I let a lot slide as I don’t want to knit pick but when people are attacked then I step in. Being a boss is complicated because you deal with FEELINGS and today everyone wears their feelings on their sleeves. Defensive and offensive come quick. Years ago if someone was hung over they would still come to work and try and hide the this from me. In the past 15 years not only do they tell me they’re going to get drunk tonight but they text out in the morning and have no issue saying they drank too much and have a headache. I feel Sick. Really?! I am talking about adults 30-50 years old.
1. Competition 0:42
2. Critical Much 1:25
3. Smear Campaign 2:09
4. Backhanded Compliments 3:09
5. Form of flattery? 4:08
6. Hot and cold 5:01
7. Clingy 5:49
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I’m a content creator and the hardest lesson I had to learn was not every person following me is supportive nor does everyone in my circle actually want the best for me. I’ve had to disassociate with so many “friends” because they were discreetly envious of my success and it hurts because I’ve always cheered them on and wanted the best.
After hearing another content creator say, “People will only support you until they start perceiving your success as a threat. Then they’ll begin to resent you”, I started paying real close attention to the way my at the time “friends” interacted with me. Unfortunately had to cut them off too.
Edit: I had this one particular “friend” who actually ended up doing everything in this video, step by step in sequential order which lead to me disconnecting from them, except it go so bad to the point people started approaching me with concern wondering if I was aware of everything that was happening. Of course I was and attempted to initiate conversation about it but it got way too weird to even attempt salvaging the friendship.
I was once that jealous friend towards somebody I use to look up to online. We had a pretty good friendship until things began to crumble and they broke my heart, which made me became resentful not just by how they treated me, but the eventual success they got because of me.
This led me into a very unhealthy life style of stalking their socials and bad mouthing them to the point where they had to block me. Now I don’t think about them as often anymore.
I do still have moments where I get a tiny bit jealous of a creator’s success and wishing I had the same stuff like them, but I would have to remind myself that it’ll come eventually and that I should focus on myself. It’s painful, but I’m only human.
That sucks, hopefully it goes over. Remember to be easy on yourself because friendships, like any relations, require both parties to contribute.
Hurt people hurt people. Wow that was deep
This channel is really good, mental awareness is rly important
Thanks for the support and kind words!
@@Psych2go thank youu! for replying
I acknowledge my jealousness, and they said let’s figure out how we can get up to speed That was such a precious moment
Did you want to elaborate on that?
Low self esteem Is the root of jealousy, egos that aren't in check
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porassss
Now that I watched this I start to understand why I often question myself "Why do I start to hate my friends so much?" or "Why am I pulling an all nighter for 4 days again to get ahead of her in a story quest or book". I do think she rubs her rich father's money in my face and I often wish for her life style. I've known her for two years but this last semester I felt an immense amount of anger when I looked at a new post of her's or a story. I'm really glad you make these types of videos it often helps me realise that maybe I'm the problem in the friendship and I should maybe try and confront them. But sometimes (knowing her) I feel like she would just laugh at my words. She often called me dumb while I was explaining a theory or a classical book's point.
(Also, I apologize for any grammatical mistakes i'm really trying to improve my english and being the class topper in an other language is not enough, sorry if i used wierd phrases)
I usually have no friends to be jealous of, or jealous of me. Last year is the first actual time i had a real friend which makes me feel better.
My 3 year friend was I think always jealous of me, god knows why because she was actually prettier and loved by more people than me, and had a boyfriend long before me. I never had a boyfriend. She always told me something mean whenever I came to school, for example: “you didn’t do your hair, it looks messy” or “ I don’t really like your outfit it doesn’t match you” it always brought me down and made me feel insecure, I just took her advice because i thought she knew what was best for me. little words of negativity can cut the deepest when used correctly. Now I decided to not be friends with her anymore because she would talk behind my back and make me feel insecure of how I look and act.
