I'm more of an introvert and feel truly happy and at peace when I'm by myself, but yeahh also a bit lonely at times... It's not that I don't want people in my life, it's that I only want people in my life who add value to it... And that's hard to find... I find most people to be so incredibly shallow these days... Maybe I'm too deep, but I find most interactions to be so depleting to my soul... Loveeee your videos Evan, I can always relate to you..... ❤
I love being alone in my space, I feel so good in my own energy and I also love when I meet a stranger and we are having a deep conversation. It's so magical. When I want to feel connected I go seat in a coffee shop, do some writing and talk to people. I got days without talking and my mind gets so quiet. Also my shadow side is that I feel that deep loneliness, no one understand me and so alone in the world and I just seat with it and love myself. Thank you for your beautiful sharing💖💖💖
I am about to end a 25 year relationship with my wife and will be alone for the first time in a really long time. The thought of being alone is one of the hardest things to get my head around in the breakup but I know it is something that I have to go through to move on and grow.
I can relate to this. To me being alone is freedom. I can slow down and consciously enjoy little things like doing the dishes, or petting my dogs, or walking in the woods. For some reason I also love going to stores alone and having sweet little interactions with people. I can sense in those moments that we are not actually separate. The separateness is just an optical illusion (Eckhart Tolle). 😊
Appreciate alone time as an opportunity for self-reflection, creativity, and personal growth. This can help shift the perception of loneliness from a negative to a more neutral or even positive experience.
Thank you so much Evan for creating such a wonderful video!. I'm so glad to know that I am not the only one who enjoys booking short trips with the purpose of spending time with myself. These short trips not only energize me, but they also contribute so much with my personal development in all aspects of my life. They also provide me with so much knowledge about myself. This video resonated so much with me because, walking in nature, is another activity that I also find fascinating. I really enjoy doing this a lot, and It is one of the best things in the world! Once again, thank you so much for sharing such a wonderful video!. You are really an inspiration! Your excellent contribution is invaluable and extraordinary!! Keep up the excellent work!!! All the best and many blessings!!!:-)😊
Dude, I’ve been watching your videos for a little while now. Awesome content, it resonates with me a lot, I’m a 38 year old English guy, single, I spend a lot of time alone and really like it that way. I’m currently travelling solo around Morocco right now. Being alone should be something which is celebrated, it shows we are comfortable in our own skin. I would go as far to say that many people are highly envious that we can achieve this skill. Keep putting out the content bro and crushing it.
Bro Evan, i was raised in a Church, but even from my childhood I was always alone, after many years I've leaved Religion, so in that time I've started to think instantly, that I was unhappy at cause of my solitude, so I was sure that my problems were all based within the lack of a real relationship with a woman, for fulfill sex and other inner desires. It took me years, to understand that my real me is that solitude, despite its was always what I'm , from my beginning. Antinatalism helps me to understand logically that, but I was so unconsciously brainwashed by what society's tells to us to do , that we're i was unhappy within my life in seminary, years ago, I were more than sure that the inner void and pain was at cause of a lack of sex. I've got great high and low with the girls that I've meet, Also euphoria and that's have just tricked me and maded myself unconscious, not present to myself. I was completely unable to see that I was unhappy cause I was living a life, a religious life that wasn't me, what really I'm . Thanks for those clips, many of those just confirms my same prospective and view.
I’ve always been alone and lonely at the same time. And it’s as if destiny, fate or some other forces whatsoever decide for me. So eventually, I simply surrendered to what is beyond my reach and choice. I don’t know why and how that is. But one thing that comforts me and brings me solace, is that one day, in some other life in the hereafter and afterlife, my need for physical contact will be gone and I’ll be free from that nagging need I hate constantly being in the throes of. So so be it. Life is nothing to write home about. No more dreams, hopes or else. But I bite bullet, period.
Social midia are the villains for me. Whenever I delete them from my phone, I feel more anxious. I think this makes me take a few steps back in my self-knowledge.
This Video Came just ritght. Today i actually wanted to watch the football games wie my best friend an others. But i simply felt i need to be alone today, Meditate and try to heal. So i stayed home lieing in my safeplace (bathtub) enjoying Videos as this. What strange energy this is today. Sorry for my english iam german:D
What if im always alone. I moved to another city with my boyfriend and now he left me. I dont have anyone in this city. Im struggling to handle my emotions right now. I don't know what to do anymore
I mean is it possible or healthy being alone for a longer time? I can't seem to find any cool people here. And i was already a long period of time alone back then. Its painful really.
@@myselfasevani have lost all my interest in every hobny i had back then over time. I tried to come back on them a couple of times but got always disappointed because it was no fun doing it and it felt like im more forcing myself to do it.
I'm more of an introvert and feel truly happy and at peace when I'm by myself, but yeahh also a bit lonely at times... It's not that I don't want people in my life, it's that I only want people in my life who add value to it... And that's hard to find... I find most people to be so incredibly shallow these days... Maybe I'm too deep, but I find most interactions to be so depleting to my soul... Loveeee your videos Evan, I can always relate to you..... ❤
Exactly,
Exactlyy
My life of every word💯
I have always been much happier single than in a relationship. Not sure why and not sure what will ever change.
