Evan
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why people can’t make you happy
People can’t make us happy because true happiness comes from within. When we rely on others for our emotional well-being, we place our sense of fulfillment in external sources that are unpredictable and beyond our control. Others may provide companionship, love, or support, but if we aren’t at peace with ourselves, even the most positive relationships won’t fill that void. Lasting happiness is rooted in self-understanding, acceptance, and inner contentment, which no one else can provide for us.
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stop running away from yourself
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stop running away from yourself
you are not the mind
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The phrase “you are only awareness” points to the idea that, at the deepest level, your true nature isn’t defined by your body, thoughts, emotions, or life circumstances, but by pure consciousness itself. In many spiritual and philosophical teachings, this concept emphasizes that your identity is not limited to the ego or the mind but is instead the awareness that witnesses all experiences. #mi...
please stop falling for the “love” fantasy
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Attachment is often confused with true love because both involve deep emotional bonds, but they stem from different psychological mechanisms and motivations. Attachment is typically rooted in dependency, security, and comfort, while true love is more about mutual respect, personal growth, and a shared connection. #spiritualawakening #love #relationships #growth
why you will lose interest in worldly desires
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Why I think Law of Attraction and Manifestation defies the path of spiritual awakening. . . #spiritualawakening #spiritualjourney #meditation #mindfulness
Use The Letting Go Technique to Feel Natural Around Other People
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Social anxiety is caused by a variety of reasons. I believe the way to solve it is by letting go of all of the tension we carry in our bodies using a practice called the "Letting Go Technique" Instagram @myselfasevan #LettingGo #Surrender #Spiritual #SpiritualAwakening #Meditation
face pain immediately to free yourself from it
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It’s a natural response to bury feelings we experience deep down within us. But what happens is they get trapped in an emotional dungeon and are never released. You must learn to feel and process all emotions to experience true freedom. A few books to help: Letting Go by David Hawkins The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ~ #spiritualawakening #tr...
Just breathe.. everything is okay in this moment
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Just breathe.. everything is okay in this moment
the ‘letting go technique’ works like magic
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Guided meditations: ruclips.net/video/w3wUwJt-f-M/видео.htmlsi=jz0SYL9p4kaZlCf6 ruclips.net/video/9AtnoEMzzqk/видео.htmlsi=WNsIjGX-5i2VosnW Instagram: @myselfasevan #lettinggo #surrender #spiritualawakening #spirituality
be alone for awhile
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be alone for awhile
stop trying to please others
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stop trying to please others
Life is meant to be lived simply
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Life is meant to be lived simply
twenty-six ways society keeps you plugged-in (& how to unplug)
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twenty-six ways society keeps you plugged-in (& how to unplug)
12 Clear Signs You’re Having a Spiritual Awakening
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12 Clear Signs You’re Having a Spiritual Awakening
A relationship won’t fix the fundamental issue.
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A relationship won’t fix the fundamental issue.
Always chasing the next thing makes us miserable
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Always chasing the next thing makes us miserable
Why I choose to live a simple and quiet life
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Why I choose to live a simple and quiet life
The stories in your head are making you depressed
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The stories in your head are making you depressed
The mind always craves more
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The mind always craves more
Stop beating yourself up.. it’s in the past
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Stop beating yourself up.. it’s in the past
Relax.. it’s literally all in your head
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Relax.. it’s literally all in your head
If it’s meant for you, it will feel natural
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If it’s meant for you, it will feel natural
How to forget about them
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How to forget about them
Everything comes to you when you stop forcing it
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Everything comes to you when you stop forcing it
Why love is mostly just a fantasy
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Why love is mostly just a fantasy
Suffering doesn’t exist when the mind is quiet
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Suffering doesn’t exist when the mind is quiet
Just let them go.. I promise you'll be okay
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Just let them go.. I promise you'll be okay
Stop worrying about everything and just surrender to life
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Stop worrying about everything and just surrender to life
Your desire to fit in is making you miserable
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Your desire to fit in is making you miserable
Meditation For When The Past is Weighing You Down
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Meditation For When The Past is Weighing You Down

Комментарии

  • @sibhins
    @sibhins Час назад

    Its the most poisonous fantasy when you have it and when you are without it.

  • @CvCv-r2u
    @CvCv-r2u 8 часов назад

    I don't want a relationship with you sir no thank you

  • @RabiaMBaig
    @RabiaMBaig 14 часов назад

    I really love your videos!!!!