1 more thing I promise
- with her I was in a group of 5 people the 5th doesn’t really matter much in this story. So basically I was best friends with one of them in the group because we had known each other for the longest time. She was best friends with the other girl in the group bc the other girl in the group was more “popular”. Anyway whenever my best friend and I would laugh together or something she would say “ you guys are really mean for leaving me out of your conversations” or “ fine, if you guys don’t want to be my friends anymore go away” in a rude manner, Whenever she would laugh with her best friend more than us we would be fine with that, we wouldn’t mind. She would also blame me for pointless stuff like if I don’t notice when she is upset. OH but she would NEVER blame her “popular” friend if her “popular “ friend would leave her alone and go be with other people, NO no never.
Basically she preferred to be popular instead of loved, and would bring down people who she thought looked bad or didn’t act well mannered. ( also another toxic this was that she had a friend scale, she said”my best friend is first, your best friend is last, my other friend is 2nd and you’re 4th” and that’s very toxic. Or whenever she had a good grade she would say “omg, I’ve done horribly I’m so bad” and I would just feel bad bc I got a lower grade then her ( she doesn’t usually get good grades so it would be rare that she gets a good grade)
Thank you very much for the video!
I have friends who always critic too much using joke and hot and cold. I thought it was normal to be honest since I thought they do not have anything to talk about. But, I always felt sad and unfair. This feeling is always happen when I am with the them. I thought it was me who was the issue as the others is okay.
I need to let them know and walk away from group of friends that does not respect my concern.
Hurt people hurt people is a very dangerous generalization. This kind of careless compassion is a very common form of toxic positivitism I keep on hearing lately. You do not have to make amends with toxic people. You are allowed to cut them off, and you are allowed to not explain yourself, and you are allowed to not give them a chance or benefit of the doubt.
True !
Very true! Short quotes like that tend to be massive generalizations that can easily be misinterpreted. Toxic optimism disguised as mental health advice does seem to be on the rise recently, especially with more and more outdated ideas slyly creeping into the newer generation's thought process.
Backhanded compliments here in the Philippines are hard! You can't even notice it.
This channel is a hidden gem fr!!! I hope you get to 50m soon. (It’s sounds impossible. BUT everything is possible:) )
We’re so glad this video helped you!!
Literally all my “friends” back to high school,
Is painfull to have a friends that envy’s you but having a group of persons who are willing to hurt you because of envy you is a living hell.
I rembenber having the worst self steam because I grew up in an abusive family, then going to school and spend time with all these “friends” really has put me down.
I felt like if I was doomed or something. I hope I found a good psychologist and a good group of friends now that I’m an adult.
I realized I had become the jealous one, but being aware didn't make me get rid of that tomorrow tho; kept seeing my friend, and it didn't indeed. Many comments here said they distanced themselves from such toxic ppl because it was harmful and even traumatizing for their quality of life. So I decided to keep myself away from her, for her own good 'till I solve those bad things I'm projecting onto her. I really appreciate her, so I hope they (friend group) have someone healthier taking my place.
Timestamps
1). Competition 0:42
2). Critical much 1:25
3). Smear campaign 2:07
4). Backhanded compliments 3:08
5). A form of flattery 4:07
6). Hot and cold 4:59
7). Clingy 5:48
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
"Hurt people hurt people" it can be true to some extent but I'll never want to do the same with someone what my friends did
Timestamps:
1:25 Constantly competing with you
1:42 Criticizing you
2:13 Smear campaigning (spreading rumors)
3:11 Backhanded compliments
4:10 Shamelessly copying your persona
5:01 Hot and cold emotions
5:48 Clingy behavior
I’ve experienced being jealous of my childhood friend which turned me into a crazy psycho. This includes my insecurities of not being able to drive due to vision impairment despite my belief that I can. That really fuels my fire. I recognized the signs of it when around one of my current friends. I finally figured out why I kind of liked hanging out with him due to his temporary personality since he becomes rude and disrespectful around the fall and winter due to trauma so I try to understand it while setting boundaries. But I often find myself comparing his achievements, confidences, and charisma that I lack. So I’m taking responsibility and action to address this issue to avoid negative decisions made due to jealousy. Jealousy is a strong emotion but can be managed and addressed.
