Everything comes to you when you stop forcing it

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @myselfasevan
    @myselfasevan  6 месяцев назад +24

    Woke up with a bit of a fever the morning of filming this - That’s why I'm sweating so much 😆 I tried my best to push through because I really wanted to talk about this. I hope you got something out of it.

    • @Dianevan.
      @Dianevan. 6 месяцев назад +3

      Feel better soon 😊

    • @g.noreau291
      @g.noreau291 3 месяца назад

      You're a very enlightened and inspiring one.. Comforting also to see kindred spirits we think like. Feels less lonesome actually.

  • @theauthormindset
    @theauthormindset 6 месяцев назад +10

    This message has been knocking on my door for a long time and I ignored it. This video was confirmation. Thank you.

  • @SIERRATREES
    @SIERRATREES 18 дней назад

    I really enjoyed this. Here is the thing, that I'm nervous about right now , but have an inner excitement for, and know that I should do; that is, follow the footsteps of Henry David Thoreau, and live the life described in his book, Walden. Sell up everything, take the plunge and find a similar living situation to that. Not forever, maybe a year 2. I know its what I need and would be a time of profound reflection, peace and meditation ; something akin to a lengthy silent retreat. I'm sure there would be many nice moments like the ones Thoreau experienced ; one example being when he said, "This is a delicious evening, when the whole body is one sense, and imbibes delight through every pore. "

  • @chrisduncan3943
    @chrisduncan3943 3 месяца назад +1

    I think being able to fall asleep is the most common example of this paradoxical effect. I can never fall asleep when I desperately want to but if I want to stay awake then sleep comes easily.

  • @loveadumb
    @loveadumb 5 месяцев назад +1

    i totally agree with you. we found each other at the right time.

  • @chebis31
    @chebis31 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is what i need to hear ! Thank you so much 🙏

  • @g.noreau291
    @g.noreau291 3 месяца назад

    So true..🙏 100%!!

  • @cee7105
    @cee7105 5 месяцев назад +1

    How profound, we do end up with a senses of shame because we are selling ourselves short and we know deep down we deserve better but we need to feel that shame in order to connect to a childhood feeling, that is dormant yet highly active within us

  • @Zackyfreebird
    @Zackyfreebird 5 месяцев назад +1

    Loving ur videos man!!

  • @ArtandKitchen_
    @ArtandKitchen_ 3 месяца назад

    So true! happened t me many times

  • @mike0800000
    @mike0800000 Месяц назад

    As a Christian, I agree

  • @indyj29
    @indyj29 6 месяцев назад +1

    This video was a good wake up thank you

  • @joannamielniczek7627
    @joannamielniczek7627 Месяц назад

    I really like your content and found your Very authentic Just wanted to share with you that Dharma in Buddhism it just means” The way things are” I consider that as you are very caring for your content to be truthful and clear maybe you would find this correction benefitial
    My motivation here is just use your platform which in my opinion is one of the rare ones as the one where you can find truth accuracy and clear view All the best

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan  Месяц назад

      @@joannamielniczek7627 it can also mean what I said depending on which philosophy you’re speaking from

  • @navy4735
    @navy4735 6 месяцев назад +5

    Yeah - - and in my journey I just let nature be - 😮 just be let it flow - even with sex urges and cravings it’s just there - there is nothing I can do - just let it take its course it will go away it seems as if those urges and cravings for us men are just there - it’s gonna happen so it’s just a matter of let it go - if u can defeat the urge and cravings good if not well next time - I just let it flow - it’s like whatever tired of the guilt

  • @Dianevan.
    @Dianevan. 6 месяцев назад

    I hope you feel better soon.😊 This message is exactly what I was thinking about recently where I just felt like I had to surrender and flow, and I'm so much happier, and living for each moment makes each moment extra special. I'm not interested in the hustle and bustle, I'm interested in cultivating peace and learning to maintain that flow state even when I'm pushed or moved to feel something else. It used to be scary but not anymore, I've learnt to be the person I needed when I was growing up and moving past or allowing the pain to move through me more effortlessly ❤ loved this video thanks for sharing

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks Diane :) I’m all better now. Your words remind me a lot of myself.