  • @QuanequaTSmith
    @QuanequaTSmith 16 часов назад

    Its refreshing to see this bejng reflected on the mens side of the fence. As a woman i definitely agree with this. Keep it up guys❤

  • @patrickmccrank8414
    @patrickmccrank8414 17 часов назад

    Well spoken. You really don't need anyone. The more time you give yourself without chasing after game players. Yes socialize. Then go home to a peaceful place. You win. Every time.

  • @phillipsmith7759
    @phillipsmith7759 День назад

    We men will release some fluid when we shake our Peter after peeing. Or have wet dreams. Sex is for making babies, fathering. We need this energy. Thanks for the message.I am happy for your journey bro. You are inspirational!😊

  • @SRCreativeStudios
    @SRCreativeStudios День назад

    Really insightful and helpful as all your videos are. You have wisdom beyond your years brother.

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan День назад

      @@SRCreativeStudios thank you 🙏

    • @madhuridas4745
      @madhuridas4745 20 часов назад

      First time I m listening to this guy. Wow. Yes, very old head on young shoulders

  • @JoePizzi-i3d
    @JoePizzi-i3d День назад

    People piss me off they want a free service

  • @viviannaContreras
    @viviannaContreras День назад

    Relationships has its positives and negatives. However, not all, but most Relationships can be Ego driven

  • @viviannaContreras
    @viviannaContreras День назад

    Also, would you mind doing a video on the Ego? I’m always wondering if it works against us and if it’s something good or bad. Just a thought!

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan День назад

      The human ego is designed to protect us. I would say it's not necessarily good or bad, but just something that is there necessary for our survival. I can do a longer video on this.

  • @viviannaContreras
    @viviannaContreras День назад

    I’ve experienced uncomfortable truths, frustrating moments and swallowed hard pills - the most this year. Boy do I now see the other side of it and feel more at peace than before! Thank you for your videos!

  • @katherinebarnes4091
    @katherinebarnes4091 День назад

    Once you can embrace the impermanence of relationships and take them for what they are in the moment, you no longer need them to be happy. The relationship doesn't define you. This allows you to be authentic and just enjoy and appreciate people you are with when you are with them. Mind you, when you are married (as I am) you may decide to maintain a relationship for all its faults and challenges knowing that it will never achieve anything close to some fairytale perfection. Perhaps it brings stability and consistency. (e.g. We wanted children. Children need a mom and dad. We may not "love" each other as we once did, but we can still be happy together without resentment by accepting our relationship for what it is. We are committed to it.)

  • @krystaldee22
    @krystaldee22 День назад

    Why do you hate quoting the Bible?

  • @TruthEli
    @TruthEli День назад

    Christ Is King, Amen Brother ❤

  • @autonomousmarionette6256
    @autonomousmarionette6256 День назад

    Excellent video bro.

  • @JesusIsOurGod811
    @JesusIsOurGod811 День назад

    Society and social media has ruined women I’m 31 and feel like I’m awake for the first time! Never been married and no kids. And it’s going to stay that way

  • @terencehennegan1439
    @terencehennegan1439 День назад

    The question is… what does our higher intelligence want us to be, what does it want from us ?. We’re here for a reason, what is that reason, why have we turned away from what it wants ?. If we don’t find the right question we’ll never fine the right answer.

  • @RobertGarcia-wb4hy
    @RobertGarcia-wb4hy День назад

    If you don't want to get married, then don't. If you want to stay single, then do that. But remember, Christ created the sexual relationship for a Husband and a Wife. If you're staying single only to have "friends with benefits" with a girl on the side, that is Sin, and shows you don't respect yourself, or the girl. It shows you want the perks without the responsibility. If you love a girl that much do the right thing and make her your wife, or leave her alone. But staying single means committing to celibacy.

  • @debbielunsford3116
    @debbielunsford3116 2 дня назад

    Just started listening to your videos. I am so in line with what you’re saying. It’s taken forever though. Even though I’ve done therapy and a many healing modalities of some kind since age 17 I had to go down a deep rabbit hole last couple of years to finally get it. I’m 69 yo. Got really sick with long Covid. Had to survive every day alone. Started kundalini worked with ancestors. Dived deep into that and into awakening. Feeling all the stuff in the body. Takes me down. But I feel I’m getting it now. Thank you!

  • @kennelson3848
    @kennelson3848 2 дня назад

    Your entire life is imagined in your mind through your 5 scenes..hence, your life is 'imaginary'. You might say not real.❤

  • @diah2402
    @diah2402 2 дня назад

    Thankyou for the words. Really need it

  • @david.s.5336
    @david.s.5336 2 дня назад

    Be blessed, be yourself, what you really are, what you really are isn't really seperated from that what life is, and happiness is what life is...