I was once this person and well still a bit of this person remains, but if you struggle with issues like this you can become a better human being. Emotions are natural and they can be understood and overcome with time.
Timestamp!
-0:42 Competition
-1:25 Critical much?
-2:08 Smear campaign
-3:09 Backhanded compliments
-4:08 A form of flattery?
-5:00 Hot and Cold
-5:49 Clingy
I have a friend that copies my chronic ILLNESSES. Now even claiming having the same GENETIC condition as me. I... I have no words. And we are grown ass adults!
That's a very good topic.
So glad to hear that!! Any part of the video resonate with you the most?
@Psych2go Yes. Some people are like that when they get jealous of you when you have achieve your goals.
Love your animation style. So so cute❤
Thank you for the love and support
Thank you so much
I don't agree that friend who feels insecure after seeing his/her friend getting so close with other person/people is a toxic friend. Coz i personally 3xperienced the heinous consequences of it. I can't even describe how my BFF got attached with other people & kick3d me out of the friendly zone. So, I completely disagree with your point.
Whew! Thank you!
Hope this video helps you!
I’ve literally been looking for a video like this my friend that isn’t good at art is faking art and saying it’s hers because she’s jealous of me…
If you clicked on this to make sure, they have every reason you be jealous of you. You’re literally the best person and nothing will deny that. ❤
I realized this late in the game. Jealousy is really twisted admiration
Correct.
Self awareness is key to a happy life. ❤
@@syzygy4365True !
Thanks for meaningful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
Thanks for watching!
I'm jealous of most people I know, mainly because they have friends, are smart, and aren't lonely, but I just stay silent about it
Why not practice studying then and become smarter.
Jealously and envy have two faces: Wanting what someone has. Or: Wanting someone to not have what they have or could have without wanting their posession for yourself
what does it mean when this video pops up on my feed even though I'm friendless?
It means the time has come.
@@Psych2go The time for what?
@@seth2750 The time for you to change, for you to make a better life for yourself! To make more friends, even if you're friendless, you can make some friends, wether that'd be in work, school, ect. Even if you are friendless, by watching this video, you'll know when a friend is jealous of you quicker, so that you can cut that toxic friend out of your life quicker before you become more like him/her.
Right.. jealousy is a part of an emotion like pain joy anger happy but in a healthy way... but some are unhealthy, which it turns into envy
Imagine a jealous friend watching this🤣🤣🤣
I had a online friend of 10 years, I always thought her copying me for my helpfulness and positive energy to make friends was kind of strange and a bit annoying to me. Fast forward to today, we are no longer friends because she got offended by a minor argument and instead of talking to me about it she went to my ex-bf and he absolutely blackmailed me cause she told him i had a new bf. I am glad I disconnected from her and my ex. It sucks that i couldn't say my part to the friends I shared with them because they all think I'm lying but having her to do something disgusting to run to my ex and him making threats to blackmail me was extremely traumatizing.
Just now, my joke about how spooky and scary I am turned to my friend saying I was heavily misinterpreting myself, and trying to gaslight my ability to read emotions. The main reason I thought of jealousy is that friend has had issues in the past that also point to mild jealousy. I’m most likely going to distance from them for a bit.
I dealt with this back in middle school. One of my "friends" was having a hard time with life (puberty, family drama, etc.), and they took it out on me.
They tried to spread rumors about me, but it died out after a few hours. (I'm a very simple person.)
They tried being snippy with me, but I never acted snippy back at them, so they just looked stupid.
They'd butt into conversations, but I was just like: "Oh, you want a turn to speak? Okay. I'll go do something else."
But it still hurt to have them act that way, because I honestly wondered what I did to upset them, and wanted to go back to being good friends.
We happened to cross paths at a movie theater in our early 20s, and they IMMEDIATELY apologized for how they treated me 😊 which was nice.