I feel the same way
I love being alone in my space, I feel so good in my own energy and I also love when I meet a stranger and we are having a deep conversation. It's so magical. When I want to feel connected I go seat in a coffee shop, do some writing and talk to people. I got days without talking and my mind gets so quiet. Also my shadow side is that I feel that deep loneliness, no one understand me and so alone in the world and I just seat with it and love myself. Thank you for your beautiful sharing💖💖💖
I am about to end a 25 year relationship with my wife and will be alone for the first time in a really long time. The thought of being alone is one of the hardest things to get my head around in the breakup but I know it is something that I have to go through to move on and grow.
I can relate to this. To me being alone is freedom. I can slow down and consciously enjoy little things like doing the dishes, or petting my dogs, or walking in the woods. For some reason I also love going to stores alone and having sweet little interactions with people. I can sense in those moments that we are not actually separate. The separateness is just an optical illusion (Eckhart Tolle). 😊
Same here!
Appreciate alone time as an opportunity for self-reflection, creativity, and personal growth. This can help shift the perception of loneliness from a negative to a more neutral or even positive experience.
Thank you so much Evan for creating such a wonderful video!. I'm so glad to know that I am not the only one who enjoys booking short trips with the purpose of spending time with myself. These short trips not only energize me, but they also contribute so much with my personal development in all aspects of my life. They also provide me with so much knowledge about myself. This video resonated so much with me because, walking in nature, is another activity that I also find fascinating. I really enjoy doing this a lot, and It is one of the best things in the world! Once again, thank you so much for sharing such a wonderful video!. You are really an inspiration! Your excellent contribution is invaluable and extraordinary!! Keep up the excellent work!!! All the best and many blessings!!!:-)😊
Dude, I’ve been watching your videos for a little while now. Awesome content, it resonates with me a lot, I’m a 38 year old English guy, single, I spend a lot of time alone and really like it that way. I’m currently travelling solo around Morocco right now. Being alone should be something which is celebrated, it shows we are comfortable in our own skin. I would go as far to say that many people are highly envious that we can achieve this skill. Keep putting out the content bro and crushing it.
Preferred solitude over any worldly pursuit ❤
wisdom beyond an earthly age
Ironically, the loneliest that I ever felt was when I was actually in a relationship.
could you elaborate on this statement a bit more?
@@chunwong1807 It is better to be alone than to expect someone to be around that doesn't want to be.
Bro Evan, i was raised in a Church, but even from my childhood I was always alone, after many years I've leaved Religion, so in that time I've started to think instantly, that I was unhappy at cause of my solitude, so I was sure that my problems were all based within the lack of a real relationship with a woman, for fulfill sex and other inner desires. It took me years, to understand that my real me is that solitude, despite its was always what I'm , from my beginning. Antinatalism helps me to understand logically that, but I was so unconsciously brainwashed by what society's tells to us to do , that we're i was unhappy within my life in seminary, years ago, I were more than sure that the inner void and pain was at cause of a lack of sex. I've got great high and low with the girls that I've meet, Also euphoria and that's have just tricked me and maded myself unconscious, not present to myself. I was completely unable to see that I was unhappy cause I was living a life, a religious life that wasn't me, what really I'm . Thanks for those clips, many of those just confirms my same prospective and view.
The ego can feel alone, the true self is never alone
damn i literally just sat in this in my window- and here you are speaking everything. profound. thank you. makes me feel less alone.
I call it Peace & Calm when I am by myself - deffo not lonely/loneliness. I love my own company plus my cats 😂 😂
What a beautiful place ❤
Sage checking in.
I am not even 5 minutes into the video.
THESE ARE EXTREMELY WISE WORDS 🫡🎯
I’ve always been alone and lonely at the same time. And it’s as if destiny, fate or some other forces whatsoever decide for me. So eventually, I simply surrendered to what is beyond my reach and choice. I don’t know why and how that is. But one thing that comforts me and brings me solace, is that one day, in some other life in the hereafter and afterlife, my need for physical contact will be gone and I’ll be free from that nagging need I hate constantly being in the throes of. So so be it. Life is nothing to write home about. No more dreams, hopes or else. But I bite bullet, period.
great insights
Your channel is so helpful. Thank you 🔥
💯💯🙏🏽
Being alone is not the answer. Routing and purpose is what you need.
I'm alone a lot and it makes me sad
Social midia are the villains for me. Whenever I delete them from my phone, I feel more anxious. I think this makes me take a few steps back in my self-knowledge.
Evan: Be alone for a while
Me: No choice bruh
@@Introverted100 learn to embrace it bruh
@@myselfasevan I'm getting better at it. Your videos have been helpful.
Thanks
Godbless Evan
This Video Came just ritght. Today i actually wanted to watch the football games wie my best friend an others. But i simply felt i need to be alone today, Meditate and try to heal. So i stayed home lieing in my safeplace (bathtub) enjoying Videos as this. What strange energy this is today. Sorry for my english iam german:D
@@Sargecon1 danke 🇩🇪
Your English is fine. I admire anyone that can speak a second language! I can not. 😊
@@toddanderson3568 thank u:)
Is 6 years long enough?
What if im always alone. I moved to another city with my boyfriend and now he left me. I dont have anyone in this city. Im struggling to handle my emotions right now. I don't know what to do anymore
I mean is it possible or healthy being alone for a longer time? I can't seem to find any cool people here. And i was already a long period of time alone back then. Its painful really.
Do you have any interests or hobbies that can potentially lead to meeting someone new?
@@myselfasevani have lost all my interest in every hobny i had back then over time. I tried to come back on them a couple of times but got always disappointed because it was no fun doing it and it felt like im more forcing myself to do it.
I don't feel sorry for you.
Gr gr Dario