    • @Dianevan.
      @Dianevan. 6 месяцев назад

      @myselfasevan Yes, that is what I thought when I stumbled across your videos. You say exactly what I have been thinking, nice to know I'm not alone :)

  • @navy4735
    @navy4735 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hope you feel better tea up and rest

  • @vikingprincess634
    @vikingprincess634 3 месяца назад

    👏👏👏
    🎯🎯🎯
    💯💯💯

  • @terencehennegan1439
    @terencehennegan1439 3 месяца назад

    Desire YES, Need NO. The Law of reversed effort.

  • @KYLETISZAI
    @KYLETISZAI 6 месяцев назад

    Twss❤

  • @joannamielniczek7627
    @joannamielniczek7627 Месяц назад

    If you talk about Buddhism it m and just what I said
    Buddhism has many branches as minds of students are different but is not a philosophy!!!!
    You can argue of course but it just telling me that you argue either things which you truly do not know
    And it’s on you 😊

  • @meenakumari362
    @meenakumari362 6 месяцев назад

    How do you react if someone insults and offends you in front of others and they laugh?

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan  6 месяцев назад

      What do you feel you should do?

    • @meenakumari362
      @meenakumari362 6 месяцев назад

      @@myselfasevan That's what I'm wondering. How do you think about it? Do you do anything negative in return?

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan  6 месяцев назад +4

      @@meenakumari362 no, I would probably just ignore it and be done with those people

    • @meenakumari362
      @meenakumari362 6 месяцев назад

      @@myselfasevan
      Ok, you don't feel the need to give back the negativity to vent?

    • @myselfasevan
      @myselfasevan  6 месяцев назад +1

      @@meenakumari362 “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”

  • @joshcarlin1343
    @joshcarlin1343 День назад

    Most Christians completely miss Jesus’ teachings.

  • @Jean_in_Stillness
    @Jean_in_Stillness 6 месяцев назад +3

    Oops. To say that people who "try to push Christianity" on you are not intelligent enough to understand is a grave assumption. Perhaps there is a possibility that your own filters are keeping you from flowing like water and misinterpreting the spirituality of an"other" and their motives are less of a power grab. Perhaps more of a deeper self-awareness that you are able to recognize? No shade intended, only a different perspective.

    • @Dianevan.
      @Dianevan. 6 месяцев назад +3

      At the end of the day, the outcome is love no matter what gets you there, Buddhism, Christianity, or even spirituality, all roads end at the same junction. We all have our views, and some people can be overpowering where we can feel a sense of entrapment because it goes against what our thought process is but eventually you see it all leads to the same place, as long as get and see that message we learn to communicate better with each other.

    • @GoWithDaFlowMo
      @GoWithDaFlowMo 5 месяцев назад +2

      I don't believe in trying to push anything onto anyone either, I believe in the concept of different views and live and let live, whether it's about religion or whatever... I get and agree with what he says, it's just the way he says it that could have been a little less judgemental... 😅

    • @NguyenLe-sb5xw
      @NguyenLe-sb5xw 5 месяцев назад

      No, he’s correct. There’s no other religion that is so aggressive about having others join their cult than Christianity. They don’t seem to have the consciousness or intelligence to understand that some people have other spiritual beliefs or follow Christianity in a way that’s different from theirs.

    • @davtra
      @davtra 3 месяца назад

      I'd say people who "repeatedly" try to push [insert religion/school of spirituality] many, many times is correct assumption in them not having enough wisdom unless it's a once-off encounter... I think he was referring to the former in the context of this video. My rule of thumb is to explain things once or twice but never the third time. I agree everyone has their own path to follow and we should respect it. A family member of mine tried explaining things many times to her friends but they failed to practice... I told her she wasted her breath and she agrees.