I’m too busy on my happiness 😂😂 No time or energy for that nonsense thing 😂😂 ! I always happy because I know everything I do !
Good information 👍😅
Thank you! Hope this video was posted at the right time for you.
@@Psych2go 💯💯
I wonder how many Galaxy might have manifested with my best friend? 🤔
I can’t stand when they try to compete.
I’m so not interested in that. It isn’t genuine.
You guys watching it to make sure you are not surrounded by jealous friends, I'm watching it to make sure im not that friend.
This narrator has a nice voice ❤
Finally praise for the the male voice than the usual female one. Thanks for your kind praise.
Thank you for the compliment!
Signs Your Friend is Jealous of You:
1. They are frequently competitive with you.
2. They are overly-critical of you.
3. They create a smear-campaign/gossip about you.
4. They give you back-handed compliments.
5. They start copying everything you do shamelessly.
6. They give you hot/cold treatment, meaning one moment they’re friendly with you but then next they’re emotionally distant.
7. They have possessive/clingy behavior over you.
That’s why I don’t care when someone gives me compliments or praise or criticism ! That person doesn’t know me so . . .
Well, I *am* the jealous friend.
It's the good thing that the person I am jealous of doesn't have any contacts with me. So that's one trouble avoided.
Thank you🔥
I love your channel.. and it is very useful for me... but I find it difficult to understand everything... because I do not speak English well... I would be grateful if you would add a translation in Arabic, and thank you for your efforts. ❤❤❤
Jealousy and perfection go hand in hand I guess. Some people just aren't happy without the best of everything. At least that's the conclusion I've come up with. Maybe it's a defense mechanism. I don't understand it myself. Ill just see myself out.
Envy is Jealousy's dirty cousin. There's no problem wanting to work on yourself and aspire towards goals. But what happens when you spend all your time on perfection and making things just right? What if you never enjoy the opportunity in front on you? What if you spend so much time on perfection this fun opportunity doesn't bring joy? Your health and well being means more.
Im a jealous person, i do my best to not let it control me. It hurts, feeling inadequate to everyone.
damn, the first girl buddy i got since primary school was my best friend back then but when we got into middle school she didnt talk to me, and i didnt talk back- so she found other friends and when we were at the last year of middle school i had a fight with a jealous classmate who acted like victim thats annoying nevermind that part but just after that event the 'buddy' i havent talk to for years came up to me, instead of asking how i was "you had a fight with that girl?" literally asking for materials to gossip, its disgusting.. i was the one who didnt left her out of friend groups and i was the one who held up a hand to them at primary school, she was ignored because she had an illness and i didnt like them get ignored but their last act from her wasnt something i deserved to get
If I'm jealous, I tell them. Idk why, I just need to tell them
I have a best friend who used to be jealous of me. The thing was he had a crazy crush on someone very famous, she was very beautiful and had a charming personality. She was friends with almost anyone so, she it was the same for me. That time I used to talk to her in chats cuz she was also my crush (it was pretty common cuz almost everyone had a crush on her) I was like a person who had higher self-esteem, I was a respected person in my friend group from very start people may treat me badly at first but after time they tend to respect me more (not bragging its just my personality) so in my perspective I was way out of her league so, I never tried to make a move on her. When I felt like she was just replying I left, simply left. When I stopped texting her she didn't bother it either so I was kinda disappointed and ended up losing a crush on her. After that I was living peacefully and normally existing I realized I was completely wrong she did think of me as someone important…like bro my buddy got completely jealous. The feeling was so strong that I could feel it he was introverted like me so he never had expectations from me that I would be highlighted like this. Luckily our relationship (with my buddy) was not that strong at that time so he didn't try any shit but after some time when we started to hangout more and became very good friends one day, That girl I mean her crush suddenly texted me to ask why I was not talking to her and all so misunderstanding cleared up and we were back to normal. But I mentioned this thing to my buddy that day I felt jealous of a sweet introverted guy I could feel the anger he had. He mentioned he was jealous of me and still, he is from a very long time. I was in complete shock who tf can be jealous of me (my whole life I lived like a side character that had no social