  • @david.s.5336
    @david.s.5336 2 дня назад

    I really dont want to be happy, and the one who want to be happy musst be the one who isn't happy...

  • @funkymunky
    @funkymunky 2 дня назад

    Don't identify with something you can't control, (h)alt, or delete.

  • @terencehennegan1439
    @terencehennegan1439 2 дня назад

    Word perfect Evan. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Trithus
    @Trithus 2 дня назад

    Hey Evan! Have you considered setting up a Discord for your community? I'd love to just meet people online from all around the world that share this mindset!

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan 2 дня назад

      Yes, been thinking about it for awhile now, going to set that up soon.

  • @rachelross5829
    @rachelross5829 2 дня назад

    Soul contracts play out then end in my opinion. Holding on beyond it's experattion date causes problems. It's all fleeting. If we went into every relationship knowing it's there for a lesson and will probably not last forever it's easier for sure. Balancing attachment, temperance is a lesson the universe is serving right now. Awesome video Want it all and want nothing You can think you know someone but go through a tragedy and see if there there. Relationships are meant to advance us yes but I don't even know myself much less to know someone else. I can relate well to people because of my experiences but my true happiness is literally looking forward to hibernating and excelling with no distractions up here in the mountains. I know unconditional love from a few and it's a transformative entity. I also interact with ones who appear to be nice but have alt motives. This game of manipulation is interesting to say the least.

  • @DazzlingDebonair
    @DazzlingDebonair 2 дня назад

    Whoa, terryjoeljunior uploaded again, haha, jokes 😁

  • @MATRICULAT3D
    @MATRICULAT3D 2 дня назад

    With that being said, “ I love you” all truly. 😊

  • @MATRICULAT3D
    @MATRICULAT3D 2 дня назад

    This is the moment people realize that everyone has been compromised.

  • @Юлия-ш3ю5т
    @Юлия-ш3ю5т 2 дня назад

    The best condition is when you love yourself so much that you don't even think about the love of another person. I feel it at times. Meditation is the good way to reach this type of love.

  • @Юлия-ш3ю5т
    @Юлия-ш3ю5т 2 дня назад

    The end of the video is very interesting. The ability to love unconditionally needs to have a pure heart and be able to cover all emotional and other needs by ourselves, I guess. It's the path. Love is always risky, because you should give other full freedom to make his/her choice to stay with you or not, and be ok with it. It's hard but not impossible for those who get the importance of spiritual work and self improvement.

  • @salmonruss
    @salmonruss 2 дня назад

    Great words Evan🗣️…well articulated!

  • @Lehi-wt1un
    @Lehi-wt1un 2 дня назад

    How many times a day you suggest to let go

  • @DermotHynes
    @DermotHynes 2 дня назад

    Thanks Evan Godbless

  • @myselfasevan
    @myselfasevan 2 дня назад

    “We meet only those people with whom our meeting is predestined. Duration of association with each person is also preordained. One should not grieve if one is separated or if the association doesn't last long" ~ Neem Karoli Baba

  • @clairejoseph9398
    @clairejoseph9398 2 дня назад

    Great wisdom here, so true but how many of us forget this. So important to remember, so true that ´´people come and go and can leave at any time´´

  • @Maximumandroid
    @Maximumandroid 2 дня назад

    Love is just chemical reactions that occur in the human body through the secretion of huge quantities Neurotransmitters (It's like you are literally falling into a coma) ..Its goal is to spend as much time as possible with your partner To pass your gene ,Nothing more, nothing less, Of course the media and cinema took advantage of this to make more money.

  • @thomascalabro2051
    @thomascalabro2051 2 дня назад

    I'm 66 never married and so far no regrets I'm good

  • @bhuski
    @bhuski 3 дня назад

    Love ur kind words ❤

  • @bokehintheussr5033
    @bokehintheussr5033 3 дня назад

    I find that when a relationship ends I feel more emotion than I ever did during the relationship. The grief of a relationship ending makes you forget the pain that you actually felt so often during the relationship. It helps to remember all the hard work that you put in and all all the time you invested just trying to keep the relationship working and trying to keep that person in your life. That's what you're grieving when it comes to an end: the time, energy and hope that you invested that you wont get back. Relationships are incredibly difficult, and they're not the solutions to all our problems that we hope they'll be.