life and no friend circle) he expressed it in a normal voice hiding his anger “I was thought from the beginning why this guy always gets eyes of everyone (I was silent all the time I was so insecure that I could never imagine people looking at me occasionally) why wherever he goes gets complete attention and now even my crush who rarely cares about me and many others but he got her attention every time she even mentioned this guy (me) many times, why are u like this I do not understand”. I was in complete shock and couldn’t process it…I kept arguing with him stop this bullshit tf are u saying (I still think it was complete bullshit I know he was just being delusional) but the reality was he was jealous. If he was an angry ungrateful person he could have created a whole drama. My point was I felt a little anger very often in btw our convo, he was competitive all of a sudden like he was competing with me even in normal convos it was like a friend who doesn't want me to be right in normal convos. Now it's all fixed we are still good buddy but what's really concerning is he still thinks of me as someone who is far better than him and could steal something from him luckily I didnt got that girl (idk why I said “luckily” lol) even today he noramally states that “thank god u were not here with me in the same coaching” he had new crush in her coaching Its kinda feel bad that just cuz was girl of whatever he was willing to stay happy even if I was away.
Jealous can literally spoil a good experience.
I would’ve been more supportive but my close friend had an anger issue and it resembles my childhood. So when she tried to make me apologize for things I didn’t do or she misunderstood my intentions, she wouldn’t talk to me but instead send these long messages when I asked her before not to. It’s because she accuses instead of asks and also got into the habit when we were young of yelling at me. She grew up without her mother but I feel that’s not a good excuse to mistreat me because we’ve been like family. My own mother with defend others against me so I just let her explode on me for the last time.
Too bad so sad
I just found out from this video, that I am indeed, very very jealous.
This is so common in the church that it’s crazy!
I noticed my friend, when we in company with other people, she would correct me unnecessarily with some alternative way of doing something that i suggested, often about things she knew nothing about. And that little patronising laugh. I pointed it out to her, then deleted and blocked😊
I had this toxic friend, and I knew she was toxic and already having things like depression and ptsd so her comments harmed me most, I knew she was toxic but I just couldn’t let go, she was the only friend I had and I would’ve gone crazy if I was alone… probably suicided or something because my parents were abusive and without anyone missing me I would’ve done something…
True my friend did tell me a ugly boy to everyone and I don't got no friends after that😢
Not really related to the video titles but I happen to attend the same class with my classmate, and after a while I realize that I am jealous of her because of some talents she have. Kinda hard for me to be true to myself at first but after I learned about something like "accepting your feelings" etc..., I have no more fear of stating what I truly feels about events, things, people. I was scared of being judged and have a pressure to "becoming a good person" in the past, so I tried to persuade myself that I have to be kind to others, not to angry at someone or must not jealous with people's success but instead praise it. Now I think yeah its okay to not feeling happy for others for victory/achievements/talents if they make me feel ashamed, self-doubt and hopeless because I don't have that same kind of victory/achievements/talents. (For me, this phenomenon could occurs for some specific reasons/person at times, not everything, anybody could triggers that jealousy from me LOL). For those make me feel like a "loser" like what I stated before, I would maintain a distance with them so I would not hurt them or let the feelings hurt me. Welp, at least I don't trying to be close with them and talking behind their backs right?
Sometimes a person withholds compliments cuz creepy dudes might take it the wrong way.
The fact that i knew all along that my best friend and my other friend were jealous, and i still friends with them its because i dont wanna be that rude to them but srsly i really cant deal with them..
I was a jealous person towards my friend but she dealt with me in a wrong way (ghosting me and doing the same thing towards me) and that really hurt me and it made me confused if i was the bad person or not. I explained to her why im acting this way but she showed no interest abt it.
My older and only sister is like that with me .. she hurt me many of time's where our relationship is close but afar at the same time .. like she's a narcissist and can be just rude one minute and fake nice another minute.
Cute anime and relaxing voice. 😌 ❤
We hope this video can help you out!
This animation style is adorable
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@@Psych2goill keep these signs for future friendships 👍
This describes me instead of my friend 😃
Can you guys please make a vid on people living with a record? My family has been significantly impacted by an event. I feel like it'd help a lot of people, especially since it's so stigmatized :(
I feel like I am that jealous friend but It does not mean I am that toxic (I hope), I try to still look out for my friend but left with so much heartache. I hate and feel jealous to her but still care so much not to hurt her even if she hurts me.
I wouldn't be so sure if my friend is jealous of me but.. there's just something about her behavior that I don't like, sometimes she's always trying to copy me like what games I play, who I talk to, and do stuff that I do and I don't like it because I don't really consider her as my best friend but we're somehow close, she also throws backhanded compliment or idk what to call it but for example a friend of mine is calling me "cute" then she tells my friend "oh but you're cuter" that happened so many times, another friend also said i'm charismatic and her reaction was like "huh" she was disagreeing with it, until now i dont even know if I like her or not, i don't even know if i can learn how to like her because we have been friends and talking for almost 2 years but she's "scared" of me.. like how can you be my friend if you're scared of me wth!! i feel like she has been talking to her friend about me because even her friend says i'm scary or intimidating :/ well i have a real friend though, she's part of our friend group but she's not scared of me, she's the only one in the friend group i consider my best friend
but other than that im glad i have real friends online, they don't act in a weird way which makes me feel really comfortable around them
People in his messed up family raised him, if that is what you call it.
I have a question. Can horror movies be traumatic? Just curious though.
A traumatic experience can come in many forms, but did you want to elaborate on what traumatic means for you?
does anyone have experience this : when they have a hard time they hang out with you but when they have a little succeed they look down on you, sorry for my bad eng
As a jelous friend, it’s not my fault bro. She gets things so easily. I spend 6 years on a sport, thousands of first and second places, and she does it for one month and suddenly she’s known at school for that sport. Get out.
I've felt jealous of many of my friends.
My huge ego made me klick on this
Recently my best friend broke up with me because I was friends with another friend that she didn't like and it's not like I ignored my best friend or anything. No, I was just friends with her normally, I was also friends with another girl and she simply didn't like her very much because she did something bad to her and because she didn't like her, she said she would break up with me too because I was friends with her😢
One time, I heard my supposed to be close friend said a sentence to my other friends. The sentence are "don't you guys think her(my name) smile is kinda scary". I
I understand cause you can see my 4 fangs when i laugh and smile, but that was truly hurt my feelings. I have insecurity of smiling and showing teeth to my non family till now. What do you guys think? Is that jealousy or something else??
Thankfully I don’t have to worry because I have no qualities to get jealous over 🎉
Maybe someone will be jealous over your humbleness or humorous personality lol.
Jealousy is wanting to keep something for yourself.
Wanting what someone else has is envy.
The song Jesse's Girl is about envy.
The song Thief of Hearts is about jealousy.
These words are OPPOSITE sides of the same coin.
We have /different/ words because they have /different/ meanings. These words are NOT interchangeable.
What happened to the person who did the voice over previously? Her voice was so soothing O:
Psy2go I m a really really fan of you I watch some of Ur videos and it's so useful just thanks you so much but just can you do videos ABT dreams and stuff like that because one time I dreamed ABT being s.a ed and actually I didn't know how does it even means and I m not dirty minded or anything I m just trumutized from men so bad I swear I have TRUAMA and ...idk just..make videos ABT dreams and the TRUAMA ABT mens and stuff I really need it I always listen to Ur advice it's really helpful thanks you psy2go I love you so Much and also I don't mind if U didnt do the videos I just wanna thanks you for the advise thanks you...❤
I made a Minecraft realm and spent 3 years trying to get members but then my friend made one and instantly got lots of people and I got jealous
I hate jealous people.
Jealousy is the last thing you should worry about if you don't even have any friends.
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